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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

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Speaker 2: You know, it's hard to be Tanya because when you

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Speaker 2: go out in the wild, people just compliment her about everything.

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Speaker 3: Nice truth.

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, you have a great smile. I love

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Speaker 2: your attitude. You're so positive. I'm a big fan of

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Speaker 2: your podcast, Scrubbing Out with Becca Grubbing Scrubbing In with

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Speaker 2: Becca Tilly. I just love it. You know, I'm a scrubber, so,

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's tough to go out and public the

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Speaker 2: grocery store. Tide's difficult. It stopped every five minute stranger,

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Speaker 2: everybody complimenting on nothing, right, so now people can't stop

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Speaker 2: complimenting you on what on my jawline?

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Speaker 4: And this was from one of my best friends, and

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Speaker 4: she the other day was like you're like. She was like,

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Speaker 4: your jaw looks like so different and like something. She's

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Speaker 4: complimenting my jaw And I was like, she said, what

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Speaker 4: have you been doing? And I like, literally to think

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Speaker 4: about it. I was like, I haven't really been doing anything.

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Speaker 4: I was trying one of those red light things for

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Speaker 4: a while, like you know, and I did it for

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Speaker 4: three days and then I stopped and I was like

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Speaker 4: trying to think about, like, what have I been doing.

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Speaker 4: I haven't been doing anything, and then it came to me.

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Speaker 2: Botox, no eve, my.

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Speaker 3: Mouth tape.

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Speaker 4: So it's the only thing that I've been doing consistently since.

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Speaker 3: Like September October. I do it every single night.

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Speaker 4: And I looked it up and it is apparently some

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Speaker 4: sort of side effect of taping your mouth shut at night.

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Speaker 4: It's supposed to like something with the way that you

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Speaker 4: when you sleep with your tongue, and it does apparently

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Speaker 4: do something to your job. You're working out those muscles

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Speaker 4: and your sleep. No, it's like the way that your

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Speaker 4: tongue sits. Apparently when your mouth is taped shut.

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Speaker 2: What's the primary reason you tape your mouth shut at night?

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Speaker 2: Not just because Robbie didn't want you to keep talking?

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Speaker 2: What was the other reason?

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Speaker 4: No, So it's supposed to give you like deeper sleep,

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Speaker 4: and I really believe that it's been at work and

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Speaker 4: it's been.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And also it's supposed to better with getting sick. It's

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Speaker 4: supposed to prevent you from getting sick. There's a lot

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Speaker 4: of benefits, and so we're just like, let's try, but

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Speaker 4: I've been well.

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Speaker 2: To me, the greatest benefit would be a chiseled jaw line.

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Speaker 4: It's not like to me, it's not very noticeable because

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Speaker 4: I've been doing it every.

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Speaker 3: Night for so long.

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Speaker 2: But I didn't notice it.

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Speaker 5: How does it work?

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Speaker 6: Because like I put a bunch of like chapstick on

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Speaker 6: before I go to bed at night, and so my

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Speaker 6: lips are like moisturized.

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Speaker 5: You can't. Oh, that's a deal breaker for me.

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Speaker 3: You can't.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that. I think I might die, Like

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Speaker 2: I don't know that I could breathe. Yeah, panic in

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Speaker 2: the middle of the night. I think I'm suffocating and

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Speaker 4: It's scary when you think about it, but after you

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Speaker 4: do it, it's like game changing.

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Speaker 2: Well, if it's gonna chisel a jaw line, maybe it

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Speaker 2: will actually pull up my neck a little bit.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's taken six months, but like I really

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess we see you every day. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: you know for somebody, I hadn't seen it in a while,

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Speaker 3: Even notice myself.

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Speaker 4: But then when my girl friends that I hadn't seen

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Speaker 4: my gosh, like, I really think it's this mouth tape thing.

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Speaker 2: And what kind of tape? Like, could you explain with

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Speaker 2: people it's not duct tape. It's a special I just

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Speaker 2: get I just.

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Speaker 4: Go to Amazon and type in like mouth taping by

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Speaker 4: the first one. But it's yeah, it's just basically like

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Speaker 2: Is there a plethora of mouth tape?

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Speaker 3: Can you wouldn't imagine?

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Speaker 2: I would not believe the subculture of mouth tapers like

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Speaker 2: fifteen or twenty. I'm gonna jump to Plaia right now, Plia,

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Speaker 2: del Ray grace, good.

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Speaker 7: Morning, Good morning Ryan.

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Speaker 2: How you doing doing great? Fine? Thank you very much

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Speaker 2: for asking. So tell me you went on a sound

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Speaker 2: bath first date?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, oh my god. So yeah, I met this guy

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Speaker 8: on hinge a while back. But I talking a lot

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Speaker 8: and getting thank you and then getting like good vibes.

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Speaker 8: He was like, I really want to take you out,

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Speaker 8: like I think we would just be a really good match,

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Speaker 8: like our vibes really match up. But I want to

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Speaker 8: I'm like, oh my god, we're in Venice. This is great.

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Speaker 8: And yeah, he pulls up to a sound bath and

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Speaker 8: I'm like, oh my god, that's this cool yoga place.

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Speaker 8: And at first I was like, oh no, like what

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Speaker 8: am I getting myself into? And then it was super

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Speaker 8: hippy stuff. At first I'm like, okay, I don't need

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Speaker 8: to like get in touch with my aura, like I'm fine,

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Speaker 8: but then it was actually really lovely. And then so

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Speaker 8: at the end, like we're like reconnecting because this isn't

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Speaker 8: like a group class and he was like, wasn't that great?

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Speaker 8: I was like yeah, and it was just like silent

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Speaker 8: the whole time and then he's like okay, so like

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Speaker 8: see again, and then he like got the scar and

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Speaker 8: I was like wait a minute, so like this is done,

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Speaker 8: and he's like yeah, and then like that was it,

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Speaker 8: But then he reached out again and he was like

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Speaker 8: I want to plan something else and surprise you again,

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Speaker 8: and like I'm sort of willing to try it again,

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Speaker 8: but it was just so like abrupt last time, and

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Speaker 8: I didn't get the vibes from him because we were

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Speaker 8: literally just laying next to each other on the ground.

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Speaker 2: This is a sound bath, so you what you wear

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Speaker 2: and you get in the tub together. What kind of

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Speaker 2: music do they pay?

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Speaker 3: There's no tub, No, it just sounds.

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Speaker 4: It's it's basically a yoga studio. You sit in like

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Speaker 4: sleep for an hour.

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Speaker 2: Oh so you don't get in water.

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Speaker 5: No, you get like on a mat and you lay

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Speaker 3: You've never done a sound bath, clearly.

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Speaker 5: It's like a big is it a metal bowl?

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Speaker 6: How do you just and then like the stick thing

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Speaker 6: and they swirl it around in a circle, amaze.

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Speaker 3: And then they might have like like a rain, like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd rather get in a tub with music.

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Speaker 4: I think you would love a sound bath, to be honest,

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Speaker 4: I don't think you.

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Speaker 5: No way, No, I think you would want to check

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Speaker 5: his phone and like, yeah, five minutes.

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Speaker 2: Rubbing the rim of a bowl for meditation. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to force myself to meditate, but it sounds lovely.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, what's the gist here? You're going out or

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Speaker 2: not out again?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Like I don't know, because like it was a really

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Speaker 8: cool sort of like vibe and he was like, yeah,

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Speaker 8: I've done this before, and so I'm like okay, so

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Speaker 8: you're into all the sound meditation stuff. But like my

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Speaker 8: thing is, I just don't know if we should do

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Speaker 8: the surprise date thing again, because like he wants to

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Speaker 8: do that and I still feel like I hardly know

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Speaker 8: the guy after the first date.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yes I do it?

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Speaker 3: Who cares?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why not? I mean, what a spiritual thing you did?

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Speaker 2: There could be worse first date, So keep us posting

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Speaker 2: and good luck, Grace.

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Speaker 6: It's like a different version of like having your first date,

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Speaker 6: b going to the movies.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand people that do that, right because you're

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Speaker 4: just like not talking.

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Speaker 3: I don't get to know them at all.

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Speaker 2: Nice, stop yelling, I wasn't I'm thinking a sound.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't me.

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Speaker 3: It was me.

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Speaker 2: Disturbing my sound bath.

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Speaker 3: This is nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how long does it last?

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Speaker 3: You could do it for an hour as long as

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Speaker 2: I'm going to do twenty seconds. So this is it

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Speaker 2: just people touching bowls with.

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Speaker 4: Sticks, but they like walk around the room so you

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Speaker 4: feel like come like close and far and like you

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Speaker 4: get into like a very deep sleep. It's like the

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Speaker 4: best nap you'll ever experience in your life.

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Speaker 5: Down for this.

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Speaker 3: It's like restorative. Don't you need restorative stuff in your life?

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Speaker 2: Hold Tanya.

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Speaker 5: Oh, such a loaded question.

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Speaker 2: Restorative stuff in my life? Yeah, yeah, I need restorative stuff. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I need cold plunges, ice buckets, I need dry heat,

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Speaker 2: wet heat. I need strangers walking around with white bowls

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Speaker 2: and a soft tool around the rim. That's what I need.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, it is the world we live in, you are right. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And it has to do with impulse, doesn't it.

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Speaker 5: Instant gratification.

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Speaker 6: Instant gratification exactly the viral products that we see when

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Speaker 6: we're scrolling TikTok or Instagram and they pop up on

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Speaker 6: your feed and you're like, Wow, I really do need

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Speaker 6: that thing for my cabinet, or I really do need

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Speaker 6: that special water bottle and it's only twenty five dollars

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Speaker 6: click purchase done. But all those little purchases, whether they're

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Speaker 6: ten dollars, fifteen, twenty five, forty five, they all start

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Speaker 5: So they pulled some data.

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Speaker 6: Gen Z spends almost eight hundred and fifty dollars a

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Speaker 6: year on spur of the moment impulse buys, and it's

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Speaker 6: even higher for millennials. We're at over one thousand. So

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Speaker 6: are you guilty of this?

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Speaker 2: Well, the thing is when you're in it, I mean

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Speaker 2: they always say, and I should do this just in

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Speaker 2: general in life. Don't make a knee jerk decision about anything.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to in the moment kind of get it done,

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Speaker 2: make a decision to move on. Yes, I can't tell

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Speaker 2: you how many times eat it about something. And then

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Speaker 2: I realized literally four hours from then, I don't really care. Yeah, right,

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Speaker 2: like I it's just time helps in heels. But the

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Speaker 2: thing is that you got to just calculate and you

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Speaker 2: don't think it's look at your credit card statement. You

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Speaker 2: start looking at like you don't realize how or I

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Speaker 2: don't realize like the little charges at up.

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Speaker 5: It's all the little charges.

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Speaker 6: And then you can go into like the streaming services

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Speaker 6: that we all have because they don't seem like a lot.

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Speaker 6: It's like twelve meters, twelve dollars here, whatever, yeah, parking meters,

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Speaker 6: two dollars there, and it all starts adding up. So

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Speaker 6: these impulse by its imagine say even like one thousand

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Speaker 2: For your water. It's good. Yeah, how about for you, Tanya.

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Speaker 5: Chalk markers. Yeah, you might get that now.

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Speaker 2: It's great. To be very careful. I made a mistake.

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Speaker 2: They make a lot of sense. How many times have

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Speaker 2: And then then you're like, well, you brush your teeth

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Speaker 2: Got your quote of the day, but check this out.

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Speaker 2: How often do you return something you got from Amazon?

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Speaker 2: Have you done it before? Yeah? It makes sense. It

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Speaker 2: So here's a simple way to tell. If there is

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Speaker 2: kind of a long one, So get your utensil out

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Speaker 2: to write. Most of your life will not be extraordinary.

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Speaker 2: Most of your life will be simple things done regularly.

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Speaker 2: Do you either learn to love the day as it

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Speaker 3: It's a really good quote.

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Speaker 5: Is day.

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Speaker 6: So you said regularly interesting regularly? How do you say

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Speaker 2: At Sicin's place, her husband Michael is pinning other women.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So here is the story.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what it is. And you have some audio

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Speaker 5: Yeah, hang on with the audio.

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Speaker 6: So, so we're on the couch the other night and

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Speaker 6: And so then when I went to text them, and

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Speaker 5: Like you know, ifhen you go to your text messages

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Speaker 6: Your favorites, I would assume they're like your favorites, Like

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Speaker 6: I have Michael first, and then I have like my

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Speaker 5: So he has I don't even know who they are.

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Speaker 6: But then I see Marian, who used to work here,

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Speaker 6: I'm like, what is this, Like, how am I not

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Speaker 2: And he was like, but the way you say it,

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Speaker 5: I was offended. I was like, I'm your wife.

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Speaker 6: I should be at the very first bubble, just like

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Speaker 5: Would be mad.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm mad, but I'm just like a little on alert.

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Speaker 6: So I secretly recorded him. That makes zero sense, And

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Speaker 6: that makes zero sense that you don't have like your

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Speaker 9: You're looking into pins in a different way.

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Speaker 2: Than I too.

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Speaker 5: But you have set x pinned, but you don't have

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Speaker 9: No, because I text you so much that you're always

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Speaker 5: Pin you didn't have kid like literally.

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Speaker 9: Two texts in jingle Ball, there's all these other people

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Speaker 9: and I lost her text and I'm trying to search.

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Speaker 7: For her name.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Tinder, you.

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Speaker 3: Are always there.

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Speaker 1: I don't need to pay you, Like it's literally like.

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Speaker 2: I will not lose your number. Wait, it's like I'm

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Speaker 2: uh it is. He's right.

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Speaker 3: I understand the rationale.

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Speaker 2: He's he's he makes sense with that, though, How does

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Speaker 6: Early in the morning, I told him afterwards, and he's like, oh,

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Speaker 6: I'm glad I help with your topic.

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Speaker 2: That's funny. You know. In my real life too, I'm

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Speaker 5: He didn't know I was recording him until after.

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Speaker 2: But he's he's a giggly little bubble, isn't it. He's

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Speaker 3: He's a good time.

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Speaker 2: He's a good time. I saw someone on TV that

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Speaker 5: Wasn't an actor from Sex and the City.

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Speaker 6: No, Oh okay, because he's gotten big before.

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Speaker 2: Does not look like big.

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Speaker 6: My sister tells him all the time, mister big, mister big. No, okay,

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Speaker 6: you know he's he's also gotten Michael Sarah.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yes he does. Michael, your sister's pin compliments

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Speaker 5: I know that.

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Speaker 6: Like, uh, when Michael was younger, he used to be

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Speaker 2: Michael Sarah out in the wild. Would there be tension? No?

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Speaker 2: I don't know anybody that I've met that likes dating

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Speaker 6: Actually, one of my friends loves dating, but she told

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Speaker 6: me she I don't understand that she's the only one.

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Speaker 2: Tania just to date.

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Speaker 6: I want to say I kind of loved it back

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Speaker 3: Till you ebb and flow.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes you love it, sometimes you hate it.

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Speaker 2: It's the worst.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's the worst now because we're like older

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just fast forward to number seven. Yeah, I just

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Speaker 4: No date three is like my favorite, and four to

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Speaker 2: You'll never get to do it again in your life

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Speaker 2: never ever. That's way it is true.

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Speaker 6: You date, you date your husbands over and over again,

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Speaker 3: You never know if you're like bring them home with you.

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Speaker 5: It's a weird like passive aggressive.

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Speaker 2: It was kind of great. It's like, hey, listen, bro,

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Speaker 2: just a few words, nothing, no pressure.

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Speaker 6: Stress about are they're going to give you a list

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Speaker 2: I don't know how it's gonna work to get or daned.

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Speaker 2: I got a lot of things to do, but more importantly,

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Speaker 2: right now, I've got to get to Alan, because Alan,

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Speaker 2: he's still going. Life still is happening for certain people

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Speaker 2: he's still in it. He's in his life, but his

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Speaker 2: let's bring up Alan. Alan, you're listening to all of

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Speaker 2: us here on the line. Here we are, Sysney, Ryan, myself. Hi,

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Speaker 2: I'm just reading your email to them. So you met

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Speaker 2: on bumble. You got sushi in Monrovia, right.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely. It was a fun night, super fun, like.

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Speaker 7: She said, I could do a kiss right now.

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Speaker 2: I could do a kiss right now. I like that,

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Speaker 2: I could do it.

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Speaker 5: Ye, step it up, let's go.

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Speaker 7: And I've never had a date initiated kiss like that.

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Speaker 7: Like it was super forward, but like super confident and cool,

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Speaker 7: and it was amazing. Afterward, we talked about where we

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Speaker 7: what's going on? I have no idea? What could I have?

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Speaker 2: You kiss her? When she said I could do a kiss?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, no, she said I could go do a

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Speaker 7: walk how you kiss?

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Speaker 2: Pretend I'm her.

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Speaker 7: Sure? Sure? So if you're yeah, she says it. I

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Speaker 7: step forward, she takes steps toward me, and then you

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Speaker 7: know we started we go for it, and it.

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Speaker 2: Was go for it. Are your lips touching mine? First?

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Speaker 2: Then you're tongue and walk me through how you kiss

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Speaker 2: and where are your hands? Was wrong? Maybe the guess

446
00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:48,080
Speaker 2: went back?

447
00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,240
Speaker 7: All right, if you want the full play by play,

448
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,560
Speaker 7: like it was like step toward her, she did it,

449
00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,320
Speaker 7: step toward me my hand like on the small of

450
00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,560
Speaker 7: her back and then like on the side of her

451
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Speaker 7: like face, you.

452
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Speaker 2: Know what I mean, well done?

453
00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,840
Speaker 7: And then she and then I kind of pull her in,

454
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 7: but I'm not too forceful, right, like it's just you

455
00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,440
Speaker 7: keeping it. It was a ballet, yeah, exactly. It was

456
00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,200
Speaker 7: very very balletic, very very much like a dance, and

457
00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:14,679
Speaker 7: then starting don't go straight into a French kiss, right,

458
00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,159
Speaker 7: you don't want to go too big, too quick, but

459
00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:19,320
Speaker 7: like pull in, passionate, hold the kiss, and then you

460
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Speaker 7: know we'd like, you know, our lips open more and

461
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:26,159
Speaker 7: and we're we're honestly, we're going at it for a

462
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Speaker 7: passionate like you know, passionate minute or something, you know,

463
00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:30,720
Speaker 7: and then you know, you do this pull away thing.

464
00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,119
Speaker 7: You both look at each other and you're being a

465
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,240
Speaker 7: little like, hey, how you doing. Hey, I'm doing good,

466
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,320
Speaker 7: you know, go back into it again.

467
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:38,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's too much detail. I don't know why you

468
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:39,439
Speaker 2: give me all this details? Too much?

469
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:44,640
Speaker 7: You are, I'm a word of it. I'm a poet.

470
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:45,200
Speaker 7: What can I say?

471
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Speaker 2: Well, listen, poet, ballet dancer. And something went wrong, something

472
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:52,840
Speaker 2: went wrong between that kiss and when she blocked you.

473
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,200
Speaker 2: So we're going to find out what that is. Just

474
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,399
Speaker 2: hold on for a second. Alan. I like Alan. It

475
00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:57,680
Speaker 2: seems like he's got it down.

476
00:20:58,080 --> 00:20:59,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, block a lot.

477
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 2: It's a big deal. Alan, be very quiet. I've got

478
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,159
Speaker 2: Denise who's agreed to come on and talk to us.

479
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 2: She will not know you're here. We'll tell her at

480
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Speaker 2: the end.

481
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,160
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, sound good.

482
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,359
Speaker 2: So this dude, Alan goes out with Denise. They met

483
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 2: 'm Bumble. They go to Sushi min Rovi. It's the

484
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 2: end of the date. She says I could do a kiss.

485
00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 2: He leans in, hand on the small of her back,

486
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 2: other hand on her cheek. Slowly he kiss for a

487
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:26,119
Speaker 2: few minutes. He slowly backs off, He leaves, and she

488
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:30,439
Speaker 2: blocks him. So does he? Did he not do a

489
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 2: good job? Something?

490
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:34,719
Speaker 3: Block because of a bad kiss?

491
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:40,680
Speaker 2: Maybe? Maybe maybe she's just too into him, and maybe

492
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 2: she just needed some time, some space, too much, too soon,

493
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 2: too fast. I don't know. We're going to talk to her,

494
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:45,680
Speaker 2: sysn't he?

495
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,920
Speaker 5: Oh that's interesting? Well maybeeah, maybe she has an ex

496
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 5: that's coming back.

497
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:54,200
Speaker 2: But she's getting feels too fast, like I gotta slow down. Denise,

498
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 2: thanks for a grain to come on the air with us.

499
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 2: It's Ryan Seacrest Sisney and telling you. I'm just gonna

500
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 2: jump right into it. You went out with a guy

501
00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 2: named Alan Bumble.

502
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,360
Speaker 7: Okay, Yeah, tell.

503
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:06,680
Speaker 2: Me about your date with Alan.

504
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 10: Oh wow, okay, it was great honestly, But what is

505
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 10: this about.

506
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 2: Alan and your date with him?

507
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 6: Huh, just go ahead, Oh tell us about it.

508
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 10: Well, I mean I've blocked him. It wasn't great, but

509
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,640
Speaker 10: yeah I blocked him.

510
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 2: Why why did you block him after it went great?

511
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 2: I'm trying to trying to understand that and forgive our intrusion.

512
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,679
Speaker 10: Yeah, you know, we went to a sushi place on

513
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,560
Speaker 10: Huntington and it was really good.

514
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 7: It was really good.

515
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 10: So some friends and I went there a few nights

516
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 10: later and he was there canoodling with some other chicks.

517
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 7: So we left.

518
00:22:54,080 --> 00:23:00,679
Speaker 2: Oh well that will Yeah, that do it. And so

519
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 2: you just did you say anything to him?

520
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:03,200
Speaker 7: Ever?

521
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: Again?

522
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 10: We were planning, Uh, we were, we were planning on

523
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 10: a second date.

524
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 8: But yeah, I mean.

525
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,239
Speaker 10: It's you know, it's just it's not like we were

526
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 10: even exclusive or anything. But it just made me feel

527
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 10: like not special, you know, like the it just entered in.

528
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 5: There, you're not top of mind. If he's still going

529
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 5: out and about like that.

530
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 3: You're not exclusive, then he's not doing anything wrong.

531
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Speaker 2: He's not showing focus. How is he kissing? Is he

532
00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 2: a good kiss for this? Alan from d'Arte?

533
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, no, I mean the date was good.

534
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 10: There's there was nothing wrong like with our connection on

535
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:43,400
Speaker 10: the date or anything.

536
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 11: It was he was a good kisser, Like I just

537
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 11: felt like I.

538
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,919
Speaker 10: Was one in the long line of girls that he

539
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,719
Speaker 10: took to Kiku Sushi, Like I was Friday and she's

540
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 10: the Sunday Sushi girl and there was maybe a Thursday

541
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Speaker 10: girl before for me.

542
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 11: I guess like.

543
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 2: There's nothing that it's kind of attracted. Everybody wants this

544
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 2: Allan and you are going out with him, and maybe

545
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 2: he really is into you and not them.

546
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 3: That's what dating is. It's a number of games.

547
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 5: As Alan, You're just a number getting.

548
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 2: Easy on the language because you are on the air.

549
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 2: But Denise and Alan are back together? Alan, is that true?

550
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 2: Are you a rotating revolving door with dates at this

551
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 2: sushi place?

552
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 7: Okay? So Hi Denise, Hey, how you doing right? But

553
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 7: Ryan like, okay, I will confess I am guilty of this.

554
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 7: I love that place for a first date.

555
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 2: But are you taking good? Are you going when lighting

556
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 2: is good? Lighting is very important. I love that you

557
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 2: said that. And if you smell like pine but not pine,

558
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 2: not pine salt? Alan, So you're you're taking different women

559
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 2: to the same place all the time. Do you get

560
00:24:58,960 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 2: why Denise doesn't feel?

561
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 7: Yeah? But I need to like it's not all the time.

562
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 7: It is my like general first date spot. But what

563
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 7: happened was I had asked that girl out a few

564
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 7: weeks before that, and she had been out of town

565
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 7: and then she just got back that week, and so

566
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 7: it was it was just a timing thing. But but

567
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,360
Speaker 7: honestly it doesn't matter, like like Denise, I don't want

568
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 7: to have a second date with Sunday Girl, but I

569
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 7: would really love to have a second date with you.

570
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,439
Speaker 7: I thought we had a great connection.

571
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 3: I don't hate it.

572
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 5: But then why didn't you cancel?

573
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 2: That date? Was Sunday date too?

574
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 10: Like cause Denise, wait, so I'm the Friday girl.

575
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 11: Oh gosh, okay.

576
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 7: You blocked me. And so I was like, well she

577
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 7: blocked me. I guess I'm gonna like go like I

578
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 7: don't know, like like I had already, I was already

579
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 7: on the schedule, like we had had a great first date.

580
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 7: But you never know. And so I was like, well,

581
00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 7: I don't want to cancel on this girl. I think

582
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 7: they want to be mean, you know what I mean?

583
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,199
Speaker 7: And then and then I was like, do you thing

584
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 7: about the Sunday girl was that it only confirmed how

585
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 7: into you I am? And then I come back and

586
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 7: I'm blocked, and I'm like, whoa, what is going on?

587
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 2: Okay, guys, I need to there's an entire city listening

588
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 2: to this right now and more because we're streaming and syndicated.

589
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 2: I guess yeah, I'm just explaining how it all works.

590
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: Oh God, do you want to go out with Alan again?

591
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 7: You don't think you did anything wrong here?

592
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 2: I mean Alan, don't speak, Denise? Do you want to

593
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 2: go out with Alan again? This is your call?

594
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 5: Are He's saying nothing wrong?

595
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 2: You don't speak, let talk?

596
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:46,639
Speaker 10: Maybe maybe not. I don't know. I'm like having trouble,

597
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 10: like shaking the egg.

598
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 7: So you go with my gut.

599
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 2: Here's the deal. That's great. Go with your gut and

600
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: if you unblock Alan, then he'll get your message. If

601
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,160
Speaker 2: you keep him blocked, there's no second date. Alan doesn't

602
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 2: say anything. Don't don't speak.

603
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 7: I'm just saying I think we would have had a

604
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 7: really great date. But I'm.

605
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: But you're not hearing because you're talking.

606
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 12: I'm no, don't just say but this is the problem. Stop, Denise.

607
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 12: Would you like to go out?

608
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 2: You're going to pass on Alan? Is that the verdict here?

609
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 5: I don't know why don't you think about it.

610
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 3: What don't you think about it? Denise?

611
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: Do it?

612
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 3: Go out with them again? Denise, think about it.

613
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 6: You can unblock him in a week or two weeks,

614
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 6: whenever you feel comfortable.

615
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 2: And then Alan, let's leave it at down.

616
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 5: That's a chance.

617
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 2: Thank you for reaching out to us. Wait on Denise

618
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 2: to get to you, and good luck to both of you.

619
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: Thank you very much for talking Court Denise, thank.

620
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 10: You so much.

621
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm going to give it a be all right, y'all.

622
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 2: Take care. See, I liked Alan until I didn't like

623
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: him talking.

624
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 3: I liked him the whole way.

625
00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 2: No, I liked him, but then he needs to stop

626
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 2: once he says his piece, like don't keep pushing right

627
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 2: days like calling girls by days of the week. Bro,

628
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 2: you're let's get the headlines Sysn't it just FM headlines

629
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 2: with siciny.

630
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 6: California lawmakers introduced a new legislation that would require agents

631
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 6: participating in immigration enforcement activity to properly identify themselves during

632
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 6: enforcement actions. Governor Gavin Newson is offering a new film

633
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 6: tax credit to boost the movie industry in California.

634
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 5: Maroon five is hitting the road again.

635
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,719
Speaker 6: They announced a new US arena tour kicking off this

636
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 6: fall with stuffs in Palm Springs, Sacramento, San Francisco, and

637
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,520
Speaker 6: a stop in Los Angeles on October tenth, and the

638
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 6: California Lottery Scratcher's ticket, where it's ten million dollars, was

639
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 6: sold at the Barley Bin Liquor on Norwalk Boulevard in Whittier.

640
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 5: The winner has yet to claim the prize.

641
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 2: So let's get into this. In a relationship, it is important,

642
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 2: and we advocate that you take time to just be.

643
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 2: Don't even make a plan. Just literally, I don't know

644
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 2: if you can. You do have to make a plan,

645
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 2: but just be, like put your phone down, put any

646
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 2: device that chirps away and down and like talk, yes,

647
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 2: ask questions, laugh, And people are doing this on something

648
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 2: called the bottle Night. Now.

649
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, so this couple went viral because they posted what

650
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 6: they do and they they kind of they call it

651
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,479
Speaker 6: bottle night. And I'm sure every couple has polished off

652
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 6: a bottle of wine or two in their day and

653
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 6: sitting there and talking and stuff like that. But I

654
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 6: guarantee you that you did not lock your phone away

655
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 6: or didn't have the TV on in the background or

656
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 6: your Apple Watch.

657
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 5: Even so, this is.

658
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 6: Completely going off the grid, and it's almost like you're camping.

659
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 6: I don't know if you guys have ever been camping

660
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 6: where you don't have Wi Fi and you just don't

661
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 6: have any sort of questions in camping. Well, I'm saying

662
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 6: like recently, never been camping, because I just did it

663
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 6: like two years ago and it was such a trip

664
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Speaker 6: because we were kind of like on two different campsites

665
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 6: and I didn't have Michael and I was like, oh,

666
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Speaker 6: I'll just text it. My brother looks at me. He's like,

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Speaker 6: you can't text him, and I was like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 6: it's such a weird adjustment. So, yes, going off the

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Speaker 6: grid completely for bottle night means that the two of

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Speaker 6: you lock your phones away, the TV is off, and

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Speaker 6: each of you grab a bottle of your favorite wine.

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Speaker 6: So you polish off two bottles by sitting there and

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Speaker 6: just talking and spending.

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Speaker 2: Then, if you have your own bottles, the bottle back

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Speaker 2: and forth like a couple, I guess you can do

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Speaker 2: whatever you want. Yeah, you take a sip. By take

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Speaker 2: a sip. You take it? Are you and you're supposed

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Speaker 2: to drink it without a glass right out of Yes, Yes,

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Speaker 2: that's the that's the catch.

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Speaker 5: I think the bigger takeaway is that the devices are

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Speaker 5: out of them.

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Speaker 2: I'm not shocked you say that. Not the people will

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Speaker 2: do that. I often will put my device in a

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Speaker 2: drawer just to put it out of the way.

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Speaker 3: You're out of the ether, yeah, really out of the norm.

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Speaker 2: I put it in a drawer, and sometimes I forget

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Speaker 2: which draw I put it in, because you know, you

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Speaker 2: just sort of say I'm putting it somewhere. Then you

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Speaker 2: put it away, and then you're like, what I put?

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Speaker 2: What where did I go? But I love to put

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Speaker 2: my device away. Okay, So if we were to do

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Speaker 2: bottle night and put our phones away, what would you

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Speaker 2: choose to drink? Siciny?

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Speaker 6: I would definitely do a red maybe a Bordeaux.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, he beats out in no time. That's

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Speaker 2: kind of high percentage of alcohol. Well that's what I

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Speaker 2: would want if that would put me to sleep so fast. Okay,

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Speaker 2: what would you pick? Tanya?

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Speaker 3: Probably an orange natural wine.

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Speaker 2: Do you like them? The color of them freaks me out?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, same, we do like them, Tobs.

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Speaker 2: What would you pick? I like a Sando VISI like

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Speaker 2: a Barolo or that's what I was gonna choose a

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Speaker 2: Sanjo vas. Ye, that's good stuff. That's the one I

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Speaker 2: was gonna choose, like an Italian wine for me, A

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Speaker 2: Kianti love all. I love a Kianti, So I would

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Speaker 2: pay tops you. We could have bottle night, bro, I'm

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Speaker 2: down right. When is the guy coming in from West Virginia?

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Speaker 2: Though I don't want to. I don't want to have

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Speaker 2: a conflict in your social schedule. Uh yeah, I like

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Speaker 2: I like to send you z grape as well. Let's

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Speaker 2: make it box night, everybody. Come on, let's have some fun.

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Speaker 7: Ruby.

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Speaker 2: What would your what would your bottle be?

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Speaker 5: I probably do like is it game or gamey.

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Speaker 4: Of it?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 5: It's really good. It's a red or a pino?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 4: Well thanks, No one's doing with Rose.

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Speaker 2: MICHAELA what would you have?

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Speaker 5: That's like day drinking. I probably have a pino as well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, very very good answers. There so sophisticated wine

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Speaker 2: drinkers around here. Different. Jenna is on the line. Good morning, Jenna,

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Speaker 2: how are you doing? Hi?

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Speaker 11: Good morning, I'm okay.

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Speaker 2: How are you super good? Thank you for plugging in

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Speaker 2: to kiss on this National Ravi Elite day. So what

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Speaker 2: happened with your cousin in the wedding.

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Speaker 11: So I have this cousin. I'm a year older then,

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Speaker 11: and I feel like our whole lives has kind of

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Speaker 11: been like a comparison, like competitiveness, not like by any

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Speaker 11: of us, by our families and whatnot. So we got

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Speaker 11: engaged within two weeks of each other, and so we

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Speaker 11: both started, you know, like planning the weddings. Now there's

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Speaker 11: been this venue I've been eyeing for years, like well

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Speaker 11: before I was with my fiance that I always wanted

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Speaker 11: to get married at, and I talked about it, and

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Speaker 11: you know, I've always dreamt about it a little pricey,

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Speaker 11: So you know, I was figuring everything out, and my

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Speaker 11: cousin went and booked it. And not only that, she

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Speaker 11: didn't even tell me about it. She just posted on

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Speaker 11: Instagram a story tagging the venue and the day she picked.

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Speaker 2: I'm closed to you, to your cousin, would you say

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Speaker 2: to take a sip of water? Sometimes we ask a

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Speaker 2: question then we know we can sip our water. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: that question was you caught me, twig. My question was

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Speaker 2: how close you to your cousin.

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Speaker 11: We're pretty close, like we grew up together like almost

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Speaker 11: like sisters, you know.

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Speaker 2: But you're close now still as adult.

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Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, it doesn't sound like it. It's like

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Speaker 5: bride Wars.

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Speaker 11: But now my question is like, can I still go

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Speaker 11: to that venue? Like have our family? I mean have

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Speaker 11: to guess at our wedding is going to be the same.

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Speaker 5: Joe, you can, can you make your day before hers

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Speaker 5: and to the venue?

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Speaker 2: Now we're getting I don't like all that. I just

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Speaker 2: don't like that spirit. So jes started it. Hey, she

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Speaker 2: made the first move. She stole the headline. Yeah, she

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Speaker 2: made the first move. She stole the headline. She may

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Speaker 2: think she's being clever, but you know what, you're gonna

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Speaker 2: sit back in the pocket and you're gonna come up

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Speaker 2: with a clever plant. And it's not going to the

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Speaker 2: same venue. Unfortunately, I know you got to change the venue.

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Speaker 11: You think I have to look elsewhere?

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Speaker 2: Are you going to go to her wedding?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I'll go. You know, I'm I'm not thrilled with it,

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Speaker 11: and like we didn't talk about it yet, so like

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Speaker 11: my my family and my like my parents and my siblings.

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Speaker 11: You know, we've discussed it and everyone agrees with me.

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Speaker 11: You know that it's not right. But I don't know

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Speaker 11: if I bring it up, if I let it go,

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Speaker 11: like what to do for me?

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Speaker 5: And she for sure knew that, like you wanted this venue?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, okay, yeah, I think.

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Speaker 3: So tricky that would be like end game.

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Speaker 2: That is that is real fighting, that's fighting. Yeah okay, Jenna,

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Speaker 2: luck with.

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Speaker 5: Your plan and you'll find a better venue.

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Speaker 2: And here's the good news. My bet is that your

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Speaker 2: marriage lasts.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, Ryan, we don't need to go there.

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Speaker 2: No, her, I don't take your custins will last as long.

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Speaker 2: It's called karma, isn't he.

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Speaker 5: I understand karma very well. We don't even right.

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Speaker 2: Well, Jenna's cousin's wedding is fine now, but it's not

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Speaker 2: gonna last, Jenna, is that what you want to get? Yeah?

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Speaker 11: You know what at this point, at this point, you

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Speaker 11: know what, you know what though my dreams got take

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Speaker 11: it from me.

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Speaker 5: You're you're going to find a better venue.

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Speaker 3: You're going to find a better venue in your year.

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Speaker 6: Is going to last, and your kids are gonna be cuter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you're gonna have a tall son what

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Speaker 2: I've always wanted to.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, they're gonna get full rights, full right scholarships for college.

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Speaker 2: All right, Jenna, thank you. Were you trying to tell us?

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Speaker 4: No, I was saying, I think that this is all

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Speaker 4: a sign that it's just gonna be. Your wedding is

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Speaker 4: gonna be even dreamier than she even thought.

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Speaker 2: Well, how about a family member doing that? Is so

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Speaker 2: no ratchet.

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Speaker 4: People are so particular, you know, people are so particular

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Speaker 4: about their wedding venues. Like I I've had friends who

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Speaker 4: basically call like they've called NAPA, like nobody can get

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Speaker 4: married and NAPA this year because like they.

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Speaker 2: Call the whole tell me kind of.

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Speaker 4: I know, my gosh, like Mexico's out too, because some.

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Speaker 2: Of the nation, like you want to get a continent

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Speaker 2: while we're there.

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Speaker 6: If one of my friends wanted to do their wedding

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Speaker 6: at like the same venue that I got married at,

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Speaker 6: or like the same date as my wedding.

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Speaker 2: Sit them down and say, I would be like, this

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Speaker 2: is my wedding.

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Speaker 5: Eight you can't you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Well, you did it. You don't have to worry about Well,

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Speaker 2: I guess that's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: You guys coming over tonight tonight now I have dinner plans.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much for the invite.

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Speaker 4: How about not the same day invite Taco Tuesday, broke

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Speaker 4: Kettle Black, Yeah yeah, texting us an hour before lunch, Hey, guys,

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Speaker 4: want to be that noon?

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Speaker 2: For not going all right, We'll see you tomorrow.

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