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Speaker 1: All right, everybody, we are back with give them Lala

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Speaker 1: with rand.

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Speaker 2: We are here, We're here.

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Speaker 3: I'm in Saint George, Utah, quarantining at my mom's condo.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and I am still here in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 3: And today would be the day that we would be

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Speaker 4: Today would be the day.

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Speaker 1: It's actually I think we'd be about four hours away

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which you know, like I woke up this morning

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Speaker 3: but then you showed me the weather outside.

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Speaker 1: Which is, by the way, I just want to say

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Speaker 4: You know that it was overcast, right cool, and like.

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Speaker 2: We're we are bummed. Obviously, it like.

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Speaker 1: Sucks, no, but we have to find the silver lining.

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Speaker 3: You have to And I looked up on my phone

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Speaker 2: And it was like a high.

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Speaker 3: So we were going to get married at sunset, which

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Speaker 1: I think that God always has the bigger plan. Yes,

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Speaker 4: Be blue sky and hopefully eighty degrees.

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Speaker 3: Well, and so many other brides have reached out to

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Speaker 1: Is shot, right, There's not a lot you can say,

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Speaker 4: I mean, it just sucks and it's heartbreaking.

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Speaker 1: And we've known we've changed the state now for a

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Speaker 4: I just know I'm spending the rest of my life

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Speaker 3: Well, I have so it was. I've been here for

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Speaker 2: To get the fuck out of here, Like.

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Speaker 3: After I had seen what I the article that was

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Speaker 1: What No I want to say. I just want to

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Speaker 4: You've come along.

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Speaker 5: And now we're approaching to your anniversary of his death,

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Speaker 2: And I have to share this before we.

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Speaker 3: And the thing that I love about our podcast, rand

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Speaker 3: made my heart warm, Like okay, like you don't need

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Speaker 3: to beat yourself up over this anymore. Just do better

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Speaker 1: Yes, And by the way, I think that's a great

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Speaker 1: thing to take away is forgiveness and not being so

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Speaker 2: Wow, this episode is like therapy for me.

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Speaker 4: I'll send you my invoice. No, I'm kidding.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, babe, let's take a quick break because

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Speaker 2: Kay, Babes, We're back to give them laala with Randall.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're.

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Speaker 2: Doing this podcast via FaceTime. Randall is like looking heavy

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Speaker 3: Looking boy, and I am you know, I feel like

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Speaker 3: I'm your guest today.

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Speaker 1: I know, you know, what I'm gonna interview you. Let

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Speaker 1: you know what, Let's do this. You're gonna be my

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna interview you about it.

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Speaker 2: Make it fun, make it fun though and light.

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Speaker 1: Okay, of course, we just we just did twenty minutes

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Speaker 4: We're gonna.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna interview you.

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Speaker 4: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: So my guest, ladies and gentlemen, is the one and

445
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Speaker 1: only fire Cracker, sexy, beautiful stunner my partner, La La Cad.

446
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:03,400
Speaker 4: Welcome to the show.

447
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 2: Hi babe, thanks for having me.

448
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 1: Well, Lala, I love for you to share with us.

449
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Speaker 1: There was a new episode of vander Pump Rules this week.

450
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Speaker 1: I'd love for you to just take us through it

451
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 1: a little bit and uh and share your feelings on it.

452
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Speaker 2: So this episode on Fanda Pump Rules.

453
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 3: So Randall and I got to attend Tom and Katie Schwartz's.

454
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Speaker 2: Wedding Bay wedding.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes.

456
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Speaker 3: And like I remember that day because in my mind

457
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 3: and I even said this to Katie, I was like,

458
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Speaker 3: this is your karma bitch for.

459
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,880
Speaker 2: You bang man Timmy calling me a whore. Oh my god,

460
00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,159
Speaker 2: because she laughed. I was like, you gotta redo and

461
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Speaker 2: now I get.

462
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Speaker 1: To be there, and she's so amazing. That's amazing, Like

463
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Speaker 1: it was.

464
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Speaker 2: So much fun and it was like sort of like gimmicky.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I.

466
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Speaker 2: Thought it was so beautiful.

467
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Speaker 4: I did too.

468
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Speaker 2: I was like just the whole.

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Speaker 3: Thing of like getting to redo it, like you had

470
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Speaker 3: your beautiful, stunning, actual wedding and now you get to

471
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 3: do it, like everybody wants to really.

472
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Speaker 2: Do it, you know.

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Speaker 4: I agree.

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Speaker 1: I thought I thought there was you know, because they're

475
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Speaker 1: already married sort of speak right, and it was like

476
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Speaker 1: going there, it was just like have fun, no pressure.

477
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Speaker 1: But then then when the actual moment happened, I was

478
00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: sitting there, I was so moved because I'm like, oh

479
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Speaker 1: my god, I'm getting to be here. Well what become

480
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Speaker 1: their actual real wedding certificate. So I got emotional because

481
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Speaker 1: you know, it was fun going and then it was

482
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Speaker 1: like it was like moving.

483
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Speaker 4: So I really like it.

484
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Speaker 2: But you and I are such pussies. We're like such

485
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Speaker 2: suckers for everything.

486
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 3: It's like we managed to turn anything fun into being like, oh.

487
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Speaker 2: It's so beautiful.

488
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Speaker 3: I know we're definitely we're definitely theater geeks.

489
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Speaker 1: You can talk. You know, I agree, I agree with

490
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Speaker 1: you and I own that. And uh, I mean you

491
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 1: you love to torture me. When I'm watching commercials and

492
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 1: I get emotional. You're like, are you crying? Like leave

493
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Speaker 1: me alone?

494
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Speaker 6: Oh?

495
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 3: No, you cry more than I do. Yeah, okay, So

496
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Speaker 3: I have a question for you. Yes, now you know,

497
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Speaker 3: Dana and Max have.

498
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Speaker 2: Like parted ways and now she's starting to date. Okay, Brett,

499
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Speaker 2: Oh she is okay, yes, Oh?

500
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Speaker 3: Is there a bro code when it comes to that,

501
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 3: because this is the thing, Like Dana and Max they

502
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Speaker 3: were exclusive. However, Max doesn't know what exclusive means. She's like, yeah,

503
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Speaker 3: we're exclusive, but we're not like boyfriend and girlfriend.

504
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, well that means exclusive.

505
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 3: And so if you are with a chick and you're

506
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 3: not treating her correctly and someone else swoops in, who

507
00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 3: happens to be your friend? Like is there a bro

508
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 3: code or is it like, dude, you fucked up?

509
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Speaker 1: They're good friends, the two of them, like they're.

510
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Speaker 3: Brett, Yeah, I mean from what I've seen, I don't Again,

511
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Speaker 3: I don't know them super well, but they they're like.

512
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Speaker 2: Boys, you know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here's a thing. I mean, at least when I

514
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: was younger and all my buddies were all single, there

515
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 1: is definitely a bro code, like you would never go

516
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Speaker 1: out with the girl that one of your best friends

517
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: or buddies went out with, no matter what the situation was.

518
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 1: So but again, I don't know if they're like really

519
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Speaker 1: good friends or they're just work acquaintances. So I kind

520
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Speaker 1: of like i'd have to know.

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Speaker 3: More, let's say middle of the ground, like they're friends,

522
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 3: Like they're not best friends, but they're more than just

523
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Speaker 3: like work buddies.

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Speaker 1: Oh if they're more than work buddies. And he didn't ask,

525
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,680
Speaker 1: that's a violation. Really yeah, that's a violation.

526
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, well.

527
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Speaker 4: Most guys will tell you that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't. I mean, at least all

529
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Speaker 1: my friends, like you know, we we over the years

530
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Speaker 1: back in the day, you know, we all cross paths

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Speaker 1: with each other and stuff, and there were moments where

532
00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 1: somebody would come to me or I would go to

533
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: them and I'd say, hey, you know, what was the situation,

534
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: And so I definitely think it's a viol if they're

535
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Speaker 1: more than just coworkers.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's a violation.

537
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 3: And this whole time that all of this stuff was

538
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 3: going down with so at the pool little get together

539
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 3: with just myself, Arianna and Dana, Dana had said like,

540
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Speaker 3: I'm not Brett's type, and I was like, you have

541
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Speaker 3: to get that out of your head, Like you have

542
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Speaker 3: a vagina, You're everyone's type, all right.

543
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Speaker 2: I was like, you're hot and have a badge. You're

544
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Speaker 2: everyone's type, bench whether you like it or not.

545
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Speaker 3: And I think that like people saying he's not my

546
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Speaker 3: type or she's not my type is so stupid because

547
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Speaker 3: in all honesty, if we're just going off types, like

548
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 3: I was not your type when we met, you were

549
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 3: not my type, correct, I had tattoos, I was like craziness,

550
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 3: and you were usually dating more of like submissive people.

551
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Speaker 3: And we looked through more than just like what our

552
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 3: norm was, because obviously what we were used to wasn't

553
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 3: fucking working.

554
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Speaker 2: You know, like, where is your type now?

555
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 1: But that's I think that's the point in this, is

556
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: that when you fall for somebody, there's no such thing

557
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Speaker 1: as a type.

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Speaker 4: I used to think it, I think probably.

559
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: Like you did. But yeah, the reality is you're right

560
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 1: that the right person is the right person and whether

561
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 1: their personality and physical is completely different than what you

562
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Speaker 1: think is your type.

563
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Speaker 4: It's the soul with any you know.

564
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Speaker 1: And I think, like you and I on paper, of

565
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 1: what we think our type was, probably exactly wasn't, like

566
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: you said, And here we are, you know, getting married.

567
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 1: So I agree with you that people should just get

568
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 1: out of that whole type bullshit because until you know

569
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: somebody and until you spend time with them, like I've

570
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 1: had more fun with you than I've had with anybody

571
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: in my entire life, right, And and what if my

572
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: mom always tell you, she tells you my son has

573
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: never I've never seen him more attentive ever in his

574
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: life life. And I call it more at attention because

575
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 1: you're like a military sergeant. So I would just say

576
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: that that, But that's because I love you and I

577
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 1: and I and I care about everything that you you know,

578
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 1: feel and think, and I know you feel the same.

579
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 1: So I just think people should stop with the type

580
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,400
Speaker 1: thing because you can miss out on something really magical.

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Speaker 2: And I want to say this as well, Actually two things.

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Speaker 3: Number one, everyone and I remember being this way like

583
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 3: before I met you, I was like, oh, like, Katie

584
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 3: doesn't have sex with her man, Like I am totally

585
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 3: out there and sexual. And so when I hear people

586
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 3: talk like that, now, I'm like, you have no idea, Like,

587
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 3: you have to go beyond that, because that shit does fade.

588
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 3: Life gets in the way, people get stressed, you have

589
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 3: kids in the mix, Like, you have to have all

590
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 3: your boxes checked, not just you have to.

591
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: Know you know what it is.

592
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 4: You have to know that the person you're with.

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00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, the sex is always awesome and it's great, but

594
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: you can can't drive a relationship out of sex because

595
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 1: people of people who do that, they end up either

596
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: divorced or broken up in a relationship within.

597
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 3: And when you and I first got together, we were

598
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 3: like little jack rabbit up.

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00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 1: All right, Well here's the thing. We're all so busy.

600
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: You travel, you work, you got kids, blah blah blah

601
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: blah blah, and you gotta find time. Look at us.

602
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: We actually pick days. You and I.

603
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I look at my book. I'm like, hey, are

604
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 2: you free Saturday at seven pm?

605
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 4: Oh?

606
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: By the way, Oh my god, I have to tell

607
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,959
Speaker 1: you something exciting when you come home this week. Oh,

608
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: you're going to be so excited. This will play into

609
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: helping us continue our focus. I put a new door

610
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: in the master with a lock. Yes, we want to

611
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: have so we want to have date night. Now we

612
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: just lock that bitch and we.

613
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 2: Go lock that bitch. I love it.

614
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 3: The second thing I want to say, because before we

615
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 3: go to our voicemails, I always talk about the new cast,

616
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 3: like our new cast members.

617
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 2: I put cast in quotes because they still.

618
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 3: Haven't earned their place as a commercial because that's what

619
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:12,719
Speaker 3: they are. Except Dana, Max and Brett I think are

620
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 3: a graded audition, like Dana and Max five star.

621
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Speaker 2: Throw them on the squad, like, let's do the damn

622
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 2: thing amazing. So whenever I refer to the new.

623
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Speaker 4: Cast, you're not referring to them anymore.

624
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 2: I'm not Dana is my rider dyed dog.

625
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 4: Because I want to I want to add to that.

626
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 1: I always wonder that when you would just terrorize, you know,

627
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: these general new casts.

628
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 4: And you and demolish them.

629
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

630
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: I always thought that you had Dana and Max sever

631
00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: because I know you're friends with both of them, and

632
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: you spend a lot of time with them. Yeah not

633
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: a lot, I mean not a lot, but you you

634
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: respect them like I know when you're with them, you

635
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: really like it.

636
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 2: I feel like they're a part of vander Pump rules.

637
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 4: That's cool.

638
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 2: I don't fast forward through their shit.

639
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's cool.

640
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 1: I like that because I know that you have respect

641
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:57,239
Speaker 1: for both of them, and that's really kind coming from

642
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: an ERG, coming from an OG.

643
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm an OG. And then they're o gs and

644
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 2: then O O g's.

645
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 1: Here's here's a question. Before we go to break. We

646
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,239
Speaker 1: gotta go one more break and then we'll come back

647
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: with questions. Am I considered new cast or am I

648
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: considered special edition because I'm your fiance?

649
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 3: No, You're like on the sitcoms when they have and

650
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 3: a special guest featured, you know, and everyone when they

651
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 3: walk on the screen, they're like, yeah, you know, I'll

652
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 3: take that.

653
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 4: I'll take that.

654
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: I'll take that. All right, we're gonna run. We're gonna

655
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:25,719
Speaker 1: go to break real quick. We're gonna come back. We're

656
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: gonna answer a lot of questions.

657
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 3: All right, Okay, hello, everybody, It is yours truly.

658
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 4: La La kent with Ran and we are back.

659
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 3: It's weird because today I would officially be able to

660
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 3: call you my husband, but I'm still going to call

661
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 3: you my fiance.

662
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: We were boy for a girl for a long time

663
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 1: and they're holding us down on the fiance trip. But

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Speaker 1: they will get them in the end. We'll get them

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Speaker 1: in the end.

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00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree.

667
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Speaker 3: So we have some fun questions, yep, okay, and I'm

668
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 3: gonna start us off with one of someone slit in

669
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Speaker 3: my DMS.

670
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 2: Actually with this epic question.

671
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 3: Okay, let's here, Okay, okay, girl. This question is for

672
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 3: your podcast. It's a little personal and it's not for everyone,

673
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 3: which is why I'm writing you. You have talked a

674
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 3: little bit about your relationship with Rand and your life

675
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 3: outside of vander Pump. Do y'all have a dom slash

676
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 3: sub relationship or daddy slash little relationship? I have a

677
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 3: very amazing relationship with my husband, who is sixteen years

678
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 3: older than me, and when y'all talk, it reminds me

679
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 3: of a similar thing. I love that you have a podcast,

680
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 3: Keep on Keeping On, girl, So we won't be able

681
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 3: to play this because it's not a recording, this is

682
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 3: a DM.

683
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 2: But I loved the question.

684
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,200
Speaker 4: Oh, I love that question.

685
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 2: Do we have a daddy slash little relationship?

686
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 4: No?

687
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,959
Speaker 1: No, no, absolutely not.

688
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 2: Now I don't knock it. I don't knock anyone who

689
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 2: does have a daddy.

690
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,239
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no, no no, But I'm not knocking no,

691
00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: hold on. I want to be clear, I'm not knocking

692
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: anybody's relationship. I just feel that you, honestly, and I'm

693
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 1: gonna really I say this with sincerity. You are way

694
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 1: too tough for this to be any kind of other

695
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: relationship than equal we are. I just feel like we're partners,

696
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: you know, through and through, and you know that's I

697
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: don't know.

698
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 4: I don't see that.

699
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 2: I don't see that either.

700
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 3: And also, I feel like Randall is very immature or

701
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 3: forty nine year old, and I'm I don't want to

702
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 3: say I'm mature for a twenty nine year old, I

703
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 3: kind of act act twenty nine.

704
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: Here's how I like to I like to classify you.

705
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: I think you're immature in all the best ways, like

706
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: life and fun, but when it comes to taking care

707
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 1: of our house, make sure the kids do their school work,

708
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:44,719
Speaker 1: making sure we eat good, you are very mature when

709
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: it comes to real life issues, and that's great for me,

710
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: and I consider myself more of a passionate person.

711
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, we meet each other in the middle yeah, but

712
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: you are.

713
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: You are very mature and the important things in life,

714
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: and you're still very playful and immature in the fun

715
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: part of life.

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00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 4: So I think you have a great balance.

717
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: But I think you and I are really teammates and

718
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: very equal. I told you the day I met you

719
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 1: that I always look at you as my partner, and

720
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Speaker 1: that's how I'm always gonna look at you.

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00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, we could never have a dom sub relationship because

722
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 3: I am everything but submissive like that. I remember my

723
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 3: mom as a kid talking about submissive women and I

724
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 3: remember just being like, oh, I can never be that

725
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 3: unless it's I'm like role playing.

726
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 4: No, if you're a role playing that's one thing.

727
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 1: But let me just tell you in your list of qualities, yeah,

728
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,240
Speaker 1: you don't even know how to spell the words submissive.

729
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: So we'll just move on from that work because that's

730
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 1: not who you.

731
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 2: Are, right.

732
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: But I love the strong woman that you are and

733
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: what you stand for, so I would not want to

734
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: change one thing.

735
00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:57,760
Speaker 2: Okay, next voicemail, Hi Lala and Randall.

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Speaker 7: My name is Jordans. I'm from Vancouver, British Columbia. My

737
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 7: question is for La La. I've been watching Vanderpump Rules

738
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 7: since I was probably in grade ten, and you've always

739
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 7: been my favorite. My question is a lot of the

740
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 7: newbies as you call them this season, seem to be

741
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 7: talking a lot of smack in their personal little diary

742
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 7: room stories, and I'm wondering does that affect any relationship

743
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 7: you or your other castmates have with them in real

744
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 7: life or is it all good? Once again, I love

745
00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 7: watching you on the show, and I love how Randall's

746
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 7: in it as well, and I get fear relationship, and

747
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 7: I also love the podcast.

748
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:48,320
Speaker 3: Oh Jordan, Jordan from Vancouver, No, you know what I've

749
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 3: noticed too, Like all of these little newbies talk mad shit,

750
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 3: like I think Danica like slammed me for something and

751
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 3: slammed stassy and I I didn't have been more not interested.

752
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 3: It was like, okay, well this is like she I know,

753
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 3: Like I'm so unaffected. Here's when I get affected when

754
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 3: I have a Jennifer Lawrence coming for me.

755
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 2: Affected Dana Cadeau.

756
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 3: Fucking walk in the park like no need Like it

757
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 3: doesn't affect me at all. I just look at it

758
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 3: as like, okay, like she needs more than sixteen thousand followers.

759
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 3: I get it, Like so she tags me, let her

760
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,359
Speaker 3: get amazingly twenty more and.

761
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: I move on.

762
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 3: Wow, okay, like Stassy, I would say I'm more sensitive

763
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 3: than Stacy Stacy sometimes, like if I see a DM

764
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 3: from someone that's me and she's like, law, please let

765
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 3: it go, Like who is this person from Bump fuck Wisconsin?

766
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 3: Not that there's anything wrong. I love cheese, I actually

767
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 3: love Wisconsin, but you know what I mean, she's just saying,

768
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:01,439
Speaker 3: like this person who like doesn't you're no, I don't know.

769
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: You, but what have I said to you? Always? I've

770
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 1: watched you over fourty years where some days you just

771
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: wake up and you're you know, you're you're a sensitive person.

772
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: And some days you wake up and and you're more

773
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: effective than others. And I see you going I said,

774
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 1: what are you reading, babe? And you're like this mother fucker,

775
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: this person talking shit and insulting us or blah blah blah,

776
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: and and and I'll say, well, babe, let it go.

777
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 1: But I'm the same way. I call you some days

778
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: and you're like, han, what are you doing? I'm like,

779
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,920
Speaker 1: this person has the dacy to insult my physical occurrence.

780
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 3: And you're like, well, because Randall, but we're people, we're people.

781
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,919
Speaker 1: But they think like we're robots or something. It's like, dude,

782
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: we also are human beings. Like why, like, if you

783
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: don't like it, here's my thing about social media. If

784
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: you don't like us and follow us, why do you

785
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: have to be insulting and mean? It's so disgusting? I

786
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: don't know, so I attack.

787
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 4: Back sometimes I do. I'm guilty.

788
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, there was this girl who slid in my DM

789
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 3: and I read it to Madison last night and she

790
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 3: was just berating me, like my sobriety, calling me a

791
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 3: dry drunk, like the way you treat people, blah blah blah.

792
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 2: And so I responded, I was like, babe, could you

793
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 2: please fuck off?

794
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 4: Wow?

795
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 3: And she responded, she goes mature response and in my head,

796
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 3: in my head, I didn't I didn't even need to

797
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 3: respond because it's like, what kind of response were you

798
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 3: looking for? Just like just like an explanation, who are you?

799
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 3: I will never meet you. I've already deleted the DM.

800
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 3: I couldn't even tell you her name or what she

801
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 3: looked like. Like, the only response you deserve for an

802
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 3: email or a DM like that to someone you don't

803
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:35,799
Speaker 3: know is like fuck off.

804
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I listen, I get it. Too, and I never

805
00:38:40,000 --> 00:38:41,839
Speaker 1: but I never got it till I till I.

806
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 4: Started dating you.

807
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, no, it's okay. But when I see it,

808
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why are you talking? Like why if

809
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 1: you don't like me or you don't like something about me,

810
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: why do you feel the need to like if you

811
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,000
Speaker 1: don't have something nice to say, don't text at all?

812
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 3: You know what, Like back in the day, Italian men

813
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,280
Speaker 3: were super fat, and that's how you knew they were loaded,

814
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 3: like super rich, because you knew like, oh, they're eaten good.

815
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 4: So like you know, yeah, there we go. So I'm

816
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,280
Speaker 4: an Italian fat man.

817
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 3: Well well, I'm just saying, like, when did this become

818
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 3: like something where it was like we all sit here

819
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 3: and it's projected all the time, like don't body shame,

820
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 3: don't do this, and then all of these people do

821
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 3: exactly that.

822
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: But that's what I understand it. It's like insulting somebody.

823
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: Thank God, I'm a confident, successful man and I really

824
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 1: don't give a shit what somebody says. At the end

825
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: of the day, I just like to give it back

826
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 1: so they feel but and two wrongs don't make it right.

827
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, like who gives

828
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 1: you the authority on what is okay and what's not?

829
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 1: And I just think people have really lost their way.

830
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 1: I will say one thing during this quarantine time, I

831
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 1: have found less of the negative. Do you notice that? Yeah,

832
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 1: I feel like people have really rechecked themselves. And I

833
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 1: really hope we come out of this quarantine that people

834
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: have more appreciation or kinder because we you know, hopefully

835
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: people got a little smacked down the ones that were

836
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 1: out of line, you know, and hopefully they change it

837
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Speaker 1: to Let's hear another.

838
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 3: Question though, Okay, let me give another question, let me find.

839
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Speaker 7: One hilt with rand. I'm Marilynn.

840
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 8: I just wanted to call in and say I'm loving

841
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 8: the podcast and getting to know you guys as a couple.

842
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 8: It's really really cool.

843
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:26,439
Speaker 1: Rand.

844
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 8: Yes, you have a great voice. I love it, and

845
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 8: I just wanted to call because to say I love

846
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 8: you guys, I love the podcast, and ask you a

847
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 8: quick question. So I was just wondering, Randall, what are

848
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 8: your top five must watch films? Some that you've showed

849
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,319
Speaker 8: to La lat or not, and some that you think

850
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 8: everyone should watch. So hope to hear from you guys,

851
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 8: and can't wait to keep listening.

852
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 2: Ooh, this is a good question. I want to know too.

853
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 4: That's a really good question.

854
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 2: Top five movies.

855
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: That's tough for me because I'm such a movie geek,

856
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: but I will I will try to pick five that

857
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 1: I think are diverse because I have so many. Number

858
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,400
Speaker 1: one for me is always going to be Scarface al Pacino.

859
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: I think that Gladiator is one of the greatest movies

860
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 1: of all time. Okay, I think Goodfellas is one of

861
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:21,760
Speaker 1: the greatest movies of all time. On a lighter note,

862
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: I would pick well, I would say Casta Blanca that

863
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 1: everybody should see. That's four, okay, and then five the Notebook.

864
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 1: I think those are five of the really, you know,

865
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: those are very Those are five different kinds of movies.

866
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: And I, you know, I want to be diverse because

867
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 1: I lean towards more action, tough guy films.

868
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,320
Speaker 3: But the movies like Randal and I always have the

869
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 3: hardest time picking a movie because I like comedy and

870
00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 3: light and fun, and he's always like, let's watch this

871
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 3: really depressing movie.

872
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 4: I like, you like Will Ferrell Adams.

873
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 1: I mean, I I love comedy too, but I don't

874
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 1: love it as much as I like the more dramatic stuff.

875
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I I fall asleep to with my EarPods

876
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 3: in to Seinfeld, Like that's what makes me calm and

877
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:13,799
Speaker 3: go to sleep.

878
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: Well, you actually made me walk out of one of

879
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: the greatest American Broadway plays with the biggest movie star

880
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: in the world because you're you couldn't take it the

881
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 1: heavy how dark and heavy it was.

882
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Speaker 4: Do you remember that?

883
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

884
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 3: I was like, and that was during my time that

885
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 3: I was trying not to drink, and I was like

886
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 3: trying to like make you think I wasn't liking to drink,

887
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 3: and all I wanted was to like sneak a fucking cocktail.

888
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 1: You know.

889
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 2: I was like, this is not good.

890
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,319
Speaker 3: Get me to a place where I can sneak an

891
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 3: alcoholic beverage.

892
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 1: Oh my Okay, that's not where I was going with this,

893
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: But thank you for that for me.

894
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 2: Well, I'm just sharing.

895
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: Sharing is caring, okay anyway, But I do agree that

896
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 1: you're not good with the heavier stuff. That's why you

897
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: binge watch every night Friends and Seinfeld, which, by the way,

898
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 1: you got me enthusiasm. Can I tell you I bought

899
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: you a gift today. It's not an emotional gifts it's

900
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: not a heavy gift. It's actually light. So I just

901
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 1: I can't keep a secret, you know, I suck at that.

902
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 2: Tell me, tell me what my gift is.

903
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: I bought the turkey on the stick? What from Friends?

904
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 2: Are you fucking serious?

905
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

906
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 4: It comes in four days.

907
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:24,720
Speaker 2: Wait, the turkey on the stick.

908
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a big turkey, fake turkey on a

909
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 1: stick from Friends and and uh and.

910
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 2: It says wait, the one that he put on his head.

911
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 1: I don't know where he put it, but and it

912
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: says property a Warner Brothers on it like one of three. No, wait, yesterday.

913
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 3: That is the best gift out of everything I've ever

914
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 3: gone Chanelle's Burgin's cars, that is what.

915
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 4: That's the best.

916
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

917
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 4: Oh shit, I have to keep going in the future

918
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 4: with this. Now, I've always known this.

919
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm easy to please.

920
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 3: I come off as being very difficult and boots, but

921
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 3: I'm like easy peasy.

922
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: No. I thought you'd like this, and I thought it

923
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: would be a fun, lighthearted thing during these times.

924
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 4: So yes, it'll be here this week.

925
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 2: That is gangster.

926
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 3: So, since you are looking like the podcast king and

927
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,799
Speaker 3: I'm just doing this via FaceTime, would you like to

928
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:18,439
Speaker 3: do the honors of signing.

929
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 2: Us out La La Kent style.

930
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 4: Of course, let's see if you know how hold on?

931
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 4: I have to try. Here we go.

932
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 1: Well, we are so grateful for to have you guys

933
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: on our podcast this week. Stay safe, stay healthy, sexy babies.

934
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 4: It's get them La la with Rent. I don't know

935
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 4: that sounded they.

936
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:37,439
Speaker 2: All signed us out.

937
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,479
Speaker 3: I want to thank y'all so much for tuning into

938
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 3: this episode. I hope that you slay the inside of

939
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 3: your homes, stay healthy and safe, and we will catch

940
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 3: you next week.

941
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 9: Hi, guys, my name and I just wanted to say

942
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 9: I don't even have a question. I just wanted to

943
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:01,399
Speaker 9: say that through the crazy times, you guys are what's

944
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 9: getting me through, you know, working out, I go for

945
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 9: like a four mile side mile walk and I get

946
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,720
Speaker 9: to listen to you guys, and for that short period

947
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 9: of time, it just makes me forget about everything.

948
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 7: That's going on right now in this crazy world.

949
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:22,800
Speaker 6: I think you guys are that shit crazy and hilarious,

950
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 6: and I just want to let you know that you

951
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 6: guys are awesome and keep at it. You're doing a

952
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 6: great job and you're getting all of us through it,

953
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 6: So kudos.

954
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 7: Good job.

955
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 6: And especially me being to stay at home mom. Randall,

956
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 6: you know how that is with kids, La, La, you

957
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 6: know how that.

958
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 7: Is with kids.

959
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 1: It's crazy. Anyway, I love you both.

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00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 6: You're awesome, and keep up the good words.

961
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: Thanks to everyone who has already left us so many

962
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 1: great messages. Keep them coming because we love hearing from

963
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 1: all of you.

964
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 4: Guys.

965
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,920
Speaker 1: Call us anytime at eight six y six Lalla pot.

966
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 1: That's eight six six, Lalla pot.

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00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 4: Thanks so much for listening to everyone,