1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:01,880 Speaker 1: The second date of date. 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:08,159 Speaker 2: Is it possible to accidentally catfish someone? I mean, I 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 2: guess we have people, let's say that on our show 4 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 2: all the time, where they showed up to the date 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 2: and oh no, he's even more attractive than his pictures. 6 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 2: I mean, I wasn't prepared for a Clooney Hemsworth lookalike? 7 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:27,319 Speaker 1: Is me? Yeah? I lost a bunch of wait and 8 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: I'm super buffed now, yeah, I. 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 3: Just forgot to update my profile. 10 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. 11 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 2: Well, one of our listeners is worried she may have 12 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 2: unintentionally catfished her date. Her name's Morgan, and she's a 13 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 2: solid six in her photos online, but in eleven when 14 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:45,639 Speaker 2: you see her in person, isn't that right? 15 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: Morgan? 16 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 3: You off the scale. 17 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 4: I wouldn't go that far, you guys, I'm probably like 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 4: a ten point five. I don't know anyone that even 19 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 4: calls himself a tent for you. 20 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Morgan, we want to help you here. Tell 21 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: us about the guy that you catfished by accident. What's 22 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: his name? 23 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? His name is Kent. 24 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 3: Okay, and you don't honestly think that Kent isn't calling 25 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 3: you back because you're too hot? 26 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 5: Right? 27 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 6: No? 28 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 4: No, I mean that's not it. I just I mean, 29 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 4: some stuff happened during the day, but we met online. 30 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 6: Look, I was like almost done. 31 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 4: With these apps because I've been on some really horrible 32 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 4: dates and like the last day was this guy. He 33 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 4: actually asked me if I could donate my kidney to 34 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 4: his uncle. 35 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: Date. 36 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 4: He was hisarious. 37 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,559 Speaker 3: That is a good family member that will just start 38 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:43,040 Speaker 3: dating randos just to find an organ donor. 39 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand that question. 40 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 2: On a second date, maybe it's a little bit too 41 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 2: soon exactly. 42 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 4: I was like, can we just wait till we date 43 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 4: for a month and then maybe you. 44 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 6: Know, how about. 45 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: So you're about to delete your app? 46 00:01:58,360 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 3: Is what you're saying? 47 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, and then can reach out to me? 48 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 4: And she gave me the cheesiest line, is there an 49 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 4: airport nearby? Because my heart is taking off? Oh God? 50 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: That made you not deleted? 51 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 3: Like, I didn't think that that would be quicker. 52 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: How do you respond to that? Or do you even respond? 53 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:22,239 Speaker 4: I wanted to mess with him, so I was like, oh, well, 54 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,520 Speaker 4: thanks a lot. My dad was a pilot and he 55 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 4: actually crushed Well. 56 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 3: I got dark Wait is that true? 57 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: Little dark humor? 58 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 4: I know, but I was like I wanted to mess 59 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 4: anything because I thought it was like such a cheaesy line. 60 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 6: I was like, oh yeah, and he was like, oh 61 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 6: my god, I'm so sorry. I was like, no, I'm not. 62 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: Kidding, just kidding about my dad's fiery dad. 63 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. I first he didn't delete that. 64 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 2: That's a cute way to start off a conversation. Where 65 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 2: did you turn that into a date somehow? 66 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 6: Yeah? 67 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 4: And so like we were just laughing and and then 68 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 4: have me out for drinks. What happened is that I 69 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 4: decided to change my hairdoo right before going on this date. 70 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 3: That's the catfish part right, Oh right. 71 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a pretty dramatic change. 72 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:17,399 Speaker 1: You went for the full makeover? 73 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, kind of. 74 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 4: I mean I went from blonde to back to burnet, 75 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 4: which is my natural. 76 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 6: Color, and I actually went short hair. 77 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: That's a dramatic change. Yeah. 78 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 3: So was he able to recognize you? Did you give 79 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 3: him a heads o? 80 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 7: No? 81 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 6: So he goes in and he doesn't even see me, 82 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 6: and I'm like I had to wave a hair. I 83 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 6: was like, hey, I'm here, and because. 84 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 4: The reactor was like, wow, how did you even recognize you? 85 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 6: ID in a good way? 86 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? Did he at least cut? 87 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 7: Like? 88 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: Was it a compliment like, Wow, you're so much prettier now. 89 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 4: I think it was just really surprised. So no, it 90 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 4: didn't come up as a compliment. 91 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 3: Okay, it was just like, what, I don't know if 92 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 3: you're so much prettier now as a compliment either, because 93 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 3: it means that before I think we need to work 94 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 3: on your compliment. 95 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 4: Yea cheesy yeah, all right. 96 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: Off to a little bit of a rocky start here? 97 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 1: Were you able to get things on track? 98 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 4: I did, So we sat down and we started talking 99 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 4: and things got back on track, and actually we found 100 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 4: out the silly hobby that. 101 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:26,239 Speaker 6: We have in common. 102 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 4: We actually love karaoke, both of us. 103 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: That is a silly, stupid stupid who does car singing 104 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 2: is dumb? 105 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: Jeffrey loves karaoke is cute. 106 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 4: You We both apparently love to go a lot. And 107 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 4: so anyways, we bonded about that and then at some 108 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 4: point the other thing that happened that was a little 109 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 4: odd is that I have a ring on. 110 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:52,479 Speaker 6: My finger and he actually noticed that. 111 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 4: And it's not a wedding ring or anything, but it 112 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 4: is an old promise rank from one of my first boyfriends. 113 00:04:58,839 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 4: What the hell are you worried that? 114 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,799 Speaker 6: Well, I loved the ring, and I wear the other fingers. 115 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 4: It's not like I'm wearing it as I'm engaged or anything. 116 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 3: Okay, but it's like a diamond. It looks like an 117 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 3: engagement ring. 118 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 4: It does look a little bit like an engagement ring. Yes, yes, 119 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 4: And so I told him and say, hey, I just 120 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 4: really love the dring. It's from old boyfriend, has nothing 121 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I don't even have any contact with this. 122 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 6: Person, and so it's just I just really like it. 123 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 4: And so he I'm not even sure if he was 124 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 4: even weirded out about that. 125 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 3: Well, it's strange that you even brought it up because 126 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 3: he may have not even noticed it. I mean, if 127 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 3: it's not on that finger, dude, I don't know. 128 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 2: I know a lot of guys that don't forget to 129 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 2: look like like, I don't know, it's like I didn't 130 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 2: look at her fingers or maybe when you said it 131 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 2: was like one of my ex boyfriends, you probably thought 132 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 2: it was just a joke, like your dad that had 133 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 2: a plane crash have been funny. 134 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, he died in a tornado accis. Yeah, so how 135 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: did you and can to end the day? 136 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 4: You know, it ended up just fine. We had a 137 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 4: friendly hug, and it seemed like things were going to continue, 138 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 4: like I'm going to reach out to you, and and 139 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 4: then it just does not have him been like that 140 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 4: at all. So I reach out a couple of times, 141 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 4: and you know, his answers are kind of short, and 142 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 4: it is not the same kind of back and forth 143 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 4: that we had before. 144 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: The ring, like just knowing someone. 145 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 4: I think it's not staying blonde. 146 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, we we'll find out the real answer after we 147 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: play a song. Comeback cal Ken and get your second 148 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 2: date update right after this. Okay, let's play. 149 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: A little game of spot the red flag. Okay, yeah, 150 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 1: you two are gonna let's try. 151 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 2: There's a blonde girl who shows up to the first 152 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 2: date with a totally different hair color, wearing an ex 153 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: boyfriend's promise ring, joking about her fake pilot dad crashing 154 00:06:58,520 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 2: his plane. 155 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,239 Speaker 1: I can't I can't find. 156 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 3: The red I see green, I see all green. 157 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 5: Yeah. 158 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: But you know what's good about red flags. 159 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 3: You can cut little red hearts out of it. 160 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: I can turn that into love. 161 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: So I don't know why Kent wouldn't be calling our 162 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: listener Morgan back after their first date. 163 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 3: I don't know, Brooke, what do you think I'm really 164 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 3: at a loss. You know, I think it's really normal 165 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 3: to wear old promised rings. 166 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because. 167 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 3: Usually when you're like nineteen or eighteen or whatever, you 168 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 3: can afford a big time. 169 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 2: Morgan, I mean, do you see anything wrong with what 170 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: happened on your first date? 171 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 6: There? Guys, I don't call those red facts. I call 172 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 6: them having a sense of humor. 173 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: So the promise ring was a joke, funny flags. 174 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 2: Okay, No, well, it really doesn't matter what any of 175 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 2: us think. It all comes down to Kent and his 176 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 2: opinion of your first date. That's what we're gonna try 177 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 2: I get from him. 178 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: Right now. Let's style his number and hope that he 179 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: picks up. 180 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 3: Yes, no numbers also read. 181 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 5: Here we go? 182 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: Well heyesus? 183 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 5: Ken? 184 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, who do you think we are? 185 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: Not a good question? Maybe he might guess right, I 186 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: highly doubt it. 187 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:32,719 Speaker 5: Okay, I'm gonna get somebody I'm not keen on talking to. 188 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 7: Congratulations, Who are you? 189 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 1: We are? A morning radio show? Yeah? 190 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 5: Oh, okay. 191 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 2: It's about the standard answer that we get a lot 192 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 2: of the times when we do these. But we're doing 193 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 2: something called a second date update. We're trying to get 194 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 2: some answers for our listener Morgan on why you're not 195 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 2: calling her back after going out with her? 196 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 5: Uh oh oh yeah, that's. 197 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 3: Like good because you know she obviously liked you. 198 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we demand answers. 199 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 3: You literally could not be more awkward. 200 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: It's like, now you know, Ken, we can ask nicely. 201 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:20,839 Speaker 2: Why don't you call in Morgan back after you guys 202 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 2: had such a great first date. 203 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 5: She's our friend, she's what did she call you? 204 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, she reached out to us and told us all 205 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 2: about your first hangout together, and she did. Overall, it 206 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 2: seemed pretty good, but she did mention there were a 207 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 2: few possible awkward moments, like she brought up that she 208 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 2: looked a little bit different than her photos online. 209 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 3: Well, so different that you didn't even recognize her. 210 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, that was a little shocking. 211 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 3: That upset you. 212 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 5: No, I'm still pretty and most importantly, I think like 213 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 5: her personality is the same. So okay the answer. 214 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 2: So if that's the case, then was there something else 215 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: that happened on the date, Because she says that she's 216 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 2: been trying to reach out to you, but you've been 217 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 2: kind of avoiding her via text. 218 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 5: Well, I don't know if she told you about the 219 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 5: whole ring situation. 220 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:18,719 Speaker 1: What ring situation? 221 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, this promise ring from her ex boyfriend had given 222 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 7: her and they were together for like five years, and 223 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 7: I guess it meant a lot. 224 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 5: To him and her. 225 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 3: And oh you got that much detail? 226 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 5: Huh yeah, did you not. 227 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 2: I'll be honest with you, Ken, she did mention that 228 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 2: she was wearing an ex's ring, but we didn't know 229 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 2: the story behind it, that they were together for five 230 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 2: years or whatever else happened with it. 231 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 5: Oh, well, there's a little more. Basically, she's when they 232 00:10:55,760 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 5: broke up, he asked for it back and she said, now. 233 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 3: Sorry, Well, I mean it's just a promise ring, is 234 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 3: that though? 235 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 5: I know, but it's like yeah, but I mean it's 236 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 5: also like a broken promise. You know. 237 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 3: That's what upset you. I don't understand that. 238 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 5: Just something about that bothers me that I guess he 239 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 5: was kind of lousy that he asked for it back, 240 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 5: but he did ask for it back and she said no. 241 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 5: But then on top of that, and this is like 242 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 5: kind of the the I don't want to call it 243 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 5: the clincher, but like, but really sticking to my craw 244 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 5: is that you know she knows apparently that he follows 245 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 5: her on Insta, and so every time she poses for 246 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,840 Speaker 5: pictures she makes sure the ring is like visible so 247 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 5: you can see it. 248 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: Wack in someday. 249 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 3: No, I think it's revenge, Like it's proving to him, like, ha, 250 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 3: still got your ring? 251 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 4: Right? 252 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 5: Well, I mean whatever it is, it's like she's still 253 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:59,559 Speaker 5: wearing his ring and Bill needs something. It's not just 254 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 5: to be jewelry to her. It has to do with him. 255 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it we should find out. 256 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, how do we do that, Jeff? 257 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,240 Speaker 2: I guess we We could call her and ask, but 258 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 2: oh wait, she's already on the line. Je. The type 259 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 2: of person creepily waits on the other line, listening in 260 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 2: on other people's conversations. 261 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: I guess that's Morgan. That's the type of person Morgan. 262 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:29,559 Speaker 3: Hi. 263 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 5: Oh okay, Well, so she's been listening to all her I. 264 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: Didn't even realize that that's totally on her. It is, Morgan. 265 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 1: What were you doing there? 266 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 6: I'm bad girl? 267 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, explaining that girl. 268 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 4: Well, I think you're putting too much weight on this 269 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 4: ring thing. I mean, I kept the ring because I 270 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 4: like the ring and I wear it. I wore that 271 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 4: ring for a really long time and I'm not going 272 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 4: to take it off for taking a picture for Instagram. 273 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 2: He has nothing to do with you have any secret 274 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 2: feelings for your ex boyfriend? 275 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:15,680 Speaker 4: No, I mean he wasn't a nice person to me, 276 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 4: especially when the relationship ended. 277 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 6: So yeah, I mean, I want to make. 278 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 4: Sure that he can see for my pictures that I'm 279 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 4: still wearing the ring. 280 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 2: All right, so she doesn't think about him at all. 281 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 2: There you go, just when she posts directly at him online, 282 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 2: could get back at him for all the horrible things 283 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:36,719 Speaker 2: he didn't like. 284 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: I do tag him in every photo. Really healthy, healthy 285 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: sort of. 286 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 3: Sounds like to me, it sounds like you talked about 287 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:44,320 Speaker 3: him a lot on your date. 288 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean he wanted to know why I was 289 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 4: wearing the ring, and so I told him the story. 290 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 4: But I mean, I don't have feelings for my ex. 291 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 5: I mean to me, it sounds like, you know, you 292 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 5: may not have feelings like you want to be with 293 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 5: him anymore, but you certainly have feelings like you want 294 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 5: him to see you living your life. He's still important 295 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 5: to you. And honestly, with my exes, like if there's drama, 296 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 5: I'm not trying to post for them, I'm blocking them. 297 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,440 Speaker 2: But what's the point of posting online if your exes 298 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 2: aren't supposed to see it? 299 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: Like, that's the whole reason we do anything. 300 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 6: I mean, I'm not flaunting it. I'm just not taking 301 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 6: it off. 302 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 5: I don't know the. 303 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 4: People who post ring pictures slaught. 304 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so you're saying that you're still not gonna take 305 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 3: it off. 306 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 6: Exactly. 307 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna wear it because it's my ring. He gave 308 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 4: it to me and I want to use it. I'm 309 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 4: not wearing on the other finger. No, I'm not engaged 310 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 4: to anybody. 311 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: Maybe the promise was that she'll never take it off. 312 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she doesn't have to be. 313 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 2: Like. 314 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: Another problem is that we're thinking maybe the. 315 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 2: Only way she'll take it off is if Kent gives 316 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 2: her an even bigger, nicer and it all starts with 317 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 2: you going on another date with her Kent, that will pay. 318 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 6: For Yeah, I mean it's can't Fred? 319 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 4: I really like you, Ken. 320 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: I mean no red flags here, Ken, I don't see 321 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 3: anything she's gonna have. 322 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 5: Like ten years. 323 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 2: You can even take a picture with her together with 324 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 2: the two of you and your brand new ring and 325 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 2: post it right at her ex boyfriend. 326 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 5: Are you guys find the ring or just the date. 327 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: We can barely afford the day, bro I mean. 328 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 5: Look, I thought we had good chemistry. I like you, 329 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 5: so I'll try it out. But honestly, I am not 330 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 5: about the drama, not about you. You know your relationship 331 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 5: with your ex. 332 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 3: You're saying yes, but you don't want the drama. 333 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 4: I don't know that I've changed your hair. 334 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 6: She's going through something. 335 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 5: I can't tell if you guys are talking me into 336 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 5: it or out of it. 337 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 1: I can't tell either. But I do want to know 338 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: what happens on date number two. 339 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 4: You guys are going out again? 340 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 6: Yeah? 341 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 5: Why not? 342 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I guess miracles do happen. You want 343 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 2: to start taking bets on how many dates they last? 344 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 1: Brooke, what do you. 345 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 3: Got half a one? 346 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 1: I was gonna go with one and a half. You 347 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: think the date okay? 348 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 4: To show it up again with the ring? So if 349 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 4: my ring and what I want I mean, and if. 350 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 2: You if your ex boyfriend's listening to this on podcasts, 351 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 2: somebody missed out, Yeah he feels that. 352 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 4: Time brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 353 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 2: Got a text into seventy five nine to two that says, 354 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 2: I think that actually was my ex and I want 355 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 2: her back. 356 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 1: Oh, at least the ring. 357 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, there it is, So I cannot believe they're going 358 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 3: out again. 359 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, why not? I know? 360 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 1: He obviously, I don't know. 361 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 2: I think we've all held on to stuff from our 362 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 2: previous relationships and it doesn't mean anything. 363 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 4: Promise, jeff different than I promise. 364 00:16:58,200 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 3: There were so many red flags in this situation. 365 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 2: I've got fingernails and skin samples from my exes, but not. 366 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: Weird like ooh, I'm obsessed with you. I smell these 367 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: every day kind of way, just a regular I hold 368 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,959 Speaker 1: on to stuff that makes me happy. So what if 369 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: they all up dates and times on them? 370 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 6: Yeah? 371 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 1: Do you put them next your hair doll? Or no? 372 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 3: Oh that would be weird. Sorry, that would be weird. 373 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:22,400 Speaker 1: Geez. 374 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 2: Anyway, if you ever want to get a second date update, 375 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,199 Speaker 2: you can email the show. We'll call the person who 376 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 2: wasn't calling you back. And check out all of the 377 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:32,199 Speaker 2: podcasts for second dates. They're up, yes, wherever you get 378 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 2: your podcasts. That Broke and Jeffery