Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1: So a lot of people are talking about being a
Speaker 1: victim of the friendship recession. What is it?
Speaker 3: Sisn'ty America is experiencing this right now, and it's basically
Speaker 3: the average thirty year old has lost around five friends
Speaker 3: since the pandemic.
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, how we.
Speaker 1: Lose the five friends?
Speaker 3: You could you could kind of say, oh, because we
Speaker 3: were so isolated, we didn't go out as much anymore,
Speaker 3: and then once we did, we got really busy with
Speaker 3: work and now we're taking two jobs on because we
Speaker 3: have to make more money or like whatever it is, right,
Speaker 3: excuses excuses for just not having the time to reach
Speaker 3: out to these said friends. So the ones that really
Speaker 3: didn't like make an impact in your life, you've just
Speaker 3: cut out because you don't have the time.
Speaker 1: I don't think I did that, but I have, like
Speaker 1: over the years, slowly gotten it down to just a
Speaker 1: handful that are the ill we call the core group.
Speaker 1: There's like Core one, Core two, and then there's people
Speaker 1: that you've been friends with.
Speaker 2: Over the years, like the A the A friends friends.
Speaker 1: Well, it's like if you have to get a table
Speaker 1: for six. There's Core one, if you can get twelve,
Speaker 1: Core two right. If it's a birthday party, maybe Core
Speaker 1: three right, But they're all in course. You can see
Speaker 1: the diagram in my room if you'd like to see.
Speaker 2: Yeah, i'd love to see that.
Speaker 1: It is very of sorts.
Speaker 3: When I was reading this article, it said that males
Speaker 3: are more prone to being in a friend recession than females.
Speaker 2: What's your take on that?
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know that I need a lot of friends.
Speaker 1: I need friends you do.
Speaker 3: That's another thing that it said, like having friends, like
Speaker 3: it's good for the soul, like we all know, like
Speaker 3: the blue zone, Like you need to have community. You
Speaker 3: can't just be like alone all the time. Alone time
Speaker 3: is great, but.
Speaker 1: Timely do you bring this up? And it just struck me.
Speaker 1: I'm hosting my high school football buddies to dinner.
Speaker 3: That's cute. I love that I still get together with
Speaker 3: my high school girlfriends.
Speaker 1: They're all rolling in and they're in for two days.
Speaker 2: That's awesome. What time's of dinner? Reservation?
Speaker 1: Six thirty?
Speaker 2: Nice? Nice?
Speaker 1: It's so funny. I was like, guys, what's your vibe?
Speaker 1: They're like, we can't hang like we used to like great,
Speaker 1: six stirty is good for me. So we're get together.
Speaker 3: Last words, anytime someone says like, oh I really wanted.
Speaker 2: To be like a chill night, never the case.
Speaker 1: I mean, we've got a I didn't know what they do,
Speaker 1: honestly I do, but it's like they're in like management
Speaker 1: of apartments one one's FBI one.
Speaker 2: When's that way? You're always so intrigued by Cia.
Speaker 1: I'm going to try and crack him.
Speaker 4: Crack him.
Speaker 1: I'm going to go for it tomorrow night. It's like, awesome,
Speaker 1: chow your badge. Yeah, I can't do it once ago
Speaker 1: undercover previously.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fe'd send pics, yeah, FaceTime.
Speaker 1: Us, Yes, that's what it'll be top of mind. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I do recall systanty judge not judge such a harsh word,
Speaker 1: but yeah, judging about this. When Tanya created.
Speaker 2: It was more out of concern, you know.
Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, it's just need to take up
Speaker 3: so much time, Like you really want to like handle
Speaker 3: two instagrams.
Speaker 1: Like you got a new puppy, you rescued a dalmatian
Speaker 1: and now you've created a page for your puppy.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 3: I not only did we create a page for him.
Speaker 3: It was like part of like the name naming him process.
Speaker 3: I was like, if we name him this, can we
Speaker 3: have a cool Instagram handle? Like literally thought about it
Speaker 3: from the beginning.
Speaker 1: So what made you go from saying not a good
Speaker 1: idea and laborious to Tanya to actually doing it.
Speaker 2: I don't know what it was about.
Speaker 3: I think maybe just the uniqueness of having a Dalmatian
Speaker 3: and the amount of love.
Speaker 2: That it's going to give people by me posting pictures
Speaker 2: and videos of him.
Speaker 1: I will say that the photos that you have sent me, Tanya,
Speaker 1: of your Sonny, and the photos you've shown us of
Speaker 1: the Dalmatian, like you will go up a notch of
Speaker 1: having a better day when you see the photos, yeahes
Speaker 1: like they're cute.
Speaker 5: And I'll say the reason why I started it was
Speaker 5: because I was taking so many photos and videos of
Speaker 5: Sonny and I felt like my entire page was becoming
Speaker 5: just my dog. And I was like, I'm just gonna
Speaker 5: put everything on her Instagram and not like keep mine mine.
Speaker 5: And it was the best decision ever because now I
Speaker 5: have this like chronological she's grown up on this page.
Speaker 2: It's like so cute, you know what?
Speaker 5: I mean because I have all this documented from when
Speaker 5: she was a puppy until now.
Speaker 3: I did this back in the day with Dakota on
Speaker 3: Facebook because there was no Instagram back then, and I
Speaker 3: just didn't keep up with it, you know, right, So
Speaker 3: I have like puppy pictures of her. But then who
Speaker 3: knows how long it will last with uh Diego, but
Speaker 3: it's Diego dot, the Dalmatian.
Speaker 1: On Diego Dot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like Diego like, and then the period and then the.
Speaker 1: Dolmation Boneta comes up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I get past all those. They don't have enough
Speaker 3: follower not posting, one hasn't posted.
Speaker 1: Okay, got it here? Oh you got three blocks of
Speaker 1: photos up?
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I posted a video not too long ago, Diego's first bath. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's so cute.
Speaker 1: So this is really the dalmination is adorable? Are they calm?
Speaker 3: So a lot of energy and right now is like
Speaker 3: crucial time for training and it's all about him trusting
Speaker 3: us and building that trust with this dog.
Speaker 1: And how was the bath? That's always a difficult one.
Speaker 3: He was very calm in the bath. I think he
Speaker 3: liked it a lot. I have to give him another
Speaker 3: one tonight.
Speaker 1: Nice tiles as we celebrate Tile Day around here.
Speaker 2: Thank you came with the house, you know every model later.
Speaker 1: Yeah, very nice.
Speaker 3: But the kids love it, and As is really kind
Speaker 3: of stepping up into like a helper mode. You know,
Speaker 3: they'll be the twins will be six this May, and
Speaker 3: she wants to do everything. She wants to help feed him.
Speaker 3: She wants to help.
Speaker 2: This is the best decision you've ever made.
Speaker 1: The dog Instagram find it a lot of work, Sonny.
Speaker 1: You got at Sunnygirl dot v cavapoo cava poo.
Speaker 5: So Sunnygirl dot the kava poo it is. It just
Speaker 5: brings me joy. It just makes me happy. And I
Speaker 5: just upload everything, every photo I take of her there.
Speaker 1: So I was reading that I think seventy percent of
Speaker 1: us have pets, and we now, I think more so
Speaker 1: than ever, we who have pets treat our pets more
Speaker 1: like humans than ever before. We want natural stuff for them.
Speaker 1: We want to live longer. We don't want them to
Speaker 1: go away. We want to engineer their bodies and their
Speaker 1: food so that they can, you know, have the best
Speaker 1: life and be healthy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because you're my algorithm. I don't know if this
Speaker 5: is free. I get these videos all the time in
Speaker 5: my algorithm of parents playing with their puppies, and it says, how,
Speaker 5: you know, like they're not here for a very long time,
Speaker 5: so make their life.
Speaker 2: The best life ever.
Speaker 5: And I always think about that anytime we're doing anything
Speaker 5: with her. I'm like, I have to make this the
Speaker 5: best life she's ever had.
Speaker 1: I know, I can't think about the fact that they
Speaker 1: live less than we do, because that part, like that part,
Speaker 1: I've never been through that way.
Speaker 3: When I sit there and I start doing the math
Speaker 3: and I'm like, how I don't want kids to be
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my gosh, that's it's yeah, you
Speaker 3: don't want to think about it, but you do.
Speaker 1: We've got Georgia and Olio. Now a du dog. This
Speaker 1: is a dude dog. I've never had a do dog,
Speaker 1: only girl dogs.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it seems like he's a very energetic.
Speaker 1: He's gonna knock my jaw like. He's so strong. He's
Speaker 1: got big, broad, strong shoulders and he comes at you
Speaker 1: full speed.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: When you play with a toy, you can just like
Speaker 3: and you're trying to like tug it out. If you
Speaker 3: do the trick where you massage like underneath their mouth,
Speaker 3: they'll kind of release easier.
Speaker 2: The toy.
Speaker 1: He does that to me, it gives you a facial Oh,
Speaker 1: I relaxed at night. Let me grab Sam and send
Speaker 1: Gabriel before anything else. Sam, good morning, morning Ryan. How
Speaker 1: can we help you? It sounds not good.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I just I don't really know what to do
Speaker 7: about this situation. I'm kind of freaked out about the
Speaker 7: whole thing. I don't know, but my fewther future father
Speaker 7: in law meant by it. But I recently asked my
Speaker 7: girlfriend's parents if it was okay with them, if I know,
Speaker 7: proposed and eventually got married. But when I did, my
Speaker 7: future father in law kind of looked at me and said, well,
Speaker 7: I don't know why you'd want to do that, but
Speaker 7: good luck.
Speaker 1: Well that's you know, discouraging.
Speaker 7: It was just kind of it was just a little jar.
Speaker 7: It seemed it seemed pretty serious. I don't know, marriage,
Speaker 7: no comment.
Speaker 1: Because maybe he's referring to like I made this mistake.
Speaker 2: However, it is harsh.
Speaker 1: It's harsh, it's not little like. I'm discouraged by it,
Speaker 1: and it makes me think, well, they don't like me.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean we've we've been dating for a few years,
Speaker 7: so I thought we got along or maybe yeah, maybe He.
Speaker 3: Just wants to make sure that you're really serious about
Speaker 3: it and going to go the distance.
Speaker 7: Hopefully that's it. I mean, I am pretty serious. I
Speaker 7: love her a lot, but just the way he said it, like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't love it. Have you talked to your
Speaker 1: girlfriend about it?
Speaker 7: Yeah, we talked about it.
Speaker 1: And what did she say?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 7: She she's just as confused and lost as I am was.
Speaker 7: She was weirded out when I told her about it.
Speaker 3: I think she should just have a conversation with him separately.
Speaker 3: Then maybe she can get to the bottom of it
Speaker 3: if there's something deeper.
Speaker 1: But I also feel like you may never win them over.
Speaker 2: Oh I don't think that.
Speaker 8: Well.
Speaker 1: I mean, this guy sounds like he's got an issue.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's about him though. I don't think
Speaker 2: so either.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe it's because he's not happy in his own
Speaker 1: I don't know, but Sam, I guess well, he could.
Speaker 3: Have just panicked too. Like Dad, just sometimes don't know
Speaker 3: what to say. Like when Michael asked for my dad's
Speaker 3: hand in marriage. My dad was like great and everything,
Speaker 3: but then he's like, you know, ask.
Speaker 1: For your dad's hand in, man, I'm sorry from my
Speaker 1: hand in that's a twist.
Speaker 2: But he basically told Michael.
Speaker 3: You know, Susan is really tough, almost like trying to
Speaker 3: scare Michael off.
Speaker 1: He still came back.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Uh, you know, maybe he just didn't really know how
Speaker 3: to put his words together.
Speaker 1: I think you're doing the elegant, very gentleman thing, which
Speaker 1: is going this path, and if you hit a dead end,
Speaker 1: you still love her, then you do you need to
Speaker 1: do for your heart? Buddy?
Speaker 7: I think you're right. Yeah, Oh good luck man.
Speaker 1: All right, you can might in there take care of that,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, But i'd be I mean, I
Speaker 1: kind of would know going in right what the parents
Speaker 1: might feel or think and just go for it. But
Speaker 1: it would also be really disheartening discouraging.
Speaker 5: I mean, at least he didn't say no, yeah, and
Speaker 5: it sounds like he's projecting like he's like not happily married,
Speaker 5: and he's like.
Speaker 1: And then I turn it and say, well listen, sir,
Speaker 1: I mean do you want to talk? Yeah, you want
Speaker 1: to talk about what's going on here with you and
Speaker 1: the missus, Because if you're this cynical about our love
Speaker 1: and ours his young love open for a big future.
Speaker 1: If you're about it let's talk about what you're projecting here,
Speaker 1: Sit down here? What can I buy?
Speaker 2: You are with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1: This is something that you may be guilty of doing.
Speaker 1: And they say, if you do this as a couple,
Speaker 1: it's tragic. Don't do this. It's going to be super
Speaker 1: bad for your relationship over time. And that is I
Speaker 1: don't know if you do it or not, Sisanny Tanya,
Speaker 1: but that is parallel scrolling. You both lay in bed
Speaker 1: and you scroll at the same time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, not every single night, but it's bad. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: can see why it could be. It would be bad
Speaker 3: if that's.
Speaker 1: Like your root. I think it's best to not scroll
Speaker 1: right before you go to bed. So they say, if
Speaker 1: you're both doing it, it's really bad. Alternative Why alternative
Speaker 1: is don't scroll? What do you mean you put your
Speaker 1: phone down or talk to each other or talk to
Speaker 1: each other or maybe you try and kiss?
Speaker 2: Oh make out?
Speaker 1: Yeah, hello, says hand out. Who says that please stop
Speaker 1: a cringe?
Speaker 2: That would be on the board. That would be one
Speaker 2: of the things on the board.
Speaker 3: Hanky pinky would at least get your least like ten points,
Speaker 3: Bry not the number one answer you Maria Michaela.
Speaker 1: Just quit working here.
Speaker 2: I've never hanky pinky. It's worse than all the way.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hey, I'm gonna keep us moving with today's quote.
Speaker 1: Today's quote is work harder on yourself than you do
Speaker 1: on your job. I would recommendze everybody but y'all, everybody
Speaker 1: but you guys. That applies. We're in the midst of
Speaker 1: Christmas giving. This is number four of the list of
Speaker 1: Christmas givings that we're gonna do. So Sarah Swenson from Cyprus.
Speaker 1: She's nominating her fiance, and her fiance's name is Lyle
Speaker 1: Tyler of Whittier and they're getting married, So let me
Speaker 1: grab Sarah. Sarah, good morning, how are you, Hi? Good morning,
Speaker 1: So excited to meet you and thank you for reaching
Speaker 1: out about your fiance. Congratulations, Thank you so Lyle. I mean,
Speaker 1: tell me what makes you melt about him?
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 7: He's such a kind soul, like he deserves so many
Speaker 7: good things, and it's just like, yeah, he's just such
Speaker 7: an amazing person.
Speaker 9: He's one of those people or like he will give.
Speaker 10: You the coat off his back, like if you ask
Speaker 10: for it, type of thing we.
Speaker 1: Probably wouldn't fit making. I'm small.
Speaker 2: That your arms are getting bigger.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. This is about Lyle. So I
Speaker 1: want to call Lyle right now and read the email
Speaker 1: you sent me about him. So just dial him up.
Speaker 1: When's your wedding March?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, popular month, Popular wedding month.
Speaker 1: Mm. They're like the brunch music. It's very brunch piano music.
Speaker 1: Hi is Lyle there?
Speaker 7: Yeah, this is Lyle Lyle.
Speaker 1: It's Ryan Seacrest calling from Kiss FM. How are you.
Speaker 6: I'm doing all right, sir?
Speaker 1: How about your so doing well? We just have a
Speaker 1: list of people that we think might be listening and
Speaker 1: are calling them individually to wish them a happy holiday
Speaker 1: and merry Christmas.
Speaker 11: Yeah, oh thank you.
Speaker 12: So.
Speaker 1: I hope you have a great one and thank you
Speaker 1: very much for listening. If you do.
Speaker 2: Happy New Year too.
Speaker 6: Oh, thank you very much.
Speaker 11: Ryan.
Speaker 1: Well you have a great day.
Speaker 11: All right.
Speaker 1: Well I did call you for some other stuff too.
Speaker 1: I've got your fiance on the line, Sarah.
Speaker 11: Yeah, I kind of figured.
Speaker 1: So she sent me an email and let me read
Speaker 1: it to you. She says. Lyle is such an amazing person,
Speaker 1: but his car needs to be fixed. He needs new
Speaker 1: break sensors and more.
Speaker 7: True right, yeah, very true.
Speaker 1: He works with adults with special needs and uses his
Speaker 1: car daily to pick them up and drive them around
Speaker 1: for their program. That is so generous.
Speaker 11: Yeah, that is what I do well.
Speaker 1: That is amazing. She says, you love this car, but
Speaker 1: it won't last long if it isn't fixed.
Speaker 11: That is correct.
Speaker 1: He literally would not be able to do his job
Speaker 1: without this car. His clients depend on it. He works
Speaker 1: so hard to help these guys integrate into the community.
Speaker 1: Would you please help him out this Christmas? It would
Speaker 1: be the perfect gift. So we got to think in
Speaker 1: mile and put together a little something for you. How
Speaker 1: long you have been doing that job? Ten years?
Speaker 7: Last week?
Speaker 1: What's the most gratifying part of it?
Speaker 6: Just seeing the guys that I work with, just being
Speaker 6: fully accepted into the community where when we go to places,
Speaker 6: everyone knows their name, doesn't treat them any differently than
Speaker 6: any other person that would walk into into a store
Speaker 6: or Starbucks or anything like that. It's just really great
Speaker 6: to see and just them having a great time being
Speaker 6: out in the community with their friends and just having yeah,
Speaker 6: just having a great day when.
Speaker 1: You're such a major part of them having a great day. First,
Speaker 1: she's your your wife, almost your fiance said that there's
Speaker 1: one thing that you want for Christmas. That's a PlayStation five.
Speaker 11: That would be great.
Speaker 1: So it's already gift wrapped and it's on the ways.
Speaker 1: We got one of those for you.
Speaker 11: Oh my gosh, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: And the other thing I was thinking, it's like, I'm
Speaker 1: not married. I don't know what it's going to be.
Speaker 11: Like.
Speaker 1: I'm sure it's going to be bliss. It's wonderful, but
Speaker 1: imagine now, imagine now a weekend with your then wife,
Speaker 1: a get away at the terror Nea Resort, which is
Speaker 1: so beautiful. I've been down there to see it.
Speaker 6: Oh, that would be fantastic.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna get you out for so you got
Speaker 1: to be romantic when you get married. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: send you for two nights. I'll give you some money
Speaker 1: to spend on dinners and spas and all that stuff
Speaker 1: while you're there too.
Speaker 2: So nice.
Speaker 3: It's like this major getaway doesn't even feel like you're
Speaker 3: in La or Oc, Like, yeah, if you're in another
Speaker 3: part of.
Speaker 1: The world, don't just get it there and watch, you
Speaker 1: know Mario Lopez on the Movie Channel have some romance. Okay, Yeah, you.
Speaker 2: Can hike around the property. It's amazing, have yoga every morning.
Speaker 1: But back to the real issue. The car. The car,
Speaker 1: She says, you love the car, but it means the repairs.
Speaker 1: You can't do a job without it. So I've got
Speaker 1: two thousand dollars to cover the repairs coming right away.
Speaker 11: Oh, it's fantastic. Thank you.
Speaker 1: You're very welcome, my friend. You okay, buddy, Yeah, I'm just.
Speaker 7: I'm really excited about this.
Speaker 11: I'm really happy.
Speaker 9: Is this is.
Speaker 11: This is this really special. Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: It is our pleasure to do. It's wonderful to see
Speaker 1: the two of you found each other, you found your person,
Speaker 1: and I admire you and have so much respect for
Speaker 1: the role you play in these other people's lives, the
Speaker 1: special needs people that need you taking them around the
Speaker 1: community so they feel, as you said, accept it, so
Speaker 1: they're treated like everybody else. Yeah, oh, take the good work,
Speaker 1: all right. And not to be awkward, but think of
Speaker 1: me when you're at the Tarrannia and just you know,
Speaker 1: it's so awkward, just you know, I don't know, just
Speaker 1: like raise a glass or something. Then you cannot think
Speaker 1: about me. But I'd love to, you know what I mean. Random,
Speaker 1: I mean, they're there for two nights. The first night
Speaker 1: they can think about me. I were thinking about me
Speaker 1: if it were me. Oh man, love you guys.
Speaker 3: Congratulations, congratulations, thank you for everything that you do.
Speaker 1: Sarah and getting married.
Speaker 2: Twenty twenty five.
Speaker 1: Baby, you guys, take care of Thank you again, Sarah
Speaker 1: for reaching out.
Speaker 7: Yeah, thank you, Ryan, Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: Merry Christmas?
Speaker 6: All right, Mary, christ.
Speaker 1: I mean, don't think of me all night.
Speaker 10: Li.
Speaker 1: I'll just say like it's seven o'flive. I know. It
Speaker 1: was just like when you have a toast, what's next?
Speaker 1: Name first? Take me out of your mind? Christmas? So
Speaker 1: I gotta get Stella on the phone here, Stella, thank
Speaker 1: you for calling in. How are you?
Speaker 9: I'm great?
Speaker 4: How are you guys?
Speaker 1: We're good? So can you explain to us what happened?
Speaker 1: You were sent a fake photo. We're talking about red
Speaker 1: flags a lot this week when it comes to people
Speaker 1: and especially significant others in our lives. In hindsight, in
Speaker 1: their rear view mirror, they're all red flags, but when
Speaker 1: you're looking forward, you kind of look past them because
Speaker 1: you don't want to be the person that meets someone
Speaker 1: that has red flags. You're almost too forgiving about the
Speaker 1: flags then the flags stack up and you realize it
Speaker 1: was always there. It was always an issue. So what
Speaker 1: happened to you?
Speaker 11: Okay?
Speaker 4: So I met this guy on Hinge and we went
Speaker 4: on about five dates and had plans for a six
Speaker 4: to one, but he kept rescheduling and I enjoyed our dates,
Speaker 4: so it's kind of bummed when he finally said that.
Speaker 4: I just said, just let me know if you don't
Speaker 4: want to do this anymore, and he said, no, I
Speaker 4: want to see you again. I just needed to get
Speaker 4: away to clear my head. End quotes and told me
Speaker 4: he was going skiing for a few days. He eventually
Speaker 4: sends me a picture and said it's been a great
Speaker 4: trip and he'll be back soon. But the picture, he
Speaker 4: said was very suspicious. So after looking at the picture
Speaker 4: that he downloaded, it was super blurry and there was
Speaker 4: a big black border around it, and it was a
Speaker 4: guy on a ski slope with no one else around him.
Speaker 4: So I didn't really understand if it was just him
Speaker 4: or if he was with someone else. So I did
Speaker 4: a reverse image search and I googled the picture he
Speaker 4: sent me and found it on a ski resort website.
Speaker 1: Okay, then what was your next move?
Speaker 4: Well, then I screenshoted the website and sent it to
Speaker 4: him and asked why he did that, and he said
Speaker 4: he just wanted to show that he was actually skiing,
Speaker 4: but phones weren't allowed on the slopes.
Speaker 1: Oh, he's too fast with the lies. Yes, I'm looking
Speaker 1: at the photo. Thank you for getting it to us.
Speaker 1: It's all suspect. So he's a scam artist. He's like
Speaker 1: Resattista's husband.
Speaker 2: Totally.
Speaker 11: Right.
Speaker 2: I heard about her.
Speaker 11: So yeah, you need to watch.
Speaker 1: TikTok to watch this TikTok series called Who the F
Speaker 1: Did I Marry?
Speaker 8: Listen new series that I'm calling Who the Did I Marry?
Speaker 8: I'm going to create this playlist series and I'm going
Speaker 8: to tell the story of how I met, dated, married,
Speaker 8: and divorced. A real path life.
Speaker 1: So she was scammed in every way in her marriage
Speaker 1: and she's posted on TikTok it's something you got to see.
Speaker 1: But tell did you get away from this dude? What happened?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 4: I haven't responded because I don't know what to do.
Speaker 4: He keeps trying to call me, but I'm not really sure,
Speaker 4: like how to you even engage with this person?
Speaker 1: So either well, he's either not there or he's there
Speaker 1: with someone. But I think you, I think you. I
Speaker 1: think you doubled down on being clever here. I think
Speaker 1: you act like you're believing him a little bit, but
Speaker 1: you know you're not. But let's see what Let's see
Speaker 1: what else he does? You know? Ask for what? Like
Speaker 1: I always asked, show me a picture of what you
Speaker 1: had for dinner last night, or tell me.
Speaker 2: You want to sell me a picture in bed? But
Speaker 2: what is this? Do you still want to stay with him?
Speaker 2: Like after all these lies?
Speaker 10: No, I don't think you don't.
Speaker 1: But you also want to, like I don't do something
Speaker 1: back to me?
Speaker 11: Right?
Speaker 2: Revenge of some sort?
Speaker 6: Us?
Speaker 1: Can you face? Can you ask in a FaceTime like?
Speaker 1: That's a very easy way to track someone down?
Speaker 4: I guess I could.
Speaker 1: All right, keep us posted. He's a smoosh bag and
Speaker 1: we want you to get away playing play it out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this sounds like a fun game that I'll play
Speaker 4: now with him.
Speaker 1: All right, good bye, Stella, thank you, thank you. You
Speaker 1: know what's striking to me how many people called in
Speaker 1: saying they've been scammed?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: A lot by a guy. I mean, had one call
Speaker 1: the opposite way, f y, I like, not one dude
Speaker 1: is called to say a woman scammed me right right?
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, I could barely hear that one.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I said, I'm sure they're out there.
Speaker 1: He's just saying that to yourself. Yeah, the girl, they
Speaker 1: see that I had kept their mic on. That's what
Speaker 1: they do back there, They talk out loud to themselves
Speaker 1: while we're doing our show in the background. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's if that is you out there and that happened
Speaker 1: to you, and you're a dude that had happened to
Speaker 1: then try us eight hundred and five to one two seven.
Speaker 5: Do a lot of dudes listen to what us good handful.
Speaker 1: I hope there's some dudes out there. Otherwise it's me
Speaker 1: and just y'all.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Michael, Michael listens.
Speaker 1: Michael's there. It's time for Ryan's roses. Here on Kiss FM,
Speaker 1: Regina has reached out to us. This is very interesting here.
Speaker 1: We got a screenshot and everything. So Regina was saying
Speaker 1: that her husband sent her a screenshot of a conversation
Speaker 1: he had with their daughter, but he didn't realize that
Speaker 1: when he's when he clicked the phone that on the
Speaker 1: top of the screen there was a message notification from
Speaker 1: a woman named Jennifer and that woman Regina is he
Speaker 1: cheated with five years ago?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, So the screenshot was a text exchange
Speaker 1: between your family, but then up top was the little message.
Speaker 2: Like that I mess say when the notification comes in.
Speaker 1: You couldn't see what the message was. It just said
Speaker 1: it was there exactly. Yeah, okay, And what did you
Speaker 1: do after this happened?
Speaker 9: Well, I haven't done anything yet. I want to. I
Speaker 9: want to catch him red handed. I want to see
Speaker 9: how deep this goes.
Speaker 1: Hmm okay, So what else do we need to know
Speaker 1: about your relationship? Has it been difficult after this first time?
Speaker 1: How did you get past the first time cheating five
Speaker 1: years ago? Yeah?
Speaker 9: It was really hard on this. I mean, so I
Speaker 9: found some dirty emails and dirty text between him and
Speaker 9: this woman that he meant some trivia ieties to go to.
Speaker 9: And I don't think they ever slept together, but it
Speaker 9: was clearly like an emotional affair, and it felt like
Speaker 9: it was moving in that attraction. So I shut it down.
Speaker 9: I threatened to leave, and he begged me not to,
Speaker 9: and I agreed to say on one condition that he
Speaker 9: blocked her, that he never spoke to her again, and
Speaker 9: that he wouldn't ever go to that bar again where
Speaker 9: the trivia night happened. So he agreed to that. And
Speaker 9: it has been a really tough journey, but we've got
Speaker 9: past it, and then you can give you credit.
Speaker 1: I give you credit to that and then this, and
Speaker 1: now your heart sinks. I don't think I could be
Speaker 1: as strong as you were to get past it myself.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's been really tough. And I promised you. He
Speaker 9: has no idea that her name was at the top
Speaker 9: of that screenshot.
Speaker 1: Hold on one second, we will get into this next
Speaker 1: five years ago and as stuff had been happening between
Speaker 1: those five years with this woman about to make the
Speaker 1: call to Regina's husband, just know this. She told us
Speaker 1: he cheated five years ago with a woman named Jennifer,
Speaker 1: and then she saw a screenshot sent to her by
Speaker 1: her husband between their daughter and himself. But what he
Speaker 1: didn't know is when he screenshotted it, there was an
Speaker 1: eye message notification on the top from Jennifer. So clearly
Speaker 1: they're in contact. And he promised after he cheated, she
Speaker 1: forgave him, and he promised he'd never speak to her again.
Speaker 1: And here she is, So we're going to make the
Speaker 1: call to her husband. Now, Regina, let's see what we
Speaker 1: can find out. I need you to say, Ryan, you
Speaker 1: have my permission to call, and then your husband's name.
Speaker 1: Go ahead.
Speaker 9: Okay, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 1: We got Regina. Here we go, good luck.
Speaker 12: Okay, Hello, Hi is this David speaking?
Speaker 2: Hi David, My name is Tamra. How are you doing
Speaker 2: this morning?
Speaker 11: I'm good? How can I help you?
Speaker 2: I'm calling from Beautiful Blooms.
Speaker 3: We service thousand oaks and surrounding areas with free delivery
Speaker 3: and offering a promotion today for local residents. It's actually
Speaker 3: a free dozen red roses that you can send to
Speaker 3: anybody that you'd like.
Speaker 2: They're absolutely free.
Speaker 3: Just trying to do a promotion to promote our business,
Speaker 3: and we hope that you like our arrangements.
Speaker 11: Okay, So anywute. You're here telling me that your company
Speaker 11: is willing to send a dozen roses free to whoever
Speaker 11: I want.
Speaker 3: Yes, we can start with the name of the person
Speaker 3: you want to send them to and a note. I
Speaker 3: don't need credit card info or cash from you or
Speaker 3: any information at all. It's just a promotion that we
Speaker 3: do about once a month. Is there anybody that you
Speaker 3: would want to send flowers to.
Speaker 11: Okay, okay, yeah, there is there is someone I'd like
Speaker 11: to s yours too.
Speaker 1: It's free, they're free. Yes.
Speaker 11: Yeah.
Speaker 2: What's the name of the person you want to send
Speaker 2: the roses too?
Speaker 11: Yeah? Yeah, send it to Marina?
Speaker 2: M A R I am a Marina Marina. Okay, and
Speaker 2: what would you like to put on the card?
Speaker 11: Uh? Put this put congratulations? Uh you make you make
Speaker 11: your mom and I so very proud every single day.
Speaker 11: Love mom and dad.
Speaker 1: Okay, David, your voice is being broadcast on the radio.
Speaker 1: Thank you for staying on the line with us for
Speaker 1: one second. My name is Ryan. I have Sisaney and
Speaker 1: Tanya and your wife Regina on the line, and I
Speaker 1: understand you just sent some roses to your daughter, Marina. Regina.
Speaker 1: Is your daughter named Marina?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 11: Yeah? Wait wait wait my wife.
Speaker 1: Your wife is Yeah, she's here with us.
Speaker 11: All right? Did we win something?
Speaker 1: So well, I'm gonna just you I can tell him, Regina. David,
Speaker 1: your wife has asked us to call you because she's
Speaker 1: concerned that you're in contact again with Jennifer from five
Speaker 1: years ago.
Speaker 11: Are you wait, wait a minute, wait, what do you
Speaker 11: mean Jennifer?
Speaker 1: Jennifer do you mean Jennifer, Regina, do you want to
Speaker 1: explain it to him?
Speaker 9: When's the last time we talked to Jennifer?
Speaker 11: Honey, Jennifer? Are you serious? Honey? I haven't talked to
Speaker 11: Jennifer in years.
Speaker 9: You're lying to me.
Speaker 11: What's going on? I've not talked to Jennifer.
Speaker 1: And she reached out to you recently?
Speaker 11: No? No, And why are we on the radio about this?
Speaker 11: What's going on?
Speaker 1: Okay? Well, that's where we work, so that's how we're
Speaker 1: doing this. But David, we have a screenshot of a
Speaker 1: text you were sending to your wife, Regina. Not at
Speaker 1: the top of that screenshot. It's a a message, a
Speaker 1: notification coming in from Jennifer, So she was reaching out
Speaker 1: to you. Why is she reaching out to you?
Speaker 11: Okay, okay, what screenshot? What are you talking about? What? Yeah?
Speaker 11: What screenshots talking about? Honey? What screenshot? What's going on?
Speaker 11: What screenshot are you talking about?
Speaker 9: It's over this time, David. I can't do this again.
Speaker 9: I don't know if you're sleeping with her or not,
Speaker 9: but you promised me you would not talk to her again.
Speaker 11: I'm done, Okay, honey, listen, I I okay, okay, I
Speaker 11: did we did exchange a text? That's it? Okay, I'm sorry. Okaya,
Speaker 11: Let's you and I talk about this, honey. Okay, just
Speaker 11: you and I. Let's put everything on the table. Everything,
Speaker 11: everything on the table.
Speaker 1: So, David, did you not make an agreement with your
Speaker 1: wife after you cheated with Jennifer the first time five
Speaker 1: years ago to not touch base or be in contact?
Speaker 11: I don't ever again, I don't know what's going on,
Speaker 11: but I don't either.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm trying to find out.
Speaker 11: This is between Regina and myself exactly.
Speaker 1: Else I know exactly. So what can you tell us?
Speaker 11: Okay, honey, I shouldn't have lied. Okay, but are.
Speaker 1: You seeing her again? Have you seen her David since
Speaker 1: five years ago?
Speaker 11: No? No, no, no, we all we did? All we did?
Speaker 11: Can I just talk to my wife? All we did?
Speaker 1: Absolutely?
Speaker 9: I don't want to hear anything more. David, you lied
Speaker 9: to me, Honey?
Speaker 11: I did? I did I lie? Okay? I lied?
Speaker 1: But first of all, David, you cheated, you lied, then
Speaker 1: you lied again like nothing's changing. She's out.
Speaker 9: I'm done talking. I'm taking no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: No, Let you both go, no chance.
Speaker 3: That was just one text message.
Speaker 1: I'm just I have thought about what happens when you
Speaker 1: find out that someone cheated, when you get past it
Speaker 1: and get through it. Can you ever really get pasted
Speaker 1: it and get through it now? I don't know that
Speaker 1: you can. Certainly there you can. He didn't change. He
Speaker 1: did not change.
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Speaker 2: On air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest here assistanting in Tanya warning. So Regina was
Speaker 1: on the line, who to me? I don't know if
Speaker 1: you were listening or you made a note. Ch had
Speaker 1: a little bit of a a Southern accent. And do
Speaker 1: you know Mary Steen Virgin No, Mark, do you know
Speaker 1: Mary Stein Virgin I do?
Speaker 9: Yes?
Speaker 1: Married to Ted Danson, Yes, exactly, and I can picture
Speaker 1: her now. Was she in Nashville that show?
Speaker 2: I think so?
Speaker 6: Uh?
Speaker 3: Nat like the show Nashville Serious, Nashville's mom.
Speaker 1: No, Mary Stein Virgin. You can picture her now, she's
Speaker 1: the mom in Elf. Oh yeah, she married anyway, She
Speaker 1: sounded like Mary Steen Virgin to me.
Speaker 2: She's in stepbrothers.
Speaker 3: Oh, yes, I know who she is now okay, So
Speaker 3: was she in this series Nashville from back in the day.
Speaker 2: I don't think so. That was Connie?
Speaker 1: Uh oh, she's great. Connie Brittain did not sound like Connie.
Speaker 2: Different woman.
Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't sound like her. Okay. So anyway. In this
Speaker 1: Ryan's Roses call, they're married five years ago. He cheats
Speaker 1: with a woman named Jennifer. Then she sees a screenshot
Speaker 1: of a message coming in from Jennifer after she forgave him,
Speaker 1: and the deal was never speak to that woman again,
Speaker 1: but she still forgave him. I get concerned when you
Speaker 1: forgive the cheater because the cheater doesn't change in many cases,
Speaker 1: and in this case it seems like he didn't. He
Speaker 1: started talking to her again, messaging her again. He lied
Speaker 1: about the fact that he said he wasn't at first,
Speaker 1: but we already have the screenshot of the message coming
Speaker 1: in from Jennifer after that five hours.
Speaker 5: And let's say there was nothing going on and she
Speaker 5: just messaged him, he should have told his.
Speaker 1: Wife, well, not only that, when we knew she reached out,
Speaker 1: we asked, did she reach out? And he told us no,
Speaker 1: she didn't reach out.
Speaker 2: I haven't talked to her years.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, but I guess the question is, like, what
Speaker 1: happens when you forgive like that? Are you always thinking
Speaker 1: in the back of your mind looking over the shoulder,
Speaker 1: like this could really happen again and it did in
Speaker 1: this case. Sound like it did in this case. So Kiera,
Speaker 1: go ahead, you're on with us.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I just it's like, really, he's trying to sell
Speaker 10: to his wife that the one time he took a
Speaker 10: screenshot is the only time he got a message his
Speaker 10: side chick, Like that doesn't make any sense, like that,
Speaker 10: that's right, one pang of a coincidence.
Speaker 7: That's crazy, that's right.
Speaker 1: We see we I actually have the screenshot that she
Speaker 1: sent it to it. So I see the notification from Jennifer,
Speaker 1: the woman he cheated with five years ago, at the
Speaker 1: top of the text, from his daughter and himself, And
Speaker 1: so are we to believe that over the five years,
Speaker 1: the only time she reached out and he didn't respond
Speaker 1: was in this instance. I can't. And that's why it
Speaker 1: sounds like Regina is getting Marina their daughter and moving on,
Speaker 1: which I think, after this has happened twice, is what
Speaker 1: she needs to do.
Speaker 11: Yeah.
Speaker 10: Yeah, Can I also say, how how careless of him,
Speaker 10: not even to crop out the top like he.
Speaker 2: Just because they probably come in all the time, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Likessages from her. It's like he
Speaker 2: didn't even notice him anymore.
Speaker 10: I'm glad. I'm glad she's leaving him and she's taking
Speaker 10: her daughter, and I'm so cool to be able to
Speaker 10: show it to you. I love you, guys, Thank.
Speaker 1: You so much. Thanks, thank you for listening to so
Speaker 1: we appreciate you calling. Are you guys doing your cleanse?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we be doing your you're doing your your
Speaker 1: gut cleans where you're doing all the juices? So which
Speaker 1: one are you doing? Which one are you doing?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 1: That's great, You've got your tub of juices?
Speaker 2: And do you want some show and tell? You want
Speaker 2: to see some of it?
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I want to see it. So doesn't look.
Speaker 5: Mine doesn't look quite as good as this, like, this
Speaker 5: is this salad once while I try and do a
Speaker 5: little reset right on the diet.
Speaker 1: And because we're here, we can pack it on the
Speaker 1: lunch box. So you have a salad and a jar.
Speaker 1: That's that's what? What? What's the version of what you're doing?
Speaker 1: What's the goal?
Speaker 2: The goal is to gut cleanse. This is actually specific
Speaker 2: for exams.
Speaker 1: Where did you find it?
Speaker 2: Tanya actually recommended this company, and where did you find it?
Speaker 1: I found it TikTok no.
Speaker 2: But I did it on Instagram.
Speaker 5: Kristin Harper, you know Jared Goff's fiance m She was
Speaker 5: posting about it, and so I messaged her and was like,
Speaker 5: do you like it?
Speaker 10: How is it?
Speaker 1: What's the framing? What's the premise?
Speaker 5: The premise is like exactly what you said, gut cleanse
Speaker 5: to get rid of all gunk.
Speaker 2: But look, this is an am tonic drink.
Speaker 1: I don't want it seems complicated? Is okay? Did you
Speaker 1: make all this or do you have to?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: So it comes pre package?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean if you can do anything like this for
Speaker 1: a day, two days, it's better than not.
Speaker 2: Doing the five days.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 2: I was like, when you said you didn't even make
Speaker 2: it the three days.
Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't make it till one day.
Speaker 1: I just did lunch like that and the dinner's add normal.
Speaker 9: No, but like.
Speaker 2: This is and I think the thing is too.
Speaker 5: This is like really good. I think it helps. I
Speaker 5: think when you are disciplined about something, I think it
Speaker 5: bleeds into other areas of your life. So for me,
Speaker 5: these next five days are all about this cleanse, but
Speaker 5: also about refocusing, re energizing, putting my head down and
Speaker 5: really committing to.
Speaker 1: Did you meditate this morning?
Speaker 2: I did, but not for very long.
Speaker 1: Because your energy is different today. I mean I remember
Speaker 1: the day you came in. We were like, this is
Speaker 1: like you want coffee.
Speaker 2: This is that cleanses the opposite.
Speaker 11: For me.
Speaker 2: I gave Michael and my family the warning. I was like,
Speaker 2: Mommy's gonna be very grumpy this week because.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to be eating like my normal stuff
Speaker 3: constantly be hungry.
Speaker 1: You presold it exactly, But Tanya, I'm saying you're not
Speaker 1: having coffee.
Speaker 2: Right, No, I am having coffee. It's your life.
Speaker 1: I have coffee.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're allowed to have.
Speaker 5: Organic coffee with uh specials like you know, clean nut milks.
Speaker 5: And I make my own nut milk. Thank you very much.
Speaker 1: How did you want how to do that?
Speaker 2: Your ex girlfriend? I still use her recipe.
Speaker 1: It's funny. Hey, Ruby, did you try the grapefruit cucumber
Speaker 1: cilantro drink that doctor Darryl recommended last week?
Speaker 14: I did because I remember he said, if there's anything
Speaker 14: you're gonna do, just try this great.
Speaker 1: It was great fruit cucumber and cilantro or mint.
Speaker 14: Yes, so I did a little bit of cilantro and
Speaker 14: a little bit of mint. It's not the best, but
Speaker 14: it's not terrible, like and I like grapefruit, but it
Speaker 14: is really like strong.
Speaker 1: But that's a good that's a good description of something's
Speaker 1: supposed to be so good for you. It's not the best,
Speaker 1: but it's not. That's what I'm going there with these
Speaker 1: secret serums and yeah, these tonics. Right, it's it's bearable, right,
Speaker 1: I could, I could swallow it. I mean, that's that's good. Well,
Speaker 1: good luck. We'll see how the cranking meter goes and
Speaker 1: the energy mark. You keep track of the cranks and
Speaker 1: the energy here. I'm I'm on a regular full diet,
Speaker 1: so I'm full speed. I'm ready to bring it on. Actually,
Speaker 1: we're gonna probably put this through. She's been on a
Speaker 1: hold for a minute. Jessica and Bell Gardens. Good morning, Jessica.
Speaker 1: How are you doing good?
Speaker 9: How are you guys doing great?
Speaker 1: Well? You seem to be talking about what we've been
Speaker 1: talking about a lot here, and that is invitations to weddings.
Speaker 1: I mean, Tanya's getting Marriage's trying to figure out the
Speaker 1: guest list. Ruby is getting marriage. She's putting together her
Speaker 1: guest list. Ty's trying to where to have the wedding,
Speaker 1: and we're all just sort of waiting to get that
Speaker 1: save the date. We haven't gotten a yet. And Jessica,
Speaker 1: you were also invited to Tanya's wedding.
Speaker 9: No, well not yet, No different wedding. Your wedding, Yeah,
Speaker 9: so I was invited. It's actually my best friend in
Speaker 9: the world's wedding. She's getting married and it's super exciting, obviously,
Speaker 9: and she's getting married in Switzerland. Her and her fiancee decided.
Speaker 9: Her fiancee is from Switzerland, so they're getting married there
Speaker 9: and it's great. And she's asked me to be the
Speaker 9: maid of honor and asked my two daughters to be
Speaker 9: her flower girls, which is lovely, but she asked about,
Speaker 9: you know, us being in the wedding. Prior to knowing
Speaker 9: it was a destination wedding, my husband and I have been,
Speaker 9: you know, going over the logistics of it, and it
Speaker 9: just doesn't seem feasible to bring our daughters. First of all,
Speaker 9: it's just so expensive, and then we have to bring
Speaker 9: a parent, most likely one of our parents, to watch
Speaker 9: them all the events that are going on for the wedding,
Speaker 9: and so honestly, we're like kind of coming to the
Speaker 9: conclusion that we're not quite sure we can swing bringing them.
Speaker 9: So I did bring it up to her, and she,
Speaker 9: you know, was a little she was she was sad
Speaker 9: and like, I can't imagine having my wedding without them
Speaker 9: being there. And we kind of left it at that,
Speaker 9: and I'm like in between a rock and a hard place. Now.
Speaker 9: Of course, I'm not quite sure what to do or
Speaker 9: how to bring it up to her again, but I
Speaker 9: just don't think we can swing it.
Speaker 2: How old are your daughters? A weird reaction.
Speaker 9: I know their sticks them too.
Speaker 1: What does one expect when they invite one to go
Speaker 1: to a wedding in Switzerland? I live in Los Angeles,
Speaker 1: but I almost feel like you invite people to those
Speaker 1: kinds of places because you don't want everyone to come.
Speaker 5: Right and if you come, if you say I can't
Speaker 5: afford to bring my kids, and she should just say, yeah.
Speaker 1: We inconvenient that we're marrying in.
Speaker 3: Switzerland, exactly like she's trying to make you feel guilty
Speaker 3: for somebody reactions lost to you.
Speaker 2: Thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars.
Speaker 9: Yes, and I did not love the reaction either. And obviously,
Speaker 9: of course I'm still going and my husband and I'm
Speaker 9: going to the maid of honor and I'm so excited
Speaker 9: about that. And I really didn't think I would get
Speaker 9: I would have gotten the reaction I did from her,
Speaker 9: so like I really am like kind it.
Speaker 1: So your reality is your reality. You need to move
Speaker 1: forward with what it is and go be the friend
Speaker 1: that you're going to be, and you know, fill that
Speaker 1: role and don't worry about it anymore.
Speaker 5: Maybe you can have your daughters give sent her like
Speaker 5: a video message on the day of her wedding.
Speaker 1: She doesn't understand, maybe she's just stressed that all this
Speaker 1: is happening, but I think she'll understand.
Speaker 11: Well.
Speaker 3: I think she had this vision in her head of
Speaker 3: having your daughters be the flower girls. And now she's
Speaker 3: like spiraling, like, wait, I'm not going to have flower girls.
Speaker 1: With you.
Speaker 12: I'm with you.
Speaker 2: She's making it very inconvenient for you to do the
Speaker 2: right thing here.
Speaker 1: All right, good luck than you. The weddings they don't
Speaker 1: come without pressure and stress from all points and parties.
Speaker 1: Thank you very much. So, Tanya, if you're gonna be
Speaker 1: you know, booking burn Switzerland, Lucern, ceremony on a bridge
Speaker 1: or something, let us know sooner than.
Speaker 2: The whole thing, like when you do stuff like that.
Speaker 2: And edge of the cliff of a mountain of.
Speaker 5: Mine is getting married in Amsterdam and she had the
Speaker 5: same thing. She's like, we invited people, but we understand
Speaker 5: that like the majority of people can't.
Speaker 1: Mean when you do something like that, you know a
Speaker 1: lot of people can't do it. You almost you probably
Speaker 1: over invite because you know some people can't come. Right,
Speaker 1: So all right, do you ever suspect your breath is bad?
Speaker 1: I brush my tongue a lot, my teeth a lot,
Speaker 1: probably over brush my teeth because I do. I don't
Speaker 1: want that to be me right, Yeah, So tomorrow going
Speaker 1: to tell you a thirty second natural cure for bad breath,
Speaker 1: first thing in the morning.
Speaker 11: Good.
Speaker 13: I like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good one. We'll talk to you tomorrow.
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