WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Screenshot 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:03.280 From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:07.680 Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:12.879 So a lot of people are talking about being a 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:15.760 victim of the friendship recession. What is it? 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:20.520 Sisn'ty America is experiencing this right now, and it's basically 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:25.759 the average thirty year old has lost around five friends 0:00:26.079 --> 0:00:27.080 since the pandemic. 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:30.720 Oh interesting, how we. 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:31.520 Lose the five friends? 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:33.760 You could you could kind of say, oh, because we 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:37.800 were so isolated, we didn't go out as much anymore, 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:39.960 and then once we did, we got really busy with 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:42.440 work and now we're taking two jobs on because we 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:44.720 have to make more money or like whatever it is, right, 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:47.680 excuses excuses for just not having the time to reach 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:50.320 out to these said friends. So the ones that really 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:53.640 didn't like make an impact in your life, you've just 0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:56.160 cut out because you don't have the time. 0:00:57.960 --> 0:01:01.560 I don't think I did that, but I have, like 0:01:01.720 --> 0:01:07.440 over the years, slowly gotten it down to just a 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:10.120 handful that are the ill we call the core group. 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:14.160 There's like Core one, Core two, and then there's people 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:15.119 that you've been friends with. 0:01:15.080 --> 0:01:17.880 Over the years, like the A the A friends friends. 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:19.479 Well, it's like if you have to get a table 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:21.880 for six. There's Core one, if you can get twelve, 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:24.479 Core two right. If it's a birthday party, maybe Core 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:28.119 three right, But they're all in course. You can see 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:29.880 the diagram in my room if you'd like to see. 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:31.039 Yeah, i'd love to see that. 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:33.040 It is very of sorts. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:35.559 When I was reading this article, it said that males 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:38.200 are more prone to being in a friend recession than females. 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:40.520 What's your take on that? 0:01:40.760 --> 0:01:42.679 Well, I don't know that I need a lot of friends. 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.280 I need friends you do. 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:49.160 That's another thing that it said, like having friends, like 0:01:49.280 --> 0:01:51.360 it's good for the soul, like we all know, like 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:53.560 the blue zone, Like you need to have community. You 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:56.800 can't just be like alone all the time. Alone time 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:57.440 is great, but. 0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:59.560 Timely do you bring this up? And it just struck me. 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:05.120 I'm hosting my high school football buddies to dinner. 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:07.840 That's cute. I love that I still get together with 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:08.840 my high school girlfriends. 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:13.640 They're all rolling in and they're in for two days. 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:16.040 That's awesome. What time's of dinner? Reservation? 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:16.840 Six thirty? 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:18.000 Nice? Nice? 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:20.360 It's so funny. I was like, guys, what's your vibe? 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:23.720 They're like, we can't hang like we used to like great, 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:25.400 six stirty is good for me. So we're get together. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:28.880 Last words, anytime someone says like, oh I really wanted. 0:02:28.680 --> 0:02:31.720 To be like a chill night, never the case. 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:34.880 I mean, we've got a I didn't know what they do, 0:02:34.960 --> 0:02:39.520 honestly I do, but it's like they're in like management 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:42.600 of apartments one one's FBI one. 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:47.320 When's that way? You're always so intrigued by Cia. 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:48.960 I'm going to try and crack him. 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:49.960 Crack him. 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:54.200 I'm going to go for it tomorrow night. It's like, awesome, 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:59.119 chow your badge. Yeah, I can't do it once ago 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.280 undercover previously. 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:05.320 Yeah, that's fe'd send pics, yeah, FaceTime. 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:09.280 Us, Yes, that's what it'll be top of mind. So yeah, 0:03:09.320 --> 0:03:11.880 I do recall systanty judge not judge such a harsh word, 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:15.000 but yeah, judging about this. When Tanya created. 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:16.200 It was more out of concern, you know. 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:17.480 I was like, Oh, it's just need to take up 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:19.799 so much time, Like you really want to like handle 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:22.360 two instagrams. 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:25.920 Like you got a new puppy, you rescued a dalmatian 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:27.520 and now you've created a page for your puppy. 0:03:27.600 --> 0:03:28.280 Huh. 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:30.160 I not only did we create a page for him. 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:34.359 It was like part of like the name naming him process. 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:35.880 I was like, if we name him this, can we 0:03:35.960 --> 0:03:39.480 have a cool Instagram handle? Like literally thought about it 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:40.200 from the beginning. 0:03:40.240 --> 0:03:42.280 So what made you go from saying not a good 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:44.920 idea and laborious to Tanya to actually doing it. 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:46.920 I don't know what it was about. 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:50.600 I think maybe just the uniqueness of having a Dalmatian 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:54.000 and the amount of love. 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:55.760 That it's going to give people by me posting pictures 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:56.600 and videos of him. 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:59.800 I will say that the photos that you have sent me, Tanya, 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:03.240 of your Sonny, and the photos you've shown us of 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:06.920 the Dalmatian, like you will go up a notch of 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:08.920 having a better day when you see the photos, yeahes 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:10.080 like they're cute. 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:12.520 And I'll say the reason why I started it was 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:15.160 because I was taking so many photos and videos of 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:18.160 Sonny and I felt like my entire page was becoming 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:20.160 just my dog. And I was like, I'm just gonna 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:24.880 put everything on her Instagram and not like keep mine mine. 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:26.680 And it was the best decision ever because now I 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:30.120 have this like chronological she's grown up on this page. 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:31.280 It's like so cute, you know what? 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:33.880 I mean because I have all this documented from when 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:35.039 she was a puppy until now. 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:37.240 I did this back in the day with Dakota on 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:40.040 Facebook because there was no Instagram back then, and I 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.360 just didn't keep up with it, you know, right, So 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:44.560 I have like puppy pictures of her. But then who 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:47.279 knows how long it will last with uh Diego, but 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:50.120 it's Diego dot, the Dalmatian. 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:51.240 On Diego Dot. 0:04:51.480 --> 0:04:54.640 Yeah, like Diego like, and then the period and then the. 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:56.600 Dolmation Boneta comes up. 0:04:57.400 --> 0:04:59.279 Yeah, I get past all those. They don't have enough 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:01.720 follower not posting, one hasn't posted. 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:05.120 Okay, got it here? Oh you got three blocks of 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:05.680 photos up? 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:05.960 Yeah. 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:09.800 I posted a video not too long ago, Diego's first bath. Yeah, 0:05:09.800 --> 0:05:10.680 it's so cute. 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:16.920 So this is really the dalmination is adorable? Are they calm? 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.000 So a lot of energy and right now is like 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:23.960 crucial time for training and it's all about him trusting 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:26.760 us and building that trust with this dog. 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:30.280 And how was the bath? That's always a difficult one. 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:32.359 He was very calm in the bath. I think he 0:05:32.560 --> 0:05:34.480 liked it a lot. I have to give him another 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:34.919 one tonight. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:38.160 Nice tiles as we celebrate Tile Day around here. 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:41.839 Thank you came with the house, you know every model later. 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:43.320 Yeah, very nice. 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:47.400 But the kids love it, and As is really kind 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:50.039 of stepping up into like a helper mode. You know, 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:52.120 they'll be the twins will be six this May, and 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:54.360 she wants to do everything. She wants to help feed him. 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:55.080 She wants to help. 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:58.120 This is the best decision you've ever made. 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:01.400 The dog Instagram find it a lot of work, Sonny. 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:05.920 You got at Sunnygirl dot v cavapoo cava poo. 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:09.720 So Sunnygirl dot the kava poo it is. It just 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:12.080 brings me joy. It just makes me happy. And I 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:15.680 just upload everything, every photo I take of her there. 0:06:16.360 --> 0:06:18.320 So I was reading that I think seventy percent of 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:21.520 us have pets, and we now, I think more so 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:24.640 than ever, we who have pets treat our pets more 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:27.360 like humans than ever before. We want natural stuff for them. 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:29.279 We want to live longer. We don't want them to 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:30.880 go away. We want to engineer their bodies and their 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:33.400 food so that they can, you know, have the best 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:34.320 life and be healthy. 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:37.440 Yeah, because you're my algorithm. I don't know if this 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:39.800 is free. I get these videos all the time in 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:44.200 my algorithm of parents playing with their puppies, and it says, how, 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:46.200 you know, like they're not here for a very long time, 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:47.400 so make their life. 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:48.159 The best life ever. 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:51.000 And I always think about that anytime we're doing anything 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:52.920 with her. I'm like, I have to make this the 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:54.360 best life she's ever had. 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:57.040 I know, I can't think about the fact that they 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:00.720 live less than we do, because that part, like that part, 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:01.680 I've never been through that way. 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:03.320 When I sit there and I start doing the math 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:04.839 and I'm like, how I don't want kids to be 0:07:05.040 --> 0:07:07.040 I was like, oh my gosh, that's it's yeah, you 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:09.120 don't want to think about it, but you do. 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:11.760 We've got Georgia and Olio. Now a du dog. This 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:13.000 is a dude dog. I've never had a do dog, 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:13.760 only girl dogs. 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:16.760 Oh yeah, it seems like he's a very energetic. 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:20.640 He's gonna knock my jaw like. He's so strong. He's 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:23.000 got big, broad, strong shoulders and he comes at you 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:23.520 full speed. 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:24.200 Yeah yeah, yeah. 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:25.840 When you play with a toy, you can just like 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:27.600 and you're trying to like tug it out. If you 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:29.840 do the trick where you massage like underneath their mouth, 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:31.520 they'll kind of release easier. 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:32.160 The toy. 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:37.040 He does that to me, it gives you a facial Oh, 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:39.840 I relaxed at night. Let me grab Sam and send 0:07:39.920 --> 0:07:45.040 Gabriel before anything else. Sam, good morning, morning Ryan. How 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:47.560 can we help you? It sounds not good. 0:07:48.520 --> 0:07:50.800 Yeah, I just I don't really know what to do 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:54.560 about this situation. I'm kind of freaked out about the 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:58.560 whole thing. I don't know, but my fewther future father 0:07:58.600 --> 0:08:02.440 in law meant by it. But I recently asked my 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:06.720 girlfriend's parents if it was okay with them, if I know, 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:10.920 proposed and eventually got married. But when I did, my 0:08:11.120 --> 0:08:13.880 future father in law kind of looked at me and said, well, 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:15.680 I don't know why you'd want to do that, but 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:16.760 good luck. 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:19.680 Well that's you know, discouraging. 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:23.640 It was just kind of it was just a little jar. 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:34.080 It seemed it seemed pretty serious. I don't know, marriage, 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:35.520 no comment. 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:38.160 Because maybe he's referring to like I made this mistake. 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:40.680 However, it is harsh. 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:43.760 It's harsh, it's not little like. I'm discouraged by it, 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:46.280 and it makes me think, well, they don't like me. 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:52.160 Yeah, I mean we've we've been dating for a few years, 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:57.480 so I thought we got along or maybe yeah, maybe He. 0:08:57.440 --> 0:08:59.520 Just wants to make sure that you're really serious about 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:01.280 it and going to go the distance. 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:07.120 Hopefully that's it. I mean, I am pretty serious. I 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:10.160 love her a lot, but just the way he said it, like. 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:11.959 Yeah, I don't love it. Have you talked to your 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:13.560 girlfriend about it? 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:15.920 Yeah, we talked about it. 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:16.920 And what did she say? 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:17.200 You know? 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:22.480 She she's just as confused and lost as I am was. 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:24.640 She was weirded out when I told her about it. 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:28.400 I think she should just have a conversation with him separately. 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:29.920 Then maybe she can get to the bottom of it 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:31.000 if there's something deeper. 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:33.840 But I also feel like you may never win them over. 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:35.960 Oh I don't think that. 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:36.199 Well. 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:38.360 I mean, this guy sounds like he's got an issue. 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:40.559 I don't think it's about him though. I don't think 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:41.000 so either. 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:43.040 Well, maybe it's because he's not happy in his own 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:46.080 I don't know, but Sam, I guess well, he could. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.320 Have just panicked too. Like Dad, just sometimes don't know 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:50.120 what to say. Like when Michael asked for my dad's 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:52.720 hand in marriage. My dad was like great and everything, 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:54.600 but then he's like, you know, ask. 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:55.960 For your dad's hand in, man, I'm sorry from my 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.520 hand in that's a twist. 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:00.679 But he basically told Michael. 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:04.520 You know, Susan is really tough, almost like trying to 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:05.520 scare Michael off. 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:06.760 He still came back. 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:08.760 Yeah. 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:11.439 Uh, you know, maybe he just didn't really know how 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:12.440 to put his words together. 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:16.080 I think you're doing the elegant, very gentleman thing, which 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:18.360 is going this path, and if you hit a dead end, 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:19.760 you still love her, then you do you need to 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:20.680 do for your heart? Buddy? 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.920 I think you're right. Yeah, Oh good luck man. 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:28.760 All right, you can might in there take care of that, 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:33.599 thank you, thank you, But i'd be I mean, I 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:35.839 kind of would know going in right what the parents 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:38.040 might feel or think and just go for it. But 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:41.000 it would also be really disheartening discouraging. 0:10:42.400 --> 0:10:44.160 I mean, at least he didn't say no, yeah, and 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:46.839 it sounds like he's projecting like he's like not happily married, 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:47.280 and he's like. 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:49.719 And then I turn it and say, well listen, sir, 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:53.120 I mean do you want to talk? Yeah, you want 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:54.599 to talk about what's going on here with you and 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:58.760 the missus, Because if you're this cynical about our love 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:01.000 and ours his young love open for a big future. 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:03.920 If you're about it let's talk about what you're projecting here, 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:05.439 Sit down here? What can I buy? 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:09.199 You are with Ryan Seacrest. 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:13.120 This is something that you may be guilty of doing. 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:14.640 And they say, if you do this as a couple, 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:18.240 it's tragic. Don't do this. It's going to be super 0:11:18.240 --> 0:11:20.839 bad for your relationship over time. And that is I 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:22.800 don't know if you do it or not, Sisanny Tanya, 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.880 but that is parallel scrolling. You both lay in bed 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:27.400 and you scroll at the same time. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:32.360 Yeah, not every single night, but it's bad. Yeah, I 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:33.880 can see why it could be. It would be bad 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:34.360 if that's. 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:37.000 Like your root. I think it's best to not scroll 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:40.320 right before you go to bed. So they say, if 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:45.720 you're both doing it, it's really bad. Alternative Why alternative 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:47.920 is don't scroll? What do you mean you put your 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:49.760 phone down or talk to each other or talk to 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:51.520 each other or maybe you try and kiss? 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:52.600 Oh make out? 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:58.360 Yeah, hello, says hand out. Who says that please stop 0:11:58.360 --> 0:11:59.280 a cringe? 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:01.559 That would be on the board. That would be one 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:02.559 of the things on the board. 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:06.079 Hanky pinky would at least get your least like ten points, 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:10.760 Bry not the number one answer you Maria Michaela. 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:11.440 Just quit working here. 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:18.000 I've never hanky pinky. It's worse than all the way. 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:21.120 Okay, okay, hey, I'm gonna keep us moving with today's quote. 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:25.160 Today's quote is work harder on yourself than you do 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:31.360 on your job. I would recommendze everybody but y'all, everybody 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:33.720 but you guys. That applies. We're in the midst of 0:12:33.840 --> 0:12:36.439 Christmas giving. This is number four of the list of 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:41.319 Christmas givings that we're gonna do. So Sarah Swenson from Cyprus. 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:47.400 She's nominating her fiance, and her fiance's name is Lyle 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:51.120 Tyler of Whittier and they're getting married, So let me 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:56.200 grab Sarah. Sarah, good morning, how are you, Hi? Good morning, 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:58.839 So excited to meet you and thank you for reaching 0:12:58.840 --> 0:13:04.600 out about your fiance. Congratulations, Thank you so Lyle. I mean, 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.240 tell me what makes you melt about him? 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:09.040 Oh my gosh. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:13.360 He's such a kind soul, like he deserves so many 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:16.920 good things, and it's just like, yeah, he's just such 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:17.800 an amazing person. 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:20.559 He's one of those people or like he will give. 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:23.200 You the coat off his back, like if you ask 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:25.440 for it, type of thing we. 0:13:25.480 --> 0:13:27.520 Probably wouldn't fit making. I'm small. 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:31.040 That your arms are getting bigger. 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:35.760 Thank you so much. This is about Lyle. So I 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:38.440 want to call Lyle right now and read the email 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:41.640 you sent me about him. So just dial him up. 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:45.200 When's your wedding March? 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:50.120 Oh yeah, popular month, Popular wedding month. 0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:02.600 Mm. They're like the brunch music. It's very brunch piano music. 0:14:03.800 --> 0:14:04.760 Hi is Lyle there? 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:07.240 Yeah, this is Lyle Lyle. 0:14:07.240 --> 0:14:09.560 It's Ryan Seacrest calling from Kiss FM. How are you. 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:11.600 I'm doing all right, sir? 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:13.600 How about your so doing well? We just have a 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:15.920 list of people that we think might be listening and 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:18.880 are calling them individually to wish them a happy holiday 0:14:18.880 --> 0:14:19.560 and merry Christmas. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:21.720 Yeah, oh thank you. 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:22.640 So. 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:25.040 I hope you have a great one and thank you 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:26.320 very much for listening. If you do. 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:27.400 Happy New Year too. 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:29.480 Oh, thank you very much. 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:29.840 Ryan. 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:32.280 Well you have a great day. 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:32.760 All right. 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:37.640 Well I did call you for some other stuff too. 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:40.200 I've got your fiance on the line, Sarah. 0:14:41.000 --> 0:14:42.280 Yeah, I kind of figured. 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:47.680 So she sent me an email and let me read 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.960 it to you. She says. Lyle is such an amazing person, 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.760 but his car needs to be fixed. He needs new 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:54.200 break sensors and more. 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:58.040 True right, yeah, very true. 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:01.040 He works with adults with special needs and uses his 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:03.120 car daily to pick them up and drive them around 0:15:03.120 --> 0:15:05.640 for their program. That is so generous. 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:08.640 Yeah, that is what I do well. 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:12.560 That is amazing. She says, you love this car, but 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:14.320 it won't last long if it isn't fixed. 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:16.400 That is correct. 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:19.360 He literally would not be able to do his job 0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:22.120 without this car. His clients depend on it. He works 0:15:22.200 --> 0:15:25.600 so hard to help these guys integrate into the community. 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:28.960 Would you please help him out this Christmas? It would 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:32.880 be the perfect gift. So we got to think in 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:38.360 mile and put together a little something for you. How 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:42.920 long you have been doing that job? Ten years? 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:43.480 Last week? 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:51.120 What's the most gratifying part of it? 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:57.880 Just seeing the guys that I work with, just being 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:02.000 fully accepted into the community where when we go to places, 0:16:02.480 --> 0:16:05.560 everyone knows their name, doesn't treat them any differently than 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:09.320 any other person that would walk into into a store 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:12.040 or Starbucks or anything like that. It's just really great 0:16:12.040 --> 0:16:16.760 to see and just them having a great time being 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:21.480 out in the community with their friends and just having yeah, 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:24.040 just having a great day when. 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:27.000 You're such a major part of them having a great day. First, 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:30.800 she's your your wife, almost your fiance said that there's 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:34.320 one thing that you want for Christmas. That's a PlayStation five. 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:41.960 That would be great. 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:46.880 So it's already gift wrapped and it's on the ways. 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:47.800 We got one of those for you. 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:51.360 Oh my gosh, thank you so much. 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:54.360 And the other thing I was thinking, it's like, I'm 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:55.960 not married. I don't know what it's going to be. 0:16:56.000 --> 0:16:56.080 Like. 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:58.760 I'm sure it's going to be bliss. It's wonderful, but 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:03.160 imagine now, imagine now a weekend with your then wife, 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:06.639 a get away at the terror Nea Resort, which is 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:09.080 so beautiful. I've been down there to see it. 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:13.240 Oh, that would be fantastic. 0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:15.199 Yeah, we're gonna get you out for so you got 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:17.120 to be romantic when you get married. So we're gonna 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:19.880 send you for two nights. I'll give you some money 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:22.000 to spend on dinners and spas and all that stuff 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:22.720 while you're there too. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:23.919 So nice. 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:26.480 It's like this major getaway doesn't even feel like you're 0:17:26.480 --> 0:17:30.080 in La or Oc, Like, yeah, if you're in another 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:30.560 part of. 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:33.119 The world, don't just get it there and watch, you 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:38.800 know Mario Lopez on the Movie Channel have some romance. Okay, Yeah, you. 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:42.320 Can hike around the property. It's amazing, have yoga every morning. 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:45.160 But back to the real issue. The car. The car, 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:47.320 She says, you love the car, but it means the repairs. 0:17:47.920 --> 0:17:49.760 You can't do a job without it. So I've got 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:52.760 two thousand dollars to cover the repairs coming right away. 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:57.440 Oh, it's fantastic. Thank you. 0:17:57.440 --> 0:18:14.320 You're very welcome, my friend. You okay, buddy, Yeah, I'm just. 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:17.280 I'm really excited about this. 0:18:17.359 --> 0:18:18.960 I'm really happy. 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:20.080 Is this is. 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:25.000 This is this really special. Thank you so much. 0:18:26.160 --> 0:18:29.920 It is our pleasure to do. It's wonderful to see 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:32.800 the two of you found each other, you found your person, 0:18:33.520 --> 0:18:36.000 and I admire you and have so much respect for 0:18:36.080 --> 0:18:39.760 the role you play in these other people's lives, the 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:43.879 special needs people that need you taking them around the 0:18:43.880 --> 0:18:46.800 community so they feel, as you said, accept it, so 0:18:46.840 --> 0:18:53.000 they're treated like everybody else. Yeah, oh, take the good work, 0:18:54.160 --> 0:18:57.600