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Speaker 1: like Noah be cutting, get your Massona, get.

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Speaker 2: Your down from the bucket ball Joe Joe be bad

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Speaker 2: as hell. Moses. I never knew nobody named Moses. You know,

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Speaker 2: I do not know what we call them? Little more?

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Speaker 2: You know little more, I don't you know little more.

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Speaker 3: Now, what I do think is interesting that like houd

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Speaker 3: we having proper names?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Now that's funny, Like that's Clifford.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what's Nelly named Cornell? Cornelie is nearly that's not

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Speaker 2: that's not proper. That's old. That is an old name.

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Speaker 2: Bartholomew legs.

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Speaker 3: Nobody's name is Bartholomew except for your dog to suit

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Speaker 3: suit nobody. I've never in my life met nobody.

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Speaker 2: Follow you is a common name in England. In England,

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Speaker 2: how do you know? How many English people? Do you know?

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Speaker 2: You don't even know?

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Speaker 1: You're in London, dwy right, and you mean a whole

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Speaker 2: When I went, what's up, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Is your girl xp and it's Sugarl dre in the

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Speaker 1: poor mine.

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Speaker 2: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: We ain't got no gifts today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 2: May be loving when we sing that too. They do.

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Speaker 3: They love a solo episode. They do like solo episodes though,

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Speaker 3: because I feel like, you know, we just to really

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Speaker 3: just chill. We're getting very off topic.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be really staying on track with the tope

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Speaker 1: and no pressure. There's no pressure because you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I feel like, don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 1: Like poor Minds is a ball. We have a good time,

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Speaker 1: but now it's like a lot of people that are

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Speaker 1: like sometimes I be trying to ease them in, especially

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Speaker 1: when it's a guests on the show, and I don't

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Speaker 2: But you donna be hearing I don't care, m M.

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Speaker 2: I don't you don't think that? Yeah, no, you still

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Speaker 2: be being dark, damn and offensive. Sh Yeah.

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Speaker 3: At this point, I feel like when people come on

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Speaker 3: the show, they should do their research though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I look, if you do y'all research, then you're gonna

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Speaker 3: know what to expect from you and for me, like

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Speaker 3: they gonna know, we're gonna clown, We're gonna have a

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Speaker 2: Don't carry all serios. Cashed All was surprised, you think,

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Speaker 2: I don't think she was. That she was what's wrong?

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Speaker 2: She kept asking me what was wrong with me? She said,

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Speaker 1: She did at but I feel like everybody asked you that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let me ask you a question. Speaking of my girl,

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Speaker 1: cash Doll. I love me some cash Doll down. But

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Speaker 1: you know, there has been a discourse going on. Because

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Speaker 1: I don't know if this is true or not, because

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Speaker 2: Wears weave or makeup.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's why that she's been going on these interviews,

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Speaker 1: I don't know where this discourse came from. But how

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Speaker 3: Cause I think sometimes the outrage be coming front of

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Speaker 3: So I personally be feeling that way, like cause I

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Speaker 3: We're doing anything? They want me to like be cute

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Speaker 3: No you didn't shut up, but no, like they want

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Speaker 3: Nothing wrong with your man hyping up your natural beauty.

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Speaker 3: that's different, and that's different.

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Speaker 2: She be fresh face, she always been like that even

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Speaker 3: Exactly, beautiful, healthy hair, right, And I think like prior

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Speaker 2: She seemed happy. Do you remember when you used to

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Speaker 2: I loved my hobby. Can we gonna well episode I

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Speaker 3: I used to It was one point in time where

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Speaker 2: The Eiffel Tower ain't got shipped on you because that

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Speaker 1: Sky hagh it was it was you have a lot

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Speaker 1: of hair, A lot of hair. Yeah, well, I wouldn't know, man,

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Speaker 3: No, but you be always trying to play like you

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Speaker 2: I had the uh what are they called the twists?

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Speaker 2: And I'm beautiful. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So it's like, I don't even know why you be

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Speaker 1: I don't no, I don't be saying that. I always

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Speaker 2: I'm saying all that because I have very healthy hair.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna see that cash doll, baby, because you ain't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're finna get a nice good bob. Bitch, You're

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Speaker 2: Go where to the club. I've been in the club lately.

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Speaker 3: We've been outside of light, which is very unlike us.

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Speaker 2: Oh my we are.

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Speaker 1: We've been outside. When I tell y'all. I cut up

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Speaker 2: I have been in these streets and I'm not talking

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Speaker 2: about so when I went to Houston, I left the house.

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Speaker 1: I left my sister's house at noon. I got back

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Speaker 1: and I'm not lying at five in the morning. The

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Speaker 1: Now Auntie is back outside.

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Speaker 2: You know. But I've been having a good time outside

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Speaker 2: being fun. The streets is calling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the streets are calling, and I'm picking up the answering.

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Speaker 2: It's been a good time.

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Speaker 1: I know I've been cutting up, but you know, like

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Speaker 3: It is, you gonna rate. You're gonna wake up one day.

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Speaker 3: When you relinquish that need but control, you just start

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Speaker 2: When you relinquish that need for control, What does that.

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Speaker 1: Mean when you let go all the needs to want

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Speaker 2: Like that word I'm not have to add that to

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Speaker 1: These people ain't oh though, right, but it's gotta come

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Speaker 2: I don't trust you, don't trust all. No, that's all.

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Speaker 2: I came up with this topic because I was telling

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Speaker 2: Something ain't right? Why are you twenty three? Your name

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Speaker 2: is Illinois? What what? Now?

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Speaker 1: Ain't Harriet Harriet in now? I'm not gonna I'm not

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Speaker 1: Ruby is an old bitch name Ruby, But that's why

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Speaker 2: Rolls on me. No shade to Ruby though.

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Speaker 3: But Ruby is also African and in the African but

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Speaker 2: Ruby is a old name.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're talking about in our community. That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: She's in our community.

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Speaker 3: She lives in America, she do, but she isn't she

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Speaker 2: Her mom is from Ethiopia.

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Speaker 1: Right, And I'm not gonna get into all that because

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I'm about to say, you need the

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Speaker 1: Because her name is Ruby. That's all we talk about

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Speaker 3: When when it comes to certain yes, when it comes

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Speaker 3: When it comes to I'm talking about being black in America,

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Speaker 2: And you teen? Ruby used to be ten, Ruby was

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Speaker 2: Make it a little. We don't ever call her ruby.

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Speaker 2: We don't call we call her ruby Rose. Light it up.

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Speaker 2: It makes it more digestible. Did you see?

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Speaker 1: Because if you see Ruby Rose popping at pussy sounds okay,

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Speaker 2: Who who is Rose? Ruby popping pussy? How old? How

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Speaker 1: But if you say ruby Rose was popping at pussy,

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Speaker 3: Tris Beatrice, Beatrice? Beatrice is crazy. I mean, it's just

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Speaker 2: You think Evelyn is an old name? Who do you know?

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Speaker 2: Our age name? Eve lost? Our age? Oh no, that

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Speaker 3: It wasn't. I'm like the same almost the same age

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Speaker 1: I don't think Evelyn is an old name. I do,

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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Evelyn doesn't give old.

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Speaker 3: When everybody named Evelyn that I know is like fifty.

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Speaker 1: Tread lightly, I don't know. I'm not you brought that, like,

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Speaker 1: how did not bring her up? And I'm not about to.

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Speaker 3: Entertain your foolish needs. I said the people, I know.

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Speaker 2: You're right, You're right, you're right.

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Speaker 1: What's another one? What's another one? Let me see we

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Speaker 2: On the list.

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Speaker 3: What a police because our old name? M m Martha, Martha,

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Speaker 3: my mam gonna be calling Martin Luther, Kingeniy.

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Speaker 3: And that's another sign of being old. Yeah, they love

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to see you as Stevidy because you

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Speaker 2: And let me say this, because y'all be in the

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Speaker 2: I'm really like that in real life. It's like, I

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Speaker 1: So bad with names. I don't know if it's just

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Speaker 1: like I'm from Orange, I can't read that.

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Speaker 2: Well, y'all names should have been Bernadee.

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Speaker 1: Bernard, I like Bernadette. That means sounds like you know

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Speaker 1: If you have to have an old name for real,

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Speaker 1: I like that you know what my name was supposed

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Speaker 2: I'm not lying this time. You love some lies, I

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Speaker 2: do love it. I'm not lying. So when my mom

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Speaker 1: It was a sad day for them. And my dad

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Speaker 1: But my mom fought him. She was like, we're not

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Speaker 1: name me Georgetta because his name was George.

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Speaker 2: If you Georgeorgeeta, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I feel like if my name was that, just cause

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Speaker 2: But I think Georgetta actually fits me.

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Speaker 3: But your nickname still would have been lex P because

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Speaker 3: my last name, last.

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Speaker 1: Name, Yeah, it still would have been. But I think

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Speaker 1: Georgetta is more fitting. I give Georgietta when I sing,

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Speaker 1: I give Georgietta.

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Speaker 2: That's like a Georgia. Indeed, that's said it like I get.

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Speaker 1: That was very much a beat Mama yr arm, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I give Georgiata.

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Speaker 2: See. But then it's certain names that's on here. I

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Speaker 2: That's not an old Hester with the H. Yes. Now

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Speaker 2: I've heard of Esther, but Hester, I ain't never heard

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Speaker 2: of that one ursela ursula. That don't give me that.

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Speaker 2: Just that gives me little mermaid Bobs. Ingrid. Ingrid is

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Speaker 2: I don't know no play people named Ingrid. Right. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Now, the most famous baddie that we know, obviously Bernice Bernice,

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Speaker 1: like you was in diapers and peoples like.

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Speaker 2: Come here, old Bernice's give bernee har Bottle. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, obviously she's older, you know what I'm saying.

439
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 1: But she's a baddie. No, but that don't count.

440
00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:57,880
Speaker 2: She's gorgeous.

441
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 1: That cancels out when y'all ask that fat. It don't

442
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:04,200
Speaker 1: even matter what your name is. Your name could be earl, bitch.

443
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 1: We don't give a damn earl.

444
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 2: We don't give a damn. I'm here to tell you

445
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 2: right now, we don't care. Now, Barbara, that's my mama name. Yeah,

446
00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,640
Speaker 2: but Bara is old. Every barber I know is older,

447
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:20,280
Speaker 2: Barbara streisand Barbara Walters r RP, damn Barbara.

448
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, Barbara's be old. Then I got my aunt. Her

449
00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 1: name Mildred, Mildred. Oh, Mildred, No offense on Mildred.

450
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,360
Speaker 2: That's ancient. I ain't heard of Mildred.

451
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:38,159
Speaker 3: And she's almost eighty. Shit, I mean, but that's what

452
00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,439
Speaker 3: I'm saying. Their names is appropriate for.

453
00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:43,800
Speaker 2: The times that they was born. I went to high school.

454
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 2: We was born by the river. Bitch shaken. That goddamn Mildred. Shit.

455
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 2: I went to high school with a girl named Barbara,

456
00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,360
Speaker 2: and I used to be like the same name as

457
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Speaker 2: my mama.

458
00:21:57,960 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy. Let me see what what else they

459
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Speaker 1: got on the list? Mabel, that's Medella's real name.

460
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 2: It is it is Mabel. Florence. Florence is an older

461
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 2: I had an named Florence. You did well, that's name. No,

462
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 2: I'm surprised. I thought Florence was more.

463
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:20,280
Speaker 1: Of a.

464
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 2: No. But wasn't that real name? The runner of the track?

465
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Speaker 2: Oh now, too little, she's passed. She died.

466
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god, bro, this is why I hate this show.

467
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,760
Speaker 2: This is a point this show is And it don't matter.

468
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 2: What I'm saying is because what okay, we're not I

469
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 2: know that she passed away. Sorry, Florence, Yes, it was okay,

470
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 2: it was flow. Joe, Yes, Joe's real name. But if

471
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 2: she was alive, she would be old, Yes she would

472
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,160
Speaker 2: she would be old. Yes, she would be a little older.

473
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 3: But yes, so my granddaddy. His sister name was Florence.

474
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 3: He had but he had like a living siblings. You

475
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 3: know what, people don't have a lot of kids.

476
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:10,280
Speaker 2: Priscilla, that's her old name. I went to high school

477
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 2: with Priscilla. You know what I think.

478
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 1: I've talked about this on the show before, and I

479
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: know this girl tired of me talking about her. I

480
00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 1: went to high school with a girl named Lashatra. She

481
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: gonna comment, No, she not.

482
00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 2: You don't know. I can't wait meet me in the comment.

483
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 2: I just thought it was so crazy because Lashatra, and

484
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:28,359
Speaker 2: that's all.

485
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 1: It was a white girl. It was a white girl

486
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: name Lashatra. Don't that sound like a you know, ethnic?

487
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 2: But I love a homemade name. I love a homemade name.

488
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 2: I like a home.

489
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: Can I tell you something so embarrassing. This is so embarrassed.

490
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Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm telling the story right now. When

491
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,440
Speaker 1: I was younger, you know, like, when you were younger,

492
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: did you like make up names that you were gonna

493
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,959
Speaker 1: name your kids when you got older? Like what did

494
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: you want to name your kid?

495
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:57,400
Speaker 2: Girl? I can't even remember. I can, and it's so embarrassing.

496
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 2: I made it up. I would see I didn't use

497
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 2: the main them up. I just would like write down

498
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 2: names that I like.

499
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 1: No, I made up a name because it was my

500
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 1: three favorite singers and I meshed their names together.

501
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 2: And it's so ugly. I can't let me take another

502
00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 2: sip of the yet and don't talk back. Why would

503
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 2: you bring it up and not tell us? So, Okay,

504
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say the name, but I want you to

505
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 2: guess the singer's names.

506
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: Okay, So y'all, please don't laugh. Everybody's silence in the background.

507
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 1: The baby's name was gonna be Sean sah.

508
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 2: Shahn c uh huh, Beyonce Rihanna. It was Lea. Rihanna

509
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 2: wasn't out yet, and I just saw right she wasn't.

510
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, she wasn't because she's Rihanna's ourry age, Well my age,

511
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 1: Rihanna's my age.

512
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 2: I thought that was the.

513
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: Most I was like, yeah, my baby's name's gonna be

514
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: Shans Stale and I thought, I.

515
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 3: Ate, that's just that kind of sound like shudn't see you.

516
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 2: That, do it not? It was just I.

517
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: Know, but I'm saying the reasoning behind it. Why is

518
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 1: your name me and your baby after Shan and Beyonce.

519
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:15,120
Speaker 2: I mean literally, it's a baby name Beyonce. Now, nobody

520
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:20,880
Speaker 2: was your baby Beyonce? Is nuts. They got a reputation,

521
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 2: Why would you name? Wouldn't they want to put that pressure? Yeah?

522
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: I don't like naming kids after like celebrities. Yeah that's

523
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,360
Speaker 1: a little too much. I mean, imagine your baby's name

524
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 1: having to.

525
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:37,439
Speaker 2: Be lex P. Crazy, especially when that ain't even your

526
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: name anything. Your name, your baby lex P is great.

527
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

528
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know, but I feel like people who

529
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 3: be having old names.

530
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Speaker 2: Do you think that they just naturally be having like

531
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Speaker 2: an old soul. There ain't nothing old about Bernie's soul. Baby,

532
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 2: Ain't no offense. Yeah, ain't nothing old about ruby rules.

533
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 3: So do you think that people will old names act

534
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 3: like the worst in school and stuff?

535
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: What what if?

536
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 1: Shakee say the other kids that have Bible names are

537
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: the worst Bible names?

538
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, like Noah be cutting the fuck up, get your massona,

539
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 2: get your ass down from the damn Mucket ball, Joe

540
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 2: Joe be bad as hell. Moses. I never know nobody

541
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 2: named Moses. I do not know what nigga names. We

542
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 2: call him little Moe, you know, little More. I don't

543
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 2: you know little more?

544
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,920
Speaker 3: Now, what I do think is interesting that like, could

545
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 3: niggas be having proper names? Yes, now that's funny, Like

546
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 3: that's Clifford.

547
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's Nelly named Cornell? Cornelia? That's not that's not proper,

548
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 2: that's old. That is an old nigga name.

549
00:26:55,640 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 3: Bartholomew legs, nobody's name is barth follow you except for

550
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 3: your fucking dog suit nobody. I've never in my life

551
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 3: meant nobody follow you is a common.

552
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 2: Name in England? And who in England?

553
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 3: How do you know?

554
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 2: How many English people? Do you know? You don't even know?

555
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 2: In London twice?

556
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: Right, and you met a whole bunch of people named

557
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 1: Berthola man niggas name Bartholomew when I.

558
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 2: Went, I don't believe you would, but you would have came,

559
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 2: would have been like my dog. I just told you

560
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 2: just now you're a liar.

561
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 3: Okay, but no, I definitely feel like hood niggas be

562
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:44,240
Speaker 3: having the most proper name, like Robert, Robert, William.

563
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 2: Robert who Kelly, here you go again?

564
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 3: Okay, we don't find out his jury, so you can't

565
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 3: get you on a p and pail leice seeing him

566
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 3: a little common seri JP.

567
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:01,919
Speaker 1: Okay, moving on, okay, well let me ask you one

568
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: more thing about names that were gonna move on for real.

569
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 1: How do you feel about women naming their kids juniors

570
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: after them? That's what Kashan did, Kashawan Junior. That's the

571
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 1: baby's name.

572
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 2: Yuh. So would you name your kid, no matter if

573
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 2: it was a boy or a girl, Drea Junior, respectfully?

574
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: No, cause I don't like my name and us to

575
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 3: name my child of junior?

576
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 2: Why what was your name?

577
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 3: I don't think nothing is wrong with it, but I

578
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 3: want to name my kids something that's like Sa. No,

579
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 3: I want to name my kids something that's like not

580
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 3: so typical, like I feel like Andrea is such like

581
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 3: a typical name. But I also think if I'm but

582
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 3: to be fair, to be fair with my parents when

583
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 3: I was born in the early nineties, Elda Millenniu, it

584
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 3: was not I didn't. I don't think my parents knew

585
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 3: that many like black girls with my name, so I

586
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 3: thought they ate that.

587
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:55,960
Speaker 2: They did.

588
00:28:56,240 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: I think every black person Andrea, and they always adding, yeah,

589
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 1: it's the call facts.

590
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 3: So I think that my parents definitely thought they ate

591
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 3: that because they didn't know anybody in proximity to them

592
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 3: with that name. But as I started to get older

593
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 3: and stuff like, I mean, it's a good amount of

594
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 3: people with my name, whether they pronounced it, I Andre, what.

595
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: Was everybody was naming their kids Ashley and Britney.

596
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 3: Though I have like four cousins name Brittany and they

597
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 3: was all born the same year. It's so many Brittany's

598
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 3: ninety two was a good year, yes.

599
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about like from like eighty I'll say

600
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: eighty five to like ninety three.

601
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 2: I feel like Jazzmine two though, Yeah that's my sister name, Jazz.

602
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:47,600
Speaker 1: A lot of Courtney's, yeah, geez, A lot of Brianna's who.

603
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 2: We know a lot of Breeze. We know a lot

604
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 2: of Brianna's.

605
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 3: But yeah, so I wouldn't name my child Junior just because, yeah,

606
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 3: I don't feel like my name just eat like that?

607
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 2: To name you Junior?

608
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: What about a hyphen and we don't have to stay

609
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:02,959
Speaker 1: your last with like a hyphen? Would you do your

610
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: hyphen when you get married? Are you gonna hyphen at

611
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: your life?

612
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 2: That name?

613
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: Sew?

614
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 2: Don't eat? See my last name? Your last name is cute.

615
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 2: My honey's knights, Okay, you're right bad, but it ain't

616
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 2: cute beauty to where I'm like, I need to keep

617
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 2: im okay with women.

618
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 3: But I think when women do that that to me,

619
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 3: that'd be like a power struggle thing, because I also

620
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 3: feel like, why do you want to get married if

621
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 3: you want to still keep your last names?

622
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 2: Like Jada Pinkett Smith.

623
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Speaker 3: Let's go in the topic number two. Well, first we

624
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 3: gotta get and I love Jada, I do, I do,

625
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 3: so I love Jada, I really do. But yeah, I

626
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 3: just I feel like it's a it's a power struggle thing.

627
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 2: That's what Kim it was Kim Kardashian West KKW. She

628
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 2: getting let go with at Kardashian name.

629
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she built a whole billion dollar empire with

630
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 3: her last name before she got married, so well million

631
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 3: dollar empire at the time before she got married. I mean,

632
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 3: I feel like if you don't build brands and stuff,

633
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 3: then that's understandable. But like you just little Keisha from

634
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 3: seventy third and you and you just want to keep

635
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 3: your last name.

636
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 2: Williams of why why do you want to keep your

637
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 2: last name? Blood line?

638
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 3: What the child still don't have the blood line, whether

639
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 3: you keep the last name or not. It's so crazy

640
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 3: that they're no blood in them. Yeah, yeah, it's so

641
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:35,960
Speaker 3: crazy though with that Kardashian name.

642
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 2: Like Rob was like the last boy. Yeah.

643
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:44,160
Speaker 3: And then it's also a very uncommon last name and

644
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 3: they built like a legacy with.

645
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:49,479
Speaker 2: So I get it. But still have more children too,

646
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 2: he can still have time to have a boy. Beyonce

647
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 2: did keep nos Carter, but again Beyonce that she did

648
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: keep Nose Carter. But Knowles is a unique last name too,

649
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 2: and that's two good last names, Nole's and Carter. Eight.

650
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: I wrong, I think what is it? I think it's

651
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 2: the middle made a video correcting the pit girls. I

652
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 2: can't remember that.

653
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: I think I've asked on TikTok live and they were

654
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Speaker 1: just they couldn't give me a real answer.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, moving on. Okay, so we got Drink of the

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Speaker 2: Week with our girl, Charrita. Hi, Charrita.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so before we get into the drink of the week,

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Speaker 1: let us know a little bit about yourself and your

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Speaker 1: bartending history and all that good stuff, cause they're gonna

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Speaker 1: be asking in the comments.

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Speaker 2: Check.

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Speaker 4: So my name is Sharita. I'm originally from Philly. I've

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Speaker 4: been bartending for about sixteen years. I don't look like it,

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Speaker 4: look babe. I started in two thousand and eight at

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Speaker 4: like a family restaurant. I've been bartending ever since, working

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Speaker 4: in the retail hospitality industry. My most recent role was

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Speaker 4: just like in management, okay, for programs and things like that.

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Speaker 2: So now I'm here and honored. Yes have you here?

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Speaker 2: So let me ask you this, because we talk about

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Speaker 2: this a lot.

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Speaker 1: Do you notice the difference with like the money in

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Speaker 1: bartend and like when the strip club, like when Gez

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Speaker 1: and all them used to be in the strip clubs

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Speaker 1: and the money then versus the money now like in

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Speaker 1: the clubs. I don't know if you you probably don't

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Speaker 1: work in the clubs no more obviously.

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Speaker 4: But I didn't work in a lot of clubs. The

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Speaker 4: only club I actually worked at was King of Diamonds.

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Speaker 4: I worked at the strip club a couple of years ago, okay,

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Speaker 4: And even the money then was was trashy.

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Speaker 2: These these celebrities out here, they're not really they're not. Okay,

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Speaker 2: they're not.

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Speaker 4: But it definitely has changed more so since COVID. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: the money has completely changed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I feel I'll be like, damn, like knock

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Speaker 2: on wood.

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Speaker 1: I know that you know we're gonna but like, if

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Speaker 1: I ever had to like go back to work, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't go back bartending.

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Speaker 2: It's not worth it. Yeah, I don't think it's worth it. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I would rather just go Like if y'all seen me somewhere,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go have a non again. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I feel like everybody that I know that works in

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Speaker 3: the clubs are used to work in the clubs. They

695
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Speaker 3: say it the same thing, like it's changed, the lights change.

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Speaker 4: And a lot of the places that you do make money,

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Speaker 4: they're not hiring because people stay because you make money there.

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Speaker 2: I'm so it's hard to get in those type of places.

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Speaker 1: When I used to work at Dreams and nobody coming

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Speaker 1: up every time, they be like nope.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know help.

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Speaker 1: You know, like they literally couldn't hire nobody because I

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Speaker 1: would always know it always I always.

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Speaker 2: Say, no, okay, girl, what we drinking with? All right?

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Speaker 4: So this week's drink is inspired by that Andy Bryan scandal.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, hr mistress. Oh right, So this drink is

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Speaker 2: called full Benefit.

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Speaker 4: So it has your spirit of choice, a little bit

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Speaker 4: of lavender, a little grapefruit juice, lemon juice and it

710
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Speaker 4: is topped with a blueberry and lemon veal as a garnish.

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Speaker 2: She's floral, she's flirty, she's.

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Speaker 4: Scandalous, and she you know, packs a lot of perks

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Speaker 4: and she is open for new positions.

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Speaker 2: Yi period and cleans him out. Yeah, I mean, is

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Speaker 2: that you're crazy?

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Speaker 3: Imagine trying to sneak increase with your little side boo

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Speaker 3: and that y'all end up on a jumbo truck at

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Speaker 3: a contract.

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Speaker 2: But not only that, can you imagine?

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Speaker 1: The wife was probably at home, probably like damn, I

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Speaker 1: wish we could go on a date night and we

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Speaker 1: could have some time together.

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Speaker 2: And he's like, oh, I gotta go to work, I

724
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Speaker 2: gotta do this, and you're at home the cold Play

725
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Speaker 2: concert with y'all and it was all yellow like, and

726
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Speaker 2: then you took her to a bomb ass concert. You

727
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Speaker 2: didn't take her to see no bullshit. You took her

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Speaker 2: to see Cold Plane like y'all went to a lit.

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Speaker 1: Concert, y'all in box seats, bitch or wherever they looked

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Speaker 1: like they Was he the CEO?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And wasn't she she married too?

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Speaker 1: Yes, she's married, but now y'all know they have but

733
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Speaker 1: they replaced him with the CEO he had these Well

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Speaker 1: he resigned.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm resigned, So I hope she cleaned him out.

736
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Speaker 2: I hope she cleaned him out. I want it all.

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Speaker 2: I'm coming for what we gonna see. I'm sure we're

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Speaker 2: gonna be updated shortly. Y'all know we're gonna love the update.

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Speaker 2: Y'all love lit period.

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Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, So this week we are doing our first

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Speaker 3: business spotlight. You know, we are trying to highlight businesses

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Speaker 3: that are up and coming. And this is a business

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Speaker 3: that I love that I have been supporting for a

744
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Speaker 3: very very very long time. I love your products so much,

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Speaker 3: so I'm so excited to have you on the couch.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. This is Julisa and she's the owner of

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Speaker 2: salt x. Oh.

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Speaker 3: So I'm gonna let you tell the girls about your business.

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Speaker 3: Unless they've been living under a rock, they should already know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, unless y'all have been living on the run. So

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Speaker 2: I'm Julie. I'm the founder of Sault So.

752
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Speaker 3: I started SAW in twenty eighteen as a college student

753
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 3: because all the stuff that we were using it was

754
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 3: just throwing off my pH like it was throwing me

755
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Speaker 3: to the moon, right and honestly, like as a woman,

756
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 3: you know, like it can build some sort of insecurity,

757
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 3: can make me super self conscious, especially when you're being intimate.

758
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: You know, like right, you don't want to have to

759
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Speaker 2: worry about dealing with day. Thank you exactly, exactly in

760
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Speaker 2: the simplest word.

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Speaker 3: So I started researching essential oil and natural ingredients, and

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Speaker 3: then I figured out, dang, God gave us everything that

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Speaker 3: we needed naturally, we didn't need to use all that

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Speaker 3: extra stuff.

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Speaker 2: And then I started just literally.

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Speaker 3: Looking up on my computer finding out how I can

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Speaker 3: blend these ingredients together to create a soap. I created

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Speaker 3: one soap. I went to a step show and I

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Speaker 3: gave out the soaps to the girls at the step

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Speaker 3: show and they were locked. And at that very moment,

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Speaker 3: it was up. Like all it took was for one

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Speaker 3: person to experienced it, for them to tell their homegirls like, oh.

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Speaker 2: My god, this product has changed the game. So I

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Speaker 2: started it. Yeah, I college. That's amazing.

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Speaker 3: That's really dope, because I feel like you had a

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Speaker 3: Beijing and you started what you had. We always talk

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00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 3: about that on the show. People always think they have

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Speaker 3: to have everything together to start a business, when in reality,

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Speaker 3: you don't you just need to have the vision and

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Speaker 3: a plan. Yeah, cause I think even right now people

781
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Speaker 3: look at me and say, dang, like I wish I

782
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Speaker 3: could do that, m But you don't understand it took

783
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Speaker 3: me seven years to get Yeah. We just turned seven

784
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Speaker 3: years old in April. Sometimes people will be like, oh,

785
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Speaker 3: you know, I want to get to where you are. Girl,

786
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Speaker 3: You got you got some years to go, and you

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Speaker 3: got to be comfortable with the journey. You just can't

788
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Speaker 3: try to rush it because you see someone online right

789
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Speaker 3: show when they have a warehouse, they have employees, they

790
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Speaker 3: have all of these orders coming in. No, this took

791
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Speaker 3: real grit, real determination, Like this was not a microwavable product, right,

792
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Speaker 3: or business or journey.

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Speaker 1: You know. So when you first started and you were

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Speaker 1: like trying different combinations and doing all that stuff, did

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Speaker 1: you ever like try something and it was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is not e absolutely, Like how did you did

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Speaker 1: you have like chemistry were working with or you just

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Speaker 1: did everything.

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Speaker 2: On your own?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Girl, I was a broke college student, so everything was

802
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Speaker 3: just me trying it on myself, my friends and my family.

803
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Speaker 2: Those were my guinea pigs.

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00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 3: And so I tried one form on my mom and

805
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 3: she said, baby, uh, this thing over and one thing

806
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:08,880
Speaker 3: I can count on my mom is gonna be honest.

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Speaker 3: She want to tell me, babes, we gotta go back

808
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 3: to the lab with that one. So, yes, it was

809
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 3: a product I was trying, like this tropical sweet soap. Yeah,

810
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 3: she said stick to the grasslands and stuff that she

811
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Speaker 3: used to because this wasn't right.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I say to talk about like cause

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Speaker 1: a lot of times when we use products down there,

814
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Speaker 1: because you know, the kouchie war is gonna be in

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Speaker 1: the commedis I know, because they're always like, oh, it's

816
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Speaker 1: a self cleaning uh huh, don't do this, don't put

817
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Speaker 1: that you need to wash it.

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Speaker 2: But talk about that, like how like what are the.

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Speaker 1: Ingredients that we're supposed to be looking at, Like when

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Speaker 1: we pick up a salt egg so and we see

821
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Speaker 1: the ingredient lists, like what are we supposed to.

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Speaker 2: Be looking for?

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Speaker 3: So you're looking at the essential oils that we put

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Speaker 3: in in okay, because one of the most important ingredients

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00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 3: is tea tree oil that we use. It's anti fungal,

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Speaker 3: it's antibacterial. I used t triol on my toe, yeah,

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Speaker 3: and it's anti fungal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Bacterial on huh uh huh, and you I want to

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Speaker 3: use antibacterial soap down there, uh huh.

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Speaker 2: You see, I thought about everything. Yeah, I ain't no

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Speaker 2: Joe Schmoke. I did my research. Okay. The tea tree

833
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Speaker 2: oil is really really important.

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Speaker 3: And I think that people don't understand how valuable essential

835
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Speaker 3: oils are, right because they're like the purest form of healing,

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Speaker 3: Like you can take it. I know some people have

837
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Speaker 3: seen videos of people ingesting a reginal oil.

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Speaker 2: Love.

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Speaker 3: I love Oregonal oil. I've seen there's like pads and tampons. Yeah,

840
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 3: Regonal oil now and t tree oil. That is the

841
00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 3: holy Realeah. That's why I tell people, like everything naturally

842
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 3: grown is already here to heal us, Like you don't

843
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,280
Speaker 3: have to do you don't have to, you know, find

844
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 3: out other things to use. It's already here. It's already

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00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 3: naturally grown. So I think that is so wonderful that

846
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Speaker 3: I was able to figure out how to naturally heal women.

847
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:56,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I didn't want to keep.

848
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 3: Doing what we were doing in the past, like what

849
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Speaker 3: our mama's and our aunties and our grandma's used.

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Speaker 2: They were using all of the stuff. We know the

851
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Speaker 2: name drunk.

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00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 3: They were using this stuff that was throwing them off right,

853
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 3: and we're trying to figure out why do I keep

854
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Speaker 3: going to the guy?

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Speaker 2: Know why? It was a little steak under the movie. Yeah,

856
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 2: when you lay down, you laying down and get your

857
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Speaker 2: hair braided, like sit right, hair, baby, I don't want

858
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 2: to be right here. It's no baby, it's a fire. Okay, yeah, literally,

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Speaker 2: it's not that. It was nor forms and all this

860
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Speaker 2: much a lot. They didn't know. They don't know, you

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 1: So I do kind of want to talk about because

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00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 1: you have an oil that I've been seeing the girls

864
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Speaker 1: talk about too, that like works well on scars, because.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm a surgery girl, Chap, and you know

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Speaker 2: I was a rough little kid.

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Speaker 1: I got the little So talk about the oil and

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00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: how does it like how or like what results should

869
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Speaker 1: people expect realistically from using that oil.

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00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 3: So that oil just went viral on TikTok. We sold

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00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 3: like two hundred thousand bottles Wow this year alone.

872
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 2: Shit amazing. Yeah, because the people the oil is so

873
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 2: it's good for ingrown, it's good for ingrown, it's good

874
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 2: for hyperpigmentation.

875
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 3: So I had two c sections, okay and The reason

876
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 3: why that oil went viral was because a lady was

877
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,800
Speaker 3: telling our customers, Hey, I use this on my lyposuction scars,

878
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 3: and my scars have gone away.

879
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 2: And you know sometimes they give you the silicone. It

880
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: doesn't work. They don't work. It doesn't Let's just be real,

881
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 2: it doesn't work.

882
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 3: So this oil has lemon, it also has turmeric, and

883
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 3: you know those are naturally brightening ingredients. So when you're

884
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 3: using that, and you're also using a skin like oil

885
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 3: that doesn't clog your pores, that's going to help you

886
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:42,240
Speaker 3: reduce those scarring, reduce the ingrown hairs.

887
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 2: Because for me, I wax. Y'all wax. Yeah, I'm a waxer. Yeah,

888
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 2: I'm a waxy. Yeah. If I shave, I'll get ingrown

889
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 2: hairs like fraily, I don't know what it is.

890
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:52,840
Speaker 3: And then as soon as I get my wax, you

891
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 3: know how it's kind of like swollen after you have inflammation.

892
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:56,759
Speaker 2: You apply that oil.

893
00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 3: As soon as you're done with a wax, it's like

894
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 3: your coochie has taken a deep breath.

895
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: It is incredible. Yet, Jail, I be feeling like my

896
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 1: coochie took.

897
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 2: A deep breath. Is yeah?

898
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: Friendly it's so refreshing. So the oil does it work

899
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,919
Speaker 1: on old scars, new scars, or both.

900
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:18,919
Speaker 2: You can use them on both.

901
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 3: I use them on my c section scars, okay, and

902
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 3: then I also use them on my under arms.

903
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 2: I use it on my butt. So if you have

904
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 2: a darker butt, you got that dark booty hole it is.

905
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: It's a little crunchy down there. That's gonna help with

906
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 2: the head by use it on that booty hole I use.

907
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a three months test time I'm using.

908
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 3: And the girls use it on their booty hooles. Oh

909
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 3: you gets it on your bikini line. I wish I

910
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,879
Speaker 3: could show you. I'll show my bikini line off because

911
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 3: I don't mind. I don't mind, Like I'm like, hey,

912
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 3: I'm a girl's girl. I'm gonna show you the results

913
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 3: so you know I'm not just catting, okay. But it

914
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 3: definitely works, and I like to use it because it's

915
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 3: just soothing. It's very soothing. It has lemon and it

916
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 3: was which is a very calming essential oil. And it

917
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 3: also has peppermin in it, so that gives you so

918
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 3: it'll kind of it'll turn you up if you wanted

919
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 3: to so it's multipurpose.

920
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:13,719
Speaker 2: I like, uh huh.

921
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 3: So you were just talking about, you know, the importance

922
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 3: of taking care of yourself down there, especially when it

923
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 3: comes to intimacy. So could you touch a little bit

924
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 3: on We talked about the young jail because you talk

925
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 3: about the erotica jill.

926
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

927
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 3: Okay, So the erotica jail, you like the erotica jo,

928
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 3: I do, girl, I used the both. The erotica jail

929
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 3: is our aphrodisiac shower jail, okay. And the reason why

930
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 3: it's in afrodijacs because we use essential oils that stimulate

931
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:44,720
Speaker 3: your libido.

932
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 2: Yes. So the reason why I even created this.

933
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 3: Is because I had a customer who had PCOS and

934
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 3: her libido had plummeted and she had just got pregnant.

935
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 3: Not just got pregnant, she had just got married and

936
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 3: she was trying to conceive and she was trying to

937
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 3: get her you know, her mojo back a little bit.

938
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 2: Yes, you know, amplify it.

939
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 3: And so I was thinking, I'm like, dang, I want

940
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:06,840
Speaker 3: to really create something for women because I know a

941
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 3: lot of black women experience PCOS and there's not a

942
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 3: lot of natural solutions they'll just try to give you

943
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:13,560
Speaker 3: something to get you out of the way. But there's

944
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 3: not a lot of natural solutions in terms of helping

945
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 3: you boost your libido.

946
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 2: And so I said, you know what, let me look

947
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 2: up some of the essential oils. There's essential oils.

948
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: To boost your libido, to get you more turned up

949
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: in the moment, to give you that desire.

950
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 3: And that's what that body washes for because it stimulates

951
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 3: the senses. And you know, the skin is the largest

952
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 3: largest organ on your bias. So it's going to get

953
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 3: deep in there and it's going to get that girl

954
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 3: like a water park.

955
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 2: Oh, it seeps, it seeps in, it works. Okay, I

956
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 2: like that. So you have the oil, Yes, the.

957
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 3: Erotica jail, Stony jail, jail, and so those are the three,

958
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:56,240
Speaker 3: like those are our heroes. But we have a complete

959
00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 3: like catalog, body wash, body scrubs, oil.

960
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,959
Speaker 2: Deorderant, booty deorderant. I know, y'all love good. I don't

961
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 2: like pineapple, so you go down there.

962
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: Okay, could you imagine eating a booty pineapple in like

963
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,880
Speaker 1: a pineapple, a booty apple.

964
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 3: I like that.

965
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 2: I love it. See I'm like because I'm so I

966
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 2: am like champion for like smelling good. I love smelling goods.

967
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 2: Like that's my personality. It's literally my personality trade.

968
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't care why people say she always talked about

969
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: I love it, because why are you mad that I

970
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 1: like talking about smelling thank you?

971
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 2: But I have like a very extensive shower routine. I

972
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 2: posted my shower routine.

973
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: The other day that actually kind of like went viral,

974
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: and honestly it started from the episode where Drea talked

975
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: about you know, salt egg so and like how the

976
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 1: products is. That's the number one compliment like Dre gets

977
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 1: a lot too, is that she smells good.

978
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,280
Speaker 2: So what is your shower routine?

979
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 1: Like give us the order of like the stuff and

980
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 1: how you use the productsower routine.

981
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 3: So we have this scrub called body, like our serving

982
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:06,879
Speaker 3: body scrub, right, and it's brown crystallized sugar. Okay, down,

983
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 3: I mean the way my body like if y'all could

984
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 3: just rub me down, just rubbed me out, you have,

985
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 3: It's just it's nice. And I exfoliate four times a week.

986
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 3: I'm in there about thirty thirty to forty five minutes.

987
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 3: I'm taking because I'm so intentional about shower time. So

988
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 3: I don't like to rush the process. I like to

989
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 3: really take care of my body, so I'm using our

990
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 3: exfolid and scrub. I also love our Vitamin Sea scrub,

991
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 3: which is a turmeric and vitamin sea wash which helps

992
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 3: with hyperpigmentation. So in case like you get like back acne,

993
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 3: leg acne under arms.

994
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I use that daily.

995
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 3: And I use our grape fruit, our seedless or or

996
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 3: even the seated y only Joe and I just I

997
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 3: just started just all and because I know it's fired

998
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 3: because I made it right.

999
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 2: I know that's right. Everything that's pH balanced exactly okay.

1000
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 3: So and I think that is really important to know

1001
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 3: exactly what you're put on your body because I'm confident

1002
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 3: in using salted so because I know exactly what I

1003
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 3: put in it. Because I made the formula. Like when

1004
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 3: I was in college, I didn't have a chemist, but

1005
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 3: now I have a chemist, I know that's right, so

1006
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 3: I'm able to like show share what is the the

1007
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 3: ingredients and then we're able to create the formula and

1008
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 3: everything is just like totally balancing the line. So I

1009
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 3: love a good old scrub and as soon as I

1010
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 3: get out that shower, I'm putting on my rejuice oil okay,

1011
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

1012
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 2: And then it just makes me perm Oh my gosh.

1013
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: Could you just imagine just laying down, it's just calling out,

1014
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: wait to use these products.

1015
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, They're so good.

1016
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 3: And then I feel like every girl needs to have

1017
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:42,320
Speaker 3: their post six hygiene yeah, you know whatever, Yes, And

1018
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 3: I feel like these are really good products for that

1019
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 3: yeau especially.

1020
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta wash it down. You gotta wash it down.

1021
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this though, because you know,

1022
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: we have a lot of male listeners too, and you

1023
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: know a lot a lot of people that are part

1024
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: of the community and some you know, a lot of

1025
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: strike men as well. Can men use these products?

1026
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 2: Absolutely?

1027
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:04,479
Speaker 3: I recommend that your partner uses saltic soel, okay, because

1028
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 3: whatever he uses is going right inside of you.

1029
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 2: So if he's using highly fragrance products.

1030
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 3: And trying to smell like oceans and musk and all

1031
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:15,920
Speaker 3: types of stuff, it's going right inside of you.

1032
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 2: Boom direct connect.

1033
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:20,799
Speaker 3: So whatever you use, essentially, it's just gonna knock it off, okay, right,

1034
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 3: And so I think that men me personally, my brothers,

1035
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 3: my friends, my guy friends, they used salt excelf and

1036
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 3: there was just a guy who went viral on TikTok

1037
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 3: saying like, hey, y'all use this wash so that y'all

1038
00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 3: don't throw off your girls pH. I think it's a

1039
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:38,320
Speaker 3: love language to take to want to be very conscious

1040
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 3: of what you use on your body when you're having

1041
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 3: when you have intercourse with your girl. Yeah, you don't

1042
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 3: want to just use anything because our pH can get

1043
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 3: thrown off so easily, like so easily. So I'm just

1044
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 3: super careful with stuff like that, and I think guys

1045
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 3: definitely use that.

1046
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 2: Like a really great question.

1047
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:58,560
Speaker 1: Okay, so do you have any plans for future products,

1048
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: like things that you can give us little to like.

1049
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:05,399
Speaker 2: So we just launched our minis, yes, like last week.

1050
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,920
Speaker 2: I'm so excited about it. I'm so excited about the

1051
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:12,879
Speaker 2: Mini on the Road. Take on the Road. Seriously, it's

1052
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 2: so good and it's so cute. Me. I love when

1053
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 2: things look good. Yes, I'm a.

1054
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just I have a packaging girl, don't

1055
00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 1: you love like I would just talk about that, No,

1056
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 1: cap this is probably some of the prettiest packaging it

1057
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: is I talk about I've talked about the like products

1058
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,320
Speaker 1: that I use down there, uh huh. But I'm not

1059
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: gonna lie, it's not like pretty packaging. Uh huh, regular, regular,

1060
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:38,880
Speaker 1: but like this is like cute.

1061
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. I was like, yeah, I keep that, yeah exactly,

1062
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 2: uh huh.

1063
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 3: So we just launched our minis. This is great for travel.

1064
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 3: You can keep it in your purse. I thought about everything.

1065
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, for the girls who want to do

1066
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 3: a spend the night bag, keeping your purse, keep it discreened,

1067
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 3: keep it cute. For the girls who want to travel

1068
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 3: and have luggage, it's not taking up too much space.

1069
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know. And then even if you're just want

1070
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 2: to have something on the goal, keep it in your

1071
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 2: glove compartment.

1072
00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: You gotta do what you gotta do on the go, y'all.

1073
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: W W be funky sometimes. Yeah, so sometimes you need

1074
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom wipe it down a little bit.

1075
00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 2: You know, you got to do what you got to do.

1076
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 3: So it's it's just so beautiful and I love that

1077
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:23,279
Speaker 3: now girls have access to use it and they don't

1078
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 3: have to keep transferring products.

1079
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 2: It's a smaller bottles.

1080
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,200
Speaker 3: The problem like, no, you got your salt so branded

1081
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 3: products everywhere you go and just hold it close.

1082
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: Because the housekeepers like to steal salt so I've not

1083
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 1: heard about that. And let me tell you something.

1084
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 3: To your products last for so long, Like I've been

1085
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,280
Speaker 3: using salt XO products since you had the other packaging

1086
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 3: bottle clear bottle. Yes, so that one bottle lasts me

1087
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 3: for like a whole year. Yeah, yeah, it lasts a

1088
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 3: little bit, goes a long waychie well. I mean that's

1089
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 3: our problem, okay, but it lathers so well, and it's

1090
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:06,520
Speaker 3: just it's so amazing, like this is.

1091
00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 1: I think it will be like a good gift, like

1092
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: a sock her figures like birthday gift. But like what

1093
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 1: if you had like a friend and she got she

1094
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 1: kind of got a little stick, would you just give

1095
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 1: them or would you have a conversation about it?

1096
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 2: I would just.

1097
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,239
Speaker 3: Gifted to her because I feel like, you know, what's

1098
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 3: wrong with getting your friends some products that you really like?

1099
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 3: Like I use this myself like O girl, here you go,

1100
00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 3: because I think you will really enjoy it and reap

1101
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 3: the benefits from you. I can give you position it

1102
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 3: like that, like I use it, like make it so

1103
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 3: that she doesn't feel like she's isolated in it. It's

1104
00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 3: all about how you say things, how you present things right,

1105
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 3: you know. But for me, I don't really have friends

1106
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 3: that would sit down there. You can't be around the

1107
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 3: coochy queen would sit down here, yeah, like always keeping

1108
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 3: them knowledgeable of what to use and how to take

1109
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 3: care of our body. So it's like they know, but

1110
00:52:54,719 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 3: if they do, just in case, it's a loving conversation.

1111
00:52:58,560 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 2: I think so too, you know.

1112
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 1: But honestly, if you dealisa friend and your coach is stag,

1113
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:03,799
Speaker 1: you really just don't care.

1114
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,879
Speaker 2: About nah, you know, like come on with the coaching queen,

1115
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 2: you know what.

1116
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: I like, literally, but I do think that's okay to

1117
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 1: have conversations with your friends like that. I feel like

1118
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,879
Speaker 1: it's so taboo like to be like, oh my gosh, girl,

1119
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: like my pH was off, Like, oh my gosh, what

1120
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: are you using? Like I think conversations like this people

1121
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: act like it's not normal or we all haven't.

1122
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 2: Been through it before.

1123
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:28,840
Speaker 3: Oh no, yeah, And I'm not exempt Like if my

1124
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 3: if my pH gets thrown off, I know exactly what

1125
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:31,320
Speaker 3: to do.

1126
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 2: It's like you just have to know what to do.

1127
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 2: You sit in it and just be like, okay, you

1128
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 2: know what my pH is off. I'm just sitting there.

1129
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 2: Oh no, baby, I know exactly what do. Okay, let's go.

1130
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 2: We're good, you know. Okay, So my exactly.

1131
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: Say, somebody is like Julisa, my pH is off. What's

1132
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 1: the first step and like what like the products that

1133
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 1: she should use? And it's nothing like honestly, sometimes y'all

1134
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 1: need to go to the doctor. But we're talking about

1135
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 1: something like, Okay, your pH got thrown off, and you know,

1136
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: it's something like what is the first product they should

1137
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: dive into?

1138
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,919
Speaker 2: First product? You're gonna use our boric assets positories. Okay,

1139
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 2: oh I love a little oh.

1140
00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 3: Man and our suppositories work in one day. Seven days okay, yeah,

1141
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 3: one day.

1142
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 2: Because you don't have time for that. You don't have

1143
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 2: time to be sitting down, marinate and for to sign

1144
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 2: the fun tonight off, kick that ship out of here.

1145
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 2: I love that. I'm sold already. That's all you have

1146
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 2: to say. One day.

1147
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 3: I love the Okay, one day that works? When I

1148
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,840
Speaker 3: tell you, because after your cycle, your pH is.

1149
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:36,239
Speaker 2: Going to be thrown off. There it's just been through

1150
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 2: too much. Your cycle be thrown off.

1151
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 3: And even after intimacy, I highly recommend that women in

1152
00:54:41,239 --> 00:54:45,440
Speaker 3: start of suppository. You know sometimes and it's not all

1153
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 3: the time thing, right, but sometimes let's just say he

1154
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 3: releases inside of you.

1155
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 2: Release. Let's give it cute class. That was very class.

1156
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 2: If you're released this y then it might throw it

1157
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 2: off the knocker. Yep.

1158
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 3: Then you gotta put that supository in in one day, okay,

1159
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 3: And I took it took me so long to perfect

1160
00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 3: this formula because a lot of suppositories, it takes so.

1161
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 2: Long, yeah, for it to fully clear up. I don't

1162
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:17,479
Speaker 2: have time. And I just told myself, I don't have time.

1163
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 3: I got things to do, people to see, I got

1164
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 3: stuff to do, right exactly, knock it up out of

1165
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 3: here asap, all right, twenty four hours. Then you're going

1166
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 3: to use your Yoni wash, So you can either use

1167
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: the grapefruit it's our sensitive version either all three work amazingly,

1168
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 3: and it's going to maintain your pH okay, so it's

1169
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 3: gonna make sure that it does not throw it off.

1170
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:39,399
Speaker 2: So if you use these products, is not gonna throw

1171
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 2: you off. It's gonna help you maintain it.

1172
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 3: But if you need to restore your pH, use that

1173
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,760
Speaker 3: suppository one day and you're.

1174
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,280
Speaker 2: Good to go. Well that and it'll have you tastings

1175
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:48,919
Speaker 2: so good.

1176
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, So tell everybody because obviously you know,

1177
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:01,839
Speaker 1: she said, y'all been living under rock. If y'all don't

1178
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:03,399
Speaker 1: know where salt xo is, but let them know where

1179
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 1: they can follow you at and salt xo where they

1180
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,320
Speaker 1: can get all the products, all that good stuff.

1181
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 3: Yes, so you can find us at salt dot xo

1182
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:15,640
Speaker 3: on Instagram, salt xo on TikTok, saltxo dot com, and

1183
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:17,839
Speaker 3: my personal page is Julisa dot xo.

1184
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 2: We have the best feminine hygiene products in the world period,

1185
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 2: not the nation in the world.

1186
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:27,240
Speaker 3: And once you try our products one time, I promise

1187
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 3: you our customer retention rate is through the roof. They're

1188
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 3: coming back. And we've been in business for seven years.

1189
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,319
Speaker 3: So this is a tried and true product that I'm

1190
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 3: really proud of what I've built so far.

1191
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 2: So thank y'all. Let me give you your flowers too,

1192
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 2: because as a black woman, a young black woman, you

1193
00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 2: are you have it together like it's a you know,

1194
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:46,520
Speaker 2: I haven't used it yet, becase I'm gonna give you

1195
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 2: an honest review now, Yeah, ye know, I can't wait.

1196
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 1: But the way you have because I've always heard of

1197
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:52,600
Speaker 1: your products, you know what I'm saying. But the way

1198
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:55,800
Speaker 1: you market yourself and the way you have just you

1199
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 1: believe in yourself. I mean you peak head to toebro

1200
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 1: thang you you know what I'm saying, And the way

1201
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 1: I just love to see black women out here really

1202
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 1: pushing their business and staying on the goal and getting

1203
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:11,879
Speaker 1: it done and helping other women. So congratulations and thank

1204
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 1: you for sitting on this couch. And I can't wait

1205
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: to wash Garfield tonight.

1206
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 2: I can't wait for you. Serious, I've wonta hit you, girl.

1207
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 1: And because I'm big, I have a lot of look,

1208
00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: I got like sixteen a life ol scars now, so

1209
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 1: I'm finna use that consistency. Yes, Because I'm a skincare

1210
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 1: girl too, So I have a like a fifty step

1211
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: skincare routine.

1212
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm gonna add this to my sometimes that's

1213
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 2: what it takes.

1214
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 1: Yes, So I'm a person adding this to my routine

1215
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: is gonna be a breeze because I already have a

1216
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,800
Speaker 1: long routine anyway, So I'm gonna switch out my products.

1217
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 2: Today, Okay.

1218
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 3: To that, And I think that was a really good

1219
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 3: point that you were about to touch on to about consistency,

1220
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 3: because the lot of the time people think, oh, I'm

1221
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 3: gonna use something once, No, I'm gonna use something twice,

1222
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 3: and I should see results already. You have to use

1223
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 3: something for a long period of time consistently to see

1224
00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:55,440
Speaker 3: the results.

1225
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if.

1226
00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 3: You've been doing bad for a long time, you can't

1227
00:57:58,160 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 3: do good one time and right change up.

1228
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 2: Yep. So and also y'all before I even go, like,

1229
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 2: make sure y'all drinking water. Yep.

1230
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 3: You cannot just use these products and then just be

1231
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 3: drinking soda, drinking juice, all that. All that sugar yeast

1232
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 3: love sugar, sugar and yeast, they go together. So why

1233
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 3: you bacon pies inside your koochie. Your body is breeding

1234
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 3: that yeast. It's like it's growing. So when you're getting

1235
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 3: your pap smears and your guy know, it's like, oh

1236
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 3: my gosh, I can literally see the yeast.

1237
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 2: I can see the discharge of bacon bread. It's bacon bread.

1238
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: So try to drink as much water as possible, like

1239
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 1: I keep it water by my knights, thaing y'all like

1240
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: water about y'a nights.

1241
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love me a little water. I love my

1242
00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 2: my mountain valley. That's my favorite. Why I love my

1243
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 2: uh huh, Yes, thank you so much. This is amazing.

1244
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 1: Your products are beautiful, and we leaving out of town tomorrow,

1245
00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: so I'm packing my.

1246
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 2: Stuff up, y'all. So y'all do what I do? I

1247
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 2: really do.

1248
00:58:57,640 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 3: He takes it everywhere she goes the time I be

1249
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 3: putting in my little travel size containers.

1250
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 2: But now I could just pick up my bottle and go. Yeah,

1251
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 2: so y'all, make sure y'all go to salt xo dot

1252
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 2: com and load up on your products and get that

1253
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 2: kouchie smella right, shout out to the couchie queen. Yeah,

1254
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 2: all right? What's the that topic? Number two?

1255
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 3: Would you be mad at your friend if they congratulated

1256
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:24,840
Speaker 3: to privately but not publicly online?

1257
00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 2: Do you feel about this?

1258
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: I think it depends on the situation, because I'm not

1259
00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 1: It's crazy because I am an Internet personality, but I'm

1260
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:38,600
Speaker 1: not necessarily an Internet girl. You know, Like sometimes a

1261
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: long paragraph and you're like congratulating me and you're being

1262
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: sentimental and you're telling me like, oh, you came from

1263
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:48,240
Speaker 1: this and you can't whatever the case may be, that

1264
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 1: means more to me than an Instagram post.

1265
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 2: Like something thoughtful. So I like thoughtful stuff.

1266
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 1: So honestly, like because a lot of times people do

1267
00:59:56,720 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: things on the internet to be performative, So I think

1268
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:00,880
Speaker 1: it depends.

1269
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 2: But because it depends on the person though as well.

1270
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: Like if you're a person you always congratulating people online

1271
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:10,920
Speaker 1: and you're always telling people like happy birthday, congratulations, then

1272
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: it's my turn.

1273
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 2: You don't do it, that's a little weird.

1274
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,760
Speaker 1: But if it's just somebody like like we're really close

1275
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 1: friends and you took the time out to write me

1276
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: a sentimental message or whatever the case may be, I

1277
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: wouldn't care.

1278
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 2: But like I said, it just depends on the situation.

1279
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 3: What about you, Yeah, I mean I feel that way too.

1280
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 3: I just feel like it's weird. It gets weird. It

1281
01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:34,400
Speaker 3: gets a little weird when you do it with other people.

1282
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 3: But then you don't do it with your other like

1283
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 3: with specific friends, then I think it's strange. If you

1284
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 3: just the person across the board where you don't really

1285
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 3: be on social media like that, you don't really write

1286
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 3: long captions, long paragraphs, you don't really send that type

1287
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:53,400
Speaker 3: of stuff on social media, then I wouldn't care because

1288
01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 3: that's just not even your personality. Like I said, I

1289
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 3: think it gets a little strange when it's like specific

1290
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 3: to some friends but not all your Yeah, yeah, I agree,

1291
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 3: because then it starts to give Okay, well, what's teased?

1292
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 2: We really friends? Or are we not? You hating a

1293
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 2: little bit?

1294
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1295
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 3: Or maybe I don't even necessarily want to say hating,

1296
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 3: but maybe we just not as close as I thought

1297
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 3: we was, because I see that you show love to

1298
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 3: other people and you can't. You're you're clearly capable of

1299
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 3: showing love to other people and applauding other people when

1300
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 3: they have accomplishedments, but like you don't really have their

1301
01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 3: same energy for me. Then I think it'd be time

1302
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,880
Speaker 3: to reevaluate the relationship, you know what I mean?

1303
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I think that goes into That's why I

1304
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 1: say you could be hating a little bit, because a

1305
01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 1: lot of times people be like, why her, not me?

1306
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 2: Why him and not me? Yeah, and that's not a

1307
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 2: friend you want, that's not really your friend. Yeah, Like

1308
01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:47,200
Speaker 2: I'm we say this all the time of the show.

1309
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 1: I'm a strong believer in if you can't clap for

1310
01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 1: other people, it'll never be your turn. Yeah.

1311
01:01:52,360 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 3: I mean life is about timing too, Like everything is

1312
01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 3: everything in your life happens in the time, and it

1313
01:01:59,240 --> 01:01:59,919
Speaker 3: is supposed to happen.

1314
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 2: You can't be looking at other people play and wanting

1315
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:02,680
Speaker 2: what they got on.

1316
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 3: They play, or feeling like, well that's you, you know,

1317
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:09,640
Speaker 3: even if it's beans on it, I don't meant still

1318
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 3: that play.

1319
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah you tripping? What if you still to play? And

1320
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 2: the beans nasty?

1321
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:17,200
Speaker 1: I've only had beans that were nasty like one time

1322
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 1: in my life, like literally once in my life.

1323
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 2: I'm not about to play with you. But anyways, like, yeah,

1324
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 2: I just I don't know.

1325
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 3: I think that life is about timing, and like, if

1326
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 3: you too worried about what everybody else is doing, how

1327
01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:34,280
Speaker 3: you gonna get to where you're trying to go right,

1328
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 3: how you gonna accomplish things yourself. You can't be worried

1329
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:42,080
Speaker 3: about what other people are doing and comparing your story

1330
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 3: to theirs.

1331
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 2: So I don't know. I feel like.

1332
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 3: If somebody is your real friend out and they be

1333
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 3: online all the time being acknowledged by them, it does matter.

1334
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: And but I have a friend, I have friends like

1335
01:02:54,480 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 1: who don't be on the inn all the time, but

1336
01:02:56,080 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 1: they still make sure to get online. It don't matter

1337
01:02:58,040 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 1: if I post a clip a poor minds are opposed

1338
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: to clip of ALEXP. They reposting it, and they're always

1339
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 1: making sure, you know, because even if they don't have

1340
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 1: a lot of followers, it may be somebody in their

1341
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 1: followers that would enjoy the content. So I just think

1342
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 1: it's all about being supportive too, and making sure your

1343
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: friends are.

1344
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 2: Like, you know visible, you know what I'm saying. I agree,

1345
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 2: I agree.

1346
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1347
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 3: I have had experiences like that with people though, So

1348
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 3: I mean, did you say something to me? Yeah, I've

1349
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 3: said something before and then I just.

1350
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 2: Walked away, like walked away emotionally or like physically, like

1351
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 2: walked away like physically, Like we just don't be talking

1352
01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 2: like that.

1353
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 3: Oh okay, so I don't really be caring like one

1354
01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 3: thing about me, which may or may not be a

1355
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 3: bad thing, I don't know.

1356
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 2: But like I.

1357
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 3: Reciprocate energy. Yeah, I'm very much that type of person

1358
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:52,919
Speaker 3: in every area of my life. I'm gonna try hard

1359
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:56,880
Speaker 3: until i'm not no mo Yeah yeah, because like when

1360
01:03:56,880 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 3: you're friends with people and you care about people, just

1361
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 3: like in a romantic relationship, you know you're gonna give

1362
01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 3: a lot in the beginning, especially if you were receiving

1363
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 3: it back, or even if you not, like maybe when

1364
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:09,600
Speaker 3: you cause I feel like when I was younger, I

1365
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 3: just used to try to go really hard for my

1366
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 3: friends and like try to prove to them they're like, Oh,

1367
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 3: I love you, I care about you, I'm supporting you whatever.

1368
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:19,320
Speaker 3: As I have gotten older, I don't really care to

1369
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:21,560
Speaker 3: go out my way to support people that don't support me.

1370
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:25,439
Speaker 3: I recipro k energy, and I feel like my life

1371
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 3: has been much more easier and wayless drama and storys

1372
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 3: since I started putting people in them categories like I'm

1373
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 3: gonna give you the energy that you give me until

1374
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 3: and then eventually.

1375
01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 2: If I gotta be that way with you, I'm not

1376
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 2: giving you no energy.

1377
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 1: I was just about to say that, because I'm the

1378
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 1: type of person I don't know how to give. I

1379
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 1: don't know how to compartmentalize very well. I don't know

1380
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 1: how to be somebody's friend and be like, oh, I

1381
01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 1: can show up for you this way, but I can't

1382
01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 1: show up that way.

1383
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 2: I know I can do this for you. If I

1384
01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:56,320
Speaker 2: can't go all in with you, I don't I can't

1385
01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:57,959
Speaker 2: be your friend at all. You know what I'm saying.

1386
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:00,840
Speaker 1: I don't know how to fifty percent give somebody fifty

1387
01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 1: percent because if you're giving me fifty percent and I'm

1388
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 1: giving you one hundred.

1389
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 2: We just don't need to be friends.

1390
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 3: I know how to give people fifty percent because I

1391
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 3: feel like every friendship ain't meant to be one hundred percent, right,

1392
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:13,400
Speaker 3: Like I think people go into relationships feeling like, oh,

1393
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 3: you need to be a multi purpose friend. Everybody is

1394
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:19,200
Speaker 3: not a multi purpose friend. Some people are friends for

1395
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 3: this You're friends with some people for this reason, and

1396
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 3: you're friends with other people for different reasons. This person

1397
01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 3: might be fun to go out and have a good

1398
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 3: time with. You know, you gonna have a ball with them.

1399
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 3: This friend, though, is more of an emotionally supportive friend.

1400
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:34,360
Speaker 3: This friend is wanted I can go to church with

1401
01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:37,440
Speaker 3: I could talk to God, talk about God with me.

1402
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:39,959
Speaker 3: And this friend might be friends because we've both lost

1403
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:42,440
Speaker 3: a parent and we both are grieving or know what

1404
01:05:42,560 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 3: that process or that feeling is.

1405
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:47,320
Speaker 2: Like, like I feel like or me and this person.

1406
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 3: Might be friends because we work in the same industry,

1407
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 3: the same career path.

1408
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 2: It's all for different reasons.

1409
01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 3: And when I think, when you expect one person to

1410
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:00,480
Speaker 3: show up for you in like ten different ways, if

1411
01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 3: that's how you show up, then that's not fair, because

1412
01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 3: then you might be missing out on good people who

1413
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:07,760
Speaker 3: may be good in this one area but not others.

1414
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 2: I think that's why.

1415
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 1: Like my friend Killer told me that she's like, you

1416
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 1: need to make more friends, but I was like, no,

1417
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 1: I don't, because I'm okay with my circle. But like

1418
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 1: everything you just named, all of my friends show up

1419
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 1: for me in all of those ways, like you, Lauren Kiler,

1420
01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:24,680
Speaker 1: Belin and my sister, like those are like my main

1421
01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 1: that's my main circle.

1422
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 2: All of y'all do all of those for me.

1423
01:06:28,520 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 1: So I'll be like, I'm good, Like maybe I probably

1424
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 1: have you know, other friends whore like you know that

1425
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 1: do show up in like little ways, but I'm talking

1426
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 1: about like my tight circle, like I'm.

1427
01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 3: Cool, yeah, yeah, I mean I feel definitely in your

1428
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 3: tight circle.

1429
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 2: It's a little bit different, but I don't know.

1430
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:45,840
Speaker 3: I just that's why I always be open to making

1431
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 3: new friends, because I don't expect everybody to show up

1432
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 3: for me the same way because if I'm being completely honest,

1433
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 3: I'm not even the type of person that's gonna let

1434
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 3: you in like they automatically, no way, So I don't

1435
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:58,840
Speaker 3: even expect you to show up in certain ways because

1436
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:01,680
Speaker 3: you ain't even gonna know enough about me to show

1437
01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 3: up in certain ways, you know what, I agree. I

1438
01:07:03,960 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 3: just think people got to learn how to like, you know, separate,

1439
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 3: because I think people really do like including you. I

1440
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:12,320
Speaker 3: do be agreeing with kill it to a certain sting,

1441
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 3: and I feel like you could potentially mess out on

1442
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:19,000
Speaker 3: like cool relationships just because you like, Oh, I don't

1443
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 3: really need no more friends because I got these four people.

1444
01:07:22,240 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 1: Well, I think with me too, I am such a

1445
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 1: specific type of person, like I just like certain type

1446
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 1: of people. And I know within thirty minutes of talking

1447
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:34,960
Speaker 1: to you if we gonna be like I can tell

1448
01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 1: I know off the rip, like I just know, I

1449
01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 1: don't know. I can just tell when I'm gonna be

1450
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 1: cool with somebody. And like I said, I don't know

1451
01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 1: how to be I don't know how to compartmentalize.

1452
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 2: I don't know how to do that.

1453
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:49,160
Speaker 1: So I've recognized that, and that's just how I move,

1454
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:52,760
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like if I feel like, oh,

1455
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 1: we can go out together, but we necessarily can't, Like

1456
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:56,720
Speaker 1: you can't come over to my house and I can't

1457
01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 1: tell you my beer because I get drunk and I

1458
01:07:58,560 --> 01:07:58,760
Speaker 1: like to.

1459
01:07:58,760 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 2: Spell tea bitch.

1460
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 1: So I can't be your friend because I'm gonna getdrunk

1461
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:03,680
Speaker 1: and start telling all my business.

1462
01:08:03,800 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 3: Not if you don't invite them to your house. But

1463
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 3: we people ain't gonna be drunk militia following.

1464
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. I like to invite my

1465
01:08:11,280 --> 01:08:14,400
Speaker 2: friends to the house. No, you don't you lying? No,

1466
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:17,599
Speaker 2: Now I do because y'all can help me pack. Y'allays

1467
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:20,640
Speaker 2: help me pack. You like me having people, well, no,

1468
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 2: not at my house.

1469
01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:24,000
Speaker 1: But I'm saying like, I just like to have that

1470
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 1: relationship where we can go have dinner and we can

1471
01:08:26,520 --> 01:08:28,439
Speaker 1: get drunk and talk about the week and talk about

1472
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:30,479
Speaker 1: our problems. More so, yeah, I do like to talk

1473
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 1: on the phone. So if I can't call you and

1474
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 1: tell you what's going on, then I'm just that's not

1475
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:38,559
Speaker 1: a friendship to me personally, it's you can be an associate. Now,

1476
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 1: I'll make associates all day. You know what I'm saying.

1477
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:44,560
Speaker 1: You can be my associate, but my friends. If I

1478
01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:47,120
Speaker 1: call you a friend, we gotta be one hundred percent

1479
01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 1: because all my friends are one hundred percent.

1480
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 2: That's fair, that's fair.

1481
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:51,479
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1482
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 2: I feel like you could I do with you.

1483
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:55,320
Speaker 3: I agree with you, but I do think you can

1484
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:57,479
Speaker 3: still be friends with people, just people to serve to.

1485
01:08:57,840 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 3: It's just like when people be like, oh, I got

1486
01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:01,720
Speaker 3: a work friend and that's they work friend. They talk

1487
01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:05,400
Speaker 3: to them, it's not not your friend, but you mainly

1488
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,599
Speaker 3: only talk to them. And I was just telling killed

1489
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:09,080
Speaker 3: this the other day.

1490
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:10,720
Speaker 1: I said, you know how awkward it is though, when

1491
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 1: you make a work friend, then y'all try to hang

1492
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 1: out outside of work, and it's like, it's a little awkward.

1493
01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:18,280
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know that because I didn't have mixed.

1494
01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:20,360
Speaker 3: I done have some work friends, and I done hung

1495
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 3: out with them out.

1496
01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,680
Speaker 2: Side of work, and we all like, cause then you

1497
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:27,679
Speaker 2: was work friends. Yeah, but we worked at a club,

1498
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 2: so we was partying while we was at work. We were,

1499
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 2: but it still could be weird when you hang with

1500
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:34,680
Speaker 2: that person one on one.

1501
01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 1: No, that's different because hang it because when you work

1502
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 1: at a club, y'all are essentially hanging out and making drink.

1503
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 2: Bitch.

1504
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:45,759
Speaker 3: But even when I worked in corporate, I made friends

1505
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:47,599
Speaker 3: at work and then we would like go to lunch

1506
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 3: and go hang out outside of work, and we was cool.

1507
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:52,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like the only thing we have

1508
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:55,080
Speaker 1: to talk about is work. I don't want to know.

1509
01:09:55,080 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 3: About how we was talking about our lives and everything.

1510
01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:01,040
Speaker 3: Like my friends shout out to Serena, it used to

1511
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 3: be my friend who is Soena?

1512
01:10:03,680 --> 01:10:05,720
Speaker 2: She was my friend when I used to work at

1513
01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 2: good Rich Petroleum. She really was.

1514
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 3: She was my friend, but she was like ten years

1515
01:10:09,439 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 3: older than me I was now she had moved to

1516
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 3: Denver because she had gotten a relationship.

1517
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:16,200
Speaker 2: Her man had went to jail.

1518
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:19,240
Speaker 3: He ended up getting a telling Serena, b I'm not

1519
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 3: telling her bits were you asking me? You acting like

1520
01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:24,240
Speaker 3: she a fictional person, So bitch, I'm giving you a

1521
01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 3: little background story.

1522
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:30,800
Speaker 2: Don't y'all Serena man one thing about it.

1523
01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:34,080
Speaker 3: Don't y'all hate when y'all friends think they know everything about.

1524
01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:36,600
Speaker 1: You, like it is part of it is part of

1525
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 1: my life that you had a life of white And

1526
01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:43,000
Speaker 1: this was very much before you rude.

1527
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 3: But she was like ten years older than me, and

1528
01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 3: we was really really cool, and she used to give

1529
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 3: me a lot of great life advice and she ended

1530
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:51,799
Speaker 3: up getting pregnant.

1531
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:53,599
Speaker 2: I think now she got two kids. We still follow

1532
01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 2: each other on Facebook.

1533
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:56,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm still friends. With my my

1534
01:10:56,800 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: manager from TGI Fridays. It's like an older white man

1535
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 1: and he's married with kids, and he always he calls

1536
01:11:02,320 --> 01:11:03,759
Speaker 1: me the proud of Orange Texas.

1537
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:08,600
Speaker 2: But we cool. Chloe that I used to work for

1538
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:10,960
Speaker 2: that became my work friends.

1539
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:13,400
Speaker 3: She was my boss, but we ended up becoming friends

1540
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 3: and still to this day, me and Chloe still cool.

1541
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 2: Shout out to my girl because she about to be

1542
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 2: on TV. I know, I love that. I don't have

1543
01:11:20,240 --> 01:11:23,479
Speaker 2: to Chloe. Alright, alright, let's move on.

1544
01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:31,840
Speaker 1: Now it's time to get into the bed bow bow

1545
01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:36,639
Speaker 1: by bow bow. Okay for the bed top of today,

1546
01:11:37,160 --> 01:11:40,880
Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about love taps, how rough it's too

1547
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 1: rough in bed? Like do you are you the kind

1548
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 1: of person who like you gonna go all in and

1549
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:52,760
Speaker 1: there's no bounds, there's no limits. Oh, can things get

1550
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 1: a little too like now?

1551
01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:56,640
Speaker 3: Because if you hit me too hard or something like,

1552
01:11:56,680 --> 01:11:58,599
Speaker 3: if you smack my booty too hard, I'm gonna get

1553
01:11:58,680 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 3: mad as fuck.

1554
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:03,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get so angry. I hate that.

1555
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:07,800
Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like, yes, you want him

1556
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 3: to smack you on your ass, but like not to

1557
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:12,920
Speaker 3: the point that you got a whip or you got

1558
01:12:13,040 --> 01:12:15,599
Speaker 3: like a little steam or it's like a red mark,

1559
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 3: like you.

1560
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 2: Don't hit me too hard? The fuck bron with nigga.

1561
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:20,960
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

1562
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:23,760
Speaker 1: I like I like rough, I like like I want

1563
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:26,519
Speaker 1: it to like borderline kind of hurt a little bit

1564
01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:29,599
Speaker 1: I do. I don't mind if I have a little

1565
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 1: wealth on my booty.

1566
01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:33,599
Speaker 2: I don't mind that. I feel like that's borderline. Shep

1567
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 2: about to get the missy. I like that. You know

1568
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 2: what I was watching? I watched, I watched I know

1569
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:39,639
Speaker 2: what you did last summer.

1570
01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:41,280
Speaker 1: I still know what you did last summer the other

1571
01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:43,880
Speaker 1: day yesterday, because I went and saw the new version

1572
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:47,040
Speaker 1: of it last night. But I was watching the I

1573
01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:52,120
Speaker 1: was refreshing my memory. And the killer punched the a

1574
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:54,639
Speaker 1: bitch in her stomach, Like before, you know how mad

1575
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 1: you gotta be a punch of bitch in her stomach?

1576
01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,360
Speaker 2: That's crazy? Who punches people in the stomach? Still like

1577
01:13:00,880 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 2: to punch a bitch of her stomach? You mad? Trying

1578
01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 2: to take the wind a hug. You mad as the

1579
01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:10,200
Speaker 2: fuck to put a bitch of her stomach, that's crazy.

1580
01:13:10,280 --> 01:13:11,160
Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna lie.

1581
01:13:11,840 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 1: I but I gotta be in the mood for it though,

1582
01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:17,080
Speaker 1: Like I'm talking like I like to get rough after

1583
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 1: like a drunk night.

1584
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:20,240
Speaker 2: We done turn, so we went to the club, we

1585
01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 2: drink it. That's when it really can Yeah, it can

1586
01:13:23,160 --> 01:13:25,320
Speaker 2: get because I don't know.

1587
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:28,200
Speaker 3: I used to like like being choked and all of

1588
01:13:28,240 --> 01:13:30,800
Speaker 3: this stuff during six until I got choked too hard

1589
01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 3: one time and I was like, excuse me, up the.

1590
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 1: Fuck And then it was crazy because we had just

1591
01:13:39,200 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 1: gotten to argument today that.

1592
01:13:40,520 --> 01:13:46,040
Speaker 2: You are this stupid this so you be mad, That's

1593
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So that's why I feel like, I

1594
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:51,679
Speaker 2: don't know, like maybe you need a safe word or something.

1595
01:13:51,720 --> 01:13:53,639
Speaker 1: No, you do need a safe workuse. Like I used

1596
01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:56,320
Speaker 1: to have rough sex when this god was dated, and

1597
01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 1: like I didn't mind. Like we used to like we

1598
01:13:58,080 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 1: used to get real rough and one time he smacked

1599
01:14:01,120 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 1: the funk out of me on your face, I said, holdout, bit.

1600
01:14:05,680 --> 01:14:07,639
Speaker 1: I mean I think he tried to get a licking

1601
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 1: on and I done felt like that too, and then

1602
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:13,800
Speaker 1: you'll be like hootle I to smack his ass back,

1603
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:16,120
Speaker 1: and then it could get domestic.

1604
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:18,680
Speaker 3: That's what I'm trying to say, sir, because I did

1605
01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 3: that before too. I got smacked and I smacked that nigga, but.

1606
01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 2: He like he smacked me like a sack. He was like,

1607
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:26,639
Speaker 2: oh my bad.

1608
01:14:27,200 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 3: And before y'all know it, now y'all swinging in there,

1609
01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:31,960
Speaker 3: be bro. Because I was so shocked, like why would

1610
01:14:32,000 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 3: you snap me?

1611
01:14:33,880 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 2: He was like, oh my bad. He tried to kept going, no, nigga,

1612
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:39,320
Speaker 2: we need to talk about here. Yeah, you smacked me too.

1613
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:40,639
Speaker 2: Yeah I'm a lady.

1614
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:43,200
Speaker 1: Yeah I forgot he did slap me, and he smiled

1615
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 1: a little bit afterwards.

1616
01:14:46,720 --> 01:14:49,479
Speaker 2: He was happy as a fuck because I was like,

1617
01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:52,320
Speaker 2: it was like a few time.

1618
01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:54,880
Speaker 1: Face was probably a little red. It was like he

1619
01:14:55,840 --> 01:14:57,519
Speaker 1: slapped me the first time. I didn't say nothing. I

1620
01:14:57,640 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 1: was just like, okay, he did it again.

1621
01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:06,000
Speaker 2: I said, all right, now gonna get up, bitch, get off.

1622
01:15:06,240 --> 01:15:09,320
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Like, I don't know. Sometimes be

1623
01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:10,880
Speaker 2: eating a little too serious.

1624
01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:13,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you because I didn't get it mad.

1625
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 1: Like I said, I smacked that nigga bag. Why the

1626
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:17,040
Speaker 1: fuck you smacking me like that?

1627
01:15:17,360 --> 01:15:22,080
Speaker 2: Why would you? Why would I not? Y'all you know

1628
01:15:22,120 --> 01:15:24,400
Speaker 2: what I'm slapping contest they be having on YouTube.

1629
01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:33,519
Speaker 3: Definitely smack that nigga bag? We killed y'all was looking

1630
01:15:33,520 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 3: at up going though.

1631
01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:39,679
Speaker 1: I'm fucking weak, but no, I do like it rough,

1632
01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:42,479
Speaker 1: but I do think there's like, you know, I think

1633
01:15:42,520 --> 01:15:45,479
Speaker 1: you know when you're hitting somebody too hard and y'all

1634
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 1: don't need to be doing that when you know you

1635
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 1: come like if you got built up aggression, maybe we

1636
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:55,120
Speaker 1: can leave it smacking out, but like on my ass,

1637
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:55,679
Speaker 1: So what you're.

1638
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:58,200
Speaker 3: Gonna say, You're gonna be like you can smack me, nigga,

1639
01:15:58,280 --> 01:16:01,040
Speaker 3: but not today because we just got an argument.

1640
01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:02,799
Speaker 2: I think you know the arts.

1641
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:07,240
Speaker 3: I don't think people be knowing the vibes. I think

1642
01:16:07,280 --> 01:16:09,680
Speaker 3: they being the es. Okay, I'll say that, what if

1643
01:16:09,720 --> 01:16:11,920
Speaker 3: somebody pull your hair too hard? Because that happened to

1644
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:12,759
Speaker 3: me before too.

1645
01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:15,040
Speaker 2: My my wig gonna slide off. You know my wings

1646
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:17,360
Speaker 2: aren't glued down. Bitch. Yeah, I don't have that happen.

1647
01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:20,519
Speaker 2: I know you told me that he ripped that wig off.

1648
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:23,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was so fucking mad because why

1649
01:16:23,880 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 1: would you pull my hair? He was like, oh, I

1650
01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:26,920
Speaker 1: thought it was like the little when y'all put the

1651
01:16:26,960 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 1: strings in there?

1652
01:16:28,200 --> 01:16:32,120
Speaker 3: Shut up, girl, what's he thought it was in? But

1653
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:34,479
Speaker 3: even that, imagine the nigga pull that shit too hard

1654
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:35,639
Speaker 3: and he pulled a patch on him.

1655
01:16:35,640 --> 01:16:37,240
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. You can pull a track out

1656
01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:43,160
Speaker 2: if you pull out would especially if it's one of

1657
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:47,519
Speaker 2: this the main brad. You know, sometimes they grow out of.

1658
01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:52,920
Speaker 3: All fight too before you have from from a braid.

1659
01:16:54,240 --> 01:16:56,799
Speaker 3: A braid done came out me and Lean was talking about.

1660
01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:00,720
Speaker 2: Me was talking about it. What she was Jamaica because

1661
01:17:00,760 --> 01:17:03,719
Speaker 2: she said she got a ball, like from my brain

1662
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 2: falling out. I remember my brain. That happened to me

1663
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:09,040
Speaker 2: before too.

1664
01:17:09,439 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 1: You know, like one time my brain fell out in

1665
01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:12,880
Speaker 1: school and I've seen it on the ground. I had

1666
01:17:12,960 --> 01:17:14,360
Speaker 1: to hurry up and cover it up with my foot

1667
01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 1: and slide.

1668
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:19,400
Speaker 2: It over to you and then to pick it up.

1669
01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 2: I did, no, I said, I did that.

1670
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:23,519
Speaker 1: You know, like if your brain fall out, you look

1671
01:17:23,560 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 1: on the ground and see your brain hair, you try

1672
01:17:24,880 --> 01:17:26,240
Speaker 1: to hurry up and cover it with your foot.

1673
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:28,320
Speaker 2: Then you've been down to acting like you tying your

1674
01:17:28,360 --> 01:17:29,719
Speaker 2: shoe and you stuff it somewhere.

1675
01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, so nobody see it. But braids don't really fall out.

1676
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:37,160
Speaker 3: I don't really fall out. They be hanging o you.

1677
01:17:37,240 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 3: I feel like you know, I done pulled one out before.

1678
01:17:40,600 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 3: I need that too, Like you gotta when nobody.

1679
01:17:43,680 --> 01:17:45,600
Speaker 1: Well, especially with the bohole braids too, because you know

1680
01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:48,920
Speaker 1: the boho braids will shed a life. I'll be getting

1681
01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:51,600
Speaker 1: off a nigga beer and I'll be like trying to

1682
01:17:51,640 --> 01:17:54,080
Speaker 1: get all that shut out. But I don't like pulling

1683
01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:56,280
Speaker 1: the hair, though I do. I like hair has never

1684
01:17:56,360 --> 01:18:00,639
Speaker 1: been my thing as lack. Yeah, I like I love

1685
01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:01,440
Speaker 1: an assmac.

1686
01:18:02,280 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 2: I like an ass mac if it's like but you

1687
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:06,680
Speaker 2: can't hit me too hard? No, I like to hit

1688
01:18:06,720 --> 01:18:09,600
Speaker 2: that asshole now. No, why do we sing for like

1689
01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:11,600
Speaker 2: five minutes? I like, I don't like that.

1690
01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 1: I like a little I like a little choking. I

1691
01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 1: don't my heart again? Yeah, you like a like a

1692
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: wooden purple, a nurple.

1693
01:18:23,080 --> 01:18:24,960
Speaker 2: When they take your nipples and twist them.

1694
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:29,559
Speaker 3: Why the funk would I want somebody twisting my nipples? No, bitch,

1695
01:18:29,880 --> 01:18:31,479
Speaker 3: the type of she cheot me all.

1696
01:18:32,280 --> 01:18:37,160
Speaker 2: You don't like a little twisting my h You know

1697
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:39,600
Speaker 2: people like nipple play. Some people do like that.

1698
01:18:40,080 --> 01:18:42,800
Speaker 3: I mean, I like you to like do normal stuff

1699
01:18:42,880 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 3: to it, But why would I want you to twist

1700
01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 3: it intern it?

1701
01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:49,360
Speaker 2: What about a flick of the nip? You remember that song?

1702
01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 2: It didn't go like that. It was the flick of

1703
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:58,840
Speaker 2: the rigs. Oh, fuck, y'all know what I mean? You

1704
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:02,360
Speaker 2: know she was for real, she really was flick of

1705
01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:05,840
Speaker 2: the nibs. You know it's look at the flick of

1706
01:19:05,920 --> 01:19:09,040
Speaker 2: the rigs. Oh you know what, I'm big girl?

1707
01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:12,800
Speaker 3: What But now I mean I like a little nipple play,

1708
01:19:12,880 --> 01:19:16,960
Speaker 3: but like normal stuff like lecky, you know, like you

1709
01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:18,280
Speaker 3: can like pinch it a.

1710
01:19:18,280 --> 01:19:20,000
Speaker 2: Little bit, But why are you gonna twist it and

1711
01:19:20,080 --> 01:19:20,400
Speaker 2: turn it?

1712
01:19:20,640 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 3: That's the type of ship that will get you smack

1713
01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:23,880
Speaker 3: because now I feel like you're trying to hurt me.

1714
01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 2: But your nipples are always like a niggas trying to

1715
01:19:27,160 --> 01:19:28,880
Speaker 2: Because why are you trying to? Why do I feel

1716
01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:30,560
Speaker 2: like you're trying to hurt me? Because you mad at me?

1717
01:19:30,800 --> 01:19:35,120
Speaker 2: You got the radio dog nipples? Have you ever what

1718
01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 2: they always? It looks like you can turn the film

1719
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:40,920
Speaker 2: a radio. Not you be wanting to turn my nipple?

1720
01:19:41,000 --> 01:19:42,200
Speaker 2: What the fuck wrong with you?

1721
01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:46,880
Speaker 3: But I do like certain stuff like I like a

1722
01:19:46,960 --> 01:19:50,000
Speaker 3: little lip bite. Okay, I like them, but I'm being.

1723
01:19:49,960 --> 01:19:53,400
Speaker 2: Being too hard before. I don't like niggas be trying

1724
01:19:53,920 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 2: yeah mad because you be cutting up. I do be

1725
01:19:59,360 --> 01:19:59,880
Speaker 2: cutting up.

1726
01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 3: I had came across this booking text business that I

1727
01:20:03,240 --> 01:20:05,439
Speaker 3: had posted on Instagram and like one of my little

1728
01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:09,639
Speaker 3: dump slide shows a few years ago, where my man

1729
01:20:09,840 --> 01:20:11,840
Speaker 3: was like I had inserted it into the slide show

1730
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:13,760
Speaker 3: and he was like, you're the finest of all time,

1731
01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:16,240
Speaker 3: but you still don't be acting raid.

1732
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:18,760
Speaker 2: And I was like, I guess I don't really be

1733
01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:21,840
Speaker 2: acting right, but that was nice. I have a picture.

1734
01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:23,760
Speaker 1: It's still on my Instagram. I think it was when

1735
01:20:23,800 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 1: I went to London. He was like something like.

1736
01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:31,320
Speaker 2: You saw you find it's fucking it pisses me off.

1737
01:20:31,360 --> 01:20:35,120
Speaker 2: I actually hate you. Oh he meant that he did.

1738
01:20:35,560 --> 01:20:37,400
Speaker 2: He hated me real bad. I would have blocked him.

1739
01:20:37,960 --> 01:20:40,360
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I haven't blocked. He's so irrelevant,

1740
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:41,559
Speaker 1: but it was funny.

1741
01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:43,120
Speaker 2: I would have stopped talking to him after the egg.

1742
01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:45,200
Speaker 2: I mean I wasn't talking to him at that point.

1743
01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 2: Oh he just randomly, he just randomly texted me.

1744
01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:50,720
Speaker 1: But honestly, I loved leaving men's life and terrorizing them,

1745
01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:52,640
Speaker 1: Like I love the fact that I walked away from

1746
01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:53,040
Speaker 1: your life.

1747
01:20:52,960 --> 01:20:55,720
Speaker 2: And you know I terrorized you. Sometimes you have to

1748
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:58,479
Speaker 2: do that. I don't even purposely be trying to terrorize

1749
01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:00,120
Speaker 2: meiga so I know you don't.

1750
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:02,760
Speaker 1: Perfectly do it, but sometimes I do know things are

1751
01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:05,080
Speaker 1: going bad, though, it's time to terrorise them a little

1752
01:21:05,080 --> 01:21:05,719
Speaker 1: bit before.

1753
01:21:05,520 --> 01:21:08,560
Speaker 3: You did for real hair believing, because I feel like,

1754
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 3: what if you terrorized him too much?

1755
01:21:10,240 --> 01:21:13,519
Speaker 2: I just don't ever want a nigga to like flip. Well, no,

1756
01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:16,240
Speaker 2: I'm not saying take shit too far, but how do

1757
01:21:16,320 --> 01:21:17,519
Speaker 2: you know what's too far? Though?

1758
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:22,360
Speaker 3: You know you really don't smack you to that nigga,

1759
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:25,519
Speaker 3: smack your ass or give you a purple nurple?

1760
01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:30,800
Speaker 2: I would break up with a nigga for the flicker

1761
01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:36,920
Speaker 2: in it? Yes, you straight, because why would you do that?

1762
01:21:37,560 --> 01:21:40,759
Speaker 2: I just think it's you know, certain people like certain things. Okay,

1763
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:42,439
Speaker 2: we just need a safe word maybe.

1764
01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:44,640
Speaker 1: Okay, So the item of the week, y'all know per

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1768
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Speaker 1: me on Snapchat. I know y'all be asking me, like

1769
01:21:59,280 --> 01:22:00,599
Speaker 1: what I be doing on daily y'all?

1770
01:22:00,680 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not good at logging, but I'm always

1771
01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:04,040
Speaker 2: on Snapchat.

1772
01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 1: Y'all can see me with my everyday life day to day,

1773
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 1: and I'm also posting my house updates on there, so

1774
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:11,479
Speaker 1: y'all go follow me on Snapchat.

1775
01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:13,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put the link in the bio. It's Alex

1776
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Speaker 2: P zero five.

1777
01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:18,840
Speaker 3: Okay, yes, and y'all know, per usual, my adam of

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1781
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Speaker 2: We got everything that you need on the sites. Okay, period.

1782
01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:41,600
Speaker 1: So now it's time to get into the bop heyo.

1783
01:22:40,720 --> 01:22:46,840
Speaker 2: Bo bo boo boo pal bow bow. So y'all know

1784
01:22:47,200 --> 01:22:47,760
Speaker 2: Bapa the week.

1785
01:22:47,840 --> 01:22:49,360
Speaker 1: Y'all know, I'm an R and B girly and I

1786
01:22:49,520 --> 01:22:51,360
Speaker 1: love my R and B songs, but I had to

1787
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:56,200
Speaker 1: switch it up this week, Chap, because we were listening

1788
01:22:56,280 --> 01:22:58,960
Speaker 1: to Boosy the other day and I know how y'all

1789
01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:01,960
Speaker 1: feel about her, and y'all be having y'alls things to

1790
01:23:02,040 --> 01:23:02,720
Speaker 1: say about him.

1791
01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:08,040
Speaker 2: But if you witnessed the run.

1792
01:23:07,920 --> 01:23:11,360
Speaker 1: That Boosie had, it was like from like two thousand

1793
01:23:11,360 --> 01:23:15,160
Speaker 1: and six to like what twenty eleven twelve, like his

1794
01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:17,120
Speaker 1: big big run when he was like on top of

1795
01:23:17,160 --> 01:23:19,800
Speaker 1: his shit and he was dropping mixtape after mixtape, like

1796
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:23,640
Speaker 1: he was dropping hit after hit after hit, and it

1797
01:23:23,720 --> 01:23:26,559
Speaker 1: was just like he did it independently. Like to see

1798
01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:29,439
Speaker 1: somebody do that independently was crazy.

1799
01:23:30,280 --> 01:23:34,360
Speaker 2: So my bop of the week is Superfly by Boosy and.

1800
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:38,960
Speaker 1: I feel so real and kn't nobody tell me shit,

1801
01:23:39,160 --> 01:23:40,479
Speaker 1: I'm a real bad nigga.

1802
01:23:40,560 --> 01:23:43,240
Speaker 2: He said he was a bad nigga. He did say,

1803
01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:45,160
Speaker 2: he said he was a bad nigga.

1804
01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:47,720
Speaker 1: If you ain't never heard Superfly by Boosy, this is

1805
01:23:47,760 --> 01:23:49,679
Speaker 1: the type of song when you and your girls getting

1806
01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:50,720
Speaker 1: ready for the club.

1807
01:23:51,040 --> 01:23:53,680
Speaker 2: And y'all like, yeah, we done, bitches. This is for

1808
01:23:53,760 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 2: the young girls.

1809
01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:56,840
Speaker 1: Auntie is putting y'all on game, go play super Far

1810
01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:58,960
Speaker 1: by Boosie while y'all getting ready, And that's gonna be

1811
01:23:59,040 --> 01:23:59,400
Speaker 1: y'all song.

1812
01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:01,160
Speaker 2: That's gonna be theme song. I'm telling you.

1813
01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:02,840
Speaker 1: So that's my bop of the week. I had to

1814
01:24:02,880 --> 01:24:05,320
Speaker 1: throw it back, but Boosie got hits. I'm gonna make

1815
01:24:05,320 --> 01:24:09,799
Speaker 1: a Boosy playlist. We love a throwback hits, love.

1816
01:24:09,680 --> 01:24:10,320
Speaker 2: A throwback kid.

1817
01:24:10,360 --> 01:24:12,760
Speaker 1: I'm doing a Booty too used to be a Boosy fan,

1818
01:24:14,080 --> 01:24:16,879
Speaker 1: but yeah, so my bop of the week is folded

1819
01:24:16,960 --> 01:24:17,720
Speaker 1: by Kaylinney.

1820
01:24:18,360 --> 01:24:21,080
Speaker 2: Did you see the clip? I love that song, the

1821
01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:22,960
Speaker 2: clip of her recording the video?

1822
01:24:23,800 --> 01:24:27,400
Speaker 3: I did see gotty T. I mean she we already

1823
01:24:27,479 --> 01:24:30,320
Speaker 3: knew that she been working out and stuff for a minute.

1824
01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:34,200
Speaker 2: And like, you know, being cut up. Yeah, that's a

1825
01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:34,960
Speaker 2: great song.

1826
01:24:35,080 --> 01:24:35,320
Speaker 1: It is.

1827
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:36,080
Speaker 2: It's a good song.

1828
01:24:36,280 --> 01:24:38,720
Speaker 1: I just love Klonie as an artisty little R and B.

1829
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:41,679
Speaker 1: She don't miss She is just one of the girls,

1830
01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:43,240
Speaker 1: one of the like the new girls. I couldn't I

1831
01:24:43,280 --> 01:24:44,519
Speaker 1: count her in like the new generation.

1832
01:24:44,720 --> 01:24:47,400
Speaker 3: Really well, I say, like the like the only reason

1833
01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:49,120
Speaker 3: I guess I don't really look at her is new

1834
01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:51,599
Speaker 3: is because she been out since like twenty twelve.

1835
01:24:52,200 --> 01:24:54,280
Speaker 1: But when I say new generation, I just mean like

1836
01:24:54,800 --> 01:24:57,120
Speaker 1: the younger girls. Like when I think of like older

1837
01:24:57,320 --> 01:24:58,720
Speaker 1: R and B, I'm thinking of like, you know, the

1838
01:24:58,800 --> 01:25:01,680
Speaker 1: Mariah Carey's, the the Houston's and Tony Braxon's. When I

1839
01:25:01,760 --> 01:25:04,400
Speaker 1: say like the newer generations, it's like the Summer Walkers. Yeah,

1840
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:06,040
Speaker 1: Kilani's and people like that.

1841
01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:08,799
Speaker 2: Am I saying it right? Is it Kailani or Kalanie?

1842
01:25:09,720 --> 01:25:10,880
Speaker 2: I think it's Ka Lanne.

1843
01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:13,640
Speaker 1: You know they're gonna be in the comments talking about me.

1844
01:25:13,760 --> 01:25:16,040
Speaker 1: Well correct us thing she y'ad damn it.

1845
01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 2: But Kallanie, come on the show, girl, because we love

1846
01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:20,400
Speaker 2: you over here.

1847
01:25:20,479 --> 01:25:22,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, when I say new R and B I

1848
01:25:22,120 --> 01:25:24,439
Speaker 1: just mean, like, you know, the younger girls that are

1849
01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:26,960
Speaker 1: making like updated R and B R and B two

1850
01:25:27,120 --> 01:25:29,360
Speaker 1: do you know? Not necessarily they just came out, you

1851
01:25:29,400 --> 01:25:31,200
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But shout out to her. That's

1852
01:25:31,400 --> 01:25:33,160
Speaker 1: that was a good bob And she looked fine in

1853
01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:35,400
Speaker 1: that video. I can't wait to see the video she does.

1854
01:25:35,840 --> 01:25:37,640
Speaker 3: So now it's time for us sing get into our

1855
01:25:37,680 --> 01:25:40,320
Speaker 3: favorite segment of the show, which is pouring your heart out.

1856
01:25:40,360 --> 01:25:42,240
Speaker 3: You know, if you have any questions, you can always

1857
01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:45,599
Speaker 3: send them to ask poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1858
01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:48,680
Speaker 3: That's as kp oh you are in my nds at

1859
01:25:48,960 --> 01:25:54,880
Speaker 3: gmail dot com. Let's get into question number one. Hey,

1860
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:57,960
Speaker 3: lex Andrea, I just started listening to the podcast and

1861
01:25:58,040 --> 01:25:58,679
Speaker 3: I love y'all.

1862
01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:01,439
Speaker 2: You keep me laughing. You can truly lift my spirit.

1863
01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 2: Now to my situation.

1864
01:26:03,880 --> 01:26:06,280
Speaker 3: I'm thirty in the military and have been dating my

1865
01:26:06,439 --> 01:26:09,680
Speaker 3: thirty two year old boyfriend, also military, for two and

1866
01:26:09,720 --> 01:26:12,559
Speaker 3: a half years. I'm five months away from getting out

1867
01:26:12,960 --> 01:26:15,400
Speaker 3: and was supposed to move in with him, but I

1868
01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:18,120
Speaker 3: got cold feed. I've never lived with the man, and

1869
01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:21,560
Speaker 3: we've had issues that make me uneasy. He's not a

1870
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,720
Speaker 3: fan of things like girls' trips, and our deployments have

1871
01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:28,240
Speaker 3: called strained. I brought up my concerns but didn't express

1872
01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:31,400
Speaker 3: them the best way, and now he's upset. To add

1873
01:26:31,560 --> 01:26:33,800
Speaker 3: to that, he's trying to break He's tried to break

1874
01:26:33,880 --> 01:26:36,880
Speaker 3: up with me four or five times, usually while one

1875
01:26:36,960 --> 01:26:39,439
Speaker 3: of us was deployed. I do love him and he

1876
01:26:39,560 --> 01:26:42,439
Speaker 3: has great qualities, but I'm hesitant about our future.

1877
01:26:42,960 --> 01:26:45,600
Speaker 2: What do y'all think? Should I still move in or

1878
01:26:45,720 --> 01:26:51,320
Speaker 2: listen to my good love you bunches, Thank you? What

1879
01:26:51,479 --> 01:26:56,439
Speaker 2: you think? What you think? You go first? Want me

1880
01:26:56,479 --> 01:26:57,080
Speaker 2: to go first?

1881
01:26:58,280 --> 01:27:01,000
Speaker 1: I read the question well, I mean, I just feel like,

1882
01:27:01,960 --> 01:27:05,599
Speaker 1: if you have a lot of hesitations and it seems

1883
01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:08,400
Speaker 1: like you have things to address before you take that step,

1884
01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:10,519
Speaker 1: and I think these are conversations that you need to

1885
01:27:10,600 --> 01:27:13,479
Speaker 1: have with him. I think that if you want to

1886
01:27:13,520 --> 01:27:16,200
Speaker 1: take a next step in your relationship, but something is

1887
01:27:16,280 --> 01:27:17,160
Speaker 1: telling you something and.

1888
01:27:17,200 --> 01:27:19,640
Speaker 2: You're having doubts to where I always say this.

1889
01:27:19,760 --> 01:27:21,400
Speaker 1: If you feel like you're having so many doubts where

1890
01:27:21,400 --> 01:27:23,320
Speaker 1: you have to write us and ask us, then you

1891
01:27:23,400 --> 01:27:26,280
Speaker 1: need to hold off, like that's a big red flat

1892
01:27:26,360 --> 01:27:28,960
Speaker 1: to you, like something in your spirit is not sitting

1893
01:27:29,080 --> 01:27:31,559
Speaker 1: right with you to where you want.

1894
01:27:31,479 --> 01:27:36,840
Speaker 2: To take that leap forward. And I don't know, I've

1895
01:27:36,880 --> 01:27:38,599
Speaker 2: been thinking that a lot of times y'all be knowing

1896
01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:39,160
Speaker 2: the answers.

1897
01:27:39,240 --> 01:27:41,280
Speaker 1: Y'all just want to hear us say something different, But

1898
01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:43,160
Speaker 1: you have to listen to that voice.

1899
01:27:43,439 --> 01:27:44,599
Speaker 2: It's there for a reason.

1900
01:27:44,920 --> 01:27:47,160
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying break up, But maybe y'all just

1901
01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:49,600
Speaker 1: need a little more time to align more properly. A

1902
01:27:49,640 --> 01:27:51,880
Speaker 1: lot of times people will be in love and they

1903
01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:54,280
Speaker 1: want the same things, but they're not necessarily on the

1904
01:27:54,360 --> 01:27:57,280
Speaker 1: same page or aligning properly. So it sounds like that

1905
01:27:57,479 --> 01:27:59,080
Speaker 1: something is not aligned with.

1906
01:27:59,240 --> 01:27:59,840
Speaker 2: Y'all right now.

1907
01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:03,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I kind of just

1908
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 3: feel like in a relationship. To me, this is just

1909
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:08,840
Speaker 3: me personally. But I think if it's a lot of

1910
01:28:08,920 --> 01:28:11,640
Speaker 3: breaking up off and on, or like a person be

1911
01:28:11,760 --> 01:28:14,080
Speaker 3: trying to break up with you and get back with you,

1912
01:28:14,640 --> 01:28:17,880
Speaker 3: that's a sign of like emotional immaturity. And I don't

1913
01:28:17,920 --> 01:28:20,080
Speaker 3: really know if that's somebody that you should want to

1914
01:28:20,160 --> 01:28:24,120
Speaker 3: be with long term, because anytime it's an issue or

1915
01:28:24,120 --> 01:28:26,640
Speaker 3: a potential issue, they want to break up with you

1916
01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:30,479
Speaker 3: and not try to work through it. Those are not

1917
01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:34,439
Speaker 3: signs of sustainability in a relationship. To me, I feel like,

1918
01:28:34,479 --> 01:28:37,439
Speaker 3: if you gonna be with somebody, then you signing up

1919
01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:39,519
Speaker 3: to be with them. Now I can understand if you

1920
01:28:39,680 --> 01:28:41,840
Speaker 3: really have made your mind up and you like this

1921
01:28:42,000 --> 01:28:45,599
Speaker 3: situation does not work for me, It don't align, let's

1922
01:28:45,880 --> 01:28:50,200
Speaker 3: breakup and we don't cool. But every time you get

1923
01:28:50,240 --> 01:28:51,479
Speaker 3: mad at me, you're trying to break up with me.

1924
01:28:51,960 --> 01:28:56,160
Speaker 3: That's lame, and you emotionally immature. And so I definitely

1925
01:28:56,200 --> 01:28:58,040
Speaker 3: wouldn't want to move in with somebody like that because

1926
01:28:58,080 --> 01:29:00,639
Speaker 3: I feel like once you add the me of y'all

1927
01:29:00,760 --> 01:29:02,680
Speaker 3: living together, girl, he the type to lock you out

1928
01:29:02,720 --> 01:29:05,080
Speaker 3: the house or some she like. I don't know, that's

1929
01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:07,800
Speaker 3: just where my mind goes to. I pay attention to

1930
01:29:07,880 --> 01:29:10,439
Speaker 3: those type of things in a relationship. If somebody is

1931
01:29:10,520 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 3: like emotionally mature or not, and I feel like they'll

1932
01:29:14,240 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 3: tell you everything that you need.

1933
01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:18,240
Speaker 1: To know because you're gonna have disagreements, But like, how

1934
01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:19,320
Speaker 1: do we disagree.

1935
01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:20,680
Speaker 2: Do you handle disagreements with.

1936
01:29:20,760 --> 01:29:22,600
Speaker 3: Every time we disagree, you want to break up with me?

1937
01:29:22,680 --> 01:29:23,360
Speaker 3: That's crazy?

1938
01:29:24,479 --> 01:29:25,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

1939
01:29:25,240 --> 01:29:26,600
Speaker 3: I like to be with me and that are like

1940
01:29:26,720 --> 01:29:31,240
Speaker 3: emotionally mature in that way at least, like if we

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Speaker 3: have an issue, we gonna talk it out.

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Speaker 2: I'm usually the one that be like, you know what, bye,

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Speaker 2: I'm leaving, but like a man doing it all the time.

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Speaker 2: I don't like that. Yeah, okay, dear poor months. I'm nineteen.

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Speaker 1: I'm the youngest of nine in an African household from Newark.

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Speaker 1: There's always been a divide between my older siblings and me,

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Speaker 1: especially the brothers who carry a lot of unspoken trauma.

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Speaker 1: Growing up, I was often the target of that, hurt

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Speaker 1: emotionally and physically. Senior year, I got a full ride

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Speaker 1: to call it. One of my brothers A claimed he

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Speaker 1: had saved money for me, but later I found out

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Speaker 1: he used it for his own child. Lied to my parents,

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Speaker 1: who can't read English, and told them I wasn't serious

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Speaker 1: about school. I've made the Dean List four times while

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Speaker 1: double majoring in public health and African American studies. That

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Speaker 1: Patroth cut deep and I cut him off. Now I

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Speaker 1: wonder do I try to rebuild with family who's hurt

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Speaker 1: me or just protect my peace.

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Speaker 2: And move forward? She said, she the youngest. Yeah, she's

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Speaker 2: the youngest of nine in an African household. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: mean you can rebuild with people in your family.

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Speaker 3: I just think people gotta look at family like any

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Speaker 3: other relationship. I say that all the time. People love

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Speaker 3: to be like, oh, that's my family, that's my brother,

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Speaker 3: that's my sister. And I try to trade lightly with that,

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Speaker 3: cause y'all know, I don't have seablings. Well I do now,

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Speaker 3: but they really young. But I don't have seablings that

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Speaker 3: I grew up with. But even when it comes to

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Speaker 3: like cousins, uncle, unts, your mom and your dad, your grandparents,

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Speaker 3: you have to treat your family relationships like you treat

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Speaker 3: any other relationship. If a person is toxic, if a

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Speaker 3: person is hurting you all the time, if a person

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Speaker 3: is bringing a whole bunch of drama to your life,

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Speaker 3: or they seem like they don't mean you will all

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Speaker 3: the time, regardless of who they are, why would you

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Speaker 3: keep that person in your life. If it was a friend,

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Speaker 3: you would just cut them off. If it was a partner,

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01:31:24,200 --> 01:31:26,439
Speaker 3: you would just cut them off. Why not do the

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01:31:26,520 --> 01:31:30,000
Speaker 3: same and treat your family the same. Cause family can

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01:31:30,120 --> 01:31:32,400
Speaker 3: hurt you and not love just because y'all family, they

1981
01:31:32,400 --> 01:31:34,360
Speaker 3: don't mean that they really love you and want the

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Speaker 3: best for you. And I feel like people would do

1983
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Speaker 3: better when you start to look at relationships across the

1984
01:31:40,160 --> 01:31:43,400
Speaker 3: board that way and not feeling like you owe people

1985
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Speaker 3: so many chances just because y'all got the same mammy

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Speaker 3: and daddy.

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Speaker 2: Yep, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Because like your brother and sister can hurt you worse

1989
01:31:52,280 --> 01:31:56,479
Speaker 3: than a friend can hurt you worse than I don't

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Speaker 3: know anybody. They could do you more dirty than anybody.

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Speaker 3: I just I think people just got to keep that

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Speaker 3: in mind.

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Speaker 1: And I think it's okay, like in certain situations to

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Speaker 1: be selfish, it's I think it's not making you happy,

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Speaker 1: and you're more uncomfortable and unhappy than you are happy.

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Speaker 2: You have to remove yourself.

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Speaker 1: I think that we need to learn how to be

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01:32:13,960 --> 01:32:16,960
Speaker 1: selfish sometimes and stop doing things we necessarily don't want

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Speaker 1: to do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got family members that I don't talk to

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01:32:19,720 --> 01:32:22,000
Speaker 3: because they need miss up stuff to me. I just

2002
01:32:22,280 --> 01:32:25,120
Speaker 3: don't that it's not to say that it's.

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Speaker 2: Not that serious.

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01:32:26,439 --> 01:32:29,599
Speaker 3: But again, why keep you in my life just because

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01:32:29,640 --> 01:32:33,800
Speaker 3: you my family member when you clearly don't mean me

2006
01:32:34,040 --> 01:32:36,799
Speaker 3: well or you're clearly not a good person.

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Speaker 2: Agreed, I would rather just cut my losses than not

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Speaker 2: deal with you. I agree one thousand percent. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I.

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Speaker 3: Feel like that's something that you have to ask yourself.

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01:32:45,160 --> 01:32:46,640
Speaker 3: How important easy to you?

2012
01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:50,160
Speaker 1: Because she said, do I rebuild my family or just

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01:32:50,240 --> 01:32:51,759
Speaker 1: protect my peace and move forward?

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01:32:52,080 --> 01:32:52,920
Speaker 2: Protect your peace?

2015
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Speaker 1: My main thing is I don't know if you won't

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01:32:54,880 --> 01:32:57,000
Speaker 1: move for or rebuild, but the main thing is protect

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01:32:57,120 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 1: your peace. So you have to ask yourself that, can

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01:32:59,880 --> 01:33:01,920
Speaker 1: I I protect my piece and still rebuild with my

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01:33:02,040 --> 01:33:04,080
Speaker 1: family or do I have to protect my peace by

2020
01:33:04,160 --> 01:33:04,479
Speaker 1: moving on?

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Speaker 3: And also keep in mind too, you can never people

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01:33:08,160 --> 01:33:11,000
Speaker 3: think that, Okay, maybe if you want to try to

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01:33:11,040 --> 01:33:12,880
Speaker 3: protect yr, maybe if you want to try to like

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01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:15,960
Speaker 3: rebuild the relationship, cool, But what are your brother want?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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01:33:17,479 --> 01:33:19,880
Speaker 3: Is he even willing to be openly to is he

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01:33:19,960 --> 01:33:22,479
Speaker 3: willing to change? How do you know he not gonna

2028
01:33:22,520 --> 01:33:25,720
Speaker 3: do it again? Just because that's what you're willing to do,

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01:33:26,000 --> 01:33:28,360
Speaker 3: that doesn't mean that it's the same energy on the

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Speaker 3: other end. And we have to always keep in mind

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Speaker 3: the only person that we have control over is ourselves,

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Speaker 3: and so since you only got control over yourself, I

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01:33:36,640 --> 01:33:40,120
Speaker 3: will personally protect my peace. I will have a conversation

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Speaker 3: with him maybe, and depending on how the conversation go,

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Speaker 3: then I will decide, Okay, maybe we can rebuild these

2036
01:33:46,320 --> 01:33:46,879
Speaker 3: or maybe.

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01:33:46,720 --> 01:33:49,559
Speaker 2: I should just protect my peace and keep my d sense.

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Speaker 2: Good luck, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all email us at ask poor minds at

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Speaker 1: gmail dot com, Go to Patreon dot com, backslash poor mind,

2041
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2043
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Speaker 2: It's LEXP, poor Mind's on Face poor Mind's podcast on

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Speaker 2: Facebook and LEXP zero five on Snapchat. Period. Yes, make

2046
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Speaker 2: sure y'all follow my YouTube.

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01:34:17,240 --> 01:34:20,160
Speaker 1: My YouTube channel is Drey in the Call with three E's,

2048
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Speaker 1: and you know, just follow me everywhere.

2049
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Speaker 2: It's the same thing, Dre and the Call with three E's.

2050
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Speaker 2: I'm not on Twitter no more. That was the only one.

2051
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Speaker 3: It was a different and yeah, shot Musicuty Collection Dots.

2052
01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:33,880
Speaker 3: Come and watch Trevor Queens period.

2053
01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:36,240
Speaker 2: Y'all can still want travel queens up. You know what

2054
01:34:36,320 --> 01:34:39,200
Speaker 2: I'm saying, and we'll see y'all next week. Bye, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It was too young when this came out. No, y'all

2056
01:34:43,800 --> 01:34:46,160
Speaker 2: was too young. I was too young. I was like

2057
01:34:46,320 --> 01:34:50,439
Speaker 2: this song, but I knew it though. Yeah, Hey, here

2058
01:34:50,479 --> 01:34:55,880
Speaker 2: we go. Heard about my past things. I used to do,

2059
01:34:56,720 --> 01:34:59,519
Speaker 2: the games, I used to play the girls that did

2060
01:34:59,640 --> 01:35:02,880
Speaker 2: And let I know what's on your mind. You think

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01:35:02,960 --> 01:35:06,320
Speaker 2: I'm doing wrong, and I just say, what's real? You

2062
01:35:06,600 --> 01:35:10,600
Speaker 2: are the only one when I'm not upround? Do you

2063
01:35:10,800 --> 01:35:11,320
Speaker 2: think of me?

2064
01:35:12,120 --> 01:35:15,200
Speaker 3: Or what's the jealous ones I'm blaming me to be?

2065
01:35:15,880 --> 01:35:19,360
Speaker 3: You should nobody now that it's gonna take.

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01:35:19,720 --> 01:35:22,599
Speaker 2: A lot of truths from you or it's to make

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01:35:22,840 --> 01:35:25,400
Speaker 2: it through. You should know.

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Speaker 3: Your nothing's gonna make you fall from heaven.

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Speaker 1: Girl.

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01:35:35,120 --> 01:35:42,680
Speaker 2: I just want to know what if people say they

2071
01:35:42,760 --> 01:35:47,040
Speaker 2: don't know about about you and me, but it's out

2072
01:35:47,120 --> 01:35:54,360
Speaker 2: your mind because it's jealousy. Don't know about this. Don't

2073
01:35:54,520 --> 01:35:59,440
Speaker 2: listen to what people say they don't know about.

2074
01:36:00,160 --> 01:36:00,720
Speaker 1: You and me.

2075
01:36:01,640 --> 01:36:06,240
Speaker 2: Put it out your mind cause it's jealousy. They don't

2076
01:36:06,680 --> 01:36:11,920
Speaker 2: know about this girl. Let's talk about what your friends

2077
01:36:12,000 --> 01:36:15,439
Speaker 2: told you that I'm a selfish man, want my cake

2078
01:36:15,479 --> 01:36:19,120
Speaker 2: and eat it too. Maybe in my past, but to

2079
01:36:19,280 --> 01:36:22,880
Speaker 2: change me now now that I've learned to love, it's you.

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01:36:23,080 --> 01:36:26,680
Speaker 3: Just show me how y'all love so real. I'll be

2081
01:36:26,840 --> 01:36:30,280
Speaker 3: your food to play, to play around on you. I

2082
01:36:30,439 --> 01:36:33,679
Speaker 3: want to stay with you. You should know find out

2083
01:36:34,200 --> 01:36:37,200
Speaker 3: that it's gonna take a lot of truths from you

2084
01:36:37,960 --> 01:36:42,360
Speaker 3: or it's to make it through. You should know that

2085
01:36:43,400 --> 01:36:49,839
Speaker 3: your mind jel, nothing's gonna make you fall from hebus.

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01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:59,880
Speaker 2: Girl, I just won't know know. They don't know about

2087
01:37:00,160 --> 01:37:03,960
Speaker 2: care about you and me. Put it out your mind

2088
01:37:04,400 --> 01:37:05,519
Speaker 2: because it's jealousy.

2089
01:37:06,240 --> 01:37:12,240
Speaker 1: They don't know about listen, don't listen to you what

2090
01:37:12,680 --> 01:37:13,320
Speaker 1: people say.

2091
01:37:14,120 --> 01:37:18,280
Speaker 2: They don't know about about you and me. Put it

2092
01:37:18,439 --> 01:37:24,080
Speaker 2: out to mind because it's jealousy. They don't know about

2093
01:37:24,160 --> 01:37:33,240
Speaker 2: this kid. They don't know. They don't know about They

2094
01:37:33,560 --> 01:37:48,520
Speaker 2: don't know how, they don't try. They don't about the nod.

2095
01:37:49,360 --> 01:38:01,840
Speaker 2: These holes don't know howell nigga. They'll know it is there.

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Speaker 1: It is allow