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Speaker 1: It is time for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Ready for your love questions the less in Laurel. Right,

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Speaker 1: my husband is studying to be a pastor, and he

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Speaker 1: uses profanity at home when he's stressed, he will smoke weed.

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Speaker 1: He shouldn't pursue this profession if he's going to be

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Speaker 1: a hypocrite. Should I tell our senior pastor about his

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Speaker 1: behavior or not?

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Speaker 2: What by you? The wife tell you.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy?

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Speaker 4: You and he might have to testify in court on

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Speaker 4: your husband. So he didn't mad a snitch? Yeah, basically, well,

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Speaker 4: you know he's studying to be a pastor. That that's

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Speaker 4: the difference between a lot of people studying to be

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Speaker 4: a pastor and call to be a pastor two different things.

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Speaker 4: To my understanding and the way I grew up and

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Speaker 4: was raised. So he's studying to be something he may

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Speaker 4: not be qualified for. I had all my degree in

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Speaker 4: college was advertising. I have no business sitting up in

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Speaker 4: the advertising office. One of the many wrong decisions I

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Speaker 4: made as a young man. And so you know, it's

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Speaker 4: just another bad decision. You ain't got to tell nobody.

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Speaker 4: It ain't gonna work out to run out.

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Speaker 3: You discould be on this course right here.

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Speaker 2: He's too far over there.

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Speaker 3: Oh come on, mate, him trying to come back.

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Speaker 4: I tell you what's really making him, cause them theological tests.

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Speaker 1: All right. Moving on to Benita in Tampa. Benita says,

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Speaker 1: I'm in love with the man that owns two car

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Speaker 1: washes and he hands out complimentary mimosas to women on

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Speaker 1: Saturday and Sunday. He claims it's marketing, but I think

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Speaker 1: he does it so he and the guys can meet women.

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Speaker 2: Is this marketing or macking?

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Speaker 4: Sounds like marketing to me? Oh yeah, yeah, house, well

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Speaker 4: it's marketing.

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Speaker 3: It works.

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Speaker 4: Look how look what it did to you. You probably

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Speaker 4: got head in one of them mimosas. And now look

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Speaker 4: at your You're fitting married a man. Great marketing, mac marketing, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I call it marketing. Yeah, free mimosas, Yeah, I'm all

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Speaker 4: for it. Sounds like great marketing. You will on the

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Speaker 4: Steve Harvey National Radio show talking about it. Marketing outstanding

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Speaker 4: by this guy's brilliant.

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Speaker 1: I hope they're drinking responsibly, all right, Wanda and Mableton

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Speaker 1: says my daughters.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know, still has champagne in it.

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Speaker 3: Just go ahead, everybody, ain't affected by it like.

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Speaker 2: You, Shirley. This one's from Wanda and Mableton.

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Speaker 1: Wanda says, my daughter is seventeen and she hit her

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Speaker 1: boyfriend in the eye after catching him next door in

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Speaker 1: the pool with the sixteen year.

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Speaker 2: Old girl that lived there.

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Speaker 1: I told my daughter that she shouldn't hit him, She

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Speaker 1: shouldn't have hit him. But now the boy is flaunting

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Speaker 1: the new girl in my daughter's face, and she's so hurt.

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Speaker 2: I want to pop them. How do I console her?

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Speaker 3: You can't. This is life.

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Speaker 4: This is what happens along the way. Boy meets girl, girl,

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Speaker 4: me's boy. Boy likes girl, Girl likes boy. Boy looks

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Speaker 4: across the fence, see another girl. Boy like her too.

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Speaker 4: He ain't committed. This boy's seventeen. You don't even understand

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Speaker 4: what's driving him right now. He's not driven by his mind,

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Speaker 4: in his brain, he's driven by hormones. He in the

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Speaker 4: pool with the sixteen year old girl splashing around, she

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Speaker 4: splashing water on his face.

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Speaker 3: What did that do that got him aroused? What are

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Speaker 3: they doing now? Now?

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Speaker 4: They walking around town? It don't take much. He's seventeen.

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Speaker 4: You couldn't do nothing to me. Nothing If I saw

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Speaker 4: a girl's bullying her up, not even because they was down,

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Speaker 4: just you know, just walking, just trying to.

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Speaker 3: Make sure they sail herself.

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Speaker 2: I was heated.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, she won't me. She going that in

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Speaker 3: front of my.

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Speaker 4: Face, she said me standing up the girl. They got

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Speaker 4: eyes in the back of her head. Lady, you got

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Speaker 4: to relax your daughter. This ain't the first. This ain't

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Speaker 4: her last time getting hurt either. It's okay that boy

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Speaker 4: didn't hit her or nothing like that. He just changed

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Speaker 4: his mind.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he gonna he gonna get another one. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And she shouldn't be hitting him anyway. You told her, right, Wanda,

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Speaker 2: not to hit anybody.

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Speaker 4: Girls don't hit these dudes. They ain't raised right, No,

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Speaker 4: these dudes hit women back. Keep your hands to yourself late, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: because these cats out here they're not they not raised

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Speaker 4: like this.

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Speaker 2: They will hit you back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, last one, Steve, This one's for Dina

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Speaker 1: in North Carolina. Dina says, my boyfriend had a barbecue

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Speaker 1: so his parents could meet me. I made beans, potato, salad, greens,

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Speaker 1: a pound cake, and banana pudding. His mother said my

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Speaker 1: food tasted like hospital food, and I got defensive.

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Speaker 2: I know what that tastes like I can tell you.

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Speaker 3: And he sees me.

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Speaker 1: She said, I got defensive and said, well, don't eat it.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend said it was unnecessary and rude. But what

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Speaker 1: his mama said wasn't.

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Speaker 3: His mama told the truth.

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Speaker 4: Let me tell you something, girl, You ain't got enough

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Speaker 4: experience to make barbecue classics for the family.

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Speaker 3: Barbecue.

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Speaker 4: The baked beans, the potato salad, the pound cake.

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Speaker 3: Are you crazy? This is black folk classic?

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Speaker 4: The hell you mak your potato salad for you know

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Speaker 4: how hard it is to get that right.

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Speaker 3: You then opened up.

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Speaker 4: A can of Campmel's poking beans and heating them up

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Speaker 4: and gave them to them black people. Hospital food. You'd

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Speaker 4: have went down there to the grocery store and bought

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Speaker 4: a sa lee pound cake, hospital food.

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Speaker 2: Set it the.

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Speaker 4: Little bought the bought the potato salad from publics hospital food.

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Speaker 4: Sent up here and try to make these black people

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Speaker 4: eat this. And you young, he said, it tastes like

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Speaker 4: hospital food because it did.

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Speaker 3: What color? What did she put in them?

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Speaker 2: Green?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: And them green?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I forgot left that off? The green nothing. You just

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Speaker 3: walled greens.

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Speaker 4: They wasn't even cooked all the way through there, and

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Speaker 4: there chewing stalk. You didn't throw the stalks out, you

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Speaker 4: just chopped them up, small your collar. Greens in there

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Speaker 4: looking like ko you just in here, just wrong. They

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Speaker 4: in there, children like it's kale.

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Speaker 2: I'm on de side her.

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Speaker 4: His mama told my ship man, you shut up, Shirley.

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Speaker 4: This is one nine cooking person talking to it enough.

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Speaker 4: Don't listen to Shirley about nothing with cookie because he

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Speaker 4: can't cookie. And Shirley no rule when she hear, because

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Speaker 4: she done heard all of that.

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Speaker 2: Because it's been hospital food. It's been clinic snaver.

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Speaker 3: She said her.

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Speaker 4: Somebody told Shirley her food tastes like emergency room medicine.

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Speaker 3: Steve Morning Show coming up right after the