1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: Good Morning, This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to respect your sleep set point. You 4 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: can't really change how much sleep you need, so you're 5 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: better off making your peace with whatever that number happens 6 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: to be. As long time listeners know, I have tracked 7 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: my time continuously since April. Those years have featured a 8 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: lot of changes in my life, but one thing has 9 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: been constant. I average about seven point four hours of 10 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: sleep per day, one way or another, over any period 11 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: of eight weeks or so. That's what my body will average. Now. 12 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 1: I certainly don't get seven point four hours on every 13 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: single day. There are tough days, babies or early flights. 14 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: There are also days I get more sleep for various reasons. 15 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 1: Maybe I sleep in or nap or crash early. But 16 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: the average is seven point four hours. When I tracked 17 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: my time for a year, I found that number interesting. 18 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: Then I tracked for a second year and was intrigued 19 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 1: to see the average come out to the exact same number. 20 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: Year three the same. Clearly I was dealing with a 21 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: very strong orientation towards that amount. I could wish that 22 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: number were different. Maybe if my set point was seven 23 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: hours per day, I could make great use of the 24 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: additional twenty four waking minutes that would open up. Maybe 25 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: if my set point was six hours, I'd have enough 26 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: time to write more books, or host another podcast, or 27 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: be able to train for marathons. Who knows. But when 28 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: I try to skimp on sleep, my body makes me 29 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: make it up. I have to get back to seven 30 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: point four hours. Better to accept that and try to 31 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: get that amount most nights, and better to accept that 32 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: I just need to make the most of the sixteen 33 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: point six waking hours I have per day. From studying 34 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: thousands of people's time logs, I've seen that many people 35 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 1: have a similarly strong set point. Self aware people know 36 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: this number. If you don't pay attention, you might not, 37 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: but it's worth figuring out. Try tracking your time for 38 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: a few weeks. How much sleep do you average per 39 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: day over those few weeks? What days do you feel tired? 40 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: Those may be the days when you are massively undershooting. 41 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 1: If you don't know, you might try aiming for seven 42 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: point five hours and seeing how that works in your life. 43 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:50,119 Speaker 1: If you still feel groggy waking up, you might need more. 44 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: If you wake up before your alarm, you might need less. Anyway, 45 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: when you figure out your set point, you should respect 46 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: this numb her aim to get as close to this 47 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: number as possible every single night. That allows you to 48 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: take each day as it comes without building up a 49 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: sleep debt. When you get that amount every day, you 50 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: can also make more mindful choices about how you spend 51 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: your waking time. Some people do get frustrated when they 52 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: realize that they do truly need eight hours of sleep 53 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: at night, or possibly even more. It is very normal 54 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: to need eight and a half if that's you. Instead 55 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: of fretting about what you can't do, realize that most 56 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: of the people who need less do not use their 57 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: waking hours well. They scroll around online or watch shows 58 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: that they didn't really mean to watch. Perhaps you need 59 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 1: to be more careful, but so what be more careful? 60 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: You can't actually train yourself to get by unless sleep. 61 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: You will crash at some point. By respecting your sleep 62 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: set point, you can feel better and learn to make 63 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: more mindful choices with whatever weaking hours you do have 64 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: in the meantime. This is Laura, Thanks for listening, and 65 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: here's to making the most of our time. Hey, everybody. 66 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,919 Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you. You can send me 67 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:26,599 Speaker 1: your tips, your questions, or anything else. 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