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Speaker 1: Well it is one or two point seven because them,

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Speaker 1: I do look forward to giving relationship advice on this show.

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Speaker 1: I love it when people call in and say, all right,

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Speaker 1: here's the deal, I can't figure this out, and so

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Speaker 1: funny how like when you're not in it, you kind

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Speaker 1: of can give educated advice when you're not in it.

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Speaker 1: When you're in it, you have so many voices in

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Speaker 1: your head telling you different things that you don't see clearly.

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Speaker 1: So if I ever call y'all, siss any Tanya, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'll be asking about. If I ever call

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Speaker 1: in on a day on vacation when e. J's here

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Speaker 1: or somebody's here asking for relationship advice. I know you

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Speaker 1: guys give good, educated advice. In fact, Ruby knows it.

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Speaker 1: One of the perks of being on this show is

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Speaker 1: free studio time to ask the educated relationship experts here

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Speaker 1: a relationships. So apparently somebody in the back room I

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Speaker 1: give bad advice to at one point. Yeah, but I'm

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Speaker 1: a little nervous because of that. But turned it around, now,

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Speaker 1: well it was actually, if Marianna is being honest, she

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Speaker 1: probably should have told you back there that it was

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Speaker 1: good advice. It was bad good advice. No, it was

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Speaker 1: the right advice. Sometimes I wouldn't say right, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: would say right. Sometimes guys, relationship advice isn't what you

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Speaker 1: want to hear. It doesn't make it wrong, makes it right.

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Speaker 1: So Ruby, what's going on in your world where you

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Speaker 1: need some relationship advice from us? So? I got a

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Speaker 1: text from my boyfriend and he was like, we were

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Speaker 1: I sent him like a link to a like a

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Speaker 1: few photos, like a couple couple photos, like kind of

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Speaker 1: like the swapmeat ones. Have you seen those with like

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Speaker 1: the backgrounds? Uh no, okay, like back in the day

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Speaker 1: that we like the early two thousand's that you took

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Speaker 1: with your friends. So this couple did one, but it

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Speaker 1: was hilarious and it was kind of like a like airbrushed, yes,

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Speaker 1: but it was just like they were joking around. So

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Speaker 1: I sent it to him as a joke, and then

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Speaker 1: he responded, He's like, should we do a Christmas card

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Speaker 1: this year? Like our photo? And he's like you down

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Speaker 1: question mark? Or do we need to be married first? Interesting?

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Speaker 1: And I would like to add that I don't know,

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Speaker 1: Oh no, why do you have to see that? First

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Speaker 1: of all? I don't know yet, not engaged. So Rudy

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Speaker 1: has been dating this said boyfriend for six years. They

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Speaker 1: recently went ring shopping together. Maybe he already thinks you're

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Speaker 1: going to be engaged by the time the Christmas cards

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Speaker 1: come on. But that's what is that He sent a

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Speaker 1: humor though to say, or do we do married? Ha

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Speaker 1: ha ha. First of all, you don't have to be anything.

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Speaker 1: There was no l O l or like ha ha ha.

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Speaker 1: He just was like, then maybe he's been serious. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Let me take him for his word. I

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Speaker 1: like it. He's actually genuinely not knowing. I don't know

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Speaker 1: why not, But wait, I kind of get it. He's like, wait,

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Speaker 1: we should do a Christmas card? Oh wait, maybe we

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Speaker 1: should be married? Like people might think it's you gotta

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Speaker 1: get married. Like I think he's maybe being genuine. I

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Speaker 1: don't think he's being like there's nothing, no meaning behind it,

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, people expect it to come from a married

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Speaker 1: couple or a family right when you have kids, as

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Speaker 1: opposed to just because otherwise you'd be sending Christmas cards

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Speaker 1: all the time, right and they wouldn't have as much meaning.

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Speaker 1: But why doesn't have to be when you're married? Why

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Speaker 1: I'm saying Christmas cards by myself. Why just trying to

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Speaker 1: tell you what her boyfriend is saying here, guys, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's actually going you know, maybe we need to wait

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Speaker 1: because we should write. He's asking you, so did you respond?

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Speaker 1: I did. I was just like, uh, l m a oh.

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Speaker 1: This Ruby's answer to everything. This is why it's been

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Speaker 1: six years, six years everything. I think you should talk

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Speaker 1: to him and say, you know what, we've been together

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Speaker 1: long enough. I get it. Yeah, probably most people are married,

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Speaker 1: but we should just do one. I think it's been real. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Or you can say, let's put a ring on it

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Speaker 1: before the holidays. Let's go l m a oh oh

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Speaker 1: to start using that with y'all. When y'all group text me,

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go l m a oh, sell it me.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking there's going to be a ring on that

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Speaker 1: finger before the end of the year, for sure. This

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Speaker 1: guy's coming hot. Before we sing our Christmas carols? Are

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Speaker 1: we putting beds? Maybe it's going to be one of

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Speaker 1: those pictures where you're showing the ring off for the

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Speaker 1: Christmas card where you spending christ Did we determine that? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll be in the bay, in the bay meaning San Francisco, okay,

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Speaker 1: not like the South Bay. Not out on a boat,

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Speaker 1: got in the bay. I'm out in the bay, craming.

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Speaker 1: What are you guys doing rowing? I'm out they're clamming

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Speaker 1: in the bay. What are y'all up to? Boy guys? Right?

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Speaker 1: Was showing off the ring to this one as we go?

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Speaker 1: All right, there we go. At least we got that's

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Speaker 1: that's that. Those songs are in there in the qube.

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Speaker 1: These are getting He's getting ready to be played. Y'all

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Speaker 1: be so excited. I am ready, and he's the best

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Speaker 1: time of the year. Let's do this right out of

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Speaker 1: the old high school locker. They're coming up next for

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