Speaker 1: Rooking Jubels second date update. They say that one man's
Speaker 1: trash is another man's treasure. I already don't like the
Speaker 1: start of today's second date update, and that's why Tim
Speaker 1: is on the phone for a second date update. Today.
Speaker 1: He found a discarded date and then he sweeped in
Speaker 1: and got a date with her. Started Tim, Now, I
Speaker 1: don't want to call your date trash. It was just
Speaker 1: an analogy. Okay, Yeah, I tell us about the garbage pickup.
Speaker 1: How'd it go? Um? Yeah, well, let leove back up.
Speaker 1: I went out that night to go see a play
Speaker 1: and I just went by myself. So I go to
Speaker 1: the theater and I'm there and down the row, a
Speaker 1: couple of seats down, there's this girl and she was
Speaker 1: pretty cute. So I smiled at her and she sort
Speaker 1: of smiled back. Did you throw her a wink too? No? No,
Speaker 1: I did the polite you know, like smile ahead. No,
Speaker 1: just like hello all right, like bite the lower lip,
Speaker 1: like h my god. Any of the proper moves are
Speaker 1: just simply a maybe I should have done that. You
Speaker 1: start talking about how this woman sounds like a sweater
Speaker 1: from Goodwill, and now you're tea all right, So he
Speaker 1: smiled at her. I did, and the seat next to
Speaker 1: her is vacant. So I get a little courage and
Speaker 1: I kind of like walked down a little bit to
Speaker 1: the aisle and I just said, Hey, is anybody sitting
Speaker 1: the seat? And she said, yeah, someone else is going
Speaker 1: to come take the seat. And then that's when you
Speaker 1: yelled at out. Why are you yelled at her? Now?
Speaker 1: He was upset. No, no, no, no, oh, you didn't
Speaker 1: yelled at her. No, I just said, oh, okay, I
Speaker 1: didn't ask who you know the seat was for, right,
Speaker 1: because it's none of your business, because she's a complete
Speaker 1: stranger in a theater. Yeah, but she also didn't say
Speaker 1: you know who it was for either, Like if it
Speaker 1: was her husband, I imagine she would say like, no,
Speaker 1: it's for my husband or or my boyfriend. Right, she
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't, let you know, stop hitting on me exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And the nicest way possible, I feel like, seat taken
Speaker 1: has already stopped hitting on me. Why would you guys
Speaker 1: saying no, actually I married him in a very long
Speaker 1: relationship and the seat has been taken by him. Maybe
Speaker 1: there's this possibility that the seat is, you know, just
Speaker 1: for one of her girlfriend. You know, a friend of
Speaker 1: hers actually went to see the play with Yeah, right, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so you went back to your regular seat, then I did.
Speaker 1: I did. I said, okay, well, you know, and enjoy
Speaker 1: the show, and then I went back and the show
Speaker 1: started a few minutes later, and it was good, okay,
Speaker 1: But then through the show I sort of kept the
Speaker 1: eye just looking over by her to see if him
Speaker 1: in a hatch showed up. You almost sound like you're
Speaker 1: starting to get a little creepy, the guy at the
Speaker 1: that keeps looking over at her during the play. I
Speaker 1: did it. That's the thing. I didn't want to, so
Speaker 1: I kind of did, like the perfuel vision to see
Speaker 1: if there's any action happening over there. Um anyway, So
Speaker 1: intermission comes and no one had showed up. Oh the
Speaker 1: mysterious vacant seat. She's either lying to you or the
Speaker 1: person didn't show up. So you know, I went out,
Speaker 1: I got something to drink, do the intermission stuff. And
Speaker 1: when I came back in, I came in, so I
Speaker 1: walked past her to get into the aisle, and as
Speaker 1: I walked past her, I just said, hey, the seats
Speaker 1: still taken, and she said, no, they didn't show, and
Speaker 1: I said, oh, well, do you mind if I sit there?
Speaker 1: And she said sure, So I say, good persistence. Okay.
Speaker 1: You know, I would have felt weird going back up
Speaker 1: to her and being like, yeah, hey, what's up? You
Speaker 1: said someone just come for that seat, but it's been
Speaker 1: open this whole time and I've had my eye on
Speaker 1: that seat. So yeah, and you a liar, just lied.
Speaker 1: Everybody's what's going on with you? I didn't want to
Speaker 1: seem that way. I didn't want to see a creepy guy.
Speaker 1: It was more like, you know, like I felt bad,
Speaker 1: like she got good up on her day. It's kind
Speaker 1: of awkward, though, I mean, you're putting her in a
Speaker 1: position like what is she going to do? Stick to
Speaker 1: the lie at that point? No, someone's still coming for
Speaker 1: the last half of the play. But the good thing
Speaker 1: is the play finishes and we start talking and then
Speaker 1: I just said, do you want to go grab something
Speaker 1: to eat? And she said, yeah, sure, that'd be great.
Speaker 1: So that's cool. Okay. Yeah, So we laughed and we
Speaker 1: walked to a place and we sit on and you know,
Speaker 1: we talked for a little while. We get a drink,
Speaker 1: we get some food, conversations great, you know, it's not
Speaker 1: creepy at all. And I noticed so that she's starting
Speaker 1: to get a little life tired, and so I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know what, won't we just call it a night?
Speaker 1: And she said, yeah, that'd be great. So I walked
Speaker 1: into her car, said good night, gave her a hug,
Speaker 1: and said can I call you? And she said sure?
Speaker 1: And so I texted her a couple of times and
Speaker 1: I never heard back, and I was, you know, I
Speaker 1: thought things had gone well, and you know, then I
Speaker 1: emailed you guys. Did you ever find out who the
Speaker 1: seat was for? You know, we didn't talk about it
Speaker 1: at dinner because I thought if I brought it up
Speaker 1: and she could get stood up, it would be uncomfortable
Speaker 1: or make her feel bad. So I just stayed away
Speaker 1: from it. I has a good idea. So how long
Speaker 1: has it been since you guys went to dinner? It's
Speaker 1: been like a week and a half. A week and
Speaker 1: a half, okay, So she's definitely blowing you off. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: and you know, I just certain, but why, you know,
Speaker 1: who was that four or maybe it was for a
Speaker 1: boyfriend or someone that she was dating and he finally
Speaker 1: showed up, or and now she's like nine wanting to
Speaker 1: do with you. Maybe I was too forward, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe I was a creepy guy in the theater trying
Speaker 1: to steal the speed or yeah, so that's why you
Speaker 1: knowled you guys, Well, we'll play a song, comeback, call
Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. Okay, okay, great, great,
Speaker 1: all right, man, just hold on brooking jubile in the morning. Second.
Speaker 1: You know, I forgot to ask the most important question
Speaker 1: about today's second date update. If you just missed the
Speaker 1: first part. Tim is on the phone and he wants
Speaker 1: to call a girl named Sarah today. They actually met
Speaker 1: at a play. She had an empty seat next to her.
Speaker 1: At the beginning of the play, he asked if he
Speaker 1: could sit in it because he wanted to move seats
Speaker 1: and sit next to her because he thought she was hot,
Speaker 1: and she said it was taken, And then after intermission
Speaker 1: he saw the seat was still open, so he asked
Speaker 1: her again. She ended up saying yes, you can sit
Speaker 1: in the seat because whoever she was waiting for didn't
Speaker 1: show up. After the play, they went to dinner, had
Speaker 1: a great time. But now she's not calling him back,
Speaker 1: and I forgot to ask him this, and I'm sorry
Speaker 1: about that. Everybody listening, I know that you really want
Speaker 1: to know, Tim, how was the play? No one cares
Speaker 1: about that, like scale of one to five stars? What
Speaker 1: are we talking? Well, the first act I was a
Speaker 1: little distracted because I was, you know, trying to figure
Speaker 1: out what the MP seat was about. So I think
Speaker 1: it was like a three. Okay, good, all right. Shouldn't
Speaker 1: we even do the Seconday update now? Or have we
Speaker 1: gotten that all cleared up? No? I still want to
Speaker 1: know why she never thought? Okay, and Tim, you can't
Speaker 1: remember any awkward moments you guys had when you went
Speaker 1: for dinner and drinks after the play. No, everything was real,
Speaker 1: like casual and cool, and I thought I was being
Speaker 1: very like polite, and I have a lot of questions
Speaker 1: about her, you know what she's like. I thought it
Speaker 1: was a good conversation. You actually seem very charming and
Speaker 1: like a good listener. So I'll give you props on that. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, horrible play reviewer. But yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna dot her phone number right now here we go. Okay, Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is Sarah there? Yeah, this is Sarah. Hey Sarah,
Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jebil and I host
Speaker 1: a show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: how are you today? Fine? Thank you. What's this regarding, Well,
Speaker 1: it's regarding a date that you went on just a
Speaker 1: little while ago. Okay, I know we started out so
Speaker 1: business like, didn't we know? It's you might not even
Speaker 1: think of this as a date, but you recently hung
Speaker 1: out with somebody and they've been trying to get a
Speaker 1: hold of you to get another date, but you're not
Speaker 1: calling them back. So they emailed us to see if
Speaker 1: we could get you on the phone and find out why.
Speaker 1: Oh jeez, his name is Tim. Seriously. Yeah, he told
Speaker 1: us about how he met you at a play and
Speaker 1: then you had dinner after, so he contacted you to
Speaker 1: get ahold of me. Yeah he did. Apparently he's been
Speaker 1: trying to get ahold of you, but you're not returning
Speaker 1: any of his phone calls or text messages. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just not into it, I guess. Oh
Speaker 1: it sounded almost like for a second you were excited
Speaker 1: that he contacted us. I was more surprised, not excited.
Speaker 1: Read that wrong, then, Yeah, well Tim told us about
Speaker 1: how you guys hung out. He said that it seemed
Speaker 1: like you had a great time and he's confused. Wow.
Speaker 1: I think he's an interesting person. I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about him. Can I
Speaker 1: tell you what I think it is and you let
Speaker 1: me know if I'm right or wrong? Okay? So he
Speaker 1: said that when he saw you at the play, you
Speaker 1: had an empty seat next to you, and he asked
Speaker 1: you like twice if he could sit in it. The
Speaker 1: first time you said you were waiting for somebody to
Speaker 1: show up. The next time you said, sure, they didn't
Speaker 1: show up. Were you waiting for a boyfriend or a
Speaker 1: husband or something like that. Uh No, I'm definitely single. Okay.
Speaker 1: I actually just got canceled on by a friend. So
Speaker 1: I mean, why would you say yes to him sitting
Speaker 1: there when he asked the second time, and yes to
Speaker 1: dinner if you weren't interested in him. I mean I
Speaker 1: was interested in him, but I only know him for
Speaker 1: like ten seconds, and you know that kind of changed
Speaker 1: once I got to know him. Really, I told him
Speaker 1: after we talked to him that he was charming and
Speaker 1: a good listener. Apparently I also had a bad read
Speaker 1: on that. Yeah, I don't know. It was fine, And
Speaker 1: then at dinner, I just sort of got some red flags.
Speaker 1: What sort of red flags can you tell us? Basically,
Speaker 1: we were walking into the restaurant and he stepped on
Speaker 1: my heel and he just says oops, and I kind
Speaker 1: of so he stepped on your he stepped on your
Speaker 1: shoe and then said oops. Yeah, and like you know,
Speaker 1: normal people would apologize if you just stepped on one right. Oh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he didn't say sorry about that. No, he didn't say sorry.
Speaker 1: It was really strange. And then at dinner later, he
Speaker 1: knocks over his glass and it breaks, and when the
Speaker 1: waitress comes and picks it up, he just says, the
Speaker 1: glass fell. He didn't take responsibility for the shoe or
Speaker 1: the glass. Yeah, exactly, no apology. You know, if that
Speaker 1: would have been me, I would have been so embarrassed.
Speaker 1: You know, you've broken the restaurant's glass. Yeah, he didn't
Speaker 1: apologize at all, So it was it kind of a
Speaker 1: jerk then just pointing out, hey, glass on the ground,
Speaker 1: pick it up please. Honestly, it kind of read like that,
Speaker 1: and that is not what I'm looking for. I'm just
Speaker 1: not into somebody who can't say that they're sorry, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for someone who's more polite and can admit
Speaker 1: when they've done something wrong, when they've stepped on someone
Speaker 1: maybe or broken someone else's property. I mean, it's the
Speaker 1: first date, and you'd think on the first date that's
Speaker 1: when you want to be the most polite. And I
Speaker 1: think he just has some kind of problem where he
Speaker 1: can't say he's sorry. Okay, I want to let you
Speaker 1: know that I don't have that problem, and I want
Speaker 1: to tell you that I'm sorry to break the news.
Speaker 1: But Tim is actually on the other line listening and
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you right now. What. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: sorry about that. Tim. Are you there? Yeah? Hi? Tim?
Speaker 1: Is that you? It's me? Hey, so awkward? Is that
Speaker 1: the real reason why you didn't come it back? Because
Speaker 1: I didn't say sorry. Yeah, that's the reason I'm sorry. See,
Speaker 1: I can say it, but I don't know why you're
Speaker 1: saying it. Why I just said I'm sorry. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: just an empty sorry. What wait? Now you need sories
Speaker 1: with depth. It just seems like for me. So okay,
Speaker 1: So we were walking in the restaurant. We were in
Speaker 1: the middle of a conversation and I know he's talking
Speaker 1: about I stepped on your heel, and I started just
Speaker 1: went like, oops, it went back to the conversation. It
Speaker 1: was like sort of looks like a toss off that
Speaker 1: it happened. It didn't happened on purpose, and it was
Speaker 1: in the middle of the conversation, so it just like,
Speaker 1: oh oops, and we just continued. I didn't I didn't
Speaker 1: think it was that big about red playing. A normal
Speaker 1: person would say I'm sorry, yeah, but I didn't step
Speaker 1: on you. I stepped on your shoe. I would be
Speaker 1: apologizing if are you right now? Yeah? Most people wouldn't.
Speaker 1: Why why would I say sorry? I didn't do any
Speaker 1: lookings on purpose? Okay, sometimes you don't do things on purpose,
Speaker 1: you can still say sorry, Like you accidentally stepped on
Speaker 1: a shoe. People, those are just those are just empty
Speaker 1: sorryes because it wasn't I didn't do it on purpose.
Speaker 1: It was an accident. So if you were like driving
Speaker 1: your car and you accidentally hit a pedestrian, you wouldn't
Speaker 1: apologize for that either, because that wasn't on purpose. Well,
Speaker 1: whose fault wasn't serious? Are you serious right now? No,
Speaker 1: I'm just your foot that's on my foot could not
Speaker 1: be my fault. It's not your fault. It was an accident.
Speaker 1: No one's fault it's an I have never really dissected
Speaker 1: the word sorry like we're doing right now. No, it'says.
Speaker 1: I grew up that if you're gonna say sorry, it's meaningful,
Speaker 1: and you should say sorry for something that that you
Speaker 1: did and then you realize it was wrong, then you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, you say, you say I'm sorry for that.
Speaker 1: But when it's like this an accident, like you know,
Speaker 1: if you bump into somebody, she's like, oops, it's not mean,
Speaker 1: it's not negative, it's just like oops, and then the
Speaker 1: lights goes on. Yeah, but I, like everybody else, grew
Speaker 1: up with common courtesy. So even if you weren't going
Speaker 1: to say sorry, you say excuse me or I didn't
Speaker 1: mean to do that. I just don't agree with that.
Speaker 1: Like if Sarah and I continued and we got a
Speaker 1: new relationship and then later on something happens where I
Speaker 1: should say I'm sorry and I say hey, Sarah, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: it would have such a huge meaning and she would
Speaker 1: really know like, wow, he's really sorry. Hey I cheated
Speaker 1: on you, but I'm really sorry. And you know, I
Speaker 1: don't throw that word around willy nilly, no nothing, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't throw it you're right, you shouldn't throw it around.
Speaker 1: Willy Nilly said, that is so not what I expected
Speaker 1: your response to beat all this, Tim, Well, I'm not
Speaker 1: really sorry about it. Sorry, I'm not sorry. Sarah's yeah,
Speaker 1: and you know, guys, I'm not surprised. Okay, So are
Speaker 1: we done here? No, not yet, Sarah, we're almost one.
Speaker 1: But I do have to ask you if you would
Speaker 1: like to go on a second date with Tim, we
Speaker 1: will pay for it. You know what. Sorry, No, it's
Speaker 1: so immature. It's so immature to say that with that tone,
Speaker 1: like now you're ruining sorry, you ruined the word blinded,
Speaker 1: immature that you can't use your manner if that a
Speaker 1: six year old can use, So maybe practice that six
Speaker 1: year will say sorry for sneezing. They'll say sorry for anything.
Speaker 1: I am an adult, I'm a grown man. I only
Speaker 1: say sorry when it counts and when it's needed. I
Speaker 1: like that. Oh man, all right, well sorry, all right,
Speaker 1: well sorry, I can't even say sorry now without thinking
Speaker 1: about it. I won't say sorry because it's not my fault. Tim.
Speaker 1: He didn't get a second date, right. I had no
Speaker 1: idea that so many people would support the guy from
Speaker 1: Today's second date update. Somebody texted in at seven eight
Speaker 1: five nine tunes said, I agree saying sorry is a
Speaker 1: sign of weakness, and I refused to be weak. If
Speaker 1: you missed today's second date update. Oh my god, Tim,
Speaker 1: I wanted to call a girl named Sarah to find
Speaker 1: out why she wasn't calling him back. She said she
Speaker 1: wasn't calling him back because during the date he accidentally
Speaker 1: stepped on her shoe and he said oops instead of sorry,
Speaker 1: and he's basically broke a water glass, didn't say sorry
Speaker 1: to the waitress or anything else, just basically didn't apologize
Speaker 1: and he owned it. He was like, no, yeah, of
Speaker 1: course I didn't say sorry. I'm an adult. I say
Speaker 1: sorry if I actually did something wrong and meant it.
Speaker 1: Those were accidents, and no, no, I'm not sorry about it.
Speaker 1: I'm sad. I'm sad it happened, but I'm not sorry.
Speaker 1: But do you hear saying even if you don't apologize,
Speaker 1: you can still like excuse your behavior, like excuse me,
Speaker 1: or I didn't mean to do that or wow, oops
Speaker 1: don't counts. So I've learned a lesson in saying sorry,
Speaker 1: and I'm I'm not gonna say it anymore. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna apologize for anything, and I'm not sorry for that
Speaker 1: one bit that doesn't surprise me. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second ad update, all you have to
Speaker 1: do is email the show and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back five