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Speaker 1: Rooking Jubels second date update. They say that one man's

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Speaker 1: trash is another man's treasure. I already don't like the

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Speaker 1: start of today's second date update, and that's why Tim

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Speaker 1: is on the phone for a second date update. Today.

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Speaker 1: He found a discarded date and then he sweeped in

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Speaker 1: and got a date with her. Started Tim, Now, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to call your date trash. It was just

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Speaker 1: an analogy. Okay, Yeah, I tell us about the garbage pickup.

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Speaker 1: How'd it go? Um? Yeah, well, let leove back up.

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Speaker 1: I went out that night to go see a play

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Speaker 1: and I just went by myself. So I go to

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Speaker 1: the theater and I'm there and down the row, a

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Speaker 1: couple of seats down, there's this girl and she was

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Speaker 1: pretty cute. So I smiled at her and she sort

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Speaker 1: of smiled back. Did you throw her a wink too? No? No,

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Speaker 1: I did the polite you know, like smile ahead. No,

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Speaker 1: just like hello all right, like bite the lower lip,

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Speaker 1: like h my god. Any of the proper moves are

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Speaker 1: just simply a maybe I should have done that. You

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Speaker 1: start talking about how this woman sounds like a sweater

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Speaker 1: from Goodwill, and now you're tea all right, So he

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Speaker 1: smiled at her. I did, and the seat next to

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Speaker 1: her is vacant. So I get a little courage and

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Speaker 1: I kind of like walked down a little bit to

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Speaker 1: the aisle and I just said, Hey, is anybody sitting

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Speaker 1: yelled at out. Why are you yelled at her? Now?

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Speaker 1: He was upset. No, no, no, no, oh, you didn't

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Speaker 1: yelled at her. No, I just said, oh, okay, I

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Speaker 1: didn't ask who you know the seat was for, right,

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Speaker 1: because it's none of your business, because she's a complete

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Speaker 1: stranger in a theater. Yeah, but she also didn't say

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Speaker 1: you know who it was for either, Like if it

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Speaker 1: probably wouldn't, let you know, stop hitting on me exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And the nicest way possible, I feel like, seat taken

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Speaker 1: saying no, actually I married him in a very long

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Speaker 1: there's this possibility that the seat is, you know, just

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Speaker 1: for one of her girlfriend. You know, a friend of

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Speaker 1: hers actually went to see the play with Yeah, right, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so you went back to your regular seat, then I did.

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Speaker 1: I did. I said, okay, well, you know, and enjoy

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Speaker 1: started a few minutes later, and it was good, okay,

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Speaker 1: But then through the show I sort of kept the

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Speaker 1: if there's any action happening over there. Um anyway, So

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Speaker 1: mysterious vacant seat. She's either lying to you or the

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Speaker 1: person didn't show up. So you know, I went out,

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Speaker 1: I got something to drink, do the intermission stuff. And

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Speaker 1: I said, oh, well, do you mind if I sit there?

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Speaker 1: And she said sure, So I say, good persistence. Okay.

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Speaker 1: You know, I would have felt weird going back up

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Speaker 1: to her and being like, yeah, hey, what's up? You

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Speaker 1: Everybody's what's going on with you? I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: It was more like, you know, like I felt bad,

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Speaker 1: And she said, yeah, that'd be great. So I walked

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Speaker 1: And so I texted her a couple of times and

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Speaker 1: been like a week and a half. A week and

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Speaker 1: a half, okay, So she's definitely blowing you off. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you know, I just certain, but why, you know,

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Speaker 1: to steal the speed or yeah, so that's why you

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Speaker 1: knowled you guys, Well, we'll play a song, comeback, call

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Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. Okay, okay, great, great,

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Speaker 1: all right, man, just hold on brooking jubile in the morning. Second.

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Speaker 1: You know, I forgot to ask the most important question

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Speaker 1: about today's second date update. If you just missed the

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Speaker 1: first part. Tim is on the phone and he wants

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Speaker 1: to call a girl named Sarah today. They actually met

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Speaker 1: about that. Everybody listening, I know that you really want

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Speaker 1: to know, Tim, how was the play? No one cares

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Speaker 1: about that, like scale of one to five stars? What

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Speaker 1: are we talking? Well, the first act I was a

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Speaker 1: it was like a three. Okay, good, all right. Shouldn't

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Speaker 1: gotten that all cleared up? No? I still want to

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Speaker 1: know why she never thought? Okay, and Tim, you can't

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Speaker 1: remember any awkward moments you guys had when you went

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Speaker 1: for dinner and drinks after the play. No, everything was real,

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Speaker 1: about her, you know what she's like. I thought it

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Speaker 1: like a good listener. So I'll give you props on that. Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, horrible play reviewer. But yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: Hi is Sarah there? Yeah, this is Sarah. Hey Sarah,

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Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jebil and I host

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Speaker 1: a show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: how are you today? Fine? Thank you. What's this regarding, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's regarding a date that you went on just a

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Speaker 1: little while ago. Okay, I know we started out so

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Speaker 1: business like, didn't we know? It's you might not even

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Speaker 1: think of this as a date, but you recently hung

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Speaker 1: out with somebody and they've been trying to get a

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Speaker 1: calling them back. So they emailed us to see if

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Speaker 1: Oh jeez, his name is Tim. Seriously. Yeah, he told

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Speaker 1: then you had dinner after, so he contacted you to

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Speaker 1: get ahold of me. Yeah he did. Apparently he's been

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Speaker 1: any of his phone calls or text messages. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just not into it, I guess. Oh

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Speaker 1: it sounded almost like for a second you were excited

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Speaker 1: Read that wrong, then, Yeah, well Tim told us about

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Speaker 1: how you guys hung out. He said that it seemed

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Speaker 1: like you had a great time and he's confused. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I think he's an interesting person. I just I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about him. Can I

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Speaker 1: me know if I'm right or wrong? Okay? So he

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Speaker 1: first time you said you were waiting for somebody to

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Speaker 1: husband or something like that. Uh No, I'm definitely single. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I actually just got canceled on by a friend. So

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Speaker 1: I mean, why would you say yes to him sitting

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Speaker 1: once I got to know him. Really, I told him

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Speaker 1: after we talked to him that he was charming and

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Speaker 1: a good listener. Apparently I also had a bad read

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Speaker 1: on that. Yeah, I don't know. It was fine, And

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Speaker 1: then at dinner, I just sort of got some red flags.

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Speaker 1: What sort of red flags can you tell us? Basically,

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Speaker 1: we were walking into the restaurant and he stepped on

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Speaker 1: my heel and he just says oops, and I kind

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Speaker 1: It was really strange. And then at dinner later, he

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Speaker 1: glass fell. He didn't take responsibility for the shoe or

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Speaker 1: the glass. Yeah, exactly, no apology. You know, if that

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Speaker 1: You know, you've broken the restaurant's glass. Yeah, he didn't

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