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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with i R Radio. It's the almost famous podcast. We

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Speaker 1: are back breaking down another episode of the Bachelor. Ashley

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Speaker 1: is here as well. Uh. Ashley kicked this thing off

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Speaker 1: last night. I was at the Ohio University. I was

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Speaker 1: gonna say the University of how that would be wrong.

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Speaker 1: It's Ohio University, the home of the Bobcats. An incredible campus,

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Speaker 1: beautiful place. If you haven't been there in Athens, Ohio,

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Speaker 1: it is worth the visit. Had a great time. UM

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Speaker 1: their their student association, UH put on an event and

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Speaker 1: we had a great turnout, a lot of fun. I

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Speaker 1: really enjoyed it. So I flew out early this morning

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Speaker 1: back to Denver. I'm in Denver recording this. Last night,

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Speaker 1: I was asked the question that I want to kick

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Speaker 1: this podcast off, asking you, Ashley, who are your top

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Speaker 1: three favorites on this season? To end up with Zach

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Speaker 1: Okay Cat from last night? Easy? For sure, for sure.

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Speaker 1: I think probably Katie's up there. I don't know Brooklyn

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Speaker 1: that for right now. But I really think that there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of girls that came to the forefront of

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Speaker 1: my mind yesterday. I like Gabby for myself. I feel

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Speaker 1: like gabb would be a good friend for me. She

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Speaker 1: just seems like very authentic about how awkward she is.

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Speaker 1: She's like not afraid to be like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I feel very uncomfortable in this environment, like does he

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Speaker 1: And what's cool about her is that she has a

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Speaker 1: if you're awkward and you're weird with it, not into

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Speaker 1: it if there's drama or if you voice that you

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Speaker 1: stick it around. UM. Good question last night from the auditio,

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Speaker 1: A couple of great questions, a lot of fans of you, Ashley.

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Speaker 1: As always, I feel like I go to these things

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Speaker 1: like you're kind of your security guard. I'm the one

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Speaker 1: about you and be like what's actually like, what's she

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Speaker 1: what's she doing? And then I get to answer those

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Speaker 1: questions for you, um the best I can. But um,

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Speaker 1: it's a lot of fun. I'm glad to be back,

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Speaker 1: though I'm tired, um tired today it was an early morning. Um.

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Speaker 1: But we're gonna make this work, Ashley. Obviously, it's been

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Speaker 1: a week since our last episode. Bachelor Nation has had

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Speaker 1: a lot of headlines that we're gonna break down later

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Speaker 1: on as well. But let's jump in to this week's episode.

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Speaker 1: Kick it riot off and I'll let you take it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: sounds good. Let's start, of course, at the very beginning,

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Speaker 1: when they decide that they don't they don't decide. They've

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Speaker 1: drama is outweighing the love stories, if this is probably

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00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 1: the start of kind of a new era in the

427
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 1: Bachelor world where the villains won't be the storyline and

428
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 1: make up the majority of episodes kind of that week

429
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 1: four or five and six, that six that we usually

430
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,720
Speaker 1: see that if this is now going to change and

431
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 1: we'll see this kind of new theme where the villains

432
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 1: don't stick around, that the drama doesn't stick around, that

433
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 1: love is now back in focus. This is definitely the

434
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 1: show's response to that, And I think probably one of

435
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 1: the reasons that they chose Zach because they knew that

436
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 1: he would front this well. And I think we saw

437
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:39,360
Speaker 1: it with Michelle, she was pretty quick to get rid

438
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:44,439
Speaker 1: of problem makers, and now I think he is doing

439
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 1: a great job doing the same. Also wonder what would

440
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: happen if this if an issue were to come up

441
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: with one of his favorites, like with a cat, like

442
00:22:55,960 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 1: with the Brooklyn because we think that he's letting go girls.

443
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 1: If there's drama around a girl that he doesn't feel

444
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 1: strongly for, acts right. But I would love to see

445
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 1: how he would deal with if it was somebody that

446
00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 1: he would really liked. And I guess you could argue

447
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 1: that last week with Christina it was somebody that he liked,

448
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: but we also saw that he was pretty uncomfortable issue

449
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 1: with the fact that she had a daughter stepping into

450
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 1: the stepdad role so immediately, So maybe there wasn't like

451
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 1: another little reasoning behind that. Well, we're gonna see that, right,

452
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 1: We'll see at the end of the season where more issues. Yeah,

453
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 1: not maybe drama and maybe not the same kind of

454
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,399
Speaker 1: drama that you see early on in the season's happened

455
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 1: with his favorites, But you'll see issues. Right, It's gonna

456
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 1: come down to family dynamics, will come down to are

457
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 1: you ready or are you not ready? To fall in love.

458
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: It will come down to situations where maybe a cat

459
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,479
Speaker 1: I don't know, but maybe a cat comes in and says, hey,

460
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: I feel like there's distance in our relationship. I feel

461
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 1: like we had a spark and that spark is gone.

462
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,200
Speaker 1: Those things are going to happen. They just always happened

463
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: on the show. That's what's made the format of the

464
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 1: show work for as long as it had as and

465
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 1: so we will see how are you responds to it.

466
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: But right now he's still kind of getting through the

467
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 1: people that he's not as interested in that have made

468
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 1: it this far. Got a nice little trip to the Bahamas,

469
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: gotten some sun, gotten to hang out, but he's not

470
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,120
Speaker 1: been super sold out on the idea that they're gonna

471
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: be together. I just think it's an interesting twist. I

472
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: like this change in this show. I'm actually enjoying. This

473
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,159
Speaker 1: part of the show is that love and it feels

474
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: like these love stories and getting to know these contestants,

475
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: which we've complained about for years, we haven't held played

476
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 1: about stupid drama like shrimp where we lose, we lose

477
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: the opportunity to get to know the contestants because whole

478
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 1: episodes are made up of drama and the villain and

479
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: those things like shrimp Gate that we're like, do we

480
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,679
Speaker 1: really care that much about? It's funny for a while,

481
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 1: but it's not funny for a whole episode. I want

482
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: to see more character development, and I think right now

483
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 1: at week four, we're starting to see more of that

484
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,959
Speaker 1: than we ever have uh in past seasons, and so

485
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:07,160
Speaker 1: I am anxiously excited to see continually how that plays out.

486
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,880
Speaker 1: So the group date after party, we see a couple

487
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:25,439
Speaker 1: of good connections. We see Ariel and him and he

488
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,439
Speaker 1: says that he loves this mystery about her, and I

489
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: have to say, she is mysterious. And she came up

490
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: to him and was very concerned about how he was doing,

491
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 1: and I think that was nice and refreshing for him. Um,

492
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: he really is into Charity, He's into Gabby says she's

493
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: really fun to hang out with. He just seems to

494
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: be like really driving with these girls until Kylie comes up,

495
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 1: and it's not like he's not driving with Kylie, but

496
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 1: she's like, I'm just not feeling the best because I

497
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: feel so awkward for interrupting your time earlier. And I

498
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: have to say I like the it that Kylie was

499
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: so honest about how interrupting made her feel uncomfortable, because

500
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: interrupting is just the worst on the show. But she

501
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: was also after the fact, like after she got that

502
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 1: done and sat down with him, it made her feel

503
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: like prepped and ruddy for the night ahead. And just

504
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 1: from my point of view, if you had like a

505
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,879
Speaker 1: good moment during the daytime portion, like you didn't have

506
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 1: to be like super deep or heavy or anything like that,

507
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,919
Speaker 1: but if you had a good back and for the

508
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 1: little flirtation during the daytime portion of the day, you

509
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: had so much more confidence going to the night. And

510
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: I was excited that Kylie got to experience that because

511
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: it was very relatable for me as somebody who's on

512
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 1: the show. And I feel like that's probably just like

513
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 1: how like life goes right. It's like, have a good

514
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 1: moment with somebody, don't extend it too long, and then

515
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: you look forward to seeing that person later. Sure it's

516
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: like yeah, it's like, yeah, I just love a little

517
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: like warm up, you know, a little appetizer it needs

518
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: I needed for the confidence building. Yeah, girls will feel me,

519
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 1: I think, well, I'm sure they will. And I think

520
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: there is um it's just always positive when you're open

521
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: and honest in any relationship. So she's saying it right.

522
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: You get wrapped up in all this dramma, You get

523
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: wrapped up on all the things happening around you. You

524
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 1: get a little frustrated. You're probably your confidences is taking

525
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 1: a little bit of a beating, and you say a

526
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 1: react in a way that you feel like later on, hey,

527
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 1: that probably wasn't helping. It might have been hurting, and

528
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: you think about it all afternoon, and if you're me,

529
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 1: you bang your head against your pillow and you're like,

530
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: why are you so stupid? But then she was able

531
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 1: to say, Okay, I'm gonna confront this, like, I'm going

532
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 1: to actually speak to like why I behaved the way

533
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: it did. I think it's a huge deal and I do.

534
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: I think it helps relationships. Yeah. The other thing that

535
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: she does though, here in this moment where she admits

536
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: that she was feeling awkward and blah blah blah, this

537
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: is when she does the call out of annas Asia.

538
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 1: She's like, also, Stasia has been saying something about her

539
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 1: being here for Instagram followers, and all of a sudden,

540
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: his like siren goes off. This is definitely a sensitive

541
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: point for him, and she's like, I wasn't there for

542
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 1: the actual hearing of the conversation. So then he pulls

543
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 1: over Charity who was, and she says that she heard

544
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: her say something along the lines of like everybody that's

545
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: kind of still there would get about fifty Instagram followers.

546
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: It's not true. Bachelor Data came out with something today,

547
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: absolutely not true, not even close. So Zach is now

548
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: obviously concerned by this and pulls Anssia aside, and she

549
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: seems like flabbergasted by it, and it makes me wonder,

550
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: it makes me see like we just try to think

551
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: about how to give her the benefit of the doubt here. Okay,

552
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: she is a social media marketer. Okay, so like that

553
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: is her job, and she's probably she was there probably

554
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: just asking her about her job. And then maybe one

555
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: of the girls said, okay, well, if you had to

556
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: get so many followers we would get by being here

557
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 1: in week four, how many do you think we get?

558
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: And then she may have just responded and like pretty

559
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: like honestly but inaccurately, and it may have been more

560
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: innocent than it comes off. But you know, people like

561
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: to be like the Instagram police on The Bachelor. Now

562
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: it's it's the new, like what was the old? What

563
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: was the old? Here for the wrong reasons, just like

564
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: to be on TV, like and now it's just to

565
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: get Instagram followers. Was there like something before become the bachelor,

566
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 1: become the next lead. That was always what it was

567
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: because like on my season, it was I heard that

568
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: she was talking about being the next bachelor. Oh my god,

569
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: how dare she? But everybody thinks about that while you're

570
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 1: there there, and we've said that before. We're like, that's

571
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: just ridiculous. It does if you're saying that it didn't

572
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: cross your mind at some point, and Instagram followers my

573
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: cross your mind at some point now as well. That

574
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: ship a little bit has sailed for just where we

575
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: are on the show, Like people just don't gain as

576
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 1: much as they used to. But of course it's something

577
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: that they're probably going to think of. Uh so you

578
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 1: totally get it. I'm babbling, but I totally get why

579
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 1: he's concerned. Totally get it. But also I don't think

580
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: he should or did um let her go home because

581
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: of this point alone. I think if he was really

582
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: into her, he'd probably keep her around just to see

583
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: if there was something more. I don't know, what do

584
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: you think? I just don't know if it's incriminating enough

585
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: does that simple sentence. I'm guessing we'll get about fifty

586
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: followers when you are a social media Marketer, and like

587
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: you're talking about sort of your job in a sense,

588
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm also playing Devil's advocate. I just want to say, well,

589
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 1: I mean, you'd have to take in the words of

590
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: the cast mates that were around to hear what their

591
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: sentiment was and how they think it was communicated. I

592
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,959
Speaker 1: would have a seems like charities talking about it, hearing

593
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:18,040
Speaker 1: it for real. Okay, Well, um, she might have felt

594
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 1: different about it. I think you're completely right. I think

595
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: if Zach was really into Anastasia and really saw a

596
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: future with her, I don't think this would have been

597
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: a deal breaker. But I think we've seen in his

598
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: body language that he was looking for a reason to

599
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: say goodbye to Anastasia now for at least this week,

600
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: so I don't I don't think like she was going

601
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: to be around much longer anyways. Um. I would also

602
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: say that when you're in the house, you know, it's

603
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: it's not like people typically are just picking everything you

604
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: say to see if they can twist it. Like That's

605
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: not how I ever felt in the house when I

606
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: was on The Bachelorrette, I felt like we were buddies

607
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: talking about life. Now, somebody said something like I can't

608
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: wait to be done with this show because I'm gonna

609
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: be so famous, I'm gonna get paid to go to clubs,

610
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do all this. We somebody would have

611
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: probably said, Hey, that sounds weird. It doesn't feel like

612
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: you're in this for any good reason. But I know

613
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: that in the house people talked about like situations of well,

614
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do next? And what do you

615
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: look forward to after this? And I'm sure somebody asked, like,

616
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: how many followers do you think you're gonna get from this?

617
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: Like stuff like that, and that's innocent, and people typically

618
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't twist that to make you be the bad person.

619
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:34,719
Speaker 1: Um something, Yeah, something was said here, or there's been

620
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: a tone, or there's been something that's made somebody say, Hey,

621
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: I feel uncomfortable about her intentions of being here, Zack.

622
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: I think we can just close this and say, Zach

623
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: obviously wasn't that interested in that relationship, and so he said, hey,

624
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: not just because of this, but probably because I'm not

625
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:53,479
Speaker 1: that interested, it's time to go home. Mm hmm yep. Alright,

626
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 1: let's talk about the Brooklyn date. Brooklyn need too. She's nice,

627
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: she's fun, watch She's it seems down to earth. I

628
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: just yeah, she's she's cool, she's very pretty, and like

629
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: I would love to have a beer with her and

630
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: just hear about her life, like she you know, just

631
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: her job is unique. And she's on this dating show

632
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: now in a in a world where people probably from her,

633
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: like from the Rodeo world, don't really love the Bachelor,

634
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: I'd imagine, or maybe they're not, Like I don't know,

635
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: maybe they are. I'm just making the assumption that like

636
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: maybe like Rodeo and like you know, that those people

637
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 1: aren't tuning into Monday Night Bachelor all the time. And

638
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: I think it's cool that she's there. So she's intriguing,

639
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: she's interesting, she is sweet, she's down to earth. I

640
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: like her. I also like her for Zach m hmm.

641
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 1: I'm watching Brooklyn and this as part of the last

642
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: part of this episode. I was like, this is a

643
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 1: pretty good group of girls left. Yeah, I think there

644
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: is a group good group of girls still here. I

645
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: mean I think he's I mean I would still, you know,

646
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: put my stake in the ground and said he's let

647
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: let go of some really great girls. I'm obviously very biased,

648
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 1: but I think like even the Brianna like situation, Like,

649
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: you know, we didn't get to see a ton of her,

650
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: and there are some girls that kind of like snuck

651
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:16,800
Speaker 1: away here that we didn't get to learn a lot about,

652
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: and I think those women. I think he had a

653
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 1: great cast. I think we said that the very beginning

654
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,240
Speaker 1: when we just saw the pictures, were like, this cast

655
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: is gorgeous, and so I think he's just had a

656
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: really good group of women on his season, which is

657
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: good for Zach. Mm hmm. Really, there's not much to

658
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 1: say about the you know, daytime portion of the day.

659
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 1: It really gets serious on the one on one where

660
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 1: she goes, you know, he's talking about how greater personality is,

661
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: just like we just said, and then she was like,

662
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: you would have no idea who I was like a

663
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,919
Speaker 1: year ago. Like she just says that she's kind of

664
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: become a full person again after she had six years

665
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: of an abusive relationship first start out. First it started

666
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 1: out as an emotionally abusive relationship and then it turned physical,

667
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 1: and she said it was something that her entire life

668
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 1: she just wanted to avoid. She's like, I wanted to

669
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: be like my grandparents. They were really healthy relationship role

670
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: models I never wanted to be how the relationship my

671
00:35:17,160 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 1: parents did, particularly like she just didn't want to ever

672
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: be with a man like her dad. She said her

673
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: dad was awful, and then she basically did just that,

674
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,399
Speaker 1: and she finally got out of it, and she said

675
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: the thing that broke her out of it was the

676
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: police having to wake her up from being knocked out gracious,

677
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 1: like unbelievable. I know, it's just this, this is the

678
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: saddest story. And it's like, I don't even know what

679
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 1: to say about it, except for I really do genuinely

680
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:56,600
Speaker 1: feel like Zach was handled the situation and hearing her

681
00:35:56,600 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: story very well, and and I feel like she felt

682
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 1: pretty safe with him, Like she felt safe in the

683
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 1: sense that like she could talk to him about it,

684
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,879
Speaker 1: but also in the sense that like he would never

685
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: do that to her, and he would obviously would never

686
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: do that to her. But you know what I mean, well,

687
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: I mean, earlier on we talked about courage and this.

688
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure there's many people watching this um

689
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 1: show and saying, like, you know, one rallying around her

690
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 1: uh and saying, you know, to Brooklyn, like you know,

691
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: want us wanting to support her to I'm sure there's

692
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: people out there watching it that have been through or

693
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:40,320
Speaker 1: in a similar situation and now they feel less alone.

694
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: And her courage to speak up and share this story

695
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: is um, I don't know either the word to put

696
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 1: him not only impressive, but just humbling, and it's it's

697
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: one of those moments where you sit there and you

698
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: watch it and like your heart hurts, your stomach hurts,

699
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 1: and you're just like, how can how is this? How

700
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 1: do people uh exists in the world that would hurt

701
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: somebody like her in this way for so long? Like

702
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: how are there that? Like? How is somebody so terrible?

703
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: But then then you know for me, as I was

704
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: watching it and and the switch happened, like but yeah,

705
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: but then look at her, like now she's on television

706
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: taking a risk, like this is why this show. This

707
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 1: is why we fell in love with the show at

708
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: the beginning, is because people like Brooklyn said, I just

709
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 1: I need another shot at love, like I need another

710
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: shot to put myself out there and see if it

711
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: can exist. If it doesn't exist here on the show,

712
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 1: maybe I'll learn something and grow from this experience, And

713
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back out into the world and find

714
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 1: find my partner in the world. And that's you know,

715
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: that's why, Like what this show has always been about

716
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 1: is these love stories and these people saying I need

717
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 1: a second chance or I need a chance at love.

718
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: And so for Brooklyn to put herself back onto the show,

719
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: I think it's such a big deal, um, and one

720
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: that we can can't underestimate and one that we can't

721
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,240
Speaker 1: put words into. Only she could. But um, yeah, this

722
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:04,879
Speaker 1: this is uh, this is this is one of those

723
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: moments you wish never existed in the world, but they

724
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: but it does, and and Brooklyn now has spoken out

725
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 1: about it and so many people I think, um will

726
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: feel us alone again because of her story, Yes for sure. Alright, well,

727
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: I guess we will move on to the cocktail party.

728
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 1: I'd say the most notable thing to talk about here is, well,

729
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 1: this is where Anastasia gets eliminated. Kylie gets really upset

730
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: at the fact that she even brought up in the

731
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: situation about Instagram because she just feels like she's now

732
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:43,479
Speaker 1: responsible for somebody's elimination. She shouldn't feel this way, and

733
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: I think she was just exaggerating. But I understand. I

734
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 1: understand that, I understand the guilt, but she she should

735
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: just know she's fine. Yeah, and how much of that

736
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 1: gil is coming from her being concerned to that Zack

737
00:38:57,880 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 1: is going to see her as kind of that like

738
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 1: fire starter tittle tale. That's what she also said. She

739
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: was like, I'm afraid I'm not going to get a

740
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 1: rose because I was the one who like stirred up drama.

741
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,360
Speaker 1: She gets the rose. And the other thing is d

742
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 1: Villa is getting emotional because she feels like she hasn't

743
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 1: had a lot of quality one on one time, which

744
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: is probably true, and he she sees Hi and she

745
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: sees Zack pulled cat aside for one on one time

746
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: when she already has a rose, had a one on

747
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:30,240
Speaker 1: one all that, and it's just like, Okay, I'm feeling

748
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 1: very bottom of the totem pole here. And unfortunately she

749
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: was right because she did get eliminated, and she got

750
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: eliminated after like they did kiss at the cocktail party,

751
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: but you can tell him the kiss that it wasn't

752
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 1: there for him and it made me feel sad for her,

753
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 1: But she doesn't really know. She didn't really know in

754
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: the moment. It was just kind of a couple of

755
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: little pecks were as the other kisses are far more passionate.

756
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: At the Rose ceremony, we see di Villa and Genevieve

757
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: go home. Genevie. Justice for Genevieve. She broke her arm

758
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: during this season and went home in week four. I

759
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: mean that talk about somebody's going to go home and

760
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,800
Speaker 1: be like, was that worth it? I'm hoping she's laughing,

761
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: giggling about all this today because this show put her

762
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: through the ringer. Oh that's funny. Poor girl. You know,

763
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,439
Speaker 1: she'll always have a story to tell. A couple of years,

764
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: she'll be she'll be glad. Yeah, poor girl. Um So

765
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 1: who we have left now? Not that many? I mean

766
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 1: we have a very small group. Oh glad. I'm glad

767
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 1: we are at this point that we can remember all

768
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:45,359
Speaker 1: names and really like root for people. You got Charity, Katie, Gabby, Jess, Mercedes,

769
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: Ali Greer, Kylie, thank kat Thank you, kat In Brooklyn.

770
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 1: Of these girls the ones that, oh scenario, thank you

771
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: for giving me the rose, the Rose getters that happened

772
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 1: before the Rose ceremony. Of these girls, the ones that

773
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 1: are not standing out to me so much like I

774
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: can't I'm not like, oh, yes, I remember that moment.

775
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: I remember that moment with them would be just and Mercedes,

776
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: what about you? Oh yeah, I mean i'd probably have

777
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: to say the same thing. I just just did have

778
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: a moment this week, he said. He said, I'm glad

779
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: you're here. Like, well, you know, he was like, I

780
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: know you're probably feeling a little bit behind, but like

781
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,879
Speaker 1: I just know that I'm like really glad you're here.

782
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 1: So that is a very comforting thing for her here.

783
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 1: It's better than him being like, hey, you know, I

784
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,360
Speaker 1: just didn't have enough. Yeah, I have a couple of

785
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 1: roses here and honestly you just kind of made the cut. Um,

786
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,720
Speaker 1: So no, it's better there. I mean, I I really

787
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 1: think next week we're gonna see Gero home. No really,

788
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: I do. I just have this first impression Rose. Yeah.

789
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: He hasn't given her a date. Yeah, that would be

790
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: really crazy. Yeah, I just feel like it's going to

791
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 1: be one of those first impression roses that kind of

792
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 1: like come in then leave earlier than we expect. I

793
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:13,320
Speaker 1: have a prediction. I don't know anything. We have headlines

794
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: to break down Ashley. Let's jump into him. The first

795
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: headline is about me. Um, yeah, well you can take

796
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 1: this one, then you can break it down here it goes.

797
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 1: Chris Lane and Lauren Bushnell Lane react to his run

798
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 1: in with Ben Higgins at the golf tournament the Hilton

799
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: Grand Vacations Golf Tournament. This is according to US Weekly. Okay, well,

800
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: Chris Lane and Lauren Bushnell Lane spoke exclusively to US

801
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 1: Weekly after her ex fiance Ben Higgins revealed that he

802
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: played in the same golf tournament as the country singer.

803
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 1: It was great. I know he I know he's played

804
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 1: in that tournament for several years now. Chris said, um.

805
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: And then he continued to say, I was very excited

806
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 1: to be part of it down there in Orlando. And

807
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: then Laurence said that Chris has been talking about this

808
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: tournament leading up to leading up to it for about

809
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,760
Speaker 1: four months. And I've never met someone who loves golf

810
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: as much as Chris Lane, except for maybe you, Ben Higgins.

811
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I'm offended. Yeah, And then they

812
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:23,560
Speaker 1: also said Ben was actually the first pete, one of

813
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 1: the first people that I ran into at the hotel.

814
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,560
Speaker 1: This is what Chris is saying. And he had a

815
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: chance to talk to you for a little bit. What

816
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: a nice guy. We had such a great time We

817
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: didn't get to play golf together, but we had several

818
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: run ins and it was great. We should have played

819
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 1: golf together. We had the same score after day one

820
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: and wells. Chris and I were like, there's no way

821
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: they don't put us together, and I was looking forward

822
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 1: to it. We did have a good time. It was

823
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 1: nice to hang out with Chris. We did get to

824
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: hang out quite a bit. I enjoyed it. We talked

825
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,279
Speaker 1: about the podcast, But how the tournament did not put

826
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 1: Chris Lane and I together walking the fairways competing as

827
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: each other is beyond me. I don't know what what

828
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 1: why they didn't. It's as yeah, we could have. We

829
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 1: could have created some job. We could have fake fought

830
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: or really fought. I don't know if I um on

831
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: the fairways, but yeah, it was great to be with him.

832
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 1: That's such a cool tournament. It was so fun and

833
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: I'm happy anytime somebody else gets the invite um to

834
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 1: enjoy it with us. So um, yeah, that's that headline.

835
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: Next headline is this Bachelor Nation couple Joe and Serena

836
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 1: are definitely thinking about kids some days, says real real

837
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: juicy han guys. Uh. They talked on their first day

838
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: in Paradise that they'd like to have kids, but not

839
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: right now. They're assuming that they'll like to have to

840
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: but they're in no rush and that's all they got. Goodness,

841
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: that's all we have. Okay. Uh. This is a question

842
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: that gets asked very often. In fact, it was asked

843
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 1: me last night at Ohio University. What happens to the

844
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: Neil Lane engagement ring after Bachelor Nation splits? Um, some

845
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: leads talked to Yahoo and explain. Okay, so there are

846
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 1: two ways for Bachelor Nation members to keep the engagement

847
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 1: ring gifted to them by ABC. You either make it

848
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,359
Speaker 1: down the aisle, or you stay engaged for at least

849
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: two years. After a certain number of years you get

850
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Speaker 1: to keep it anyways, but after months it goes back.

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Speaker 1: That's what Chris Harrison said to Entertainment Weekly. Um. It's

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Speaker 1: also makes me wonder about certain situations though, where like

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Speaker 1: Chris ran Down and Crystal they got married. They got married,

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Speaker 1: but they were only together for two years and then

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Speaker 1: they got divorced like six months later. So what does

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Speaker 1: that mean. I'd imagine they keep the ring, okay, because

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Speaker 1: it says make it down the aisle. Imagine they keep

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Speaker 1: the ring it's in their name. Then okay uh, and

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Speaker 1: then let's see Ali. We have a couple of examples here.

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Speaker 1: Ali said that she and Roberto weren't getting together for

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Speaker 1: eighteen months. Wow, that's actually feels like I can't believe

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Speaker 1: they're were together for eighteen months. Um. And she says,

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Speaker 1: I know that number so well because I was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't want them to take my engagement ring away,

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Speaker 1: and she was like, this is part of my history,

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Speaker 1: Like this is mine. You cannot have it. Per the contract.

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Speaker 1: It was supposed to be two years, but they let

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Speaker 1: her keep it. Good for her, Good for her. I

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Speaker 1: want to know what happens once it goes back, Like

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Speaker 1: does Neil Lane resell that is? Is there like millions

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Speaker 1: of dollars of engagement rings sitting in Warner Brothers like

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Speaker 1: block box right now? Um, Mike, my guess would be

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Speaker 1: that they take the diamonds out and they reuse the diamonds,

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Speaker 1: wouldn't you think? I always wonder if you're like getting

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Speaker 1: somebody else's like cursed diamond though, like from a relationship

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Speaker 1: that didn't work out. Could be it could be. I mean,

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Speaker 1: those things are big. I gotta read this about Becka

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Speaker 1: Koufren says Season fourteen Bachelor Becker Koufer and once joked

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Speaker 1: about having a ring a yard. Uh, they get to

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00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 1: keep them all locked away, hidden from everyone, all the

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Speaker 1: scorned rings, That's what she said. So I guess all

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Speaker 1: of Becca Koufren's rings, which according to our deductions and

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Speaker 1: that and that rule would mean that yes, they went back.

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Speaker 1: Goodness gracious. Well. Ivan Hall opens up about his relationship

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Speaker 1: with his girlfriend and his time on reality television. Well,

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00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 1: he posted this in an Instagram. He said, this beauty

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Speaker 1: here is all mine. We have known each other for

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Speaker 1: many years and always find our way back to one another.

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Speaker 1: Stay tuned for more of our journey. That's what we got. Oh,

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Speaker 1: she's a doctor, she's an antcesiologist. She's also extremely athletic.

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Speaker 1: She deserves the world. Wow, what a catch, What a catch? Well,

892
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: Love Is Blind's Cold Barnet is rumored to be spending

893
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Speaker 1: time with the Bachelor Season twenty winners Susie Evans. So

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00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 1: Cole said that his first date that is not Love

895
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Speaker 1: is Blind oriented, was with Bachelor season winner Susie Evans,

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Speaker 1: and apparently the conversation went very well or flirting, and

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Speaker 1: I think it's maybe like a phone call dates. It

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Speaker 1: was something like that, so it wasn't a real Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it seems like it's starting. It's like the starting out,

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Speaker 1: like a starting out phase. But by the end of

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Speaker 1: this call, Susie said hurry up and getting my d

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Speaker 1: m s. And then he ended the call by telling

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Speaker 1: Susie to hurry up and getting his d m s.

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Speaker 1: And then Susie said, I'll shoot you one over And

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Speaker 1: this is all happening kind of like in a public form.

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00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: I think it was like an interview. Wow, this is

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Speaker 1: a big deal. Big deal. Well, final headline. It is

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Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. So for all of you out there who

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00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: are celebrating romantic love, hey, I hope you have a

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00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: great day. For all of you out there who are single, hey,

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00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: I hope you have a great day. I hope this

912
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: is an awesome day for you. Don't get down in yourself.

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Speaker 1: Um uh. This day is always a weird day for

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Speaker 1: so many But if you are in love and you're

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00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:14,800
Speaker 1: celebrating Valentine's Day, we have a little um info from

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Speaker 1: two of Bachelor Nation's biggest stars. Trisa Sutter and her

917
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Speaker 1: husband Ryan have lasted over twenty years as the o

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Speaker 1: G Bachelor Nation couple. They explain how in this article,

919
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Speaker 1: so she says that they're actually still learning to communicate

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Speaker 1: even twenty years later. Like sometimes we'll say stuff like

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Speaker 1: I know that you have done nothing wrong, but this

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Speaker 1: is still really difficult for me. I love you, but

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Speaker 1: I just need time to figure things out and just

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00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,640
Speaker 1: to figure out my own emotions. Not for us to

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Speaker 1: figure this out, but figure out how to process and

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Speaker 1: deal with this on my own, She says. Naturally, when

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Speaker 1: you're in a relationship, you figure out when to engage,

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Speaker 1: and then they still do. But we also have to

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Speaker 1: like ask each other questions and constantly remind each other

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Speaker 1: that we need to be in a relationship. And even

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Speaker 1: after twenty years, you can still learn how you know

932
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Speaker 1: your partner wants to be communicated with some good tips.

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Speaker 1: They're seventy two years. Her grandparents are married. That's awesome.

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Speaker 1: My parents just celebrated forty years um a few days ago.

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Speaker 1: Massive accomplishments out there. Congratulations to your parents. Yeah, great

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Speaker 1: people to look up to. Hey, that's all we have

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Speaker 1: for you today. This has been the Almost Famous Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Back next week with another episode of The Almost Famous Podcast,

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Speaker 1: Breaking down episode of five of Zach season of The

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Speaker 1: Bachelor allows to look forward to a lot to We

941
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Speaker 1: talked about that for a second. It's happening in London,

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Speaker 1: which is exciting. I think that's a really cool location,

943
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Speaker 1: and I don't think we use a lot utilize it

944
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Speaker 1: a lot. I just remember Emily Maynard season in London.

945
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Speaker 1: I don't remember them going back since, so I'm excited

946
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Speaker 1: for that. But it doesn't look like we're going to

947
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Speaker 1: get the many dates there because something is going on,

948
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Speaker 1: and I'm really intrigued to find out what it is.

949
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Speaker 1: Zach is in a suit on zoom FaceTime or something

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00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 1: we never I don't think we're seeing I don't know

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00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 1: how to rewatch it, but I don't think we like

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00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: see him with the girls in London and they're all

953
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 1: freaking out because it seems like he's not there. So

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Speaker 1: I'm so I'm torn on whether or not he's sick

955
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 1: and like he has COVID and needs a quarantine, or

956
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: whether there's like some family emergency and he had to

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Speaker 1: go back home for it. Yeah, let's go. Hey, we're

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Speaker 1: going to London. You're gonna be stuck in a hotel

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00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:29,360
Speaker 1: room and Zach's gonna be on Zoom. It's gonna be awesome,

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00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:33,480
Speaker 1: but maybe at Zoom dates. It's actually not the worst idea.

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Speaker 1: It would be like very realistic for at least what

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Speaker 1: life was a couple of years ago. And there we go.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back next week watching it, breaking it down.

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Speaker 1: We're intrigued to see this episode until then. I've been Been,

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Speaker 1: I've Been Ashley. See you guys. Follow the Ben and

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Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on IHR Radio or subscribe

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Speaker 1: wherever you listen to podcasts.