1 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 1: Welcome to j dot L, a production of iHeartRadio. What 2 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: Up everybody? Hi, welcome back to J dot L the Podcast. 3 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: I'm sitting here with my sister friends. You already know 4 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 1: Laiah Saint Claus, Yes, hello, and Aja Graydon Danzler, you 5 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: got it, Phillyonsay. And this is Jill Scott and we 6 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: have the privilege in this awesome pleasure of speaking to 7 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: two incredible people, Brian Sheffie and Donia Williams. Okay, Hi, welcome, 8 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 1: Welcome to J dot L the podcast. There's so much Yeah, 9 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,319 Speaker 1: like Aja, would you would you guide us into this? 10 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: The thing about it is that one of the things 11 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 2: that we were really loving about this era of our 12 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 2: show is we're been talking to some of our amazing 13 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 2: day ones and how they grow so much beauty to 14 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: the podcast. And so one of our day ones is 15 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 2: Donia Williams, who along with her cousin Brian Sheffeye, are 16 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 2: experts in genealogy okay, And so what they do is 17 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 2: they co host a podcast, a streaming show called Genealogy 18 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: Adventures Live. And they also have a company, their authors, 19 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: their community activists. They are doing tons of work around 20 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 2: helping African Americans in particular trace their family histories, understand 21 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 2: where they come from, making good connections between us here 22 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 2: in the US and the diaspora as well as the continent. 23 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 2: So we're just really grateful to have them more but Donya, 24 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 2: aside from supporting us since the very beginning, has also 25 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 2: done a lot of chiming in on some of the 26 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: past conversations that we've had around African American history, around 27 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 2: personal family history, and so we wanted to have on 28 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 2: and we're just really super happy to have both of them, 29 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 2: So welcome you guys. 30 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 3: Was that a good enough? Is that an explanation? 31 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 4: That was awesome? 32 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 3: And we love to see it. 33 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: We love to see it because because we're here, we 34 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: are you know, in this in this time, we're trying 35 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: to figure out who we are. You know, everybody is 36 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: really wanting to know because now the technology is such, 37 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: you know, that we can find out where our people 38 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: are from. All this time walking around just just not knowing, 39 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: you know, wearing wearing cloths we don't know what they mean. 40 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: Having art on the wall, we don't even understand what 41 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: it is. But we've been searching and looking and reaching 42 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: for some kind of connection with with a continent that 43 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: you know was ripped from us in every possible way. 44 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 5: Talk, but that's what it is. 45 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm agent and I and like, yeah, we're all 46 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: coming up in a neo soul movement. You know, the 47 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: soul movement originally was really about connecting, connecting to ourselves, 48 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,959 Speaker 1: you know, all of that all that good powerful funk, 49 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: you know, finding that that rhythm in ourselves. And here 50 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: we are, you know, all of these years later, and 51 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 1: now we have the technology to truly find out what 52 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: it is in us that that makes us us. 53 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: And you know that one of the big things on 54 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: this show is you know, pointing out so many of 55 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 2: the outside kind of structures that affect how we, you know, 56 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 2: think about ourselves, who we believe we are. And we've 57 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: been uncovering little by a little so much of you 58 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 2: know how that you know affects our everyday lives. And 59 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 2: so this is really on par with the conversation that 60 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 2: we've been trying to have since the very beginning, you 61 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,320 Speaker 2: know what I mean. And as we peel back those 62 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 2: layers and we really see who we are, then we 63 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 2: can start to better see those outside structures for what 64 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 2: they are for the lives that they tell. So if 65 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 2: we don't know who you are, then you can't even 66 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: go out here and properly identify all of the different 67 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 2: things that are coming at you. And what is the 68 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 2: foreign matter, if you will, from you and who you 69 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 2: are supposed to be. 70 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 6: So but the fact that everybody just can't afford Henry 71 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 6: Lewis Gates. 72 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 7: And we're trying to navigate all these websites and stuff 73 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 7: and figure out who we are by ourselves, and we 74 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 7: get lost in these streets. 75 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: That's how I. 76 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:24,119 Speaker 2: See may be not to mention in fact, Henry Lewis Gates, 77 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 2: it's not the researcher on finding your roots. 78 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 6: I just want to put that out there. 79 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: He's a host, he's a whole. I personally think I 80 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: maybe because I don't know any better, But I personally 81 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: think that because I don't follow these things. 82 00:04:37,920 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 5: I don't follow astrology. 83 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 1: You know, I have a favorite number, but I don't 84 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 1: live my life exactly by following the number. I think 85 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: that that there's more way, more than just you know 86 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: those things. Somebody else will argue with me and you know, 87 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: trying to punch me in the chance about it. But 88 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: you know, this is another aspect of finding out exactly 89 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: we are, how we are, why we are. 90 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 4: Thank you so much for the invitation. Such a pleasure 91 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 4: to be able to speak with all of you and 92 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 4: to be able to speak to your audience. So again, 93 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 4: thank you for inviting us to the show. Do you 94 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 4: know that was the first time I've ever been introduced 95 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 4: as an activist And as soon as that, as soon 96 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 4: as she said that, I was thinking, it's really a 97 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,839 Speaker 4: shame that in this day and age, in twenty twenty three, 98 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 4: I'm being called an activist for just speaking truth, just 99 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 4: speaking truth about the African American experience in the United 100 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 4: States of America. I will be pondering that all day. 101 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 4: So thank you for that. And Jewel Ray's a really 102 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 4: good point. We do know a lot more than our 103 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 4: ancestors new but because our history, Black history still isn't 104 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 4: honestly improperly taught in schools, there's still a lot of 105 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 4: I don't want to say ignorance, because ignorance is almost 106 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 4: like a choice. You don't know that you don't know 107 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 4: until you don't know it. There's such a gap and 108 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 4: our collective knowledge that people are actually trying to fill 109 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 4: that gap of knowledge with I call it nonsense, but 110 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 4: with kind of out there explanations about how black people 111 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 4: actually arrived in this country, something that Donnie and I've 112 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 4: been actively siding online for a for a long long time, 113 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 4: so you know that that knowledge is really important. 114 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, So what what brings you guys to this work 115 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:30,159 Speaker 2: in the first place? Like, one day you're Brian and Donya, 116 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: y'all walking around the world being black mind and your 117 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 2: black business, your cousin, y'all going to the cookout, y'all 118 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 2: seeing each other on graduations and funerals and things. 119 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 3: And then one day what changes it makes y'all go 120 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 3: into this word. 121 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 4: So my dad was turning seventy eight. I was living 122 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 4: in England at the time. They were still here. They 123 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 4: were here and my parents were here in Maryland, and 124 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 4: I phoned my mum and I was like, Mom, what 125 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 4: do I get that? Because my father had everything, just 126 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 4: every kind of gadget, every kind of music, just he 127 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 4: had lowds and stuff. My mother's like, don't buy your 128 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 4: father a single thing. She's like, we're trying to get 129 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 4: rid of stuff because we're trying to downsize. And I'm like, well, 130 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 4: because his parents divorced when he was really young, and 131 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 4: his mother didn't allow him to have contact with his 132 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 4: dad's side of the family. He grew up really knowing 133 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 4: nothing about the Sheffy side of his ancestry, very little 134 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 4: about his father's kind of He knew where his father 135 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 4: was born, in a place called with County, Virginia, but 136 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 4: that was kind of it. So I'm like, do you 137 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 4: think he'd be interested in genealogy? And my mother was like, 138 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 4: that is the perfect thing to give him. So that 139 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 4: was my seventy eighth birthday present for my father, was 140 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 4: his genealogy. I'm pushing it all the way back, even 141 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 4: identifying his white Cheffie slave holding ancestor, and he was amazed. 142 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 4: I found photographs and pictures of aunts and uncles that 143 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:52,239 Speaker 4: he had never seen before. Giving someone their roots, even 144 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 4: at the age of seventy eight, was so fundamentally transformative. 145 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 4: My mother said it was probably the most awesome birthday 146 00:07:59,000 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 4: present I could have ever give. 147 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 5: I want to do that for my mom, and I was. 148 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 4: And at that point I was hooked. I was hooked 149 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 4: on genealogy and there was a. 150 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 6: New training back well for me. 151 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:13,119 Speaker 2: My mom is the baby at fourteen and Will thirteen lived, 152 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 2: so I have seventy first cousins. 153 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 6: So I always had this really really big, big family. 154 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 2: And then my mom's last name is a very rare name, 155 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 2: it's Yeldeale, and so you know, I was like, well, 156 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 2: who are these people who are to yelled as because 157 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 2: they didn't know anything about her father's side, but they 158 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 2: knew everything about her mother's. 159 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 6: Side, and I was like, well, I don't want to 160 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 6: do all that. 161 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 2: I started to find out how many people were in 162 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 2: my family, just wanted to know that. And in the 163 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 2: midst of me doing it, it was nineteen ninety six and 164 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 2: I started doing this whole thing of just counting how 165 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 2: many descendants my grandparents had, and long story short, it 166 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 2: ended up being almost four hundred people just from my grandparents. 167 00:08:57,320 --> 00:09:00,479 Speaker 2: After I did that, I was like, well, I found 168 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 2: I know who they are. I mean as well dig 169 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 2: and find out who the dead people are. 170 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 5: And that's how I started. 171 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 6: And then that's that's how I started it. 172 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 2: But the funny thing, Asia you say, you know we 173 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: were going to cookouts and reunions and graduations. 174 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 6: Brian and I did not know each other. 175 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 2: It was genealogy that actually introduced us to each other, 176 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:27,319 Speaker 2: and through a common family member, and in that research, 177 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 2: we've now found out that we're cousins, like eight times over. 178 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 6: What cousins are y'all? 179 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 5: Like? 180 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 6: What grandparents through grandparents? A lot? 181 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 4: A lot? 182 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 3: No, that was cold. For first of all, don't be 183 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 3: trying to put my family business out here. 184 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 6: Okay, you know you know we won't tell it all. 185 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 3: Baby lak black folks. We were like, we're gonna tell. 186 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 8: It to a point to a parent, more real talk 187 00:09:57,760 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 8: after the break. 188 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 1: You can't see this, but your grandmother, I'm assuming that 189 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: the lady left of your mother, well my left. Yeah, yeah, 190 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: you guys, Brian, you and that woman look alike, can 191 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: you get my bugging? 192 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 5: Can you see it? 193 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 3: No? No, no you're not. I can see it. 194 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 4: No, I can see it. 195 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 2: And the woman next to her is Mama Lula. That's 196 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 2: her mother. So what you guys are looking at is 197 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 2: five generations. It's my daughter on the very far end, 198 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 2: my daughter, then me, then my mom, then her mother, 199 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: and then her mother's mother. So that's probably one of 200 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 2: my favorite photos that I've put together because it's five 201 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 2: generations of women. 202 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 4: But to put it this way, Donnie and I are 203 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 4: related eight or nine ways in South Carolina alone, then 204 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 4: we're going to be related more ways in North Carolina earlier, 205 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 4: and then all the way back in colonial Virginia, we're 206 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 4: gonna have even more shared ancest Wow. 207 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 3: So is it safe to say or have you noticed 208 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 3: that amongst African Americans that there are these multiple points 209 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: of contact with people or is that just something rare 210 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 3: for you? 211 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 4: For y'all, I'm going to make you all out. I'm 212 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 4: divorced twice over and people I lived just outside of DC, 213 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 4: and everyone keeps trying to fix me up on blind 214 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 4: dates and whatnot. And I'm like, listen, I will never 215 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 4: marry anyone from Massachusetts or date anyone from Massachusetts to 216 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 4: Florida because the great migration coming out of the South 217 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 4: into the you know, scattering across the East coast. I'm 218 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 4: related to so many people in DC alone, the Metro 219 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 4: DC area. 220 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 6: Everybody's from Carolina and DC. That's because everybody's. 221 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 4: And Donnie will Donnie will be my truth guardian on 222 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 4: this one. I will not date a cousin. Don't just 223 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:11,599 Speaker 4: not no. 224 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 1: We talk about like we talk about, you know, other 225 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: mammals that meet with mammals and their family, like, do 226 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: you think we're nuts? Because it's a lot of interbreeding, 227 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: whether we recognize it or not. 228 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:33,319 Speaker 2: No, I think that once you know who they are, 229 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 2: it's harder for you to go and do it. 230 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 6: It was something that happened back then. 231 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 2: First of all, they were in small it was in 232 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 2: you know, groups of areas where they couldn't go anywhere, 233 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 2: so you was ending up dating your family anyway. 234 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 6: But where our family comes. 235 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 2: From, it just got it just got ridiculous, like it's 236 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 2: it's so many. And then as we dug back into 237 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: our research, we started to understand why it got that 238 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: way because of a grandfather that we found. His name 239 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 2: was Moses, and yeah, forty five children, forty girls, five 240 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 2: boys with two women. 241 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 5: He said, I'm taking my socks off. 242 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 4: And I really want to clarify. Come on, Moses, he 243 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 4: was not a breeder. He has one set of kids 244 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 4: with one woman whose first name we don't know. We 245 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 4: know that biologically she was a hay Good. She died. 246 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 4: He got with a much younger woman, Mariah Stalwarth, and 247 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,199 Speaker 4: then had a whole second group of kids. 248 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 6: Right, so it was twenty it was twenty. 249 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 2: Girls and two boys with one woman. Twenty girls and 250 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 2: three boys with another woman. But because of this, my 251 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 2: mom is a descendant of both of those two women, 252 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 2: because my mother is a descendant of at least so 253 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 2: far four of his. 254 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 4: Children, and we carry his prolific gene Yeah. 255 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,320 Speaker 6: But y'alla already mixed up? Then, so y'all are y'all 256 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 6: are already? 257 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 258 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 2: So my grandmother and my grandfather are related to each 259 00:14:06,480 --> 00:14:11,560 Speaker 2: other because of that, and my and my grandmother's grandmother, 260 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 2: which is the older lady in the chaid that y'all see, 261 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 2: she is also related to her husband because of that. 262 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: And you're talking about this is like north rural North 263 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 2: Carolina and. 264 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 6: South Carolina all south. 265 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 2: Yeah wow, But you know what, though, this is quite common. 266 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 3: I mean, I just want to make sure. 267 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 2: That people who are listening understand that this is actually 268 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 2: quite common, because I've actually heard the story several telling us. 269 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 2: Why I wanted you guys to speak to it because 270 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 2: I think that that there is some romanticizing around what 271 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 2: it is to understand your genealogies, specifically as descendants of slaves. 272 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 2: And one of the things I want people to not 273 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 2: miss is that there's a historical context that they that 274 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 2: these two people have to understand in order to you know, 275 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 2: really get their family his You've got to have you 276 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 2: have to. And that's where understanding our history is so 277 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 2: important in everything that we do because everything as an 278 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 2: African in the diaspora is tied to a historical context. 279 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 3: So we have to be able to understand that. 280 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 2: I'm curious because I know that you know, there's a 281 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 2: big boom. Like we talked, we start out the conversation 282 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 2: talking about technology, and there's a big boom and technological advances. 283 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: There's DNA, there's all this stuff that you can do 284 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 2: to figure out and this really appeals to us as 285 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 2: as African Americans or as Africans in the diaspora. 286 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 6: What do you do? 287 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 3: So you go out, you get this DNA situation done. 288 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 5: And wait, is it blood? 289 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 3: Is it? 290 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 5: Is it? Saliva? 291 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 3: Okay, saliva? You get it done, you get the results back. 292 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 3: What are the next steps for us? 293 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 2: Like you know, a lot of this information is hard 294 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 2: to digest, it's hard to read. 295 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 3: You don't know what this means for you. 296 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 2: And for those of you who are fans of the show, 297 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 2: you also know that we've done a show previously on 298 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 2: this where that we went through African ancestry and I 299 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 2: had a hard time. Of the three of us, I 300 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 2: was the person who was not able to actually identify 301 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 2: where my family was from on the continent. So kind 302 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 2: of give me some top three things that we need 303 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 2: to be kind of understanding when we go through this process. 304 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 4: I'm going to do the pre bit. Donnia you can 305 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 4: do the post one important step and Donnie you can 306 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 4: jump in on this too. Please. That a lot of 307 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 4: people don't think about is you have to mentally prepare 308 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 4: yourself for a DNA test. I know that they're kind 309 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 4: of sold as entertainment. Or spit in a tube or 310 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 4: do a cheek swab and find out where you come from. Well, 311 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 4: you can find out anything, including stuff you weren't expecting. 312 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 4: You can find out that one of your parents is 313 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 4: not your biological parent. Even though we know, or hopefully 314 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 4: I think most people know that you're average African American 315 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 4: with any length of ancestry in this country is going 316 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 4: to have a degree of European DNA. Not every their 317 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,239 Speaker 4: pockets that wouldn't, but a lot of us are going 318 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 4: to happen an average amount of European DNA. How are 319 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:14,399 Speaker 4: you going to respond to seeing that? Will that affect 320 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:18,199 Speaker 4: how you identify yourself. You have questions around that. You 321 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 4: can discover through accident, that an ancestor was fostered, was adopted, 322 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 4: that someone was raped. They're all, you know, we're talking 323 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 4: about human beings. We're not a great species. We've never 324 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 4: really treated each other, you know, our own species particularly well. 325 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 4: But when you have, when you're involved in either slavery 326 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 4: or if you were a poor family of color who 327 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:42,800 Speaker 4: were free during the you know, during the slavery period, 328 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:45,520 Speaker 4: anything can pop up in your DNA. 329 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 2: Anyway, my mom's DNA helped ten different people find who 330 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 2: their actual father was because her DNA is so very 331 00:17:57,119 --> 00:18:01,719 Speaker 2: very strong. I ended up helping like ten different people 332 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:05,119 Speaker 2: finding out who the who their father was. And Brian 333 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 2: and I are in a position where, you know, we 334 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 2: do this as a business as well. So when we're 335 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 2: talking to someone and we're and they're like, oh, I 336 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 2: want to do DNA, Okay, hold up, time out, because 337 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 2: DNA is going to introduce you to some things that 338 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 2: you're not. 339 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 6: You might not be ready for. 340 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:27,439 Speaker 2: So we we console before we even allow them to 341 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 2: go into that, we give them everything that it's going 342 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 2: to do. We give them all of this information that 343 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 2: it may find and then you have to sit and 344 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 2: think about whether or not you really want to go 345 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 2: that route. You know, if you went all your life 346 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,240 Speaker 2: thinking that you were the only child to your parents, 347 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden you find out you 348 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:52,159 Speaker 2: got a sibling out there, and you're like, I'm sorry, 349 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:55,400 Speaker 2: who is that? I mean, that actually happened in my family, 350 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:57,680 Speaker 2: That actually happened. 351 00:18:58,119 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 6: I'm looking at it. 352 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 2: And matter of fact, the other thing that people need 353 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 2: to realize is that when you start doing this stuff. 354 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 6: Your family might walk away from you. 355 00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 2: They may not deal with you because you're finding information. 356 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 2: You're digging into those secrets that a lot of families 357 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 2: just wanted to take it with them to the grave, 358 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 2: and you're digging into that. I have several family members 359 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 2: that don't talk to me. I ain't tripping, but I do. 360 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 3: I have seven. 361 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 4: So again, it's it's not to scare anyone, and it's 362 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 4: not to turn anyone away from taking a DNA test, 363 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 4: but to realize there is a lot packed in our 364 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 4: spit and you just have to advice. If you can't 365 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 4: approach it with an open mind, don't do it. 366 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 6: Don't do it. 367 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:49,400 Speaker 4: That's right, that's right. 368 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 5: I'm doing it. 369 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 3: I'm doing it. 370 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 5: I'm doing it. 371 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 3: I'm doing it again. 372 00:19:56,760 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, I want you to do it again. Let me 373 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 6: say this. 374 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 2: African ancestry tells you that they can pinpoint your tribe. 375 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 2: They can tell you what tribe you come from. Now 376 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,159 Speaker 2: I want you all to take this. Take one parent, 377 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 2: just one of your parents. They have two parents, so 378 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 2: those are your grandparents. And then those grandparents have parents, 379 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 2: so you have four great grandparents, and you have eight 380 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 2: great grade sixteen thirty two sixty four you get. 381 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 6: Then then you see where I'm going. 382 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 2: In order for you to be able to pinpoint that 383 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:41,359 Speaker 2: tribe going back as far as they're talking about, so 384 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 2: we're talking about hundreds of thousands of years, everybody back 385 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 2: there had to be from the exact same place. So 386 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 2: they're not pinpointing your tribe. They're looking at your largest 387 00:20:55,520 --> 00:21:00,680 Speaker 2: DNA amount, that where your family came from, and then 388 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:01,920 Speaker 2: they're going from there. 389 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:03,439 Speaker 3: That's what that is. 390 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 4: The DNA that they're testing isn't particularly made clear either. 391 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 4: Human beings have three different kinds of DNA, well most 392 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,639 Speaker 4: I'm going to actually some have three, some have two. 393 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 4: So we have mitochondrial DNA, which is noted as MT 394 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 4: DNA that gets paused from mother to daughter also gets 395 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 4: paused from mother to son that sons don't pass that on. 396 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 4: You have why DNA which is paused from father to 397 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,959 Speaker 4: sons daughters don't get it literally mail to mail to 398 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 4: mail to mail down the family line. So those are 399 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 4: the two kinds of DNA that African ancestry actually tests. 400 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:47,159 Speaker 4: There is a third called autosomal, and that's like a stew. 401 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 4: You get autosomal DNA from your mother and your father 402 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 4: and it goes back, as Donnie was saying, generations. Now, 403 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 4: siblings don't exactly they know two sip two or three 404 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 4: siblings inherit the exact same mix of DNA is unless 405 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:08,119 Speaker 4: they're twins les or identical twins. It's a matter of 406 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:09,680 Speaker 4: what they're pulling in from each parent. 407 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 7: So my question is, and because everybody won't be able 408 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 7: to get to you guys, but is there a way 409 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 7: because you know, like I said, people are out in 410 00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,440 Speaker 7: the street already trying to do this work on their own. 411 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 7: And it's each service because you know, there are at 412 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 7: least three main ones that we're talking talking about the 413 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 7: first one and then there are the other two. But 414 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 7: they are they are all for different purposes, correct? Is 415 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 7: there a way to use them for good? 416 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna see the big three like Ancestry, twenty three 417 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 4: and me my heritage family tree DNA, so those are 418 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 4: all assumed a DNA testing, so they're looking at your 419 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 4: mother and your father's side of the family. Now, what 420 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 4: I would advise people is don't get too hung up 421 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 4: in whatever ethnicity, kind of you know, whatever kind of 422 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 4: cultural ethnicity, whatever you want to call them. DNA results 423 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 4: you get whether you're getting you Tobago, Kenya, Nigeria, all 424 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,879 Speaker 4: of the kind of typical countries that we think of, 425 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 4: and I'm along the west coast of the West coast 426 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 4: of Africa because again those are very mixed populations. None 427 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 4: of them are particularly clear about what they're in order 428 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 4: for you to get a ethnicity result means that people 429 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 4: were tested in all of those countries. Hundreds of people 430 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 4: were tested in those countries. None of the DNA really, 431 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 4: the commercial ones tell you how many people they tested 432 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 4: in these different African countries, which is why you can 433 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 4: get such a wide variance between ancestry and twenty three 434 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 4: and meters about your different percentages. All it's really telling 435 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 4: you is that you have a percentage of ancestry from 436 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 4: a particular part of a country, wherever that country is 437 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,119 Speaker 4: in the world. I wouldn't get too hung up on 438 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 4: the actual percentage. Just go, yeah, okay, I've got a 439 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 4: couple of ancest just from Kaban. I've got a couple 440 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 4: of ancestors from from you know, Nigeria. Maybe the you know, 441 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 4: the larger the percentage, the more ancestry you're going to 442 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 4: have from that place. The other part of the puzzle 443 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 4: that gets missed out is, as Donnie was saying, it's 444 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 4: not like people in Nigeria, Africans Nigeria were always in Nigeria. 445 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 4: You know, human beings, we move, We move all over 446 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 4: the place. Movement isn't new to our generation or you know, 447 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,679 Speaker 4: to modern times. In order to get to West Africa, 448 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,400 Speaker 4: our ancient ancestors started off in East Africa and then 449 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 4: work their way over to the West. So DNA is 450 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 4: just a really complicated thing, and it tells a very 451 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,120 Speaker 4: complicated story. 452 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 6: And I think that it's nothing the truth. Brian, I 453 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 6: don't know what it's about. 454 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,679 Speaker 2: The thing is this, The thing is this that our 455 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 2: little Western I spirits pull together the plot in a 456 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 2: thirty minute rom Com, let's get into it. 457 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, he's the thing. This is, this is the whole thing. 458 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 2: From the four places that the four companies that he named, 459 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:09,199 Speaker 2: at least two of them are entertainment. Remember that the 460 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 2: twenty three and me is probably the one that's not entertainment. 461 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,160 Speaker 2: So you can go to you can go to twenty 462 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 2: three and me, you can get the DNA information. They're 463 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 2: gonna show you, they're gonna tell you different things when 464 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 2: you get your information. But what makes twenty three and 465 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 2: Me different from Ancestry not African Ancestry is the fact 466 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 2: that with ancestry dot com you can actually connect records 467 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 2: to your to a tree and start to build and 468 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:42,399 Speaker 2: bring it all together and compile both the DNA and 469 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 2: the records together so that you can then go ahead 470 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 2: and start finding your family and finding out more about them. 471 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 6: And that's what we would love to do for you guys. 472 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,760 Speaker 2: We want to be able to build like that. And 473 00:25:55,800 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: then the other thing is but remember ancestry is is entertainment. 474 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 2: But because those records are there, it's why it works. 475 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,360 Speaker 2: So so let me just let me just try to like, Okay, 476 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,760 Speaker 2: so what you guys are saying is that ultimately that 477 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 2: it is the story, the record, it's the the family 478 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 2: members stories, the records, and the DNA as a as 479 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:29,160 Speaker 2: a body or a toolkit is probably the best kind 480 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,719 Speaker 2: of use of this type of work. So genealogy as 481 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 2: a you know, as a study, so involves all of 482 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 2: these things. That's exactly for us. We can't be fully 483 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 2: dependent on one spoke in this wheel. We have to 484 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 2: kind of figure, you know, pull in all of these things, 485 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:51,080 Speaker 2: which makes all the sense in the world, because I mean. 486 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,120 Speaker 1: Look at our hair. Yeah, how many textures of hair 487 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,160 Speaker 1: do you have on your head? 488 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? How many colors of hair 489 00:26:58,880 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 4: do I have on my head? 490 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 5: How about that? 491 00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 3: It's a four three. 492 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 5: We're gonna take a quick break and then. 493 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:08,120 Speaker 9: We'll be right back. 494 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 7: I can't wait to get into a more Brian and 495 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,479 Speaker 7: Dinet because I'm kind of like in live mode right 496 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 7: now where I have two older parents and I use 497 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 7: both two different services for each parent for two different reasons, 498 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 7: right Like, I literally used the twenty three and me 499 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,560 Speaker 7: because I did want to know my averaging content and 500 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 7: where we came from. But then I use the ancestry 501 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,920 Speaker 7: for my mom because she has no idea of who 502 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 7: her father's people are. 503 00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 6: Like after the father, we don't know who the. 504 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 3: Birth parents and things of that nature. 505 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 6: So I'm hoping that that will help me. 506 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, we can. 507 00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 2: We can definitely hopefully we will be able to help 508 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 2: with that. The thing that I also want people to 509 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 2: understand is. 510 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 6: That with. 511 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:03,160 Speaker 2: We are not in any kind of way knocking African ancestry. 512 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 2: I need for everybody to know that if you're gonna 513 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 2: do that route, then buy all me do that route. However, 514 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 2: you have to be mindful of the information that they're 515 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,880 Speaker 2: giving you. So one of the things that was said 516 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 2: to Asia, and I promise you, Asia, I cried along 517 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,520 Speaker 2: with you that day. And I don't even know if 518 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 2: y'all saw my tweets that day, but there is a 519 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,640 Speaker 2: halflo group for every last person and they told you 520 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 2: that there wasn't. 521 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 4: And can I just say that that Darnia is legit 522 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,719 Speaker 4: because it hit her to the core and she was 523 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 4: crying on the foon to me as she was telling 524 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 4: me about what was said on the show. 525 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 2: She was, Yeah, that broke my heart knowing that knowing 526 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 2: the kind of person everybody knows who Asia is that 527 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 2: listens to this show, everybody knows you know why supremacy 528 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 2: is that the problem? But I wanted to say that 529 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 2: one of the big thing that was heartbreaking for me 530 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 2: was again the way that we were discussing it with 531 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 2: that it was being traced from mother to mother to 532 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 2: mother to mother, and. 533 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:21,560 Speaker 3: On my mother's side, my grandmother's grandmother is a person 534 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 3: who is a mystery to us, and so I was 535 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 3: looking forward. 536 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: To understanding more about her lineage because she's a person 537 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 2: we don't know. My great grandmother was raised by a 538 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 2: woman who wasn't her mother, and it's heartbreaking because her 539 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 2: her mother who raised her, who was not her biological mother, 540 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 2: is well documented. 541 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 3: So she was an educator. She has all kinds of 542 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 3: things that have been written about her. 543 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 2: My family goes back many many generations in Loudon County, Virginia. 544 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:56,240 Speaker 2: So that means, Brian, you can never date me. It's 545 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 2: a good thing. I mean, I know, I'm fine, but 546 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 2: you know that's right. Knew yourself, okay, because we are 547 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 2: probably related, but you know, but the bottom line is 548 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 2: that you know it was It was heartbreaking on multiple levels. 549 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 3: It wasn't just the like surprise age you're a white lady. 550 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 2: It hurt it was like, not only did I have 551 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:18,040 Speaker 2: to find out that, but then now this woman who 552 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 2: I knew I was gonna finally find something about her, 553 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 2: it was just went up and smoke. So I was 554 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 2: hurt and I and I thank you for just being 555 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,080 Speaker 2: in that moment with me. You know, of course I 556 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 2: didn't want to make you sad, but girl, that's where my. 557 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 6: I was more mad crying than sad. Yeah, I'm gonna 558 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 6: keep that real with you. I was, yeah, I'm gonna 559 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 6: keep that. I was mad. 560 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 2: I was like, listen, I'm like, if you're gonna give 561 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 2: this information, did tell it truthfully? Because that's where that's 562 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,040 Speaker 2: where Brian and I, you know, that's what we live on. 563 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 6: We live on truth and the light of things that people. 564 00:30:54,680 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 2: Don't realize is taking American history, you have to add 565 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 2: that Black history in it. 566 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 6: It's just missing. It's missing. It has been taken out. 567 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 6: So when you're doing your research and you're. 568 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 2: Trying to find your family, you're gonna go through start saying, well, 569 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:14,440 Speaker 2: wait a minute, this. 570 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 6: Was going on during American history. 571 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 2: You mean to tell me my peoples was dealing with 572 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,600 Speaker 2: that at that particular moment, at that particular time, and 573 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 2: we weren't. We weren't taught it. We didn't know that 574 00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 2: we had a hand in it. I'm gonna be very 575 00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 2: honest with you, y'all. I don't know how well you 576 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 2: guys are on your history. Most people know who ch'all 577 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 2: Sumner is, right, ch'all Sumner is the man that got 578 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:40,000 Speaker 2: beat on the Senate floor because he was did a 579 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 2: speech against slavery. Yeah, guess whose second great grandmother was 580 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 2: enslaved by the man who beat him. 581 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 3: Wow. 582 00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 2: And the way I learned it, I'm sitting here and 583 00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 2: I'm doing my research, and you know, your ancestors talked 584 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 2: to you, and you're doing these things. They guide you, 585 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 2: whether you want to realize it or not, they guide you. 586 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 2: And I'm sitting here and I'm like, Okay, I just 587 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 2: got this email from the place that I was working with, 588 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 2: they saying, yeah, your your great great grandmother, Martha Brooks 589 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 2: was enslaved by Whitfield Brooks, Preston Brooks, and Lemuel Brooks. 590 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 6: Well, Whitfield was first, Preston was second, and Lemuel was last. 591 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 2: So in most instances, when you're going to research, you're 592 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 2: either going to start from the back to the forward 593 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,240 Speaker 2: or start from the front and backward. You're never going 594 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 2: to go in the middle. Something in me said, look 595 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 2: at Preston Brooks. 596 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 6: So I did. 597 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,239 Speaker 2: And when I looked up Preston brook that's when I 598 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 2: saw a picture that is still in history books today 599 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 2: about a man holding a cane over Charles Sumner. And 600 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 2: I was like, need to tell me that this is 601 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 2: the man that I started this picture. I am sitting 602 00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 2: here learning my history in class and not realizing that 603 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 2: it was my history that I was learning because I 604 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:11,960 Speaker 2: ended up being related to this man. So when you 605 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 2: look at when you sit down and you're in school 606 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,280 Speaker 2: and you're trying to do your you're learning about history, 607 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 2: and you're learning about all of the founding fathers and 608 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 2: them doing this and them doing that, and then they 609 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 2: get the slavery and everybody white turns to the black 610 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 2: people because that's our history. 611 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 3: That's it. 612 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and pull them together all of the elements that 613 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 2: at least you know that we are all, you know, 614 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 2: tied to one another, though you know there's got to 615 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 2: be some major like you know, y'all probably are really 616 00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 2: answered this because truth of the matter is that we 617 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 2: can be more surprising than Hello, we related and three 618 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 2: different times over I was going to ask, like, you know. 619 00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 3: What, there's something really like that your wig back about 620 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:01,640 Speaker 3: this work. 621 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 4: Doing genealogy introduced me to American history, but starting to 622 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,319 Speaker 4: actually started giving me the names of ancestors. That was 623 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 4: the first time I actually had a sense of an 624 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 4: American identity. Now, I was born and raised here up 625 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 4: until I was about nineteen, small Connecticut town. Dad was 626 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,279 Speaker 4: in the military, so, you know, but not too far 627 00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 4: from the naval base in Connecticut. Never felt like an American. 628 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 4: I was never allowed to feel like even though I 629 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 4: was born in this country with ancestry that goes all 630 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,719 Speaker 4: the way back to the foundations of Virginia and then 631 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 4: further beyond my Native American side. How sad is that 632 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 4: to not feel like you were an American until you 633 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 4: start learning about your family and start naming your ancestors. 634 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:48,879 Speaker 4: And I said, all of this work started in when 635 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 4: I was still living in England. So now that I'm 636 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,759 Speaker 4: back at state side, when white supremacists come for me 637 00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 4: on Twitter or anywhere on social media, I can clap back. 638 00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 4: When they're like, if you don't like this country, just 639 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 4: just leave, I'm like, why should I come to think 640 00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 4: of it, Thomas Jefferson is a great grand you know, 641 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not dropping names to be bigging up anything. 642 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:14,520 Speaker 4: This is America. We're talking about America. We're talking about 643 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 4: people who are like all of us. You know, Thomas 644 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 4: Jefferson is an ancestor. George Washington is a great uncle 645 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 4: and a step great grandfather. Patrick Henry is an ancestor. 646 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,560 Speaker 4: All the kind of movers and shakers colonial you know, 647 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 4: Donnie and I have colonial governors who are our ancestors. 648 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 4: So it's like our ancestors, just thinking specifically about the 649 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 4: black ones built this country. I'm ode and I ain't leaving. 650 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 6: Yeah. 651 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:48,240 Speaker 2: And then for me, what blew me back was Moses 652 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,880 Speaker 2: was Moses Williams the forty you know, because I was 653 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:55,080 Speaker 2: I was pissed when Brian was like, yeah, we're gonna 654 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 2: do this research, and I'm like, no, I'm not. 655 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,320 Speaker 4: It was it was the forty kids that put Domnia 656 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 4: off his research. 657 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 2: For him, I have a I already knew that I 658 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 2: had a second great grandfather named Moses, So when I 659 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 2: was doing my research, I was looking for Moses. 660 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 6: I was looking for that great grandfather. 661 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,400 Speaker 2: But when I found this whole article about this Moses 662 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:23,360 Speaker 2: Williams with the forty five children. He's looking fifty but 663 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 2: he's actually sixty five. 664 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 6: And yeah, this is in. 665 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,160 Speaker 2: An article, guys, And then they tell you. They're telling 666 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:31,239 Speaker 2: you everything about it. 667 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,440 Speaker 6: And at the very end of the article it says 668 00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 6: that it was verified. So this was true. 669 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,399 Speaker 2: And I sent it to him. I sent it to Brian, 670 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 2: and I was like, Brian, this is Moses. I'm not 671 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 2: doing this, you know, this research on him because we 672 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,120 Speaker 2: never told y'all his age. So Brian turns around and 673 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:53,319 Speaker 2: he goes and he finds an obituary note for him, 674 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 2: and the obituary note simply says age man one hundred 675 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,600 Speaker 2: and fifteen dies. 676 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 6: Forty three of his children are surviving him. 677 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 2: So when I'm looking at it, like and in fifteen, 678 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:11,239 Speaker 2: now I know that my Moses was born in seventeen 679 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 2: ninety one. 680 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:13,800 Speaker 6: This ain't my Moses. 681 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:14,319 Speaker 3: Who was this? 682 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 6: So then Brian comes back and says, yeah, this is 683 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:18,320 Speaker 6: his father. 684 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 2: I'm like, no way, now, no, I'm not doing this 685 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 2: research because that means every last one of his children 686 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:32,319 Speaker 2: were enslaved and I am not going into that. 687 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 6: And he made me do it. 688 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 3: So forty five, forty five children all were enslaved. 689 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 4: So to put Moses into context, he was born when 690 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,960 Speaker 4: America was still a calony. British pound sterling was the 691 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:52,800 Speaker 4: currency of the day. Well, briches or pantaloons or you know, 692 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 4: the zipper wasn't even invented at that point. When he 693 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 4: got you know, he was here for all those major wars, 694 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:03,360 Speaker 4: Polutionary War, War of eighteen twelve and made it, you know, 695 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,959 Speaker 4: the Civil War when he was born, in the Mexican War, 696 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:09,880 Speaker 4: when he was born in seventeen sixty nine, when he 697 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,680 Speaker 4: was old enough to remember the Revolution, he would have 698 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:17,360 Speaker 4: heard all those words about liberty and freedom, We're not 699 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:21,319 Speaker 4: going to be slaves to Britain. He would have understood it. 700 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 4: He would have heard it, and he could never have 701 00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 4: conceived that he would ever be free. And he survived it. 702 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 4: He survived slavery for a good few decades because he 703 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,920 Speaker 4: died in eighteen eighty four. His father, who was was 704 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:42,680 Speaker 4: also his enslaver, Daniel Williams. Daniel Williams wife was his 705 00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 4: aunt because Moses's mother was Daniel Williams enslaved sister in law. Yeah, okay, 706 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 4: I'm seeing people's people's heads agains, but I. 707 00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 2: Do think this is a really I mean the context 708 00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:05,359 Speaker 2: of where we are today, the idea that. 709 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,960 Speaker 3: We are being separated so intentionally. 710 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 2: From this place around who is who is the most American? 711 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 2: What history deserves to be spoken about and taught? What 712 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 2: are our identity? 713 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 3: Who are that? This is so let's go back to 714 00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:29,239 Speaker 3: you being an activist. 715 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 2: This is a revolutionary app because what happens is that 716 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 2: we have to contend with the identity of ourselves, our families, 717 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,320 Speaker 2: the country that has been built around us, our part 718 00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,120 Speaker 2: in that, and that It is not a cut and 719 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 2: dry story. It is not a you know, no pun intended, 720 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:54,840 Speaker 2: black and white story. This is a story about a 721 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:59,400 Speaker 2: number of systems that have been in place since the 722 00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 2: fifteen hundreds that. 723 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,080 Speaker 3: In this country, and that now we are. 724 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:08,640 Speaker 2: Contending with what happens when you set up something like 725 00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:12,960 Speaker 2: this and you insert human beings into it, and then 726 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,280 Speaker 2: you look at it four hundred. 727 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,240 Speaker 3: And what sixty five seventy some odd years. 728 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:22,839 Speaker 2: Later, right when I wrote my book, Brian and I 729 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:27,480 Speaker 2: because Brian was my editors completely, you know, he and 730 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 2: I have done so much together. But when I wrote 731 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 2: my book, he started doing something called characters and started, 732 00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:34,320 Speaker 2: you know. 733 00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:36,319 Speaker 6: Explaining who each character was. 734 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,880 Speaker 2: And he spoke about Martha, the one that I talked about, 735 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,839 Speaker 2: and it was like she was speaking through him when 736 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:47,879 Speaker 2: he did it, and it angered so many people on Facebook, 737 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,360 Speaker 2: on that Facebook page, and it angered so many different 738 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 2: people because they were like, why are you talking about slavery? 739 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,799 Speaker 2: You're not slaved, You weren't enslave. You weren't this, You 740 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,319 Speaker 2: weren't that. Why are you even discussing that? 741 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,959 Speaker 1: Why are we Why are we talking about the Revolutionary War? 742 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,360 Speaker 1: Why are we talking about who died on the battlefield? 743 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,800 Speaker 1: They were still carrying around a flag of the people 744 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,440 Speaker 1: that lost. 745 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:12,239 Speaker 6: Right. 746 00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:20,920 Speaker 1: Confederate monuments, why why are we to have these things 747 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:26,480 Speaker 1: are out there protecting Christopher Columbus statutes? Why why is 748 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:30,719 Speaker 1: your opinion of yourself so damn hi that nobody else 749 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: can have a history? 750 00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:33,240 Speaker 5: Does that make sense? 751 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:37,719 Speaker 2: It doesn't, And you know that's not why hold on. 752 00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 6: I gotta be quiet now. 753 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:43,759 Speaker 4: I was gonna say for people who couldn't and this wasn't. 754 00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,839 Speaker 4: This is for the wealthiest, for people who couldn't do 755 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:52,320 Speaker 4: a thing for themselves, not a thing. They have black 756 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,320 Speaker 4: people to do everything for them, But they wanted to 757 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,640 Speaker 4: take all the credit for it, But what's the reason? 758 00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:07,319 Speaker 3: Asia all the reason? And the chorus says why. 759 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:32,920 Speaker 9: More conversation after the break. 760 00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,920 Speaker 2: Speaking of white supremacy, Guys, just asked a question real 761 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 2: quick because I noticed in my little journey that while 762 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,759 Speaker 2: I was trying to find out about my et grandmother, 763 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 2: that was limited information. But when her husband and she 764 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 2: married was an Indigenous man, it seems like the role 765 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 2: call that was kept on indigenous people is ridiculously meticulous. 766 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 6: Am I tripping you? 767 00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:47,839 Speaker 4: Guys? No, No, you're not, You're not. You know, there 768 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:50,680 Speaker 4: was a very I can't remember his name again, it's Virginia. 769 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 4: It's either Virginia or South Carolina. I swear it was 770 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:58,799 Speaker 4: in the nineteen twenties. He was an avowed racist and he 771 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 4: wanted to limit the number of people who can claim 772 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:05,280 Speaker 4: Native ancestry. So they have these things called the Eastern 773 00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,320 Speaker 4: Cherokee Application Forms. You can get them on full three 774 00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,239 Speaker 4: level form. It's an amazing resource because it has generations 775 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,799 Speaker 4: of family named. If you named one black ancestor, that 776 00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:21,480 Speaker 4: was it. Your application was melin void denied Negro ancestry. 777 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 2: Yeah wow, because that's that one drop, that's a part 778 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,960 Speaker 2: of that that one one drop. Well, you know that's 779 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,799 Speaker 2: interesting because we've had other guests come on and talk 780 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,319 Speaker 2: about some of the anti blackness within the indigenous communities 781 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 2: and of course the somewhat unsavory history of slavery within 782 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:39,920 Speaker 2: those communities as well. 783 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 3: So this kind of brings a little bit of that 784 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:43,360 Speaker 3: to the surface. 785 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,280 Speaker 2: But you know, of course it all gets introduced through 786 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,799 Speaker 2: you know, these kind of white supremacist lenses and things 787 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,040 Speaker 2: like this form where you know, but it is all 788 00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:56,000 Speaker 2: about how they create these things. You gotta you gotta 789 00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 2: get into this lane so I can tell you what 790 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 2: you can have. I should I feel this form out 791 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,319 Speaker 2: so that I can tell you that you don't get 792 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:06,560 Speaker 2: to live here this you don't get to have this. Yever, 793 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:08,800 Speaker 2: it's never for your benefit. 794 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,319 Speaker 1: We'll put your face up next to this paper bag 795 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:13,839 Speaker 1: and I'll let you know what you can get. 796 00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:14,759 Speaker 3: We'll get back to you. 797 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 5: I'll get back to you. 798 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:18,839 Speaker 4: Can I share a snippet of history that I hope 799 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 4: is going to make your audience feel really proud about 800 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 4: our people and kind of our start. 801 00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:24,720 Speaker 5: Are you kidding? 802 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:29,279 Speaker 4: There was early Africans in Virginia, those sixteen nineteen Africans 803 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,720 Speaker 4: and a couple and many others who arrived between sixteen 804 00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 4: nineteen and sixteen thirty, but I'm going to concentrate on 805 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:39,400 Speaker 4: those sixteen nineteen. So we're told they were slaves, they 806 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,640 Speaker 4: would have been slaves, that they had ended up in Mexico, 807 00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 4: that's their original destination before they got captured by the British. 808 00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:49,760 Speaker 4: Their definition here is pretty nepulous. I think the best 809 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 4: one was called a bombed servant because they had to 810 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:55,080 Speaker 4: basically pay off the cost of a voyage that they 811 00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,040 Speaker 4: never signed up to take in the first place. But 812 00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 4: that's another story for another day. They're here and all 813 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,120 Speaker 4: but one of them are able to buy themselves out 814 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:08,880 Speaker 4: of their bonds, and these people start buying up large 815 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 4: tracts of land, which means they had to learn English. 816 00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,640 Speaker 4: English was not their native for Okay, and a lot 817 00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 4: of them were in Goldin's who were Catholic were told 818 00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:20,400 Speaker 4: they were savages, that they lived in huts. They did not. 819 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 4: They came from a very cultured kingdom. It was a 820 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:27,120 Speaker 4: Catholic kingdom. So you had the Portuguese who were Catholics 821 00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,520 Speaker 4: kidnapping Catholic Africans. The Pope is totally cool with this, 822 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:34,480 Speaker 4: by the way, Looking to make a profit. Now, unfortunately 823 00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,279 Speaker 4: Catholics in Virginia not a good mix because it was 824 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:41,240 Speaker 4: a very Protestant colony at that time. But anyway, most 825 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:44,280 Speaker 4: of them buy themselves out of their bond. They've learned English, 826 00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:47,799 Speaker 4: they've learned the English legal system. This is stuff that's 827 00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:50,200 Speaker 4: never taught. Donnie and I kind of how to work 828 00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,440 Speaker 4: this out between, like how did they manage to do 829 00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:56,600 Speaker 4: all this stuff? Two of them became magistrates, four of 830 00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 4: them had white servants, and when they died, the Colony 831 00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 4: of virgin the bridges of Virginia that were like the 832 00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:09,280 Speaker 4: governmental body started closing that door. When the last black 833 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:13,280 Speaker 4: magistrate died, they passed a law black people can't be magistrates. 834 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 4: When the last one with the with the white servant died, 835 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,319 Speaker 4: there's a code black people can no longer hire or 836 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 4: be monsters over white people. All of you know, their achieatment, 837 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,719 Speaker 4: they just kept making achievement after achievement after achievement, and 838 00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 4: when they died, there's a law, can't do this, can't 839 00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 4: do that, can't go here, can't you know, it's ridiculous. 840 00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:40,120 Speaker 2: And from that point, fast forward to the Civil War 841 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 2: era and their come and now they've been enslaved for 842 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 2: all these years, and now the Civil War has come 843 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:49,520 Speaker 2: and gone, and now we're free again. They came out 844 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 2: from Reconstruction era moving faster than the speed of light 845 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:59,960 Speaker 2: because they became doctors, lawyers. It was over fifteen hundred 846 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:04,520 Speaker 2: African Americans who was in any type of position that 847 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:09,400 Speaker 2: you can think of as far as government was concerned, local, state, federal, 848 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 2: They were everywhere. They moved at the speed of light. 849 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:17,400 Speaker 2: They became teachers, they became doctors, they were everything. Within 850 00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:25,480 Speaker 2: a fifteen year period, one hundred HBCUs were created because 851 00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:25,680 Speaker 2: of it. 852 00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:27,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 853 00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:29,160 Speaker 2: Well, I want to go back to one of our 854 00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:32,919 Speaker 2: early early episodes and I talked about reading Black Reconstruction, 855 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:37,160 Speaker 2: which is like should be required reading for any person 856 00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:41,520 Speaker 2: in this country, period, but particularly for black people. WBD boys. 857 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:45,080 Speaker 2: Black Reconstruction really does a very good job. It's not 858 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 2: the only book that does a good job at this, 859 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:48,760 Speaker 2: but it does a very good job. 860 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,800 Speaker 3: Of really talking about that time. 861 00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,880 Speaker 2: Period after the Civil War and during that time and 862 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,719 Speaker 2: what was accomplished, what was taken away, what was structurally 863 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,080 Speaker 2: changed in order for it to never happen again. And 864 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 2: we're able to see from each state's Constitution, which was 865 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:08,319 Speaker 2: ratified in each individual state. So when you hear white 866 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:12,040 Speaker 2: people say things like states rights, when they say that, 867 00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:15,279 Speaker 2: that is a that is a dog whistle to Reconstruction 868 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:21,160 Speaker 2: era anti black laws that still exist on the books 869 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 2: in almost all of these states. 870 00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 3: So when they say things like states rights. 871 00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:29,040 Speaker 2: Or we don't want big government, we want small government, 872 00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 2: states rights, all of that is a dog. 873 00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 3: Whistle to anti black legislation. 874 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,600 Speaker 2: That means we don't want black people to have economic 875 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:40,920 Speaker 2: or political power, period. So don't buy into that, BS. 876 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,600 Speaker 2: And it's like when you hear black conservatives in particular 877 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,640 Speaker 2: spill out this same type of propaganda. 878 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 3: It is a problem. Please know that. 879 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:52,839 Speaker 5: If we really are people that we will make a way. 880 00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:58,920 Speaker 1: Yes will you will make a way to left to 881 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:00,920 Speaker 1: be excellent, to advance. 882 00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:02,319 Speaker 5: We do these things right. 883 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:07,520 Speaker 1: So just imagine had this society and all the others, 884 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 1: you know, if they hadn't had such a hatred towards us, 885 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:16,319 Speaker 1: there wouldn't be the issues that they have with us 886 00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:22,120 Speaker 1: right now. I don't believe that people naturally gravitate to 887 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,880 Speaker 1: selling drugs or selling people for that matter. 888 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:26,359 Speaker 3: I don't. 889 00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,640 Speaker 1: I don't think that that's a natural thing for us, 890 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:32,200 Speaker 1: but you put us in positions where we have to 891 00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:36,960 Speaker 1: make a way or try to survive when everything at 892 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:40,760 Speaker 1: our cities are destroyed, our towns are destroyed, our education 893 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:44,400 Speaker 1: is denied. You know, so many things had we just 894 00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:46,560 Speaker 1: been left the fuck alone. 895 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:47,239 Speaker 4: Huh. 896 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,840 Speaker 1: You're talking about people who started off not being able 897 00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:52,960 Speaker 1: to read a language. 898 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 5: Okay. 899 00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:57,200 Speaker 1: People are forced to take a name that they doesn't 900 00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:58,759 Speaker 1: belong to them at all. 901 00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:01,640 Speaker 3: Right, dead, that wasn't their dead. 902 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,840 Speaker 1: That was dead, and save. 903 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,240 Speaker 2: A group of people that they didn't need to save 904 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,880 Speaker 2: because had it not been for those sixteen nineteen people, 905 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:15,240 Speaker 2: those twenty odd people, Virginia would have died. 906 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:20,160 Speaker 4: Yes, that's the killer. Because Donnia has spoke an important truth. 907 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:24,520 Speaker 4: That was the third time that Jamestown was on the 908 00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:28,040 Speaker 4: verge of failing due to because they didn't know how 909 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,320 Speaker 4: to do anything. They did not send their best, in 910 00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:31,120 Speaker 4: their brightest. 911 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:35,720 Speaker 1: They send the thieves, the same murderers, and they send 912 00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,640 Speaker 1: the criminals stay in this place, and the. 913 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,440 Speaker 4: Rich and the rich men who didn't know how to 914 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:41,040 Speaker 4: do anything. 915 00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,760 Speaker 3: That's right when Donna's embarrass. 916 00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 4: Yes, so when Donnia said, these people saved Jamestown, they 917 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,279 Speaker 4: saved Jamestown. They knew how to grow food, they knew 918 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:54,080 Speaker 4: how to rear the animals, they knew how to build houses, 919 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:56,000 Speaker 4: all of that stuff. 920 00:50:56,719 --> 00:51:00,160 Speaker 2: And the response, the response to them to who they were, 921 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,160 Speaker 2: Like I said, this is really important piece of information 922 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:08,239 Speaker 2: that they learned early on. That the response was to 923 00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:11,919 Speaker 2: learn from them and then use the systems to then 924 00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 2: say we will shut you down that once they are gone, 925 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:20,920 Speaker 2: then you say, okay, now this is not allowed. Because 926 00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:24,160 Speaker 2: that's really important piece there, because I think a lot 927 00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,360 Speaker 2: of times when we talk this is erasure. 928 00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 3: This is almost the. 929 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:30,920 Speaker 2: This is the definition of erasure. You people do a 930 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,720 Speaker 2: thing and then you outlaw this thing that they did, 931 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:36,600 Speaker 2: and then too it only takes a generation to come 932 00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,960 Speaker 2: by before they never knew it ever existed in the 933 00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:39,560 Speaker 2: first place. 934 00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:44,560 Speaker 4: And I left your point about big states rights. I'm 935 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,080 Speaker 4: just going to put this out there because it's very topical. 936 00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:50,200 Speaker 4: So we get the states rights argument. But at the 937 00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 4: same time, the same group of extreme conservative GOP people 938 00:51:56,200 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 4: they want to be in your gynocologist's office with you, 939 00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,239 Speaker 4: telling you what you can and cannot do with your 940 00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:06,640 Speaker 4: own body. They want to be in the classroom telling 941 00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 4: teachers what they can and cannot That doesn't sound like 942 00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:10,000 Speaker 4: small governments. 943 00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:14,719 Speaker 2: No, that kind of sounds like, Yeah, hypocrisy is the 944 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:16,000 Speaker 2: is the American way. 945 00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 6: Isn't it? Yeah? 946 00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 1: Only way, Ladies and gentlemen. 947 00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 5: Listen. 948 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:30,200 Speaker 1: Our strengths and our weaknesses, our tenacity, all of it 949 00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:35,040 Speaker 1: derives from situations now and then and the blood that flows. 950 00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:40,920 Speaker 1: We'll hate ourselves by design, but we can destroy the 951 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:44,520 Speaker 1: chains with knowledge, with comprehension of who we are. 952 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:50,520 Speaker 4: Inform yourself and realizing that the system has played us for. 953 00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,360 Speaker 5: Generations, for generations. 954 00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:54,440 Speaker 4: Cause if we were acting, I mean knew one people 955 00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:57,320 Speaker 4: is ever going to be united. Human beings just aren't 956 00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 4: built that way. But if the majority of us can, 957 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,920 Speaker 4: I mean, that's probably the worst pot bubble for the 958 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,560 Speaker 4: group of people that we're talking about, white supremacists. But 959 00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:11,000 Speaker 4: if non white people, I'm going to expand this beyond 960 00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:14,000 Speaker 4: African Americans would just come together and say, you know what, 961 00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,880 Speaker 4: we're drawing a line under the sand. Y'all had a 962 00:53:16,920 --> 00:53:21,239 Speaker 4: good run of it. European descend to people for the 963 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,879 Speaker 4: hunt for centuries, you've made a mess of it. It's 964 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:29,120 Speaker 4: our turnout. We can't do any worse and what you've done. 965 00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,000 Speaker 4: I was having this conversation with JOHNNYA in the car, 966 00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:36,759 Speaker 4: I think a week ago saying indigenous peoples all around you. 967 00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:38,799 Speaker 4: Think about all the places in the world that got 968 00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:43,520 Speaker 4: colonized by Europe. Indigenous people are not responsible for climate change. 969 00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:47,239 Speaker 4: We even create pollution. Our people or had religions and 970 00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:51,200 Speaker 4: cultures about celebrating living in harmony with the planet. You 971 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:54,880 Speaker 4: look at any indigenous people, they have mythologies and a 972 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,680 Speaker 4: real sense of duty to take care of Mother Earth. 973 00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 4: Raping mother Earth was as foreigner news to any group 974 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,640 Speaker 4: of indigenous people as any kind of thoughtform told possibly be. 975 00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:09,799 Speaker 4: But yeah, we're told that we're the Syphageans. 976 00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:13,920 Speaker 1: That was just that was just a moment of silence, 977 00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:20,480 Speaker 1: because yeah, it's deserved, it's deserved. This is if you 978 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:23,279 Speaker 1: have any questions, you know, we're going to give you 979 00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:27,959 Speaker 1: some resources so that you can take your time and investigate. 980 00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:33,279 Speaker 1: It's worth the trip. Knowledge really is power, and you 981 00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:34,360 Speaker 1: are the last dragon. 982 00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:38,719 Speaker 5: You are the last dragon, Paul. 983 00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:49,920 Speaker 3: Power real rap. 984 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 5: Listen, ladies and gentlemen, thank you so much. 985 00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:57,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, Brian Sheffy, I said it right this time, 986 00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:01,759 Speaker 1: I hope. Thank you Donnie Williams for being supporters of 987 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,320 Speaker 1: j dot Ilde podcast and being. 988 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:15,000 Speaker 10: So sough, so open, and so informative, being so multi dimensional. 989 00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:20,160 Speaker 1: You are who we hope we've been speaking to. You 990 00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:23,640 Speaker 1: are absolutely we feel like we're on We've been par 991 00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,439 Speaker 1: for the course. So thank you for that, and thank 992 00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:29,719 Speaker 1: you everyone for listening to j dot Ilede podcast. You 993 00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,879 Speaker 1: are loved beyond what you know, and you can do 994 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:36,319 Speaker 1: more than you've done. I promise be good, y'all. 995 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:42,920 Speaker 3: How do You Eat an Elephant? 996 00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:44,120 Speaker 4: One? 997 00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:45,960 Speaker 3: By Cod. 998 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:51,680 Speaker 11: Hey listeners, it's Amber the producer here. I am so 999 00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:55,680 Speaker 11: excited to dig deeper into my own lineage, and today's 1000 00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:59,600 Speaker 11: guests have so many resources to help us start this journey. 1001 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 11: I am so excited to dig deeper into my lineage, 1002 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,719 Speaker 11: and today's guests have so many resources to help us 1003 00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,960 Speaker 11: start that work. Ryan actually wrote two books. The first 1004 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:13,520 Speaker 11: one is called Practical Genealogy fifty simple steps to research 1005 00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:17,200 Speaker 11: your diverse family history and a Family Tree Workbook that's 1006 00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 11: thirty plus step by step worksheets to build out your 1007 00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:24,080 Speaker 11: family history. 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