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Speaker 2: Upsetting my sister? Ay touching it? Man? No, that's her

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Speaker 1: Carrying her child and her boyfriend. Op's boyfriend is like

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Speaker 2: Is he doing the thing where he like goes up

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Speaker 1: Bit, dren Elber, Yeah, dude, I want to do that

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Speaker 2: No, oh, I have.

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Speaker 1: Your own pressure.

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Speaker 2: Really I wanted to do. I want to relieve the

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Speaker 1: Like, it depends on what kind of you know, Is

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Speaker 2: That's what I want to know.

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Speaker 1: So Big Violet forty three ninety says, I read it.

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Speaker 1: So Last year, I twenty nine female, agreed to be

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Speaker 1: her husband, both twenty seven, due to an unfortunate high

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Speaker 1: and all has went realistically pretty well. My sister has

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Speaker 2: What do you think is going on? I think she's jealous?

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Speaker 2: Jealous that what because what was the reason why she

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's like baby yeah, yeah. Maybe she's thinking that

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Speaker 1: She hasn't talked to me in the last two days

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Speaker 2: Give her some slack too, Yeah, she's like doing a

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Speaker 1: I think she's getting a little bit the sister is

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Speaker 1: you know all of that. There is an edit though,

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Speaker 2: Whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa seventy five grand per journey. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: You're doing like a pretty big that's a pretty big deal,

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Speaker 1: pretty big favor. So edit, just because I'm seeing this

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Speaker 1: I'm not putting a judgment, but I do just want

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Speaker 2: But I think he was holding her hand on top

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Speaker 2: I didn't even think about a pregnancy fetish. What I

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Speaker 1: He does touch my belly a lot. It's basically his

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Speaker 2: I didn't even I'm not what huh that's a wild one?

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Speaker 1: Kenobi zero three zero four twenty says, not the a hole,

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Speaker 1: worried about a kink. But your sister is no business

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Speaker 2: The father, Yeah, he's probably like I'm okay, so I'm

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Speaker 2: Did he was?

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Speaker 1: He attracted to her because of that? Now I'm overthinking

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Speaker 1: and there are there is an update?

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Speaker 2: What do you guys think? Yeah, I'm very interested in

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Speaker 2: reading these comments because what those those make sense? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like I did just think about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And he's like, I have a pregnant girlfriend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: No, I feel because like I'm like, yeah, because I

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Speaker 1: Yes, what's going on here, But before we get into

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Speaker 1: the update, I definitely think not the a hole on

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Speaker 1: Way, if this guy does have a pregnancy fetish or not,

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Speaker 1: she's not doing anything wrong, like that's her body and

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Speaker 1: her sister can't police it because she is doing Opie

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Speaker 1: is doing a big favor for her.

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Speaker 2: Gotcha.

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Speaker 1: But let's get in to this update. This is one

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Speaker 1: an update post sister update on the sister front all

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Speaker 1: Some complicated emotions we had to work through, but we're

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Speaker 2: It is too long to get.

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Speaker 2: Hello, good handshake, boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: This one went a little different. Uh oh oh oh,

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Speaker 2: please don't be the pregnant season. I please don't.

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Speaker 1: I really hope it's not the pregnancy fetish, but maybe

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Speaker 1: As long as everyone's okay with what's going on here,

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Speaker 1: I guess it doesn't matter. There were a lot of

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Speaker 1: I also wasn't aware of that. I pondered on it,

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Speaker 1: Yeah? They're like there are times when you know someone's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know I'm talking about it feels weird. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love when you guys fact check me. It makes

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Speaker 2: Tell her I'm curious on how he keeps his fetish.

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Speaker 1: We had a long talk about it. I don't really

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Speaker 2: Let me know, and what do I need to let

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 2: What are you doing? What are you doing? What am

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Speaker 1: No? No, no, what do you pick it?

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Speaker 2: Oh? That's very coote uh fuck fuck fetish mary mary type?

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Speaker 1: I feel like fetishes are you know? I don't know,

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Speaker 1: Uh fink fetish hmm yeah, but get.

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Speaker 2: In the comments. What do you guys think? So? What

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Speaker 2: are you fucking Sophia as your kids?

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Speaker 1: Oh? This next story I know it switched it birth

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Speaker 1: or they should call and or text fo four zero

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Speaker 1: Is I feel like that's the right number. If it's

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Speaker 1: I lived a lie all my life and it was

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Speaker 2: Okay, so the three babies my birth mother did not.

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Speaker 2: So so there's two babies, or there's three babies.

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Speaker 1: One of them had a complication, and so the grandparents

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Speaker 2: That's my understanding. These people are psychos.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I was taken to a very well

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Speaker 2: Wait, the grandparents had grandparents. The grandparents who were so

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Speaker 1: They've probably told them. I studied hard and went to

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Speaker 1: ice water being dumped on me. Oh wait, I know

440
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:10,800
Speaker 1: what happened. What I see you in the comments? If

441
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,520
Speaker 1: you see where this is going. She admitted to switching

442
00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:17,040
Speaker 1: us at birth. How old were they They must have

443
00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:19,679
Speaker 1: been so oh they were in college And the grandma

444
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,920
Speaker 1: is coming to her now with this adult man and saying,

445
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 1: this is actually your child.

446
00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:26,560
Speaker 2: What do you do?

447
00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 1: Why? Why are you coming now?

448
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,240
Speaker 2: Why are you fessing up now? I'm yeah, I keep going,

449
00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:33,120
Speaker 2: keep going, keep going.

450
00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to know she purposely had him watched

451
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 1: twenty four to seven as my birth parents were doctors

452
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:40,879
Speaker 1: and had the way to get his condition corrected and

453
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 1: under control. I asked my adoptive grandmother about my parents,

454
00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,440
Speaker 1: and she told me that she wanted me to pack

455
00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:50,200
Speaker 1: up my stuff as we were going to drop me off. Wait,

456
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:52,840
Speaker 1: and she told me that she wanted me to pack

457
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 1: up my stuff as she was going to drop me

458
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 1: off at my real family's home.

459
00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:01,800
Speaker 2: What this is a psycho, la, This lady's psycho? What

460
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 2: the fuck?

461
00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 1: So the grandma not only change switched the babies illegally

462
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 1: psycho behavior, she also when op's in college now after

463
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,040
Speaker 1: having been raised by this whole new family. The grandma

464
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,920
Speaker 1: comes to and says, here's the actual child.

465
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:24,000
Speaker 2: You need to leave. What the other was like, Yeah,

466
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 2: I just had to make sure this condition was under control.

467
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, that's so wild. No, the grandma's thinking, oh, well,

468
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 1: this child might you know, might not live, so let's

469
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,640
Speaker 1: have a backup child. What. I went to my room

470
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,280
Speaker 1: and balled into my pillow. When I left my room

471
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 1: to get some honor, my parents ignored me and were

472
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:47,679
Speaker 1: paying attention to their son Max. What fim? He doesn't

473
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 1: deserve a fake name. Oh okay, so that is being

474
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,159
Speaker 1: doxed and this is the actual child. I'm sorry. The

475
00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 1: parents don't even care. The parents aren't even.

476
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 2: Even Max feel about this? Yeah? What is this?

477
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 1: This whole family?

478
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 2: Iss? I have so many questions. Keep going, keep going,

479
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:06,000
Speaker 2: keep going?

480
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:09,200
Speaker 1: What what? What? I felt the pain again and packed

481
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,120
Speaker 1: up everything overnight for the coming weekend. I couldn't eat

482
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 1: or sleep seeing Max there smirking at me. Oh why

483
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: is he happy about this? What?

484
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:21,159
Speaker 2: He got a better family? Now?

485
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 1: There were times he'd say things only to me, like

486
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:28,160
Speaker 1: a none for Gretchen Wieners, or I win, you lose,

487
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 1: or I can see why you look so ugly, et cetera.

488
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:37,680
Speaker 1: It hurt? Is this true? Who says that stuff? Max

489
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 1: sounds Max sounds made up? Max sounds like a made

490
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,160
Speaker 1: up bully? This is not true.

491
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,640
Speaker 2: This is a fake story. This has to be fake.

492
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 2: This isn't real. This is not a real story.

493
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 1: Alright, all right, guys, we're getting back into another story

494
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 1: because we read a fake story. And we don't give

495
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: you fake stories. We only give you real stories. That's true,

496
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:02,680
Speaker 1: only the best stories for you, guys.

497
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 2: It's pretty good.

498
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 1: It was a really good story, but it got so

499
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 1: wild that both Riley and I didn't believe it anymore.

500
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 2: There's no way that's true. If you want to go

501
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 2: check it out, subredd, it tricked us.

502
00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 1: One of you guys try to trick us, trying to

503
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 1: fool us, and I don't like being fooled. All right,

504
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 1: So I discovered that my wife and I share the

505
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,920
Speaker 1: same biological father. We have a child on the way.

506
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: What do we do and what happens next?

507
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 2: You know what to say about incest?

508
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: It it's wrong, So plastic bagthrow ninety eight says, my

509
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: wife and I recently discovered that we share the same dad.

510
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 2: Youts makes uh Christmas easier Yaks. We have been together

511
00:23:58,960 --> 00:23:59,400
Speaker 2: for eight.

512
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: Years and married earlier this year. We have our own home,

513
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 1: and we're expecting our first child in March twenty twenty.

514
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,199
Speaker 1: Our biofather is still alive, but we don't want anything

515
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,440
Speaker 1: to do with him because of this, and because he

516
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 1: was a bad person.

517
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 2: No, not a incest COVID baby.

518
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: Oh, like, oh, you have have that? Get a break?

519
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 2: Will it balance out? Because incest babies kind of ooh?

520
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 2: And then like COVID babies are like they can do well,

521
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 2: have you ever seen a COVID baby?

522
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 1: No?

523
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 2: Those things walk at six months in what? Yeah, they're

524
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 2: doing handstands a year in?

525
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 1: What?

526
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 2: Yeah? COVID babies supernatural? Is this even it out? Supernatural

527
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,159
Speaker 2: abilities with an incest real genes. I don't know what

528
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 2: you're trying. I don't know if you have a fact check.

529
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 2: This was some COVID babies tell me their superpowers? What

530
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 2: are they doing that other children don't do?

531
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: Apparently Riley is convinced about this, and I don't think

532
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,199
Speaker 1: he has the sources to back it up.

533
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 2: But we're gonna go. They're going to give me our sources.

534
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: Okay, from what I understand, my father, who is a

535
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: persona non grata in both households, did not remain in

536
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 1: our mother's lives for long, and while I knew a

537
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 1: brief bit of info about him, my partner did not,

538
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 1: as he was in all around bed stinky person. Neither

539
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 1: of our moms named him on the birth certificate as

540
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,159
Speaker 1: the father, and in my wife's case, she knew her

541
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,520
Speaker 1: mom's long term boyfriend as a father, while I gained

542
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: a step dad. Our parents do not know this and

543
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: we aren't even sure if we should say anything. I

544
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 1: will not disclose how we found out, and her mom,

545
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 1: who is one of my close friends, admitted to me

546
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: at a rough moment that her daughter's dad was XX

547
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: and how he was, et cetera. And this, combined with

548
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: other info, made it clear. We have had a private

549
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: DNA test taken and the results suggested we were half siblings.

550
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: Ah, yikes, yikes.

551
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 1: What do you do? Man? What do you do?

552
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 2: Just got to see it through? Think I think they're

553
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 2: going to be okay with the baby? Well yeah, I

554
00:25:58,240 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 2: mean you can't.

555
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: Maybe has to be born. But what do you do

556
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 1: in that marriage? You know?

557
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 2: I think I would, I would I've seen him to

558
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 2: leave incest partners work it out. I could not could

559
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 2: not be me. Wow, I would leave that marriage. But

560
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 2: they're your long, long, long lost brother. I would leave

561
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 2: that marriage. And like your dad didn't do anything. It

562
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 2: was just like I would leave that marriage. He like

563
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 2: just threw the condom away. No, actually slipped.

564
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: No. No. Despite this, our feelings for each other have

565
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: not changed, and we do not want to split.

566
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense. Sucks, but they don't see them

567
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: as siblings. That's their love partner. They met each other

568
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 2: as love partners.

569
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: We have known each other since starting school and been

570
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: through some hard times together. I'm afraid of what this

571
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 1: means for us and our child, if that means he'll

572
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: have any health complications in life. My wife doesn't believe

573
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: in her personally and doesn't wish to terminate her first pregnancy,

574
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: nor do I want her to do. We mean to

575
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 1: see through and hope for the best. We're lucky and

576
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: that we don't have a history of illness in our

577
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 1: mother's families at least, so hopefully that's better luck.

578
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 2: Than some What are they gonna tell a kid? Oh

579
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 2: my god, you know, tell me kid and never never never, Okay,

580
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 2: time out. You have to what they're like, Oh twenty

581
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,720
Speaker 2: three and meters, Oh, Anti Street dot Com.

582
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: Oh what do you do?

583
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 2: What do you do whenever you say, oh, mom and

584
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 2: dad have the same dad. I don't have two grandpas.

585
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 1: I have one.

586
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,560
Speaker 2: God, I don't know when you tell that child at four,

587
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 2: but four you're like, you're like sweedy, you look sweedy.

588
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 1: You know how you have a brother or a sister

589
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 1: that's just like your mommy and I.

590
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 2: Oh, and then they tell everyone at the school, yeah,

591
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,160
Speaker 2: they're like my daughter things.

592
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 1: I know incest is against the law, and I'm terrified

593
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: that we could be found out if anyone looked into

594
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: our histories or if they I heard they do this

595
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: take a DNA sample of our son for jenic testing

596
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 1: to make sure he has no health problems, and what

597
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: could happen to us? I am not sure what to

598
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: do except maybe ensure that we do not have any

599
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: more biological children, even if our child turns out without

600
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: a problem, just to be safe and adopt or something instead.

601
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: I don't want anyone to find out, so I'm telling Red.

602
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 1: So I'm keeping info to minimum and I will not

603
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 1: let anything separate us in neither will she What could

604
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: happen to us. What cansaw should we do? Should I

605
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: just bury it? I am in England?

606
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 2: Oooh boy? And there are some relevant comments.

607
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: One commoner says, we can obviously not advise you to

608
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: commit criminal offenses, which means that if you were to

609
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 1: have penetrative sex now, that would be an offense contrary

610
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: to s. Sixty four and S. Sixty five of the

611
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: Sexual Offenses Act two thousand and three. For any penetrative

612
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: sex before you knew, you would likely be okay as

613
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: a requirement is a knows or could reasonably be expected

614
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 1: to know that he is related to be in that

615
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: way an objective test, so that previous activity is most

616
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 1: likely fine. Assuming that you will be essentially abstinate or

617
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: refraining from penetration in future, then your main issues will

618
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 1: be with the practicalities. You can't try and hide it.

619
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: And if your child does do a DNA test thing

620
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 1: in the future, that might be interesting and gamble with

621
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: the consequences.

622
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: Or you can deal with them now.

623
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: The main immediate consequence will be that a marriage within

624
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 1: the prohibited degrees of affinity is void, not voidable, but

625
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 1: void ab initio. It never occurred, as per s eleven

626
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: of the Matrimonial Causes Act nineteen seventy three. Half brothers

627
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 1: and half sisters are included as per Part one of

628
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: Schedule one to the Marriage Act nineteen forty nine. They're

629
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: common with facts. They are common with facts.

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Speaker 2: Dude, don't have to save this for the other ones.

631
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're like so much information. Well, this is

632
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: also in England, so maybe these are laws that apply

633
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: in England, not an out bail. If it were to

634
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,479
Speaker 1: be found out through some means, then the Queen's Proctor

635
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: could bring an action in the Family Division to recognize

636
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: that the marriage is void. As for the child, the

637
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: local authority would almost certainly be involved in the usual way.

638
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 1: Instance in ex. Children Read two thousand and seven e WHC.

639
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: Seventeen nineteen The fan mumby Jay as he then was

640
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: referred to the fact he was dealing with care proceedings

641
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: for the children involved. As to what you should do,

642
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: I'm afraid that it is not something this sub can

643
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: really help you with. I would seek professional help. This

644
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 1: is not a unique situation, but of course we'll need

645
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: very specialized services.

646
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 2: Best Black So it seems yeah, if they can sinue

647
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 2: the relationship, it's illegal. It's illegal. Yeah, well it's only

648
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: legal if they do the dirty deed. Yeah.

649
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: If they remain abstinent, then they're fine.

650
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 2: And they're fine. Would you remain abstinent?

651
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: I would leave the relationship, Okay, it ever happened to me,

652
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,000
Speaker 1: I would leave the relations You just can't after knowing

653
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: that from someone, you can't sit there and be like, no, yeah,

654
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: I'm okay with this.

655
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

656
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: I just like I think I would be immediate, like,

657
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: oh my god, I can never think about this in

658
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Speaker 1: the same way. I'm gone By update. I originally asked

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Speaker 1: for some advice and reassurance here last year. I wanted

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Speaker 1: to let people know that our child was born and

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00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: is healthy but very tiring baby, and we've taken steps

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Speaker 1: to check on their health and there's nothing out of

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Speaker 1: the ordinary. Thank you to everyone who gave us advice

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Speaker 1: and assurance. We're doing fine, or at least as fine

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Speaker 1: as new parents can be. Our biological father has apparently

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Speaker 1: died over the winter, and hopefully anything he knew died

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Speaker 1: with him, so they're relying on no one finding out.

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Speaker 1: My wife and I have reaffirmed that we will take

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Speaker 1: steps together no matter what, but we will be taking

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Speaker 1: steps to ensure we don't have any more biological children,

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Speaker 1: to minimize the risk to a child. She has got

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Speaker 1: baby brain at the moment. But if it did come

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Speaker 1: to it, we would consider fostering or adoption at a stretch.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we'd be looked into for that.

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Speaker 1: It's not our list of priorities right now. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you. WHOA. Yeah, if they stay together and they're like,

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Speaker 1: in the future they want to adopt, they will probably

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Speaker 1: be looked into. You have to, you have to be

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Speaker 1: looked into. I think someone's going to find out. I

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Speaker 1: think someone's going to find out one day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's this is very tricky. Yeah, eighteen years from now,

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Speaker 2: twenty five years from now, someone's gonna find out.

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Speaker 1: Someone's gonna find out, and are they going to go

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Speaker 1: to jail?

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Speaker 2: Of course something will happen. Yeah, that's tricky because when

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Speaker 2: you look at that person, you don't see his sister.

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Speaker 2: You don't see a sibling, you look a partner. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if love's blind. Mmmm, that's the.

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Speaker 1: Way I do you think each other around out that information?

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Speaker 1: I would immediately lose all attraction.

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Speaker 2: I'm still low key a little confused. How they did

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Speaker 2: not know with the bio dad.

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Speaker 1: I also am confused, how like there was something something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't know who your dad is. She doesn't

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Speaker 2: know who her dad is. Yeah, you guys live close together.

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Speaker 2: Put the school together. Yeah, proximity is the thing. People parents, those.

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Speaker 1: Parents, the moms should have been a little bit more suspicious.

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Speaker 1: They should have been a little bit more suspicious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so tricky. That's track eight. But yucky. That

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Speaker 2: is all of our stories. That was a yucky story.

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Speaker 2: It's a yucky story. I didn't like it. It was

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Speaker 2: either a fake one or yeah, a very very yucky one,

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Speaker 2: very yucky one. Give you guys real stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what will you guys do in that situation? I

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Speaker 1: personally would leave the relationship immediately.

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Speaker 2: Smart.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I obviously I would raise that child's it's not

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Speaker 1: the child's fault, but I would leave that relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, Like you can co parent that child, you

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Speaker 2: have to. You have to leave the relationship and you

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Speaker 2: have to take care of the kid. Yeah, poor kid.

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Speaker 2: Cash for that poor kid.

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Speaker 1: Bummer.

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