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Speaker 2: It doesn't even mean I don't know what it means.

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Speaker 1: It means something creaz it.

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Speaker 2: Means something's not right about this story.

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Speaker 1: Well, my fiance twenty five male and myself twenty four female.

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Speaker 1: I've been together since we were seventeen slash eighteen years old. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: he was always kind, handsome, funny, and everyone used to

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Speaker 1: say I was so lucky to have the whole package,

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Speaker 1: including his whole package, his mustache, his mustache. Yes, I

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Speaker 1: felt so lucky too. He always treated me with respect

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Speaker 1: and love. So this makes everything just so shocking for me.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from a throwaway account on

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Speaker 1: Best Better Updates. So, I've always had a good relationship

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Speaker 1: with my mom, and it has always been HERNEYE against

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Speaker 1: the world.

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Speaker 2: That's all you need and your mom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you were mom. I like that. I like that anyway.

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Speaker 1: My dad died in an accident. I don't like that.

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Speaker 1: I like that when I was little. We're always joked.

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Speaker 1: We are the real life Rory and Laurie Laura LII.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, this guy he's seen Gilmore Girls.

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Speaker 1: And what's what's Gilmore girl?

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Speaker 2: What Gilmore girls?

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Speaker 1: I got some more Gilmore.

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Speaker 2: Whoa, Oh my god, that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: What do they do?

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Speaker 2: It's basically about like a young there was like a

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Speaker 2: sixteen year old mother and then she's like thirty and

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Speaker 2: they're like, you know.

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Speaker 1: On and off, and they were usually cool, but nothing

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Speaker 1: off with a Gilmore girl. Whatever I have bothered.

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Speaker 2: I'm literally in my rory fit right now. I don't

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Speaker 2: even get that. Don't keep coming.

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Speaker 1: I don't get it. I don't keep going. Four years ago,

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Speaker 1: my mom told me she was pregnant, which was a

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Speaker 1: huge surprise because she had all these like little little flints.

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Speaker 1: It's a MoMA mea situation. My mom was around forty

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Speaker 1: went on dates. It was still a big shock. I mean,

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Speaker 2: No, it's not that it's less advised once. She's like,

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Speaker 2: rare like super rare. I think she's just kind of

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Speaker 2: Is I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't meet the guy, but it was big shock.

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Speaker 1: She never thought she could be pregnant at her age.

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Speaker 1: I mean you can be pregnant.

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Speaker 1: But if you're not, if you're still in heat? Is

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Speaker 3: Look what that's a dog thing? The goats are in heat.

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Speaker 1: That's how everything in heat? Isn't that just a general term?

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Speaker 2: You don't say, like humans are in heat? Why not

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Speaker 1: That's not her being in heat, that's ovulation.

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Speaker 2: That was in heat? Think I know about dogs?

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Speaker 1: What is Wait? I thought heat was ovulating or I

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Speaker 1: It's ovulation. Sophia count says, it's ovulation. Yeah. Who knows

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Speaker 2: I know about women, I don't know about dogs. Okay, Jesus,

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Speaker 2: I just assow him because our dog Eva was bleeding.

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Speaker 1: reason why Sam is single in heat. I'll have you know.

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Speaker 1: So this is now three years later. Yes, my fiance,

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Speaker 1: you should just take that off, no, Levean. My fiance

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Speaker 1: was also helpful with my brother. We would take him

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Speaker 1: I see put I see you in the chat. If

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Speaker 1: so sad. I saw this early. This is early in

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Speaker 1: We would take him out for ice cream, playground, pool

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Speaker 2: Sometimes these stories like when you know the title and

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Speaker 2: It's a bit like in Romeo and Juliet at the

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Speaker 2: you're like, you're like, no, they're not gonna die, They're

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Speaker 1: That's how I feel. I am going to die. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: everyone's iceeing you in the chat. I see Chelsea shaw,

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Speaker 1: I see you, brains. What does I see you? It

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Speaker 1: You, Ashley Francisco, I see you you spell I cup hot,

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Speaker 1: got him? Got him, dude. I remember that was that

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Speaker 1: how I found out. My fiance and I lived together

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Speaker 1: since we finished college. My fiance was not at home

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Speaker 1: I just took out my fiance's iPad. Also, it's always

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Speaker 2: It's true.

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Speaker 1: It's true.

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Speaker 2: These iPad kids these days always.

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Speaker 3: No no, no no.

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Speaker 4: If they were iPad kids and they wouldn't know that

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Speaker 2: I bad kids would have deleted it. They would have

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Speaker 3: They would have had two calculator apps.

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Speaker 1: Can you do that?

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Speaker 3: I don't know if it's around anymore.

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Speaker 2: I just remember the tricks.

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Speaker 1: Magan mad day when you had your school ivan.

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Speaker 2: And my school iPad in fifth grade?

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Speaker 3: Yet iPads?

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Speaker 1: And why do I keep hearing?

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Speaker 2: And Sam? Sam left right before we got the iPad.

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Speaker 1: It was so lame. Yeah, dude, I got robbed. It

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Speaker 1: My mom's number wasn't under her name, but I recognized

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Speaker 1: He said he also felt guilty but couldn't lose me

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I was from the beginning. I was like,

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Speaker 2: I didn't think that they bone was he old? Zop

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Speaker 2: Now, and this happened three years ago.

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Speaker 2: Oh and also she was forty five. Well, regardless, she

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Speaker 1: Stacy's mom has got to go. Actually, they do have

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Speaker 1: this is not a you know, an uncommon occurrence. No,

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Speaker 1: she was telling me he felt guilty. He didn't want

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Speaker 2: Actual f Yeah, your mom sucks?

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Speaker 2: I guess we're eleven thirty.

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Speaker 2: I'm very good at it now.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, where were you when it was in y.

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Speaker 4: Sure you like to just do it on strangers and

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Speaker 2: No, you can't. You can't unless.

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00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:04,080
Speaker 1: It's your dad. Un Like that's just a regular Tuesday.

444
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: But like.

445
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 2: Wait, oh, but like in this situation, you can't. Why

446
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 2: why is he still around?

447
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 1: This sounds calm when I type it, but in the

448
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 1: moment things came out much louder and with harsher words. Anyways,

449
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: he did say that he is in the or will be.

450
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: It's a bit of the blur process of getting custody

451
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: partly from my brother, and that he in fact does

452
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 1: want to be a dad to him. He said he

453
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,159
Speaker 1: does not want to be together with my mom, that

454
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 1: it was just a stupid mistake, because sure, mistake four

455
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 1: to five times is just a random thing, just a mistake.

456
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 2: Just a mistake, all right, kept making.

457
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 1: It question for you audience. I mean, the damage is.

458
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 2: Done, damage is done.

459
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,800
Speaker 1: Why not just be together with the mom?

460
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, why doesn't he go? Yeah, be a whole family.

461
00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, a whole family, a father for your son. Do

462
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 1: you think do you think this guy she.

463
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 2: Wants to be in a relationship with this like twenty

464
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 2: five year old.

465
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: Oh the mom? Yeah maybe, I mean it doesn't seem

466
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: like she cares that much. Yeah. Do you think he

467
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: should just just you know, cut his losses?

468
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's close at you're going to get closer.

469
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,679
Speaker 1: You're going to get to ope anyway, go with the

470
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 1: original model. So uh, he couldn't explain why he did

471
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 1: it in the first place. I think he doesn't even

472
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: know himself. I asked if he cheated with someone else before.

473
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 1: He said no, not sure to believe it, but he

474
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,959
Speaker 1: sounded honest. I asked why he didn't come clean, and

475
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 1: he said that after he did the deed, he always

476
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 1: felt panicked and it hit him that he could lose

477
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: me and he just didn't want to. I told him

478
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 1: it was meant to be found out. I told him,

479
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 1: if it was meant to be found out, that what

480
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: was his plan to have my brother around and ignore

481
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 1: the relationship forever. He said he didn't think far enough

482
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: and that he was basically going with the idea one

483
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: day at a time type of survival. I mean, that's

484
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 1: how you do.

485
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 2: This is clearly a man who doesn't think one day.

486
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 2: I already know he doesn't think.

487
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 1: I mean except about how to get in your mom's pants.

488
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 2: I guess, so yeah, assuming his mind.

489
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: I asked him if he felt that my mom seduced him.

490
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 2: The real question, this is the question we needed answers for.

491
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: Okay, what what would make you feel better? An answer

492
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 1: like like like all right, you're asking this question, is

493
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,920
Speaker 1: there any answer that would make you feel better if

494
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 1: he seduced the mom, if he seduced the mom, like

495
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: at least.

496
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, well no, not even that. It's just like my

497
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 2: mom did that, like my mom pursued him.

498
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be more gross. Yeah, okay, wow, he said.

499
00:25:54,960 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: He said it was mutual, that it's like they're both

500
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 1: into it.

501
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 2: Ah.

502
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: I asked if he has any contact with my mom

503
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: since I found out. He said, yes, but just a

504
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 1: hookup thing.

505
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 2: Okay, but it does make it, I mean if.

506
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 1: They yeah, kind a child together. Oh man, but mostly

507
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 1: about my brother. Can we put the TLDR up riley?

508
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: Is that?

509
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 2: And not until the polls until the polls done?

510
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: Okay? He said, yes, but mostly about my brother. Didn't

511
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 1: elaborate more, and I didn't press for more info on that.

512
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: He said he told his parents the day before or

513
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: the day before that, not sure about everything. Oh, he

514
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 1: told his parents. The parents were not happy.

515
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 2: Really of course, Now imagine that your partners parents. I'm

516
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: actually I'm not even I don't even know how to imagine.

517
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,120
Speaker 1: That or listen to this. His parents were not happy,

518
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: but they are glad to start building now a relationship

519
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 1: with my brother, their grandkid. So it's like, I don't

520
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: how this happened, but grandkids.

521
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 2: But I'm a queand mother mama. She's like, oh, the

522
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 2: Lord's blessings coming all your ways. Sometimes it happens like that.

523
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 1: God is a mysterious guy.

524
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 2: You know, he's a funny guy.

525
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,919
Speaker 1: Guy, he's the prankster. It was just a prank. It

526
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 1: was just a frank God. We we love it. Love

527
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:35,160
Speaker 1: tho as for a loop. But hey, he's that kid.

528
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: That's that's Mobby's little way.

529
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 2: Guys, mommy's little boy.

530
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 1: Little boy has both his fiances and and your eyes

531
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: oh basically like.

532
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 2: You thank you for the little kids. I just gotta

533
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 2: har cut.

534
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 1: So your hairs were not happy, but glad to start

535
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 1: a relationship with my brother. Honestly, all this felt like

536
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: a punch in my stomach. I don't know why. I

537
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:04,199
Speaker 1: know why the parents wanted to contact me, but he

538
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: told them to wait till he approached me first, hence

539
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 1: why I was there. Also, looking at the poll, it

540
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: looks like, uh, seven percent are saying stay with the mom.

541
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: Ninety three percent are saying nah, don't stay with the mom.

542
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 2: Yeah no, I mean, like like realistically, don't stay with

543
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 2: the mom. But you gotta make it worth it.

544
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 1: You gotta make it worth it. Yeah, I mean like

545
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: you basically, you either come out like with nothing or

546
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 1: at least you come out with a little boothing, you know.

547
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 2: A little baby, little baby bottle, baby mama.

548
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: Little baby mama. I said, if he's still an adult

549
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 1: baby mama about the customers before I found out, and

550
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,479
Speaker 1: he said no. But when I found out, it was

551
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: like the push he needed. Great seems I helped them

552
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 1: get a shit together. Uh and this past week he

553
00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: was arranging all that mess. That's why he hasn't tried

554
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: to see me. Before he sounded and looked defeated, but

555
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: the whole thing made me besides sad, I was mainly

556
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: depressed before, but now I'm furious. I feel like he

557
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: is still in an okay place and he isn't paying

558
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: for his actions. Beyond me leaving him, he will have

559
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: my brother, his parents and others and will move on

560
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: with his life while I lost everything. I hate him?

561
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: Or wait question for you, do you think what is

562
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: your the percentage chance that O piece fiance gets into

563
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: a relationship with her mom? Like officially, I.

564
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 2: Think it's I feel like it's kind of low. I

565
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,720
Speaker 2: don't think it's fifty fifty I am. I just don't

566
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 2: think this adult woman wants to be in a long

567
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,719
Speaker 2: term relationship with this I don't know.

568
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: I mean she did. There was mutual attraction, yeah.

569
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 2: But I feel like there's a difference between mutual attraction

570
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 2: and like long term relationship with a child.

571
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: I mean it's not a child. He's a grown man.

572
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 2: With the child. What do you mean with a baby?

573
00:29:58,880 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 2: Three year old?

574
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: So the thing is you need like you need someone

575
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: to help out.

576
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 2: Right, absolutely, But there's a difference between co parenting and

577
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 2: being in.

578
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 1: Like a true true, true true. Valkyrie says zero percent

579
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: chance of relationship. Shalline Cell says zero percent. Mandapanda says

580
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 1: fifteen percent.

581
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 2: I think I'm on like a fifteen twenty.

582
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm I'm on a fifty to fifty. But we parted

583
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: ways not on a happy note, on a happy note,

584
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 1: and I told him to never get near me again.

585
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: I was done. He asked me to see my brother

586
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 1: still that I was important to him and try to

587
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 1: guilt trip me, and it worked. But I still think

588
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: I can't. I don't know much about my mom and

589
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: really hope she doesn't come find me anytime soon because

590
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 1: I'm fuming right now and won't be able to handle it.

591
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: I will be contacting my family and friends and finally

592
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: doing the blast in today. I think it's about time.

593
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: And after my talk with him, I got the extra

594
00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: push I needed. So I think, is she about to blast?

595
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 2: Ask them online?

596
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 1: I think they're going to be blasted.

597
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 2: Online a blast. That's true, she did this whole reddits.

598
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 3: You get ready with me, TikTok go go Hi guys.

599
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 2: Today we're going to be doing my makeup. If you

600
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 2: start applying the blush here, you can notice that my

601
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 2: fiance hooked it with my mom. Now we'll be doing

602
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: the lipstick.

603
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can see from the lines on my face

604
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,240
Speaker 1: that I have been crying NonStop, but those can be

605
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: covered up.

606
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 2: With a little bit of a stealer sailor.

607
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: Just like, oh, you know who tried to conceal a

608
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: relationship from me? Yeah, that's my mom my fiance. That's

609
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 1: the one thing concealer can't conceal anymore. Anyway, I get

610
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: ready with me? All right, we got an update. We

611
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: got an update, but let's jump into it. So hi

612
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: everyone again, I want to say thanks for all the

613
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 1: support on my last update. Honestly, like I said, my

614
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: previous post really helped me a lot emotionally. Blah blah blah.

615
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 1: That's get to the update. A lot has happened. I

616
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: did the blasting blast off and this is how it

617
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: went down. I first posted on my family's Facebook group

618
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: we Share. This is from my mom's family side. I

619
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: used inspiration of what you all suggested in my last

620
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: post and said something around the lines of I want

621
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,479
Speaker 1: to communicate to you all that my wedding with X

622
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: has been permanently canceled since I found out that my

623
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: mom name and my ex name had in the last

624
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 1: few years a sexual relationship which resulted in the birth

625
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 1: of my little brother name. I had no clue of

626
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: any of this, and I found out about it last week.

627
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: I won't have moving forward a relationship with my mom

628
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: or my ex for obvious reasons. I would appreciate your

629
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: understanding and felt it was only fair to let you

630
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 1: know the situation since I value transparency and honestly and

631
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: honesty above all.

632
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 2: Okay, question, Pols, do you do this?

633
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: Yes? I think you do do this because then you'll

634
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: have people like, oh my god, why aren't.

635
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: You, Like, yeah, why aren't you getting married?

636
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like it's not right to cut your mom off

637
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: like that because the mom's not gonna say anything. And

638
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: then everyone's like okay, like this is the reason also

639
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: for everyone just coming to the stream TLDR. Basically, Op

640
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: found out that her fiance was doing it repeatedly with

641
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 1: her mom, and the result of that was her baby

642
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: brother unquote, the child of her mom and her fiance,

643
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: and she is dealing with the devastation that that entails. Yeah,

644
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: so strap in. If you ever see anyone asking what's

645
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 1: going on or the TLDR, you just hit him with that.

646
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 2: Hit him.

647
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: I know everyone's gonna say docs. There's not one of you,

648
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: petty petty p gonna say docs in this one. I'm

649
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: saying docs one. And I feel like we got a couple.

650
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 2: We got a couple.

651
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 1: Uh, we got a couple. Two's what is what? What

652
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: is your reason for? Not for not no? I don't know,

653
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 1: but oh me or that no? For Butterfly, I was like,

654
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: why why not? Why would you do it? Yeah, Alicia

655
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: says protect yourself, I think says for sure, Sophia callen

656
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 1: one frog. But I'm a petty Betty one. I'm not

657
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: a petty Betty, and even I say one just because

658
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: of like, just so.

659
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 2: That you are not because I was the only reason

660
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 2: I was like hesitant at first is so that you're

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Speaker 2: not getting all of this flack and stuff. But I

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Speaker 2: do think that you might be getting more flack. I think,

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Speaker 2: don't you know what?

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Speaker 1: You know what I would do. I would be silent

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Speaker 1: until my first sign of flack.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I think that's what I think.

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Speaker 1: That was what I would do. I wouldn't I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: do anything.

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Speaker 2: Until just because it brings more drama on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, because you don't, like, unless there's flack, you

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Speaker 1: don't need to do this. But you could just like, hey,

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Speaker 1: on's the first signe of flack then you hit.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, because whenever the whoever gets the news

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Speaker 4: out first is whoever?

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Speaker 3: Yep, you might as well get out true.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, there's a lot more to this story, by

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Speaker 2: the way, this is but an intermission.

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Speaker 1: This is but yeah, there's a lot more. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot more intermission.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I Belton, thank you for celebrating five months of membership.

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Speaker 2: Asking for a friend, Riley, have you been to the

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Speaker 2: post office lately?

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Speaker 4: I was there, there was no packages for me.

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Speaker 3: But oh wait, there is a letter. There is a

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Speaker 3: letter there.

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Speaker 2: We Arietti Delight. Thank you for celebrating one month of membership.

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Speaker 2: Been listening for two years now, who weed years? Nikayla

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Speaker 2: h thank you for becoming a new member and Arietti Delight.

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Speaker 2: Thank you again for the two bucks. Please come to

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Speaker 2: North Carolina. No no contact for a meet and greet

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Speaker 2: or a live show.

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Speaker 1: We are in talks right, we're talking about trying to

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Speaker 1: do a live show.

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Speaker 3: That would be cool in North Carolina.

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Speaker 1: No, not in North Carolina, probably like maybe like New

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Speaker 1: York and la. Oh, but we're still figuring out what

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Speaker 1: that would even look like. But it is coming. And

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Speaker 1: also we might be in New York again next month.

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Speaker 2: Ah, very exciting. Amberdial. Thank you for celebrating three months

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Speaker 2: of membership. This is a great show. I watch it

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Speaker 2: with my daughter every day. My daughter wanted to say hi.

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Speaker 2: They said, your stories are so awesome. Thank you to

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Speaker 2: both of your daughters.

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Speaker 1: Heck, yeah, appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Mort Thank you for the five buck tip. Thank you

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Speaker 2: for keeping me company on my two to three hours commutes.

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Speaker 2: You are welcome. Thank you for listening to us on

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Speaker 2: your two to three hour commutes, and Blonde is Brenette,

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Speaker 2: thank you for celebrating six months of membership. Six hundred

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Speaker 2: and ninety nine people watching in only fifty bikes. Anyone

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00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 2: want a wheel spin? Yeah? Everyone watching the stream like it.

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00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,480
Speaker 1: It's like, no one wants a wheel spin everyone. This

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00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: story is far from over. We got this is a

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Speaker 1: juicy one. You guys were yelling us at us last

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Speaker 1: time when we DeLong story. You're like, where's all the updates? Oh? Well,

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Speaker 1: we got you a big old juicer. We got we

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Speaker 1: got you a big old juicer.

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Speaker 3: Big mommy milkers, big.

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Speaker 1: Mommy milkers or milk allay, it's juice. There's juice to

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Speaker 1: be squeezed. But really quick, really quick, uh TLDR for

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Speaker 1: everyone who is just joining us. Basically, Opie's mom and

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Speaker 1: Opie's fiance we're doing it. And they had a child together,

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Speaker 1: and Opie just found out that that child, technically her

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Speaker 1: brother slash step son, has been born and is a

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Speaker 1: birth of a disgusting union seats the deceits, and we're

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Speaker 1: dealing with the fallout right now. More recently, she has

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Speaker 1: just exposed this entire situation on to the family group

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Speaker 1: chat on Facebook. So we're gonna keep going. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: keep going. But I also included a screenshot of my

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Speaker 1: mother's message what I said to her once I found

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Speaker 1: out in a message she managed right back before I

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Speaker 1: blocked her. Didn't open the message till before the blast,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't want to hear slash read her and

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Speaker 1: be persuaded and it exploded. I had family reaching out

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Speaker 1: via text and calling the whole day after the blast.

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Speaker 1: I would say most were very supportive, and I could

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Speaker 1: tell they were just shocked. Yeah, there were a few

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Speaker 1: neutral and some suspicious that it wasn't the whole story,

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Speaker 1: and maybe I misunderstood.

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Speaker 2: How do you misunderstand that?

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Speaker 1: To be fair to those people, it's like like it's

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Speaker 1: it's so beyond comprehension that it could happen. I could

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Speaker 1: understand people being like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Are you sure?

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Speaker 2: Does that is like someone else's son?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, maybe? Are you sure that's your mom?

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Speaker 1: Sure that's even your fiance.

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Speaker 2: I don't even think those people are people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's all in your head, you know, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, those people don't even exist.

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Speaker 1: So there are a few neutral and some suspicious. Also,

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Speaker 1: should we re read the title to be a little

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Speaker 1: bit more sure? Yeah so, because I think the TLDR

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Speaker 1: that I just did might have been a little bit better.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's like I just found my my my fiance

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Speaker 1: and mom are sleeping together and they just had a son. Sure,

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Speaker 1: what do I do? Yeah? Yeah, my fiance mom were

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Speaker 1: sleeping together, and I just my fiance mom were sleeping

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Speaker 1: together and they just had a son. What should I do? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 1: Editors, maybe use that for the title. I think it's

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Speaker 1: a little bit more clear. Someone in who what ever

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Speaker 1: said it wasn't clear. Thank you for that. I think

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Speaker 1: that makes it better. But there are a few neutral

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Speaker 1: and some suspicious that it wasn't the whole story. My

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Speaker 1: grandparents were in the maybe you misunderstood category, which it

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Speaker 1: wasn't surprising since my mom was super close to the grandparents,

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Speaker 1: and like I said before, my mom was always a

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Speaker 1: good mom, so no red flags until she was a

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Speaker 1: good Mommy. I will be moving with a cousin that

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Speaker 1: is more like a sister to me.

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Speaker 2: At least you have some family, You have some family.

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Speaker 1: I haven't reached out to her previously because I knew

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Speaker 1: once she knows everyone. Because I knew once she knows,

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Speaker 1: everyone would. I haven't reached out to her because I

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Speaker 1: knew once she knows everyone would. That's why I went

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Speaker 1: to my friend's place. My cousin is devastated on my

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Speaker 1: behalf and offered I live with her and the two

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Speaker 1: kids until I can get on my feet because I

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Speaker 1: can get on my feet on the ground. I accepted,

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Speaker 1: and we'll be moving next week. I'm a bit afraid

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Speaker 1: this will give my mom easier access to me, but

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Speaker 1: I can't stay at my friend's place forever. Yeah, the

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Speaker 1: sun wasn't a baby.

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Speaker 2: I think they're saying that they didn't just have a

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Speaker 2: baby in terms of your title, but.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like just ish y, it's a title. It's

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Speaker 1: a title. Prince ex One lick like equals one lick

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Speaker 1: of sam. Oh man, I've seen y'all's dirty, dirty things

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Speaker 1: in the discord the licking anyway, let's get back into this.

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Speaker 1: So I then proceeded quickly to post a similar message

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Speaker 1: for my We share most of our friends since high

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Speaker 1: school and local university friends on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Oh now we're branching out all platforms next. It's gonna

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Speaker 2: be a little Snapchat story.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, it's.

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Speaker 2: Gonna be one of the you know, like on Snapchat

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Speaker 2: you can add to store, like just like the La

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Speaker 2: story or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, she's gonna just add it to close friends.

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Speaker 1: Why are you not happy with the title? What are

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Speaker 1: you talking about? What do you mean they? What do

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Speaker 1: you want to say? What do you what? What? What

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Speaker 1: would you want to change it to? Belton? Give us

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Speaker 1: belt and you're all up in a fuss? What do

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Speaker 1: you want to change it to? I just found out

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Speaker 1: my can't believe I wasted my membersh out of the

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Speaker 1: pope the correcting this awful title. You are what are

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Speaker 1: you talking about? That's crazy? Alright, girl, down, go down?

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Speaker 1: All right, wait, there's somebody put a till ther up.

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Speaker 1: Belton is going.

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Speaker 2: I just found out my fiance and my mom slept together.

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Speaker 2: My brother is their baby.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go fine, Belton also like a toddler

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Speaker 1: is a baby. I just found out my fiance. I

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Speaker 1: just found out my mom and my fiance were sleep together,

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Speaker 1: and that my little brother.

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Speaker 2: Is his Yeah, my quote unquote little brother is My

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Speaker 2: little brother is his.

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Speaker 1: I just found out that my fiance is sp slept.

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Speaker 1: I just found out my fiance slept with my mother,

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Speaker 1: and that my little brother is actually.

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Speaker 2: His Do you like him? Do you not entertained?

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Speaker 1: Jesus, I've never seen someone so actively against us in

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Speaker 1: the chat. That's not a lie. That is definitely a lie.

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Speaker 1: Toddler is not a baby. All right, Belton, all right,

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Speaker 1: you've had your fun Nicholas J. Rivert. Do you want

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Speaker 1: to read the Sophia love Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay. I love Sophia Soping much. I love you. I

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Speaker 2: love her judgment. Uh, first time in life.

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Speaker 4: Yay.

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Speaker 2: I love listening to y'all. Y'all, you and Charlotte Deray

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00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 2: are really helping push me towards creating content, do it?

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Speaker 2: Love you all? Ps level the Hornstash features lately. Also,

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00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 2: I really wish I could remember her name. But I

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Speaker 2: love the other woman too, Molly. Y'all are great. I

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Speaker 2: will search a video after this for my major gifts.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, we appreciate you, We appreciate you, all right? All right?

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Speaker 1: Belton is a piece anyway, click that for Belton.

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Speaker 2: Belton is a piece, all right, That's right.

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00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 1: And this is the this is the great thing about

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Speaker 1: belt about I was gonna say about Belton about the

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Speaker 1: live great thing about Belton. Keep all right, all right,

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Speaker 1: we're going back to the story right now. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: I created a close friends story and tagged most of

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Speaker 1: them too. This went sort of viral in our friend group. Actually,

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00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: one of my friends sent me my Reddit post and

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00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: asked if this was.

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Speaker 2: Me, dam imagine finding your friend. Imagine you're like on

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Speaker 2: Instagram and your friends like, my mom slept with my fiance.

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00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 1: Like, that's crazy. What do you do?

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00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 2: Uh?

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00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: What do I do? I text my friend? I'm like, bro,

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00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: are you okay?

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00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 2: True?

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00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Is this true?

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00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 2: Did you mis understand?

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00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think I think maybe you beat the problem.

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00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: I'm sure you like didn't deserve it. Hey me too, dude,

861
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: I wonder if there's this a pork group for your

862
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: mom hooking up with your friends.

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00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 2: No, I was gonna say, like, I also hooked up

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Speaker 2: with your mom.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that would be brutal. That would be brutal. Oh

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00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 1: mom's the town bike.

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Speaker 5: No, No, she's giving out rides yeah no.

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00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 1: And she's environmentally friendly yeah, all right, they were. I

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Speaker 1: also had never heard this term of and.

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00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 2: What use it all the time?

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00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 1: What do you like? Yeah, I've never used it all

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00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 1: the time. I've used it once.

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00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 3: I have watched him go live for years now.

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00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 2: I've never heard it. Multiple times on the stream.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard it before. I've never this is the

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00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 1: first time I said it.

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00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:19,560
Speaker 2: Multiple people have said it on the stream.

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00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: I've never said it. I've never said it.

879
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 3: I don't remember it.

880
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 1: Said it in your in your in your.

881
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:28,720
Speaker 2: Head, keep going.

882
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: I heard it. I heard it from an Australian girl. Anyway.

883
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 1: They were also shocked and speechless. They never thought my

884
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: ex would even remotely do anything like this. They said,

885
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:44,879
Speaker 1: he was crazy about you, crazy enough to sleep with

886
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 1: your mom. He was crazy, Oh, crazy enough to maybe

887
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: just want all of you, even your lineage. Oh well,

888
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: apparently you went overboard on the crazy part. The group

889
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,720
Speaker 1: of friends is divided at the moment. Some are completely

890
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: my ey side and some are thinking this isn't the

891
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: whole truth. I told everyone, don't you dare click day Riley.

892
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: I told everyone that reads down that if they don't

893
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 1: believe me, to ask their friend if he is asking

894
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,839
Speaker 1: for custody of my little brother. That kind of shut

895
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:20,320
Speaker 1: him up for now. My ex deleted his social media.

896
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: Apparently that makes sense.

897
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 2: He's probably getting like hundreds of dms.

898
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, he's blowing up. Blowing up.

899
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

900
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,439
Speaker 1: Also, my ex's parents called me, like I guess they would.

901
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: They were kind to me and were very sorry about everything.

902
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: I got the feeling they were also overwhelmed and very disappointed. However,

903
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 1: it was clear they will be supporting their son. They

904
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,760
Speaker 1: are very upset at my mother and don't want anything

905
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: to do with her, but not sure how that will

906
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: work with my little brother and everything else. They tried

907
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: to give me info about the custody and what my

908
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: ex is up to now, but I shut that down

909
00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: quickly and told them that I do not want any information.

910
00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: I want to move from my fiance bone and my mom,

911
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 1: who wouldn't. I also asked them not to reach out

912
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 1: in the near future, that I needed distance, specifically if

913
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,239
Speaker 1: they will be supporting my ex. He is living with

914
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: his parents at the moment. Also, my ex and my

915
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: mother after the blast, we're going nuts trying to reach

916
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: out oh to me. They tried calling my friend, who

917
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:26,920
Speaker 1: she blocked, and reached out from different numbers. I had

918
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 1: to put my phone on silence and ignore everyone. However,

919
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 1: my mother sent me a long text from another mono

920
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: from another number, and that was a weird text.

921
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 2: What was the weird text we're about to find out.

922
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: She said that I was being cruel that's crazy, and

923
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 1: that she didn't think she raised me that way.

924
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 2: Wild wild support, guilt trip maybe like morality, you know,

925
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,359
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, you know, I thought I raised you better.

926
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,800
Speaker 2: I thought you weren't going to sleep with my fiance.

927
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: Sooo yeah, uh.

928
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,959
Speaker 2: That is we all we all thought, you know.

929
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: We all thought we we were good people here, but

930
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,240
Speaker 1: then someone ended up sleeping with my fiance. It's crazy

931
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: to try to take the.

932
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 2: Moral hide like, how could you do that?

933
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 1: How could you do that? I mean, I know I

934
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: just slept with you, but but you're better than this.

935
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 2: I'm not better than this. You should be better.

936
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 1: But what what is raising a child but trying to

937
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 1: make them a little bit better than than than than

938
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: we are. I want to learn from our mistakes. I

939
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 1: made all the mistakes, so you don't have to.

940
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't even think I made a mistake. I

941
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 2: was just trying to make sure that your fiance was

942
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 2: good enough to marry.

943
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. I needed to see how he was in the act,

944
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 1: and he was good. He was too good. I had

945
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:41,759
Speaker 1: to test it out.

946
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 2: Five I double checked, striple checked, quadruple checked.

947
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 1: And he's he's good, So you're welcome.

948
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 3: Actually he even has good jeens.

949
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 1: Great jeens. Yeah, look, here's the evidence.

950
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,840
Speaker 2: I also checked how how he would be as a father.

951
00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 2: You're welcome.

952
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,319
Speaker 1: I am a mother who goes up and beyond. And

953
00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: it's like, you don't appreciate me.

954
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 3: What do you call that?

955
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,719
Speaker 4: When you like Lisa carr out, you don't actually like

956
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 4: buy it. But like Lisa from a little I think

957
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 4: at least.

958
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 2: Okay.

959
00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 1: She said she thought she had a better relationship than

960
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,360
Speaker 1: me blasting out laundry like that without talking to her first,

961
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 1: that I didn't have the whole picture. She mentioned something

962
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: that confused me. She said in her long text that

963
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: the reason she slept with my ex is because he

964
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,840
Speaker 1: reminded him of.

965
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:39,240
Speaker 2: My dad's a bad reason.

966
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: That it was grief. That she didn't mean to use

967
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:47,959
Speaker 1: him to heal her pain, but she wasn't strong enough.

968
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 2: That is so ridiculous to use your dad, you know,

969
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 2: dead Yeah her, oh he's dead dad, as like, oh,

970
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 2: you know it was healing, it was going through a lot.

971
00:50:59,000 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 2: Oh he was going through a.

972
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like she's playing the dead dad card.

973
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: To like get some sympathy points secret Yeah exactly. I

974
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 1: don't even know what that means, Like, did she think

975
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: that my ex looks physically like my dad or personality

976
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: or what I've seen photos of my dad? And well, yeah,

977
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:25,240
Speaker 1: my ex isn't super different, but also not super alike.

978
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 1: I mean they share brown, dirty blonde hair, blue eyes,

979
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 1: white skin, but that's not so uncommon. Are they related?

980
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: I don't see what else I don't know. That threw

981
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: me for a loop and honestly makes me want to

982
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 1: confront my mom just to know what the heck From

983
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: all that, from the thing that she could say, I

984
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: was not from all the things she could say, I

985
00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:49,959
Speaker 1: was not expecting that. I'm holding on better. I don't

986
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: cry every hour or want to murder them. That's great, Yeah,

987
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,439
Speaker 1: I don't cry every hour. You know, Hey, you got

988
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 1: to take your wins.

989
00:51:58,440 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, small ones.

990
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: But I'm still sad and upset, and it just feels

991
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:05,399
Speaker 1: like this isn't my life, that this is a big

992
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 1: joke or a bad dream and I will wake up

993
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,960
Speaker 1: to my normal life. I also need to start really

994
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: planning out my future and start applying for jobs in

995
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 1: other cities or maybe check the possibilities abroad. More seriously,

996
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: I might, as for, I might take two to three

997
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:23,239
Speaker 1: days off work to really get my stuff together and

998
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:27,280
Speaker 1: do some research. I'm terrified to be honest, I feel frozen,

999
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 1: but I know I need to let it go.

1000
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 2: Nice.

1001
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 3: I was waiting for that. That was perfect.

1002
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: We have some comments and we got another thick, juicy update. Final,

1003
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 1: the other final update. So keep going for everyone who's

1004
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 1: just here. So if you do, you want to give

1005
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: the TLDR of what's happening.

1006
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 2: Basicly, Op's mom and Opie's fiance slept together three years

1007
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 2: ago and had a baby.

1008
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 1: No, no, not a baby, it's a it was a baby, toddler, noddler.

1009
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 1: You're lying, you're lying, you're.

1010
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 2: Lying, right, it's our a three year old. And op

1011
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 2: he just found out that this is not you know her,

1012
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 2: this is her fiance's son. And so she basically cut

1013
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 2: them off, blasted them on Facebook, and is now kind

1014
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 2: of getting flak from them.

1015
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 1: But Sophia, that's me. Guess what what. There's a crazy

1016
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: update that's about to happen.

1017
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:32,319
Speaker 2: I don't believe it.

1018
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I need to say something first, say it.

1019
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 2: I love you, ah, I love it.

1020
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 1: Sophia does this thing where she'll be like going to

1021
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 1: my room and she'll be like, Sam, I just got

1022
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 1: a crazy spam text. I'm like, what did I say?

1023
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 1: And she that So I love you so Commenter one,

1024
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: that mom is hilarious. I thought I raise do better.

1025
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 1: I never in a million years thought you'd f my boyfriend.

1026
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,799
Speaker 1: But here we are. You we Commenter two. My petty

1027
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 1: ass would be sending her that come to three. Uh

1028
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 1: right to the irony of blaming you for airing a

1029
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: laundry when she'd made the laundry.

1030
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1031
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 1: Crazy, The laundry wouldn't be dirty if you hadn't f

1032
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: my boyfriend.

1033
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,479
Speaker 2: Literally, you threw the laundry in the mud.

1034
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 1: You threw the laundry in the mud.

1035
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 2: I just picked it up and hung it out to dry.

1036
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 1: I'm trying to clean it. I'm trying to air it out.

1037
00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:31,280
Speaker 1: You got it all dirty. But we do. Got an update,

1038
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 1: all right. This is twenty six days after the last post,

1039
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 1: thirty three days from the og post.

1040
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 2: Ooh, a new post.

1041
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: Just draw you post, just drop, and we're gonna get

1042
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: all into the dirt and we're airing it out.

1043
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 2: Airing out.

1044
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: So my group of friends is divided again. Some of

1045
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: his closest friends have been saying that I should give

1046
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:55,640
Speaker 1: him one more chance.

1047
00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:59,799
Speaker 2: Wild wild. I can't imagine saying this to a friend,

1048
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 2: being like, you should give them another chance?

1049
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 1: All right, Paul? Should we give them another chance? I think,

1050
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: you know, our audience has been known to be very forgiving,

1051
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: so maybe we'll see something forgiving.

1052
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:12,240
Speaker 2: I think what OP should do is go on Instagram

1053
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 2: and do one of those Instagram polls. Should I forgive

1054
00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:17,959
Speaker 2: my fiance for sleeping with my mind?

1055
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 3: Oh?

1056
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, let let chats decide your life. I mean that's

1057
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 1: what we do. That's what we do. So my group

1058
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:27,439
Speaker 1: of friends is divided, so it was closed. As friends

1059
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 1: have been saying that I should give them another chance.

1060
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: That no one is perfect.

1061
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:38,800
Speaker 2: Okay, what was perfect? But some people aren't better than others.

1062
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: You got to be able to find someone that doesn't

1063
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: sleep with your mom, like.

1064
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 2: Be a little bit higher, like this is.

1065
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 1: Like on this is like on Hades's floor.

1066
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 2: Literally, like I'm wondering if you know her fiance becomes

1067
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:59,680
Speaker 2: like a serial killer and they're like someone's perfect. Come on,

1068
00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:04,240
Speaker 2: no one's perfect perfect a few times times?

1069
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 1: You know, three, four, five times? Yeah, he can be better.

1070
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 1: He's a good guy on the inside, you know, an

1071
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: angel by any means, But who is mistakes cast the

1072
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: first stone. You know, he's got to learn. He's got

1073
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 1: to learn. You know, he's a he has a good heart.

1074
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 2: Just give him a chance when when having one of

1075
00:56:24,440 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 2: us been a serial killer.

1076
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:30,359
Speaker 1: You know, yeah, exactly exactly, I killed two beau with.

1077
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 2: Your mom too, you gea, you get to crucify me.

1078
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:37,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, come on, you know what, Jesus, I'm

1079
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 1: not gonna go there. And he was always but he

1080
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: loves me, that he was always goodd to be and

1081
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: that I shouldn't just turn my back on him. That

1082
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,239
Speaker 1: even said that Max, my little brother and I could

1083
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:49,839
Speaker 1: be a perfect little family, and that I could make

1084
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 1: sure that my little bro as good step mom wild

1085
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 1: who better than his blood relative.

1086
00:56:55,520 --> 00:57:01,360
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Her friends, in trying to like fend her fiance,

1087
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 2: said you could be a good step mom.

1088
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:05,360
Speaker 1: I mean she could.

1089
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 2: That is a bad argument to make.

1090
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 1: She could, she could be great step on. Honestly, she

1091
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,359
Speaker 1: I think she just needs to get past this, you know, she.

1092
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 2: Just needs to move on.

1093
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: She just needs to move on. Do a sound bath,

1094
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 1: you know, like maybe turn your head in some ice

1095
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: cool water. I did this morning. We got a nice

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00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 1: bath and it's cold, cold, it's cold. I had a

1097
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 1: bath just really quick. We have eight hundred people in YouTube,

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00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 1: eight people, one hundred ninety six people on Facebook, five

1099
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 1: and twitch. Yes, only three hundred and eighty two likes.

1100
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 1: Do you even want to spend that wheel?

1101
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 2: I don't think they do.

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00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:41,400
Speaker 1: I don't think they do.

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00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:42,160
Speaker 2: I think they want.

1104
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: You don't want to spend that wheel? Also sounds like

1105
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 1: you want to stream to end.

1106
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 2: Sounds like you want this stream to end in.

1107
00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 1: Five minutes and five minutes sounds like it so freaking

1108
00:57:50,560 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 1: like it freaking like the stream. We do have more

1109
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 1: of the story. This is not done. This is not

1110
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 1: done TLDR for everyone who just jumped in. Oh Pie's

1111
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 1: mom Sa with her fiance had a baby. Now that

1112
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 1: baby is a toddler and uh Opie is dealing with

1113
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 1: the fallout. They just aired everything, all the dirty laundry

1114
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: into the world. Ye and now the friends are taking sides.

1115
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:15,480
Speaker 1: And the friends were like, oh, you should forgive her,

1116
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: forget them both perfect. So this is so bs. They

1117
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: are talking like he messed up on something minor or

1118
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: something even medium like he lied about getting laid off

1119
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:28,040
Speaker 1: of work, or like he forgot to pay our bills

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00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: for a month, Like what the f I have some

1121
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 1: girlfriends that are completely on my side of supporting me,

1122
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: which is nice, but our friend group isn't solid anymore

1123
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: and everyone is taking sides wild. I did have a

1124
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: conversation with Max on the phone, though, maybe, yeah, the toddler.

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00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: I admit I had to. I had a bit to

1126
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 1: drink that night, since I was coming back from meeting

1127
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 1: some friends for dinner, and had a few glasses of

1128
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: wine in a cocktail. But I remember the talk. Disclaimer,

1129
00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 1: this is not exactly the conversation, but I will actually

1130
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: know the baby he said, Max little brother, Max Max

1131
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 1: little brother. I thought Max was the little brother. Am

1132
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 1: I wrong?

1133
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 2: Yes? No, yeah, but.

1134
00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 1: It says I got a conversation with Max on the phone.

1135
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a baby, he's a toddler. You can talk.

1136
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: No, I don't think it's I think it's fiance. Yeah.

1137
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 1: I did have a conversation with Max on the phone,

1138
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: though I admit I had a bit to drink that

1139
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 1: I was coming back from meeting some friends with dinner,

1140
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: and I had a few glasses of wine and a cocktail.

1141
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 1: But I do remember the talk. So this is Max

1142
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: the fiance.

1143
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 2: Oh okay, so.

1144
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 1: Me, do you think that you were groomed?

1145
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 2: Which a couple people in the chat were saying, I

1146
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 2: I do. I do believe he was. Was he eighteen

1147
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 2: or seventeen.

1148
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: When they started dating? They were like seventeen?

1149
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah.

1150
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:49,960
Speaker 1: So yes, could be groomed. I don't think that excuses him.

1151
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 2: No, but it does. It does color situation.

1152
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 1: Does color the situation? It does color the situation? Right, Max,

1153
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 1: I never thought of that, but maybe WHOA? How did

1154
01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 1: you even get a crush on my mom? I thought

1155
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 1: we always hung out in a group and my mom

1156
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: wasn't really more than a few minutes and passing by,

1157
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:13,919
Speaker 1: was it looks? Max said yes and no, I thought

1158
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 1: she was pretty and therefore the teen crush. But I

1159
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: then also tried to talk to her by passing through

1160
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:22,439
Speaker 1: your house and asked if you were there. He knew

1161
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: I wasn't, And then I had a chat with your

1162
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: mom me was I always your second choice? Sho? Max? No,

1163
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:37,680
Speaker 1: you aren't now me And back then when you asked

1164
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: me to be your girlfriend.

1165
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 2: He literally was just trying to be close to her.

1166
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 1: Mom, Max, silence me, tell me the truth, please, Max.

1167
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I did like you, but I still

1168
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: had the crush.

1169
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 2: This is literally Stacy's mom.

1170
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: The crush on your mom.

1171
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is literally Stacy's mom.

1172
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:04,959
Speaker 1: Whoa broke the freaking barb the bar? You broke the bar.

1173
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: You broke the bar, not on your bingo card, guys,

1174
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 1: But we still got more to this story.

1175
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 2: We strange me. Thank you for the hundred dollars though

1176
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 2: tossing your cohens.

1177
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: Y'all all right, we're still going also like the stream,

1178
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: like the stream, but there's more to this story.

1179
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:22,720
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1180
01:01:23,080 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 1: This conversation is wild. We're getting like a whole new

1181
01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 1: freaking a whole new world. We should watch another Disney movie.

1182
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:34,560
Speaker 1: We should we try to watch air Bud. It was

1183
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 1: so weird, great, it was weird air Bud last.

1184
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 2: Night, Still watching it. It's great. It's it's so bad.

1185
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 1: He's so bad. He's a dog.

1186
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 2: The dog is the kid's bad at basketball. Airbud is

1187
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 2: so much better at basketball than anyone in that he

1188
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 2: doesn't have air, except for like the guy who was

1189
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 2: on the Knicks.

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01:01:56,640 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 1: Sorry, I keep going, so me, do you want to

1191
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 1: be with her? Now Max, God, no me, Why did

1192
01:02:07,880 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 1: you do it? Max? Get her out of your system?

1193
01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 1: So you still wanted her? Did you want her during

1194
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:16,000
Speaker 1: the times we had spicy sleep?

1195
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 2: Max?

1196
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 1: No, I don't. I only wanted you. I don't know.

1197
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:24,720
Speaker 1: It just felt one of those yolo moments that's not

1198
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:28,959
Speaker 1: no speak only once you know. I thought I would

1199
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 1: give my teen self what he always wanted. And I

1200
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: felt so stupid me that Why did you do it

1201
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 1: more times? Why did you do it with my mom

1202
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 1: more times? Max? I really don't know. We were silent

1203
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: a lot, and not long after we hung up. It

1204
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: was a short call and honestly emotional. I was sort

1205
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 1: of drunkish, and he seemed emotionally drained too. I feel

1206
01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 1: stupid for opening up and calling him and asking those questions.

1207
01:02:59,480 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 1: I said it that more times. I don't want to

1208
01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: know more, but I was weak. Every time I feel

1209
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: like moving on, I get hit again by everything my

1210
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 1: brain can't understand. Yet. On my mom front, well, not

1211
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 1: a lot has happened. She continues to try to fix it.

1212
01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 1: My grandparents reached out to me, but I didn't answer.

1213
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm sure they were trying to give me support. So

1214
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 1: there is an update.

1215
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 2: We got an update.

1216
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 1: We got an update from Opie. But before we go

1217
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 1: into this update, I really want to quickly shout out

1218
01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:36,439
Speaker 1: some of the donos. Yeah, but did we get another

1219
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: thirty minutes?

1220
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1221
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 2: Oh oh.

1222
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, let's let's read the originally of the donos

1223
01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: before we get into this last bit of the story.

1224
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: Billy Claire, thanks for the three thirty five need a

1225
01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 1: long stream. We're giving me a long stream and a

1226
01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:57,240
Speaker 1: long story. M Bender six two three one. Thanks for

1227
01:03:57,280 --> 01:04:01,440
Speaker 1: the one ninety nine super chat. We appreciate you. Lisa

1228
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: arrage in me toss in your coins, y'all ninety nine

1229
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: super chat, We appreciate you. Also is the tip link

1230
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 1: pin for all those on Facebook. Awesome love link Amy,

1231
01:04:14,360 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: Sam's Running Club and Riley's CrossFit Club will fix all

1232
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 1: your problems.

1233
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:20,840
Speaker 2: And I have a D and D club.

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01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:23,040
Speaker 1: D and D Club we kind of need we need

1235
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 1: to get on all those. Yeah, and then handa alson.

1236
01:04:25,840 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: Thanks for the twenty five dollars tip on the tip link.

1237
01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:32,720
Speaker 1: No less, tiplink is dope because YouTube doesn't take thirty percent.

1238
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, shout out to y'all donating on the tip link.

1239
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 1: Nicole and TV thanks for the ten bucks thirty more minutes.

1240
01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: Let's start a Dono train. Every dollar gets us closer. Guys.

1241
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: Also love you okay, storytime crew and Sammy. Thanks for

1242
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 1: the ten buck tip. Love listening to you guys. I

1243
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 1: need help deciding on what I want to go back

1244
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 1: to college for. I have a degree in networking, administration

1245
01:04:57,240 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 1: and security. I have two choices, paralegal or data analysis.

1246
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 1: I think data analysis. If I was to choose for you, damn.

1247
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: And the reason I say data analysis, it's because I think, uh,

1248
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 1: data analysis is going to be more important in the

1249
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:13,920
Speaker 1: AI future.

1250
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 2: Interesting. I don't have an answer that's going to be

1251
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 2: as smart as Samson.

1252
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 1: But we got a updates. Whoa Dixie Blue Steel, thanks

1253
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 1: for the four months of membership. I have been so sick.

1254
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 1: I made sure to like every day I missed everyone.

1255
01:05:31,960 --> 01:05:34,520
Speaker 1: Glad to be back Dixie Blue Steel. I'm glad you

1256
01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:38,200
Speaker 1: are back and liking the stream and then Deadly Cat

1257
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 1: six x' seven. Sorry, I haven't been around in a bet.

1258
01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: Thanks for coming back and on the tip link no less,

1259
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 1: thanks for the ten but and.

1260
01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 2: Also pause Belton seconds data analysis.

1261
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: So you know it's good dude, You know you know

1262
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 1: Belton is someone who loves to share their strong opinions.

1263
01:05:56,040 --> 01:06:00,760
Speaker 1: New member also join in the Little Silly Little Nights,

1264
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 1: Amy catch On and Cowbot is God. Thanks for becoming

1265
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: new members. If you love us, you would love our

1266
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 1: members only channel right here on YouTube where you get

1267
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:18,520
Speaker 1: private members only streams that Amy is celebrating three months

1268
01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:22,080
Speaker 1: of membership. Easy solution to this joined Sam's learn to

1269
01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 1: run from your problems club and get a Playboy Bunny

1270
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 1: costume when you become an elite Cardio buddy. I like

1271
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 1: that you have already the tears set up in this.

1272
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:32,560
Speaker 2: And then go to law school, and then go.

1273
01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:36,520
Speaker 1: To law school legally mon legally. It all comes back

1274
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 1: to legally lone again. We're having this update. We're reading

1275
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 1: these don't noes. There's a little bit more to this story, so.

1276
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 2: Hold on, I'm legally blind.

1277
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 1: Come on, Billy Claire, thanks for the one gifted membership.

1278
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 1: Vix Mix, thanks for the ten gifted membership, shut Out

1279
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 1: vix Mix for supporting the stream. Dune's Broello thanks twenty ten,

1280
01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 1: thanks for the gifted membership.

1281
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:00,800
Speaker 2: And for becoming a new member number two.

1282
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 1: And Britt Bratt zero eight eight two Thanks for a

1283
01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: five bucks tep. Sorry, it's not much. Hey, we appreciate it.

1284
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 2: We love it all.

1285
01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 1: We just like to hear being here, like in the stream.

1286
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:10,680
Speaker 1: I just got back to work five months post foot

1287
01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 1: surgery and I don't have much but wanted to show

1288
01:07:13,120 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 1: my love. We appreciate the love. And also we're five

1289
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 1: likes aways, not that many likes. It's not that many likes,

1290
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:29,040
Speaker 1: all right, So we're getting into the update. The update

1291
01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:32,440
Speaker 1: is I am moving. This is sixteen days in the

1292
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:36,160
Speaker 1: last post, forty nine days from the og post. And

1293
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 1: this is nine days ago. This is August eighteenth. This

1294
01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:42,640
Speaker 1: is relatively not nine days ago, but this is relatively recent.

1295
01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 1: So hi everyone. So I'm finally here with an update,

1296
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:51,040
Speaker 1: and a good one at that. I am moving. Yes

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01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 1: to Spain. Yes, I got the job. There's no pair

1298
01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:57,400
Speaker 1: near one of the biggest cities in Spain. I'm so excited.

1299
01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 1: I'm flying in a few days and started on the

1300
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:04,880
Speaker 1: ninth September or September one. Edder's note took me when

1301
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,360
Speaker 1: too long to realize this. This is September first with

1302
01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:10,480
Speaker 1: the family. The kids are adorable to I'll be learning Spanish,

1303
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 1: to which I always wanted to do. Anyway, so it

1304
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 1: feels like Heaven said. Honestly, I feel like the best

1305
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,320
Speaker 1: thing to do in this situation is just completely uproot

1306
01:08:17,360 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 1: your life and go somewhere else.

1307
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, just start over, Just start. A lot of people

1308
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 2: were talking about, like getting a name, just leave the country.

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Speaker 1: Leave the country. Honestly, you can run from your problems. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and in this case you should.

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01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:32,479
Speaker 2: If you go far enough, you're golden.

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01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:35,640
Speaker 1: You're golden. I haven't told almost anyone about it, just

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01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:38,080
Speaker 1: a few friends I trust, and of course my cousin

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01:08:38,280 --> 01:08:41,360
Speaker 1: who I live with, and also my boss. My mother

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01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 1: has been telling people I'm being mean to her again.

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01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:48,040
Speaker 1: This is the mother that slapped with her fiance when

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01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:50,360
Speaker 1: she wants to fix everything. She made a mistake and

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01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 1: is trying to fix it. But I'm being difficult. She's

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01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 1: just human, not surprising. I'm now really coming to terms

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Speaker 1: on how self centered she is and has always been.

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01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm sad I lost the mom I thought I had.

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01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 1: Feels like if she died. My new therapist, yes, I

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01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:09,839
Speaker 1: got one last week. Yeah, it's good. I'm grieving. Max

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01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 1: has left me a bit alone since the last call

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01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 1: we had. I heard he's focusing on my little brother

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01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:18,719
Speaker 1: and just staying under the radar. I've had some short

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01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,080
Speaker 1: phone calls with my little brother which has been bittersweet,

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01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 1: but he is doing okay. He of course doesn't know

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01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 1: what's really happening, but he is happy with having a

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01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:29,759
Speaker 1: new dad. It doesn't hurt as much as it did before,

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01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:33,679
Speaker 1: but it still hurts. And thank you for all the support.

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01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:35,080
Speaker 1: By the way, you can join us live every week

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Speaker 1: day three pm PST. Just top our profile right here

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01:09:39,760 --> 01:09:42,160
Speaker 1: on YouTube. You can come come in. It's a great time.

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Speaker 1: We love the lives.

1336
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:47,479
Speaker 2: It's so fun. Everyone says we have the best best live.

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01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 2: We're got the best lies.

1338
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:53,000
Speaker 1: Also, if you haven't turned on notifications or followed us

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01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: for these lives, we go live like every weekday.

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01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:57,559
Speaker 2: And you never really know what it's gonna happen.

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01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:00,320
Speaker 1: You never really know. Usually it's ten minutes late. It's

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01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:03,000
Speaker 1: ten minutes late. We realize this. You realize this, You

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Speaker 1: know this, We know this. But that's where that story ends.