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Speaker 2: You know, I've heard of daddy issues, I've heard of

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Speaker 2: mommy issues that include banging your mom.

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Speaker 1: You know, We've seen a lot of stories out here,

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Speaker 1: but every once in a while, we'll get a gem

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Speaker 1: in the rof.

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Speaker 2: This is a gem.

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Speaker 1: This is more like a like a nuclear bomb in the.

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Speaker 2: Rough, like yeah, yeah, it's like, oh, I guess we'll

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Speaker 2: like play with it and see if we come out unscathed.

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Speaker 1: Well, that always worked out well for everybody.

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Speaker 2: It did it did? I feel like I'm playing with

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Speaker 2: a live bomb.

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Speaker 1: This is so fucked well. As they say, let's f

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Speaker 1: around and find out. My boyfriend and I have been

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Speaker 1: together for almost a year now. We met at my

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Speaker 1: mall food court job and immediately hit it off.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty cute. It's kind of like Stranger Things super doorable, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. After a month of knowing each other, he asked

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Speaker 1: me to be his girlfriend. Cute, of course, I said, yes,

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Speaker 1: everything's going so so well. It's not gonna end terribly.

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Speaker 1: Our relationship has been pretty great up to this point.

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Speaker 1: He takes me on dates, compliments me. It just makes

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want to let your two lovers meet

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Speaker 2: each other, Maine A ho and mistress. You know, I

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Speaker 2: think it's who's main ho. It's obviously his mom.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, mom a one day one. You

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah? Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 2: What they say is like the breast that you feed

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Speaker 2: from is the vagina that you not in that.

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Speaker 1: This is a new saying for me. I learned so

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Speaker 1: much on the show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he's not in the right circle. Okay, Yeah, I'll

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Speaker 1: His parents are divorced and have been almost his entire life.

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Speaker 1: The divorce was messy and his father ended up getting

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Speaker 1: full custody. I wonder why, A good question. They had

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Speaker 1: the typical every other weekend and six months out of

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Speaker 1: the summer setup men his dad and his paternal family.

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Speaker 1: But he would be weird when I brought his mom up.

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Speaker 1: He would tell me things like we have a complicated relationship,

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Speaker 2: I hate the idea of like a Facebook relationship status

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Speaker 2: saying it's complicated with my mom.

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Speaker 1: You know, in all fairness, that is the most complicated

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Speaker 1: relationship it is.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, excuse me, God, that is complicated.

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Speaker 2: So I totally dated myself by saying Facebook relationship status.

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Speaker 1: Oh dude, we're just a bag of fossils. I know,

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: That used to be a huge thing. It's like, hey,

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Speaker 2: do you want to be my girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Easy, yes, do you want to be Facebook official?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what's your history?

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Speaker 2: I guess maybe now the equivalent is like posting on

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Speaker 1: Whatever the freaking kids are using talking their pals.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what the kids are up to

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Speaker 2: these days. Neither do something no good.

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Speaker 1: About three months into the relationship, I began to realize

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Speaker 1: you know this is how's this is how it's gonna

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no no.

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Speaker 1: I looked at the messages from his mother.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, no no no no.

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Speaker 1: I opened the phone and began to read through them

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Speaker 1: and noticed they were mostly very sexual. No, there were

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Speaker 2: Right, why did you choose this story?

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Speaker 1: Dude?

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Speaker 2: This is this is You're stabbing mysing it.

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Speaker 1: The ugliest, nastiest, slimiest truth.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I can handle it.

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Speaker 1: Well, you're gonna have to. I guess it's so weird.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's just almost hard to fathom anything more insane.

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Speaker 2: Call me old fashioned. That might be a deal breaker

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Speaker 2: for me. I feel like, honestly, the true old fashion

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Speaker 1: That's true that's the real Watch.

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Speaker 2: A little couple episodes of Game of Thrones. You're in

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Speaker 2: I just let's can we just keep going?

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Speaker 1: Yes? I read the conversations and disbelief. I tried to

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Speaker 1: a few days later I confronted him about it.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, so he's gonna say it's like a joker,

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Speaker 2: Like I mean, he has to just say anything other

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Speaker 2: than I fucked my mom. Please, there has to be

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Speaker 1: It didn't take long before he broke down and told

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Speaker 1: me everything. He said he'd been hooking up with his

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Speaker 2: I like, if you're hooking up with your mom when

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Speaker 2: If you're hooking up on your mom at thirteen, weird

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Speaker 1: Less like that's more there's malicious intent, right, Yeah, there's abuse, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I haven't been in this situation. So I we don't

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Speaker 2: really know how to advise. I advise except, like, you know,

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Speaker 2: except for op to run. You don't need to fix him, Nope,

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Speaker 2: you need a run. This is this is a whole

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Speaker 1: Your feet in some running shoes and sprint as far away, far.

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Speaker 2: Far away states sort of countries to get the ache

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Speaker 2: out of your mouth. New name juices with his mom.

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Speaker 1: I just had some Campbell's noodles and they almost piled

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Speaker 1: their way up. They usually have intercourse once a week

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Speaker 1: and sometimes more. They've been doing this throughout our entire relationship.

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Speaker 2: No, he really wants mommy's milk that much that he

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Speaker 2: can't even be like, hey, I'm in a relationship now, mom, Like,

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Speaker 2: can we like you know, pause of being all hot

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Speaker 1: No. No, he never told her that he had a

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Speaker 2: I hate to ask this, Josh, I hate to ask this,

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Speaker 2: but I'm wondering, mm.

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Speaker 1: Hmmm, who's better. You know, that's an that's only an

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Speaker 1: answer that this this this that this man can decide.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm just I'm just saying die with the truth.

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Speaker 2: You know, she's got a couple of things on him

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Speaker 2: on her all right, So yeah, yeah, just older has

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Speaker 2: more experience, yep. And I think like a mother always

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Speaker 2: kind of just knows what her child wants instinctively.

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Speaker 1: How tragic is that that this that you got hand works,

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Speaker 1: that's what you're about to say? Yeah, of course, of course.

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Speaker 1: At this point, I don't know what to do. I

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Speaker 1: love him with all my heart, but I'm so disgusted

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's what you should do.

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Speaker 1: Please do that.

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Speaker 2: Trying to dispel these demons of this story out of

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Speaker 2: my nose right.

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Speaker 1: Now, I've locked him on every social media and his

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Speaker 1: I've also called this week into work so he can't

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Speaker 1: find me. Nice. What should I do? Make it work

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Speaker 1: or break up with him? We have an update, but

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Speaker 1: quick thoughts from me. All it's a quick breather Sam,

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Speaker 1: What do you think did she say see if it

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Speaker 1: can work? She literally said see if it can work?

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Speaker 1: If what can curl?

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Speaker 4: Curl?

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Speaker 2: All right, it's bad enough if he cheats on you,

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Speaker 2: right like, you should end it. If he was cheating

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Speaker 2: don't care who it is. Well I actually I do,

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Speaker 2: because it makes it a whole lot worse.

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Speaker 1: But it's his mom.

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Speaker 2: Put off all contact, run for the hills, go to therapy,

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Speaker 2: changer face face, I change your whole personality, maybe like

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Speaker 2: You need something to work through this, because yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you need to run. You need to run from everything

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Speaker 2: that you were.

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Speaker 1: Anything that brings you away. That's it.

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Speaker 2: Please tell me that everyone's with me, Like, like, I

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Speaker 2: know there are some people that are into, like you know,

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Speaker 2: fixing broken winged birds, but like this seems like a

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Speaker 1: No, I can fix it.

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Speaker 2: I can fix it.

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Speaker 3: Just needs the right woman.

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Speaker 2: And you can't compete with his mother's just on all

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Speaker 1: What once came out again came in. Let's finish this.

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Speaker 2: Please please put me out of my fucking miseries.

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Speaker 1: Update. Thank you to everyone for your kind words. I

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Speaker 1: That way, his father can help me figure out what

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Speaker 1: I'm still waiting on a reply from him. I will

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Speaker 1: what to do. And we have reached a final beefy update.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, there's more.

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Speaker 1: There's a good chunk more. This is where everything goes down.

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Speaker 1: This is the climax of the movie. I just hope

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Speaker 1: it's bearable.

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Speaker 2: Don You're really you're really hurting today. You're literally hurting.

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Speaker 1: I'm taking your brain and powerwashing it with bleach, which

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Speaker 1: is actually probably good. After hearing this, I need that. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: we should both go through this.

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Speaker 2: There's brain waste being dumped into my brain folds, right.

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Speaker 1: We need to just like blast all of it out.

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Speaker 2: You guys got to feel something for me, like I'm hurting.

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Speaker 1: And onto more pain. I have no idea where to

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Speaker 1: eleven hours since I last posted. I had no idea

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Speaker 2: Having an update where that's the start and also it's

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Speaker 2: Wait, I feel like this is like the part in

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Speaker 4: Like we got him school was like joy, right, shaggy,

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Speaker 2: This might improve from here, I'm hoping because now I'm

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Speaker 1: There's a chance that's not true. Right, Yeah, the dad

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Speaker 2: Like, I just I don't understand how that wins you

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Speaker 2: Yeah we got podcast listeners. You can't see it YouTube

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Speaker 1: Yeah. My garage, yeah, is full of Lamborghinis and books

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. I take a few minutes to calm him

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Speaker 2: Of course, he apologized, maybe he's been like fucking his

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Speaker 2: Finals, It's kind of not a ghost fucker.

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Speaker 1: He is a ghostfucker, ghostucker God damn. Of course he

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Speaker 2: Lie about that? That's what I don't get, Okay, but

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend became silent and looked down. At this point,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you need to worry about him

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 2: There's no way? The truth is worse than the story

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's your right. That's the worst. That's worse, But

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Speaker 2: Wait, so, rather than tell your girlfriend that you were

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Speaker 1: In fairness, it seems like she had some kind of concern,

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Speaker 1: which that is true. Guess is his goal? That is true?

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Speaker 2: It is because I guess I gets you falls more

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Speaker 1: Good for you, Op over you my goodness. Yeah, thank

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Speaker 2: Yeah, please don't know that man. He needs a lot

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Speaker 1: That show might be correct. He tried to follow and

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Speaker 1: What do you possibly think? This is what is going

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Speaker 2: Do you feel my pain?

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Speaker 1: Do you feel Sam's pain?

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Speaker 2: I mean he's put pain in the comments. If you

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Speaker 1: Well Sam, tell us about that pain? What is I mean?

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Speaker 1: Does that make this is just all right?

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Speaker 2: Like the boyfriend obviously massive, massive, massive, massive a hole.

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Speaker 1: And the fact, like I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know if it's dumb or genius to make a

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Speaker 1: The disgustingly tragic part is it kind of almost working,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Wow, what a fucked up lie. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I run, run, don't have contact with him. This man

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Fuck disgusting, I'm done? Can we can we can we

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Speaker 1: Ok? All right, let's go Today. I fed up by

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Speaker 1: When he says he was just eating hummus, that's reasonably

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Speaker 6: Is that what the kids are calling nowadays is eating hummus?

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Speaker 1: I thirty nan female, have a son, fifteen male, and

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Speaker 5: All right, some good hummus.

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Speaker 3: This makes sense, that's the problem. It's all coming together.

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Speaker 1: It really sounded like they were having some fun times together.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was super weirded out by it, so I quickly

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Speaker 2: I'm wondering, like how long was the mom listening? You know,

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Speaker 2: like like how long? Because I feel like if you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, can you work away? It's like a

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Speaker 2: I think it's like, if it's your son, I think

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Speaker 3: Two and a half minutes of hummus noises seems appropriate.

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Speaker 2: Two and a half you think, two and a half

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Speaker 6: I mean, good on him for lasting more than two

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, when when I was a teen eating hummus,

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Forty five seconds that's a marathon.

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Speaker 6: my son. I really don't want to deal with this, but.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how long would you guys listen to dislike to

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Speaker 2: understand if it was hummiceating earth?

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Speaker 6: I think as soon as my brain was like, is

445
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Speaker 6: that that I need to go? I need to leave

446
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Speaker 6: and we will talk about this later.

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Speaker 3: I'm partially deaf, so I probably wouldn't need a two

448
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Speaker 3: and a half minutes.

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Speaker 1: So when this friend left an hour or two later,

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Speaker 1: I asked my son what were they doing in the room?

451
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Speaker 1: Because although I don't mind him being gay, and I

452
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Speaker 1: know it's normal for teenager to have sex. A condom

453
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Speaker 1: should really be used. It's fair.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, save sex.

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Speaker 1: I plan to confront him about that. However, the answer

456
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 1: shocked me to my very core. They were not having

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Speaker 1: fun times. They were eating hummus supposedly, supposedly allegedly.

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Speaker 6: Like, if that's true, where's the evidence, Like, bring me

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Speaker 6: the container of hummus.

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Speaker 3: Go on, they ate it all if it pleases the court.

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Speaker 5: My point to exhibit a strip of red bell pepper

462
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Speaker 5: clearly half bitten off with the brown stubstance on.

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Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying. There's gonna be evidence of said

464
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Speaker 6: hummus spe seeds.

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Speaker 1: So, as you can imagine, I was shocked and I

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Speaker 1: initially did not believe this. We had never had hummus before.

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Speaker 1: I love how that's like, You're like, I don't believe you.

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Speaker 1: This is not a hummus household.

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Speaker 5: He did outsourced it to his friend, that's why.

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Speaker 1: So I asked him to show me the hummus if

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Speaker 1: this was true. He did show me the hummus and

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Speaker 1: I ate hummus for the first time, and oh my god,

473
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Speaker 1: was it good. She ate hummus with it she ate

474
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Speaker 1: the same hummus. We experimented with different things in it,

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Speaker 1: like bread and carrots, and it was great. Apparently his

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Speaker 1: friend had heard about how he had never had hummus

477
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Speaker 1: before and thought it was absurd, so he planned a

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Speaker 1: date for a hummus party. Did you guys have a

479
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Speaker 1: hummus party? I mean Erica hates.

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Speaker 6: Hummys, I hate hummus.

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Speaker 3: We had a secret Hummas party. We didn't invite Erica.

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Speaker 6: Though that sounds about right.

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Speaker 1: It ended up being quite a good ending, and I

484
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: discovered how nice hummus was. But there is an update.

485
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Speaker 2: Hummus updates.

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Speaker 6: We love an update.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, the majority of you were right they were

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Speaker 1: doing it. What to less, For the record, I did

489
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Speaker 1: think it sounded like it. So here's what they did.

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Speaker 1: They ate some hummus first.

491
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Speaker 2: To set the move, to set the mood, then.

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Speaker 1: They put it away. Now, they didn't do anything at

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Speaker 1: the same time like some of you freaks suggested. After

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Speaker 1: they finished the hummus. That's when they started doing it.

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Speaker 1: My son's boyfriend, I think their boyfriends now saw the

496
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Speaker 1: post on Reddit and could not stop laughing. So he

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Speaker 1: told my son, thinking it could be about them, who

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Speaker 1: then told me because he felt a bit guilty about

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Speaker 1: hiding it.

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Speaker 6: Well, that's good that they have a good enough relationship

501
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Speaker 6: that he can tell his mother that story. And I

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Speaker 6: hope that they discussed the safety of sexual activity at

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Speaker 6: that point.

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Speaker 5: I think if you just put hummus on everything, it

505
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Speaker 5: kind of just kills all.

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Speaker 1: No, I think you've heard that too. Yeah, incorrect.

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Speaker 3: You must be on a weird side of take that,

508
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Speaker 3: because we all got that. We all know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: No.

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Speaker 1: So other than that, nothing really exciting happened. We had

512
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Speaker 1: a long, awkward talk where I told him I don't

513
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Speaker 1: really endorse him doing that kind of stuff at his age,

514
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Speaker 1: but he really should use a condom, et cetera, et cetera.

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00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: Now onto the more important thing, hummus. I really like hummus. Now,

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Speaker 1: I've never had it before because it looks kind of disgusting,

517
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Speaker 1: yellow and sludgy, but I have learned appearances can be

518
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Speaker 1: to saving. It was homemade, so I'm going to have

519
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,640
Speaker 1: to ask for the recipe so I can make more.

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Speaker 1: I've already finished all of it. Also, what are some

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Speaker 1: other good things that DiPT in? I've tried other things carrots, cucumbers,

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Speaker 1: and various breads. Any suggestions would be so appreciated. A

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Speaker 1: lot of people have recommended Baba Ganosh as well. Is

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Speaker 1: that similar or better than hummus? Wow?

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Speaker 3: And a little rude at youtiful all the hummus right.

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Speaker 1: Damn mom, you hugt it?

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Speaker 5: So listen. Real advice. Love a good red bell pepper,

528
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 5: yellow bell pepper. They go right in there. Tortilla chips,

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Speaker 5: the saltier the better. I like blue corn. That's some

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Speaker 5: good stuff in their blue corn tortilla chips. And then

531
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Speaker 5: to sort of sometimes you go like on a peeda bread,

532
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Speaker 5: maybe make it with a different thing. I can talk

533
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Speaker 5: about hummus for years.

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Speaker 3: Are we taking notes?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 3: Perfect?

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Speaker 2: This is a core memory right here. It's like one

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Speaker 2: of those flashbul memory moments. I will never forget this,

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Speaker 2: And I think that's a hummus.

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Speaker 1: Solid advice, perfect, amazing,