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Speaker 1: I listened to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hot.

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Speaker 2: I'm the one man army a son I never been

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Speaker 2: taking out. I keep EMC's looking out. I dropped science

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Speaker 2: as good as a tasty cake. Mix this style. I'm

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Speaker 2: mastered in niggas. Catch your headache for what you need,

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Speaker 2: is it burning with fucking now you're learning? Hey, welcome

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Speaker 2: to the Black Guy to this podcast Else Rod and Karen,

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 2: We are live on a Monday night, ready to do

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Speaker 2: some podcasting before Supergirl comes home, and just checking in

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Speaker 2: on you guys, making sure everything's okay with you guys.

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Speaker 2: I know you're surprised that we did a show since

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Speaker 2: it's the government shut down, but we decided to go

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Speaker 2: ahead and give you, guys what you what you wanted. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so don't say we was never here for you don't

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Speaker 2: like the government. Also, I've been thinking about it, and uh,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna boycott Netflix, but I am willing to

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Speaker 2: boycott crunchy Roll for Monique so we can negotiate. Meet

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Speaker 2: in the middle somewhere. And well, we all have to

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Speaker 2: give up something to support Monique care And I support

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Speaker 2: black women.

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Speaker 3: I like Crunching Roll, the anime app and the real

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Speaker 3: Crunching Role. They always deleases and never let me down.

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Speaker 2: Never. Well, I just feel like we should be trying

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Speaker 2: to support. Maybe I will quit, you know, I had

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Speaker 2: to give up. Maybe I can give up Spotify for

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Speaker 2: I don't, you know, maybe we go around on here

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Speaker 2: and do that. I'm not okay, Well, you don't support

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Speaker 2: black women nothing, all right? I support So just remember

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Speaker 2: that I was. I was out here trying to help guys.

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Speaker 2: Just remember that about me. You find this podcast on iTunes,

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Speaker 2: stitch a potomatic search. The black Out Tesla was fire.

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Speaker 2: I Star Reviews. The official weapon of the show is

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Speaker 2: the unofficial sport is the bulletball extreme And now let's

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Speaker 2: get into the show. All kinds of stuff is happening.

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Speaker 2: The government shut down is almost over. It was shut

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Speaker 2: down for almost three days, and.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna be shut down again in two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, they are. Basically they made a deal that

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Speaker 3: Which what's the fucking point?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it's easy to say that when

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Speaker 2: your job doesn't depend on, you know, the government. No,

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Speaker 3: It's a very long time. But it's like, the thing

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Speaker 1: And they said, in the last twenty years, every time

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Speaker 1: people are going back to work, but why are you

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Speaker 3: Like that's the problem I have, let's solve it.

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Speaker 2: It seems like the big issue is DAKA, which they

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Speaker 2: They basically said, we'll get the CHIP program, which is

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Speaker 3: We shouldn't have never ended.

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Speaker 2: if y'all want these kids to get insurance, then y'all

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Speaker 1: Right, So, using children as hostages like you do for

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Speaker 3: It comes to a lot of shit. When the children

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Speaker 2: It's even worse than me because it's like, use them

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Speaker 3: Come on, that's what you was voting for.

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Speaker 2: Say what you want to about that, dude, But he

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Speaker 2: Why aren't y'all stopping this? And it's just not how

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Speaker 1: And it's very frustrating because it shows you how little

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and when you look at stuff like, you know,

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Speaker 2: when you look at stuff like you know, they're both

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Speaker 2: I've been saying for a while we concentrate on presidency

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Speaker 2: And that was only on the strength of the charisma

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Speaker 2: but I'm like, that's not a merit. Like the stuff

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Speaker 1: But he's just so stupid that he gets in his

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Speaker 1: And the thing is, it's designed to wear people down.

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Speaker 1: It's design to make people get weary. It's a sign

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna deal with it, which is you're right.

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Speaker 3: You know, because and but that's the reality of it.

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Speaker 1: then complain that that's not realistic. You can't be like

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think just Also, we have to conceive that

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Speaker 2: you know, that's that's uh, that's the reality of it.

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Speaker 3: So people need to do this to be alone.

436
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 1: And that's something that religion just don't teach sometimes yourself.

437
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:04,040
Speaker 2: Well, Tom Brady walks in the spirit of a husband,

438
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 2: and that's why he gonna get this six ring.

439
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 1: Okay, right, because that's the thing you never gonna hear

440
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 1: that you're never gonna hear, you know, the sermon of

441
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 1: walking the fullness of boyfriend. You know, while walk in

442
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 1: the fullness of a husband, you know, you're just born

443
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 1: a husband and you just know how to be a husband.

444
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,040
Speaker 1: If that's the case, why do you have all these men,

445
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 1: including men and religious beating their wives because you know

446
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,960
Speaker 1: that's a lot of people even in religions insteader of

447
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,440
Speaker 1: that part of being a husband.

448
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 2: Well, they have this term in soccer for football. It's

449
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 2: isn't call it, It's called an on goal. Okay, you

450
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,680
Speaker 2: know what the goal is. The on goal is when

451
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:48,160
Speaker 2: you your team accidentally accidentally knocks the ball into your

452
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,439
Speaker 2: own goal and score a point for the other team. Okay,

453
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 2: so you know you might you ain't trying to you're

454
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 2: trying to score the goals on the other team. You're

455
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 2: trying to score the goal for the other player the

456
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 2: other way and you accidentally or on yourself and it's

457
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,600
Speaker 2: still a point against you, but you did it to yourself.

458
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 2: Sierra just goed a on goal. Everybody been rooting for Siera,

459
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 2: Everybody been enjoying her and uh Russell Wilson's corny ass matrimony.

460
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:22,439
Speaker 2: Everybody's been you know, hashtag relationship goals. You know, Russey

461
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 2: has been putting, you know, out here repping for short men,

462
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 2: that you can still make a come up if you

463
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:31,959
Speaker 2: know how to play your cards right, like and I

464
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 2: think this happens a lot man, and I I don't

465
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 2: I don't want to sound like some dickhead atheists. But

466
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 2: this is the truth. This is one of the reasons

467
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 2: I don't fuck with religion. It's probably the main reason

468
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:51,640
Speaker 2: some of this ship is so repressive, and especially coming

469
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 2: from black people who we know at the underside of

470
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,679
Speaker 2: the boot, feels like it's like we're still on this

471
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,080
Speaker 2: like and then and then I guess the trick of

472
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 2: it all that fucks with me the most is when

473
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 2: you look at the pews, it's mostly women. Come and

474
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 2: and you look at who's cheering. It's mostly women, right,

475
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 2: you know, many of them without a man, many of

476
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 2: them like and while you would think this is where

477
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 2: they're cheering because it's kind of an uplifting thing and whatever,

478
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 2: it's to me, it's not to me. It's saying you

479
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 2: ain't got no man because you're not good enough, as

480
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 2: if the only value a woman has is to be

481
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 2: valuable towards to a man, you know, like they don't

482
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 2: encourage women to have any level of independent spirit or

483
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 2: any of this shit. It's have you got a man yet?

484
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,640
Speaker 2: Did you have children? Out of wear a lot? Well,

485
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 2: then you ain't shit until you get a man that

486
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 2: will put a ring on your finger, and then you

487
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 2: will be a valuable godly woman. Until then, it's.

488
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 3: A shame, shame, shame, shame, shame everything you do.

489
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 2: And we're in here shaming each other, shaming other women.

490
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 2: It's normally some fucking man on stage saying this shit

491
00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:00,040
Speaker 2: to women, you know, And I'm like, I don't. I

492
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 2: refuse to support this shit. You know, it's fucked up.

493
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 2: And I felt that way I'm talking about when I

494
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 2: was a kid. I was like, the second I don't

495
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 2: have to do this anymore, I will not be going

496
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 2: here anymore. These things are crazy. You have a gay

497
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 2: person that's fucking leading your choir and you're talking about

498
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 2: he's gonna go to Hell and and repenting all this shit,

499
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 2: and y'all know he gonna be gay next week too.

500
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 2: Y'all don't give like y'all are fucked up. The things

501
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 2: that you say under the OSSes of God are fucked up.

502
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:32,479
Speaker 2: This doesn't sound like love and all. You know, I mean,

503
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 2: I fuck with Like there's, like I said, there's Christians

504
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 2: that I think are dope, good people that really do

505
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 2: live out some values that I'm like, Wow, I'm so

506
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 2: impressed with you, Like how you're able to live out

507
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 2: these values without succumbing to the most base negative parts

508
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 2: of what I've seen Christianity represent for some people. And

509
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 2: you know, like Reverend Barbera is a great example of people.

510
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, that's the dude dedicate. Yeah, well he dies.

511
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 2: Everybody gonna cry because he really fucking.

512
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 1: Men, right, he'd be down there Raleigh every what is it, Monday, Tuesday,

513
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: whatever that day week protesting.

514
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:13,919
Speaker 2: But even with even with Russ, you know, it's like,

515
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 2: you don't really know what people like that are thinking

516
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 2: because he is so open about God, God, God this,

517
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,720
Speaker 2: and it's almost like, man, I hope he's not fucked up,

518
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 2: and I hope he doesn't thing fucked up shit, and

519
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 2: I'm happy for that dude and his wife and all

520
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 2: living his best life. But every once in a while,

521
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 2: somebody will kind of delve into some territory on some

522
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 2: social political issues, and it's like, oh, man, that's right,

523
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:42,959
Speaker 2: he's Christian, and a lot of Christians believe blank. You know,

524
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 2: like I don't want to know what Russell Wilson thinks

525
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,399
Speaker 2: about abortion. I didn't want to know what Tim Tebow

526
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 2: thought about it come out, you know, I don't want

527
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 2: to know what they think about pre medal sex. I

528
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 2: don't want to know what this motherfucker thinks about having

529
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 2: kids out of wedlock. I don't want to know what

530
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,400
Speaker 2: he thinks. A woman's place in a relationship is none

531
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 2: of that shit. Like, it's just keep it to yourself.

532
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 2: Like if your religion is a is a relationship that's

533
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 2: supposed to be between you and a god in the

534
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 2: sky and maybe your wife and your family or something,

535
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 2: keep that shit there. Like, you don't need to share

536
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: this on social media. Now, do people have to like

537
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 2: come for her neck and be so outraged and shit?

538
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 2: Not really, I mean, it's her fucking opinion. If she

539
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 2: thinks this is what the fuck she needs to do,

540
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 2: and and and this is the advice that changed her life,

541
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 2: and shit, if she really feels that way, I don't

542
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 2: give a fuck. That's her life, you know what I mean.

543
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 2: I don't have to subscribe to it because you said that.

544
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 5: Shit.

545
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 2: But this whole tradition of I'm married now and the

546
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 2: rest of you hefus ain't shit. It's so it's so

547
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 2: fucking longstanding, and it has so much animosy it's almost

548
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 2: like people just get on another side. It's like when

549
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 2: they a fat person recently lost. Wait, and then all

550
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: of sudden they start shaming everybody for the food they eat. Correct,

551
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 2: it feels like that was like, no, see her, just

552
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 2: a fucking like five years ago, people calling you a help?

553
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 2: What are we doing?

554
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 3: What are we doing?

555
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 2: Like? What are we doing? Like I know people were

556
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 2: coming at you like this, like, well you ain't even

557
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 2: get married? What you you out here being a baby

558
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 2: mama and shit like that, And now you would It's

559
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 2: like you internalize that. You must have believed it about

560
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 2: yourself at that time, and now you're just like I

561
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:24,719
Speaker 2: can I can say I made it because I got married,

562
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 2: you know which I think, by the way, I think

563
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 2: it's a lot of women's hang up, like, yes it is.

564
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying because they chose that. I'm saying

565
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 2: we drill it into women, like the pressure. One of

566
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 2: the reasons women feel such pressure to get married and

567
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: go I'm old. I can't believe I'm not married and

568
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 2: you're talking to like a twenty six year old or

569
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 2: some shit.

570
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 3: Ain't you going?

571
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 2: Good?

572
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 3: God, you got the rest of your life. What are

573
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 3: you talking about?

574
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: Right? You haven't lived a life yet. But one of

575
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 2: the reasons that women feel that way is because they

576
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 2: do want to. They feel like I'll attain a magical

577
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 2: status of I have a ring on my finger and

578
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 2: I can stop feeling bad about myself. But the thing is,

579
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,560
Speaker 2: you'll never stop feeling bad about yourself, and especially if

580
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 2: you marry the wrong nigga trying to fucking chase after

581
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 2: this a magical status where you're gonna cross the finish

582
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: line to go Ali Ali Oxen free. Cause a lot

583
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 2: of men specializing making women feel like shit for a living,

584
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 2: and they call them they call themselves your husband in

585
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 2: many cases, you know. So it's like we end up

586
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 2: with this society where we have women that feel bad

587
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 2: about themselves all the fucking time, like your average women

588
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 2: compared to your average man is a fucking dying compared

589
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,959
Speaker 2: to how men get to feel about ourselves and how

590
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 2: women get to feel abut theirselves. Women care about women

591
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 2: care about their way. Women care about their makeup, women

592
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 2: care about their hair, women care about their job. Women

593
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 2: care about their attitude. They care if they're smiling, They

594
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 2: care if they're being presentable at all fucking times of

595
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 2: the day. They care if they're being too a pionated,

596
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 2: care they're being too loud, they shrink themselves down. They

597
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 2: apologize all the time of shit that they don't even

598
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 2: need to be fucking apologizing for all the time. It's

599
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 2: like a man is in my as is, how do

600
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 2: I shrink myself down to where I'm just the prettiest

601
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 2: flower in the room and he'll pick me every fucking time.

602
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 2: And it's like that's not one that's not good for society,

603
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: but two, as a man, we never think like that.

604
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 2: We never think like that, no matter how fucked up

605
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 2: a dude is, we assume there's a woman out there

606
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 2: for him. And it's because we put so much pressure

607
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 2: on women to be like, you need to just be

608
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 2: chosen by somebody, it don't matter who it is. Settle

609
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 2: bitch with you out here, try and have goals and

610
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 2: shit all.

611
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:25,479
Speaker 6: You know.

612
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 2: Meanwhile, one of the worst things a woman can do

613
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 2: for herself is actually get married, to be honest, like

614
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 2: health wise, financial wise, like stress wise, like men can

615
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 2: kind of tie women down our president in their lives

616
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 2: most of the time because we are so either aloof

617
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 2: selfish or just downright fucking negative towards women. As I'm

618
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 2: gonna cheat on you, I'm gonna talk shit about you,

619
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna participate in what the things, the duties

620
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: to clean up the house and shit, I'm not gonna

621
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: participate in raising our kids. I'm gonna barely be around.

622
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna treat you like shit. I'm gonna give emotional distress,

623
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 2: some meltional abuse, not to mention when we talk about

624
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: physical obase and death, like there's all these things that

625
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 2: we do to women where it's just kind of like,

626
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 2: but we've taught women to covet that, like at least

627
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 2: you got a man, like as if that's a fucking

628
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 2: accomplishment and it is free.

629
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: And come on, And the thing is, it's not an

630
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: accomplishment to get married. It's almost like when people get married,

631
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: it's like the end of the game. It's like you

632
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: get married and all of a sudden, the credits go

633
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: up for the rest of your life, and you go, well,

634
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: you know, you get married, and now you gotta look

635
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 1: at this motherfucker for the rest of the rest of

636
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 1: your life.

637
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 3: Do you really want to deal.

638
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: With all these things that are attached with this person?

639
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: And we talked about before, a lot of people love

640
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: the idea of being in love, and they love the

641
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: idea of getting married, and they spend more time in

642
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: preparing for the wedding than preparing for what happens after

643
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 1: we walk down the aisle.

644
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 2: You know what, dude, I don't know. I don't know

645
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: that people do love being in love and love getting married.

646
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 2: I think women love weddings, yes they do, But I

647
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 2: don't think people do love being married or love being

648
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 2: in love. You know what people love? People Stop asking

649
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: you fucking questions every Thanksgiving. You got a boyfriend, you're

650
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 2: gonna get you're going on, you're dating anybody. I mean, damn,

651
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 2: this is a fifth Thanksgiving. You showed up without a man.

652
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: And then and then when you get married, Like I said,

653
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 2: it's the first hurdle because when you get married, when

654
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 2: you're gonna have kids, where you're gonna get a house,

655
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: where you're gonna do this, when you're gonna do it

656
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 2: like we even once you hop over that hurdle for

657
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 2: the social pressure of it, I don't even know if

658
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 2: people love being in love like that. I really do

659
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 2: think there's a huge contingent of people that's just like

660
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 2: I would like y'all to get off my back, and

661
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 2: it's a lot of pressure I'm putting on myself when

662
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 2: I every how many people go to church every week

663
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 2: and hear some shit like this, yeah, and then they

664
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 2: wonder why they fucked up about should I get a

665
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 2: man or not? All the time? Why so much of

666
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 2: your value is about having a man. It's like, yo,

667
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 2: somebody is telling you every week you ain't shit and

668
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 2: you don't understand. Well not you understand. You accept it

669
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 2: because you feel like it's the way it is, but

670
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 2: it don't have to be that way. Can get up

671
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: and walk out of that bitch and be like peace.

672
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: The social interactions that are there is, I think is

673
00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,719
Speaker 2: more about what people go for, cause the messages are

674
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 2: antiquated as shit, and people don't live their lives this

675
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 2: way and never really have. There's never been a time

676
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 2: where people weren't fucking. There's never been a time people

677
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 2: weren't having babies out of way a lot. It's never

678
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 2: been a time where married people weren't cheating. There's never

679
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 2: been a time where there was this wholesome fucking experience.

680
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: People have always been full of shit when it comes

681
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 2: to church. So I don't understand how to fuck. I'm

682
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: gonna go in here and listen. You tell me. I

683
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 2: ain't shit all week and come back and give you

684
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 2: some more money next week to do the same thing.

685
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 2: I mean, come on now, I can watch the Steve

686
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 2: Harvey free show it home, you know, Like I don't

687
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 2: need this shit. Like so, I don't know. I mean,

688
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: I think people like getting dressed up. I think it's

689
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 2: a traditional thing. I think in the Black church had

690
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 2: a very political element to it that the White church

691
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 2: didn't really have because of activism and stuff. Not that

692
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 2: the White church isn't politically relevant, it obviously is, but

693
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 2: correct Like, just in general, there's a there's there's like

694
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 2: a tradition to why people go to church. But I'm like,

695
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 2: when I see these videos, I don't really get upset

696
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 2: with I I've had to put this behind me a

697
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 2: long time ago, being upset with people for contributing to

698
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 2: something that I think is fucking up our children, fucking

699
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 2: up the next generation, fucking up the people who are

700
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 2: currently in there, keeping old people fucking stupid, and and

701
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:25,080
Speaker 2: and and all that shit. I've had to let that

702
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 2: go because I would love my people and I don't

703
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 2: want to spend all day being like we really should

704
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 2: let this go because it's it's harmful to us, but

705
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 2: I'll let it go for myself, and I when I

706
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,799
Speaker 2: see the outrage online, part of me is like, how

707
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 2: much of this is real? If you're gonna go back,

708
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,759
Speaker 2: how much of this is real? If you spending your

709
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 2: sundays up in here? How much of this is real

710
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,399
Speaker 2: if you low key believe this shit about yourself. And

711
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: part of the reason you pressed about getting a man

712
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 2: is to join the club of woo them bitches over

713
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 2: there and got a man cause something wrong with them,

714
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 2: because I thought something was wrong with me all these times.

715
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 2: And I'm just saying, nothing's wrong with you. And you

716
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 2: don't have to believe this shit. All this shit is

717
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 2: made up, and some of these guidelines can help in life,

718
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 2: and some of them are harmful in life. And it's

719
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 2: okay to be like, I'm not gonna use all this shit,

720
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 2: and it's okay not to give this person. You have

721
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 2: no obligation to put a fucking roof over this man's

722
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 2: head to make sure he has nice suits, so you

723
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 2: can come in there and tell you ain't shit. I

724
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 2: just don't understand that fucking logic. And like I said,

725
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 2: I don't like to sound like the angry etheis and

726
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 2: I don't like to, Like, I obviously hashtag not all

727
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 2: Christians and shit, but this is ridiculous, you know what

728
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 2: I mean. If this dude was just Steve Harvey and

729
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 2: not your pastor, how many people would be like, yo,

730
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 2: fuck this nigga, Like if he was just Tyrese, it

731
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 2: would just be like, fuck Tyree's on Instagram. It's one

732
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:46,799
Speaker 2: of the reasons when we bring up what Tyree says

733
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 2: on Instagram. Shit, I'm like, yeah, but if you said

734
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 2: it in a pool pit, how many people be cool with,

735
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,720
Speaker 2: you know, when you look at like a Shirley Caesar

736
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 2: or fucking Chrissette Michelle, Like, how many of these people

737
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: are like hiding behind religion to be ignorant and being like,

738
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 2: but that's just my religion. Like I don't know, man,

739
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 2: I can't anyway. I just don't fuck with the church

740
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 2: like that period. Like some people it's cool, but it's

741
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,280
Speaker 2: just as an institution, a room full of people clapping

742
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 2: like that will always infuriate me because I don't see

743
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: any difference between them clapping for that shit and that

744
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 2: one dude that you know that when white people are

745
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 2: doing it talking about like abortioning black people and shit,

746
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: and people are clapping, and I'm like, what the fuck

747
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 2: just happened? You know what I mean, y'all don't have

748
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 2: to clap for this dude. Y'all couldn't be like, you

749
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 2: know what, I don't actually agree with that. I'm not

750
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 2: gonna feel like a piece of shit because I don't

751
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 2: have a man. I'm not gonna feel like I'm less

752
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 2: than human because I'm a girlfriend at the moment. Or

753
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 2: maybe I just don't fucking want a man, or maybe

754
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 2: I just maybe I'm gay, maybe I don't want to

755
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 2: get married, Like it could be so many fucking reasons

756
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 2: that a human being in his in his congregation could

757
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 2: be a woman and not married and not feel have

758
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: to feel like she ain't shit and his is if

759
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 2: you want and a wife, basically you ain't shit. That's,

760
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 2: you know, in a roundabout ways, you ain't got a

761
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 2: man because you don't act like a wife, whatever the

762
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 2: fuck that means. Meanwhile, I don't even I've never been

763
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 2: told to act like a husband by anyone ever in

764
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 2: my life. And no man that sits in there, like

765
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 2: the only time they do that is that they pull

766
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 2: the men aside and they do like a men's counseling

767
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,399
Speaker 2: of men's only. They don't do that shit in front

768
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 2: of everybody. Y'all men out here walking around with your

769
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,439
Speaker 2: short sagging like they don't, they don't do that. It's

770
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,520
Speaker 2: like men, you just lucky men showed up at the

771
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 2: shirt at church. The only people supporting that shit is

772
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 2: black women when it come to black church, that's the

773
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 2: only people keeping the fucking doors open. And what do

774
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:39,959
Speaker 2: they do walk in and get told you ain't shit.

775
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 2: The mistakes you made in your life are fucking mistakes.

776
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 2: Any choice you made it makes you not be a husband,

777
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 2: not have a husband today. It's a fucking mistake and

778
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 2: it's on you. And that's why your ass ain't shit.

779
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 2: See you next Sunday and you better have my fucking

780
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 2: ten percent. Fuck that nigga. And like I said, Sierra

781
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 2: sharing it just is, that's that's that's. I don't wanna

782
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 2: be mad at Sierra. I'm just gonna say I internalize

783
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 2: misogny as a motherfucker. She did issue a statement afterwards.

784
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 2: I always want that girl wanted to be loved a

785
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 2: certain way, but it was making the wrong choices. I

786
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 2: found myself at my lowest moment, I was a single

787
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 2: mom sitting at home, and I didn't realize that the

788
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 2: perfect love I was looking for was how God loves me,

789
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 2: how he wants me to be loved, and who he

790
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 2: was calling me to be as a mom and a woman.

791
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,720
Speaker 2: That's when I realized, married or not married, I needed

792
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 2: to love myself. Hashtag level up. That's not what that

793
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 2: nigga said. That's the opposite of what he said, Like,

794
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 2: I know you're trying and clean it up, but that's

795
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 2: the opposite of what he said, like you it's slick

796
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 2: what you're trying to pull. That's save face, I understand,

797
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 2: and nobody wants to ever say I was wrong for

798
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 2: that shit on the internet. But that's not what that

799
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 2: nigga said. Man, come on, He didn't say, look, you

800
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 2: just need to love yourself the way God loves you.

801
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 2: He clearly was like, you're not walking in the spirit

802
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:06,000
Speaker 2: of my wife. That's why I ain't got no fucking man girlfriends.

803
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:07,760
Speaker 2: That's all he said.

804
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 5: Man.

805
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 1: Whatever, Yeah, because you know, the definition of a wife

806
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: varies for person, you know, but religion thinks they have

807
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: the kind of you know, the definition of this is

808
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: what a wife should be. When honestly, nobody knows what

809
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: the fuck a wife is it should be, and honestly,

810
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: nobody knows what a husband is or should be because

811
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: husband and wife varies per relationship.

812
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 3: And it ain't the same in every relationship.

813
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: So many people was rooting for her, but this is

814
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 2: one of the reasons I don't really put people on

815
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 2: a pedestal like this man. It's very you know, I don't.

816
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't have very much attachment to celebrity

817
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: because it's they human beings, and just like all my

818
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 2: friends and other people, they human beings. And I don't

819
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 2: know these niggas. And when you make someone an avatar

820
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 2: for your hopes and dreams, a lot of times you

821
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 2: find out that they got some shit about them that's

822
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 2: kind of fucked up. And I hope they that I

823
00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 2: hope she. I don't know. I don't know because she

824
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 2: I mean, she could turned around and just put this

825
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 2: in her daughter the same mentality, So who knows. In

826
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: a related article, is monogamy bad for your mental health,

827
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:14,719
Speaker 2: psychologists warned you should rethink fidelity for the sake of

828
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 2: your relationship. Monogamy is difficult to maintain. Sure, it's easy

829
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 2: enough at times when your love when your life is

830
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 2: devoided temptation. But unless you and your partner live in

831
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 2: isolation in the college in the wood, there's no guarantees

832
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 2: that an attractive other will not emerge to lure you

833
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,399
Speaker 2: away and challenge the sanctity of your relationship.

834
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 3: Oh, miss, go ahead, that's stupid.

835
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:41,280
Speaker 1: Like, yes, there are other people around and dance sexy

836
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:42,320
Speaker 1: and they look good.

837
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,800
Speaker 3: And the thing is it's all properson.

838
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 1: You know, the way he reading is you have to

839
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: that thing is open marriage, Like I don't understand.

840
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 2: Oh no, you think not me and I doing my partner.

841
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 2: Things are still so fresh and I have so much

842
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 2: to lose if hour to stray. Yes, of course, but

843
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 2: research makes it clear that best intentions are often worthless

844
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 2: in the face of compelling and possibly unexpected attraction to

845
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 2: another person somewhat intent on connecting with us. Those who

846
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 2: report having had an extra marital relationship said it was

847
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 2: with a close friend, a coworker, or a longtime acquaintance.

848
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 2: These tend not to be random strangers. What's more, an

849
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 2: act of infidelity is often understood as a deal breaker

850
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 2: in relationships. A few people are aboard more than those

851
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,280
Speaker 2: known to have cheated. Movie songs in literature are replete

852
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,399
Speaker 2: with stories depicting their apollen retribution believed oh to those

853
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,280
Speaker 2: who stray. Despite all this, studies show that most people

854
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 2: have in fact engaged in some type of infidelity in

855
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 2: the past and have or have experienced a partner's infidelity.

856
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 2: The question arises, then, is it tied to ditch or

857
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 2: rethink monogamy as a standard. One of things I do

858
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:52,359
Speaker 2: find interested, We do tarrd for other people. We find

859
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,839
Speaker 2: out they cheated on somebody, like the way people feel

860
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 2: about jay Z and shit, And I'm always like, that's

861
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 2: a little weird because that's not my relationship. And if

862
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 2: they chose to work that out and they happy, the

863
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 2: fuck do I care?

864
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: And the thing that really tripped me out everybody act

865
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: like Dan got some great aunt or some cousin or

866
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 1: some relative in your multiple women in your household or

867
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: down the line that you've talked to that have dealt

868
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: with infidelity at some point in their lives, So make

869
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 1: it some don't people like this every time it happens.

870
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 3: People like like the shits brand new, No know, A

871
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 3: lot of people deal with this well.

872
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 2: One of the things, also, uh, you keep saying some

873
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 2: aren't some relatives them? Sometimes yeah, them. A lot of

874
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 2: times it's you. You dealt with somebody that cheated on

875
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: you and it wasn't the deal breaker right away that

876
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 2: you thought it was gonna be correct, and maybe it

877
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 2: did turn out to be. Maybe it's repetitive all this shit.

878
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,319
Speaker 2: But we see shit every day where it's like, oh,

879
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 2: they still in there, Okay, I guess they work that out.

880
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:46,839
Speaker 3: Yeah.

881
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: And the thing is, I don't judge people either way

882
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 1: because I see marriage come back from all types of shit,

883
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 1: because everybody's big and bad and bold till it's them

884
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 1: that got to give up something right.

885
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 2: Research shows that most people both expect romantic and sexual

886
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: exclusivity to be in place very early in the relationship,

887
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: and that they denounce infidelity. Interviews a newly weds in

888
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 2: the United States indicate that many people expect they and

889
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 2: their partner to remain monogamous, despite admitting to having experienced

890
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 2: a range of extramental thoughts and behaviors already, such as

891
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 2: fludding with another or feeling arousing the presence of another.

892
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:20,720
Speaker 2: All industrialized colonies, even thoo purporting to have more tolerant

893
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 2: beliefs around the importance of Exclusivity report that monogamy is

894
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 2: a dominant pattern in their societies. That's the thing that's

895
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 2: weird to me is how many it's weird, how religion

896
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: and stuff precious people to only see one version of

897
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 2: a relationship is good, right, and every other version is bad?

898
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 3: Correct?

899
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 2: You know, It's like how the government will be like

900
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 2: kids need to just have more two pair of families.

901
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 2: It was like, okay, you know, I'm not gonna knock

902
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 2: that to I can see how two adults in a

903
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 2: kid's life would be easier than one if both adults

904
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,560
Speaker 2: are well meaning, well intentioned and actually showing up and

905
00:43:55,600 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 2: doing shit. But why do we got to stop it two? Right?

906
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: Why can't it be three and four? Why can't I

907
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: have two mamas and two daddies?

908
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 2: Then that's crazy, right, that's poligamy, and yo, ask me chill, Like,

909
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: it's just funny, man.

910
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:12,280
Speaker 3: It's just hard for two parents.

911
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,280
Speaker 1: You know how many parents were like, hey, I would

912
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: like another set of hands.

913
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just you know, it's just interesting though, how

914
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 2: societally we're like and that's too much, you know, but

915
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 2: we all think that because probably you know, the church

916
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 2: decided at some point and the government got together and

917
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 2: it was like it's too massive. We gotta get two.

918
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:34,320
Speaker 1: People, right or that like if I have two non

919
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:40,280
Speaker 1: binary a sexual parents, like something's wrong with that too, right.

920
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 3: You know, like it has to be male and female.

921
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 2: Right. And of course you know when we talk about cheating,

922
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 2: was mostly just considered to be a man thing. Not

923
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,799
Speaker 2: that women are cheat, but it's mostly considered to be

924
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 2: women do anyway.

925
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 3: That's why it's harsher for them than it is for man.

926
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:05,239
Speaker 2: Mm hm, Okay, this article just got weird. Fantasizing about

927
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 2: a celebrity lever who cares about that?

928
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:08,319
Speaker 5: Right?

929
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 3: Get you?

930
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 2: It is this article really trying to say jealousy and

931
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 2: suspicion are tools. What does this mean? Seriously? Studies by

932
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 2: psychologists actually Thompson makes clear that we are notably inconsistent

933
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 2: in the monogamy standards that we hold for ourselves versus

934
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 2: what we hope for our partners. For example, we are

935
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:25,959
Speaker 2: far more lenient and tolerant and explaining our own versus

936
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:29,480
Speaker 2: our partner's behavior. Those who endorse alternative approaches, such as

937
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:33,799
Speaker 2: consensual monogamy, which allows for romantic or sexual relationships beyond

938
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 2: the primary relationship with the partner's consent. Argue that monogamous

939
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 2: relationships are far less stable because people all use jealousy, monitoring,

940
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 2: and suspicion as tools to hold their partner to this

941
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 2: difficult standard. Individuals in supposedly supposedly monogamous relationships are also

942
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 2: less likely to practice safe sex when they cheat, putting

943
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 2: their primary partner's health at risk than are those in

944
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 2: consentually non monogoal relationships. Yeah, that would make sense, because

945
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: if you're cheating, you're probably gonna and fuck it. I'll

946
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 2: just not use a kind of them too, Like I'm

947
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 2: already throwing shit to the wind, And questions arise about

948
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 2: whether you are really practicing monogamy if you're exclusive but

949
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,399
Speaker 2: in a relationship at the relationship at the relationship that is,

950
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 2: for those who change primary partners are just after just

951
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 2: a few years.

952
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 3: You know.

953
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 2: The thing that I find interesting too is obviously not

954
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 2: having a non monogamous relationship doesn't necessarily fix anything, But

955
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,759
Speaker 2: it's weird how we define the value of relationship by

956
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 2: if people are fucking somebody else or not. You know, like,

957
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 2: you could be sexually monogamous and still be a horrible

958
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,399
Speaker 2: person to be in a marriage with but it feels

959
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,919
Speaker 2: like when people talk about marriage it always comes down

960
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 2: to infidelity, and by infidelity, just are you fucking somebody

961
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 2: else or not? Anyway, I just thought that was interesting

962
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 2: at the just to put out that after that Sierra thing, man,

963
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 2: you can get married and still have a motherfucking make

964
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 2: make you crazy, like drive you just just up a

965
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 2: wall dealing with they shit yep, like it's not a save,

966
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 2: I'll catch all.

967
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 3: No, it's not.

968
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: And sometimes for some people getting married it is the

969
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: worst decision you ever made, and nobody wants to talk

970
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 1: about that part of it either.

971
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 2: Right, But you know, listening to past a pink shirt

972
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 2: or whatever the fuck you was, y'all, y'all ain't shit.

973
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 3: Are we gonna talk about the tasting thing or no?

974
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I haven't talked about yet.

975
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 2: So we did go to the yelp. Uh, you guys

976
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 2: have been following the show out on yelp. One of

977
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 2: my reviews for Omily's had a a good response. They

978
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 2: they liked it, and they replied back and they invited

979
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 2: us out. Well, they invited me out to do a

980
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 2: talking taste. That's where they were gonna have some new

981
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 2: menu items. They were experimenting with and they wanted people

982
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 2: to taste them and to talk about them and give

983
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 2: them feedback and let them know how we felt about

984
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:02,399
Speaker 2: what they what they did. And so of course I

985
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:06,320
Speaker 2: was invited and I thanked them and I said, closed mouths,

986
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 2: don't get fed. Got my Monique on and was like, hey,

987
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,840
Speaker 2: well while we're at it, my wife can she come along?

988
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 2: And they was like, well, we're not really inviting. You know,

989
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 2: it's very exclusive, only ten people and Charlotte of being invited,

990
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 2: and we'll let you know if someone does an rs VP,

991
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:29,959
Speaker 2: but disinvite is really only for you, and so I said, cool,

992
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 2: let me know. Well somebody didn't RSVP, so Karen got

993
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 2: to come. They lost their spot, so she took a

994
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 2: half day and we went out to to Omilies downtown

995
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:46,399
Speaker 2: and we got to try I want to say, it's

996
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:51,839
Speaker 2: about ten fifteen different twelve dishing dishes and they had

997
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 2: pieces of paper and we had to write our feelings

998
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 2: about each one and put a score next to it

999
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 2: from one to ten on how what we felt about

1000
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 2: it and how it tasted. And it was kind of cool.

1001
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 2: We sat at the table with three white women and

1002
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:13,839
Speaker 2: us yes and they we were the only black people

1003
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 2: in the room. We were the only black people in

1004
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 2: the room, and so we got to eat all these

1005
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:25,399
Speaker 2: They would bring us out to these really small like servings,

1006
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 2: like like say, if it was a sandwich, they cut

1007
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 2: it into say, like fifths, and give everybody like a

1008
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 2: fifth a sliver of a sandwich, and you eat it

1009
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 2: and you taste and decide how it tasted and how

1010
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 2: you're going to describe it and how it feels and stuff.

1011
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 2: And it was kind of quiet in there. They gave

1012
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 2: us some fizzy water to drink, yes, to drink it

1013
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 2: all down with, and they described and served everything to us,

1014
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 2: and then we were write down stuffing for the menu.

1015
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 2: Now I took pictures of my notes. I don't think

1016
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 2: Karen did. No, Okay, so I took pictures of my notes.

1017
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 2: So I actually still.

1018
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,760
Speaker 3: Have you got all the food?

1019
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 2: Yeah? I have, I have all the food. I have

1020
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 2: the description. Okay, let me just make sure that I

1021
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:15,320
Speaker 2: had to write the right page up before I before

1022
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 2: I say that. But yeah, okay, so I got them.

1023
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 2: I cut off a little bit of my description at

1024
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 2: the bottom, but all right, here we go talk and

1025
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 2: taste of it.

1026
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:27,800
Speaker 4: Uh.

1027
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,439
Speaker 2: And so they tried to serve the order through.

1028
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 5: Uh.

1029
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 2: They tried to service the stuff in order, but it

1030
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: came a little out of order. But I'm going to

1031
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,600
Speaker 2: go in the order they have on the list number

1032
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:42,360
Speaker 2: one oats one through ten. They were still colored oats,

1033
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:46,760
Speaker 2: sweeting with brown sugar, cranberry, come poked, candied roasted almonds

1034
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 2: as well. Now I don't you still cut oats with Karen?

1035
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 3: Does I do? And they wore delicious and them.

1036
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 1: Almonds were like toasted and they had like a little

1037
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 1: bit of sugar in it. Oh with that rast, like,

1038
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 1: I said, this me, that was delicious.

1039
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 2: Well, I sweeten it up as much as I could,

1040
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 2: but I'm not a still cold oats man, and I

1041
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 2: did not feel it tasted like oatmeal to meat fucks,

1042
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 2: And I like, I'm a grits man. So I gave it.

1043
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 2: What did you give it?

1044
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: I gave it like eight or nine for eightt I

1045
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: gave it a five.

1046
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,800
Speaker 2: Okay, this is what I wrote, nice, warm and feeling,

1047
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,239
Speaker 2: feels like it could have used a little sugar. But

1048
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 2: I never ate to still cut oats before, So what

1049
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 2: do I know? I'm a grits man. Added more to

1050
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 2: that compo. I take it back. It's great. I still

1051
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:36,959
Speaker 2: gave it a five.

1052
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, we didn't people talking an NDA. No, we didn't

1053
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 3: have to sign an NDA.

1054
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 2: Now, we had to sign nothing. You think I'll be

1055
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 2: telling you all I signed something legal.

1056
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 3: They want you to talk about it.

1057
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: It was people there that were like, had big companies

1058
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 1: and shit like that.

1059
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get south for y'all. I mean, I

1060
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 2: love y'all, but come on, guys. Number two a vegan tartine. Okay,

1061
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 2: this is garlic, white beans spread, red onion, tomato, cucumber,

1062
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 2: and the cucumber was like a slice of fresh cucumber

1063
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 2: on the top. Yes, and it would have been an

1064
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 2: open faced sandwich if you ordered the whole thing, but

1065
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 2: since we just got a slice, so we just got

1066
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 2: a little cuttered the sandwich. It's like one cucumber, one

1067
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 2: piece of tomato, whatever, right, red onion. I gave this

1068
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 2: an eight.

1069
00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 1: If you know what because the way the way he

1070
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 1: described it, it doesn't sound it sounds like I don't know,

1071
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:30,720
Speaker 1: but the flavor in that spread was delicious.

1072
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 2: Uh, this is what I wrote. This was good and spicy.

1073
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 2: The cucumber on the top really compliments the spread. I

1074
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 2: don't know how I keep a whole sandwich from falling apart, though,

1075
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:42,879
Speaker 2: So that's why I got an eight instead of nine

1076
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:48,879
Speaker 2: or ten. Number three fruit nut chicken salad sandwich. And

1077
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 2: the chicken salad had apple, pecan, celery, red onion, honey, dijon, mustard,

1078
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 2: and mayonnaise in it.

1079
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 3: Y'all.

1080
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: When I read that description, I was like, this is

1081
00:52:58,800 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: the whitest thing ever.

1082
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,520
Speaker 3: And I was like, this shit gonna be terrible. But

1083
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 3: y'all know what that ship was, most fucking friends, all

1084
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:06,800
Speaker 3: that was so good.

1085
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a sandwich. I forget what kind of

1086
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 2: bread it was on. I gave this a nine.

1087
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 3: I gave it a ten.

1088
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 1: It was delicious, and I think they had like on

1089
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: a croissant bread that like crumbled, and the.

1090
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 3: Tunic was like those chicken chicken sound.

1091
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: The chicken salad it was light, it was fluffy. It

1092
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: had the right you know, the mayo and honey mustard.

1093
00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:32,720
Speaker 3: They blended together.

1094
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:34,799
Speaker 1: And it had like I said, you couldn't even tell,

1095
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: it had like apples and stuff in it.

1096
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 3: It was sweet, and I have a sweet tooth. I

1097
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:43,240
Speaker 3: was shot. Even the white lady crossed from us was shot.

1098
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 2: I wrote the bread really ties its whole sandwich together.

1099
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 2: I wasn't sure it would be good from the description wrong,

1100
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 2: and it was great and it had a great after

1101
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 2: taste too, it did.

1102
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 5: It did.

1103
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 2: Then number four, they just gave us a little piece

1104
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 2: of multi grain bread and some butter and you just

1105
00:53:59,200 --> 00:53:59,919
Speaker 2: put it on there.

1106
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 1: M h.

1107
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 2: And so that one was probably the simplest quote unquote dish.

1108
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 2: I guess they just are trying out the bread to

1109
00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 2: see if they should put it on sandwiches and shit. Anyway,

1110
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 2: I gave that an eight. That bread was good as fuck,

1111
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 2: you know.

1112
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 3: What, because I was like, what is this? Because it

1113
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 3: was like a multi grain bread, but it was, like

1114
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 3: I said, I have a sweet tooth.

1115
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 1: So when you when you didn't even need the butter,

1116
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 1: you bite into it and you you just automatically taste

1117
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:23,280
Speaker 1: the sweet. I don't know if they just had baked

1118
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,399
Speaker 1: the loaf and they was cutting these little pieces off

1119
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 1: the loaf, but that bread was delicious.

1120
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 3: I think I gave it like a seven, eight or nine.

1121
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 2: So I wrote, this is some good ass bread, come on.

1122
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 2: The sweetness sets it apart from others. The butter wasn't

1123
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 2: even needed, but I used it too, because why not

1124
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 2: number five tuna. I don't know how even no sea

1125
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 2: salad sandwich. I don't know, N I c O, I

1126
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 2: s E. Anyway, Uh, they had alber Cortuna, red onion,

1127
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 2: red bell pepper, capers, Kalamado ol dollars, and fresh basible.

1128
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 2: I gave that's only a six. What do you think

1129
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:02,320
Speaker 2: about this one?

1130
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:06,359
Speaker 3: I gave it about us. It was eight. It wasn't

1131
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 3: as good as the chicken. Now, the chicken was flames.

1132
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: But I really did like it because a lot of

1133
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 1: places when you have like the tuna salad and their

1134
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 1: chicken salad is to hear the miss with a lot

1135
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 1: of places when it comes to that, because a lot

1136
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: of white people make that shit and it's very very bland.

1137
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't I'm not wasting my money

1138
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 1: for this, and I don't know if I'm getting no season.

1139
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 2: I wrote, I gave it a six. The olives and

1140
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 2: capers really gave the tunea raw fishy taste. It's good

1141
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 2: for someone who wants a fresh fish taste. But I

1142
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:42,840
Speaker 2: wasn't feeling a dog. Let me go to my next one. Okay,

1143
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 2: so then this is a little blurry. Anyway, I'll try

1144
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 2: to read it. Number six was a ham turkey and

1145
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 2: honey de Jon sandwich. They had ham turkey, caramelized onions

1146
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 2: and honey de jon spread on it. I gave this

1147
00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 2: bitch a ten. This shit was so good, y'all. Yes,

1148
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 2: that was really really and surprise guest appearance made by

1149
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 2: a fucking Granny Smith apple slice.

1150
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,520
Speaker 1: Yes, it came out of because they said they forgot

1151
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: to put it on there, and y'all, the Granny Smith

1152
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:15,879
Speaker 1: Apple put the sweetness on it.

1153
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 3: Like I said, these combos don't sound good, but once you.

1154
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 1: Started biting in, the smacking your lips, it was flame

1155
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 1: emotions and it was so good.

1156
00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 2: The green apple set that shied off like Queen Latif

1157
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 2: for Jada Pinkin and them. So my my my description,

1158
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 2: my comment. The apple is a surprise guest cameo in

1159
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 2: this dish was a bold choice and it really made

1160
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,400
Speaker 2: the sandwich great. Green apples on my face, so I

1161
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,839
Speaker 2: may be biased. It could have used it. I could

1162
00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 2: have used a different bread though. Yeah, I still gave

1163
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 2: it ten.

1164
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 3: Was good.

1165
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 2: Number seven was Persuto Breeze sandwich and it had Pershuto

1166
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 2: blueberry but some breed and spinach. I gave a shit

1167
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 2: A three.

1168
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 3: It was, you know what, everything on the sandwich, but

1169
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 3: to see the thing that caught me off. God with

1170
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 3: this one.

1171
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 1: I expected the blueberry to be sweet and the blueberry

1172
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: was tart, and the tarkness turned me off.

1173
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 3: If that blueberry would have been sweet, it would have

1174
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 3: set it off.

1175
00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was out on all of it. Not a

1176
00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,600
Speaker 2: big fan of this one blueberry, Butsamic didn't jibe with

1177
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 2: the rest of the sandwich. To me, it was just

1178
00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 2: doing his own thing, like Bobby Brown in New addition,

1179
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 2: it's a note for me dog and yes it's asa eight.

1180
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 2: Ham bacon and manchigo sandwich is ham, turkey, bacon, manchigo, greens, tomato, mayonnaise,

1181
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 2: and djon. I gave this an eight. This was delicious.

1182
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 2: It's basically a club It's basically a club sandwich. This

1183
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 2: feels like a twist on the club sandwich. Really solid dish.

1184
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:57,439
Speaker 2: It was trusty and reliable like Tim duncan ha Ha.

1185
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 2: Number nine. Portobello mushroom, red pepper and pasto. So it's Portobello, mushroom,

1186
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 2: red pepper, pasto, sun dried tomatoes, garlic and a white

1187
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 2: ring spread sandwich. So I've never had a Portobello mushroom

1188
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 2: sandwich before. I don't think, or at least have been

1189
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 2: a long time. This motherfucker was tin.

1190
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 3: It was so.

1191
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 1: Good, like like I can't explain it, but when you

1192
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 1: bent into that bitch, you was like, oh my god,

1193
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: because it kind of threw you for It's like you

1194
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 1: don't know what to expect, you know, because I like

1195
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:33,080
Speaker 1: meat so and I know Portabella mushroom.

1196
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:33,959
Speaker 3: Could be substituted as a meat.

1197
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,440
Speaker 1: But when you ate it, you just wanted to be

1198
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: outside sitting on your posts drinking some lemonade. And it

1199
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, bring me another piece of that Portabella

1200
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: mushroom sandwich.

1201
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 2: Also, it was vegan mm hmmmm hmm. So then I

1202
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 2: put I really liked this for a meatless sandwich. It

1203
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 2: was very feeling. It was also really tasty. The white

1204
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 2: bean spread was amazing. No jokes, I didn't have no jokes.

1205
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 2: That was just good tin chicken sun dried tomato, basil

1206
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 2: and goat cheese. It had chicken, sun dried tomato, AOI pasto,

1207
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 2: and goat cheese.

1208
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 3: This the best salach they had, yes, because they bought

1209
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 3: it out.

1210
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 2: Of order, so we gave it to us first. And

1211
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 2: it was warm.

1212
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 1: Oh when I tell you, I think I gave that

1213
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:17,440
Speaker 1: a tin like that guy.

1214
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 3: If I could have gave it two tins, I would have.

1215
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: That was delicious because they cut it up so you

1216
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 1: got like a big piece of chicken and it was

1217
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: layered just right. The right table was warm and then

1218
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: when you when you're bit into it and melded in

1219
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,959
Speaker 1: your mouth and I wanted to actually order.

1220
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 3: Uh, I was like, can I tell? I was like,

1221
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 3: can I take this with me? I didn't know it

1222
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 3: was delicious.

1223
00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:44,400
Speaker 2: So I put Okay, now this is what I'm talking about.

1224
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 2: The Aoli set it off. The warm bread was soft

1225
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 2: in the middle compliment, and the chicken amazing. I almost

1226
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 2: ate the toothpick, right, I almost did. Then we had desserts. Okay,

1227
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 2: we had two different ones. One of them was salted

1228
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 2: camera with salt, tick caramel macaroon ice cream sandwich.

1229
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 3: I've never had a macro room before.

1230
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,320
Speaker 2: Nigga, nigga. This was a ten.

1231
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 1: And then then they didn't do the menu because we've

1232
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: been in there before. I seen the mini ones. They

1233
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 1: gave you like a.

1234
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,919
Speaker 3: Big full lass one, like a real big one.

1235
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,880
Speaker 2: It was so fucking big y'all. I couldn't finish it.

1236
01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:21,800
Speaker 2: We had already ate so much food. But honestly, they

1237
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 2: brought the whole dessert and I was like, I have

1238
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 2: how is this not the last thing? I can't like,

1239
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 2: I can take a nibble of this, but that's it.

1240
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 3: And it was so good.

1241
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: I don't know what I was expecting because, like I said,

1242
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: I've never had a macroom before. So when I bit

1243
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 1: into it, this was this was like the first one, right,

1244
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 1: the purple one.

1245
01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 2: No, it was the It was caramel French custard ice

1246
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 2: cream with salted caramel brownie pieces inside of it. A ten.

1247
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a teen. I did not know what

1248
01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: to expect. When you bit into it.

1249
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 3: It fell apart, and I don't know what.

1250
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 1: I don't know what I was thinking because I didn't

1251
01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 1: know what the texture the macro room was gonna be expected.

1252
01:00:58,760 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 3: To be harder, but it like crunched, and so you

1253
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 3: had the.

1254
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 1: Ice cream with the macaroon all scrolling together, and then

1255
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:11,240
Speaker 1: it was soft and it was gooey because the macaroon

1256
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 1: had like the stuff built into it, like into it,

1257
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:17,160
Speaker 1: so you bit all was so good.

1258
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 2: You had caramel brownie pieces.

1259
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 3: In it like it like in the top and in

1260
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 3: the bottom with the ice cream. Oh that was so good.

1261
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:27,200
Speaker 2: I said, this is so great and it's huge. How

1262
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 2: much are y'all charging bitcoins?

1263
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 3: Right? Uh?

1264
01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 2: And then then oh, I guess they didn't have the

1265
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 2: other one as an item by itself. But we also

1266
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 2: tried this macaron, the macaron or whatever macaron. It's all French.

1267
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 2: It was purple yes, and that shit had sherbert I

1268
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 2: think as the ice cream.

1269
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 3: It did not that not that was my favorite one.

1270
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, the brownie one was mine. But yeah, that

1271
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 2: one was good too.

1272
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: That one was because I thought it was gonna be

1273
01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:00,680
Speaker 1: ice cream when I bit into it. I tasted sherbert

1274
01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: and the macaroon. I don't know what was in that

1275
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,000
Speaker 1: purple lass macaroon, but it was good. Then they had

1276
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,680
Speaker 1: like good sprinkles on top of it and it was

1277
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:09,520
Speaker 1: shining and shit.

1278
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 3: All that was so good.

1279
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 2: Then they asked us some questions at the end that

1280
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 2: it was just random questions.

1281
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: Hell, it was lavender, that's what it was. Somebody said, lavender,

1282
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 1: that's what it was. It was a lavender macaroon.

1283
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 2: One. When you come to our establishment, what is MS farm?

1284
01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 4: Me?

1285
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 2: And you grits at least I don't call seeing them.

1286
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 2: That's what I said.

1287
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:30,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, they didn't have grit.

1288
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 2: Number two. When you bring a new guest to our establishment,

1289
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 2: what is your feedback? Their feedback on our menu? Everyone

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Speaker 2: loves the food, the patience, especially what our friends should

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01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 2: we carry to help you better celebrate special occasion? I said,

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01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 2: birthday cakes? I didn't know. Four Do the traditional names

1293
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 2: of our men you French names of our menu deter

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01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 2: you from ordering them?

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01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 3: No, as long as you had an English on the side,

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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01:02:53,640 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 2: I put yes. I am so uncultured, I need a translator.

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Speaker 1: Don't as long as you put English on the side,

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01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 1: don't gonna have it in French because we're gonna be

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Speaker 1: in trouble.

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Speaker 2: Five Do you think we should carry larger dinner portions?

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01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 2: I said no. I like the atmosphere, larger meals with

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01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 2: the track.

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01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 3: From that, Yeah, I like it. Did I tell them yes?

1305
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 3: I think I told it, Yes, I said yes.

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01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:15,240
Speaker 2: Number six, what menu items would would make you a

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01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 2: more frequent guess that we had them? I just put ten,

1308
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 2: six and eleven h seven does your does our price

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01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 2: and match quality of our menu items? I put yes.

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01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 2: Number eight how does seasonal mean you changes affect your patronage?

1311
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 2: Not at all? For me, I put not much. But

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01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:32,560
Speaker 2: I noticed a lack of pumpkinsvice, it's a staple of

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01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 2: the fall. Please address this. I did go there and

1314
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 2: it ain't had no punkinspicce, and I was quite upset.

1315
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 2: I almost suck to a manager. Do we have too

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01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 2: many menu items? Are not enough? I put not enough?

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01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 3: Correct?

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01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 2: You said ten? What is your preferred delivery service? I said,

1319
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 2: yop eleven. What was your feedback regarding to beer and wine?

1320
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 2: I said, never had any? Didn't know it was on

1321
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 2: the MENIU? Did you know it was an option? But

1322
01:03:58,480 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 2: you know now that.

1323
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 3: Thanks for putting me, you know on the game, you're

1324
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 3: gonna have to go and order some beer, wine and chill.

1325
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 2: Number twelve, What is the feedback on our healthier options?

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01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 2: Multi grain bread? I said, the bread and mushroom sandwich.

1327
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:13,920
Speaker 2: Great oats man uh? And then they asked what items

1328
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 2: shoot they add to the meal? I said sixteen to eleven?

1329
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 3: Oh, they asked about what what kind of protein would

1330
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 3: you have?

1331
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 2: That's what I got it in front of me. You

1332
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 2: think I'm doing this off memory? No, Gods, no matter

1333
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 2: how long we do the shell does it? Number fourteen,

1334
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 2: what would be a breakfast sandwich protein option you add

1335
01:04:32,560 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 2: besides pork product? And I said corn, beef, hash, salmon,

1336
01:04:37,240 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 2: maybe turkey in a pinch, Yeah, because you know you

1337
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 2: could do like turkey sauasge, turkey baking and stuff fish. Yeah,

1338
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 2: I said salmon. I mean, I don't know what kind

1339
01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 2: of they're not like. I just can't imagine them like

1340
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 2: front some fishing that with some coquette.

1341
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:52,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1342
01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 2: I don't know how. I don't know how that works.

1343
01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 3: I don't know how that works.

1344
01:04:56,440 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 2: Number fifteen, would you freaking often? Would you freg it

1345
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,840
Speaker 2: more often if we offer bread breadless breakfast sandwiches and omelets?

1346
01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:07,920
Speaker 2: And I said absolutely not. So yeah, that was that

1347
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 2: was it, man. It was It was fun.

1348
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: Man.

1349
01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 2: It was lit as the kids say.

1350
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had a really really good time.

1351
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,920
Speaker 1: I didn't get to interview anybody, So Roger may have

1352
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,040
Speaker 1: to get me an appointment with somebody and I'll go

1353
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 1: up to interview them.

1354
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 2: But we had a great time.

1355
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 4: Man.

1356
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 2: All right, let's see what else we can get into.

1357
01:05:26,160 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 4: Let's do this.

1358
01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:20,760
Speaker 2: There is something I wanna ask you, There's something that

1359
01:06:21,160 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 2: I want to know.

1360
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 3: Answer this questions.

1361
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 2: You have the answer, So tell me what I want

1362
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:43,919
Speaker 2: to know. Do you wanna funk? Do you wanna funk?

1363
01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:47,720
Speaker 2: Won't you tell me now? Won't you tell me now?

1364
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:51,320
Speaker 2: If you wanna funk, let me show your house.

1365
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 3: Do you wanna farm with me? Do you wanna fuck

1366
01:06:57,080 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 3: with me?

1367
01:07:00,960 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 2: All right? LGBTQ News Time m off Set, the rapper

1368
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:11,880
Speaker 2: from Migos, apologized for his lyric that said I cannot

1369
01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 2: vibe with queers. Offset has taken to Instagram to apologize

1370
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 2: following the outcry over a lyric during the Migos rappers

1371
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 2: guest verse on y f n Luci single Boss Life.

1372
01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 2: The rapper was accused online of homophobia for the lyric

1373
01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:29,720
Speaker 2: I cannot vibe with queers. However, in his apology, Migos

1374
01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 2: member claim he did not write the line about gay people.

1375
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 3: Okay, but you read it and you said it.

1376
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 2: He continued, Well, I can read the thing. He says,

1377
01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 2: I didn't write the line about gay people, and he

1378
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 2: put up a screenshot of the definition of the word queer. Adjued,

1379
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 2: this strange odd she had a queer feeling that they

1380
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:57,800
Speaker 2: were being watched. Verbspoil or ruined, an agreement, event or

1381
01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:01,520
Speaker 2: situation reg didn't want someone and querying the deal. At

1382
01:08:01,560 --> 01:08:07,800
Speaker 2: the last minute. I noticed the noun, the noun version

1383
01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:11,440
Speaker 2: of queer, which is the one that he used, was

1384
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 2: not in the definition. I wonder.

1385
01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:17,520
Speaker 4: Why.

1386
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 2: Don't know. For the life of me, I don't know why.

1387
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:23,639
Speaker 2: Must be a coincidence, all said, say, I didn't write

1388
01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:25,760
Speaker 2: that line about gay people. I have said before since

1389
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:28,479
Speaker 2: these issues, before that I got loved for all people.

1390
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 2: My passion for fashion has led me to a lot

1391
01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 2: of gay people around me. Oh man, this is unfortunately,

1392
01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 2: he's anyway, who I have mad respect for, and we

1393
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 2: are very cool. So I'm not in a place where

1394
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm hating like that. When I wrote what I was

1395
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 2: thinking of words that could rhyme with the others here lear, solitaire, bear, bear, bear, okay.

1396
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 2: And I saw that this definition about having a queer

1397
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:58,640
Speaker 2: feeling she was being watched, and it fit what I

1398
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 2: was thinking about. Stalker, creepy pop Arrozzi situation to me

1399
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 2: that queer, I don't mean someone who's gay. I mean

1400
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 2: laying people who film you, posted and stalk you. Lingo.

1401
01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:17,480
Speaker 2: That means stranger. I m s. I'm sorry, apologize, I apologize,

1402
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:23,760
Speaker 2: I'm offended. I offended anybody, So I guess, uh, we

1403
01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:29,679
Speaker 2: have to accept that that was what he said, didn't

1404
01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 2: mean it that way, and uh now they have had

1405
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 2: some run ins with some other uh accusations of homophobia.

1406
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:41,240
Speaker 2: The group apologize at the issue in negative quotes. During

1407
01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:45,280
Speaker 2: the discussion of I Love mckennon's sexuality. In an interview

1408
01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 2: with Rolling Stone, it was alleged to Migos did not

1409
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 2: want to be on stage or drag queens and the

1410
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:53,759
Speaker 2: performance of bonn Appetite with Katy Perry stage on Saturday

1411
01:09:53,800 --> 01:09:59,280
Speaker 2: Night Live. UH. The bandits label, and the drag queen

1412
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:05,960
Speaker 2: who did perform with the group all denied that though Okay,

1413
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 2: here's my thing. I absolutely don't believe he didn't mean

1414
01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:13,280
Speaker 2: it as a as a slur for gay people. It's

1415
01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:15,320
Speaker 2: really up to people whether they believe that shit or not.

1416
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 2: I don't because it's the way he used the word.

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01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:19,920
Speaker 2: The next line is like, I don't. It's like I

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01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:21,760
Speaker 2: don't vibe with queer's got the heart of the bear,

1419
01:10:21,800 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 2: which is implying that, you know, the stereotype to me

1420
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:28,920
Speaker 2: that gay people don't have gay men specifically don't have

1421
01:10:28,960 --> 01:10:32,560
Speaker 2: a heart of straight men, and all this shit I

1422
01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:36,519
Speaker 2: think when people like you. What most people's morality only

1423
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:38,559
Speaker 2: extents to whether or not they like somebody, And in

1424
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 2: this case, a lot of people like him. They like

1425
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:43,720
Speaker 2: the migos he's dating Cardi b they like that. So

1426
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,120
Speaker 2: a lot of people that would otherwise be like, you know,

1427
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,800
Speaker 2: fuck this dude, or that's homophobic, or you know, if

1428
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 2: it was somebody they didn't like, they be and they shit.

1429
01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 2: In this case, they like him, so it's, oh, well,

1430
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 2: maybe he didn't mean it that way, but he didn't

1431
01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 2: even use it the way it's in a dictionary, So

1432
01:10:59,840 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 2: you know, that's some artistic ass license that apparently people

1433
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 2: have been using my whole life to mean a negative way,

1434
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:11,720
Speaker 2: but he somehow didn't didn't get the memo that gave

1435
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:19,160
Speaker 2: people anyway. Carti defends her Fyonce's homophobic lyrics, claiming ignorance

1436
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 2: of the word queer. Uh. This is on World of

1437
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 2: Wonder Dot that she went on I guess Instagram or

1438
01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 2: whatever and uh went live and started or maybe a

1439
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 2: snapchat because most of my because.

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01:11:33,760 --> 01:11:36,599
Speaker 5: And I'm saying this because I see him around these

1441
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 5: people gays.

1442
01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:40,840
Speaker 2: And he treats them. Oh that's too quiet. I don't

1443
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 2: think anybody's gonna be here. But she says it was

1444
01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 2: a different nah, because that's the original video. It was

1445
01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:50,759
Speaker 2: a different vocabulary on the dictionary. Now that's a word

1446
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 2: that you guys say, that's bad word for gays. I

1447
01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 2: never even heard that word in the first place. Why

1448
01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:57,240
Speaker 2: don't you all educate people about a lot of people

1449
01:11:57,240 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 2: are not aware about what's wrong or right in the

1450
01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:03,040
Speaker 2: LGB community. Why don't we do things to educate instead

1451
01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 2: of bashing or trying to label something that they're not,

1452
01:12:06,640 --> 01:12:08,000
Speaker 2: label someone something that they not.

1453
01:12:09,560 --> 01:12:10,599
Speaker 3: You gotta say nothing.

1454
01:12:11,960 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. One of the things I think interested in about this,

1455
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:19,920
Speaker 2: what do you do when someone's an habitual linestepper they

1456
01:12:19,960 --> 01:12:23,599
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck what you really think, and they

1457
01:12:23,640 --> 01:12:25,920
Speaker 2: don't seem to be trying to learn. I don't understand

1458
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:28,360
Speaker 2: because people use the word educate like we're all students

1459
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 2: of life and we sit down at these chairs and

1460
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 2: we're all open and willing to listen to critiques and

1461
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 2: other opinions. What do you do when somebody just like

1462
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 2: I don't care because like real talk, most of my life,

1463
01:12:39,560 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 2: the rappers in my life don't care about this shit.

1464
01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:46,080
Speaker 2: And it's kind of been like I understand how people

1465
01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:48,080
Speaker 2: be like I don't fuck with them, but at the

1466
01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 2: same time, it's also a rapper like it comes with

1467
01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:54,800
Speaker 2: the territory, you know what. And I don't mean that

1468
01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 2: to excuse anything. I'm literally saying, there's no rappers that

1469
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:03,000
Speaker 2: politics really job with, that's really banging like that, you know,

1470
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 2: like like it's not like I was sitting around being like, yeah, nwa,

1471
01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:12,360
Speaker 2: fuck the police. Also fuck these bitches, and I'm gonna

1472
01:13:12,400 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 2: fuck this whole and We're gonna be running trains on people.

1473
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:18,559
Speaker 2: Like it's always been some shit. You know. Kendrick dropped

1474
01:13:18,600 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 2: Humble last year and I remember people being like, what

1475
01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 2: the fuck you mean? Show me something natural like Afro

1476
01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 2: and Richard Pride. What I can't have fake asses or something.

1477
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 3: You know.

1478
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 2: It's like everybody gonna have an opinion when you express

1479
01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:33,720
Speaker 2: a preference and shit correct. I feel like this is homophobia.

1480
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people have been doing

1481
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 2: this shit in our community where we tell black people

1482
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:42,639
Speaker 2: who are LGBT to stop being divisive and all this stuff.

1483
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:44,639
Speaker 2: And I've seen SIS had black women doing it. I've

1484
01:13:44,640 --> 01:13:48,400
Speaker 2: seen SIS had black men doing it. You know, it's

1485
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:51,400
Speaker 2: a lot of like you have to tolerate this because

1486
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 2: I like they songs and I'm not gonna accept that

1487
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:58,000
Speaker 2: he meant it this way. I mean, no one can

1488
01:13:58,040 --> 01:14:00,600
Speaker 2: make you. And if you, honestly and your heart of

1489
01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:03,720
Speaker 2: hearts feel like that dude did not mean this in

1490
01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 2: a homophobic way, that's on you. I don't know how

1491
01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:10,439
Speaker 2: you can feel that way. It's very interesting, you know,

1492
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:14,240
Speaker 2: just being this at least second, running at least second

1493
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 2: running with this kind of language and shit, like if

1494
01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 2: you feel that strongly that he ain't do nothing wrong,

1495
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:24,680
Speaker 2: like that's that's up to your conscious to deal with.

1496
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:27,280
Speaker 2: But to me, it's like, yeah, he clearly is homophobic.

1497
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 2: The problem after that is where people get stuck. I

1498
01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 2: don't really do much like, Okay, he's homophobic. R Kelly

1499
01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 2: fuck's Little Girls. People accuse Michael Jackson, the fucking childless station,

1500
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:48,839
Speaker 2: fucking Chris Brown, beat somebody, All these people still around,

1501
01:14:49,400 --> 01:14:52,639
Speaker 2: All these people just somehow didn't get canceled. Whether you

1502
01:14:52,800 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 2: choose to participate in listening music or not, totally up

1503
01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:59,320
Speaker 2: to you. Nothing's gonna happen to the migos. To niggas

1504
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:01,559
Speaker 2: gonna run the course until they whack, and then nobody

1505
01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 2: wants to listen to them. Yep, Cardi clearly got this

1506
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 2: dude's back. He cheating on her and trying to fuck

1507
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:10,240
Speaker 2: her career and her brand, and shit, if she love

1508
01:15:10,320 --> 01:15:12,600
Speaker 2: this dude and she dealing with it, I don't know

1509
01:15:12,600 --> 01:15:15,000
Speaker 2: what to tell y'all, Like that's that's a personal decision

1510
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:17,120
Speaker 2: for her, and everybody gotta make their own personal decision.

1511
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 2: It's easy for me to say I'm not a huge

1512
01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 2: Migos fan one way or the others, So I'm not

1513
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 2: losing anything to boycott them because I'm not boycotting them

1514
01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:27,160
Speaker 2: because I don't listen to them in the first place.

1515
01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:29,640
Speaker 2: Like that, So it's not something like, let me go

1516
01:15:29,760 --> 01:15:32,120
Speaker 2: set this nigga straight. I just wish people would do

1517
01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:35,840
Speaker 2: away with the false notion that all these people just

1518
01:15:35,880 --> 01:15:38,479
Speaker 2: need to be educated. And because cause one of the

1519
01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:41,960
Speaker 2: things I find funny, we really don't mind putting people

1520
01:15:42,000 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 2: in the box of they just don't know better. They're

1521
01:15:45,080 --> 01:15:48,280
Speaker 2: not educated, and we don't respect their intellect when they

1522
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 2: say some ignorant shit, right, It's like they just didn't

1523
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 2: know better.

1524
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: No, I don't believe You's the same way white people

1525
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:57,760
Speaker 1: use nigger. Nigger means ignorant, motherfucker. That's not the way

1526
01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 1: you use the word. People that act like world have

1527
01:16:00,400 --> 01:16:01,520
Speaker 1: multiple meanings.

1528
01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:03,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was the thing I noticed too, is like,

1529
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 2: we just covered a story that made us so mad

1530
01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 2: last week about those little girls being racist towards that

1531
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 2: man's daughters, that black family's daughters and saying nigger, nigga, nigger,

1532
01:16:16,120 --> 01:16:17,880
Speaker 2: and the father was like, call her nigga one more

1533
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 2: time and it's gonna be a problem. And the girl goes,

1534
01:16:21,560 --> 01:16:24,719
Speaker 2: nigger just means ignorant person. Your daughter's being an ignorant person.

1535
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:28,240
Speaker 2: And that's the plausible deniability of English language when it

1536
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:31,760
Speaker 2: comes to using slurs. No slur means what the fuck

1537
01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:34,840
Speaker 2: it means? Y'all. Like, I'm not sure that people completely

1538
01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 2: have grasped us. It's the insidiousness of the whole device

1539
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:42,920
Speaker 2: of how we use language and weaponize against each other. Now,

1540
01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 2: I'm not really a language police, motherfucker. I mean to

1541
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:47,760
Speaker 2: be honest, it's the sentiment behind the language as the problem.

1542
01:16:47,840 --> 01:16:50,360
Speaker 2: It's never really the words, Like I can tell when

1543
01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:52,640
Speaker 2: someone's calling me a like what's up, my nigga, and

1544
01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:54,680
Speaker 2: when someone's calling me an n I, G G E R.

1545
01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 2: It's different to me and I think you all know that,

1546
01:16:58,800 --> 01:17:01,280
Speaker 2: but we you know, especially online, we spend so much

1547
01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:04,679
Speaker 2: time arguing about who said, don't use that word. It's ablest,

1548
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:06,800
Speaker 2: don't use this word as that. That's not the problem.

1549
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:10,839
Speaker 2: It's the intent, you know, Like if you say black people,

1550
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 2: there's some people that say black people, and I go,

1551
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:15,800
Speaker 2: that person's racist, right, And there's other people that say

1552
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:17,639
Speaker 2: black person. I'm like, oh yeah, cool, yeah, black people.

1553
01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:21,960
Speaker 2: I know what you're talking about. Anyway. Point, being nigger

1554
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 2: means two things. Faggot means two things, gay, gay means

1555
01:17:26,560 --> 01:17:31,519
Speaker 2: two things, Queer means two things, dyke means two things.

1556
01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:35,280
Speaker 2: Everything mean two things, So you can't always plead ignorance.

1557
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:37,719
Speaker 2: It's the whole fucking point. I get to just say

1558
01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:40,840
Speaker 2: some fucked up shit to you and then be like, whoa, whoa, whoa.

1559
01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:43,640
Speaker 2: You're being extra emotional right now. How do you know

1560
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 2: I didn't just not understand that calling you a female

1561
01:17:47,160 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 2: was fucked up. I mean, hey, I mean I call

1562
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,800
Speaker 2: it female, dog female, draft I don't understand why, well

1563
01:17:52,880 --> 01:17:55,640
Speaker 2: I can't say female, that's a male. And we do

1564
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:58,320
Speaker 2: the whole little and you end up spinning out arguing

1565
01:17:58,320 --> 01:18:01,200
Speaker 2: with this person over some shit that is derailing the

1566
01:18:01,200 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 2: conversation as opposed to the intent that they had, which

1567
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 2: is disrespectful. And we can't even have that conversation because

1568
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:09,960
Speaker 2: we're talking about what language was used, as opposed to

1569
01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 2: the fact that, Look, dog, if you call somebody a

1570
01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:14,519
Speaker 2: queer and you say I don't vibe with them, I'm

1571
01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 2: gonna assume your homophobic. It's up to you to clarify

1572
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:19,960
Speaker 2: that shit out. And I don't feel like his clarification

1573
01:18:20,800 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 2: actually was true. It felt like a lot of me,

1574
01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:25,680
Speaker 2: you know, And I felt and I know that a

1575
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,559
Speaker 2: lot of black people that excuse this. If it were

1576
01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:32,679
Speaker 2: Sarah Silverman explaining how her nigga joke was not racist

1577
01:18:32,720 --> 01:18:35,600
Speaker 2: because she meant it ironically, y'all would say, fuck you,

1578
01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 2: that's not what it means. And I don't accept your apology.

1579
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 2: But it's different when you're not in that group. It's

1580
01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:44,759
Speaker 2: different when you like them. Most people's morality only extends

1581
01:18:44,760 --> 01:18:47,040
Speaker 2: to as far as whether I like this person or.

1582
01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 3: Not, right, that would determine what line they fall on.

1583
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:51,800
Speaker 2: And Cardi b A is fucking as nigga, So I mean,

1584
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:54,679
Speaker 2: I don't This is one of those chances where case

1585
01:18:54,880 --> 01:18:57,040
Speaker 2: it's probably just better to be like, I'm too biased

1586
01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 2: to talk about this because I'm not gonna say that

1587
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:03,000
Speaker 2: right thing. You know, we always call up an education

1588
01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:05,559
Speaker 2: when it's somebody we like, correct, you know what I mean,

1589
01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:09,439
Speaker 2: And I'm not judging people for that. We all do

1590
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:11,240
Speaker 2: it like I'm not judging people for that when it

1591
01:19:11,280 --> 01:19:13,640
Speaker 2: was lovey y'all. Remember when people, hey, look, man, she

1592
01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:16,120
Speaker 2: just need to be educated. She just I'm like, well,

1593
01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 2: maybe she just meant that. Shit, maybe she just said

1594
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:22,120
Speaker 2: something that people gonna disagree with, you know, and that's okay.

1595
01:19:22,240 --> 01:19:24,719
Speaker 2: She's still gonna be around. There's been buns and nothing

1596
01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:29,679
Speaker 2: happened to it. You know, it's fine, It's okay. Sometimes

1597
01:19:29,720 --> 01:19:31,920
Speaker 2: it's just gonna it's gonna happen. That's kind of life,

1598
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:34,160
Speaker 2: you know. I think maybe on the Internet we forget

1599
01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 2: how much a life that is, how much not to

1600
01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:40,800
Speaker 2: be a not that it's never real, but how much

1601
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:43,800
Speaker 2: of the Internet is hyperbole. That's the best way to

1602
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:46,680
Speaker 2: put it. It's not that it's not real, it's hyperbole. And

1603
01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:49,439
Speaker 2: you hanging, you hang in the right circle. It feels

1604
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:51,600
Speaker 2: stronger than it is. You go offline talk to a

1605
01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 2: person and often they will be like I don't even

1606
01:19:54,000 --> 01:19:54,960
Speaker 2: know what the fuck you're talking about.

1607
01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:55,439
Speaker 4: What happened?

1608
01:19:56,160 --> 01:19:57,880
Speaker 2: You know, I don't see why this is a big deal.

1609
01:19:58,000 --> 01:20:00,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah whatever, I'm still this to the music

1610
01:20:00,400 --> 01:20:03,960
Speaker 2: shit like that, you know. So anyway, he was wrong

1611
01:20:04,000 --> 01:20:06,519
Speaker 2: for that shit, and don't I don't know. I don't

1612
01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:09,600
Speaker 2: know how we can keep looking black and brown LGBTQ

1613
01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:12,240
Speaker 2: people in the face talking about we support y'all, we

1614
01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:14,679
Speaker 2: love y'all, all black lives matter.

1615
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:17,960
Speaker 3: Whoops, Hold up, you don't mean it. You don't mean it.

1616
01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:22,040
Speaker 2: Right, Like between Eric and Gardner comments and this shit,

1617
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 2: there's never a time when it's okay for lgbt Q

1618
01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:28,519
Speaker 2: black people to have an opinion or to speak up.

1619
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 2: It's never okay. That's like I I hate being proven

1620
01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:36,000
Speaker 2: right like that, and especially so fucking quickly. But it

1621
01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:37,760
Speaker 2: was when it was Erica Garner. It just wasn't the

1622
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:39,639
Speaker 2: time because she had just passed, so we just couldn't

1623
01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:41,760
Speaker 2: have that conversation, couldn't even talk about anything she ever

1624
01:20:41,800 --> 01:20:45,400
Speaker 2: did that, you know, may have ostracized part of our community.

1625
01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:49,160
Speaker 2: But this person's alive and well, and now it's what

1626
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:51,120
Speaker 2: we need to be gentle, We need to educate.

1627
01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:53,680
Speaker 3: You just don't want to talk about it.

1628
01:20:53,680 --> 01:20:55,840
Speaker 2: You know, is he gonna be educated? And only time

1629
01:20:55,880 --> 01:20:57,920
Speaker 2: will tell if he wants to be educated, because that's

1630
01:20:57,920 --> 01:21:00,519
Speaker 2: a personal choice. And we just skip with that fact

1631
01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 2: that it's a personal choice, like you don't force education

1632
01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:07,120
Speaker 2: on somebody. They gotta want it, right. We only learn

1633
01:21:07,160 --> 01:21:09,040
Speaker 2: when we want to. I have no evidence of this

1634
01:21:09,120 --> 01:21:11,720
Speaker 2: nigga trying to learn anything. I just feel like he

1635
01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:15,479
Speaker 2: just floated a fucking a jack of clubs right on

1636
01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 2: by everybody and again got a book.

1637
01:21:18,360 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 3: He ain't never going. What the fuck? How's that three

1638
01:21:21,200 --> 01:21:22,120
Speaker 3: able to go like that?

1639
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:24,880
Speaker 2: Laverne cos becomes the first trans woman on the cover

1640
01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 2: of Cous of Polity and Cosmopolitan and she looks amazing cool.

1641
01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:29,080
Speaker 3: Can you see the picture?

1642
01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:39,040
Speaker 2: Hold on? Uh, I'm surprised that Kaitlyn Jenner wasn't the

1643
01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:42,200
Speaker 2: first one trans woman on Cobs of Polity because that

1644
01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:45,639
Speaker 2: ship was the wave and the Kardashian fucking media machine

1645
01:21:45,720 --> 01:21:50,400
Speaker 2: is no joke. Like, it's sad how many first were

1646
01:21:50,439 --> 01:21:55,200
Speaker 2: broken with uh, with Caitlyn Jenner. A person that's politics

1647
01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:59,519
Speaker 2: is that anti trans Anyway, Laverne Coxs made historyps becoming

1648
01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:01,240
Speaker 2: the first trans and the woman to make the cover

1649
01:22:01,280 --> 01:22:04,280
Speaker 2: of Cosmo, The Orange in Black and New Black Way

1650
01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 2: Orange is the New Black Star Grace the cover of

1651
01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:10,479
Speaker 2: Cobs of Polity in South Africa for the magazine's LGBT

1652
01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:15,439
Speaker 2: focus Say Yes to Love edition. Oh So South Africa? Okay?

1653
01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:18,479
Speaker 2: At the letter in the magazine, Laverne sent in a

1654
01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:20,720
Speaker 2: letter in the magazine, Laverne sent in passion message to

1655
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:23,719
Speaker 2: Cobspolitan and readers. She said, your voice matters. The truth

1656
01:22:23,800 --> 01:22:26,559
Speaker 2: of who you know yourselves to be matters. The truth

1657
01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 2: will set you free. Trans Women deserve to be loved

1658
01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 2: out in the open and the light. Laverne Cox's supposed

1659
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:35,200
Speaker 2: to cover on her Instagram page, saying she was honored

1660
01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,560
Speaker 2: and proud to be covered in the magazine. And the

1661
01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:39,840
Speaker 2: interview company to the photo shoot, Laverne opened up about

1662
01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:41,960
Speaker 2: love and dating, telling viewers that the most romantic thing

1663
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:44,360
Speaker 2: a partner had done for her was she says, as

1664
01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:46,559
Speaker 2: a black transgender woman, I've often been kept a secret

1665
01:22:46,560 --> 01:22:48,719
Speaker 2: by the men out dated. So when my ex boyfriend

1666
01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:50,840
Speaker 2: introduced me to his dad and invited me to spend

1667
01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:52,960
Speaker 2: Honkkah with him and his family, it was the most

1668
01:22:53,000 --> 01:22:56,760
Speaker 2: special thing ever. Holly Meadows, the editor in chief of

1669
01:22:56,800 --> 01:23:01,160
Speaker 2: Cosmopolitan South Africa Kyle Laverne the world's vocal trans poster

1670
01:23:01,280 --> 01:23:03,919
Speaker 2: girl and celebrated her role as an actress and activists.

1671
01:23:03,960 --> 01:23:05,720
Speaker 2: She said, our goal was to play a small part

1672
01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:09,800
Speaker 2: and provide a visibility for the LGBTQ plus community, of

1673
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:14,479
Speaker 2: which Laverne has become a revolutionary icon. Uh we wanted

1674
01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:17,960
Speaker 2: to disrupt the heteronormative ideas around February and Valentine's Day

1675
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:20,439
Speaker 2: and look at love in twenty eighteen, including exceptance of

1676
01:23:20,479 --> 01:23:24,519
Speaker 2: self others than non binary relationships, she continued. Coxes the

1677
01:23:24,520 --> 01:23:27,519
Speaker 2: world's most vocal trans post a girl and an activist

1678
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:30,160
Speaker 2: for the intersection of race, class and gender studies, challenging

1679
01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:34,000
Speaker 2: toxic masculinity, white supremacy, and the misrepresentation of trans people.

1680
01:23:34,400 --> 01:23:37,040
Speaker 2: For US, hosmo love at least for this issue at

1681
01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:41,160
Speaker 2: celebrating Laverne is the fun, fearless female. She is dope.

1682
01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:45,520
Speaker 2: Let's leave you. Let's leave you this segment, right.

1683
01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:49,040
Speaker 3: We got to say by y'all got the next week

1684
01:23:49,040 --> 01:23:53,320
Speaker 3: you're gonna read? Is everybody? So my vote is let's go.

1685
01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 2: All right, all right, let's see what should we in

1686
01:23:58,320 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 2: this way? You know what I'm actually gonna do some

1687
01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:06,920
Speaker 2: fucking with black people, is what I'm gonna do. You

1688
01:24:06,960 --> 01:24:08,840
Speaker 2: know what. No, I'm gonna give y'all day off. Let's

1689
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:11,320
Speaker 2: just go to guest the race. Okay, we can always

1690
01:24:11,320 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 2: be fucking with tomorrow. Right, it's not like anything's stopping us.

1691
01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:20,880
Speaker 5: Now, that is time for some guest star race. That's right,

1692
01:24:20,960 --> 01:24:25,439
Speaker 5: This guest the race time. Now, that is time for

1693
01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:27,000
Speaker 5: some guests the race.

1694
01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:28,360
Speaker 3: That's right.

1695
01:24:28,439 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 2: It's guest the race time. That's right. It's time for

1696
01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:36,600
Speaker 2: guest the Race. The number one game across all the

1697
01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 2: podcast land. We play or read news articles from all

1698
01:24:39,360 --> 01:24:42,120
Speaker 2: over the globe, and we ask our contestants today Karen

1699
01:24:42,520 --> 01:24:45,880
Speaker 2: and the chat room to guess the race. And of

1700
01:24:45,880 --> 01:24:50,559
Speaker 2: course they're all racist. All right, let's see who we

1701
01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:58,479
Speaker 2: got to. How about this? A wife is accused of

1702
01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:03,680
Speaker 2: murder and she searched how to kill someone and not

1703
01:25:03,800 --> 01:25:06,479
Speaker 2: get caught on her computer.

1704
01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:08,639
Speaker 3: Oh m hmm.

1705
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:11,000
Speaker 2: That's search history be telling. But I know CoP's job

1706
01:25:11,120 --> 01:25:11,760
Speaker 2: so easy now.

1707
01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:13,599
Speaker 3: I know they were like, what did you google?

1708
01:25:13,640 --> 01:25:16,360
Speaker 1: Because the average person, including myself, I don't know how

1709
01:25:16,360 --> 01:25:19,360
Speaker 1: to properly get rid of everything and know where everything is,

1710
01:25:19,400 --> 01:25:21,720
Speaker 1: no matter how much you think you've done, deleted it

1711
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:23,840
Speaker 1: some I person and pull it back up.

1712
01:25:24,479 --> 01:25:28,639
Speaker 2: A Texas woman faces charges in connection to her husband's death,

1713
01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:30,920
Speaker 2: and she searched how to kill someone and not get caught.

1714
01:25:31,280 --> 01:25:34,280
Speaker 2: Sondra Luis Gardner, fifty five, was arrested Wednesday night on

1715
01:25:34,360 --> 01:25:36,560
Speaker 2: murder charges, more than a week after her husband was

1716
01:25:36,600 --> 01:25:41,280
Speaker 2: shot to death at the maypeerl home. Police told took

1717
01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:44,000
Speaker 2: Garner in the custody after the Vice seasoned investigation of

1718
01:25:44,080 --> 01:25:49,920
Speaker 2: poorly shows she researched murder mm mmmm. Her husband, John Gardner,

1719
01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 2: was killed January second, and what the woman claim was

1720
01:25:52,400 --> 01:25:54,920
Speaker 2: a home invasion. She called now one one report she

1721
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:57,599
Speaker 2: was awakening the night or two gunshots, saw massmail holding

1722
01:25:57,600 --> 01:26:00,280
Speaker 2: the gun in the flashlight inside her residence. All these

1723
01:26:00,360 --> 01:26:02,599
Speaker 2: later match bullets from the thirty eight caliber pistol found

1724
01:26:02,600 --> 01:26:05,720
Speaker 2: wrapped in the paper inside two plastic bags in her

1725
01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:09,600
Speaker 2: Ford Mustang to the bullets killed in her spouse. You

1726
01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:10,800
Speaker 2: had the gun in your car.

1727
01:26:11,320 --> 01:26:11,559
Speaker 4: Ah.

1728
01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:15,080
Speaker 2: Gardner's being held at Ellis County Jail on two million

1729
01:26:15,080 --> 01:26:18,400
Speaker 2: dollars bond. Did you not think that gets the race.

1730
01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:20,400
Speaker 3: I'm going with.

1731
01:26:21,160 --> 01:26:24,400
Speaker 2: Let's check the chat room, Let's see what they believe.

1732
01:26:26,560 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 2: White Becky is a dumbass white snap Marathon, White smarter

1733
01:26:30,320 --> 01:26:33,000
Speaker 2: than the cops. They would never catch me, White, dumb criminal.

1734
01:26:33,120 --> 01:26:36,599
Speaker 2: That's not a race. Can you have an officer drive

1735
01:26:36,680 --> 01:26:39,920
Speaker 2: through the area? White? White, also research pussy hats for

1736
01:26:39,960 --> 01:26:43,160
Speaker 2: the march Amy Schumer, White, clearer than your clear than

1737
01:26:43,160 --> 01:26:45,800
Speaker 2: your browser history. White, I'm gonna say black. Try to

1738
01:26:45,800 --> 01:26:49,440
Speaker 2: blame it on black man, white, whitey, white, white. Jamie's

1739
01:26:49,439 --> 01:26:53,240
Speaker 2: got a gun stealing her car, dum dumb white girl,

1740
01:26:53,360 --> 01:26:55,759
Speaker 2: Tanya hard and white. I didn't know. I couldn't do that. White.

1741
01:26:55,760 --> 01:27:09,960
Speaker 2: The correct answer is white. One person did miss it, though,

1742
01:27:19,920 --> 01:27:25,040
Speaker 2: old June for Holland, what were you thinking? Normally? One point? Anyway,

1743
01:27:25,120 --> 01:27:28,559
Speaker 2: she's like an old angry white woman too. I don't

1744
01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:29,200
Speaker 2: know what he did.

1745
01:27:29,560 --> 01:27:33,559
Speaker 1: I don't know what he did, but she looked hm hmmm,

1746
01:27:34,040 --> 01:27:35,160
Speaker 1: like death is knocking on her.

1747
01:27:35,080 --> 01:27:39,720
Speaker 2: Door, like she's still mad. Oh, and I would have

1748
01:27:39,760 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 2: got away from her. It was one of those goddamn

1749
01:27:41,800 --> 01:27:45,840
Speaker 2: meddling kids. All right, how about this one?

1750
01:27:48,160 --> 01:27:50,280
Speaker 4: And how about.

1751
01:27:52,880 --> 01:27:57,760
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, No, that's way too easy. Hold on, hold on.

1752
01:28:00,280 --> 01:28:02,800
Speaker 2: A woman was critically hurt when she got her head

1753
01:28:02,880 --> 01:28:06,320
Speaker 2: stuck in a gate on North Side A woman was

1754
01:28:06,360 --> 01:28:08,240
Speaker 2: critically injured when she got her head stuck in a

1755
01:28:08,320 --> 01:28:10,960
Speaker 2: gate and like an episode of Martin or some shit,

1756
01:28:11,360 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 2: how did this happen? In On Friday afternoon at the

1757
01:28:15,400 --> 01:28:18,760
Speaker 2: Lethrop Homes neighborhood on the North Side at twelve to

1758
01:28:18,760 --> 01:28:20,600
Speaker 2: twelve pm, the woman got her head stuck between the

1759
01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:23,320
Speaker 2: bars of a gate on the sixteen hundred block of

1760
01:28:23,360 --> 01:28:27,719
Speaker 2: West Fullerton. According to Fire Media affairs director Larry Langford,

1761
01:28:27,720 --> 01:28:29,479
Speaker 2: It said it was unclear how she ended up stuck

1762
01:28:29,479 --> 01:28:32,880
Speaker 2: in the gate. She was taking in critical condition. Wait,

1763
01:28:33,200 --> 01:28:35,040
Speaker 2: do I even have a picture of this woman? Hold up?

1764
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:37,679
Speaker 3: Taking a critical what? What does she do?

1765
01:28:37,920 --> 01:28:39,599
Speaker 2: I feel like I put this in the wrong up.

1766
01:28:40,439 --> 01:28:42,320
Speaker 2: I might have put this in the wrong category. Give

1767
01:28:42,320 --> 01:28:43,880
Speaker 2: me a second, guys. I don't think I had a

1768
01:28:43,880 --> 01:28:47,360
Speaker 2: picture of this woman. I think this is just fun.

1769
01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:50,280
Speaker 2: I think this is just a regular as story. I

1770
01:28:50,280 --> 01:28:53,160
Speaker 2: don't think. Yeah, I'll just put this in the wrong place.

1771
01:28:53,240 --> 01:28:58,080
Speaker 2: Never mind, guys, forget about it. Wow, Yeah, my bad.

1772
01:28:59,479 --> 01:29:06,360
Speaker 2: I was really on the fence about that story. So uh,

1773
01:29:06,439 --> 01:29:11,280
Speaker 2: let's move on to the next story. A Florida man

1774
01:29:11,360 --> 01:29:13,800
Speaker 2: faces charges after leaving his kids in the car when

1775
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:19,400
Speaker 2: he went to the strip club. Dam that'll be right

1776
01:29:19,439 --> 01:29:23,160
Speaker 2: back this strict then let me see what you got.

1777
01:29:24,560 --> 01:29:27,360
Speaker 2: A man's been arrested and apparently allegedly decided to be

1778
01:29:27,400 --> 01:29:28,880
Speaker 2: a good idea to lead two children in the car

1779
01:29:28,880 --> 01:29:31,479
Speaker 2: along while he popped into the strip club. According to

1780
01:29:31,520 --> 01:29:34,639
Speaker 2: Wink News twenty three, willing Lee Jordan Jr.

1781
01:29:37,320 --> 01:29:41,920
Speaker 1: Willi Lee, Hey, Willee, how you doing dog?

1782
01:29:42,200 --> 01:29:45,479
Speaker 3: Yay your table over there? Girls? You know what to do?

1783
01:29:45,680 --> 01:29:54,040
Speaker 2: It's willing Lee. Oh wille oh Willily willing Lee. Uh yeah,

1784
01:29:54,080 --> 01:29:57,240
Speaker 2: so he decided to pop on into the strip club.

1785
01:29:58,840 --> 01:30:00,800
Speaker 2: Well thar just came away to sit atter. A woman

1786
01:30:00,840 --> 01:30:03,280
Speaker 2: reported hearing children crying inside the vehicle in the parking

1787
01:30:03,320 --> 01:30:06,800
Speaker 2: lot of Scarlett's cabaret. I walked over to the vehicle

1788
01:30:06,880 --> 01:30:08,559
Speaker 2: that seemed to be an infant, a three month old

1789
01:30:08,600 --> 01:30:11,599
Speaker 2: boy who was not strapped in the car seat upside down.

1790
01:30:11,680 --> 01:30:13,479
Speaker 2: His head was where his feet should be, butt up

1791
01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:17,320
Speaker 2: in the air. Damn. An announcement was made in the

1792
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:19,720
Speaker 2: club and Jordan went back to the Carver maids have

1793
01:30:19,840 --> 01:30:21,559
Speaker 2: been able to get the other child to unlock the

1794
01:30:21,600 --> 01:30:26,479
Speaker 2: door of the suv. Coming to the stage. Coming to

1795
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:30,240
Speaker 2: the stage, up, hold on, before we get to destiny.

1796
01:30:30,800 --> 01:30:33,920
Speaker 2: Let me say, if there is an if there is

1797
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:37,720
Speaker 2: a black station wagon with two unattended children in the

1798
01:30:37,760 --> 01:30:40,559
Speaker 2: parking lot, gonna need you to get that out of here, guys,

1799
01:30:40,600 --> 01:30:42,479
Speaker 2: police are coming in. You know, that's what we give

1800
01:30:42,479 --> 01:30:47,240
Speaker 2: the handy Jay. Please, if you like to rick the limousine,

1801
01:30:47,280 --> 01:30:48,720
Speaker 2: you can put the kids in it and let them

1802
01:30:48,760 --> 01:30:54,000
Speaker 2: drive around four hundred dollars an hour. But yeah, an

1803
01:30:54,000 --> 01:30:57,280
Speaker 2: announcement made in the club. It's devastating. It's devastating that

1804
01:30:57,320 --> 01:30:57,840
Speaker 2: people can do that.

1805
01:30:57,880 --> 01:30:58,240
Speaker 3: The children.

1806
01:30:58,360 --> 01:31:00,880
Speaker 2: Really opens your eyes to what goes on to the world,

1807
01:31:00,880 --> 01:31:03,280
Speaker 2: how nasty things can be. He said, May's and May's

1808
01:31:03,320 --> 01:31:05,679
Speaker 2: probably working at a strip club. So when she says

1809
01:31:05,720 --> 01:31:09,280
Speaker 2: it's some nasty things, she doesn't see some. Christopher mays,

1810
01:31:09,360 --> 01:31:11,080
Speaker 2: the general manager. I'm sorry. Well, he says he's seen

1811
01:31:11,160 --> 01:31:13,639
Speaker 2: some nasty things. He doesn't seen some nasty things.

1812
01:31:13,640 --> 01:31:15,760
Speaker 3: Okay, you have reached the top of his list.

1813
01:31:15,960 --> 01:31:18,799
Speaker 2: He's a general manager at Scarlet, so he's like, listen,

1814
01:31:19,240 --> 01:31:24,600
Speaker 2: this more despigera than anything I say. May said that

1815
01:31:24,760 --> 01:31:26,759
Speaker 2: Jordan was in the club for more than thirty minutes.

1816
01:31:27,120 --> 01:31:30,839
Speaker 2: The club manager expressed concern over what could have happened

1817
01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:32,640
Speaker 2: if no one had heard the children crown, I mean

1818
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:35,320
Speaker 2: three months. Oh he was upside down already. He was panicking.

1819
01:31:35,320 --> 01:31:38,120
Speaker 2: God only knows how much long an upside down infant?

1820
01:31:38,160 --> 01:31:40,840
Speaker 2: What has has in the car seat? Unlike our girls

1821
01:31:40,880 --> 01:31:43,360
Speaker 2: who get upside down on the pole, makes she come

1822
01:31:43,400 --> 01:31:45,479
Speaker 2: out Saturdays we accept two for one.

1823
01:31:45,600 --> 01:31:48,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they do know how to sit themselves back up.

1824
01:31:48,360 --> 01:31:49,320
Speaker 3: Unlike those children.

1825
01:31:50,080 --> 01:31:52,559
Speaker 2: Guess the race for Willie Lee Jordan Jr.

1826
01:31:53,400 --> 01:31:56,960
Speaker 3: Willie Lee is black. If Willing Lee is white, I

1827
01:31:57,000 --> 01:31:57,760
Speaker 3: am protesting.

1828
01:31:58,040 --> 01:32:01,960
Speaker 2: The chat room, says cap d he coming, Captain coming,

1829
01:32:02,040 --> 01:32:07,240
Speaker 2: cap De coming, come black, shake it fast, but watch yourself,

1830
01:32:07,680 --> 01:32:10,640
Speaker 2: shak it fast, watch yourself your kids. Black man, I

1831
01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:12,840
Speaker 2: hit the script club and all the todders find a pole.

1832
01:32:13,800 --> 01:32:15,680
Speaker 2: Let me get five on pump to a pack of

1833
01:32:15,720 --> 01:32:18,280
Speaker 2: cools and a quick pick. Black. I take care of

1834
01:32:18,320 --> 01:32:23,760
Speaker 2: my kids. Oh. He told them kids not to touch

1835
01:32:23,760 --> 01:32:25,639
Speaker 2: his radio sets or his new points on the dash.

1836
01:32:25,880 --> 01:32:27,880
Speaker 2: One who baby sits is on kids ordered the chicken

1837
01:32:27,920 --> 01:32:31,120
Speaker 2: wings to go black. They're for his kids. Black. What

1838
01:32:31,360 --> 01:32:33,840
Speaker 2: at least I'm in their life though? Black? Black?

1839
01:32:34,160 --> 01:32:37,120
Speaker 3: She bang bang main the bang bang man.

1840
01:32:37,160 --> 01:32:40,000
Speaker 2: Black white and nigga. The correct answer is black. He

1841
01:32:40,120 --> 01:32:42,000
Speaker 2: was black, all of you. Got it.

1842
01:32:52,520 --> 01:32:53,920
Speaker 3: I seen a few whites and them.

1843
01:32:53,840 --> 01:32:57,680
Speaker 2: Somebody said white. Okay, I'm sorry, Karen snitcheen, just like

1844
01:32:57,720 --> 01:32:59,120
Speaker 2: that woman. That's final. Kids.

1845
01:33:00,560 --> 01:33:03,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't let the kids be abused.

1846
01:33:07,200 --> 01:33:08,040
Speaker 2: Shake it fast.

1847
01:33:08,600 --> 01:33:11,280
Speaker 3: Watch a child put this met meet me?

1848
01:33:11,520 --> 01:33:15,719
Speaker 1: Uh popping, popping my butt cheeks.

1849
01:33:15,720 --> 01:33:17,639
Speaker 3: Ain't got nothing to do with the protection of these kids.

1850
01:33:17,960 --> 01:33:20,280
Speaker 2: Definitely look like a Willy Lee. I know that much.

1851
01:33:20,840 --> 01:33:23,200
Speaker 2: All right, we gotta do one more, so I'm gonna

1852
01:33:23,240 --> 01:33:25,160
Speaker 2: go to the next session because we're right at the break. Guys,

1853
01:33:25,160 --> 01:33:27,120
Speaker 2: we'll be right back in the air with more of

1854
01:33:27,160 --> 01:33:37,080
Speaker 2: whatever this is. Shard oh man, Willie Lee.

1855
01:33:37,160 --> 01:33:39,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, because Willy Lee would have been white, it'd be

1856
01:33:39,120 --> 01:33:44,800
Speaker 1: like here I go again on my own bound the

1857
01:33:45,000 --> 01:33:49,439
Speaker 1: hard and stumping rock you like a hurricane, That's what

1858
01:33:49,479 --> 01:33:53,000
Speaker 1: it would have been playing. Uh.

1859
01:33:53,080 --> 01:33:55,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, they got a coldly different strip club music.

1860
01:33:55,520 --> 01:33:58,800
Speaker 7: You completely different in Apparently the strip club is different

1861
01:33:58,840 --> 01:34:00,759
Speaker 7: depending on where you are and what you do because

1862
01:34:01,160 --> 01:34:04,120
Speaker 7: you know something rule, yes, different, but like is this

1863
01:34:04,240 --> 01:34:06,280
Speaker 7: some rules of across the ball, but someplace you just

1864
01:34:06,320 --> 01:34:07,960
Speaker 7: ignore the fuck out of them rules.

1865
01:34:08,360 --> 01:34:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. If yeah, that was in a white strip club,

1866
01:34:12,160 --> 01:34:20,280
Speaker 2: the music would have been totally totally different. Oh, make

1867
01:34:20,320 --> 01:34:24,760
Speaker 2: it love in the elevator that's going down. Oh, let's

1868
01:34:24,760 --> 01:34:32,400
Speaker 2: see what else he got here? Okay? Oh what is

1869
01:34:32,439 --> 01:34:33,400
Speaker 2: this his name?

1870
01:34:33,920 --> 01:34:35,080
Speaker 4: Okay?

1871
01:34:36,200 --> 01:34:39,920
Speaker 2: And police say, a man Nili stole two trains from

1872
01:34:40,000 --> 01:34:46,160
Speaker 2: the Phoenix Phoenix your rail yard. Two two trains, two two.

1873
01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:50,280
Speaker 3: Whole ass trains? What the fuck is happening? Why?

1874
01:34:50,600 --> 01:34:52,400
Speaker 2: Why you just got off on the wrong track.

1875
01:34:54,680 --> 01:34:56,560
Speaker 3: He was trying to skip all the tracks.

1876
01:34:56,920 --> 01:34:58,920
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, uh.

1877
01:35:00,800 --> 01:35:02,040
Speaker 3: Did he even take the kaboos?

1878
01:35:02,360 --> 01:35:07,240
Speaker 2: I guess there's been a spike in railroad crimes. Ah,

1879
01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:11,280
Speaker 2: all right, A man caught in the engineer seat of

1880
01:35:11,280 --> 01:35:14,040
Speaker 2: a locomotive nearly pushed enough buttons and pulled enough levers

1881
01:35:14,040 --> 01:35:17,880
Speaker 2: to steal the train. They don't have keys, right, They

1882
01:35:17,960 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 2: just feel like you're gonna be intimidated, like, oh damn,

1883
01:35:20,040 --> 01:35:23,320
Speaker 2: there's a lot of buttons, I'm gonna give up. Union

1884
01:35:23,360 --> 01:35:27,559
Speaker 2: Pacific Railroad police report that on November eighth, employees had

1885
01:35:27,560 --> 01:35:30,559
Speaker 2: a train horn blowing excessively and went they investigate. When

1886
01:35:30,600 --> 01:35:33,240
Speaker 2: they got there, they found Julio Rodriguaz, twenty years old,

1887
01:35:33,280 --> 01:35:36,880
Speaker 2: in the engineer seat. Rodriguaz, who was released from jail,

1888
01:35:36,960 --> 01:35:39,960
Speaker 2: that morning, allegedly admitted that he ended the rail yard

1889
01:35:39,960 --> 01:35:41,600
Speaker 2: with the intention of still in the locomotive.

1890
01:35:43,240 --> 01:35:44,000
Speaker 3: I have a question.

1891
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:47,760
Speaker 1: They're only a limited amount of railroad tracks where it

1892
01:35:47,840 --> 01:35:50,519
Speaker 1: ain't like a car. Where the fuck were you going

1893
01:35:50,560 --> 01:35:53,160
Speaker 1: other than the straight ass line? Like, where was you going?

1894
01:35:53,240 --> 01:35:55,679
Speaker 2: Dolls? Make a left up here? The cops had never

1895
01:35:55,760 --> 01:35:56,120
Speaker 2: found me.

1896
01:35:56,400 --> 01:35:57,880
Speaker 3: Where was you going?

1897
01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:02,639
Speaker 2: After after Rodriguez was I mean, that's.

1898
01:36:02,439 --> 01:36:04,840
Speaker 3: Opening shit case I had to following? Was following you?

1899
01:36:04,880 --> 01:36:07,040
Speaker 3: And you know? And do the colds ran out or

1900
01:36:07,080 --> 01:36:08,040
Speaker 3: they just blocked the road?

1901
01:36:08,680 --> 01:36:10,920
Speaker 2: He told the believes he climbed in and began moving

1902
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:14,240
Speaker 2: levers and pushing buttons while reading the operation instructions found

1903
01:36:14,280 --> 01:36:20,000
Speaker 2: inside what Appairly they leave that line around for the

1904
01:36:20,080 --> 01:36:23,920
Speaker 2: average layman. After Rodriguez was moving the train, employees expected

1905
01:36:23,920 --> 01:36:25,519
Speaker 2: it and saw that he would have released the brake

1906
01:36:25,600 --> 01:36:28,320
Speaker 2: levers and put the engine in reverse. So he's gonna

1907
01:36:28,360 --> 01:36:31,479
Speaker 2: go backward. Oh shit, that's how he's gonna get away. See,

1908
01:36:31,520 --> 01:36:33,120
Speaker 2: they was gonna be looking for him to go one way,

1909
01:36:33,200 --> 01:36:35,280
Speaker 2: caring he was gonna go the other way.

1910
01:36:35,880 --> 01:36:37,760
Speaker 3: And run into another train and don't even know he

1911
01:36:37,880 --> 01:36:38,760
Speaker 3: fucking coming their way.

1912
01:36:39,080 --> 01:36:41,720
Speaker 2: He don't know which way is gonna make them run

1913
01:36:41,720 --> 01:36:43,160
Speaker 2: into another train? That we're being honest.

1914
01:36:43,439 --> 01:36:45,639
Speaker 3: The track might not be long like you was at

1915
01:36:45,640 --> 01:36:46,479
Speaker 3: a railroad yard.

1916
01:36:47,040 --> 01:36:50,439
Speaker 2: The five hundred dollars locomotive five hundred thousand dollars locomotive

1917
01:36:50,479 --> 01:36:53,519
Speaker 2: was attached to another engine at the time. Rodriguez has

1918
01:36:53,560 --> 01:36:55,400
Speaker 2: been charged of the burglar and two counts of theft

1919
01:36:55,520 --> 01:36:57,759
Speaker 2: of a means of transportation. Guess the race.

1920
01:36:59,120 --> 01:36:59,599
Speaker 3: White?

1921
01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:01,400
Speaker 2: Karen's going white.

1922
01:37:02,960 --> 01:37:03,320
Speaker 3: Crime.

1923
01:37:04,479 --> 01:37:09,240
Speaker 2: She's going white for what was his name? Hold on,

1924
01:37:09,479 --> 01:37:13,120
Speaker 2: let me get his name all the time. She's going

1925
01:37:13,200 --> 01:37:21,240
Speaker 2: white for where can up fun his name? Oh, Julio Rodriguez,

1926
01:37:21,680 --> 01:37:22,519
Speaker 2: the white man.

1927
01:37:22,479 --> 01:37:25,439
Speaker 3: My bad Judio is not white?

1928
01:37:25,560 --> 01:37:26,880
Speaker 2: My bad race?

1929
01:37:27,000 --> 01:37:29,479
Speaker 3: You on with the Hispanic Latino?

1930
01:37:29,800 --> 01:37:33,760
Speaker 2: Okay? After the shutdown, nothing good is gonna happen for

1931
01:37:33,840 --> 01:37:36,639
Speaker 2: him in the Trump's America doctor, Oh yeah, that's good,

1932
01:37:36,920 --> 01:37:41,800
Speaker 2: Doctor Dreamer to the Wall, Dreamer Latina bad mbre, said

1933
01:37:41,960 --> 01:37:45,000
Speaker 2: f Yo Waldgringos. His whole family was also in the

1934
01:37:45,040 --> 01:37:49,840
Speaker 2: conductor call Latino Latina, Oh man, Taco to Latino latinix

1935
01:37:50,200 --> 01:37:54,400
Speaker 2: uh my midnight train to the border wall latinx uh

1936
01:37:54,560 --> 01:37:58,679
Speaker 2: silver streak back to jail Hispanic chew Chew chewy, hispanic

1937
01:37:59,080 --> 01:38:02,560
Speaker 2: and hispanic. That direct answer is and everybody got it.

1938
01:38:02,680 --> 01:38:16,400
Speaker 3: He is like you next, That's what I think.

1939
01:38:16,439 --> 01:38:18,280
Speaker 1: For my bad, I just think that's a white ass

1940
01:38:18,320 --> 01:38:20,439
Speaker 1: crime who fucking thinks about stealing the train.

1941
01:38:21,240 --> 01:38:23,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. I don't know why he making that face either.

1942
01:38:24,280 --> 01:38:25,840
Speaker 2: I feel like the face he made when they walked

1943
01:38:25,880 --> 01:38:26,639
Speaker 2: in and caught him.

1944
01:38:26,520 --> 01:38:31,000
Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, and then it did it twice.

1945
01:38:31,240 --> 01:38:33,040
Speaker 2: I don't know how I explained I tried to steal

1946
01:38:33,040 --> 01:38:39,440
Speaker 2: two trains. Guys, let me this is this is awkward anyway,

1947
01:38:40,400 --> 01:38:42,920
Speaker 2: Let's go to sword ratching this guys. When we find

1948
01:38:42,920 --> 01:38:48,760
Speaker 2: my sword sound effect? There we go?

1949
01:38:49,040 --> 01:38:51,479
Speaker 3: Oh, somebody said it was a black dude in NYC.

1950
01:38:51,640 --> 01:38:53,880
Speaker 3: Always still in the sea train. How the fuck are

1951
01:38:53,880 --> 01:38:55,200
Speaker 3: people stilling these trains?

1952
01:38:55,320 --> 01:38:57,360
Speaker 2: Well, the sea trains for Coon's it's a coon.

1953
01:38:57,240 --> 01:39:01,439
Speaker 3: Trains taking him to Coon Down.

1954
01:39:17,160 --> 01:39:21,479
Speaker 2: Let's talk about sword ratchetess, guys. A vicious one eyed

1955
01:39:21,640 --> 01:39:25,599
Speaker 2: maniac who murdered a man with his vampire skull fantasy

1956
01:39:25,640 --> 01:39:28,360
Speaker 2: sword and a brutal and blooded attack has been jailed

1957
01:39:28,360 --> 01:39:30,440
Speaker 2: for at least eighteen years.

1958
01:39:31,160 --> 01:39:33,360
Speaker 3: Oh did it bust out the flames too? I mean,

1959
01:39:33,400 --> 01:39:34,920
Speaker 3: who is this ghostlide what's happening?

1960
01:39:35,439 --> 01:39:40,439
Speaker 2: First of all, only eighteen years eighteen years, No, it

1961
01:39:40,520 --> 01:39:43,160
Speaker 2: was eighteenth birthday? Found out was in his eighteen years

1962
01:39:43,479 --> 01:39:48,000
Speaker 2: is not long enough. Adrian Hind had repeatedly stabbed Alexander

1963
01:39:48,040 --> 01:39:50,640
Speaker 2: Forest during the frenzied blood bath at his home in

1964
01:39:50,920 --> 01:39:55,240
Speaker 2: kirk Waldy, Fife on January tewod Jerry heard and how

1965
01:39:55,400 --> 01:39:57,200
Speaker 2: the twenty five year old victims of her more than

1966
01:39:57,200 --> 01:39:58,160
Speaker 2: one hundred wounds.

1967
01:39:58,720 --> 01:40:00,400
Speaker 3: Good God, and.

1968
01:40:00,400 --> 01:40:04,040
Speaker 2: A judge today told he Hind that his killing of

1969
01:40:04,080 --> 01:40:06,880
Speaker 2: mister Forest had been brutaled and bloodied. Hind, who had

1970
01:40:06,920 --> 01:40:10,000
Speaker 2: claimed self defense, received a life sentence at the High

1971
01:40:10,080 --> 01:40:10,879
Speaker 2: Court of Glasgow.

1972
01:40:11,040 --> 01:40:13,280
Speaker 3: You stabbed somebody one hundred times. That's not self defense.

1973
01:40:13,400 --> 01:40:15,840
Speaker 3: You want them dead? Day out to charge you for

1974
01:40:15,960 --> 01:40:17,919
Speaker 3: every year did you stab that person?

1975
01:40:18,320 --> 01:40:22,040
Speaker 2: Lord Erich, who told them fifty two year old. You

1976
01:40:22,160 --> 01:40:24,679
Speaker 2: invited various people back to your home after the pub.

1977
01:40:24,960 --> 01:40:27,320
Speaker 2: The next morning, Alexander Forbes lay dead on your floor,

1978
01:40:27,320 --> 01:40:30,639
Speaker 2: your ornamental collective sword embedded in this chest. The attack

1979
01:40:30,760 --> 01:40:34,360
Speaker 2: was bloodied and brutal. One man swore as sentence was

1980
01:40:34,400 --> 01:40:37,120
Speaker 2: passed while a woman was taken out the court room

1981
01:40:37,160 --> 01:40:39,960
Speaker 2: in tears. Hind had earlier been convicted of murder. Followed

1982
01:40:39,960 --> 01:40:43,639
Speaker 2: the trial at Edinburgh, a judge heard how science fiction

1983
01:40:43,920 --> 01:40:46,960
Speaker 2: fan hand Hind and mister Forest had ended up alone

1984
01:40:46,960 --> 01:40:49,360
Speaker 2: to kill his home Mister Forest, who lived in the Capitol,

1985
01:40:49,400 --> 01:40:51,720
Speaker 2: was grabbed by the neck before being punched and stabbed.

1986
01:40:52,200 --> 01:40:54,559
Speaker 2: One police officer told the trial that the blood flat

1987
01:40:54,640 --> 01:40:56,639
Speaker 2: at murder scrint seen had been the worst he'd ever

1988
01:40:56,680 --> 01:41:01,280
Speaker 2: come across. Woo. They always say that, insisted in the evidence.

1989
01:41:01,400 --> 01:41:05,400
Speaker 2: He stuck. He struck mister Forbes after he was attacked.

1990
01:41:05,000 --> 01:41:08,639
Speaker 3: First, but then a hundred times dog right, and.

1991
01:41:08,600 --> 01:41:10,960
Speaker 2: Then the other ninety nine times just for good measure.

1992
01:41:12,439 --> 01:41:16,840
Speaker 2: A jury heard claims mister Forbes had earlier been acting

1993
01:41:16,840 --> 01:41:19,640
Speaker 2: aggressively in the pub, showing off his gunshot wounds and

1994
01:41:19,680 --> 01:41:22,160
Speaker 2: claiming he was related to a well known Edinburgh family.

1995
01:41:22,680 --> 01:41:26,679
Speaker 2: Mark Stewart QC, defending, said, while he respects the jury's verdict,

1996
01:41:26,720 --> 01:41:30,479
Speaker 2: mister Hyde profoundly disagrees with that. The advocate added the

1997
01:41:30,560 --> 01:41:33,919
Speaker 2: killer had not been the initial aggressor and had injuries

1998
01:41:33,960 --> 01:41:35,960
Speaker 2: consistent with him also being attacked.

1999
01:41:36,439 --> 01:41:38,320
Speaker 3: You got a little lawyers boy, they do it. They

2000
01:41:39,080 --> 01:41:39,920
Speaker 3: stand to the end.

2001
01:41:40,080 --> 01:41:42,000
Speaker 2: I guess he's like, look it was a fair fight,

2002
01:41:42,120 --> 01:41:44,120
Speaker 2: but it was a beat him down. I can't help to.

2003
01:41:44,240 --> 01:41:50,160
Speaker 2: My client won to fight by lock by right. All right, guys,

2004
01:41:50,240 --> 01:41:52,080
Speaker 2: we've be back tomorrow. Thank you so much for listening

2005
01:41:52,160 --> 01:41:54,960
Speaker 2: to the show. We appreciate you, guys. We we will

2006
01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:59,320
Speaker 2: talk to y'all then and until then, I love you.

2007
01:41:59,400 --> 01:41:59,759
Speaker 3: Wow.