Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects. And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl.
Speaker 2: Just hilarious.
Speaker 1: What I be doing, I'll be fixing mess and it
Speaker 1: is what it is, okay, all right, and I'm here
Speaker 1: with my best friend of games. So I get I
Speaker 1: saw a lot of comments, y'all happier.
Speaker 2: When she on.
Speaker 1: The ratings is higher when she on because they love you,
Speaker 1: So say what's up?
Speaker 2: What's up?
Speaker 1: All?
Speaker 2: So that's what they say? Say it about it? I
Speaker 2: think you can do better than that. What's up?
Speaker 1: Do a little bit better? One more for the one time?
Speaker 1: Say it for the people on the back, baby, what's up?
Speaker 2: What's up? Guys? Now?
Speaker 1: If I say no, say it for the gays in
Speaker 1: the back, she'd have been standing screaming, shouting and hanging
Speaker 1: from the roof.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, so let me tell you something
Speaker 2: right now. We're not gonna do is talk about it,
Speaker 2: talk about us, the gays. Oh y'all, Oh O god,
Speaker 2: I know us.
Speaker 3: Baby.
Speaker 1: I'm not gay, not not gay. I was, but I
Speaker 1: am not now, thanks, all right?
Speaker 2: I mean it was cool, but I'm extreighty. All right, look,
Speaker 2: we're gonna jump straight in. We got a voice memo today.
Speaker 1: Y'all do not know how happy I am after reading
Speaker 1: them long ass, incomplete ass sentences that sya'all be sending me.
Speaker 1: But I can't help because I'm gonna be okay. I know,
Speaker 1: I know I'll be struggling to read over this.
Speaker 2: Motherfucker. You be struggling right with me. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: Listen, we ain't gonna struggle to day though. This is
Speaker 1: an update, the first one I'm gonna ump into. So
Speaker 1: she sent two paragraphs commenting on the last week's episode,
Speaker 1: and then she sent a voice memo so we can
Speaker 1: jump into our mess.
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna read her comment first.
Speaker 1: She said, I'm listening to the best the episode, and
Speaker 1: I'm listening to y'all joke about these voice notes bruh,
Speaker 1: and then sent a bunch of middle finger emojis and said,
Speaker 1: I sent some, but for real, the situation is worse
Speaker 1: now and I'm even more lost on what to do
Speaker 1: or maybe what not to do. Fuck these incomplete stories.
Speaker 1: I would like some help please. All right, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm always fussing about I ain't got no voice notes,
Speaker 1: and y'all keep typing these long progress and meanwhile, I
Speaker 1: motherfucking answers, like bitch, I said, voice notes, and you
Speaker 1: keep skipping over my shit. All right, So we're gonna
Speaker 1: get into our story, Okay, okay, I'm trying to figure
Speaker 1: out if I ever got into our story before or not.
Speaker 1: I felt like I did, and I feel like she
Speaker 1: missed that episode because I did this story before. But
Speaker 1: now she said some shit got worse. So we're going
Speaker 1: to jump into the news story.
Speaker 2: There we go.
Speaker 3: So after all of that happened, and I told you
Speaker 3: about her trying to do something while this, and I
Speaker 3: didn't know if I should tell her or not. I
Speaker 3: did end up telling her because she kept talking about
Speaker 3: it and I just was like, bro, like really and
Speaker 3: try like you really sound.
Speaker 1: Like a victim right.
Speaker 3: Now, And I I don't understand why, because nobody told
Speaker 3: you to go ahead and go chill with anybody. So now,
Speaker 3: fast forward, fast forward, fast forward, different situation.
Speaker 2: She sends a lot of reels.
Speaker 3: Right. I got tired of people sending me real so
Speaker 3: I started demanding for people to stop sending me You
Speaker 3: didn't got damn reels.
Speaker 2: It's getting too much.
Speaker 3: Notifications is out the ass every morning.
Speaker 2: Turn them off then, girl.
Speaker 3: I mean so like I saw the notification and I
Speaker 3: told her, like, bro, stop sending your reals minju. This
Speaker 3: is my friend of fifteen years pretty much, so like
Speaker 3: really I felt like I can just talk to her
Speaker 3: like I.
Speaker 2: Would talk to my brothers because she's pretty much.
Speaker 3: My sister, because she's around all of my family.
Speaker 2: Right, So so.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, bro, so I'm sending me so
Speaker 3: many reels, Like it's at a point where I feel
Speaker 3: like I want to block you, and I really shouldn't
Speaker 3: have to, Like why I don't even watch these reels.
Speaker 3: We don't talk about them, we don't engage with them, like.
Speaker 2: You just sending them. And then that's it, just keep
Speaker 2: sending them. I don't even send you reels. So I
Speaker 2: was sending her.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I like spiritual stuff and her and I
Speaker 3: talk about a bunch of different things, and so like
Speaker 3: there's this one lady that I would send her a
Speaker 3: horoscope from. We're also I also have to same she
Speaker 3: is a Pisces and piss is in my birth turn.
Speaker 3: So yeah, like I had sent her a couple of things,
Speaker 3: so I went to the page to see if she
Speaker 3: had like looked at it, and the messages came up weird.
Speaker 3: So I asked her, hey, did you even follow me?
Speaker 3: And she was like, no, I am blocked you. I
Speaker 3: mean I blocked you. And I was like why why,
Speaker 3: she says, so to prevent you from getting reels.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1: You made that shit a big deal her sending you
Speaker 1: reels when all you gotta do is look at them
Speaker 1: or not look at them. You ain't got to open
Speaker 1: them and look at them boom. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: cut them up, fucking okay, notifications off if you're trying
Speaker 1: to save your battery off is just plain and simple
Speaker 1: and simply annoying to you. You don't got to open
Speaker 1: them up boo. So, I mean, it was petty for
Speaker 1: how to block you, But that was just her being
Speaker 1: petty because you you made a petty argument of you
Speaker 1: not wanting reels being sent to you. Me and my
Speaker 1: best friend we sent reals all day and we never
Speaker 1: talk about them.
Speaker 2: We just send them. That's how we communicate them. That's
Speaker 2: what it is. And so yeah, so now.
Speaker 3: She so then I laughed at it, and I was like,
Speaker 3: that's mad petty, Like all you had to do is
Speaker 3: just stop clicking my name. And I felt the way
Speaker 3: more so because like you just blocked and didn't say nothing.
Speaker 3: Mind you, I'm a type of person that I will
Speaker 3: definitely block and say something.
Speaker 2: I would yeah, but oh you know what.
Speaker 3: I'm let me take that back, because I did block
Speaker 3: her a couple of years ago because she used to
Speaker 3: project like her size problems, saying to me like her
Speaker 3: size insecurities, and I'm.
Speaker 1: A city girl.
Speaker 3: I never really had a problem with my size. It's
Speaker 3: only some other people feel like they want to say
Speaker 3: something or clown about it. They want to really pay
Speaker 3: attention and so and I won't even say that's now,
Speaker 3: but like, you know, definitely around that time, so I
Speaker 3: did block her because I didn't know how to tell
Speaker 3: her nicely, and I would have just been rude. And
Speaker 3: I know that I can hit wave below the belt.
Speaker 3: I'll go to hell with yer's insults. So I didn't
Speaker 3: want to like do that because I.
Speaker 1: Do love her.
Speaker 2: I just didn't like what she was saying. Then wait,
Speaker 2: why are y'all go to hell? Though? That's how it
Speaker 2: be sometimes for your friend?
Speaker 1: I wish the fuck you would go to hell on me, bitch,
Speaker 1: and you already knew what's going on.
Speaker 2: Baby, y'all go to hell with you every time? Yeah,
Speaker 2: helln back?
Speaker 1: But yeah, I hey, look you see how you just
Speaker 1: said all you had to do was stop clicking my name?
Speaker 1: Why did you have to block me? And then don't
Speaker 1: say nothing? At least if you're gonna block me, be
Speaker 1: woman enough to tell me what's going on. Like, all right,
Speaker 1: you complaining about the reels, I'm blocking you. But just
Speaker 1: like you said, all she had to do was not
Speaker 1: click your name. That's all you had to do, was
Speaker 1: not click her name. When you see she's sending these
Speaker 1: childish ass rails.
Speaker 4: If she already told her that she don't want them,
Speaker 4: you know she don't like them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna know what you sent me. I have
Speaker 2: to click it to know that you said that to me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, well, she complaining about her sending her
Speaker 1: reels constantly. I don't look at them, I don't so
Speaker 1: stop like, don't send them to me. But she sends
Speaker 1: her shit and she expects for her to open it
Speaker 1: and look at it because she's spiritual. But because what
Speaker 1: she's sending is spiritual, it's okay.
Speaker 4: But did the girl so she didn't like the spiritual post.
Speaker 2: No, she just didn't like that. She said, what's the problem.
Speaker 2: She made a big deal of her sending her reels
Speaker 2: friends do it all day.
Speaker 3: Girl.
Speaker 4: I don't give a damn if she told her that
Speaker 4: she don't like the damn reels, don't send the randoms.
Speaker 2: Okay, Now, at the moment that you say I don't
Speaker 2: like the spiritual.
Speaker 1: Readings, then this friend came and you don't send it,
Speaker 1: and she can't get up saying you don't send it
Speaker 1: because I already voice to you and communicated with you
Speaker 1: without don't let's go, oh god.
Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up.
Speaker 1: I know this shit getting good, But listen to just
Speaker 1: a couple seconds of a commercial.
Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen.
Speaker 3: I also have had to work on my delivery, so
Speaker 3: you know, it's just like like the time that he
Speaker 3: wasn't talking and stuff like I'm just going through my.
Speaker 2: Life and then just realizing.
Speaker 3: Like, okay, well half the relationship. I just don't really
Speaker 3: don't have to tell her why we stopped talking, because
Speaker 3: how do you say somebody something like that? So anyways,
Speaker 3: and she didn't end up hit me up. I did
Speaker 3: end up telling her, and then we had a whole
Speaker 3: conversation and so now this.
Speaker 2: Is where we are.
Speaker 3: So yeah, so I told her, like, bro, like why
Speaker 3: you can't just not send me reels?
Speaker 2: Like why is this so hard?
Speaker 3: She was like, oh, well, thank you for your understanding
Speaker 3: for or something like that, and so I was like,
Speaker 3: and I really didn't want to argue. I was like,
Speaker 3: all right, well cool, I copy pretty much copy all right,
Speaker 3: thank you, I understand.
Speaker 2: I appreciate your mind.
Speaker 3: You when I asked a couple of people to stop
Speaker 3: sending me real no, I told them I told him
Speaker 3: to stop sending me reals, I said, thank you, I
Speaker 3: love you, because I wasn't trying to be malicious. It's
Speaker 3: just like I never asked for all of this stuff,
Speaker 3: like I really didn't, and every time I did ask,
Speaker 3: she kept blowing it off.
Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, now I gotta give yo.
Speaker 2: What is the motherfucker is she sending you porn or
Speaker 2: the rituals? And what the how is she sending you? Here?
Speaker 2: Is that ship has tainted in your spirit? You do
Speaker 2: not like it? Lord?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: All right, now I got to actually get I don't
Speaker 2: even know how to.
Speaker 3: I just got to put my foot down on it,
Speaker 3: like it's now it's just seeming like a joke and
Speaker 3: I really not here for it. I actually found out
Speaker 3: that my aunt blocked me too, which I just feel,
Speaker 3: in my opinion.
Speaker 2: Is weird. I get that everybody you know, like.
Speaker 3: Does things in their own way and stuff like that,
Speaker 3: but it's just like you just really don't have to
Speaker 3: click my name, like in my opinion, it's just my opinion.
Speaker 3: Now moving on, we haven't talked since then. Since that time,
Speaker 3: and I asked her, now, the next day, her and
Speaker 3: I was working an event, or maybe like the day after,
Speaker 3: her and I was working an event like a wedding
Speaker 3: and stuff. And so we're in the car, and I'm
Speaker 3: not the type of person that if you don't talk
Speaker 3: about something, we're not about to be back cool until
Speaker 3: we talk about the shit. So I got in the car,
Speaker 3: she said hello, I.
Speaker 4: Said, what's up.
Speaker 2: I put my headphones in because I.
Speaker 3: Started watching some videos and stuff like that, and she
Speaker 3: wasn't saying anything.
Speaker 1: To me, to my little child, I hope it wasn't
Speaker 1: real you was watching, because I knew you would have
Speaker 1: blew up in that car.
Speaker 3: So to my knowledge, she wasn't talking to me, and
Speaker 3: she didn't like tap me or anything like that to
Speaker 3: like make me like.
Speaker 2: Turn to her or acknowledge.
Speaker 1: Her or something.
Speaker 3: I'm just in my phone at this point, so and
Speaker 3: I'm not really thinking anything of it. So now we
Speaker 3: get to the to the place we're taking out like
Speaker 3: the equipment that we need, and she drops something. Now
Speaker 3: the best friend at me. I wanted to make more
Speaker 3: fun of her, but I was just like, bro, why
Speaker 3: did you just wait?
Speaker 5: Mind you?
Speaker 3: This is like a cloud machine. I don't think you've
Speaker 3: ever seen a cloud machine or if you have, it's heavy,
Speaker 3: like it's a case that come with it and everything.
Speaker 3: So she trying to pick that up out of the
Speaker 3: trunk of a van. Why she's just about my size?
Speaker 3: Why are you doing that?
Speaker 2: So I was like, bro, why are you just in
Speaker 2: wait for me?
Speaker 3: And I kind of said it with like a little smirk,
Speaker 3: a little smile like I really wasn't being serious. She
Speaker 3: was like, well, you ain't have to say nothing, like.
Speaker 2: Why are you coming at me? What?
Speaker 5: What do you mean?
Speaker 2: Why am I coming at you? How am I coming
Speaker 2: at you?
Speaker 5: See?
Speaker 2: You had an attitude the whole time. Yeah, yeah, was
Speaker 2: supposed to talk.
Speaker 3: She said you have an attitude the whole time, the
Speaker 3: whole car ride and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, how how did I have an attitude?
Speaker 2: I said, Oh, so you assume you assume I had
Speaker 2: an attitude. Both of y'all.
Speaker 3: Answer, she just walked away or I don't know what
Speaker 3: she oh, And then when she said you had an attitude,
Speaker 3: she like banged on the case. And so I was like,
Speaker 3: what in the hell is your problem? Like why are
Speaker 3: you being so aggressive? And so she didn't say nothing,
Speaker 3: and she just walked away. So then.
Speaker 6: So then what happened?
Speaker 2: So we're in the spot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all too was trying to figure out each other's temperature.
Speaker 2: Y'all can't.
Speaker 1: Y'all can't communicate mentally, like you know, unless y'all got
Speaker 1: some weird doctor stream shit.
Speaker 2: Going on, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Y'all both was trying to figure out each other's temperature.
Speaker 1: Whether you say, whether you admit it or not, you know,
Speaker 1: that's just how it.
Speaker 2: Y'all.
Speaker 1: Both was quiet, becau y'all didn't know the other what
Speaker 1: the other one was on. Y'all just know you from
Speaker 1: your understanding, you was blocked. So you assume that she
Speaker 1: an attitude with you, and she assumed you add an
Speaker 1: attitude because.
Speaker 2: You ain't say shit.
Speaker 1: You put the headphones in, head down, and then she
Speaker 1: dropped the cloud machine and you laughed, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 2: So but yeah, like I said, fifteen years of friendship,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to you like you're my sister because
Speaker 2: we know each other for just that.
Speaker 3: Damn well, you know and so and then I still
Speaker 3: I'm still confused that to what attitude or like how
Speaker 3: I was coming at her and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: So I just felt like she felt away from that.
Speaker 2: So now moving on, that's why you're talking out And.
Speaker 3: I was like, hey, so did you not do you
Speaker 3: have a problem with me, like you don't want to
Speaker 3: be friends anymore? Or what's going on?
Speaker 2: Because I'm I'm truly lost.
Speaker 3: Like you were clearly bothered and you accusing me of
Speaker 3: having an attitude and stuff when you're the one that
Speaker 3: dropped this machine and you banging on the thing and
Speaker 3: everything and talking to me that aggressive. Now, mind you,
Speaker 3: I'm the one to first step up and start trying
Speaker 3: to fight in my technically because I'm I'm pretty straightforward person.
Speaker 3: So there's no reason for going to mean for us
Speaker 3: to be say youre like having animosity and nobody says anything.
Speaker 2: So but but why step up and try to fight?
Speaker 3: So really and truly it's more so like really to
Speaker 3: ask you the same question I asked you from the
Speaker 3: first time. Really with like a friend, how how.
Speaker 2: Do you maneuver with this type of situation?
Speaker 3: Like I don't I don't have a problem with her,
Speaker 3: I would like to be her friend, but at the
Speaker 3: same time, oh, I'm sorry, I'm leaving out a park.
Speaker 3: So when I texted her, she did text me back,
Speaker 3: but she was basically like, oh, well, if you were
Speaker 3: my best friend, you knew that you didn't have to
Speaker 3: say anything, or like, if you're supposed to be my
Speaker 3: best friend, why did you say anything? It was so
Speaker 3: unnecessary and you had an attitude the whole time, and
Speaker 3: you wasn't talking to me and stuff and I was.
Speaker 3: And so then I texted her some long messages and stuff,
Speaker 3: right but like really and truly like for me. Oh,
Speaker 3: and then after the messages she said, oh, I don't
Speaker 3: have the capacity to go deeper right now, And I said, okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, what the fuck was in the messages? What
Speaker 2: the just super deep belong messages? What was going on?
Speaker 1: Because you did just admit that you will be the
Speaker 1: first to step up and fight cause niggas is quiet,
Speaker 1: and you, like me, you're trying to hit them with them,
Speaker 1: You're trying to get active and shit on your sister. Basically, now,
Speaker 1: we got a commercial and if you click off this podcast,
Speaker 1: I swear I'm gonna beat your ass.
Speaker 2: Listen.
Speaker 3: So my thing is like, how is it that you
Speaker 3: had all of this to say when I asked you?
Speaker 2: You know the thing like this.
Speaker 3: Is now about to be a conversation, So what because
Speaker 3: I had so much more to say, like you can't
Speaker 3: go deeper into it now or whatever it is. I
Speaker 3: also feel like I don't really want to assume anybody's
Speaker 3: like feelings, so I didn't.
Speaker 2: Really like believing that part of it. But yeah, you're
Speaker 2: still just like, yeah, what type of thing?
Speaker 3: I'm starting to feel like, what type of best friend
Speaker 3: are you? You feel like you can't talk to me
Speaker 3: and we already had a whole falling out, Yeah, so
Speaker 3: now why are you not talking? So yeah, I'm feeling
Speaker 3: away from that and.
Speaker 2: So yeah, like just how would you moveing with this
Speaker 2: type of situation? Like, because I.
Speaker 3: Feel like this is a time limit type of thing,
Speaker 3: and I really feel like this is more of, like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's maybe a boundary, because what the like,
Speaker 3: why are you acting like we're new friends?
Speaker 2: You get what I'm.
Speaker 5: Saying, So please, please please if you can see this,
Speaker 5: I hope so, because all these incomplete messages and stories
Speaker 5: is getting on my nerves, like this is taking up
Speaker 5: whole episodes of nonsense.
Speaker 2: Oh and let me bring this up to.
Speaker 3: I am a person who I'm sorry I gotta yell
Speaker 3: because I'm.
Speaker 2: Back on the work floor.
Speaker 3: I am a person who has always vividly dreamt. I
Speaker 3: don't know how else to explain it. If you've never
Speaker 3: heard of it, I'm really too sure. It's just real
Speaker 3: life shit. Okay. I had a dream with her and
Speaker 3: I that we basically were like talking to each other,
Speaker 3: but no words were coming out, and we were just
Speaker 3: like confused, Like I was like, what the.
Speaker 5: Fuck is she saying?
Speaker 2: She looking at me like what the fuck is she saying?
Speaker 2: And I told her to dream.
Speaker 3: And now I don't know what that would have really
Speaker 3: done or anything, but I just feel like that was
Speaker 3: spirit telling me that, like, Okay, y'all are going to
Speaker 3: have communication issues.
Speaker 2: But I feel like if we're yeah, like pay attention.
Speaker 3: Maybe we could work doing.
Speaker 2: But she making me feel like I don't give it
Speaker 2: damn what you said about that she.
Speaker 6: I'm just saying this like they're talking at each other
Speaker 6: and nobody's listening. Mm so that that definitely seems symbolic
Speaker 6: for that. None of y'all listen, both neither one of
Speaker 6: y'all listen, And then we need before I play this
Speaker 6: last note because she's not finished. Well, let me play it.
Speaker 2: Hold on, then I'll get it there and just play
Speaker 2: this for the people.
Speaker 3: People all your oh your nor what a complete story is?
Speaker 2: Stop placing our time.
Speaker 5: If you have juicy story, give the whole down tree,
Speaker 5: give the whole story.
Speaker 3: Goddamne on my damn nerves ship, I know the fuck
Speaker 3: that's right.
Speaker 2: And she's acute. She's so cute, like a little willow
Speaker 2: Smith looking mommy. She's so cute.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so look, let's get into this right here,
Speaker 1: right now. In my opinion, I feel like, first of all,
Speaker 1: you two are very you two are best friends. You
Speaker 1: said she's like your sister. I can relate to that.
Speaker 1: My best friend is like my brother.
Speaker 2: She and okay, all right, not okay, all right, So
Speaker 2: she's with her brothers. We're heavy and we're singing and
Speaker 2: we're colored. Get me your no sorry all jokes to
Speaker 2: the left.
Speaker 1: It sounds like no accountability is being taken on either part.
Speaker 2: Both of y'all got the same issue.
Speaker 1: Like, like Shana said, if y'all constantly talking over each
Speaker 1: other and all of that shit, y'all not listening. And
Speaker 1: even when you're not talking with each other, y'all are
Speaker 1: not trying to listen to each other. Y'all think y'all
Speaker 1: supposed to read each other's minds, like and that that's
Speaker 1: not good, that that actually happens in a lot of relationships.
Speaker 2: You feel like a person supposed.
Speaker 1: Enough you know what's going on, yeah, instead of just
Speaker 1: opening your mouth and saying it. That car ride shouldn't
Speaker 1: have been like that, like and I'm I'm I'm like
Speaker 1: you to a certain extent where you said, okay, you
Speaker 1: don't feel like we can move forward until we had
Speaker 1: shot a situation that was already going on. That should
Speaker 1: be the way things are in my opinion as well,
Speaker 1: because how we're going, how we even.
Speaker 2: Gonna move forward?
Speaker 1: If I still feel sour about some shit that we
Speaker 1: just went through and nobody's talking about it.
Speaker 2: And then I've also been on the other end of
Speaker 2: that too.
Speaker 1: That always that that feels like, all right, I could
Speaker 1: fall out with somebody and then don't say anything and
Speaker 1: then well not even have a fault, I have a disagreement,
Speaker 1: we don't talk about it. And then depends on how
Speaker 1: it depends on Yeah, it depends on the situation and
Speaker 1: how severe you know, the issue is. But nobody is
Speaker 1: taking account of bail And then you I also see
Speaker 1: and just just you know, in that story, briefly, you're
Speaker 1: the type of person who thinks somebody supposed to get
Speaker 1: over something when you want them to get over something.
Speaker 1: And your best friend, thank you pulled it and read
Speaker 1: her fucking mind. Yeah, she she like she wanted she
Speaker 1: want to hash it out and and y'all gotta.
Speaker 2: Get over it. Be over it, not get over it.
Speaker 2: I think she just really want to talk about it. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think she really just want to deal with it
Speaker 4: in that moment. Yeah, And some people need time. Yeah,
Speaker 4: some people need time. That that's basically what I mean,
Speaker 4: Like she wanted to.
Speaker 2: Get it done right then and there, and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but it's like everybody don't operate the same,
Speaker 1: Like what if Shorty the best visit it right and
Speaker 1: she had taken time bomb too, She said, I wanted
Speaker 1: to start. I just like to fight, Like, all right, look,
Speaker 1: if we're not get she gets frustrated quickly and easily
Speaker 1: with shit, like you wanted to fight a whole community
Speaker 1: because they were sending you reels. I hope, I let
Speaker 1: me send you some reals. I just feel like it's
Speaker 1: not that serious and I can't tell you how I feel, right,
Speaker 1: And that's why I said, no, let me.
Speaker 2: I can't tell you how to feel. I can't.
Speaker 1: However, your aunt blacked you like you got family members
Speaker 1: black with shit.
Speaker 2: It's like, what the fuck? What are we on social
Speaker 2: media for?
Speaker 1: Right to be able to share things, share how we
Speaker 1: feel about things, post things, you know, that's the part
Speaker 1: of being on social media.
Speaker 2: If you don't like social media, get off of social media.
Speaker 2: She ain't say that.
Speaker 1: No, That's why I say, if you yet, what is
Speaker 1: on social media? Pictures and reels?
Speaker 2: Ship? You want to look at some pictures? All right?
Speaker 1: You pull off the photo albums? That's what the fuck
Speaker 1: you do? You get off the social media ship?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 1: Nah? That no, it's a little bit of truth in that.
Speaker 1: But I I do not want to discredit how you
Speaker 1: feel about anything. I'm not like trying to diminish your
Speaker 1: feelings at all. I just want you to realize that
Speaker 1: people are dying, Kim yo, fuck and you better not
Speaker 1: go punch somebody in the face for sending you the
Speaker 1: fucking reals and we'll get mad that you're on You know,
Speaker 1: I didn't know that they and why is there a
Speaker 1: problem because that's what people do on social media, pooky.
Speaker 2: But I'm with you. I'm rocking with That's fine. I'm
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 1: If I say I don't do something, don't do it, period, cool.
Speaker 1: But what about what you do? You know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying like you don't have the best communication. I'm not
Speaker 1: talking to your yo. You don't have the best communication.
Speaker 2: I feel like y'all have the same situation.
Speaker 1: You and your best friend are kind of like dealing
Speaker 1: with the same thing.
Speaker 2: Y'all.
Speaker 1: Communication is not there. And you may say, no, Jess,
Speaker 1: I do communicate with her. No, You're very demanding. You're
Speaker 1: very demanding, and that is totally fun because that's where
Speaker 1: you are. But then you turn around and be like
Speaker 1: she's aggressive. Both of y'all asses are aggressive. Both of
Speaker 1: your asses need to go sit in the fucking corner
Speaker 1: and then come back and reconvene and talk and let
Speaker 1: each other talk. Do not cut each other off, let
Speaker 1: hurt me. But tell her, Yeah, tell her, tell me
Speaker 1: how you feel.
Speaker 2: You also have to tell her.
Speaker 1: Yo. I can't read your mind. I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: read your mind. And I like how you said that
Speaker 1: you are a vivid dreamer. That is actually I.
Speaker 2: Kind of do, like have empathy with that. I do
Speaker 2: because I used to dream vividly too.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I do believe that there are deeper meanings
Speaker 1: to a lot of people's dreams than just surface, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So, like Shana said, that's because
Speaker 1: y'all don't listen to each other. I can tell there's
Speaker 1: a lot of history and a lot of love. And
Speaker 1: I don't think you should not be a friend. Work
Speaker 1: on your fucking friendship.
Speaker 2: It is so hard.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fifteen years, Like, come on, no, we not
Speaker 1: And I know some people grow apart and all that
Speaker 1: type of ship.
Speaker 2: But now you just say, through all of that, you
Speaker 2: called this.
Speaker 1: Girl your sister to me, So it's like if she's
Speaker 1: talking about it to the extent that she still truly
Speaker 1: can love.
Speaker 2: They need to work on it, yep. And you came,
Speaker 2: this is your second mess that it am fixed with
Speaker 2: this girl. So there is something there.
Speaker 1: There is something there, and y'all just have to y'all
Speaker 1: just have to work it out, that's all. But we've
Speaker 1: come to the end of another can'tfully borkless episode, which
Speaker 1: girl justslarius.
Speaker 2: And my guy.
Speaker 1: Hello, and my guy, my bad it Mike went out, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We'll say something then, boy, sorry, all right, because.
Speaker 2: Don't believe me.
Speaker 4: I know who you talking to because I'm a girl,
Speaker 4: No girl, I'm a girl, all right, y'all.
Speaker 2: Well we all in November.
Speaker 1: I need y'all to put on y'all coats, y'all scoff,
Speaker 1: y'all gloves. That is not the season where you need
Speaker 1: to try to Everybody is sick. Everybody is sick. Everybody
Speaker 1: is sick. So I need for y'all to take your
Speaker 1: emergency your vitamins, your airborne, your hot tea, get all
Speaker 1: the home remedies.
Speaker 2: You can't.
Speaker 1: Everybody's sick, you coughing in the ass all a round,
Speaker 1: all the white people and you know, white people cough
Speaker 1: in their hands and then want to hug all over
Speaker 1: you and dap you up and ship and all got
Speaker 1: side of that. So I'm in my deepest pan voice.
Speaker 1: I see y'all next week. Pe Can't Fully Reckless is
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