1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 1: and the Black Effects. And just like that, we're back 3 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 1: with yet another carefully reckless episode with your girl. 4 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: Just hilarious. 5 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 1: What I be doing, I'll be fixing mess and it 6 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: is what it is, okay, all right, and I'm here 7 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: with my best friend of games. So I get I 8 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: saw a lot of comments, y'all happier. 9 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 2: When she on. 10 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: The ratings is higher when she on because they love you, 11 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 1: So say what's up? 12 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: What's up? 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: All? 14 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 2: So that's what they say? Say it about it? I 15 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 2: think you can do better than that. What's up? 16 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: Do a little bit better? One more for the one time? 17 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: Say it for the people on the back, baby, what's up? 18 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,919 Speaker 2: What's up? Guys? Now? 19 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: If I say no, say it for the gays in 20 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: the back, she'd have been standing screaming, shouting and hanging 21 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: from the roof. 22 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: All right, all right, so let me tell you something 23 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: right now. We're not gonna do is talk about it, 24 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: talk about us, the gays. Oh y'all, Oh O god, 25 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 2: I know us. 26 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 3: Baby. 27 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: I'm not gay, not not gay. I was, but I 28 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: am not now, thanks, all right? 29 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 2: I mean it was cool, but I'm extreighty. All right, look, 30 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:20,399 Speaker 2: we're gonna jump straight in. We got a voice memo today. 31 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: Y'all do not know how happy I am after reading 32 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: them long ass, incomplete ass sentences that sya'all be sending me. 33 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: But I can't help because I'm gonna be okay. I know, 34 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: I know I'll be struggling to read over this. 35 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 2: Motherfucker. You be struggling right with me. I don't know. 36 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: I know. 37 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: Listen, we ain't gonna struggle to day though. This is 38 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: an update, the first one I'm gonna ump into. So 39 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: she sent two paragraphs commenting on the last week's episode, 40 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: and then she sent a voice memo so we can 41 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: jump into our mess. 42 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna read her comment first. 43 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 1: She said, I'm listening to the best the episode, and 44 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: I'm listening to y'all joke about these voice notes bruh, 45 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: and then sent a bunch of middle finger emojis and said, 46 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: I sent some, but for real, the situation is worse 47 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: now and I'm even more lost on what to do 48 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: or maybe what not to do. Fuck these incomplete stories. 49 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: I would like some help please. All right, I'm sorry, 50 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm always fussing about I ain't got no voice notes, 51 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,679 Speaker 1: and y'all keep typing these long progress and meanwhile, I 52 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 1: motherfucking answers, like bitch, I said, voice notes, and you 53 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: keep skipping over my shit. All right, So we're gonna 54 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,679 Speaker 1: get into our story, Okay, okay, I'm trying to figure 55 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: out if I ever got into our story before or not. 56 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: I felt like I did, and I feel like she 57 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: missed that episode because I did this story before. But 58 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: now she said some shit got worse. So we're going 59 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: to jump into the news story. 60 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: There we go. 61 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 3: So after all of that happened, and I told you 62 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 3: about her trying to do something while this, and I 63 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 3: didn't know if I should tell her or not. I 64 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 3: did end up telling her because she kept talking about 65 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 3: it and I just was like, bro, like really and 66 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 3: try like you really sound. 67 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: Like a victim right. 68 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 3: Now, And I I don't understand why, because nobody told 69 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 3: you to go ahead and go chill with anybody. So now, 70 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,519 Speaker 3: fast forward, fast forward, fast forward, different situation. 71 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 2: She sends a lot of reels. 72 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 3: Right. I got tired of people sending me real so 73 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 3: I started demanding for people to stop sending me You 74 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 3: didn't got damn reels. 75 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 2: It's getting too much. 76 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 3: Notifications is out the ass every morning. 77 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 2: Turn them off then, girl. 78 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 3: I mean so like I saw the notification and I 79 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 3: told her, like, bro, stop sending your reals minju. This 80 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 3: is my friend of fifteen years pretty much, so like 81 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 3: really I felt like I can just talk to her 82 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 3: like I. 83 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: Would talk to my brothers because she's pretty much. 84 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 3: My sister, because she's around all of my family. 85 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 2: Right, So so. 86 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, bro, so I'm sending me so 87 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 3: many reels, Like it's at a point where I feel 88 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 3: like I want to block you, and I really shouldn't 89 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: have to, Like why I don't even watch these reels. 90 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 3: We don't talk about them, we don't engage with them, like. 91 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: You just sending them. And then that's it, just keep 92 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 2: sending them. I don't even send you reels. So I 93 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 2: was sending her. 94 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, I like spiritual stuff and her and I 95 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 3: talk about a bunch of different things, and so like 96 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 3: there's this one lady that I would send her a 97 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 3: horoscope from. We're also I also have to same she 98 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 3: is a Pisces and piss is in my birth turn. 99 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 3: So yeah, like I had sent her a couple of things, 100 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 3: so I went to the page to see if she 101 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 3: had like looked at it, and the messages came up weird. 102 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 3: So I asked her, hey, did you even follow me? 103 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 3: And she was like, no, I am blocked you. I 104 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 3: mean I blocked you. And I was like why why, 105 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 3: she says, so to prevent you from getting reels. 106 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie. 107 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 1: You made that shit a big deal her sending you 108 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 1: reels when all you gotta do is look at them 109 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: or not look at them. You ain't got to open 110 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 1: them and look at them boom. You know what I mean, 111 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: cut them up, fucking okay, notifications off if you're trying 112 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: to save your battery off is just plain and simple 113 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: and simply annoying to you. You don't got to open 114 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: them up boo. So, I mean, it was petty for 115 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: how to block you, But that was just her being 116 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 1: petty because you you made a petty argument of you 117 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: not wanting reels being sent to you. Me and my 118 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: best friend we sent reals all day and we never 119 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 1: talk about them. 120 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 2: We just send them. That's how we communicate them. That's 121 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 2: what it is. And so yeah, so now. 122 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 3: She so then I laughed at it, and I was like, 123 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 3: that's mad petty, Like all you had to do is 124 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 3: just stop clicking my name. And I felt the way 125 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 3: more so because like you just blocked and didn't say nothing. 126 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 3: Mind you, I'm a type of person that I will 127 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 3: definitely block and say something. 128 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 2: I would yeah, but oh you know what. 129 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 3: I'm let me take that back, because I did block 130 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 3: her a couple of years ago because she used to 131 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 3: project like her size problems, saying to me like her 132 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 3: size insecurities, and I'm. 133 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: A city girl. 134 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 3: I never really had a problem with my size. It's 135 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 3: only some other people feel like they want to say 136 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 3: something or clown about it. They want to really pay 137 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 3: attention and so and I won't even say that's now, 138 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 3: but like, you know, definitely around that time, so I 139 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 3: did block her because I didn't know how to tell 140 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 3: her nicely, and I would have just been rude. And 141 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 3: I know that I can hit wave below the belt. 142 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 3: I'll go to hell with yer's insults. So I didn't 143 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 3: want to like do that because I. 144 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: Do love her. 145 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 2: I just didn't like what she was saying. Then wait, 146 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 2: why are y'all go to hell? Though? That's how it 147 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 2: be sometimes for your friend? 148 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: I wish the fuck you would go to hell on me, bitch, 149 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: and you already knew what's going on. 150 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 2: Baby, y'all go to hell with you every time? Yeah, 151 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 2: helln back? 152 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 1: But yeah, I hey, look you see how you just 153 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 1: said all you had to do was stop clicking my name? 154 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: Why did you have to block me? And then don't 155 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: say nothing? At least if you're gonna block me, be 156 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: woman enough to tell me what's going on. Like, all right, 157 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: you complaining about the reels, I'm blocking you. But just 158 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: like you said, all she had to do was not 159 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 1: click your name. That's all you had to do, was 160 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: not click her name. When you see she's sending these 161 00:06:38,640 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: childish ass rails. 162 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 4: If she already told her that she don't want them, 163 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 4: you know she don't like them. 164 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna know what you sent me. I have 165 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 2: to click it to know that you said that to me. 166 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, well, she complaining about her sending her 167 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 1: reels constantly. I don't look at them, I don't so 168 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 1: stop like, don't send them to me. But she sends 169 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 1: her shit and she expects for her to open it 170 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 1: and look at it because she's spiritual. But because what 171 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,239 Speaker 1: she's sending is spiritual, it's okay. 172 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 4: But did the girl so she didn't like the spiritual post. 173 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: No, she just didn't like that. She said, what's the problem. 174 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 2: She made a big deal of her sending her reels 175 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 2: friends do it all day. 176 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: Girl. 177 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 4: I don't give a damn if she told her that 178 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 4: she don't like the damn reels, don't send the randoms. 179 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: Okay, Now, at the moment that you say I don't 180 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 2: like the spiritual. 181 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 1: Readings, then this friend came and you don't send it, 182 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: and she can't get up saying you don't send it 183 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: because I already voice to you and communicated with you 184 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: without don't let's go, oh god. 185 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 2: Hold up, hold up. 186 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: I know this shit getting good, But listen to just 187 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: a couple seconds of a commercial. 188 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. 189 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 3: I also have had to work on my delivery, so 190 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 3: you know, it's just like like the time that he 191 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 3: wasn't talking and stuff like I'm just going through my. 192 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 2: Life and then just realizing. 193 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 3: Like, okay, well half the relationship. I just don't really 194 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 3: don't have to tell her why we stopped talking, because 195 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 3: how do you say somebody something like that? So anyways, 196 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 3: and she didn't end up hit me up. I did 197 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 3: end up telling her, and then we had a whole 198 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 3: conversation and so now this. 199 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 2: Is where we are. 200 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 3: So yeah, so I told her, like, bro, like why 201 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 3: you can't just not send me reels? 202 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 2: Like why is this so hard? 203 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 3: She was like, oh, well, thank you for your understanding 204 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 3: for or something like that, and so I was like, 205 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 3: and I really didn't want to argue. I was like, 206 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 3: all right, well cool, I copy pretty much copy all right, 207 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 3: thank you, I understand. 208 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 2: I appreciate your mind. 209 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 3: You when I asked a couple of people to stop 210 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 3: sending me real no, I told them I told him 211 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 3: to stop sending me reals, I said, thank you, I 212 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 3: love you, because I wasn't trying to be malicious. It's 213 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 3: just like I never asked for all of this stuff, 214 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 3: like I really didn't, and every time I did ask, 215 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 3: she kept blowing it off. 216 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, now I gotta give yo. 217 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 2: What is the motherfucker is she sending you porn or 218 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 2: the rituals? And what the how is she sending you? Here? 219 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 2: Is that ship has tainted in your spirit? You do 220 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 2: not like it? Lord? 221 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 5: Yeah? 222 00:08:57,160 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 2: All right, now I got to actually get I don't 223 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 2: even know how to. 224 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 3: I just got to put my foot down on it, 225 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 3: like it's now it's just seeming like a joke and 226 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 3: I really not here for it. I actually found out 227 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 3: that my aunt blocked me too, which I just feel, 228 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:12,959 Speaker 3: in my opinion. 229 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 2: Is weird. I get that everybody you know, like. 230 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 3: Does things in their own way and stuff like that, 231 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 3: but it's just like you just really don't have to 232 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 3: click my name, like in my opinion, it's just my opinion. 233 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 3: Now moving on, we haven't talked since then. Since that time, 234 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 3: and I asked her, now, the next day, her and 235 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 3: I was working an event, or maybe like the day after, 236 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 3: her and I was working an event like a wedding 237 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:40,680 Speaker 3: and stuff. And so we're in the car, and I'm 238 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,199 Speaker 3: not the type of person that if you don't talk 239 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 3: about something, we're not about to be back cool until 240 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 3: we talk about the shit. So I got in the car, 241 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 3: she said hello, I. 242 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 4: Said, what's up. 243 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 2: I put my headphones in because I. 244 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 3: Started watching some videos and stuff like that, and she 245 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 3: wasn't saying anything. 246 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: To me, to my little child, I hope it wasn't 247 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: real you was watching, because I knew you would have 248 00:09:58,080 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 1: blew up in that car. 249 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 3: So to my knowledge, she wasn't talking to me, and 250 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 3: she didn't like tap me or anything like that to 251 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 3: like make me like. 252 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 2: Turn to her or acknowledge. 253 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: Her or something. 254 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 3: I'm just in my phone at this point, so and 255 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 3: I'm not really thinking anything of it. So now we 256 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 3: get to the to the place we're taking out like 257 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 3: the equipment that we need, and she drops something. Now 258 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 3: the best friend at me. I wanted to make more 259 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 3: fun of her, but I was just like, bro, why 260 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 3: did you just wait? 261 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 5: Mind you? 262 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 3: This is like a cloud machine. I don't think you've 263 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 3: ever seen a cloud machine or if you have, it's heavy, 264 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 3: like it's a case that come with it and everything. 265 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 3: So she trying to pick that up out of the 266 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 3: trunk of a van. Why she's just about my size? 267 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 3: Why are you doing that? 268 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 2: So I was like, bro, why are you just in 269 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 2: wait for me? 270 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 3: And I kind of said it with like a little smirk, 271 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 3: a little smile like I really wasn't being serious. She 272 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 3: was like, well, you ain't have to say nothing, like. 273 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 2: Why are you coming at me? What? 274 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 5: What do you mean? 275 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:55,319 Speaker 2: Why am I coming at you? How am I coming 276 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 2: at you? 277 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 5: See? 278 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 2: You had an attitude the whole time. Yeah, yeah, was 279 00:10:59,320 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 2: supposed to talk. 280 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 3: She said you have an attitude the whole time, the 281 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 3: whole car ride and stuff like that. 282 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 2: And I'm like, how how did I have an attitude? 283 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 2: I said, Oh, so you assume you assume I had 284 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 2: an attitude. Both of y'all. 285 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 3: Answer, she just walked away or I don't know what 286 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,479 Speaker 3: she oh, And then when she said you had an attitude, 287 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 3: she like banged on the case. And so I was like, 288 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 3: what in the hell is your problem? Like why are 289 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 3: you being so aggressive? And so she didn't say nothing, 290 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 3: and she just walked away. So then. 291 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 6: So then what happened? 292 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 2: So we're in the spot. 293 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all too was trying to figure out each other's temperature. 294 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:37,559 Speaker 2: Y'all can't. 295 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: Y'all can't communicate mentally, like you know, unless y'all got 296 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: some weird doctor stream shit. 297 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 2: Going on, you know what I mean? 298 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 1: Y'all both was trying to figure out each other's temperature. 299 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: Whether you say, whether you admit it or not, you know, 300 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: that's just how it. 301 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 2: Y'all. 302 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: Both was quiet, becau y'all didn't know the other what 303 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: the other one was on. Y'all just know you from 304 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 1: your understanding, you was blocked. So you assume that she 305 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 1: an attitude with you, and she assumed you add an 306 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: attitude because. 307 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:04,079 Speaker 2: You ain't say shit. 308 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,840 Speaker 1: You put the headphones in, head down, and then she 309 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: dropped the cloud machine and you laughed, you know what 310 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: I mean. 311 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 2: So but yeah, like I said, fifteen years of friendship, 312 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk to you like you're my sister because 313 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 2: we know each other for just that. 314 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,959 Speaker 3: Damn well, you know and so and then I still 315 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 3: I'm still confused that to what attitude or like how 316 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 3: I was coming at her and stuff like that. 317 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: So I just felt like she felt away from that. 318 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 2: So now moving on, that's why you're talking out And. 319 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 3: I was like, hey, so did you not do you 320 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 3: have a problem with me, like you don't want to 321 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 3: be friends anymore? Or what's going on? 322 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: Because I'm I'm truly lost. 323 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 3: Like you were clearly bothered and you accusing me of 324 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 3: having an attitude and stuff when you're the one that 325 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 3: dropped this machine and you banging on the thing and 326 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 3: everything and talking to me that aggressive. Now, mind you, 327 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 3: I'm the one to first step up and start trying 328 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 3: to fight in my technically because I'm I'm pretty straightforward person. 329 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 3: So there's no reason for going to mean for us 330 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 3: to be say youre like having animosity and nobody says anything. 331 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 2: So but but why step up and try to fight? 332 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 3: So really and truly it's more so like really to 333 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 3: ask you the same question I asked you from the 334 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 3: first time. Really with like a friend, how how. 335 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 2: Do you maneuver with this type of situation? 336 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 3: Like I don't I don't have a problem with her, 337 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 3: I would like to be her friend, but at the 338 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,719 Speaker 3: same time, oh, I'm sorry, I'm leaving out a park. 339 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 3: So when I texted her, she did text me back, 340 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 3: but she was basically like, oh, well, if you were 341 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 3: my best friend, you knew that you didn't have to 342 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 3: say anything, or like, if you're supposed to be my 343 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 3: best friend, why did you say anything? It was so 344 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 3: unnecessary and you had an attitude the whole time, and 345 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 3: you wasn't talking to me and stuff and I was. 346 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 3: And so then I texted her some long messages and stuff, 347 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 3: right but like really and truly like for me. Oh, 348 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 3: and then after the messages she said, oh, I don't 349 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 3: have the capacity to go deeper right now, And I said, okay. 350 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, what the fuck was in the messages? What 351 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 2: the just super deep belong messages? What was going on? 352 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 1: Because you did just admit that you will be the 353 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 1: first to step up and fight cause niggas is quiet, 354 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: and you, like me, you're trying to hit them with them, 355 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: You're trying to get active and shit on your sister. Basically, now, 356 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: we got a commercial and if you click off this podcast, 357 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 1: I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. 358 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 2: Listen. 359 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 3: So my thing is like, how is it that you 360 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 3: had all of this to say when I asked you? 361 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 2: You know the thing like this. 362 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 3: Is now about to be a conversation, So what because 363 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 3: I had so much more to say, like you can't 364 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 3: go deeper into it now or whatever it is. I 365 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 3: also feel like I don't really want to assume anybody's 366 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 3: like feelings, so I didn't. 367 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 2: Really like believing that part of it. But yeah, you're 368 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 2: still just like, yeah, what type of thing? 369 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 3: I'm starting to feel like, what type of best friend 370 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 3: are you? You feel like you can't talk to me 371 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 3: and we already had a whole falling out, Yeah, so 372 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 3: now why are you not talking? So yeah, I'm feeling 373 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 3: away from that and. 374 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 2: So yeah, like just how would you moveing with this 375 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 2: type of situation? Like, because I. 376 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 3: Feel like this is a time limit type of thing, 377 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 3: and I really feel like this is more of, like, 378 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 3: I don't know, it's maybe a boundary, because what the like, 379 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 3: why are you acting like we're new friends? 380 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 2: You get what I'm. 381 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 5: Saying, So please, please please if you can see this, 382 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 5: I hope so, because all these incomplete messages and stories 383 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 5: is getting on my nerves, like this is taking up 384 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 5: whole episodes of nonsense. 385 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 2: Oh and let me bring this up to. 386 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 3: I am a person who I'm sorry I gotta yell 387 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 3: because I'm. 388 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 2: Back on the work floor. 389 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 3: I am a person who has always vividly dreamt. I 390 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 3: don't know how else to explain it. If you've never 391 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 3: heard of it, I'm really too sure. It's just real 392 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 3: life shit. Okay. I had a dream with her and 393 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 3: I that we basically were like talking to each other, 394 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 3: but no words were coming out, and we were just 395 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 3: like confused, Like I was like, what the. 396 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 5: Fuck is she saying? 397 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 2: She looking at me like what the fuck is she saying? 398 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 2: And I told her to dream. 399 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 3: And now I don't know what that would have really 400 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 3: done or anything, but I just feel like that was 401 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 3: spirit telling me that, like, Okay, y'all are going to 402 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 3: have communication issues. 403 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:20,400 Speaker 2: But I feel like if we're yeah, like pay attention. 404 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 3: Maybe we could work doing. 405 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 2: But she making me feel like I don't give it 406 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 2: damn what you said about that she. 407 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 6: I'm just saying this like they're talking at each other 408 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 6: and nobody's listening. Mm so that that definitely seems symbolic 409 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 6: for that. None of y'all listen, both neither one of 410 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 6: y'all listen, And then we need before I play this 411 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 6: last note because she's not finished. Well, let me play it. 412 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 2: Hold on, then I'll get it there and just play 413 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 2: this for the people. 414 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 3: People all your oh your nor what a complete story is? 415 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 2: Stop placing our time. 416 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 5: If you have juicy story, give the whole down tree, 417 00:16:57,680 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 5: give the whole story. 418 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 3: Goddamne on my damn nerves ship, I know the fuck 419 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:04,919 Speaker 3: that's right. 420 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:08,679 Speaker 2: And she's acute. She's so cute, like a little willow 421 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 2: Smith looking mommy. She's so cute. 422 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,920 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so look, let's get into this right here, 423 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: right now. In my opinion, I feel like, first of all, 424 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: you two are very you two are best friends. You 425 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:26,360 Speaker 1: said she's like your sister. I can relate to that. 426 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: My best friend is like my brother. 427 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 2: She and okay, all right, not okay, all right, So 428 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:37,719 Speaker 2: she's with her brothers. We're heavy and we're singing and 429 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 2: we're colored. Get me your no sorry all jokes to 430 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 2: the left. 431 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 1: It sounds like no accountability is being taken on either part. 432 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 2: Both of y'all got the same issue. 433 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:55,360 Speaker 1: Like, like Shana said, if y'all constantly talking over each 434 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:57,439 Speaker 1: other and all of that shit, y'all not listening. And 435 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: even when you're not talking with each other, y'all are 436 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: not trying to listen to each other. Y'all think y'all 437 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: supposed to read each other's minds, like and that that's 438 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: not good, that that actually happens in a lot of relationships. 439 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 2: You feel like a person supposed. 440 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: Enough you know what's going on, yeah, instead of just 441 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 1: opening your mouth and saying it. That car ride shouldn't 442 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 1: have been like that, like and I'm I'm I'm like 443 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 1: you to a certain extent where you said, okay, you 444 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 1: don't feel like we can move forward until we had 445 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 1: shot a situation that was already going on. That should 446 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: be the way things are in my opinion as well, 447 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 1: because how we're going, how we even. 448 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 2: Gonna move forward? 449 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 1: If I still feel sour about some shit that we 450 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: just went through and nobody's talking about it. 451 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 2: And then I've also been on the other end of 452 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:42,360 Speaker 2: that too. 453 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: That always that that feels like, all right, I could 454 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,239 Speaker 1: fall out with somebody and then don't say anything and 455 00:18:47,320 --> 00:18:49,640 Speaker 1: then well not even have a fault, I have a disagreement, 456 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 1: we don't talk about it. And then depends on how 457 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 1: it depends on Yeah, it depends on the situation and 458 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:59,199 Speaker 1: how severe you know, the issue is. But nobody is 459 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 1: taking account of bail And then you I also see 460 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 1: and just just you know, in that story, briefly, you're 461 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: the type of person who thinks somebody supposed to get 462 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: over something when you want them to get over something. 463 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 1: And your best friend, thank you pulled it and read 464 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 1: her fucking mind. Yeah, she she like she wanted she 465 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,360 Speaker 1: want to hash it out and and y'all gotta. 466 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 2: Get over it. Be over it, not get over it. 467 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 2: I think she just really want to talk about it. Yeah. 468 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 4: I think she really just want to deal with it 469 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 4: in that moment. Yeah, And some people need time. Yeah, 470 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 4: some people need time. That that's basically what I mean, 471 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 4: Like she wanted to. 472 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 2: Get it done right then and there, and. 473 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but it's like everybody don't operate the same, 474 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: Like what if Shorty the best visit it right and 475 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: she had taken time bomb too, She said, I wanted 476 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,360 Speaker 1: to start. I just like to fight, Like, all right, look, 477 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: if we're not get she gets frustrated quickly and easily 478 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: with shit, like you wanted to fight a whole community 479 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:03,679 Speaker 1: because they were sending you reels. I hope, I let 480 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: me send you some reals. I just feel like it's 481 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 1: not that serious and I can't tell you how I feel, right, 482 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 1: And that's why I said, no, let me. 483 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 2: I can't tell you how to feel. I can't. 484 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: However, your aunt blacked you like you got family members 485 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: black with shit. 486 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 2: It's like, what the fuck? What are we on social 487 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 2: media for? 488 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,919 Speaker 1: Right to be able to share things, share how we 489 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: feel about things, post things, you know, that's the part 490 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,919 Speaker 1: of being on social media. 491 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 2: If you don't like social media, get off of social media. 492 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:38,679 Speaker 2: She ain't say that. 493 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: No, That's why I say, if you yet, what is 494 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,360 Speaker 1: on social media? Pictures and reels? 495 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 2: Ship? You want to look at some pictures? All right? 496 00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,760 Speaker 1: You pull off the photo albums? That's what the fuck 497 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: you do? You get off the social media ship? 498 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 2: All right? 499 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: Nah? That no, it's a little bit of truth in that. 500 00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 1: But I I do not want to discredit how you 501 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: feel about anything. I'm not like trying to diminish your 502 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: feelings at all. I just want you to realize that 503 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:15,719 Speaker 1: people are dying, Kim yo, fuck and you better not 504 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 1: go punch somebody in the face for sending you the 505 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 1: fucking reals and we'll get mad that you're on You know, 506 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 1: I didn't know that they and why is there a 507 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 1: problem because that's what people do on social media, pooky. 508 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 2: But I'm with you. I'm rocking with That's fine. I'm 509 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 2: with you. 510 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 1: If I say I don't do something, don't do it, period, cool. 511 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 1: But what about what you do? You know what I'm 512 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:43,199 Speaker 1: saying like you don't have the best communication. I'm not 513 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 1: talking to your yo. You don't have the best communication. 514 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 2: I feel like y'all have the same situation. 515 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: You and your best friend are kind of like dealing 516 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: with the same thing. 517 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 2: Y'all. 518 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 1: Communication is not there. And you may say, no, Jess, 519 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: I do communicate with her. No, You're very demanding. You're 520 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: very demanding, and that is totally fun because that's where 521 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,159 Speaker 1: you are. But then you turn around and be like 522 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: she's aggressive. Both of y'all asses are aggressive. Both of 523 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,679 Speaker 1: your asses need to go sit in the fucking corner 524 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 1: and then come back and reconvene and talk and let 525 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: each other talk. Do not cut each other off, let 526 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: hurt me. But tell her, Yeah, tell her, tell me 527 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 1: how you feel. 528 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 2: You also have to tell her. 529 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,680 Speaker 1: Yo. I can't read your mind. I'm not trying to 530 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 1: read your mind. And I like how you said that 531 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:32,400 Speaker 1: you are a vivid dreamer. That is actually I. 532 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 2: Kind of do, like have empathy with that. I do 533 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,719 Speaker 2: because I used to dream vividly too. 534 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, I do believe that there are deeper meanings 535 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:44,280 Speaker 1: to a lot of people's dreams than just surface, you 536 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So, like Shana said, that's because 537 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 1: y'all don't listen to each other. I can tell there's 538 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,479 Speaker 1: a lot of history and a lot of love. And 539 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 1: I don't think you should not be a friend. Work 540 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: on your fucking friendship. 541 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 2: It is so hard. 542 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fifteen years, Like, come on, no, we not 543 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: And I know some people grow apart and all that 544 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: type of ship. 545 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 2: But now you just say, through all of that, you 546 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 2: called this. 547 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 1: Girl your sister to me, So it's like if she's 548 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 1: talking about it to the extent that she still truly 549 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:12,160 Speaker 1: can love. 550 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 2: They need to work on it, yep. And you came, 551 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,439 Speaker 2: this is your second mess that it am fixed with 552 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 2: this girl. So there is something there. 553 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 1: There is something there, and y'all just have to y'all 554 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: just have to work it out, that's all. But we've 555 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 1: come to the end of another can'tfully borkless episode, which 556 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 1: girl justslarius. 557 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 2: And my guy. 558 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 1: Hello, and my guy, my bad it Mike went out, Yeah, 559 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We'll say something then, boy, sorry, all right, because. 560 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 2: Don't believe me. 561 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 4: I know who you talking to because I'm a girl, 562 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,640 Speaker 4: No girl, I'm a girl, all right, y'all. 563 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 2: Well we all in November. 564 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 1: I need y'all to put on y'all coats, y'all scoff, 565 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:56,439 Speaker 1: y'all gloves. That is not the season where you need 566 00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 1: to try to Everybody is sick. Everybody is sick. Everybody 567 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 1: is sick. So I need for y'all to take your 568 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 1: emergency your vitamins, your airborne, your hot tea, get all 569 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: the home remedies. 570 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:09,399 Speaker 2: You can't. 571 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: Everybody's sick, you coughing in the ass all a round, 572 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 1: all the white people and you know, white people cough 573 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 1: in their hands and then want to hug all over 574 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: you and dap you up and ship and all got 575 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,240 Speaker 1: side of that. So I'm in my deepest pan voice. 576 00:24:22,280 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 1: I see y'all next week. Pe Can't Fully Reckless is 577 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 1: a production of iHeart Radio and The Black Effect. 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