1 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Stephan. 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: I never told you a protection of iHeart Radio and today. 3 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes we try to be timely. Sometimes sometimes 4 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: sometimes it just happens. Sometimes we try. As we're recording this, 5 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:33,480 Speaker 1: it is good Friday, Passover has just happened, it's about 6 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: to be Easter. It's very a lot of things going on, 7 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: and I had somebody jokingly say to me recently that 8 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: it is the Pope's biggest time of the year, which 9 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: reminded me of this episode we did, which was literally 10 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: just me being like, I have a question, Can a 11 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: woman be the Pope? Oh? The answer is no, but 12 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: it is interesting history. I thought, because of all of 13 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 1: our discussion we're having around religion right now, would be 14 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: a good one to bring back during this time. If 15 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: you celebrate any of these things, we hope you're you 16 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: have a good a good celebration, and please enjoy this 17 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 1: classic episode. Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome 18 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: to stuff I've never told you production of iHeartRadio. So 19 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: for today's questions, Amantha, I'm just curious, do you have 20 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 1: a lot of knowledge or experiences with the Catholic Church, 21 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 1: The only thing I really know about the Catholic Church 22 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: has everything to do with TV, so so like the 23 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: Da Vinci Code and or any real horror movies about 24 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: possession yea, yea. And of course I know about all 25 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: of the scandals within the Catholic Church and a little 26 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: bit of the history of the Catholic Church so way 27 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: back when with all the wars. That's about it. So 28 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: I don't know the inner and out of all of this, 29 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:21,519 Speaker 1: like being confirmed and all of that. Yea, how about you? Well, 30 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: I also have a lot of knowledge from horror movies. 31 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: Stave Motta was one of my favorite horror movies when 32 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 1: I was a kid, which was not Eaves, and I 33 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: talked about that not good, and I'm sure the Catholic 34 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: Church really doesn't like that that our knowledge goes horror movies. 35 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: But Katie, who you've now heard on the show, she 36 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: was one of my best friends growing up, and she 37 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 1: her family. Her mom is really Catholic and her dad's 38 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: really Methodist, which I thought was so cool as a child. 39 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: But one time she took me and Katie took me 40 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: to church and I think we were nine, to the 41 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: Catholic Church, and she was really concerned I was gonna 42 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: embarrass her. So she was giving me all these like, 43 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: can't do this, you can't do this because you're not Catholic, 44 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: you can't do this. And it was only us in 45 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 1: the church, and I was trying to like teaser, and 46 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 1: I just shouted at the top of my lungs, give 47 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: me that communion. And it turns out the priest was 48 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: actually and I wasn't really thrilled about that. Yeah, and 49 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: then I just sort of sat quietly during the whole thing. 50 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 1: I was always kind of jealous about the confession thing. 51 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: I don't know why. And then my ex boyfriend who 52 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: I dated for three years, his family was Catholic, and 53 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: so I did end up going to a lot of 54 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: very long, very long ceremonies. Okay, so I have experience 55 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: in that way, but I yeah, I'm not very familiar 56 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: outside of what I know from them and what I 57 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: know from horror movies. Right for me, my family, who 58 00:03:55,720 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: is very Western Christian Protestant, they're not exactly first Baptists, 59 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: they're a little more old school, very mystic for the 60 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: lack of better terms. In comparison to so seeing any 61 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: other religion outside of our denomination, right was poretical. So 62 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: me even trying to step foot into a Catholic church, 63 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 1: I think my mother would have been upset. Outside of 64 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: like the cultural area. So I had all the beautiful 65 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 1: art and you know, history of it, and that's about it. 66 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: So everything, like growing up, it was just like a 67 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: even though I did have a family member who was 68 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: a devout Catholic and had the jewelry and had the 69 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: Saints and all of that, which I was fascinated by. 70 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: I'm fascinated by saints in general, but yeah, seeing all 71 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: of that, like growing up with that, the Catholics were 72 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: the other for my family. Yeah, they did. I mean 73 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 1: that because the religion is so old and has been 74 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: so many like movies and TV. And I remember as 75 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: a kid being like they drink wine, but oh we 76 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: had the Welch's grape juice. We had on the unlove 77 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: and breath and foot washings like it was would I 78 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: say level of mystical, It was level. Yeah, that's very 79 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: Southern Samantha. You're welcome. So oh, I forgot one of 80 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: our co workers, I need to look this up after 81 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 1: because I totally forgot about this. His grandfather used to 82 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 1: work at the Vatican and he had a Wikipedia page. 83 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, yeah, but that is for another time. 84 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: All is to say, we're doing a very brief look 85 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: at why women can't become popes. But clearly Samantha and 86 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: I are not religious theologians. We don't know a lot 87 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: about the Catholic religion outside of these things we picked 88 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: up from friends or entertainment, So please don't turn to 89 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: us for that. I'll so we all absolutely recognize that 90 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: this is a form of belief and if you believe 91 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: in this, that is all you and absolutely that you 92 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: need to do what you feel is in your faith 93 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: and what keeps you going. Yes, yes, I will say. 94 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 1: Because Katie was my best friend and her family was very, 95 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,119 Speaker 1: very religious, this idea of the pope has long been 96 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 1: something of a curiosity to me, and especially because I 97 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: loved Harry Potter when we were growing up together, and 98 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: the pope, I can't remember which one, but basically one 99 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 1: pope I think it was John Paul said yes, Harry 100 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: Potter is fine, and the previous pope had said it 101 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: wasn't fine. And so she went from not allowing Katie 102 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 1: to read it to allowing her to read it and 103 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: actually suggesting it to me and me being like, huh, 104 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: all right, I'm happy we can read it now, but 105 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: I mean we could talk about the whole level of 106 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 1: witchcraft and religion in general because my parents were absolutely 107 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: we couldn't even dress up. That is again a very 108 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: Protestant point. Yeah. Yeah. I had another friend who I 109 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: had to sneak Harry Potter to her because her parents 110 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: thought it was like anti religious and they would let 111 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: her read it. Little troublemaker. I was with the books 112 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: you were, look at you. So this episode is brought 113 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: to you by my curiosity. I was curious if a 114 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: woman could ever be the pope. I have no idea 115 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: why this came to my mind, as far as I know, 116 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: I didn't consume any news item about it, but I 117 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: was just suddenly like, can a woman become the pope? 118 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: The answer is no? Right now. The answer is no 119 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: because in order to become the pope, he had to 120 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: be ordained, and women are currently prohibited from becoming priest. 121 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: Worth noting this is based on history, not doctrine. There's 122 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: nothing that says women can't become priest or the pope. 123 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: The Catholic Church argues that this is based on the 124 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: fact that Jesus chose twelve men to be apostles, and 125 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: that they in turn chose men to continue their ministries 126 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: and their absence. On top of that, during communion, when 127 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: Catholics believe that the bread and wine become the body 128 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: of Jesus Christ and the priest recites the last words 129 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: of Jesus Christ, do this in remembrance of me, the 130 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: Church capital c believes that this should physically be a man, 131 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: the person administering this, like Jesus was. Even the discussion 132 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: of the possibility of women as priests has been called 133 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 1: disrespectful to the Catholic religion. And to reiterate, obviously, we're 134 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: talking about like the church and the higher ups at 135 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: the church. Not all Catholicism has practiced this way. I'm 136 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: pretty sure I've heard about, maybe less than official, but 137 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,719 Speaker 1: female priests. This is the church's stance, though, this is 138 00:08:50,720 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: their official stance. End of episode. Just kidding, And I'm 139 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 1: not gonna lie as you're talking about this and we're 140 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 1: gonna talk a little more. I couldn't help about Shonnad O'Connor, 141 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: which we've already talked about. Your big mishap in confusing 142 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: her with Donna Lewis, and I'm still very upset about 143 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 1: this and I will never find it and I will 144 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: never forget it. Like I was like, if you've done cranberries, 145 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: anybody but this other person, I would have forgiven you. 146 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 1: But Shonado O'Connor was infamous for ripping the Pope picture 147 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 1: on SNL and got asked it essentially by her whole industry. 148 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:45,599 Speaker 1: She is now a priest that was ordained by a 149 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 1: controversial bishop, Michael Cox, and of course there's this whole 150 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: back and forth about whether or not she could be 151 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 1: a priest because she is a woman and her saying 152 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: nothing you can do will invalidate my priesthood to specific 153 00:09:56,920 --> 00:09:59,719 Speaker 1: people who are trying to say she's not. So I 154 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: I find that interesting that she still is well was, 155 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: as of this article a part of that industry. I 156 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:10,680 Speaker 1: guess it was in nineteen ninety nine that she did this. Yeah, So, 157 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 1: I mean there's a lot of things that would go 158 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 1: back forth, and I do remember that a part of 159 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 1: the Catholic Church. That is something that is seared into 160 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: my brain growing up. Just n f YI. So there 161 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: have been some moves to expand positions open to women 162 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: in the capital c church. Earlier in twenty twenty one, 163 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: sister Natalie Beckhart from France became the first woman appointed 164 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: as the under Secretary of the Synod of Bishops, granting 165 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: her voting rights. These bishops debate important issues impacting the 166 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 1: Roman Catholic Church and advised the pontiff. This is after 167 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: Pope Francis appointed six women to counsel and oversees the 168 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: finances of the Vatican, among other positions, and updated church 169 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: laws to allow women to serve to the altar and 170 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 1: administer communion. And we know Pope Francis and Pope Benedict 171 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: was a little more liberal popes. Yeah, I should ask 172 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 1: Katie how her mom is with Pope Francis, because she 173 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: was okay, and the last one the more liberal things 174 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: happening that I'm not sure about this, I'm curious. Interestingly, 175 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 1: there has been a soul woman pope, according to medieval legend, 176 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:26,559 Speaker 1: Pope Joan or actually Pope John or Johannes Unclicus, who 177 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: was actually a woman named Joan. A thirteenth century monk 178 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: wrote about how Pope Joan became pregnant and ended up 179 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: giving birth during a church procession. As with smoth, things 180 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: like this, though there is a lot of debate whether 181 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:44,520 Speaker 1: this person man or woman even existed. There is recent 182 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: archaeological discoveries there have been that indicate that this person 183 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 1: may have existed. Wait, we talk about Joan of arc No, okay, 184 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: just just checking. No another religious Joan. There can be 185 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: more than one religious Joan. I guess, so I'll allow it. 186 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: I would love to come back and revisit this. But 187 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: people aren't sure that this person existed, but potentially they did. 188 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: And actually these recent discoveries people are using in arguments 189 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: about well, if she did exist, then women can't there 190 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,040 Speaker 1: is a precedent and women can be pope. So ongoing conversation. Obviously, 191 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 1: as you touched on Samantha, there are a lot of 192 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: other issues with the Catholic Church that we could and 193 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: probably will one day talk about. But this is just 194 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: me having a random question and hoping that some of 195 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: you listeners might have had this question at one point two. Yeah, 196 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 1: there you go. I didn't. I never knew. I think 197 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 1: it's interesting to think on general about religion and women 198 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: in overall arguing and all the issues within religion. Period. 199 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,439 Speaker 1: So I could just leave that as a period and 200 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 1: not just the Catholic Church and we've talked a little 201 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 1: bit about that for all. But yeah, so good to 202 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: know maybe that was that was a female pope. Maybe 203 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: not Ja Yeah, no, a different Joane. And when I 204 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 1: was reading this is a big area of debate about 205 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: whether it should be changed at all to allow women 206 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: to become pope, to become the pope, and even proponents 207 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: of it and people who have studied Catholicism are like, yeah, 208 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: probably would will ever happen, but I mean there have 209 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 1: been some changes, so we'll see, well, we'll see yes. 210 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 1: In the main time, listeners, we would love to hear 211 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: from you our email Steffidia mom Stuff at iHeartMedia dot com. 212 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: You can find us on Twitter at mom Stuff podcast 213 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: or on Instagram stuff I've Never told you. 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