Speaker 1: The second date of day. Being a woman on a
Speaker 1: dating app must be like going to the cheesecake factory
Speaker 1: and looking at the menu. You just have so many
Speaker 1: options and pages to choose you don't even know where
Speaker 1: to start. It's like, ooh, do I want something that's
Speaker 1: tartan six foot four or something with a little more
Speaker 1: in the middle. But he's got chocolate chips in his teeth?
Speaker 2: Okay, Alexis's reaction. I don't think the menu items look that.
Speaker 1: Goody did I say the cheesecake factory had a great menu?
Speaker 3: There's a lot of options.
Speaker 1: I mean I bring it up because one of our listeners, Morgan,
Speaker 1: says she met a guy recently on a dating app,
Speaker 1: and so I want to hear about it. Morgan, Welcome
Speaker 1: to the show.
Speaker 4: Hi.
Speaker 2: Was he the Snickers cheesecake of your life?
Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, really good?
Speaker 1: I am curious as a woman, how do you decide
Speaker 1: who you want to go out with if you're getting
Speaker 1: tons and tons of swipes?
Speaker 6: I mean, you guys, pick one that like, maybe has
Speaker 6: something that stands out to you. You know, you kind
Speaker 6: of go with.
Speaker 4: Your gut, all right, Okay?
Speaker 5: And how did your gut do for you? This time,
Speaker 5: what was.
Speaker 1: Your gut craving what's its name?
Speaker 6: Well, then craving this. But I saw a picture and
Speaker 6: he was really good looking, and then I realized he
Speaker 6: had taken this picture of himself on toilet. Oh no,
Speaker 6: and he's like it's in a funny way, and he's
Speaker 6: like surrounded by toilet paper and he's got like a
Speaker 6: toilet brush in one.
Speaker 1: Here. Your gut was craving toilet boys.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just thought it was hysterical.
Speaker 5: Oh you thought it was funny?
Speaker 6: What Aiden?
Speaker 1: Aiden?
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sure it's going to be like it.
Speaker 1: All right, you swiped on toilet guy, Aiden.
Speaker 5: He must be hot to be able to pull off
Speaker 5: a toilet picture.
Speaker 2: I'm confident, right, Yeah, the only way you can do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. So what did you and Aiden
Speaker 1: do when you went out?
Speaker 6: Well, we met up and went to a bar and
Speaker 6: we were having like a pretty good time, a little
Speaker 6: fun when we were drinking a little bit, and as
Speaker 6: we drank we talked more, and at one point we
Speaker 6: kind of bonded about like our most memorable date. Oh interesting, Yeah,
Speaker 6: So I told her about mine and I was like
Speaker 6: it was kind of a normal date and he was like, well,
Speaker 6: why was it so memorable? And I was like, well,
Speaker 6: I was engaged to a different person.
Speaker 4: It's time.
Speaker 5: Oh god, oh wow, you just threw that out there.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: He was like, oh god, that's a bomb.
Speaker 5: Wait, so you were cheating on your fiance.
Speaker 6: Well, I mean I was kind of on the way out,
Speaker 6: just checking the field out one more time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, as a guy, if you're sitting across from somebody
Speaker 1: and you hear them say that, that would be kind
Speaker 1: of a red flag. I mean that, I believe you
Speaker 1: said kind of with that, the giant red flag.
Speaker 5: What did he say? What was his reaction to that?
Speaker 6: Well, he was like, you're not engaged now, right, And
Speaker 6: I was like, oh no, no, no. We just we laughed
Speaker 6: about it, and you know, like, looking back, I realized
Speaker 6: it's probably a really bad thing to do and I
Speaker 6: shouldn't have done that, you know, but I hope he
Speaker 6: doesn't think on an unfaithful person, Well.
Speaker 5: He probably does.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I'm engaged to you. You may go on
Speaker 7: dates with other guys.
Speaker 5: That's kind of intense. What was his most memorable date?
Speaker 6: Honestly, I don't even remember.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I probably changed the momentum.
Speaker 1: She was just shame spiraling realizing what she had done.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, yeah.
Speaker 6: I was up in my mind was elsewhere. But like
Speaker 6: we kind of got over and started like talking kind
Speaker 6: of flirty again.
Speaker 1: You did, how do you? What do you talk flirty about?
Speaker 1: After admitting to dating other people on your fiance?
Speaker 6: Quick change the subject right And at one point, like
Speaker 6: I asked him, are you a boom guy or butt guy?
Speaker 6: He was a boot guy and I had mentioned like, oh,
Speaker 6: I thinking maybe about getting an enhancement.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, this is all that's a smart strategy.
Speaker 7: Though, two of my three husbands or butt guys.
Speaker 2: Why isn't a smart strategy just because boobs are going
Speaker 2: to distract him that much?
Speaker 1: Totally, He's gonna forget everything that happened before that moment.
Speaker 1: I don't know, mann, trust me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, God, that's why I haven't heard anything else.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, maybe this part I'm getting a little
Speaker 6: too tipsy. The night kind of ends a little faster
Speaker 6: than I thought it would, But like I said, I'm
Speaker 6: kind of glad it did end because the alcohol was
Speaker 6: really starting to.
Speaker 5: Who knows what else you would have shared?
Speaker 7: My god, is this kind of a train wreck?
Speaker 1: Lie?
Speaker 5: It feels like an overshare.
Speaker 1: But again, remember this is a guy who takes pictures
Speaker 1: of himself on the toilet and posts them online.
Speaker 5: That's funny. Cheating on your fiance? Not really?
Speaker 6: Well, I didn't cheat. I mean technically I went on.
Speaker 6: I had a few.
Speaker 5: That's full cheating.
Speaker 2: You can't date someone else. Wait did you tell him
Speaker 2: that too? Did you tell him that?
Speaker 6: No, I said, nothing happened. It was just dinner and
Speaker 6: you know, some social time.
Speaker 5: What Okay?
Speaker 1: She answered the question. Honestly, it was a memorable date
Speaker 1: night for her. Should say it was the best date
Speaker 1: night for her. It was a memorable All.
Speaker 7: Relationships are different. I do think like ninety nine percent
Speaker 7: of them would consider cheating. But maybe you have a
Speaker 7: really cool fiance.
Speaker 5: Well, no, they're not together anymore.
Speaker 1: Yeah, well we haven't asked that. Are you still with
Speaker 1: your fiance? No?
Speaker 6: Her date asked that no, I'm single.
Speaker 1: Yeah okay.
Speaker 5: Her date even asked to make sure.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well that's that's a smart guy. I guess I remember listening.
Speaker 2: So we need to help you come back from this
Speaker 2: because I'm guessing that you have not heard from him.
Speaker 3: Well I have, Oh wrong again, broke?
Speaker 1: How does that feel?
Speaker 5: Okay? So Colleen has said, why don't you guys just
Speaker 5: go out?
Speaker 6: Well, he's like aloof like he's not getting back to
Speaker 6: me right away.
Speaker 7: Sometimes it's an energy chapter, like when you ask specifically about.
Speaker 2: Dating, they wouldn't be amazing if we call him, we
Speaker 2: find out he has a fiance.
Speaker 1: Why is that funny? Now the girl day, it's.
Speaker 2: All, well, let's find out how funny it really is.
Speaker 1: We're gonna come back. We're gonna call Aiden for you
Speaker 1: toilet boy himself and you see what he has to say,
Speaker 1: try and get you a second date. Update right after this.
Speaker 4: All right, okay, hold on.
Speaker 1: Update. We've always said on this show talking about xes
Speaker 1: on a first date is a big no no. But
Speaker 1: we've never said anything about bringing up past behavior when
Speaker 1: you were engaged and you accidentally went on a date
Speaker 1: with somebody else.
Speaker 5: I don't think she is I got a.
Speaker 1: Free dinner and a funny story out of it. If
Speaker 1: we don't want our listeners to do that, we need
Speaker 1: to explicitly tell them not to.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean that's actually true. I mean this woman
Speaker 5: doesn't even think that was cheating.
Speaker 1: It wasn't. It's not cheating until parts touch.
Speaker 2: No, no, if my husband went on a date with
Speaker 2: someone better. Yes, bet your butt, don't.
Speaker 1: Have to cancel dinner with him later he's going to
Speaker 1: be really upset about Michael.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 1: But see, this is something that happened to one of
Speaker 1: our listeners. Morgan, on her date, told a story about
Speaker 1: how she went out with a different guy while she
Speaker 1: was betrothed to another. They're no longer betrothed.
Speaker 5: Okay, engaged.
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't want to keep saying engaged, so I
Speaker 1: had to take into my you.
Speaker 5: Know, she's single.
Speaker 1: Yes, she is single and trying to mingle once again
Speaker 1: with Aiden. That's the guy that she went out with.
Speaker 1: So Morgan, how we doing?
Speaker 6: I'm doing good?
Speaker 2: Really, even after hearing all that. Okay, I apologize. I
Speaker 2: like your attitude though, Morgan, I think you have a
Speaker 2: good attitude. It sounds like you can take a good joke.
Speaker 1: She means that in the most demeaning way possible. You're
Speaker 1: saying talking, that's where it's coming from. But we're all
Speaker 1: on your side, at least for now, Morgan. We'll see
Speaker 1: if it changes when we call Eden.
Speaker 8: Okay, don't evilly every time I say Okay, here we go,
Speaker 8: good luck, let's do it.
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, is this Aidan? Yeah? Sorry, who's this?
Speaker 1: My name is Jeff from Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: We're a radio show. He tell you that. Just don't yeah,
Speaker 1: don't ask questions. We talk to you for a second
Speaker 1: aiden because we're doing something called a second date update
Speaker 1: on our show here. Have you ever heard of that before?
Speaker 4: Okay? Uh, yeah, I think I've heard it before.
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's where we help out our listeners and try
Speaker 1: and hook them up on a second date after they've
Speaker 1: gone out with somebody. So you recently went out with
Speaker 1: a woman who listens to our show named Morgan.
Speaker 2: And it doesn't sound like you're ghosting Morgan or anything.
Speaker 2: I guess you guys have been texting and stuff.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I'm trying to be nice a little bit,
Speaker 4: you know. I like she seems fine. She's definitely unique.
Speaker 5: She's unique. Is that good to you? Is unique?
Speaker 4: Good?
Speaker 6: Nice?
Speaker 1: Fine? Unique? Those aren't usually glowing?
Speaker 4: Chef? Did what did she tell you?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 4: How the date went?
Speaker 1: We got some details from it. We heard you were
Speaker 1: out at a bar together and you guys talked about
Speaker 1: some interesting things. Yeah, after having some drinks, of course.
Speaker 5: Little truth zerum, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, a little discussion about some of your most memorable dates.
Speaker 4: Right, so, oh my gosh, so she told you that
Speaker 4: about that story?
Speaker 5: Yeah, are you talking about her story?
Speaker 2: You mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Would you what? What? How'd you hear it?
Speaker 4: So she said her most memorable date was that she
Speaker 4: went on a date while she was still engaged to
Speaker 4: a guy. Yeah, and yeah, that definitely was like pretty
Speaker 4: weird to me.
Speaker 1: Did you say progressive of her? Yea interesting.
Speaker 5: Yeah, she isn't owned by anybody.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was definitely one way to push.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna lie. We got some red flags
Speaker 1: in this room when we heard that too, oh.
Speaker 5: Mys, And we told her that, you know, but she took.
Speaker 4: It well, right, So, I mean that was the first thing.
Speaker 1: That was the first thing, well if you like.
Speaker 4: Got super flirty and was like asking questions that were
Speaker 4: a little like, I don't know, maybe for later in
Speaker 4: the date there, like for a second date. She was
Speaker 4: she was asking me if I was like a but
Speaker 4: or a boo guy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't like that.
Speaker 4: I wasn't ready to be like talking about that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it wasn't a good move.
Speaker 2: Do you remember you told her, oh, it's a great move,
Speaker 2: talking about how you want to get breast in hands.
Speaker 1: Why you're bashing me?
Speaker 5: Right, it wasn't a good book. He didn't like it.
Speaker 1: Everybody's different, Brooke, It's okay.
Speaker 7: The majority of guys would agree, and you can always
Speaker 7: just say both brothers.
Speaker 2: Well, And what it sounds like is she was just
Speaker 2: trying to set it up so that she could brag
Speaker 2: about maybe getting a boob job at some point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So what was that like inappropriate to you?
Speaker 4: It was definitely on the line and she immediately like mentioned, oh,
Speaker 4: I'm getting breast enhancements. And I was like kind of
Speaker 4: caught off guard, and I said, like, well, you don't
Speaker 4: seem like the tight oh, just because like she didn't
Speaker 4: seem like she needed that. She was so confident in
Speaker 4: herself anyway.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of confidence that still get plastic surgery
Speaker 2: about feel. I mean, did you do you think that
Speaker 2: that was off putting to her when you said that
Speaker 2: she wasn't the type. Uh?
Speaker 4: She seemed like excited about it to like prove me wrong,
Speaker 4: because then she reaches into her shirt and whips out
Speaker 4: this like jelly type thing and.
Speaker 5: Fos it down on the it's a color.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she said, it's like the saline bag and
Speaker 4: I guess they give them to you like at the
Speaker 4: medical center.
Speaker 2: It's like it's like a pro water balloon.
Speaker 4: I mean she just whipped them out and put it
Speaker 4: on the table and said, I'm taking these babies for
Speaker 4: a test run.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, did you not laugh? Like that's pretty funny?
Speaker 4: I think I laughed, but I was definitely uncomfortable. It was,
Speaker 4: you know, I like somebody who's funny and outgoing, and
Speaker 4: she's definitely that, but this was like insane, insane.
Speaker 6: I'm not insane.
Speaker 5: That's not gonna help. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's supposed to wait till we call her in,
Speaker 1: but Morgan's been on the other line. Wanted to talk
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 6: I was a little tipsy, and you know, I had
Speaker 6: a little problem controlling what I was saying, and at
Speaker 6: that point it was kind of doing damage control, but
Speaker 6: I think I was doing a lot more damage. And
Speaker 6: you took a picture of a.
Speaker 2: Toilet, you know, oh yeah, all right, one of your
Speaker 2: profile picks or whatever, and your dating app was you
Speaker 2: on a toilet?
Speaker 1: She said, we heard about that.
Speaker 4: I mean, it's not like my pants were down, I was.
Speaker 4: I was just making fun of bathroom sealtie.
Speaker 2: But come on, well, okay, I know, but it kind
Speaker 2: of sets the tone right for your type of humor.
Speaker 7: Sounds like maybe you were trying to match each other's energy.
Speaker 4: Maybe I was kind of going into the date like
Speaker 4: a bit more serious, and I just was not ready
Speaker 4: to dive in the deep end like Morgan was of
Speaker 4: that day.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Morgan, slepty in the face.
Speaker 6: I just have to get used to me, like I
Speaker 6: want to squire a case.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 8: That's anytime someone says you'll get used to them, or
Speaker 8: you'll get used to me, that's always.
Speaker 1: It's the same of like, if you can't stand me
Speaker 1: at my worst, you don't deserve me.
Speaker 3: Apologetically me, which I think is sexy by the way.
Speaker 2: I'm just trying here, Okay. I mean, I'll say, Morgan
Speaker 2: sounds fun. She sounds like you know what you're getting.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's a good point. You know, she's laid it
Speaker 5: out there.
Speaker 1: She's very, very brutally honest.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I will say, Morgan, you did good by like
Speaker 4: telling me about that story. You know, I feel like,
Speaker 4: even though it wasn't a good light on you, you still
Speaker 4: told the story. So I guess that's good to be like.
Speaker 5: Jeff for Meg, it's a progress.
Speaker 1: The guarantee for you, Aiden is if you go out
Speaker 1: with her, they're no shortage of excitement.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess I could go with a little less
Speaker 4: anxiety on a date anxiety.
Speaker 1: I'm hearing that you're at least thinking about it. So
Speaker 1: we'd like to offer to send you on a date
Speaker 1: that we would pay for.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, once you go on like three or
Speaker 6: four dates with me, all that stuff I do is normal,
Speaker 6: you know.
Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, it's like you.
Speaker 6: I'm a very awkward person and I like to laugh
Speaker 6: at myself though.
Speaker 5: That's sure.
Speaker 2: She has been such a good sport and we have
Speaker 2: given her a hard time.
Speaker 1: It's hard to turn that down if we needn't answer
Speaker 1: it and yes or no, you want to see her again?
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, you know what, Let's give it a shot.
Speaker 1: Just make sure you don't get engaged to her. That's kind.
Speaker 7: Hey, maybe you can try out her her saline bags?
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 7: I would want to put him under my shirt? You
Speaker 7: want him to weary?
Speaker 2: What did you say?
Speaker 1: Let's not talk about Okay, looking Jeffrey in the morning,