Speaker 1: All right, it's time for your brand new Second Date update.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Brook and Jeffrey Podcast. We're so glad
Speaker 1: you're here. And can I just ask after you listen
Speaker 1: to the Second Date, can you tell me what this
Speaker 1: guy does is creepy or helpful?
Speaker 2: Yeah? We can put a poll on here. Oh that's
Speaker 2: a good I yeah, because you look at it with
Speaker 2: helpful I really really appreciate it. You were his biggest fan.
Speaker 1: I still have you were You'll understand when you hear it.
Speaker 1: But let's get to some comments real quick. Sierra Taylor
Speaker 1: five four two eight rote Brook and Jeffrey please say
Speaker 1: hello to eight year old Taveon in Boise, Idaho. Come on, Brook,
Speaker 1: you'll feel bad if you don't. He listens every day.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, are you getting black fails? Say hi?
Speaker 1: I never feel bad about hurting an eight year old's feelings.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you sorry, It's not personal, Okay.
Speaker 2: I have my own eighty Yeah.
Speaker 1: And our last comment of the day comes from Mike
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Speaker 3: I may.
Speaker 2: You know, it depends on how you take it.
Speaker 3: All.
Speaker 2: Right, here we go. Let's get into the second date update.
Speaker 2: I think you don't love it. It starts right now.
Speaker 4: The second date update, alexis when you go out on
Speaker 4: a date. Here's an important question. Do you do phone
Speaker 4: up or phone face down on the table?
Speaker 2: I put it my purse usually I don't have an out.
Speaker 4: Wow, trust the guy to be near your phone.
Speaker 2: Your hand. I got one hand in my person. Okay,
Speaker 2: I gotta touches. I feel my brain.
Speaker 1: You know, if I guess saw it was like a
Speaker 1: twitch at the table the whole time when you couldn't
Speaker 1: see it.
Speaker 4: Well, I bring it up because some people think phone
Speaker 4: face down means you're hiding something that you don't want
Speaker 4: them to see.
Speaker 1: Right now, I just put it on do not disturb
Speaker 1: if you don't want text to show up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that it's polite to put it face down.
Speaker 4: Well, phone up would be more like you're kind of
Speaker 4: an open book an open phone.
Speaker 1: I think it's you're boring and I would rather look
Speaker 1: at my phone.
Speaker 4: Okay. The whole reason that I bring it up is
Speaker 4: because one guy cell is at the center of something
Speaker 4: that could have possibly gone wrong that night. He's not
Speaker 4: really sure. So let's welcome Paul to the show. Paul,
Speaker 4: how you doing?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 3: I'm okay, how are you guys?
Speaker 2: We know where the phone is right now? Paul up
Speaker 2: to his Yeah, I wait a minute, is it.
Speaker 4: Where on your body? Is that from? Paul? I like
Speaker 4: that you were confused. Okay, Paul, don'tn't worry about the
Speaker 4: froll Just let's talk about the girl that you met.
Speaker 4: What's her name?
Speaker 3: What was this girl? Kelly?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 4: Where did you meet Kelly?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've known each other at the gym and we
Speaker 3: talked there.
Speaker 1: Okay, So would you say your friends, like Jim friends
Speaker 1: before you guys went out.
Speaker 3: We're friendly, yeah.
Speaker 4: Jim acquaintances.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm here there for a few months. We go
Speaker 3: around the same time.
Speaker 4: So that's refreshing because I'm somebody that's like had phones
Speaker 4: on face down, phone face down, walking up to a girl,
Speaker 4: immediately give me your blindfold on, Like I don't want
Speaker 4: to do anything with anybody else at the gym. At
Speaker 4: the gym, sorry, yes, it's very difficult to go from
Speaker 4: equipment to equipment. But anyway, I'm glad that you you
Speaker 4: don't take it off, No, I don't. But good for you, Paul,
Speaker 4: You're able to talk to Kelly anyone else.
Speaker 1: So sorry, sorry sidetracked.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she says, Normally I tell guys I have a boyfriend,
Speaker 3: but I'm not going to tell you that.
Speaker 1: So it's like cool, oh wow, Okay, that's a good
Speaker 1: line on her part too, because it's like, I'm very wanted.
Speaker 2: I have to turn men down all the time.
Speaker 4: I'm going to make an exception for you. So what
Speaker 4: did you guys do?
Speaker 3: So both our schedules are really busy, it was hard
Speaker 3: to find time to hang out. So we actually settled
Speaker 3: on a gym date.
Speaker 4: Wait, huh, wait a minute, you're like, let's just meet
Speaker 4: back here?
Speaker 3: Whose idea that we just kind of both agreed because
Speaker 3: they couldn't find any other time.
Speaker 1: You know, you guys really can't skip one hour at
Speaker 1: the gym to get one drink the gym.
Speaker 4: Rats, but together.
Speaker 3: Well, that was just part of the date. So she
Speaker 3: did come back to my place and we cooked kind
Speaker 3: of like a helping meal.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's cute, fun too of your health conscious Like, yes, yeah.
Speaker 4: So how was dinner?
Speaker 3: It was good? Kind of funny situation happened where I
Speaker 3: was in the other room doing the dishes, and I
Speaker 3: heard my phone beep like a text came through. Okay,
Speaker 3: And I left it in there with her, and I
Speaker 3: was like, hey, can you see who texted?
Speaker 5: Then?
Speaker 3: What they said?
Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa, whoa?
Speaker 2: Why would you do such a thing? Sir?
Speaker 4: Extremely trusting?
Speaker 2: Oh my god, my girl, I know.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, Like, if I was on a date,
Speaker 1: my phone would be inundated with text messages from my friends.
Speaker 4: Yes, I thought it was gonna be like all the
Speaker 4: naked photos that you've taken.
Speaker 5: But.
Speaker 2: No, I said, those already.
Speaker 4: I You and I have very different concerns when it's
Speaker 4: looking at your.
Speaker 1: Phone to make it is never an issue for me, gotcha.
Speaker 4: So you said, hey, take a look at my phone
Speaker 4: and tell me who texted and what they said.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was kind of surprised. You was like, what,
Speaker 3: but I'm meaning h they gave her my path code.
Speaker 3: I don't care.
Speaker 4: Wow, okay, right, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3: So she tells me it was one of my friends
Speaker 3: who wanted to know if I'm meeting up tonight, and
Speaker 3: I answered to respond to him, tell him I'm on
Speaker 3: a date with a pre girl cooking dinner.
Speaker 4: Oh that's a good line.
Speaker 1: A green flag, like lady, I don't know, nomstrated that
Speaker 1: you're trying too hard.
Speaker 4: Though, It's like, I see, you can see that it was.
Speaker 2: Set up, like, yeah, you had your friend text on purpose.
Speaker 4: At five point thirty text me and I'm gonna.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys are not organized, so I doubt it.
Speaker 2: But I mean, who cares. He just called you pretty like,
Speaker 2: I mean right, he's so excited.
Speaker 4: Can you can you tell us was that set up?
Speaker 3: No? Absolutely not.
Speaker 4: Okay, that was good, very smooth.
Speaker 2: I mean, could you tell she was flattered?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Sure, Girls like being called pretty, right, I mean well.
Speaker 4: And the trust, like you know again, could be too trusting,
Speaker 4: but it's at least not the opposite where it's like,
Speaker 4: don't look at my phone, give that back to it.
Speaker 2: It's like, really, you have nothing to hide.
Speaker 4: You're not cheating anyone. Interesting. You probably never thought about that, Paul.
Speaker 4: But what happened afterwards?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I didn't come back in the room for
Speaker 3: a few minutes of finishing the dishes and all that.
Speaker 2: But and that is hot.
Speaker 4: Can I just say, as a married woman, I understand
Speaker 4: why you would think it's hot. But alexis I don't
Speaker 4: think that.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't care.
Speaker 4: Yeah, imagining him shirtless? All right, is this is sounding
Speaker 4: pretty good? I think did we miss any details?
Speaker 3: No, you know that did. I didn't have anything weird
Speaker 3: or incriminating. I didn't get a bad buye from her.
Speaker 3: But you guys alway that if anything weird happened, so
Speaker 3: that the only thing that was out of the ordinary.
Speaker 4: Did you kiss her?
Speaker 3: No? Kids, but we hugged and she left like a
Speaker 3: little while later.
Speaker 2: Okay, have you seen her at the gym?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's only been a few days, so I haven't
Speaker 3: seen her. But I'm just kind of getting the vibe
Speaker 3: that she's not really into hangout again. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can feel that shift. Yeah, it's weird because
Speaker 4: you were so open with her, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Well, and they knew each other pretty I mean, like
Speaker 1: not really well, but like enough see each other again.
Speaker 4: It is weird to go back to the place you
Speaker 4: just had a date.
Speaker 2: With a guy and like were just being over eager again.
Speaker 4: We're just all very eager to hear what she has
Speaker 4: to say when we come back and call her. Hopefully
Speaker 4: she picks up and gives us some answers for your
Speaker 4: second date update right after this second date update. Is
Speaker 4: it possible to be so open and so trusting that
Speaker 4: it's actually a turn off?
Speaker 3: Does that sounds funny?
Speaker 4: I mean, that's what we're wondering after talking to our
Speaker 4: listener Paul, because he gave his date the past sword
Speaker 4: to his cell phone so that she could text a
Speaker 4: friend for him while he was busy doing dishes in
Speaker 4: the other room. In the other room, so he heard
Speaker 4: his phone go up and was just like, whatever that was,
Speaker 4: go check it. Yeah, And he felt comfortable doing that
Speaker 4: because he says he's got nothing to hide on there.
Speaker 4: She can go look through whatever she wants and won't
Speaker 4: find anything weird.
Speaker 2: Sure, there's nothing that's weird on your phone?
Speaker 4: What are you?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: You in his mind, he said the past code, you know,
Speaker 1: so maybe she found something else that wasn't in the text.
Speaker 2: Right, if she's not sketchy but just weird.
Speaker 4: Paul, is there anything that you're not telling us? Do
Speaker 4: you have a furry app on there that you left open?
Speaker 3: No, guys, I'm serious. I don't have anything weird on there,
Speaker 3: I promise. Okay.
Speaker 2: It just sounds like such a nice time, Like, yeah, and.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's the problem.
Speaker 2: That was so nice.
Speaker 4: That was what Alexi said. It's like too nice where
Speaker 4: it's like, ah, this guy's not even fun anymore.
Speaker 1: You reply to you like reply properly to your friends too,
Speaker 1: like it can wait ten minutes, like also a quick reply.
Speaker 2: So did his friends as well? Talk about it the
Speaker 2: worst it's getting.
Speaker 4: Are we giving you a little bit of a complex yet?
Speaker 3: Paul? Yeah? Maybe? Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 4: Okay, Hopefully we can find more of your issues when
Speaker 4: we call Kelly for you and see what she has
Speaker 4: to say. Hopefully she picks up. Here we go, Hello,
Speaker 4: Hey is this Kelly. This is Hey Kelly. You're on
Speaker 4: the radio right now with a show called Brook and
Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey Kelly, good morning, Kelly.
Speaker 5: Wow, Hey, you know who we are.
Speaker 2: You've listened to the show?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean for sure, I'm just like on.
Speaker 1: TikTok may Yeah, fine, we'll take it, but hey, we'll
Speaker 1: take you.
Speaker 2: I appreciate it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Maybe if you'reamiliar with us because of our segment the
Speaker 4: second ate update? Is that how you know us?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've definitely heard of that.
Speaker 4: It's not because being handsome and so viral.
Speaker 1: Yeah, darn it, Lay.
Speaker 4: But Kelly, we're doing a second ate update right now
Speaker 4: because of a guy that you went out with recently
Speaker 4: who's been trying to get a hold of you, Paul
Speaker 4: from the gym.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I had a feeling that might be what this
Speaker 5: is about when you said that. Okay, yeah, okay, it
Speaker 5: sounded like such a fun time you and Paul had.
Speaker 5: The date itself was pretty great, honestly, Like, I don't
Speaker 5: really have complaints about that, Okay, Okay, I don't know
Speaker 5: if anything, like I made myself mad. I think you know,
Speaker 5: you ever do that? You ever hurt your own feelings?
Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, constantly every morning in the mirror pretty much. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm just like trying to hurt myself, your own feeling.
Speaker 1: A man's following list.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like they have like hotter people, they feller than you.
Speaker 5: I mean, like, I guess they just did something I
Speaker 5: really shouldn't have done, and it just it took me
Speaker 5: out of it. It ruined it for me.
Speaker 4: Oh you, what did you do? Because we heard that
Speaker 4: you two did a gym workout and had dinner back
Speaker 4: at Paul's place.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he did the dishes.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just really excited about that.
Speaker 5: You're not wrong about any of that, Like that's all
Speaker 5: one hundred percent true. And I mean, what a great
Speaker 5: date to have with somebody who you've known for a
Speaker 5: while and have been going to the same gym with
Speaker 5: for a long time. Like it kind of all was
Speaker 5: coming together really nicely, like almost a little too good
Speaker 5: to be true, Like.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what could possibly ruin it?
Speaker 3: Then?
Speaker 5: Like me, me, what do you mean? Oh my god? Okay,
Speaker 5: So basically he got a text when he was doing
Speaker 5: the dishes and I was in the living room where
Speaker 5: his phone was like sitting on the charter.
Speaker 2: Yeah we heard that.
Speaker 5: Oh so you know about the pass code and everything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, right, And he even asked you to send a
Speaker 4: message to his friend for him, which I was worried
Speaker 4: maybe came across as him being lazy asking you to
Speaker 4: do all the work for him, trustworthy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we couldn't believe.
Speaker 5: He did that same Like I was like, whoa, this
Speaker 5: is like a marital level dr like this is a lot.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it did remind me of like a married couple.
Speaker 1: Can we guess that maybe you looked at other things
Speaker 1: on his phone?
Speaker 5: Not initially, but your girl got a little curious and
Speaker 5: I went back for seconds. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 4: I mean, he did give you the pass code.
Speaker 2: Is dangly you're hungry.
Speaker 4: What did you find?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I can't even believe this. Okay, you
Speaker 5: know the notes app on your phone?
Speaker 2: Oh you went deep into his phone?
Speaker 4: Yeare personal?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that gave me like a journal sometimes.
Speaker 4: Comedy jokes app.
Speaker 5: So he wrote a bunch of there's a bunch of
Speaker 5: drafts in there, and they're a bunch of like over
Speaker 5: the top aggressive negative YELP reviews.
Speaker 1: Views.
Speaker 5: It's not even like it's not even for like businesses. It's
Speaker 5: not for restaurants. He didn't find like a hair in
Speaker 5: his food. No, these are for public restrooms.
Speaker 4: What he's a public restroom?
Speaker 2: Do you think he where? Did he like copy and
Speaker 2: paste him from?
Speaker 3: Ah?
Speaker 4: Like, are they jokes?
Speaker 1: Because that would be that sounds like a joke to me,
Speaker 1: a review of a public restroom.
Speaker 5: There is zero percent chance like this came from his soul.
Speaker 5: He did not write this on a win Like there
Speaker 5: was one in there about like the McDonald's on Fifth
Speaker 5: Avenue and he was going off. He was like, oh,
Speaker 5: the hinges on the door were like loosed and the
Speaker 5: latch was hanging on for dear life like it was
Speaker 5: a marriage on its last leg, like he was.
Speaker 4: And it's useful because now I know not to go
Speaker 4: to that McDonald's.
Speaker 2: So you didn't. You didn't think it was attractive.
Speaker 5: It seemed like a little unhinged that someone would be
Speaker 5: having in this film.
Speaker 1: Hey, I think you're trying to find something wrong with
Speaker 1: him because you're scared it was going so good, because.
Speaker 5: That's just that's how I felt.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, your feelings are totally valid, But I believe
Speaker 4: that Paul's feelings are probably also equally as valid, if
Speaker 4: not more, because they are his private notes. So we
Speaker 4: should probably hear his side of the story because he
Speaker 4: is on the other line right now waiting to talk
Speaker 4: to you. Yeah, I'm doing that.
Speaker 2: And his favorite restroom.
Speaker 3: Paul, Oh my god, I'm here. Hey, you're the.
Speaker 2: Bathroom or he's a toilet? King?
Speaker 4: Are you feeling based on what you just heard there?
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't really see what's the big deal
Speaker 3: about tom out reviews.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm with him, really, I didn't want to play
Speaker 2: this up.
Speaker 4: A Brook and I do have a favorite bathroom in
Speaker 4: the city. It's an Italian restaurant. We both had the
Speaker 4: most instagrammable pictures inside.
Speaker 2: It is so nice to me when people leave reviews.
Speaker 2: Can't you see that?
Speaker 4: Who are you talking to? Kelly?
Speaker 1: Okay, the doing the hero's job. He's trying to get
Speaker 1: the public to find a good bathroom to you all right.
Speaker 4: Well, clearly Brooke is Paul's biggest YELP fans. But we
Speaker 4: should let Paul and Kelly talk to each other about this. Paul,
Speaker 4: talk to her, tell her how you feel.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, when you think about it, the restroom
Speaker 3: tells you a lot about the place she wants to
Speaker 3: eat at a restaurant where the bathrooms filthy?
Speaker 5: Right though, really, have you ever looked up the bathroom
Speaker 5: before you go somewhere?
Speaker 1: If I went and saw a review for a restaurant
Speaker 1: that said it had an ikey bathroom.
Speaker 4: Out you relieve yourself out in the woods.
Speaker 2: In a hole, listen to me. That is clean.
Speaker 4: Okay, Maybe Paul can leave a review of the bathroom
Speaker 4: mountain in the in the forest where you are.
Speaker 2: Tell me think of how creative those reviews were. I mean,
Speaker 2: you've got a man who is good with words.
Speaker 4: We've been doing the show for like thirteen years. Brook
Speaker 4: has never stood up for a man like she has
Speaker 4: public bathroom? Yelp, toilet Why was it?
Speaker 5: Honestly like you are gassing me up a little bit,
Speaker 5: like you're making me see the other side of things
Speaker 5: a little bit.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 4: Okay, Kelly, here's the important question. In his apartment? Was
Speaker 4: his bathroom clean? I did not think of that.
Speaker 1: Are you asking her to review his Oh?
Speaker 4: I wasn't that excited about it.
Speaker 5: But I will say two things. Number One, it was
Speaker 5: sparkling clean. I will give him that very clean bathroom.
Speaker 3: However, thank you.
Speaker 5: Number two, I do not appreciate the fact that the
Speaker 5: toilet paper was facing the way. I don't appreciate it.
Speaker 5: The underpullate supposed to be over.
Speaker 2: Girl.
Speaker 1: You just found a man with a clean bathroom that
Speaker 1: does his dishes, and you are trying to find a problem.
Speaker 4: You cannot pass up this opportunity. I don't know. It
Speaker 4: seems to be a pretty big issue for her. But Kelly,
Speaker 4: I'm still gonna ask you anyway, would you give him
Speaker 4: another shot at a second date, and we would pay
Speaker 4: for it.
Speaker 5: I take ownerships like I should not have gone through
Speaker 5: this man's phone. That's good and so as long as
Speaker 5: the place you are sending us has a solid bathroom
Speaker 5: reading from him.
Speaker 4: Now suddenly like the most important.
Speaker 3: Now she's on board, Paul, I'd love to go out
Speaker 3: Kelly again.
Speaker 2: If they ever get.
Speaker 1: Married, they're gonna rent one of those really fancy port
Speaker 1: It has like.
Speaker 2: It's like a trailer.
Speaker 4: Your stories always end up in a trailer.
Speaker 2: They always started there too. Freaking Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Oh, on this morning show, we don't do toilet humor.
Speaker 4: We do toilet talk and we take it very, very seriously. Yep,
Speaker 4: that's our new thing.
Speaker 2: I like it, John John one one.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's slaying for toilet Alexis guilt.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's kind of old reference. I never
Speaker 2: gonna need to know.
Speaker 4: I think it really came down to this. Somehow a
Speaker 4: guy posts a bunch of violently aggressive Yelp reviews about
Speaker 4: public restrooms, and that was a green flag. Somehow, Sure
Speaker 4: how it happened.
Speaker 1: You nerd out about anything enough, and it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: he has interest.
Speaker 4: I am happy to see that those two are going
Speaker 4: to be going out again.
Speaker 2: Though they're going to be so cute.
Speaker 1: They do you hope they calls back and he's like, dude,
Speaker 1: she is so messy.
Speaker 2: I can't stand it.
Speaker 4: But they do seem like like good people with shared interests,
Speaker 4: so we're happy to facilitate their next.
Speaker 2: Gully be cute. If we set a plunger to them,
Speaker 2: we shouldn't.
Speaker 4: Know where the line is and I think it's before that.
Speaker 4: So anyway, if you want to hear more second date
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