Speaker 1: You know, a lot of times we do second date
Speaker 1: update updates to find out what couples have been up
Speaker 1: to since they agreed to go out again, but rarely,
Speaker 1: actually never have we ever done one with a pair
Speaker 1: who said they had no interest in seeing each other
Speaker 1: for a second time. That's true because it's hard to
Speaker 1: do an update on something that never happened yet. So
Speaker 1: that is, until today, we could not believe we got
Speaker 1: an email from one particular couple. We'll play the audio
Speaker 1: for you and then get the brand new update from
Speaker 1: them right afterwards in your second date update update right now,
Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second date Update. Every guy knows this feeling,
Speaker 1: walking through the mom, just looking around, doing some shopping,
Speaker 1: proving out to the music, Maybe gonna head over to
Speaker 1: pack son and pick up some new flip flops for
Speaker 1: a vacation you haven't schanduled yet. Who knows, Man, It's crazy.
Speaker 1: You have the mom and then you look over there
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, hello, is that a lady. There's
Speaker 1: probably a lot of them at the mall. So you
Speaker 1: go up and talk to that attractive lady, ask her
Speaker 1: a question, introduce yourself, tell her she looks beautiful, and
Speaker 1: she doesn't answer you, so you're like, man, she's playing
Speaker 1: hard to get, so you just keep talking and you
Speaker 1: keep talking, and then all of a sudden security comes
Speaker 1: and grabs you and takes you out of the store
Speaker 1: for harassing a mannequin. That happens to me on a
Speaker 1: lot of occasions, but apparently, in today's second date update,
Speaker 1: Kendra is on the phone a guy came up and
Speaker 1: approached her in the mall, and Kendra is not a mannequin.
Speaker 1: She is a real life female woman. This, Paul would
Speaker 1: be really awkward if she was. What's up, Kendra? Hi, Yes,
Speaker 1: it's true, I'm not the Manian nice. Yeah, so your
Speaker 1: email said that you met the dude you want to
Speaker 1: call today at the mall. Yeah, that's impressive. That is
Speaker 1: like old school style at the mall. Yeah, no online dating. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I actually work at the mall. I work at
Speaker 1: a department store in the perfume section. Oh okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: how are you meeting men in the perfume section. Well,
Speaker 1: it's sort of like a culmination of perfumes and cologns
Speaker 1: or in the same areas. Okay, I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: if he's buying perfume, do not believe him that it's
Speaker 1: for his mother. Yeah. No. He came out to me
Speaker 1: and is asking me about like which cologne he should
Speaker 1: buy and what I'd recommend, and so I was giving
Speaker 1: him my thoughts on a few different ones and he
Speaker 1: just he was like, well, what's your favorite one? And oh,
Speaker 1: that's a line right there that is yeah. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1: Anytime that I've ever hit on a woman at the mall,
Speaker 1: that's always what I do, like, well, what shirt do
Speaker 1: you like best? Do you like the way these fit more?
Speaker 1: I would just take that as a sign of an
Speaker 1: indecisive person. I had no idea. There's usually an arterior motive,
Speaker 1: but they usually never pick up on it. They're like,
Speaker 1: well I like that one, but honestly, that one shows
Speaker 1: a little bit of your love handles for your body frame.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't wear it, and they're like all right. So
Speaker 1: he asked you what your favorite one is? Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I told him and then he's like, great, I'll take
Speaker 1: that one. So after I rang him up, he was like,
Speaker 1: so I was wondering if I wear this, will you
Speaker 1: go out with me? Oh that's kind of cute. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a good line. And that's when you called him
Speaker 1: all security, No. I mean I thought it was really cute.
Speaker 1: And also it's like the fact that he bought it
Speaker 1: and then asked me out. You know, it's not like
Speaker 1: he was saying, well, you know, I'm only going to
Speaker 1: buy this if you go out with me, kind of
Speaker 1: like you already bought it, which was really it would
Speaker 1: have been funny if you said no and then he
Speaker 1: returned it right there. All right, so you guys agreed
Speaker 1: to go out. When did you actually have a date,
Speaker 1: like a few days after that? Okay, we've got dinner
Speaker 1: and so yeah, it was really nice and he you know,
Speaker 1: you wore that cologne and he smelled really good. So
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you're doing a second date. Update. So
Speaker 1: you liked the guy? Were you pleasantly surprised though you've
Speaker 1: known him for two seconds at your job when you're
Speaker 1: helping him out buy some cologne and now you're at
Speaker 1: dinner with him. I was surprised at like how awesome
Speaker 1: our chemistry was. We had a really great conversation, and
Speaker 1: I guess I was really tickled that how we kind
Speaker 1: of played with each other and oh well not physically sickling,
Speaker 1: but so like with our word you know, just like
Speaker 1: play jokes back and forth kind of thing. So it
Speaker 1: was a lighthearted conversation. Yeah. At one point I had
Speaker 1: gotten a little worried because he started off saying like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, um, I know this is the first date,
Speaker 1: but I think I need to kill him, clean it
Speaker 1: out something whoa that? Yeah? And I was like, oh, shoot,
Speaker 1: like you just come out of prison or like this, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what what is this? So it's like I have to
Speaker 1: admit something. I actually was not interested in buying cloth own.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to talk to you. I knew it.
Speaker 1: It just sounded like a line to me. So what
Speaker 1: does that mean? He had been to the department store
Speaker 1: before and like kind of stocked you a little bit,
Speaker 1: and so I don't I don't think so. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think it's it's more like he was, I don't know,
Speaker 1: passing by like sometimes like you're walking, you know, through
Speaker 1: the entrance to get another part, and then I guess
Speaker 1: you just saw me and then decides that you want
Speaker 1: to talk to me. That's a compliment. Right When he
Speaker 1: said that to me, it was it was really I
Speaker 1: don't know, flattering, because he specifically, you know, played this
Speaker 1: whole act to get to talk to me and ask
Speaker 1: me out. Go back to your date. What happened? So
Speaker 1: the date was going so well that we actually ended
Speaker 1: up sharing and for the for me, like, this is
Speaker 1: something that's never happened before. We started talking a little
Speaker 1: bit about our future together. What like two of you
Speaker 1: were just in general, well, okay, so I was talking
Speaker 1: about my mom and he was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: that's how just like my mom. And then we you know,
Speaker 1: we started sharing things about our moms and we were like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, they're so similar, like they would get
Speaker 1: along so well. And then he was like, yeah, it
Speaker 1: would be kind of cool if you met my mom.
Speaker 1: What were you like, I mean, what was your reaction
Speaker 1: to that? Well, to be honest, it actually it didn't
Speaker 1: feel weird. It actually felt natural, Like it just felt
Speaker 1: comfortable between the two of us. That's the one thing
Speaker 1: that I could think of, Like maybe he got spooked
Speaker 1: because we were already talking about a future and he
Speaker 1: already mentioned like meeting his mom. But but the thing is,
Speaker 1: I didn't bring that up, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like that was his thing. He's the one who brought
Speaker 1: it up. So he scared himself. Yeah, yeah, I guess
Speaker 1: scared himself, so maybe he read the situation differently than you.
Speaker 1: Like you're like, oh, this feels normal, and to him
Speaker 1: it might have fel awkward. Yeah. I mean that's the
Speaker 1: only thing that I can possibly think about. How did
Speaker 1: everything end? Um? He walked me back to my car
Speaker 1: are and like he just kind of stood there, and
Speaker 1: I thought he was gonna kiss me. So you know,
Speaker 1: I was trying to be open, you know, ready to receive.
Speaker 1: But how did that happen? You just stand there with
Speaker 1: like your legs and your arms open, like kind of
Speaker 1: like a gingerbread man. Like, in case this happens, I
Speaker 1: want you to know my body language. I'm wide open
Speaker 1: for it. You sometimes have to be that direct with men. No,
Speaker 1: I mean like I was just, you know, ready for
Speaker 1: him to make a move, but then he just gave
Speaker 1: me a really big hug and then he said call me.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's bad though. I mean some guys
Speaker 1: either maybe he missed his moment he felt like, or
Speaker 1: he doesn't kiss on the first date. Not all guys do. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean that's what I was thinking at first. But
Speaker 1: it's been two weeks now and he hasn't responded any
Speaker 1: of my text. I really wanted this to work out
Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, okay, well we'll play a song, come
Speaker 1: back call him and get your second date update. All right,
Speaker 1: jubil in the morning if you're just joining us for
Speaker 1: today's second date update. Kendra is on the phone and
Speaker 1: today she wants to call a guy named Ryan who
Speaker 1: is not calling her back. And she really liked Ryan,
Speaker 1: mostly because they have the same mom. Yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: she said. They have the same mom, and so she
Speaker 1: really liked him and they bonded. They went out to
Speaker 1: dinner and bonded at dinner talking about their mothers because
Speaker 1: she was like, my mom's like this, she's crazy lady.
Speaker 1: And he was like, my mom's exactly the same way.
Speaker 1: She's crazy La too. We should totally have her mom's
Speaker 1: meet And I guess they had a really in depth
Speaker 1: conversation about their families and future and all that stuff.
Speaker 1: But that's the reason she thinks she might not be
Speaker 1: getting a call back from Ryan is because maybe he
Speaker 1: took it the other way and it seemed like a
Speaker 1: little too much too soon on their first date. Kindra,
Speaker 1: are you ready to call your kind of brother? I'm
Speaker 1: ready to call Ryan? All right? Well, I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: his phone number right now, see if we can get
Speaker 1: him on the phone and find out why he doesn't
Speaker 1: want to see you again. Okay, it sounds mean like that,
Speaker 1: why he doesn't want to call you back? All right?
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Ryan please?
Speaker 1: This is him? Hey, what's up Ryan? How are you?
Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Okay, I didn't. I don't think
Speaker 1: I entered to winning anything. Is this is about you
Speaker 1: didn't enter to win anything? No? We do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show called the second Date Update. Have you
Speaker 1: ever heard of that before? No? I haven't. All right,
Speaker 1: it's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them back after
Speaker 1: they email us to see if we can get you
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out why. That's kind of strange.
Speaker 1: But yeah, and the girl that emailed us about you
Speaker 1: is named Kendra. Oh she emailed you. Yeah, she emailed
Speaker 1: us because she said that she had a really good
Speaker 1: time with you, but you haven't responded to anything. So
Speaker 1: she asked us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: see if we could figure out why you don't want
Speaker 1: to go out with her again. Yeah, I don't really
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. Wait, so there's a reason. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a reason. I mean, I'm not I'm not just
Speaker 1: some kind of ask blows people off for no reason,
Speaker 1: Like if I had liked her, I would have called
Speaker 1: her back. Yeah, and that's why she's confused, because she
Speaker 1: thought you liked her. I'm sorry, that's that's just was
Speaker 1: in the case. I thought you liked her. I mean,
Speaker 1: the way she described it, it it sounds like you were
Speaker 1: super into her. I mean I thought I liked her
Speaker 1: at the start, but by the end of the day
Speaker 1: that was definitely questioning that. So what changed then? I
Speaker 1: really don't want to talk about it. Isn't this enough?
Speaker 1: I haven't I told you enough? No, Actually, you just
Speaker 1: I've actually piqued our interest more because he said there's
Speaker 1: a problem. But now we don't know what it is.
Speaker 1: Because here's the thing. She wants to know. She's been
Speaker 1: racking her brains, she's been thinking about you NonStop. I really,
Speaker 1: she sounds like a really nice person. Can you at
Speaker 1: least just do her the favor If she really wants
Speaker 1: to know, you can just tell her that it was
Speaker 1: it was when we started talking about our families. Don't
Speaker 1: know what that means. I don't. Honestly, I don't think
Speaker 1: she will, because when we talked to her, she said
Speaker 1: that when you guys started talking about your moms and
Speaker 1: your families, that was when you both perked up and
Speaker 1: thought everything was even better. Yeah. No, no, that's when
Speaker 1: things really took a churn. That was not she okay.
Speaker 1: She said that you were like our mom should meet. Yeah.
Speaker 1: At that point I thought everything was going really well.
Speaker 1: But then she got a little rude about the family thing.
Speaker 1: It just shed a little too far, she like, rip
Speaker 1: on your mom. No. No, Basically, we were talking about family,
Speaker 1: and we got talking about the holidays, and she sort
Speaker 1: of made a joke. She said, well, you know, if
Speaker 1: things work out between us, you're going to spend the
Speaker 1: holidays at my place. And so I tried to joke back,
Speaker 1: basically saying, oh, well, next year we'll started at my place.
Speaker 1: You know that, like an every other year sort of thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's actually kind of cute, right, Yeah, it was sort
Speaker 1: of a cute, too little joke, but all of a
Speaker 1: sudden she got really serious about it. Whoa, what do
Speaker 1: you mean? She got serious about it. Well, she refused
Speaker 1: to even acknowledge this joke and was like, well, no,
Speaker 1: we're spending it in my place every year or nothing
Speaker 1: at all. I was like, no, we can switch off
Speaker 1: every other year. That's the normal way to do things.
Speaker 1: So now you're having an argument that people usually have,
Speaker 1: I don't know, a couple of years into her relationship
Speaker 1: on a first date exactly. I mean, she got so
Speaker 1: defensive about it. She's like, I have a huge family
Speaker 1: and I never missed Christmas, and so you're going to
Speaker 1: have to compromise and come to my Christmas every single year.
Speaker 1: I kind of get herself like one of the reasons
Speaker 1: I love my husband and knew it would work out
Speaker 1: is because his family does Solstice. They don't even do Christmas.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I own it. Yeah, well, unfortunately my
Speaker 1: family doesn't do a Solstice or anything. Still, I would
Speaker 1: be missing my family's Christmas to go to her family
Speaker 1: every year. It was unreasonable. I mean, you don't think
Speaker 1: that there's maybe a way you could come to a
Speaker 1: conclusion later on down the road. No, not at all.
Speaker 1: There's no reasoning with Kendra. She's basically squatting on Christmas
Speaker 1: and saying this is my day, It's not yours, it's mine.
Speaker 1: For the rest of the time, it was absurd still
Speaker 1: together to me? Is that bad? Hey? Ryan, I want
Speaker 1: to let you know that Kendra is actually on the
Speaker 1: phone listening right now and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: She stop. Yeah she is, Kendra. Say hi, if you're
Speaker 1: still there, Hi Ryan? Wow? Oh my god? Yeah? So
Speaker 1: what this whole thing was a setup? Kind of Yeah? Look, Ryan,
Speaker 1: I told you that Christmas is really important to me. Okay.
Speaker 1: I remember you saying that, and I just thought it
Speaker 1: was ridiculous. Well okay, Well if it's ridiculous, that means
Speaker 1: that Christmas is not important to you, which means you
Speaker 1: can spend it at my place. Well that's pretty good point. No,
Speaker 1: of course Christmas is important to me. That was not
Speaker 1: even what That was not even what you were saying
Speaker 1: on this day though. You were saying that Christmas was
Speaker 1: more important to you than it would ever be to me. Basic.
Speaker 1: So I never said that. I never said that. You're
Speaker 1: you're putting words in my mouth. No, that is essentially
Speaker 1: what you were saying to me. Ken No, I told
Speaker 1: you I have a big family. I have never missed
Speaker 1: Christmas once in my life. Okay, and this is the
Speaker 1: only time I get to see some of my relatives.
Speaker 1: And just because I start dating someone, that doesn't mean that,
Speaker 1: like suddenly I'm going to start missing Christmas. You guys
Speaker 1: have been on one date. What are you doing? I
Speaker 1: think I don't have a family too. No, I know
Speaker 1: you have a family. We talked about it. Your family
Speaker 1: can come to my place and stund Christmas with my family,
Speaker 1: but it's going to be at my house. You already
Speaker 1: know my family lists far away. It's not even easy
Speaker 1: for them to get together for Christmas with my own family,
Speaker 1: let alone your family. Okay, well you know what, Like
Speaker 1: I mean, some of them already coming from different parts
Speaker 1: of the country, so they might as well just come
Speaker 1: over here and all be together. And absurd, Oh my god,
Speaker 1: what is happening right now? It's not absurd. I'm telling
Speaker 1: you your family can come to my place. It'll be great.
Speaker 1: But like that's it, Like we can compromise and that
Speaker 1: you'll get to see your family, you'll get to have
Speaker 1: a Christmas, but it's going to be at my place.
Speaker 1: You're being so selfish. It's no wonder that you don't
Speaker 1: have a boyfriend Okay, look who's talking mister. I don't
Speaker 1: have a girlfriend yet. That's true. You got some common
Speaker 1: ground there, a single at least, I will say, kedre.
Speaker 1: I mean, isn't there like a way like maybe you
Speaker 1: guys could do Christmas Eve at his place Christmas Morning
Speaker 1: at your place? There is no compromising on this. I
Speaker 1: get all of Christmas, including Christmas Eve and Christmas Morning
Speaker 1: and afternoon. You get all the other holidays, like all
Speaker 1: of them. I don't care, but I have Christmas. I
Speaker 1: get Harbor Day, Flag Day. Like no one even celebrates
Speaker 1: your holidays. I mean like you could do those days
Speaker 1: if you wanted to. But I mean, like, come on,
Speaker 1: like fireworks and the important holiday at those fine, but
Speaker 1: Christmas is the only important one to me. So you
Speaker 1: get an important one. I get an important one. Do
Speaker 1: you guys realize that this is all a hypothetical conversation
Speaker 1: because you've only been on one date. It's not hypothetical,
Speaker 1: this is real. I mean, if I promise you, if
Speaker 1: you just one Christmas, just try it out and come
Speaker 1: to my place, you will understand what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: You're gonna love it. I mean, your family will love
Speaker 1: it because it's amazing. It's like I can't even describe.
Speaker 1: You'll just fall in love with it and then you
Speaker 1: won't even want to have Christmas any other place. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's exactly what you do, isn't it. What do you mean,
Speaker 1: that's exactly what you want? You really in for one
Speaker 1: Christmas and then I'm stepped there for the rest of
Speaker 1: my damn life. No, No, I'm not feeling okay, really,
Speaker 1: your first one, don't care how good pressure you are
Speaker 1: on your own. All the other Christmas you would want
Speaker 1: to come to my place? Well, you guys have to
Speaker 1: go out again. Yeah, you're dating already. You realize that, right.
Speaker 1: I think you guys are married. Actually you don't know it,
Speaker 1: but you've only been on one date. Ryan, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on one more date with Kendra?
Speaker 1: You guys can have a discussion about this in private
Speaker 1: if you want, we will pay for a second date.
Speaker 1: Will you go out with Kendra again? Please? It doesn't
Speaker 1: even sound like Kendra wants to go out with me. No.
Speaker 1: I mean I like you. I think you're great. I
Speaker 1: just we have this disagreement and if we could just
Speaker 1: work this one issue out, then I think this relationship
Speaker 1: could possibly work. Okay, so she is open to going
Speaker 1: out with you again, Ryan, would you do it? We
Speaker 1: will pay for a second date. I would consider it,
Speaker 1: and I will try. It would past all the mean
Speaker 1: things she's just said, only if she will consider spending
Speaker 1: Christmas one time at my family's place. Oh that's a
Speaker 1: good day, Kendra, just once. Man, Absolutely not never happening.
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Okay, so good deal. So that's a no, Kendred.
Speaker 1: You don't want to go out with Ryan again because
Speaker 1: he wants to spend maybe one Christmas with his family.
Speaker 1: That is a capital end capital Oh dude, but what
Speaker 1: if you like fell in love with him and you
Speaker 1: guys started having your own Christmases. At some point, I
Speaker 1: will always be spending Christmas with my family. Ryan, You
Speaker 1: and your stupid family can go have your little Christmas together.
Speaker 1: But I'm not going on a second date with you. Sorry. Right, well,
Speaker 1: I think that's enough for the second date update. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what happened, but I think
Speaker 1: it was a second date update. Yes, I'm not sure,
Speaker 1: like I was listening to a married couple argue. But Kendra,
Speaker 1: sorry you didn't get a second date. But at least
Speaker 1: I don't care anymore? Okay, cool. Well, one thing the
Speaker 1: second day update has taught me is I'm even more
Speaker 1: thankful now than ever before that I don't talk to
Speaker 1: my family very much. It's broken jewel. And then morning
Speaker 1: you just heard a very contentious second date update from
Speaker 1: last year with Kendra and Ryan, and believe it or not,
Speaker 1: they're actually on the phone with us again. Kendra and Ryan,
Speaker 1: how are you guys doing well? Good? All right? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds a lot friendly er. I need to be honest.
Speaker 1: When our producers said that you had emailed the show
Speaker 1: with an update, I thought they were joking. I was like,
Speaker 1: what's the update. They're still not talking and they still
Speaker 1: hate each other, but apparently you two had some news
Speaker 1: that you wanted to share with us. Are you guys together? Yeah,
Speaker 1: believe it or not? Rough, Yeah, yeah, seriously. Actually after that,
Speaker 1: I did not have any intention of seeing him again.
Speaker 1: I was so angry. Really, I couldn't have picked that
Speaker 1: up on the phone call at all, that you were angry?
Speaker 1: She hit it. Well, yeah, To be honest, I did
Speaker 1: not see us really having a future either. Who though
Speaker 1: I did. Actually, yeah, would you just text him a
Speaker 1: middle finger? And then you guys started talking again. No,
Speaker 1: so okay, Like when you guys played it on the radio,
Speaker 1: A lot of my friends and family hurt it, and
Speaker 1: they gave me a really hard time and they were
Speaker 1: just like, I don't know what you're doing. You guys
Speaker 1: have incredible chemistry, and you can't agree on one thing
Speaker 1: Christmas and basically either just like you made a major mistake.
Speaker 1: And even my grandma was like, even my grandma was like,
Speaker 1: if you don't marry him, I will. He really willing
Speaker 1: to compromise a lot. Yeah, So I reached out to
Speaker 1: him and I texted him, so are your friends and
Speaker 1: family giving you a hard time too? And of course
Speaker 1: I said yes, And then I told him what my
Speaker 1: grandma said, and and then I was like, so, do
Speaker 1: you want to get a drink and laugh about this together?
Speaker 1: And I would have thought you were setting me up
Speaker 1: if I were him. Honestly, it became something that we
Speaker 1: could talk about just the call and how much we
Speaker 1: were bothered by our friends and family about it. It
Speaker 1: was like, and I think we realized what my friends
Speaker 1: and family had seen and what I saw before Christmas
Speaker 1: was mentioned, which is that, yeah, we are pretty amazing
Speaker 1: together and we're really great. So what's the new Christmas
Speaker 1: custody plan like? And what have you decided on? Oh boy, well,
Speaker 1: basically what we decided was that it would be a
Speaker 1: coin toss, you know, fifty fifty. We'd both have even
Speaker 1: chances every year of having our family slept, all right,
Speaker 1: And who's going to be doing the coin toss? I am,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be the one check checking. It can
Speaker 1: be one of those fake ones double headed coin. Oh
Speaker 1: look its heads again my family again. Yeah, we have
Speaker 1: we have yet to agree upon who's going to toss
Speaker 1: the coin than I could. Oh, here we go. Hey, look,
Speaker 1: we don't have time to get into all of this
Speaker 1: with you guys. We'll let you hash that out on
Speaker 1: your own. But congratulations for being able to I guess
Speaker 1: find love. Ye yeah, it was weird. Yeah, well thanks
Speaker 1: to her grandma honestly. Yeah. And you know, we do
Speaker 1: some of these second a update updates with people who
Speaker 1: were like we hear from them later that they're married
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. I think you two actually have
Speaker 1: a chance out of all those people at going the
Speaker 1: distance because you're already like fifty years married at this point.
Speaker 1: The way we love you, Yeah, I don't know whether
Speaker 1: that's a compliment or but I'll take it as it's
Speaker 1: a compliment. Yeah,