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Speaker 1: You know, a lot of times we do second date

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Speaker 1: to since they agreed to go out again, but rarely,

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Speaker 1: actually never have we ever done one with a pair

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Speaker 1: for a second time. That's true because it's hard to

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Speaker 1: do an update on something that never happened yet. So

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Speaker 1: that is, until today, we could not believe we got

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Speaker 1: an email from one particular couple. We'll play the audio

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Speaker 1: for you and then get the brand new update from

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Speaker 1: them right afterwards in your second date update update right now,

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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second date Update. Every guy knows this feeling,

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Speaker 1: walking through the mom, just looking around, doing some shopping,

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Speaker 1: proving out to the music, Maybe gonna head over to

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Speaker 1: pack son and pick up some new flip flops for

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Speaker 1: a vacation you haven't schanduled yet. Who knows, Man, It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: You have the mom and then you look over there

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Speaker 1: probably a lot of them at the mall. So you

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Speaker 1: hard to get, so you just keep talking and you

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Speaker 1: keep talking, and then all of a sudden security comes

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Speaker 1: for harassing a mannequin. That happens to me on a

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Speaker 1: lot of occasions, but apparently, in today's second date update,

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Speaker 1: Kendra is on the phone a guy came up and

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Speaker 1: approached her in the mall, and Kendra is not a mannequin.

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Speaker 1: She is a real life female woman. This, Paul would

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Speaker 1: be really awkward if she was. What's up, Kendra? Hi, Yes,

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Speaker 1: it's true, I'm not the Manian nice. Yeah, so your

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Speaker 1: email said that you met the dude you want to

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Speaker 1: call today at the mall. Yeah, that's impressive. That is

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Speaker 1: like old school style at the mall. Yeah, no online dating. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I actually work at the mall. I work at

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Speaker 1: a department store in the perfume section. Oh okay, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: how are you meeting men in the perfume section. Well,

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Speaker 1: for his mother. Yeah. No. He came out to me

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Speaker 1: and is asking me about like which cologne he should

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Speaker 1: just he was like, well, what's your favorite one? And oh,

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Speaker 1: that's a line right there that is yeah. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anytime that I've ever hit on a woman at the mall,

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Speaker 1: indecisive person. I had no idea. There's usually an arterior motive,

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Speaker 1: but they usually never pick up on it. They're like,

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Speaker 1: well I like that one, but honestly, that one shows

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't wear it, and they're like all right. So

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Speaker 1: like a few days after that? Okay, we've got dinner

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Speaker 1: But how did that happen? You just stand there with

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning if you're just joining us for

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Speaker 1: today's second date update. Kendra is on the phone and

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Ryan please?

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Speaker 1: This is him? Hey, what's up Ryan? How are you?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show. Okay, I didn't. I don't think

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Speaker 1: didn't enter to win anything? No? We do a segment

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Speaker 1: want to talk about it. Wait, so there's a reason. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've actually piqued our interest more because he said there's

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Speaker 1: racking her brains, she's been thinking about you NonStop. I really,

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Speaker 1: a chance out of all those people at going the

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Speaker 1: distance because you're already like fifty years married at this point.

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Speaker 1: The way we love you, Yeah, I don't know whether

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Speaker 1: that's a compliment or but I'll take it as it's

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Speaker 1: a compliment. Yeah,