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Speaker 1: around already, so see if we can help him out. Ian,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your email and agreem to do this.

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Speaker 1: What's up man? Why didn't you tell us? Why al

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Speaker 1: Why do you think Alanna might be cheating on you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No, for sure, Thanks for thanks for having me

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Speaker 2: and how bring out?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So, you know, like, like you.

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Speaker 4: Said, we've been together about a year, and you know,

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Speaker 4: at the other night, I went over to her apartment

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Speaker 4: and there were two empty glasses sitting out on the counter. Uh,

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Speaker 4: but but this more, he's been.

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Speaker 2: Coming over a lot lately, like a lot, a lot.

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Speaker 4: And you know, when I asked Elena for more details

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Speaker 2: Do you really need someone to talk to?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 6: And I don't know, it just.

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Speaker 4: It just feels it feels weird to me because like

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Speaker 7: You know, maybe he just wanted a female's ear, you

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Speaker 7: know how that gets Sometimes guys like want to talk

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Speaker 4: Things, you know, like like sometimes guys want to talk

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Speaker 1: You know, that's true. I get that. I get that too.

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Speaker 1: There's more things, definitely, and you're feeling like it might

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, you know, looking with like once or

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Speaker 3: You're not look at dude.

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Speaker 4: It just it's sort of get so commonplace that it

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, have you done the sniff test? What what is that.

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Speaker 7: This is when you go into the bedroom and you

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, because.

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Speaker 7: There was a time in my life, Victoria where I

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Speaker 3: So the sniff test.

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Speaker 1: I've done that before, actually is a thing. Yeah, it is. Yeah, Wow,

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Speaker 1: I don't smell that well, So I'm like, I think

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Speaker 1: That's another good point. So have you done it?

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Speaker 1: Have you asked her straight up if there's something going on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like like every time I I've brought it.

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Speaker 4: Would you get me? And like, you know, and then

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Speaker 4: But nothing, nothing major that I've caught her out.

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Speaker 1: her that. Every single month, we choose one Rewards card

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Speaker 1: member at random who gets free flowers delivered from our beautiful,

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, great, thanks appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Well, plays I'll come back and get your to Catch

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Speaker 2: Ian.

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Speaker 1: Before we do that, why don't you refresh everybody's memory, though,

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Speaker 1: Why do you think your girlfriend might be cheating?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like her neighbor.

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Speaker 6: he went through a hard break out with no big deal,

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Speaker 6: and I just I don't know, I just got this

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Speaker 1: Cool? And so we're about to call her from the

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Speaker 1: grocery store that she's a Rewards card member at and

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Speaker 1: tell her that every single month, we choose one Awards

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi, this is Jorban calling from Is this our rewards

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Speaker 1: Now this sir, sweet, Please don't hang up. This is

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Speaker 1: not a marketing call, Lena. I'm just calling to let

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Speaker 1: you know. Congratulations, you're this month's big winner.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. What did Is there like a prize or something?

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Speaker 1: Yes, there is a prize. Every single month, we choose

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Speaker 1: to say thank you very much for shopping with us,

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Speaker 1: and you have just won thirty six long stem red roses,

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Speaker 3: Awesome. Do I have to do? I have to like

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Speaker 1: All you have to do? I just need I just

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to take the information down. I also set

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll send it to somebody.

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Speaker 1: Okay, perfect, And do you know who they are right now?

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Speaker 5: Let's let's say, I'll say let's get your mind off

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just ape where you were going to a movie?

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Speaker 3: Wait? What?

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Speaker 3: What? What is what is going what is going on

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Speaker 3: What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Ran you through it?

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Speaker 2: Wait, why you're sitting a movie? Get hear to Jack's.

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Speaker 3: What the hell are you kidding me?

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Speaker 5: Right now?

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Speaker 3: This is what you're doing right now? I send it? Wow,

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Speaker 5: If if I send it, I don't understand what is

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 2: What is wrong?

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Speaker 3: He's a friend of mine, So if I.

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Speaker 2: Send it to just some random girl, you wouldn't have

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Speaker 5: Ian, Are you serious? Like we've gone through this so

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Speaker 5: many times, Like what is the problem? I told you

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Speaker 5: he's a friend of mine. He just went through a

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get to the bottom of what's going

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Speaker 8: Super There's nothing going on with the two of us.

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Speaker 8: I've said this so many times. He just needs to

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Speaker 7: I mean I think that it's possible that she wants

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Speaker 1: This Jack guy.

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Speaker 5: No, I've literally spoken to him about this so many

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's embarrassing for me. Yeah, what is going on?

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Speaker 5: He needs people to talk to. He came over. I

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Speaker 5: gave him some advice. He doesn't know if he should

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Speaker 5: come back to her or not. He's been together for

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Speaker 5: five years. I'm helping him out. Like, how many and

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Speaker 5: how many times has he come over and got the

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Speaker 3: Who cares?

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Speaker 5: He's a friend of mine? What do you think is happening?

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Speaker 5: We're just talking? What do you like would you want

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Speaker 3: I don't understand how many times you're going to ask me.

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Speaker 5: I reassured you like a few times, and now you're

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Speaker 3: Are you serious?

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Speaker 2: But at no point have you denied that anything's happening.

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Speaker 5: You're like, oh, just a friend, No nothing, I've denied

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Speaker 3: Ian, I've denied it many many times. Is it? You

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Speaker 3: know what? I can't. I'm just goodbye, h and she

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Speaker 3: hung up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't sound honest to me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, So it's not just me like I'm not

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Speaker 7: It sounds disrespectful more than anything else to me, because,

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Speaker 7: regardless of whatever is actually happening, if you care about

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Speaker 7: I don't know, come up with boundaries or whatever it

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Speaker 7: is if this is really bothering you.

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Speaker 1: But the defensiveness though, yeah, so what do you What

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Speaker 1: do you think you're gonna do? Ian?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Uh, I'm gonna cool down a little bit.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give her some time to cool down, and

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm gonna call her because.

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Speaker 7: Like I don't know, Ian, maybe don't maybe just take

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Speaker 7: the fact that she hurts you.

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Speaker 3: But is she gonna marin it?

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Speaker 7: And that like she seemed really defensive to the point

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Speaker 1: So how does that help?

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Speaker 3: Ian?

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Speaker 7: So if she doesn't come back, then, I mean, that's

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Speaker 7: kind of your answer. I don't know, is that manipulative

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Speaker 7: or is that gonna get you? Getchen to the point,

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Speaker 7: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess, like we've only been together a year.

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Speaker 2: I guess I guess.

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Speaker 6: Maybe I'll just just move.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, sort of, but it's not like it's

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Speaker 4: not like it's five years, right, like this guy, right,

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Speaker 4: I can just let it go And I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, I mean, well, let us know if you need else.

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Speaker 6: Man, Oh yeah, absolutely, I mean I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Preocul we go doing us today

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