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Speaker 1: Joch, Kat and siss are here on Sevan. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: listening to us, Ryan Seacrest with you, Sisiny and Tanya.

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Speaker 1: So let's get into the trendy report.

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Speaker 2: Tanya, Okay, So over the weekend we learned that Tory

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Speaker 2: Spelling and Dean McDermott are getting a divorce after almost

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Speaker 2: two full decades together. Two decades, that's almost twenty years

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Speaker 2: of their lives. So Dean posted it's a now deleted

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Speaker 2: Instagram and it said it's with great sadness and a

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Speaker 2: very heavy heart that after eighteen years together and five

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Speaker 2: amazing children, Tory and I have decided to go our

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Speaker 2: separate ways. It goes on. There was no official reason

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Speaker 2: that was given for the split, but there have been

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Speaker 2: reports that the two were struggling as a couple and

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Speaker 2: then part of their relationship was never fully repaired after

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Speaker 2: Dean admitted to cheating on Tory in twenty fourteen. So

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Speaker 2: that's where I kind of that led me back to

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Speaker 2: my question that I asked you originally, is when the

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Speaker 2: trust is completely shot at somebody admitst cheating inside a marriage,

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Speaker 2: and you want, let's say, like, obviously this happened in

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Speaker 2: twenty fourteen, they try to get past it. They tried to,

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Speaker 2: you know, regain the trust, but can you ever fully

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Speaker 2: put trust back into place when it's broken.

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Speaker 1: It's different for everybody. For me, it would be in

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Speaker 1: the back of my mind all the time, and little things,

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Speaker 1: whether they were just paranoia or real, would trigger me

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Speaker 1: to have doubt. And I think that that doubt would

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Speaker 1: eat at me. It would they would build toxicity and

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Speaker 1: I would probably not be able to get past it,

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Speaker 1: even though it looks like they wanted to or they

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Speaker 1: tried to. But at some point if you just can't,

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Speaker 1: then maybe there's more peace in life moving on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because it would resurface. It would play out again and

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Speaker 1: again in my head again and again. Things in life

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Speaker 1: would bring it up, or you would see something and

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Speaker 1: then yeah, it just keeps replaying in your head.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. And to me, it's not even the paranoia I

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Speaker 2: think of the like they'll do it again. It's the

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Speaker 2: the lack of character when somebody goes outside the marriage

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Speaker 2: and the lies that compound and like, how long have

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Speaker 2: you been lying to me and to my face? And

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Speaker 2: I don't know. To me, that would just really throw me.

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Speaker 1: Well, some people compare trust to a sticker right, and

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Speaker 1: they say that sticker is stuck on you, and once

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Speaker 1: that sticker is ripped off of you, it may not

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Speaker 1: stick again like it did. Right. You just don't know,

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Speaker 1: but it's it would not be something I think I

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Speaker 1: could get past. But it's interesting they tried for so long. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this one hurt me. This one's heartbreaking. You know, I

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Speaker 1: was hoping that they were going to try to work

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Speaker 1: it out.

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Speaker 2: Looks like they tried.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know. Or we have a quick

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