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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jake is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Serena. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Jake, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from Serena.

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Speaker 3: It's been probably about a week and a half.

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Speaker 4: Mm.

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Speaker 5: So have you been trying to get a hold of her.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I tried to call like a couple times, but

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Speaker 6: I'm trying not to be too pushy. But it's been

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Speaker 6: like maybe two days since the last time I reached out.

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Speaker 5: Okay, have you reached out a bunch?

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Speaker 7: I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: What did it meant?

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Speaker 2: I think more than three times if somebody's ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: I feel like more than three times, it's too much.

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Speaker 7: How how's two calls and one text?

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Speaker 5: Oh that's not bad?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well I don't know two calls counts for like

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Speaker 8: two text messages.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's okay. This is where we are now crying voicemail?

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Speaker 7: Oh no, no, I didn't a plus.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, let's talk about the date.

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Speaker 5: How did that go?

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Speaker 7: So we went out to trivia night at a bar

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Speaker 7: around town, and it was a lot of fun. We

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Speaker 7: have really good vibes. I love trivia like and I

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Speaker 7: figured it'd be a great.

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Speaker 6: Date because there's something interactive. We had a lot of fun,

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Speaker 6: We crushed a few rounds, and our chemistry was it

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Speaker 6: was awesome. The drinks were flowing. Did the team name

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Speaker 6: even became like a little flirty and tide joke between

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Speaker 6: me and her by the.

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Speaker 7: End of the night.

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Speaker 5: What was the team name?

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Speaker 6: The team name was the scores, Like like you're scoring,

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Speaker 6: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I see where the joke's.

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Speaker 7: Going, right right.

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Speaker 6: So and she's also like really really smart, but now

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Speaker 6: in a like web it in your face kind of way.

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Speaker 7: She was like laughing at my jokes. And nobody ever

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Speaker 7: does that special They layd like fifty to fifty percent

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Speaker 7: of the time, you know what. So, yeah, it all

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Speaker 7: went really well, and there was like there was definitely

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Speaker 7: a kiss at the end of the night.

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Speaker 6: And it wasn't like fireworks all over the place, but

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Speaker 6: it was a little bit of a spark, a little.

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Speaker 7: Bit of a thing. If you feel what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so kind of feel what you mean.

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Speaker 8: So what you're saying was it wasn't the best kiss,

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Speaker 8: but it was all right enough that you want to

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Speaker 8: get a hold of her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, then I guess I wouldn't even say

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Speaker 3: that the kiss was bad.

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Speaker 7: Okay, It wasn't like, you know, so stick your foot

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Speaker 7: up in the air type kiss.

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Speaker 3: I think it was kind of just a it seems

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Speaker 3: like the kisses in the future.

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Speaker 6: Are going to be way better, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 6: kind of like it's a little, a little kiss.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 8: Was there any moment during the date that fell well,

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Speaker 8: like it could be the reason why you're getting ghosted?

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Speaker 6: Oh man, Honestly, I can't really think it anything. I mean,

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Speaker 6: maybe I got two into the game because I was

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Speaker 6: carrying the team at a certain point, but I don't

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Speaker 6: think I was being annoying. I mean, it could be

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Speaker 6: that I did like challenge the host on on a

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Speaker 6: wrong answer.

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Speaker 3: The question was what's the capital of Australia, and they

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Speaker 3: said Sydney. It's it's It's it's not Sydney. So I

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Speaker 3: corrected him kind of loudly.

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Speaker 8: Well, I think that's the right thing to do in

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Speaker 8: trivia if it's all about correct answers.

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Speaker 3: I did call a team out because they were cheating.

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Speaker 8: I just that's not bad unless they weren't cheating.

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Speaker 6: And of cheating, right, I mean we won anyway, so

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Speaker 6: it didn't matter.

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Speaker 7: But still, I'm like, you can't cheat. It's trivia. What

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Speaker 7: was she.

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Speaker 8: Doing during the time you were yelling at the at

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Speaker 8: the host? Was she did she look embarrassed or was

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I don't know, and that's probably not good.

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Speaker 7: Okay, but but I didn't yell. Yell is a very

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Speaker 7: strong word for what it was.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks, all right,

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Speaker 2: we'll get your first day follow up.

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Speaker 1: Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Jake is on the phone.

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Speaker 2: He's getting ghosted by Serena. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: him and maybe get him another day if he still

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Speaker 2: wants one. But before we do that, Jake, tell us

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Speaker 2: what happened on your date again?

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Speaker 5: Real quick.

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Speaker 7: So we went out to go play trivia. We had

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Speaker 7: a really.

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Speaker 6: Good time, lots of fun chemistry, but I think I

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Speaker 6: might have gotten a little bit too intent.

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Speaker 7: But she didn't seem.

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Speaker 6: Too bothered about it at that, you know, at when

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Speaker 6: it happened.

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Speaker 7: And we did kiss at the end of the night.

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Speaker 5: But the kiss wasn't kick your leg up kiss. It

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Speaker 5: was just a spark. I love that. Yeah, okay, all right,

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Speaker 5: you ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man speak to Serena. Please,

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Speaker 5: uh hey, Serena, how are you. This is a radio show.

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Speaker 5: It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Serena. My name's Nina. Hi,

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Speaker 5: I'm Victoria and I'm Jewel.

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Speaker 8: How you doing?

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Speaker 7: Wait? Is this a prank?

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Speaker 5: No, this is not a prank. Have you ever listened

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Speaker 5: to The Jebel Show before? I No, you don't have

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Speaker 5: to apologize. It's fine.

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Speaker 2: It happens like rarely that somebody doesn't listen very rarely.

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Speaker 5: But you know, maybe you don't want to know, so, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I just have to be up really early for work though.

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Speaker 5: It probably just yeah, yeah, well yeah, it's fine. You

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Speaker 5: are starring on it though, right now.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we do a segment on the show called the

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Speaker 2: First Date follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: with somebody and then you ghost them, they can email

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Speaker 2: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them. And somebody emailed us about you. Oh okay,

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Speaker 2: you know who would email us?

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Speaker 7: Not sure?

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Speaker 5: Are you ghosting anyone?

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Speaker 4: I mean I'm out here dating I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Okay. His name is Jake. You know that's a lot

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Speaker 5: of guys you remember him?

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Speaker 7: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, yeah, this is something Jake would do, like

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Speaker 4: triton n Jake.

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Speaker 5: Kay, I love that.

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Speaker 2: And he says that it's been a week and a

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Speaker 2: half since you guys hung out. He thought the date

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Speaker 2: was good, but you been ghosting him?

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Speaker 5: Can you tell us why?

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Speaker 7: Definitely? Jake?

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Speaker 5: All right, yeah, no, it's nice.

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Speaker 7: Nice and the guy it's just takes too much that look.

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Speaker 7: I love a competitive guy.

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Speaker 4: But you know, we went out for a game of

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Speaker 4: Tribia and it turned into like this full full blown

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Speaker 4: high fiving strangers and just giving ted talks between rounds

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Speaker 4: and people thought he worked there.

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Speaker 7: Well, excuse me for bring us some enthusiasm to the game.

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Speaker 5: He's on the phone listening and he wants to talk

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Speaker 5: to you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, hi, Jake. I just you also accused a

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Speaker 4: group of elderly women of cheating.

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Speaker 7: Yeah they were.

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Speaker 3: They were suspiciously good at pop culture.

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Speaker 7: How are they gonna know? Like, how are they gonna

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Speaker 7: know this stuff?

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Speaker 6: And I swear I saw one of them looking at

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Speaker 6: their phone.

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Speaker 4: Okay, And let's not also forget that you argued with

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Speaker 4: the trivia host for a solid five minute.

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Speaker 7: I was maybe nineteen streeting off a card old he

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Speaker 7: was wrong. I was educating him, Jake. The whole bar

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Speaker 7: was chanting for you to sit down.

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Speaker 5: The whole bar chanted firm sit down.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god. They were not telling me to sit down.

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Speaker 6: They were chanting my name because I was correct.

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Speaker 5: Is that really what happened?

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, Jake, we were losing, all right.

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Speaker 4: I need someone who can handle losing with dignity.

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Speaker 3: Oh come on, I do handle loving well.

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Speaker 7: It just doesn't happen to me very often.

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Speaker 5: That's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it was already bad, but when you threatened

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Speaker 4: to burn down the place because we were losing, that.

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Speaker 7: It was a joke. I'm not God wasn't gonna actually.

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Speaker 5: Do that, So you're not denying it. You didnlace down,

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Speaker 5: but I.

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Speaker 7: Didn't mean it. Joke.

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Speaker 4: And Joe really take like the owner came out at

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Speaker 4: that point and was saying we had to go.

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Speaker 7: Well, we were already leaving, all right, Well like we got.

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Speaker 2: Roll now, Serena, would you like go out with Jake again?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it, you know, thank you?

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Speaker 7: It was so good.

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Speaker 6: Well, all right, fine, I guess I'll take my undefeated

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Speaker 6: record somewhere else and enjoy losing it life.

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Speaker 8: Serena, Okay, well right, I hope you find you're someone.

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Speaker 5: And you can burn down places together.

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Speaker 7: It was a joke. I gonna do that. Jubele's First

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Speaker 7: Date follow up