1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: This is from Christine and Steve Harvey FM. She says, 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: my boyfriend is amazing. He's smart, kind, attractive, and he 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: loves me deeply. The problem is I don't feel the 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: same head over Hills way about him. I've been thinking 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,159 Speaker 1: about breaking up, but I can't shake the fear that 6 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: I'll never do better or find someone who loves me 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: as much as he does. Am I an idiot for 8 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: even thinking of leaving him? Should I just accept that 9 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: no relationship is ever perfect and be grateful for what 10 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:29,319 Speaker 1: I have? 11 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you what's wrong, because you haven't 12 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 2: said anything that's wrong, right, she does, So, you sound. 13 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 3: A lot like the lady that was in our Strawberry letter. Today. 14 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: She got this husband that changed all of his ways, 15 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 2: started coming home, read the Bible, stop drinking, got a job, 16 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 2: back to having lots of sex. Now she wants to 17 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 2: punish him for his past and thinking about divorcing him 18 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 2: so he can be alone. Well, you're going to be 19 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 2: alone too, so, young lady, I don't just make yourself 20 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 2: a checklist pros and cons? How many blocks does he 21 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 2: check on the pro list? How many blocks does he 22 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: check on the con list? And then you do like 23 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 2: you want to, you can get back out here, gone, 24 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 2: gone out here, Because every woman I talk to right 25 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 2: now about this dating scene out here today is deeply 26 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 2: concerned about him. 27 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, she says, he's kind, smart, attractive, he loves her deeply. 28 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: She just doesn't feel the same way. 29 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 2: Well, okay, tell him that. I'll tell you what. Here's 30 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 2: what you should do. Let's be honest, sit down, tell 31 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 2: him that and then let him participate in decision too. 32 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 3: Oh oh that's gonna be quick. No, really, that. 33 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 2: You wrote the letter, tell him everything you told us 34 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: in the letter, and then say, hey, look and I 35 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: want to talk to you about it. 36 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: What are your thoughts about this? He's gonna be like, 37 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 3: this are my thoughts? All right? 38 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one, Steve. This 39 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: is from Kira on Steve HARVEFM. Kira says, I'm twenty 40 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: five and just wanted and I just started what I 41 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: thought was my dream job as a project coordinator for 42 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: a creative agency. The hiring manager told me my attitude 43 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 1: and energy convinced her to take a chance on me, 44 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: even though my resume wasn't a perfect fit. Now that 45 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:23,360 Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm realizing I don't actually have the skills 46 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: that most of my coworkers have. I've been faking my 47 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: way through for a few weeks, and I'm terrified they'll 48 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: figure out I'm not really qualified. Should I come clean 49 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 1: about what I'm struggling with or keep grinding and hope 50 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: I can bridge the gap before someone figures out that 51 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 1: I'm a fraud. 52 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 2: Well, listen to me, you know fraud? Did you lie? 53 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 2: The lady said she wasn't impressed by your resume. The 54 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 2: lady said it was your energy that convinced. 55 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:51,519 Speaker 3: Her and her attitude. 56 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 2: So keia, keep up a good attitude, keep up the energy. 57 00:02:55,560 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 3: Look, we were people something radio. I don't know how 58 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 3: I got none of my show, got that right. 59 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 2: I got a sitcom, the lead actor of a sitcom. 60 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 3: Ain't ever been in a plate. I don't even know. 61 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 2: I got a radio show, had never done radio before. 62 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 2: I can't even tell you. I became the host of 63 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 2: a beauty the Miss Universe Beauty, the biggest pageant in 64 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 2: the world, first black to ever host that said the 65 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 2: wrong name. 66 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 3: Still came back and kept the job the following year. Yeah, 67 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 3: right on back in now? Yeah? 68 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, how was him back? 69 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 3: I can't believe they brought him back. 70 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 2: I heard the lady that said that she worked for 71 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: the beauty pageant when Donald Trump owned it. She never 72 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: liked me, She never liked me, and she was the 73 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 2: one that changed the card that night to go back 74 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: to the way they did it when Trump owned the patcheant. 75 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,839 Speaker 2: She was the one changed the card in the order 76 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 2: that night. It wasn't even supposed to be like that. 77 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: And made you say the wrong thing as a result. 78 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:20,119 Speaker 3: I don't know her name. I call a white lady, 79 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 3: white man. That narrowed it then very clear. 80 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 1: Wow, all right, so you're telling her to hang in there. 81 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 3: Yeah, don't block your blessing. 82 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 2: I got news for a whole lot of people on 83 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 2: their job ain't qualified. 84 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: That's right, all right. We'll have more of the Steve 85 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening 86 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.