WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Love At First Height 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.480 Starting your Friday with a brand new Second Date episode. 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:04.120 Thank you so much for being here. It's Brick and 0:00:04.200 --> 0:00:05.280 Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:00:05.519 --> 0:00:08.360 And apparently we got a lot of comments the other 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:10.639 day on our forty nine ers episode. 0:00:11.039 --> 0:00:12.560 Yeah, if you missed it, it was a few days ago, 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:14.520 and yes, I bought her explain it, No, go listen, 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:15.800 you know, and then you'll figure it out. 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:17.800 Funny it was not about the football team. 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:21.800 No, but is a new slang term, yes for someone 0:00:21.920 --> 0:00:23.760 who is a four but acts like a nine. 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:25.919 Yeah, and so some comments from that. 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:29.240 Wesley said, I hate so much this attitude of numbering people. 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:32.680 Yeah, I mean, yeah, fair, but it's still funny. 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:35.960 Is it helps people? Good visual Someone said even. 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.760 Cows have better self awareness than her if you ask me, Wow, 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:39.880 that was harsh. 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:41.640 Yeah. I listened to this with my wife. When I 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:43.040 mess up that way, she could. 0:00:42.880 --> 0:00:45.040 See how awesome I am in comparison to some people 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:45.960 in the dating world. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:47.080 That is a good tool. 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:47.440 Yeah. 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:50.199 A lot of people comment a lot of hate on her, 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:51.760 you know, and a lot of people commenting on how 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:55.160 she was, how she used the word ghost oh yeah, yeah, 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:56.640 and a lot of people are like, my favorite part 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:58.959 is when she confidently used the word ghosh and correctly 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:01.040 and does she think it's a new word? 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:01.880 Where has she been? 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:03.680 Okay, all right, now we're getting me. 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:04.640 I didn't know it. 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:07.720 We're going vocap lessons as well. Yeah, show, I love it, 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:09.280 I love it. Well, we'll see what you think about 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:10.120 today's episode. 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:11.280 Is it ghost? 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:16.360 Yeah? Definitely drop use it, drop it in the comments 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:18.720 and guaranteed we won't use any big words on you. 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:19.200 Yeah. 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:21.360 Your new episode starts right now. 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:24.399 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates. 0:01:25.480 --> 0:01:28.120 We do lists on this show all the time about 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:32.200 what guys look for in women, and never in the 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:35.480 top ten do we ever hear height as one of 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:36.200 the options. 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:37.399 That is a really good point. 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:41.440 Yeah, it's usually like they want a good sense of humor, intelligence, 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:45.000 someone who can pick a restaurant in under forty five minutes. 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:48.760 That would be great. But that's why I was shocked. 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:51.240 When I saw an email from our listener Mike saying 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:54.440 he has a height requirement for his dates. 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:57.520 It's gotta be a short requirements are so fun. 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:01.760 Taller the better, let's go at the carnival. That's Mike's 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:06.520 style of dating. Needs our help today, Mike, You're weird 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:07.160 and I like it. 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:08.000 Welcome to the show. 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:10.040 Thank you for helping me. 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:13.240 Okay, I know guys who only want to date really 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:16.200 tall women because they want future D one athletes going. 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:20.160 To say, what's this height requirement about? 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:23.200 It really comes down to laziness. 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:24.480 I am a very tall man. 0:02:24.560 --> 0:02:28.400 I'm sixty six and I have dated short women. 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:30.480 I've done that. I'm never doing it again. 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:35.600 I will say, Yeah, just of your back is what 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:37.880 you're doing well, and all the extra work, like you 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:39.639 have to reach all the high shelves for her. 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:42.480 I mean that's the way that goes in my house anyway. 0:02:42.600 --> 0:02:44.079 That's not fair at all to Mike. 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:46.240 So bring your long arms over here and get that 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:46.520 for me. 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:49.679 So you must have met with a woman who met 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:51.400 your height requirement. What's her name? 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:54.240 Her name is Elise and she is six y three. 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:58.079 Hey there, she loves this because all girls want everyone 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:59.360 else to leave the tall guys for them. 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:02.519 Yeah, yes, okay, And how did you meet her? 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:04.200 I met her on our dating app. 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:06.040 Do women lie in the same way that men do 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:06.679 about their height. 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.840 I'm guessing some do, but most don't know. 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:13.680 Okay, you saw her in person and she did legit 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:14.520 come out to be six'? 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:15.760 Three she? 0:03:15.960 --> 0:03:16.799 Was she was absolutely. 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:20.400 Gorgeous, wow you the image of you two walking together 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:23.280 into any place would be really intimidating as somebody else 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:24.520 where did you go for your? 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:27.840 DATE i picked her up at her, place AND i 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:29.160 had told HER i didn't want. 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:31.880 To do the normal first date thing BECAUSE i just 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:35.080 find it kind of, boring and also we're both would 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:37.120 probably find it a little. Cramped SO i. 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:40.440 Knew the perfect idea would be to take. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:41.839 Her on a. Surprise and she was, like, well where 0:03:41.840 --> 0:03:43.600 are we? GOING i was, like it's a, surprise. 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:49.280 Okay and it was my buddy's backyard, barbecue which sounds 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:53.600 a little who unimpressive TO i tell you that my 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:56.440 buddy is an amateur chef and he was doing his 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:58.200 own little haibachi. 0:03:58.320 --> 0:03:58.840 Restaurant. 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:02.480 COOL i love when you have friends like. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:06.480 That, yeah, okay slightly dangerous too because you might burn stuff, 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:07.360 down so that could be. 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:09.920 Fun so did she not know it was your buddy's 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:13.080 house until you pull up outside of like a random home? 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:16.720 Exactly and then he had the whole backyard deck, down 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:17.480 so it was a whole. 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.480 Scene and then it was all my, Friends. 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:20.200 So she got to meet him all at. 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:22.560 Once that's a. 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:23.680 Lot of pressure to walk. 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:25.400 INTO i, MEAN i don't know if it's better to 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:26.839 know beforehand and get in. 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:28.719 Your nut about, it it's better to be, Like, wow 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:29.480 we're doing, It we're in. 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:29.640 It. 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:30.800 Yeah did she have? 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:32.279 FUN i think. 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:34.160 So that's WHY i Guess i'm calling you, guys is 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:35.960 because the backyard. 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:38.960 Party was a great time and everybody was having really 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:41.800 good conversations and there was a lot of, laughing and 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:44.880 there was dancing at one, point and my buddy was 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.360 doing the hibachi thing and that's really. Impressive, yeah your 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:50.080 miss sometimes with the knife. 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:51.880 Work oh what do you mean? 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.640 Missed oh, no he's got the knife a couple of. 0:04:54.680 --> 0:05:01.240 Times, okay, Feet, yeah like you left with all of your, limbs. 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:02.360 No, injuries nothing like. That. 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:03.440 Okay imagine some. 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:05.160 People stak were huge summer Tiny. 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:06.919 Okay. 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:10.080 Exactly it wasn't very uniform and it probably wasn't up 0:05:10.080 --> 0:05:12.880 to the out, code but. 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:14.599 Right but, yeah. 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:18.400 Only one negative is that my buddy and his, girlfriend 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:20.760 who were the hosts of the, party they got into 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:23.720 a minor tiff and then kind of killed the vibe 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:24.080 a little. 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:27.520 Bit, oh it was like a loud. One, yeah and then. 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:30.000 Everybody kind of drifted away and kind of gave them 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:31.159 their own little bubble for a. 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.480 Bit are we allowed to know what the fight was? About? 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:37.040 YEAH i think she was on him because he had 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.000 cut the vegetables weird or something like. 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:44.360 That he deserves to get chewed out over the shrimp very. 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:46.240 Accurately, yeah that. 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:46.919 Happened that. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:49.240 Happened at one, point my buddy tried to toss the 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:51.159 shrimp into my mouth and it hit a. 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:54.360 Lease that was. Funny that was a funny. 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:55.760 Moment did she? 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:57.120 Laugh she? 0:05:57.240 --> 0:06:00.280 Did, okay that is good that. 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:02.640 WAY i, mean the only THING i could think is 0:06:02.680 --> 0:06:04.520 when you ever you're in a big friend, group it 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:05.520 can be easy to get. 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:09.520 Distracted did you leave her alone for long periods of? 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:13.360 Time, no it was very organic like sometimes it was 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:14.800 the girls drifted. 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:15.279 Into a clump and the. 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:17.159 Guys and then after. 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:19.400 The hibachi, thing we then went out for a drink 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:21.039 and it was just her And eye and it was 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:23.760 really really cool and the conversation again was. 0:06:23.800 --> 0:06:27.360 Flowing that's a huge green, flag. Bro she went out 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:28.360 again after. 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:30.800 You time, together unless you went to a different friend's 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:37.360 house for that. One he's an amateur bartender set and. 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:40.360 Drinks she's, like there's so much free food and drinks 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:40.520 in this. 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:43.960 Relationship, okay so after food and, drinks how did the night? 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:48.400 END i took her back to her place and a 0:06:48.520 --> 0:06:51.080 very chas hug, GOODBYE a chase. 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:53.280 Hug you run after. 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:56.239 Wait a, minute come, Back. 0:06:56.480 --> 0:06:59.640 Chase does in, like very innocent, hug a friendly. 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:01.960 HUG i don't. Know we'd had a good, time we'd 0:07:01.960 --> 0:07:03.760 had a drink. TOGETHER i didn't want to push my. 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:06.160 Luck MAYBE i don't. Know at the, TIME i was, 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.279 Like i'm just gonna hugg a goodbye and then we're 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:09.440 gonna totally see each other. 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:12.960 Again, yeah, yeah, Yeah and you've contacted her Since i'm. 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:13.360 Guessing. 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.560 Yeah, yeah she hasn't completely ghosted me or, anything. 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:19.320 Like she's responded to my text messages and stuff like. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:20.360 That it's just. 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:22.400 Feels like a. 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:24.920 Friend, yeah it's like she's not as into me as 0:07:24.960 --> 0:07:27.560 she was before we had gone on the. Date and 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:30.200 if something had gone wrong on the, date just tell 0:07:30.240 --> 0:07:31.280 me what it is And i'll fix. 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:33.200 It maybe for the first time in the history of, 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:34.480 dating you're too tall for. 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:37.240 Her, Yeah like. 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:42.640 That's gotta be. It when we call her in a few. 0:07:42.680 --> 0:07:45.720 Minutes here we'll come, back reach out to a lease for, 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:48.760 you and try to get you the tallest second date 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:50.480 update we've ever done on our. 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:52.360 SHOW i hope she hears her phone ringing all the 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:52.760 way down. 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:55.760 THERE i know it's never been down to get it 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:58.600 when we come. Back second date update continues right after 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:00.040 this broken. 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:01.720 Free in the Morning second date. 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:05.679 Update if you're just joining, us we're talking To, mike 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:09.040 who sounds like the type of dude that any woman 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:09.640 would want to. 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:12.200 DATE i, mean and his friends sound awesome. 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:16.800 Too, yeah Because mike is tall, YEP i, MEAN i 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:19.120 could just stop. There he'd be with ninety nine percent 0:08:19.160 --> 0:08:22.320 of the female. Population but he's also got friends who 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:25.600 do their own hibachi y and argue with each other 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:28.160 in front of. Strangers that's a good, time he, means they're, 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:31.800 comfortable and recently he took a tall woman Named elise 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.360 out to meet with his friends and got a nice 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:36.760 little hug at the end of the. Night but here's the. 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:40.480 Thing she doesn't fully ghosted even they're still. Talking it's 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:43.440 just the vibes have, changed And mike can. Tell so 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:46.559 he wants us to try to help figure out why you, know. 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:47.160 We didn't, Ask. 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.640 MIKE i know, that like you have a hygh minimum. 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:53.520 Requirement did you bring up her height a? Lot because 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:56.640 my tall girlfriends hate talking about how tall they. 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:58.760 Are, yeah why do you keep bringing it? 0:08:58.840 --> 0:08:58.960 Up? 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.800 Then So i'm wondering if he did on the. 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:04.679 Day, no not at. All it's a foregun. 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:06.680 Conclusion we don't have to address. 0:09:06.720 --> 0:09:08.640 It that is part of the reason WHY i take 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:10.160 it into the. Equations, okay AND. 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:12.280 I, figure you, know as someone is six,' six probably 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:13.040 knows how nine. 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:13.160 It. 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:14.800 Is, yeah well maybe if it wasn't Something that, mike 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:17.080 said maybe one of his friends brought it up and 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:17.920 it could have rubbed her the. 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:20.440 Wrong way how many dumb friends do, You? 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:21.120 Have mike. 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:26.400 You can never know. A, lot okay we have, some 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:28.640 theories but let's just call the lease and see if 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:29.600 we can get to the bottom. 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:32.400 Of it i'm going to dial her number right now here. We, Go, 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:44.080 hello hello Is? This elise this is? 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:45.120 She's speaking? Who's, This? 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:48.439 Hey alise this is a radio Show called Brook and 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:49.000 jeffrey In. 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:49.840 The morning, What's? 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:51.400 Up elise? 0:09:51.520 --> 0:09:53.960 Good, morning uh? 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:55.320 Good morning who is? 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:56.960 The fan we're a? 0:09:57.040 --> 0:09:59.520 Radio, Show yeah Brook and jeffrey in. The morning you 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:03.840 can find us wherever you get your Podcasts at Brook, And, Jeffrey, apple, spotify, 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:06.320 YouTube YouTube, we'll wait you go. 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:07.440 Follow us, We'll wait. 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:13.760 But that desperate subscribe check the. 0:10:13.840 --> 0:10:18.559 NUMBERS us i heard, your question how do we get? 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:20.880 Your number it's a good question because it's from one 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:23.520 of our Listeners, named mike who you went on a date. 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.760 With recently oh. 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:27.120 My, god yes. 0:10:28.920 --> 0:10:29.000 Are? 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:29.079 You? 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:33.080 Serious seriously so this is a segment Called Second. Date 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:36.440 update we're trying To help mike get some answers for 0:10:36.640 --> 0:10:39.760 why the vibe has changed between the two. 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:40.000 Of you. 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:45.520 THAT right i just Can't believe mike called you. 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:49.280 About, me yeah because he felt a connection. 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:52.520 With you it's. So, weird well he told us all about. 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:53.079 THE date. 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:56.920 I think it's just weird that we're calling about her. 0:10:56.960 --> 0:11:00.800 Personal life we've done like thousands, of these so we're 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:01.959 really desensitized. 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:03.920 TO this i understand how it'd be weird. For. You 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:07.040 huh we're trying to get. Your vibe, i'm like what 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:07.439 do you Think? 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:09.679 About mike did we heard that he surprised you with 0:11:09.760 --> 0:11:11.680 the backyard hibachi party with? 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:12.679 His buddies. 0:11:14.000 --> 0:11:16.640 Oh? My, GOD yeah i mean he's a. Nice guy, 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:18.920 uh oh that's. 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:21.440 Anything else that is a dagger to the heart of 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:23.640 every man. That heard that's. 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:26.600 The worst we're trying to just get to what's stopping 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:28.640 you from talking to him more or hanging out with. 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.680 Him AGAIN so i don't know how much he's, told 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:34.679 you but he told me he was like. Six six 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:35.679 he told us. 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:37.280 That too he's six six and you're. 0:11:37.360 --> 0:11:41.320 Six, Three yeah i'm like true. Six three he's not 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:46.319 a true. Six. SIX oh i usually date guys who are, 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:48.920 six seven, six EIGHT and i know that sounds, really 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:51.240 Minor but i'm a. Call girl AND if i, were 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:56.040 heels that puts me at six six and he is 0:11:56.080 --> 0:12:01.800 not quite. Six, five okay how do YOU think i 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:04.040 think he's under sixty FIVE because i think he was 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:06.360 an inch. Above me SO if i, WORE heels i 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:06.880 would tie her. 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:12.840 Over, him okay very very specific about the height requirements 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:14.240 for an already super. 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:17.360 TALL dude i just think you need to maybe loosen 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:17.720 that a. 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:20.160 Little BIT like i have a girlfriend who's six foot 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:23.360 and she was certain she would never date anybody, her 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:25.080 height and she ended up marrying. 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.040 The guy so here's the, Other, thing LIKE maybe i 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:30.120 wouldn't mind so much of. The heightline like we had 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.840 a really, fun night like he, told you we Went, 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:34.400 to hibachi met his friend and, you know we went 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:36.640 to the. Bar AFTERWARDS like i was putting the vibes. 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:38.640 OUT there i was interested in. Having fun you. 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:39.679 Were like overlooking the. 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:42.680 Height, Thing yeah and at the end of the night he. 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:46.040 Was hesitating he didn't even, kiss ME which i, was 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:48.520 like you're not even man enough, To like, oh no 0:12:49.240 --> 0:12:50.000 he thought. 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:52.520 About, it though but what about what about the? 0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:54.920 Flip side maybe he's man enough to respect you and 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:55.440 wait till the. 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:57.200 Next day there, You, go well. 0:12:57.280 --> 0:12:59.440 The vibes, are There and i'm putting the vibes there 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:01.680 and being play, and flirty like why wouldn't you just? 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:04.079 One on he told us that he had to. 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:05.000 Chase you down to get. 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:09.040 A hug he described it as a. 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:13.160 Chaste, huge yeah it's. 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:13.400 A quick. 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:15.280 Was running. 0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:17.240 After, her, no, No. 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:21.680 Okay so you didn't get the kiss in person on, 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.439 night one and that tells you he's not someone who goes. 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:27.280 For, It yeah it's, just like WHY do i have 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:28.480 to be? The ONE like i want. 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:32.960 TO know i think, we Understand but i'm. Just, wondering like, 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.680 For Example brook let's say that you're in that. Same, 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:38.760 situation okay you're on a day it's, been great but 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.640 the guy's just not going in for, the kiss and 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:42.480 you you want. 0:13:42.559 --> 0:13:45.920 Him to what's? Your move and you can't say leg 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:47.920 wrestle him in the? Parking lot how do you get? 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:51.520 THE kiss i can't do the? Leg, wrestling no what about? 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:56.120 Get, wrestling, okay okay how about this rock paper scissors? 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:57.439 Ro shambo. 0:13:58.640 --> 0:13:58.839 Can you? 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:00.880 Kiss me you? 0:14:00.920 --> 0:14:03.760 CAN leave i think. 0:14:03.520 --> 0:14:05.800 It's a pretty good fair way to, do it, YOU 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:10.240 know i. 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:11.040 GET ready i. 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:12.920 Want somebody who's gonna take charge and be man, in 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:14.920 OFFENSE so. I forget i FEEL like i could have 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:17.679 overlooked the height if he just planted one. 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:19.680 On, ME okay i. 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.720 Hear you you want a guy who's, man enough, who's 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:22.360 bold who makes. 0:14:22.360 --> 0:14:23.400 Big, decisions well. 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:25.760 He was bold enough to reach out to our show 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:28.280 and ask us to call you and wait on the 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:30.800 other line, listening quietly to jump in and talk. 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:33.760 To you oh, my god that's. 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:34.400 Not passive. 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:36.960 That's, aggressive yes he might even kiss you as soon 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:37.720 as we put You on. 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:38.720 Mike go oh. 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:42.200 MY god i would just like to Say that i'm 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:44.800 not even going to address the. Height allegations that seems like. 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:50.920 You were that's the point being THAT why i didn't. 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:53.600 KISS you i didn't want to. Rush things we had 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:57.120 such an, Amazing, evening mike you didn't want to, rush 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.280 things but you took me to your friend's barbecue on. 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:00.240 The first day and then all. 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:04.320 Your friends, Good, COUNTERPOINT like. 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:07.560 I just thought you seeing me with all my friends 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.960 would get you would get the vibe of like this 0:15:10.000 --> 0:15:10.240 Is what. 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:12.640 I'M like i did get. The vibes THAT'S why i, 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:14.360 was like let's go to another bar and, have DRINKS 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:16.360 because i, was like let's hang out. Even more but 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:17.520 then you didn't pick up. 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.040 On, it oh. 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:22.920 It's so hard when you just meet someone to know 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:23.360 what their. 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:27.360 Cues, Are, right like BUT do i have to give you, THE, 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:29.400 okay q just up and go. 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:33.640 For it it's easier said than and not everyone. Likes 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:36.080 that but, it's Tough brookek you only get one chance 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.440 now in, modern dating to make your, first impression to 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:39.440 go in for the kiss. 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:40.720 At the, right time and if, you don't you. 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:47.400 Blow it THAT'S why i go home with them. Every, Time. 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:50.200 Okay it's never been a problem, For ME but, i 0:15:50.520 --> 0:15:54.920 say sub, women okay sub women like, it slower and 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.280 he was trying to, be RESPECTFUL and i think that's Nice. 0:15:57.320 --> 0:15:59.160 To mike do you have anything you want to say 0:15:59.200 --> 0:16:01.680 to a lease where your lack of ability to go 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:02.000 in for? A. 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:04.000 KISS yeah i should have. 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:07.240