Speaker 1: Starting your Friday with a brand new Second Date episode.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here. It's Brick and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: And apparently we got a lot of comments the other
Speaker 2: day on our forty nine ers episode.
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you missed it, it was a few days ago,
Speaker 3: and yes, I bought her explain it, No, go listen,
Speaker 3: you know, and then you'll figure it out.
Speaker 4: Funny it was not about the football team.
Speaker 1: No, but is a new slang term, yes for someone
Speaker 1: who is a four but acts like a nine.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and so some comments from that.
Speaker 3: Wesley said, I hate so much this attitude of numbering people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, fair, but it's still funny.
Speaker 5: Is it helps people? Good visual Someone said even.
Speaker 3: Cows have better self awareness than her if you ask me, Wow,
Speaker 3: that was harsh.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I listened to this with my wife. When I
Speaker 5: mess up that way, she could.
Speaker 3: See how awesome I am in comparison to some people
Speaker 3: in the dating world.
Speaker 2: That is a good tool.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: A lot of people comment a lot of hate on her,
Speaker 3: you know, and a lot of people commenting on how
Speaker 3: she was, how she used the word ghost oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: and a lot of people are like, my favorite part
Speaker 3: is when she confidently used the word ghosh and correctly
Speaker 3: and does she think it's a new word?
Speaker 5: Where has she been?
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, now we're getting me.
Speaker 4: I didn't know it.
Speaker 1: We're going vocap lessons as well. Yeah, show, I love it,
Speaker 1: I love it. Well, we'll see what you think about
Speaker 1: today's episode.
Speaker 4: Is it ghost?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Definitely drop use it, drop it in the comments
Speaker 2: and guaranteed we won't use any big words on you.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Your new episode starts right now.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates.
Speaker 7: We do lists on this show all the time about
Speaker 7: what guys look for in women, and never in the
Speaker 7: top ten do we ever hear height as one of
Speaker 7: the options.
Speaker 2: That is a really good point.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's usually like they want a good sense of humor, intelligence,
Speaker 7: someone who can pick a restaurant in under forty five minutes.
Speaker 6: That would be great. But that's why I was shocked.
Speaker 7: When I saw an email from our listener Mike saying
Speaker 7: he has a height requirement for his dates.
Speaker 4: It's gotta be a short requirements are so fun.
Speaker 7: Taller the better, let's go at the carnival. That's Mike's
Speaker 7: style of dating. Needs our help today, Mike, You're weird
Speaker 7: and I like it.
Speaker 6: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 8: Thank you for helping me.
Speaker 1: Okay, I know guys who only want to date really
Speaker 1: tall women because they want future D one athletes going.
Speaker 7: To say, what's this height requirement about?
Speaker 8: It really comes down to laziness.
Speaker 9: I am a very tall man.
Speaker 8: I'm sixty six and I have dated short women.
Speaker 9: I've done that. I'm never doing it again.
Speaker 1: I will say, Yeah, just of your back is what
Speaker 1: you're doing well, and all the extra work, like you
Speaker 1: have to reach all the high shelves for her.
Speaker 2: I mean that's the way that goes in my house anyway.
Speaker 6: That's not fair at all to Mike.
Speaker 2: So bring your long arms over here and get that
Speaker 2: for me.
Speaker 7: So you must have met with a woman who met
Speaker 7: your height requirement. What's her name?
Speaker 9: Her name is Elise and she is six y three.
Speaker 3: Hey there, she loves this because all girls want everyone
Speaker 3: else to leave the tall guys for them.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yes, okay, And how did you meet her?
Speaker 8: I met her on our dating app.
Speaker 2: Do women lie in the same way that men do
Speaker 2: about their height.
Speaker 8: I'm guessing some do, but most don't know.
Speaker 1: Okay, you saw her in person and she did legit
Speaker 1: come out to be six'?
Speaker 2: Three she?
Speaker 8: Was she was absolutely.
Speaker 7: Gorgeous, wow you the image of you two walking together
Speaker 7: into any place would be really intimidating as somebody else
Speaker 7: where did you go for your?
Speaker 9: DATE i picked her up at her, place AND i
Speaker 9: had told HER i didn't want.
Speaker 8: To do the normal first date thing BECAUSE i just
Speaker 8: find it kind of, boring and also we're both would
Speaker 8: probably find it a little. Cramped SO i.
Speaker 9: Knew the perfect idea would be to take.
Speaker 8: Her on a. Surprise and she was, like, well where
Speaker 8: are we? GOING i was, like it's a, surprise.
Speaker 9: Okay and it was my buddy's backyard, barbecue which sounds
Speaker 9: a little who unimpressive TO i tell you that my
Speaker 9: buddy is an amateur chef and he was doing his
Speaker 9: own little haibachi.
Speaker 8: Restaurant.
Speaker 2: COOL i love when you have friends like.
Speaker 7: That, yeah, okay slightly dangerous too because you might burn stuff,
Speaker 7: down so that could be.
Speaker 1: Fun so did she not know it was your buddy's
Speaker 1: house until you pull up outside of like a random home?
Speaker 9: Exactly and then he had the whole backyard deck, down
Speaker 9: so it was a whole.
Speaker 10: Scene and then it was all my, Friends.
Speaker 8: So she got to meet him all at.
Speaker 10: Once that's a.
Speaker 2: Lot of pressure to walk.
Speaker 1: INTO i, MEAN i don't know if it's better to
Speaker 1: know beforehand and get in.
Speaker 2: Your nut about, it it's better to be, Like, wow
Speaker 2: we're doing, It we're in.
Speaker 7: It.
Speaker 6: Yeah did she have?
Speaker 9: FUN i think.
Speaker 8: So that's WHY i Guess i'm calling you, guys is
Speaker 8: because the backyard.
Speaker 9: Party was a great time and everybody was having really
Speaker 9: good conversations and there was a lot of, laughing and
Speaker 9: there was dancing at one, point and my buddy was
Speaker 9: doing the hibachi thing and that's really. Impressive, yeah your
Speaker 9: miss sometimes with the knife.
Speaker 2: Work oh what do you mean?
Speaker 8: Missed oh, no he's got the knife a couple of.
Speaker 7: Times, okay, Feet, yeah like you left with all of your, limbs.
Speaker 8: No, injuries nothing like. That.
Speaker 6: Okay imagine some.
Speaker 4: People stak were huge summer Tiny.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 9: Exactly it wasn't very uniform and it probably wasn't up
Speaker 9: to the out, code but.
Speaker 8: Right but, yeah.
Speaker 9: Only one negative is that my buddy and his, girlfriend
Speaker 9: who were the hosts of the, party they got into
Speaker 9: a minor tiff and then kind of killed the vibe
Speaker 9: a little.
Speaker 2: Bit, oh it was like a loud. One, yeah and then.
Speaker 9: Everybody kind of drifted away and kind of gave them
Speaker 9: their own little bubble for a.
Speaker 6: Bit are we allowed to know what the fight was? About?
Speaker 9: YEAH i think she was on him because he had
Speaker 9: cut the vegetables weird or something like.
Speaker 7: That he deserves to get chewed out over the shrimp very.
Speaker 4: Accurately, yeah that.
Speaker 10: Happened that.
Speaker 9: Happened at one, point my buddy tried to toss the
Speaker 9: shrimp into my mouth and it hit a.
Speaker 8: Lease that was. Funny that was a funny.
Speaker 2: Moment did she?
Speaker 8: Laugh she?
Speaker 2: Did, okay that is good that.
Speaker 1: WAY i, mean the only THING i could think is
Speaker 1: when you ever you're in a big friend, group it
Speaker 1: can be easy to get.
Speaker 2: Distracted did you leave her alone for long periods of?
Speaker 9: Time, no it was very organic like sometimes it was
Speaker 9: the girls drifted.
Speaker 8: Into a clump and the.
Speaker 9: Guys and then after.
Speaker 8: The hibachi, thing we then went out for a drink
Speaker 8: and it was just her And eye and it was
Speaker 8: really really cool and the conversation again was.
Speaker 4: Flowing that's a huge green, flag. Bro she went out
Speaker 4: again after.
Speaker 6: You time, together unless you went to a different friend's
Speaker 6: house for that. One he's an amateur bartender set and.
Speaker 1: Drinks she's, like there's so much free food and drinks
Speaker 1: in this.
Speaker 7: Relationship, okay so after food and, drinks how did the night?
Speaker 9: END i took her back to her place and a
Speaker 9: very chas hug, GOODBYE a chase.
Speaker 6: Hug you run after.
Speaker 4: Wait a, minute come, Back.
Speaker 6: Chase does in, like very innocent, hug a friendly.
Speaker 8: HUG i don't. Know we'd had a good, time we'd
Speaker 8: had a drink. TOGETHER i didn't want to push my.
Speaker 9: Luck MAYBE i don't. Know at the, TIME i was,
Speaker 9: Like i'm just gonna hugg a goodbye and then we're
Speaker 9: gonna totally see each other.
Speaker 1: Again, yeah, yeah, Yeah and you've contacted her Since i'm.
Speaker 2: Guessing.
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah she hasn't completely ghosted me or, anything.
Speaker 9: Like she's responded to my text messages and stuff like.
Speaker 8: That it's just.
Speaker 4: Feels like a.
Speaker 9: Friend, yeah it's like she's not as into me as
Speaker 9: she was before we had gone on the. Date and
Speaker 9: if something had gone wrong on the, date just tell
Speaker 9: me what it is And i'll fix.
Speaker 2: It maybe for the first time in the history of,
Speaker 2: dating you're too tall for.
Speaker 5: Her, Yeah like.
Speaker 6: That's gotta be. It when we call her in a few.
Speaker 7: Minutes here we'll come, back reach out to a lease for,
Speaker 7: you and try to get you the tallest second date
Speaker 7: update we've ever done on our.
Speaker 4: SHOW i hope she hears her phone ringing all the
Speaker 4: way down.
Speaker 7: THERE i know it's never been down to get it
Speaker 7: when we come. Back second date update continues right after
Speaker 7: this broken.
Speaker 4: Free in the Morning second date.
Speaker 7: Update if you're just joining, us we're talking To, mike
Speaker 7: who sounds like the type of dude that any woman
Speaker 7: would want to.
Speaker 2: DATE i, mean and his friends sound awesome.
Speaker 7: Too, yeah Because mike is tall, YEP i, MEAN i
Speaker 7: could just stop. There he'd be with ninety nine percent
Speaker 7: of the female. Population but he's also got friends who
Speaker 7: do their own hibachi y and argue with each other
Speaker 7: in front of. Strangers that's a good, time he, means they're,
Speaker 7: comfortable and recently he took a tall woman Named elise
Speaker 7: out to meet with his friends and got a nice
Speaker 7: little hug at the end of the. Night but here's the.
Speaker 7: Thing she doesn't fully ghosted even they're still. Talking it's
Speaker 7: just the vibes have, changed And mike can. Tell so
Speaker 7: he wants us to try to help figure out why you, know.
Speaker 2: We didn't, Ask.
Speaker 1: MIKE i know, that like you have a hygh minimum.
Speaker 1: Requirement did you bring up her height a? Lot because
Speaker 1: my tall girlfriends hate talking about how tall they.
Speaker 6: Are, yeah why do you keep bringing it?
Speaker 8: Up?
Speaker 2: Then So i'm wondering if he did on the.
Speaker 8: Day, no not at. All it's a foregun.
Speaker 9: Conclusion we don't have to address.
Speaker 8: It that is part of the reason WHY i take
Speaker 8: it into the. Equations, okay AND.
Speaker 2: I, figure you, know as someone is six,' six probably
Speaker 2: knows how nine.
Speaker 9: It.
Speaker 7: Is, yeah well maybe if it wasn't Something that, mike
Speaker 7: said maybe one of his friends brought it up and
Speaker 7: it could have rubbed her the.
Speaker 2: Wrong way how many dumb friends do, You?
Speaker 5: Have mike.
Speaker 7: You can never know. A, lot okay we have, some
Speaker 7: theories but let's just call the lease and see if
Speaker 7: we can get to the bottom.
Speaker 6: Of it i'm going to dial her number right now here. We, Go,
Speaker 6: hello hello Is? This elise this is?
Speaker 10: She's speaking? Who's, This?
Speaker 7: Hey alise this is a radio Show called Brook and
Speaker 7: jeffrey In.
Speaker 6: The morning, What's?
Speaker 2: Up elise?
Speaker 8: Good, morning uh?
Speaker 10: Good morning who is?
Speaker 8: The fan we're a?
Speaker 7: Radio, Show yeah Brook and jeffrey in. The morning you
Speaker 7: can find us wherever you get your Podcasts at Brook, And, Jeffrey, apple, spotify,
Speaker 7: YouTube YouTube, we'll wait you go.
Speaker 4: Follow us, We'll wait.
Speaker 2: But that desperate subscribe check the.
Speaker 7: NUMBERS us i heard, your question how do we get?
Speaker 7: Your number it's a good question because it's from one
Speaker 7: of our Listeners, named mike who you went on a date.
Speaker 6: With recently oh.
Speaker 10: My, god yes.
Speaker 8: Are?
Speaker 10: You?
Speaker 7: Serious seriously so this is a segment Called Second. Date
Speaker 7: update we're trying To help mike get some answers for
Speaker 7: why the vibe has changed between the two.
Speaker 8: Of you.
Speaker 10: THAT right i just Can't believe mike called you.
Speaker 7: About, me yeah because he felt a connection.
Speaker 6: With you it's. So, weird well he told us all about.
Speaker 7: THE date.
Speaker 2: I think it's just weird that we're calling about her.
Speaker 7: Personal life we've done like thousands, of these so we're
Speaker 7: really desensitized.
Speaker 6: TO this i understand how it'd be weird. For. You
Speaker 6: huh we're trying to get. Your vibe, i'm like what
Speaker 6: do you Think?
Speaker 1: About mike did we heard that he surprised you with
Speaker 1: the backyard hibachi party with?
Speaker 2: His buddies.
Speaker 10: Oh? My, GOD yeah i mean he's a. Nice guy,
Speaker 10: uh oh that's.
Speaker 6: Anything else that is a dagger to the heart of
Speaker 6: every man. That heard that's.
Speaker 7: The worst we're trying to just get to what's stopping
Speaker 7: you from talking to him more or hanging out with.
Speaker 10: Him AGAIN so i don't know how much he's, told
Speaker 10: you but he told me he was like. Six six
Speaker 10: he told us.
Speaker 2: That too he's six six and you're.
Speaker 10: Six, Three yeah i'm like true. Six three he's not
Speaker 10: a true. Six. SIX oh i usually date guys who are,
Speaker 10: six seven, six EIGHT and i know that sounds, really
Speaker 10: Minor but i'm a. Call girl AND if i, were
Speaker 10: heels that puts me at six six and he is
Speaker 10: not quite. Six, five okay how do YOU think i
Speaker 10: think he's under sixty FIVE because i think he was
Speaker 10: an inch. Above me SO if i, WORE heels i
Speaker 10: would tie her.
Speaker 7: Over, him okay very very specific about the height requirements
Speaker 7: for an already super.
Speaker 2: TALL dude i just think you need to maybe loosen
Speaker 2: that a.
Speaker 1: Little BIT like i have a girlfriend who's six foot
Speaker 1: and she was certain she would never date anybody, her
Speaker 1: height and she ended up marrying.
Speaker 10: The guy so here's the, Other, thing LIKE maybe i
Speaker 10: wouldn't mind so much of. The heightline like we had
Speaker 10: a really, fun night like he, told you we Went,
Speaker 10: to hibachi met his friend and, you know we went
Speaker 10: to the. Bar AFTERWARDS like i was putting the vibes.
Speaker 10: OUT there i was interested in. Having fun you.
Speaker 2: Were like overlooking the.
Speaker 10: Height, Thing yeah and at the end of the night he.
Speaker 10: Was hesitating he didn't even, kiss ME which i, was
Speaker 10: like you're not even man enough, To like, oh no
Speaker 10: he thought.
Speaker 2: About, it though but what about what about the?
Speaker 1: Flip side maybe he's man enough to respect you and
Speaker 1: wait till the.
Speaker 2: Next day there, You, go well.
Speaker 10: The vibes, are There and i'm putting the vibes there
Speaker 10: and being play, and flirty like why wouldn't you just?
Speaker 10: One on he told us that he had to.
Speaker 2: Chase you down to get.
Speaker 6: A hug he described it as a.
Speaker 7: Chaste, huge yeah it's.
Speaker 4: A quick.
Speaker 2: Was running.
Speaker 6: After, her, no, No.
Speaker 7: Okay so you didn't get the kiss in person on,
Speaker 7: night one and that tells you he's not someone who goes.
Speaker 10: For, It yeah it's, just like WHY do i have
Speaker 10: to be? The ONE like i want.
Speaker 7: TO know i think, we Understand but i'm. Just, wondering like,
Speaker 7: For Example brook let's say that you're in that. Same,
Speaker 7: situation okay you're on a day it's, been great but
Speaker 7: the guy's just not going in for, the kiss and
Speaker 7: you you want.
Speaker 6: Him to what's? Your move and you can't say leg
Speaker 6: wrestle him in the? Parking lot how do you get?
Speaker 2: THE kiss i can't do the? Leg, wrestling no what about?
Speaker 1: Get, wrestling, okay okay how about this rock paper scissors?
Speaker 5: Ro shambo.
Speaker 8: Can you?
Speaker 1: Kiss me you?
Speaker 2: CAN leave i think.
Speaker 1: It's a pretty good fair way to, do it, YOU
Speaker 1: know i.
Speaker 6: GET ready i.
Speaker 10: Want somebody who's gonna take charge and be man, in
Speaker 10: OFFENSE so. I forget i FEEL like i could have
Speaker 10: overlooked the height if he just planted one.
Speaker 6: On, ME okay i.
Speaker 7: Hear you you want a guy who's, man enough, who's
Speaker 7: bold who makes.
Speaker 6: Big, decisions well.
Speaker 7: He was bold enough to reach out to our show
Speaker 7: and ask us to call you and wait on the
Speaker 7: other line, listening quietly to jump in and talk.
Speaker 6: To you oh, my god that's.
Speaker 2: Not passive.
Speaker 7: That's, aggressive yes he might even kiss you as soon
Speaker 7: as we put You on.
Speaker 6: Mike go oh.
Speaker 9: MY god i would just like to Say that i'm
Speaker 9: not even going to address the. Height allegations that seems like.
Speaker 9: You were that's the point being THAT why i didn't.
Speaker 9: KISS you i didn't want to. Rush things we had
Speaker 9: such an, Amazing, evening mike you didn't want to, rush
Speaker 9: things but you took me to your friend's barbecue on.
Speaker 10: The first day and then all.
Speaker 1: Your friends, Good, COUNTERPOINT like.
Speaker 9: I just thought you seeing me with all my friends
Speaker 9: would get you would get the vibe of like this
Speaker 9: Is what.
Speaker 10: I'M like i did get. The vibes THAT'S why i,
Speaker 10: was like let's go to another bar and, have DRINKS
Speaker 10: because i, was like let's hang out. Even more but
Speaker 10: then you didn't pick up.
Speaker 8: On, it oh.
Speaker 1: It's so hard when you just meet someone to know
Speaker 1: what their.
Speaker 10: Cues, Are, right like BUT do i have to give you, THE,
Speaker 10: okay q just up and go.
Speaker 7: For it it's easier said than and not everyone. Likes
Speaker 7: that but, it's Tough brookek you only get one chance
Speaker 7: now in, modern dating to make your, first impression to
Speaker 7: go in for the kiss.
Speaker 6: At the, right time and if, you don't you.
Speaker 2: Blow it THAT'S why i go home with them. Every, Time.
Speaker 1: Okay it's never been a problem, For ME but, i
Speaker 1: say sub, women okay sub women like, it slower and
Speaker 1: he was trying to, be RESPECTFUL and i think that's Nice.
Speaker 7: To mike do you have anything you want to say
Speaker 7: to a lease where your lack of ability to go
Speaker 7: in for? A.
Speaker 10: KISS yeah i should have.
Speaker 9: KISSED you i should have. DONE that i one percent agree,
Speaker 9: on THAT but.
Speaker 8: I didn't go on another date.
Speaker 1: With ME and i will.
Speaker 8: KISS you i swear that that.
Speaker 2: Is a man who knows what.
Speaker 1: He wants at least that's what you're, looking, for right
Speaker 1: kiss you when he picks.
Speaker 8: You.
Speaker 7: Up yeah and he can wear platform shoes so that
Speaker 7: he's the height that you want him.
Speaker 1: To Be shoe oh, MY god i just can't imagine
Speaker 1: how small the dating pool is for six.
Speaker 5: Sevenut over.
Speaker 6: She likes what.
Speaker 7: She likes but at least we would like to offer
Speaker 7: to send You and mike out on one more date
Speaker 7: and if you, say yes then we'll pay.
Speaker 10: For, It okay i'm open to a. Second date Yah,
Speaker 10: OOME mike i.
Speaker 8: Got, it yes, thank you, thank you, thank you. Thank
Speaker 8: you there.
Speaker 4: You go, Let's.
Speaker 10: Go mike and for, THE record i am six' five.
Speaker 8: AND a coach i fudge the record just a LITTLE bit,
Speaker 8: That i.
Speaker 2: Say i'm five four. AND a half i get.
Speaker 6: You at least are you still?
Speaker 8: Cool?
Speaker 10: With, that yeah yeah.
Speaker 6: Maybe you want to seal this phone call. With the kiss,
Speaker 6: oh my.
Speaker 10: God we're.
Speaker 6: Again we're. In the confidence you guys.
Speaker 8: Can't see me i'm totally talking in the. Phone right
Speaker 8: NOW that's what i.
Speaker 6: Like to hear That was Hot brook and jeffrey.
Speaker 7: In the morning finally two tall people get a win
Speaker 7: that never.
Speaker 6: HAPPENS in life.
Speaker 2: I like how she was still turned off. BY his, Height,
Speaker 2: i know god.
Speaker 7: But the whole thing it is the perfect example of
Speaker 7: how fragile the dating world is right now because they went,
Speaker 7: out one time and if we, never stepped in they
Speaker 7: may have never talked or seen each.
Speaker 6: Other ever again it would have just petered. Out AND
Speaker 6: died And i.
Speaker 7: Know alexis was, rooting for that so there'd be more
Speaker 7: tall dudes left in. The Dating pool but i'm personally
Speaker 7: glad that we got them to give.
Speaker 6: It another go, you said.
Speaker 5: It, not me yeah, it makes sense.
Speaker 7: You look exactly, but you know, We stepped In and
Speaker 7: what i'm saying is we should probably be heavily involved in,
Speaker 7: everyone's dating.
Speaker 2: Life no matter what.
Speaker 6: Height.
Speaker 7: You, are yeah no matter how tall or, short you
Speaker 7: are no matter what your. Dating status is we can
Speaker 7: help if you email us or find us wherever you.
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