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Speaker 1: Starting your Friday with a brand new Second Date episode.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here. It's Brick and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: And apparently we got a lot of comments the other

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Speaker 2: day on our forty nine ers episode.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you missed it, it was a few days ago,

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Speaker 3: and yes, I bought her explain it, No, go listen,

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Speaker 3: you know, and then you'll figure it out.

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Speaker 4: Funny it was not about the football team.

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Speaker 1: No, but is a new slang term, yes for someone

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Speaker 1: who is a four but acts like a nine.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and so some comments from that.

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Speaker 3: Wesley said, I hate so much this attitude of numbering people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, fair, but it's still funny.

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Speaker 5: Is it helps people? Good visual Someone said even.

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Speaker 3: Cows have better self awareness than her if you ask me, Wow,

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Speaker 3: that was harsh.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I listened to this with my wife. When I

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Speaker 5: mess up that way, she could.

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Speaker 3: See how awesome I am in comparison to some people

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Speaker 3: in the dating world.

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Speaker 2: That is a good tool.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people comment a lot of hate on her,

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Speaker 3: you know, and a lot of people commenting on how

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Speaker 3: she was, how she used the word ghost oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: and a lot of people are like, my favorite part

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Speaker 3: is when she confidently used the word ghosh and correctly

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Speaker 3: and does she think it's a new word?

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Speaker 5: Where has she been?

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, now we're getting me.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know it.

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Speaker 1: We're going vocap lessons as well. Yeah, show, I love it,

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Speaker 1: I love it. Well, we'll see what you think about

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Speaker 1: today's episode.

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Speaker 4: Is it ghost?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Definitely drop use it, drop it in the comments

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Speaker 2: and guaranteed we won't use any big words on you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Your new episode starts right now.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates.

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Speaker 7: We do lists on this show all the time about

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Speaker 7: what guys look for in women, and never in the

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Speaker 7: top ten do we ever hear height as one of

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Speaker 7: the options.

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Speaker 2: That is a really good point.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's usually like they want a good sense of humor, intelligence,

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Speaker 7: someone who can pick a restaurant in under forty five minutes.

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Speaker 6: That would be great. But that's why I was shocked.

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Speaker 7: When I saw an email from our listener Mike saying

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Speaker 7: he has a height requirement for his dates.

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Speaker 4: It's gotta be a short requirements are so fun.

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Speaker 7: Taller the better, let's go at the carnival. That's Mike's

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Speaker 7: style of dating. Needs our help today, Mike, You're weird

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Speaker 7: and I like it.

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Speaker 6: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 8: Thank you for helping me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I know guys who only want to date really

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Speaker 1: tall women because they want future D one athletes going.

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Speaker 7: To say, what's this height requirement about?

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Speaker 8: It really comes down to laziness.

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Speaker 9: I am a very tall man.

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Speaker 8: I'm sixty six and I have dated short women.

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Speaker 9: I've done that. I'm never doing it again.

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Speaker 1: I will say, Yeah, just of your back is what

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Speaker 1: you're doing well, and all the extra work, like you

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Speaker 1: have to reach all the high shelves for her.

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Speaker 2: I mean that's the way that goes in my house anyway.

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Speaker 6: That's not fair at all to Mike.

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Speaker 2: So bring your long arms over here and get that

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Speaker 2: for me.

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Speaker 7: So you must have met with a woman who met

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Speaker 7: your height requirement. What's her name?

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Speaker 9: Her name is Elise and she is six y three.

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Speaker 3: Hey there, she loves this because all girls want everyone

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Speaker 3: else to leave the tall guys for them.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yes, okay, And how did you meet her?

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Speaker 8: I met her on our dating app.

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Speaker 2: Do women lie in the same way that men do

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Speaker 2: about their height.

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Speaker 8: I'm guessing some do, but most don't know.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you saw her in person and she did legit

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Speaker 1: come out to be six'?

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Speaker 2: Three she?

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Speaker 8: Was she was absolutely.

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Speaker 7: Gorgeous, wow you the image of you two walking together

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Speaker 7: into any place would be really intimidating as somebody else

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Speaker 7: where did you go for your?

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Speaker 9: DATE i picked her up at her, place AND i

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Speaker 9: had told HER i didn't want.

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Speaker 8: To do the normal first date thing BECAUSE i just

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Speaker 8: find it kind of, boring and also we're both would

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Speaker 8: probably find it a little. Cramped SO i.

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Speaker 9: Knew the perfect idea would be to take.

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Speaker 8: Her on a. Surprise and she was, like, well where

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Speaker 8: are we? GOING i was, like it's a, surprise.

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Speaker 9: Okay and it was my buddy's backyard, barbecue which sounds

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Speaker 9: a little who unimpressive TO i tell you that my

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Speaker 9: buddy is an amateur chef and he was doing his

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Speaker 9: own little haibachi.

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Speaker 8: Restaurant.

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Speaker 2: COOL i love when you have friends like.

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Speaker 7: That, yeah, okay slightly dangerous too because you might burn stuff,

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Speaker 7: down so that could be.

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Speaker 1: Fun so did she not know it was your buddy's

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Speaker 1: house until you pull up outside of like a random home?

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Speaker 9: Exactly and then he had the whole backyard deck, down

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Speaker 9: so it was a whole.

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Speaker 10: Scene and then it was all my, Friends.

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Speaker 8: So she got to meet him all at.

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Speaker 10: Once that's a.

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Speaker 2: Lot of pressure to walk.

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Speaker 1: INTO i, MEAN i don't know if it's better to

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Speaker 2: Your nut about, it it's better to be, Like, wow

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Speaker 2: we're doing, It we're in.

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Speaker 7: It.

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Speaker 6: Yeah did she have?

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Speaker 9: FUN i think.

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Speaker 8: So that's WHY i Guess i'm calling you, guys is

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Speaker 8: because the backyard.

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Speaker 9: Party was a great time and everybody was having really

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Speaker 9: good conversations and there was a lot of, laughing and

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Speaker 9: there was dancing at one, point and my buddy was

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Speaker 9: doing the hibachi thing and that's really. Impressive, yeah your

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Speaker 9: miss sometimes with the knife.

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Speaker 2: Work oh what do you mean?

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Speaker 8: Missed oh, no he's got the knife a couple of.

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Speaker 7: Times, okay, Feet, yeah like you left with all of your, limbs.

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Speaker 8: No, injuries nothing like. That.

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Speaker 6: Okay imagine some.

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Speaker 4: People stak were huge summer Tiny.

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Speaker 9: Exactly it wasn't very uniform and it probably wasn't up

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Speaker 9: to the out, code but.

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Speaker 9: Only one negative is that my buddy and his, girlfriend

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Speaker 9: who were the hosts of the, party they got into

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Speaker 9: a minor tiff and then kind of killed the vibe

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Speaker 2: Bit, oh it was like a loud. One, yeah and then.

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Speaker 9: Everybody kind of drifted away and kind of gave them

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Speaker 9: their own little bubble for a.

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Speaker 6: Bit are we allowed to know what the fight was? About?

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Speaker 9: YEAH i think she was on him because he had

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Speaker 9: cut the vegetables weird or something like.

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Speaker 7: That he deserves to get chewed out over the shrimp very.

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Speaker 4: Accurately, yeah that.

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Speaker 10: Happened that.

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Speaker 9: Happened at one, point my buddy tried to toss the

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Speaker 9: shrimp into my mouth and it hit a.

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Speaker 8: Lease that was. Funny that was a funny.

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Speaker 2: Moment did she?

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Speaker 2: Did, okay that is good that.

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Speaker 1: WAY i, mean the only THING i could think is

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Speaker 1: when you ever you're in a big friend, group it

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Speaker 2: Distracted did you leave her alone for long periods of?

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Speaker 9: Time, no it was very organic like sometimes it was

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Speaker 9: the girls drifted.

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Speaker 8: Into a clump and the.

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Speaker 9: Guys and then after.

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Speaker 8: The hibachi, thing we then went out for a drink

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Speaker 8: and it was just her And eye and it was

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Speaker 8: really really cool and the conversation again was.

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Speaker 4: Flowing that's a huge green, flag. Bro she went out

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Speaker 6: You time, together unless you went to a different friend's

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Speaker 6: house for that. One he's an amateur bartender set and.

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Speaker 1: Drinks she's, like there's so much free food and drinks

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Speaker 7: Relationship, okay so after food and, drinks how did the night?

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Speaker 9: END i took her back to her place and a

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Speaker 9: very chas hug, GOODBYE a chase.

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Speaker 6: Hug you run after.

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Speaker 4: Wait a, minute come, Back.

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Speaker 6: Chase does in, like very innocent, hug a friendly.

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Speaker 8: HUG i don't. Know we'd had a good, time we'd

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Speaker 8: had a drink. TOGETHER i didn't want to push my.

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Speaker 9: Luck MAYBE i don't. Know at the, TIME i was,

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Speaker 9: Like i'm just gonna hugg a goodbye and then we're

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Speaker 1: Again, yeah, yeah, Yeah and you've contacted her Since i'm.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah she hasn't completely ghosted me or, anything.

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Speaker 9: Like she's responded to my text messages and stuff like.

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Speaker 8: That it's just.

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Speaker 9: if something had gone wrong on the, date just tell

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Speaker 2: It maybe for the first time in the history of,

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Speaker 6: That's gotta be. It when we call her in a few.

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Speaker 7: Minutes here we'll come, back reach out to a lease for,

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Speaker 7: you and try to get you the tallest second date

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Speaker 7: update we've ever done on our.

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Speaker 4: SHOW i hope she hears her phone ringing all the

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Speaker 4: way down.

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Speaker 7: THERE i know it's never been down to get it

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Speaker 7: this broken.

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Speaker 4: Free in the Morning second date.

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Speaker 7: Update if you're just joining, us we're talking To, mike

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Speaker 7: who sounds like the type of dude that any woman

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Speaker 7: would want to.

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Speaker 2: DATE i, mean and his friends sound awesome.

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Speaker 7: Too, yeah Because mike is tall, YEP i, MEAN i

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Speaker 7: could just stop. There he'd be with ninety nine percent

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Speaker 7: of the female. Population but he's also got friends who

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Speaker 7: do their own hibachi y and argue with each other

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Speaker 7: in front of. Strangers that's a good, time he, means they're,

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Speaker 7: comfortable and recently he took a tall woman Named elise

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Speaker 7: out to meet with his friends and got a nice

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Speaker 7: little hug at the end of the. Night but here's the.

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Speaker 7: Thing she doesn't fully ghosted even they're still. Talking it's

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Speaker 7: just the vibes have, changed And mike can. Tell so

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Speaker 7: he wants us to try to help figure out why you, know.

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Speaker 2: We didn't, Ask.

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Speaker 1: MIKE i know, that like you have a hygh minimum.

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Speaker 1: Requirement did you bring up her height a? Lot because

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Speaker 1: my tall girlfriends hate talking about how tall they.

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Speaker 6: Are, yeah why do you keep bringing it?

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Speaker 2: Then So i'm wondering if he did on the.

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Speaker 8: Day, no not at. All it's a foregun.

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Speaker 7: Is, yeah well maybe if it wasn't Something that, mike

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Speaker 2: Wrong way how many dumb friends do, You?

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Speaker 5: Have mike.

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Speaker 7: You can never know. A, lot okay we have, some

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Speaker 6: Of it i'm going to dial her number right now here. We, Go,

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Speaker 6: hello hello Is? This elise this is?

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Speaker 10: She's speaking? Who's, This?

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Speaker 7: Hey alise this is a radio Show called Brook and

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Speaker 7: jeffrey In.

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Speaker 6: The morning, What's?

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Speaker 2: Up elise?

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Speaker 8: Good, morning uh?

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Speaker 10: Good morning who is?

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Speaker 8: The fan we're a?

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Speaker 7: Radio, Show yeah Brook and jeffrey in. The morning you

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Speaker 7: can find us wherever you get your Podcasts at Brook, And, Jeffrey, apple, spotify,

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Speaker 7: YouTube YouTube, we'll wait you go.

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Speaker 4: Follow us, We'll wait.

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Speaker 2: But that desperate subscribe check the.

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Speaker 7: NUMBERS us i heard, your question how do we get?

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Speaker 7: Your number it's a good question because it's from one

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Speaker 7: of our Listeners, named mike who you went on a date.

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Speaker 6: With recently oh.

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Speaker 10: My, god yes.

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Speaker 8: Are?

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Speaker 10: You?

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Speaker 7: Serious seriously so this is a segment Called Second. Date

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Speaker 7: update we're trying To help mike get some answers for

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Speaker 7: why the vibe has changed between the two.

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Speaker 8: Of you.

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Speaker 10: THAT right i just Can't believe mike called you.

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Speaker 7: About, me yeah because he felt a connection.

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Speaker 6: With you it's. So, weird well he told us all about.

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Speaker 7: THE date.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just weird that we're calling about her.

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Speaker 7: Personal life we've done like thousands, of these so we're

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Speaker 7: really desensitized.

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Speaker 6: TO this i understand how it'd be weird. For. You

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Speaker 6: huh we're trying to get. Your vibe, i'm like what

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Speaker 1: About mike did we heard that he surprised you with

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Speaker 1: the backyard hibachi party with?

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Speaker 2: His buddies.

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Speaker 10: Oh? My, GOD yeah i mean he's a. Nice guy,

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Speaker 6: Anything else that is a dagger to the heart of

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Speaker 6: every man. That heard that's.

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Speaker 7: The worst we're trying to just get to what's stopping

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Speaker 10: Him AGAIN so i don't know how much he's, told

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Speaker 10: you but he told me he was like. Six six

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Speaker 10: he told us.

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Speaker 2: That too he's six six and you're.

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Speaker 10: Six, Three yeah i'm like true. Six three he's not

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Speaker 10: a true. Six. SIX oh i usually date guys who are,

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Speaker 10: six seven, six EIGHT and i know that sounds, really

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Speaker 10: Minor but i'm a. Call girl AND if i, were

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Speaker 10: not quite. Six, five okay how do YOU think i

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Speaker 10: think he's under sixty FIVE because i think he was

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Speaker 10: would tie her.

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Speaker 7: Over, him okay very very specific about the height requirements

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Speaker 2: TALL dude i just think you need to maybe loosen

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Speaker 2: that a.

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Speaker 1: Little BIT like i have a girlfriend who's six foot

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Speaker 1: and she was certain she would never date anybody, her

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Speaker 10: The guy so here's the, Other, thing LIKE maybe i

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Speaker 10: a really, fun night like he, told you we Went,

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Speaker 10: to hibachi met his friend and, you know we went

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Speaker 10: to the. Bar AFTERWARDS like i was putting the vibes.

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Speaker 10: OUT there i was interested in. Having fun you.

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Speaker 2: Were like overlooking the.

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Speaker 10: Height, Thing yeah and at the end of the night he.

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Speaker 10: like you're not even man enough, To like, oh no

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Speaker 2: About, it though but what about what about the?

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Speaker 1: Flip side maybe he's man enough to respect you and

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Speaker 1: wait till the.

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Speaker 2: Next day there, You, go well.

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Speaker 10: The vibes, are There and i'm putting the vibes there

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Speaker 10: and being play, and flirty like why wouldn't you just?

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Speaker 10: One on he told us that he had to.

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Speaker 2: Chase you down to get.

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Speaker 6: A hug he described it as a.

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Speaker 7: Chaste, huge yeah it's.

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Speaker 4: A quick.

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Speaker 2: Was running.

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Speaker 6: After, her, no, No.

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Speaker 7: Okay so you didn't get the kiss in person on,

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Speaker 10: For, It yeah it's, just like WHY do i have

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Speaker 10: to be? The ONE like i want.

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Speaker 7: TO know i think, we Understand but i'm. Just, wondering like,

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Speaker 7: For Example brook let's say that you're in that. Same,

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Speaker 7: you you want.

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Speaker 6: Him to what's? Your move and you can't say leg

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Speaker 6: wrestle him in the? Parking lot how do you get?

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Speaker 2: THE kiss i can't do the? Leg, wrestling no what about?

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Speaker 1: Get, wrestling, okay okay how about this rock paper scissors?

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Speaker 5: Ro shambo.

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Speaker 8: Can you?

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Speaker 1: Kiss me you?

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Speaker 2: CAN leave i think.

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Speaker 1: It's a pretty good fair way to, do it, YOU

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Speaker 1: know i.

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Speaker 6: GET ready i.

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Speaker 10: Want somebody who's gonna take charge and be man, in

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Speaker 10: OFFENSE so. I forget i FEEL like i could have

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Speaker 10: overlooked the height if he just planted one.

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Speaker 6: On, ME okay i.

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Speaker 7: Hear you you want a guy who's, man enough, who's

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Speaker 7: bold who makes.

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Speaker 6: Big, decisions well.

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Speaker 7: He was bold enough to reach out to our show

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Speaker 7: and ask us to call you and wait on the

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Speaker 7: other line, listening quietly to jump in and talk.

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Speaker 6: To you oh, my god that's.

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Speaker 2: Not passive.

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Speaker 7: That's, aggressive yes he might even kiss you as soon

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Speaker 7: as we put You on.

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Speaker 6: Mike go oh.

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Speaker 9: MY god i would just like to Say that i'm

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Speaker 9: not even going to address the. Height allegations that seems like.

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Speaker 9: You were that's the point being THAT why i didn't.

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Speaker 9: KISS you i didn't want to. Rush things we had

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Speaker 9: such an, Amazing, evening mike you didn't want to, rush

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Speaker 9: things but you took me to your friend's barbecue on.

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Speaker 10: The first day and then all.

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Speaker 1: Your friends, Good, COUNTERPOINT like.

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Speaker 9: I just thought you seeing me with all my friends

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Speaker 9: would get you would get the vibe of like this

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Speaker 9: Is what.

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Speaker 10: I'M like i did get. The vibes THAT'S why i,

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Speaker 10: was like let's go to another bar and, have DRINKS

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Speaker 10: because i, was like let's hang out. Even more but

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Speaker 10: then you didn't pick up.

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Speaker 8: On, it oh.

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Speaker 1: It's so hard when you just meet someone to know

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Speaker 10: Cues, Are, right like BUT do i have to give you, THE,

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Speaker 7: For it it's easier said than and not everyone. Likes

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Speaker 7: that but, it's Tough brookek you only get one chance

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Speaker 7: now in, modern dating to make your, first impression to

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Speaker 7: go in for the kiss.

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Speaker 6: At the, right time and if, you don't you.

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Speaker 2: Blow it THAT'S why i go home with them. Every, Time.

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Speaker 1: Okay it's never been a problem, For ME but, i

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Speaker 1: he was trying to, be RESPECTFUL and i think that's Nice.

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Speaker 7: To mike do you have anything you want to say

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Speaker 7: to a lease where your lack of ability to go

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Speaker 7: in for? A.

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Speaker 10: KISS yeah i should have.

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Speaker 9: KISSED you i should have. DONE that i one percent agree,

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Speaker 9: on THAT but.

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Speaker 8: I didn't go on another date.

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Speaker 1: With ME and i will.

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Speaker 8: KISS you i swear that that.

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Speaker 2: Is a man who knows what.

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Speaker 1: He wants at least that's what you're, looking, for right

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Speaker 1: kiss you when he picks.

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Speaker 8: You.

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Speaker 7: Up yeah and he can wear platform shoes so that

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Speaker 7: he's the height that you want him.

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Speaker 1: To Be shoe oh, MY god i just can't imagine

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Speaker 1: how small the dating pool is for six.

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Speaker 5: Sevenut over.

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Speaker 6: She likes what.

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Speaker 7: She likes but at least we would like to offer

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Speaker 7: to send You and mike out on one more date

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Speaker 7: and if you, say yes then we'll pay.

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Speaker 10: For, It okay i'm open to a. Second date Yah,

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Speaker 10: OOME mike i.

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Speaker 8: Got, it yes, thank you, thank you, thank you. Thank

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Speaker 8: you there.

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Speaker 4: You go, Let's.

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Speaker 10: Go mike and for, THE record i am six' five.

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Speaker 8: AND a coach i fudge the record just a LITTLE bit,

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Speaker 8: That i.

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Speaker 2: Say i'm five four. AND a half i get.

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Speaker 6: You at least are you still?

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Speaker 8: Cool?

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Speaker 10: With, that yeah yeah.

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Speaker 6: Maybe you want to seal this phone call. With the kiss,

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Speaker 6: oh my.

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Speaker 10: God we're.

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Speaker 6: Again we're. In the confidence you guys.

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Speaker 8: Can't see me i'm totally talking in the. Phone right

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Speaker 8: NOW that's what i.

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Speaker 6: Like to hear That was Hot brook and jeffrey.

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Speaker 7: In the morning finally two tall people get a win

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Speaker 7: that never.

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Speaker 6: HAPPENS in life.

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Speaker 2: I like how she was still turned off. BY his, Height,

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Speaker 2: i know god.

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Speaker 7: But the whole thing it is the perfect example of

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Speaker 7: how fragile the dating world is right now because they went,

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Speaker 7: out one time and if we, never stepped in they

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Speaker 7: may have never talked or seen each.

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Speaker 6: Other ever again it would have just petered. Out AND

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Speaker 6: died And i.

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Speaker 7: Know alexis was, rooting for that so there'd be more

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Speaker 7: tall dudes left in. The Dating pool but i'm personally

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Speaker 7: glad that we got them to give.

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Speaker 6: It another go, you said.

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Speaker 5: It, not me yeah, it makes sense.

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Speaker 7: You look exactly, but you know, We stepped In and

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Speaker 7: what i'm saying is we should probably be heavily involved in,

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Speaker 7: everyone's dating.

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Speaker 2: Life no matter what.

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