1
00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:05,200
Speaker 1: Good news everyone, I listened to The Black Guy Who

2
00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:09,080
Speaker 1: Tips podcast because Rodd and't caring. No hot.

3
00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,080
Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of The Black Guy Who

4
00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:16,079
Speaker 2: Took Podcast. I'm your host, Rod joined is always on

5
00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,759
Speaker 2: my coast and we're live on a Saturday. Ready to

6
00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:22,200
Speaker 2: do some feedback. Find us everywhere that you find podcasts

7
00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:26,560
Speaker 2: on this wild card NFL weekend. Okay, leave us five

8
00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:30,960
Speaker 2: star reviews, comment on the website, voting the post. All

9
00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,880
Speaker 2: the contact info is right there in the show notes.

10
00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,159
Speaker 2: You can even mail us stuff. It's on the about

11
00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:39,480
Speaker 2: page of our website, The Black Guy Who Tips dot

12
00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:41,839
Speaker 2: com slash about. And we did get some stuff in

13
00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,479
Speaker 2: the mail. Glad I checked the mail. Okay, look at

14
00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,879
Speaker 2: what came in the mail. But you know, feedback, we're

15
00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,760
Speaker 2: gonna get right into it. The first place that we

16
00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,240
Speaker 2: like to start, though, is with the people that took

17
00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,560
Speaker 2: the time, cause you know, it's so it's hard out here.

18
00:00:58,560 --> 00:00:59,960
Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all heard, it's hard out here

19
00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,280
Speaker 2: in these streets. Okay it is. The money's not moneying

20
00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,880
Speaker 2: like it used to. It just ain't getting as much. Okay,

21
00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:11,039
Speaker 2: dollars don't go as far. But yeah, so, uh we

22
00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:17,520
Speaker 2: want to shout out the people that gave us money.

23
00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:20,480
Speaker 3: Man had a retention.

24
00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:25,959
Speaker 4: We're now listening to Charlotton, Rod and Karen. We welcome

25
00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:27,320
Speaker 4: the good folks who tied.

26
00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:32,640
Speaker 5: To the black gu tips.

27
00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:34,400
Speaker 2: New money, new hey, hey, hey, uh we got some

28
00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,360
Speaker 2: new people giving, We got some new donations. Tiffany B.

29
00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,560
Speaker 2: The current donator, Alfonzo M. Mr Spam from the Mrs

30
00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:48,320
Speaker 2: Span podcast, Palmettos, Don't Magic, Jay Full, Lindsey B. Autumn W,

31
00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:54,760
Speaker 2: James C. David C. No relation, Jasmine J. Bambi doctor

32
00:01:54,800 --> 00:02:00,240
Speaker 2: Professor Bambi, unbridled love. Uh, we got Godgirl Falcons d Va,

33
00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:05,040
Speaker 2: Kevin W. Jason f Uh. We got a one time

34
00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,720
Speaker 2: donation from Dorothea W. Thank you doroth THEA do.

35
00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,280
Speaker 1: Come on down like somebody great grandma. Now, don't make

36
00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:12,440
Speaker 1: Dorths no more.

37
00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:17,680
Speaker 2: You know what Ipia is Dorothea. Oh ipeas black friend

38
00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:21,040
Speaker 2: in Germany is Dorothea. So I would say we're the

39
00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:25,000
Speaker 2: number one podcast with Dorothis. I'll shot number one demographic.

40
00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,079
Speaker 2: Thank you Dorotheis. Until proven wrong, we are number one

41
00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:31,920
Speaker 2: in the Dorothea demographic. I'm claiming it. Derek L. W

42
00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:37,000
Speaker 2: Uh And lastly, Ken M. Thank you everybody who took

43
00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:55,000
Speaker 2: the time out to put something in our pockets. All right,

44
00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:59,000
Speaker 2: church girl, don't hurt nobody. We got we got a

45
00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:02,880
Speaker 2: couple of five stars views. I can't remember if I

46
00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:06,799
Speaker 2: read this before. I generally don't know. Like I said,

47
00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,000
Speaker 2: I don't care. I feel like we should have if

48
00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,000
Speaker 2: we did one last Saturday, but I don't remember, so

49
00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:12,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna read it again.

50
00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,520
Speaker 1: Challie, y'all know me. I don't be remembering, so I'm like, okay.

51
00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:17,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I do be remembering, so I'll be trying

52
00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:19,640
Speaker 2: to do a good job with that. I know you

53
00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:24,359
Speaker 2: don't care. Some of us have to care. Makes somebody

54
00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:26,360
Speaker 2: has to care. Yeah, I know, you just here for

55
00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,000
Speaker 2: the ride, but people don't want to hear us. Doing

56
00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:31,239
Speaker 2: the same stories five times makes my day every day.

57
00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,600
Speaker 2: I won't ever be able to fully convey my admiration

58
00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:36,120
Speaker 2: for the black Out Tips. I've been an avid listener

59
00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:40,000
Speaker 2: for almost eleven years. I love how the show has evolved.

60
00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,560
Speaker 2: Even through the evolutions, it has remained poignant, informative, thoughtful,

61
00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,200
Speaker 2: and humorous. I'm really enjoying the new segments like gender

62
00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:50,040
Speaker 2: Wars and the ig Polls. I hope twenty twenty four

63
00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:53,440
Speaker 2: brings continue success and another live show. Thank you, mature

64
00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:57,280
Speaker 2: young lady. We like that. Nah, we do plan on

65
00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,240
Speaker 2: doing a live show again this year. We do. Those

66
00:03:59,280 --> 00:03:59,880
Speaker 2: are the plans.

67
00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,160
Speaker 1: Get your money, get your money in order.

68
00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:06,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, so much love from they still tripping. Who says,

69
00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,720
Speaker 2: come for the comedy, state, came for the comedy, Stay

70
00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:13,920
Speaker 2: for the blackness. So many fantastic statements and topics to enjoy.

71
00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:16,360
Speaker 2: The thing that makes the show so great is how

72
00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:19,520
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen like and love each other. Love me

73
00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,760
Speaker 2: some black love, don't ever change, and thank you for

74
00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,920
Speaker 2: all the hours of laughter and listening. Oh, thank you.

75
00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:26,160
Speaker 1: I do.

76
00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,360
Speaker 2: I love rot you very much. Yeah, and I do too.

77
00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:33,800
Speaker 2: I think you know if we don't do black love

78
00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,760
Speaker 2: TM like as a you know, selling point, I know

79
00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,960
Speaker 2: a lot of people do. But we are black and

80
00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,240
Speaker 2: we love each other. So you know, if you get

81
00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,520
Speaker 2: something out of that, don't get it play because it's

82
00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:46,000
Speaker 2: not a lot of joy left in the world. Get

83
00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:50,760
Speaker 2: it where you can get it, where you're getting. I mean, listen,

84
00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:55,680
Speaker 2: I don't even really see color. Honestly, I love my

85
00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:57,560
Speaker 2: white wife, fail my bar racial kid.

86
00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,600
Speaker 1: You look, you ain't getting me himmed up. I just

87
00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:03,640
Speaker 1: want to wear my lululemons and my ugs. If it

88
00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:08,000
Speaker 1: our yoga class youth, we ain't going, don't. Okay, I'm

89
00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,520
Speaker 1: not trying to get roasted out milk and cookies day.

90
00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:14,839
Speaker 2: You know what. I shout to r G three, But

91
00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:18,560
Speaker 2: you're absolutely brilliant from j A. I think it's j

92
00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:23,240
Speaker 2: AL three. Maybe I hope I said that right, and

93
00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:26,159
Speaker 2: says I have become an instant fan after listening to

94
00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:27,720
Speaker 2: you on Karen Hunter Show last year.

95
00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:31,120
Speaker 1: Oh, comeout throw the Karen Hunt If I said you're

96
00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:33,120
Speaker 1: big in a Karen demographic too.

97
00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:36,320
Speaker 2: Listen, let me tell you and karens let me tell

98
00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:40,440
Speaker 2: you something. Dorothea's love us and no matter what their

99
00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:44,479
Speaker 2: race is and black Karen's, I'm huge in the black

100
00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,480
Speaker 2: Karen demographic. I'm eating it up. Okay, I'm over there

101
00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:51,279
Speaker 2: killing it. You two are awesome. Please keep up the

102
00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:53,120
Speaker 2: great work. Thank you. Don't tell Karen we'll be saying

103
00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:56,719
Speaker 2: nig over here though. Okay, keep that between us ship well,

104
00:05:56,720 --> 00:06:01,480
Speaker 2: she don't know when her Okay, all right, that's it

105
00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:06,400
Speaker 2: for the voicemails. Let's get into the comments on the

106
00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:12,000
Speaker 2: actual episodes, you know, because we we did do actual episodes,

107
00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,280
Speaker 2: and we do need you know, we did have your

108
00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:19,520
Speaker 2: comments on them. So the first episode was twenty eight

109
00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:24,960
Speaker 2: thirty four Good Faith Everything. It was our feedback show,

110
00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:31,080
Speaker 2: and we got two comments on it the first oh

111
00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,479
Speaker 2: both comments are from Apia. I'm glad I'm not a

112
00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,240
Speaker 2: celebrity when it comes to my relationship. My relationship, established

113
00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,640
Speaker 2: in two thousand and six, is overall pretty good, but surprise,

114
00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,600
Speaker 2: not perfect. We did never have the We did never

115
00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:45,640
Speaker 2: have the big big problems. There was never cheating, nor

116
00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,960
Speaker 2: abuse or design sty with money. Love my husband and

117
00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:49,800
Speaker 2: I find him attractive and he says the same about me.

118
00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,680
Speaker 2: We're doing pretty great financially and have pretty cool kids.

119
00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:55,320
Speaker 2: What more can anyone want? You might ask. Mister Appia

120
00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,760
Speaker 2: is a real introverse, so I can choose out. If

121
00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,320
Speaker 2: I wait until he brings up an issue that has

122
00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,839
Speaker 2: to be solved, an emotional one or a project in

123
00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,159
Speaker 2: the house, it doesn't matter, and it's very possible he

124
00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:07,800
Speaker 2: never does. I once waited ten years for him to

125
00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:09,560
Speaker 2: take care of a project in our basement and he

126
00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,920
Speaker 2: never did. So I had to do it eventually or

127
00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:15,440
Speaker 2: I'll do it again. I'm unfortunately not a mind reader.

128
00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:18,440
Speaker 2: His normal mode is not to communicate, So you can

129
00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,920
Speaker 2: imagine the problems. I started asking open questions to get

130
00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:23,160
Speaker 2: communication going. He gives me short answers to make the

131
00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,200
Speaker 2: conversation die. If you don't have if you don't have

132
00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,440
Speaker 2: kids in real estate together, you could just say, okay,

133
00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,760
Speaker 2: if you don't talk, you don't talk, we don't talk. Unfortunately,

134
00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:33,640
Speaker 2: this is not an option here. We have to communicate

135
00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,920
Speaker 2: the fine, for example, common ground about how to deal

136
00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,239
Speaker 2: with something that came up with the kids. Because a teacher,

137
00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,120
Speaker 2: for example, needs a decision from us, I suggested, of course,

138
00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,320
Speaker 2: therapy for him in a nice sorry something fun with this.

139
00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:50,880
Speaker 2: I suggested therapy for him where is it okay? And

140
00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,280
Speaker 2: a nice way to make it easier for him to

141
00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:58,400
Speaker 2: start conversations. He said he sees that it would be good,

142
00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,760
Speaker 2: but he doesn't try to find a thing arapist, possibly

143
00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:05,920
Speaker 2: because he would have to talk to someone to achieve that. Yeah,

144
00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,720
Speaker 2: I'm generally a less talking, a better type of person.

145
00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,120
Speaker 2: If I know I need to talk and I need

146
00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,760
Speaker 2: to get up for it, I'm ready. But I'm not

147
00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:18,600
Speaker 2: necessarily a try to kill the conversation person, just you know,

148
00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:25,120
Speaker 2: like I'm like introversion isn't like always like crippling or

149
00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:28,760
Speaker 2: socially whatever. I'm actually really good talking to people one

150
00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:32,240
Speaker 2: on one, especially like people I like and love and

151
00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,120
Speaker 2: care about, I can talk to them all day. I'm

152
00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:38,280
Speaker 2: more of a if I go to a party, it's

153
00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,280
Speaker 2: overwhelming and I cannot wait to fucking go home type

154
00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:41,840
Speaker 2: of situation.

155
00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,520
Speaker 1: And nobody really has deep conversations in those cities.

156
00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:46,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. Even yeah, if I go to a club the

157
00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,040
Speaker 2: music's too loud, you know, stuff like that. I'm not

158
00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,760
Speaker 2: really huge with that. But like people that get to

159
00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:53,760
Speaker 2: talk to me love me. They love talking to me.

160
00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,640
Speaker 2: It's you know, it's kind of a problem sometimes, yeah.

161
00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:00,000
Speaker 1: Because Rogic finds a lot of extroverts to just claim him.

162
00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,800
Speaker 2: Like you gonna be my friend. Yeah. And also like

163
00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:05,120
Speaker 2: when I go play like basketball or something, and I'm

164
00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,679
Speaker 2: sitting on the sideline and I'm talking to people kind

165
00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:11,400
Speaker 2: of holding court that you know that motherfuckers will glomb

166
00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,160
Speaker 2: onto it. They're like, I love this guy. He's funny.

167
00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:14,720
Speaker 2: You should be a Communian. What do you do for

168
00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:16,840
Speaker 2: a living? You know that kind of thing. If I

169
00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:19,040
Speaker 2: was famous, or if I was famous for mster apia,

170
00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,760
Speaker 2: there would be a possibility to take pictures of us

171
00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,240
Speaker 2: when we are both pissed off, or get some quotes

172
00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,280
Speaker 2: from me that are bad and put them out of context.

173
00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,680
Speaker 2: Getting quotes from him would be way harder. It would

174
00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:30,520
Speaker 2: be funny to see the host try only to get

175
00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,080
Speaker 2: the same short answers they always get. Well, what's funny

176
00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:36,200
Speaker 2: about that is it don't take much, so he could

177
00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,440
Speaker 2: just the fact that he would give a short answer.

178
00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,720
Speaker 2: If people are projecting, they'll be like, oh, he's saying

179
00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,160
Speaker 2: that because he hates her. A big example of this

180
00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,760
Speaker 2: to me is Ben Affleck and j Lo. The amount

181
00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:49,960
Speaker 2: of articles we don't cover on this show that are

182
00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:53,720
Speaker 2: just someone took a candid picture of them and Ben

183
00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,920
Speaker 2: Affleck has resting bitch face. Yes he does so, Like

184
00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,160
Speaker 2: anytime he's just listening to her, he looks kind of

185
00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:04,240
Speaker 2: like pissed off. He always looks that way, and they

186
00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:06,720
Speaker 2: like they take the picture out of context and they're

187
00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:11,120
Speaker 2: like j Lo and Ben Affleck and heated argument over something,

188
00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,280
Speaker 2: and it's like, we have no fucking idea if they're arguing,

189
00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,400
Speaker 2: you know, it's like he's talking with his hands. He

190
00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,199
Speaker 2: must be angry. It's like, I think we just hate

191
00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:23,319
Speaker 2: women that much. That we're like even Jlo right fellas water.

192
00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:28,160
Speaker 2: It's hard to deal with these bitches like. She also replied,

193
00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,560
Speaker 2: I know that Ride also identifies as an introvert, but

194
00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:32,319
Speaker 2: can you talk about your feelings and motives and a

195
00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:34,800
Speaker 2: but you can talk about your feelings and motives in

196
00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,040
Speaker 2: a great way Ride and start a conversation. So I

197
00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,880
Speaker 2: don't know, you have to find another word from mister Apia.

198
00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,000
Speaker 2: Maybe he's a non communicator, a standby mode lover. What

199
00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,240
Speaker 2: is it? Yeah, I don't know. I guess you know,

200
00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,840
Speaker 2: it's probably different grades of introversion and maybe he's just

201
00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:53,199
Speaker 2: on a different you know, like uh, for he's more

202
00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:59,120
Speaker 2: introverted than I am. And yeah, I think you know maybe,

203
00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:02,400
Speaker 2: and a lot of people are just not necessarily great

204
00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:06,200
Speaker 2: verbal communicators. But if y'all have found a way, and

205
00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,480
Speaker 2: you say you've been together since two thousand and six,

206
00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:10,520
Speaker 2: I mean y'all clearly have found a way to communicate.

207
00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:13,280
Speaker 2: So I mean, I know you say it's not perfect,

208
00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:17,400
Speaker 2: but I mean nothing's perfect. And also, like you never

209
00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,480
Speaker 2: the grass is always greener. You could end up with

210
00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,520
Speaker 2: a motherfucker that dude talk a lot, and you might

211
00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:25,320
Speaker 2: be like god, damn, shut the fuck up? Why are

212
00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:30,040
Speaker 2: you talking so fucking much? Because I've seen that happen too,

213
00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:32,480
Speaker 2: where you think you think you want something and you

214
00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:36,640
Speaker 2: just don't, you know. I like Karen powers through and

215
00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:40,120
Speaker 2: talks a lot, even when I'm like trying to do something,

216
00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:44,520
Speaker 2: But honestly, I would prefer that don't. I don't want

217
00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:49,480
Speaker 2: I'm too anxious of a person and too empathic to

218
00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:52,760
Speaker 2: be with somebody that's like just always fucking quiet and

219
00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,040
Speaker 2: always in their own head and they don't want to talk,

220
00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,160
Speaker 2: cause then I become the annoying like you good, everything

221
00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,400
Speaker 2: all right, you know what's going on over there, and

222
00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,160
Speaker 2: nobody wants to deal with that kind of insecurity and shit,

223
00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:06,440
Speaker 2: So like you just got to pick your poison. And

224
00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,800
Speaker 2: that means sometimes I need to pause a video game

225
00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,640
Speaker 2: or turn the podcast off. Fuck it, it's fine. I'd

226
00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:13,720
Speaker 2: rather have that than the other way. I'm better than

227
00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:15,199
Speaker 2: I used to, y'all lives, It's okay.

228
00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:15,520
Speaker 3: I'm not.

229
00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,600
Speaker 2: This is not a complaint. You don't have to you

230
00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,280
Speaker 2: don't have to justify it's not a complaint. I'm not.

231
00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,920
Speaker 2: There is not no no sneak this or nothing. I

232
00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,840
Speaker 2: just I think people just don't balance it out in

233
00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,600
Speaker 2: their minds of like, there's another side of this where

234
00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:31,200
Speaker 2: I think I want that, but do you?

235
00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:35,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, right, And also as an extrovert, I

236
00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:40,920
Speaker 1: had to understand how to lick outside of myself and

237
00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:44,320
Speaker 1: actually observe and pay attention to what's happening in the room.

238
00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,920
Speaker 1: I've been around extroverts that don't pay attention to shifts

239
00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:52,200
Speaker 1: and changes in the room, and they don't pay attention

240
00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:54,440
Speaker 1: to people getting bored. They don't pay attention to people

241
00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:55,920
Speaker 1: not wanting to beat there, like, they don't pick up

242
00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,120
Speaker 1: on any social cues or anything like that. So of

243
00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,040
Speaker 1: the years, I've learned to actually pick up on those

244
00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:04,000
Speaker 1: things in the just so, yes, I'm a pure extrovert,

245
00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:06,720
Speaker 1: but as I've got older, I can turn it on

246
00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:10,280
Speaker 1: and turn it off. And it's people that have been

247
00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,439
Speaker 1: around me that think I was almost introvert because I

248
00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:15,600
Speaker 1: know in certain situations it's best to check the fuck

249
00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:17,120
Speaker 1: up and don't nobody give a fuck about what I

250
00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,319
Speaker 1: got to say at this period of time, and it's

251
00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,880
Speaker 1: okay to let the silence fall and shit like that,

252
00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:24,200
Speaker 1: Like it's okay. Every second does not have to be

253
00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:25,800
Speaker 1: consumed with your words.

254
00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:30,640
Speaker 2: Uh, on the on YouTube, Carina says, Hey, Ryd and Karen,

255
00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:33,280
Speaker 2: me and my kid went in October to both get

256
00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,880
Speaker 2: flew in COVID shots at our local pharmacy. I was

257
00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,360
Speaker 2: surprised at the time and how long the line was

258
00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:42,840
Speaker 2: a people with appointments. Yeah, that is good. I think Listen,

259
00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:48,200
Speaker 2: I think there are more people than there are people

260
00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:51,800
Speaker 2: who are like sober minded and staying up to date

261
00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:54,640
Speaker 2: on their vaccines, paying attention to the news. And I

262
00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:57,760
Speaker 2: think there's also this extreme of people that are like

263
00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:02,640
Speaker 2: so super concerned about COVID still that they're not doing anything.

264
00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:05,200
Speaker 2: And I'm sure they're getting vaccinated as well, even if

265
00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:08,439
Speaker 2: they're staying indoors and wearing masks and all that stuff.

266
00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,040
Speaker 2: One hundred percent of time, not knocking those people, just

267
00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,960
Speaker 2: saying like those people, those are the groups of people

268
00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,440
Speaker 2: getting vaccinated. Yes, And then there's just a lot of

269
00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,680
Speaker 2: people who don't care. So it's not nobody, We're not alone.

270
00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:22,720
Speaker 2: It's just the percentage is a lot lower than I

271
00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:24,840
Speaker 2: think it should be. But that's probably the same with

272
00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:26,120
Speaker 2: the flu and all that stuff.

273
00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:29,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I knows, truth be told because we don't actually

274
00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:32,160
Speaker 1: really we have stats, statistics, but we don't really keep

275
00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,760
Speaker 1: good stats and statistics, and a lot of times the

276
00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:41,320
Speaker 1: people that are kind of I'm not doing it type

277
00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,440
Speaker 1: of people, particularly if you're online, that'll allowedest most people

278
00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:47,040
Speaker 1: that are doing their own the dial getting the shots

279
00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,040
Speaker 1: of getting vaccinated, most of them people they just do

280
00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,800
Speaker 1: it and they don't say anything. So people just act

281
00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:53,840
Speaker 1: like these people just don't exist, but we do that.

282
00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,880
Speaker 2: I think the extremes are the loudest on both sides

283
00:14:57,160 --> 00:15:00,400
Speaker 2: because also I see a lot of like, you know,

284
00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:03,560
Speaker 2: it's COVID out there, don't do nothing people too, and

285
00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:06,760
Speaker 2: you know, okay, yeah, those people have spent a lot

286
00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:08,840
Speaker 2: of time arguing with each other online for two or

287
00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:13,359
Speaker 2: three years, and so they're gonna they're you know, I'm

288
00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,280
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna name no names. But like I saw

289
00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,160
Speaker 2: Democracy Now put out a tweet that was like an

290
00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,720
Speaker 2: update on like some current COVID things that are happening,

291
00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,320
Speaker 2: the rise of COVID, and I saw people like quoting

292
00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,640
Speaker 2: at them, yelling at them like you acted like COVID

293
00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:30,440
Speaker 2: didn't exist for two years. You are responsible and culpable

294
00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,400
Speaker 2: in this, And I was like, Okay, that's a level

295
00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:38,600
Speaker 2: of fucking insanity. That is happening right there, as like

296
00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:42,120
Speaker 2: that's not healthy anymore than Aaron Rodgers to me, like

297
00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:47,320
Speaker 2: that's too extreme, but at any rate. Yeah, so, but yeah,

298
00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm glad that y'all did get vaccinated. They said, we're

299
00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:52,080
Speaker 2: the but we're the only ones in our family social

300
00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,600
Speaker 2: circles who are current. Yeah, a lot of people just aren't,

301
00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:58,200
Speaker 2: aren't keeping up the date, and uh yeah, it's just

302
00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:02,960
Speaker 2: very unfortunate. The poe was do you listen to did

303
00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:06,720
Speaker 2: you listen to or watch the Cat Williams interview? Okay,

304
00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:12,880
Speaker 2: I listened to clips, all right, so I got it

305
00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:16,160
Speaker 2: through you and clips online, So apparently knew sixty two

306
00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,880
Speaker 2: percent say yes, thirty eight percent say no, but you do.

307
00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:22,240
Speaker 2: Ray is a good point. I didn't say did you

308
00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,880
Speaker 2: watch the whole interview? So maybe there are people that are,

309
00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:29,640
Speaker 2: like I heard clips, yes, sixty percent, thirty eight percent no.

310
00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,800
Speaker 2: The thing for me is that is still a very

311
00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:35,280
Speaker 2: high percent, and sixty percent of y'all wouldn't watch that interview.

312
00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:38,000
Speaker 2: And that's why washing and I mean he won.

313
00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the he wouldn't either way, kind of he

314
00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,360
Speaker 1: won for people to watch the whole thing. He won

315
00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:44,480
Speaker 1: for the people to watch the clips, cause the clips

316
00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:45,280
Speaker 1: still count.

317
00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:48,760
Speaker 2: Its views, not the same way as clicking on the YouTube.

318
00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:50,920
Speaker 2: Just those are the views I'm talking about.

319
00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:53,440
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I'm with you, but but you're aware of

320
00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:54,040
Speaker 1: it like that.

321
00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:57,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, So, I mean he definitely that's why he won.

322
00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:00,000
Speaker 2: Even if we think he could have did a better job.

323
00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:01,960
Speaker 2: You could have pushed back the end of the day.

324
00:17:02,840 --> 00:17:06,520
Speaker 2: That's not where that show is. And the motherfucker got

325
00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:10,440
Speaker 2: twenty five million views. Letting Cat Williams say three hours

326
00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:14,120
Speaker 2: worth of shit. He won, Yes, he did. Either. Then

327
00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,600
Speaker 2: I said happy fourteenth Pot of Versary because it was

328
00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:20,720
Speaker 2: our fourteenth pot Ofversary. Everybody basically just said happy anniversary.

329
00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:24,000
Speaker 2: I'm trying to see if anyone said anything differently, because

330
00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:27,480
Speaker 2: there's like a bunch of comments, seventeen of them. I'll

331
00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:31,080
Speaker 2: read them. Muhammad says cheers to another year podcast and

332
00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,760
Speaker 2: Rogers says happy Pot of Versary. Been listening since twenty thirteen.

333
00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:37,679
Speaker 2: Came from tweb. Keenan says, happy anniversary. I hope I

334
00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:39,920
Speaker 2: don't offend anyone with this question, But are you saying

335
00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:43,679
Speaker 2: shoe booty, Well, her name is shoe booty, but the

336
00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,720
Speaker 2: booty is spelled b O O T I E. And

337
00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:49,760
Speaker 2: I don't know what it means. Maybe if she hears

338
00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:53,879
Speaker 2: this show, write and explain the name. But yeah, I

339
00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:57,600
Speaker 2: am saying shoe booty, just not with a y soul power,

340
00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:00,680
Speaker 2: says Blessed Pot Ofversary. You two, and Michelle says, I

341
00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,800
Speaker 2: don't know exactly when I started listening to the POT,

342
00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:04,480
Speaker 2: but I remember it was when I still lived in

343
00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:07,080
Speaker 2: Brooklyn and that was over twelve years ago. I first

344
00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:11,680
Speaker 2: heard you on twelve Congratulations on fourteen years. Thank you, Michelle. Yeah,

345
00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,720
Speaker 2: and I think it used to be like the cupcake

346
00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:17,919
Speaker 2: somebody like back on tweb, Like I remember that we

347
00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,639
Speaker 2: had like dinner with her one time, like cool people.

348
00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,840
Speaker 2: Coach Malik says, happy Pot of Versary. I'm not a

349
00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:25,920
Speaker 2: day one, but been listening to twelve years stronger. I

350
00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:29,440
Speaker 2: appreciate all you do. Hey, look, it's very few day ones.

351
00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,000
Speaker 2: It don't even We've been doing this so long, all

352
00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:33,400
Speaker 2: the days count. Thank Yeah.

353
00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't even take it personally.

354
00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:39,480
Speaker 2: Can Nicole says, happy anniversary. Dave Chappelle is doing the thing,

355
00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,560
Speaker 2: the very thing he criticized Hannah Gassie for doing for

356
00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,000
Speaker 2: the past few specials. I wasn't offended, but I did

357
00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:48,400
Speaker 2: not laugh aloud either. It was lazy. Yeah, I think

358
00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:51,960
Speaker 2: the more I think about the special now, I've had

359
00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:53,280
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks to think about it, and I've

360
00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:58,240
Speaker 2: watched some other specials that I thought were better or good.

361
00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:03,320
Speaker 2: I think What's Shape did for me is he successfully

362
00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:09,080
Speaker 2: lowered the bar of my expectations for him to well,

363
00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:12,240
Speaker 2: at least he wrote jokes, and I don't think that's

364
00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,800
Speaker 2: a good thing actually, And I'm not one of these

365
00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:17,400
Speaker 2: people that gets offended. I'm not offended. I've never been

366
00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,280
Speaker 2: offended at any of his specials. I don't know that

367
00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:22,920
Speaker 2: I've ever really watched the Communion that offended me. That's

368
00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:27,080
Speaker 2: just not that's not how I My reverence and understanding

369
00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,320
Speaker 2: of stand up is one that does not allow for

370
00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:33,639
Speaker 2: me to truly be offended, because my understanding is that

371
00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:35,840
Speaker 2: if your god on the stage, you're at least trying

372
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:39,480
Speaker 2: to entertain me, and hopefully you're trying to be funny

373
00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,440
Speaker 2: and tell jokes. Dave lost that for like three or

374
00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,280
Speaker 2: four specials in a row where he just spent a

375
00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:50,200
Speaker 2: lot of time not telling jokes. This last special, while

376
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 2: it's probably his second best Netflix Special. It's nowhere near

377
00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:59,800
Speaker 2: his peak. To me, it's just like, okay, he's back

378
00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:04,159
Speaker 2: to at least trying to tell jokes, and he's so

379
00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:08,439
Speaker 2: aware that people are gonna be pissed. His audience is

380
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 2: coming for people to be pissed, and both meanings of coming.

381
00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:13,760
Speaker 6: And.

382
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 2: Something has been lost. Like I said, I listen to

383
00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,600
Speaker 2: people like I was listening to Firestarter and they were

384
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:24,200
Speaker 2: talking about the Special and it's not it's not really

385
00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:27,480
Speaker 2: a commentary on like the special or the jokes anymore.

386
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:32,240
Speaker 2: It's a meta commentary on like society and people getting

387
00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:35,119
Speaker 2: offended and is he really transphobic or is he not?

388
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,879
Speaker 2: Or is that allowed or not? And why why is

389
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 2: it okay? You know for him to be like super

390
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:47,400
Speaker 2: you know, dogmatic about race, but gender and LGBTQ issues,

391
00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:49,679
Speaker 2: he could be like, fuck those people, they are the

392
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,199
Speaker 2: butt of the joke. That is funny. But you know,

393
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 2: when I was listening to Jails Covan Rain on my

394
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 2: parade talk about the Special and uh, what's my other?

395
00:20:59,280 --> 00:20:59,399
Speaker 1: Uh?

396
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 2: Rick jervasas Special, and you know, same thing, Like it's

397
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:08,320
Speaker 2: it's no longer really about the specials. It's just about

398
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 2: like how pissed our people should they be pissed, and

399
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,320
Speaker 2: he's kind of created a monster and it can't be

400
00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 2: put back in the box. So that's why you got

401
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:22,439
Speaker 2: people that tune in for three seconds to tell me

402
00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,560
Speaker 2: how much they were turned off and don't watch it,

403
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,919
Speaker 2: and then they write for days on Facebook and Twitter

404
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,360
Speaker 2: about how much they don't watch it because they're such

405
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,679
Speaker 2: great people. And then you have people that watch it,

406
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,399
Speaker 2: but then they spend all day fighting on social media

407
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 2: being like, you're not gonna tell me that what he

408
00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 2: can say, he's a genius. He's a genius, and it's like,

409
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 2: that's not fun for me either. I've never watched the

410
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 2: comedy special and wanted to do that if I had

411
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 2: a good time. I've never left someone stand up show

412
00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 2: and wanted to fight people online about it or yell

413
00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 2: at people or get on the podcast and you know,

414
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 2: get all high and mighty about it. That's not what

415
00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,679
Speaker 2: I got into this, you know, liking stand up for.

416
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:03,400
Speaker 2: And then you have people like Caring that just don't

417
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 2: even watch it because they're just so turned off by

418
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 2: the conversation that has been created. And I feel sad

419
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:12,679
Speaker 2: that Dave gave in to that, because I think he

420
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 2: legitimately is a comedic genius. I think his better work

421
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 2: and best work came from like a self informed place

422
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,800
Speaker 2: of shit that he had experienced, and I think his

423
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 2: best jokes seem to come from that, even if he

424
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 2: would disagree. And I think this kind of bugs Bunny

425
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,679
Speaker 2: poking at the woke people in the liberals blah blah.

426
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 2: I think I've seen so many regressive, not funny people

427
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,679
Speaker 2: do it that even his material is still hacked me.

428
00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,400
Speaker 2: It's still the same type of material that these other

429
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 2: comedians that are not as good as Dave Chappelle do.

430
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 2: But if you keep doing this for this long, at

431
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 2: what point do I have to stop saying they're not

432
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 2: as good as you and go you're about as good

433
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 2: as them. You're on that kind of Ricky Gervais, look

434
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 2: at me poking the liberals thing. Even if I thought

435
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 2: this last special, at least you were trying to tell

436
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 2: jokes as opposed to like preaching to me for a

437
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,160
Speaker 2: fucking hour. So I did appreciate him trying to tell jokes,

438
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 2: but at this point, I'm just I'm mis wistful for

439
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 2: what he used to mean.

440
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 1: I agree, And also I think for me, I've watched several.

441
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 1: I don't watch as many comedy specials as you do,

442
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,679
Speaker 1: but I do. I have watched some comedy specials, particularly

443
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 1: over the last year. Some of them are old and

444
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,400
Speaker 1: some of were current and all that type of stuff.

445
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: And like I say, I consume comedy very very different,

446
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 1: and you know me, and you consume comedy about the same.

447
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 1: And when I hear people review specials and they're talking

448
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: about everything but the jokes, I'm not gonna watch it.

449
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of bumber real, I'm not going to

450
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: watch it because we're talking about everything but the mother

451
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: fucking jokes. Was it funny? Did you laugh?

452
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 6: No?

453
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,439
Speaker 1: We got to talk about everything else but the jokes?

454
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 1: Then why am I here?

455
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 2: Yeah? I agree. Let's go back to the comment stuff.

456
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 2: You guys share an anniversary with them insurrection, They sayers,

457
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 2: who the thought? Whiless they share anniversary with us? We first, Yes,

458
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: we were first, but they stole it. Dorothea says, I'm

459
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,040
Speaker 2: a fast fan of your podcast because of your commentary.

460
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 2: Is intelligent, funny, Irreverend and on point you and Karen's laughter,

461
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 2: pure joy, happy pot a versary, my favorite good pot

462
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 2: good cast pair. Oh thank you Dorothea, and she was

463
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,479
Speaker 2: the person that was a new member and hit us

464
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 2: with the donation. Appreciate you a girl, Sidney, She says,

465
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 2: I can take just the Tip to Apple from with

466
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 2: the RSS feed second best discovery of twenty twenty four.

467
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,880
Speaker 2: Oh for real, real, you just put us onto something

468
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 2: we didn't know y'all could do that. Okay, so listen

469
00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,119
Speaker 2: if y'all listening, Apparently you could take it just to

470
00:24:56,160 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 2: to the RSS feed and put it in your Apple podcast. Now,

471
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,159
Speaker 2: keep in mind, just the Tip is still just is

472
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: one bonus episode per week from one of our premium shows, Balls, Deep, Pregame, Sport,

473
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 2: Move Reviews, Lip Smacking, Good, The Nerd Off. It could

474
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 2: be any of those, but you do. We have never

475
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 2: missed a week. You always get that extra one.

476
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: Uh.

477
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 2: People need to get a life. Simona Haley Bailey are examples,

478
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 2: prime examples. Motherfuckers are weird as fuck to be so invested. Yo,

479
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's it's so weird and I don't think

480
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna ever really truly relate to it. And I

481
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 2: hope I never become like that. I don't ever want

482
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: to be this involved in strangers' lives. I was reading

483
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 2: the article for Balls D Sports yesterday and Tianna Taylor

484
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 2: is is fil You know, she's fouled for divorce and

485
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: she wants like full cussy to kids, and she put

486
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff about a man shumper. Of course,

487
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 2: it's a divorce filin. Who knows what is true and

488
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 2: what's not correct. But I'm just saying people shared their

489
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 2: pictures together because they're both like amazing looking, they're black,

490
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 2: they're in great shape, they're both celebrities, and they would

491
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 2: talk openly about their marriage and stuff in certain forms,

492
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 2: and so people were just sharing them as like black love,

493
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 2: black goals, black this. And then you read the divorce

494
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 2: folling and she's like saying, the motherfucker's how all the

495
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 2: time around the kids and you know he ain't taking

496
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: the kids to the game, he getting putting them in

497
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 2: rid share and taking him private drivers places and shit.

498
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 2: And it's just like, oh, yeah, that's right. We don't

499
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,719
Speaker 2: know you. We know what you tell us and what

500
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 2: you show us like we do with everybody else. So

501
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 2: you can't really put people on too high of a

502
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 2: pedestal because for most people, they're not giving you the

503
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 2: real them. And they also not giving you enough of them.

504
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 2: They show up when they want you to see whatever,

505
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 2: which is normal, right, most of us aren't trying to

506
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 2: go through all that shit in public. To be honest,

507
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 2: good or bad, it ain't none of you goddamn business.

508
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 2: Neil says, happy pot of versary. Damn fourteen years. Congratulations, right,

509
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 2: Else's happy anniversary to the best podcasts in the world.

510
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 2: You continue to be a multi universal inspiration, actually, says

511
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 2: your podcast, Wilcome. One of my favorites thus far. Fourteen

512
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 2: years A long time. Congratulations. What has your I guess

513
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 2: what has been your favorite segments throughout the years? Okay, well, Ashley,

514
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you straight up, and it's not just me,

515
00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:23,719
Speaker 2: and I think I speak for pretty much everybody. But

516
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 2: there was a period of time we used to read

517
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 2: Baller Alert groupy Tales on the show.

518
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: Hate Nance Terrell Jones, and.

519
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 2: That was always my That was one of my favorite

520
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 2: segments to ever do. I was sad today we ran out.

521
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 2: I almost wanted to go back and start over and

522
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:42,479
Speaker 2: read them all again. But they erase that shit from

523
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,959
Speaker 2: the internet. You cannot find that shit. They are like, Listen,

524
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: the game was supposed to be so not told and

525
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,680
Speaker 2: we was telling We was like, y'all put it on

526
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: the internet, we're reading it, and we had such a

527
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 2: great fucking time. But I really feel like that's definitely

528
00:27:55,280 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 2: been one of the all time great segments. So and yeah,

529
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 2: I don't even know where you would go to get

530
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 2: them all because they're just they're just interspersed throughout the

531
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 2: years and episodes. If you search the title of our

532
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 2: podcast and maybe groopye or something, it'll give you like

533
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 2: those episodes.

534
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: Probably I missed that so much.

535
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 2: We had like like theme music we played that came

536
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 2: in foll star Ship.

537
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: Yes, Like that was so much much fun because this

538
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,199
Speaker 1: was back in the day for Instagram and shit like that.

539
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 2: So this is where they was telling their tails and

540
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 2: chat I was telling it. Yeah, that was an amazing time.

541
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 2: Let's see what else we got. Happy pot of versary

542
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 2: for Alicia, who says been listening since twenty eleven, y'all

543
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 2: been with me for my first real job, to second degree,

544
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 2: the wedding and birth of my baby. Shout out to

545
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 2: chill and I think his name was Austin T. Jones.

546
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 2: Austin T. Jones, I don't know Austin. I don't remember.

547
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: Oh wait, no, I remember Austin. Yeah, but I don't

548
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: know if his last name was t Jones. But I

549
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 2: do remember Austin. And we talked to Chill not too

550
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 2: long ago on the phone. Yeah, for those of you

551
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 2: to go, I miss Chill. She doing great, y'all. Chac

552
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 2: Obean says, happy anniversary. Y'all started listening because I heard

553
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 2: my sister listening and I heard Rod do the Bobby's

554
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 2: chmurder in prison countdown. I thought, this man is very

555
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: interested in Bobby's well being.

556
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: It wasn't a game Roger was on that he did

557
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: that daily till that Nigga got free.

558
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 2: I do not know why they had him locked up

559
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: as long I did. It didn't make sense. I still

560
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: don't feel right about what they did to Bobby. Maybe

561
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 2: I missed some evidence or something. I wasn't on trial

562
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 2: at the trial. I wasn't in a jersey, so maybe

563
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: there's some evidence that didn't make it to the general public.

564
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 2: But I never really understood why he went to jail

565
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 2: so long right, Happy fourteen potterversary, says James, who said

566
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 2: he says, King Rod and Queen Karen, thank you well,

567
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 2: little King and queen emojis, and lastly, Miss Barnes says,

568
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 2: happy listener since twenty eighteen. Okay, Miss Barnes, thank you. Okay,

569
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 2: we appreciate you. Let's go to the next episode. That

570
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 2: was our feedback episode. We did four this week, Break

571
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 2: some Rules twenty eight thirty five. We had six comments.

572
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 2: Let's get into them, and says listen to this on

573
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 2: a Monday morning. Your advice about the people who break

574
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 2: the rules are the ones who make the new rules.

575
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 2: It's perfect motivation. I even quoted you on my socials

576
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 2: Let's go. And also I agree with your strategy of

577
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 2: taking the time to grow on your own instead of

578
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: trying to get support from the start. The best advice

579
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: I ever got was that I have to prove my

580
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 2: good idea actually is good before other people will support it.

581
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 2: No one would recognize your vision without proof, and that

582
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 2: proof can only come from putting in the work hard, yes,

583
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: but necessary. Yeah. I have a saying that I for

584
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 2: a long time, which is most people are not going

585
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 2: to help you until it's too late, like till you

586
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 2: don't need to help. You don't need to help now.

587
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 2: That doesn't mean that their help isn't useful. Or that

588
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 2: you can't like grow with that. But just a lot

589
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 2: of times people offer you stuff and it's not really

590
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 2: mutually beneficial because it's like you proven it, you can

591
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 2: do this shit by yourself, and now they just see

592
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 2: that you could prove it, and they're like, I want

593
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 2: to be down with that energy, with that person, with

594
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 2: their whatever goals they have, because I think they're going

595
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 2: to accomplish these goals and bigger things later, and so

596
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 2: they try to hop on and discernment is really your

597
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 2: your tool there discerning the people that are just leeches

598
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 2: and hoppers on that are dragging you down and the

599
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 2: people that actually want to build something together that are

600
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 2: similar mindset and similar work ethic. It's hard to do,

601
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 2: but you definitely need to parse it out. Happy anniversary

602
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,719
Speaker 2: to The black Out Tilts. I remember the first episode

603
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 2: I listened to. It was the Southern accents that got me.

604
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: I live in the South, so it felt comfortable. It

605
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 2: was the one where you were dealing with some guy

606
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 2: who complained about Karen's voice you took the time to

607
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 2: correct him. I loved it. That reminds me I need

608
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 2: to update my autunes of you thank you and think yeah,

609
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 2: y'all know. I don't play about that, so I don't

610
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: remember what it was, but you know, hopefully they got

611
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 2: that straight. I don't remember anybody else bringing it up,

612
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 2: so it's probably fine.

613
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: And that has a lot to do with why we

614
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: do the five star reviews the way we do. Yeah,

615
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: we like look lead five star reviews and be nice,

616
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 1: if not not gonna read them on the air. Yeah.

617
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 2: And there's also just people that have internalized anti blackness

618
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 2: and all kinds of classism and shit that don't understand,

619
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 2: like their lack of affection for the southern black voice

620
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 2: and associating it with illiteracy, slavery, uh, just a bunch

621
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: of regressive things. It is a it is very anti black,

622
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 2: Yes it is. And it's because it's not just about

623
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 2: the regional dialect. It's the assumptions. And honestly, it kind

624
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: of extends to a lot of regional dialects if we're

625
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 2: being frank, like, there's people that hear voices of somebody

626
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 2: in there from New York and they just assume, like

627
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 2: if you talk a certain type of way from New

628
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 2: York using black slang and all of you know, it's like, oh, well,

629
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: clearly this person is not intelligent. They can't. And it's like,

630
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 2: how many fucking times you have to be proven wrong?

631
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 2: And how many things have you missed in your life

632
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 2: because you prejudged and you were fucking wrong? You could

633
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 2: have learned something. I listened to uh Teava Queen and

634
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 2: j podcast and they're both black women from New York

635
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 2: and you know, they got heavy New York accents. But

636
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 2: I love that. I have love and affection for that

637
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 2: because it feels authentic if that's where they're from. And

638
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:28,959
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know how what it's like, why

639
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 2: do you want to write to sound like the girl

640
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: on TikTok Voice?

641
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: You know?

642
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 2: Uh he'll Sean says, do y'all remember when Kat Williams

643
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 2: got beat up by a kid after he threw the

644
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 2: first punch. Yeah, and I'm pretty sure we brought it

645
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: up when we talked about it on the pre game,

646
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 2: but uh yeah, yeah it is. Yeah, but you know

647
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 2: you can't really Cat got his own reality, So I

648
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 2: don't think whatever you say, Kat, it don't matter.

649
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he joked on himself about it, so it's like,

650
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take this thing out of it, like y'all

651
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: think y'll punching me.

652
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 2: I'm ana punch myself. So what you're gonna do now, right,

653
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 2: Apia says, I'm confused by the one verdict. I'm fucking

654
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,240
Speaker 2: with black people. You judge the event where people protested

655
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 2: and the bad legislation banning black history was taken back,

656
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 2: and you gave it the worst rating. But this was good.

657
00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 2: The banning was of course the worst. Yeah, I think

658
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 2: that was the one where they were gonna ban black

659
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:26,839
Speaker 2: history being taught, not books, but the actual class. So

660
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 2: it was they and then they relented because people got upset.

661
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:33,799
Speaker 2: But if I'm not mistaken in that article, they said

662
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: they basically still planned and have the power to ban

663
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 2: those classes. And it's still gonna fuck with me. The

664
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 2: answer isn't like it's not, it's how much do you

665
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 2: feel fucked with? And the fact that my history, the

666
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: history of my people in America is something that is

667
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 2: optional and seen as political and to be taken out

668
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: because of the feelings of white children, alleged feelings of

669
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:04,240
Speaker 2: white children. It's really about their parents, right, it fucks

670
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 2: with me. And so sometimes it doesn't matter whether the

671
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 2: thing is good or bad that is happening because if

672
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 2: I'm being honest. The fact that we're still even debating

673
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 2: this that is still up as an option. If it's

674
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: gonna it's drakaris it is. I am so angry about

675
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 2: this and that people let this happen to our country,

676
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 2: and that people think that we can just apathy our

677
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 2: way out of this shit. And you may see that

678
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 2: a lot of these ratings are gonna be pretty angry

679
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,400
Speaker 2: in twenty twenty four because looking around at some of

680
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 2: the happenings politically, I'm already pre mad. I'm trying not

681
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 2: to just be ranting all the time, and I try

682
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 2: to keep that down on the pod, But sir, in general,

683
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 2: this is gonna be a you might see some higher ratings,

684
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 2: is what I'm saying. Breaking rules is obviously the right

685
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 2: thing to do for real Success's important to add that

686
00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:03,320
Speaker 2: when you you don't know what rules to break for success,

687
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 2: and you will probably have to try multiple times, this

688
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 2: is normal yet not just that, but as I said

689
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 2: on the show, you will probably fail because most people

690
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 2: will fail regardless of which rules you break, especially if

691
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 2: your goal is to be like super huge or something

692
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 2: like that, that it's very rare for anyone to get

693
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 2: you probably will fail no matter what rules you break,

694
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 2: but at least break the rules that are authentic to

695
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 2: yourself so you can have fun and live in that

696
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 2: and if you do make it, you won't have you

697
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 2: will have made it in a comfortable way that you

698
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 2: don't have to fake. That's what happened with us, the

699
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 2: way we have established ourselves. And we talked to podcasters

700
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 2: all the time that used to interview us, and they

701
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 2: would say stuff like, how do y'all, you know, like,

702
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 2: keep from arguing on the show and shit, And I'm like,

703
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: cause we just never We aren't those people anyway, So

704
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 2: it's not like we turned the mics on them. We're like,

705
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 2: all right, Karen, I know you just called me a

706
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:04,400
Speaker 2: punker ass nigga and I know I just called you bitch,

707
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 2: but it's time to record, Okay, let's pretend to be

708
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,879
Speaker 2: happy like we just never did that. So and if

709
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 2: that was if we were some other couple that did

710
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 2: argue all the time, and then then maybe that's what

711
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 2: your podcast should be. I'm like, I wouldn't do it,

712
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 2: but maybe it works for you.

713
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, maybe based for you, But I know me,

714
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: I cannot function with that because my motto is. I

715
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 1: guess what these night's gonna go off? And you guys

716
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: still look at me at my motherfucker.

717
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 2: Face shoe booty, says Rod. I'm going to let your

718
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 2: band to regarding fitness be my new rock. I am

719
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 2: in the same boat where the pandemic stopped everything in

720
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:41,839
Speaker 2: my tracks. And for a few years I was trying

721
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 2: to capture lightning in the bottom and recreate what worked

722
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 2: for me. But I'm realizing it's time to find what

723
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 2: will work for me now everything has changed. I have

724
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 2: changed and the old routine won't work for new times.

725
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 2: I joined a while but have been nervous to go.

726
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,319
Speaker 2: But I want to feel like I used to when

727
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 2: I felt when I was acting strong, capable and confident. Yeah,

728
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 2: definitely man like. Cause like I for me, for specifically

729
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 2: playing basketball four or five times a week, even when

730
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 2: I was like forty two, forty three or whatever, that

731
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 2: felt good. I felt good. My vitals and all the

732
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,760
Speaker 2: shit that I go to the doctor for. We was strong.

733
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:22,720
Speaker 2: It was good. But man, this last like three years

734
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 2: of just not because I'm not a gotta go take

735
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 2: a hike person. That's not as fun to me. I'm

736
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 2: not a lift weights. God, but if that's what I

737
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,319
Speaker 2: have to be or need to be, or that's where

738
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 2: I need to start to start over, then I'm then

739
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it. I'm working on getting a physical trainer.

740
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 2: I just had my initial interview thing where you talk

741
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,760
Speaker 2: about your goals and all that stuff, and they're supposed

742
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,919
Speaker 2: to hit me up by next week, and then I'm

743
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: gonna learn how to go in the gym and use

744
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 2: the machines correctly, right.

745
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: Because I'm trying to figures don't mean shit to me.

746
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: Like I'm ready to go, I still don't know how

747
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 1: to fuck to use this machine.

748
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 2: And then supposedly they walk me through the workout and

749
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 2: the machines tell me like a routine or cycle I

750
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 2: think as what it's called. And then they basically instruct you,

751
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 2: like Okay, you need to do this, this and this,

752
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 2: and then repeat this three four times a week. And

753
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 2: so the three or four times that I repeat it

754
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,400
Speaker 2: will be without them, but they'll show me the first

755
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 2: time every week. And so I signed up for that.

756
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 2: I've never done any stripp training or wait training before

757
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 2: since high school. Uh, maybe I took a class in college,

758
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 2: but that that nigga didn't that teacher did not check

759
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 2: on anything. We was just in there doing whatever. So yeah,

760
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to that to see, you know, what

761
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 2: I can learn and see how it affects my body

762
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 2: and stuff. I've already started working on like diet stuff

763
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 2: as far as like and I don't mean diet like

764
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 2: fat diet, but just like lifestyle, what you eat, what

765
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 2: you need. I just I've been working on that stuff

766
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 2: since early December, and it has been working. It's you know,

767
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 2: like I said, I've been trying some healthy alternative snacks

768
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 2: and all that shit, but just also like when I eat,

769
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 2: uh what I eat, how I what I cook. We

770
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 2: pretty much don't eat door dashing stuff anymore, like maybe

771
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 2: once or twice a week at most, but sometimes most

772
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 2: of the time not not even that, right, And I've

773
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 2: just and I've just been doing more like things to

774
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 2: prepare myself for uh you know, good habits because also

775
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 2: you get older and your body changes, like your metabolism

776
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 2: goes down, your testosterone goes down, your ability to process

777
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: sugar goes down, your your liver, it's like all this

778
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 2: shit is finite and starts going down. So then it's

779
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 2: like all right, man, I can either like be like,

780
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 2: fuck it if I just you know, I'm just living

781
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 2: my life. I don't give a fuck, which is fine.

782
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: I don't judge nobody, y'all, don't ever really hit me

783
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:03,320
Speaker 2: on here, talk about nobody's health or weight or whatever

784
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 2: your choice. I won't only talk about mine, and I

785
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 2: don't try to talk about mine in any negative voice.

786
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 2: I don't try to be on here like I'm just

787
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: a fat piece of shit. I don't do that. I

788
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 2: don't find I don't find motivation in that, you know,

789
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 2: I know that's other people's motivation. But I try to

790
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 2: make this a space where people don't have to hear

791
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 2: that bullshit, especially because there's already so many people attacking

792
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 2: folks appearances and bodies constantly anyway. And people are extremely

793
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 2: fat phobic towards themselves and others, and we just live

794
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:41,240
Speaker 2: with it, you know, especially because we still are children

795
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 2: and we think it's funny. You know, everybody's mad at

796
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 2: Dave Chappelle blah blah blah. But how many of them

797
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 2: shared Kat Williams and his fat phobia? How many of

798
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 2: them shared Steven A. Smith and his fat phobia? Like

799
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 2: they don't really live their wraps anyway, we're still children

800
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 2: about that shit. How many people are mad at celebrities

801
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 2: for using those zipic and losing wait, Like, it's just

802
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,279
Speaker 2: kind of ridiculous. So I don't want to if I

803
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 2: can help it, I'm trying not to contribute to that.

804
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 2: I won't lie though some of that ship is funny

805
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 2: to me. I'm I'm still a child. I'm not. I'm not.

806
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: I'm not.

807
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 2: When when Steven Asmith call Jason Way like a fat bitch,

808
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 2: I did laugh like a motherfucker. I mean it came.

809
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 2: I wasn't ready. Yeah, like this, the goal isn't to

810
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 2: tell y'all I'm a saintan I'm perfect. I identify with

811
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 2: people the same way y'all do. But yeah, my point being, like,

812
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: I'm with you, and I would like to do that.

813
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 2: I normally don't share this kind of stuff on the

814
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 2: show anyway, but in our banter segment, it's about what

815
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: we've been up to. So that's what we've been doing,

816
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: and you know, and even before this physical training ship,

817
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,400
Speaker 2: I've still been just going to the wild three, four

818
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:55,760
Speaker 2: or five times a week and like shooting around walking,

819
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: you know, and on top of you know, I still

820
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 2: have my peloton here, still have the virtual VR headset stuff.

821
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 2: I just want to get back active.

822
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: Man.

823
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 2: I can't keep waiting on basketball to come back, because

824
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if these niggas are ever coming back

825
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 2: to playing basketball at the time that I play.

826
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 1: Right and and the times that you desire. And like

827
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: I said, it's it's been an adjustment, like I say,

828
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: And Uh, the thing is, it's a process, and it's

829
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: very hard to go through the process. And when you

830
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: do these things, people think you just have to do

831
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: these extreme things. You don't. You can just basically try things.

832
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: You like it great, and you could just put it

833
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: into your into your everyday routines where it's not like

834
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 1: this big shift because if you do big sweeping changes,

835
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: you're not gonna stick with it. You know yourself and

836
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: you know what you're gonna do and what you ain't

837
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: gonna do. So you have to do things that's convenient

838
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,240
Speaker 1: for you, that fits in the timeframe for you, and

839
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:52,399
Speaker 1: and this what's best for your life, versus doing all

840
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: these extreme things out there and then you don't stick

841
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: to Well.

842
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 2: It's just different people are different. Some people do do that.

843
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 2: Some people do make extreme changes and it fucking works

844
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 2: for them. But I'm just trying something that I've never

845
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,479
Speaker 2: tried before to see if it works for me. So

846
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 2: you know, like you can't knock it if you I mean,

847
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 2: if you've never fucking tried it. Why It's like when

848
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 2: people knock New Year's resolutions but they've never done one,

849
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: so then like you kind of tell yourself you can't

850
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 2: do one. Basically, like I'm pulling I'm pouring into that

851
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: New Year's resolution energy and being like, let's see what happens.

852
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll stick with it, maybe I don't. But what

853
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: was I gonna do before is nothing, right, so I

854
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 2: might as well try something. Uh, But yeah, I just

855
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,919
Speaker 2: want to feel I want to feel good. That's it.

856
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 2: Brooklyn Shoe Babe says, wasn't there a rape scene in

857
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,399
Speaker 2: Players Club? Didn't Ice Cube have a hand in making

858
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 2: that movie? He did, I don't remember that scene and

859
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 2: how graphic it was and whatnot? His thing in his

860
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 2: He did not say, and I think the word choices people.

861
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: It went over people's head. He didn't say he wouldn't

862
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 2: put a rape scene in the movie. He said one

863
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 2: he doesn't like showing that stuff, meaning he wouldn't want

864
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 2: to show like the graphic like assault of Someoneight.

865
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: So you quote maybe the aftermath, but not the right right,

866
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: not the actual even.

867
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,839
Speaker 2: According to him, this is what he said. I haven't

868
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: watched Players Club in a long time, long time, but

869
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 2: I just don't and I don't remember the scene specifically,

870
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 2: but you know, if you cut away or you hear

871
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 2: somebody screaming or something, it sounds like that's what he

872
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 2: was talking about doing in Friday. But so his thing

873
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: was like, I wasn't going to actually show Kat Williams's

874
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 2: character being sexually assaulted. That's not funny to me. But

875
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 2: he is saying that the idea of him being sexually

876
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 2: assaulted in that bathroom that would have been in the

877
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 2: script and possibly in the film without showing it, and

878
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 2: been played for laughs. I'm not here to really debate

879
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,400
Speaker 2: all that shit. I you know, times change and people

880
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 2: change and all this shit. So and I know some

881
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 2: people have found jokes about rape hilarious in movies and

882
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 2: TV and comedy, and some people have never found that

883
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 2: shit funny. Debate amongst yourselves is not for me. I

884
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 2: don't make those movies anyway. Eve says, I'm happy. Haley

885
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 2: Bailey announced her pregnancy on her terms. I follow her

886
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 2: on social media. In the a number of comments demanded

887
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 2: she announced her pregnancy was so entitled, we don't know

888
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 2: her she and she owes me nothing. I hope she

889
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 2: never shows her baby on social media ever she already has,

890
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 2: but of course people are already demanding it. I can

891
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 2: never be a celebrity because someone would get cussed out. Yeah,

892
00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 2: that's that's facts. Like I definitely do not have a temperament.

893
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 2: Somebody would have said some shit to me and I

894
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 2: would have just had a bad day, and everybody will

895
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 2: said damn says Kat Williams didn't need the Plastic cup

896
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 2: Boys to back him up. I guess talking about Kevin

897
00:46:57,160 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 2: Hart and how you had the Plastic cup Boys making

898
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 2: jokes about hilarious making jokes about Cat Williams on that

899
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 2: NBA broadcast who Will Win and Who Will Win? A

900
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 2: Kevin Hart versus Kat Williams, the Catalonkat Williams of Kevin

901
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 2: Hart Kevin Heart. The majority of our audience agrees with

902
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:21,240
Speaker 2: Karen sixty six percent say Kevin Hart, thirty three percent

903
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:27,959
Speaker 2: say Cat Williams. And then the poll on Spotify very

904
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,760
Speaker 2: close six I mean about to say sixty percent Kevin

905
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 2: Hart forty percent Cat Williams. So the majority of us

906
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 2: think Kevin Hart will win at the Cataline against Cat Williams,

907
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 2: regardless of that video him running in that gym. I

908
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,760
Speaker 2: don't normally too my on horn, but today I'm honking

909
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,320
Speaker 2: this bitch. J Cole was de quoted the show. Waller says,

910
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 2: which horn you honking? Nay Sayer. Rogers says, it's crazy

911
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 2: how Cat Williams is. How now these niggas top five

912
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 2: communions all of a sudden Yes, prisoner at the moment,

913
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 2: James says, political neutral naysay. Please shout out to the

914
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 2: Missouri students for taking a stand against that school district's nonsense. Yeah,

915
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 2: Malik's coach Malik says, honked that shit. Raphael says, I'm

916
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 2: actually working on two podcast projects and learning the new

917
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 2: language right now. Got to be able to sell the

918
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 2: hustle in a new market. Thank you for this talk.

919
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 2: I needed to talk to your shit. Rod and Karen,

920
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:27,720
Speaker 2: don't get arrested. Ac Mr Span says, as a fellow

921
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 2: og podcast to let me tell me tell you, y'all

922
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 2: was cooking on this mofo today and I appreciate y'all

923
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 2: talk taking the time to talk about what it means

924
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 2: to make it in this space. Thanks mister span. DJ

925
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 2: Zenway says, Wow, hey guys, thanks for this. It's so

926
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 2: long time for me right now in twenty twenty four

927
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 2: saving this, Please listen to Kat Williams interview. He never

928
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,319
Speaker 2: claimed to have written the part. He enhanced the part.

929
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 2: I mean I did listen to it, and yeah, that's fine, man.

930
00:48:55,520 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 2: I heard him used in the written thing interchangeably, and

931
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 2: I think maybe you gotta go back and listen again. Well,

932
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 2: you know, because he did say no one else could

933
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: have played this part, because I wrote this part. And

934
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 2: I think what he's saying is his enhancement, his comedian

935
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 2: whatever is the crux of that character. And I don't

936
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:24,200
Speaker 2: think that him and ice Cube were like, I don't

937
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 2: think either one of them was lying or anything. And

938
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:30,879
Speaker 2: just feel like, uh, some wires got crossed there. I don't.

939
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 2: I don't think that makes anybody necessarily wrong there. And

940
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 2: then Carriages put a bunch of emojis for celebrations or something.

941
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know. Uh, Shriff isn't doing his

942
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 2: own thing with the emojis. Okay, all right, let's get

943
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 2: to the next two episodes. But first I need to

944
00:49:48,600 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 2: play some music so we can get this motherfucking money.

945
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 2: All right, let's get to the next episode, twenty eight

946
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:33,879
Speaker 2: thirty six be His Corretta four comments. Apple says, I'm

947
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 2: concerned with how Jonathan Major is talking about his new

948
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 2: girlfriend because I recognize an unhealthy dynamic. I hope I'm

949
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 2: wrong and they are fine or fake or and I'm

950
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:45,439
Speaker 2: just reminded of some stuff exper I experienced in one

951
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 2: of bad relationship in the past. He builds her up

952
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 2: as his savior. He says, she is an angel, not

953
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 2: like all the other bitches in the past. She is

954
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 2: a good woman. There's a lot for such a There's

955
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 2: a lot for such a short relationship, too much and

956
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 2: too fast. The relationship goes bad, she will if she

957
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 2: is like many other women, hesitate to leave out of guilt.

958
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 2: She can't leave him because he would collapse. She has

959
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 2: to save him with love, and she doesn't want to

960
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 2: be like all the other bad women who failed him.

961
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 2: That's a pretty bad dynamic. But as I said, I

962
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 2: hope I'm wrong. Yeah, I have no idea. Once again,

963
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 2: with these grown up ass strangers that we don't really know,

964
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 2: that just act for a living. I do think the

965
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 2: way he talks about her is weird, especially with them

966
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 2: being together supposedly for such a short period of time.

967
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 2: Meghan Good is basically silently just stood by his side

968
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:42,880
Speaker 2: through all the slings and arrows and whatnot. And who

969
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 2: was it? It was Nahima from ta with Queen and

970
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:52,880
Speaker 2: j Naima on Twitter that made such a great point

971
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 2: that I think it was her. I'm pretty sure it

972
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 2: was her. But when he brings up that Corretta shit

973
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:04,760
Speaker 2: on National TV about Megan Good, that is also definitively

974
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 2: a There's almost no way his ex would not see that,

975
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 2: and it's kind of a shot at her. I can see, like,

976
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 2: this woman is the woman you wouldn't be for me,

977
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 2: which says a lot, Which says a lot. Now I

978
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 2: know she's a white woman. Were supposed to hate him

979
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 2: and the shit, but I don't really go for all that.

980
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 2: If somebody got you know, it's an abusive relationship, I'm

981
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 2: not like, well, you're a white bitch too bad, Like

982
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 2: it's I just feel like that's all very unfortunate shit.

983
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 2: And time will tell on Jonathan Mangers and all that stuff.

984
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 2: If he's genuinely changes like the Ray Rice thing, but

985
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 2: so far it doesn't sound like he feels like he

986
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 2: did much wrong. And even the earlier stuff with the

987
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 2: text message about don't go to the hospital, people don't

988
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 2: seem that concerned about that, and I find that weird.

989
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 2: I don't know why, but that bothers me more than

990
00:52:57,040 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 2: the the if you don't feel so strongly about the

991
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 2: night of the in question, I don't blame you. I

992
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 2: really think that is confusing. I don't know what happened.

993
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 2: I really don't, but the text messages about don't go

994
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 2: to the hospital scene kind of cutting dry to me, Like,

995
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 2: I understand it's not a beyond a reasonable doubt thing,

996
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 2: but I can't he'd ever offer the explanation that made sense,

997
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 2: and they don't seem to be asking him to give

998
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 2: an explanation that makes sense about what the fuck was

999
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 2: he talking about? And so you know, and in that

1000
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:34,480
Speaker 2: interview when he pivots to like, I think I would

1001
00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 2: have what I learned from that night is I needed

1002
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:40,760
Speaker 2: to just get out the car or something, And I'm like, yeah,

1003
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 2: and then I shouldn't have ignored the red flags. I'm like,

1004
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 2: the red flags of you put in her need to

1005
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 2: go to the hospital. These flags, like, what the fuck

1006
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 2: is happening in my well? This is crazy? Right, Justin says.

1007
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 2: The thing that's wild about the whole color Purple and

1008
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 2: Oprah stuff is that most of the people talk about

1009
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 2: about how Oprah didn't do anything to help, refuse to

1010
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 2: or haven't even seen the movie because it's black trauma,

1011
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 2: porn or whatever excuse they have to not see the movie. Right,

1012
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 2: Just look at the box office. The films made about

1013
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,400
Speaker 2: fifty six million, and I've seen people say how underpaid

1014
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 2: to Roger has always been and she should be making

1015
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 2: just as much as Brad Pitt or whoever, but they

1016
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 2: won't see the movie she's in. Yeah, I don't. Yeah,

1017
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 2: I hear what you're saying. I don't really have much

1018
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 2: to push back on that. I just think it's a

1019
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 2: complicated thing, and the movie budget slash how much actors

1020
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 2: make things already a rig game, rig playing field. There

1021
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 2: are actors who lose the most money in Hollywood who

1022
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 2: also get paid some of the most money in Hollywood.

1023
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 2: And there's no rhyme or reason to it. You know,

1024
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 2: I forget who I was on the list at the time,

1025
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 2: but I know Will Smith was on the list for

1026
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 2: a long time of people that we associate with, Oh

1027
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:01,280
Speaker 2: my God, movie star. And then they just have certain

1028
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 2: projects that just keep losing money and they keep getting

1029
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 2: big paydays to lose money again, and it's not really

1030
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 2: reflecting on their acting ability. Could just be the projects

1031
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 2: they pick right, budget promotion, could be a lot of stuff.

1032
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 2: But I think we all can agree that black actresses

1033
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 2: are underpaid and kind of get the shit into the

1034
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 2: stick with a lot of these things, and so I

1035
00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 2: think that's where you're gonna find common ground. But yeah,

1036
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 2: I will always have a bit of annoyance at black

1037
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:42,800
Speaker 2: people who complain about black trauma movies or black history movies,

1038
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 2: or black or slavery movies or what. I have a

1039
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:47,800
Speaker 2: bone to pick with them to a certain extent, because

1040
00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:51,839
Speaker 2: a lot of that work, especially when it's made for

1041
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 2: us and by us, it's good work, right, and there's

1042
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 2: no shame in it. It's not the Hollywood or the

1043
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:01,359
Speaker 2: Illuminati or anybody trying to like get you right.

1044
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 1: And I still feel like this. You get in your

1045
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 1: black white people, you get in your feelings about it,

1046
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, because you get in your

1047
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:08,760
Speaker 1: feelings about it. It cannot exist.

1048
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,400
Speaker 2: And the last thing is I don't say shit like

1049
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 2: black trauma because I find that to be ridiculous because

1050
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 2: the vast majority of movies have some level of trauma

1051
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: in them, even if it's a rom com and it's

1052
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 2: just someone getting cheated on. What makes it black? You

1053
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Whenever it's some black people struggling,

1054
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 2: it's trauma. It's black trauma. But when the motherfucking they

1055
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:35,360
Speaker 2: make the movie about the poor people that work at Amazon,

1056
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 2: that's just a movie. And no one's talking about white trauma.

1057
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 2: All these fucking movies about opioids and shit like that,

1058
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 2: and these trailer park at like, we don't call eight

1059
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 2: mile white trauma. So stop, just stop, man. Black people

1060
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 2: are We're allowed to paint with every brush in our

1061
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 2: tool kit as well, and stop fucking limiting us. You

1062
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 2: don't have to watch it. I'm cool with that. That's

1063
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 2: why I'm not gonna join you and be like, y'all

1064
00:56:57,719 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 2: won't even watch the movie. Don't watch it if you

1065
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:01,919
Speaker 2: don't want to, but don't just don't make me put

1066
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 2: me as a creative in a fucking box. Mdaria says,

1067
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 2: I hope Jonathan Major gets help. I truly do this

1068
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 2: person needs help. It seems like everyone forgot the initial

1069
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 2: assault conversation, that text messages where he told her not

1070
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 2: to go to the hospital for the first time, and

1071
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:19,920
Speaker 2: speaking of Karretta, the internet says he was civil rights attractive,

1072
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 2: so now he needs his black woman to hold him down.

1073
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 2: Everyone wants a Caretta, But are you a Martin Luther King?

1074
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, hey, But also Martin Luther King

1075
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: was cheating even say y'all ain't shit for that show

1076
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 2: or Jonathan Major's obsession with Coretta Scott King goes to

1077
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 2: show he has no real knowledge about her besides being

1078
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 2: someone's wife, instead of acknowledging her as an activist in

1079
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:45,919
Speaker 2: her own right, one of her children had to check

1080
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 2: him on that. I think he may have mentioned her

1081
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 2: again in his interview to make light of his tape

1082
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 2: conversation that went viral, and that just makes it even worse.

1083
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:56,120
Speaker 2: I don't think his career is over, but I think

1084
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 2: it will never be on the same trajectory it was

1085
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 2: before it all came back came out. Yeah, because that

1086
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:03,840
Speaker 2: was the poll. Well, Jonathan Major's work again was the Poe.

1087
00:58:03,920 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 2: But let me check the comments on YouTube. We got one.

1088
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 2: Lakita says, I think we're missing the fact that he

1089
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,439
Speaker 2: doesn't have a Karreta fetish. This Nay Sayer just thinks

1090
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 2: MLK clearly thinks he's MLK. Clearly love Craft Country infiltrated

1091
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 2: his mind, and he really think he died for the cause.

1092
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he like yeah. I think, honestly, if I'm

1093
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 2: being serious for a second, I really think he sees

1094
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 2: Karretta as a woman who was with a great man

1095
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,400
Speaker 2: and put up with everything that came with being a

1096
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 2: great man, and that is what made her a great woman, right,

1097
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 2: because that's the way he's been. He's used it in

1098
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 2: the context that it's come up a couple times and

1099
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 2: he can go back and try to clean it up.

1100
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 2: But I don't. I think he spocused. That was his truth.

1101
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 2: And he said Michelle Obama to so like not. You know,

1102
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: I think it says more about how he views himself

1103
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 2: as baraqu or MLK. And I'm not trying to be

1104
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 2: pejorative here, but you're just an actor. You're just an actor.

1105
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 2: You're not the president. You're not the activist that got

1106
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 2: killed at like thirty some years old for being one

1107
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 2: of the greatest men this country ever produced. You're not

1108
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:28,920
Speaker 2: putting it on the line like that. You're not in

1109
00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 2: the streets, you're not voicing our causes. You're just doing

1110
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 2: acting work, which is fine. No one was expecting more

1111
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 2: from you, So elevating yourself to you're doing this for

1112
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 2: your people and shit just feels weird to me already.

1113
00:59:47,080 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 2: Maybe if he had a mass, like a long career

1114
00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 2: or something, but I don't even think Denzel Washington would

1115
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 2: say some shit like that. Yeah, so I just don't. Yeah,

1116
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:58,439
Speaker 2: I think he has an overinflated sense of ego from

1117
00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 2: what I'm gathering. Yeah, the poll, will he work again,

1118
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 2: He'll be just fine? Eight eight percent think he'll be

1119
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 2: just fine, nine percent think his career is over, and

1120
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:13,120
Speaker 2: two percent think his career will be even bigger, which

1121
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 2: is that's wild. I don't know about that. He coming

1122
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 2: all the way back. Eighty one percent think he'll be

1123
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,919
Speaker 2: just fine. On Spotify, seventeen percent think his career is over.

1124
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 2: One percent thing he'll be even bigger. I don't know,

1125
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 2: if I'm being real, I don't know. I feel like

1126
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 2: he'll mostly be fine. I definitely think his trajectory is

1127
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 2: going to decrease. But part of the reason I think

1128
01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 2: his trajectory is going to decrease is because of how

1129
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 2: he's playing this. He seems very much like gods, it's

1130
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:47,439
Speaker 2: no big deal, put me back in movies and bro,

1131
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 2: you haven't even been sentenced yet.

1132
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: Yes, that's not how that works.

1133
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 2: And I think that. I think that interview was a

1134
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 2: bad look for a lot of people that even if

1135
01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:01,160
Speaker 2: they kind of had your back, they saw that. I

1136
01:01:01,200 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 2: saw people that have his back even showing that interview,

1137
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 2: laughing at some of it, you know, picking on his fashions,

1138
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:10,479
Speaker 2: and a lot of memes about making you know good

1139
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:12,800
Speaker 2: being there, like girl, you okay, blink twice, you know

1140
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:17,520
Speaker 2: you need some help, like yeah, Like this is not

1141
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 2: gonna be a quick thing for you. And I think

1142
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 2: it's the kind of thing where you probably have to

1143
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:27,919
Speaker 2: go away quietly, continue to work and build yourself back

1144
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 2: up to a certain extent if it's possible. But I

1145
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 2: think he may even be hurting his chances at that.

1146
01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 2: You know, Nate Parker is working again. He just is

1147
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:40,959
Speaker 2: never gonna He was on a trajectory to catapult into

1148
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:45,200
Speaker 2: leading man status, right, and I think he'll never have

1149
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 2: that now. Because it was sexual assault, and then the

1150
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,240
Speaker 2: way he kind of tried to explain it, it just

1151
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 2: it just it never really, it never really measured up

1152
01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 2: to what people wanted to hear. And I'm not saying

1153
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 2: saying that there's any way he was gonna I don't

1154
01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 2: even know the right way to play that. It's just

1155
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 2: it came up. It was something that did happen, and

1156
01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 2: you can either say I had nothing to do with

1157
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 2: it, it was all fake, or you gotta say I did it.

1158
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 2: I'm responsible and I hope people can forgive me. But yeah,

1159
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:21,080
Speaker 2: it's just kind of playing middle of the road of like,

1160
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 2: I'm very sensitive to this da da da dah, and

1161
01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:26,320
Speaker 2: you know, I respect women and I would never do that.

1162
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 2: But also this bitchline or whatever it was, it's just

1163
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 2: it wasn't gonna work. So anyway, Q and A was

1164
01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 2: shout out to all the civil rights bas Curly Nigga says, Yeah,

1165
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 2: I thought Nate Park was gonna be okay career wise.

1166
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 2: That doesn't appear to be the case. Yeah. People always

1167
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:46,919
Speaker 2: say that, but do y'all go look up his im dB.

1168
01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:47,720
Speaker 2: He's worth it.

1169
01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 1: They don't. It's just the fact that he's not in

1170
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 1: shit that they're looking or watching, and he's not like

1171
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:54,640
Speaker 1: being pushed out like in the public guy like I

1172
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 1: used to. So people just assume that you're doing nothing,

1173
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 1: and that's not always so.

1174
01:02:58,760 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like he Birth of the Nation was twenty sixteen,

1175
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 2: and he's done well. No, hold on, I'm wrong. I'm wrong.

1176
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 2: He's done American Skin twenty nineteen and I know I

1177
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 2: can which is a short twenty twenty. So no, I'm wrong.

1178
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 2: He hasn't been working. Yeah, maybe he won't be okay.

1179
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 2: I don't think he was as big as job the

1180
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 2: Majors was, but yeah maybe all right, Shit fuck that,

1181
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 2: Nachelle says. Years ago, Robin Thiedy did a hilarious sketch

1182
01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 2: called Real Housewives of Civil Rights Movement, and this interview

1183
01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 2: reminded me of it. I think it's on YouTube.

1184
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 1: Hilarious.

1185
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I to be wells James Clay says, more like

1186
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 2: I'd to be fine, if you know what I'm saying.

1187
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 2: Come on, guess who says? Why does he keep bringing

1188
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 2: Corretta Scott King up. I'm baffled by his obsession with Corretta.

1189
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:48,680
Speaker 2: Sounds like he wants a woman to be his mother

1190
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 2: instead of his partner Malik coach. Malik says, damn that

1191
01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 2: beat for the banner section was bumping in the truck. Hey,

1192
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 2: we got some bangers over here. Todd Floger says, come

1193
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 2: on through, bet as your bass roder just going down

1194
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 2: a rabit hole. Addy Bowler says, Terrence Howard still works.

1195
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 2: I think he'll work again. Give it time. Yeh See,

1196
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 2: that's the thing too. People point to Nate Parker, which

1197
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 2: I said is a pretty extreme case. But we have

1198
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 2: a ton of people that have sexual assault allegations, credible

1199
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 2: assault allegations, credible me two stories that are working and

1200
01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 2: everyone ignores them. Anthony Anderson has all kinds like he's working.

1201
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 2: He's working and no one gives a fuck. Like Kobe,

1202
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 2: like he died and we cried for him, like we

1203
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 2: like motherfucker's cherry pick. Just the ones that they go

1204
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 2: see what happened is so and so. But we have

1205
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 2: a lot of ones where it's like we don't say

1206
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 2: what happened to him because nothing happened. They's still around.

1207
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:53,440
Speaker 2: I don't know if he'll Jonathan Majors will be one

1208
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 2: of them or not, but I just know it happens,

1209
01:04:55,640 --> 01:05:00,240
Speaker 2: and it's not exclusively a white thing. Rogers said, you

1210
01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 2: can't turn her Nancy Reagan into a Coretta King. Ah,

1211
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:08,280
Speaker 2: I'm Yomanti says, I'm looking for the Ruby d to

1212
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:12,600
Speaker 2: my Ozzie Davis a classic Negro nose kind of love.

1213
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 2: Magnificent Breeze says, great episode as always, But that cover

1214
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 2: picture had me in the group chat chat cackling, cracking

1215
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 2: shout out to the group chat. And the cover art

1216
01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 2: was Coretta kissing Martin Luther King on the on the

1217
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 2: cheek and Joatha Majors just looking all like.

1218
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 1: He's cheering and shit was fucking hilarious.

1219
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 2: Missus Spann says, having met Miss Scott King once I

1220
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 2: grew with Major, She's a great woman. I had a

1221
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 2: big ass booger in my nose as I was talking

1222
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 2: to her. She never said a thing about it. She's

1223
01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 2: ten out of ten with me. Wow, that is gross

1224
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 2: and also endearing. Lee says, you know what would be

1225
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:51,480
Speaker 2: hilarious if Major's next row was a civil rights leader.

1226
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:53,760
Speaker 2: If I could make that happen, I would yo. He

1227
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 2: need to play MLK and carry said shout the rod

1228
01:05:57,480 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 2: for running the Black Liberation Batti's list off the don't respect.

1229
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 2: That's what I do.

1230
01:06:02,200 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 1: Carre.

1231
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 2: Okay, there's a small subsection of podcasts that did you

1232
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 2: gonna get that from? Yeah, it's a niche, it's a

1233
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 2: niche market. I don't know very niche. I didn't know

1234
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 2: if anybody was gonna really appreciate that. But I'm glad

1235
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 2: you did it, brother, I'm glad you did We found

1236
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 2: we found a fan that was like, okay, off the dome.

1237
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 1: Uh Black Liberation baddie, somebody saying, yeah, we love.

1238
01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 2: Them over here. Okay, I'm listen. I'm still a dude.

1239
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the last episode of the week,

1240
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 2: twenty eight thirty seven. Not really big on fatherhood, Appia says,

1241
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:45,800
Speaker 2: we don't have garbage disposals here in Germany. I've never

1242
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,000
Speaker 2: seen one in the kitchen here. Ever. Wonder why that

1243
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 2: is verbal abuse. I doubt that it really goes up,

1244
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 2: or if the scientists in the past didn't even ask

1245
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 2: about it in the past, like they didn't even care

1246
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 2: about it. I don't yell at my kids regularly, but

1247
01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 2: it happened a few times, not often. I always apologize.

1248
01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 2: I think it's important to talk about it, but it's

1249
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 2: hard to be perfect at it. Old garbage disposals are

1250
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:08,600
Speaker 2: banned in Europe. I just found out. They say they

1251
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:10,720
Speaker 2: see them as a danger for the pipes in the environment.

1252
01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:13,360
Speaker 2: We do compost in a bind and use a compost

1253
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 2: for garden plants to separate the trash like good Germans deal. Well,

1254
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:19,760
Speaker 2: we love to see it. Shoe Booty says, I saw

1255
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:22,680
Speaker 2: some video yesterday saying you shouldn't pour pasta water down

1256
01:07:22,720 --> 01:07:27,320
Speaker 2: your drain for the same reason starts build up. Respectfully. No,

1257
01:07:27,920 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 2: I won't be doing that. What else am I supposed

1258
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 2: to do with my pasta water? Dig a hole out

1259
01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 2: back and put it give it back to the earth, right,

1260
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:38,840
Speaker 2: It don't make sense. The video suggested giving it to

1261
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 2: your house plants and your or your garden. And there's

1262
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:44,760
Speaker 2: no way I'm gonna have my plants in my house

1263
01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 2: thinking like old spaghetti or attracting critters outside with my

1264
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 2: pasta and rich tulips. Wan Ganghi says the dump I

1265
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 2: dumped my weird, non toxic organic waste liquors on my

1266
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 2: neighbor's tree that is growing through my fence. That's smart. Finally,

1267
01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 2: we all have neighbors that right. Ginagate says, Listen y'all

1268
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 2: talk about verbal abuse. I'm not surprised it's trending upwards.

1269
01:08:05,680 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 2: A lot of parents are well aware that it's not

1270
01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 2: okay to hit our children, and there are lots of

1271
01:08:09,480 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 2: societal repercussions for doing so, but yelling and screaming seems

1272
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 2: to be still on v that's what pairs do. Table

1273
01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 2: For many parents, it's sort of like a well, at

1274
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 2: least don't hit them kind of mentality, which is dangerous

1275
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:23,240
Speaker 2: but definitely out there. I can also see it as

1276
01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 2: a rebellion against gentle parenting trend, which I've heard people

1277
01:08:26,320 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 2: say means you are abdicating responsibility. I don't agree. I

1278
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 2: can see lots of parents not even understanding that yelling

1279
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,720
Speaker 2: can even be abusive, hearing that it can be so

1280
01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 2: damaging with surprising though it makes sense trying. Can't try

1281
01:08:39,439 --> 01:08:42,600
Speaker 2: to teach my kid about controlling big feelings when I don't, right,

1282
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:45,160
Speaker 2: Thanks for bringing it to my attention, No problem, and

1283
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 2: I'm glad you found it. You know informational I did too.

1284
01:08:49,560 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 2: I did not know that.

1285
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 1: Shit, right, And it is something where it's so common

1286
01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 1: that people don't really even think about it, and they

1287
01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:02,280
Speaker 1: don't comprehend how Oh, it affects.

1288
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:03,679
Speaker 2: People.

1289
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:06,679
Speaker 1: You know, people know what affects people, but people really

1290
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:09,760
Speaker 1: don't think people know it affects people. But when it

1291
01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: comes to children, because I can't speak for your the

1292
01:09:12,479 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 1: West behind American children, I look considered property like that's

1293
01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 1: your property, you own it, like you want a chair.

1294
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:22,760
Speaker 1: So because of that, the way people are process it

1295
01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 1: is a little different. People go, well, you know, if

1296
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna treat this child like it's a chair, quote unquote,

1297
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:32,280
Speaker 1: so what I do to it? No, I'm not kicking it,

1298
01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:34,160
Speaker 1: I'm not beating it up, but you know I am

1299
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 1: quote unquote might be abusing it. But that's okay because

1300
01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:40,040
Speaker 1: it's mine. And I think sometimes that's very hard for

1301
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: people to understand. And people have normalized yelling. People go, well,

1302
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 1: I'd rather you yell at me than beat me. Well,

1303
01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:51,080
Speaker 1: it could still affect people and things and stuff just

1304
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 1: as much and sometimes even worse sometimes because those are

1305
01:09:55,240 --> 01:09:57,560
Speaker 1: things and it wasn't until I became an adult, But

1306
01:09:57,560 --> 01:09:58,880
Speaker 1: there were things that was said to me as a

1307
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:01,280
Speaker 1: child that I literally held until I was an adult

1308
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:05,000
Speaker 1: and let it go. So those words actually do mean things.

1309
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And I think I have to disagree with APIA.

1310
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:12,840
Speaker 2: I trust the scientists here and I think that if

1311
01:10:12,880 --> 01:10:15,320
Speaker 2: they say it's trending up words, I believe them. You know,

1312
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:20,719
Speaker 2: even he says at least NBA Young Boy is honest.

1313
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:22,920
Speaker 2: I don't think anyone who has several children with a

1314
01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:26,600
Speaker 2: bunch of different baby mamas is really interested in fatherhood,

1315
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:29,040
Speaker 2: and that includes Nick Cannon, because how can you effectively

1316
01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:31,960
Speaker 2: parent several children in different households. Someone is bound to

1317
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 2: be neglected. It's all about ego with these types of men.

1318
01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:36,680
Speaker 2: As I always say, the kids will be telling the

1319
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 2: real story. Yeah, And if the kids are gonna be

1320
01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:41,320
Speaker 2: adults one day, yeah. And if you were there, they

1321
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:43,200
Speaker 2: gonna say it. And if you wouldn't, they gonna say

1322
01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:45,320
Speaker 2: it too. Yeah. The kids will get to tell their side.

1323
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:47,679
Speaker 2: People have been coming from Vivic a Fox all week

1324
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:49,840
Speaker 2: because of what she allegedly said. People were coming for

1325
01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 2: her career as if she wasn't an Independence day for

1326
01:10:52,520 --> 01:10:55,360
Speaker 2: kill Bill and Soulfud. She has iconic ross. People who

1327
01:10:55,400 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 2: are perpetually online just be making shit up right, and

1328
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:02,439
Speaker 2: could have read the article. It's in the article, she

1329
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 2: supports to Raggie.

1330
01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: They're gonna read.

1331
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:07,559
Speaker 2: She has had a different experience, but she's glad to

1332
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:10,640
Speaker 2: Rajji and other black actress are speaking up about theirs.

1333
01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 2: What the fuck? Why do we have to hate so much?

1334
01:11:15,640 --> 01:11:15,800
Speaker 1: Ugh?

1335
01:11:16,600 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 2: Don Lemon is coming out with a show on Twitter.

1336
01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:21,160
Speaker 2: We will never hear from him again. Does it take

1337
01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 2: a cost o have a show on Twitter? Yep? And

1338
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:25,559
Speaker 2: I've never seen it or heard anybody talk about it.

1339
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 2: Remember when he used to go viral every week because

1340
01:11:28,120 --> 01:11:31,120
Speaker 2: of dumb as shit? You say anyone heard from him lately?

1341
01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:35,879
Speaker 2: I haven't exactly. For whatever people want to say, legacy

1342
01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:38,840
Speaker 2: media television still has. It's still the big joker, it's

1343
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:42,479
Speaker 2: still the big dog, and it's the reason that Bill

1344
01:11:42,560 --> 01:11:44,960
Speaker 2: Maher when he's doing the season, goes viral every Saturday

1345
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 2: morning with just a very archaic old man take. But

1346
01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 2: it works. We're talking about it on social media because

1347
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:55,839
Speaker 2: it was on TV. If it would have just happened

1348
01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:58,760
Speaker 2: on social media, if Bill Maher had a show on X,

1349
01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:01,200
Speaker 2: no one would give a fuck up. You know who's

1350
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 2: trolling on X. Everybody's trolling on X. So if Don

1351
01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:09,360
Speaker 2: Lemon wants to put this show on X or whatever,

1352
01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:12,120
Speaker 2: And I'm only saying X because I feel like Don

1353
01:12:12,200 --> 01:12:14,960
Speaker 2: Lemon signed up for X he did, he didn't sign

1354
01:12:15,080 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 2: up for Twitter. You got in late my man, Okay anyway,

1355
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:25,559
Speaker 2: and I and also like I saw like his because

1356
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:27,280
Speaker 2: they all have to make the same statement when they

1357
01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 2: sign these things to be like press release and it's

1358
01:12:29,439 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 2: already that I can finally have freedom of speech. Man,

1359
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 2: Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up. It wasn't

1360
01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:40,240
Speaker 2: about freedom of speech. That's not the problem. And you

1361
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:43,759
Speaker 2: don't have that on X In Twitter anyway, they're gonna

1362
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:48,639
Speaker 2: fucking delete accounts, they're gonna they they're always moderating some shit.

1363
01:12:48,720 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 2: Shut shut up. And I'm not rooting against them, but

1364
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:55,040
Speaker 2: it's just I hate when they put that out because

1365
01:12:55,040 --> 01:12:58,320
Speaker 2: it validates Elon Musk and that platform as this thing

1366
01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:02,639
Speaker 2: that it's not. Oh, let's see any comments on YouTube

1367
01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:05,679
Speaker 2: on this episode for not really Big on Fatherhood twenty

1368
01:13:05,680 --> 01:13:08,680
Speaker 2: eight thirty seven no comments on YouTube. Let's go to

1369
01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 2: the polls. Did you do you put the wrong stuff

1370
01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:18,439
Speaker 2: in your garbage disposal? Yes? Twenty six percent yes, seventy no,

1371
01:13:18,560 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 2: seventy four percent no, forty one percent yes on Spotify

1372
01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:24,639
Speaker 2: fifty eight percent no yes.

1373
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:27,960
Speaker 1: Because here in America, it's the garbage disposed to it's like, bitch,

1374
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:30,400
Speaker 1: you up shit, like that's your whole last job, Like

1375
01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 1: they don't teach you that, you know the sugar water.

1376
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 2: Turns to start that like the funk, I'm not supposed

1377
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:40,839
Speaker 2: to know that. Like I say, yes as well, although

1378
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:43,160
Speaker 2: i did find that thing informative, and I've been watching

1379
01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:45,479
Speaker 2: what I put down there lately, and since I'm the

1380
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:48,759
Speaker 2: one that does the majority of that stuff, hopefully that's

1381
01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 2: a good thing in our house. Doctor Uzzo says that

1382
01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 2: poll so I'm sorry I got this rich ass lifestyle.

1383
01:13:56,160 --> 01:13:58,759
Speaker 2: Chak of Coan was a Q and a doctor Uzzolity

1384
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 2: two says that post for not Anymore had to learn

1385
01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:05,719
Speaker 2: about the eggshell thing the hard way. Brooklyn shoe Bab says,

1386
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:07,920
Speaker 2: I live in nyc our apartments rarely will never have

1387
01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:12,559
Speaker 2: garbage disposals. I don't have this rich ass lifestyle. Michelle

1388
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:13,759
Speaker 2: says Love A lot.

1389
01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 1: Of them shits has made back back in the nineteenth century.

1390
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 1: So yes, Lottie, that's why they don't have.

1391
01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 2: I also don't have central ac Michelle says Love a

1392
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 2: true diva like Shaka Khan. Also a plumber friend told

1393
01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:28,200
Speaker 2: me to not use the disposal at all because of

1394
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 2: most pipes are old. Yeah, well then stop putting it

1395
01:14:32,000 --> 01:14:36,599
Speaker 2: in the fucking thing then that Canderkole says, I aim

1396
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 2: to have the same unbothered, rich auntie energy as Queen

1397
01:14:39,400 --> 01:14:45,160
Speaker 2: Shaka Ashah says. Uh. Do they even make divas like

1398
01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:49,519
Speaker 2: Shaka Rethamurriah anymore? We need more of this? Can they

1399
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:55,400
Speaker 2: make them? Because motherfuckers seem to hate people that do

1400
01:14:56,360 --> 01:15:00,160
Speaker 2: fuck shit now and if they don't hate them, then

1401
01:15:00,160 --> 01:15:02,599
Speaker 2: they have to do this weird stand thing where they

1402
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 2: defend the like, oh she married a rapist, yay, like

1403
01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:10,679
Speaker 2: there's no end between. I think at that time, because

1404
01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:13,519
Speaker 2: one these people didn't have social media, a lot of

1405
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:16,880
Speaker 2: this stuff was whisper campaigns and rumors and somebody some

1406
01:15:17,040 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 2: other celebrity telling you a story about them or they

1407
01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:23,080
Speaker 2: do an interview, and they have a lot of personality.

1408
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,799
Speaker 2: I think now they're going directly to us through Instagram

1409
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 2: and stuff. So I think these divas do exist. But

1410
01:15:28,640 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 2: what what's changed is the mystique around them. There's no

1411
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:37,680
Speaker 2: more mistique. The ones that I considered divas now are

1412
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:40,200
Speaker 2: the ones that still treat us like it's nineteen seventy

1413
01:15:40,200 --> 01:15:42,120
Speaker 2: five and don't tell ushit unless it's trying to sell

1414
01:15:42,120 --> 01:15:48,400
Speaker 2: something Rihanna, Right, So they still exist, but there was

1415
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 2: never like it wasn't like there was always fifty divas

1416
01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:55,439
Speaker 2: like it's always gonna be a few. Lastly, Carrie said

1417
01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 2: Shaka ben Bay and I'm a firm support of her

1418
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:02,040
Speaker 2: slowing down. All right, that is uh it for the

1419
01:16:02,920 --> 01:16:05,040
Speaker 2: Uh wait, let me make sure I think I saw

1420
01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 2: one more comment that need to be published or something.

1421
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,040
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there was one more. Okay, why isn't it

1422
01:16:11,080 --> 01:16:18,040
Speaker 2: showing up shop they get deleted and removed? I don't know. Huh,

1423
01:16:18,680 --> 01:16:21,200
Speaker 2: all right, well, oh it says flagged. What does that mean?

1424
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:26,120
Speaker 2: Oh we said young boy or key Taylor says, young

1425
01:16:26,160 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 2: boy said fuck them kids. He just hear the spray

1426
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,200
Speaker 2: man milk all over them vaginal walls. I can see

1427
01:16:31,200 --> 01:16:32,080
Speaker 2: what that got flagged.

1428
01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:38,439
Speaker 1: I can see they was like, uh nope. They was like,

1429
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:40,559
Speaker 1: you you posted that that said noted, but we.

1430
01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:43,080
Speaker 2: Won't be posting this, especially when you say young boy,

1431
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:45,960
Speaker 2: not like they don't know that that's NBA young boy.

1432
01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:49,240
Speaker 1: Okay, right, could they be like, yeah, you talk, you

1433
01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:50,360
Speaker 1: might be talking about the kids.

1434
01:16:50,360 --> 01:16:54,080
Speaker 2: We can't be posting that yet. Makes sense to me,

1435
01:16:54,880 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 2: all right, let's get to uh, let's get to the

1436
01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 2: voice else. All right, let's get to the voicemail. Y'all

1437
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 2: know the phone number. Let's do it.

1438
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:34,040
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, it's Keianah. So I'm getting caught up with

1439
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:36,559
Speaker 3: episodes and I'm currently listening to the one with JL

1440
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 3: Covan and y'all were doing Guest the Race, and he

1441
01:17:39,200 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 3: were talking about the officer who got in TROUBLEO for

1442
01:17:44,439 --> 01:17:47,320
Speaker 3: essentially making porn while he was in uniform, and it

1443
01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:50,360
Speaker 3: reminded me of something. So I worked in local government

1444
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:53,800
Speaker 3: for like almost twelve thirteen years at this point, and

1445
01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:56,240
Speaker 3: one of my jobs I worked as a police clerk

1446
01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 3: in a police department. It was like my very first

1447
01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 3: police job, and we had a chief of police who was, honestly,

1448
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:05,599
Speaker 3: he never should have had his job. He was very,

1449
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:07,960
Speaker 3: very underqualified. But the mari at the time like until

1450
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:10,760
Speaker 3: you got the job. We got a new mayor, she

1451
01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:13,559
Speaker 3: wasn't go off of his ship, and so he got fired.

1452
01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 3: Once he got fired, all of his stuff got turned

1453
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:20,479
Speaker 3: into me because I kept inventory of all the equipment

1454
01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:25,000
Speaker 3: that was issued, and I got his work toughtbook, which

1455
01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:27,560
Speaker 3: is the laptop that they used. So I'm going to

1456
01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:29,880
Speaker 3: so I can reset it, wipe the queen. This is

1457
01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:33,960
Speaker 3: when Skype was popping and his Skype automatically opened up

1458
01:18:34,840 --> 01:18:39,360
Speaker 3: when I turned on a computer, and his profile picture

1459
01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:45,479
Speaker 3: was a very shiny, greased up penis. Now hopefully it

1460
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:48,760
Speaker 3: was his, but it was a greased up penis on

1461
01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:52,160
Speaker 3: a government computer. And I just threwper, being shocked and

1462
01:18:52,200 --> 01:18:56,280
Speaker 3: mortified and having like secondhand embarrassment for him. He didn't

1463
01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 3: take getting fired well, and he called me soon after that.

1464
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:02,719
Speaker 3: It was like, yeah, watch your back because they're probably

1465
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:04,720
Speaker 3: gonna try to fire you next because I'm not there

1466
01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:07,760
Speaker 3: to protect you. And I'm like, nah, my, boy, you

1467
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:10,559
Speaker 3: was wild and out having dick pics as your profile

1468
01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 3: pictures on your fucking work computer, like they know all.

1469
01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:15,280
Speaker 4: The things to do.

1470
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:18,280
Speaker 3: I don't know why you chose to do that, but anyway,

1471
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:19,880
Speaker 3: you telling that story just made me think of it.

1472
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:22,599
Speaker 3: So I hope y'all are staying warm and safe. Happy

1473
01:19:22,680 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 3: New Year, leve y'alli.

1474
01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:29,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, thatast hilarious.

1475
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:31,760
Speaker 1: Oh my, he was like that got me that gain

1476
01:19:31,840 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 1: you too, no doubt, Nah, I don't got shiny dick

1477
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 1: picks on my Skype blog in.

1478
01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't put me in there with you, homie, like

1479
01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:42,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna gotta.

1480
01:19:42,200 --> 01:19:44,400
Speaker 1: Pick that shit up, and went straight to it and

1481
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 1: be like, hey, y'all like I'm noting.

1482
01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:48,320
Speaker 2: Y'all know I didn't do shit to this. Y'all clean it,

1483
01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:50,040
Speaker 2: Do what y'all need to do. Take out, take it

1484
01:19:50,040 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 2: off of that, and I'll take it from there. Yeah,

1485
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:54,080
Speaker 2: don't ever put me in your shit. I hate when

1486
01:19:54,120 --> 01:19:57,040
Speaker 2: motherfuckers are fucking up and try to add me. Like, man,

1487
01:19:57,080 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 2: it's hard for both of us out here. No, I'm

1488
01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:02,760
Speaker 2: not putting Born on my work computer. Right. My my

1489
01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:05,439
Speaker 2: avatar is not a dick pic sir, So I'm gonna

1490
01:20:05,439 --> 01:20:10,000
Speaker 2: need you to keep that to yourself. I don't have

1491
01:20:10,120 --> 01:20:13,000
Speaker 2: mister glossy and bowels out here. As you put your

1492
01:20:13,040 --> 01:20:15,880
Speaker 2: dick away and stop acting like we the same. We're eight,

1493
01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:19,559
Speaker 2: all right, Let's go to the next voicemail. Oh my god,

1494
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:22,960
Speaker 2: uh it is from NICKI mm.

1495
01:20:22,840 --> 01:20:29,120
Speaker 6: Hm hmmm, Hey Rod, Hey Karen. Hopefully this sounds good

1496
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:32,800
Speaker 6: because I'm driving, but I was listening to the episode

1497
01:20:32,920 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 6: about the Job and Majors and his credit side. King

1498
01:20:38,560 --> 01:20:41,559
Speaker 6: has a black female who is dated well, I mean,

1499
01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 6: I mean my husband for about eight years total. Let's

1500
01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:47,720
Speaker 6: not who's dated in the last decade. I have been

1501
01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 6: on dates with said black dudes like that, and you

1502
01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 6: know this is just a generalization, but they tend to

1503
01:20:56,520 --> 01:20:58,960
Speaker 6: be a little bit weird, like and I agree with

1504
01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:02,000
Speaker 6: you and Karen of they're not looking for a woman.

1505
01:21:01,800 --> 01:21:05,680
Speaker 5: Who's like, you know, an activist, you know all of that.

1506
01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:08,160
Speaker 5: They're looking for a woman to put up with their ship.

1507
01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:12,559
Speaker 5: So the one of the I'm I'm not sure. I'm

1508
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 5: Nicole from Three Guys on I'm there every Saturday, and

1509
01:21:16,840 --> 01:21:19,560
Speaker 5: there was one episode they were they were messing with

1510
01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:20,920
Speaker 5: me about my white husband.

1511
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 4: I dated a black guy.

1512
01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:25,000
Speaker 6: Well, we were on one day we did not date,

1513
01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:27,639
Speaker 6: and he mentioned that in the date. That's absolutely red

1514
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 6: flag was like, this is gonna work. When I ended

1515
01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 6: up meeting my husband and I posted a picture of him,

1516
01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 6: he was like, oh.

1517
01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:36,320
Speaker 7: So you with a white man.

1518
01:21:36,400 --> 01:21:39,760
Speaker 6: I said, yeah, you're looking for Kreta Scott King. I

1519
01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:41,200
Speaker 6: was looking for David Bowie.

1520
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:43,439
Speaker 7: Obviously different mine.

1521
01:21:43,960 --> 01:21:47,200
Speaker 6: But it's just it's just comical and I find it

1522
01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:50,120
Speaker 6: as a I shook it as like, what are the insult?

1523
01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:51,280
Speaker 3: But that's all I got to say.

1524
01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:56,759
Speaker 6: There's there's that's a correlation with crazy and wanting. Uh

1525
01:21:56,840 --> 01:22:00,479
Speaker 6: a Chris Scott King aka submissive black woman who will

1526
01:22:00,520 --> 01:22:02,559
Speaker 6: let you do the fuck you want and won't say nothing.

1527
01:22:02,720 --> 01:22:03,960
Speaker 4: But that's all.

1528
01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:05,439
Speaker 3: You guys have a great saturday.

1529
01:22:05,640 --> 01:22:05,800
Speaker 4: Uh.

1530
01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:08,839
Speaker 6: If you guys want to three g O this Saturday,

1531
01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:10,440
Speaker 6: I will see you guys.

1532
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:15,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that and that is Yeah, it's such a

1533
01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 2: red flag for me too. Why do you even want that?

1534
01:22:19,200 --> 01:22:21,320
Speaker 2: Just using that language, I'd be like, what the fuck?

1535
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:26,800
Speaker 2: We got what? And it's never like a it's never

1536
01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:36,120
Speaker 2: like a equality thing. Like like Ida be Wells had

1537
01:22:36,120 --> 01:22:38,360
Speaker 2: a husband. I know his last name was Barnett, but

1538
01:22:38,439 --> 01:22:40,120
Speaker 2: let me just make sure I don't want to fuck

1539
01:22:40,160 --> 01:22:43,519
Speaker 2: up his uh his first name, because I know what

1540
01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:47,800
Speaker 2: I want to say. Oh, Ferdinand Lee. Ferdinand Lee Barnett.

1541
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:51,000
Speaker 2: And if you read I had a sort among lions,

1542
01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:54,679
Speaker 2: that was a man who also was an activist, also

1543
01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:57,920
Speaker 2: was very civic minded and all that stuff. But that's

1544
01:22:57,960 --> 01:23:00,000
Speaker 2: a man who was so far ahead of his time

1545
01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 2: when it came to respecting what his wife did, understanding

1546
01:23:04,920 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 2: it was a mission for her, it was a goal

1547
01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:10,160
Speaker 2: for her. And even back during that time of the

1548
01:23:10,200 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 2: turn of the century, it was not a okay so

1549
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:16,639
Speaker 2: it's time for you to have these babies and fucking

1550
01:23:16,720 --> 01:23:19,200
Speaker 2: be a wife and do all this shit like she

1551
01:23:19,640 --> 01:23:23,519
Speaker 2: like he was like, no, I understand, and we're equals

1552
01:23:23,520 --> 01:23:25,479
Speaker 2: in this. And it doesn't mean they didn't have any

1553
01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:30,000
Speaker 2: disagreements or or what. They eventually did have kids and stuff,

1554
01:23:30,040 --> 01:23:33,679
Speaker 2: but it wasn't like, that's your goal is to stay

1555
01:23:33,680 --> 01:23:36,760
Speaker 2: home and take pictures and make people think I'm a

1556
01:23:36,760 --> 01:23:39,000
Speaker 2: great guy. And I think that's what Jonathan Major just

1557
01:23:39,040 --> 01:23:41,800
Speaker 2: keeps hitting that, and honestly, dog, I feel that way

1558
01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:44,719
Speaker 2: about a lot of niggas that talk that like king

1559
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:48,160
Speaker 2: and queen shit. They they only use the term queen

1560
01:23:48,200 --> 01:23:50,960
Speaker 2: because they feel like the queen is subservient to the king.

1561
01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:55,719
Speaker 2: It's not a matriarchal queen. It's not a queen because

1562
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:59,120
Speaker 2: we're equals. It's I rule and you submit. All them

1563
01:23:59,160 --> 01:24:03,400
Speaker 2: niggas say stuff like submit and that kind of support.

1564
01:24:04,120 --> 01:24:07,599
Speaker 2: It's weird, and a lot of them have hyper They

1565
01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:13,960
Speaker 2: have fictionalized who they are. In the state of America

1566
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:17,519
Speaker 2: and in the state of Black life, we of all

1567
01:24:17,640 --> 01:24:24,120
Speaker 2: races cannot truly afford patriarchy. It is hazarded to us.

1568
01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:28,000
Speaker 2: We should reframe the way we teach our children, in

1569
01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:31,559
Speaker 2: my opinion, the way we teach our boys and be

1570
01:24:31,680 --> 01:24:35,360
Speaker 2: more about partnership and equal support, because that is the

1571
01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:40,400
Speaker 2: real reality of America. And I understand that assuaging and

1572
01:24:40,439 --> 01:24:46,120
Speaker 2: capitulating to a man's ego is part of the patriarchal

1573
01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:49,599
Speaker 2: design of this country and men's feelings and emotions. They

1574
01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,000
Speaker 2: have to feel like a man, no matter how the

1575
01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:54,439
Speaker 2: fuck life is treating them. They need to come home.

1576
01:24:54,640 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 2: And you, as a woman, need to make them feel

1577
01:24:56,640 --> 01:25:00,880
Speaker 2: like a man, which means shrinking yourself or their ego.

1578
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:04,280
Speaker 2: So it doesn't matter what they do for a living,

1579
01:25:04,360 --> 01:25:07,720
Speaker 2: who's making the most money, you had to somehow make

1580
01:25:07,800 --> 01:25:12,639
Speaker 2: them feel like they're essentially like these old school leave

1581
01:25:12,680 --> 01:25:15,120
Speaker 2: it to beaver ass white men, and I just think

1582
01:25:15,160 --> 01:25:19,240
Speaker 2: we should erase that entire paradigm. We've never had it

1583
01:25:20,240 --> 01:25:23,120
Speaker 2: in America. Black people have never been afforded that. In

1584
01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 2: mass they have made sure the men stayed underpaid, underemployed,

1585
01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:35,920
Speaker 2: and overincarcerated, and they made sure that the women always

1586
01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:40,960
Speaker 2: stayed overworked. Our black women have always had to either

1587
01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:44,160
Speaker 2: work for themselves out in the fields. When they did

1588
01:25:44,200 --> 01:25:47,760
Speaker 2: have marriages and they did have families, they still were

1589
01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 2: doing labor in their family. When they weren't doing that,

1590
01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:53,320
Speaker 2: they were doing labor for white people, because white people

1591
01:25:53,400 --> 01:25:57,120
Speaker 2: were never really about doing their own work when black

1592
01:25:57,160 --> 01:25:59,800
Speaker 2: when they could afford or force black people to do

1593
01:25:59,800 --> 01:26:04,640
Speaker 2: the work for them. So we've never had that idealistic

1594
01:26:05,200 --> 01:26:08,800
Speaker 2: version of America where the father comes home, the wife

1595
01:26:08,840 --> 01:26:12,120
Speaker 2: has already made a drink for him, and she's uh,

1596
01:26:12,439 --> 01:26:15,360
Speaker 2: and she's greasome at the at the door with his

1597
01:26:15,479 --> 01:26:18,200
Speaker 2: drink and takes his slippers off. We ain't have that.

1598
01:26:19,439 --> 01:26:22,519
Speaker 2: So if we would stop romanticizing that and motherfuckers that

1599
01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:25,760
Speaker 2: make like forty thousand dollars a year stop acting like

1600
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:28,439
Speaker 2: data prize or whatever, I think we could get by

1601
01:26:28,520 --> 01:26:33,280
Speaker 2: that past that. But yeah, I'm sure anecdotally and a

1602
01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:35,719
Speaker 2: micro level, dealing with that shit in the Dayton game

1603
01:26:36,200 --> 01:26:38,120
Speaker 2: has to be held of frustrating because a lot of

1604
01:26:38,280 --> 01:26:40,040
Speaker 2: black men still buy into that shit.

1605
01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:42,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, and a lot of that even for them, it

1606
01:26:42,320 --> 01:26:45,080
Speaker 1: was a goddamn illusion, like like we love people have

1607
01:26:45,200 --> 01:26:48,120
Speaker 1: to realize that whole the man works and comes home

1608
01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:50,559
Speaker 1: and and there's nothing wrong with it if you if

1609
01:26:50,600 --> 01:26:53,080
Speaker 1: your household of structure like that. But that shit was

1610
01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:56,200
Speaker 1: an illusion because when they do that, they also don't

1611
01:26:56,240 --> 01:26:58,599
Speaker 1: talk about a lot of the abuse that may have happened,

1612
01:26:58,640 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 1: a lot of the Guess guess what that doing that

1613
01:27:01,479 --> 01:27:04,200
Speaker 1: period of time. Guess what women could have homes, mugg

1614
01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:08,720
Speaker 1: a bank account, drive boats, like talking about.

1615
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:18,519
Speaker 2: Your own property. Yeah, I agree completely. Next word is mel.

1616
01:27:15,760 --> 01:27:20,200
Speaker 4: Hi you too, It's alegra I am catching up on

1617
01:27:20,280 --> 01:27:24,920
Speaker 4: the shows and I just was listening to twenty eight

1618
01:27:25,120 --> 01:27:29,920
Speaker 4: thirty the Social Justice Death Penalty episode with jail on On.

1619
01:27:30,120 --> 01:27:32,759
Speaker 4: I love when he's on, by the way, it's always

1620
01:27:32,800 --> 01:27:37,320
Speaker 4: a good time. I love the political talk. But I

1621
01:27:37,360 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 4: just wanted to add like two cents onto your rant.

1622
01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:46,080
Speaker 4: You're justified rant, Rod, and that is we also live

1623
01:27:46,080 --> 01:27:52,000
Speaker 4: in a culture that doesn't doesn't promote change, nor does

1624
01:27:52,040 --> 01:27:56,639
Speaker 4: it promote being acknowledging when you're wrong. So if you see,

1625
01:27:57,160 --> 01:28:03,160
Speaker 4: if you have a visceral reaction to something and or

1626
01:28:03,240 --> 01:28:07,720
Speaker 4: an action or something that has happened, and then that

1627
01:28:07,840 --> 01:28:14,160
Speaker 4: thing has changed, meaning what you your example of you

1628
01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:19,720
Speaker 4: know Rice and his you know Penance and you know

1629
01:28:19,880 --> 01:28:26,240
Speaker 4: kind of becoming better and making himself better, and you

1630
01:28:26,280 --> 01:28:28,080
Speaker 4: know the things that he the steps he did to

1631
01:28:28,120 --> 01:28:34,280
Speaker 4: make change, then it goes against the idea of us

1632
01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:37,519
Speaker 4: being angry. It goes against us. You know, we want

1633
01:28:37,560 --> 01:28:40,720
Speaker 4: to stay angry as a society and we want to

1634
01:28:40,760 --> 01:28:43,920
Speaker 4: be justified in our anger, and we never want.

1635
01:28:43,720 --> 01:28:45,120
Speaker 6: To admit when we're wrong.

1636
01:28:45,760 --> 01:28:49,720
Speaker 4: It's the culture, it's the DNA of our society. We

1637
01:28:49,760 --> 01:28:54,439
Speaker 4: can't we still can't fucking fully admit slavery happened. So

1638
01:28:54,760 --> 01:28:59,120
Speaker 4: why would we then drill down to a micro example

1639
01:28:59,320 --> 01:29:04,439
Speaker 4: of you know, domestic abuse and the potential for change there.

1640
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:07,479
Speaker 4: And it's funny because we're always talking about how we

1641
01:29:07,560 --> 01:29:12,519
Speaker 4: want masculinity to be reformed and how masculinity is being

1642
01:29:12,640 --> 01:29:17,720
Speaker 4: challenged and we want men. I mean, y'all know what

1643
01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:23,800
Speaker 4: it is. This is a leger again. Anyway, I'm just

1644
01:29:23,960 --> 01:29:29,840
Speaker 4: ranting about masculinity only because I think that the other thing,

1645
01:29:30,000 --> 01:29:33,479
Speaker 4: the other side of it, is that like we're looking

1646
01:29:33,560 --> 01:29:39,800
Speaker 4: to have a new definition for masfemininity, masculinity, non binary,

1647
01:29:39,920 --> 01:29:42,800
Speaker 4: all these things, but we don't want to accept the

1648
01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:45,479
Speaker 4: work that needs to be done to make that change happen.

1649
01:29:46,200 --> 01:29:52,000
Speaker 4: And that's very frustrating to me as a person who

1650
01:29:52,040 --> 01:29:54,960
Speaker 4: is going to school to become a therapist. It's very

1651
01:29:55,000 --> 01:29:58,960
Speaker 4: frustrating to me as a woman who is very into

1652
01:29:59,200 --> 01:30:08,600
Speaker 4: equality and wanting to help people be their true better selves.

1653
01:30:09,200 --> 01:30:12,719
Speaker 4: So it's very frustrating to look at some at how

1654
01:30:12,880 --> 01:30:16,759
Speaker 4: our society is raised for lack of a better.

1655
01:30:16,600 --> 01:30:17,640
Speaker 1: Term, and.

1656
01:30:19,320 --> 01:30:23,080
Speaker 4: The hypocrisy, and listen, I am a hypocrite too. I

1657
01:30:23,120 --> 01:30:26,640
Speaker 4: am not better than anybody else. But it's interesting to

1658
01:30:27,360 --> 01:30:32,679
Speaker 4: see the hypocrisy and know that people are not willing

1659
01:30:32,760 --> 01:30:36,320
Speaker 4: to be self aware enough and to do the work

1660
01:30:36,479 --> 01:30:40,800
Speaker 4: enough and be honest enough to say that they're wrong.

1661
01:30:41,439 --> 01:30:45,080
Speaker 4: And what's so terrible about being wrong? I'm always fascinated

1662
01:30:45,200 --> 01:30:47,719
Speaker 4: with that too. What is so terrible about being wrong?

1663
01:30:48,280 --> 01:30:51,120
Speaker 4: I mean, yes, it's lovely to be right, but who

1664
01:30:51,160 --> 01:30:54,400
Speaker 4: the fuck cares if you're wrong? If you have been

1665
01:30:54,479 --> 01:31:00,200
Speaker 4: proven wrong about something that is as intense as the

1666
01:31:00,280 --> 01:31:04,000
Speaker 4: ability for a person to change from a bad person

1667
01:31:04,040 --> 01:31:06,479
Speaker 4: to a good person, wouldn't you want to be wrong

1668
01:31:06,520 --> 01:31:11,160
Speaker 4: about that? I don't know anyway, I appreciate your rant

1669
01:31:11,280 --> 01:31:12,920
Speaker 4: and I one hundred percent agree with it.

1670
01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:17,680
Speaker 2: Unlike the she got cut off again, she didn't call back,

1671
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:21,280
Speaker 2: but we got you, says and thank you? Uh very yeah,

1672
01:31:21,360 --> 01:31:23,760
Speaker 2: various stude stuff. I grew with everything's at Oh yeah.

1673
01:31:23,800 --> 01:31:29,439
Speaker 1: And also I think for me as somebody in sniff

1674
01:31:29,479 --> 01:31:33,880
Speaker 1: of my childhood as somebody who over apologizes, you know,

1675
01:31:34,200 --> 01:31:38,639
Speaker 1: just part of my personality, as somebody who apologizes even

1676
01:31:38,760 --> 01:31:42,760
Speaker 1: when sometimes I don't feel like even I can feel

1677
01:31:42,800 --> 01:31:46,080
Speaker 1: like I'm right and still apologized just because I want

1678
01:31:46,120 --> 01:31:48,160
Speaker 1: to keep peace. Who gets the fuck about it? I

1679
01:31:48,160 --> 01:31:49,920
Speaker 1: want to keep like this is just me functioning. I

1680
01:31:49,920 --> 01:31:52,960
Speaker 1: want to keep peace, and the more people solution to

1681
01:31:52,960 --> 01:31:55,800
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I'm sorry you interpreted it

1682
01:31:55,880 --> 01:31:59,040
Speaker 1: this way, even though those were not my intentions. Because

1683
01:31:59,040 --> 01:32:01,799
Speaker 1: when you say things, people have the right to perceive

1684
01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:08,080
Speaker 1: them and respond to them and make the situation there

1685
01:32:09,240 --> 01:32:12,040
Speaker 1: the reality. The reality for them might be them for

1686
01:32:12,040 --> 01:32:16,320
Speaker 1: the reality for you, even though you're justified. So I

1687
01:32:16,360 --> 01:32:18,720
Speaker 1: am like, I'm my bad, I apologize and move on.

1688
01:32:19,120 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 1: And the thing is uh. And like I say, as

1689
01:32:22,280 --> 01:32:24,719
Speaker 1: somebody who has dealt with a lot of different things

1690
01:32:24,760 --> 01:32:28,280
Speaker 1: and fault forgiveness and unforgiveness and all this stuff through

1691
01:32:28,400 --> 01:32:34,960
Speaker 1: through my life, it's funny how everybody acts like forgiveness

1692
01:32:35,280 --> 01:32:39,360
Speaker 1: is a weakness. But if forgiveness was a weakness, everybody

1693
01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:42,800
Speaker 1: will you know, if everybody asks like forgiveness is a weakness,

1694
01:32:43,200 --> 01:32:46,879
Speaker 1: but everybody's not doing it. So forgiveness is actually your strength,

1695
01:32:47,720 --> 01:32:49,639
Speaker 1: but people don't look at it there as a strength

1696
01:32:50,040 --> 01:32:52,200
Speaker 1: because they feel like, if I do.

1697
01:32:52,080 --> 01:32:57,360
Speaker 2: This, I am allowing me me myself.

1698
01:32:58,080 --> 01:33:01,000
Speaker 1: If I do this, what am I gonna do with

1699
01:33:01,040 --> 01:33:03,880
Speaker 1: these feelings and these emotions that I have? And they

1700
01:33:03,880 --> 01:33:05,600
Speaker 1: don't know where to direct them, and they don't know

1701
01:33:05,640 --> 01:33:09,160
Speaker 1: what to do with them, And so they find this

1702
01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:11,800
Speaker 1: thing and that's where all their anger and sadness and

1703
01:33:11,840 --> 01:33:14,840
Speaker 1: pain and all this stuff is wrapped up into their unforgiveness.

1704
01:33:14,960 --> 01:33:17,600
Speaker 1: Vers it's actually boring down to the root cause of

1705
01:33:17,640 --> 01:33:20,320
Speaker 1: the problem and why you feel this way. And the

1706
01:33:20,400 --> 01:33:23,240
Speaker 1: thing is a lot of times people think forgiveness is forgetting,

1707
01:33:23,320 --> 01:33:26,840
Speaker 1: and those things are not true. I can forgive you

1708
01:33:26,960 --> 01:33:29,960
Speaker 1: about something and not forget about that thing and still

1709
01:33:30,000 --> 01:33:32,639
Speaker 1: hold you accountable for those things and still not fuck

1710
01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:35,080
Speaker 1: with you at the same time, Like all these things

1711
01:33:35,120 --> 01:33:39,000
Speaker 1: can be true. But a lot of people think forgiveness

1712
01:33:39,080 --> 01:33:41,759
Speaker 1: is we just wash the ball, wash the slake, everything's

1713
01:33:41,840 --> 01:33:45,720
Speaker 1: clean clear. No, it's not true. It's a process. And

1714
01:33:46,000 --> 01:33:47,960
Speaker 1: the thing is, no, most people don't want to go

1715
01:33:47,960 --> 01:33:50,439
Speaker 1: through that process because it will require them digging within

1716
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:53,439
Speaker 1: themselves finding out what caused this some of this shit

1717
01:33:53,560 --> 01:33:55,920
Speaker 1: might be caused, Like you read the articles about the yelling.

1718
01:33:56,600 --> 01:33:58,760
Speaker 1: Some of this might be caused from somebody yelling at you.

1719
01:33:58,840 --> 01:34:00,880
Speaker 1: Somebody might be cause from you and your feelings hurt

1720
01:34:00,880 --> 01:34:03,840
Speaker 1: from a parent or a significant other. And like I say,

1721
01:34:03,960 --> 01:34:05,439
Speaker 1: that's the work, and those are the things that the

1722
01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:08,000
Speaker 1: leceral's talking about that nobody really wants to do. So

1723
01:34:08,360 --> 01:34:12,160
Speaker 1: instead of you know, admitting that if you want to forgive,

1724
01:34:12,400 --> 01:34:15,600
Speaker 1: that's okay. I'm not forgiving and that's my choice, they'll go, no,

1725
01:34:16,000 --> 01:34:19,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna forgive, so you shouldn't forgive either, And

1726
01:34:19,040 --> 01:34:21,280
Speaker 1: it was like, hey, doll, everybody don't want to sit

1727
01:34:21,320 --> 01:34:24,000
Speaker 1: in un forgiveness and there's nothing wrong with that. Some

1728
01:34:24,040 --> 01:34:26,840
Speaker 1: people want to forgive for their own personal things so

1729
01:34:26,880 --> 01:34:28,720
Speaker 1: they can fucking move on with their life and not

1730
01:34:28,760 --> 01:34:29,360
Speaker 1: be stuck.

1731
01:34:30,680 --> 01:34:39,080
Speaker 7: All right, last versemail, Yes, Rod, Karen Justin. This is

1732
01:34:39,120 --> 01:34:44,479
Speaker 7: doctor Brooks Robinson of Black Economics dot Orgie. I'm calling

1733
01:34:44,520 --> 01:34:48,759
Speaker 7: today about the long term strategic plans for Black America.

1734
01:34:48,840 --> 01:34:54,280
Speaker 7: We've been communicating with your podcast using the contact information there.

1735
01:34:55,080 --> 01:34:59,280
Speaker 7: Definitely have an interest in having a discussion about this

1736
01:34:59,439 --> 01:35:03,320
Speaker 7: long term strategic plans for lack America. Uh, that's part

1737
01:35:03,320 --> 01:35:08,000
Speaker 7: of your podcast. When you have space available, please give

1738
01:35:08,080 --> 01:35:10,080
Speaker 7: us a call that your earliest convenience. Once again, the

1739
01:35:10,200 --> 01:35:15,280
Speaker 7: name is doctor Brooks Robins Economics dot org and the

1740
01:35:15,320 --> 01:35:18,639
Speaker 7: telephone number is eight zero eight to zero two six

1741
01:35:18,760 --> 01:35:22,559
Speaker 7: eight eight nine. Once again, Doctor Brooks Robinson, Black Economics

1742
01:35:22,600 --> 01:35:27,519
Speaker 7: dot org eight zero eight to zero two six eight

1743
01:35:27,560 --> 01:35:28,080
Speaker 7: eight nine.

1744
01:35:28,200 --> 01:35:31,680
Speaker 2: Thanks but mine, Yeah, chat, that was always up a

1745
01:35:31,680 --> 01:35:32,360
Speaker 2: phone call.

1746
01:35:33,800 --> 01:35:34,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1747
01:35:34,479 --> 01:35:35,639
Speaker 2: I don't know if we'll.

1748
01:35:35,439 --> 01:35:38,200
Speaker 1: Be I don't think we'll be using your services.

1749
01:35:38,280 --> 01:35:40,120
Speaker 2: I don't know if we'll be doing that. But thank you.

1750
01:35:40,120 --> 01:35:41,840
Speaker 2: You know that's not really what we do on the show.

1751
01:35:43,479 --> 01:35:48,200
Speaker 2: And good luck with the long term plan for America. Yes,

1752
01:35:48,400 --> 01:35:55,720
Speaker 2: not not wishing anything bad, are you? Just yeah? Just now,

1753
01:35:55,800 --> 01:36:03,080
Speaker 2: y'all see the reinforcements we be getting, y'all. The Grandma,

1754
01:36:03,600 --> 01:36:15,439
Speaker 2: the grand the grandma, the grandma, the grand grand Uh

1755
01:36:15,920 --> 01:36:18,600
Speaker 2: imagine if we had to pull the de side the

1756
01:36:18,600 --> 01:36:21,320
Speaker 2: future of black America anyway? Uh, doing it for the

1757
01:36:21,400 --> 01:36:23,880
Speaker 2: gram I forgot I remember to do it this week.

1758
01:36:24,080 --> 01:36:24,320
Speaker 1: Yay.

1759
01:36:25,600 --> 01:36:30,040
Speaker 2: The the question was what's the biggest lie you've ever

1760
01:36:30,160 --> 01:36:34,840
Speaker 2: told to get out of going to work? What is

1761
01:36:34,880 --> 01:36:37,880
Speaker 2: the biggest lie? All right, let's see. Dj Jova says,

1762
01:36:38,000 --> 01:36:42,920
Speaker 2: use the classic. My grandma grandfather has died multiple times. Once.

1763
01:36:43,000 --> 01:36:45,000
Speaker 2: I used it three times in the same job and

1764
01:36:45,120 --> 01:36:48,400
Speaker 2: never got caught. I mean, you do have multiple grandparents,

1765
01:36:48,439 --> 01:36:52,680
Speaker 2: so you do definitely didn't have COVID that one time, says.

1766
01:36:53,840 --> 01:36:56,240
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh no.

1767
01:36:57,680 --> 01:37:01,120
Speaker 2: John says uh Danny's are says, I told them my

1768
01:37:01,240 --> 01:37:04,040
Speaker 2: dad died that in word was dead ten years at

1769
01:37:04,040 --> 01:37:07,320
Speaker 2: that point. All I mean, you can't come on twice.

1770
01:37:09,200 --> 01:37:10,639
Speaker 2: Maybe he would be happy he was able to help

1771
01:37:10,680 --> 01:37:13,400
Speaker 2: your life out in some way. My parents live in Buffalo,

1772
01:37:13,520 --> 01:37:16,000
Speaker 2: New York, and I used to take my vacation to

1773
01:37:16,120 --> 01:37:18,800
Speaker 2: visit them in the winter when I knew they were

1774
01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:21,400
Speaker 2: going to be buried in snow. Then when it was

1775
01:37:21,479 --> 01:37:24,280
Speaker 2: time to come back, I was stuck in Buffalo until

1776
01:37:24,320 --> 01:37:27,240
Speaker 2: the driving bands were lifted. I was lying about my

1777
01:37:27,280 --> 01:37:30,880
Speaker 2: ability to get back to California year after year. No,

1778
01:37:31,040 --> 01:37:33,200
Speaker 2: that's smart, no drama. CC says, I said I was

1779
01:37:33,240 --> 01:37:35,559
Speaker 2: exposed to someone with COVID, so I had to isolate

1780
01:37:35,560 --> 01:37:37,519
Speaker 2: at home, and that there was a power out and

1781
01:37:37,600 --> 01:37:43,120
Speaker 2: so I couldn't work from home. Tiffany says, I was

1782
01:37:43,160 --> 01:37:45,559
Speaker 2: going through depression and had to call it off work.

1783
01:37:45,880 --> 01:37:47,920
Speaker 2: I had plenty of PTOs, so it shouldn't have been

1784
01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:50,360
Speaker 2: an issue. My supervisor was so mad I kept calling

1785
01:37:50,400 --> 01:37:53,240
Speaker 2: off outside of business hours, then turning my phone off

1786
01:37:53,320 --> 01:37:55,360
Speaker 2: during the day. She requested to have a doctor's note.

1787
01:37:55,439 --> 01:37:58,439
Speaker 2: I actually ended up having a slight viral infection, but

1788
01:37:58,560 --> 01:38:00,479
Speaker 2: I was so pissed they made me get a doctor's

1789
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:02,400
Speaker 2: note that I asked the doctor to write a note

1790
01:38:02,680 --> 01:38:05,040
Speaker 2: that excuse me from work for the rest of the week.

1791
01:38:05,200 --> 01:38:08,160
Speaker 2: Fuck with me if you want to Pam, Come on

1792
01:38:08,400 --> 01:38:11,640
Speaker 2: there you go, Pam fucking around right like I'd have

1793
01:38:11,720 --> 01:38:13,880
Speaker 2: came back. But shit, write me out for the rest

1794
01:38:13,880 --> 01:38:19,000
Speaker 2: of the week. Terry says, edited my grandma's obituary. Oh no,

1795
01:38:19,479 --> 01:38:23,080
Speaker 2: let me guess you edited the date the date that

1796
01:38:23,280 --> 01:38:23,559
Speaker 2: the one?

1797
01:38:24,160 --> 01:38:31,560
Speaker 1: Uh ye, because some jobs you say somebody sick of something, they.

1798
01:38:29,840 --> 01:38:31,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. You edit the date to today.

1799
01:38:32,760 --> 01:38:36,439
Speaker 2: Uh My grandparents provided me with bereavement time long after

1800
01:38:36,520 --> 01:38:39,000
Speaker 2: they went on the glory. Shout out to the ancestors

1801
01:38:39,000 --> 01:38:43,200
Speaker 2: for holding me down, says Juicy Mama's daddy. Eve says,

1802
01:38:43,800 --> 01:38:46,840
Speaker 2: I've used the dead relative excuse, although technically it wasn't

1803
01:38:46,840 --> 01:38:48,960
Speaker 2: a lie. Because I only used family members who were

1804
01:38:49,000 --> 01:38:53,400
Speaker 2: already dead. Hudduki In says, in high school, I told

1805
01:38:53,439 --> 01:38:55,840
Speaker 2: my job I was on the football team, got every

1806
01:38:55,840 --> 01:38:58,560
Speaker 2: Friday off for three months. I'm a big dude, so

1807
01:38:58,640 --> 01:39:03,320
Speaker 2: they believed it. Thank god they didn't. Thank god they

1808
01:39:03,400 --> 01:39:05,200
Speaker 2: didn't support you and want to come to a game

1809
01:39:05,400 --> 01:39:08,680
Speaker 2: right at any form of verification? Hey, what was the

1810
01:39:08,760 --> 01:39:10,000
Speaker 2: status this weekend? Stats?

1811
01:39:10,120 --> 01:39:10,360
Speaker 1: And what?

1812
01:39:11,000 --> 01:39:15,719
Speaker 2: Oh over the football? Yeah? I had a seven little bench,

1813
01:39:15,960 --> 01:39:22,360
Speaker 2: several blocks. You play offensive defense? Offensive defense? Oh yeah, yeah, defense, defense, defense.

1814
01:39:22,600 --> 01:39:25,920
Speaker 2: Robert Robert says, I lied about getting a concussion in

1815
01:39:25,960 --> 01:39:28,679
Speaker 2: basket of basketball tournament. I did play in a turner,

1816
01:39:28,800 --> 01:39:31,360
Speaker 2: but I did expect to didn't expect to make it

1817
01:39:31,400 --> 01:39:33,960
Speaker 2: into the second day. I forgot I had to work.

1818
01:39:34,000 --> 01:39:35,639
Speaker 2: I had to come up with a terrible live about

1819
01:39:35,680 --> 01:39:38,960
Speaker 2: the concussion. I hated working there anyway, so I didn't

1820
01:39:38,960 --> 01:39:45,400
Speaker 2: really care that much. And Keith says, as anyone who's

1821
01:39:45,439 --> 01:39:47,760
Speaker 2: been in the military can tell you, you can't just call

1822
01:39:47,800 --> 01:39:49,639
Speaker 2: out sick when you don't feel like going to work.

1823
01:39:49,880 --> 01:39:52,160
Speaker 2: You have to actually be sick, because if you get

1824
01:39:52,200 --> 01:39:54,920
Speaker 2: caught faking illness, that violates Article eighty three of the

1825
01:39:55,000 --> 01:39:59,400
Speaker 2: UCMJ and then go to the sick call and be excused.

1826
01:39:59,400 --> 01:40:01,840
Speaker 2: So I drank up bunch of milk one morning and

1827
01:40:02,000 --> 01:40:04,439
Speaker 2: said I had diarrhea and was feeling fatigued. So I

1828
01:40:04,439 --> 01:40:07,040
Speaker 2: got two days off work. When I got out and

1829
01:40:07,080 --> 01:40:09,920
Speaker 2: got a civilian job, but still was working in the army.

1830
01:40:09,960 --> 01:40:11,800
Speaker 2: I was really caught off guard about how easy it

1831
01:40:11,840 --> 01:40:14,639
Speaker 2: was for civilians to call out sick from work. Yeah, well,

1832
01:40:14,640 --> 01:40:17,680
Speaker 2: they're not going to make you show up and diarrhea

1833
01:40:17,720 --> 01:40:19,680
Speaker 2: in the toilet, see them get off of work.

1834
01:40:19,720 --> 01:40:21,960
Speaker 1: Now, we don't have no articles, I know, we don't

1835
01:40:22,000 --> 01:40:22,280
Speaker 1: got that.

1836
01:40:22,960 --> 01:40:25,479
Speaker 2: I started telling my supervisor how I couldn't get a

1837
01:40:25,520 --> 01:40:28,240
Speaker 2: doctor's appointment until like two days from then, and she

1838
01:40:28,400 --> 01:40:30,519
Speaker 2: was like, no, don't worry about that, just come back

1839
01:40:30,520 --> 01:40:32,960
Speaker 2: in when you're feeling better. Wait, what that's it?

1840
01:40:33,280 --> 01:40:36,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, particularly if you have like somebody that's like

1841
01:40:36,400 --> 01:40:38,960
Speaker 1: a carrying in kind person and understanding to that shit.

1842
01:40:39,000 --> 01:40:41,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, cool, I mean that sounds like how

1843
01:40:41,360 --> 01:40:44,080
Speaker 2: it should be man military sounds. I mean, well, no, no, no,

1844
01:40:44,080 --> 01:40:48,040
Speaker 2: I take that back. No, the military's right, not that

1845
01:40:48,120 --> 01:40:49,960
Speaker 2: it should not that it should be like that in

1846
01:40:50,080 --> 01:40:52,519
Speaker 2: regular jobs, but just you don't got a regular job.

1847
01:40:52,840 --> 01:40:56,400
Speaker 2: Soldiers can't be like Mike Tummy hurt them like, no, nigga,

1848
01:40:56,760 --> 01:41:00,400
Speaker 2: go kill some brown people, you know that's what like,

1849
01:41:00,439 --> 01:41:03,519
Speaker 2: we need evidence that you are sick if not, get yours,

1850
01:41:04,040 --> 01:41:06,120
Speaker 2: if you don't hop on the drones and kill some

1851
01:41:06,160 --> 01:41:09,400
Speaker 2: innocence of ills. Okay, let me stop. Hatch and Monica says,

1852
01:41:09,439 --> 01:41:12,400
Speaker 2: I use diaryl way more times it should be necessary.

1853
01:41:13,560 --> 01:41:15,519
Speaker 2: The worst is when you have it and then you

1854
01:41:15,600 --> 01:41:17,679
Speaker 2: have to be like, man, is this enough to call

1855
01:41:17,680 --> 01:41:21,160
Speaker 2: out of work for? And I'm not ashamed to say

1856
01:41:21,160 --> 01:41:25,679
Speaker 2: I have been like no, I'm not going to work

1857
01:41:25,880 --> 01:41:28,479
Speaker 2: and needing to run to the bathroom for five minutes.

1858
01:41:28,600 --> 01:41:32,600
Speaker 2: I don't care about y'all that much. Truth. Rizzie P

1859
01:41:32,800 --> 01:41:35,960
Speaker 2: says non practicing Latinas in the music industry said, we

1860
01:41:36,040 --> 01:41:38,800
Speaker 2: had to go to church for ASH Wednesday. Instead we

1861
01:41:38,840 --> 01:41:42,200
Speaker 2: went to lunch and record shopping, then use black eyeshadow

1862
01:41:42,240 --> 01:41:45,600
Speaker 2: to make a cross on our foreheads for the ash.

1863
01:41:45,680 --> 01:41:50,559
Speaker 2: That funny, and then on Facebook we got a couple

1864
01:41:50,600 --> 01:41:54,360
Speaker 2: of comments because it always posted on Facebook too. Brianna says,

1865
01:41:54,360 --> 01:41:56,320
Speaker 2: before I leave for work, I take a mini water

1866
01:41:56,360 --> 01:41:59,280
Speaker 2: bottle filled with cereal and milk, once I at work, good,

1867
01:41:59,320 --> 01:42:01,400
Speaker 2: I pour it all over the inside of a trash can.

1868
01:42:02,000 --> 01:42:03,760
Speaker 2: Now I gotta take a few days off intil the

1869
01:42:03,800 --> 01:42:07,120
Speaker 2: stumma stomach bug settles down. Oh so all you pretend

1870
01:42:07,160 --> 01:42:13,360
Speaker 2: to throw up? That is very interesting. As a kid,

1871
01:42:13,439 --> 01:42:16,160
Speaker 2: I used to actually throw up a lot of times.

1872
01:42:16,160 --> 01:42:19,639
Speaker 2: It was psychosomatic or something. But when I was feeling

1873
01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:22,000
Speaker 2: anxious and didn't want to be in school or something,

1874
01:42:22,040 --> 01:42:25,680
Speaker 2: I could really throw up. Just think about it. So

1875
01:42:27,640 --> 01:42:30,400
Speaker 2: I can't play like them games. My body doesn't know

1876
01:42:30,439 --> 01:42:34,320
Speaker 2: how to stop. Joy said. It's the biggest one is

1877
01:42:34,320 --> 01:42:37,200
Speaker 2: that I feel fell getting out the shower. But most

1878
01:42:37,200 --> 01:42:39,200
Speaker 2: of the time I just tell them I had stomach issues.

1879
01:42:39,240 --> 01:42:41,000
Speaker 2: No one wants you at work. You got bubble guts,

1880
01:42:41,200 --> 01:42:44,719
Speaker 2: exactly right. No one want to fight through that, Nope.

1881
01:42:44,720 --> 01:42:47,400
Speaker 1: And nobody gonna be like nope, Cause you get that,

1882
01:42:47,520 --> 01:42:48,960
Speaker 1: then you ain't go particularly if you got to go

1883
01:42:49,000 --> 01:42:52,040
Speaker 1: into the office traffic to get there, and then once

1884
01:42:52,080 --> 01:42:53,960
Speaker 1: you get there, you're gonna be going to the bathroom

1885
01:42:54,000 --> 01:42:55,639
Speaker 1: so frequently you ain't gonna get shipped done no.

1886
01:42:55,600 --> 01:42:59,479
Speaker 2: Way right, no pun intended. No, I didn't think about that,

1887
01:42:59,520 --> 01:43:03,960
Speaker 2: no punt. Donald says, why it's not your bad, I

1888
01:43:04,040 --> 01:43:09,240
Speaker 2: tell you, y'all over apologizing it's in me, y'all. I

1889
01:43:09,280 --> 01:43:13,880
Speaker 2: can't help it. Donald says told my supervisor that my

1890
01:43:13,920 --> 01:43:17,320
Speaker 2: wife's grandfather might not have too many holidays left in them.

1891
01:43:17,560 --> 01:43:20,040
Speaker 2: That got me a few more days off. Ps. Her

1892
01:43:20,040 --> 01:43:22,519
Speaker 2: grandfather is alive and kicking to old people in our

1893
01:43:22,560 --> 01:43:23,960
Speaker 2: life know we're using them like this.

1894
01:43:24,640 --> 01:43:28,280
Speaker 1: That's a great question, Like how do they think oblivious today?

1895
01:43:28,400 --> 01:43:31,040
Speaker 2: If they're like a cool old person, they with it.

1896
01:43:31,080 --> 01:43:32,960
Speaker 2: But I can imagine there's gotta be some old people

1897
01:43:32,960 --> 01:43:35,760
Speaker 2: out there, like, hey, can you stop like talking on

1898
01:43:35,920 --> 01:43:38,439
Speaker 2: my on my death? Do you want me to die?

1899
01:43:38,439 --> 01:43:41,680
Speaker 2: Stop this? What kind of motherfucking weird ass signals are

1900
01:43:41,720 --> 01:43:45,280
Speaker 2: you sending? Take you out of my wheel? But yeah,

1901
01:43:45,360 --> 01:43:50,960
Speaker 2: that was doing it for the ground. Thanks everybody, The grandma,

1902
01:43:51,640 --> 01:44:01,360
Speaker 2: grand the grandma, you're the grandma, the grand the grand

1903
01:44:01,920 --> 01:44:03,920
Speaker 2: I better not find out Laila out here talking about

1904
01:44:03,960 --> 01:44:06,680
Speaker 2: my uncle Deed, right, man? I been talking about my

1905
01:44:06,760 --> 01:44:10,360
Speaker 2: unt Karen died? Fuck? What's happening here? I want you

1906
01:44:10,400 --> 01:44:12,400
Speaker 2: to get out of school too, baby, But come on now,

1907
01:44:12,760 --> 01:44:13,320
Speaker 2: don't use me.

1908
01:44:13,520 --> 01:44:15,760
Speaker 1: Don't kill me if you do it, don't don't don't

1909
01:44:15,840 --> 01:44:16,880
Speaker 1: don't use me in This's cute.

1910
01:44:18,360 --> 01:44:21,920
Speaker 2: We got one email, Saquina says five star review. Hey,

1911
01:44:22,000 --> 01:44:25,559
Speaker 2: y'all is Saquina from Brooklyn. I just wanted to come

1912
01:44:25,600 --> 01:44:27,680
Speaker 2: on by and drop another five stars on y'all. Know,

1913
01:44:27,760 --> 01:44:30,320
Speaker 2: y'all are one of the best podcasts I've engaged with

1914
01:44:30,400 --> 01:44:33,320
Speaker 2: because you're not only entertaining, but thoughtful, inquisitive, and informative.

1915
01:44:33,360 --> 01:44:35,880
Speaker 2: I appreciate that so much. And guess what, I just

1916
01:44:35,920 --> 01:44:38,400
Speaker 2: attended a mystery movie screening and the movie ended up

1917
01:44:38,400 --> 01:44:42,519
Speaker 2: being origins by Avid Duverne. Y'all, y'all. I'm not gonna

1918
01:44:42,520 --> 01:44:45,240
Speaker 2: spoil it, but it was very good. I definitely shed

1919
01:44:45,439 --> 01:44:48,479
Speaker 2: several tears. The crowd was mixed different age groups and

1920
01:44:48,520 --> 01:44:51,760
Speaker 2: ethnicity's no surprise in NYC. However, there was a group

1921
01:44:51,800 --> 01:44:53,639
Speaker 2: of young people that looked to be in their early

1922
01:44:53,680 --> 01:44:56,240
Speaker 2: twenties that when the film ended, they were so excited

1923
01:44:56,280 --> 01:44:59,000
Speaker 2: to discuss it. It's definitely a thinking cap movie, so

1924
01:44:59,080 --> 01:45:01,120
Speaker 2: I think the kids are gonna to be alright. Oh,

1925
01:45:01,200 --> 01:45:05,360
Speaker 2: we love to hear. I've already reviewed it in. If

1926
01:45:05,360 --> 01:45:08,559
Speaker 2: you're a premium person, I believe it's in our spoil

1927
01:45:08,640 --> 01:45:12,040
Speaker 2: movie review feed. If you're not premium, you should be

1928
01:45:12,080 --> 01:45:16,040
Speaker 2: getting it in February, yeah, next month. Also, as soon

1929
01:45:16,040 --> 01:45:17,519
Speaker 2: as it was over, I was like, oh my god,

1930
01:45:17,560 --> 01:45:20,599
Speaker 2: I need to stop procrastinating and read Cast on reading Cast,

1931
01:45:21,040 --> 01:45:23,000
Speaker 2: Thanks Rod for putting that book, and the author Isabelle

1932
01:45:23,000 --> 01:45:26,360
Speaker 2: will go sit on my radar. Well yeah, but if

1933
01:45:26,400 --> 01:45:28,799
Speaker 2: you're talking about recent episodes, it was actually Jail Covan

1934
01:45:28,840 --> 01:45:31,519
Speaker 2: who brought the book up. But yeah, I have the

1935
01:45:31,560 --> 01:45:33,839
Speaker 2: book as well. I just haven't started it, to be honest,

1936
01:45:34,720 --> 01:45:37,400
Speaker 2: but the warmth of other sons was fucking amazing, so

1937
01:45:37,960 --> 01:45:40,639
Speaker 2: I can't wait to get into it. I'm just currently

1938
01:45:40,760 --> 01:45:44,519
Speaker 2: reading some other stuff right now. I think I'm reading

1939
01:45:44,560 --> 01:45:48,360
Speaker 2: When and Where I are into right now, so I'll

1940
01:45:48,360 --> 01:45:51,320
Speaker 2: get to it. So now, which is about When and

1941
01:45:51,360 --> 01:45:54,320
Speaker 2: Where our inter about black women activists in America throughout

1942
01:45:54,320 --> 01:45:57,600
Speaker 2: the nineteenth century, and so y'all wonder how I know

1943
01:45:57,680 --> 01:46:02,120
Speaker 2: my civil rights base do the research reading. I'll be

1944
01:46:02,160 --> 01:46:05,080
Speaker 2: going back to watch this again when it's officially released. Anyway,

1945
01:46:05,400 --> 01:46:08,080
Speaker 2: thanks again for all y'all. Do have a wonderful twenty

1946
01:46:08,120 --> 01:46:11,800
Speaker 2: twenty four. Thank you, Thank you everybody. And we also

1947
01:46:11,920 --> 01:46:15,960
Speaker 2: got some mail. Yay see what we got in the

1948
01:46:16,000 --> 01:46:22,639
Speaker 2: mail over here? Yay boom We got one of these

1949
01:46:22,640 --> 01:46:28,160
Speaker 2: postbox boxes that they technically come with the like pre

1950
01:46:28,479 --> 01:46:30,680
Speaker 2: oh like you've kind of bend decreased and open it.

1951
01:46:30,720 --> 01:46:35,719
Speaker 2: All right. It's a book, a sign copy from Alex

1952
01:46:37,080 --> 01:46:40,799
Speaker 2: It's a political history of Act up New York nineteen

1953
01:46:40,840 --> 01:46:44,320
Speaker 2: eighty seven to nineteen ninety three. Let the record show, Oh,

1954
01:46:44,479 --> 01:46:49,720
Speaker 2: Sarah Shuman, conflict is not abuse, my girl. Oh, thank you.

1955
01:46:50,120 --> 01:46:53,160
Speaker 2: I appreciate this, not the harm bactic.

1956
01:46:54,120 --> 01:46:55,800
Speaker 1: Did we have a thing? Get it? Did it come

1957
01:46:55,840 --> 01:46:58,639
Speaker 1: with a note, because sometimes it don't always have a note.

1958
01:46:58,640 --> 01:47:00,639
Speaker 2: Oh, it just says a sign copy for the Flex,

1959
01:47:00,720 --> 01:47:04,920
Speaker 2: but it don't. Oh wait the address, Doug, Thank you, Doug.

1960
01:47:05,000 --> 01:47:10,000
Speaker 2: I appreciate you, fam. Yeah, all right. We got signed

1961
01:47:10,040 --> 01:47:14,040
Speaker 2: copy books. Now listen, that's your jam. I have several

1962
01:47:14,080 --> 01:47:17,679
Speaker 2: signed copy books that only Flex. Everybody knows I read

1963
01:47:17,720 --> 01:47:18,280
Speaker 2: only kindle.

1964
01:47:18,360 --> 01:47:19,759
Speaker 1: But what what what what?

1965
01:47:19,760 --> 01:47:21,519
Speaker 2: What what takes? We'll take a hard back you can

1966
01:47:21,600 --> 01:47:25,160
Speaker 2: knock on, but I will absolutely take a signed copy

1967
01:47:25,200 --> 01:47:30,080
Speaker 2: of anything. Put it up, friend Sarah and start talking

1968
01:47:30,120 --> 01:47:32,360
Speaker 2: the other day. But thank you, thank you very much.

1969
01:47:33,360 --> 01:47:38,200
Speaker 2: And then we got one more package. This is another

1970
01:47:38,400 --> 01:47:45,680
Speaker 2: big USPS folder. Make sure I don't tear whatever's inside. Right,

1971
01:47:45,800 --> 01:47:50,479
Speaker 2: I want no problems. Uh, all right, and then okay,

1972
01:47:50,720 --> 01:47:53,360
Speaker 2: open this up. We got some package in, we got

1973
01:47:53,400 --> 01:47:57,080
Speaker 2: a card in him. Let nothing else is in here, okay, cool, okay,

1974
01:47:57,120 --> 01:48:03,240
Speaker 2: all right. So I read the card first, and I

1975
01:48:03,360 --> 01:48:07,759
Speaker 2: like a car like old graud. It's from Lisa. He'sa

1976
01:48:08,760 --> 01:48:15,120
Speaker 2: feels very familiar. So the inside of the car, uh,

1977
01:48:15,640 --> 01:48:20,479
Speaker 2: the Woodies, Aging Cannon, Barbie, natan in and this is

1978
01:48:20,520 --> 01:48:24,599
Speaker 2: the this is look at this wonderful family. All these

1979
01:48:24,640 --> 01:48:28,440
Speaker 2: little pictures of holiday joy, y'all look like the pictures

1980
01:48:28,560 --> 01:48:32,960
Speaker 2: that they showing, like independent movies that are gonna be

1981
01:48:33,080 --> 01:48:35,639
Speaker 2: very emotional about family and stuff. Yes, at the beginning,

1982
01:48:35,720 --> 01:48:38,400
Speaker 2: at the beginning, before shit get fucked up. Remember when

1983
01:48:38,400 --> 01:48:41,080
Speaker 2: we used to be so happy to come you Christmas

1984
01:48:41,160 --> 01:48:43,639
Speaker 2: Is with the dog and shit, we loved each other

1985
01:48:43,840 --> 01:48:45,920
Speaker 2: very much. That's why I find out your dad was

1986
01:48:46,000 --> 01:48:49,920
Speaker 2: cheating some shit. Right, that was before the child died

1987
01:48:50,040 --> 01:48:53,040
Speaker 2: or whatever. Fucking you know, y'all know how the independent movies, Yes,

1988
01:48:53,200 --> 01:48:55,599
Speaker 2: with the plot twists. It says, wishing you the kind

1989
01:48:55,600 --> 01:48:58,559
Speaker 2: of joy and chair that's merry enough to last the

1990
01:48:58,600 --> 01:49:04,400
Speaker 2: whole year, thank you. And then they also have a

1991
01:49:04,520 --> 01:49:14,000
Speaker 2: book recommendations and son and uh, hello, gorgeous. I am uncomfortable, deflated.

1992
01:49:14,040 --> 01:49:17,320
Speaker 2: I am in an uncomfortable deflated mood, sad, irritated, frustrate

1993
01:49:17,320 --> 01:49:19,040
Speaker 2: the whole game. I'm not sure I can write this

1994
01:49:19,240 --> 01:49:22,439
Speaker 2: year's letter from a place of depletion. I decided, however,

1995
01:49:22,520 --> 01:49:24,200
Speaker 2: to at least sit in front of an empty screen

1996
01:49:24,240 --> 01:49:27,200
Speaker 2: to see that what emerges. Very freiding of me. Thank

1997
01:49:27,240 --> 01:49:28,880
Speaker 2: you for joining Doug and I and the kids and

1998
01:49:28,920 --> 01:49:32,519
Speaker 2: see what happens. Dim the lights please. Barbara Streisson has

1999
01:49:32,520 --> 01:49:35,639
Speaker 2: been on my line mind a lot, along with Alice Walker,

2000
01:49:35,680 --> 01:49:38,439
Speaker 2: Taylor Swift, Beyonce and now Virginia Wolf. What I would

2001
01:49:38,520 --> 01:49:41,479
Speaker 2: give for a room of my own? I just finished

2002
01:49:41,520 --> 01:49:44,479
Speaker 2: reading My Name Is Barbara by Barbara Streisan, all nine

2003
01:49:44,560 --> 01:49:47,000
Speaker 2: hundred and sixty six pages of it. I have loved

2004
01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:49,720
Speaker 2: her since seeing her in movies like Funny Girl, What's Up?

2005
01:49:49,760 --> 01:49:52,680
Speaker 2: Doctor Stars Born in the Main Event when I was

2006
01:49:52,680 --> 01:49:55,519
Speaker 2: a little girl. Seeing yin too was a religious experience

2007
01:49:55,520 --> 01:49:58,360
Speaker 2: for me. When she sings Papa, can you hear Papa?

2008
01:49:58,400 --> 01:49:59,200
Speaker 4: Can you hear me?

2009
01:49:59,400 --> 01:50:02,479
Speaker 2: Into the dark Lonely Scott, I get goosebumps every time.

2010
01:50:02,520 --> 01:50:06,599
Speaker 2: The psychological punch she delivered in the nuts and the

2011
01:50:06,680 --> 01:50:09,880
Speaker 2: Prince of Tides affected me deeply. Oh in nuts in

2012
01:50:09,960 --> 01:50:12,960
Speaker 2: the Prince of Tide affected me deeply. Her politics, her

2013
01:50:13,080 --> 01:50:15,519
Speaker 2: gal to try to do it all, her God, to

2014
01:50:15,560 --> 01:50:18,360
Speaker 2: try to do it all, to be simply superb at

2015
01:50:18,400 --> 01:50:22,240
Speaker 2: her craft. Little Lisa, through adult Lisa, has been absorbing

2016
01:50:22,240 --> 01:50:25,439
Speaker 2: her messages and learning from her decades. My dad and

2017
01:50:25,479 --> 01:50:27,479
Speaker 2: I even had tickets to see her perform back in

2018
01:50:27,520 --> 01:50:30,599
Speaker 2: nineteen forty ninety ninety four, but she had to cancel

2019
01:50:30,680 --> 01:50:33,000
Speaker 2: due to illness through the those. She apologized for this

2020
01:50:34,200 --> 01:50:37,519
Speaker 2: on page eight hundred and twenty two. Thank you, Babs.

2021
01:50:37,880 --> 01:50:40,840
Speaker 2: Now that I think about it, I became a psychologist.

2022
01:50:41,120 --> 01:50:45,800
Speaker 2: I always dreamt about performing in Broadway and entertained converting

2023
01:50:45,880 --> 01:50:48,480
Speaker 2: to Judaism for a time when I was an undergrad.

2024
01:50:48,680 --> 01:50:50,960
Speaker 2: Maybe Barbara had a Biger effect of me, and I realized.

2025
01:50:51,240 --> 01:50:54,200
Speaker 2: And this goes on for a couple pages, front and back.

2026
01:50:54,240 --> 01:50:55,839
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be able to read all this obviously

2027
01:50:55,880 --> 01:51:00,840
Speaker 2: on the podcast now I'm looking at it, But I

2028
01:51:00,880 --> 01:51:06,040
Speaker 2: love that on the back she puts book recommendations and

2029
01:51:06,479 --> 01:51:12,960
Speaker 2: podcast recommendations. Okay, what else I'm just gonna say under

2030
01:51:13,000 --> 01:51:19,680
Speaker 2: podcast recommendations, the Blackout Tips draped Thomaniacs. Okay, now the

2031
01:51:19,680 --> 01:51:21,559
Speaker 2: rest of the people on this listen, I like them too.

2032
01:51:21,600 --> 01:51:23,760
Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong. Ezra Klein a fuck with Eza klein

2033
01:51:23,840 --> 01:51:26,599
Speaker 2: Hart hired Learning. Was just talking about that podcast yesterday

2034
01:51:26,640 --> 01:51:31,800
Speaker 2: on the pregame Code Switch DEGREEO Daily Dolly Partons America. Oh,

2035
01:51:31,960 --> 01:51:33,680
Speaker 2: I didn't know she had one louder than the Ride,

2036
01:51:33,800 --> 01:51:37,880
Speaker 2: Jamail Hill unbothered. Those the podcast recommendations and a lot

2037
01:51:37,880 --> 01:51:41,040
Speaker 2: of book recommendations as well. Thank you, and we're happy

2038
01:51:41,240 --> 01:51:43,400
Speaker 2: because I assume this letter went out to everybody they

2039
01:51:43,400 --> 01:51:46,840
Speaker 2: sent cards to, which means we got some new listeners.

2040
01:51:47,439 --> 01:51:50,800
Speaker 2: That's uh, that's that's Look, they got recommendations. And now

2041
01:51:50,840 --> 01:51:54,760
Speaker 2: let's get to what we really want the present. Okay,

2042
01:51:55,880 --> 01:51:59,400
Speaker 2: it's wrap. Look first of all, look at this rapping paper. Okay,

2043
01:51:59,439 --> 01:52:01,800
Speaker 2: and it's neat, rap too, not like the way I

2044
01:52:01,920 --> 01:52:04,080
Speaker 2: be doing shit. Well, I'll just be like close enough.

2045
01:52:05,080 --> 01:52:11,479
Speaker 2: Good luck whoever has to open this hope this yeah, oh,

2046
01:52:11,560 --> 01:52:15,639
Speaker 2: good luck, good luck everybody. This will be hard to open.

2047
01:52:16,960 --> 01:52:20,920
Speaker 2: Oh it's a calendar Peace calendar twenty twenty four. Our

2048
01:52:20,960 --> 01:52:25,040
Speaker 2: future is not negotiable, is what it says. That's neat

2049
01:52:25,360 --> 01:52:28,479
Speaker 2: and uh, you can see on the back on it's

2050
01:52:28,520 --> 01:52:36,120
Speaker 2: got all these colorful decorations. So it's about peace and God,

2051
01:52:36,160 --> 01:52:39,519
Speaker 2: I would like something this year. Yes, if we could

2052
01:52:39,560 --> 01:52:42,040
Speaker 2: just stop, like maybe blowing each other up across the

2053
01:52:42,040 --> 01:52:46,479
Speaker 2: world everybody, that would be nice. And it seems like

2054
01:52:46,560 --> 01:52:49,200
Speaker 2: each month has a different thing. The first one says

2055
01:52:49,240 --> 01:52:52,519
Speaker 2: weariness together. The second one is Midwives for Black Lives,

2056
01:52:55,120 --> 01:53:00,360
Speaker 2: Iranian Women Rise Up, uh Youth Act for Climate Justice. Yeah,

2057
01:53:00,400 --> 01:53:03,200
Speaker 2: this is woke as fuck. Okay, don't let me, don't

2058
01:53:03,280 --> 01:53:09,240
Speaker 2: let Ricky Gervais see this motherfucking calendar. Okay, Dave Chapelle

2059
01:53:09,240 --> 01:53:11,559
Speaker 2: found out what y'all doing. Boy, might be a problem.

2060
01:53:11,560 --> 01:53:13,639
Speaker 2: It's gonna be a problem. Oh and then this came

2061
01:53:13,680 --> 01:53:16,320
Speaker 2: in and okay, this is for us a specific one.

2062
01:53:16,800 --> 01:53:18,600
Speaker 2: Dear Roni, Carron I wanted to send this gift as

2063
01:53:18,640 --> 01:53:21,000
Speaker 2: a small talking appreciation for the beautiful impact you've had

2064
01:53:21,040 --> 01:53:22,960
Speaker 2: on my life and the lives are so many others.

2065
01:53:22,960 --> 01:53:25,240
Speaker 2: I've been listening to Black Autips for about three years

2066
01:53:25,400 --> 01:53:28,120
Speaker 2: and been kicking myself for not knowing you existed. Sooner, girl,

2067
01:53:28,160 --> 01:53:30,680
Speaker 2: don't you don't have a Tom Sheene? Whenever you find us,

2068
01:53:30,680 --> 01:53:33,200
Speaker 2: it's some time. Yeah, who knows them old episodes you

2069
01:53:33,240 --> 01:53:35,720
Speaker 2: might not have liked. This gift is produced by the

2070
01:53:35,760 --> 01:53:38,960
Speaker 2: Syracuse Cultural Workers, and organization I've supported since the early

2071
01:53:39,000 --> 01:53:42,000
Speaker 2: nineteen nineties. Thank you for your courage you display and

2072
01:53:42,040 --> 01:53:44,400
Speaker 2: putting yourselves out there every single day. Your courage and

2073
01:53:44,439 --> 01:53:46,760
Speaker 2: example help to give me courage too. My husband and

2074
01:53:46,760 --> 01:53:49,200
Speaker 2: I have been together for over twenty years. Okay, over

2075
01:53:49,240 --> 01:53:54,240
Speaker 2: twenty years, Ganggang, and I appreciate the relationship dynamics y'all

2076
01:53:54,280 --> 01:53:56,120
Speaker 2: share as well. And damn do you make me to

2077
01:53:56,320 --> 01:53:59,320
Speaker 2: make me laugh? Many many thanks. Please know I'm passing

2078
01:53:59,320 --> 01:54:02,280
Speaker 2: your messages and podcast on to all my students, many

2079
01:54:02,280 --> 01:54:05,479
Speaker 2: of my psychology's clients, and all my friends and family.

2080
01:54:06,040 --> 01:54:08,960
Speaker 2: You do not have to read our holiday letter thats included,

2081
01:54:09,040 --> 01:54:11,400
Speaker 2: but you might appreciate the book and podcasts recogndations at

2082
01:54:11,400 --> 01:54:14,520
Speaker 2: the end, listen, that's exactly what we did. I realized

2083
01:54:14,560 --> 01:54:17,400
Speaker 2: I couldn't read all of it, but then at the

2084
01:54:17,520 --> 01:54:19,880
Speaker 2: end our skipped to the bottom and it was like, that's me.

2085
01:54:20,200 --> 01:54:23,280
Speaker 2: I do want to read that part. Everyone should know

2086
01:54:23,280 --> 01:54:28,719
Speaker 2: about us? Yes, many many things. Oh yeah, I'm sorry,

2087
01:54:28,720 --> 01:54:32,120
Speaker 2: she says. We send this letter out to about two

2088
01:54:32,200 --> 01:54:34,200
Speaker 2: hundred people, say it's two hundred more folks potential lists

2089
01:54:34,200 --> 01:54:37,520
Speaker 2: to the black Out Tips and Drake Tomania with love

2090
01:54:37,680 --> 01:54:41,960
Speaker 2: Lisa Woodie, Thank you, Lisa, You Lisa Man. We spend

2091
01:54:42,000 --> 01:54:44,960
Speaker 2: a gambit of just amazing fucking listeners and this is

2092
01:54:45,000 --> 01:54:47,240
Speaker 2: why we do the Feedback Show. This is why we

2093
01:54:47,280 --> 01:54:49,960
Speaker 2: take the time to read all's letters and emails and stuff.

2094
01:54:50,240 --> 01:54:52,040
Speaker 2: It makes us feel good and I hope we make

2095
01:54:52,120 --> 01:54:54,720
Speaker 2: you feel as good as we do every week with

2096
01:54:54,800 --> 01:54:57,520
Speaker 2: this and we'll be back throughout the week with more

2097
01:54:57,560 --> 01:55:01,200
Speaker 2: episodes until next Tim I love you.

2098
01:55:01,200 --> 01:55:01,800
Speaker 1: I love you too.

2099
01:55:02,000 --> 01:55:02,280
Speaker 2: Nah