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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to Steph.

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Speaker 1: I never told your production of I Heart Radio. It

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Speaker 1: is time for another half hour, the second to last

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Speaker 1: one of the year. I'm pretty sure we're closing in

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Speaker 1: on the end of the year, so we want to

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Speaker 1: take a survey of some things were thankful for it.

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Speaker 1: But first, as I always drink responsibly if you choose

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Speaker 1: to do so, Samantha, what are you sitting on? Um?

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Speaker 1: I feel like this is my staple. I always seem

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Speaker 1: to have it in the house. But I'm drinking my

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Speaker 1: vino Verde from Trader Joe's, my five dollar bottle of wine.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't make me super sleepy, and it's crisp and

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Speaker 1: lovely and very green. Appily, that's my two go keeping

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Speaker 1: red wine. That's probably my faith faith, but it makes

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Speaker 1: me a little more st be sometimes. So it doesn't

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Speaker 1: feel as appropriate for our happy hour because it would

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Speaker 1: We're very tired a lot everyone. That's true, it isn't

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Speaker 1: actually it's appropriate for today because we've been recording in

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Speaker 1: a long time today because we're trying to wrap everything

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Speaker 1: up for the end of the year, so bear with us.

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Speaker 1: It is December. Um, I feel like I have to

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Speaker 1: put a time stamp on everything because who knows what

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Speaker 1: and tonic, which is also my staple, just simple and

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Speaker 1: a good gin and tonic. So we did want to

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Speaker 1: go over some things as we're closing out the year

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Speaker 1: that we're thankful for. Thankful can be a very loaded term,

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Speaker 1: but adding that aside for now, yeah, just as we

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Speaker 1: were closing out the year. Um, one of the things

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Speaker 1: I will I was curious about because the pandemic is awful.

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Speaker 1: I think we can all agree it has been awful.

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Speaker 1: But is there anything during this year, during this pandemic

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Speaker 1: steady excuse to stay in anything like that. Oh, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: I mean, as the introvert, it is not the helpiest

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Speaker 1: going out recently, you and I went to a outside

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Speaker 1: event with this really small amount compared to what we

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Speaker 1: the year celebration. I was super awkward, like painfully awkward.

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Speaker 1: then I at my third, like final attempt, I was

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Speaker 1: standing ready to leave getting my valet, found out I

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Speaker 1: maybe when it comes to learning social skills or relearning

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Speaker 1: ended right before the pandemic started, and that would have

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Speaker 1: what my answers no surprise fan fiction, of course, star

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Speaker 1: Wars always, but also friends. Friends like you, Samantha, We've

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Speaker 1: I wanted to ask, like podcasts specific anything you're thankful for.

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Speaker 1: appreciatives sharing their own stories. And that's just that's such

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Speaker 1: attracted that and like, to me, lemon grass is fresh,

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Speaker 1: I love that. Lemon grass is probably one of my

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Speaker 1: grass would be a part of that. And again something

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Speaker 1: like a lemon because it wakes you up and people

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Speaker 1: like that would be or an orange blossom, something very

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Speaker 1: So I would say maybe like a cinnamon orange blossom

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Speaker 1: I love it so nice? Are know? Like, can we

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Speaker 1: oh I would love that too. I feel like you totally.

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Speaker 1: You would have a very like calming, comforting, welcoming smell,

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Speaker 1: because I also like, I'm bad at describing taste. I

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Speaker 1: grapefruit cucumber, but then like a fresh I actually really

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Speaker 1: my favorites. It's so good it. I feel like you

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Speaker 1: really but I want to be a blanket. Yeah, yeah

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Speaker 1: a warm hug on a fall day. Maybe I'm a margarita,

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Speaker 1: but not like a spicy like a great fruit margharita,

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Speaker 1: but with a helopeno in it. Yeah, or I'll have

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Speaker 1: a row if we were a cocktail, Okay, We'll have

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Speaker 1: to do these questions later because I've have so many

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Speaker 1: other thoughts. If you were a cocktail, what would you mean?

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Speaker 1: if you were a candle or a cocktail, what would

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Speaker 1: us know, Yes, please let us know. And I seriously,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, can we make these candles? Oh? Now I

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Speaker 1: want to like, but I also want to describe Christina who.

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Speaker 1: I think she's like chocolate, like smells like she is surprising,

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Speaker 1: quiet and subtle, so like dark chocolate, but like she's

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Speaker 1: there and her very presence is very well known. I

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Speaker 1: love dot chocolate. It's one of my favorites. Oh that's

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Speaker 1: not offensive, but I'm like, I feel like that's her. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe some coffee in there, and yes, we would love

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