1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Do you think that you would be? 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: I know Rufio's answer, But Shelley, do you think that Mike, 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 2: Because Okay, Paulina is about to have a kid, but 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:12,879 Speaker 2: it's premature. I don't have any kids that I'm aware of. 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 2: Jason Kekey don't have any kids. So Rufio I already 6 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 2: know the answer. And then we got Shelley and Mike 7 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 2: and Olivia Military and Mike. How do you think military 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 2: and Mike will do as a sports parent? Oh? 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: He is very competitive. 10 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's very competitive. He's already talked about like when 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 3: can we put her in soccer and jim Neette like 12 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 3: all the things, like the sports. He's i think, very 13 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 3: excited for that phase of her life. And I'm curious 14 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 3: to see because yeah, he gets very intense when it 15 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 3: comes to sports. 16 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 4: So I don't know. 17 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: See how that goes. But I guess there was research 18 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: about this and. 19 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 2: Bad sports parents make bad sports kids, which just makes 20 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 2: perfect sense. I mean, Ashlen is a Harbon copy of Rufio, 21 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 2: and so it makes perfect sense. They both act the 22 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 2: same way. So he's gonna see you act up at 23 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 2: these sporting events, screaming and this and that, telling the 24 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 2: raft he's not. You know, this is like you we're 25 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 2: talking about five year olds here, and you'll be telling 26 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 2: the raft that's not the rule and all the red 27 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 2: pulling out the rule book and all this stuff. And 28 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 2: then but the problem is, according to this research, now, 29 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 2: then the kids wind up doing the same thing because 30 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 2: they see their parents do it. 31 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: And it's like, well, for example, yeah, right. 32 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 2: Soda, Dad can act like an idiot of this sporting event, 33 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 2: So why can't I? I mean, are you gonna be 34 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: able to control yourself? 35 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: I don't know. 36 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 5: We'll see this this spring. We're gonna sign Ashling up. 37 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 5: He wants to do soccer, so we're gonna sign them 38 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:42,919 Speaker 5: up and we will see how that goes. 39 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 2: But I wonder if anyone is just up in about 40 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 2: eight five five five three five, are you the bad 41 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 2: sports parent? It's your husband or wife the bad sports parent? 42 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: And is it rubbing off on the kid? It has 43 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 2: to It has to like if I see dad out there, 44 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: you know, like like Will Ferrell in the SNELSI, you know, 45 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 2: cracking a beer and screaming at the top of his lungs, 46 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 2: you know, hit the ball. I mean, not only would 47 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 2: I think that would induce fear in me as a child. 48 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 2: You know, not only am I upset or afraid of 49 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 2: disappointing my coaches and my teammates, but now my dad's 50 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 2: out there, He's not going to give you dinner if 51 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: I don't, you know, hit a double. But then I 52 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 2: gotta wonder too, like is it true like the kids 53 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 2: went back to like they're crazy parents? Or is it 54 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 2: a point where you can't even like will Jess not 55 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: be able to bring you? 56 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: Will you not be able to go? I don't know. 57 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 5: I mean the thing is also Ashland is he's an 58 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 5: emotional child as well too, so like if things don't 59 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 5: go his way, you know, I'm saying, he. 60 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know what I'm saying. He's like, oh 61 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: he doesn't get the ball, We'll see. You know what 62 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 1: I'm saying, What. 63 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 2: Are you where on earth with Jess? Must be a 64 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 2: sore looser then, couldn't be you? 65 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 5: So like Jess always yells at me, like you're on 66 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 5: your phone too much. This is probably the one time 67 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 5: she'll be like, just be on your phone. I'll record everything. 68 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 5: Just be on your phone and just be there so 69 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 5: we'll see. 70 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 2: So I guess did a bunch of research on this, 71 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: comparing their findings to the old saying monkey see monkey do, 72 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 2: researchers uncovered a clear link between parents sideline conduct and 73 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 2: the behavior of young athletes. More specifically, when parents behaved well, 74 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 2: applotting good play, encouraging players, enjoying the game, their children 75 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: were more likely to display similar positive behavior. On the 76 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 2: other hand, if a parent behave poorly, being overly critical 77 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 2: second guests in the referee, and yelling, it correlated with 78 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 2: greater anti social behavior among the kids. A co author 79 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: of the study explained, most parents or role models for 80 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: their kids, with children looking to their parents to learn 81 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 2: about acceptable behavior, so it's natural for them to copy 82 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 2: the behaviors that they observe. Yeah, I mean it doesn't 83 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 2: make sense. Yeah Dad's doing it, then I'm going to 84 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 2: do it or mom or whatever. How will Hobby do 85 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 2: with this? 86 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 6: You know what's interesting, I think Hobby will be the 87 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 6: chill parent. Here's a chill person all around. I think 88 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 6: I'm going to be the one that's going to be 89 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 6: like screaming, knowing whatever. Because I never had parents come 90 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 6: to my games when I was little, Like I was 91 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 6: that kid whose parents were working. 92 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 4: They didn't come whatever. 93 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: When I was doing volleyball and all of that. 94 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 6: So I think it's gonna be like me healing that 95 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 6: part of me, but like I'm gonna probably take to 96 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 6: the next level. I'll be a roofio even though I'm 97 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 6: not that competitive as a person. I know when it 98 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 6: comes to my kid, I think I'm gonna hobbies and 99 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 6: tell me to chill. 100 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean a little bit. 101 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 5: Like my sports reporter friend Jason Brown said, you're calling 102 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 5: the game. 103 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 2: Well, see, that's the thing is, like you guys with kids, 104 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 2: you're gonna have, you know, events where the whole show 105 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: is going to show up to support your kid, and 106 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 2: then then you have to worry about all of our personalities. 107 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 2: You gotta keep I have no skin in the game. 108 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 2: So I'm like, you know, it's like Uncle Fred, shut up. 109 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: No, I won't. 110 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 2: I won't shut up. I'm known of these people. I 111 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: don't care. Hey Jackie, good morning. 112 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 7: Hey guys, what's up. Good mornings. 113 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: You're a bad sports parent. You're willing to admit it. 114 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,799 Speaker 7: Yes, I am. I hate to admit it. I've actually 115 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 7: gotten kicked out of a couple of my daughter's games. 116 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 7: Well that's just from my husband. 117 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 2: So your husband makes you. What are you doing, though, 118 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 2: What are you doing to make it so bad that 119 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 2: you got to go? 120 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 7: Well, So, my daughter is the captain of her volleyball team. 121 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 7: Now we're dealing with fourteen year olds at this point, 122 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 7: but she's captain of her team and I am very 123 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 7: proud of that. So when somebody messes up a play 124 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,719 Speaker 7: that she could make, I'll be like, number thirty four. 125 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: Years, stop it, stop it. 126 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 2: You're hecking your own like your your daughter's own peers. 127 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 7: Yes, I am the worst in America because kids play. 128 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: You can't tell a fourteen year old they suck. 129 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, well I sure can't, and I did have your Now. 130 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 4: Have you ever gotten into it with another parent? 131 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: No? 132 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 7: Never, But that's why my baby father, he is her father. 133 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 7: He always kicks me out. He's like, shut the heck 134 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 7: up right now, or get out because you're embarrassing me. 135 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 2: I don't know if the kid's gonna do anything, but 136 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 2: you're right, Like if i'm if I'm the father of 137 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 2: the girl you just said sucks, I'm probably gonna be 138 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 2: like wait, what right. 139 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 5: He's like, my daughter's thirty four, what are you talking about? 140 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 7: Exactly exactly, And he's like he's like they could be 141 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 7: sitting right behind us. You know they can hear her loud. 142 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: But you know, I'm sorry, fourteen year olds. 143 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 7: Said for my kid, she's the best. So I want 144 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 7: her to stay the best and have that mentality. So 145 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 7: if I can say a couple of things to get 146 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 7: the other kids off hand that aren't making my. 147 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: Cracky. You can't do this way. 148 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 7: Code process of elimination, you know you do. I gotta 149 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 7: get him out of you know, going to to high 150 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 7: school next year. 151 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,119 Speaker 5: What if your daughter isnting real? What if your daughter's 152 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 5: too good for that? What if she should be on 153 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 5: a better team. You know what I'm saying, not get 154 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 5: rid of the people. 155 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 7: She definitely is. She's in because she's in clubs and 156 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 7: everything else. So but going into high school, I want 157 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 7: her to make the team. And because you have to 158 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 7: make the team in high school, it's not like you 159 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 7: just walk in and every kid gets in. You have 160 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 7: to move. 161 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: Ok. 162 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, she's right. 163 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: Now, Jackie, Jackie, your daughter mate. I mean, I hope 164 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,679 Speaker 2: everything works out well. Your daughter may have some issues 165 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 2: as a grown up, that's all right. 166 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 8: I don't think so. 167 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 7: I don't think so. I think that she is a 168 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 7: good mentality, and it gives her drive to be better. 169 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 2: I mean, kids got to be tough these days, but 170 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 2: I don't know they need their fellow parents. Uh, just 171 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 2: screaming on that they suck. It sounds like the kind 172 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 2: of thing that all right, Jackie, Well, just never yell 173 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 2: at us like that. Okay, thank you, never never. 174 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 7: I love y'all day. 175 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:58,559 Speaker 1: But high school she's not the best. 176 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 4: You know what I hate is the parent who was 177 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 4: trying to live icariously through their child, like you didn't 178 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 4: make it in football. 179 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 2: The parent that did play for that high school thirty 180 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 2: years ago or whatever and still wears the ring. Yeah, 181 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 2: it's like, you know when I was back in the day, 182 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 2: when I was here, we won the championship or what. 183 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, right, have you done nothing? You've done 184 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 2: nothing since then that we can brag about. Come on, man, yeah, 185 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 2: employee the month, nothing nothing? 186 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: Hey Vanessa, Hi, good morning, Press, Hi, good morning. Hi, 187 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: love you too. So you're you're the parent. Look at this. 188 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 1: It's it's the mom's calling into it or the problem. 189 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 8: Oh. 190 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 9: Absolutely. My son has been playing soccer since he's been 191 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 9: two years old, and I have also been playing since five, 192 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 9: So it hits home for me, and I started coaching 193 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 9: about three years ago, and I cannot keep my mouth shut. 194 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 9: I will tell the refs listen, stop pushing. I know 195 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 9: the game. I'll get in their face. And my son 196 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 9: two weeks ago was like, you better watch out for 197 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 9: my mom. And I'm like, it's your butt down, boy, 198 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 9: I will do the work. 199 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you let me handle this. 200 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 9: I kind of like that, like that's what I'm there for. 201 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 9: You there for the goals. 202 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 2: That's kind of cute. I kind of like it that 203 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 2: until they lock you up and throw away. 204 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 9: The cute until they take to the I think I 205 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,720 Speaker 9: had to say that to him because other parents were like, 206 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 9: she better reprimand him. But at the same time, I 207 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 9: was like, you go, boy, he's wrong. 208 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 2: I love it, Vanessa, thank you have a good day. 209 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: You just don't see all other kids that they suck. 210 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 2: That's kind of where I Someone just texted, there's going 211 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 2: to be a time when someone says that her daughter sucks, yeah, 212 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 2: and then well she gonna tackle you, So you might 213 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 2: want to keep that to yourself. There was you know, 214 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 2: I went to that little, tiny, little private school growing up, 215 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 2: and there was a uh on the same basketball team there, 216 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 2: the girls basketball team. There was a guy who was 217 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 2: like very very wealthy. He was I don't want us 218 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,479 Speaker 2: to give away too much. He was in an industry, 219 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 2: construction related industry. And then there was another guy whose 220 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 2: daughter was on the team, who apparently early in like 221 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 2: many many years prior, was like a laborer for this guy, 222 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 2: and I guess didn't think he treated him all that 223 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: well and then wound up getting into business himself and 224 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 2: then not getting quite to the same level, but enough 225 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 2: that he was now sending his kid to the private school. 226 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 2: But they did not like each other, so they had 227 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 2: to they had they had daughters on the same team, 228 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 2: but everybody knew they had to sit on opposite ends 229 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 2: of the of the stands because the one dude like 230 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 2: was like, look I showed you like you treat people poorly, 231 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 2: and now I'm the same as you. But like those 232 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 2: two parents didn't like each other, and I remember that 233 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 2: was the drama, was like when when is that one 234 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 2: dude who used to paint houses for him? It was 235 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 2: now you know, a developer himself, right, when is that 236 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 2: dude gonna have it? And didn't tackle the other guy? 237 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 2: That was what we were all waiting for it never happened. No, No, 238 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 2: they actually would have been in the stands, and that's 239 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,599 Speaker 2: what I was hoping for all. I'd go to the 240 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 2: girls basketball teams, just you know, he'd be like, man, heck, 241 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 2: I didn't treat you well, did he? 242 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: You know, like he gem on a little bits. Remember 243 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: that he's gonna sponsor this gym? Yeah, yeah, I think 244 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: he did sponsor where. 245 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 2: Forget about it trending stories, So we'll do him next 246 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 2: Fred's show. Somebody texted, uh, let me make sure I 247 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: get this right, something up to the effect of where 248 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 2: is it here? The like like the I can't find 249 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 2: it right now. It's it's the it's the the parent 250 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: who's acting like this towards their daughter, like Jackie was 251 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: talking about when she called it a second ago. But 252 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 2: you don't yelling at all the other players. Those are 253 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 2: the kids that peak in high school, and I hope 254 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 2: that's not true. But then it's like the rest of her. 255 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: It's almost like bad karma. Don't do that, Jackie, You're 256 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 2: not doing your kid any favors. Oh you know what 257 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:48,439 Speaker 2: I mean, Because it's like, what what if? What if 258 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 2: some days she does get on a better team. Or 259 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: goes to place in college and she's not the best 260 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: player anymore. You know, then what don't do that? Don't 261 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 2: be like that, I Amber, Hi, good morning, Good. 262 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: Morning, and welcome to the show. 263 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 2: So just we're wrapping up the uh, you know, like 264 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 2: the crazy sports parent thing here. Apparently kids will mimic 265 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 2: the behavior of their parents at these games. 266 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: So like if you're screaming at the kid. 267 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 2: Or screaming at all the other players, screaming at the ref, 268 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 2: you know, being crazy at these games, your kid's gonna 269 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 2: wind up back in the same way. And I suppose 270 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 2: that's not really good, Like when they go in for 271 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 2: their performance review and they're like, no, you suck, actually, 272 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 2: and then they get fired from their job. 273 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: Is this going to be your kid, Amber. 274 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 10: No, it's not gonna be my kid, because I was 275 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 10: actually the kid who had the crazy parent and was 276 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 10: scarred for life. Okay, so I don't want to put 277 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 10: my kids through that. But my dad, growing up, he 278 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 10: was coined the nickname spider Man. He was the assistant 279 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 10: coach for my brother's baseball team, and after what he 280 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 10: thought was a bad call, he climbed an eight foot 281 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 10: from the dugout. You know, at the umpires. Oh no, 282 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 10: and was obviously thrown out over the game, and I 283 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 10: think he had like a suspension. But it was so 284 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 10: mortifying to be the child of the parent who screams 285 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 10: and yells, so it definitely won't be me. 286 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 2: But yeah, okay, all right, so it did the opposite. 287 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 2: So you watched it, now you don't want to do it, 288 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 2: and you won't do it to your kids, exactly. 289 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 290 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 10: Once I got into high school, my mom and I 291 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 10: my dad was not allowed to go to any of 292 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 10: my volleyball games. 293 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 2: So beat up the rest, Thank you, Amber, I have 294 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 2: a great day. Glad you called him, thank you too. 295 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 2: The opposite of this, and I wonder maybe it's a 296 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 2: topic for another time. But like my parents, for example, 297 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 2: everybody made every team at my school except for maybe 298 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 2: like the golf team or something. I don't I think 299 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 2: everyone made that team too. There just weren't enough people, right, So, 300 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 2: like everybody made varsity. Basically we had university. But like 301 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 2: if you were even if you even remotely, if you 302 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 2: even knew which direction which hope to put the ball in, 303 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 2: you made varsity, which should tell you how bad juniversity was. 304 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 1: But I was bad. 305 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 2: I was not good, and my parents went to everything like, 306 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 2: they didn't miss a game. So what's that like being 307 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 2: the parent of the kid that sucks? Man? 308 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:11,959 Speaker 1: I mean, because I was. 309 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 2: And the only reason I can say it like that 310 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 2: is because I was. I was not good. Though my 311 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 2: parents went to every game, road game, home game. They 312 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 2: didn't miss it. My grandparents went, how miserable must it 313 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: have been? 314 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: Though? 315 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 2: Because I really wasn't any good? And so like, how 316 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 2: do you like everyone's looking at you. Your kid's the 317 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 2: tallest guy out there, barely can play, you know, and 318 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 2: then you got to sit there like, yeah, I guess 319 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 2: you know we're proud of him. 320 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: I not really. 321 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 2: I mean, like, how do you put on a good face? 322 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 2: I mean, I realize if it's your kid, so you 323 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 2: want to find the good. But like the opposite of 324 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: this where you think your kid's the best, how about 325 00:14:45,120 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 2: when you know your kid's not good, right, and you 326 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 2: have to show up anyway? My parents, come to think 327 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 2: of it, they must have been very embarrassed. I wonder 328 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 2: if they just pretended like some other. 329 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: Kid was theirs. 330 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 2: Oh wow, like the kid that was good, they'd be like, oh, 331 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 2: little Danny, We're so proud of you. Wait a minute, 332 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 2: mone it's the fresh trending, but that's got to be 333 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 2: the like, oh man, it's kind of funny. 334 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 4: I have a nephew who's not the best, and it's 335 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 4: really funny to watch him, like he has all the 336 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 4: confidence in the world. He has all he's still young enough, 337 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 4: he doesn't really understand and he just is. He's so mediocre. 338 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 4: It's so funny though, it's so funny. 339 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: Well you still, I mean, you love him, you're proud 340 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 1: of it. 341 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 4: And we just buy snacks for the rest of the team. 342 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 4: You know they'll they'll embrace him. 343 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's like, oh man, like what the other 344 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 2: parents who got to be? Like what a waste of hype? 345 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 2: This kid is six foot four, like Jesus, like putting 346 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 2: the ball in the hoop. Come on, it's like writing 347 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 2: in our diaries, except we say him aloud. We call 348 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 2: him blogs kiky, go ahead. 349 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 4: Deer blog man. Why are y'all like this? Okay, looking 350 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 4: at me, because I'm talking to y'all, Well, why are 351 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 4: you like this? So everybody knows Big tim is. He 352 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 4: doesn't eat right, he loves beggars, peace to He likes 353 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 4: five guys. You know, he eats all the grease and 354 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 4: over the weekend he kept complaining of a headache. So 355 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 4: me trying to get him to change his ways, I said, 356 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 4: you probably have high blood pressure. Okay, why did I 357 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 4: tell this man that? So yesterday, instead of booking an 358 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 4: appointment for a doctor, he goes to myyer okay and 359 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 4: checks his blood pressure. 360 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: O my god. 361 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 4: So he's so dramatic. So he's like, I gotta I 362 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 4: gotta go check my blood pressure. So I'm like, oh, 363 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 4: maybe he's going to urgent care. I don't know. My 364 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 4: sister's a nurse. Maybe he'll go to her house. This 365 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 4: man is at the mayer when his arm and the 366 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 4: machine trying to check. 367 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 1: His blood pressure, so their food at the same time. 368 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 4: He said, let me get a two piece, so I'm 369 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 4: sure that was his pla. 370 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 1: My blood pressure is not that high, all right, yeah, 371 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: so two piece and fingers shoes. Yet I go yeah. 372 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 4: So all day yesterday, even during the show, I'm getting 373 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 4: alerts from him texting me like the numbers. So he's 374 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 4: taking the test like three times. He has three different numbers, 375 00:17:05,600 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 4: so I don't think he's doing this correctly. And by me, yes, 376 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:13,359 Speaker 4: they're all elevated. So I start googling, because that's what 377 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 4: I do when I'm sick. So I started going. I'm like, yeah, 378 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 4: it's a little high. And he's like, okay, so what 379 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,400 Speaker 4: do we do. I'm like, well, you should probably first 380 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 4: change the way you eat. Maybe go for a walk 381 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 4: or something, you know. So he's like okay, okay. So 382 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:26,439 Speaker 4: then the whole day yesterday he did not eat. He's like, 383 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 4: I'm fasting. Then he's like, well, what medicine can I get? 384 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 4: So I start googling again. So I'm like, oh, there's 385 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:37,719 Speaker 4: these little peels you can get from walkers that may 386 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 4: help me. So then he's like, okay, are you going 387 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 4: to make me an appointment? 388 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:43,160 Speaker 7: Yes? 389 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 4: But in my mind, why isn't my responsibility to make 390 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:47,160 Speaker 4: your doctor's appointment? 391 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 6: Yes. 392 00:17:48,200 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 4: So then his man couldn't take his hunger pains anymore, 393 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 4: so he thinks the healthiest thing for him to do 394 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 4: is to go to the submarine player. 395 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, oil yeah. 396 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 4: He goes, what can I get? Because you know I 397 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 4: normally get the corn beef. I'm like, please don't get 398 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,679 Speaker 4: the corn beef. That's all. So please don't get that. 399 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 4: He's like, so I'm like, maybe try a turkey sandwich. 400 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 4: He's like, can I put the. 401 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: Oil on there? Oh? 402 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:13,400 Speaker 10: God? 403 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 1: There? 404 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 10: You know. 405 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 4: So he comes home last night he has a turkey 406 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 4: sandwich and I can feel like as I'm getting ready 407 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 4: to go to sleep, he's up pacing because he doesn't 408 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 4: know what his blood pressure after. 409 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 1: He ate this sandwich. O, my god. 410 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 4: The whole point of this is just go to the doctor. Yeah, 411 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 4: you know, you need to change the way you eat. 412 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 4: And we're getting old and like you can't just be 413 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:33,679 Speaker 4: out here eating beggars every day. 414 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 2: You know. What's funny about my blood pressure is that 415 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 2: I don't know what it is because when I go 416 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 2: to the doctor, there's is no joke. 417 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: It's so out of control high. 418 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 2: Like I go in there and I get white coat 419 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,120 Speaker 2: syndrome and I look just just being in the place. Yes, 420 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 2: like to the point where the last time the girl 421 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 2: did it, she was like that can't be right, Like 422 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:55,840 Speaker 2: it was like seven thousand over forty thousand, like it 423 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 2: was I don't know what She did it three times 424 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 2: and she's like, I don't know, try like breathing differently, 425 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 2: like she said, I've never really seen it like this before. 426 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 2: And the doctor comes in looks at all the rest 427 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 2: of them. He's like, this isn't real. I'll tell you 428 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 2: go home and do it and then tell me what 429 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 2: it is next time. But even when I pull out 430 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,880 Speaker 2: the little machine to do it, that makes my heart 431 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 2: start to it. I can feel and start racing. Yes, 432 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 2: so I have no idea what my blood pressure really is. 433 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's how he is like the thought of 434 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 4: me saying blood pressure just and that' yes, yes, but 435 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 4: just go to the doctor. 436 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: Bruh. 437 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 4: I'm tired, Like, please stop texting me. 438 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: I'm the same way, like, yeah, you have high cholesterol. 439 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 2: So I go home, I buy green tea, all Man's, 440 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 2: all this stuff. I eat it for like three days. 441 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 2: I'm like, it's gotta be better now, Sis, how easy 442 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 2: it is. Somebody give me some mcnonal schicken naggers right now. 443 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:51,199 Speaker 2: I earned him, stay here, go next after Taylor fred Show, 444 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 2: it feels good, a right, good news, happy stories. Every 445 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 2: day we share him with you on the show for 446 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 2: kaylen Oh, yeah, take it away all right. 447 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 4: Not only is Travis Kelsey fine, but he's doing good 448 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 4: deeds because seventy nine year old Gloria White is rocking 449 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 4: her Travis Kelsey Jersey proudly because Travis Kelcey and his 450 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 4: Foundation eighty seven and Running came to the rescue when 451 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 4: White reached out to a local nonprofit organization for help 452 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 4: to rebuild her home after losing her husband three years ago. 453 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 4: Gloria was limited to a wheelchair but wanted to stay 454 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,920 Speaker 4: in her home of fifty six years. Kelsey's foundation repaired 455 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 4: Gloria's home, along with one hundred and twenty five other homes, 456 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 4: and he made all of the needed updates. Gloria said, 457 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 4: I thank God for Travis and his foundation. It has 458 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 4: brought me many tears of joy. 459 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 2: Well, you don't have to buy his own clothes anymore. 460 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 2: So he's got plenty of money. I learned yesterday it 461 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 2: was five hundred thousand dollars she supposedly gave him to 462 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 2: buy clothes. Can't be true. He's got plenty of money. Yeah. 463 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 2: All she'd have to do is be like, hey, can 464 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 2: you not? Can you not wear a shirt with those 465 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,119 Speaker 2: two women from the Mudflats? 466 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 1: You know where the ship from the shrimp Club? Right? 467 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,679 Speaker 2: Do you not wear your ricks VP? Can you not 468 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 2: wear your Federal Booty Inspector's shirt. 469 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 1: FBI? 470 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 10: Yeah? 471 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 4: Both have one, don't you? 472 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 9: Right? 473 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: One the other one. 474 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 2: You know, I got the shirt, yeah, the bikini that occasions. 475 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: You know, absolutely, what are you talking about? No fear 476 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 1: one of those and one one of those two man. 477 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:38,879 Speaker 2: Actually, you know what's interesting about this story is I 478 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:42,440 Speaker 2: think Kaylen is interviewing you do this at Lary's Children's 479 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 2: in Chicago, which is listen to this though I don't 480 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 2: think I have the strength to do it, but this 481 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 2: is in a hospital in Argentina. A wonderful and obvious 482 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 2: initiative is giving babies a more natural environment when they're 483 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 2: born into circumstances that are anything but so place in 484 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 2: an incubator with mother and absent due to work, substance abuse, incarceration, injury, death. Unfortunately, 485 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 2: a team of volunteer huggers take two hour shifts holding 486 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 2: babies in their arms to benefit their growth, so they 487 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 2: aren't left too long in the machine without human contact. 488 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 2: So neither a mother nor a father needs to read 489 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 2: the established scientific literature that holding babies speeds up their 490 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 2: neurological development, helps them to gain weight, acclimatize to the world, 491 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 2: and sleep more soundly. Because that's not always possible, there 492 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 2: are volunteers who go to the hospital and hold these 493 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 2: tiny little premature babies so that they get that. And 494 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 2: I know they have a program for this at the 495 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 2: nick qu At a lot of hospitals, Louri Children being 496 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 2: one of them. But I also know that it's not 497 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 2: for everybody, and there's a very extensive interview process, as 498 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,160 Speaker 2: you might imagine. But the emotional toll this has to take, 499 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 2: I would imagine, because you know, it's not always a 500 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 2: great situation. Now, but wow, that is a selfless thing 501 00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 2: to do. They have fifty volunteer huggers who spend time 502 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 2: hugging prematurely born babies or those whose mothers are absent, 503 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,959 Speaker 2: fifty nine women and one guy, and there are two 504 00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 2: hundred people on the waiting list to do this very 505 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 2: very sweet thing. And I'm sure that that and a 506 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 2: lot of other stuff is needed at children's hospitals all 507 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 2: over the nation. So if you're interested, you should look 508 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 2: into it, or you can volunteer at Ronald McDonald house 509 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,959 Speaker 2: houses all over the country. There are I think, what's seven, 510 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 2: I think there are seven in Chicago, Land. I think 511 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 2: there are would you tell me three in Raleigh? So yeah, 512 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 2: lots of opportunities to help out. So here we go. Guys, 513 00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 2: I did not oversell this. I mean, look, I've been known, 514 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 2: I'm the king of the bsers man, I will be 515 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 2: as of some bs ors. 516 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: But this here will deliver. 517 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:43,159 Speaker 2: You must wait for waiting by the phone, and you 518 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 2: won't have to wait long because Jack Carlo only sinks 519 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:45,640 Speaker 2: for about two minutes. 520 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 1: Fred Show. Yeah, they talk better than the excite. 521 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. I 522 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 2: like her writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 523 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 2: I'll take this one, dear blog. I'm not even sure 524 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 2: how this littlebit hold of mine started. I think Facebook, 525 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,640 Speaker 2: people you may know is where this actually no no. 526 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 1: IT memories those IT people you may know. I don't know. 527 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 2: It is that or like maybe I got into a 528 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 2: there's sections of your dms that you may not look 529 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,439 Speaker 2: at very often, like people that maybe aren't your friends 530 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 2: that message you, or there's like a subcategory request on 531 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,679 Speaker 2: the messenger at that I never look at because I 532 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: guess it's people I'm not friends with. Okay, And I 533 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 2: found one in there from a girl that I dated 534 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 2: like fifteen years ago when I lived somewhere else and 535 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 2: she was messaging me like five years ago. So then 536 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 2: I go down this rabbit hole of like whatever happened 537 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,720 Speaker 2: to her? And I started looking and I can't find 538 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 2: very much. I found her LinkedIn. I was just curious 539 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 2: because I'm like, oh, there she was trying to get 540 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 2: a hold of me. This is a long time ago. 541 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 2: I mean in this period of time, she could have 542 00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:00,919 Speaker 2: got married, kids, gotten divorced, right, I have no idea. 543 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,359 Speaker 1: And then there was another one. 544 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 2: That popped and then I'm like, so then do you 545 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,159 Speaker 2: start thinking, like, well, what happened to this person? And 546 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,640 Speaker 2: so then so there's a couple of people that I 547 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,919 Speaker 2: sort of have uncovered from my past that I'm just 548 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 2: sort of morbidly curious about because it's not gonna it 549 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:20,719 Speaker 2: probably isn't going to do me much good. What I'm 550 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 2: gonna find is they're like happy, married kids, like in 551 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 2: a happy life. And then I'll probably feel like a loser, 552 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 2: which is what usually happens when I go look up 553 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,919 Speaker 2: people from the past, and the thing is the pictures 554 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 2: tell nothing. 555 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: You know, they could be miserable. But I'm famous for this. 556 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,679 Speaker 2: I'm famous for like someone I didn't work out with, 557 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 2: I'll go back years later and I'll go find them 558 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,440 Speaker 2: on Instagram and see what they're up to and then 559 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:41,360 Speaker 2: they are, you know, with their husband and their kid 560 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 2: and the greatest day ever, you know, or whatever, and 561 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 2: it's like, no, it's not I don't think it's not. Well, 562 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 2: I mean maybe it is at the time, but how 563 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 2: many greatest day ever pictures have you found if you 564 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 2: scroll back far enough, like go on the dating apps 565 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:54,640 Speaker 2: and none of you were on them. But if you're 566 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 2: on them and someone gives you their instagrams, to roll 567 00:25:57,240 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 2: back far enough and you'll see them standing there with 568 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 2: another man or another one going great if they ever well, 569 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,080 Speaker 2: obviously it was them, but it's not now because you're 570 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 2: on Hinge or whatever. But it does mean no good. 571 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:08,120 Speaker 2: It does me no good to do this. But here's 572 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,239 Speaker 2: the other problem is that we've done it here on 573 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 2: this show where I've brought somebody up and I've been like, 574 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: I had this high school roommate who was great or whatever, 575 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 2: and then we look him up on the air to 576 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 2: find out he's dead. 577 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, So this is where I'm. 578 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,679 Speaker 2: Going with this is my problem with this game is 579 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 2: sometimes you don't get information that you want to, like, 580 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 2: you get sad stuff. You got to be careful what 581 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 2: you're looking for. You know what I mean, but you 582 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:32,560 Speaker 2: should know. 583 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 4: Like I just found a class photo from my fourth 584 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,400 Speaker 4: grade class and it has everybody's first and last name 585 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 4: listed at the bottom of the bitches. 586 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:41,520 Speaker 1: So what I do. 587 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,439 Speaker 4: I got on Facebook and just started searching these names 588 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,880 Speaker 4: to try to figure out where these people are. And yes, 589 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 4: somebody was dead. 590 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,119 Speaker 2: Well see that's what I mean. It's like, oh, so 591 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 2: you wind up being like sad. I think it's just 592 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 2: careful what you wish for. I guess, like thet these 593 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 2: little research projects that go on every now and again 594 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:04,160 Speaker 2: out of nostalgia sometimes make me unhappy because it looks 595 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:08,399 Speaker 2: like someone's happy without me, or it makes me unhappy 596 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 2: because it turns out that this person from my past 597 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 2: is no longer here and I didn't I didn't know that, 598 00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 2: and I hadn't talked to him in a long time, 599 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 2: so it didn't necessarily impact my day to day and 600 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 2: it doesn't make it any less sad. But because we 601 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 2: weren't friends or talking, I didn't necessarily need to know 602 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 2: because they weren't in my life anymore. But then it's 603 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,840 Speaker 2: like you start to feel bad. You're like, oh, no, 604 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,919 Speaker 2: like that guy that we were talking on the air 605 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 2: about this crazy roommate. I had a year in college 606 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 2: and this dude was like mister personality and I loved him. 607 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:36,359 Speaker 1: And he failed out of school. 608 00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:38,439 Speaker 2: And I remember when his parents came to get him 609 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 2: and pack his stuff up, and the dude was out 610 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 2: here making it, you know, because he was just so personable. 611 00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 2: I lost touch with him. We're talking about him, Ruvio 612 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,760 Speaker 2: googles him. The dude passed away, and it was like. 613 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 4: To break the news, right, Fred, I'm sorry to. 614 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 7: Tell you this. 615 00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,679 Speaker 2: So I'm like, these these little these little missions to 616 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: you know, go back and sort of change the past 617 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 2: or whatever, or go back and sort of mess with 618 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 2: the past. I think sometimes they don't always work in 619 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 2: your favor. 620 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 4: Do you ever reach out to any of the people 621 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 4: that you research if they are still alive. 622 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 2: The two that I found I did reach out to 623 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,440 Speaker 2: just because I was like, I have you know, it's 624 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,720 Speaker 2: a long time ago. It was a whole different life ago, basically. 625 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 2: So I hope that they've moved on and that they're 626 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 2: happy or whatever. But the other thing that's interesting is 627 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 2: I can see myself if any of either of them 628 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 2: are single. I can see myself revisiting because I've done this. No, no, no, 629 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 2: but here's what happens. And again, you guys are married 630 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:34,719 Speaker 2: and or in serious relationships or whatever. But one hundred 631 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 2: percent of the time that I have gone back in 632 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: history with my revisionist history and tried to like try again, 633 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 2: thinking that it was obviously my fault. I wasn't mature enough, 634 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 2: I was in a different place, I had a different mentality, 635 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 2: the same thing ends up happening. It's like, I feel like, 636 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 2: if it's meant to work out, it will work out, 637 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 2: and if it's not, there's not very many chances, not many. 638 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 2: There aren't too many situations that I've heard of where 639 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 2: people separate for like a decade and then they call 640 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 2: each other and now now it's now it works. I 641 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 2: feel like the same issues usually rear their head. And 642 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 2: I'm sure there's people listening who can give me an 643 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 2: example of, Oh, I reconnected after a long time and 644 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 2: it worked better. But in my experience, whatever the problem 645 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,240 Speaker 2: was the first time is still the problem, you know 646 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,840 Speaker 2: what I mean, Because people fundamentally don't change as grown ups, 647 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 2: but you think they would. 648 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:24,880 Speaker 4: It worked for j Lo and she's about to say, 649 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 4: is it you make a movie about it? 650 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 2: Is it working though. I told you someone said Fred, 651 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 2: death is part of life. No, I on the text, 652 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 2: You're right. I guess what I'm saying, though, is not 653 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,760 Speaker 2: that I didn't need to know that they're dead, but 654 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 2: they weren't part of my life anymore. So it doesn't 655 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,959 Speaker 2: necessarily make me happy to know but they're not with 656 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 2: us anymore, or that they're in jail, or that they 657 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 2: are a criminal. I've had that one happen before too, 658 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 2: where I look up somebody from my past and I 659 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,719 Speaker 2: was like, oh, white collar crime, huh. I looked up 660 00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 2: somebody else in my past I was friends with. He's 661 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 2: in federal old prison for thirty years. 662 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 1: Thirty years. 663 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, and the stuff that the guy was doing that 664 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 2: got him in federal prison, I was I didn't know 665 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,360 Speaker 2: he was doing it, but I was in the circle 666 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 2: when this stuff was happening. 667 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 4: Oh yeah. 668 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 2: It's not a great feeling, no, to know, like, oh, oh, 669 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 2: so you were stealing from people when we. 670 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 4: Were friends, that's. 671 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 2: Cool, or whatever else you were into. Yeah, I almost 672 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 2: went to prison for thirty No, I didn't. I didn't know, 673 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 2: but I just I guess. My point here is that 674 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 2: the exercise of rewriting history or going backwards. It doesn't 675 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 2: always pay off, and you don't always get the information 676 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 2: that you're looking for. 677 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,600 Speaker 1: I guess, but yeah, Kiki does it anyway all the time, 678 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 1: all the time. You look back at x's. 679 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 4: No, I don't have that many. 680 00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 8: But you don't look back on the few that you have. No, 681 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 8: you don't care what they're doing. I could care less. 682 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 8: I know they looking at me that you couldn't care, right, 683 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 8: you know they looking at me? And how do you 684 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:55,560 Speaker 8: look at you? 685 00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 2: Because you're looking at the stats and looking for that, right, 686 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 2: not looking for that, but you are looking for. 687 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:02,959 Speaker 4: That, you know, the French page, just looking at 688 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 1: That, always always taking into Kiki's past.