1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they These are the radio 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: blogs on the Fresh shows. 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 2: Like writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 2: We call the blogs kiki. Yes, I take it away, 5 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: dear blogs. 6 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 3: So, in the spirit of love, yesterday I got a 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:20,479 Speaker 3: chance to interview my true soulmate in Love of my 8 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 3: Life Omaran, which is you know, a guy from a 9 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 3: boy band in the early late the early two thousands, yeah, 10 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 3: early two thousands. So as I was interviewing him, I 11 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 3: decided to ask my future husband, what is your love language? 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: Now? 13 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: This man named all of them. 14 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 3: So I was like, Okay, that's not helpful, but it 15 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 3: made me think about it. What is my love language? 16 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 3: And I truly don't know. I really feel like I 17 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 3: don't know. And I was talking to some people online. 18 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,599 Speaker 3: They said that there's a quiz that I can take 19 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 3: to kind of figure it out. 20 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: Here's his gifts, you thinks, well, here you. 21 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 2: People don't know about about love languages. There are five 22 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: of them. Words of affirmation, quality, time huh, physical touch, 23 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 2: acts of service, and receiving gifts. And the five love 24 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 2: languages describe different ways that people receive an express love 25 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 2: in a relationship. Okay, and so you're saying gifts for 26 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: for Kiki Klan. 27 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 1: I think so. 28 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 4: I mean not in a bad way, like I think 29 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 4: people are ashamed to say that that's their love language. 30 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 4: But I do think that it's there's more to it, 31 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 4: like somebody thought of you, somebody knew what you wanted. 32 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: But I mean, correct me if I'm wrong. No, I 33 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: think that might be right because I'm looking at the list. 34 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 3: A physical touch is not one of them, like I 35 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 3: don't words of affirmation, like I don't think that's yours. 36 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 3: You think so, I think that's your other one. 37 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 5: There's two that you can have because I feel like 38 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 5: you like receiving I don't know, I don't compliments. Maybe 39 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 5: I don't know the same thing, but I feel like 40 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 5: you also like receiving. PUB was like, hey, great job today, Kiki. 41 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 5: I feel like you like that, unless you don't. 42 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: Know I do. I would love I would love that. 43 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 3: I don't know if I I think I would be 44 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 3: okay if I didn't have it, you know what I'm saying, 45 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 3: Like I would, I would tell myself good job. But 46 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 3: then here quality time, No leave me alone, that's all that. 47 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 3: No acts of service is cool? 48 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 2: You know. 49 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 3: I like when my cars, clean the driveway, shovel, you know, 50 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 3: stuff like that. But yeah, I think you might be 51 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,399 Speaker 3: right on the money with receiving gifts. So maybe that's mine. 52 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 3: What is everybody else's love. 53 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: Length, Pauline? 54 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 2: And I would guess yours is the same as mine, 55 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 2: which is words of affirmation. 56 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, it doesn't work as much on me anymore, maybe 57 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 5: because like now my frontal lobe is a little more 58 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 5: about loved animal. So like I feel like I kind 59 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 5: of started shifting. It's weird, but minus physical touch. Really really, 60 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 5: I'm always touching Hobby and he's not that guy, like 61 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 5: he does not want to be touched, so like it's 62 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 5: always like a fight of like, babe, not right now. 63 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 1: I don't want to be smothered. 64 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 5: I don't want to be this and I love touching 65 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,959 Speaker 5: people like I love touching you guys and just passion. 66 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: It's true, you schoo we like rub me every morning? 67 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 1: Yeah you do? 68 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 2: I do. 69 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like touching. So it's weird. I gotta stop. 70 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: Maybe that's how you show love. Yeah, yeah, I show 71 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: love that way. 72 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say quality time, Kaitlin, I don't know about that. 73 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: That's cool. I feel like I don't even know you anymore? 74 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 2: Any of you. 75 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 1: Nailed. 76 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 4: I'm like you, guys, I think it's either words of 77 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 4: affirmation or physical touch, but only sometimes, but that is 78 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 4: how I show like I'm a big toucher, like touch, 79 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 4: but I think it's words of affirmation as well. 80 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, ye. 81 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 2: Jason, what are you? Then? I won't guess because I 82 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 2: guess I'm not getting it right. 83 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 6: I think it's acts of service both ways. Like I 84 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 6: think I show people that I love and care about them, 85 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 6: but like doing things for them. 86 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 2: I agree with that. 87 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, And it's weird because I don't like people doing 88 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 6: things for me unless Mike does something for me. Like so, 89 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 6: I don't know if there's like a differentiation between like 90 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 6: you know, your partner versus like friends or whatever. But 91 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 6: like if he does something for me, like like he said, 92 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 6: like fix the car or whatever, then like that's like 93 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 6: how I'm like, Okay, he does care, you know. 94 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I don't know how words of affirmation all 95 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 2: day long, all day long and show mm not physical touch? No, No, 96 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 2: probably not. I would say acts of service or gift 97 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 2: giving if I'm really into you, but I yeah, I 98 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 2: wouldn't say I gravitate towards like I'm going to show 99 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 2: you my love by touching you, Like, yeah, you don't 100 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 2: like to touch. 101 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 4: I feel like I was going, you know, for a 102 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 4: little hug or something, and you're. 103 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 2: Like, oh, get on, it's putting. My mom and my 104 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 2: sister are the most loving people. Of course I grew 105 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 2: up with them, you know, I grew up in a 106 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 2: house of women, and and like they think it's funny, 107 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,720 Speaker 2: Like my mom will come over and like literally try 108 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 2: and smother me. My sister's the same way. They think 109 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: it's hilarious because I don't not reciprocate, but it's like 110 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 2: it's just not my thing for some reason. Yeah, words 111 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: of eff. I want people to tell me that I 112 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 2: did a good job. I want people to tell me 113 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: that they like like me. Yeah, even if sometimes I'm 114 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 2: not likable. See yeah, I'm telling you. Where the affirmation? Yeah, 115 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 2: where's the affirmation? And definitely gifts. 116 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 3: So I think everybody today should text their partner what 117 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 3: their love language is because I think a lot of 118 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 3: us get in relationships and expect people to just know 119 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 3: how to love us, and we haven't even told them 120 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 3: what our. 121 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: True love language is. 122 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:22,159 Speaker 3: Especially if you're like us and we're evolving and changing. 123 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 124 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: Maybe when you got with hobby it was affirmation, but 125 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 1: now it's touch and now you can't deal with it. 126 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 3: You gotta tell your partner what you want. 127 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: And yeah, and my husband, he is super what is it? 128 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 6: Uh? 129 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: Quality time? Okay? 130 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 5: And one thing about Paulina and Paulina is not a 131 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 5: quality time girl, quality. 132 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: Time as we're staying her out. 133 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, we could sit on the couch and be on 134 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 5: our phones and I could do work on my laptop. 135 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 5: You're here next to me, we're physically next to each other, right, 136 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 5: physical touch. 137 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:49,840 Speaker 1: But to him, that's not quality time. Like he's so 138 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: about your focus in yours and I don't have that 139 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 1: to give. 140 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,280 Speaker 4: That's a good point, Kiki, because my boyfriend the way 141 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 4: he shows. 142 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:57,799 Speaker 1: Love, his acts of service. 143 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,679 Speaker 4: But I always have to gently say sometimes we're too helpful. 144 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 4: Sometimes like he tried to unpack my suitcase, God bless him, 145 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 4: but like he put everything in the wrong place, you 146 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 4: know what I mean. 147 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: Sometimes we can help too much. 148 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 4: Now, I love, I love that you want to help, 149 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 4: but sometimes it's too much. 150 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love Huh. 151 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 2: Okay. Well, hey, by the way, since we're talking to 152 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 2: the third person, if you could tell Paulina that I 153 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: thought that words of affirmation were Paulina's things. They are 154 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: just like me as all your teammates, like I believe 155 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 2: it or not, I really focus on like trying to 156 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 2: do those like appeal to each of you in the 157 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 2: right way. And maybe this would explain why I'm not 158 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 2: because I don't know. I don't have any of them 159 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 2: right waiting by the phone. You've got to hear it. 160 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 2: It's next in two minutes.