WEBVTT - | Ep 138 | The Lip Flip

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for being here with us once again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, grave, yes, in the house. That was good.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, that was amazing. Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I came up with that, like just now, how are

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<v Speaker 2>you feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>You're feeling good? You look good. I'm feeling good. Thank you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you look amazing, thank you, thank you. It's quiet and busy. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's gone. Everybody's gone. The kids are at school. One

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<v Speaker 1>is at the getting his haircut. He's got a doctor appointment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, all that he's doing maintenance. Okay, do you have

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<v Speaker 2>a shady moment?

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<v Speaker 1>I traveled recently for basketball for the kids for Corey,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were in Indianapolis, Indiana. Okay, never been there before.

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<v Speaker 1>It actually is a nice city. Oh okay, good, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not you're going to say it was trash. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it actually is a nice city. We were in like

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<v Speaker 1>the suburbs of it, but the suburbs were nice, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's a really nice city. So it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of surprised us how nice it was. Anyway, the shady

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<v Speaker 1>moment comes our rental car, oh broke down on us.

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<v Speaker 1>What yes, Brandon, And it was like it had six

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<v Speaker 1>thousand miles a Ford Explorer, six thousand miles on it.

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<v Speaker 1>In the middle of Indiana, Indianapolis, the rental car breaks down. Yeah, which,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's such a pain in the ass. It's like, who,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here for basketball games. I'm trying to get to

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<v Speaker 1>my son's basketball game and over here the cars breaking down?

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<v Speaker 1>So did you miss the game? We met? We made

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<v Speaker 1>it to the game because one of a random mother

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<v Speaker 1>on another team who knew me from Housewives, was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>she's from Indiana, so her son's team was playing on

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<v Speaker 1>the India on the Indie Heat. She was just like, hey, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing. I'm like, oh my god, I'm dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with this rental car down on me. She's like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well out it. Because we were so the games we

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<v Speaker 1>were in one gym and then Corey's next game was

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<v Speaker 1>in another gym that was like twenty five minutes away.

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<v Speaker 1>So fortunately we made it to the one gym and

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<v Speaker 1>we were able to park, and then we couldn't start

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<v Speaker 1>the car. Oh god, so you know, I just tell

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<v Speaker 1>this random lady the story. She's like, oh, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to the other gym too, so y'all can hop

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<v Speaker 1>in my hole.

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<v Speaker 2>She was more than happy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, oh yes, she was like yes, shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to Mila. But she definitely came through and we all

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<v Speaker 1>me Wanta Carter hopped in her car, and she kept

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<v Speaker 1>apologizing because it was like her son's old two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>fourd escape. It was it was it was I hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>seen a car are of that condition in a while.

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<v Speaker 2>Over so she kept like that think got you from

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<v Speaker 2>A to B exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I don't care, just give it to my

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<v Speaker 1>son's game. But then we had to deal with the

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<v Speaker 1>whole Okay, now we gotta meet go back to the

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<v Speaker 1>other gyms to meet the tow truck to take that car,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we have to take an uber back to

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<v Speaker 1>the airport forty minutes away.

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<v Speaker 2>They wouldn't come bring you one.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, because it was Saturday, all the small local branches

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<v Speaker 1>were closed and so the only thing open is the airport.

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<v Speaker 1>And try getting through to somebody at the airport to

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<v Speaker 1>bring me a car. That's not happening. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>so it was so much, right, So we had to

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<v Speaker 1>get the car toad, take an uber to the airport,

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<v Speaker 1>get another car, and then going by a business.

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<v Speaker 2>It was that's a lot. Yeah, so what what car

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<v Speaker 2>rental company? As you are shady as well, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean they did what they could, like the roadside assistance people,

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<v Speaker 1>they did what they could, but it was that was

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<v Speaker 1>a pain in the ass.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, as we were on to you. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So my shady moment is because this has happened to me.

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<v Speaker 2>It's only like what time is it right now? Ten

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<v Speaker 2>thirty in the morning. Yeah, it's happened to me like

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<v Speaker 2>five times today. Okay, people asking me what I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do now that I'm gonna be an empty nester. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sick of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is.

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<v Speaker 2>The shadiness is not I'm gonna be an empty nest

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<v Speaker 2>of shady keep asking, asking and reminding you and reminding

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<v Speaker 2>me and what I'm gonna do, and oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>And they're like talking to me like my life is over, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>and stop it right, like people everywhere ever I went

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<v Speaker 2>got my car washed. Huh, I don't know these people.

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<v Speaker 2>They are just going to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my God, the girl's gonna leave. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>what you gonna do? Oh my god, you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>an empty nester? Like what right? Keep reminding, But I

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<v Speaker 1>guess they're like concerned. Maybe they've been through that, or

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<v Speaker 1>they picture themselves going through that and like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>what would I do? But yes, they they are not

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<v Speaker 1>thinking like You're getting this question eight million times a day.

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<v Speaker 2>A day, and so I'm just putting that out there

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<v Speaker 2>to the universe. Stop asking me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm gonn tell you what I'm gonna do. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>walk around naked. You already know that. Right in my house,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just no clothes. I'm gonna eat breakfast naked. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna eat lunch naked. Okay, you probably already do that.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it freaks out the girls, so I try

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<v Speaker 2>not to. And then I'm just gonna live, okay the end. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to visit my children, I'm going to visit Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna play in the streets.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be y'all gonna see me on TMZ like

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<v Speaker 2>dating somebody, kissing somebody in the corner.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do all the things. It's a turn up

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<v Speaker 1>time good. Yes, yes, I think I think you'll be okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, of course, it's I can't imagine when that

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<v Speaker 1>time comes from me, so I know how you're feeling, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or I can I can only imagine how you're feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm sure you will find ways to keep yourself

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<v Speaker 1>very busy.

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<v Speaker 2>Me too, So leave me alone. And when you see

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<v Speaker 2>me in the streets acting wild, because you will see that,

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<v Speaker 2>just leave me alone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living but now got three schools to visit, three

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<v Speaker 1>kids to visit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I love that though, right, So I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>hitting the road doing that. Yeah, I'm gonna be mine

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<v Speaker 2>in my business. I'm gonna be talking. Y'all know I

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<v Speaker 2>don't do that very well, So I will be talking

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<v Speaker 2>and just in any corner. Okay, Yeah, i'ma be doing

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<v Speaker 2>me the.

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<v Speaker 1>In Do you feel like you're gonna have to evenly

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<v Speaker 1>divide up your time to visit the girls? Like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you think one of them would be like all of them? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all of them will be.

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<v Speaker 2>If I go to one school, the other two are

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<v Speaker 2>gonna definitely be like how long did she stay? And

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<v Speaker 2>then like they're gonna want to meet a match whatever

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<v Speaker 2>I did with that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's terrible, horrible and Grace is the worst one. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Grace to be like, you know, well, mom, like why

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<v Speaker 2>aren't you coming? Like she's she's a bit of a nag.

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<v Speaker 2>I love her, but like if she if you tell

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<v Speaker 2>her something. Let's say, she's like, I want to go

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<v Speaker 2>eat tacos and you're like, oh, Grace, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna eat steak. She's like, but what's going on

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<v Speaker 2>with tacos?

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<v Speaker 1>What's wrong tacos?

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<v Speaker 2>And like until you eat the steak she's asking about,

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<v Speaker 2>like she doesn't let her go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I get that, she's that girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, so she's gonna want to make sure that

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<v Speaker 2>she gets all the mommy time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I love that, Like yeah, well no, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I love that just your relationship with your girls, because yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a great relationship with my mother, but I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to like spend time with my mother, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what I mean, because your mother was like me right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like no offense to my mom, but I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like worrying about if she seeing with my brother

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<v Speaker 1>or yeah yeah or when I mean and maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>because I went to I mean, no, it's just different.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even say that was maybe because I went

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<v Speaker 1>to University of Maryland and it was closer to home, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I kind of could go home whenever

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to anyway, but I don't. Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think if I was, like in another city, I would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, yeah, mom, come hang out.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, times are different, Yeah, I think relationships with parents

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<v Speaker 2>and children for sure, are totally different from they were

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<v Speaker 2>in the past, and different in a good way.

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<v Speaker 1>No, in a great way. Yeah, and I'm not letting

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<v Speaker 1>my girls go Like I saw gosh, who was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Whi's Khalifa? Uh huh? Did you see this? He said,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember where it was. I saw the headline

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<v Speaker 1>a little clip. He goes to the club with his mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Strip club with his mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, you know what, I actually could

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<v Speaker 1>picture myself doing that, which is my boys. Yeah, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I could.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely can see you doing that and me with mine. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to go to the strip club, but

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<v Speaker 2>like we could definitely go right like club hop.

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<v Speaker 1>Like hang out. He's like, yeah, my mom is my

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<v Speaker 1>roll dog, Like, oh, I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, that's gonna be me and

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<v Speaker 1>my kid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, what age is that he is? This ten years

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<v Speaker 2>from now?

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<v Speaker 1>Shoot, not even no, like when they're like Cory's what

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<v Speaker 1>Cory sixteen? Sixteen? Yeah, maybe five.

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<v Speaker 2>So when he's legal, you know of riving gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>and uh, what's up? Magic City?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we're doing at all.

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<v Speaker 2>She's gonna be in Miami at eleven.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, so I'm not smoking weed with my kids though.

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<v Speaker 2>Please don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, does anybody smoke weed anymore? I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was just all edibles. What people I mean is rollo,

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<v Speaker 1>your nostrils don't work. I smell weed all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter where I am. It does not matter

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<v Speaker 1>where I am. I smell weed. So yes, people still

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<v Speaker 1>smoke weed. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>A couple of things that we're a little late to

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<v Speaker 2>discuss what we're gonna We need to discuss first things first,

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<v Speaker 2>the benefit benefit benefer, Is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>The benefit of it all? Yes? Okay, well it's Ben

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<v Speaker 1>and j Lo. Yes, every day it's different now.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we don't by the time this who knows, but

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<v Speaker 2>every day is different. So on today I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>over what you.

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<v Speaker 1>Think I think it's quite rocky. I think I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it's over. Yeah, well you know what, right,

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<v Speaker 1>once it's rocky, I think with Jen and Ben it's over.

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<v Speaker 1>It's over. Yeah, now did we because because all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so what do we know? We know that he supposedly

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<v Speaker 1>moved out of.

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<v Speaker 2>Their house, their l a house. He's like down the street,

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<v Speaker 2>around the corner, somewhere in the airbnb. Right, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 2>know that they he's we know, we definitely know for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>He's never looked happy. Okay, that's clear. The man hasn't smiled.

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<v Speaker 2>And how long they've been married eighteen months? Who knows,

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<v Speaker 2>Let's say to you in two years?

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<v Speaker 1>Has it? It was a pandemic.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know when they got married, but he has

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<v Speaker 2>not smiled. The honeymoon colleagues not here the fact check.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're just gonna say all kinds of wrong things today. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think that, Yeah, I think it's a rap.

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<v Speaker 1>And she looks she doesn't look great to me. She

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<v Speaker 1>looks bothered. Yes, she looks stressed. She's bothered. I hesitate

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<v Speaker 1>to use the old word old oh's old oh ozempict

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<v Speaker 1>I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Old organza oat meal.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what old words. You got married a

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<v Speaker 1>year ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and in all, he's been grimacing for three hundred

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<v Speaker 2>and sixty five days.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so Ben, be free and be happy again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>get your life. Yeah all, that's all I'm gonna say

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<v Speaker 2>about that.

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<v Speaker 1>But but Jin, let's figure out why, why.

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<v Speaker 2>Why this is not working for you. As a matter

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<v Speaker 2>of fact, I don't ever want her to get married again.

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<v Speaker 2>As a matter of fact, just live with somebody. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't have to get married. You do not have to

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<v Speaker 2>marry these people.

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<v Speaker 1>She don't have to live with anyone at this point. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I think her career just takes precedence over everything in

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<v Speaker 1>your life, everything. And I think eventually that just she

0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:35.920
<v Speaker 1>probably you know, gets in a new relationship and they're

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<v Speaker 1>in the honeymoon phase, yeah you know, and then eventually

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<v Speaker 1>if fizzles, and then she's back to just full force

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<v Speaker 1>on her career.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think she emasculates men.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably, And when's the last time we've seen Ben affleck

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<v Speaker 1>do like any type of project, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, like is he dunkin donuts? He dunk and donuts

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<v Speaker 2>us to death? Okay, we were duncan out, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean but he no, he's working, he's been

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<v Speaker 2>in he was in so movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh is he? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I have Well, he was promoting a movie recently, Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if anyone saw it, but I think

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<v Speaker 2>he's busy as well. So I think that that's hard

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<v Speaker 2>and that's what they were saying. He was working on

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<v Speaker 2>a project out of the country during the met gala.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why he wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, he don't like her and he don't like

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<v Speaker 2>that kind of stuff right the end. So anyway, we

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<v Speaker 2>wished them the best individually, not together. We wished them

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<v Speaker 2>the best individually. Okay, so just get away from each other.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been a while, but we have not talked about

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<v Speaker 2>Sean Buffee Combs and the video that the entire world.

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<v Speaker 1>Has seen disgusting.

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<v Speaker 2>Did we talk that day that it came out? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Remember Bianca texted it. Yes, And well we didn't talk talk.

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<v Speaker 1>We were it was just in our group chat in

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<v Speaker 1>a group chat. Yeah, and because I think I was

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<v Speaker 1>out of town. But yeah, that was disgusting. That was horrifying. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And then to think about do you know the time,

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<v Speaker 1>like how long did they stay in a relationship after

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<v Speaker 1>that years years, like a couple of years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I made my children watch it because I have

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<v Speaker 2>daughters and just to be like, look, if you ever

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<v Speaker 2>even get an inkling that anybody's gonna put your hands

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<v Speaker 2>on you, you call me. Yeah, you call the police.

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<v Speaker 2>Get the hell away. I don't care where you are,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm coming to get you this. I felt so horrible

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<v Speaker 2>for Cassie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my brother called me.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, you know so many reasons why this

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<v Speaker 2>is horrible, and one of them is like, he's making

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<v Speaker 2>everyone think that all black men are like this, like

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<v Speaker 2>black men.

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<v Speaker 1>Just out here beating people up.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is what's even worse. The apology. What in

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<v Speaker 2>the world apology? But did we hear the word I

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<v Speaker 2>apologize or I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it was it was a woe is me type

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. Yeah, trying to fizzle, like defizzle the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, he actually said he didn't apolishe you're right here,

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<v Speaker 2>he said, up right?

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<v Speaker 1>Or I was that I was in a really big

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<v Speaker 1>dark place and I had to get help. But I

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<v Speaker 1>got help, and I got help.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so difficult to reflect on the darkest times

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<v Speaker 3>in your life. Sometimes you gotta do that. I was ugh,

0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:34.400
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I had rob bottom, but I make no excuses.

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<v Speaker 3>My behavior on that video is inexcusable. I take full

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<v Speaker 3>responsibility for my ashes in that video. I was disgusted

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<v Speaker 3>then when I did it. I'm disgusting now boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Good night bye. After after he called her whole lawsuit

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<v Speaker 1>a live la.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, put out a whole statement. Enough, I'm tired of

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<v Speaker 2>people slang during.

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<v Speaker 1>Me right what That's insane? Yeah, that is insane. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just I mean, did you see Cassie's statement that

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<v Speaker 1>she released. No, she released a statement and she pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much you know, was thanking everyone for their support and said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she was definitely younger and in a bad

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<v Speaker 1>place and it was a really difficult time for her.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's still you know, as she's grown out of that,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah and healed from it, she still has that trauma.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's still healing from that trauma for.

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<v Speaker 2>The rest of her life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And I'm sure and her statement was really gracious

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm sure it wasn't easy reliving that. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>seeing that on Instagram and whatever, TV and over and

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<v Speaker 1>over and over again and people just reaching out and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that wasn't easy to relive that and to

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<v Speaker 1>see yourself in that position like that's that's horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, my heart goes out to her and anyone who

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<v Speaker 2>has in any way had to endure domestic islands.

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<v Speaker 1>This makes you wonder like what is why did he

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<v Speaker 1>have to do all that? Why? That's that's my whole point.

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<v Speaker 2>Why why?

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<v Speaker 1>Why?

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't even know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was clear she was trying to lead, like let

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<v Speaker 1>her go, like.

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<v Speaker 2>She's barefoot, right, she's she doesn't even have shoes on,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's trying to get Oh no, she's trying to

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<v Speaker 2>get out of there, and you run after her naked

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<v Speaker 2>with a towel, but that towel was wrapped on real

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<v Speaker 2>tight and beat her.

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<v Speaker 1>Up like dude, what are you doing? And God?

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<v Speaker 2>And and then then I thought, like what happened when

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<v Speaker 2>when we couldn't see the camera, Like what happened when

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<v Speaker 2>she went back into the run.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, or what happened prior to or what has happened?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened? You know at any point is that it

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<v Speaker 1>makes my stomach hurt. It really does. So, so that

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<v Speaker 1>whole lawsuit I'm sure is full of truth, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. I believe every single last word and

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that instance, I believe that lawsuit.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't stop, won't stop, full stop, just stop. Yeah stop dude,

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<v Speaker 2>And you have a machine behind you. I'm just surprised

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<v Speaker 2>that the machine let him do that dumb ass apology

0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:06.600
<v Speaker 2>non apology.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, but he's probably also the type like I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do what I want to do. Yeah, you have a

0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:14.480
<v Speaker 1>machine behind me. But but he has a machine behind him.

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<v Speaker 1>But that machine probably also can't tell him anything, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>True, but like the narcissism of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and to think that that was gonna help the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, you have daughters, This is ah, Okay, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>move on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but we just he needs to. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what he can or will do to try

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<v Speaker 1>to like rehab his his image or his you know, reputation,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think it's gonna be really hard for him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And this is was really crazy. So as I'm

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<v Speaker 2>watching this, I'm like, where are Cassie's uncles? Hmmm? Because

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<v Speaker 2>my pinion, like, if I would have seen that from

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<v Speaker 2>my girls, first of all, or if anybody that you know,

0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:58.879
<v Speaker 2>my family would have seen that happened to me, right there,

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<v Speaker 2>would be nothing stopping them from finding him, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>damn they're killing him, like they would take the L.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, easy, take the L. Yeah. And I'm sure for

0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:10.600
<v Speaker 1>years she probably didn't really tell anyone. She probably told

0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:12.680
<v Speaker 1>everyone she was okay and nothing was going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, but you know, I think her husband has

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<v Speaker 1>been really really great for her. He seems, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>to be so supportive and thank god. Right, yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>seems to like really just have her back. So I

0:18:24.520 --> 0:18:26.920
<v Speaker 1>think that's her that's her strength, and that's her rock

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<v Speaker 1>in this situation. But yeah, that was just ugly. I

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<v Speaker 1>just ladies, please, you do not ever have to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with that. Do not allow yourself to be put in

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<v Speaker 1>that situation, and can you continue to stay and continue

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with it. And fellas, keep your hands to yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Period the end. There's no need put your hands on

0:18:46.680 --> 0:18:48.960
<v Speaker 2>a woman ever. Just be if you want to. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want to hit something, the pillow there, you go,

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<v Speaker 2>hit that, right, go to the gym, there's boxing.

0:18:53.720 --> 0:18:55.600
<v Speaker 1>H hit the body bag. I think they can just

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<v Speaker 1>hit a female and.

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<v Speaker 2>She's you know, it's wild, right, she's a friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say frail, but you know, she's thin

0:19:02.119 --> 0:19:04.720
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know how tall she I'm big.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, not put your hands on them, not put

0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:09.840
<v Speaker 2>your hands on anybody. I start there, but do not.

0:19:10.200 --> 0:19:13.199
<v Speaker 2>And he dragged her. Like when I saw that, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh my god, I'm okay. We could go

0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:19.720
<v Speaker 2>on forever. Let's starts. I'm about to get upset, even

0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:24.760
<v Speaker 2>more upset. But like, ladies, don't Definitely, if you ever

0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:27.440
<v Speaker 2>even get an inkling of that, just leave, Just turn

0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:30.960
<v Speaker 2>around and don't ever look back ever ever ever? Can

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<v Speaker 2>we get into the Kelly Roland of it all? Because

0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:36.320
<v Speaker 2>she is my favorite, She is my new fa faith

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<v Speaker 2>for writ because she is doing things that I wish

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<v Speaker 2>I have I have done in the past.

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<v Speaker 1>You haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I've let a lot slide, yeah, but she ain't

0:19:47.680 --> 0:19:49.560
<v Speaker 2>let nothing slide. And I am here for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So Kelly Rowland was at the Cans Film Festival, which

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<v Speaker 2>I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>Is in can France, France.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, it's not in La that would And she

0:20:00.680 --> 0:20:03.240
<v Speaker 2>was a friend and she's like on the red carpet

0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:05.760
<v Speaker 2>and they're taking pictures of her, Oh Kelly, Kelly, Kelly,

0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:09.960
<v Speaker 2>And apparently a security guard was trying to move her.

0:20:09.960 --> 0:20:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Right like usher her through parably rushing her and yes,

0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:15.720
<v Speaker 1>pushing on her and write all of that.

0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:19.280
<v Speaker 2>And so someone on the TikTok did like, we're gonna

0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:22.119
<v Speaker 2>we're gonna read her lips and say and I believe everything,

0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:24.159
<v Speaker 2>And she was like, bitch, get the fuck up off me.

0:20:24.640 --> 0:20:25.920
<v Speaker 2>You don't know who the hell I am, but I'm

0:20:25.920 --> 0:20:28.440
<v Speaker 2>gonna let you know. My name is Kelly freaking Rolling,

0:20:28.560 --> 0:20:31.879
<v Speaker 2>God damn it. And you will not touch me and

0:20:31.880 --> 0:20:33.560
<v Speaker 2>you will not talk to me like a child, because

0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:35.879
<v Speaker 2>that I am not. I'm a grown ass woman, a

0:20:35.880 --> 0:20:38.480
<v Speaker 2>beautiful one at that. Yeah, that's what Kelly said. And

0:20:38.520 --> 0:20:40.679
<v Speaker 2>I am here for it, Yes, no, I'm here for it.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, we know that the French are rude, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>really rude.

0:20:45.000 --> 0:20:49.880
<v Speaker 1>And but but when they're dealing with Americans, yeah, Americans

0:20:49.880 --> 0:20:52.119
<v Speaker 1>and celebrities, like they need to know like, no, you

0:20:52.200 --> 0:20:54.639
<v Speaker 1>need to simmer down. Yeah, you can't talk to people

0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:55.840
<v Speaker 1>just any type of way.

0:20:56.000 --> 0:20:58.560
<v Speaker 2>No, you cannot, and like, and I know that everybody

0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:01.359
<v Speaker 2>wants to use their authority, their little power that they

0:21:01.400 --> 0:21:03.080
<v Speaker 2>have in the moment, stop it.

0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:05.720
<v Speaker 1>Right and the like, if she wants to take her time,

0:21:06.480 --> 0:21:10.000
<v Speaker 1>her time, she shoved and wave and whatever. Let her

0:21:10.040 --> 0:21:10.400
<v Speaker 1>do it.

0:21:10.480 --> 0:21:13.840
<v Speaker 2>She's a queen. She's gonna walk when she wants to walk.

0:21:14.000 --> 0:21:16.199
<v Speaker 2>And this is the thing. Kelly Rowland has been on

0:21:16.240 --> 0:21:20.080
<v Speaker 2>a million red carpets. She knows the routine. She knows

0:21:20.080 --> 0:21:23.520
<v Speaker 2>what to do. You don't have to usher her through aggressively.

0:21:24.000 --> 0:21:25.880
<v Speaker 2>She will get to the top of the steps when

0:21:25.920 --> 0:21:26.600
<v Speaker 2>she feels like it.

0:21:26.720 --> 0:21:31.199
<v Speaker 1>Right right, But she told her off. I wonder if

0:21:31.200 --> 0:21:33.399
<v Speaker 1>the lady understood what she was saying, though maybe not.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't even think about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you know, when you get to tell someone off,

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking really fast. So if this lady is not

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<v Speaker 1>fluent in English, she's probably like, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>the hell you're saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this was actually a viral moment, so I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>someone has told her in English what say?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? The end?

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<v Speaker 2>Now, I do want to get to the real Housewilves

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<v Speaker 2>of Beverly Hills, Okay, because I just found out that

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't want to say her no wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>but Bozama is that right?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know she is.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a new housewife. Do you know who this woman is?

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<v Speaker 2>So she is like the bomb?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really?

0:22:13.440 --> 0:22:19.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? She like was I think the CEO of Uber

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<v Speaker 2>at one time. I'm gonna I'm gonna look at the

0:22:22.480 --> 0:22:24.359
<v Speaker 2>things of the things that she has done. But she's

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<v Speaker 2>like legit, like a real boss. She's been the present.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Bozama, Saint John, Saint John, hold on, if we

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<v Speaker 2>had Carli here, she would do this for us.

0:22:35.600 --> 0:22:39.680
<v Speaker 1>But Carli is not here. Okay, she's forty seven, Okay.

0:22:39.600 --> 0:22:42.200
<v Speaker 2>She she's married.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she has a girl.

0:22:43.920 --> 0:22:48.400
<v Speaker 2>She's a marketing degree, executive entrepreneur, and author of a memoir,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's a former global CMO of Netflix. She I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say she worked at Uber, but I'm just I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know that's true. I want to say she has

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<v Speaker 2>been running a whole lot of ship.

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<v Speaker 1>For a whole long time. She's a bad bitch.

0:23:08.600 --> 0:23:10.680
<v Speaker 2>She's a bad bitch. She's a boss, loss bitch. She's

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<v Speaker 2>all the things. And it actually shocked me to see

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<v Speaker 2>that she would get into the housewife of it all

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<v Speaker 2>because housewives crazy. I just was like, that's not in

0:23:22.119 --> 0:23:24.520
<v Speaker 2>my mind. I'm thinking that's not her lane. But I

0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:25.280
<v Speaker 2>don't know this woman.

0:23:25.440 --> 0:23:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Do we know her connection or I guess through I

0:23:29.480 --> 0:23:30.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know any of those.

0:23:30.520 --> 0:23:33.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't know maybe Sutton, because Sutton is very much

0:23:33.880 --> 0:23:40.000
<v Speaker 2>dabbled in all kinds of businesses. Maybe garcel I can't

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<v Speaker 2>see Dared or Kyle or Erica knowing her.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's interesting. That's a different type of person for

0:23:45.720 --> 0:23:49.720
<v Speaker 1>that show, like an accomplished business woman, totally accomplished business,

0:23:49.800 --> 0:23:50.760
<v Speaker 1>highly accomplished.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen her in person at party and she's beautiful,

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<v Speaker 2>so like her skin is like glass.

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<v Speaker 1>I did see it. Like I'm not familiar with her,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've read this she's Ghanian. So she's Ghana, yes,

0:24:03.320 --> 0:24:06.399
<v Speaker 1>which is cool. So now we have the first Ghanian housewife.

0:24:06.520 --> 0:24:12.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, well traveled, well spoken, she is. She's that

0:24:12.320 --> 0:24:15.399
<v Speaker 2>that girl. Now how she's gonna translate or housewives?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see, Yeah, that's that. I'm curious, like where how

0:24:18.119 --> 0:24:19.919
<v Speaker 1>do we how does that translate? Is she fitting in

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<v Speaker 1>with the group and what's her connection and all that?

0:24:23.440 --> 0:24:25.200
<v Speaker 1>But maybe Kathy.

0:24:25.000 --> 0:24:27.760
<v Speaker 2>Hilton, because Kathy Hilton is I feel like, has a

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<v Speaker 2>strong business connection side.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe yeah, who knows, I don't know who knows. We

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<v Speaker 1>find out.

0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:36.119
<v Speaker 2>Were about to see. As a matter of fact, I'm

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:38.600
<v Speaker 2>very curious. I'm gonna call my people over there, get

0:24:38.640 --> 0:24:42.359
<v Speaker 2>to tea because you know people, I do know people

0:24:42.359 --> 0:24:44.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna get to tea. I'm not gonna tell y'all

0:24:44.280 --> 0:24:45.879
<v Speaker 2>to tea, but I'm gonna get to seek. Yeah, I'm

0:24:45.880 --> 0:24:47.480
<v Speaker 2>just gonna hold it. You know how you hold tea

0:24:47.520 --> 0:24:50.199
<v Speaker 2>in your backpacket for a long time. Yeah, there's a

0:24:50.200 --> 0:24:54.399
<v Speaker 2>lot that we do. Speaking of tea, I had, I

0:24:54.440 --> 0:24:58.679
<v Speaker 2>did have some tea. It'll come to me, okay, But

0:24:58.720 --> 0:25:00.879
<v Speaker 2>we have We have so many questions that people have

0:25:00.920 --> 0:25:02.560
<v Speaker 2>written up, and I want to do these right here.

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:06.080
<v Speaker 2>What isn't this the ask us anything? Yes, guys, we

0:25:06.119 --> 0:25:07.840
<v Speaker 2>haven't done asked us anything in a long time.

0:25:08.160 --> 0:25:09.480
<v Speaker 1>So dun dun no North dun.

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<v Speaker 2>Durm it's now time for ask us anything.

0:25:17.280 --> 0:25:19.639
<v Speaker 1>Yes. So like a few weeks ago, we actually put

0:25:19.680 --> 0:25:22.600
<v Speaker 1>a question on our Instagram to ask us anything Yes,

0:25:22.680 --> 0:25:26.360
<v Speaker 1>and now we're answering the questions. Yes, okay, I want

0:25:26.359 --> 0:25:30.240
<v Speaker 1>to answer this one first, and said the Pink pop box, Hey,

0:25:30.400 --> 0:25:33.000
<v Speaker 1>Pink Pop Box, that is such a tongue twister.

0:25:33.840 --> 0:25:35.760
<v Speaker 2>Yes, but he right, he or she? I don't know

0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:38.239
<v Speaker 2>if it's a man I want Okay, writes us all

0:25:38.280 --> 0:25:39.360
<v Speaker 2>the time, I love yes.

0:25:39.200 --> 0:25:43.560
<v Speaker 1>And supports Yeah, says how is the war against those

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<v Speaker 1>Gosh darn deer going, Oh that's me. Well, do you

0:25:48.040 --> 0:25:50.719
<v Speaker 1>have answer? I need advice because I don't know if

0:25:50.720 --> 0:25:53.960
<v Speaker 1>you notice the deer when you walk up, you probably

0:25:53.960 --> 0:25:57.280
<v Speaker 1>haven't noticed the deer have been walking all through my

0:25:57.400 --> 0:26:00.480
<v Speaker 1>flower beds in front of my house, on my walkway,

0:26:00.880 --> 0:26:02.840
<v Speaker 1>And so the mulch gets.

0:26:02.680 --> 0:26:04.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I did see that all in the middle of

0:26:04.240 --> 0:26:05.560
<v Speaker 2>my sidewalk. I didn't know what that was.

0:26:05.680 --> 0:26:07.960
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so I'll I'll see there's a bunch of mults

0:26:07.960 --> 0:26:10.919
<v Speaker 1>on my side on my walkway. I'll go and sweep

0:26:10.960 --> 0:26:13.840
<v Speaker 1>it up. The next day it's a whole bunch of

0:26:13.880 --> 0:26:16.879
<v Speaker 1>mult on my side sidewalk. And then so I just

0:26:17.080 --> 0:26:20.920
<v Speaker 1>left it alone. My landscaper cleaned it up last time.

0:26:20.960 --> 0:26:24.400
<v Speaker 2>He was here, your landscaper, and then my boyfriend Yes, yes, shaboo.

0:26:24.960 --> 0:26:27.919
<v Speaker 1>And then and then this morning it's there again. I'm like,

0:26:27.960 --> 0:26:31.520
<v Speaker 1>these damn ye deer, I need them, like okay, the

0:26:31.520 --> 0:26:33.160
<v Speaker 1>sour spring work. Yes.

0:26:33.840 --> 0:26:35.960
<v Speaker 2>I feel like you're shady because you don't listen to me.

0:26:36.359 --> 0:26:39.679
<v Speaker 2>I told you I have not seen a deer since

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:42.119
<v Speaker 2>I put that ship down. Really, yes, okay, So what

0:26:42.240 --> 0:26:45.359
<v Speaker 2>you do is I use zest zest. Okay, takes zest

0:26:45.400 --> 0:26:47.920
<v Speaker 2>and it's very easy. You think it's it's gonna be

0:26:47.960 --> 0:26:50.000
<v Speaker 2>hard to do, but it's not. I took a cheese greater,

0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:53.680
<v Speaker 2>I grated up the zest, and then I just sprinkled

0:26:53.680 --> 0:26:58.119
<v Speaker 2>that thing everywhere, especially if there's any bushes that that

0:26:58.520 --> 0:27:00.920
<v Speaker 2>the deer have been eating. Hinely put it around there.

0:27:01.160 --> 0:27:03.160
<v Speaker 2>But just like put it all over your flower bed,

0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:06.679
<v Speaker 2>you will not see a deer. Okay, them jokers do

0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:08.920
<v Speaker 2>not like it. Good, all right, I'm sick of them.

0:27:09.000 --> 0:27:11.720
<v Speaker 1>It's like I hate them. Yes, we're not friends, and

0:27:12.080 --> 0:27:14.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm so mad. My camera never picks them up because

0:27:14.920 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I just want to like boo, like scare them, you

0:27:17.040 --> 0:27:18.879
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, like get away.

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:21.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I've done that. I've like on my camera,

0:27:21.920 --> 0:27:24.199
<v Speaker 2>I've like screamed at them. They just look at me

0:27:24.240 --> 0:27:28.919
<v Speaker 2>and just keep Really they are the worst. Yes, it's

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 2>like crazy parties.

0:27:29.760 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I have flowers that they're supposed to not like, like

0:27:32.240 --> 0:27:35.679
<v Speaker 1>my landscape are intentionally Yeah, the flowers out there because

0:27:36.040 --> 0:27:39.680
<v Speaker 1>deer don't like those flowers. Yes, they now eat them.

0:27:39.840 --> 0:27:43.680
<v Speaker 2>Yes, Amazon dot Com get get what. I buy a

0:27:44.720 --> 0:27:46.920
<v Speaker 2>box of four, I mean, I'm sorry, a box of nine.

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:49.280
<v Speaker 1>It's like nine in a pack. That you buy. Yeah,

0:27:49.320 --> 0:27:51.400
<v Speaker 1>I grate all that stuff up. Oh, like, so how

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:52.920
<v Speaker 1>many bars did you.

0:27:53.320 --> 0:27:55.720
<v Speaker 2>I put out? Like I'm about to do it again,

0:27:55.800 --> 0:27:56.880
<v Speaker 2>but I put out maybe like.

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:01.639
<v Speaker 1>Six bar? Four bars? Oh rate it up? Nice. I

0:28:01.640 --> 0:28:03.440
<v Speaker 1>have a nice little bucket.

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:06.080
<v Speaker 2>And I just sprinkle really yeah, okay, you will not

0:28:06.119 --> 0:28:12.159
<v Speaker 2>see a deer. Okay, this is a test to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I have a couple of things.

0:28:16.280 --> 0:28:22.160
<v Speaker 2>So one question from k aggress a eight best advice

0:28:22.200 --> 0:28:27.119
<v Speaker 2>to deal with annoying coworkers. Well, Robin and I have

0:28:27.160 --> 0:28:32.560
<v Speaker 2>a lot of experience with annoying co workers.

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:36.080
<v Speaker 1>But ours is different because like we're like forced to

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 1>deal with them.

0:28:37.720 --> 0:28:40.080
<v Speaker 2>Any any job situation, you're forced to deal with the

0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:41.000
<v Speaker 2>co workers.

0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:44.640
<v Speaker 1>True, but you're you're not forced to like hang out

0:28:44.640 --> 0:28:48.040
<v Speaker 1>with them and like, well, when you're not working, oh right,

0:28:48.160 --> 0:28:50.640
<v Speaker 1>and eat and dine and break bread with these people. Yes,

0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:54.600
<v Speaker 1>and travel right, right, and travel and go to parties

0:28:54.640 --> 0:28:57.600
<v Speaker 1>and go to parties, invite and invite them over.

0:28:57.840 --> 0:29:03.480
<v Speaker 2>Like ah, but I find that you can you can

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:06.640
<v Speaker 2>always try to find common ground and a commonality with

0:29:06.880 --> 0:29:12.600
<v Speaker 2>annoying people. I'm not big on listening to people talk

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:16.440
<v Speaker 2>about nothing right, small talk, small talk, disgusting. How about

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:18.680
<v Speaker 2>when you're talking about your boring life and you think

0:29:18.720 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 2>it's not boring horrible?

0:29:24.160 --> 0:29:25.600
<v Speaker 1>So I don't.

0:29:25.600 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't like any of it. And but I've decided

0:29:28.080 --> 0:29:32.719
<v Speaker 2>that some people actually like that. Yes, So I've just

0:29:32.920 --> 0:29:35.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, tried to deal with it. Yeah.

0:29:35.080 --> 0:29:36.920
<v Speaker 1>I remember when I was working in an office setting,

0:29:38.680 --> 0:29:40.920
<v Speaker 1>when I used to work at under Armoured Corporate and

0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 1>Otis Elevator Corporate, and when I worked in that setting

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 1>and I would come in for you know, in the morning, yeah,

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:50.360
<v Speaker 1>on a Monday, and they'd be like and just random

0:29:50.360 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>people will just walk up to me and be like, yeah, hey,

0:29:53.240 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 1>how was your weekend? And I'm like, what do you know?

0:29:56.240 --> 0:29:56.960
<v Speaker 2>Like get away?

0:29:57.040 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, my weekend was great because I wasn't here.

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:02.840
<v Speaker 1>What even if I did nothing, it was amazing. What

0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:05.360
<v Speaker 1>do you mean how was my weekend? Like?

0:30:05.480 --> 0:30:09.640
<v Speaker 2>What? Yeah, that's stupid small talk that you don't want.

0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:12.440
<v Speaker 1>I could not. I was like, I'm like looking at him,

0:30:12.520 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 1>like I can't believe you just asked me a dumb

0:30:14.640 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 1>ask question. What do you mean? How is my weekend?

0:30:17.480 --> 0:30:18.280
<v Speaker 1>It's amazing?

0:30:19.040 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 2>The hell it's better than being here, damn it. Oh

0:30:23.600 --> 0:30:25.480
<v Speaker 2>my god, did you ever ask them back like, well,

0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:26.800
<v Speaker 2>how was your no?

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:27.600
<v Speaker 1>No, never.

0:30:27.840 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 2>That's a good trick though, if you don't want to

0:30:29.120 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 2>answer them, you'd be like, well how was yours?

0:30:30.800 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Right, be like I don't I can't really remember how

0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:33.160
<v Speaker 1>is yours?

0:30:33.200 --> 0:30:35.040
<v Speaker 2>And they will get to talking, right, and just to

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:37.920
<v Speaker 2>them out. I am a master and listening to people

0:30:37.960 --> 0:30:39.080
<v Speaker 2>talk and I don't hear a word.

0:30:39.120 --> 0:30:43.000
<v Speaker 1>They say, I don't hear anything. See, I can't that.

0:30:43.800 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not good at that. I did that.

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:48.960
<v Speaker 2>Actually last week two days ago, I was like this

0:30:49.120 --> 0:30:53.719
<v Speaker 2>chick won't stop talking and I'm not listening. But everybody

0:30:53.800 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 2>around me who knows me knows just not listening.

0:30:57.040 --> 0:30:59.320
<v Speaker 1>No, didn't hear one word, but I do think. Okay,

0:30:59.320 --> 0:31:02.160
<v Speaker 1>So instead of saying how is your weekend? Ask what

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:04.520
<v Speaker 1>did you do this weekend? Right? You know what I'm saying,

0:31:04.560 --> 0:31:06.680
<v Speaker 1>because I think that how is your weekend? Is like, oh, okay,

0:31:06.680 --> 0:31:08.560
<v Speaker 1>it's great. But if you ask, and if you want,

0:31:08.680 --> 0:31:11.080
<v Speaker 1>if you want to get to know someone better or

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:15.120
<v Speaker 1>foster you know, some type of interaction, then you have

0:31:15.240 --> 0:31:19.560
<v Speaker 1>to frame your questions so that they're more open ended. Yes, right,

0:31:19.600 --> 0:31:21.760
<v Speaker 1>so say what did you do this weekend? Right? Instead

0:31:21.800 --> 0:31:23.560
<v Speaker 1>of I think you should teach a class small talk

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:25.920
<v Speaker 1>class small yes, small talk, want on want hate it.

0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:29.240
<v Speaker 1>But to deal with co workers, I mean annoying coworkers,

0:31:29.240 --> 0:31:31.800
<v Speaker 1>what do you say, like, just well, you said find

0:31:31.840 --> 0:31:35.040
<v Speaker 1>common ground. Yes, I say kill them with kindness. Oh,

0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:38.040
<v Speaker 1>definitely kill them with kindness. Yeah yeah, and just yeah,

0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:40.160
<v Speaker 1>they might be annoying and all that, but I think

0:31:40.200 --> 0:31:42.560
<v Speaker 1>it's better if you just kill them with kindness and

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:45.160
<v Speaker 1>keep it going, because if you allow them to frustrate

0:31:45.200 --> 0:31:48.200
<v Speaker 1>you more and more and more, then your experience is

0:31:48.320 --> 0:31:49.400
<v Speaker 1>worse and worse and worse.

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:51.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you want to whatever is that you're doing

0:31:51.800 --> 0:31:53.719
<v Speaker 2>job wise, you want to be able to enjoy it.

0:31:53.800 --> 0:31:57.520
<v Speaker 1>So just you know, and just realize it's a job

0:31:57.560 --> 0:32:00.000
<v Speaker 1>and you're going home and yeah it's temporary.

0:32:00.320 --> 0:32:03.520
<v Speaker 2>Concentrate on the check, yeah, yeah, contentrate on that bank account.

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:06.720
<v Speaker 2>So somebody asked me. They said, Hampton University, where one

0:32:06.760 --> 0:32:11.280
<v Speaker 2>of my daughters is going to school, it's forty thousand

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 2>dollars a year. And they ask were the twins able

0:32:16.920 --> 0:32:20.960
<v Speaker 2>to get some of those new scholarships that the new

0:32:21.000 --> 0:32:26.240
<v Speaker 2>president created. Apps of freaking lutely, Hampton for my daughter

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:30.120
<v Speaker 2>is not forty thousand dollars. It is about half of that.

0:32:30.480 --> 0:32:36.000
<v Speaker 2>And I can't speak for Angel and Grace Door got

0:32:36.040 --> 0:32:37.920
<v Speaker 2>her little scholarship, so and I don't know if you

0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:41.560
<v Speaker 2>apply for the Yeah, there's a bunch of scholarships out

0:32:41.560 --> 0:32:43.640
<v Speaker 2>there for college kids to apply for, right and let's

0:32:43.640 --> 0:32:45.959
<v Speaker 2>just keep it, keep it and grants and all that

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:48.880
<v Speaker 2>they have to do their research. Definitely apply for all

0:32:48.920 --> 0:32:51.960
<v Speaker 2>of them. You might get some of it. Any amount

0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:58.040
<v Speaker 2>off of tuition is a blessing. Tuition is expensive. Tuition

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<v Speaker 2>for is that's a real number.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you did your parents pay for your college? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and so did mine. And I'm like that was such

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<v Speaker 1>a blessing. I mean, so that's huge. Like I'm as

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<v Speaker 1>a parent whose kids are you know, will be in

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<v Speaker 1>college soon, I'm like, yeah, y'all better keep shooting that

0:33:16.840 --> 0:33:19.280
<v Speaker 1>basket that ball, putting that ball in that basket, but

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<v Speaker 1>try to get an athletic scholarship because it's a tuition.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy expensive. And it just makes me appreciate my

0:33:25.960 --> 0:33:29.840
<v Speaker 1>parents more and more and more that they sacrificed to

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<v Speaker 1>send me to school and instead of me having to

0:33:33.320 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 1>take out financial loans, school loans, all that type of

0:33:35.720 --> 0:33:38.400
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that is a huge blessing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yes, thank you to my dad. He said, you

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<v Speaker 2>got four years of my money, honey, so graduate, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry that's hard because on top of that, they're thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about retirement. Well, it's like such a tough spot. It's

0:33:53.640 --> 0:33:56.680
<v Speaker 1>like us as adults, we're thinking about saving for retirement,

0:33:57.040 --> 0:33:59.520
<v Speaker 1>and then you're also worrying about putting your kids in college.

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<v Speaker 1>College a lot, It is a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>And so literally you need to start saving money, yes

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<v Speaker 2>when you're two.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, you do. Yes, And I mean and that's

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<v Speaker 1>something that like we don't really realize or you know,

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:14.680
<v Speaker 1>no matter how many times my parents have told me

0:34:14.719 --> 0:34:16.839
<v Speaker 1>when I was younger, like oh do this, do this,

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:20.000
<v Speaker 1>do this, you don't really realize like why they're telling

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<v Speaker 1>you until you're kind of at the stage maybe where

0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:24.839
<v Speaker 1>we are where we're like, oh shit, we got kids

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<v Speaker 1>in college, we got to retire, like all that type

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you definitely need to save so and like Gucci

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:34.399
<v Speaker 2>Louie product are really not important. No, what's important is

0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:38.960
<v Speaker 2>kids graduate, I mean, kid's education, your retirement so that

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<v Speaker 2>you have some funds when you are no longer working

0:34:42.960 --> 0:34:47.000
<v Speaker 2>and fabulous trips. Yes, the end, right, okay, in that order.

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<v Speaker 2>And good food, Oh, good food, good food. So Matthew

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<v Speaker 2>Mayo said, I'm sorry, but Robin face card never declient

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<v Speaker 2>never never, never, never decline. Yes, Robin Dixon with the

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<v Speaker 2>face card, thank you perfect.

0:35:06.920 --> 0:35:09.759
<v Speaker 1>I would I would disagree, but I appreciate you. Thank you.

0:35:10.040 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 2>So it says when exclamation point never, And then they

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<v Speaker 2>want the skincare routine.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you know what I mean. I think it's just

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<v Speaker 1>important that you do daily skincare. You wash your face

0:35:23.600 --> 0:35:26.960
<v Speaker 1>at night, you use all of your you know, anti

0:35:27.000 --> 0:35:30.600
<v Speaker 1>aging serums, your vitamin C, your retinols, your moisturizer, you

0:35:30.640 --> 0:35:36.000
<v Speaker 1>stay hydrated. Of course, I get facials and botox. Botox

0:35:36.120 --> 0:35:38.800
<v Speaker 1>is actually a great thing. Botox is your friend. Yes,

0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:41.920
<v Speaker 1>botoxes your thing. I actually need to go. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just saw. I've always been conscious of my skin, and

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to say the same applies to Jaseelle.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why Matthew only said this about Robin. Matthew, Matthew,

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing applies to just say okay, because Jazelle's

0:35:56.480 --> 0:35:59.840
<v Speaker 1>beautiful face is beautiful. Never to face card never declines

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<v Speaker 1>in the skin is.

0:36:01.320 --> 0:36:03.759
<v Speaker 2>Flawless, Okay, I want to say this before I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I forget.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's been some changes with like the Apple podcast app.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, right, or there's been changes with how you download. Yeah,

0:36:13.560 --> 0:36:15.080
<v Speaker 2>reason to be shady, I believe.

0:36:14.880 --> 0:36:18.560
<v Speaker 1>So the downloads. So if you have set reasonably Shady

0:36:18.560 --> 0:36:22.120
<v Speaker 1>to automatically download, you might have to go into the

0:36:22.160 --> 0:36:26.480
<v Speaker 1>podcast app and reset that because something has There's been

0:36:26.560 --> 0:36:29.440
<v Speaker 1>like an update to the app, and a lot of

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:32.360
<v Speaker 1>the podcasts that you automatically download aren't downloading.

0:36:32.520 --> 0:36:35.680
<v Speaker 2>So you open that app Apple Podcast App, You go

0:36:35.719 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 2>to the library, and you select reasonably shady. You tap

0:36:39.560 --> 0:36:42.239
<v Speaker 2>on the three dots that you know are probably up

0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:45.439
<v Speaker 2>in the corner or somewhere. You select settings, and under

0:36:45.480 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 2>settings you'll toggle on automatic downloads and adjust any other

0:36:50.120 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 2>settings or downloads preferences. So you have to do all

0:36:54.160 --> 0:36:56.480
<v Speaker 2>this and then you'll automatically get it. So you might

0:36:56.480 --> 0:36:57.960
<v Speaker 2>not be automatically getting it. And a lot of people

0:36:57.960 --> 0:37:00.920
<v Speaker 2>ask me like, well, how how do I get the podcast?

0:37:01.000 --> 0:37:06.000
<v Speaker 2>And I'm actually like, I don't know. So I just

0:37:06.080 --> 0:37:06.799
<v Speaker 2>told y'all how.

0:37:06.680 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 1>To do it.

0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:10.080
<v Speaker 2>Now now I know, yeh, Now you know, yes, And

0:37:10.120 --> 0:37:12.960
<v Speaker 2>now I know, And I shouldn't say that it's horrible.

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.319
<v Speaker 1>Yes, but if you have an iPhone, you just go

0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:18.400
<v Speaker 1>to the podcast app, yeah and type in reasonably shady

0:37:18.480 --> 0:37:20.880
<v Speaker 1>and you'll find it so and then set it to

0:37:20.920 --> 0:37:21.840
<v Speaker 1>automatically download.

0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:25.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so everybody did do that. And then while you're there,

0:37:25.440 --> 0:37:27.719
<v Speaker 2>just like review us and tell us, tell the whole

0:37:27.760 --> 0:37:30.880
<v Speaker 2>world that we're amazing. Yes, Robin Andzel are amazing. Okay,

0:37:30.920 --> 0:37:32.960
<v Speaker 2>So I don't want to forget this, So going back

0:37:32.960 --> 0:37:35.440
<v Speaker 2>to botox really quickly, because it is your friend, and

0:37:35.440 --> 0:37:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm a shout out and giving a little shout out

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<v Speaker 2>little Kean or Stewart.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a conversation with her the other day and

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:44.239
<v Speaker 2>she's somebody was talking about botox and she was like,

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:46.280
<v Speaker 2>and I told her, I get it like around my eyes,

0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:49.960
<v Speaker 2>and she was like, okay, but she's that I'm gonna

0:37:50.000 --> 0:37:51.440
<v Speaker 2>need for you to get it on the sides of

0:37:51.480 --> 0:37:55.640
<v Speaker 2>your nose and on your forehead and like down your nose.

0:37:55.680 --> 0:37:58.000
<v Speaker 2>You don't get it on your forehead, not really, because

0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 2>I told her I want people to see mike xprushion,

0:38:00.480 --> 0:38:01.680
<v Speaker 2>Like if I'm mad at you, I want you to

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<v Speaker 2>know I'm mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you want your wrinkles to stay, I know.

0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:05.520
<v Speaker 2>But I don't really have a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you don't have a lot, but you don't want

0:38:08.239 --> 0:38:10.920
<v Speaker 1>them to continue to get worse. That's the point of botox,

0:38:10.960 --> 0:38:15.840
<v Speaker 1>that it freezes your wrinkles to prevent them from continuing

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<v Speaker 1>to get deeper.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, all right, well I'm okay with it right now. Okay,

0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:23.360
<v Speaker 2>because I said, because she was like, you need to

0:38:23.360 --> 0:38:25.279
<v Speaker 2>get on your forehead, and I was like, I have

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:27.160
<v Speaker 2>a little bit, but I want people. I want my

0:38:27.200 --> 0:38:29.839
<v Speaker 2>forehead to move. She was like, forehead should never move.

0:38:32.760 --> 0:38:37.360
<v Speaker 2>And she said what does she say something about around

0:38:37.440 --> 0:38:39.680
<v Speaker 2>the note like in the corners of your eyes, like

0:38:39.719 --> 0:38:42.120
<v Speaker 2>down your nose, which I've never done. It is, actually

0:38:42.120 --> 0:38:46.799
<v Speaker 2>it sounds a bit scary. That does something. Oh oh,

0:38:46.840 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 2>I think it stops like any any lines, like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>across the top of your bridge nose.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, let's keep it moving. She said, your lips get

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<v Speaker 2>flat automatically. Everyone's lips get flat. I've never heard that, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>have you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think everything, we just all of everything

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<v Speaker 1>that as we get older, Yeah, we lose volume all

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<v Speaker 1>over in our face.

0:39:10.000 --> 0:39:12.840
<v Speaker 2>But I okay, So all these chicks with these big lips,

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<v Speaker 2>which you actually frightened me. If I see you with

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<v Speaker 2>big lips, I mean that with altered big lips. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to know if I'm having a conversation

0:39:23.280 --> 0:39:26.320
<v Speaker 2>with you, I'm scared. No, I'm scared. I'm actually frightened.

0:39:26.640 --> 0:39:31.359
<v Speaker 2>I'm thinking about clowns. I really am so so just

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<v Speaker 2>how I'm terrified. But she said, if you get it

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<v Speaker 2>on top of your not your lip, but like on

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<v Speaker 2>top I guess what is that called.

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<v Speaker 1>Your So she's saying a lip flip to do a

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<v Speaker 1>lip lip? There we go. Okay, how did you know

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:44.840
<v Speaker 1>that word? Because I've done it before. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>see a difference. I don't know a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lip what's the lip flip? Do you flip your lips up?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's just supposed It's just it's supposed to. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't flip your lips up. It's just supposed to like

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<v Speaker 1>lift your lip a little bit. So where do they

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<v Speaker 1>put the needle. It's kind of like the top line.

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<v Speaker 1>It's yeah, it's like, yeah, like where you would put

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<v Speaker 1>It's where you would put lipliner.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's what they Oh that's okay. Mine is okay

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<v Speaker 2>for right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you need a liip flip.

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<v Speaker 2>She told me I needed a lip flip. I need,

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<v Speaker 2>She told me, I need all kinds of things in

0:40:12.239 --> 0:40:12.799
<v Speaker 2>my face. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>See, like I've never noticed a difference with the lip flip.

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<v Speaker 1>Only when you get a lip flip, you can't like

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<v Speaker 1>suck on a straw. You can't whistle. It's like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like weird. It feels weird.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't prefer to get a list, there will

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<v Speaker 2>be no lip flip for me. Yeah, I'll be lip unflipped. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but I mean I do. I'm all about like enhancement

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, if you if you want to do whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>tweaks whatever, get it done right, get into it, get you.

0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:41.759
<v Speaker 1>Don't afraid of and don't like judge it. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think when you're like altering yourself, like okay, you

0:40:44.880 --> 0:40:46.600
<v Speaker 1>want to like take it easy, but when you're just

0:40:46.680 --> 0:40:50.800
<v Speaker 1>kind of like enhancing what you already have or preserving it,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and no to the lip flip for for you.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, you don't need it either. You don't need

0:40:57.480 --> 0:40:59.440
<v Speaker 1>to eat it. I don't think anyone needs a lip flip.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like saying lip flip. Next time I go

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<v Speaker 2>see my girl, massage and be like, can I get

0:41:05.160 --> 0:41:07.239
<v Speaker 2>a lip flip? She gonna be like, get your lip

0:41:07.239 --> 0:41:09.959
<v Speaker 2>flip out of here, Jasell. Anyway, that's our show today.

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<v Speaker 2>We love you guys so much. Don't ever forget to

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<v Speaker 2>live your life either.

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<v Speaker 1>Reasonable Oh sure, dude, We're both by.

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