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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for being here with us once again.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, grave, yes, in the house. That was good.

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Speaker 1: Actually, that was amazing. Yes.

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Speaker 2: I came up with that, like just now, how are

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Speaker 2: you feeling.

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Speaker 1: You're feeling good? You look good. I'm feeling good. Thank you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you look amazing, thank you, thank you. It's quiet and busy. Yes,

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Speaker 1: everybody's gone. Everybody's gone. The kids are at school. One

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Speaker 1: is at the getting his haircut. He's got a doctor appointment.

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Speaker 2: Yes, all that he's doing maintenance. Okay, do you have

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Speaker 2: a shady moment?

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Speaker 1: I traveled recently for basketball for the kids for Corey,

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Speaker 1: and we were in Indianapolis, Indiana. Okay, never been there before.

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Speaker 1: It actually is a nice city. Oh okay, good, yeah,

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Speaker 1: not you're going to say it was trash. No, okay,

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Speaker 1: it actually is a nice city. We were in like

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Speaker 1: the suburbs of it, but the suburbs were nice, and

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Speaker 1: you know, it's a really nice city. So it kind

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Speaker 1: of surprised us how nice it was. Anyway, the shady

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Speaker 1: moment comes our rental car, oh broke down on us.

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Speaker 1: What yes, Brandon, And it was like it had six

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Speaker 1: thousand miles a Ford Explorer, six thousand miles on it.

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Speaker 1: In the middle of Indiana, Indianapolis, the rental car breaks down. Yeah, which,

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Speaker 1: and it's such a pain in the ass. It's like, who,

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Speaker 1: I'm here for basketball games. I'm trying to get to

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Speaker 1: my son's basketball game and over here the cars breaking down?

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Speaker 1: So did you miss the game? We met? We made

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Speaker 1: it to the game because one of a random mother

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Speaker 1: on another team who knew me from Housewives, was just like,

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Speaker 1: she's from Indiana, so her son's team was playing on

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Speaker 1: the India on the Indie Heat. She was just like, hey, Robin,

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Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm like, oh my god, I'm dealing

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Speaker 1: with this rental car down on me. She's like, all right,

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Speaker 1: well out it. Because we were so the games we

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Speaker 1: were in one gym and then Corey's next game was

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Speaker 1: in another gym that was like twenty five minutes away.

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Speaker 1: So fortunately we made it to the one gym and

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Speaker 1: we were able to park, and then we couldn't start

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Speaker 1: the car. Oh god, so you know, I just tell

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Speaker 1: this random lady the story. She's like, oh, well, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to the other gym too, so y'all can hop

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Speaker 1: in my hole.

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Speaker 2: She was more than happy.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, oh yes, she was like yes, shout out

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Speaker 1: to Mila. But she definitely came through and we all

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Speaker 1: me Wanta Carter hopped in her car, and she kept

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Speaker 1: apologizing because it was like her son's old two thousand

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Speaker 1: fourd escape. It was it was it was I hadn't

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Speaker 2: Over so she kept like that think got you from

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Speaker 2: A to B exactly.

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Speaker 1: I said, I don't care, just give it to my

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Speaker 1: son's game. But then we had to deal with the

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Speaker 1: whole Okay, now we gotta meet go back to the

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Speaker 1: other gyms to meet the tow truck to take that car,

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Speaker 1: and then we have to take an uber back to

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Speaker 1: the airport forty minutes away.

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Speaker 2: They wouldn't come bring you one.

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Speaker 1: Well, because it was Saturday, all the small local branches

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Speaker 1: were closed and so the only thing open is the airport.

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Speaker 1: And try getting through to somebody at the airport to

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Speaker 1: bring me a car. That's not happening. It was just

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Speaker 1: so it was so much, right, So we had to

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Speaker 1: get the car toad, take an uber to the airport,

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Speaker 1: get another car, and then going by a business.

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Speaker 2: It was that's a lot. Yeah, so what what car

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Speaker 2: rental company? As you are shady as well, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean they did what they could, like the roadside assistance people,

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Speaker 1: they did what they could, but it was that was

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Speaker 1: a pain in the ass.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, as we were on to you. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: So my shady moment is because this has happened to me.

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Speaker 2: It's only like what time is it right now? Ten

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Speaker 2: thirty in the morning. Yeah, it's happened to me like

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Speaker 2: five times today. Okay, people asking me what I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: do now that I'm gonna be an empty nester. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I'm sick of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 2: The shadiness is not I'm gonna be an empty nest

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Speaker 2: of shady keep asking, asking and reminding you and reminding

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Speaker 2: me and what I'm gonna do, and oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: And they're like talking to me like my life is over, yes,

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Speaker 2: and stop it right, like people everywhere ever I went

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Speaker 2: They are just going to me.

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Speaker 1: Oh my God, the girl's gonna leave. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: what you gonna do? Oh my god, you're gonna be

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Speaker 1: an empty nester? Like what right? Keep reminding, But I

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Speaker 1: guess they're like concerned. Maybe they've been through that, or

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Speaker 1: they picture themselves going through that and like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: what would I do? But yes, they they are not

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Speaker 1: thinking like You're getting this question eight million times a day.

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Speaker 2: A day, and so I'm just putting that out there

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Speaker 2: to the universe. Stop asking me.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 2: So I'm gonn tell you what I'm gonna do. Yes,

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Speaker 2: walk around naked. You already know that. Right in my house,

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Speaker 2: I'm just no clothes. I'm gonna eat breakfast naked. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna eat lunch naked. Okay, you probably already do that.

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Speaker 2: I mean it freaks out the girls, so I try

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Speaker 2: not to. And then I'm just gonna live, okay the end. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to visit my children, I'm going to visit Robin.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play in the streets.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be y'all gonna see me on TMZ like

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Speaker 2: dating somebody, kissing somebody in the corner.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do all the things. It's a turn up

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Speaker 1: time good. Yes, yes, I think I think you'll be okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean, of course, it's I can't imagine when that

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Speaker 1: time comes from me, so I know how you're feeling, yeah,

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Speaker 1: or I can I can only imagine how you're feeling.

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Speaker 1: But I'm sure you will find ways to keep yourself

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Speaker 1: very busy.

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Speaker 2: Me too, So leave me alone. And when you see

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Speaker 2: me in the streets acting wild, because you will see that,

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Speaker 2: just leave me alone.

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Speaker 1: I'm living but now got three schools to visit, three

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Speaker 2: Yes, I love that though, right, So I'm gonna be

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Speaker 2: hitting the road doing that. Yeah, I'm gonna be mine

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Speaker 2: in my business. I'm gonna be talking. Y'all know I

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Speaker 2: don't do that very well, So I will be talking

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Speaker 2: and just in any corner. Okay, Yeah, i'ma be doing

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Speaker 2: me the.

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Speaker 1: In Do you feel like you're gonna have to evenly

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Speaker 1: divide up your time to visit the girls? Like, do

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Speaker 1: you think one of them would be like all of them? Okay,

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Speaker 1: all of them will be.

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Speaker 2: If I go to one school, the other two are

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Speaker 2: gonna definitely be like how long did she stay? And

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Speaker 2: then like they're gonna want to meet a match whatever

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Speaker 2: I did with that one.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's terrible, horrible and Grace is the worst one. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Grace to be like, you know, well, mom, like why

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Speaker 2: aren't you coming? Like she's she's a bit of a nag.

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Speaker 2: I love her, but like if she if you tell

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Speaker 2: her something. Let's say, she's like, I want to go

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Speaker 2: eat tacos and you're like, oh, Grace, you know, like

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Speaker 2: we're gonna eat steak. She's like, but what's going on

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Speaker 2: with tacos?

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Speaker 1: What's wrong tacos?

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Speaker 2: And like until you eat the steak she's asking about,

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Speaker 2: like she doesn't let her go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that, she's that girl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so she's gonna want to make sure that

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Speaker 1: Oh I love that, Like yeah, well no, I mean

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Speaker 1: I love that just your relationship with your girls, because yes,

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Speaker 1: I had a great relationship with my mother, but I

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Speaker 1: didn't want to like spend time with my mother, you.

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Speaker 2: Know what I mean, because your mother was like me right.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like no offense to my mom, but I

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Speaker 1: wasn't like worrying about if she seeing with my brother

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Speaker 1: because I went to I mean, no, it's just different.

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Speaker 1: I can't even say that was maybe because I went

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Speaker 1: to University of Maryland and it was closer to home, right,

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Speaker 1: And you know, I kind of could go home whenever

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Speaker 1: I wanted to anyway, but I don't. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: think if I was, like in another city, I would

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Speaker 1: be like, yeah, mom, come hang out.

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Speaker 2: Well, times are different, Yeah, I think relationships with parents

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Speaker 2: and children for sure, are totally different from they were

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Speaker 2: in the past, and different in a good way.

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Speaker 1: No, in a great way. Yeah, and I'm not letting

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Speaker 1: my girls go Like I saw gosh, who was it?

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Speaker 1: Whi's Khalifa? Uh huh? Did you see this? He said,

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Speaker 1: I don't remember where it was. I saw the headline

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Speaker 1: a little clip. He goes to the club with his mom.

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Speaker 1: Strip club with his mom.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's a relationship.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, I actually could

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Speaker 1: picture myself doing that, which is my boys. Yeah, yeah

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Speaker 2: I definitely can see you doing that and me with mine. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't need to go to the strip club, but

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Speaker 2: like we could definitely go right like club hop.

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Speaker 1: Like hang out. He's like, yeah, my mom is my

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Speaker 1: roll dog, Like, oh, I love that.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, that's gonna be me and

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Speaker 1: my kid.

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Speaker 2: Yes, what age is that he is? This ten years

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Speaker 2: from now?

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Speaker 1: Shoot, not even no, like when they're like Cory's what

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Speaker 1: Cory sixteen? Sixteen? Yeah, maybe five.

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Speaker 2: So when he's legal, you know of riving gonna be

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Speaker 2: and uh, what's up? Magic City?

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Speaker 1: Yes, we're doing at all.

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Speaker 2: She's gonna be in Miami at eleven.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so I'm not smoking weed with my kids though.

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Speaker 2: Please don't.

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Speaker 1: I mean, does anybody smoke weed anymore? I thought it

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Speaker 1: was just all edibles. What people I mean is rollo,

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Speaker 1: your nostrils don't work. I smell weed all the time.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter where I am. It does not matter

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Speaker 1: where I am. I smell weed. So yes, people still

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Speaker 1: smoke weed. Okay.

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Speaker 2: A couple of things that we're a little late to

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Speaker 2: discuss what we're gonna We need to discuss first things first,

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Speaker 2: the benefit benefit benefer, Is that right?

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Speaker 1: The benefit of it all? Yes? Okay, well it's Ben

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Speaker 1: and j Lo. Yes, every day it's different now.

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Speaker 2: Because we don't by the time this who knows, but

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Speaker 2: every day is different. So on today I think it's

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Speaker 2: over what you.

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Speaker 1: Think I think it's quite rocky. I think I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it's over. Yeah, well you know what, right,

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Speaker 1: once it's rocky, I think with Jen and Ben it's over.

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Speaker 1: It's over. Yeah, now did we because because all right,

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Speaker 1: so what do we know? We know that he supposedly

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Speaker 1: moved out of.

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Speaker 2: I'm coming to get you this. I felt so horrible

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Speaker 2: He was like, you know so many reasons why this

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Speaker 2: But this is what's even worse. The apology. What in

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so difficult to reflect on the darkest times

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Speaker 1: Good night bye. After after he called her whole lawsuit

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Speaker 2: Yes, put out a whole statement. Enough, I'm tired of

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Speaker 2: Yes, my heart goes out to her and anyone who

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Speaker 2: She's barefoot, right, she's she doesn't even have shoes on,

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Speaker 2: and she's trying to get Oh no, she's trying to

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Speaker 2: with a towel, but that towel was wrapped on real

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Speaker 2: And and then then I thought, like what happened when

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Speaker 1: Right, or what happened prior to or what has happened?

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Speaker 1: What happened? You know at any point is that it

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Speaker 1: the whole thing. I believe every single last word and

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Speaker 2: Can't stop, won't stop, full stop, just stop. Yeah stop dude,

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Speaker 2: And you have a machine behind you. I'm just surprised

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Speaker 2: that the machine let him do that dumb ass apology

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Speaker 1: Like, but he's probably also the type like I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: But that machine probably also can't tell him anything, you

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Speaker 2: True, but like the narcissism of it all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and to think that that was gonna help the situation.

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Speaker 2: Right, you have daughters, This is ah, Okay, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but we just he needs to. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And this is was really crazy. So as I'm

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Speaker 2: would be nothing stopping them from finding him, right, and

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Speaker 2: damn they're killing him, like they would take the L.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, but you know, I think her husband has

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Speaker 2: Period the end. There's no need put your hands on

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Speaker 2: hit that, right, go to the gym, there's boxing.

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Speaker 2: She's you know, it's wild, right, she's a friend.

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Speaker 1: I want to say frail, but you know, she's thin

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Speaker 2: No, no, not put your hands on them, not put

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Speaker 2: And he dragged her. Like when I saw that, I

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Speaker 2: more upset. But like, ladies, don't Definitely, if you ever

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Speaker 2: we get into the Kelly Roland of it all? Because

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Speaker 2: she is my favorite, She is my new fa faith

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Speaker 2: I have I have done in the past.

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Speaker 1: You haven't.

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Speaker 2: Well I've let a lot slide, yeah, but she ain't

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Speaker 2: let nothing slide. And I am here for it.

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Speaker 2: So Kelly Rowland was at the Cans Film Festival, which

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's not in La that would And she

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Speaker 2: And apparently a security guard was trying to move her.

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Speaker 1: Right like usher her through parably rushing her and yes,

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Speaker 2: And so someone on the TikTok did like, we're gonna

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Speaker 2: And she was like, bitch, get the fuck up off me.

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Speaker 2: You don't know who the hell I am, but I'm

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Speaker 2: God damn it. And you will not touch me and

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Speaker 2: that I am not. I'm a grown ass woman, a

437
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Speaker 2: beautiful one at that. Yeah, that's what Kelly said. And

438
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:40,679
Speaker 2: I am here for it, Yes, no, I'm here for it.

439
00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,560
Speaker 2: First of all, we know that the French are rude, yeah,

440
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 2: really rude.

441
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:49,880
Speaker 1: And but but when they're dealing with Americans, yeah, Americans

442
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 1: and celebrities, like they need to know like, no, you

443
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,639
Speaker 1: need to simmer down. Yeah, you can't talk to people

444
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:55,840
Speaker 1: just any type of way.

445
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 2: No, you cannot, and like, and I know that everybody

446
00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,359
Speaker 2: wants to use their authority, their little power that they

447
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 2: have in the moment, stop it.

448
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 1: Right and the like, if she wants to take her time,

449
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 1: her time, she shoved and wave and whatever. Let her

450
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:10,400
Speaker 1: do it.

451
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 2: She's a queen. She's gonna walk when she wants to walk.

452
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,199
Speaker 2: And this is the thing. Kelly Rowland has been on

453
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 2: a million red carpets. She knows the routine. She knows

454
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 2: what to do. You don't have to usher her through aggressively.

455
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,880
Speaker 2: She will get to the top of the steps when

456
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Speaker 2: she feels like it.

457
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:31,199
Speaker 1: Right right, But she told her off. I wonder if

458
00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:33,399
Speaker 1: the lady understood what she was saying, though maybe not.

459
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 2: I didn't even think about that.

460
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,719
Speaker 1: Because you know, when you get to tell someone off,

461
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 1: you're talking really fast. So if this lady is not

462
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 1: fluent in English, she's probably like, I don't know what

463
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 1: the hell you're saying.

464
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,720
Speaker 2: Well, this was actually a viral moment, so I'm sure

465
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:49,640
Speaker 2: someone has told her in English what say?

466
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 1: Yes? The end?

467
00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,440
Speaker 2: Now, I do want to get to the real Housewilves

468
00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 2: of Beverly Hills, Okay, because I just found out that

469
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:00,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't want to say her no wrong,

470
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 2: but Bozama is that right?

471
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,479
Speaker 1: I don't know she is.

472
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 2: She's a new housewife. Do you know who this woman is?

473
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 2: So she is like the bomb?

474
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 1: Oh really?

475
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? She like was I think the CEO of Uber

476
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,439
Speaker 2: at one time. I'm gonna I'm gonna look at the

477
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 2: things of the things that she has done. But she's

478
00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 2: like legit, like a real boss. She's been the present.

479
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:33,639
Speaker 2: Oh Bozama, Saint John, Saint John, hold on, if we

480
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 2: had Carli here, she would do this for us.

481
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 1: But Carli is not here. Okay, she's forty seven, Okay.

482
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 2: She she's married.

483
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: I think she has a girl.

484
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:48,400
Speaker 2: She's a marketing degree, executive entrepreneur, and author of a memoir,

485
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:57,640
Speaker 2: and she's a former global CMO of Netflix. She I'm

486
00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 2: gonna say she worked at Uber, but I'm just I

487
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:04,880
Speaker 2: don't know that's true. I want to say she has

488
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 2: been running a whole lot of ship.

489
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: For a whole long time. She's a bad bitch.

490
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 2: She's a bad bitch. She's a boss, loss bitch. She's

491
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,679
Speaker 2: all the things. And it actually shocked me to see

492
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,160
Speaker 2: that she would get into the housewife of it all

493
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:22,119
Speaker 2: because housewives crazy. I just was like, that's not in

494
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 2: my mind. I'm thinking that's not her lane. But I

495
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 2: don't know this woman.

496
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: Do we know her connection or I guess through I

497
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 1: don't know any of those.

498
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 2: I don't know maybe Sutton, because Sutton is very much

499
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 2: dabbled in all kinds of businesses. Maybe garcel I can't

500
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 2: see Dared or Kyle or Erica knowing her.

501
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,679
Speaker 1: But that's interesting. That's a different type of person for

502
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: that show, like an accomplished business woman, totally accomplished business,

503
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: highly accomplished.

504
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 2: I've seen her in person at party and she's beautiful,

505
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 2: so like her skin is like glass.

506
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Speaker 1: I did see it. Like I'm not familiar with her,

507
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 1: but I've read this she's Ghanian. So she's Ghana, yes,

508
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 1: which is cool. So now we have the first Ghanian housewife.

509
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:12,320
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well traveled, well spoken, she is. She's that

510
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 2: that girl. Now how she's gonna translate or housewives?

511
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 1: We'll see, Yeah, that's that. I'm curious, like where how

512
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 1: do we how does that translate? Is she fitting in

513
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: with the group and what's her connection and all that?

514
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 1: But maybe Kathy.

515
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 2: Hilton, because Kathy Hilton is I feel like, has a

516
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 2: strong business connection side.

517
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, who knows, I don't know who knows. We

518
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 1: find out.

519
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 2: Were about to see. As a matter of fact, I'm

520
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 2: very curious. I'm gonna call my people over there, get

521
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,359
Speaker 2: to tea because you know people, I do know people

522
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get to tea. I'm not gonna tell y'all

523
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 2: to tea, but I'm gonna get to seek. Yeah, I'm

524
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 2: just gonna hold it. You know how you hold tea

525
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,199
Speaker 2: in your backpacket for a long time. Yeah, there's a

526
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:54,399
Speaker 2: lot that we do. Speaking of tea, I had, I

527
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 2: did have some tea. It'll come to me, okay, But

528
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 2: we have We have so many questions that people have

529
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 2: written up, and I want to do these right here.

530
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 2: What isn't this the ask us anything? Yes, guys, we

531
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 2: haven't done asked us anything in a long time.

532
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: So dun dun no North dun.

533
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 2: Durm it's now time for ask us anything.

534
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: Yes. So like a few weeks ago, we actually put

535
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: a question on our Instagram to ask us anything Yes,

536
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 1: and now we're answering the questions. Yes, okay, I want

537
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: to answer this one first, and said the Pink pop box, Hey,

538
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: Pink Pop Box, that is such a tongue twister.

539
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 2: Yes, but he right, he or she? I don't know

540
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,239
Speaker 2: if it's a man I want Okay, writes us all

541
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:39,360
Speaker 2: the time, I love yes.

542
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 1: And supports Yeah, says how is the war against those

543
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: Gosh darn deer going, Oh that's me. Well, do you

544
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,719
Speaker 1: have answer? I need advice because I don't know if

545
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: you notice the deer when you walk up, you probably

546
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,280
Speaker 1: haven't noticed the deer have been walking all through my

547
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: flower beds in front of my house, on my walkway,

548
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: And so the mulch gets.

549
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 2: Oh, I did see that all in the middle of

550
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 2: my sidewalk. I didn't know what that was.

551
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 1: Yes, so I'll I'll see there's a bunch of mults

552
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 1: on my side on my walkway. I'll go and sweep

553
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: it up. The next day it's a whole bunch of

554
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 1: mult on my side sidewalk. And then so I just

555
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: left it alone. My landscaper cleaned it up last time.

556
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 2: He was here, your landscaper, and then my boyfriend Yes, yes, shaboo.

557
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 1: And then and then this morning it's there again. I'm like,

558
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: these damn ye deer, I need them, like okay, the

559
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 1: sour spring work. Yes.

560
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 2: I feel like you're shady because you don't listen to me.

561
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 2: I told you I have not seen a deer since

562
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 2: I put that ship down. Really, yes, okay, So what

563
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 2: you do is I use zest zest. Okay, takes zest

564
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 2: and it's very easy. You think it's it's gonna be

565
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 2: hard to do, but it's not. I took a cheese greater,

566
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 2: I grated up the zest, and then I just sprinkled

567
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 2: that thing everywhere, especially if there's any bushes that that

568
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 2: the deer have been eating. Hinely put it around there.

569
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 2: But just like put it all over your flower bed,

570
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 2: you will not see a deer. Okay, them jokers do

571
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 2: not like it. Good, all right, I'm sick of them.

572
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: It's like I hate them. Yes, we're not friends, and

573
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 1: I'm so mad. My camera never picks them up because

574
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: I just want to like boo, like scare them, you

575
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,879
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like get away.

576
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I've done that. I've like on my camera,

577
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,199
Speaker 2: I've like screamed at them. They just look at me

578
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 2: and just keep Really they are the worst. Yes, it's

579
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: like crazy parties.

580
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: I have flowers that they're supposed to not like, like

581
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 1: my landscape are intentionally Yeah, the flowers out there because

582
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: deer don't like those flowers. Yes, they now eat them.

583
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 2: Yes, Amazon dot Com get get what. I buy a

584
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,920
Speaker 2: box of four, I mean, I'm sorry, a box of nine.

585
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 1: It's like nine in a pack. That you buy. Yeah,

586
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 1: I grate all that stuff up. Oh, like, so how

587
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 1: many bars did you.

588
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 2: I put out? Like I'm about to do it again,

589
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 2: but I put out maybe like.

590
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 1: Six bar? Four bars? Oh rate it up? Nice. I

591
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 1: have a nice little bucket.

592
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 2: And I just sprinkle really yeah, okay, you will not

593
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 2: see a deer. Okay, this is a test to see.

594
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: Okay, I have a couple of things.

595
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 2: So one question from k aggress a eight best advice

596
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 2: to deal with annoying coworkers. Well, Robin and I have

597
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 2: a lot of experience with annoying co workers.

598
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: But ours is different because like we're like forced to

599
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: deal with them.

600
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 2: Any any job situation, you're forced to deal with the

601
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 2: co workers.

602
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: True, but you're you're not forced to like hang out

603
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: with them and like, well, when you're not working, oh right,

604
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: and eat and dine and break bread with these people. Yes,

605
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: and travel right, right, and travel and go to parties

606
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: and go to parties, invite and invite them over.

607
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 2: Like ah, but I find that you can you can

608
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 2: always try to find common ground and a commonality with

609
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 2: annoying people. I'm not big on listening to people talk

610
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: about nothing right, small talk, small talk, disgusting. How about

611
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: when you're talking about your boring life and you think

612
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 2: it's not boring horrible?

613
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 1: So I don't.

614
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 2: I don't like any of it. And but I've decided

615
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:32,719
Speaker 2: that some people actually like that. Yes, So I've just

616
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 2: you know, tried to deal with it. Yeah.

617
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: I remember when I was working in an office setting,

618
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: when I used to work at under Armoured Corporate and

619
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: Otis Elevator Corporate, and when I worked in that setting

620
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: and I would come in for you know, in the morning, yeah,

621
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: on a Monday, and they'd be like and just random

622
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: people will just walk up to me and be like, yeah, hey,

623
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 1: how was your weekend? And I'm like, what do you know?

624
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 2: Like get away?

625
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: But I'm like, my weekend was great because I wasn't here.

626
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: What even if I did nothing, it was amazing. What

627
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: do you mean how was my weekend? Like?

628
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 2: What? Yeah, that's stupid small talk that you don't want.

629
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: I could not. I was like, I'm like looking at him,

630
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: like I can't believe you just asked me a dumb

631
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 1: ask question. What do you mean? How is my weekend?

632
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: It's amazing?

633
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: The hell it's better than being here, damn it. Oh

634
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 2: my god, did you ever ask them back like, well,

635
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 2: how was your no?

636
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: No, never.

637
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 2: That's a good trick though, if you don't want to

638
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 2: answer them, you'd be like, well how was yours?

639
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: Right, be like I don't I can't really remember how

640
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: is yours?

641
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: And they will get to talking, right, and just to

642
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 2: them out. I am a master and listening to people

643
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 2: talk and I don't hear a word.

644
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 1: They say, I don't hear anything. See, I can't that.

645
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: I'm not good at that. I did that.

646
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 2: Actually last week two days ago, I was like this

647
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,719
Speaker 2: chick won't stop talking and I'm not listening. But everybody

648
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: around me who knows me knows just not listening.

649
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: No, didn't hear one word, but I do think. Okay,

650
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: So instead of saying how is your weekend? Ask what

651
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 1: did you do this weekend? Right? You know what I'm saying,

652
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: because I think that how is your weekend? Is like, oh, okay,

653
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Speaker 1: it's great. But if you ask, and if you want,

654
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Speaker 1: if you want to get to know someone better or

655
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Speaker 1: foster you know, some type of interaction, then you have

656
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Speaker 1: to frame your questions so that they're more open ended. Yes, right,

657
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: so say what did you do this weekend? Right? Instead

658
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Speaker 1: of I think you should teach a class small talk

659
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Speaker 1: class small yes, small talk, want on want hate it.

660
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Speaker 1: But to deal with co workers, I mean annoying coworkers,

661
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Speaker 1: what do you say, like, just well, you said find

662
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: common ground. Yes, I say kill them with kindness. Oh,

663
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Speaker 1: definitely kill them with kindness. Yeah yeah, and just yeah,

664
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Speaker 1: they might be annoying and all that, but I think

665
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: it's better if you just kill them with kindness and

666
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: keep it going, because if you allow them to frustrate

667
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: you more and more and more, then your experience is

668
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: worse and worse and worse.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you want to whatever is that you're doing

670
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Speaker 2: job wise, you want to be able to enjoy it.

671
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Speaker 1: So just you know, and just realize it's a job

672
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Speaker 1: and you're going home and yeah it's temporary.

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Speaker 2: Concentrate on the check, yeah, yeah, contentrate on that bank account.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

675
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Speaker 2: So somebody asked me. They said, Hampton University, where one

676
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Speaker 2: of my daughters is going to school, it's forty thousand

677
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Speaker 2: dollars a year. And they ask were the twins able

678
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Speaker 2: to get some of those new scholarships that the new

679
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 2: president created. Apps of freaking lutely, Hampton for my daughter

680
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Speaker 2: is not forty thousand dollars. It is about half of that.

681
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Speaker 2: And I can't speak for Angel and Grace Door got

682
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Speaker 2: her little scholarship, so and I don't know if you

683
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Speaker 2: apply for the Yeah, there's a bunch of scholarships out

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00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 2: there for college kids to apply for, right and let's

685
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,959
Speaker 2: just keep it, keep it and grants and all that

686
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: they have to do their research. Definitely apply for all

687
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Speaker 2: of them. You might get some of it. Any amount

688
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 2: off of tuition is a blessing. Tuition is expensive. Tuition

689
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Speaker 2: for is that's a real number.

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Speaker 1: And did you did your parents pay for your college? Yeah? Yeah,

691
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: and so did mine. And I'm like that was such

692
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Speaker 1: a blessing. I mean, so that's huge. Like I'm as

693
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Speaker 1: a parent whose kids are you know, will be in

694
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Speaker 1: college soon, I'm like, yeah, y'all better keep shooting that

695
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: basket that ball, putting that ball in that basket, but

696
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Speaker 1: try to get an athletic scholarship because it's a tuition.

697
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: It's crazy expensive. And it just makes me appreciate my

698
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 1: parents more and more and more that they sacrificed to

699
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Speaker 1: send me to school and instead of me having to

700
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Speaker 1: take out financial loans, school loans, all that type of

701
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Speaker 1: stuff like that is a huge blessing.

702
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, thank you to my dad. He said, you

703
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: got four years of my money, honey, so graduate, yes, okay,

704
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Speaker 2: So I'm.

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Speaker 1: Sorry that's hard because on top of that, they're thinking

706
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Speaker 1: about retirement. Well, it's like such a tough spot. It's

707
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: like us as adults, we're thinking about saving for retirement,

708
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: and then you're also worrying about putting your kids in college.

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Speaker 1: College a lot, It is a lot.

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00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: And so literally you need to start saving money, yes

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Speaker 2: when you're two.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you do. Yes, And I mean and that's

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Speaker 1: something that like we don't really realize or you know,

714
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Speaker 1: no matter how many times my parents have told me

715
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Speaker 1: when I was younger, like oh do this, do this,

716
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: do this, you don't really realize like why they're telling

717
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 1: you until you're kind of at the stage maybe where

718
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 1: we are where we're like, oh shit, we got kids

719
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Speaker 1: in college, we got to retire, like all that type

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Speaker 1: of stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you definitely need to save so and like Gucci

722
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:34,399
Speaker 2: Louie product are really not important. No, what's important is

723
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 2: kids graduate, I mean, kid's education, your retirement so that

724
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 2: you have some funds when you are no longer working

725
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 2: and fabulous trips. Yes, the end, right, okay, in that order.

726
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 2: And good food, Oh, good food, good food. So Matthew

727
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Speaker 2: Mayo said, I'm sorry, but Robin face card never declient

728
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 2: never never, never, never decline. Yes, Robin Dixon with the

729
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 2: face card, thank you perfect.

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Speaker 1: I would I would disagree, but I appreciate you. Thank you.

731
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 2: So it says when exclamation point never, And then they

732
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Speaker 2: want the skincare routine.

733
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Speaker 1: Yes, you know what I mean. I think it's just

734
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 1: important that you do daily skincare. You wash your face

735
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: at night, you use all of your you know, anti

736
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: aging serums, your vitamin C, your retinols, your moisturizer, you

737
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: stay hydrated. Of course, I get facials and botox. Botox

738
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 1: is actually a great thing. Botox is your friend. Yes,

739
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: botoxes your thing. I actually need to go. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: just saw. I've always been conscious of my skin, and

741
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 1: I would like to say the same applies to Jaseelle.

742
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 1: I don't know why Matthew only said this about Robin. Matthew, Matthew,

743
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: the same thing applies to just say okay, because Jazelle's

744
00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 1: beautiful face is beautiful. Never to face card never declines

745
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: in the skin is.

746
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 2: Flawless, Okay, I want to say this before I don't.

747
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 1: I forget.

748
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:08,760
Speaker 2: So there's been some changes with like the Apple podcast app.

749
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, right, or there's been changes with how you download. Yeah,

750
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 2: reason to be shady, I believe.

751
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: So the downloads. So if you have set reasonably Shady

752
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: to automatically download, you might have to go into the

753
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 1: podcast app and reset that because something has There's been

754
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: like an update to the app, and a lot of

755
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 1: the podcasts that you automatically download aren't downloading.

756
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: So you open that app Apple Podcast App, You go

757
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 2: to the library, and you select reasonably shady. You tap

758
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 2: on the three dots that you know are probably up

759
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,439
Speaker 2: in the corner or somewhere. You select settings, and under

760
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 2: settings you'll toggle on automatic downloads and adjust any other

761
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: settings or downloads preferences. So you have to do all

762
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 2: this and then you'll automatically get it. So you might

763
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 2: not be automatically getting it. And a lot of people

764
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 2: ask me like, well, how how do I get the podcast?

765
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 2: And I'm actually like, I don't know. So I just

766
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 2: told y'all how.

767
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: To do it.

768
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 2: Now now I know, yeh, Now you know, yes, And

769
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 2: now I know, And I shouldn't say that it's horrible.

770
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: Yes, but if you have an iPhone, you just go

771
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: to the podcast app, yeah and type in reasonably shady

772
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: and you'll find it so and then set it to

773
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 1: automatically download.

774
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, so everybody did do that. And then while you're there,

775
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 2: just like review us and tell us, tell the whole

776
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 2: world that we're amazing. Yes, Robin Andzel are amazing. Okay,

777
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 2: So I don't want to forget this, So going back

778
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: to botox really quickly, because it is your friend, and

779
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 2: I'm a shout out and giving a little shout out

780
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 2: little Kean or Stewart.

781
00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

782
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 2: I had a conversation with her the other day and

783
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 2: she's somebody was talking about botox and she was like,

784
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,280
Speaker 2: and I told her, I get it like around my eyes,

785
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 2: and she was like, okay, but she's that I'm gonna

786
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 2: need for you to get it on the sides of

787
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 2: your nose and on your forehead and like down your nose.

788
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 2: You don't get it on your forehead, not really, because

789
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: I told her I want people to see mike xprushion,

790
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 2: Like if I'm mad at you, I want you to

791
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 2: know I'm mad.

792
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you want your wrinkles to stay, I know.

793
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 2: But I don't really have a lot.

794
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: No, you don't have a lot, but you don't want

795
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: them to continue to get worse. That's the point of botox,

796
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 1: that it freezes your wrinkles to prevent them from continuing

797
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: to get deeper.

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00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, well I'm okay with it right now. Okay,

799
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 2: because I said, because she was like, you need to

800
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 2: get on your forehead, and I was like, I have

801
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 2: a little bit, but I want people. I want my

802
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 2: forehead to move. She was like, forehead should never move.

803
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 2: And she said what does she say something about around

804
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 2: the note like in the corners of your eyes, like

805
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 2: down your nose, which I've never done. It is, actually

806
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 2: it sounds a bit scary. That does something. Oh oh,

807
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 2: I think it stops like any any lines, like maybe

808
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 2: across the top of your bridge nose.

809
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: I don't know.

810
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,000
Speaker 2: Anyway, let's keep it moving. She said, your lips get

811
00:38:56,040 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 2: flat automatically. Everyone's lips get flat. I've never heard that, okay,

812
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 2: have you?

813
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 1: I mean I think everything, we just all of everything

814
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:08,439
Speaker 1: that as we get older, Yeah, we lose volume all

815
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Speaker 1: over in our face.

816
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 2: But I okay, So all these chicks with these big lips,

817
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 2: which you actually frightened me. If I see you with

818
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,279
Speaker 2: big lips, I mean that with altered big lips. Yes,

819
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Speaker 2: I want you to know if I'm having a conversation

820
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,320
Speaker 2: with you, I'm scared. No, I'm scared. I'm actually frightened.

821
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Speaker 2: I'm thinking about clowns. I really am so so just

822
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 2: how I'm terrified. But she said, if you get it

823
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Speaker 2: on top of your not your lip, but like on

824
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Speaker 2: top I guess what is that called.

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00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: Your So she's saying a lip flip to do a

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Speaker 1: lip lip? There we go. Okay, how did you know

827
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: that word? Because I've done it before. But I don't

828
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: see a difference. I don't know a.

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Speaker 2: Lip what's the lip flip? Do you flip your lips up?

830
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 1: No, it's just supposed It's just it's supposed to. It

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00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: doesn't flip your lips up. It's just supposed to like

832
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 1: lift your lip a little bit. So where do they

833
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 1: put the needle. It's kind of like the top line.

834
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Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's like, yeah, like where you would put

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Speaker 1: It's where you would put lipliner.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's what they Oh that's okay. Mine is okay

837
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Speaker 2: for right now.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you need a liip flip.

839
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Speaker 2: She told me I needed a lip flip. I need,

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Speaker 2: She told me, I need all kinds of things in

841
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:12,799
Speaker 2: my face. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: See, like I've never noticed a difference with the lip flip.

843
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 1: Only when you get a lip flip, you can't like

844
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Speaker 1: suck on a straw. You can't whistle. It's like it's

845
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Speaker 1: like weird. It feels weird.

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Speaker 2: So I don't prefer to get a list, there will

847
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Speaker 2: be no lip flip for me. Yeah, I'll be lip unflipped. Okay, yeah, yeah,

848
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 2: but I mean I do. I'm all about like enhancement

849
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Speaker 2: and you know, if you if you want to do whatever,

850
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 2: tweaks whatever, get it done right, get into it, get you.

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00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 1: Don't afraid of and don't like judge it. You know.

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00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 1: I think when you're like altering yourself, like okay, you

853
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: want to like take it easy, but when you're just

854
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 1: kind of like enhancing what you already have or preserving it,

855
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that.

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00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 2: Yes, and no to the lip flip for for you.

857
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 1: For me, you don't need it either. You don't need

858
00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 1: to eat it. I don't think anyone needs a lip flip.

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00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like saying lip flip. Next time I go

860
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 2: see my girl, massage and be like, can I get

861
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 2: a lip flip? She gonna be like, get your lip

862
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,959
Speaker 2: flip out of here, Jasell. Anyway, that's our show today.

863
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 2: We love you guys so much. Don't ever forget to

864
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 2: live your life either.

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Speaker 1: Reasonable Oh sure, dude, We're both by.

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Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network.

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Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

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Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows

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Speaker 2: And you can connect with us on social media at

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Speaker 2: Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady