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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hy everyone, welcome to the Almost Famous podcasts.

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Speaker 3: It is Ashley and I am solo here in Rhode

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Speaker 3: Island as everybody is off having fun in the Napa

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Speaker 3: Valley area. But I wanted to have some girl chats

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Speaker 3: while Ben is doing the brunt.

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Speaker 2: Of the interviews over there.

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Speaker 3: So this one will be with Blake's girlfriend and the

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Speaker 3: mother of his child and love is blind. Alum gian

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Speaker 3: Nina Jibelli, you have been brought up with a g

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Speaker 3: I gr name. So how how is that? Because like

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Speaker 3: our kid is Hayden Habond.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, congrats and so yeah, so how does so?

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Speaker 3: Was it like do people like it like when you're

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Speaker 3: in high school? Is it like a fun named like

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Speaker 4: No, yeah, I mean definitely when I mean we we

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Speaker 4: also did like age age, but your yours is very yeah,

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Speaker 4: like it's a little rhyme.

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Speaker 5: No, if they can't say my name, they just go g.

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Speaker 2: GG or.

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Speaker 4: I mean my brother's name was very similar. So right now,

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Speaker 4: like his wife calls him g, Blake calls me G.

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Speaker 4: So we both turn around at the same time. So

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Speaker 4: you know, it's the never ending thing with my name.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, you had your baby.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it feels so good for him to be out

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Speaker 3: of me, out and about home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's great. Wow.

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Speaker 3: So you guys brought baby to Napa. We did, And

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Speaker 3: did you also bring him to Italy? No, we haven't

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Speaker 3: been to Italy yet.

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Speaker 5: That wasn't me.

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Speaker 3: I was just going based on the landscape. Have been

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Speaker 3: taking you on plans though?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he's been, he's been coming out.

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Speaker 5: I just.

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Speaker 4: I'm not comparing my baby to my dog, but they're

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Speaker 4: they're similar in the sense of like I took my

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Speaker 4: puppy like right away, traveling with me like everywhere, right,

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Speaker 4: and now they're amazing, right, Like they're just I mean,

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Speaker 4: at least Georgia my dog, she's everyone's just amazed at

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Speaker 4: how good she is on planes. And so I was like,

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Speaker 4: I think this could apply. So with he, we've just

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Speaker 4: been taking him whenever, whenever we can. He's been on

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Speaker 4: four trips now and he's doing pretty well. And so

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Speaker 4: I just I hope that somehow he it's like learned

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Speaker 4: behavior and we're like conditioning him so that he he

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Speaker 4: does well on planes for for a while.

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Speaker 3: He likes six months now four and a half, four

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Speaker 3: and a half. Okay, well, I don't want to bring

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Speaker 3: it down, but no, later half of the first year

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Speaker 3: in the planes start getting a little bit more difficult. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: right now you feed him during takeoff. H huh full

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Speaker 3: this it's great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: When they're a.

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Speaker 2: Little more cognizant of the world around them, that the

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Speaker 3: But then they get easier again when they decide that

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Speaker 3: they like snacks and iPads.

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Speaker 4: Ah. Yeah, it's it's like this little roller coaster and

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Speaker 4: it's all going to be all very interesting. But at

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Speaker 4: least now we're able to bring him and he does

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Speaker 4: you know, he he likes to be he's like made

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Speaker 4: for the streets, Like he likes to go out, like

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Speaker 4: he'll fall asleep and like you know, noisy restaurants. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and so we're just like, okay, like let's just kind

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Speaker 4: of you know, nurture this. And I it makes it

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Speaker 4: a lot easier for me too, because that way, like

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Speaker 5: Like I can enjoy my time here.

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Speaker 2: And that's exactly how I've always been.

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Speaker 3: People who just stay home with their young ones, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I don't can't do that, right, I like to take

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Speaker 3: them out and honestly, I feel like sometimes it's easier

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Speaker 3: take them out because I just like Cavin fever will

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Speaker 3: get to me. Yeah, it's like, yeah, it's physically kind

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Speaker 3: of like sometimes hard to wrangle. Yeah, I get that,

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Speaker 3: but I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I want to live my life exactly, down to the

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Speaker 4: part of your life rather than like completely changing your

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Speaker 4: life to you know, yeah, be be just their mom.

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Speaker 5: So we're we're doing it. We are going to.

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Speaker 4: Take him to Spain in two months, so we'll see

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Speaker 4: how he does on a nine hour plane ride.

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Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, that's a hard one.

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Speaker 5: That's a hard one.

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Speaker 4: Not too excited, but I'm excited for the trip, but

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Speaker 4: not for the flight. Maybe a red eye is a

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Speaker 4: good idea, the red eye. Yeah, and we're going to

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Speaker 4: do stop in Miami first because if we do like

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Speaker 4: it's like ten plus hours, twelve hours.

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Speaker 5: I can't do that.

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Speaker 2: He can't do that.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, no, I couldn't do that at all. I

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Speaker 3: would absolutely all always stop on the East Coast before

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Speaker 2: Headed out for the Atlantic. All right, so you guys,

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Speaker 2: I let's talk about parenting for a second.

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Speaker 3: Where do you when when the heat does grow up

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Speaker 3: a little bit? Who do you imagine being the disciplinarian?

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Speaker 3: Do you find yourself not being able to say no

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Speaker 3: or being sterned? Because that is my problem, Like I

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Speaker 3: Dawson gets away with a lot, because even.

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Speaker 2: When I'm like no, no, no, no, I'm never like no. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And Jared will be a little bit harder.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, He'll be a little bit harder on him, and

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Speaker 3: then sometimes we'll argue about how we handle those situations.

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Speaker 2: So how do you see it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like we should get on the same

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Speaker 4: page with that as well. I I also think it's

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Speaker 4: because they're boys, so like the dads can be harder

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Speaker 4: on the boys. And like, I don't know me he

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Speaker 4: has Heath has me wrapped it on his finger, like

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Speaker 4: I think I've said no like a little sternly, like

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Speaker 4: twice and like he looked at me like WHOA, Like

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Speaker 4: I've I didn't think that was going to come out

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, well I.

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Speaker 4: Also haven't slept, but there's that, But no, he I

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Speaker 4: think Blake will definitely, at least with Heath, be the disciplinarian,

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Speaker 4: and then if we end up having a girl, then

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Speaker 4: like I could see me me being a little bit

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Speaker 5: Also, like Heath, like he's he's our first, so like

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Speaker 5: I just no, like I don't want to say no

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Speaker 5: sweet baby, like there he's just learning like I'm not.

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Speaker 5: And this is how it goes.

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Speaker 4: Definitely too young for this, you know, but in a year,

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Speaker 4: in a year or I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think I'll just well, we'll cross that bridge when wegether.

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Speaker 4: But it's definitely turning out to be like Blake saying like, well,

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Speaker 4: you know, one day you're gonna have to and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: but I don't want to.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so yeah, you guys are gonna be us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you can.

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Speaker 3: You can foresee it based on how you guys disciplined

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Speaker 4: Oh it's exactly how we were really. No, yeah, my

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Speaker 4: dog's crazy. So we just are both kind of like

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Speaker 5: So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: There was like times where Lois would have like she

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Speaker 3: And she doesn't know what she's doing. She's just a

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Speaker 3: little girl, So don't yell at her.

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Speaker 5: Please, No, you gotta rub her nose in a little

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Speaker 5: bit exactly.

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Speaker 2: I won't do it. I won't do I can't even

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Speaker 5: I think softy as I know.

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Speaker 3: We were at dinner yesterday and I was telling Jared,

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Speaker 3: I was like, I missed being like on The Bachelor.

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Speaker 3: I missed the adrenaline rush of taping the show. Do

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Speaker 3: you ever have that craving and do you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You do?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: I mean I every single time, you know, projects come

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Speaker 4: front of the camera. I'm just like I love this shit,

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Speaker 4: like it's like crack. I like it's it's great. It's

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Speaker 4: like one of the best feelings in the world. And

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Speaker 4: that's why I like, I won't I won't say no.

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Speaker 5: I love it so much.

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Speaker 2: I felt like we would be the same on that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah you miss it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was watching The Bachelorette this week and for some

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Speaker 3: reason I had like a flashback of being in the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because our lives right now is like, oh, we're

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Speaker 4: in a happy relationship with kids, right, so just like

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Speaker 4: it couldn't be any further from where we started on

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Speaker 4: the shows. Yeah, I mean we did the show so

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so I don't want to actually go back,

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Speaker 3: but I would like to like go in a time

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Speaker 4: Right right, right, and just like savor it kind of

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Speaker 4: make a little bit more drama. No, I want to

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Speaker 4: just keep doing TV like I miss it, like if anything,

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Speaker 4: but now having a kid, I'm like, okay, but how

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I feel like that would be that would be something

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Speaker 4: I said, Yeah, how would you be different?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just depends on the show, right, Like if it's

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Speaker 4: like a challenge show, I don't really care. Right, it's

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Speaker 4: a challenge show, like that's that's just very different if

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Speaker 4: it's a show. But like let's say, like our lives

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Speaker 4: are involved or anything like that. Yeah, I mean that's

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Speaker 4: a fine line. I don't I ask myself all the time.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know how like these Kardashians are

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Speaker 4: doing it. I guess just because they when they they

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Speaker 4: all go to therapy, they all have like all the

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Speaker 4: security in the world, you know, all this stuff, so

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Speaker 4: that they feel I guess secure in that sense. But

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Speaker 4: if you're not, if you haven't been on a TV

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Speaker 4: show for the past fifteen years, that's hard. It's hard

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Speaker 4: to like just shove your your personal life in there again,

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Speaker 4: and like with so much to lose.

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Speaker 5: That's it's a hard it's hard.

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Speaker 4: I mean, not that we're doing anything like that, but

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Speaker 4: it's always it's always fun to think about, Like, well,

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Speaker 4: I would definitely do TV again, one hundred percent, but.

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Speaker 5: It would have to be like a tutor or like Traders.

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Speaker 3: Like the Traders, I understood exactly what you're talking about

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Speaker 3: because it takes place in a tutor.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it's like the same thing. But yeah, what

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Speaker 5: about you. Do you ever see yourself going back there.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't make any sense. Just utilize what you have

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Speaker 5: Why not all the pitches, all the things like do

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Speaker 4: I think I got a producer that was just like

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Speaker 5: Just doing it all for them.

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Speaker 3: Now I know that like didn't have the greatest sign

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Speaker 5: All the time, all the time.

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Speaker 4: His is better for Let's see, Oh the trips you

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Speaker 5: And ours is better for I think.

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Speaker 5: We have we have a lounge, we have a chair.

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Speaker 5: This is it. This is love is blind. Just turn

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Speaker 4: And ours is really good for I like to say,

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Speaker 5: You hit the jackpot, Like that is your soulmate, Like

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Speaker 5: So we just we have fun. We have fun with it,

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Speaker 2: Game we play. You've forgotten.

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Speaker 5: Or sometimes I'm just like I'll take it, like I'll

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Speaker 5: my god, I didn't know that was our I should

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Speaker 5: I got you. You got a good angle. I'll always offer, Well,

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Speaker 4: I would love to be engaged, Okay, some at some point,

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's happening because I again Love is Blind.

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Speaker 5: Do you want?

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, okay, well I think this is pretty,

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Speaker 3: I feel like it'll happen soon. Maybe you can do

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Speaker 4: He's very romantic, Blake has Yeah, Blake does a really

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Speaker 5: And he knows, he knows me, he knows, he knows

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Speaker 3: And having him travel so often for his DJ gigs?

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Speaker 4: But we do have a live and off pir which

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Speaker 4: at the end of the day, it's like it's like

446
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 4: having your mom being there, like your sister or your

447
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 4: cousin or some like someone that you trust, like it

448
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:52,639
Speaker 4: does take a village and and you know, right now,

449
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 4: everyone has their own lives and needs to pay their

450
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,120
Speaker 4: own rent.

451
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 5: So I brought in help.

452
00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:01,640
Speaker 4: And I am so so happy that I like I

453
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 4: because I'm not someone that really asks for help.

454
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 5: And this wasn't about me. It was about like.

455
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 4: The health of my family. And it's just been like

456
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,479
Speaker 4: the best thing that we ever did. Like Blake and

457
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 4: I are in a very happy place. The baby's in

458
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 4: a very happy place.

459
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 2: Like I.

460
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 4: Even though I don't sleep like I at least can

461
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:24,640
Speaker 4: have like my skincare routine, you know exactly, and just like.

462
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 3: That's what's right before I got on here, she got

463
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 3: went home sick today and I was like, Okay, I

464
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 3: have ten minutes to brush my teeth and wash my

465
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 3: face and do and I'll.

466
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 2: Put the seer rooms on throughout my episode.

467
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 3: That makes me like that makes me feel good about myself,

468
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 3: because when I don't do that, it's just I feel

469
00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 3: like I can't go and tackle the day.

470
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

471
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: Same.

472
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 4: I at least have my skincare routine, and even if

473
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 4: like my hair is.

474
00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 5: And that's it.

475
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 4: That's all I ask for. And she she helps me

476
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,680
Speaker 4: do that. She helps me, she helps me work. I'd

477
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 4: never took a day off like I.

478
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 2: I I took a week.

479
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 4: Right exactly, Like I got overwhelmed after I didn't take

480
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 4: a day off and I was like, Okay, let me

481
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 4: just take a couple of days, like a week, and

482
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 4: then let me just go back at it. And it's

483
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 4: at the end of the day, like we're working for

484
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 4: for them, you know, so that they can have good

485
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 4: lives and for sure, and if you need help, ask.

486
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 5: For it, and you're gonna think yourself.

487
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:32,160
Speaker 2: I totally agree.

488
00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the Internet makes you feel like stupid for.

489
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: Doing it and I just needing for needing help.

490
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 4: Because I've said it openly a couple of times, and

491
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,879
Speaker 4: the Internet is just you know, it's always fifty to fifty.

492
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna like you know.

493
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,400
Speaker 5: You mean, like your d your the dms, the comments,

494
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 5: they're like, but you have a nanny, like you should

495
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 5: be able to and I'm like, but.

496
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 2: But with my nanny, I still get by. I get

497
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: by with her. I wouldn't all.

498
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 3: It's like I'm still non stop all day long. I

499
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 3: get maybe forty five minutes to.

500
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 2: Watch TV in bed.

501
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 5: Right, Well you have two now, yeah, that's yeah, how's

502
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 5: it going.

503
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 3: We were getting it down, pat, We were getting it

504
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 3: down pat as like you know, and now and now

505
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 3: we've added a new element because now when Dawson goes

506
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 3: to bed, that's when the witching hour with Hayden will start.

507
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 2: So that has like eliminated all me time.

508
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 3: Ugh, It's it's really been not that as difficult as

509
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 3: I thought thus far. But he is still in that

510
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,199
Speaker 3: like sleeping twenty four to seven mode. So ask me

511
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 3: in a few months when he's become a little bit

512
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 3: more awake to the world. Yeah, wow, you have like

513
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 3: a new little I know, it's so cute. And that's

514
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 3: the thing, like we were saying last night, when you

515
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 3: have your first I think, like it's kind of exciting

516
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 3: to see them grow up and you know, just like

517
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 3: learn new things. But then I think with the second,

518
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 3: or at least for us, the last, then you're like, oh,

519
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,400
Speaker 3: this is the last time we're going to have a newborn,

520
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 3: Like I only have four weeks left of having a newborn,

521
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 3: and like this is the last every like milestone will

522
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 3: be the last time you experience that, right, So that

523
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 3: that is probably going to be a little bit more

524
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 3: like melancholy.

525
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 5: R oh, but you get to do it all over again.

526
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:31,479
Speaker 3: No, I'm not going to do it again after this, Yeah,

527
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 3: this is it after this, but yeah the first time,

528
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,199
Speaker 3: you're like, oh, I'm going to be able to do

529
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 3: it all over again.

530
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 5: Oh, and they're going to be They're going to be

531
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 5: best friends at some point, so yeah.

532
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 3: I think they're already kind of best Well, Dawson thinks

533
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 3: that Hayden is his best friend, but Hayden's like, can

534
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 3: you please be quiet?

535
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 2: He's like, let me chill out. Oh, he's obsessed, that's

536
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 2: all day.

537
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 3: He has like these moments throughout the day when he

538
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 3: goes up to him and he yeah, he's like, and

539
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 3: then like when he doesn't see him, where baby go?

540
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, baby go?

541
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 3: Be so cute every morning he asks where he is

542
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:07,679
Speaker 3: and it's adorable.

543
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: That's he's right there, he's in his bed. Oh let

544
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 2: me see. He was so cute.

545
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 5: That's the best. And you're like, I made that.

546
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know how I made it. Still it's

547
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 3: still like you ever look at them and you're just

548
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 3: mind boggled by the fact that like that's half of you,

549
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 3: like does not compute so often?

550
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 4: No, And if I didn't have like the videos and

551
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,880
Speaker 4: like the memory to prove it, I wouldn't even know.

552
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 5: I'd be like I did that? How Yeah, how is

553
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:34,680
Speaker 5: that even possible?

554
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 2: So props so very surreal.

555
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 4: Mmmmmmm, props to you, Props to women out there, because

556
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 4: it's it's different, it's very it's a completely like outer

557
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:46,959
Speaker 4: body experience.

558
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 3: I don't know how my mom did it being a

559
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 3: mom or giving birth, all of.

560
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 4: It, just like you know, and then like and then

561
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 4: you grow up and then like you're such like a

562
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 4: shit to your mom or your parents and you're like,

563
00:26:58,160 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 4: how did they do it? Because right now, if he

564
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 4: turns away, if I'm gonna give him a kiss, I cry.

565
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 5: So I was just like, I don't know, I'm gonna

566
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 5: do this for this in my life. I'm gonna just,

567
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 5: you know, collapse.

568
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. No, I totally.

569
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, thank you so much for coming on before

570
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 3: I let you go. Is it weird like for weekends

571
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 3: like this or weeks like this where you like go

572
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 3: and hang out with a whole bunch of Bachelor Nation,

573
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,439
Speaker 3: does it feel like you're part of the crew or

574
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 3: do you feel like an outsider? And do they happen

575
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 3: vice versa.

576
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 2: With Blake and love is Blind peeps, right?

577
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 5: I think it's definitely yes. To both.

578
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 4: I've been to, you know, a couple of these get togethers,

579
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 4: and when you guys talk about like, I don't know,

580
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 4: like the mansion or the producers that you all know

581
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 4: or things like that, I'm just like, huh, yeah, you know,

582
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 4: like I don't relate.

583
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 3: It's like going to a high school get together with

584
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 3: your spouse or you're about that another exactly.

585
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,199
Speaker 4: But as far as like feel like an outsider all

586
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:07,880
Speaker 4: the time, no, because when I this is actually really

587
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 4: nice for me because I didn't have like a group

588
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 4: really from Love is Blind. It's we've filmed and then

589
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 4: everyone kind of went their separate ways, and then COVID happened,

590
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 4: and so and so I never really got that camaradity

591
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 4: of like, oh you you went through this too, you know,

592
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 4: And so I every time I, you know, get together

593
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 4: with a couple of reality TV people, I just feel

594
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 4: instantly like connected because we've all been through something like

595
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 4: this and we're all living differently and and that's super nice.

596
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 4: But then he finally got a taste of it when

597
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 4: he came to the Love is Blind season six reunion,

598
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 4: and he was a little bit of a fish out

599
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 4: of the water, and you know, you kind of see

600
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 4: him just kind of.

601
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 5: Like, oh, like this is what she was talking about. Oh,

602
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 5: this is who that is. And I was a, ah,

603
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 5: you feel it now, don't you? So it's yeah.

604
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 2: But you're right.

605
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 3: Love is Blind is a little bit less of a

606
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 3: group show. M right, you're a little bit more secluded.

607
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 4: Well now it now it is more just because you're you.

608
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 4: We're up to what season seven almost is about.

609
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 2: To come out. So like all the seasons together, a socialize.

610
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 4: Exactly, and I know I didn't have that for the

611
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 4: longest time. So now it's starting to be more of

612
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 4: like a yeah, like your own little I mean, I

613
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 4: would say Bachelor Nations quin.

614
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 3: Family exactly, the pod squad.

615
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 5: What we used to call it.

616
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so it's definitely yeah, it's same but different, same,

617
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 4: same but different.

618
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 5: Everyone's super nice though that I've met, which is great. Yeah,

619
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 5: everyone's you guys are good people.

620
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 2: Oh thank you? Yeah, I love the Bachelor family.

621
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 3: Does you do have this camaraderie of just you know

622
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 3: you you didn't have to go through this experience side

623
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 3: by side to really over it all? Right, Well, thank

624
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 3: you so much for coming and for joining everybody this weekend.

625
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 3: I have fomo and I hope that I get to

626
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 3: do one of these with you soon. Yeah.

627
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: Same.

628
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 4: Well, for now, enjoy the many lasts that you have

629
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 4: with your baby, but yeah, we have to I think, well,

630
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 4: we have to see each other again soon because I've

631
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 4: met you once years, a couple of years ago, a

632
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 4: long time ago, long time ago, so we gotta do

633
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 4: it again. But enjoy your time, enjoy your baby bubble,

634
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 4: and we'll have fun for you soon.

635
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 5: Yeah bye, darling.

636
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,920
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