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Speaker 1: What's tap It's a lift service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm G. G.

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Speaker 1: Maguire and I'm stepping in Santiago and we have two

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Speaker 1: very special guests with us. Mr Smarley, Hi, how are you?

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Speaker 1: And who is this that you have here with you?

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Speaker 1: Introduce yourself? So is he allowed to speak typically? Now? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So I call him Beta Bitch for really us his name? Alright,

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Speaker 1: Beta Bitch. So let's get into what we're doing today,

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Speaker 1: Mrs Marley. So he is considered your sub, okay, so

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Speaker 1: explain to us this whole relationship. Okay. So basically a

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Speaker 1: sub is what a dom control. So I'm a dominatrix

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Speaker 1: dom and short for that, and basically he's there for sessions.

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Speaker 1: Whether I want my feet rubbed, whether I want to

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Speaker 1: spank him, tell him what to do, verbal humiliation, things

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Speaker 1: like that. So anything that I wanted the dominant that

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Speaker 1: he consents to, it works out. So what's that in here?

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Speaker 1: That's so that's a paddle. So yeah, so this is

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Speaker 1: called a flogger. Remember, yeah, sorry, So this flower was

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Speaker 1: made by somebody in the b D s M community,

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Speaker 1: is custom made, has my name on it, and then

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Speaker 1: like worship on the back. And then I also have

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Speaker 1: a paddle that you can see has been used a

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Speaker 1: lot um and it has reparations because a lot of

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Speaker 1: my things I do is reparations because a lot of

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Speaker 1: my subs are white men. Your clientele is white man. Yes, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let's start from the beginning, because we are all

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Speaker 1: so curious about this, just the financials of it, right,

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Speaker 1: and then also how you get into this, So talk

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Speaker 1: to us about who Mrs Mirley is and how this

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Speaker 1: even started for you. Okay, So basically, I've always been

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Speaker 1: in the sex work industry. So back in college, I

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Speaker 1: was a stripper. So I did stripping for a while.

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Speaker 1: Then I went on to be a sugar baby. Then

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Speaker 1: I moved to New York. I'm originally from North Carolina,

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Speaker 1: so I moved to New York for grad school, did fashion.

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Speaker 1: Was in the fashion industry, very very hard, um like

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Speaker 1: jobs back to back to back. It just felt like

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Speaker 1: I was not making any money as an intern, just

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Speaker 1: working in whatever. So one day I literally went online

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Speaker 1: and typed in how to make money online as a woman,

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Speaker 1: just like being sexy. I knew there was webcam and

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Speaker 1: ship like that, but then I saw financial domination and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, sounds great, right, I'm like, what is this?

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Speaker 1: So it led me to Twitter. So Twitter is the

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Speaker 1: main platform for financial domination. Yes, So if you go

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Speaker 1: on Twitter, just typing fandom in the search box, you'll

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Speaker 1: see so many women with so many different pages. So

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Speaker 1: I went up there and I was like, is this real?

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Speaker 1: Like people are saying reimburse me, send me this money.

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Speaker 1: Men are just sending the money not seeing them or

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Speaker 1: anything like that. And then one thing I noticed was

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Speaker 1: there was no like when I first started three years ago,

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Speaker 1: there were no black women in the tag, Like I

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Speaker 1: didn't see any other black women. So I'm like, how's

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Speaker 1: this gonna work for me? And I had no men

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Speaker 1: who or nothing. I just dove right into it. And

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Speaker 1: I want to say, in the first two weeks, I

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Speaker 1: had went out to lunch spent like fifty dollars. I

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Speaker 1: took a picture of receipt and posted it on Twitter,

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Speaker 1: like just spent fifty dollars. Reimbursed me and somebody randomly

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Speaker 1: send fifty dollars. That's when I was like, Yo, this

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Speaker 1: is real. Hashtag fin dom when you post that or yeah,

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Speaker 1: so there's like different tags for a friend. Yeah, different.

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Speaker 1: That's like findom um the subs that, yes, we call

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Speaker 1: them pay pigs, so you can put finn Dom pay

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Speaker 1: pig black doms instead of pay pay pi. Yeah. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's basically how they find you on Twitter. Okay, now

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Speaker 1: this is about reparations for you also, so talk about that.

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Speaker 1: So my thing is like with my slubs, I always

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Speaker 1: of moment of like why are you worshiping me? Because

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Speaker 1: a lot of black men will come to black doms

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Speaker 1: and like see us as a fetish. But I try

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Speaker 1: to take myself away from that. I'm like, Okay, you

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Speaker 1: can sit here all day and tell me I'm beautiful,

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Speaker 1: you like my chocolate skin and all those things, but

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Speaker 1: that's why I do something called reparations Play, and that

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Speaker 1: came really big into play last summer when you know,

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Speaker 1: donating money to black organizations and stuff. So I was like,

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Speaker 1: as a black woman and just send the money. No

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Speaker 1: reason why. I just send me the money because I

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Speaker 1: deserve it. So that's basically how I got into that.

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Speaker 1: What's the most you've ever made in a month? It

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Speaker 1: depends because I get random sins and then I get sessions.

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Speaker 1: So I want to say, the most I've ever made

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Speaker 1: in a month from Finndom was around tin k. Yeah

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Speaker 1: that's not bad, all right, So now talk to us

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Speaker 1: about who this uh, this stub is here with you today.

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Speaker 1: So this is Beto Bitch. So Beto Bitch. I met

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Speaker 1: him through um because I throw events in the city

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Speaker 1: like called god Is Brunch. So basically this is a

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Speaker 1: brunch for black women that want to learn how to

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Speaker 1: do what I do, be dominant anything of that. Since

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Speaker 1: we come together, we drink, we have Mamosa's, we do

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Speaker 1: catering like they learn and stuff, and then we have

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Speaker 1: these volunteer subs, so like we'll get maybe six white

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Speaker 1: get to practice on them. So I met him through that,

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Speaker 1: and then we had our first session together this past Thursday. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I used him at the class. This is kind

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Speaker 1: of the honor. Yeah, So I used him like two

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Speaker 1: months ago at a class and then now we get

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Speaker 1: more into our dom sub dynamic. Now from my understanding,

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Speaker 1: There's no type of So explain that part of it,

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Speaker 1: just so people know, because I think sometimes people think, oh,

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Speaker 1: this is like a sex, but explain that part of it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so that is the common misconception, like they see us

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Speaker 1: and like, oh, are you having sex with him or whatever? No,

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Speaker 1: So basically it's all most of it is psychological, and

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Speaker 1: it's about how can the subserve me? Not how mind

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Speaker 1: serving the sub? Right? So, um, my subs never see

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Speaker 1: me naked. Um, I'll wear little corsets and stuff like this.

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Speaker 1: Even if I do face smothering where I sit on

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Speaker 1: they can't breathe, I still do it fully clothed like that. Sure,

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Speaker 1: Beta bitch loves it. He's trying to be very very

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Speaker 1: humble right now, but yeah he loves it. Um, we

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Speaker 1: just did in our last session Thursday. So but he

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Speaker 1: has limits on it. Two. So your subs can have

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Speaker 1: like different limits and it's all about just making sure

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Speaker 1: everything is consensual. Now can we speak to Beta Bitch

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Speaker 1: for a second orso, okay, ladies, I know we have

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Speaker 1: some questions. So Beta Bitch, what are some things that

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Speaker 1: you uh as for your dom? Mr? Smarley, what are

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Speaker 1: some things that you like to do. So I'm now,

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Speaker 1: I'm not into findom. I'm into fem femdom because I'm

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Speaker 1: So some of the things we did, um, you know,

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Speaker 1: she's very sexy feet and legs and asked and that

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Speaker 1: and listening to her commands. Can you show us them?

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Speaker 1: It's up to her, that's permission. So basically what he

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Speaker 1: was saying was like, he's not into fendom, but femdom.

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Speaker 1: So femdom is female lad domination. So he's more so

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Speaker 1: into the physical of the uh smothering and the foot

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Speaker 1: I would never meet them in person. They're all over

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Speaker 1: the world kind of like that. Yeah, so that's what

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Speaker 1: I got into that I got into that first, and

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Speaker 1: then I got an interest in this, So that clarified

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Speaker 1: something to me because I've read that about you, about Fendom,

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Speaker 1: so I was confused as to how he was here

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Speaker 1: with us today. If you guys never really meat. But

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Speaker 1: this is a whole difference. Yeah. So you have some

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Speaker 1: women that strictly just do financial domination, some that strictly

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Speaker 1: just do female lader domination, and then you have women

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Speaker 1: like me that want to do both. So all right,

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna sit back and you invade a bit.

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Speaker 1: You have your session. Okay, perfect down, kiss my feet.

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Speaker 1: Tell me how much you love kissing my feet? Kissing

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Speaker 1: how much? Louder? Tell me how much you love my feet?

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Speaker 1: Your feet how much? How much more than a lot?

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Speaker 1: They're silky and sexy? I know, good boy. Now I

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Speaker 1: rubbed my feet, and don't stop until I tell you

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Speaker 1: to say, I'm your little bit, Mr s Marley, A

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Speaker 1: little bit louder, I'm your little bit. Mrs say it

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Speaker 1: like you mean it. I'm your little bit. Mr s Marley.

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Speaker 1: Head down, And that's a little creepy of that. Right,

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Speaker 1: I'm only allow to do that with you. Um, so

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Speaker 1: he is not my own sub right, so like there's

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Speaker 1: more like seven worship and personally for me, M yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I consider myself a professional dominatrix. So you have

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Speaker 1: to have my regular life, Like it's not something that

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Speaker 1: I'm living seven. So like something like that, y'all aren't

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Speaker 1: even asking no questions first, I listen, I'm here for it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm really just paying attention. Mistress McGuire

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Speaker 1: loading yeah, looking at the paddle. So the paddle is

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Speaker 1: like it's used for impact play. So impact play is

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Speaker 1: anything involving where you're striking. This s up whether it's

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Speaker 1: you have to be safe for whatever. Um, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: so that's what it's used for. Beta done that yet,

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Speaker 1: Yeah we have okay. Yeah, is there a safety word ever? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So safe word can be anything. The most common one

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Speaker 1: in kink is the stoplight. So red means completely stop,

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Speaker 1: yellow means slow down, and green's like I'm good. So

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Speaker 1: he could either use a stoplight or we can say

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Speaker 1: in the beginning, like my safe word is pineapple. So

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Speaker 1: if I hear pineapples to the sa pineapples. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: been under your foot this whole time. Yeah, so he

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Speaker 1: stays there until Okay. Yeah, you guys just started last week.

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Speaker 1: So what are some other things that you've done. You've

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Speaker 1: done the paddle, You've done Have you done the flogging? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so I've done flogging. Um. I actually just upload a

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Speaker 1: so I did flogging. I did foot worship, um, we

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Speaker 1: did face smother man. We did some calling response like

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Speaker 1: I just did right then, like tell me these things

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Speaker 1: say this back to me. There were some punishments in there.

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Speaker 1: What's the punishment. So, for instance, funny thing, so during

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Speaker 1: the session last week, he's rubbing my feet and then

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Speaker 1: or whatever on Twitter like I'm traveling. If you want

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00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 1: to book me, book me, because every opportunity's opportunity. And

425
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,280
Speaker 1: so I went and the subreach out. He was an

426
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,000
Speaker 1: older white man. He was like, I want to be

427
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:17,000
Speaker 1: publicly humiliated. I was like, I can't bring my leash

428
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,200
Speaker 1: and walk you on my campus. And at first I

429
00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:20,560
Speaker 1: thought he's gonna be like, no, that's a bit much

430
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,480
Speaker 1: because that's like hundreds of thousands of people out there

431
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,080
Speaker 1: during home coming. And he was with it, like literally,

432
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,119
Speaker 1: I wasn'tupposed to walk him to four pm. He was

433
00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 1: waiting on campus for me since like ten am that day.

434
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:32,800
Speaker 1: He was ready. Yeah, so we got out there. I'm

435
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I was nervous. So I'm like, yo,

436
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:37,080
Speaker 1: either I wasn't nervous about people recording or I don't

437
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 1: care about other people's opinions. For me, it was like

438
00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:43,280
Speaker 1: it's the police. Don't stop us, like I know, but

439
00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 1: it's just like you never know, like you know, people

440
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:46,800
Speaker 1: try to do stuff and it's campus police. You know,

441
00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:51,760
Speaker 1: they take their jobs. Yeah, so I got out here. Yeah,

442
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 1: So I got out there and I walked him on

443
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:56,120
Speaker 1: a leash, and the video that went viral. I didn't

444
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,480
Speaker 1: even know it was being taken. So in the video,

445
00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 1: I'm posing for my best friend. It's gonna picture of me.

446
00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 1: I got to sleep drunk, wake up the next day

447
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:05,040
Speaker 1: on Twitter and my ship was like blowing up and

448
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, my God, got you a lot

449
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 1: of clients. Yeah, it did. It did so many people

450
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:10,919
Speaker 1: after that wanted to be walked on a leash and

451
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:13,640
Speaker 1: wanted to like just be publicly humiliated. So I was like,

452
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 1: they didn't tell you down for public humiliation. No, I

453
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,160
Speaker 1: think it depends on the sand because like my God's Brunch,

454
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 1: we had maybe like a hundred women there, but it

455
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,959
Speaker 1: was more of a private event, you know. So like

456
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 1: some stubs are okay with that, and I'm thinking, like,

457
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,119
Speaker 1: you know, wear the mask. But then I have some

458
00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 1: stuffs that don't give a funk. They're just like walking

459
00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:33,720
Speaker 1: in the middle of Wall Street. I don't need no masks, Like,

460
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 1: let's just do it. So yeah, that Mrs. Rather. We

461
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,560
Speaker 1: talked about your personal life data bit what about you?

462
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 1: Are you dating anybody? Seriously? Not right now now? So

463
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 1: if you are, does that mean this relationship is over?

464
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 1: Potentially that happens a lot in the industry, Like you'll

465
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:53,960
Speaker 1: get subs that will end up dating somebody seriously, and

466
00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:56,160
Speaker 1: you know, of course, if they're being transparent with their partners,

467
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,919
Speaker 1: their partner might be like, I don't want you to

468
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 1: do this or whatever, and then they'll come to me

469
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 1: and say that, and I'm fine with it, Like it

470
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 1: is not my place to invade on your personal life

471
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't want the same invad on mine yet.

472
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:07,800
Speaker 1: So like if I had a sub and he was

473
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: getting in the way of my relationship or something like that,

474
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 1: I'd be like, that's it, like you know sober? Yeah,

475
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:16,080
Speaker 1: So what about are you honest? Betabit? When you when

476
00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 1: you date a woman, like with the things that you

477
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 1: like and if you date a woman, do you want

478
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: her to still dominate you? Um, that's interesting. No, I've

479
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 1: never done that with the relationship I've been in now,

480
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 1: except for the black women you date it the first

481
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 1: time that was the only time that has happened. So

482
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 1: do you think you only like black women now or

483
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 1: what's going on with that? No? But I think that

484
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:40,360
Speaker 1: somehow I do have a fetish towards black women. So

485
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:44,640
Speaker 1: I think that that being submissive is something that's not

486
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 1: in my normal everyday life from a professional and I'm

487
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: an alpha in real life, and this is something that's

488
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 1: very different, which is why I don't want to do

489
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: it publicly private least. Fine, Um, is it something you

490
00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: discussed with your friends there? Does anybody else knows? It's

491
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: a private thing for you? Yeah, that's something we talked about.

492
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: We're drinking beers. It's just like a community of subs

493
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 1: that talk to each other. We don't know that we

494
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,679
Speaker 1: think that the doms like we're like, there probably is,

495
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 1: but then again, a lot of people, a lot of

496
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 1: subs don't want to want other people to know there's abmissive.

497
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,639
Speaker 1: So like, as doms, we talk about subs because we

498
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 1: have to do it for safety reasons, Like if I

499
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: met up with a sub and he made me feel

500
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,360
Speaker 1: uncomfortable or whatever, I'm going to tell the other domes like, look,

501
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,439
Speaker 1: don't book him. Or if he comes in the inbox,

502
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 1: he's always a time wheret to say he's gonna book

503
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 1: in every book. We talk about that stuff. So we

504
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 1: have something called dom black List, and I only work

505
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: with black doms, so that's something we share. You know,

506
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,359
Speaker 1: venus Cu was up here, Venus who told us about

507
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 1: the flogger. Yeah, I know Venus, there's jet Set and Jasmine.

508
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 1: There's so many different black doms out there that we

509
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 1: come together and we like create community because there's not

510
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 1: a lot of spaces for us out there. I mean

511
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 1: when I first started out, I try to get advice

512
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,639
Speaker 1: from white doms on Twitter and they would block me

513
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,959
Speaker 1: and I's telling me to go learn on my own day. Yeah,

514
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: they were rude. They were very rude. So it's like

515
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 1: That's why I created these spaces for black women because

516
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't want nobody else to go through that,

517
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 1: like at all. Now beat a bit so so far,

518
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: you guys have done the smothering, You've done the flogging,

519
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 1: the paddling. What else can you show us today? Um?

520
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:22,439
Speaker 1: I can show some flogging. Okay, Yeah, let's see he

521
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 1: likes it, Like, yeah, it's not he's not gonna feel

522
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: it as much so because he has on jeans, so

523
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: it'll be it'll be good. It'll just be a little

524
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 1: example do what you gotta do. So I'm gonna have

525
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,360
Speaker 1: to down and see how this goes. It's the commands.

526
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: EI think you could do this? Yeah, you know, I'm

527
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: basically with flogging is all in the swing? Okay, so um,

528
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 1: what I have to do is usually when they do

529
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: this there naked or in just underwear, and so i'd

530
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: actually is actual get them started like letting letting norm

531
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 1: Carmen saw his brushes over there and like I said,

532
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 1: it will be on their bare backs and they'll feel that.

533
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: And there's different ways for you. You can certainly just

534
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: take it it like this and it or you can

535
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 1: take it and it's not only risk or your dominant

536
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: hand and you swing like this, and sometimes I'll take

537
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:18,080
Speaker 1: it and I'll go like that's all right, I'll come

538
00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 1: man out, come up. So's just what I'm feeling. I

539
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: feel like that's not really hard, No it's not, but

540
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 1: this is heapy. So some fockers are heavy, some aren't.

541
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: Um way on this makes this really heavy. So I

542
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: haindly used to this one I love. So that's basically

543
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 1: it with the flocker. So it's all about swinging with

544
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: at risk. Yeah, and when they're dating, is the naked

545
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 1: is mark because you can see the marks it makes,

546
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: especially on white skin and all that stuff, so you

547
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: can you you have them get naked, you have them

548
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 1: get naked. You don't ever get naked, but they do

549
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 1: get naked for me making them get naked. It's still

550
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: a part of like the humiliation for me and all

551
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 1: that stuff for you. And like sometimes a lot of

552
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: stubs like what we call sph so small penis humiliations.

553
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: I've seen that before. So like I've seen that before.

554
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 1: So now ideas enough. This happened on lip service way

555
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 1: back when I was that serious. So she had a

556
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,760
Speaker 1: little stick and she was beating his balls at the

557
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: stick and then she had like a news that she

558
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: tied his balls up. Yeah, tight and swollen. So I'll

559
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 1: get like a lot of stubs that just want me

560
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: to himiliate them on Skype, like they're gonna skype show

561
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 1: their penis and I'll be like on your balls, keeling

562
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: like I just be going in. Guys do that on

563
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: only fans. Yeah, back in the day when I was

564
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: a stripper of this one client, we all the girls

565
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 1: knew when when he came in, we knew what was

566
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 1: gonna happen, Like we were gonna stop on his balls

567
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 1: with our shoe. We were gonna put near him and

568
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: do it really hard like we sometimes we wouldn't be

569
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 1: in the mood and be like, oh you go do it, Yeah,

570
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 1: you know what's crazy is I actually have a friend

571
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 1: that I've had for like years and years and years

572
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,439
Speaker 1: from the strip club back when I first started dancing

573
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: that it has begged me for years to be his

574
00:26:58,160 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 1: dumb and I'll just be like, I don't know what

575
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 1: ye're thinking. Now the club, I'm thinking it's pretty easy

576
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: start off. You can do the light stuff, you can

577
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: do the hardcore stuff. I'm somewhere like in the middle.

578
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: We've actually I told this story a few times and

579
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:17,120
Speaker 1: I spoke about it on Beyond the Pole. But um,

580
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 1: he is the same guy that's wallowed my pay, um

581
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: the shot to my urine at the table at the

582
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: strip club. It's the same guy. And yeah, so we

583
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: kind of already like yeah, it was so so long ago,

584
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: but we've remained um through social media, we've remained in contact,

585
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: and we've continued to be friends. I mean, this was

586
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 1: twenty years ago and we remained friends through social media

587
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: all of this time, and like on the regular basis,

588
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: He's like, I would love for you to be my mistress,

589
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: so you might do that. You're learning from mistress Miley

590
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: get that tribute too, So like tribute is what like

591
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: I require a tribute just for subs to talk to me.

592
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,040
Speaker 1: So like when they come in my inbox like a

593
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: goddess or whatever, I'll send my cash up. Like minimum

594
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 1: to just even speak to me. It is fifty dollars

595
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: to start there, because if you if they can spend

596
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 1: that fifty dollars, most likely they're going to spend more.

597
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: You'll know, who's not a time waster from that, Like

598
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: it seems like a small amount, but it's like, okay,

599
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,919
Speaker 1: they're standing that just for say so it's like I

600
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: know I can get more from them. Yeah yeah, he does.

601
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: He do small penis humiliation. So I have enough small

602
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 1: pence simulation with Beta Bitch. So like there's different kinks

603
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,360
Speaker 1: and fetishes that we outline that we like to do

604
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: um and that's usually the ones we stick to. So

605
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 1: usually when I sub books me, I have like a

606
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 1: long list of like what I do, what I don't do, UM,

607
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: what I absolutely want to do. So hard and soft

608
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 1: limits basically, so hard limits is like no, hard limits

609
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: is you're not shipping on a body? Yeah no, I'm

610
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: not not not yet. Self limits are maybe it's negotiable, Yeah, okay,

611
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: you know what is your family thing? Do they because

612
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: obviously they know now. Yeah. Um, so my family is

613
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: very supportive. So when I back in April, I had

614
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: a New York time on feeture and my dad was

615
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: running around getting like newspapers. He was posting on his Facebook,

616
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: so everybody my family knows. One time, one of my

617
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 1: floggers accidentally got sent to my parents house because I

618
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: had on my Amazon address thing and I heard my mom.

619
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 1: I was like, something from work came for me today.

620
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: She was like, Oh, we already took it out of

621
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: box and we was using it. I was like, oh my,

622
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 1: but yeah, So they're very open about it. Families open.

623
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: My friends like they've always known I've been a friend

624
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: that was always doing the crazy ship. So they're like,

625
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: they helped me on my events. My best friend is

626
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: my assistant. So it's like it just works out. Yeah,

627
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: that bative bitch for you. How does it feel having

628
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: like Mr Smiley, she's pretty much a celebrity when it

629
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 1: comes to this dome world? Yes, what's the what's the question?

630
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: Was like, I mean she's that kind of a celebrity

631
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: Dome So is that how you found her? And how

632
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: does that fail to know that you have like one

633
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: of the top Black. Yes, it feels good. Was you

634
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: know the first session. We took a while for us

635
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 1: to get together and over a month, so there's a

636
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: lot of anticipation. Then she lived up to all expectations

637
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 1: and apparently she she likes me too, because yeah, what

638
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: type of work do you do? I know you said

639
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 1: during Alpha Male, but what happen? Rather not talking about that?

640
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: Is it like finance? I'd rather not discuss that, Okay,

641
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:20,520
Speaker 1: I understand. Yeah, A lot of subs are so like

642
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: I've had subs range from like CEO's Wall streetment. I

643
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: have a sub that's in the NFL. Like, it's like

644
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: different things. So it's like me, I recognize my privilege

645
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 1: and being out because even a lot of doms cannot

646
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: do this, Like they will not sit here with their

647
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 1: face out nothing. A lot of them are still not

648
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 1: in the fibers. I mean even the women I teach

649
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: our lawyers, teachers, nurses, doctors. So it's like I'm able

650
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:45,000
Speaker 1: to just be out like this, which is why I

651
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: love what I do too. But I like, I realized

652
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 1: a lot of people can't wow NFL players. What about

653
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: like rappers. I've not had a rapper yet yet, but yeah,

654
00:30:54,760 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: so they live fay. So that's what it is. A

655
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: lot of rappers watch lip service, so you might get

656
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: what about women? So I've had a couple of women.

657
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: I've had black women actually reach out. And the thing

658
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: with me, when I do sessions with black women, I'm

659
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: more gentle. I can't be like humiliating to them unless

660
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: they really wanted, like I might call them a bit

661
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 1: or something. They asked for that during session, but as

662
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: in me like stepping on them and all that stuff,

663
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: Like I'm more sensual with them, like I whipped them

664
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: more or centrally. I've even done couples before where I'll

665
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: go in and I'll teach the man how to dominate

666
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: or I'll do both of them together. Um, but I

667
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 1: do get a lot of women requests. What about black men?

668
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: I want to say, in my three year career, I

669
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: probably have four black men and they're all only into

670
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: the same thing with worships. That's it. They don't want

671
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Speaker 1: to know. They might be a little bit into face

672
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: sitting a little bit, but they're not into being whipped. Um,

673
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: they're not into pegging. They're not into that at all.

674
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: They're not into So you dog do a lot of pegging. Yeah, yeah,

675
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: like that, did you do it with them? Snoo? Oh

676
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Speaker 1: my god? What hell is that? It is very handy.

677
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: But if you need a girl, it's yours. Oh my gosh. Yeah,

678
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna just walk around with this, but like yours

679
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, no, they would if I even just

680
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Speaker 1: take a picture of this, if I just had a

681
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 1: picture of this and put it on Twitter, my de Yeah.

682
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: But yeah, I've done pegging before. Pegging is fine, I

683
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: want to do that. It's a lot mentally when you

684
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Speaker 1: first have you done it before? Ever? Know? When you

685
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: first do it's a lot mentally because like you got

686
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 1: to really make sure that person is clean. Ship. I

687
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: had to literally, Yeah, I had a stub before. I've

688
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: had a stub before that was not clean and I

689
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: had to kick him out, Like I don't play that

690
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: because I tell you, Yeah, that's why I do everything

691
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: with gloves and all that ship whatever. But it was Yeah,

692
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,959
Speaker 1: I'm very strict on that. My protocol strict. It's like

693
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Speaker 1: one of my favorite types of points and wash. Yeah,

694
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Speaker 1: well baby, do you watch porn selectively? I guess, like

695
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,000
Speaker 1: what kind of porn do you watch? You know? I

696
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: actually don't. It's more like on Twitter now when that's

697
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: kind of how I found her. Um, I really, you know,

698
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: I'm not really into porn, it's real life stuff. Do

699
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: you think that you can see yourself ever in a

700
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: relationship with Mrs Marley? Well, it's going so well so far.

701
00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's like like, we're gonna keep this

702
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: business is business, okay. But you just go back to

703
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: something you said before about the subs. You know, when

704
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: I when I was at that brunch, you know, the

705
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: subs do not interact. I cannot see myself interacting with

706
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,959
Speaker 1: any of these other subs. I think I'm a little different,

707
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: but I think, you know, there's probably a lot of

708
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: other subs like me. But we definitely would never want

709
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 1: to communicate with each other. And it's very more of

710
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: a private thing. Like I said, it started as a

711
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: sexual thing with a girlfriend and and you know it's

712
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: that's more the way I am. Do you evern orgasm

713
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: from these sessions? Uh? Well we've only had one and

714
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Speaker 1: I'm not a word gusting now, so no. Over to

715
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Speaker 1: his dick was hard from the feet rubb and how

716
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Speaker 1: to get him together real quick. So but you can

717
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Speaker 1: see yourself. Did you think about it later and like masturbate. Sure,

718
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,439
Speaker 1: that's not the point right for you. For the point

719
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: for me is that it's something very different than my

720
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: normal life. You know. Yeah, women I date, I would

721
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: never you know, that's that's separate and this is different.

722
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Speaker 1: So like I said, I was married for a while

723
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: and it's very vanilla and and different. Um, so this

724
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: is different for me. So MRSS Marty and your from

725
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: your experience, most of them men that our subs are

726
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:47,280
Speaker 1: normally like businessmen or like high ranking Yeah, orthodox Jewish.

727
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Speaker 1: I heard that from one of the dominatus is before.

728
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Speaker 1: She said that a lot of her clients tell's Orthodox

729
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: Jewish men. So I've had one, just one. Um, I

730
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: don't really get a lot of them or whatever. A

731
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: lot of the subs I get are like CEO types,

732
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: Wall Street types. I've had some college boys, like nine

733
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 1: year old boys, but usually then like they're very braddy.

734
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: So there's braddy subs too. There's subs that want my

735
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: attention all the time. And if I'm not replying mistress, mistress,

736
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,839
Speaker 1: question mark, question mark, and I'm like, I'm gonna block you.

737
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 1: And I love that, right, but my unblocked fee is like,

738
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Speaker 1: you know, you have to pay to be unblocked. But

739
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: it's like, like, so basically I love to deal more

740
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 1: with the older subs, Like I'm twenty seven. I like

741
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 1: to deal more with the older ones. The younger ones. Yeah,

742
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: like some of the younger ones don't know the lines.

743
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: Like when I get young subs, they'll be like, am

744
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 1: I gonna be able to run my dick in front

745
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 1: of you? Am I gonna be able to come? I'm

746
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 1: gonna be like it's just so many things where just

747
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: like you didn't read anything about what I am, or

748
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: who I do know or what I do. So it's

749
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: like I don't really like the younger ones. I'll take

750
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: their money. Like fan domon online, I like to do

751
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 1: Skype for them, but meeting them in person. Mr. Smarley,

752
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: I'm only twenty two. I have a very deep boys.

753
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: So is it more financially is it better like meeting

754
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: in person when it comes to rates for me, I

755
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: want to say it can be a mix of both,

756
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 1: depending on what the session is. But I want to

757
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 1: stay online is better and we're online, I can schedule better.

758
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: So in person, I'm not doing four sessions in the day,

759
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: the most I've ever done in the day is two sessions,

760
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,360
Speaker 1: but online I can do a ten o'clock, eleven o'clock,

761
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:23,439
Speaker 1: twelve o'clock, like every hour. I could be doing something

762
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: from the comfort my bed, just sitting there and I

763
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: can raise my rates. I can do different things, like

764
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 1: I can dominate on only fans. There's like so many

765
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Speaker 1: different websites. There's night for where you can do phone

766
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Speaker 1: sex operation as a dominatrix and just humiliate people on

767
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Speaker 1: the phone or just text and get money. Just alright,

768
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Speaker 1: show us what like what this phone humiliation is. Alright,

769
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Speaker 1: so on night For the different categories, there's one called

770
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Speaker 1: Mistresses at Home and then there's one where you can

771
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: do humiliation. So they'll call me or whatever. You'll be like,

772
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Speaker 1: you have a call from night For. They'll introduce themselves

773
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 1: and they'll come on. They'll be like they'll be sounding

774
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 1: like real nervously, like hi mistress, and I'll be like, hey, bitch,

775
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: Like I'll just be talking to them. I'll be cooking breakfast,

776
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 1: just doing something and I'm like, why are you calling me?

777
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Speaker 1: And they'll say because they'll even they'll just go into

778
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Speaker 1: it like I'm a sissy bitch that you know I

779
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: have a small dick, and I will never be able

780
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Speaker 1: to pleasure women. And I just really want to be humiliated.

781
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Speaker 1: And I'll just go in like your dick is small

782
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Speaker 1: only like BBC, I will never fuck you. I would

783
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 1: never even think of fucking you, and like, you know,

784
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Speaker 1: just really be talking ship and to me, that's a

785
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: great way to make money, just casually at home the same. Yeah,

786
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 1: there's so many women. I do that for free right now.

787
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: I do that to people all the time. You have,

788
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Speaker 1: any student, I'm signing up for your class. Yeah, so

789
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: all we gotta do is we're gonna look at that

790
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Speaker 1: hashtagy girlfriend and be like I'm a post, Like, well,

791
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Speaker 1: I just paid you for dinner. Hello, I said you

792
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Speaker 1: went to to Loom flight. I just went to New

793
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Speaker 1: York the film lip Service. Pay for this first my flight.

794
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Speaker 1: Tell us about that story. I love I love to

795
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Speaker 1: Loom too. I'm going back again. Yeah, I'm going to

796
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: remember it's get It's gonna be my third time this year.

797
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 1: Like I'm obsessed. But basically, my trip to Learn for

798
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: my birthday was all sub funded. Um so I get

799
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: a lot of subfunded things. I got my boots on

800
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: in February that was subfunded. Didn't pay a dime. Um,

801
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 1: my birthday trip was sub funded. So basically I just

802
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,359
Speaker 1: told the sub like, hey, this is where I'm going.

803
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 1: He paid for all my friends like they're rooming board.

804
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 1: He paid for a photographer while he was out there, massages, food, everything,

805
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 1: and that was just him want to just worship me

806
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 1: and just feel like, you know, he was putting in

807
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: on the trip. No, never met him in person. No.

808
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: So it's like the whole thing about financial domination for

809
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 1: me was finding that financial freedom from not having to

810
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Speaker 1: do a nine and five. Basically, as a fendom, you're

811
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Speaker 1: basically getting paid to exist. That's the definition of it.

812
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Speaker 1: Just worst okay with this, Oh, it's some couples that

813
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Speaker 1: do it together. There are men that do it. They're

814
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Speaker 1: called cash masters. Come yeah yeah, yeah yeah, So that

815
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Speaker 1: men that I do it, whether they're straight or gay.

816
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: There's other men that might want to pay them. You

817
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: might have some women that might want to send them

818
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 1: some money. So there's men that do it to you

819
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,799
Speaker 1: just don't find them as often. So if you do,

820
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: like search cash master on Twitter, it's not gonna be

821
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Speaker 1: as many posts as like finom. You know. So a

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Speaker 1: r yeah, but I feel like we learned a lot.

823
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Speaker 1: And how can people find you? So you can find me?

824
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Speaker 1: You on Instagram hopefully, so it's mother Marley, m U

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Speaker 1: v A Marley and r L E y. But all

826
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Speaker 1: the good stuff is on Twitter, which is eyes E

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Speaker 1: y E s X. On fire. You can just search

828
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Speaker 1: your mistress Marley and I'll come up. And then I

829
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Speaker 1: teach on patreon dot com slash Sex Academy five dollars

830
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Speaker 1: a month. You can choose to be either you can

831
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Speaker 1: do finndom. I have some sugar Baby tips up there,

832
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Speaker 1: um the courses seven. I have over a hundred courses

833
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Speaker 1: for mentoring too, So that's the easiest way to learn.

834
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Speaker 1: All right, take us out of here with something. M's

835
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Speaker 1: just Marley and Beta bitch. Get back on Twitter, Twitter, Twitter, stoppe.

836
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Speaker 1: I'll be there right when I'm growing back. I would

837
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Speaker 1: watching and I was live tweeting during the time that

838
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Speaker 1: my show with airing on wet bed. I feel like

839
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Speaker 1: I be on the pole. Yeah, so I feel like, yeah,

840
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Speaker 1: I got now, I got a reason to go back.

841
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Speaker 1: What's the next thing you're gonna step up to? Like,

842
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Speaker 1: what's next? Beta base? Tell us something that you want

843
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 1: to graduate to. I don't know, it's really up to her, right,

844
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: it's a it's a submissive relationship, so uh, you know,

845
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 1: I'll take her lead whatever she wants. I want to

846
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: get more into like rigging, that's with the rope and

847
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: all that stuff. I want to get more into that.

848
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: Wells that tell me, I don't know what so rigging

849
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: is like, you know, you've ever seen people like suspended

850
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: with ropes things like whatever, So I want to do that.

851
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: I want to have him suspend it. And it just

852
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: had my feet all in his mouth. So you okay

853
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: with that? Betta bitch, Well maybe there's light bonders might

854
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: be in between that. Yeah, alright, Well, thank you all

855
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 1: so much for coming at being so open about everything,

856
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: because I will find this very interesting. Obviously, there's a

857
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: whole community that people that's involved, and we want to

858
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 1: make sure people do things in the safest way that

859
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 1: they possibly can as far as how they meet you know,

860
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 1: their dumb or their stub and knowing about the safe words,

861
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,240
Speaker 1: but also knowing that like, no matter what you wanna do,

862
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:23,240
Speaker 1: we don't judge. And there's somebody out there ready to serve.

863
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: And now you know he's gonna be going home jacking off.

864
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: The thinking about you doing all this ship? All right,

865
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: he said, as long as she posted ship, would you

866
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 1: send that to her? What would happen if somebody sent you,

867
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: like a video of them jacking off. I don't know,

868
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 1: I might. Uh, they'll definitely have to pay me, Like yeah,

869
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 1: like I don't want to see that. I didn't ask

870
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: to see that, So send me some money now that

871
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: I have to see it, right, It's all about the money,

872
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:54,320
Speaker 1: all right. Lift Service