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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jordan is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Elise.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him the second date that he so desperately desires.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, first we got to find out what happened. So, Jordan,

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Speaker 2: what's up. How long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Elise?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Hi, it's been almost two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so it's been a little while. Have you

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Speaker 2: tried to reach out to.

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Speaker 3: Her, just just the once? I didn't really want to push.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to be that guy, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean, sir?

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Speaker 2: How was the date or how did you guys end

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Speaker 2: the date?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: We ended it with what felt like a good hug.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't rushed, It wasn't it was felt intentional. It

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Speaker 3: was it was a solid hug, I mean, with the

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Speaker 3: ending of a good night.

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Speaker 2: Really, that didn't warrant a ghosting, not that.

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Speaker 3: I thought I wouldn't expected. Well, tell us about the date, Okay, Well,

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Speaker 3: we actually we met in real life. Doesn't really happen anymore.

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Speaker 2: Wait, like for the first time you ever met was

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Speaker 2: in real life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like it was like face to face.

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Speaker 3: It reminded me of high school good times.

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Speaker 2: Well, how did you meet in real life?

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Speaker 3: Well, we were waiting online at a food truck and

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Speaker 3: we just started chatting. Eventually I got to it and

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Speaker 3: asked her, asked her out to a cool taco spot

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Speaker 3: and she agreed. So that was nice, and we ended

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Speaker 3: up we ended up meeting, meeting at the taco spot

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Speaker 3: and uh ordered tacos, got Margarita's. She she she suggested

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Speaker 3: sharing everything, which I thought was really cool, like family style.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah it was.

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Speaker 3: I mean for me, it was fine. We got to

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Speaker 3: try because we got different things. I got to try

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Speaker 3: her fish tacos, she tried my carnitas.

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Speaker 2: It was you know, it was nice, all right. I

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Speaker 2: know you didn't mean that to be funny, It was.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: So you enjoyed each other's tacos. And then then what happened.

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Speaker 3: Uh, honestly, after after dinner, we just kind of went

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Speaker 3: for a walk, just hung out one for a walk

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Speaker 3: and talked more. And that's when we kind of called

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Speaker 3: it and I gave her a hug which felt, like

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Speaker 3: I said, intentional and good solid, And that was that.

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Was she giving you signs on the date like she'd

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Speaker 2: want to see you again? Like did it feel that

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Speaker 2: was surely going to happen?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 5: She so, so I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It felt grounded, like it was calm, like it was

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Speaker 3: it was easy to talk to, and it was like

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Speaker 3: I didn't have to perform or anything I had to.

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Speaker 3: I could just be myself, which doesn't often happen that

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Speaker 3: you sometimes when we first meet somebody out.

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Speaker 2: Like fun right, Why do you think she's ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: I have no idea. I honestly I replayed everything we

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Speaker 3: thought we I was wondering if it was something that

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Speaker 3: I might have said. Maybe I talked about my ex

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Speaker 3: too much, but she asked about my ex. I didn't

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Speaker 3: like bring it up awkwardly.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: We ended kind of on good terms anyway. It was

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Speaker 3: a relationship that fizzled out and that was that and

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Speaker 3: kind of left it too right there?

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Speaker 2: What was she asking?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 2: What is she trying to find out about you by

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Speaker 2: asking that question? Like how you guys ended?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Just why?

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Speaker 5: Why?

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Speaker 3: Did we split?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, And it wasn't like she asked about your

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Speaker 2: acc and the floodgates opened and it was like three

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Speaker 2: hours long. Was you just talking about your ex?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: No, Jordan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted

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Speaker 2: by a woman named Elise. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Jordan,

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Speaker 2: why don't you remind us about your date a little bit?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah, So we met in person at a taco truck.

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Speaker 3: We shared tacos and Margarita's. We had a great time,

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Speaker 3: great hug. And I haven't heard from her, but I

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Speaker 3: think it's because I talked about.

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Speaker 5: My ex too much.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I hope not because she talked about hers too, So

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Speaker 1: that would be kind of a double sea.

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Speaker 2: And she was asking about like I don't know, you're

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Speaker 2: kind of asking the questions. All right, Jordan, you're ready

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Speaker 2: for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, may I speak to Elise? Please?

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Speaker 5: This is Elise?

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Speaker 2: Elise? How are you? This is a jewel show, It's

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Speaker 2: a radio show. Hi, Elise, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria

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Speaker 2: and my name is Jewble. What's going on?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Hi?

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Speaker 5: Sorry, what's going on? Lots of people? What's happening?

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Speaker 2: This is a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show,

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Speaker 2: and we do a segment on our show called the

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Speaker 2: first eight follow Up. So what it is is if

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Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and then

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Speaker 2: you end up ghosting to that person, that person can

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Speaker 2: email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them,

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Speaker 2: And we got an email about you. At least that's

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Speaker 2: why we're on the phone.

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Speaker 5: Oh well, wait what he said? I was Wait you

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Speaker 5: got an email from someone. I'm so confused.

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Speaker 2: His name is Jordan. You went on a day with

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Speaker 2: a dude named Jordan a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 5: Wait, no, I like Jordan. Oh my god, No, I

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Speaker 5: don't ghosting him.

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Speaker 2: You're not.

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Speaker 5: I did not mean to ghost him.

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Speaker 2: Jordan said that you haven't talked to him for like

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Speaker 2: almost two weeks now, and he's trying to get a

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Speaker 2: hold of you. And he responded and he's.

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Speaker 5: Want no, no I liked Jordan? Wait is he okay?

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Speaker 2: Well where have you been for two weeks?

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Speaker 5: So let me think good morning.

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Speaker 4: After like right after our date, my sister went into labor,

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Speaker 4: like early labor, like an emergency C section early, but

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Speaker 4: like I spent the whole like next day at the hospital,

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Speaker 4: and then for the next few days, I was running

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Speaker 4: back and forth, okay, from the hospital, helping my sister

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Speaker 4: and my brother in law, just getting going to their home,

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Speaker 4: going back to the hospital, back and forth, back and forth,

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Speaker 4: like I flew out of town, you know, so like

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Speaker 4: I I'm still out of town right now, and I'm

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Speaker 4: still like fransicled.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I feel really bad.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling myself i'd respond like once things calm down,

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Speaker 4: but then like things just have not calmed down, and

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Speaker 4: so the Dames days have like turned into khause, I

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Speaker 4: feel really bad.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, at least Jordan is actually on the phone

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: You is she okay?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I need to like I didn't really

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Speaker 5: be here. Hi, she is okay, Thank you for asking.

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Speaker 5: She's great. Actually she's in his mom she's really happy.

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Speaker 5: But I'm sorry, Oh that's great.

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Speaker 3: Well, congratulations to your sister and your family. That's awesome.

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Speaker 3: I'm not cool with you not calling me back for

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Speaker 3: two weeks.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 5: That's on me.

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Speaker 4: I guess I definitely should have acted or something.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying this. I feel like, you know,

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Speaker 3: two weeks is a long time, and I feel like

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Speaker 3: if we're going to see each other, so I'm going

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Speaker 3: to be somebody that's going to be seen, It's like

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Speaker 3: I got to be a priority to you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean?

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Speaker 2: Wow, I mean.

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Speaker 3: It's see, your sister was the one with that had

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Speaker 3: the baby. I mean, how hard is it to help

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Speaker 3: out without taking fifteen minutes make a Oh?

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Speaker 5: Wow, my god.

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Speaker 4: I don't even, like, I don't know what to say

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Speaker 4: here because I feel like you were such a different

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Speaker 4: person on the day and what you're saying now, so

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Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm like flattergasted right now, Like I'm so disgusted.

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Speaker 5: I don't even I definitely don't know what to say.

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm the one that's got around for two weeks, Jordan.

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Speaker 5: A baby? What did you want me to? I went

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Speaker 5: on one date with you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but but that doesn't make any any sense. We

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Speaker 3: had coacos together. Now, every time I drive by that place,

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Speaker 3: I think of your fish tacos, and I think I

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Speaker 3: get upset. Man, I cried like twice since I've driven

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Speaker 3: past that place.

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Speaker 5: Why, Okay, that's really weird, Jordan. There's no such thing

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Speaker 5: as leaving someone on ghosted. There's just being ghosting, getting

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Speaker 5: really really weird.

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Speaker 2: Would you like another date with Jordan? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 5: I you know I did, and now I absolutely don't.

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Speaker 5: I don't care who pays for it.

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Speaker 4: I would rather spend time with my sister and my

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Speaker 4: sister's new beautiful baby.

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Speaker 5: This is so cringe like, I'm so I'm cringing.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry at least, no listen, it's it's it's it's cool.

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Speaker 3: We've had the chat, we talked about it. It's no

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Speaker 3: big deal whatever it is what it is. But you're

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Speaker 3: gonna tell you tell your sister, I said, congrats.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, that won't mean anything because she doesn't know you.

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Speaker 2: Oh saying that too doesn't help.

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