1 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: The subject. She started it, I got a lady on 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: the side. Now I don't know how to end it. 3 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: Good morning to the Morning crew. I got an issue 4 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: that my lady started, and now I don't know what 5 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 1: to do. Basically, one day, my first of all, if 6 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 1: you have children, you might not want them to hear this. Okay, Basically, 7 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: one day, my lady asked me what was my sexual 8 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: fantasy as any man would say, to be with two 9 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: women at one time was my response. That night, she 10 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: shows up at my place with a lady she met 11 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 1: while out that evening. You can figure out the rest. 12 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: After that act by her, I've noticed she's become more 13 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: sexually free since then. Um, she went from having him 14 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 1: a nager toy with me and other women every weekend 15 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 1: to me getting off work and two of them in 16 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: my apartment waiting on me or already sexually interacting and 17 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: asking me to join. Shut up, Tommy, Don't get me wrong. 18 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 1: I'm living a lot of dudes dream right now, like 19 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: Tommy apparently, and my numbers have nearly doubled since this 20 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: has been going on. Unfortunately, one of her lady friends 21 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: that she and I were together with, we've been seeing 22 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: each other more frequently without without my lady's knowledge. Am 23 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: I wrong for that? The problem for me is this 24 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:33,000 Speaker 1: why Tommy, I want to I want to be with 25 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: my lady and keep her friend on the side. However, 26 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: my once fantasy has been somewhat of an issue for 27 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: me to let go of because of three reasons. Physically, 28 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: I am receiving more than enough, but it's tiring me out. Mentally, 29 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: it's not challenging. Therefore, like what Therefore, I know it's 30 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: not good for me, and spiritually I can't get to 31 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: the upper room living this Jesus, I cannot get to 32 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: the upper room living this lavish sexual lifestyle. Can you 33 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: guys give me some feedback on how to handle this 34 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: situation in a respectable fashion? Yeah? Right? Um? You know 35 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: when you say handle this situation and a respectable fashion, 36 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: you do mean getting out of it, right, I'm assuming 37 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,119 Speaker 1: that's what you mean. It sounds like you know your 38 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: brother who got caught up in this lifestyle that has 39 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: become too much of a good thing. You know what 40 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: about that saying be careful what you wish for? Uh? 41 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: You know, because this little stage situation has gotten out 42 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: of hand. You know now your conscience is bothering you 43 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: a bit. Oh, now you want to think about going 44 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: to heaven? Huh uh. You know I'm not judging you here. 45 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: I think it's great that you've come to this realization 46 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: that you want to change and be a bit more respectable. 47 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: So you know, you need to stop doing what you're doing, 48 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,839 Speaker 1: as simple as that. If you can, uh, stop doing 49 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: what you're doing, talk to your lady about stop thing. Uh. 50 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: You know you can talk to her, but she's probably 51 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: not gonna stop. I'm just gonna tell you that right now. 52 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, Steve, Well, make me proud. Don't worry. 53 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: We come back after this song. I'm gonna be voted. 54 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: Let me just get into this subjects. She started it, 55 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: I got a lady on the side. Now I don't 56 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: know how to end it. Lie livel lie. That's here's 57 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: the lie. Now, I don't know how to end it. Oh, yes, 58 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: the hell you do? Oh you know how dog, you 59 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: just don't want to. Basically, most men, even those of 60 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: us who have flipped over and changed, there's a part 61 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: of and the rest of us that is wondering, why 62 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: have you even sat down at the computer and this 63 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: turn of fortune in heaven? How lucky. Can you be 64 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: Come on and now you ought to type us this 65 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 1: letter of misfortune. Most of us have a side of 66 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: us that's going Are you for real dumb? You didn't 67 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: actually rode in on the National show about a problem 68 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: that ain't a problem. Well, when I come back, bro, 69 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 1: I'm gonna show you some things in the letter that 70 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: is a problem though, that is going to continue to 71 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: be a problem. And to let you know for a fact, 72 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: you have no clear cut solution you, sir son, Oh 73 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 1: great one, whatever apple of you have a lot to learn. 74 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 1: We'll share that with you when we come back. Yes, 75 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: we come on, Steve right now with part two of 76 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 1: your response to today's Strawberry letter. She started it. I 77 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 1: got a lady on the side, and I don't know 78 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: how to end it. Let me read this letter right 79 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: quick to you. Good morning to the Morning crew. I 80 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: got an issue that my lady started. Now I don't 81 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,559 Speaker 1: know what to do. Basically, one day, my lady asked 82 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: me what my sexual fantasy was, as any man was 83 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 1: say to be with to be with two women at 84 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 1: one time, was my response. Well, at night she shows 85 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: up in my place where the lady she met while 86 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: out that evening you can figure out the rest. Are 87 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: you tearing up? After that? After that act by her, 88 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: I've noticed she become more sexually free since then. She 89 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: went from having a manage twice with me and other 90 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: women every weekend to me getting off work and two 91 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 1: of them in my apartment waiting on me are already 92 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: sexually interacting and asking me to join. Don't get me wrong, 93 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: I'm living a lot of dudes dream right now and 94 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: my numbers have nearly doubled since this has been going on. Unfortunately, 95 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: one of her lady friends that I had her and 96 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: I was together with, Oh, we've been seeing each other 97 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 1: more frequently without my lady and knowledge. Am I wrong 98 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 1: for that? The problem for me is this, I want 99 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: to be with my lady and keep her friend on 100 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 1: the side. However, my once fantasy has become somewhat of 101 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: an issue for me to let go or because it 102 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: through reasons. Physically, I'm receiving more than enough, but it's 103 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: tying me out mentally, it's not challenging. Therefore, I know 104 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 1: it's not good for me, and spiritually I can't get 105 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: to the upper room living this lavish sexual lifestyle. Can 106 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 1: you guys give me some feedback on how to handle 107 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: this situation and respectful way. Well, I mustle inform you 108 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: of something, young brother. Let's go through a couple of things. 109 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: One day, my lady asked me what was my sexual fantasy? 110 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: And as any man was saved to be with two 111 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 1: women at one time, let me tell you something stupid. 112 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: She was hoping you will say this because guess what 113 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: it's hus too. That night she shows up in your 114 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: place with a lady while she met out that evening, 115 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: you could figure out the rest. Now she figured it 116 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: out already, she already figured it out. Whatever. Since then 117 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: she went from having a manage a troi with me 118 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: and other women, getting into them in my apartment, waiting 119 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: on me and they having sex, and asking me to 120 00:07:55,160 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: join your girl wild. Though your girl is wild, this 121 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: is something you've discovered about her, but her wildness got you. 122 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: Now it's just up in now now here we go. 123 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: Your numbers didn't double, You're feeling good about yourself. Then 124 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: you say, unfortunately, one of my lady friends that you 125 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 1: were together with, y'all been seeing each other more frequently 126 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: without my lady's knowledge. Tis tisk am I wrong? For 127 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: that dog? All this is wrong. All this is wrong. 128 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 1: Now you want to know if you're wrong for that. See, 129 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: the problem is I want to be with my lady 130 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: and keep her free and on the side. Let me 131 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: tell you something, dog, so you can free yourself up. 132 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: This ain't your lady. This ain't your lady. This the 133 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: girl you kicking it with. That bring other women she 134 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: want to kick it with, and then let you join 135 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: in so she can kick it with the other women. 136 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: This ain't your lady. This is a lot of people. Lady, okay, 137 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: And then you say your once fantasy has become an 138 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: issue for me because the three reasons. Now, let me 139 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: tell you how men thinks. Physically, I'm receiving more than enough, 140 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 1: but it's time me out. What this means is you're 141 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: about to kill yourself because you can't bring it no 142 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: more like you used to, because you keep emptying out 143 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 1: the tank and you ain't replenish it fast enough. Now 144 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 1: you find blanks salt does mentally, it's not challenging. Therefore 145 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 1: I know it's not good for me. That means and 146 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: that got boring on the words of men. What he's 147 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:43,599 Speaker 1: really saying the hunt is over. See the thrill of 148 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: the chase is gone because you ain't got to chase it. 149 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: You're showing up at the house and it's just laying now. 150 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: So now you ain't got the chase no more. The 151 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: hunter and you is gone your board, he said. But 152 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: I know it's not good for me. And here's the killer. 153 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 1: I can't get to the upper room living this lavish lifestyle. No, 154 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: but I tell you what, though the lower room is waiting, 155 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: You're gonna have a spot in hell for show. You 156 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: are on your way. Brother. Please take Heaven off the 157 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: list of things to do with this behavior. You've got 158 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 1: to stop some of the I would at least done 159 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: a year and then yea and a half. Right now, 160 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: play are you you here so deep you started to 161 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: think this is how life really go. Your numbers were up, Yeah, 162 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: your numbers been double. But one thing about it, no partment. 163 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 1: You're still in that little apartment because all the women 164 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:53,040 Speaker 1: you ever save no money by, you don't be in 165 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: that little racket as apartment with that little toe down 166 00:10:55,480 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: bed and a little nasty dishes and your little tramping 167 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: little wife that like all of the women that ain't 168 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 1: your lady and the girl you got on the side. 169 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: I promise you she got somebody on the side. Y'all, 170 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: ain't none of y'all. The main course all y'all is 171 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: baked bees, cold, slow friddles, pluckle to salad, y'all, potato salad, y'all, 172 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: all of that. Man, I'm sorry, brother, What can I 173 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: tell you? Good luck? Young man. There is no answer 174 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: for you unless you just completely quit, and you can't 175 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 1: because it's too good. Yeah, it's too good. Can't tell 176 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: us to none of your friends either. All right, Steve, 177 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 1: thank you. You know we gotta get out of here. 178 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: Email or Instagram. That's your thoughts to on today's Strawberry 179 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: Letter to my girls, Shirley. All right, and thanks to 180 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: everyone who joined me for the Strawberry Letter Live after 181 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 1: show on Facebook yesterday. We had a good time.