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Speaker 1: Is that right, Wendy? That's right. So in your mind

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Speaker 1: Do you think he cheated on you? I think you

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Speaker 1: She said, he had to drive. It was it was

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Speaker 1: I need you to say Ryan, you have my permission

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi is this Daniel? Hi Daniel.

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Speaker 1: My name is Sheina. I'm calling from the Modern Florist.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing this morning? Fine? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? Um. We're actually new on Ventura Boulevard here

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Speaker 1: to promote our new business. Oh wow, welcome to the neighborhood. UM.

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Speaker 1: I I don't think I really need or have anybody

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Speaker 1: There's nobody in your life, wife, mom, sister, girl from now. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: No that kind of party at all. What kind of

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Speaker 1: what about it? What about overnight? Daniel? To be clear,

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. No, I just was drinking and it's there's

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Speaker 1: all right, So you need to turn up the affection

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Speaker 1: Good luck. You need to communicate a little more, right, Yeah,

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