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Speaker 1: Today we're gonna be answering the question when should you

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Speaker 1: talk about religion to be a when.

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Speaker 2: A Sunday morning.

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Speaker 1: This first story comes from fit Dust four two three six,

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Speaker 1: and they say, am id a hole for letting my

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Speaker 1: stepdaughter stay in the closet. I've known my male forty

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Speaker 1: six stepdaughter, Tasha, female seventeen since she was about nine.

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Speaker 1: About a year and a half ago, when she was fifteen,

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Speaker 1: she and her friend Juliette didn't notice me come home early,

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Speaker 1: and I caught them listening to music and making out.

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Speaker 2: Listening to music and making out.

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Speaker 1: At the same at the same time. That's multitasking.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't positively. I prefer to make out in complete

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Speaker 1: silence in front of the Lord. Oh at church, mondays

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Speaker 1: at church, be established leave room for Jesus. They say

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Speaker 1: that's three way possible. So she was embarrassed and they

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Speaker 1: both freaked out a little bit, but I promised I

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Speaker 2: Doubu stab dads.

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Speaker 1: My wife's female thirty seven family is extremely Christian and

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Speaker 1: extremely conservative. Though she's not as bad as them, she

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Speaker 1: still has more than a bit of it though, and

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Speaker 1: she can she can be kind of severe with the kids.

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Speaker 1: M I feel like it does it like a lot?

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Speaker 1: Do their values align enough?

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Speaker 2: That's what I was gonna say. I feel like that's

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Speaker 2: a pretty big issue to not be on the same

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. What do you think is that?

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Speaker 1: Does it feel like they align enough to even be together?

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Speaker 1: Let us know in the chapelo, but also welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Thursday live stream. Welcome, We're glad you're here. And

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Speaker 3: Love bubbles that gave before the stream started five gifted memberships.

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Speaker 1: So shut them up, bubble bubbles, given the love that

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Speaker 1: we all deserve, bubbling up all over our sweet bodies.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: In the meantime, Dasha was able to keep having Juliet over.

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Speaker 1: She didn't have to keep her door open as per

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Speaker 1: the policy. My wife insists on whenever my son male fifteen,

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Speaker 1: kind of outing she's going on when she and Juliet

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Speaker 1: say they're going someplace together, even late at night, because

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Speaker 1: she's like they couldn't.

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Speaker 2: She's like, they're their best friends, their best friend, They're

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Speaker 2: just they're just really good friends, really close friends. She's

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Speaker 2: just hanging out at night. Yeah, yeah, listening to music

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Speaker 2: and nothing else in the region.

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Speaker 1: It's just jazz. Yeah, they're eating umm remember hummus story

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Speaker 1: or they're like I keep hearing myself going he's just

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Speaker 1: eating hummus in his room and he's like, yeah, come on, God,

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Speaker 1: is that a crime? Oomy, But it is not a

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Speaker 1: crime to eat hummus. And my wife never questions that

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Speaker 1: kind of outings with my son, even late at night.

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Speaker 1: She's even slept over at Juliet's house, and Juliet has

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Speaker 1: stayed overnight with us. Honestly, it's not like she's going

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Speaker 1: to get pregnant, So I don't really see the problem

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Speaker 2: Step.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, teenage pregnancies, Yeah, power to safe smon Ally, what

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Speaker 4: what are the safe.

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Speaker 1: Sex protocols for lesbian couples?

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Speaker 2: It's I mean, can you use dental dams paper dams?

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Speaker 3: Paper?

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Speaker 1: What the paper with the dental dam or right, It's

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Speaker 1: like it's yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought it'd be like rocks and paper ahaha,

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Speaker 3: because scissor ring, you're so funny, funny.

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Speaker 2: Yes, there's about a lot of safe sex practices.

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Speaker 1: I've never heard of anyone using a dental dam, though.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's calm.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I can't imagine if anyone in the chat

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Speaker 2: It's good, it's good.

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Speaker 1: No, No, I'm not saying I'm not I'm not I'm

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Speaker 1: not telling them to not use dental dams. I'm just curious,

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Speaker 1: your in the chap below anyway. Honestly, it's not like

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Speaker 1: couple of things that the girls have been able to

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Speaker 1: practically sitting on top of each other friends eating food

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Speaker 2: Best friends. Friends. They were they were just good friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they just they're kissing as friends. Friend what's all

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Speaker 1: these dental dams around?

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Speaker 2: Friends? Friends?

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Speaker 1: So they could share the same cup safely like like, oh,

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Speaker 1: are you thinking, oh, like menstrual cup.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I thought you were talking about two girls one cup.

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Speaker 3: I thought that's what you're talking about. Okay, move on,

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Speaker 3: that's what we.

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Speaker 2: Were talking about. Let's collect to friends.

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Speaker 1: My relationship with my stepdaughter has been closer as she

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Speaker 1: obviously knows she can trust me with who she is, which, honestly,

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Speaker 1: it sounds like she needs an ally.

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Speaker 2: Allies. This guy is a great he's great.

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Speaker 1: And your palm says dental dams taste good and are

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Speaker 1: easy to use. Click it, click it, Riley, cook it,

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Speaker 1: cook it, cook it, cook it, click it. Dental dams

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Speaker 1: taste good.

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Speaker 2: But presumably you can get different ones.

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Speaker 1: Well, oh yeah, you can get like like Riley got

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Speaker 1: me those flavored protective devices the other day.

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Speaker 3: Shout out rightly, my boy, my boy.

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Speaker 1: Over the past few years, I've been working from home often,

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Speaker 1: and we have an unspoken understanding that she can have

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Speaker 1: somewhere else in the house, I won't bother them. Because

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Speaker 1: I so largely work from home, I end up looking

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Speaker 1: that's given her quite a lot of freedom. However, However,

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Speaker 1: the problem came when my son found out through high

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Speaker 2: Son's a freaking snitch and.

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Speaker 1: Her stepdad doesn't care and lets her do whatever. I

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Speaker 1: he doesn't see it was set. He did get into

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Speaker 1: a little of a loud discussion with it with his sister,

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Speaker 1: and my wife overheard and made them spill everything. Okay,

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Speaker 1: before but before we go further in the story. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Sophia Riley, do you think the mom of this girl

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, what do you think she's going to do?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know, I think, but I mean,

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Speaker 2: just the made them spill everything comment doesn't bode well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like this step mom or the mom

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Speaker 1: of Tasha? Is do you think she will go as

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Speaker 2: I don't think this stepfather. I don't think stepdad would let.

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Speaker 1: No, wouldn't let But would she like would she be

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Speaker 1: well she's I think what's gonna happen is she's going

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Speaker 1: to ban the friend that Julia, yeah, from ever coming up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think she might do that. Okay, well

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Speaker 2: but I think I think Stepdad's going to come to bat.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well, I think what's gonna I feel like

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Speaker 2: She was nine and now she's seventeen.

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Speaker 2: Be like the type of person who's like, oh, you know,

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Speaker 2: as long as it's not my house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but house, what are you gonna do?

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna do?

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? Also, whoever, for everyone who's

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Speaker 2: You're not subscribe. What are you even doing?

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Speaker 3: What do you what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Do you even like us free? If you're like free

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Speaker 1: You could just hit the button do it anyway. So, however,

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Speaker 1: the problem came when I sudden found out I was worried.

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Speaker 1: a freaky Friday situation. You're gonna tell me? All right, right,

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Speaker 3: Son, my son. I would look to my boy hy by,

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Speaker 1: Have you have a boy. I've got a boy and

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Speaker 1: he's been bringing someone he says is a friend over.

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Speaker 1: But you find out at seventeen they've been banging in

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Speaker 2: But I feel like I would just be like save sex.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you I don't even give.

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Speaker 2: Them it just says nice.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what are the when when do you allow

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Speaker 3: I think never, they just do it without you knowing,

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Speaker 3: like it's never never given on that.

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Speaker 1: But then you won't Then they then they could do

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Speaker 2: And yeah, no, I feel like having I feel like

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Speaker 2: having conversations at an appropriate age, which I don't. I

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Speaker 1: My middle school people are having.

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Speaker 1: Like eleven, what's crazy? People were given crazy blowies and

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Speaker 1: it wasn't me. It wasn't me.

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Speaker 3: I was God.

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Speaker 1: I was just hearing about this.

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Speaker 2: Were they lying?

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Speaker 1: But basically, Op found out that his stepdaughter was making

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Speaker 1: They have been harassing her as well, which yeah, definitely

439
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 1: can't be good for her mental health. No, Paula says,

440
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: I think she's pissed things went beyond house boundaries. It

441
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:41,479
Speaker 1: could be.

442
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 2: I don't know.

443
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 3: You could be you.

444
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 1: Can hecha optimistic, that is what happens.

445
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: You can handle that in So, I mean, honestly, let's say, Okay,

446
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 2: let's say she's just pissed about uh.

447
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,880
Speaker 1: Let's say this is just the spicy sleep.

448
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 2: Let's change the scenario. It's the sun. She finds out

449
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,919
Speaker 2: she's pissed about the spicy sleep. Do you think that

450
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 2: she would go to her tell her family members that

451
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 2: her son was having spicy sleep? Do you think that?

452
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: I mean, we don't know.

453
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 3: I'm not sure.

454
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,679
Speaker 1: I just know that I have some friends with very

455
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: Catholic families that if they found out they were even

456
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 1: sleeping with their longtime partner, like their their boyfriend, they

457
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 1: would be pissed.

458
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 2: But do you think I yeah, no, I think that's

459
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 2: a scenario.

460
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 1: I think we're being optimistic here, but I think it

461
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,160
Speaker 1: is possible. I think it is possible, but I think

462
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 1: not likely man.

463
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 2: Guy pissed says, I literally just had an argument with

464
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Speaker 2: my mom over having sex in the house with a man.

465
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 2: I'm also a man, I'm gay. Was that? Was it homophobia?

466
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Speaker 1: Or I want to yeah? Is alophobia? Or is it

467
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: the sex stuff? Spicey sleep, But let's keep going through

468
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: with the comments. Valiant Strawberry says, Ade to break it

469
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 1: to you, but your wife is definitely homophobic. If she wasn't,

470
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:19,120
Speaker 1: she'd be on the floor sobbing about why her daughter

471
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Speaker 1: didn't trust her enough to tell her, not spilling the

472
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: beans to her entire homophobic family so they can all

473
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 1: gang up and harass an efing minor. She might not

474
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 1: care about other gay people, but your wife is one

475
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: thousand percent a not in my backyard kind of person.

476
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 1: In other words, it's fine as long as it's not

477
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: her kids. It's a gross mindset. Tell your stepdaughter to

478
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 1: block any family that is sending her abusive messages or

479
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: even messages that just make her unhappy. At this point,

480
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: they can always be unblocked when they decide to behave

481
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: Make sure she knows that you're still there for her

482
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,920
Speaker 1: no matter what happens with you and her mother. Because

483
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 1: your wife's piece of craft family. That's that she's already

484
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 1: looped into the issue. Could easily talk her into leaving

485
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: you for this, assuming you don't leave her homophobic booty first.

486
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 1: And there is a thick, juicy, juicy, juicy, juicy update. Oh,

487
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: I was scrolling for a sec. There is there is

488
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:29,640
Speaker 1: some juice left to squeeze. But before we get into

489
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: the updates, so via, what do you think homophobia or not?

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00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? Still homophobia.

491
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's the most likely. We're using Akham's

492
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 1: Uckham's razor, Ackem's raser. That's the most likely. Arkham raised

493
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: arkhams are.

494
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 2: You always ask me this? But you're the one that

495
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 2: brought it up.

496
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: I know about ka It's Arkham's rasor Arkham Yeah, Arkham's razor.

497
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 1: But we do have a juicy, thick story. But before

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Speaker 1: we get into that, Monolia Adelai, thanks for the seventy

499
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 1: dollars and five cents. Hello Sophia, Sam and Riley. Long time,

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00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: I've a long time, I've joined a lot, I've joined

501
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: a live but I'm still listening to yesterday's recording. You've

502
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 1: always uh, it's you're you're always nice to pronounce my name,

503
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: I have lots of research to do these two weeks.

504
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: You're making my rest time great, wishing a great live. Well,

505
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:26,400
Speaker 1: thank you for wishing a great live. We're made in Aoki.

506
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: Thanks for the five twelve. I'd rather they do it

507
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 1: safe in my house rather than sketchiness, yeah, which I

508
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: think is a good thing. And Lessandro of AA thinks

509
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: for the five bucks. By eleven, they had already watched

510
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: Spicy Sleep online. Also, my boys would get nudies from

511
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 1: girls since eleven? What what kids these days? Dude?

512
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: That's my god?

513
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 1: Was it like roadblocks nudies?

514
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:55,399
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

515
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,399
Speaker 1: Or was it actual? Once?

516
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 2: What?

517
00:27:58,560 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: That is crazy?

518
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 2: Control your children?

519
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 1: I mean it's like the internet. The Internet is wild.

520
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: What do you even do? How scared to have kids?

521
00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna raise them into like a in

522
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: the Amash community, or.

523
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have some I think, not super crazy strict

524
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 2: rules around internet, but I definitely am gonna have rules

525
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:20,159
Speaker 2: around it.

526
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 1: I think I think I'm gonna like, I'm gonna say

527
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: no computers.

528
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'll say no computers, but there

529
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 2: are I think there are ways to put stuff on computers.

530
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: I want them to build with sticks and twigs.

531
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I did. I would think you. I

532
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 2: would go in the backyard and I would make little

533
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 2: fairy houses.

534
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I think that's good. I think maybe give

535
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: a kid a laptop at like eighteen.

536
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I got an iPad in fifth grade

537
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: and that was kind of when I had access to

538
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 2: the internet.

539
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 3: All right, but are you ready to go into this update?

540
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 1: Also, Molly Kiss, thanks for a five B tip listening

541
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: to you guys while I eat sushi on my lunch break.

542
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: I am a longtime listener, but usually have horrible up

543
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 1: catching the lies. Well, Molly, here you are here, you are.

544
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 2: Love it your sushi?

545
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 3: Right?

546
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 2: What I have for lunch to day?

547
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 3: What I guess it he is?

548
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: Was it good?

549
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm probably I also.

550
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: Had some peas, Oh delicious. Well let's get to this updates.

551
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: So there were a lot of insightful and informative replies

552
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: to my original posts, and I tried to read them all.

553
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: A lot of people seemed eager for an update, so

554
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: I thought i'd mention how things went, just to clarify

555
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 1: because some people seem confused. Tasha, female seventeen, is my

556
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: wife's daughter from a previous relationship. My son, male fifteen,

557
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: is my kid from a previous relationship, and our youngest daughter,

558
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: female seven, is a child we had together. I'm Tasha's

559
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: stepdad and my wife is my son's step mom. Clarification,

560
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: All right, let's keep going. The first thing I did

561
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 1: when my wife's family started sending homophobic and slute shaming

562
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: or otherwise derogatory messages to Tasha was to tell her

563
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: to ignore them and to try to keep her mind

564
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 1: off of it. She went to start blocking or deleting

565
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: them on her own. She was already upset because of

566
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: her mother's reaction, and it kind of got to her,

567
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: But I tried to comfort her as best I could.

568
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: W's in the chat for Opie. I never considered that

569
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Speaker 1: my wife could be homophobic. We had gay guests at

570
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: her wedding, some of whom were with their partners. My

571
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:22,239
Speaker 1: sister is by and she was dating a woman at

572
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 1: the time, although she's since married a man, and my

573
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: wife is never apparently had a problem with her then

574
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 1: or since. In fact, when her family made noises about it,

575
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: she said they'd have to shut their mouths and put

576
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: up with it, which, well.

577
00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 2: She might have internal abydies.

578
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: Like biaces yeah again, then not in my.

579
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, not in my backyard, like she might be totally

580
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 2: fine with it or totally fine with it as long

581
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 2: as it's not her kids.

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00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: Let's keep going so or she'd let me take them

583
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,479
Speaker 1: off the guest list slash have my family throw them out. However,

584
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: that said, the way that she reacted to learning about

585
00:31:01,160 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: Tasha and Juliette looks really bad. My wife can kind

586
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: of get stuck in her mood. She can obsess with things,

587
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: and it can make her hard to talk to you sometimes.

588
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: But I confronted her privately about this. In particular, I

589
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: showed her some examples of the things her family was

590
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: sending to Tasha, and also some of the nonsense they

591
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: is sent to me. Apparently through some game of telephone.

592
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 1: People think I'm running some kind of teenage spicy sleep Den.

593
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: What they've said to Tasha was far more hurtful to her, though.

594
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: My wife was mortified and said she never meant for

595
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 1: them to say those sorts of things to her, and

596
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: that she apparently wasn't thinking when she told her family.

597
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: Apparently she was angry at me and Tasha and even

598
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 1: at my son, and she was spiraling in her head

599
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: and needed to talk to someone, so she called her sister,

600
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: and then I guessed her sister spread everything around which

601
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: I could believe.

602
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 2: I could believe. But I mean, even if this this

603
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 2: is true, it's still like she's still made a horrible,

604
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 2: horrible mistake that is not affecting her is affecting her daughter.

605
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, but I I guess, like I could see that.

606
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 2: She was just there's a world where she's not necessarily

607
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 2: out like as much of an as like a homophobe.

608
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 2: But I still think.

609
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: This is she was ignorant in making sure her daughter,

610
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:31,960
Speaker 1: like in telling.

611
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 2: This, she was not protecting her daughter.

612
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 3: She was not protecting her daughter.

613
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she said she felt hurt and excluded that

614
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: it feels like I always have a tighter bond with

615
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 1: the kids, even her own daughter. She said that it

616
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 1: seems like the kids always come to me with things,

617
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: and she feels like I sort of just run the

618
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:51,400
Speaker 1: household without her.

619
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Speaker 2: Well, of course they're going to come to Opie if

620
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 2: this is how she behaves.

621
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: And also Opie is there longer.

622
00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, also that so it's like also the thing of just.

623
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 1: You know, people are going to talk to the person

624
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: that just picks up and is there more.

625
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 2: It's not about this, you know, it's not about her,

626
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 2: Like coming out is a deeply personal thing, and it's

627
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:17,479
Speaker 2: not like you shouldn't make it about like you and

628
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 2: being like, oh, why didn't you tell me sooner? But

629
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 2: it's like, Okay, thank you for telling me.

630
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, I mean, be glad that now you're on

631
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: the inside. Yeah, and your poems that a good thing. Homophobia,

632
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: like all isms and phobias, are on spectrums. We all

633
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: need to do inner work and reflect on where our

634
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: biases lie and where our biases are on these spectrums

635
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: and work.

636
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 3: Towards being more inclusive in your palms. Bravo, bravo.

637
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then Annia says mom is making it about

638
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: her but the kids. So I don't feel like that's true.

639
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: I feel like I take her input and obviously the

640
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 1: kids love her. The kids do tend to come to

641
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: me more often, but it's because they know I won't

642
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: react the same way she does. I try to deal

643
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: with the problem and move on. While she can get

644
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 1: a lot more dramatic about these things, and she can

645
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 1: have some hang ups. I gave Tasha the safe sex

646
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 1: talk when she got her period, and I found out

647
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: that her mother hadn't given it to her by then.

648
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: I also ended up giving her most of the period talk,

649
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,399
Speaker 1: so it was a learning experience for both of us.

650
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 1: Her mother and my wife gave her pads, which she

651
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:30,280
Speaker 1: doesn't like because apparently a girl her age wasn't supposed

652
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: to use tampons, which was not true. For instance, my

653
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 1: wife said that she felt foolish and humiliated because of

654
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 1: her image of Tasha too. Apparently, she has frequently bragged

655
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 1: to her family, not to me or anyone I much

656
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 1: talked to, about how pure Tasha is and how she

657
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 1: never went boy crazy like any of the other cousins

658
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: I love. How like that was a point of pride, Like, honestly,

659
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,919
Speaker 1: it kind of serves her right, It's like my daughter's.

660
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 2: Hey, don't she's so pure?

661
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, she only hangs out with girls all the time.

662
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: She's not boy crazy.

663
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: Not at all. She sits in her room and listens

664
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 2: to to smooth jazz.

665
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 3: And she makes up with him as a friend, as friend.

666
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 2: Just so she doesn't get tempted by the boy.

667
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she lets it out in a safe way.

668
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: This this is so ichy. The purity culture stuff so ichy.

669
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

670
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 2: Shaming your other nieces, I know, wow, propping up your daughter.

671
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: Literally the most natural thing in the world, but also plants.

672
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: Ask where is John? John is celebrating his ten years

673
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: in La We're going to do a party later, but

674
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 1: he's celebrating it with his girlfriend, so he won't be

675
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 1: on the stream anyway. My wife said she felt foolish.

676
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,320
Speaker 1: Apparently she has frequently bragged about the purity thing crazy,

677
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: partially out of motherly pride and partially as a justification

678
00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 1: for her lifestyle, for our lifestyle versus her families. She

679
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: said that it was humiliating after that to find that

680
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: Tasha has been having lesbian spicy sleep for years and

681
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: that it broke her image of her innocent daughter. Maybe

682
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be lauding the wrong things. Yeah, maybe that's honestly,

683
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: like like perfect situation for this person kind of, because

684
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 1: it's like now she has to confront this idea of

685
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 1: her daughter, the real idea, and get rid of all

686
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 1: these terrible old We hope.

687
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 2: That's what happened. I don't want to have to I

688
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,879
Speaker 2: don't want to wish those scenarios on these people, because

689
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 2: I don't want to wish it on the kids.

690
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, I mean, but I'm hoping hopefully.

691
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 2: She learns from this because she sounds.

692
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,400
Speaker 1: I gotta believe. I gotta believe what Riley.

693
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 3: I hope my mom's not the chat right now. But

694
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 3: like I'm just thinking in the Christian community, like a

695
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 3: lot of kids would be like, I'm still a virgin.

696
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:05,959
Speaker 3: It was just a tip.

697
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 2: Like now, when you were giggling about the.

698
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 3: Just hear me out. Just hear me out. If you

699
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 3: are bragging that your daughter is a virgin and she's pure,

700
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 3: she still is because if they go by just a

701
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 3: tip rule, there is no tip in the situation. So

702
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 3: your daughter still is a virgin. So like this is

703
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 3: the best case scenario for you.

704
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: Wait, is that a thing that people say I'm a

705
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: virgin because I only had the tip?

706
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like some people said that to me.

707
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 1: Oh because it's like the hymen hasn't been broken or whatever.

708
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, she isn't even look an accurate.

709
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

710
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, some people have said that. Yeah, I'm just thinking like, oh,

711
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 3: like in a way, daughter are still good, so you're fine.

712
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 3: Stop freaking out.

713
00:37:55,480 --> 00:38:01,799
Speaker 2: Yi. Yeah, I don't like this, mom. I don't like her.

714
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,879
Speaker 1: Oh, Anya says, virginity is fake. I lost my doing

715
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: the splits lmaoh yeah, like like your hymen can break

716
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: at like doing the splits riding horse. Riding a horse

717
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: exactly gone, that's gone.

718
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 3: Whould you break your sam okay good?

719
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: Switch up?

720
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, right.

721
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: On a horse anyway. I told her it wouldn't have

722
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: been so humiliating if she didn't tell her family.

723
00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 2: Also, she didn't even have to tell anyone.

724
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 3: I know now my old family knows that I.

725
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 1: Was wrong because you told them. But she but that

726
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: she acted without thinking. So I guess that ship has sailed.

727
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: I wasn't raised in the same kind of purity culture

728
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: that she was, so I don't think of girls as

729
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: being good or bad based on whether or not they

730
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: have had spicy sleep. But it was shocking to her.

731
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 1: She said that she thought about all the times that

732
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: Tasha and Juliet were alone in the house somewhere or

733
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 1: out on what were probably dates, or all the times

734
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 1: that Tasha has made some excuses about it being late

735
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: or dark or snowy or whatever to have Juliet stay over,

736
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: and she just started getting angry again. I had to

737
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 1: calm her down. I told her that she needs to

738
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: look past being mad and that she really needs to

739
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: make an effort to set things right if she wants

740
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: to have her relationship with Tasha work. I just want

741
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: to shout out Opie again for being a wus.

742
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 2: You registered a therapist in this house.

743
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah wow.

744
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 1: I told her pretty plainly that Tasha will be eighteen

745
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 1: before Christmas and that it's up to her to decide

746
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 1: if she wants us all to be together as a

747
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 1: family then, or if she wants Tasha to be celebrating

748
00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 1: in at Juliette's place or for that matter, at my parents'

749
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: house with me. It seemed to get through to her

750
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 1: enough that she was able to get out of her

751
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,279
Speaker 1: head and push past being mad. She doesn't want to

752
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,280
Speaker 1: lose me, she doesn't want to break up the family,

753
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: and she doesn't want to lose Tasha. I got her

754
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 1: to drop the idea of punishing Tasha, and we all

755
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 1: hugged it out as a family. What do you think?

756
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 1: I think We're fine? They got out of the woods.

757
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: The woods.

758
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 2: No, because all all she's done is drops punishing her.

759
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,959
Speaker 2: She's still done all of this stuff beforehand.

760
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 3: I just want to know what religion she is because

761
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 3: if she's a Mormon, this changes things.

762
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 1: It sounds like she's she's Christian. I think she said

763
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:28,880
Speaker 1: Catholic Christian.

764
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,399
Speaker 3: Because if she's more like Christian family or something. Oh,

765
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,280
Speaker 3: because if she's Mormon, they could do like the female

766
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 3: version of soaking or whatever.

767
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: What would that be?

768
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 3: I don't know. Don't get creative, sure, get creative. What

769
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 3: would that be?

770
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 1: I think it would just be like, okay, little lip touching,

771
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,400
Speaker 1: let's move on. Yeah, just like a like a caress,

772
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: like a leg, like a leg hold, like like a

773
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:59,959
Speaker 1: hug with your legs. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think that's

774
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 1: the soaking version. Anyway. Oh no, no, no, no, it totally

775
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 1: wouldn't it would it would be it would be uh, this.

776
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 2: Stop, I'm just not moving shop move Let us know.

777
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:18,560
Speaker 3: I don't I.

778
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:23,680
Speaker 1: Don't ignore Riley, thank you, Yeah, Riley, don't ignore. Riley needs.

779
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 3: Riley needs to know. I am sheltered.

780
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 2: What is the next part of this story?

781
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:29,359
Speaker 3: Hey?

782
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: Anyway, please let educate me?

783
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 3: Please?

784
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: All right? Yeah? God, my wife told Tasha quote unquote,

785
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:43,800
Speaker 1: it's fine if she's gay, it makes her a vergin.

786
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: And she said that's not what she's mad about. Oh.

787
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,840
Speaker 1: She insists that she was angry about being lied to,

788
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: and that she would have responded just the same way

789
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: if Tasha had been sneaking around with a boy for

790
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,439
Speaker 1: almost two years under her nose with everyone else knowing

791
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 1: about it, which is kind of what we were talking

792
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: about before.

793
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,440
Speaker 2: And I don't know about that. I think she maybe.

794
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 3: She thinks so, I don't know if it's true. I

795
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 3: think maybe she thinks that.

796
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:16,480
Speaker 1: Maybe she's trying to get like, get off, get off

797
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 1: the hook.

798
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she's like, no, I'm not being homophobic,

799
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:22,800
Speaker 2: not being homophobic.

800
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 1: I'm not completely sure.

801
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 2: Gay people, my daughter's gay, but she's telling your daughter.

802
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 3: Anyway.

803
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: I'm not completely sure. Dasha herself thinks her mom is

804
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: being a little weird about it because it's a girl,

805
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: and she has been a little weird around Slash about Juliette.

806
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: Not sure if that's understandable or not, all things considered,

807
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: my wife said again to Tasha that she was horrified

808
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: about the things that her side of the family was saying,

809
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: and that she was sorry for mentioning anything to her sister.

810
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,919
Speaker 1: I already had Tasha go ahead and block most of them,

811
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: and my wife said that she was totally reasonable and fine.

812
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: She told Tasha that she all always thought she was

813
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,680
Speaker 1: so innocent and she never thought about her this way,

814
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: but that she wanted to know more about this side

815
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,279
Speaker 1: of her, like a side of her life, and for

816
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 1: them to be more open with each other. Tasha seems

817
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: glad that her mom isn't flipping out about her anymore,

818
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,760
Speaker 1: and she told me she was glad I talked to her.

819
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,439
Speaker 1: I told her that I'll always be there for her,

820
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 1: and she was very grateful for that. As for my son,

821
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 1: he apologized to his sister privately, and he told me

822
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: that he was sorry that he set this off. I

823
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,359
Speaker 1: told him not to blame himself. He said he never

824
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,280
Speaker 1: had any intention of tattling out of spite or anything

825
00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 1: like that, and that he totally understood why Tasha kept

826
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: things the way she did, not just because of the

827
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: freedom it got her and Juliet, but because of how

828
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 1: he knew my wife would flip out regardless of how

829
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: she found out. There hasn't really been any good time

830
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 1: yet for me to try to address the open door

831
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 1: policy and whether or not it's something that he's going

832
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: to have to abide by, but that's a matter for

833
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: another time. Tasha is nearly grown, and I'm pretty sure

834
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,760
Speaker 1: that her mom is going to be being extra nice

835
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: to her, so hopefully things aren't too awkward. My wife

836
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 1: was very pissed off, and the pea seems to have

837
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,319
Speaker 1: triggered some of her hang ups in family baggage, but

838
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 1: she's not anywhere near wanting to divorce me. I love

839
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,520
Speaker 1: her too much to imagine parting from her myself, so

840
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,399
Speaker 1: I'm glad this is something we can get past. I've

841
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: had long talks with Tasha and she's immensely relieved that

842
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: me and my family will always have support for her,

843
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 1: regardless of whether or not her mom's family ever changes

844
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 1: their tune. Thanks for all the comments. They give me

845
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 1: a lot of things to think about and a lot

846
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:37,439
Speaker 1: of perspective. I knew it was going to be rough

847
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,440
Speaker 1: getting my wife to come around on all of this,

848
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,720
Speaker 1: but in particular showing her the effect that her lashing

849
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: out has had on Tasha and the upsetting face her

850
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:49,399
Speaker 1: family has shown was eye opening for her. Sorry if

851
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: this is long, for the last few days have been

852
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,879
Speaker 1: a lot, and there are some relevant comments two throw

853
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: us out or two close us out, but I kind

854
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 1: of feel like there's maybe not as much character development

855
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: as we want, but really good is some.

856
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 2: There's only some. I mean, at least she's not throwing

857
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 2: her daughter out or you know, actively being against her.

858
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 2: But I feel like there's she hasn't apologized for. And

859
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 2: we also don't really know if like the family members

860
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 2: who were attacking Tasha were cut off or anything.

861
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 1: It seems like they're not talking to the family members.

862
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:36,320
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't see anything about her apologizing.

863
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like they just like made rules about.

864
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 1: Well, here we go. My wife said again to Tasha

865
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:47,439
Speaker 1: that she was horrified about the things that her side

866
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: of the family was saying and that she was so

867
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: sorry for mentioning anything to her sister.

868
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,359
Speaker 2: Okay, then that's that's something.

869
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: That's something, And Tasha blocked most of them, and my

870
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:03,640
Speaker 1: wife said that was totally reasonable and fine. So and

871
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 1: she also said, like, I want to be more open

872
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:09,839
Speaker 1: with her. So I think, you know, I yes, Josephine says,

873
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: that's the bare minimum. Yes, But I think it feels

874
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: like we're we're on a It seems like all parties

875
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 1: are hopeful for the future. Yeah, like even Tasha seems like, oh,

876
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: like at least I'm I'm having a more of a

877
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 1: dialogue with my mom. Yeah, and I do think that

878
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: there is there is there was homophobia from the mom there.

879
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 2: I think. So, I think there is some internal but I.

880
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: Think I like it is at least being work through.

881
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

882
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: Frankie five six seven says the effect of saying you're

883
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: something because it's defining your actions, like saying you're really

884
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. What does that mean?

885
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't know.

886
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 3: I don't know.

887
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 1: Randa says mom is proved by daughter felt comfortable going

888
00:46:56,680 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: to her stepdad. She can't trust her with personal information, Yeah, hopefully,

889
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: Like I mean, it feels like she's sorry for spreading

890
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: that information. Yeah, and it also feels like she's more

891
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:17,839
Speaker 1: mad that the that her daughter was like running around

892
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 1: with someone that.

893
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:19,319
Speaker 3: She just didn't know.

894
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

895
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:24,480
Speaker 3: I don't think the daughter needs to apologize.

896
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 2: I don't know why the daughter needs. Yeah.

897
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: Well, I guess maybe Jemmy and Ayah is like, oh,

898
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: to be open with her mom about this relationship. But

899
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: it's also a lot more complicated than you are.

900
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, yeah, I disagree.

901
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 1: I don't think she just can we put that TLDR

902
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: on screen. Riley Kimberly says, exactly, she's apologizing for her weight.

903
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:50,800
Speaker 3: Can you go Downtown?

904
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: Kimberly says, she's apologizing for her family's behavior, blaming Tasha's

905
00:47:56,640 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: behavior and saying she wants open honesty, but not addressing

906
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 1: her part and why that berry existed exactly, like if

907
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: we're seeing things, if if if the if op's wife

908
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 1: is constantly talking about how pure and not boy crazy

909
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: the daughter is, and talking all about this purity, why

910
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 1: would the daughter feel comfortable to to come out. You

911
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 1: know it's it's it's much much harder. I don't I

912
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 1: don't think the daughter needs to apologize.

913
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 2: No, I don't think.

914
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I would love to know what you guys think.

915
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: Who's the a hole in the story?

916
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 2: I think it's pretty good. It's not oh, p O

917
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 2: p w's the chapter?

918
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: Stepmom a little the a hole?

919
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 2: Even if she come back around, I think she was

920
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 2: still the a hole.

921
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:54,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's where the story ends. I'll read some

922
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: relevant comments to close this.

923
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 3: Actually, I think we're good.

924
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: I think we're good. I think that's where the story ends.

925
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:06,680
Speaker 1: But where the next story begin? My mom is calling,

926
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: Selah says off topic, but Sophia's hair is looking really

927
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: cute right now. Shout out Sophia, Yeah, Paula says, mother

928
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 1: a whole. I agree. Also, shout out to everyone on Facebook, Facebook, Facebook,

929
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: pop it off where our Facebook community is growing straw

930
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 1: if your Facebook can have and joined the discord there.

931
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 3: Also, if you're on Facebook, give me a w or

932
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 3: a hey, because I want to see if your chat

933
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 3: shows up again. Yeah, we got to show up now. Yeah,

934
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 3: you're in the conversation. Facebook, you're joining, you're joining.

935
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: Uh, we're on stream, mom, he called me too. She

936
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:45,359
Speaker 1: wanted to be on stream. There you go, Mom, We're

937
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: on stream. What's up? We're on stream? You're well.

938
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 3: I was just calling. I love you.

939
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:56,439
Speaker 1: Oh, I love you too, Okay, bye, by, I love.

940
00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:58,360
Speaker 2: You?

941
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:00,320
Speaker 1: Well you called her first?

942
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 3: Alight?

943
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: All right?

944
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,839
Speaker 4: A cute.

945
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: All right? Shall we get into the next. So, like

946
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: the question of that of this story set is like

947
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 1: should we be talking like when should we talk about religion? Yeah,

948
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:23,400
Speaker 1: it feels like maybe it feels like it was. It

949
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: wasn't It was talked about a little.

950
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:26,920
Speaker 2: Bit, but yeah, I think I think it just to

951
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:32,399
Speaker 2: maybe a question of you know, when when should When

952
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 2: is the time and place for religion maybe and in

953
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:39,399
Speaker 2: this case not there.

954
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: All right, well let's get to that next.

955
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 2: We'll get into it. Am I the a hole for

956
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 2: uninviting my family to my son's birthday because they always

957
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 2: bring up religion?

958
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:53,280
Speaker 3: Reading the Good News?

959
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 2: So the Wizardry nineties says, I am a single father

960
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 2: of three. My family, mothers, sisters, and grandparents became extremely

961
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 2: involved with a Christian church over two years ago, so

962
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 2: much so that it has become a chore just to

963
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 2: visit any of them, since all they want to talk

964
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 2: about is their religion. When we get together, it's never

965
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,440
Speaker 2: how have you been, how's work? How are you? It's

966
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 2: always when are you going to join the church?

967
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: Riley and I literally have talked about this like that,

968
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: like because there's like we were talking about there. I'll

969
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: leave it for later, but we have it.

970
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,840
Speaker 3: Okay, storytime, we all were encountered at the same time

971
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 3: by someone that was a little coogress.

972
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is just a total turn off. Like if

973
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,319
Speaker 1: you're trying to evangelize, that's not the way to do it. Yeah,

974
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 1: oh yes, yeah, I remember that. Oh my goodness can

975
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:45,839
Speaker 1: get okay storytime later, the.

976
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 2: Holy Spirit really helped me this week. Have you read

977
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 2: the Bible I gave you. I tried to now distance

978
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 2: myself from them as much as I can and just

979
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,799
Speaker 2: spend time with my kids. Last year, my mother asked

980
00:51:57,840 --> 00:51:59,720
Speaker 2: if she could take my kids to get ice cream

981
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 2: and go to the park. Little did I know it

982
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 2: was a church related event, and my daughter quickly called

983
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 2: me to pick them up because a man was speaking

984
00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:11,919
Speaker 2: into a microphone and people were fainting all around them

985
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 2: and crying to God in this before that was the

986
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 2: last time I let them go with my family alone.

987
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 1: Kind of sounds like one of our aunts.

988
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 2: My birthday was in April, and I had friends, family,

989
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 2: and coworkers over to just relax and take time off,

990
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 2: swim a little, and play back backyard games. When it

991
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:37,280
Speaker 2: came time to eat, my mother took it upon herself

992
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:37,919
Speaker 2: to make a song.

993
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:41,640
Speaker 3: Oh what how whoa were?

994
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:46,280
Speaker 2: What? What?

995
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 3: What?

996
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: Ah? Whoa jay bird? With the two hundred dollars tip,

997
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 1: I won my works fifty to fifty lottery today, so

998
00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 1: I'm spreading around the spoils, Miss Jaybird giving us another

999
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 1: thirty minutes with nine minutes left, literally, Josephine put nine

1000
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 1: minutes left, sad face, Wow, whoa no, thank you jay

1001
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: bird coming through. Thank you so much. All right, we

1002
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 1: just won the lottery.

1003
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 2: Wow, we went to your works lottery. Thank you. I've

1004
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:29,359
Speaker 2: lost my place. My When it came to time to eat,

1005
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,800
Speaker 2: my mother took it upon herself to make a huge

1006
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 2: speech about how it was Slash is difficult raising a

1007
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 2: son that does not believe in religion and her testimony

1008
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 2: that God is the way.

1009
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: Wait the real quick, Yeah yeah, yeah, I'd like to.

1010
00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 2: Make difficult raising a son like you.

1011
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:52,399
Speaker 1: I wish. I wish my sister Sophia would be such

1012
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 1: a terrible person all the time and read the Bible

1013
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: every once a little while.

1014
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 2: Yikes, I felt the omos.

1015
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:03,399
Speaker 1: Only she would read the Bible as much as her

1016
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:06,240
Speaker 1: Reddit stories, maybe she would be saved.

1017
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:11,760
Speaker 3: No, she prays.

1018
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 2: So I felt the ambiance change and everyone got uncomfortable.

1019
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 2: After that, I tried to blow it off and continued

1020
00:54:20,000 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 2: entertaining people that were there. That's when my family brought

1021
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 2: out their pamphlets and began going to everyone and preaching to.

1022
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 3: Them way they brought pamphlets.

1023
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: Okay, all right to be there. Riley and I have

1024
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: talked about this really really quick. Riley and I have

1025
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,720
Speaker 1: to talk about this, right, Riley is Christian? Right, So right,

1026
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: Riley is Christian. We've talked about there is a right

1027
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: way to evangelize, and I spent a lot of time

1028
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: with like the Mormons, right, and they don't go and

1029
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 1: like push the Book of Mormon right in your face.

1030
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:55,360
Speaker 1: First thing. What they do is they're just sick dudes

1031
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: and dudets. They're just cool people. And then you're like, oh,

1032
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I want to figure out like a little

1033
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: bit more about the Book of more Man. It's like

1034
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 1: evangelized by lifestyle, not by just beating it into people.

1035
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:12,759
Speaker 3: Agreed. Agreed, Yeah, because beating it into people is a way,

1036
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 3: but like it's not a very good way at all, right,

1037
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 3: people on the side of the road. It is a

1038
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 3: way that people did it in the Bible, but like

1039
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 3: you're just talking at people. The best way to do

1040
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,720
Speaker 3: it is to talk to people through your lifestyle.

1041
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: Is exactly exactly. It's words versus actions, and actions are

1042
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:35,280
Speaker 1: always going to be way more powerful. Yeah, anyway, we've

1043
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: got more of the story.

1044
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, talking to them, Oh so preaching to them, talking

1045
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:47,439
Speaker 2: to them for ten minutes out of time, oh, each

1046
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:51,360
Speaker 2: of them, for ten minutes at a time. Jesus. I

1047
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:53,359
Speaker 2: pulled my mom to the side and told her that

1048
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 2: this is not the place nor time for all of that.

1049
00:55:56,640 --> 00:56:00,720
Speaker 2: So she apologized and they left. Soon after. My son's

1050
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 2: birthday is coming up, and while at my mom's UH

1051
00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:06,320
Speaker 2: and while at my mom's for Memorial Day, she quickly

1052
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 2: asked me if it was okay to speak to some

1053
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 2: people about the Lord. I took it upon myself to

1054
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 2: inform everyone if they are going to act like a

1055
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:19,319
Speaker 2: congregation at a child's birthday party, to just not show

1056
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 2: up period.

1057
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 1: I would actually, you know, I think the perfect time

1058
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:28,280
Speaker 1: to talk about another child's birthday party. Have you heard

1059
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: of Christmas in a little baby Jesus Christ, Lord Jesus

1060
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: christy you're born? Uh, maybe we.

1061
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 2: Can have the only he's the only birthday kid that.

1062
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: Matter that matters. Yeah, I think every child's birthday to

1063
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: be Jesus themed. SpongeBob no, no, Jesus Jesus, Spongebobe, Jesus.

1064
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,720
Speaker 2: Everyone looked upset at me. Now I have them calling

1065
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 2: and texting me saying I should be ashamed of myself

1066
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 2: for the Lord.

1067
00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 3: To people we just stalked up on pamphlets.

1068
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 2: You never have to go where am I supposed to

1069
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,879
Speaker 2: give out my pamphlets. I honestly want to just cut

1070
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 2: them all off because these past couple of years have

1071
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 2: been insufferable. There are some relevant comments to close us off.

1072
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:20,439
Speaker 2: Foundation winner thirty four eighty eight says, not the a hole.

1073
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: I would be very offended if I attended what I

1074
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 2: thought was a birthday party and got lectured about religion.

1075
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 2: I would warn them that if they came to your

1076
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 2: house and opened their mouth about religion, it would be

1077
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 2: the last time they would be allowed to visit.

1078
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: Because they would be murdered.

1079
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 2: Their religion.

1080
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, become a martyr today, sir.

1081
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:45,800
Speaker 2: Years ago, I went no contact with my mother because

1082
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:47,920
Speaker 2: of her trying to force her religion on me. It

1083
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 2: took her two years to learn the lesson, but she

1084
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:54,760
Speaker 2: hasn't attempted to convert me since. And back buckle your pants,

1085
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:58,480
Speaker 2: says Jesus said. When you pray, do not be like

1086
00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 2: the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in synagogues

1087
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 2: and on the street corners to be seen by men.

1088
00:58:04,560 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 2: But when you pray, go into your room, close the door,

1089
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 2: and pray to your father, who is unseen.

1090
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:11,479
Speaker 3: I literally was about to bring that up.

1091
00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:15,080
Speaker 2: And you from Jesus.

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00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: Another another from my lord our main man j C

1093
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: after his who has the best selling book of all time? Yeah,

1094
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:34,760
Speaker 1: my man, Yeah, New York Times bestseller.

1095
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:39,120
Speaker 2: You're looking at women with unclean eyes. Take him out,

1096
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 2: that's my man, jay Z.

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00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 1: Jay Z.

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00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 2: Said something wrong, Jesus we got Actually I meant to

1099
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 2: say that.

1100
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,880
Speaker 1: Say jay Z, sure you did keep good keep you

1101
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: would be best friends with all the only fans model

1102
00:58:57,680 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 1: my main man j C.

1103
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 2: Jay Z, Oh, I see what you were doing. I

1104
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:05,440
Speaker 2: was doing like Jesus.

1105
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: Cool, totally, totally you were you were totally yeah.

1106
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 2: You know you know who would uh heal your blindness?

1107
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 2: My man jac man jac Yeah, oh bells.

1108
00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: That when you got Bam bam, Barbie, thanks for the

1109
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 1: ten bucks. Okay, not on topic, but I have been

1110
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: watching for a few weeks now. How did Sophia get

1111
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 1: the nickname worm Queen? Actually? Where did pigeon orange and

1112
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: protein the games come from? Too? We got to watch

1113
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 1: every single.

1114
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 2: Video the dictionary actually we have a dictionary in the

1115
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 2: discord and also I think it's in the clip somewhere

1116
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 2: in the.

1117
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 3: Clips and Nips Clips and Nips season. What season of

1118
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 3: Okay would you say that season. We're like, we're like.

1119
00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: One hundred seasons and we're more bigger than what survivor. Yeah,

1120
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 1: you know you got you got a little bit of

1121
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 1: minding up, a little bit of yours anime versus survival.

1122
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 3: Uh. Back on the story, they definitely are approaching this wrong.

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01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:07,040
Speaker 1: Yeah all right, look, can we can you talk about

1124
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:08,440
Speaker 1: that experience we had with.

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01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:13,960
Speaker 3: So we go to this like, would you say it's

1126
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 3: a tiny desk version at our friend Anthony?

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01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, basically a bunch of musicians coming together and Anthony,

1128
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: our friend Anthony put it. Put it on docs. Go

1129
01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: go look up Anthony Dondo on Spotify. Yeah, he's great. Actually,

1130
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:32,479
Speaker 1: if you want Anthony Anito on Spotify is a beautiful song.

1131
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 1: If you're looking to cry with your partner or like

1132
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 1: have a romantic picnic, that is a great, great thing

1133
01:00:38,520 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: Anthony's It's actually great for making out with any kind

1134
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: of person you want to make out with.

1135
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 3: So we're there and my friend invited another person there.

1136
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call her friend from church, and she thinks

1137
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 3: she's coming into it thinking it's a church event. So

1138
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 3: she comes in there like, oh, hey, what church did

1139
01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 3: you come from? How's your relationship.

1140
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 2: Are you born again?

1141
01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 3: Are you born again? Like stuff like that.

1142
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: She literally said, have you been saved?

1143
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1144
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 1: First question?

1145
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, And and I kind of talked to her and

1146
01:01:13,120 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 3: she converted from one religion to another. So I think

1147
01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:18,919
Speaker 3: she's hyped. She was very hyped and on fire both

1148
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:20,919
Speaker 3: a witch before she.

1149
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:24,320
Speaker 1: Was in a witchcraft, she was a yeah.

1150
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:26,280
Speaker 3: And then dude, what a wit switch.

1151
01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: So that's crazy.

1152
01:01:30,480 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 3: And I think she was just super confassionate about it,

1153
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 3: and she wanted I don't know, like she had that

1154
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 3: evangualistic like, oh, I gotta get people to come to Christ.

1155
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 3: But like she just I think she just needs a

1156
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 3: mentor in her life because she's very new. She was

1157
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 3: like six months into being saved and stuff like that.

1158
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,440
Speaker 1: So yeah, I think it was such a like I

1159
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 1: think what was weird about it is it was so

1160
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 1: overbearing that if you were curious about Christianity or religion

1161
01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 1: in some some sense but just had like the inklings

1162
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: of the carry out the seeds, you would probably be

1163
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 1: turned off by this person. You're like, oh, I don't

1164
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: want to be like that.

1165
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:12,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. And also I've been through fourteen years well actually no,

1166
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 2: eighteen years of Catholicism. Yeah, and I decided it wasn't

1167
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 2: for me. I don't need I.

1168
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 1: Don't need people to But if she asked you have

1169
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: you been saved? Maybe maybe I'm gonna Yeah, she got

1170
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 1: she got you got you ladies and gentlemen, we got him.

1171
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, fourteen years, eighteen years couldn't convince me. I don't

1172
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 2: think she could.

1173
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:35,880
Speaker 1: Also like something. So I did. I did a series. Uh,

1174
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:38,120
Speaker 1: if you guys look at my Instagram, you can see

1175
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: there's a series I did with Mormons, and so I

1176
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:44,640
Speaker 1: basically went to BYU and partied with a bunch of

1177
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 1: Mormons for it'sham Aukham's Razor.

1178
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't know. Sam should know because he brings

1179
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 2: it up so.

1180
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 1: Much, I know, But on that series, I hung out

1181
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: with a bunch of Mormons. They were awesome, and I

1182
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,840
Speaker 1: was like more interest did learning about Mormonism after that

1183
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: because they were just so fun to be around, you know,

1184
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: and it's like, like, not that I'm going to convert

1185
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 1: to being a Mormon, but I was definitely more interested

1186
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: in doing my own research because of how cool they were. Yeah,

1187
01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 1: they gave me a sign book of Mormon.

1188
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm kind of about is like living

1189
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 3: my lifestyle, and then if someone's interested, I can like

1190
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 3: be like, hey, this is what Jesus did for me,

1191
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 3: this is what he can do for you. But I'm

1192
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 3: not going to be like, I don't know, Like the

1193
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 3: most extent I'll probably do for my roommates is like, hey,

1194
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:29,080
Speaker 3: what are you dealing with? What can I like keep

1195
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:33,480
Speaker 3: in my mind for Yeah? Yeah, I was like, bib.

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01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: Huh Riley's a poster child.

1197
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 2: He's great online, says but Wickens, do you also attend church?

1198
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 2: So not that big of a switch, I think, more

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01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 2: so in the sense that, like, I mean, when I

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01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 2: went to Catholic school, they're super anti like witchcraft quote

1201
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 2: unquote or like yeah, okay. It was weird because it's

1202
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 2: they didn't really emphasize it. And then I went to

1203
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 2: Confirmation and they were like, you can't use a Wigi board,

1204
01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,160
Speaker 2: and I was like, I laughed. I thought they were joking,

1205
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:07,840
Speaker 2: because I feel like if believing in it kind of.

1206
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: Gives it, you can't use a wigi board.

1207
01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they're like, so yeah, the.

1208
01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 1: Old thing they told you that specific.

1209
01:04:16,120 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 2: I've never used a wigi board, but I but I

1210
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 2: was like, that's crazy. Yeah. And I had like friends

1211
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 2: in confromation who were like, I would never, I would never,

1212
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, I don't. I don't know.

1213
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 2: I just like I don't even believe in it. WHOA like,

1214
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 2: I don't believe that it is like because tell no,

1215
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:40,400
Speaker 2: I just I just feel like believing in I don't know.

1216
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 2: To me, believing in that kind of gives it a

1217
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 2: measure of power. And if you're anti that, like, if

1218
01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:47,560
Speaker 2: you're no, no.

1219
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: I I agree, I agree. I think it's like like

1220
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 1: the the things that we believe give it power.

1221
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 2: Mix and Mix says Okay, not trying to be mean,

1222
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 2: but can we move away from religion? That's trauma?

1223
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 1: Alright? I the next episode has nothing to do with religion.

1224
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 3: So one more religion story?

1225
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 1: Oh do we actually? Yeah?

1226
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1227
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 1: How long has this been?

1228
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 3: It's been like an hour?

1229
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 1: Well, I guess this is not members only we can

1230
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 1: change anyway, Mad Hatter Gal, thanks for the five gifted memberships.

1231
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Oh wait, one more story on the Oh,

1232
01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:25,120
Speaker 1: I'll give my last story about religious things, but it

1233
01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:27,440
Speaker 1: was when I was living with the Amish.

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01:05:27,760 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 3: After this last one, Okay, so we're gonna do the

1235
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 3: last one yeah, let's do the last one.

1236
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 1: Last one, Less Sad talks about witchcraft sick. I'm down.

1237
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:43,360
Speaker 1: Oh this is sick. Okay you ready? Yeah? So and

1238
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 1: b the a hole for destroying my wife's a cult

1239
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 1: shrine after she went too far on this is so

1240
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: on brand. Yeah, I mean for you because you are

1241
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:58,040
Speaker 1: a witch. This comes from a likely birthday forty two

1242
01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 1: and they say, guys, pray for me. I may married

1243
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:03,040
Speaker 1: to a non believer and a woman who practices the cult.

1244
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: I put up with her practices for a long time

1245
01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: out of respect for her. But we have kids, and

1246
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 1: my house is in chaos. There's a spirit of anger, sadness,

1247
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 1: and hate in my house that's extended even to my children,

1248
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 1: who are always miserable. She has a closet in her

1249
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 1: room with spell jars and other stuff dedicated to her spells.

1250
01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 1: Pictures of me, the kids, even pictures of my mom

1251
01:06:24,400 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 1: are in there. I just went in there and I'm

1252
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 1: throwing everything away. Pray that God protects me. I know

1253
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 1: that I shouldn't have married a non believer, but I

1254
01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,959
Speaker 1: wasn't someone who was on any type of meaningful walk

1255
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 1: at the time. It didn't truly come to Christ until later.

1256
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:39,960
Speaker 1: Pray that my home is filled with the spirit of

1257
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 1: God and that spares me from any wrath that my

1258
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:45,840
Speaker 1: wife may attempt to punish me with this. You think

1259
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 1: your wife is going to cast evil witch spells on you?

1260
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 2: Why are you married?

1261
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my question, Why are you married?

1262
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:57,920
Speaker 2: This is so messed up, Like it seems like the

1263
01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:02,320
Speaker 2: wife is at least it seems like they were at

1264
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 2: some point respectful of their religions. I hope she had

1265
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 2: a shrine to her mom. She had a shrine to

1266
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 2: her mom and he destroyed it.

1267
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty pretty wad Like if.

1268
01:07:13,840 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 2: You had a cross in your house and someone went.

1269
01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, what if it's just like she just what

1270
01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:22,760
Speaker 1: if she's just like a crystal girly.

1271
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 2: Well, she might be wicked, which is like a very valid,

1272
01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 2: you know, form of like, but.

1273
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 1: What if she's just a crystal girl and has crystals

1274
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 1: and it's just a picture of her mom next to

1275
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: a crystal.

1276
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 2: Maybe, I mean they're or if she was just you know,

1277
01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 2: into crystals, both are valid for you know.

1278
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 1: Well. A couple of weeks ago I prayed with a

1279
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 1: prayer group about this, and multiple people were said there

1280
01:07:43,240 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 1: said that they felt the Holy spirit was calling me

1281
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 1: to get rid of certain items in my household dedicated

1282
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 1: to demonic spirits. I didn't want to go at first

1283
01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 1: because I know that my wife will probably go.

1284
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 3: It's in the room.

1285
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 1: Also, if anyone's a wicked can you message us in

1286
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: the discord?

1287
01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:06,920
Speaker 3: Would talk to some friends who are We've got some questions.

1288
01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:10,440
Speaker 1: You have friends that are witches. Actually have a loose

1289
01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 1: friend that's so loosely there are loose friends that are

1290
01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:22,280
Speaker 1: loosely away. I've never met someone like that. I'm curious. Also,

1291
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 1: in your promises, this sounds like sanitaria and it's not evil,

1292
01:08:25,560 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: this is its just like Yeah, Rebecca says, my eyes

1293
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:36,719
Speaker 1: are rolling so hard. If you if you have any

1294
01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 1: experience with WICCA or sanitaria or I don't know any

1295
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 1: anything but a little bit or the occults. I know

1296
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:44,760
Speaker 1: these are all different things.

1297
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 2: By the way, Yeah, Tricia says, the shrine stuff is

1298
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:49,680
Speaker 2: probably from for general protect my family and bring them

1299
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 2: good healths.

1300
01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is a good thing.

1301
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:54,720
Speaker 2: It's yeah. If she has her mom up there.

1302
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't want to at first because I know

1303
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:02,559
Speaker 1: my wife will probably go ballistic. She has a very

1304
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:06,120
Speaker 1: nasty and argumentative energy. Even for more basic things and

1305
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:09,120
Speaker 1: will insult and belittle me for much less. That being said,

1306
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:12,760
Speaker 1: I've been praying a lot recently earlier that you should

1307
01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 1: be praying for divorce and just doing it. Earlier this week,

1308
01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:18,919
Speaker 1: I was praying my and my wife started speaking loudly

1309
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 1: as my head was bowed and my eyes were bowed.

1310
01:09:22,160 --> 01:09:25,640
Speaker 1: It's getting pretty weird in here. She then started intentionally

1311
01:09:25,720 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 1: passing gas and doing other things to try to get

1312
01:09:29,080 --> 01:09:32,760
Speaker 1: to me. I kept my head down and focused on God.

1313
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,800
Speaker 1: What is going on in this? Today? After church they

1314
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:40,839
Speaker 1: talked to us about Elijah and Jezebel. How Elijah had

1315
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:43,920
Speaker 1: seen God faithful to him many times and the only

1316
01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 1: thing that scared him was Jezebel. How it all of

1317
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:52,759
Speaker 1: his faith? Wait, she was passing gas? Did you find

1318
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:53,400
Speaker 1: this story?

1319
01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 2: I didn't read it too hard.

1320
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 3: I skimmed, there's no way this is keep reading.

1321
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 1: Weird.

1322
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:04,280
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1323
01:10:06,520 --> 01:10:08,720
Speaker 1: She's passing gas. Today after church, they doctor does a

1324
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, how all of his faith had seemed

1325
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:13,760
Speaker 1: to escape him, and how he forgot how faithful God

1326
01:10:13,920 --> 01:10:16,160
Speaker 1: was him because he was faithful to God, and how

1327
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:19,599
Speaker 1: he had reminded of God's protection over him, even the Jezebel. Today,

1328
01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:22,720
Speaker 1: I witnessed a woman when in a Christian conversation online

1329
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: what who came in and basically blasphemed the Lord and

1330
01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 1: said that she was a witch and how our God

1331
01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:30,680
Speaker 1: was nothing. Now she only believes in spell jars and

1332
01:10:30,720 --> 01:10:33,000
Speaker 1: other stuff. I don't even know much about that stuff.

1333
01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 1: I know that my wife told me that she was

1334
01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:37,920
Speaker 1: in a witchcraft astral travel. Maybe she just wants to

1335
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:41,000
Speaker 1: do anal and she even sees deepn sometimes that I

1336
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: don't know about.

1337
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:49,840
Speaker 3: This was freaky travel.

1338
01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:53,280
Speaker 2: She's possessed by farting.

1339
01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1340
01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 1: However, I do know there's a jar full of weird

1341
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 1: stuff that keeps in her room. Maybe it's the fart jars.

1342
01:11:05,680 --> 01:11:05,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1343
01:11:06,000 --> 01:11:08,320
Speaker 1: Immediately something told me that there was a thing in

1344
01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:10,040
Speaker 1: her room. There was a thing in the room that

1345
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 1: had to go while she was occupied. I went through

1346
01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 1: in the trash. Something told me that all her other stuff,

1347
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,080
Speaker 1: her entire shrine, had to go. In her closet. She

1348
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:20,759
Speaker 1: had a wand a spell the pictures of me, my kids,

1349
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:23,200
Speaker 1: and even my own mother, stuff that was given to

1350
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: me to use. And she and my mom don't get along.

1351
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:29,640
Speaker 1: So I have a feeling it's sinister. There were some

1352
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:32,799
Speaker 1: cute things of the kids, and I wanted to keep something,

1353
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:35,800
Speaker 1: but something in me said all of it, everything in

1354
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:37,599
Speaker 1: the trine, so I threw it away, all of it.

1355
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:39,920
Speaker 1: After I did that, I prayed and asked God to

1356
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:43,600
Speaker 1: bless to bless oil that I had to anoint the

1357
01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 1: area and the children. I asked God to have the

1358
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 1: place as a place for him. My entire marriage, I've

1359
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:51,719
Speaker 1: tiptoed around her. I even let her open our marriage

1360
01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 1: at one point because she told me she wouldn't continue

1361
01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:57,160
Speaker 1: the marriage unless I allowed it to open. I allowed

1362
01:11:57,160 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 1: her to do corn online even I told her I

1363
01:12:01,400 --> 01:12:03,640
Speaker 1: was uncomfortable with it because she begged me. I was

1364
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:05,600
Speaker 1: so afraid to lose her and the kids, so I

1365
01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 1: let her do almost anything. Now I just want to

1366
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,840
Speaker 1: protect my household. I wasn't a Christian then, but I

1367
01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 1: put my faith in God. She is no longer my

1368
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:15,920
Speaker 1: God that I fear has power over me. I'll follow

1369
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 1: the Lord and do what's best for my family and

1370
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 1: my kids, and do not need to be around this

1371
01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:22,880
Speaker 1: demonic energy.

1372
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 2: Ah, dude, that's got to be fake. Sorry me so much.

1373
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:32,040
Speaker 1: Maybe I hope I hope it isn't real. I hope

1374
01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:32,720
Speaker 1: it's not in.

1375
01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 2: The world that they should divorce.

1376
01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:37,960
Speaker 3: Yes, this guy is such a beta. I'm sorry, it's

1377
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 3: just such a beta. Yeah. As a Christian fellow, you

1378
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 3: if you know that you have conflicting beliefs, you don't

1379
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:48,479
Speaker 3: marry someone with complict conflicting the beliefs.

1380
01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:54,080
Speaker 1: And yeah, that's crazy. Yeah wild, wild Wow. And your

1381
01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:58,200
Speaker 1: prom says, op is so chaotic, say it again, say

1382
01:12:58,240 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 1: it again.

1383
01:12:58,960 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 2: Very true.

1384
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,080
Speaker 1: But I think that closes out this episode on religions.

1385
01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:07,920
Speaker 1: I got a quick story about the Amish. Okay, because

1386
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 1: you're gonna read this next story. Okay, quick story about

1387
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:14,920
Speaker 1: the Amish while Sophia is going to the bathroom. So

1388
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:18,639
Speaker 1: I was doing a series in Amish country where basically

1389
01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:20,360
Speaker 1: I was trying to throw a party for Amish people.

1390
01:13:20,840 --> 01:13:24,759
Speaker 1: And I met this guy at a volleyball game, which

1391
01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:28,680
Speaker 1: apparently the Amish go nuts for volleyball. They are it

1392
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:32,759
Speaker 1: is intense, it takes up their whole life. But I

1393
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 1: made friends with this dude and started talking to him,

1394
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: and he was going to invite me to like youth

1395
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: group and I was going to like put together a

1396
01:13:41,400 --> 01:13:45,919
Speaker 1: party there, but then he uninvited me after he invited

1397
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 1: me like early in the day because he's like, oh,

1398
01:13:47,439 --> 01:13:48,680
Speaker 1: I think would be a bad luck to have an

1399
01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:50,599
Speaker 1: English person there, which is like English is what they

1400
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 1: call the non Amish people. But what he did is

1401
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:58,080
Speaker 1: he just started sending me Bible verses like do not

1402
01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 1: worry if you are not included in things, because you

1403
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:03,880
Speaker 1: will always be included by God. And then I just

1404
01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 1: sent him Bible verses back. We just started sending each

1405
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:07,400
Speaker 1: other Bible verses.

1406
01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 3: Wait. So wait, this is a part of the amage community.

1407
01:14:09,479 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 3: This part of the homage community. Dude, what the heck?

1408
01:14:11,880 --> 01:14:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was fun, but dude, amage people are dope. Wait.

1409
01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:17,240
Speaker 1: I worked on an Amish farm for a bit. It

1410
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:18,080
Speaker 1: was so much fun.

1411
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:21,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, dude, the Amish I've kind of low key for,

1412
01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:22,439
Speaker 3: like I grew up Amish.

1413
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:26,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, but horse and carre achnology. What do you have?

1414
01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:31,400
Speaker 3: Horse and carriage? No, not Amish enough, dude. But just

1415
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 3: like the hard working aspect that I got.

1416
01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:36,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, amage work hard is f dude. And there's

1417
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:39,840
Speaker 1: like three different kinds of Amish. So there's white top, blacktop,

1418
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:43,320
Speaker 1: and yellow top, and the white top is like the

1419
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:46,040
Speaker 1: most intense Amish that don't even like don't use any

1420
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:49,280
Speaker 1: kind of technology, but like yellow top, well we'll have

1421
01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:52,799
Speaker 1: phones and TVs and stuff. And it was so uh surreal.

1422
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:55,240
Speaker 1: When I was at the volleyball game, They're like, someone's

1423
01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:58,080
Speaker 1: lost this iPhone. As anyone's in an iPhone is like amage.

1424
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:01,240
Speaker 1: Dude comes up and got his iPhone. Uh yeah, so Bethany, Yeah,

1425
01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:04,120
Speaker 1: I thought Amish people could not have phones. That is

1426
01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:05,559
Speaker 1: only the most intense one.

1427
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,240
Speaker 3: What flavor of Almish are you? That's what I'm gonna do.

1428
01:15:09,320 --> 01:15:14,640
Speaker 1: What flavor of Amish are you? Dude actually doing a

1429
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,200
Speaker 1: white room video with the Amish.

1430
01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:18,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, favor of Amish.

1431
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 1: Different flavors of Amish. But Sophia, I heard you got

1432
01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:27,599
Speaker 1: a different flavor of story for me. Sure, shout out

1433
01:15:27,640 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 1: Matt Hattergal. I actually dated a wick and she taught

1434
01:15:30,240 --> 01:15:33,400
Speaker 1: me that what herbs to take for certain things and

1435
01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:36,519
Speaker 1: also to blow cinnamon into my house for the first

1436
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 1: of each month for good fortune. And Hannah owned said

1437
01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 1: first YouTube stream after binging Spotify episodes in a hot,

1438
01:15:45,320 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 1: sweaty something. Thanks for being so cool and keeping me cool.

1439
01:15:51,040 --> 01:16:00,000
Speaker 1: I'm looking at the uh the the donations also lmao. Oh,

1440
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: Sam posts the screenshots here. It was it was Amish

1441
01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 1: and Nate, I'll show you.

1442
01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:09,599
Speaker 3: Uh actual birch. Thanks for the one in one. Riley

1443
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:14,719
Speaker 3: is the cutest Okay storyline me members.

1444
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 1: He is cute of the of the Okay storytime members.

1445
01:16:19,600 --> 01:16:24,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, crazy Okay. So I texted him because he's like.

1446
01:16:24,479 --> 01:16:26,400
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, sorry if I made you uncomfortable,

1447
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:28,759
Speaker 1: totally not our intention and definitely don't want to crash anything.

1448
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:30,400
Speaker 1: Hope you have a great day tomorrow. That was like

1449
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 1: after he rescinded his invite and he said, no, dude,

1450
01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:34,720
Speaker 1: you're good. It was fun talking with you, and I

1451
01:16:34,720 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 1: hope you find a youth group to crash. And then

1452
01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 1: he sent me Isaiah forty three eleven. I even I

1453
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:43,719
Speaker 1: am the Lord am beside me, and there is no savior.

1454
01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:46,679
Speaker 1: And then I said, fun talking to you too. I've

1455
01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:49,400
Speaker 1: declared and have saved, and I have showed. And then

1456
01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 1: there was no strange God among you. Therefore you are

1457
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:54,479
Speaker 1: my witnesses. Say it the Lord that I am God.

1458
01:16:54,720 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: I just sent him the next one in the Bible

1459
01:16:57,479 --> 01:17:00,120
Speaker 1: it show it.

1460
01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:07,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but back and forth. Wow, let's go.

1461
01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:09,080
Speaker 1: Anyway, going back to it.

1462
01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:14,599
Speaker 2: Okay, the next story is about what factors you should

1463
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:17,440
Speaker 2: consider when when getting into relationship.

1464
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:20,040
Speaker 1: Oh, there's a lot of factors like is your wife

1465
01:17:20,040 --> 01:17:22,040
Speaker 1: a wicked does she want to do corn?

1466
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:23,959
Speaker 2: These are all factors.

1467
01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:25,639
Speaker 1: These are all factors from the last story.

1468
01:17:25,920 --> 01:17:28,800
Speaker 2: But let's get into this story. Am I the a

1469
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:32,240
Speaker 2: hole for reminding my friend her relationship is failing because

1470
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:35,000
Speaker 2: she married for intelligence.

1471
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:37,719
Speaker 3: Not looks.

1472
01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: Huh huh.

1473
01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:43,440
Speaker 2: He's like your husban's ugly.

1474
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:46,559
Speaker 1: Ugly but smart. I feel like I would rather have

1475
01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:51,360
Speaker 1: someone smart. I guess then than if smart and ugly

1476
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:56,639
Speaker 1: versus hot and dumb? Are they nice in both?

1477
01:17:57,560 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 2: That's what Maybe that's the thing.

1478
01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:01,720
Speaker 1: Maybe they're they're they're they're smart and mean.

1479
01:18:01,880 --> 01:18:03,479
Speaker 2: Maybe there's smarten an age.

1480
01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:08,599
Speaker 3: Would you rather have emotional intelligence or intelligence? Emotional intelligence?

1481
01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:09,680
Speaker 2: Emotional intelligence?

1482
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:10,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1483
01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:14,360
Speaker 2: So throwaway zero nine eight says I thirty five female,

1484
01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:18,160
Speaker 2: met my husband Vince, thirty six male, after he saved

1485
01:18:18,200 --> 01:18:20,679
Speaker 2: me from drowning at a pool party when I was eighteen.

1486
01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:26,040
Speaker 1: Damn, mouth to mouth instantly, this nineteen.

1487
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,360
Speaker 2: Year old jumped in the pool after and was like,

1488
01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:32,840
Speaker 2: I've got you crazy, and she married him.

1489
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:36,200
Speaker 1: I mean that's like the most romantic thing, super romantic.

1490
01:18:36,640 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, and now I've gotta go drown my girlfriend.

1491
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:43,559
Speaker 2: I took him out for lunch the following week to

1492
01:18:43,600 --> 01:18:46,599
Speaker 2: thank him for saving me, and we soon fell in

1493
01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:48,880
Speaker 2: love and began dating. Oh my god, that's such a

1494
01:18:48,920 --> 01:18:49,719
Speaker 2: cute story.

1495
01:18:50,120 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 3: I almost died, Sophagan ideas.

1496
01:18:54,120 --> 01:18:58,720
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, save me hot life guys.

1497
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:04,160
Speaker 2: The Bow. At the time, Vince worked a blue collar

1498
01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:06,920
Speaker 2: job while I was studying in university. We ended up

1499
01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:10,080
Speaker 2: getting married, and Vince supported me throughout my entire education

1500
01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:13,720
Speaker 2: up until I got my PhD. Vince always told me

1501
01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:16,200
Speaker 2: that he wanted to study in university, but had learning

1502
01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:18,560
Speaker 2: disabilities that made it difficult for him to study in

1503
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:21,880
Speaker 2: a classroom. At times, he was embarrassed by the fact

1504
01:19:21,920 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 2: that he had to work twice as hard compared to

1505
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:26,760
Speaker 2: people around him, but I always found that to be

1506
01:19:26,840 --> 01:19:27,880
Speaker 2: admirable about him.

1507
01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:30,200
Speaker 3: Hard work way better than intelligence.

1508
01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 2: Yeah true. When I finished my studies and got a

1509
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:36,120
Speaker 2: well paying job, I convinced Vince to go to give

1510
01:19:36,160 --> 01:19:39,439
Speaker 2: his dream of studying another go. Last year, he was

1511
01:19:39,479 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 2: finally accepted into a nursing program at our local university.

1512
01:19:43,320 --> 01:19:46,760
Speaker 2: He's working hard to achieve his dream and I'm incredibly

1513
01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:49,240
Speaker 2: proud of him. Did a kids.

1514
01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:52,559
Speaker 1: Sorry, this is great. I love this oat.

1515
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:57,320
Speaker 2: Last week my friend Alba thirty six female came to

1516
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:01,840
Speaker 2: Alba oh, I was like, how did you miss hear

1517
01:20:01,880 --> 01:20:04,800
Speaker 2: the album? Came to visit with her sons so our

1518
01:20:04,880 --> 01:20:07,720
Speaker 2: children could play together. Alba was my roommate during my

1519
01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:10,880
Speaker 2: first year in university, and she began dating her husband

1520
01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:15,640
Speaker 2: Leo around the same time I started dating Vince. Leah

1521
01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:20,040
Speaker 2: was an obnoxious law student who later on became an

1522
01:20:20,120 --> 01:20:22,480
Speaker 2: even more obnoxious attorney.

1523
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:24,720
Speaker 1: I don't know any attorneys.

1524
01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 2: I do who parents of my friends?

1525
01:20:28,160 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I don't know any attorneys my age, yeah,

1526
01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 1: or like even anyone interested and it is state. Yeah,

1527
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:38,080
Speaker 1: I don't want any obnoxious attorneys in my life.

1528
01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 2: He was a know it all who prided himself on

1529
01:20:41,160 --> 01:20:45,160
Speaker 2: his intelligence, which for some reason attracted Elba. At the

1530
01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:47,880
Speaker 2: same time, Alba would sometimes tease me that I could

1531
01:20:47,920 --> 01:20:50,320
Speaker 2: do better than Vince and would offer to set me

1532
01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:52,640
Speaker 2: up with one of Leo's law school buddies, but I

1533
01:20:52,640 --> 01:20:55,800
Speaker 2: would always refuse, and she eventually dropped the subject. That

1534
01:20:55,920 --> 01:20:56,840
Speaker 2: is so messed up.

1535
01:20:56,960 --> 01:20:59,639
Speaker 1: Vince is great. Vince literally saved her.

1536
01:20:59,720 --> 01:21:02,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, mouth mouth saved.

1537
01:21:04,520 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 1: It's great.

1538
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:11,240
Speaker 2: Six alb and Leo are currently going through a nasty

1539
01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 2: divorce that stems from him cheating on her.

1540
01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:17,120
Speaker 1: Guess he wasn't that smart if he got caught.

1541
01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:19,479
Speaker 2: Maybe you should keep an eye on your own garden

1542
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:20,599
Speaker 2: and stay.

1543
01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:21,280
Speaker 3: Out of other people's.

1544
01:21:21,680 --> 01:21:27,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't let other people hook up in your garden. True,

1545
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:29,200
Speaker 1: stick their nuts in your field.

1546
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:35,840
Speaker 2: Hey, quite frankly, he's dragging her through the mud and

1547
01:21:35,960 --> 01:21:38,800
Speaker 2: is using connections to try and leave her as penniless

1548
01:21:38,840 --> 01:21:40,559
Speaker 2: as possible. Right because he's You're.

1549
01:21:40,400 --> 01:21:44,360
Speaker 3: A lawyer, Oh boy, oh man.

1550
01:21:44,479 --> 01:21:48,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why you never date or marry a lawyer,

1551
01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 1: because they will take you for everything they're worth.

1552
01:21:51,160 --> 01:21:53,559
Speaker 2: As we were chatting and catching up, Alba began to

1553
01:21:53,600 --> 01:21:56,599
Speaker 2: express concern over the fact that my eldest son, seven male,

1554
01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 2: was recently diagnosed with dyslexia.

1555
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:00,880
Speaker 3: What's wrong with that? Yeah?

1556
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:03,520
Speaker 2: Why is she so in n Op's business?

1557
01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. People with dyslexia can be.

1558
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:08,919
Speaker 2: Very, very successful.

1559
01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:09,759
Speaker 3: They can do things.

1560
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:13,120
Speaker 1: They can do things, just not read other stuff. They

1561
01:22:13,120 --> 01:22:14,320
Speaker 1: could listen everything else.

1562
01:22:15,120 --> 01:22:17,360
Speaker 2: Alba began telling me how she is worried that my

1563
01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 2: son will be academically challenged like his father and what

1564
01:22:20,200 --> 01:22:23,280
Speaker 2: that could entail for his future. Mind your business, Mind

1565
01:22:23,320 --> 01:22:26,160
Speaker 2: your business, but your future with your cheating husband.

1566
01:22:25,800 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 1: They can do audible.

1567
01:22:28,760 --> 01:22:33,559
Speaker 2: Minds your business, Alba began, but before I could respond,

1568
01:22:33,640 --> 01:22:36,040
Speaker 2: she told me how I should have married someone smart

1569
01:22:36,280 --> 01:22:38,320
Speaker 2: while I had the chance, so I would have kids

1570
01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:38,960
Speaker 2: like hers.

1571
01:22:39,960 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 1: What kids that are going to turn into big old

1572
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:44,080
Speaker 1: cheaters like your husband.

1573
01:22:44,200 --> 01:22:48,760
Speaker 3: Because isn't cheating like inherited or not inherited, but like

1574
01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:50,599
Speaker 3: through the bloodline? What?

1575
01:22:50,920 --> 01:22:54,280
Speaker 2: No, no, where? What where did you get this in.

1576
01:22:56,240 --> 01:22:56,839
Speaker 3: Talking about?

1577
01:22:57,400 --> 01:22:57,599
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1578
01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:01,880
Speaker 2: No no? But before I could respond, she told me

1579
01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 2: how I should have married smart. But Alba's son is

1580
01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:13,080
Speaker 2: an incredibly bright boy at a straight A student theirlrienst

1581
01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:14,599
Speaker 2: you cheats on all his tests.

1582
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 1: M maybe that too.

1583
01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:22,840
Speaker 2: I told Alba her advice was unnecessary and reminded her

1584
01:23:22,960 --> 01:23:27,240
Speaker 2: when we're marrying for intelligence. Got her. I then proceeded

1585
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:29,000
Speaker 2: to tell her that I would rather have my son

1586
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:31,400
Speaker 2: grow up to be an honest, hard working person like

1587
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 2: his father than an academically gifted jerk who wasn't smart

1588
01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:38,240
Speaker 2: enough to know sleeping with his secretary could have consequences

1589
01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 2: on his marriage like her husband.

1590
01:23:40,760 --> 01:23:43,280
Speaker 1: My drop get wrecked.

1591
01:23:43,360 --> 01:23:47,320
Speaker 2: Dude, you're done, You're done? What Alba was I was

1592
01:23:47,320 --> 01:23:50,320
Speaker 2: gonna have to live under a rock for the rest

1593
01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 2: of our life.

1594
01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:53,280
Speaker 1: She can't come back, pick up these sad pieces of

1595
01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:55,680
Speaker 1: her life and try to mend them together, but it

1596
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:58,800
Speaker 1: won't ever work. Yeah, that a sad, lonely.

1597
01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 2: Alba was deeply hurt by what I've said and stormed

1598
01:24:03,280 --> 01:24:06,840
Speaker 2: out with her son. Good leave, we don't want you here.

1599
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:10,840
Speaker 2: Some mutual friends are now chiming in and are telling

1600
01:24:10,880 --> 01:24:12,880
Speaker 2: me that I was too harsh on Alba for using

1601
01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:17,960
Speaker 2: her failing marriage to prove my point and should apologize somehow.

1602
01:24:18,120 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, using her failing marriage, Like you shouldn't have.

1603
01:24:22,479 --> 01:24:26,920
Speaker 2: Used her failing horrible excuse for a marriage in your

1604
01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:33,200
Speaker 2: argument everyone, Like, everyone knows that Elba's husband sucks and

1605
01:24:33,240 --> 01:24:35,280
Speaker 2: he's the worst and he's a piece of crab, But

1606
01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:37,559
Speaker 2: you didn't have to tell her that. Yeah, come on,

1607
01:24:40,160 --> 01:24:45,160
Speaker 2: But there is a little update, A little update. Mixed

1608
01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:48,120
Speaker 2: Wormy says. I think Riley was saying that typically kind

1609
01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:52,759
Speaker 2: kids of cheaters often follow in their parents footsteps, because

1610
01:24:52,800 --> 01:24:55,439
Speaker 2: it typically is that the kids hate cheaters or become

1611
01:24:55,560 --> 01:24:56,120
Speaker 2: the cheaters.

1612
01:24:56,960 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 3: Mmmm m, but you get all kids. I'm just saying

1613
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:03,080
Speaker 3: I didn't know if there was a connection there or not.

1614
01:25:03,200 --> 01:25:04,120
Speaker 2: There's not a gene.

1615
01:25:04,960 --> 01:25:10,960
Speaker 1: There's not a gene nurture, yeah, nature, let's go sovia.

1616
01:25:11,680 --> 01:25:18,519
Speaker 1: Oh oh oh, look at these sick mugs. Cheers, Oh, cheers, cheers, cheers.

1617
01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:24,600
Speaker 1: I can't okay, oh oh oh?

1618
01:25:24,680 --> 01:25:26,120
Speaker 3: How easy is it to drink from that?

1619
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:28,160
Speaker 2: These aren't even technically official mugs?

1620
01:25:28,160 --> 01:25:28,479
Speaker 3: Our mom?

1621
01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 1: Maybe do you guys want what do you guys want

1622
01:25:33,080 --> 01:25:37,439
Speaker 1: to make? These are literally just things are our mom

1623
01:25:37,439 --> 01:25:41,240
Speaker 1: made a shout out? Shout out my mom. She's awesome, mom.

1624
01:25:41,280 --> 01:25:42,759
Speaker 2: She has a cricket your mom?

1625
01:25:43,040 --> 01:25:43,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, shout out my mom.

1626
01:25:44,439 --> 01:25:50,160
Speaker 2: Whoa mugs are not Let's get into this update, uh

1627
01:25:50,280 --> 01:25:52,680
Speaker 2: small update. First of all, I want to thank you

1628
01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:55,559
Speaker 2: all for your replies. I want I want to address

1629
01:25:55,600 --> 01:25:58,439
Speaker 2: a couple of things. Many of you asked why Alba

1630
01:25:58,479 --> 01:26:02,120
Speaker 2: and I remain friends Despite her previous remarks, Alba and

1631
01:26:02,160 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 2: I grew apart during our third year in university. We

1632
01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:08,080
Speaker 2: only remain friends by association since we have a lot

1633
01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:11,360
Speaker 2: of shared mutual friends. We became close again after our

1634
01:26:11,360 --> 01:26:14,960
Speaker 2: sons started playing basketball together at the local community center

1635
01:26:15,040 --> 01:26:18,280
Speaker 2: and became friends. I figure that becoming a mother made

1636
01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:20,639
Speaker 2: her more mature, and she didn't give me any reason

1637
01:26:20,680 --> 01:26:25,639
Speaker 2: to suspect otherwise. I've decided to send her a message

1638
01:26:25,680 --> 01:26:28,120
Speaker 2: saying the way she spoke about my husband and son

1639
01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:33,960
Speaker 2: was unacceptable, and therefore she is no longer welcome in

1640
01:26:34,000 --> 01:26:39,800
Speaker 2: my home. However, I don't want our sons to lose

1641
01:26:39,800 --> 01:26:42,639
Speaker 2: their friendship, and therefore I'm willing to remain civil around

1642
01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:46,439
Speaker 2: the kids and still will organize play dates. She didn't

1643
01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:48,559
Speaker 2: reply to me just yet, but I truly hope she

1644
01:26:48,600 --> 01:26:51,360
Speaker 2: loves her son enough to put her ego aside and

1645
01:26:51,439 --> 01:26:54,400
Speaker 2: remain civil for the sake of our kids. I've yet

1646
01:26:54,400 --> 01:26:58,800
Speaker 2: to notify Vince about this entire situation, since he's vigorously

1647
01:26:58,840 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 2: studying for an important whiz that's coming up next week,

1648
01:27:01,880 --> 01:27:04,000
Speaker 2: and I know that if he's heard what Albert said

1649
01:27:04,040 --> 01:27:06,599
Speaker 2: about him and our boy, it would make him upset

1650
01:27:06,680 --> 01:27:09,920
Speaker 2: and he won't be able to continue studying properly unless

1651
01:27:09,960 --> 01:27:13,639
Speaker 2: something crazy happens in the meantime. I'll probably update him

1652
01:27:13,840 --> 01:27:16,439
Speaker 2: next week after he's done with a quiz.

1653
01:27:16,960 --> 01:27:21,400
Speaker 3: MM, that's that's smart. I would say, Yeah, how old

1654
01:27:21,400 --> 01:27:21,880
Speaker 3: are they.

1655
01:27:23,360 --> 01:27:25,840
Speaker 2: Or thirty six?

1656
01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:30,479
Speaker 3: Okay? And he's and Vince supported me going through Waite.

1657
01:27:30,680 --> 01:27:31,240
Speaker 2: Was going back.

1658
01:27:31,280 --> 01:27:33,479
Speaker 1: He went back to school and it spent to like nursing school,

1659
01:27:33,640 --> 01:27:37,160
Speaker 1: and he supported his He supported Ope when she was

1660
01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:39,439
Speaker 1: doing school, and now she's supporting him.

1661
01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:40,840
Speaker 3: Why he's doing school.

1662
01:27:40,880 --> 01:27:43,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a hard working.

1663
01:27:43,080 --> 01:27:45,320
Speaker 2: He's a hard working life saving man.

1664
01:27:46,240 --> 01:27:49,040
Speaker 3: It takes a while to learn, like for regular kid.

1665
01:27:49,040 --> 01:27:50,479
Speaker 3: It took him tim in his study. It took me

1666
01:27:50,520 --> 01:27:54,200
Speaker 3: thirty I can see. Yeah, but look how.

1667
01:27:54,080 --> 01:27:56,519
Speaker 2: Cute he is, how far he's come.

1668
01:27:56,680 --> 01:28:00,639
Speaker 1: You don't need to be smart with a face like that. Wait.

1669
01:28:02,560 --> 01:28:05,240
Speaker 2: Riley's very smart, very smart.

1670
01:28:05,280 --> 01:28:07,759
Speaker 1: Realley's very smart, But you know what else is smart?

1671
01:28:08,400 --> 01:28:11,400
Speaker 1: Katie P Three, thanks for the ten bug. This story

1672
01:28:11,479 --> 01:28:13,519
Speaker 1: is wild. I'm Catholic and I still think OPI kind

1673
01:28:13,520 --> 01:28:16,160
Speaker 1: of sucks for throwing out everything and then her shrine.

1674
01:28:16,520 --> 01:28:19,479
Speaker 1: If he hates everything about what she believes, why not

1675
01:28:19,680 --> 01:28:23,759
Speaker 1: just leave her? Yeah, that's what we were saying. Crazy,

1676
01:28:24,600 --> 01:28:28,360
Speaker 1: Oh Alsolessandro Rivera. Riley, you are right. Researchers now believe

1677
01:28:28,439 --> 01:28:33,000
Speaker 1: genes for advanced cognitive functions inherited comes from the mother.

1678
01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:37,200
Speaker 1: In cognitive functions from the father may automatically be deactivated.

1679
01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:39,439
Speaker 1: Environment is the other factor.

1680
01:28:39,960 --> 01:28:42,880
Speaker 3: Hmmm, so.

1681
01:28:44,720 --> 01:28:45,640
Speaker 2: Is inherited?

1682
01:28:46,120 --> 01:28:49,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's test and we go cheat real quick and

1683
01:28:49,400 --> 01:28:50,240
Speaker 3: see my kid gets it.

1684
01:28:51,840 --> 01:28:55,640
Speaker 1: Also forty eight votes for mugs. People want the mugs.

1685
01:28:55,800 --> 01:28:58,840
Speaker 1: We haven't even thought about making mugs, but yeah, we.

1686
01:28:58,800 --> 01:28:59,479
Speaker 3: May make these.

1687
01:29:00,200 --> 01:29:01,400
Speaker 2: I want to make a sweater.

1688
01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:06,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna like where Sophia. Sophia's gonna make some

1689
01:29:06,200 --> 01:29:06,760
Speaker 1: of her her.

1690
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:08,719
Speaker 2: I drew a really great drawing.

1691
01:29:08,840 --> 01:29:11,800
Speaker 1: I saw that maybe we could do Maybe we could

1692
01:29:11,800 --> 01:29:12,880
Speaker 1: do that like next week or something.

1693
01:29:13,880 --> 01:29:17,720
Speaker 3: Paper towel right here? You guys want this? Yeah? Does

1694
01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:18,280
Speaker 3: it make sense?

1695
01:29:18,720 --> 01:29:19,280
Speaker 2: Do you want that?

1696
01:29:21,360 --> 01:29:24,920
Speaker 1: We're working with our designer. Yeah, all right? Should we

1697
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:27,120
Speaker 1: do our last story?

1698
01:29:27,439 --> 01:29:27,639
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1699
01:29:27,680 --> 01:29:31,400
Speaker 1: Today? What what episode? What episode were you on?

1700
01:29:31,400 --> 01:29:31,760
Speaker 3: On five?

1701
01:29:33,560 --> 01:29:41,480
Speaker 1: By forty? Put whatever you want in there? Do tumblers?

1702
01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:45,800
Speaker 1: Tumblers over mugs could be good. It could be a

1703
01:29:45,840 --> 01:29:51,280
Speaker 1: good idea, actually over mugs forty I'm on five forty Yeah,

1704
01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:53,080
Speaker 1: sweater please.

1705
01:29:52,920 --> 01:29:55,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want if you guys saw like the sweater

1706
01:29:55,280 --> 01:29:57,559
Speaker 2: Sam was wearing yesterday with like the little square.

1707
01:29:57,960 --> 01:30:02,400
Speaker 1: It's my friend Cam's if you haven't already queued up

1708
01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:07,960
Speaker 1: Anthony Dondo's song on Spotify, Plug both of your friends, alight?

1709
01:30:07,960 --> 01:30:11,280
Speaker 1: I plug Cam a bunch. He doesn't need it. He

1710
01:30:11,280 --> 01:30:15,920
Speaker 1: doesn't need it. But yeah, has no one noticed the big,

1711
01:30:16,040 --> 01:30:16,920
Speaker 1: big old pigeon.

1712
01:30:19,040 --> 01:30:20,479
Speaker 2: Can we open up a present?

1713
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:22,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, wait, I'm instead of doing a story, let's

1714
01:30:22,760 --> 01:30:26,479
Speaker 1: let's let's let's open up a package. Package package Riley backage.

1715
01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:30,320
Speaker 1: Tumblrs is a great idea. Tumblrs is a great idea.

1716
01:30:30,360 --> 01:30:33,400
Speaker 1: Maybe we could do tumblrs, tumblrs or mugs. But yeah,

1717
01:30:33,680 --> 01:30:38,360
Speaker 1: go see Anthony on Spotify. Don't listen to the song

1718
01:30:38,479 --> 01:30:43,240
Speaker 1: d E N I T t O wo. Alfred is

1719
01:30:43,240 --> 01:30:50,080
Speaker 1: my pigeon's name. If he's scary scared of box cutters?

1720
01:30:50,080 --> 01:30:55,600
Speaker 1: Do you do you want to help? I feel like

1721
01:30:55,720 --> 01:30:58,160
Speaker 1: mugs is easier, though, like I feel like more people

1722
01:30:58,160 --> 01:30:58,559
Speaker 1: would like it.

1723
01:30:58,600 --> 01:30:58,920
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1724
01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:05,439
Speaker 1: Job, let's see, Oh you did it? Let's see?

1725
01:31:06,600 --> 01:31:06,840
Speaker 4: Is this?

1726
01:31:07,120 --> 01:31:07,679
Speaker 1: What is that?

1727
01:31:07,880 --> 01:31:08,800
Speaker 3: Oh? Shoot?

1728
01:31:09,400 --> 01:31:16,120
Speaker 1: Oh, Chris Tinfoil hot with the twenty gifted memberships.

1729
01:31:16,479 --> 01:31:18,320
Speaker 3: Cow, there was one second left on the clock.

1730
01:31:18,439 --> 01:31:22,240
Speaker 1: There was one second left. Oh my goodness, another thirty minutes,

1731
01:31:22,320 --> 01:31:27,439
Speaker 1: Christinfoil a hot shout out to you keeping the stream going?

1732
01:31:28,439 --> 01:31:29,000
Speaker 3: What is that?

1733
01:31:29,600 --> 01:31:30,120
Speaker 1: What is this?

1734
01:31:31,520 --> 01:31:35,880
Speaker 2: They don't know? The big one auter bottle with.

1735
01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:40,479
Speaker 1: Sleeve counter bottle with sleeve one gallon is it a

1736
01:31:40,479 --> 01:31:44,879
Speaker 1: gall ye box cutter, it's like a it's like a gallon.

1737
01:31:45,640 --> 01:31:52,880
Speaker 1: Whoa wow, so via Sovia left it open, pushed it

1738
01:31:52,960 --> 01:31:55,280
Speaker 1: into my hand.

1739
01:31:56,200 --> 01:32:02,040
Speaker 2: Box cutters are dangerous because you scudders.

1740
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:09,240
Speaker 1: Is going to kill mehutters all right. Also, if you

1741
01:32:09,240 --> 01:32:12,320
Speaker 1: haven't joined the discord, don't you should join that because

1742
01:32:12,400 --> 01:32:15,160
Speaker 1: that's where we're gonna drop our march first.

1743
01:32:22,920 --> 01:32:25,360
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.

1744
01:32:25,320 --> 01:32:28,479
Speaker 6: I no way. I said that to John. I was like, John,

1745
01:32:28,520 --> 01:32:30,280
Speaker 6: can we get some of these? But you also look

1746
01:32:30,320 --> 01:32:33,519
Speaker 6: at how big this water jugged? Wait you're here, you

1747
01:32:33,560 --> 01:32:36,840
Speaker 6: show this, you show this. Oh wait, wait, look go away.

1748
01:32:36,960 --> 01:32:37,280
Speaker 2: Whoa?

1749
01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:43,719
Speaker 3: Well, look at that. That's for the whole team to share. Whoa. Actually,

1750
01:32:44,080 --> 01:32:48,800
Speaker 3: let's go whoa whoa. We can fill it up and

1751
01:32:48,840 --> 01:32:50,320
Speaker 3: be good for the whole stream, and then we can

1752
01:32:50,400 --> 01:33:00,160
Speaker 3: pee into my bottle thing. Best combo ever that's gone.

1753
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:04,479
Speaker 2: Oh my god, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

1754
01:33:04,520 --> 01:33:07,920
Speaker 2: The pigeon next to the pigeon is so excellent.

1755
01:33:08,040 --> 01:33:10,559
Speaker 3: Hold on, I see Sam's right now.

1756
01:33:10,560 --> 01:33:12,559
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, I'm posting on.

1757
01:33:12,680 --> 01:33:14,960
Speaker 3: Hold on, dude, I can see your eyes and that

1758
01:33:15,120 --> 01:33:19,320
Speaker 3: is terrifying. Hold on, that is so scary.

1759
01:33:19,640 --> 01:33:21,599
Speaker 2: Look at my look at my look at it. Look

1760
01:33:21,640 --> 01:33:26,439
Speaker 2: at your hello. That's so good.

1761
01:33:26,520 --> 01:33:30,080
Speaker 3: It's so good. Story like I do not like your eyes.

1762
01:33:30,080 --> 01:33:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to read a story like this. This is amazing.

1763
01:33:32,479 --> 01:33:34,040
Speaker 2: I'm going to post this the.

1764
01:33:34,120 --> 01:33:38,280
Speaker 1: Rest of the stream. Wait, go put it in next

1765
01:33:38,320 --> 01:33:41,400
Speaker 1: your face, tag me, tag me in that.

1766
01:33:41,600 --> 01:33:47,040
Speaker 2: I'm posting with no context. All right, Oh my goodness.

1767
01:33:46,600 --> 01:33:49,080
Speaker 1: It's mine. I'm gonna I'm gonna read it with a.

1768
01:33:51,840 --> 01:33:53,479
Speaker 3: Right What did I say? I don't remember what I said.

1769
01:33:54,000 --> 01:33:59,400
Speaker 1: To be hard to see through, cant see the difference.

1770
01:33:59,880 --> 01:34:04,000
Speaker 1: I need to like turn this way because.

1771
01:34:03,800 --> 01:34:07,439
Speaker 3: You're because you can only see you can see three sixties.

1772
01:34:07,479 --> 01:34:08,479
Speaker 1: This is good. This is good.

1773
01:34:08,800 --> 01:34:10,439
Speaker 3: Can you can you see your butt right now?

1774
01:34:11,080 --> 01:34:13,320
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't really see this with anything funny.

1775
01:34:13,560 --> 01:34:16,320
Speaker 3: Thank you. There's a movie about this with Will Smith

1776
01:34:16,360 --> 01:34:17,080
Speaker 3: and Tom Holland.

1777
01:34:17,120 --> 01:34:18,000
Speaker 2: I've seen it.

1778
01:34:18,000 --> 01:34:18,719
Speaker 3: It's a good movie.

1779
01:34:18,760 --> 01:34:20,080
Speaker 1: It doesn't recognize my face?

1780
01:34:21,760 --> 01:34:22,599
Speaker 2: Oh so funny.

1781
01:34:22,720 --> 01:34:26,280
Speaker 1: How do I? How do I open this?

1782
01:34:27,360 --> 01:34:30,479
Speaker 3: Rivero says thanks for that bucks. The bottle is for

1783
01:34:30,600 --> 01:34:33,280
Speaker 3: John because he needs to take a gallon a day

1784
01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:37,080
Speaker 3: for the creat scene. Wow, you and misfit Brad, thanks

1785
01:34:37,080 --> 01:34:39,600
Speaker 3: for the twenty bucks. I feel like Sam and Sophia

1786
01:34:39,920 --> 01:34:43,680
Speaker 3: are a perfect example of different opinions, but loving the

1787
01:34:43,720 --> 01:34:46,000
Speaker 3: rest of you. Oh, but loving the rest of each

1788
01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:47,840
Speaker 3: other's personality. The world should not.

1789
01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:50,080
Speaker 1: Take We actually share a lot of the same opinion.

1790
01:34:50,080 --> 01:34:53,000
Speaker 3: We Yeah, yeah, friends, there is that much we disagree with. Yeah,

1791
01:34:53,200 --> 01:34:55,720
Speaker 3: many friends from all walks of life, but there is

1792
01:34:55,800 --> 01:34:56,800
Speaker 3: so much love. Wake up?

1793
01:34:58,400 --> 01:34:58,679
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1794
01:34:58,800 --> 01:35:00,679
Speaker 1: What what episode am I doing?

1795
01:35:01,600 --> 01:35:04,360
Speaker 2: That is scary? It's pretty funny.

1796
01:35:04,880 --> 01:35:05,400
Speaker 3: Look at that.

1797
01:35:06,320 --> 01:35:07,080
Speaker 2: You can see it.

1798
01:35:08,760 --> 01:35:11,679
Speaker 3: Keep an eye out this one. It's a long one.

1799
01:35:12,000 --> 01:35:18,080
Speaker 3: Oh boy, Perry, dude, I don't like the eye.

1800
01:35:18,520 --> 01:35:28,280
Speaker 1: Oh okay, get into it.

1801
01:35:28,560 --> 01:35:30,120
Speaker 3: This is gonna look so great for Facebook.

1802
01:35:30,240 --> 01:35:33,160
Speaker 1: I know, I know. I'm so excited until.

1803
01:35:32,880 --> 01:35:35,320
Speaker 2: I get your mic closer because wait, can you hear it?

1804
01:35:35,600 --> 01:35:37,840
Speaker 3: Can you hear? Yeah?

1805
01:35:38,520 --> 01:35:45,320
Speaker 1: Okay, that sounds perfect. What's five s one? This is

1806
01:35:45,320 --> 01:35:48,120
Speaker 1: going to be a hardy also bear worth thing? All right?

1807
01:35:49,080 --> 01:35:50,040
Speaker 3: Pigeon learning to read?

1808
01:35:52,160 --> 01:35:58,440
Speaker 1: Okay? Am I the a hole? What?

1809
01:35:58,439 --> 01:35:59,679
Speaker 3: What keep reading?

1810
01:36:02,600 --> 01:36:04,800
Speaker 1: Am I the aole? For getting the ick from my

1811
01:36:05,000 --> 01:36:05,960
Speaker 1: furry boyfriend?

1812
01:36:09,040 --> 01:36:12,760
Speaker 2: This is a perfect story to tell a bird.

1813
01:36:18,000 --> 01:36:22,840
Speaker 1: It's who I am? Mom, It's who I am?

1814
01:36:23,360 --> 01:36:27,920
Speaker 2: Pterodactyl scream all right? Read?

1815
01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:34,720
Speaker 1: Okay, this comes from Willing Sync eight eight seventy three.

1816
01:36:35,400 --> 01:36:38,280
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what a furry exactly was before

1817
01:36:38,320 --> 01:36:42,040
Speaker 1: I met him. We were together for literally three whole

1818
01:36:42,160 --> 01:36:45,960
Speaker 1: years until we moved in together. I found one of

1819
01:36:46,000 --> 01:36:48,840
Speaker 1: his furry outfits while I was helping him move in

1820
01:36:49,000 --> 01:36:51,960
Speaker 1: close into our apartment. At first, I thought that maybe

1821
01:36:51,960 --> 01:36:54,960
Speaker 1: at some point he had worked in children's shows or

1822
01:36:55,080 --> 01:36:57,439
Speaker 1: selling things in the subway. In my country, it's normal

1823
01:36:57,439 --> 01:37:00,360
Speaker 1: to see people in costume selling things. But then I

1824
01:37:00,479 --> 01:37:05,320
Speaker 1: found a common foxtail, and I thought it was something kinky.

1825
01:37:06,439 --> 01:37:12,600
Speaker 1: But it's not. It's not well. He got nervous and

1826
01:37:12,680 --> 01:37:19,000
Speaker 1: confessed to me that he is a furry. I looked

1827
01:37:19,000 --> 01:37:21,719
Speaker 1: at him and said, what the f is a furry anyway?

1828
01:37:21,720 --> 01:37:24,240
Speaker 1: He explained to me that years ago he created a

1829
01:37:24,240 --> 01:37:27,040
Speaker 1: persona and it was kind of like a hobby that

1830
01:37:27,080 --> 01:37:29,640
Speaker 1: makes him feel at ease and happy. He said that

1831
01:37:29,720 --> 01:37:32,000
Speaker 1: he hid it from me because he was embarrassed and

1832
01:37:32,080 --> 01:37:34,720
Speaker 1: scared that I might leave him or laugh at him.

1833
01:37:35,120 --> 01:37:38,760
Speaker 1: He's a serious professional man, not kind of like the

1834
01:37:38,800 --> 01:37:40,120
Speaker 1: person who would just dress like that.

1835
01:37:40,240 --> 01:37:42,800
Speaker 3: He's a serious professional professional.

1836
01:37:42,560 --> 01:37:46,519
Speaker 2: And a furrey. He's got he's got interest.

1837
01:37:47,520 --> 01:37:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a he's a multi cultured man.

1838
01:37:51,560 --> 01:37:52,760
Speaker 2: Exactly.

1839
01:37:53,760 --> 01:37:57,600
Speaker 1: Like a boy, like a boy, actually a boy. I

1840
01:37:57,600 --> 01:38:00,599
Speaker 1: feel like I should wear like a hoodie. Yeah, really

1841
01:38:00,960 --> 01:38:03,559
Speaker 1: to really set it in. Should I try it?

1842
01:38:03,760 --> 01:38:04,639
Speaker 2: No, just keep parting.

1843
01:38:04,800 --> 01:38:06,280
Speaker 3: I mean, if you want, I'll go get you one.

1844
01:38:06,520 --> 01:38:08,559
Speaker 1: No, it's fine, it's fine. I'll be too hot anyway.

1845
01:38:08,680 --> 01:38:10,880
Speaker 1: This thing is is steamy.

1846
01:38:12,080 --> 01:38:13,479
Speaker 3: Did you read through your eye holes?

1847
01:38:13,840 --> 01:38:19,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? All right, I'm going going anyway. I assured him.

1848
01:38:19,640 --> 01:38:21,600
Speaker 1: I assured him I wasn't going to leave him, and

1849
01:38:21,640 --> 01:38:24,360
Speaker 1: that I love him. That knowing my boyfriend uses a

1850
01:38:24,439 --> 01:38:27,639
Speaker 1: fox suit was the least attractive thing in the world.

1851
01:38:28,040 --> 01:38:31,000
Speaker 1: But I support his hobby, which is good. At least

1852
01:38:31,000 --> 01:38:33,840
Speaker 1: we support a hobby. I didn't really think much about it.

1853
01:38:33,880 --> 01:38:35,760
Speaker 1: Did it seem weird to me? Yes, But at the

1854
01:38:35,800 --> 01:38:38,400
Speaker 1: time I just loved him so much that I was

1855
01:38:38,439 --> 01:38:41,120
Speaker 1: going to support him. It's just a hobby he does rarely,

1856
01:38:41,200 --> 01:38:43,240
Speaker 1: so it's not like he talks about it every day.

1857
01:38:43,800 --> 01:38:47,519
Speaker 1: Neither is day by day, neither is his way of

1858
01:38:47,560 --> 01:38:49,720
Speaker 1: being himself. He's just just something he likes to do

1859
01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:53,840
Speaker 1: as a character. It's not something with deep meaning. Well

1860
01:38:54,479 --> 01:38:58,200
Speaker 1: it's been a year since that, and he's invited me

1861
01:38:58,600 --> 01:39:03,840
Speaker 1: to a furry event for the first time. Ooh oh oh,

1862
01:39:04,000 --> 01:39:06,240
Speaker 1: you think it's going to go well or not? Do

1863
01:39:06,280 --> 01:39:07,519
Speaker 1: you think she'll still accept him?

1864
01:39:07,600 --> 01:39:07,840
Speaker 2: Oh?

1865
01:39:08,960 --> 01:39:09,639
Speaker 1: Well, let's see.

1866
01:39:10,000 --> 01:39:12,759
Speaker 2: I don't think so, think so.

1867
01:39:13,760 --> 01:39:17,080
Speaker 1: I've never gotten into furry events. I hadn't seen him

1868
01:39:17,080 --> 01:39:20,080
Speaker 1: wearing his suit either. He wears it very rarely because

1869
01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:22,800
Speaker 1: it's not a thing at all. But he invited me,

1870
01:39:22,840 --> 01:39:25,240
Speaker 1: and I'm really excited and shy. I couldn't refuse to

1871
01:39:25,280 --> 01:39:27,800
Speaker 1: go with him because I also wanted to go and

1872
01:39:27,840 --> 01:39:29,880
Speaker 1: see what it's like and know that world.

1873
01:39:30,040 --> 01:39:32,120
Speaker 2: You know, w Yeah, you want to understand.

1874
01:39:32,080 --> 01:39:34,240
Speaker 1: You want to understand your partner, which is she's like, you.

1875
01:39:34,160 --> 01:39:37,519
Speaker 2: Know what, I'll try it, test it out. I'll dip

1876
01:39:37,520 --> 01:39:38,439
Speaker 2: my toes in the water.

1877
01:39:38,600 --> 01:39:44,479
Speaker 1: That's what we want. Well, I couldn't refuse to go

1878
01:39:44,520 --> 01:39:45,720
Speaker 1: with him because I also wanted to know what the

1879
01:39:45,760 --> 01:39:49,480
Speaker 1: world's like. But when we got there, it was like, oh,

1880
01:39:49,760 --> 01:39:52,920
Speaker 1: this is kidding real. When I saw him park the

1881
01:39:52,960 --> 01:39:55,719
Speaker 1: car and put on his suit, I didn't have a suit,

1882
01:39:55,920 --> 01:39:57,719
Speaker 1: so my face was totally visible.

1883
01:40:01,200 --> 01:40:02,360
Speaker 3: What seeks messed up?

1884
01:40:02,880 --> 01:40:10,439
Speaker 2: Wrinkled? It's okay. He just slammed into a window a

1885
01:40:10,479 --> 01:40:13,320
Speaker 2: couple too many times. That's why he has problems with

1886
01:40:13,400 --> 01:40:13,760
Speaker 2: his sight.

1887
01:40:14,840 --> 01:40:22,960
Speaker 3: No, it's fine, Well that's great, continued.

1888
01:40:25,560 --> 01:40:26,320
Speaker 1: Can you still hear me?

1889
01:40:26,600 --> 01:40:26,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1890
01:40:27,080 --> 01:40:32,280
Speaker 3: Oh no, wait hello, yeah yeah you can still hear me.

1891
01:40:32,560 --> 01:40:33,160
Speaker 3: Not really good?

1892
01:40:33,160 --> 01:40:40,000
Speaker 1: Put it under it, put it under perfect, all right, okay,

1893
01:40:40,200 --> 01:40:44,680
Speaker 1: you can hear me. All right. So but when we

1894
01:40:44,720 --> 01:40:47,160
Speaker 1: got there, it was like, oh, this is getting real.

1895
01:40:47,280 --> 01:40:49,479
Speaker 1: When I saw him park the car and put on

1896
01:40:49,560 --> 01:40:51,320
Speaker 1: his suit, I didn't have a suit, so my face

1897
01:40:51,360 --> 01:40:53,439
Speaker 1: was totally visible. When we got out of the car

1898
01:40:53,760 --> 01:40:56,040
Speaker 1: a few streets back and he had to walk through

1899
01:40:56,040 --> 01:41:00,520
Speaker 1: the city center like that, and I felt him embarrassed.

1900
01:41:00,640 --> 01:41:01,880
Speaker 2: I don't think I could do that.

1901
01:41:03,240 --> 01:41:04,599
Speaker 1: I mean I could do it.

1902
01:41:04,840 --> 01:41:07,800
Speaker 2: You could walk next to someone who was in a

1903
01:41:07,840 --> 01:41:08,559
Speaker 2: furry costume?

1904
01:41:09,040 --> 01:41:10,240
Speaker 1: Why not? It'll be fun.

1905
01:41:10,280 --> 01:41:12,559
Speaker 3: Would you walk with your brother with this pigeon thing

1906
01:41:12,600 --> 01:41:14,840
Speaker 3: on in downtown Santa Monica?

1907
01:41:16,360 --> 01:41:22,240
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, Actually, actually I've done something somewhat similar

1908
01:41:23,400 --> 01:41:25,880
Speaker 2: for a theater class to get around walk with me

1909
01:41:26,120 --> 01:41:28,360
Speaker 2: I did. It wasn't a furry costume. It was like clowning.

1910
01:41:28,800 --> 01:41:32,360
Speaker 2: So I was wearing like very silly clothes and then

1911
01:41:32,400 --> 01:41:35,000
Speaker 2: I walked around in character and like juggled for people.

1912
01:41:35,760 --> 01:41:37,840
Speaker 2: So you would do it, so I guess I have

1913
01:41:38,360 --> 01:41:39,880
Speaker 2: done something similar.

1914
01:41:40,280 --> 01:41:42,120
Speaker 1: But I think I messed up the story.

1915
01:41:42,240 --> 01:41:43,360
Speaker 2: He messed up the story.

1916
01:41:43,800 --> 01:41:45,240
Speaker 1: Oh, it's good, it's good.

1917
01:41:45,680 --> 01:41:49,000
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't yeah, but I don't know if I could.

1918
01:41:49,040 --> 01:41:50,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if I could do that.

1919
01:41:50,720 --> 01:41:51,960
Speaker 3: First, we met a furry friend.

1920
01:41:52,360 --> 01:41:56,679
Speaker 1: Okay, so first we met his furry friends who were

1921
01:41:56,920 --> 01:41:59,840
Speaker 1: waiting in a park for him, and I found out

1922
01:41:59,840 --> 01:42:02,760
Speaker 1: that my boyfriend has a name that he uses when

1923
01:42:02,760 --> 01:42:05,479
Speaker 1: he's in character. They were very nice, but no, it's

1924
01:42:05,479 --> 01:42:08,200
Speaker 1: not every day that you see your boyfriend using a

1925
01:42:08,200 --> 01:42:10,920
Speaker 1: pet name, dressed up as a fox and talking to

1926
01:42:10,960 --> 01:42:14,160
Speaker 1: other people who are also like that. Although some didn't

1927
01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:17,000
Speaker 1: have a suit, just a tail or nothing. I felt

1928
01:42:17,000 --> 01:42:21,519
Speaker 1: embarrassed because people around obviously walked by and laughed and

1929
01:42:21,560 --> 01:42:25,040
Speaker 1: looked curiously. A few minutes later, we finally went to

1930
01:42:25,120 --> 01:42:28,400
Speaker 1: the place of the event, and it wasn't that many people,

1931
01:42:28,439 --> 01:42:32,360
Speaker 1: but a large group, most of them without a suit

1932
01:42:32,439 --> 01:42:34,479
Speaker 1: and just wearing tails and a mask. I know what's

1933
01:42:34,479 --> 01:42:39,360
Speaker 1: wrong to say, but a lot of these people smelled musty,

1934
01:42:39,400 --> 01:42:42,559
Speaker 1: long hair so greasy you could fryd egg on its.

1935
01:42:43,680 --> 01:42:45,320
Speaker 1: That's gross, just weird.

1936
01:42:45,360 --> 01:42:45,679
Speaker 3: People.

1937
01:42:46,200 --> 01:42:50,559
Speaker 1: Years ago, I accompanied my sister to an otaku event

1938
01:42:50,600 --> 01:42:52,439
Speaker 1: and it was ninety five percent of the same people.

1939
01:42:52,439 --> 01:42:55,840
Speaker 1: What's otaku, It's like anime, okay, an Otaku event is

1940
01:42:55,920 --> 01:42:58,800
Speaker 1: ninety five percent the same people. Like weird in the

1941
01:42:58,840 --> 01:43:01,599
Speaker 1: wrong way. I've never been in that kind of environment.

1942
01:43:01,720 --> 01:43:04,840
Speaker 1: My boyfriend isn't like that at all. He's attractive, smells good,

1943
01:43:05,120 --> 01:43:07,360
Speaker 1: has a normal life and work, and I don't think

1944
01:43:07,400 --> 01:43:10,040
Speaker 1: anyone would expect him to be a furry. So it

1945
01:43:10,120 --> 01:43:14,519
Speaker 1: was the first time seeing other furries in person beside him.

1946
01:43:14,880 --> 01:43:17,920
Speaker 1: At one point, some of them started playing at removing

1947
01:43:17,960 --> 01:43:21,960
Speaker 1: each other's tails. Some were doing choreography in tiktoks, some

1948
01:43:22,040 --> 01:43:24,640
Speaker 1: of them like to do high jumps in four Not

1949
01:43:24,800 --> 01:43:29,320
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, he was just not my boyfriend, be clear.

1950
01:43:29,560 --> 01:43:32,720
Speaker 1: Whoa He was just walking around with me and just

1951
01:43:32,840 --> 01:43:35,080
Speaker 1: letting some people take pictures with him, and then did

1952
01:43:35,080 --> 01:43:36,840
Speaker 1: a TikTok with another person.

1953
01:43:37,040 --> 01:43:41,080
Speaker 2: Thank you Groovy Aby Chick for the twenty gifted membership.

1954
01:43:40,560 --> 01:43:41,599
Speaker 3: Gabby Hippy Chick.

1955
01:43:43,320 --> 01:43:44,680
Speaker 1: This is so weird that you can just see my

1956
01:43:44,880 --> 01:43:45,840
Speaker 1: eye hate it.

1957
01:43:48,240 --> 01:43:50,240
Speaker 2: I don't think there's nothing there's anything wrong, Leilu says,

1958
01:43:50,240 --> 01:43:52,360
Speaker 2: I don't see what's wrong with furry CBH. There's nothing

1959
01:43:52,360 --> 01:43:55,640
Speaker 2: wrong with them, Like I think, if as long as

1960
01:43:55,680 --> 01:43:56,920
Speaker 2: you're not hurting anyone.

1961
01:43:56,960 --> 01:43:59,120
Speaker 1: Maybe the hygiene the hygiene issue is.

1962
01:43:59,280 --> 01:44:03,479
Speaker 2: Hygenis is I think it's just like I understand not

1963
01:44:03,640 --> 01:44:05,320
Speaker 2: wanting if that's not your thing.

1964
01:44:05,400 --> 01:44:07,680
Speaker 3: Not wanting, I just wanting to be there, to be there.

1965
01:44:07,760 --> 01:44:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with them though.

1966
01:44:10,240 --> 01:44:12,599
Speaker 1: Well, you know what it's like to see your boyfriend

1967
01:44:12,640 --> 01:44:15,240
Speaker 1: do a choreo dressed as a blue fox while asking

1968
01:44:15,320 --> 01:44:19,320
Speaker 1: him to call him by his furry name and pet

1969
01:44:19,360 --> 01:44:23,080
Speaker 1: his head. I do know, and it was impossible for

1970
01:44:23,120 --> 01:44:26,800
Speaker 1: me not to change the way I see him. I

1971
01:44:26,800 --> 01:44:29,439
Speaker 1: didn't feel comfortable in the place. It bothered me a

1972
01:44:29,520 --> 01:44:33,040
Speaker 1: lot because they were using like harnesses in their suit.

1973
01:44:33,080 --> 01:44:35,240
Speaker 1: What is sexy about an animal? Some artist stands had

1974
01:44:35,280 --> 01:44:38,760
Speaker 1: furry art which was pretty explicit. My boyfriend dislikes that

1975
01:44:38,840 --> 01:44:42,080
Speaker 1: kind of art, but for him, his persona is performance.

1976
01:44:42,320 --> 01:44:45,360
Speaker 1: So I just felt even more weird because they're animals,

1977
01:44:45,800 --> 01:44:48,320
Speaker 1: even if they call it a persona, I felt weird,

1978
01:44:48,400 --> 01:44:51,120
Speaker 1: And since yesterday, every time I see my boyfriend I

1979
01:44:51,160 --> 01:44:54,680
Speaker 1: can't help think of him being dressed as part of

1980
01:44:54,720 --> 01:44:58,720
Speaker 1: those animals and be like addressed of him being part

1981
01:44:58,760 --> 01:45:01,559
Speaker 1: of those people and him being dressed like that. I

1982
01:45:01,600 --> 01:45:03,840
Speaker 1: really love him, but I just feel I got the

1983
01:45:03,960 --> 01:45:06,640
Speaker 1: ick and I hate that because I always wanted to

1984
01:45:06,680 --> 01:45:09,759
Speaker 1: be the supportive girlfriend, but this is just too much.

1985
01:45:10,200 --> 01:45:12,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about this with my boyfriend

1986
01:45:12,200 --> 01:45:14,800
Speaker 1: and make him feel ashamed of who he is and

1987
01:45:14,840 --> 01:45:16,920
Speaker 1: his likes. I don't want to make him feel bad

1988
01:45:16,920 --> 01:45:19,920
Speaker 1: about my feelings. He's a great man. Really. The only

1989
01:45:20,000 --> 01:45:22,840
Speaker 1: time I felt tenderness yesterday was when he hugged me,

1990
01:45:23,200 --> 01:45:26,200
Speaker 1: thanking me for supporting him like this. I just feel

1991
01:45:26,240 --> 01:45:28,000
Speaker 1: like the worst person in the world, and the last

1992
01:45:28,040 --> 01:45:30,200
Speaker 1: thing I want to do is hurt his heart, even

1993
01:45:30,240 --> 01:45:32,920
Speaker 1: if his friends are too weird for me. I just

1994
01:45:32,960 --> 01:45:35,400
Speaker 1: hope I can get over this. Ikey feeling fast, but

1995
01:45:35,479 --> 01:45:38,040
Speaker 1: he's really happy and shows me pictures of the event,

1996
01:45:38,080 --> 01:45:40,519
Speaker 1: telling me that we should go to another event together,

1997
01:45:40,720 --> 01:45:42,960
Speaker 1: and I just can't tell him that that is the

1998
01:45:43,040 --> 01:45:45,920
Speaker 1: last thing I ever want to do go to one

1999
01:45:45,920 --> 01:45:48,559
Speaker 1: of those events I always support to him. I don't

2000
01:45:48,560 --> 01:45:50,840
Speaker 1: feel manipulated like some people say in the comments. I

2001
01:45:50,920 --> 01:45:53,639
Speaker 1: did want to go because I thought it would maybe

2002
01:45:53,680 --> 01:45:56,639
Speaker 1: be fun, but it wasn't. And there is an edit

2003
01:45:57,520 --> 01:46:01,080
Speaker 1: and some relevant comments and juicy take updates.

2004
01:46:01,600 --> 01:46:04,840
Speaker 3: But chat, Yeah, I need to get out of this

2005
01:46:04,920 --> 01:46:05,559
Speaker 3: pigeon mask.

2006
01:46:05,640 --> 01:46:06,120
Speaker 1: It is hot.

2007
01:46:06,600 --> 01:46:11,160
Speaker 2: I will release you. We'll release you from your pigeon mask. Goodness,

2008
01:46:11,160 --> 01:46:14,600
Speaker 2: oh man, sweating geez.

2009
01:46:14,479 --> 01:46:17,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, it's not it's.

2010
01:46:17,560 --> 01:46:20,320
Speaker 2: Not a well you can imagine why these these people

2011
01:46:20,360 --> 01:46:21,200
Speaker 2: at these events might be.

2012
01:46:21,600 --> 01:46:23,880
Speaker 1: They must yeah, they would be, so dude, just wearing

2013
01:46:23,880 --> 01:46:25,680
Speaker 1: that mask for a couple of minutes.

2014
01:46:25,479 --> 01:46:31,200
Speaker 2: And obviously it's wash those things. Yeah, well you can

2015
01:46:31,240 --> 01:46:32,960
Speaker 2: try cling. But I also know that a lot of

2016
01:46:33,840 --> 01:46:38,479
Speaker 2: costumers will use a combination of like vodka and something

2017
01:46:39,040 --> 01:46:42,000
Speaker 2: because it kills all it kills all the bacteria that

2018
01:46:42,160 --> 01:46:45,080
Speaker 2: like anti and so like, if there's costs, like really,

2019
01:46:45,120 --> 01:46:49,200
Speaker 2: you know, intricate costumes that you can't clean, you can

2020
01:46:49,280 --> 01:46:51,280
Speaker 2: use like a VOD solution.

2021
01:46:52,760 --> 01:46:54,120
Speaker 1: Then won't it smelled like vodka?

2022
01:46:54,760 --> 01:46:59,160
Speaker 2: I swear it's just it smells like like like it's

2023
01:46:59,200 --> 01:47:02,840
Speaker 2: like an alcohol solution. Yeah, like if you've ever had

2024
01:47:02,840 --> 01:47:07,559
Speaker 2: like a kind of thing. But Riley, Riley's gone for

2025
01:47:07,560 --> 01:47:13,599
Speaker 2: a moment. So I think that oh pe should mention

2026
01:47:13,840 --> 01:47:17,479
Speaker 2: to the partner and say, hey, you are welcome to

2027
01:47:17,520 --> 01:47:19,800
Speaker 2: do whatever you want to do on your own time.

2028
01:47:19,960 --> 01:47:22,160
Speaker 2: I think this is I'm a little bit uncomfortable going

2029
01:47:22,240 --> 01:47:22,880
Speaker 2: to these events.

2030
01:47:22,960 --> 01:47:24,640
Speaker 1: I don't think you need to say you're uncomfortable. Just

2031
01:47:24,640 --> 01:47:25,800
Speaker 1: say like it's just not my thing.

2032
01:47:25,880 --> 01:47:28,400
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that's right, that's maybe better worded. I'm a

2033
01:47:28,400 --> 01:47:29,439
Speaker 2: little bit Yeah, it's not.

2034
01:47:29,680 --> 01:47:32,519
Speaker 1: Thinking uncomfortable feels like like he did something wrong.

2035
01:47:33,040 --> 01:47:34,800
Speaker 2: Which he didn't. She went to the event. She didn't

2036
01:47:34,800 --> 01:47:36,479
Speaker 2: have to go to the event. He didn't expect her

2037
01:47:36,479 --> 01:47:38,640
Speaker 2: to go to the event. I think he was pretty respectful,

2038
01:47:40,000 --> 01:47:45,920
Speaker 2: so maybe, yeah, maybe just I yeah, I I don't

2039
01:47:45,960 --> 01:47:47,920
Speaker 2: I would like I don't think this is my thing.

2040
01:47:48,160 --> 01:47:51,040
Speaker 2: But you can totally go to these events.

2041
01:47:51,280 --> 01:47:54,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think, like, support him, but you

2042
01:47:54,080 --> 01:47:55,880
Speaker 1: don't have to go. It's the same same thing as

2043
01:47:55,920 --> 01:47:57,960
Speaker 1: like people who go to a lot of basketball games

2044
01:47:58,000 --> 01:48:01,200
Speaker 1: and their partner is interested in like basketball, are Dodgers

2045
01:48:01,320 --> 01:48:05,720
Speaker 1: or something, or like Sydney without kidneys, hashtag wheelspin Sambi's

2046
01:48:05,760 --> 01:48:09,519
Speaker 1: furry Coon tickets. We should totally do a stream inside

2047
01:48:09,520 --> 01:48:10,000
Speaker 1: furry kon.

2048
01:48:12,120 --> 01:48:16,200
Speaker 2: The thing is that, Sophia, I don't know what a judgment, No, no, no,

2049
01:48:16,200 --> 01:48:18,920
Speaker 2: it's not a judgment. I think that the thing that

2050
01:48:18,960 --> 01:48:21,920
Speaker 2: maybe op is also seeing is the I think there

2051
01:48:22,000 --> 01:48:25,360
Speaker 2: is on one hand, and in furry stuff, it's like

2052
01:48:25,680 --> 01:48:28,759
Speaker 2: just performance and like kind of like the LARPing aspect

2053
01:48:28,840 --> 01:48:31,240
Speaker 2: of you know, like when people go to renfairs and

2054
01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:33,559
Speaker 2: then the sex stuff, and I think that turns a

2055
01:48:33,560 --> 01:48:36,000
Speaker 2: lot of people, you know, away from it.

2056
01:48:36,240 --> 01:48:39,960
Speaker 1: There are there are orgies at furry CON's.

2057
01:48:39,840 --> 01:48:43,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think that I would be super comfortable.

2058
01:48:43,400 --> 01:48:46,679
Speaker 1: Well, you don't have to go to the orgies, that's.

2059
01:48:46,479 --> 01:48:50,320
Speaker 3: True, but she loves public. Remember, Oh thank you Rayley.

2060
01:48:53,320 --> 01:48:55,519
Speaker 2: Reefs down they give it a fifty bucks. I don't

2061
01:48:55,560 --> 01:48:58,920
Speaker 2: think I would see the something it day.

2062
01:48:59,000 --> 01:49:00,120
Speaker 3: Expand it? Can you expand it?

2063
01:49:01,479 --> 01:49:03,759
Speaker 2: I didn't think I would see the day that Opigion

2064
01:49:03,800 --> 01:49:05,560
Speaker 2: would be reading Reddit stories about.

2065
01:49:05,280 --> 01:49:09,120
Speaker 1: Furries honestly perfect perfect?

2066
01:49:09,479 --> 01:49:13,719
Speaker 3: Who is that from? What do you mean the gift?

2067
01:49:13,960 --> 01:49:19,519
Speaker 3: Oh Lossandra, thank you so much.

2068
01:49:19,720 --> 01:49:20,320
Speaker 2: Good gifts.

2069
01:49:20,320 --> 01:49:21,640
Speaker 3: You got us a lot of stuff and we've been

2070
01:49:21,720 --> 01:49:22,320
Speaker 3: opening it up.

2071
01:49:22,520 --> 01:49:24,920
Speaker 1: Such a good gift. I still think.

2072
01:49:24,840 --> 01:49:26,479
Speaker 3: Also, if I haven't got your package, I still need

2073
01:49:26,520 --> 01:49:27,320
Speaker 3: to go to the post office.

2074
01:49:27,439 --> 01:49:30,840
Speaker 2: Have jazz, I would say, before we get into this update,

2075
01:49:31,000 --> 01:49:33,680
Speaker 2: I don't think they need to break up because it

2076
01:49:33,680 --> 01:49:36,000
Speaker 2: seems like she's happy with everything else. I think she

2077
01:49:36,080 --> 01:49:39,360
Speaker 2: just needs to be like it's not my thing, so

2078
01:49:39,439 --> 01:49:41,120
Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna go yeah.

2079
01:49:40,960 --> 01:49:42,720
Speaker 1: Which I think is fine. We read the other ones,

2080
01:49:43,080 --> 01:49:45,920
Speaker 1: ah Adel and Gutierrez. Thanks for the two bucks. It's

2081
01:49:45,920 --> 01:49:49,160
Speaker 1: not a phase, Mom. I need John's infamous.

2082
01:49:48,960 --> 01:49:51,400
Speaker 2: Oh God, God.

2083
01:49:51,479 --> 01:49:53,679
Speaker 1: Moon Night eighteen. Did you all get my gift? Thanks

2084
01:49:53,680 --> 01:49:56,600
Speaker 1: for the five bucks. We haven't opened everything, but we

2085
01:49:57,120 --> 01:49:59,400
Speaker 1: really is going to go to the post office and.

2086
01:49:59,600 --> 01:50:01,840
Speaker 2: Just says you have to go to the.

2087
01:50:03,280 --> 01:50:04,200
Speaker 3: You must go.

2088
01:50:04,600 --> 01:50:08,040
Speaker 2: You can't be at a free convention without going to

2089
01:50:08,120 --> 01:50:08,759
Speaker 2: the Orgies.

2090
01:50:08,920 --> 01:50:17,560
Speaker 7: It's like going to Italy and not eating Busta Brook

2091
01:50:17,360 --> 01:50:22,080
Speaker 7: a Room.

2092
01:50:20,320 --> 01:50:22,760
Speaker 2: Brook aka Cosmic. Thank you for the ten bugs. My

2093
01:50:22,840 --> 01:50:27,719
Speaker 2: birthday Saturday. Cheers to my fellow geminis from age age

2094
01:50:28,120 --> 01:50:29,800
Speaker 2: h yeah yeah, yeah.

2095
01:50:29,360 --> 01:50:31,479
Speaker 3: Heyy, Happy birthday.

2096
01:50:31,720 --> 01:50:34,840
Speaker 2: Happy birthday tomorrow, No two days from now tomorrows Friday.

2097
01:50:35,160 --> 01:50:37,120
Speaker 2: We're made in Aoki. Thank you for the two bucks.

2098
01:50:37,200 --> 01:50:39,960
Speaker 2: They have all ages, events, stuff and stuff. Guys.

2099
01:50:40,160 --> 01:50:42,839
Speaker 3: Lol, that's Jay told you this is true.

2100
01:50:43,040 --> 01:50:44,960
Speaker 2: I mean I would like. I mean, I've been to

2101
01:50:45,000 --> 01:50:47,479
Speaker 2: comic Con and when I was a kid, and they

2102
01:50:47,520 --> 01:50:50,480
Speaker 2: also had a lot of you know, crazy costumes.

2103
01:50:50,880 --> 01:50:54,080
Speaker 1: Do we want to John? We would FaceTime John, but

2104
01:50:54,160 --> 01:50:55,720
Speaker 1: John's busy hanging.

2105
01:50:55,439 --> 01:50:57,559
Speaker 3: Out with the text him about it. But then I

2106
01:50:57,600 --> 01:50:58,080
Speaker 3: forgot you.

2107
01:50:59,360 --> 01:51:01,000
Speaker 1: Yeah we were, we would, but we want to We

2108
01:51:01,040 --> 01:51:05,960
Speaker 1: want to let John have his day. No, no, no, no,

2109
01:51:07,400 --> 01:51:11,200
Speaker 1: but we got this. Yeah, there's more to this story.

2110
01:51:11,240 --> 01:51:14,639
Speaker 1: It is far from over. But let's go into some

2111
01:51:14,840 --> 01:51:19,040
Speaker 1: relevant comments. So oh, first the edit edit. He's not

2112
01:51:19,080 --> 01:51:21,920
Speaker 1: into anything sxtual. He told me that his character is

2113
01:51:21,960 --> 01:51:24,400
Speaker 1: a performative thing that he enjoys doing from time to time,

2114
01:51:25,800 --> 01:51:28,640
Speaker 1: but doesn't find it exciting or comfortable fetishizing a per

2115
01:51:28,680 --> 01:51:30,600
Speaker 1: sona because at the end of the day, he's just

2116
01:51:30,840 --> 01:51:33,200
Speaker 1: making a character. Then he told me that for him,

2117
01:51:33,280 --> 01:51:35,680
Speaker 1: it's like a person getting aroused by being dressed as

2118
01:51:35,720 --> 01:51:38,559
Speaker 1: Mickey for a play. He can't feel like that and

2119
01:51:38,600 --> 01:51:41,840
Speaker 1: it feels weird. We literally live together and share the PC.

2120
01:51:42,040 --> 01:51:45,280
Speaker 1: If he had strange movements, I would notice them. He

2121
01:51:45,360 --> 01:51:48,280
Speaker 1: goes to those events very occasionally because he doesn't like

2122
01:51:48,360 --> 01:51:51,160
Speaker 1: the more weird side of furry. I know he's on

2123
01:51:51,200 --> 01:51:53,639
Speaker 1: a pervert and no, my intuition doesn't tell me that

2124
01:51:53,720 --> 01:51:56,599
Speaker 1: he is that. My intuition just tells me that people

2125
01:51:56,960 --> 01:51:58,840
Speaker 1: at that event smelled funny and I don't want to

2126
01:51:58,840 --> 01:52:01,760
Speaker 1: set foot and that place again. And there are some

2127
01:52:01,840 --> 01:52:06,560
Speaker 1: relevant comments in a big fat Juicy updates also Reevestone.

2128
01:52:06,680 --> 01:52:08,519
Speaker 1: Oh wow, we're gonna get I think we're gonna get

2129
01:52:08,560 --> 01:52:12,160
Speaker 1: another thirty minutes coming up. I'm gonna I'm gonna keep going,

2130
01:52:12,200 --> 01:52:15,240
Speaker 1: but shout out Reefstone again. All right, you know I'll

2131
01:52:15,240 --> 01:52:18,360
Speaker 1: read it, Reevestone. Thanks for the five gifted memberships. Mister

2132
01:52:18,439 --> 01:52:21,360
Speaker 1: Mingus fat Cat, please FaceTime John with the pigeon mask on.

2133
01:52:21,520 --> 01:52:24,880
Speaker 1: I want to, but he's busy. Busy, is busy, groovey,

2134
01:52:24,960 --> 01:52:27,120
Speaker 1: hippie chick. Thanks for the ten bucks. She needs to

2135
01:52:27,160 --> 01:52:29,559
Speaker 1: be honest. And there's all kinds of kings out there,

2136
01:52:29,760 --> 01:52:31,400
Speaker 1: but they aren't for any everyone.

2137
01:52:31,640 --> 01:52:34,400
Speaker 2: It seems like maybe this is not a kink for him.

2138
01:52:34,920 --> 01:52:37,280
Speaker 2: It seems more on the side of LARPing.

2139
01:52:37,720 --> 01:52:41,880
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, Yeah, comment ter Gurley. I think it's time

2140
01:52:42,000 --> 01:52:45,160
Speaker 1: for a sit down conversation. Tell him you support his hobby,

2141
01:52:45,240 --> 01:52:47,320
Speaker 1: but you're not interested in taking part because it makes

2142
01:52:47,320 --> 01:52:50,400
Speaker 1: you personally uncomfortable, not him, but the other people and

2143
01:52:50,400 --> 01:52:53,080
Speaker 1: the vibe. Hopefully he understands and you'll get over the

2144
01:52:53,080 --> 01:52:56,200
Speaker 1: weird memory if the itck sticks though. Unfortunately it is

2145
01:52:56,200 --> 01:52:59,000
Speaker 1: what it is and you're not compatible. But he's as

2146
01:52:59,000 --> 01:53:01,040
Speaker 1: good as you say he is. I think you can

2147
01:53:01,200 --> 01:53:04,559
Speaker 1: probably get past this as long as you're not involved,

2148
01:53:04,880 --> 01:53:07,920
Speaker 1: and NOPI responds yes. I think what stops me from

2149
01:53:08,000 --> 01:53:10,480
Speaker 1: doing it is that he told me that his previous

2150
01:53:10,479 --> 01:53:13,439
Speaker 1: girlfriend laughed at his hobby and criticized him. Because he

2151
01:53:13,479 --> 01:53:15,920
Speaker 1: doesn't look like the kind of person who's into that,

2152
01:53:16,160 --> 01:53:18,519
Speaker 1: it's very difficult for him to show that side of

2153
01:53:18,600 --> 01:53:21,439
Speaker 1: himself with me. I never really expected to be in

2154
01:53:21,439 --> 01:53:23,280
Speaker 1: the situation, and I don't know how to broach the

2155
01:53:23,320 --> 01:53:26,719
Speaker 1: subject without making him feel bad, because he just wants

2156
01:53:27,080 --> 01:53:34,120
Speaker 1: my support. And there is a final update you're ready

2157
01:53:34,120 --> 01:53:39,280
Speaker 1: to dive in Get Smelly h updates. First of all,

2158
01:53:39,880 --> 01:53:43,200
Speaker 1: First of all, I've never had any problem with him

2159
01:53:43,240 --> 01:53:46,120
Speaker 1: telling me after three years about this, and I said

2160
01:53:46,280 --> 01:53:49,839
Speaker 1: that in the first post. I always understand how afraid

2161
01:53:49,880 --> 01:53:54,920
Speaker 1: someone can feel to say who he is. I know

2162
01:53:55,120 --> 01:53:58,880
Speaker 1: Sam Lossandro Rivera. I know when Sam is going to

2163
01:53:59,000 --> 01:54:02,919
Speaker 1: use the mask mask for Spicy Sleep. You think anyone

2164
01:54:02,960 --> 01:54:06,400
Speaker 1: would hook up with me in that mask? You think

2165
01:54:06,439 --> 01:54:08,360
Speaker 1: I have weight, like you think I have more game

2166
01:54:08,400 --> 01:54:10,559
Speaker 1: than I do. I don't know if that would be possible.

2167
01:54:11,080 --> 01:54:11,599
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

2168
01:54:12,640 --> 01:54:15,920
Speaker 1: I always understood how afraid someone can feel to say

2169
01:54:15,920 --> 01:54:18,839
Speaker 1: who he is. Everyone has their secrets and there's nothing

2170
01:54:19,000 --> 01:54:22,080
Speaker 1: wrong if you're not harming anyone with them. And after

2171
01:54:22,080 --> 01:54:24,320
Speaker 1: reading the comments people left on the post, I understand

2172
01:54:24,360 --> 01:54:27,120
Speaker 1: the fear that my boyfriend had. Some people even told

2173
01:54:27,120 --> 01:54:32,600
Speaker 1: me that he was grooming me for like freedom. It's

2174
01:54:32,680 --> 01:54:35,760
Speaker 1: just disgusting, Like if I couldn't defend myself. I didn't

2175
01:54:35,760 --> 01:54:37,480
Speaker 1: need to talk to my boyfriend because during the night

2176
01:54:37,520 --> 01:54:40,200
Speaker 1: he sat down to talk to me and apologized. He

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01:54:40,320 --> 01:54:42,120
Speaker 1: showed me that one of his friends told him that

2178
01:54:42,160 --> 01:54:45,000
Speaker 1: the organizers of the event changed and that's why there

2179
01:54:45,000 --> 01:54:49,720
Speaker 1: were people with NSFW stuff. My boyfriend was also uncomfortable

2180
01:54:49,800 --> 01:54:52,400
Speaker 1: with that since the last time he went to that event,

2181
01:54:52,480 --> 01:54:55,919
Speaker 1: those types of outfits were forbidden. He showed me pictures

2182
01:54:55,960 --> 01:54:58,920
Speaker 1: and yes, the atmosphere and people look different. They found

2183
01:54:58,920 --> 01:55:01,440
Speaker 1: out too about it because some people started to complain

2184
01:55:02,080 --> 01:55:05,040
Speaker 1: about that. In the ig of the event. It seems

2185
01:55:05,040 --> 01:55:08,440
Speaker 1: that there's public friendly events and there's others that aren't

2186
01:55:08,520 --> 01:55:10,600
Speaker 1: like that, but the new people in charge of the

2187
01:55:10,640 --> 01:55:12,839
Speaker 1: event just change a lot of things. Maybe they're pandering

2188
01:55:12,880 --> 01:55:14,920
Speaker 1: to like the furry side of stuff that people see

2189
01:55:14,960 --> 01:55:20,240
Speaker 1: on the internet. Yeah, and Chris Tinfoil Hot even gang

2190
01:55:20,600 --> 01:55:26,160
Speaker 1: another thirty thirty another thirty Chris Tinfoil Hat shout out

2191
01:55:26,200 --> 01:55:29,960
Speaker 1: you for keeping the stream going. All right, but let's

2192
01:55:30,000 --> 01:55:33,600
Speaker 1: keep going. So I confess to him that I didn't

2193
01:55:33,600 --> 01:55:36,640
Speaker 1: feel comfortable either, and he was surprised because after all,

2194
01:55:37,160 --> 01:55:40,000
Speaker 1: I was smiling all the time, pretending that everything was fine,

2195
01:55:40,040 --> 01:55:43,040
Speaker 1: which is true. We talked a lot, and it was

2196
01:55:43,160 --> 01:55:46,240
Speaker 1: very apologetic for how he and he was very apologetic

2197
01:55:46,240 --> 01:55:48,840
Speaker 1: for how he behaved. Said he should have gone without

2198
01:55:48,840 --> 01:55:50,960
Speaker 1: the suit and should have shown me pictures of the

2199
01:55:51,000 --> 01:55:54,880
Speaker 1: place before we went. Honestly, I never showed him discomfort

2200
01:55:55,160 --> 01:55:57,640
Speaker 1: and I was always with a fake smile, so I

2201
01:55:57,720 --> 01:55:59,720
Speaker 1: understood that he thought I was having a good time.

2202
01:56:00,360 --> 01:56:04,400
Speaker 1: My boyfriend just kept apologizing deeply. He said he didn't

2203
01:56:04,480 --> 01:56:06,840
Speaker 1: really know how to react since it was the first

2204
01:56:06,880 --> 01:56:09,160
Speaker 1: time he had taken someone so important to an event,

2205
01:56:09,440 --> 01:56:12,480
Speaker 1: so he behaved that way. He apologized for not thinking

2206
01:56:12,520 --> 01:56:14,680
Speaker 1: about how I might have felt, and I apologize for

2207
01:56:14,720 --> 01:56:16,760
Speaker 1: not communicating my feelings too.

2208
01:56:16,840 --> 01:56:18,160
Speaker 3: Oh this good guy.

2209
01:56:18,480 --> 01:56:21,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, they seem like they're good this is great communication,

2210
01:56:22,000 --> 01:56:25,360
Speaker 1: it's great, this is solid. I received literally more than

2211
01:56:25,400 --> 01:56:28,200
Speaker 1: one hundred messages in comments telling me that my boyfriend

2212
01:56:28,240 --> 01:56:31,600
Speaker 1: is a pervert. I don't know much about the furry world,

2213
01:56:31,600 --> 01:56:33,600
Speaker 1: so I was disturbed when some people started to leave

2214
01:56:33,600 --> 01:56:36,920
Speaker 1: comments talking about things I didn't know about them. I

2215
01:56:36,960 --> 01:56:40,080
Speaker 1: had never distrusted him before. We share a PC, and

2216
01:56:40,160 --> 01:56:42,320
Speaker 1: I can use a cell phone whenever I want. But

2217
01:56:42,400 --> 01:56:45,160
Speaker 1: I am so stupid that it was so difficult for

2218
01:56:45,200 --> 01:56:47,240
Speaker 1: me not to get carried away by more than one

2219
01:56:47,320 --> 01:56:50,160
Speaker 1: hundred people telling me that I am dating. It degenerates.

2220
01:56:50,920 --> 01:56:53,640
Speaker 1: I asked him if he's doing I asked him if

2221
01:56:53,640 --> 01:56:57,440
Speaker 1: he doesn't really feel anything spexual by doing that. He

2222
01:56:57,640 --> 01:57:00,560
Speaker 1: never showed that, and from day one it clear to

2223
01:57:00,600 --> 01:57:02,800
Speaker 1: me that for him, it's just a character. He doesn't

2224
01:57:02,800 --> 01:57:05,120
Speaker 1: even behave like an animal when he's in character. He

2225
01:57:05,240 --> 01:57:08,640
Speaker 1: just wanted me to pat his head as a cute gesture.

2226
01:57:10,160 --> 01:57:13,240
Speaker 1: Well he oh wow.

2227
01:57:20,960 --> 01:57:21,320
Speaker 3: Wow.

2228
01:57:23,720 --> 01:57:28,000
Speaker 1: He was clearly upset that I didn't trust him, but

2229
01:57:28,120 --> 01:57:31,080
Speaker 1: he ended up giving me his cell phone so I

2230
01:57:31,080 --> 01:57:33,480
Speaker 1: could check whatever I wanted. It made me feel worse

2231
01:57:33,520 --> 01:57:36,080
Speaker 1: to see that his chat with his furry friends wasn't

2232
01:57:36,080 --> 01:57:38,960
Speaker 1: even too active. Since they had all had busy lives,

2233
01:57:39,360 --> 01:57:41,600
Speaker 1: but they said that I'm really cool and they liked me.

2234
01:57:41,920 --> 01:57:44,080
Speaker 1: The rest of the stuff was just about work and me.

2235
01:57:44,440 --> 01:57:47,480
Speaker 1: I really feel stupid for letting my head be filled

2236
01:57:47,480 --> 01:57:50,520
Speaker 1: with comments from sad strangers. But my boyfriend told me

2237
01:57:50,560 --> 01:57:53,040
Speaker 1: that he actually understands why I feel that way. It

2238
01:57:53,160 --> 01:57:55,200
Speaker 1: happened to him too in the past. He had a

2239
01:57:55,240 --> 01:57:58,440
Speaker 1: furry girlfriend, but she did have a fetish with that

2240
01:57:58,760 --> 01:58:01,560
Speaker 1: and it made him uncomfortable end of the relationship. That's

2241
01:58:01,600 --> 01:58:04,600
Speaker 1: why my boyfriend doesn't date furree women. He says that

2242
01:58:04,640 --> 01:58:10,040
Speaker 1: the vast majority are weird people who ruin the community.

2243
01:58:10,080 --> 01:58:12,840
Speaker 1: He doesn't see his character as his true self and

2244
01:58:12,880 --> 01:58:15,960
Speaker 1: he doesn't identify with those who do. For him, it's

2245
01:58:16,000 --> 01:58:19,280
Speaker 1: just a character like cosplaying like our Sophia said LARPing,

2246
01:58:20,520 --> 01:58:23,320
Speaker 1: although he doesn't like anime or anything like that, so

2247
01:58:23,360 --> 01:58:25,960
Speaker 1: he prefers furry because he can do the original character.

2248
01:58:26,480 --> 01:58:28,800
Speaker 1: I said I was really sorry for thinking like that

2249
01:58:28,880 --> 01:58:31,080
Speaker 1: about him and told him about the post. He doesn't

2250
01:58:31,080 --> 01:58:34,600
Speaker 1: talk English, so I translated to him for some things,

2251
01:58:34,720 --> 01:58:37,120
Speaker 1: except the people who left weird comments. I promised him

2252
01:58:37,360 --> 01:58:40,560
Speaker 1: to have better communication with him about everything, which is

2253
01:58:40,560 --> 01:58:43,640
Speaker 1: really good. I feel like this is what this is

2254
01:58:43,680 --> 01:58:45,520
Speaker 1: what great communication looks like.

2255
01:58:45,720 --> 01:58:48,200
Speaker 2: No, it seems like they're doing great.

2256
01:58:48,920 --> 01:58:52,280
Speaker 1: I never felt manipulated. He never pressured me into anything.

2257
01:58:52,360 --> 01:58:54,280
Speaker 1: I want to try to be part of his world.

2258
01:58:54,280 --> 01:58:56,000
Speaker 1: And no, I'm not a poor victim who fell in

2259
01:58:56,040 --> 01:58:59,960
Speaker 1: the clutches of a beast. Some people are really weird,

2260
01:59:00,160 --> 01:59:03,160
Speaker 1: trying to look for a villain every post. But someone

2261
01:59:03,200 --> 01:59:05,360
Speaker 1: even said to me my boyfriend was love bombing with

2262
01:59:05,400 --> 01:59:08,000
Speaker 1: pictures of the event to try to manipulate for God's sake,

2263
01:59:08,280 --> 01:59:11,520
Speaker 1: some making up new terms and touch and touch some

2264
01:59:11,640 --> 01:59:14,280
Speaker 1: grass I said that my boyfriend showed me pictures of

2265
01:59:14,320 --> 01:59:16,320
Speaker 1: the event because he was happy that I went with him,

2266
01:59:16,560 --> 01:59:19,640
Speaker 1: And all of a sudden, he's Charles Manson. Do these

2267
01:59:19,640 --> 01:59:22,880
Speaker 1: people have loved ones? It's too weird. I'd rather embrace

2268
01:59:22,920 --> 01:59:25,760
Speaker 1: the eccentric side of him rather than ruin a cute

2269
01:59:25,760 --> 01:59:29,000
Speaker 1: relationship just because I don't share his hobby. I really

2270
01:59:29,040 --> 01:59:31,160
Speaker 1: like going to raves and he doesn't. But there's nothing

2271
01:59:31,160 --> 01:59:33,960
Speaker 1: wrong with that. We will have separated hobbies. I want

2272
01:59:34,000 --> 01:59:36,200
Speaker 1: to make a good life with him, far away from

2273
01:59:36,240 --> 01:59:40,480
Speaker 1: furries and harnesses and edisw art. I learned my lesson

2274
01:59:40,760 --> 01:59:43,800
Speaker 1: of never posting again and these kinds of places. The

2275
01:59:43,880 --> 01:59:47,120
Speaker 1: last time I checked the post, one person got downvoted

2276
01:59:47,200 --> 01:59:50,400
Speaker 1: just because they said that we sound adorable.

2277
01:59:50,520 --> 01:59:53,960
Speaker 2: They do sound adorable, which the exactly the cute do?

2278
01:59:54,040 --> 01:59:56,560
Speaker 2: They sound like they have They've like talk it out

2279
01:59:56,640 --> 01:59:57,400
Speaker 2: and they're cool.

2280
01:59:57,680 --> 02:00:00,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess that's the vibe in this app thanks

2281
02:00:00,840 --> 02:00:02,800
Speaker 1: to the kind of people who gave good advice and

2282
02:00:02,880 --> 02:00:05,920
Speaker 1: were kind. Honestly, I stopped reading the post after a

2283
02:00:05,920 --> 02:00:08,200
Speaker 1: few comments. That's kind of read it for you read

2284
02:00:08,240 --> 02:00:13,680
Speaker 1: it just goes the throat by the private messages I received.

2285
02:00:13,720 --> 02:00:16,320
Speaker 1: I know people really want an update about me leaving

2286
02:00:16,360 --> 02:00:19,320
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, but no, I want to think. I want

2287
02:00:19,360 --> 02:00:22,360
Speaker 1: to think that actually made us stronger. I want to

2288
02:00:22,400 --> 02:00:25,720
Speaker 1: be a better girlfriend for him and gift him clothes

2289
02:00:25,720 --> 02:00:28,280
Speaker 1: for his character. Ps. I guess the it was just

2290
02:00:28,360 --> 02:00:31,240
Speaker 1: the shock I had because we slept together as usual.

2291
02:00:31,640 --> 02:00:33,800
Speaker 1: Why would I leave a hard working, kind man who

2292
02:00:33,840 --> 02:00:36,600
Speaker 1: loves me devoutly just because he has a hobby that

2293
02:00:36,640 --> 02:00:39,240
Speaker 1: I can't relate to. The blue fox is still mine

2294
02:00:39,520 --> 02:00:41,760
Speaker 1: and I love him even more.

2295
02:00:43,400 --> 02:00:45,600
Speaker 3: Cute, and that's where the story ends.

2296
02:00:45,760 --> 02:00:46,200
Speaker 2: Cute.

2297
02:00:46,480 --> 02:00:50,280
Speaker 1: It seems like they are better for having this relationship

2298
02:00:50,320 --> 02:00:52,600
Speaker 1: now Yeah.

2299
02:00:51,400 --> 02:00:54,360
Speaker 3: I love Yeah, that's super help like.

2300
02:00:54,400 --> 02:01:00,120
Speaker 1: Healthy and chronic. Kay, thanks for the ten bucks. M oh,

2301
02:01:00,560 --> 02:01:03,760
Speaker 1: you are always so entertaining. We need longer streams. Well

2302
02:01:04,480 --> 02:01:07,280
Speaker 1: we're getting another one, Stella Davis. Thanks for the three

2303
02:01:07,440 --> 02:01:10,800
Speaker 1: months of membership, Stelly Davis. Thank you to everyone who

2304
02:01:10,800 --> 02:01:13,480
Speaker 1: has allowed me to stay a little protein for going

2305
02:01:13,600 --> 02:01:16,280
Speaker 1: on four months. Y'all would be loud when I think

2306
02:01:16,360 --> 02:01:18,560
Speaker 1: I can't love y'all and chat.

2307
02:01:18,880 --> 02:01:21,560
Speaker 2: So oh yeah.

2308
02:01:21,240 --> 02:01:24,520
Speaker 1: Thanks Stella, we appreciate you. And with that, I think

2309
02:01:24,520 --> 02:01:28,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna go to the next story. Also shout out

2310
02:01:28,080 --> 02:01:30,680
Speaker 1: to the seven hundred of you that are in the stream.

2311
02:01:31,360 --> 02:01:34,440
Speaker 1: But then other people that have not.

2312
02:01:34,760 --> 02:01:35,360
Speaker 3: Liked the stream?

2313
02:01:36,360 --> 02:01:42,520
Speaker 1: Do you want to spit the wheel Jinks? Yeah? But

2314
02:01:43,040 --> 02:01:45,480
Speaker 1: do you want to read the story? This story? You

2315
02:01:45,720 --> 02:01:48,600
Speaker 1: start it while I.

2316
02:01:48,440 --> 02:01:50,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to wash my hands. They smell a

2317
02:01:50,240 --> 02:01:50,680
Speaker 2: little bit.

2318
02:01:50,560 --> 02:01:52,920
Speaker 1: Like did I read Baby Godzilla's mess? I did read it,

2319
02:01:52,920 --> 02:01:54,120
Speaker 1: but I don't know I read it out loud.

2320
02:01:54,480 --> 02:01:55,680
Speaker 3: You didn't read out loud.

2321
02:01:56,440 --> 02:02:00,360
Speaker 1: Baby Godzilla. Thanks for the five bucks. I'd smash Sam

2322
02:02:00,360 --> 02:02:04,520
Speaker 1: in a pigeon mask. There we go, you happy chat,

2323
02:02:04,840 --> 02:02:08,760
Speaker 1: you happy chat, smash your pass pigeon mask. Put it

2324
02:02:08,760 --> 02:02:11,840
Speaker 1: on the vote.

2325
02:02:13,080 --> 02:02:14,040
Speaker 3: We're done with that story.

2326
02:02:15,160 --> 02:02:16,120
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm trying to.

2327
02:02:21,040 --> 02:02:24,480
Speaker 3: Will you do five thirty one if you want? Oh

2328
02:02:27,560 --> 02:02:32,120
Speaker 3: mm hmm, do another package?

2329
02:02:32,680 --> 02:02:44,720
Speaker 2: Yeah? Hey, I needed a package. Amazing. All right, right,

2330
02:02:44,720 --> 02:02:48,120
Speaker 2: it is gonna get in it a package. I'm not

2331
02:02:48,160 --> 02:02:52,320
Speaker 2: gonna read your tip baby cans, but thank you for

2332
02:02:52,360 --> 02:02:55,760
Speaker 2: the five bucks. Appreciate it?

2333
02:02:56,840 --> 02:02:57,720
Speaker 3: Who do?

2334
02:02:59,720 --> 02:03:00,000
Speaker 2: All right?

2335
02:03:00,160 --> 02:03:00,280
Speaker 3: Right?

2336
02:03:00,560 --> 02:03:04,520
Speaker 2: All right, all right, okay, I want to bend.

2337
02:03:04,280 --> 02:03:05,200
Speaker 6: This pull up.

2338
02:03:05,240 --> 02:03:11,800
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, mash they take over the show. Hello,

2339
02:03:11,960 --> 02:03:13,840
Speaker 3: likes what I can't?

2340
02:03:14,120 --> 02:03:18,560
Speaker 2: That was not me? Eh damn true?

2341
02:03:19,280 --> 02:03:24,520
Speaker 3: Do it? Figure it out? Guy's got any Q and

2342
02:03:24,560 --> 02:03:25,280
Speaker 3: A questions?

2343
02:03:25,720 --> 02:03:25,880
Speaker 1: Yes?

2344
02:03:26,120 --> 02:03:29,800
Speaker 3: Everyone asked for like, uh Q and A questions? I

2345
02:03:29,800 --> 02:03:40,920
Speaker 3: don't know what what do you got there? Oh? I

2346
02:03:40,960 --> 02:03:43,600
Speaker 3: remember the first time my grandma learned all crafts.

2347
02:03:43,600 --> 02:03:45,440
Speaker 2: They're like for to put things on the wall.

2348
02:03:46,080 --> 02:03:47,000
Speaker 3: Noticly nice?

2349
02:03:47,080 --> 02:03:53,960
Speaker 2: Thank you, this is awesome. But al right we.

2350
02:03:57,240 --> 02:04:00,600
Speaker 4: A n.

2351
02:04:05,760 --> 02:04:08,000
Speaker 3: Oh wow, cute, it's nice.

2352
02:04:08,560 --> 02:04:09,320
Speaker 2: It's so cute.

2353
02:04:09,320 --> 02:04:14,440
Speaker 3: Put it up to your face. Oh I got pigeons,

2354
02:04:14,600 --> 02:04:17,240
Speaker 3: pitcheons on pigeons, pictures on pigeons.

2355
02:04:17,320 --> 02:04:19,960
Speaker 2: Everyone was like, there's somebody worms, same Meed's pigeons.

2356
02:04:20,040 --> 02:04:20,560
Speaker 3: That's right.

2357
02:04:21,320 --> 02:04:24,320
Speaker 2: So cute more pigeons.

2358
02:04:24,480 --> 02:04:30,240
Speaker 3: Wow, who's that from Lissandra Rivera? Oh wow, nice spin

2359
02:04:30,320 --> 02:04:32,640
Speaker 3: the willow. I don't have any new things on there.

2360
02:04:32,680 --> 02:04:37,280
Speaker 3: You guys just want ten minutes. I totally forgot to

2361
02:04:37,280 --> 02:04:39,080
Speaker 3: do the will today. I was doing what about what.

2362
02:04:39,040 --> 02:04:41,800
Speaker 2: About the stream memes? Oh?

2363
02:04:41,840 --> 02:04:43,760
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll do it real quick. I'll do it real quick.

2364
02:04:45,240 --> 02:04:47,960
Speaker 2: What are your favorite animals and why? I always say

2365
02:04:48,640 --> 02:04:51,400
Speaker 2: two can? Uh, But I don't know if I have,

2366
02:04:51,560 --> 02:04:54,800
Speaker 2: like a necessarily have like a specific favorite animal. I

2367
02:04:54,880 --> 02:04:59,320
Speaker 2: just like two cans because they were colorful. Someone asked

2368
02:04:59,320 --> 02:05:04,280
Speaker 2: my favorite poet, come on, I I don't. I don't

2369
02:05:04,280 --> 02:05:07,400
Speaker 2: know if I have a specific favorite Pokemon. I have

2370
02:05:07,560 --> 02:05:11,760
Speaker 2: watched a lot of like the old Pokemon shoes, but

2371
02:05:11,960 --> 02:05:16,560
Speaker 2: m hmmm, I like Cliff Fairy Fairy's fun. I like

2372
02:05:16,640 --> 02:05:26,440
Speaker 2: vulpis like Charmander. Current obsessed song, uh, says baby Godzilla. Hmmm.

2373
02:05:27,880 --> 02:05:30,000
Speaker 2: I mean I'm a big Chapel Roone fan, so I've

2374
02:05:30,000 --> 02:05:33,720
Speaker 2: been singing that NonStop. I've been a fan though everyone's

2375
02:05:33,800 --> 02:05:36,480
Speaker 2: hopping on board, which is great, but I've been a

2376
02:05:36,480 --> 02:05:44,160
Speaker 2: fan since like Pink Pony Club, I don't Yeah, that's

2377
02:05:44,200 --> 02:05:47,520
Speaker 2: all my Worm's queen fan. It's it is a worm.

2378
02:05:47,560 --> 02:05:50,320
Speaker 2: It is You're right, You're right. My my favorite animal

2379
02:05:50,400 --> 02:05:55,040
Speaker 2: is a worm. Charades Okay, let me think of a

2380
02:05:55,120 --> 02:06:01,760
Speaker 2: charade to do. Okay, it's too I couldn't think of one. Ready,

2381
02:06:03,120 --> 02:06:03,680
Speaker 2: let's do it.

2382
02:06:05,280 --> 02:06:07,360
Speaker 3: Spin that will.

2383
02:06:09,160 --> 02:06:13,040
Speaker 2: You didn't spin it? Whoo oh?

2384
02:06:13,120 --> 02:06:14,680
Speaker 3: Nothing? Blind for again?

2385
02:06:15,040 --> 02:06:23,160
Speaker 2: Jeopardy to Jeopardy, Yeah, Jeopardy, Jeopardy Lily Philly, Yeah, I

2386
02:06:23,200 --> 02:06:29,240
Speaker 2: believe in vaccines. Yes, favorite Rigisian character. I have to

2387
02:06:29,280 --> 02:06:37,840
Speaker 2: think about that. I really like, uh, your face, Kate,

2388
02:06:38,040 --> 02:06:42,720
Speaker 2: I really like Kate Sharma. All right. How many teeth

2389
02:06:42,800 --> 02:06:46,480
Speaker 2: do you have? The normal thirty two? How many normally

2390
02:06:47,480 --> 02:06:48,880
Speaker 2: favorite cartoons? I have a lot.

2391
02:06:48,960 --> 02:06:49,480
Speaker 3: I have a lot.

2392
02:06:49,600 --> 02:06:54,879
Speaker 2: I mean obviously Avatar The Last Airbender. Big fan of Arcane.

2393
02:06:54,920 --> 02:06:57,440
Speaker 2: Well that's not our cartoon. Uh, that's part of animated

2394
02:06:57,800 --> 02:07:06,040
Speaker 2: Joe love ra uh Riley's looking up Jeopardy questions.

2395
02:07:06,080 --> 02:07:10,280
Speaker 3: This is why I like Okop around okop?

2396
02:07:10,600 --> 02:07:15,400
Speaker 2: Interesting? What okay? We got she ra Avata The Last Airbender?

2397
02:07:16,520 --> 02:07:21,080
Speaker 2: My mama, what else do I watch? I can't think

2398
02:07:21,080 --> 02:07:24,640
Speaker 2: of any other cartoons. I watched so many and I

2399
02:07:24,640 --> 02:07:28,240
Speaker 2: can't think of one. Oh oh, what's it called? Keep?

2400
02:07:28,280 --> 02:07:28,400
Speaker 4: Oh?

2401
02:07:28,640 --> 02:07:35,040
Speaker 2: I love Keepo. That was great. That's all I can

2402
02:07:35,040 --> 02:07:38,480
Speaker 2: think about. I've seen it, I've seen Yeah, I've seen

2403
02:07:38,480 --> 02:07:41,360
Speaker 2: a bunch of anime. I really liked Erased.

2404
02:07:45,120 --> 02:07:45,560
Speaker 3: What else?

2405
02:07:45,760 --> 02:07:47,840
Speaker 2: A Race was one of my favorites. I think, Oh,

2406
02:07:47,880 --> 02:07:50,560
Speaker 2: I love I've talked about this briefly, but I really

2407
02:07:50,600 --> 02:07:55,120
Speaker 2: love the show. The anime Skip and Loafer so good,

2408
02:07:55,400 --> 02:07:58,200
Speaker 2: so good. Oh yes, shy little writer. I also love

2409
02:07:58,240 --> 02:07:58,920
Speaker 2: Hasban Hotel.

2410
02:07:59,680 --> 02:08:00,720
Speaker 3: That's true.

2411
02:08:01,880 --> 02:08:03,720
Speaker 2: How are you going on the me?

2412
02:08:03,880 --> 02:08:05,880
Speaker 3: Oh? I got it all right?

2413
02:08:06,840 --> 02:08:09,040
Speaker 2: Some time because okay, okay, because.

2414
02:08:10,640 --> 02:08:12,680
Speaker 3: You guys time, I'm gonna take a piss.

2415
02:08:13,000 --> 02:08:17,839
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we added time because commercial break is commercial

2416
02:08:17,840 --> 02:08:20,840
Speaker 2: break and I'm just gonna read your comments. Sheira like

2417
02:08:20,880 --> 02:08:23,080
Speaker 2: from the eighties when I was a kid or something different,

2418
02:08:23,120 --> 02:08:28,240
Speaker 2: asks Kristen foil Hot. They made a new Sheira like

2419
02:08:28,280 --> 02:08:30,760
Speaker 2: a a new one on Netflix that was very good.

2420
02:08:30,800 --> 02:08:34,280
Speaker 2: I highly recommend arcane Eran says Arcane two comes out

2421
02:08:34,280 --> 02:08:36,680
Speaker 2: this year. I just saw the Cheezer trailer. It looked

2422
02:08:36,720 --> 02:08:41,920
Speaker 2: so cool. I'm so excited. I love Arcane so much,

2423
02:08:42,640 --> 02:08:46,600
Speaker 2: so much, so much. Keep asking me questions because I

2424
02:08:46,640 --> 02:08:54,680
Speaker 2: can't think of anything. Um what else do I watch? Um?

2425
02:08:55,560 --> 02:08:58,160
Speaker 2: So let's say something, please, I can't think of anything.

2426
02:08:58,440 --> 02:09:03,000
Speaker 2: Let's talk about Sheira. I love Shira and I want more.

2427
02:09:03,000 --> 02:09:05,160
Speaker 2: I wish there was more of it. I wish they

2428
02:09:05,240 --> 02:09:08,600
Speaker 2: made a movie about it. Will okay? What you do

2429
02:09:08,680 --> 02:09:12,280
Speaker 2: show such tours? That is in our future? As Lily

2430
02:09:12,320 --> 02:09:16,280
Speaker 2: Pilly says, that is in our future, I believe, and

2431
02:09:17,040 --> 02:09:19,760
Speaker 2: Jasmine Raya says, Skip and Lover is excellent. St here

2432
02:09:19,880 --> 02:09:23,920
Speaker 2: anime manga. Oh true true, Oh I've love I do

2433
02:09:24,000 --> 02:09:25,280
Speaker 2: love Steven Universe as well.

2434
02:09:26,440 --> 02:09:29,360
Speaker 3: Uh Socrates, I want to ask you guys about this.

2435
02:09:29,560 --> 02:09:32,200
Speaker 3: So the problem with our streams is sometimes we need

2436
02:09:32,240 --> 02:09:34,800
Speaker 3: to eat and pee and like take care of usus.

2437
02:09:34,920 --> 02:09:36,480
Speaker 2: The problem is that we're like human.

2438
02:09:36,920 --> 02:09:41,360
Speaker 3: If we had fun commercial breaks where we like paused

2439
02:09:41,400 --> 02:09:44,600
Speaker 3: the timer but we still like did stuff for the

2440
02:09:44,640 --> 02:09:47,240
Speaker 3: commercial break, would you guys be down like we have

2441
02:09:47,280 --> 02:09:48,839
Speaker 3: funny bits or like fun.

2442
02:09:48,680 --> 02:09:53,000
Speaker 2: Commercial breaks, favorite potato based food mashed potatoes, die hard?

2443
02:09:53,400 --> 02:09:54,560
Speaker 3: What do you think, Sofia but my fun?

2444
02:09:55,320 --> 02:09:56,520
Speaker 2: You know, I think it's a great idea.

2445
02:09:56,520 --> 02:09:58,800
Speaker 3: Whether they even look like what do they look like? Yeah?

2446
02:09:58,960 --> 02:10:01,560
Speaker 3: I don't know, Like, oh, hey, fun we make fun

2447
02:10:01,680 --> 02:10:04,440
Speaker 3: like commercials for like the mugs or like how did

2448
02:10:04,440 --> 02:10:06,640
Speaker 3: you want a discord or like, you know.

2449
02:10:07,200 --> 02:10:09,680
Speaker 1: Have they not joined the discord? Some people have whoa

2450
02:10:10,080 --> 02:10:10,720
Speaker 1: that's crazy?

2451
02:10:10,920 --> 02:10:13,680
Speaker 3: Whoa? What it does? To like it? We could like

2452
02:10:13,720 --> 02:10:14,680
Speaker 3: have fun stuff like that.

2453
02:10:15,040 --> 02:10:17,280
Speaker 1: Do we do we even? Oh? Yeah, they want us

2454
02:10:17,320 --> 02:10:18,800
Speaker 1: to do a muck bang. You just want to eat

2455
02:10:18,800 --> 02:10:20,360
Speaker 1: out on stream.

2456
02:10:20,760 --> 02:10:21,960
Speaker 2: You always get mad when we do that.

2457
02:10:22,200 --> 02:10:23,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys get mad at us.

2458
02:10:23,320 --> 02:10:25,320
Speaker 1: What was the what was the thing? Oh?

2459
02:10:25,400 --> 02:10:27,040
Speaker 3: Jeopardy? You ready?

2460
02:10:26,400 --> 02:10:33,200
Speaker 2: Oh way? Oh?

2461
02:10:33,960 --> 02:10:37,640
Speaker 3: They like that, and we won't do do the sponsor

2462
02:10:37,760 --> 02:10:40,800
Speaker 3: of that one brand because we know free sponsors.

2463
02:10:40,400 --> 02:10:42,960
Speaker 1: No free sponsors. How does it work?

2464
02:10:44,200 --> 02:10:45,600
Speaker 3: I don't know? Do you?

2465
02:10:45,720 --> 02:10:48,520
Speaker 2: Shy little rider says do skits? Ask the discord to

2466
02:10:48,520 --> 02:10:49,960
Speaker 2: send you skit ideas. I would love that.

2467
02:10:50,360 --> 02:10:53,680
Speaker 3: I likes you put it on the wall. Oh I

2468
02:10:53,680 --> 02:10:56,200
Speaker 3: thought that was for your face? If you what?

2469
02:10:56,600 --> 02:11:00,600
Speaker 2: Oh the stickers? No no, no, But are we ready

2470
02:11:00,600 --> 02:11:02,320
Speaker 2: for Jeopardy?

2471
02:11:02,600 --> 02:11:05,160
Speaker 3: Yes? You guys are gonna love Jeopardy. I didn't do

2472
02:11:05,160 --> 02:11:08,440
Speaker 3: the whole Jeopardy thing, but it is Avatar the Last

2473
02:11:08,640 --> 02:11:12,720
Speaker 3: Airbender based Yes.

2474
02:11:11,480 --> 02:11:14,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, get laid on me. I'm so ready.

2475
02:11:14,880 --> 02:11:25,880
Speaker 3: Category all right, category lore and mythology this ancient no

2476
02:11:26,040 --> 02:11:30,640
Speaker 3: that that's uh all right, spirit world. This spirit is

2477
02:11:30,880 --> 02:11:37,880
Speaker 3: known as a character face Stiller, who is co one

2478
02:11:37,920 --> 02:11:38,520
Speaker 3: for Sophia.

2479
02:11:40,400 --> 02:11:45,080
Speaker 2: I just recently family ties she's his sister of Zuko.

2480
02:11:46,920 --> 02:11:54,120
Speaker 2: What right I said beat? At the same time, you

2481
02:11:54,120 --> 02:11:57,840
Speaker 2: got it wrong to do buzz? Are we saying buzz?

2482
02:11:58,160 --> 02:11:59,840
Speaker 3: You have to do buzz and then do the who

2483
02:11:59,880 --> 02:12:04,360
Speaker 3: is pay well?

2484
02:12:04,440 --> 02:12:05,080
Speaker 2: Stop Ladson?

2485
02:12:05,880 --> 02:12:10,440
Speaker 3: Okay? Okay? Uh. This city serves as the capital of

2486
02:12:10,480 --> 02:12:15,080
Speaker 3: the earth bossing. What is bussing for Sophia?

2487
02:12:15,200 --> 02:12:15,920
Speaker 2: Are you?

2488
02:12:16,120 --> 02:12:17,960
Speaker 3: I said? Played the game right?

2489
02:12:18,400 --> 02:12:20,320
Speaker 2: Also, Riley has to tell us who said it first?

2490
02:12:20,320 --> 02:12:21,880
Speaker 2: Because you just said it and I was waiting to

2491
02:12:21,920 --> 02:12:23,680
Speaker 2: find out who said who said buzz first?

2492
02:12:24,120 --> 02:12:25,680
Speaker 3: Oh, so I have to be like yeah, yeah, like

2493
02:12:25,840 --> 02:12:27,080
Speaker 3: put the camera on them and then it's like.

2494
02:12:27,160 --> 02:12:29,720
Speaker 2: A right, okay, well say it anyway.

2495
02:12:29,880 --> 02:12:31,040
Speaker 3: Let me ask for harder ones.

2496
02:12:31,600 --> 02:12:33,200
Speaker 2: These are easy. These are easy.

2497
02:12:33,600 --> 02:12:36,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask for Okay, okay, okay, here we go,

2498
02:12:36,760 --> 02:12:38,680
Speaker 3: Here we go, Here we go, Here we go. This

2499
02:12:38,840 --> 02:12:43,720
Speaker 3: ancient order consists of individuals the white lotus wrong.

2500
02:12:43,800 --> 02:12:44,200
Speaker 2: Damn it?

2501
02:12:44,400 --> 02:12:51,360
Speaker 3: Well, gotta do it right, all right? So three one?

2502
02:12:51,800 --> 02:12:56,960
Speaker 3: All right? Cool? Okay. This rare sub skill of earth.

2503
02:12:56,800 --> 02:12:59,440
Speaker 1: Bus metal betting.

2504
02:12:59,480 --> 02:12:59,960
Speaker 2: What is metal?

2505
02:13:01,360 --> 02:13:09,400
Speaker 3: For Sovio. Okay, so excited. This ability allows an earth

2506
02:13:09,440 --> 02:13:12,560
Speaker 3: Bender to sense vibrations.

2507
02:13:13,560 --> 02:13:14,840
Speaker 2: Vibrational.

2508
02:13:16,280 --> 02:13:21,160
Speaker 3: Bed It's like vibrations in the wrong and wrong.

2509
02:13:21,600 --> 02:13:22,640
Speaker 2: I don't know what it's called.

2510
02:13:23,960 --> 02:13:25,680
Speaker 1: Metal bedding. What is metal wedding?

2511
02:13:25,800 --> 02:13:30,720
Speaker 3: Wrong? What is the seismic sense? As earthy?

2512
02:13:32,160 --> 02:13:32,440
Speaker 1: Okay?

2513
02:13:33,080 --> 02:13:37,400
Speaker 3: This air nomadic tradition involves selecting children with the potential

2514
02:13:37,400 --> 02:13:40,280
Speaker 3: to become the avatar by placing toys before them that

2515
02:13:40,320 --> 02:13:45,640
Speaker 3: belong to previous avatars. I don't know what it's called.

2516
02:13:45,080 --> 02:13:49,040
Speaker 3: It's kind of a weird name. Okay. What is the

2517
02:13:49,080 --> 02:13:50,720
Speaker 3: test of selecting the avatar?

2518
02:13:55,600 --> 02:13:58,720
Speaker 2: What is the test called when you select the avatar?

2519
02:13:59,120 --> 02:14:07,360
Speaker 3: Okay? This object is a relic of avatar? Uh?

2520
02:14:07,160 --> 02:14:10,280
Speaker 2: Uh? Is it her shoes? What is her shoes?

2521
02:14:11,000 --> 02:14:11,360
Speaker 1: Okay?

2522
02:14:11,520 --> 02:14:11,880
Speaker 2: Buzz?

2523
02:14:12,400 --> 02:14:13,560
Speaker 1: What is her fan?

2524
02:14:15,040 --> 02:14:15,760
Speaker 3: Yes? Yeah?

2525
02:14:15,840 --> 02:14:19,080
Speaker 2: What is they also bring out her shoes to be fair?

2526
02:14:19,360 --> 02:14:25,520
Speaker 3: Okay? Uh? This plan or orchestra orchestrated by fire Lord.

2527
02:14:27,520 --> 02:14:27,840
Speaker 2: Buzz?

2528
02:14:28,120 --> 02:14:28,280
Speaker 3: Uh?

2529
02:14:28,880 --> 02:14:33,200
Speaker 2: So fire Lord O. I uses the comment what is

2530
02:14:33,360 --> 02:14:33,920
Speaker 2: the comment?

2531
02:14:34,680 --> 02:14:36,560
Speaker 3: What it is.

2532
02:14:39,480 --> 02:14:39,760
Speaker 2: Comment?

2533
02:14:39,840 --> 02:14:41,160
Speaker 1: No, it's not comment.

2534
02:14:41,600 --> 02:14:42,880
Speaker 3: Uh you mean you finished the question?

2535
02:14:43,120 --> 02:14:46,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, let me finish the question that I have.

2536
02:14:46,000 --> 02:14:50,720
Speaker 3: This this plan orchestrated by fire Lord O I aim

2537
02:14:50,800 --> 02:14:54,800
Speaker 3: to use the power of Chosen's comments to decimate the.

2538
02:14:54,520 --> 02:15:02,880
Speaker 1: Buzz Operation Black Sunk.

2539
02:15:00,920 --> 02:15:04,680
Speaker 3: To decimate the Earth Kingdom and establish fire Nations dominance.

2540
02:15:05,480 --> 02:15:06,200
Speaker 2: What was it called?

2541
02:15:06,520 --> 02:15:08,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't remember.

2542
02:15:08,640 --> 02:15:11,360
Speaker 3: Answer? What is the burning of the earth Kingdom?

2543
02:15:12,080 --> 02:15:15,120
Speaker 2: These are that's just like it's just like, what is

2544
02:15:15,120 --> 02:15:16,640
Speaker 2: it called?

2545
02:15:17,600 --> 02:15:17,920
Speaker 1: Kingdom?

2546
02:15:18,400 --> 02:15:22,600
Speaker 3: Last one? This character's traffic Jick Biox story involves losing

2547
02:15:22,680 --> 02:15:23,080
Speaker 3: his song.

2548
02:15:24,320 --> 02:15:27,520
Speaker 2: Uh, this is Iro? Who is Iro?

2549
02:15:27,800 --> 02:15:35,080
Speaker 3: Good job? Five one? That's jeopardy? I think what did

2550
02:15:35,080 --> 02:15:36,760
Speaker 3: you get? Did you get to give them?

2551
02:15:37,480 --> 02:15:37,600
Speaker 7: All?

2552
02:15:37,680 --> 02:15:37,800
Speaker 3: Right?

2553
02:15:39,440 --> 02:15:39,680
Speaker 7: Game?

2554
02:15:39,800 --> 02:15:44,480
Speaker 3: Good game? Let's read the story. Yes, also added ten

2555
02:15:44,480 --> 02:15:47,440
Speaker 3: minutes because we did a little commercial break for sure.

2556
02:15:47,480 --> 02:15:48,320
Speaker 1: What do you do? What do you mean?

2557
02:15:48,720 --> 02:15:52,960
Speaker 3: Like we just like we're reading comments and ye peing, I.

2558
02:15:52,880 --> 02:15:53,720
Speaker 2: Was trying to entertain.

2559
02:15:54,480 --> 02:15:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, job was doing a good job.

2560
02:15:58,520 --> 02:16:01,480
Speaker 2: Thank you. Let's get into though. Am I the a

2561
02:16:01,560 --> 02:16:03,840
Speaker 2: hole for getting into an argument with my husband on

2562
02:16:03,920 --> 02:16:07,960
Speaker 2: the day of his family reunion? And also the question

2563
02:16:08,160 --> 02:16:12,360
Speaker 2: of this story is U when what is the time

2564
02:16:12,720 --> 02:16:15,040
Speaker 2: and or place an argument.

2565
02:16:15,240 --> 02:16:18,200
Speaker 1: To have an argument? Have an argument right here, right now,

2566
02:16:18,600 --> 02:16:22,600
Speaker 1: right now? Fight me? You think you could read this story?

2567
02:16:24,080 --> 02:16:28,760
Speaker 2: So nervous? Ad eighty two sixty says, I'm a thirty

2568
02:16:28,760 --> 02:16:30,800
Speaker 2: five year old female married to a thirty eight year

2569
02:16:30,840 --> 02:16:33,320
Speaker 2: old man. We have been together for ten years and

2570
02:16:33,360 --> 02:16:37,840
Speaker 2: have two children, nine and five. My husband works very hard.

2571
02:16:37,879 --> 02:16:41,360
Speaker 2: He has multiple jobs. He works throughout the week. Recently

2572
02:16:41,400 --> 02:16:44,480
Speaker 2: we had a discussion about taking time off and spending

2573
02:16:44,520 --> 02:16:47,920
Speaker 2: some time together. It's difficult because of the things in

2574
02:16:48,040 --> 02:16:50,680
Speaker 2: his past. He accumulated a lot of debt, which is

2575
02:16:50,680 --> 02:16:53,720
Speaker 2: why he works so much. I work sixty plus hours

2576
02:16:53,760 --> 02:16:56,320
Speaker 2: a week and take care of the household and childcare things,

2577
02:16:56,680 --> 02:16:59,199
Speaker 2: while much of his income goes to paying his debts.

2578
02:16:59,360 --> 02:17:02,640
Speaker 2: That's hard. I keep up with the household. I do

2579
02:17:02,720 --> 02:17:05,840
Speaker 2: the housework and law and work repairs, et cetera. And

2580
02:17:05,920 --> 02:17:09,200
Speaker 2: he contributes when he can. Within this year, he has

2581
02:17:09,240 --> 02:17:12,400
Speaker 2: taken time off for family and coworker events, his scheduled

2582
02:17:12,440 --> 02:17:14,840
Speaker 2: time to take trips with his friends, and when he

2583
02:17:14,879 --> 02:17:17,680
Speaker 2: does so, I'm the designated babysitter.

2584
02:17:18,520 --> 02:17:21,160
Speaker 3: Okay, not great so far.

2585
02:17:22,000 --> 02:17:25,400
Speaker 2: So what we're learning is that this guy has a

2586
02:17:25,400 --> 02:17:27,760
Speaker 2: lot of debt, has a lot of debt, and he's

2587
02:17:27,879 --> 02:17:33,200
Speaker 2: taking off time for a coworker for just for fun

2588
02:17:33,440 --> 02:17:36,439
Speaker 2: and leaving his wife who's already who's.

2589
02:17:36,640 --> 02:17:40,400
Speaker 1: Paying sixt week to pay for their family get to

2590
02:17:40,400 --> 02:17:42,560
Speaker 1: take time off doesn't.

2591
02:17:42,280 --> 02:17:46,480
Speaker 2: Seem so many days after he gets home, he's responsible

2592
02:17:46,480 --> 02:17:49,680
Speaker 2: for his parents. He takes some grocery shopping, fixes their

2593
02:17:49,720 --> 02:17:52,879
Speaker 2: things and their household, and does some of their housework.

2594
02:17:53,400 --> 02:17:55,560
Speaker 2: I forgot to mention he is one of five and

2595
02:17:55,680 --> 02:17:59,040
Speaker 2: all four siblings live close to his parental home. His

2596
02:17:59,080 --> 02:18:01,400
Speaker 2: parents assistant healthcare for his siblings, but.

2597
02:18:01,560 --> 02:18:02,600
Speaker 3: Not for ours.

2598
02:18:03,840 --> 02:18:06,640
Speaker 2: I've told him my frustrations of being consistently placed on

2599
02:18:06,720 --> 02:18:09,760
Speaker 2: the back burner. The other day I lost it. I

2600
02:18:09,879 --> 02:18:12,360
Speaker 2: found out he invited his family to our house for

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02:18:12,440 --> 02:18:16,080
Speaker 2: a family reunion last week. I thought he took time

2602
02:18:16,160 --> 02:18:19,040
Speaker 2: off work, and he didn't. The house was a mess,

2603
02:18:19,280 --> 02:18:21,760
Speaker 2: and most of the mess was his. I was expected

2604
02:18:21,800 --> 02:18:24,760
Speaker 2: to clean the house, get the groceries, run the kids

2605
02:18:24,800 --> 02:18:27,080
Speaker 2: to their weekend events, as start cooking.

2606
02:18:27,120 --> 02:18:30,760
Speaker 1: Czy, that's crazy to organize the event and then.

2607
02:18:30,840 --> 02:18:33,600
Speaker 2: Not going to dump it all on your wife. Start

2608
02:18:33,680 --> 02:18:36,000
Speaker 2: cooking and get the reunion set up as he set

2609
02:18:36,040 --> 02:18:39,240
Speaker 2: the time for four pm, which is the time he

2610
02:18:39,400 --> 02:18:42,080
Speaker 2: gets out of work, so he's not even going to

2611
02:18:42,160 --> 02:18:45,360
Speaker 2: be there. The kids are helpful in doing their chores

2612
02:18:45,440 --> 02:18:47,760
Speaker 2: and cleaning the rooms. I got the house clean, and

2613
02:18:47,840 --> 02:18:50,600
Speaker 2: by the time his family started pouring in, I was

2614
02:18:50,720 --> 02:18:53,840
Speaker 2: stewing as he was at work. He asked me why

2615
02:18:53,920 --> 02:18:55,879
Speaker 2: there weren't any clean towels as he.

2616
02:18:55,959 --> 02:18:58,039
Speaker 1: Was going to take out there.

2617
02:18:59,280 --> 02:19:02,359
Speaker 3: Maybe you do it it, do it yourself.

2618
02:19:02,800 --> 02:19:06,640
Speaker 1: Felipe says, so she's married, she's so she's a very

2619
02:19:06,800 --> 02:19:07,560
Speaker 1: single mother.

2620
02:19:07,800 --> 02:19:13,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what a great phrase. Yeah, I freaked

2621
02:19:13,760 --> 02:19:17,280
Speaker 2: out in front of his whole family. I would be

2622
02:19:17,440 --> 02:19:22,200
Speaker 2: pretty pe o if my partner came back. I'd be like,

2623
02:19:22,440 --> 02:19:26,000
Speaker 2: I cleaned up everything. He's like, He's like, actually, while

2624
02:19:26,040 --> 02:19:29,080
Speaker 2: I'm actively hosting too, because she's actively hosting. When he

2625
02:19:29,120 --> 02:19:32,160
Speaker 2: gets back, he's like, there's no clean jowls.

2626
02:19:33,680 --> 02:19:38,160
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Five six sevences Fight Fight, Fight, Wait oh yeah,

2627
02:19:38,160 --> 02:19:40,400
Speaker 1: because this is the fighting episode. So do you think

2628
02:19:40,440 --> 02:19:43,440
Speaker 1: she's going to fight in the middle of the family reunion?

2629
02:19:43,600 --> 02:19:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, beat him up.

2630
02:19:46,080 --> 02:19:48,440
Speaker 1: I actually I don't. I don't think like, I don't

2631
02:19:48,520 --> 02:19:50,640
Speaker 1: like the idea of fighting, even if if it's deserved.

2632
02:19:50,640 --> 02:19:53,240
Speaker 1: I feel like fighting in front of people is Yeah.

2633
02:19:53,240 --> 02:19:54,520
Speaker 2: I don't like fighting people.

2634
02:19:54,320 --> 02:19:57,680
Speaker 1: Because then because then you're subjecting everyone else to your Yeah.

2635
02:19:57,520 --> 02:20:00,440
Speaker 2: It's a little uncomfy. I understand. In this case, that

2636
02:20:00,600 --> 02:20:03,519
Speaker 2: she seems to be incredibly frustrated.

2637
02:20:05,040 --> 02:20:06,040
Speaker 1: He deserves baker.

2638
02:20:06,280 --> 02:20:08,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, maybe maybe you take him into.

2639
02:20:08,400 --> 02:20:10,480
Speaker 1: The back, and yeah, take him in the back back.

2640
02:20:10,520 --> 02:20:13,600
Speaker 2: Take it outside. I ran down the list of how

2641
02:20:13,760 --> 02:20:16,680
Speaker 2: I am always on the back burner for these people,

2642
02:20:16,959 --> 02:20:19,760
Speaker 2: how I am one person and I'm the contributing I'm

2643
02:20:19,760 --> 02:20:22,720
Speaker 2: the one contributing to the household while he works just

2644
02:20:22,800 --> 02:20:25,160
Speaker 2: to pay off his debts. How I have no security

2645
02:20:25,320 --> 02:20:27,520
Speaker 2: or support in this relationship, and that he is like

2646
02:20:27,640 --> 02:20:30,560
Speaker 2: having another child, and that all I feel like I'm

2647
02:20:30,600 --> 02:20:33,840
Speaker 2: worth is an occasional f whenever he is in the mood.

2648
02:20:34,200 --> 02:20:35,879
Speaker 2: I let it all out.

2649
02:20:36,720 --> 02:20:38,000
Speaker 1: I ended with front of everyone.

2650
02:20:38,080 --> 02:20:40,920
Speaker 2: In front of everyone, I ended with I'm done.

2651
02:20:41,000 --> 02:20:41,240
Speaker 4: WHOA.

2652
02:20:42,040 --> 02:20:44,000
Speaker 2: I packed bag and I took off.

2653
02:20:44,480 --> 02:20:44,800
Speaker 6: WHOA.

2654
02:20:46,080 --> 02:20:48,800
Speaker 2: I'm sat in a parking lot, hysterical and know the

2655
02:20:48,920 --> 02:20:52,840
Speaker 2: kids weren't present, they were outside playing. WHOA is a

2656
02:20:52,879 --> 02:20:55,280
Speaker 2: good father to the kids, but as a husband, I

2657
02:20:55,400 --> 02:20:58,680
Speaker 2: feel like I am better off by myself. I have

2658
02:20:58,879 --> 02:21:02,000
Speaker 2: so much resentment towards him, and know he hasn't called.

2659
02:21:02,280 --> 02:21:05,360
Speaker 2: He texted me loud and texted me loud and clear,

2660
02:21:06,080 --> 02:21:09,240
Speaker 2: which made me even more angry because this is exactly

2661
02:21:09,360 --> 02:21:12,440
Speaker 2: how he deals with everything. I'm now feeling like an

2662
02:21:12,480 --> 02:21:14,560
Speaker 2: a hole for going off and saying all I did,

2663
02:21:14,800 --> 02:21:18,480
Speaker 2: especially in front of his family, Am I the A hole?

2664
02:21:18,879 --> 02:21:23,720
Speaker 2: And there are similar little comments. I mean.

2665
02:21:26,160 --> 02:21:27,560
Speaker 1: Those were some fighting words.

2666
02:21:27,720 --> 02:21:32,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was yeah, to be fair, I mean, honestly,

2667
02:21:32,959 --> 02:21:36,760
Speaker 2: she seems like she just like like couldn't handle it. Yeah,

2668
02:21:36,879 --> 02:21:40,440
Speaker 2: like it was so much and she's like, yeah, it

2669
02:21:40,520 --> 02:21:43,960
Speaker 2: seemed like she wanted to just leave. She's like, I'm

2670
02:21:44,000 --> 02:21:45,400
Speaker 2: out of this relationship.

2671
02:21:46,240 --> 02:21:50,320
Speaker 1: And hey, and that I d sure you can't get

2672
02:21:50,400 --> 02:21:52,280
Speaker 1: back into it. That's what way to do it. Yeah,

2673
02:21:52,320 --> 02:21:57,760
Speaker 1: I'd bean like, is she the A hole? I don't

2674
02:21:57,840 --> 02:22:00,360
Speaker 1: think it's ever a good idea.

2675
02:22:00,440 --> 02:22:02,920
Speaker 2: I have a good idea to have public arguments.

2676
02:22:03,000 --> 02:22:05,120
Speaker 1: We have public arguments. You're kind of you're the a

2677
02:22:05,280 --> 02:22:09,680
Speaker 1: hole to everyone who has to uncomfortably listen and watch. Yeah,

2678
02:22:10,640 --> 02:22:13,520
Speaker 1: is she the a hole for communicating that? I feel

2679
02:22:13,560 --> 02:22:19,480
Speaker 1: like it is important to communicate it, But I don't know.

2680
02:22:20,200 --> 02:22:22,800
Speaker 2: She just seemed like she like, yeah, Shila Rder says

2681
02:22:22,800 --> 02:22:25,080
Speaker 2: she hit her breaking point. I feel like that's the thing.

2682
02:22:25,600 --> 02:22:28,080
Speaker 2: She just like, don't have arguments in front of people,

2683
02:22:28,200 --> 02:22:32,320
Speaker 2: But like sometimes you're like someone's like.

2684
02:22:33,160 --> 02:22:35,959
Speaker 1: I think everyone's the ahole. I think I think both.

2685
02:22:36,040 --> 02:22:38,000
Speaker 1: I think she's the a hole and I think he's

2686
02:22:38,040 --> 02:22:40,920
Speaker 1: the a whole. I understand why she broke and he

2687
02:22:41,160 --> 02:22:44,480
Speaker 1: needed to hear this, but I just think the you

2688
02:22:44,600 --> 02:22:46,640
Speaker 1: just think, don't have arguments in front of people. Yeah,

2689
02:22:46,680 --> 02:22:49,040
Speaker 1: I feel like it's it's it's a bad move. And

2690
02:22:49,200 --> 02:22:51,040
Speaker 1: like I also I'm not a big fan of like

2691
02:22:51,160 --> 02:22:56,680
Speaker 1: yelling at people either. Ever. Yeah, but that needed to

2692
02:22:56,720 --> 02:23:02,360
Speaker 1: be communicated. I'm not mad about the communication and even

2693
02:23:02,440 --> 02:23:06,520
Speaker 1: communicating like aggressively too. Like, I think it communicates how

2694
02:23:06,600 --> 02:23:10,959
Speaker 1: much pent up anger she has. But I don't think

2695
02:23:11,120 --> 02:23:15,199
Speaker 1: yelling in front of all the family is a move. Yes,

2696
02:23:15,600 --> 02:23:17,600
Speaker 1: she was under a lot of pressure and he was

2697
02:23:17,680 --> 02:23:22,760
Speaker 1: a terrible person for not helping, But I think for

2698
02:23:23,000 --> 02:23:24,800
Speaker 1: that reason, I think everyone's the a hole here.

2699
02:23:26,640 --> 02:23:28,960
Speaker 2: Mad Hatter Girl says fifty thank you for the fifty bucks,

2700
02:23:29,879 --> 02:23:32,960
Speaker 2: and mad Hatter Girl says, this actually happened to me

2701
02:23:33,040 --> 02:23:36,440
Speaker 2: as well. After my mom passed away, took over everything,

2702
02:23:36,520 --> 02:23:40,000
Speaker 2: including the house chores. One day, my father asked why

2703
02:23:40,040 --> 02:23:42,400
Speaker 2: there wasn't any food, and I snapped, If you do

2704
02:23:42,520 --> 02:23:44,959
Speaker 2: not want people snapping at you, help whenever you can.

2705
02:23:45,600 --> 02:23:48,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I just but I don't, I don't, I

2706
02:23:48,240 --> 02:23:51,440
Speaker 3: don't think like like, I don't know.

2707
02:23:51,520 --> 02:23:53,240
Speaker 2: I don't know if I think she's the A hole

2708
02:23:53,600 --> 02:23:57,640
Speaker 2: just because just because it was like a like a

2709
02:23:58,440 --> 02:24:02,640
Speaker 2: kind of just I mean, everyone said, like she snapped,

2710
02:24:03,760 --> 02:24:06,119
Speaker 2: but I don't think it was good good idea.

2711
02:24:06,520 --> 02:24:08,160
Speaker 1: But I don't think I think we can.

2712
02:24:08,320 --> 02:24:09,280
Speaker 2: I don't think you should do that.

2713
02:24:09,520 --> 02:24:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't think you should. I think you I think

2714
02:24:11,080 --> 02:24:13,200
Speaker 1: it is an a whole thing. I think it's a move.

2715
02:24:13,440 --> 02:24:16,960
Speaker 1: I don't think she's frond of other people. I think

2716
02:24:17,120 --> 02:24:23,680
Speaker 1: like snapping is is one thing. Yeah, but like I mean,

2717
02:24:23,800 --> 02:24:27,480
Speaker 1: like I like also, I think if it.

2718
02:24:27,640 --> 02:24:29,320
Speaker 2: Was I'm back.

2719
02:24:30,040 --> 02:24:32,760
Speaker 1: I think the kids did not over here. They were outside, Yeah,

2720
02:24:32,959 --> 02:24:35,400
Speaker 1: which I mean is is better. But I still think

2721
02:24:35,640 --> 02:24:36,920
Speaker 1: it's Honestly.

2722
02:24:36,879 --> 02:24:38,640
Speaker 2: Now, she might have been wrong with the yelling, but

2723
02:24:38,720 --> 02:24:40,320
Speaker 2: she's not the A hole. She's just someone in her

2724
02:24:40,360 --> 02:24:42,480
Speaker 2: breaking point and there were no krids present. I think

2725
02:24:42,520 --> 02:24:44,360
Speaker 2: that's where I am. I think she's in the wrong

2726
02:24:45,200 --> 02:24:47,400
Speaker 2: for yelling. I don't think she's the A hole.

2727
02:24:47,800 --> 02:24:50,280
Speaker 1: That we're just using a hole to tell people when

2728
02:24:50,320 --> 02:24:50,760
Speaker 1: they're wrong.

2729
02:24:51,120 --> 02:24:54,920
Speaker 2: That's true, this is true. I don't know, but like

2730
02:24:54,959 --> 02:24:57,040
Speaker 2: I want to distinguish between the guys.

2731
02:24:57,480 --> 02:25:02,160
Speaker 3: Yes, to be clear, Yeah, guy, a holeary higher than

2732
02:25:02,640 --> 02:25:03,160
Speaker 3: than O P.

2733
02:25:03,920 --> 02:25:05,320
Speaker 2: And there're a holes for different reasons.

2734
02:25:05,360 --> 02:25:07,560
Speaker 3: They're a holes for completely different reasons.

2735
02:25:07,879 --> 02:25:10,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, but just for like, she's not wrong at all,

2736
02:25:11,000 --> 02:25:14,520
Speaker 2: just for publicly she's wrong for publicly doing like yelling,

2737
02:25:14,600 --> 02:25:16,800
Speaker 2: yelling because I think I think that's never good.

2738
02:25:16,879 --> 02:25:19,360
Speaker 1: I don't think it's it is it's Yeah, I don't

2739
02:25:19,360 --> 02:25:22,480
Speaker 1: think it ever has been good. Belle Conkling says Sam.

2740
02:25:22,600 --> 02:25:25,800
Speaker 1: Have you ever been pushed after already being submissive and

2741
02:25:26,000 --> 02:25:31,040
Speaker 1: understanding forever? I mean I haven't been enough like a

2742
02:25:31,080 --> 02:25:34,520
Speaker 1: relationship like that. Yeah, yeah so far.

2743
02:25:34,879 --> 02:25:36,840
Speaker 3: Well maybe just.

2744
02:25:38,360 --> 02:25:40,720
Speaker 2: I think she was justified in saying what she said.

2745
02:25:41,080 --> 02:25:46,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, maybe just justified, justified Cassanda justified evil. I

2746
02:25:46,080 --> 02:25:49,760
Speaker 1: think that's that's the the one. But like like if

2747
02:25:50,360 --> 02:25:52,880
Speaker 1: let's say something, let's say someone was like pushing me

2748
02:25:52,959 --> 02:25:55,280
Speaker 1: to the bring. Let's say like someone was like, you know,

2749
02:25:55,360 --> 02:25:57,520
Speaker 1: being super annoying for a really long time.

2750
02:25:57,400 --> 02:26:00,920
Speaker 3: And I say, shut the f up, right, Yeah, still

2751
02:26:00,920 --> 02:26:01,879
Speaker 3: a yeah.

2752
02:26:01,879 --> 02:26:06,280
Speaker 1: Like even if they are being like completely a whole

2753
02:26:06,600 --> 02:26:09,920
Speaker 1: an a hole too, as soon as I start like,

2754
02:26:10,000 --> 02:26:12,720
Speaker 1: as soon as I break, then I become I stoop

2755
02:26:12,760 --> 02:26:15,040
Speaker 1: to their level, I become the a hole. Yeah, so

2756
02:26:15,280 --> 02:26:19,120
Speaker 1: I think like justified a hole. I understand why someone

2757
02:26:19,160 --> 02:26:22,560
Speaker 1: would break under that kind of of pressure, but still

2758
02:26:22,600 --> 02:26:23,480
Speaker 1: a hole nonetheless.

2759
02:26:23,720 --> 02:26:27,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, well there's a little bit more to the story,

2760
02:26:30,720 --> 02:26:34,760
Speaker 2: comments Vegetable Business says, So tell him to move in

2761
02:26:34,879 --> 02:26:37,280
Speaker 2: with his parents while he pays off his debt. That

2762
02:26:37,480 --> 02:26:39,880
Speaker 2: way he can care for them, hang with his friends,

2763
02:26:40,400 --> 02:26:42,680
Speaker 2: take the take the kids on the weekends, and do

2764
02:26:42,800 --> 02:26:45,680
Speaker 2: whatever he wants to do with no consideration for you.

2765
02:26:46,520 --> 02:26:49,840
Speaker 2: Then you can enjoy your home, children and weekends to relax,

2766
02:26:49,920 --> 02:26:53,240
Speaker 2: all with and one less giant child to take care of.

2767
02:26:54,200 --> 02:26:55,960
Speaker 2: And then when his debts are paid, you two can

2768
02:26:56,040 --> 02:26:58,080
Speaker 2: sit down and decide if the best course of action

2769
02:26:58,280 --> 02:27:03,440
Speaker 2: is separated lives. Not the a hole I put says seriously,

2770
02:27:03,560 --> 02:27:05,640
Speaker 2: his parents have been fine with exploring you, so they

2771
02:27:05,680 --> 02:27:08,160
Speaker 2: can benefit from the fruit of sunny Boy's life. They

2772
02:27:08,200 --> 02:27:09,800
Speaker 2: can have their defective sonbag.

2773
02:27:10,440 --> 02:27:12,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I still think he's an a hole. I just

2774
02:27:12,760 --> 02:27:14,560
Speaker 1: I just don't. I just I just don't think it's

2775
02:27:14,600 --> 02:27:17,640
Speaker 1: ever right to publicly to publicly yell. I don't think

2776
02:27:17,640 --> 02:27:19,080
Speaker 1: it's right to yell in front of other people.

2777
02:27:19,280 --> 02:27:22,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair, And there is an update. After the

2778
02:27:22,760 --> 02:27:25,480
Speaker 2: loud and clear text, I was bombarded with phone calls

2779
02:27:25,520 --> 02:27:28,280
Speaker 2: and texts from his family. I sent a message to

2780
02:27:28,400 --> 02:27:30,280
Speaker 2: my husband to give me some space and if he

2781
02:27:30,360 --> 02:27:33,160
Speaker 2: had any care for me and this relationship.

2782
02:27:32,879 --> 02:27:34,680
Speaker 3: To call off his dogs.

2783
02:27:35,240 --> 02:27:36,960
Speaker 2: I put up my phone on do not disturb. With

2784
02:27:37,040 --> 02:27:40,760
Speaker 2: the exception of my children's iPad, I had called my mother,

2785
02:27:40,959 --> 02:27:42,840
Speaker 2: sent her some money, and she picked them up for

2786
02:27:42,920 --> 02:27:46,680
Speaker 2: a special grandma date sleepover. That's cute. Once they were there,

2787
02:27:46,800 --> 02:27:49,680
Speaker 2: I facetimed them and told them I was working. I'm

2788
02:27:49,720 --> 02:27:53,280
Speaker 2: not working. I had a secret rainy day fund and

2789
02:27:53,480 --> 02:27:56,959
Speaker 2: splurged on a nice hotel and the spa day, had

2790
02:27:57,000 --> 02:27:59,680
Speaker 2: a few drinks, pried my eyes out some more, and

2791
02:27:59,840 --> 02:28:02,800
Speaker 2: just spent the day unplugged and journaled all my feelings.

2792
02:28:03,440 --> 02:28:07,560
Speaker 2: Honestly kind of w for that, for like not telling

2793
02:28:07,600 --> 02:28:09,680
Speaker 2: your kids you need moment away from them, just being

2794
02:28:09,760 --> 02:28:13,360
Speaker 2: like and then like not involving them in your own.

2795
02:28:13,360 --> 02:28:16,240
Speaker 1: Kind of things that I feel like, you know what,

2796
02:28:16,360 --> 02:28:17,600
Speaker 1: you don't want to have your kids?

2797
02:28:17,879 --> 02:28:19,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, the kids don't need to be involved

2798
02:28:19,520 --> 02:28:25,200
Speaker 2: in that. I think that, Yeah, who ba where was I.

2799
02:28:27,280 --> 02:28:29,480
Speaker 2: I haven't had time to do any of that in

2800
02:28:29,600 --> 02:28:32,840
Speaker 2: a very long time. After that, I mustered up the

2801
02:28:32,920 --> 02:28:35,800
Speaker 2: courage to open read it and read my fate, And wow,

2802
02:28:36,520 --> 02:28:39,800
Speaker 2: was I surprised. I was fully expecting a ton of

2803
02:28:39,920 --> 02:28:42,920
Speaker 2: you are the A hole comments? To clear up a

2804
02:28:42,959 --> 02:28:45,240
Speaker 2: few things. I shamefully do not know the lengths of

2805
02:28:45,320 --> 02:28:47,840
Speaker 2: his debts. Much of it was from his parents putting

2806
02:28:47,879 --> 02:28:48,720
Speaker 2: bills in his name.

2807
02:28:48,959 --> 02:28:49,920
Speaker 1: Wow, that sucks.

2808
02:28:50,120 --> 02:28:50,879
Speaker 3: That sucks.

2809
02:28:51,680 --> 02:28:54,520
Speaker 2: Others is just mismanagement of money, credit cards, et cetera.

2810
02:28:54,600 --> 02:28:56,600
Speaker 2: It seems like nobody in that family really knows how

2811
02:28:56,640 --> 02:28:57,400
Speaker 2: to manage their money.

2812
02:28:57,959 --> 02:28:59,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, seems seems fairly dysfunction.

2813
02:29:00,240 --> 02:29:04,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, in the husband's I mean I took over the

2814
02:29:04,120 --> 02:29:06,560
Speaker 2: finances after I found a letter in the mail saying

2815
02:29:06,600 --> 02:29:08,480
Speaker 2: that we were going to lose the house.

2816
02:29:08,920 --> 02:29:13,440
Speaker 1: Oh oh it sucks. Wow that sucks.

2817
02:29:13,560 --> 02:29:17,039
Speaker 2: I would have gotten rid of this man so much, sooner.

2818
02:29:17,240 --> 02:29:20,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, because if you divorce, you get half of his debts. Yeah,

2819
02:29:20,920 --> 02:29:25,320
Speaker 1: oh really, you get half of all I believe you

2820
02:29:25,440 --> 02:29:27,480
Speaker 1: get half of all assets and half of all debts.

2821
02:29:27,879 --> 02:29:34,280
Speaker 1: See right, Riley, that sucks. He sucks so much, looks

2822
02:29:34,360 --> 02:29:34,840
Speaker 1: so much.

2823
02:29:36,080 --> 02:29:38,160
Speaker 2: I was contributing to the household bills at the time,

2824
02:29:38,240 --> 02:29:41,039
Speaker 2: and he was doing the finances. I trust that things

2825
02:29:41,200 --> 02:29:44,840
Speaker 2: were well. This was after marriage and after kids. We

2826
02:29:44,920 --> 02:29:47,000
Speaker 2: went to counseling because of it, and he said he

2827
02:29:47,160 --> 02:29:50,360
Speaker 2: was ashamed and afraid to tell me the truth. I

2828
02:29:50,480 --> 02:29:52,960
Speaker 2: took over about three years ago and told him to

2829
02:29:53,000 --> 02:29:55,800
Speaker 2: focus on clearing his debt and I'd hold the household

2830
02:29:55,879 --> 02:29:58,240
Speaker 2: down while he did. I did not expect it to

2831
02:29:58,320 --> 02:30:00,840
Speaker 2: take this long, and with inflation, everything has just become

2832
02:30:00,920 --> 02:30:04,560
Speaker 2: more expensive and that much harder for me. I was

2833
02:30:04,600 --> 02:30:06,480
Speaker 2: supposed to go back to school and that was put

2834
02:30:06,520 --> 02:30:08,360
Speaker 2: on hold so I could catch up on what we

2835
02:30:08,480 --> 02:30:12,400
Speaker 2: were behind on. Hence the working sixty plus hours. I'm

2836
02:30:12,400 --> 02:30:15,440
Speaker 2: a nurse and I work twelve hours shifts and capitalize

2837
02:30:15,440 --> 02:30:18,360
Speaker 2: on overtime when I can. I agree with the comments

2838
02:30:18,400 --> 02:30:22,840
Speaker 2: saying I'm burnout, burnt out. I realize this today. I

2839
02:30:22,959 --> 02:30:25,840
Speaker 2: realized at work or at home, I'm constantly in critical thinking,

2840
02:30:26,000 --> 02:30:29,400
Speaker 2: caregiver mode. My job is to care and problem solve

2841
02:30:29,480 --> 02:30:33,040
Speaker 2: for everyone but myself. To clear up the comment of

2842
02:30:33,080 --> 02:30:35,400
Speaker 2: his family doesn't watch our kids is because they did

2843
02:30:35,480 --> 02:30:37,880
Speaker 2: so one time and threw it in our faces, and

2844
02:30:37,959 --> 02:30:41,320
Speaker 2: I said, never again. I see how they use him.

2845
02:30:41,480 --> 02:30:44,320
Speaker 2: I have said something before and he returns with one

2846
02:30:44,400 --> 02:30:46,280
Speaker 2: day they won't be here, and I'll wish I could

2847
02:30:46,280 --> 02:30:48,960
Speaker 2: have done more. I told them that's fine, but you

2848
02:30:49,080 --> 02:30:52,040
Speaker 2: have siblings that are equally responsible, some that don't have

2849
02:30:52,160 --> 02:30:55,800
Speaker 2: spouses or kids that can contribute as far as the

2850
02:30:55,879 --> 02:30:58,440
Speaker 2: house and things go. He does really help me when

2851
02:30:58,440 --> 02:30:59,960
Speaker 2: he can. Don't jump on me. I just want to

2852
02:31:00,120 --> 02:31:02,840
Speaker 2: be truthful. I think it came across that he comes

2853
02:31:02,879 --> 02:31:05,959
Speaker 2: home and does nothing. He just works up to sixteen hours,

2854
02:31:06,200 --> 02:31:08,520
Speaker 2: seven days a week, so a lot of times it's

2855
02:31:08,560 --> 02:31:11,000
Speaker 2: me doing the majority of it. As far as the

2856
02:31:11,080 --> 02:31:14,480
Speaker 2: trips go, yeah, that's a sore spot, he tells me

2857
02:31:14,520 --> 02:31:17,280
Speaker 2: about them. He takes the day off. It pisses me off.

2858
02:31:18,040 --> 02:31:20,800
Speaker 2: I have to beg for time, and if and when

2859
02:31:20,879 --> 02:31:22,680
Speaker 2: we do get it, we end up in a fight,

2860
02:31:22,920 --> 02:31:24,880
Speaker 2: or I have to plan everything, or we can't get

2861
02:31:24,920 --> 02:31:28,320
Speaker 2: sitters and sit home and he sleeps all day. And

2862
02:31:28,400 --> 02:31:31,320
Speaker 2: to be honest, I'm so full of resentment that it's

2863
02:31:31,320 --> 02:31:34,360
Speaker 2: almost too little, too late. Like when I'm around him,

2864
02:31:34,440 --> 02:31:36,880
Speaker 2: I'm just so pissed off. He says, I always have

2865
02:31:36,920 --> 02:31:39,280
Speaker 2: an attitude and that he's trying, but nothing is ever

2866
02:31:39,360 --> 02:31:43,160
Speaker 2: good enough, so I just stopped and accepted my fate.

2867
02:31:43,480 --> 02:31:47,080
Speaker 2: Hence the blow up. I haven't spoken to him yet

2868
02:31:47,160 --> 02:31:49,480
Speaker 2: besides telling him to call off his family. He was

2869
02:31:49,520 --> 02:31:51,160
Speaker 2: part of the D and D on my phone. Do

2870
02:31:51,320 --> 02:31:54,880
Speaker 2: not disturb. I'm enjoying the piece. I'm enjoying being myself

2871
02:31:55,600 --> 02:31:59,400
Speaker 2: by myself and just being present and aware of my feelings.

2872
02:32:00,080 --> 02:32:02,800
Speaker 2: Knowing my kids are safe and I can truly take

2873
02:32:02,840 --> 02:32:05,120
Speaker 2: some time for myself and my mental health right now

2874
02:32:05,480 --> 02:32:08,360
Speaker 2: is everything I know. Tomorrow I have to go back

2875
02:32:08,400 --> 02:32:11,959
Speaker 2: to reality and deal with everything. I promise to update

2876
02:32:12,040 --> 02:32:14,520
Speaker 2: when I can. I'm sorry to leave y'all hang and

2877
02:32:14,800 --> 02:32:17,160
Speaker 2: if this isn't the update you hope for, I just

2878
02:32:17,280 --> 02:32:19,920
Speaker 2: want to enjoy this escape a little while longer while

2879
02:32:19,959 --> 02:32:23,720
Speaker 2: I can before my world implodes. Thank you all, and

2880
02:32:23,760 --> 02:32:24,880
Speaker 2: please keep the advice coming.

2881
02:32:25,959 --> 02:32:27,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, there are some comments.

2882
02:32:27,120 --> 02:32:32,800
Speaker 1: That is so rough. That's so rough. It feels like

2883
02:32:32,920 --> 02:32:36,320
Speaker 1: a like this feels if you can't change the relationship.

2884
02:32:36,480 --> 02:32:38,400
Speaker 1: It feels like a divorced. It feels like a divorce

2885
02:32:38,640 --> 02:32:42,360
Speaker 1: like it feels like he's not respecting you. It just

2886
02:32:42,480 --> 02:32:48,560
Speaker 1: sucks though, because if they divorce, he will have to

2887
02:32:48,920 --> 02:32:49,200
Speaker 1: take that.

2888
02:32:49,240 --> 02:32:53,560
Speaker 3: That's crazy. This happened before the marriage though, Yes, Okay,

2889
02:32:53,600 --> 02:32:55,360
Speaker 3: then then he's good.

2890
02:32:55,520 --> 02:32:57,160
Speaker 1: Oh he's good before the marriage and it's fine.

2891
02:32:57,200 --> 02:32:58,520
Speaker 2: But to my knowledge, it happened before.

2892
02:32:58,959 --> 02:33:00,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, because this is what that's.

2893
02:33:00,600 --> 02:33:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, I I don't know. Well, it seems like

2894
02:33:04,160 --> 02:33:08,280
Speaker 1: she seems like she's like good in some ways, but

2895
02:33:08,520 --> 02:33:10,840
Speaker 1: most ways it's like he's not good.

2896
02:33:11,160 --> 02:33:13,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

2897
02:33:13,760 --> 02:33:19,600
Speaker 1: Tricia D says he has never respected her. Lovel says

2898
02:33:19,680 --> 02:33:22,560
Speaker 1: sixteen hours, seven days a week is a lot. Yeah,

2899
02:33:22,640 --> 02:33:25,080
Speaker 1: but I feel like they're both completely burnt out.

2900
02:33:25,800 --> 02:33:28,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. It seems like they're doing way too much. Yeah,

2901
02:33:29,000 --> 02:33:30,640
Speaker 2: which I mean, this seems like they need.

2902
02:33:30,640 --> 02:33:34,360
Speaker 1: To Yeah, which I feel like, I feel like you

2903
02:33:34,480 --> 02:33:38,480
Speaker 1: kind of need a drop him. Think he's adding more, he's.

2904
02:33:38,360 --> 02:33:40,800
Speaker 2: Doing more stress just with they're dress like you need

2905
02:33:40,879 --> 02:33:43,720
Speaker 2: someone who's able to contribute.

2906
02:33:44,280 --> 02:33:51,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Op doesn't owe readers anything. Readers us is that us?

2907
02:33:51,280 --> 02:33:54,600
Speaker 1: Are we the readers? A reefstone? She needs to take

2908
02:33:54,640 --> 02:33:57,880
Speaker 1: the kids and run. Shy little writer says this is

2909
02:33:58,000 --> 02:34:01,920
Speaker 1: divorce worthy. What he's doing. Order lines financial infidelity. Yeah,

2910
02:34:01,920 --> 02:34:04,760
Speaker 1: the fact that she didn't he didn't say anything, I agree.

2911
02:34:05,600 --> 02:34:07,480
Speaker 1: Letter says I'm sure he can't pay down debt. In

2912
02:34:07,560 --> 02:34:11,480
Speaker 1: part of because of the vacase he's taking. Potentially, I

2913
02:34:11,520 --> 02:34:15,160
Speaker 1: don't know if the vacations are taking are are costing money.

2914
02:34:15,040 --> 02:34:23,400
Speaker 3: Though conspiracy theory, he's cheating well, and how like he

2915
02:34:23,560 --> 02:34:25,720
Speaker 3: is on the relationship, and how like.

2916
02:34:26,240 --> 02:34:29,240
Speaker 1: Is it vacations or is it like like events vacations,

2917
02:34:29,959 --> 02:34:31,880
Speaker 1: he's going a long vaga. I think it's just one

2918
02:34:31,959 --> 02:34:37,959
Speaker 1: day event long vacation that's time for infidelity.

2919
02:34:39,640 --> 02:34:40,400
Speaker 3: I don't believe it.

2920
02:34:40,520 --> 02:34:44,160
Speaker 1: I think they're just I think he's he is working

2921
02:34:44,320 --> 02:34:48,160
Speaker 1: really really hard, doing paying off debts that are not

2922
02:34:48,840 --> 02:34:53,600
Speaker 1: like Op's responsibility, and being a really bad husband when

2923
02:34:53,640 --> 02:34:56,280
Speaker 1: he comes home because like, you know, like it feels

2924
02:34:56,320 --> 02:34:59,920
Speaker 1: like they don't. I don't know.

2925
02:35:00,160 --> 02:35:03,280
Speaker 3: I feel I feel like he has resentment for the

2926
02:35:03,320 --> 02:35:05,640
Speaker 3: relationship because he's doing the wrong thing. So he's marrying

2927
02:35:05,720 --> 02:35:06,960
Speaker 3: that or putting on her.

2928
02:35:07,360 --> 02:35:09,760
Speaker 2: Okay, it says with this year, he has taken off

2929
02:35:09,840 --> 02:35:12,360
Speaker 2: time for family and coworker events. He has scheduled time

2930
02:35:12,440 --> 02:35:13,600
Speaker 2: to dig trips with his friends.

2931
02:35:13,720 --> 02:35:17,400
Speaker 1: Oh so okay, so maybe he probably is then doing both.

2932
02:35:17,600 --> 02:35:20,960
Speaker 1: He's doing both the which I don't think is very

2933
02:35:21,840 --> 02:35:22,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2934
02:35:23,280 --> 02:35:23,920
Speaker 3: I don't think it's fair.

2935
02:35:24,280 --> 02:35:26,320
Speaker 1: It doesn't it doesn't. It doesn't feel fair to pee,

2936
02:35:26,440 --> 02:35:29,800
Speaker 1: not at all, especially when he needs they need that

2937
02:35:29,879 --> 02:35:33,080
Speaker 1: money to pay off his debts. Yeah, and then ops

2938
02:35:33,120 --> 02:35:38,320
Speaker 1: working so hard, Yeah, with everything with child, Like if

2939
02:35:38,360 --> 02:35:41,160
Speaker 1: they divorce, does it just make it harder?

2940
02:35:42,040 --> 02:35:42,360
Speaker 3: I don't know.

2941
02:35:43,240 --> 02:35:44,879
Speaker 2: I think she has to like trying to, but.

2942
02:35:45,160 --> 02:35:49,080
Speaker 1: It sounds like because of resentment built now it feels

2943
02:35:49,160 --> 02:35:52,480
Speaker 1: like Frankie says. Frankie five to sixty seven says he

2944
02:35:52,600 --> 02:35:55,080
Speaker 1: cares about his family though, and like he does, Like

2945
02:35:55,200 --> 02:35:57,400
Speaker 1: that's what she did say. She does, he does care

2946
02:35:57,560 --> 02:35:59,119
Speaker 1: about his kids, but well.

2947
02:35:59,240 --> 02:36:01,400
Speaker 2: You know, he can care about his kids when he's

2948
02:36:01,640 --> 02:36:02,840
Speaker 2: divorce exactly.

2949
02:36:03,000 --> 02:36:03,200
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2950
02:36:03,320 --> 02:36:05,400
Speaker 1: Divorce means he will only have to care about his kids.

2951
02:36:05,440 --> 02:36:06,400
Speaker 1: So maybe that's the best thing.

2952
02:36:06,959 --> 02:36:07,840
Speaker 2: But there is an update.

2953
02:36:08,360 --> 02:36:09,039
Speaker 1: There's an update.

2954
02:36:09,120 --> 02:36:13,840
Speaker 2: There's an update. Yes, one day later. Thank you again

2955
02:36:13,959 --> 02:36:16,600
Speaker 2: for all the advice. I woke up this morning with

2956
02:36:16,720 --> 02:36:20,200
Speaker 2: a clear head. I'm still upset and disappointed. I had

2957
02:36:20,280 --> 02:36:22,600
Speaker 2: tons of voicemails from his family. I don't have the

2958
02:36:22,760 --> 02:36:23,959
Speaker 2: energy to listen through them all.

2959
02:36:24,080 --> 02:36:24,680
Speaker 3: I don't care.

2960
02:36:25,200 --> 02:36:27,959
Speaker 2: Like I've said, I'm angry, but I also feel embarrassed.

2961
02:36:28,600 --> 02:36:30,800
Speaker 2: I did call my husband this morning. I could tell

2962
02:36:30,959 --> 02:36:33,040
Speaker 2: by his voice. He didn't sleep last night, and he

2963
02:36:33,120 --> 02:36:37,240
Speaker 2: confirmed that he in fact did not. He told me

2964
02:36:37,360 --> 02:36:39,640
Speaker 2: after the blow up, he asked everyone to leave. He

2965
02:36:39,800 --> 02:36:41,920
Speaker 2: was surprised to see my mother as I sent her

2966
02:36:41,959 --> 02:36:44,240
Speaker 2: to pick up the kids. He said, that's when it

2967
02:36:44,360 --> 02:36:48,200
Speaker 2: really became real. We had a long conversation. I did

2968
02:36:48,360 --> 02:36:51,440
Speaker 2: apologize for exploding and doing so when I did, and

2969
02:36:51,600 --> 02:36:54,800
Speaker 2: not communicating better. He said, he understands why I felt

2970
02:36:54,840 --> 02:36:57,320
Speaker 2: like I couldn't and was actually glad it happened the

2971
02:36:57,360 --> 02:37:00,200
Speaker 2: way I did. His family finally got to see how

2972
02:37:00,280 --> 02:37:04,119
Speaker 2: much they affected his home. According to him, after I left,

2973
02:37:04,320 --> 02:37:06,280
Speaker 2: he laid into them and told them that he could

2974
02:37:06,360 --> 02:37:08,760
Speaker 2: no longer be the only one to help his family out,

2975
02:37:09,200 --> 02:37:11,000
Speaker 2: and that a lot of the mess he's in is

2976
02:37:11,240 --> 02:37:13,680
Speaker 2: their fault. He said that after the blow up, he

2977
02:37:13,760 --> 02:37:16,040
Speaker 2: told his siblings they need to step up and help

2978
02:37:16,120 --> 02:37:19,080
Speaker 2: with his parents. His parents were obviously upset with the

2979
02:37:19,120 --> 02:37:22,400
Speaker 2: whole ordeal. I couldn't care less, to be honest, They

2980
02:37:22,440 --> 02:37:24,560
Speaker 2: couldn't believe that there are such a burden because they

2981
02:37:24,600 --> 02:37:26,720
Speaker 2: ask for a little help from time to time. I

2982
02:37:26,920 --> 02:37:29,320
Speaker 2: just rolled my eyes and disgusted. As he was talking

2983
02:37:30,080 --> 02:37:32,800
Speaker 2: my new space along with my feelings of hurt and anger.

2984
02:37:32,959 --> 02:37:35,240
Speaker 2: Just let me speak all of my truths. I had

2985
02:37:35,320 --> 02:37:38,120
Speaker 2: nothing left to lose or to give or lose, so

2986
02:37:38,280 --> 02:37:41,800
Speaker 2: I told him how I felt about everything. He sat

2987
02:37:41,879 --> 02:37:44,560
Speaker 2: in silence for a while, then finally broke down and

2988
02:37:44,640 --> 02:37:48,000
Speaker 2: said he feels like a failure. He's ashamed of the

2989
02:37:48,360 --> 02:37:50,520
Speaker 2: of the debt and how much he has let us down.

2990
02:37:51,080 --> 02:37:53,720
Speaker 2: He said he was exhausted and he'd been feeling depressed

2991
02:37:53,840 --> 02:37:55,440
Speaker 2: because he couldn't see the light at the end of

2992
02:37:55,520 --> 02:37:58,600
Speaker 2: the tunnel and feels as though he's ruined our future.

2993
02:37:59,080 --> 02:38:01,119
Speaker 2: That he goes out with this friends to feel normal

2994
02:38:01,200 --> 02:38:04,080
Speaker 2: and himself because all he does is work. That he

2995
02:38:04,160 --> 02:38:06,960
Speaker 2: does this because of this black cloud cloud that's been

2996
02:38:07,000 --> 02:38:10,240
Speaker 2: hanging over him. I wasn't my best self in this moment,

2997
02:38:10,760 --> 02:38:12,720
Speaker 2: and I told him to save me the self pity.

2998
02:38:13,040 --> 02:38:16,480
Speaker 2: It's pathetic that he got himself into this mess and

2999
02:38:16,640 --> 02:38:19,840
Speaker 2: I'm digging him out. I'm effing depressed too. There's a

3000
02:38:19,920 --> 02:38:21,680
Speaker 2: ton of stuff I want to do that I can't

3001
02:38:21,720 --> 02:38:26,400
Speaker 2: do because I'm financially unable to do so. I went off. However,

3002
02:38:26,480 --> 02:38:28,920
Speaker 2: the past three years, his income has gone solely to

3003
02:38:29,040 --> 02:38:32,240
Speaker 2: debt repayment. Yet there's no end in sight because I

3004
02:38:32,360 --> 02:38:35,080
Speaker 2: haven't even seen the so called debt. I'd given him

3005
02:38:35,160 --> 02:38:37,120
Speaker 2: my all and as much support as I could gather,

3006
02:38:37,320 --> 02:38:40,120
Speaker 2: but I'm angry. This isn't the life I pictured or

3007
02:38:40,160 --> 02:38:43,120
Speaker 2: set myself up for. Either it's not the life my

3008
02:38:43,240 --> 02:38:45,959
Speaker 2: kids deserve. I've missed out on so much because I'm

3009
02:38:46,000 --> 02:38:49,080
Speaker 2: working or cleaning, or I'm just so tired I can't

3010
02:38:49,120 --> 02:38:51,520
Speaker 2: even open my eyes. I told him he has no

3011
02:38:51,600 --> 02:38:53,240
Speaker 2: one to blame but himself.

3012
02:38:53,600 --> 02:38:56,440
Speaker 1: I mean that's true. So does she still not know

3013
02:38:56,520 --> 02:38:57,440
Speaker 1: how much a debt he's in.

3014
02:38:58,800 --> 02:39:00,360
Speaker 2: No, it doesn't seem like she does.

3015
02:39:01,120 --> 02:39:03,280
Speaker 1: Isn't that something you should know about your partner?

3016
02:39:04,040 --> 02:39:06,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's very I think even before you

3017
02:39:06,640 --> 02:39:09,360
Speaker 2: get married, how much debt you're getting to I think

3018
02:39:09,400 --> 02:39:10,800
Speaker 2: that's a really important conversation to.

3019
02:39:11,600 --> 02:39:15,199
Speaker 3: All the numbers. Yeah, debt, body count.

3020
02:39:15,400 --> 02:39:19,600
Speaker 2: No, that's a that's a sillier one. I don't think

3021
02:39:19,640 --> 02:39:22,200
Speaker 2: that's important or relat but.

3022
02:39:22,240 --> 02:39:29,280
Speaker 3: I think debt at all. That did not sound like that, Briley.

3023
02:39:30,200 --> 02:39:32,839
Speaker 2: But I think debt is a really important because finances

3024
02:39:32,840 --> 02:39:36,320
Speaker 2: are really important to you have a bunch of student debt.

3025
02:39:37,120 --> 02:39:41,520
Speaker 2: It's important for your partners to know because unfortunately they

3026
02:39:41,640 --> 02:39:43,920
Speaker 2: might have to take up the slack and they have

3027
02:39:44,040 --> 02:39:45,760
Speaker 2: to They have to know what they're getting into.

3028
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Speaker 1: That's why I won't ever date someone who went to college.

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Speaker 3: Nice.

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02:39:49,800 --> 02:39:54,080
Speaker 2: Nice, I think my disdain was concerning. He said he

3031
02:39:54,160 --> 02:39:56,200
Speaker 2: will show and prove that. He will print out his

3032
02:39:56,320 --> 02:39:58,800
Speaker 2: credit report and list all of the debt he has,

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Speaker 2: along with all his pay stubs and bank records and

3034
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Speaker 2: the receipt of what's paid off and whatever else I

3035
02:40:04,320 --> 02:40:07,480
Speaker 2: want as far as his finances are concerned. He promised

3036
02:40:07,520 --> 02:40:09,400
Speaker 2: me my hard work was not in vain and that

3037
02:40:09,520 --> 02:40:13,240
Speaker 2: he is almost debt free. Come to find out, his

3038
02:40:13,360 --> 02:40:15,520
Speaker 2: parents opened credit cards and bills in his name when

3039
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Speaker 2: he was younger and accrewed close to one hundred thousand

3040
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Speaker 2: of debt in his name, not including interest. They trashed

3041
02:40:22,280 --> 02:40:24,680
Speaker 2: his credit and that's why it's taken so long. Oh

3042
02:40:24,800 --> 02:40:26,720
Speaker 2: my god, I would have cut these people off.

3043
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Speaker 3: Oh my god, refinance your house some unbelievable. That's unbelievable.

3044
02:40:32,600 --> 02:40:34,360
Speaker 1: It sucks. Is not even his fault, it's.

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02:40:34,240 --> 02:40:34,959
Speaker 3: Not even his fault.

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02:40:35,040 --> 02:40:38,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. According to him, he's been fighting with the collection

3047
02:40:38,600 --> 02:40:41,959
Speaker 2: companies to settle, trying to consolidate or get a lower

3048
02:40:42,000 --> 02:40:45,000
Speaker 2: interest as it was multiple companies and debts. What I

3049
02:40:45,120 --> 02:40:48,400
Speaker 2: didn't know is some were so bad, his wages work

3050
02:40:48,480 --> 02:40:51,119
Speaker 2: being garnished. He was in tears and said he didn't

3051
02:40:51,160 --> 02:40:52,760
Speaker 2: know how to tell me that he didn't even know

3052
02:40:52,840 --> 02:40:55,480
Speaker 2: the extent of what they did. He was basically working

3053
02:40:55,560 --> 02:40:57,600
Speaker 2: all these hours with nothing to take home to us,

3054
02:40:57,720 --> 02:41:02,240
Speaker 2: and accruing more debt just to survive. I stayed silent,

3055
02:41:02,959 --> 02:41:06,120
Speaker 2: My blood was boiling. He didn't even realize. He just

3056
02:41:06,240 --> 02:41:10,080
Speaker 2: helped me make my decision. I think the decision. What

3057
02:41:10,160 --> 02:41:10,960
Speaker 2: do you think the decision?

3058
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Speaker 1: I think I think she's going to leave him.

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02:41:13,720 --> 02:41:15,240
Speaker 2: I think she's going to leave him because he didn't

3060
02:41:15,240 --> 02:41:19,520
Speaker 2: tell it the truth. Yeah, he's lying the whole time.

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Speaker 1: Hey, this sucks. Having one hundred k in debt because

3062
02:41:23,320 --> 02:41:26,440
Speaker 1: of your parents sucks horrible. Sucks that it's not his fault.

3063
02:41:26,640 --> 02:41:28,240
Speaker 1: But what you do in this kind of situation, you

3064
02:41:28,360 --> 02:41:30,280
Speaker 1: tell me, tell the truth to your partner, and then

3065
02:41:30,400 --> 02:41:32,600
Speaker 1: ideally your partner going to maybe help you get out.

3066
02:41:33,000 --> 02:41:37,280
Speaker 1: But keeping it from your partner is completely.

3067
02:41:37,000 --> 02:41:40,200
Speaker 2: Financial abuse, honestly, because he's relying on her for everything

3068
02:41:40,600 --> 02:41:43,760
Speaker 2: and she doesn't get to know what's going on. He

3069
02:41:44,000 --> 02:41:46,959
Speaker 2: jokingly said, my outburst took care of the family situation,

3070
02:41:47,200 --> 02:41:49,320
Speaker 2: and that is why he texted me loud and clear,

3071
02:41:49,600 --> 02:41:52,640
Speaker 2: meaning he and they got the message. I told him

3072
02:41:52,640 --> 02:41:55,120
Speaker 2: I didn't find it funny. It's a shame that it

3073
02:41:55,160 --> 02:41:57,080
Speaker 2: took an outburst from me for everyone to hear what

3074
02:41:57,160 --> 02:42:00,120
Speaker 2: I've been saying all along, that he's an idiot for

3075
02:42:00,240 --> 02:42:02,600
Speaker 2: not filing charges on his parents and just taking it

3076
02:42:02,720 --> 02:42:05,000
Speaker 2: up the butt and allowing it to ruin my life

3077
02:42:05,120 --> 02:42:11,120
Speaker 2: and the children we created lives. I told it, he's apagnelis.

3078
02:42:10,959 --> 02:42:12,280
Speaker 3: Fineless, mindless.

3079
02:42:14,080 --> 02:42:17,360
Speaker 2: Is that what I guess? I don't know it makes sense? Uh,

3080
02:42:17,480 --> 02:42:20,200
Speaker 2: and I feel so stupid. He said he didn't call

3081
02:42:20,280 --> 02:42:22,520
Speaker 2: me because he knew how mad I was and was

3082
02:42:22,600 --> 02:42:24,920
Speaker 2: scared he was going to say the wrong thing and

3083
02:42:25,040 --> 02:42:28,000
Speaker 2: say things just like that. I thanked him for the

3084
02:42:28,040 --> 02:42:31,320
Speaker 2: honesty and the conversation and told him I am so broken,

3085
02:42:31,879 --> 02:42:34,360
Speaker 2: angry and hurt right now that I can't even pick

3086
02:42:34,440 --> 02:42:37,840
Speaker 2: up my pieces alone, let alone his right now. I

3087
02:42:37,959 --> 02:42:40,160
Speaker 2: need to clear my head. He said he's willing to

3088
02:42:40,240 --> 02:42:43,039
Speaker 2: do whatever it takes to turn this around. He even

3089
02:42:43,120 --> 02:42:46,520
Speaker 2: suggested marriage counseling. He told me he used his PTO

3090
02:42:46,720 --> 02:42:48,440
Speaker 2: and took the rest of the week off to work

3091
02:42:48,480 --> 02:42:52,920
Speaker 2: on this. I lost it and sobbed uncontrollably. If it

3092
02:42:53,080 --> 02:42:56,240
Speaker 2: was that easy to take time off, why now and

3093
02:42:56,400 --> 02:42:59,400
Speaker 2: not then? I asked him why didn't it matter before

3094
02:42:59,480 --> 02:43:02,680
Speaker 2: we got here? Why now? I told him he needs

3095
02:43:02,720 --> 02:43:05,160
Speaker 2: the time off to find counseling, both personal and legal,

3096
02:43:05,600 --> 02:43:08,400
Speaker 2: that I won't be coming home. He asked me if

3097
02:43:08,440 --> 02:43:11,840
Speaker 2: I was serious. He begged me to rethink my decision.

3098
02:43:12,840 --> 02:43:15,000
Speaker 2: He said, all the things I've been wanting to hear.

3099
02:43:16,080 --> 02:43:18,160
Speaker 2: He asked me where I was going to go, and

3100
02:43:18,280 --> 02:43:20,200
Speaker 2: what about the kids in the house and the bills

3101
02:43:20,400 --> 02:43:22,320
Speaker 2: that I couldn't tear the kids from the only family

3102
02:43:22,400 --> 02:43:25,600
Speaker 2: they knew, the home they knew. I simply replied, I

3103
02:43:25,720 --> 02:43:27,320
Speaker 2: know this is what needs to be done, and I've

3104
02:43:27,320 --> 02:43:29,720
Speaker 2: already set the ball in motion. He hung up on me.

3105
02:43:30,480 --> 02:43:33,000
Speaker 2: I cried, then went to get the kids. We're going

3106
02:43:33,080 --> 02:43:36,360
Speaker 2: to have a wonderful weekend in a somewhat fancy hotel

3107
02:43:36,480 --> 02:43:38,840
Speaker 2: and swim the pool and order room service and make

3108
02:43:38,920 --> 02:43:41,560
Speaker 2: some memories. I took some of the money I'd saved

3109
02:43:41,600 --> 02:43:44,320
Speaker 2: in my rainy day fund and extended my hotel stay

3110
02:43:44,400 --> 02:43:46,840
Speaker 2: to include me and the kids. I have an awful

3111
02:43:46,920 --> 02:43:49,240
Speaker 2: lot to catch up on. With the look on their

3112
02:43:49,240 --> 02:43:52,440
Speaker 2: faces when I said no, Mommy doesn't have to work

3113
02:43:52,480 --> 02:43:53,800
Speaker 2: tonight was priceless.

3114
02:43:54,160 --> 02:43:54,400
Speaker 3: Oh.

3115
02:43:55,160 --> 02:43:58,879
Speaker 2: I also have an appointment with legal consultants tomorrow. Hopefully

3116
02:43:58,920 --> 02:44:01,120
Speaker 2: I can talk to a lawyer and figure out what's next.

3117
02:44:01,720 --> 02:44:04,360
Speaker 2: Wish me luck everyone, and thanks again.

3118
02:44:04,720 --> 02:44:06,840
Speaker 1: I mean this is what needed to happen. Yeah, yeah,

3119
02:44:07,160 --> 02:44:10,039
Speaker 1: is it like this should have happened months ago, months years,

3120
02:44:10,480 --> 02:44:13,200
Speaker 1: years ago? I mean when he wouldn't be upfront about

3121
02:44:13,720 --> 02:44:14,440
Speaker 1: what his debts.

3122
02:44:14,560 --> 02:44:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, when he said I have debt and didn't tell

3123
02:44:17,240 --> 02:44:17,920
Speaker 2: her how much.

3124
02:44:18,560 --> 02:44:21,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, kitchen, which is honestly good for her.

3125
02:44:21,480 --> 02:44:25,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, yeah, she needed like going back to the

3126
02:44:25,640 --> 02:44:29,040
Speaker 2: theme of this episode of where and time place for arguments.

3127
02:44:30,840 --> 02:44:33,600
Speaker 2: Shouldn't have arguments in front of people, But it seems

3128
02:44:33,680 --> 02:44:35,400
Speaker 2: like this is what she needed to get out of

3129
02:44:35,440 --> 02:44:36,600
Speaker 2: a really horrible situation.

3130
02:44:36,760 --> 02:44:38,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, you reach a breaking point and like, yeah,

3131
02:44:39,080 --> 02:44:42,520
Speaker 1: you don't. I mean, like sometimes you just it kind

3132
02:44:42,560 --> 02:44:44,960
Speaker 1: of it's like she let her emotions come over, she

3133
02:44:45,080 --> 02:44:48,800
Speaker 1: expressed herself, and actually because of that, she's in a

3134
02:44:48,959 --> 02:44:51,560
Speaker 1: better situation than she would have been if she just

3135
02:44:51,720 --> 02:44:56,320
Speaker 1: kept pushing it down. Again, like I'm not advocating, advocating

3136
02:44:56,360 --> 02:44:58,960
Speaker 1: for people, Yeah, to like yell at people and public.

3137
02:44:59,280 --> 02:45:02,760
Speaker 1: But I that's why we said earlier justified able because

3138
02:45:02,879 --> 02:45:05,600
Speaker 1: this is what this is what she needed, this is

3139
02:45:05,640 --> 02:45:08,280
Speaker 1: what she needed to do to to get out of

3140
02:45:08,320 --> 02:45:11,320
Speaker 1: the situation. Because I don't know if she had been

3141
02:45:11,440 --> 02:45:13,879
Speaker 1: calm and collected, and I don't know if she would

3142
02:45:13,879 --> 02:45:15,600
Speaker 1: have left, ye, if she would have if she would

3143
02:45:15,600 --> 02:45:18,040
Speaker 1: have had the emotion to leave, because like like that,

3144
02:45:18,440 --> 02:45:21,480
Speaker 1: you kind of need to have that emotion. All action

3145
02:45:21,640 --> 02:45:24,080
Speaker 1: is preceded by emotion, you know, like we we we

3146
02:45:24,320 --> 02:45:27,880
Speaker 1: we eat food, like eating food is an emotional response,

3147
02:45:29,080 --> 02:45:32,720
Speaker 1: like every action. There's they're the study on rats where

3148
02:45:32,760 --> 02:45:37,280
Speaker 1: they removed their emotional centers and that that seems like

3149
02:45:37,360 --> 02:45:37,879
Speaker 1: they cut.

3150
02:45:37,720 --> 02:45:40,880
Speaker 3: Out a part of their brain God and remove their emotion.

3151
02:45:42,160 --> 02:45:44,040
Speaker 1: That's what that's what we do with rats. That's so

3152
02:45:44,280 --> 02:45:46,360
Speaker 1: sad how we do science. Rats are so smart though,

3153
02:45:46,480 --> 02:45:47,480
Speaker 1: that's how we do science.

3154
02:45:47,959 --> 02:45:49,760
Speaker 3: I don't anyway smart without emotion.

3155
02:45:50,520 --> 02:45:53,879
Speaker 1: But they cut out these parts of the brains with rats,

3156
02:45:54,200 --> 02:45:56,760
Speaker 1: and what happened is the rats all starved and died

3157
02:45:57,400 --> 02:46:04,879
Speaker 1: because they so sad. I don't like this study because ethically,

3158
02:46:04,959 --> 02:46:07,840
Speaker 1: every every action is preceded by emotions. So if we

3159
02:46:07,879 --> 02:46:10,560
Speaker 1: don't have emotional uh, if we don't have any emotion

3160
02:46:10,720 --> 02:46:11,760
Speaker 1: backing something.

3161
02:46:11,720 --> 02:46:12,240
Speaker 3: Well we won't.

3162
02:46:12,280 --> 02:46:14,280
Speaker 1: We wouldn't do anything. Yeah, and so it's not just

3163
02:46:14,360 --> 02:46:16,959
Speaker 1: the logical side that does something, it's the emotional side.

3164
02:46:17,400 --> 02:46:21,840
Speaker 2: But that, oh, we're not there. We're not there is

3165
02:46:21,959 --> 02:46:28,520
Speaker 2: the end. Thank you baby Godzilla.

3166
02:46:31,680 --> 02:46:37,000
Speaker 3: Three dollars Chip. We appreciate you, Foxy Cat, thank you.

3167
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Speaker 1: Anderson. Hey, Sam, I feel bad about my letter on Tuesday.

3168
02:46:41,200 --> 02:46:43,119
Speaker 1: I'm going to write an extra letter because I could

3169
02:46:43,120 --> 02:46:47,160
Speaker 1: see you were hurt. I sincerely apologize. Foxy Cat. You

3170
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Speaker 1: you are totally chilling. You did not you did not

3171
02:46:50,879 --> 02:46:53,680
Speaker 1: need like that. I I was mostly joking.

3172
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Speaker 2: Thank you the five buck tip double tape it so

3173
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Speaker 2: to stick the into the microphone.

3174
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Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I did.

3175
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Speaker 2: And thank you mad how To girl for the ten bucks.

3176
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Speaker 2: I have a question for the Okay Storytime review crew.

3177
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Speaker 2: How would you feel if the hatter made you all

3178
02:47:09,000 --> 02:47:09,879
Speaker 2: custom tumblers?

3179
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Speaker 3: Oh?

3180
02:47:13,160 --> 02:47:16,720
Speaker 2: There we go. I wasn't gonna like not, but like

3181
02:47:16,840 --> 02:47:18,960
Speaker 2: we were so close. I was like, we gotta give it,

3182
02:47:19,640 --> 02:47:21,240
Speaker 2: gotta give it. I need to wash my hands though,

3183
02:47:21,240 --> 02:47:24,640
Speaker 2: because the smell of the Latex is getting to me.

3184
02:47:24,840 --> 02:47:31,440
Speaker 1: Okay, Summer of a Diver. It's my first time watching live.

3185
02:47:31,760 --> 02:47:37,959
Speaker 1: Love you guys, Love you too. Mel's morale is two

3186
02:47:38,040 --> 02:47:41,400
Speaker 1: months of membership. You legit named all my favorite cartoons

3187
02:47:41,440 --> 02:47:46,000
Speaker 1: without BoJack. BoJack is dope. I've watched all of BoJack. Wait,

3188
02:47:46,160 --> 02:47:50,240
Speaker 1: I missed it. I missed it. I want to cause

3189
02:47:50,320 --> 02:48:00,400
Speaker 1: play Katra so bad? Cattra Let's Catra, Let's Catra? No Cattra? O? Hey,

3190
02:48:00,440 --> 02:48:02,840
Speaker 1: what's Catra? Oh? What's that.

3191
02:48:05,440 --> 02:48:10,480
Speaker 2: Ra? I desperately want to cosplay as a doorra that

3192
02:48:10,720 --> 02:48:13,080
Speaker 2: I I like. I wanted to go as Adora with

3193
02:48:13,240 --> 02:48:17,160
Speaker 2: my friend as Keatra like for Halloween, but I wasn't

3194
02:48:17,200 --> 02:48:17,879
Speaker 2: here this Halloween.

3195
02:48:18,120 --> 02:48:18,520
Speaker 3: I couldn't.

3196
02:48:19,560 --> 02:48:21,120
Speaker 2: But I would love to cosseplay. I would love to

3197
02:48:21,160 --> 02:48:22,720
Speaker 2: get super buff and cosplay as a doorra.

3198
02:48:23,360 --> 02:48:28,640
Speaker 1: Ooh ooh, alright, go gross scroll heay, what was the

3199
02:48:28,760 --> 02:48:33,880
Speaker 1: question about Schmid's thanks for the five bucks getting us

3200
02:48:34,320 --> 02:48:38,960
Speaker 1: over that one sent Mad Hatter Gile, thanks for the

3201
02:48:39,160 --> 02:48:45,160
Speaker 1: ten gifted memberships. Uh and Baby Godzilla, thank you for

3202
02:48:45,280 --> 02:48:49,240
Speaker 1: the five bucks getting us over. Baby Guyzella got us really.

3203
02:48:49,320 --> 02:48:52,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, it's so bad if we did.

3204
02:48:55,360 --> 02:48:57,520
Speaker 3: I was like, should we just give it and then

3205
02:48:58,000 --> 02:48:58,640
Speaker 3: kiss a Kine?

3206
02:48:58,840 --> 02:49:04,360
Speaker 1: Thanks for the two bucks. With that, I think we

3207
02:49:04,480 --> 02:49:07,360
Speaker 1: got another story on our hands. You read that last one.

3208
02:49:07,560 --> 02:49:08,800
Speaker 2: I did just read that last one.

3209
02:49:08,840 --> 02:49:10,119
Speaker 3: We got some more Schmid's.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for the twenty five dollars tip, kiss a kin

3211
02:49:12,920 --> 02:49:14,600
Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks first live. How can I

3212
02:49:14,680 --> 02:49:16,520
Speaker 1: join the discard? All of your links are invalid? You

3213
02:49:16,600 --> 02:49:19,840
Speaker 1: guys keep my nine shifts interesting? Are the links valid?

3214
02:49:19,920 --> 02:49:24,320
Speaker 3: Speaking of discord, we have thirteen boosts. We need fourteen

3215
02:49:24,440 --> 02:49:29,320
Speaker 3: to make the link not expire. So we have thirteen boosts.

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02:49:29,320 --> 02:49:31,119
Speaker 3: We just need someone to boost the server. Then we're good.

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02:49:31,920 --> 02:49:33,680
Speaker 1: Booz does it expire? When? How does it?

3218
02:49:34,120 --> 02:49:34,800
Speaker 3: There's levels?

3219
02:49:34,920 --> 02:49:38,080
Speaker 2: So wait? Can I read? And Morales is one because

3220
02:49:38,360 --> 02:49:41,160
Speaker 2: they want me to read it? Yes, okay, Marales, you

3221
02:49:41,280 --> 02:49:43,760
Speaker 2: legit named all of my favorite cartoons without BoJack. I

3222
02:49:43,840 --> 02:49:47,160
Speaker 2: want to cause play Catra so bad. I haven't seen BoJack,

3223
02:49:47,200 --> 02:49:48,040
Speaker 2: but I've heard it's great.

3224
02:49:48,360 --> 02:49:51,120
Speaker 3: There's levels, so level two, sad a, level three? You

3225
02:49:51,200 --> 02:49:51,960
Speaker 3: get the custom?

3226
02:49:52,120 --> 02:49:56,360
Speaker 1: Can we just boost it right now? And but uh,

3227
02:49:57,040 --> 02:49:59,680
Speaker 1: that's that's fine. I mean if if it yeah, that's fine.

3228
02:49:59,720 --> 02:50:03,280
Speaker 2: Can we I guess we could do it right after Okay,

3229
02:50:03,280 --> 02:50:04,400
Speaker 2: we're gonna boost it right after.

3230
02:50:04,560 --> 02:50:06,480
Speaker 3: Give me a membership for like ten books and I

3231
02:50:06,560 --> 02:50:09,120
Speaker 3: can get like to to boost or whatever.

3232
02:50:09,400 --> 02:50:12,160
Speaker 1: Okay, right, figure it out if if we don't, if

3233
02:50:12,560 --> 02:50:16,080
Speaker 1: let us know if someone boosts the discord in the meantime.

3234
02:50:16,640 --> 02:50:18,720
Speaker 1: If not, we'll boost it to make sure that it

3235
02:50:18,800 --> 02:50:23,480
Speaker 1: doesn't die. But in the meantime, if we create a

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02:50:23,560 --> 02:50:25,200
Speaker 1: new link, won't work. Do we have a new link?

3237
02:50:25,280 --> 02:50:26,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can cuss and make a new link.

3238
02:50:27,000 --> 02:50:28,720
Speaker 1: Cool. Yeah, maybe cuss and make a new link and

3239
02:50:28,760 --> 02:50:32,480
Speaker 1: put it in the chat. So people, But Susan Martin,

3240
02:50:32,680 --> 02:50:36,880
Speaker 1: thanks for the five buck tip. Let's get into this

3241
02:50:37,080 --> 02:50:40,400
Speaker 1: next one. I also have a call at six thirty

3242
02:50:40,480 --> 02:50:41,080
Speaker 1: after jump.

3243
02:50:40,959 --> 02:50:44,600
Speaker 2: To just for a little I have to entertain my

3244
02:50:45,040 --> 02:50:45,920
Speaker 2: Canadian friend.

3245
02:50:47,240 --> 02:50:50,080
Speaker 3: You can come in here watch you live. Oh I

3246
02:50:50,120 --> 02:50:52,880
Speaker 3: thought you're gonna what's the uh uh?

3247
02:50:53,040 --> 02:51:00,640
Speaker 1: Five thirty one S two s two okay, thirty one

3248
02:51:00,840 --> 02:51:06,960
Speaker 1: as to let's go, jac says there's fifteen boosts Now

3249
02:51:07,200 --> 02:51:08,000
Speaker 1: that was so quick.

3250
02:51:09,320 --> 02:51:12,360
Speaker 3: Jesus, my goodness, whoa we were just going to do

3251
02:51:12,400 --> 02:51:12,879
Speaker 3: it ourselves.

3252
02:51:13,680 --> 02:51:14,040
Speaker 1: Thank you?

3253
02:51:14,920 --> 02:51:15,400
Speaker 2: Is it nice?

3254
02:51:15,640 --> 02:51:18,200
Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Foxy cat Sam's special letter to give

3255
02:51:18,280 --> 02:51:20,440
Speaker 1: him a sweet smile. I'm excited to see it, and

3256
02:51:20,600 --> 02:51:22,520
Speaker 1: son er Tea, thanks for the ten bucks. I just

3257
02:51:22,560 --> 02:51:26,320
Speaker 1: felt like tipping party Parrott. Party Parrott is sweet. Okay,

3258
02:51:26,920 --> 02:51:32,440
Speaker 1: story two in this saga. Alright, So Amma the a

3259
02:51:32,560 --> 02:51:36,080
Speaker 1: whole for embarrassing my parents after they forgot my birthday.

3260
02:51:36,120 --> 02:51:36,760
Speaker 2: Embarrass them.

3261
02:51:37,040 --> 02:51:39,760
Speaker 1: And this carries from ann in seven eight nine one too,

3262
02:51:39,800 --> 02:51:43,280
Speaker 1: embarrass them, embarrass them. I female thirty three just had

3263
02:51:43,320 --> 02:51:46,160
Speaker 1: my birthday last week. The only problem is that no

3264
02:51:46,280 --> 02:51:48,519
Speaker 1: one in my family remembered.

3265
02:51:49,840 --> 02:51:51,040
Speaker 2: That is so sad.

3266
02:51:51,240 --> 02:51:52,039
Speaker 1: That's very sad.

3267
02:51:52,440 --> 02:51:54,920
Speaker 2: I don't let anyone forget that it's my birthday.

3268
02:51:56,280 --> 02:51:57,440
Speaker 3: This is true, that's true.

3269
02:52:00,280 --> 02:52:02,320
Speaker 2: But I think I've decided to do it on June thirtieth.

3270
02:52:04,400 --> 02:52:07,360
Speaker 1: Oh, we talked about it, John and I oh because

3271
02:52:07,400 --> 02:52:08,760
Speaker 1: of big con mm hmm.

3272
02:52:08,840 --> 02:52:10,560
Speaker 2: But I think I'm gonna do like a small birthday

3273
02:52:10,600 --> 02:52:11,560
Speaker 2: thing on June twenty nine.

3274
02:52:12,760 --> 02:52:16,000
Speaker 1: That sounds good, well, I female thirty three just had

3275
02:52:16,040 --> 02:52:18,400
Speaker 1: my birthday last week. Only probably was no remember my

3276
02:52:18,600 --> 02:52:21,560
Speaker 1: maternal grandfather passed away about a month ago, and my

3277
02:52:21,879 --> 02:52:25,800
Speaker 1: entire family mom, dad, and two younger brothers flew back

3278
02:52:25,920 --> 02:52:30,200
Speaker 1: to my mother's home country. Or the funeral I unfortunately

3279
02:52:30,280 --> 02:52:33,080
Speaker 1: could not go, as I've only recently started a new job.

3280
02:52:33,440 --> 02:52:35,840
Speaker 1: I wasn't particularly close to my grandfather, so I wasn't

3281
02:52:35,879 --> 02:52:38,680
Speaker 1: too upset about staying behind. My family was gone for

3282
02:52:38,720 --> 02:52:41,920
Speaker 1: a total of twenty two days, and we facetimed and

3283
02:52:42,040 --> 02:52:45,640
Speaker 1: stayed in constant communication during the trip. I think it's

3284
02:52:45,760 --> 02:52:48,240
Speaker 1: great that my mom got to reconnect with family and

3285
02:52:48,360 --> 02:52:50,720
Speaker 1: that my brothers got a chance to meet everyone. They

3286
02:52:50,800 --> 02:52:53,840
Speaker 1: got back last Wednesday, and I've been readjusting due to

3287
02:52:53,920 --> 02:52:58,040
Speaker 1: jet lag since then. Understandably, my birthday was last Friday,

3288
02:52:58,120 --> 02:53:01,280
Speaker 1: two days after they got back. To be honest, I

3289
02:53:01,400 --> 02:53:04,560
Speaker 1: wasn't expecting more than birthday wishes from everyone, but the

3290
02:53:04,760 --> 02:53:09,080
Speaker 1: day passed without a word from anyone. The bare minimum

3291
02:53:10,040 --> 02:53:13,240
Speaker 1: was I annoyed, sure, but I wasn't too upset. I'm

3292
02:53:13,280 --> 02:53:15,120
Speaker 1: not the biggest birthday person. I ended up having a

3293
02:53:15,200 --> 02:53:18,879
Speaker 1: nice birthday dinner with my boyfriend and a few friends. Well,

3294
02:53:19,720 --> 02:53:24,760
Speaker 1: all hell broke a close Saturday afternoon when I got

3295
02:53:24,800 --> 02:53:27,480
Speaker 1: a really angry phone call from my dad. I guess

3296
02:53:27,520 --> 02:53:30,880
Speaker 1: my boyfriend did a special IG post for me, and

3297
02:53:31,040 --> 02:53:34,720
Speaker 1: my brother saw it and showed my parents. I had

3298
02:53:34,800 --> 02:53:38,000
Speaker 1: no idea he did this, as he isn't a big poster. Well, anyway,

3299
02:53:38,320 --> 02:53:41,080
Speaker 1: I could hear my mom crying in the background. Well,

3300
02:53:41,120 --> 02:53:45,199
Speaker 1: my dad laid into me, saying that they were sorry

3301
02:53:45,640 --> 02:53:49,520
Speaker 1: they forgot, but not saying anything and then posting about

3302
02:53:49,560 --> 02:53:53,680
Speaker 1: it online was passive, aggressive and mean.

3303
02:53:53,840 --> 02:53:55,080
Speaker 3: Oh, it just made you feel.

3304
02:53:54,920 --> 02:53:58,599
Speaker 2: Bad posting about her birthday.

3305
02:53:59,160 --> 02:54:01,840
Speaker 1: I'm mad at you for making us feel bad about

3306
02:54:02,280 --> 02:54:03,440
Speaker 1: forgetting your birthday.

3307
02:54:03,600 --> 02:54:07,439
Speaker 2: Your boyfriend said something nice about you for your birthday

3308
02:54:07,600 --> 02:54:11,200
Speaker 2: and made me realize that I've forgotten. Now I feel bad.

3309
02:54:11,400 --> 02:54:12,320
Speaker 2: That's your fault.

3310
02:54:12,680 --> 02:54:16,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel I feel all all dark and misty inside.

3311
02:54:16,240 --> 02:54:18,920
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna blame my bad feelings on you so

3312
02:54:19,040 --> 02:54:19,840
Speaker 1: I feel better.

3313
02:54:20,120 --> 02:54:22,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna bully you for my mistakes.

3314
02:54:23,600 --> 02:54:26,160
Speaker 1: I can't own up to my own mistakes, though, I'm

3315
02:54:26,200 --> 02:54:27,720
Speaker 1: gonna make you carry that burden.

3316
02:54:28,640 --> 02:54:32,080
Speaker 2: Why are we British now? Actually this kind of sounds

3317
02:54:32,240 --> 02:54:34,680
Speaker 2: like JFK in the Clone High.

3318
02:54:35,320 --> 02:54:38,360
Speaker 1: Do not what you need to do for your country,

3319
02:54:39,360 --> 02:54:42,640
Speaker 1: do it for yourself.

3320
02:54:44,040 --> 02:54:49,120
Speaker 2: I was mad at all. Right, it's a matter.

3321
02:54:50,760 --> 02:54:53,800
Speaker 3: There has been a murter and a miss dude.

3322
02:54:53,920 --> 02:54:56,440
Speaker 1: That would be so fun. Clue if there was a

3323
02:54:56,560 --> 02:54:57,400
Speaker 1: murder in hermits.

3324
02:54:57,840 --> 02:55:01,360
Speaker 2: I have a murder mystery party set that I I'm used, Oh.

3325
02:55:01,440 --> 02:55:03,160
Speaker 1: Oh, we want to play a game with you guys?

3326
02:55:03,200 --> 02:55:04,360
Speaker 1: What game do would you like to play?

3327
02:55:04,560 --> 02:55:05,680
Speaker 2: What game would you like to play?

3328
02:55:06,360 --> 02:55:08,000
Speaker 1: We wanted to do a game, but what was that?

3329
02:55:08,760 --> 02:55:09,800
Speaker 2: What you like to play?

3330
02:55:09,840 --> 02:55:10,200
Speaker 7: The game?

3331
02:55:10,520 --> 02:55:13,879
Speaker 3: That was like a it's giving a pigeon eyeball from

3332
02:55:13,959 --> 02:55:15,520
Speaker 3: Sam Vibes.

3333
02:55:16,400 --> 02:55:22,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just winking the whole time. Get the hint, Rightley,

3334
02:55:24,040 --> 02:55:33,000
Speaker 1: I told him. I told I told him that I

3335
02:55:33,200 --> 02:55:36,400
Speaker 1: wasn't upset and that I didn't think a thirty third

3336
02:55:36,440 --> 02:55:39,440
Speaker 1: birthday was that big of a deal anyway. He said

3337
02:55:39,560 --> 02:55:42,800
Speaker 1: a few more things before abruptly ended the call. I

3338
02:55:42,879 --> 02:55:45,720
Speaker 1: didn't hear from my family the rest of the weekend.

3339
02:55:45,840 --> 02:55:47,440
Speaker 3: He didn't even say happy birthday.

3340
02:55:47,720 --> 02:55:47,920
Speaker 1: I know.

3341
02:55:48,480 --> 02:55:51,640
Speaker 2: I just got that and didn't even say happy birthdays.

3342
02:55:51,720 --> 02:55:53,880
Speaker 2: Sorry for you're getting they suck.

3343
02:55:54,200 --> 02:55:57,080
Speaker 1: Today Monday, I woke up to a bunch of notifications.

3344
02:55:57,160 --> 02:55:59,600
Speaker 1: I guess my mom did a Facebook post talking about

3345
02:56:00,080 --> 02:56:05,200
Speaker 1: grateful kids and how I ruined their surprise party and

3346
02:56:05,440 --> 02:56:08,480
Speaker 1: tagged me. My extended family seemed to agree that I

3347
02:56:08,640 --> 02:56:11,080
Speaker 1: was a jerk. I've tried calling my mom, but she

3348
02:56:11,120 --> 02:56:13,680
Speaker 1: didn't answer, so I posted my own reply and said,

3349
02:56:14,040 --> 02:56:16,760
Speaker 1: you guys forgot and no one wished me a happy birthday,

3350
02:56:16,840 --> 02:56:19,760
Speaker 1: unless you count dad calling and galling at me. Both

3351
02:56:19,800 --> 02:56:22,160
Speaker 1: of my parents have been calling all morning, but I

3352
02:56:22,200 --> 02:56:25,120
Speaker 1: don't want to take their calls yet. Am I the

3353
02:56:25,240 --> 02:56:27,480
Speaker 1: a whole edit? I couldn't post the update to the

3354
02:56:27,520 --> 02:56:29,240
Speaker 1: sub sence. It's been a bit long, but you can

3355
02:56:29,280 --> 02:56:31,600
Speaker 1: find it in my profile. And guess what, we do

3356
02:56:31,760 --> 02:56:32,480
Speaker 1: have the updates.

3357
02:56:32,959 --> 02:56:37,360
Speaker 2: So we are going to This family's the worst, as

3358
02:56:37,480 --> 02:56:39,560
Speaker 2: Deadly Cat says, the family sucks.

3359
02:56:39,800 --> 02:56:40,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, they suck.

3360
02:56:41,360 --> 02:56:42,400
Speaker 1: That is massive.

3361
02:56:42,640 --> 02:56:45,000
Speaker 2: Ever, forget your immediate family's birthday?

3362
02:56:46,040 --> 02:56:46,840
Speaker 1: When's your birthday? Again?

3363
02:56:49,560 --> 02:56:53,560
Speaker 2: I know everyone in mine, I know like most people.

3364
02:56:53,640 --> 02:56:55,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I know my immediate family's birthday.

3365
02:56:55,720 --> 02:56:57,640
Speaker 1: I was birthday? What that was? Birthday?

3366
02:56:58,480 --> 02:57:02,560
Speaker 2: I said, my immediate family? I know around when I

3367
02:57:02,640 --> 02:57:04,440
Speaker 2: sat amedia family, I said immedia?

3368
02:57:04,600 --> 02:57:07,160
Speaker 3: Wow, I said, a media family.

3369
02:57:07,920 --> 02:57:11,360
Speaker 2: So what your birthday is? February nineteenth. Mom's birthday birthday

3370
02:57:11,400 --> 02:57:15,920
Speaker 2: is October fourteenth, and Dad's birthday is November twenty fourth. Nana,

3371
02:57:16,000 --> 02:57:16,880
Speaker 2: When is Nana's birthday?

3372
02:57:16,920 --> 02:57:17,160
Speaker 3: Do you know?

3373
02:57:17,720 --> 02:57:20,760
Speaker 2: No? July twelfth, but Australian July twelfth, so it's July

3374
02:57:20,879 --> 02:57:28,160
Speaker 2: eleventh year. Win's Grammar's birthday? December December first, That's an

3375
02:57:28,200 --> 02:57:32,000
Speaker 2: easy one, get right.

3376
02:57:32,200 --> 02:57:32,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

3377
02:57:32,440 --> 02:57:33,400
Speaker 2: What's Riley's birthday?

3378
02:57:34,840 --> 02:57:41,480
Speaker 1: Uh, September Michael Jordan? No, Michael Jordan's September.

3379
02:57:43,480 --> 02:57:46,840
Speaker 3: Lebron James eighth. Oh? Where are they obi?

3380
02:57:47,440 --> 02:57:49,440
Speaker 2: Where are they all in the same Why are Michael

3381
02:57:49,520 --> 02:57:51,879
Speaker 2: Jordan and Lebron James all born in the same day?

3382
02:57:51,959 --> 02:57:54,720
Speaker 3: No, it's twenty third or twenty three. What is your birthday, Riley?

3383
02:57:54,800 --> 02:57:58,120
Speaker 3: September twenty third, Yeah, Nocember twenty third, September Michael Jordan.

3384
02:57:58,600 --> 02:58:00,640
Speaker 2: I have a lot of September friend birthdays.

3385
02:58:01,400 --> 02:58:04,240
Speaker 3: Oh, my girlfriend is the twenty seventh of September, and

3386
02:58:04,360 --> 02:58:06,000
Speaker 3: my brother is the twenty fourth of September.

3387
02:58:06,360 --> 02:58:08,760
Speaker 1: When's John's birthday? Oh?

3388
02:58:08,840 --> 02:58:11,080
Speaker 2: Actually no, I do know this July twentieth or that

3389
02:58:11,160 --> 02:58:13,560
Speaker 2: at least that's his birthday party July twenty seventh.

3390
02:58:13,720 --> 02:58:16,400
Speaker 3: I think twenty sixth, twenty sixth, Okay, wrap it in

3391
02:58:16,440 --> 02:58:16,920
Speaker 3: my calendar.

3392
02:58:18,160 --> 02:58:18,400
Speaker 4: I know.

3393
02:58:18,600 --> 02:58:20,520
Speaker 2: I believe it is either the twenty seventh or twenty

3394
02:58:20,560 --> 02:58:23,680
Speaker 2: sixth July. I said twenty seventh first, so I'll go

3395
02:58:23,760 --> 02:58:25,880
Speaker 2: with that. And if it is not either of those days,

3396
02:58:25,959 --> 02:58:28,080
Speaker 2: damn is it twentieth twenty.

3397
02:58:27,879 --> 02:58:31,320
Speaker 1: First, twenty first. Oh, I just said it, so twenty first.

3398
02:58:31,200 --> 02:58:32,360
Speaker 2: I said it. That was my third choice.

3399
02:58:32,400 --> 02:58:34,560
Speaker 3: Oh, we got September baby, July twenty first.

3400
02:58:35,440 --> 02:58:38,440
Speaker 2: I need to put Miley's birthday and twenty these in

3401
02:58:38,520 --> 02:58:40,200
Speaker 2: my calendar. Sam, you have to read, so you have

3402
02:58:40,280 --> 02:58:40,680
Speaker 2: to put.

3403
02:58:40,520 --> 02:58:42,560
Speaker 1: You on your calendar after it. Right now, I'm doing

3404
02:58:42,600 --> 02:58:43,720
Speaker 1: it in your calendar.

3405
02:58:43,800 --> 02:58:45,320
Speaker 3: Birthday in the chat.

3406
02:58:45,520 --> 02:58:49,160
Speaker 1: September twenty third. Yeah, put your birthdays in the chat rightly.

3407
02:58:49,600 --> 02:58:54,560
Speaker 2: Birthdays and if it's your birthday today, will tell us birthday,

3408
02:58:54,920 --> 02:58:56,360
Speaker 2: tell us, tell us right now.

3409
02:58:56,800 --> 02:58:59,800
Speaker 3: Alexis Shepherd, thank you for the thirty bugs. Here's some

3410
02:59:00,080 --> 02:59:02,200
Speaker 3: money so I don't spend it on useless things off

3411
02:59:02,280 --> 02:59:05,360
Speaker 3: TikTok shop. But you get stuff off of TikTok shop.

3412
02:59:05,520 --> 02:59:06,080
Speaker 3: Is it good?

3413
02:59:06,400 --> 02:59:08,320
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm always a little bit wary of it.

3414
02:59:08,560 --> 02:59:09,680
Speaker 2: Is it like to me?

3415
02:59:09,840 --> 02:59:14,000
Speaker 3: Like, I don't Yeah, TikTok shop, but is it good stuff? Okay,

3416
02:59:14,200 --> 02:59:17,280
Speaker 3: we got it. February twenty You're in you're in there.

3417
02:59:18,240 --> 02:59:21,640
Speaker 3: Hobby's b day is also feb nineteenth and minus February sixth,

3418
02:59:21,680 --> 02:59:23,640
Speaker 3: Fox to chat. Thanks for me because it's sweet.

3419
02:59:23,879 --> 02:59:26,199
Speaker 2: John's July twenty first. Is that yeah? Okay, yeah, because

3420
02:59:26,200 --> 02:59:27,600
Speaker 2: we're going first cancer.

3421
02:59:27,720 --> 02:59:27,879
Speaker 4: Yeah.

3422
02:59:28,640 --> 02:59:32,840
Speaker 1: All right, now that we all know each other's birthdays, birthday,

3423
02:59:33,440 --> 02:59:36,560
Speaker 1: birth birthday, bird also feast birthday is June twenty ninth,

3424
02:59:36,840 --> 02:59:39,320
Speaker 1: twenty ninth, see better, what's your happy birthday?

3425
02:59:39,600 --> 02:59:40,680
Speaker 2: You better wish me happy.

3426
02:59:40,440 --> 02:59:45,440
Speaker 1: Bro thirty there whoa is anyone else? June twenty ninth?

3427
02:59:45,640 --> 02:59:45,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3428
02:59:46,280 --> 02:59:47,320
Speaker 1: Does anyone have a birthday?

3429
02:59:47,520 --> 02:59:48,000
Speaker 3: Twins?

3430
02:59:49,120 --> 02:59:52,560
Speaker 1: Thanks Cianna Tea. Thanks for the one month of membership.

3431
02:59:52,600 --> 02:59:54,480
Speaker 1: I've got a similar story. My family texted me happy

3432
02:59:54,560 --> 02:59:57,200
Speaker 1: birthday and barely acknowledged me on the day we live

3433
02:59:57,240 --> 03:00:00,760
Speaker 1: in the same house. Oh dang, dang that is hey,

3434
03:00:01,200 --> 03:00:07,360
Speaker 1: Jazz Mino, February nineteenth, let's go thatdel Lwalan, Thanks for

3435
03:00:07,440 --> 03:00:08,320
Speaker 1: three months of membership.

3436
03:00:08,400 --> 03:00:08,959
Speaker 3: Is no one on a.

3437
03:00:10,480 --> 03:00:11,120
Speaker 1: There's no way.

3438
03:00:11,920 --> 03:00:14,640
Speaker 2: Same as Sophia's mom, No as.

3439
03:00:14,520 --> 03:00:17,039
Speaker 1: My mom, Sophia, same as my mom.

3440
03:00:17,040 --> 03:00:20,360
Speaker 2: Soyvia Sophia's mom, Sofia Collen's mom.

3441
03:00:20,520 --> 03:00:26,800
Speaker 1: Oh yes, yeah, okay, uh comments so Brett Scharer, not

3442
03:00:26,959 --> 03:00:28,640
Speaker 1: the a hole. Seems like they are trying to make

3443
03:00:28,680 --> 03:00:31,000
Speaker 1: you feel guilty for nothing. Were they really planning a

3444
03:00:31,040 --> 03:00:33,800
Speaker 1: surprise birthday party? As for your mom's Facebook post. Liars

3445
03:00:33,879 --> 03:00:36,039
Speaker 1: Opie responds, I have no idea. I asked my boyfriend

3446
03:00:36,040 --> 03:00:38,040
Speaker 1: about it and he said no one contacted him about it,

3447
03:00:38,200 --> 03:00:41,960
Speaker 1: but who knows. Fianna nine says doesn't seem likely if

3448
03:00:41,959 --> 03:00:44,200
Speaker 1: they knew about your birthday and had something planned, they

3449
03:00:44,200 --> 03:00:47,680
Speaker 1: would have just asked you over Saturday, and surprise sounds

3450
03:00:47,720 --> 03:00:49,520
Speaker 1: like they were covering up that they forgot and tried

3451
03:00:49,520 --> 03:00:53,600
Speaker 1: to blame you. Papa doo Wop says, not the A

3452
03:00:53,800 --> 03:00:54,280
Speaker 1: hole what.

3453
03:00:56,040 --> 03:00:59,520
Speaker 2: Also you just even if you have a surprise birthday plan,

3454
03:01:00,200 --> 03:01:02,960
Speaker 2: you still have to say happy birthday.

3455
03:01:02,680 --> 03:01:03,160
Speaker 3: On the day.

3456
03:01:03,560 --> 03:01:07,200
Speaker 2: On the day. That doesn't just people excuse me, excuse

3457
03:01:07,240 --> 03:01:10,600
Speaker 2: you from saying happy birthday. You're like, oh, I'm planning

3458
03:01:10,680 --> 03:01:13,720
Speaker 2: a party that they don't know about, so it's fine.

3459
03:01:14,200 --> 03:01:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, it's pretty whack. But we got some more,

3460
03:01:17,959 --> 03:01:20,320
Speaker 1: not the A whole that their reaction is to get

3461
03:01:20,400 --> 03:01:23,039
Speaker 1: mad and guilt trip you for what? Having a boyfriend

3462
03:01:23,040 --> 03:01:25,400
Speaker 1: who makes a declaration of love on social media to

3463
03:01:25,440 --> 03:01:28,680
Speaker 1: avoid having to feel any guilt or DG responsibility speaks

3464
03:01:29,120 --> 03:01:35,039
Speaker 1: volume surprise party to quite venerated philosopher Share Horowitz as

3465
03:01:35,200 --> 03:01:39,040
Speaker 1: if and then we have the update, but the judgment

3466
03:01:39,120 --> 03:01:41,800
Speaker 1: was not the a hole, which I agree with. But

3467
03:01:42,560 --> 03:01:47,960
Speaker 1: update Hill. I tried posting this on the AITA sub

3468
03:01:48,000 --> 03:01:50,160
Speaker 1: but it's too long. I've been reading as many comments

3469
03:01:50,200 --> 03:01:52,080
Speaker 1: as I can. I do have a quick update, but

3470
03:01:52,160 --> 03:01:56,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to address some questions. No one my boyfriend's post.

3471
03:01:56,879 --> 03:01:59,640
Speaker 1: He had no idea that my parents hadn't acknowledged my

3472
03:01:59,640 --> 03:02:01,119
Speaker 1: birthday until my dad called.

3473
03:02:01,520 --> 03:02:02,960
Speaker 2: I never mentioned in trouble.

3474
03:02:03,440 --> 03:02:08,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I never mentioned it. I never mentioned

3475
03:02:08,959 --> 03:02:11,480
Speaker 1: it because again, I wasn't angry. The post was just

3476
03:02:11,560 --> 03:02:14,800
Speaker 1: a picture of us at the restaurant with my birthday cheesecake.

3477
03:02:15,120 --> 03:02:18,080
Speaker 1: The caption verbatim was blessed to see you make another

3478
03:02:18,120 --> 03:02:19,000
Speaker 1: trip around the Sun.

3479
03:02:19,200 --> 03:02:19,640
Speaker 3: I love you.

3480
03:02:20,000 --> 03:02:22,480
Speaker 1: There was no mention of anything else. I also wasn't

3481
03:02:22,480 --> 03:02:25,280
Speaker 1: aware of the post until my dad called about it. Two.

3482
03:02:25,840 --> 03:02:28,560
Speaker 1: This is very out of character for either of my parents,

3483
03:02:28,600 --> 03:02:30,959
Speaker 1: which is why I'm not going to go no contact.

3484
03:02:31,280 --> 03:02:34,200
Speaker 1: The way everything escalated is bizarre, but it gives me

3485
03:02:34,360 --> 03:02:37,840
Speaker 1: a better understanding of the situation. Hopefully it will for

3486
03:02:38,000 --> 03:02:43,560
Speaker 1: everyone else as well. So getting in to this update.

3487
03:02:43,800 --> 03:02:44,280
Speaker 2: The update.

3488
03:02:44,680 --> 03:02:47,920
Speaker 1: After everything happened yesterday, I told my boyfriend about the

3489
03:02:47,959 --> 03:02:50,320
Speaker 1: Facebook thing, and he agreed that I should not deal

3490
03:02:50,400 --> 03:02:52,879
Speaker 1: with it for the day. I turned my phone off

3491
03:02:53,280 --> 03:02:56,840
Speaker 1: and just chilled out. Around six pm, my boyfriend got

3492
03:02:56,879 --> 03:02:59,800
Speaker 1: a text from my brothers asking if they could come

3493
03:02:59,840 --> 03:03:02,320
Speaker 1: by because they wanted to see me and bring me

3494
03:03:02,480 --> 03:03:05,440
Speaker 1: candy they brought back for me. I agreed, and they

3495
03:03:05,480 --> 03:03:07,920
Speaker 1: came over, along with my parents. At this point, I

3496
03:03:08,080 --> 03:03:10,080
Speaker 1: was annoyed to see my parents, but we let everyone in.

3497
03:03:10,560 --> 03:03:12,760
Speaker 1: My boyfriend made sure I was all right and took

3498
03:03:12,840 --> 03:03:15,120
Speaker 1: my brothers out back so I could be alone with

3499
03:03:15,200 --> 03:03:20,600
Speaker 1: my parents. My mom started crying immediately and sobbed out

3500
03:03:20,680 --> 03:03:25,200
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, I don't know about you, and sobbed

3501
03:03:25,200 --> 03:03:29,280
Speaker 1: out and I'm sorry. Finally, I don't know about you.

3502
03:03:29,440 --> 03:03:32,560
Speaker 1: But seeing my mom cry startedn't make me cry. My

3503
03:03:32,680 --> 03:03:36,400
Speaker 1: dad then explain what happened. Apparently they forgot about my

3504
03:03:36,480 --> 03:03:40,880
Speaker 1: birthday again understandable. My Pa, my paternal aunt, had come

3505
03:03:40,920 --> 03:03:43,400
Speaker 1: over on Saturday to see my parents, worth noting that

3506
03:03:43,520 --> 03:03:47,200
Speaker 1: she does not like my mom for whatever reason, since

3507
03:03:47,240 --> 03:03:49,320
Speaker 1: he's been around for the last four years. My boyfriend

3508
03:03:49,360 --> 03:03:51,520
Speaker 1: follows my brothers and a few of my cousins and

3509
03:03:51,600 --> 03:03:55,240
Speaker 1: vice versa. My cousins saw the post showed my aunt

3510
03:03:55,600 --> 03:03:58,080
Speaker 1: and asked my mom how my birthday went. Side note,

3511
03:03:58,160 --> 03:04:00,480
Speaker 1: my extended family did reach out to me to wish

3512
03:04:00,560 --> 03:04:02,960
Speaker 1: me a happy birthday, They just didn't know my family

3513
03:04:03,040 --> 03:04:06,480
Speaker 1: forgot I guess. My mom was caught out and my

3514
03:04:06,800 --> 03:04:09,400
Speaker 1: aunt went in on her for being a bad mother

3515
03:04:09,800 --> 03:04:12,199
Speaker 1: and all that, saying, at least I have a boyfriend.

3516
03:04:12,760 --> 03:04:13,040
Speaker 3: Damn.

3517
03:04:13,959 --> 03:04:16,040
Speaker 1: My dad got upset, told my aunt to leave and

3518
03:04:16,120 --> 03:04:19,320
Speaker 1: said they already had something planned. They didn't. That's when

3519
03:04:19,400 --> 03:04:21,880
Speaker 1: he called me. They never saw the post and I

3520
03:04:22,080 --> 03:04:25,000
Speaker 1: was wrong thinking my brother showed them. My dad said

3521
03:04:25,040 --> 03:04:27,480
Speaker 1: he felt awful for yelling at me and apologized, but

3522
03:04:27,560 --> 03:04:30,160
Speaker 1: explained that he hated seeing his wife upset.

3523
03:04:30,440 --> 03:04:32,080
Speaker 2: You made other people upset.

3524
03:04:33,080 --> 03:04:34,040
Speaker 1: Her people, her people.

3525
03:04:34,280 --> 03:04:34,920
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yea.

3526
03:04:35,760 --> 03:04:38,840
Speaker 1: They took the weekend to cool down, but as many

3527
03:04:38,879 --> 03:04:41,400
Speaker 1: of you guessed, my mom tried to save face via Facebook.

3528
03:04:41,480 --> 03:04:43,560
Speaker 1: She explained that she didn't think I would see it

3529
03:04:43,640 --> 03:04:46,840
Speaker 1: since I'm not usually on What she didn't realize is

3530
03:04:46,879 --> 03:04:50,000
Speaker 1: that when she typed my name in the post, my username.

3531
03:04:49,560 --> 03:04:50,960
Speaker 3: Populated, thus tagging me.

3532
03:04:51,120 --> 03:04:52,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god. He was shocked and embarrassed when I

3533
03:04:52,920 --> 03:04:56,520
Speaker 1: responded and started getting calls and texts from the extended family.

3534
03:04:57,080 --> 03:05:00,360
Speaker 1: She came clean to my dad about it. She came

3535
03:05:00,480 --> 03:05:02,959
Speaker 1: clean to my dad about it, and that's when they

3536
03:05:03,080 --> 03:05:06,119
Speaker 1: tried calling, but I wouldn't answer. My mom looked very distraught,

3537
03:05:06,120 --> 03:05:07,960
Speaker 1: and I just told her that everything was okay, and

3538
03:05:08,040 --> 03:05:09,959
Speaker 1: then I'm sorry that I responded the way I did.

3539
03:05:10,440 --> 03:05:13,360
Speaker 1: They should be sorry that they responded. Yeah, it's evident

3540
03:05:13,440 --> 03:05:16,840
Speaker 1: that she's talking. It's evident that she's taking her father's

3541
03:05:16,879 --> 03:05:19,760
Speaker 1: passing extremely hard, and I don't want to pile more

3542
03:05:19,840 --> 03:05:23,360
Speaker 1: on her. Now's not the time. My dad said, it's

3543
03:05:23,959 --> 03:05:26,840
Speaker 1: My dad said it's. My dad said, it's a few

3544
03:05:26,920 --> 03:05:28,960
Speaker 1: days late, but he'd love to order pizza and just

3545
03:05:29,000 --> 03:05:29,360
Speaker 1: hang out.

3546
03:05:29,840 --> 03:05:30,360
Speaker 3: I agreed.

3547
03:05:31,080 --> 03:05:33,160
Speaker 1: My boyfriend and brothers came inside and we spent a

3548
03:05:33,200 --> 03:05:35,720
Speaker 1: few hours listening to stories about my grandfather and my

3549
03:05:35,840 --> 03:05:40,080
Speaker 1: mom's childhood. It's definitely a birthday I won't forget. But

3550
03:05:40,200 --> 03:05:42,760
Speaker 1: I guess all's well, that ends well. I would like

3551
03:05:42,840 --> 03:05:45,280
Speaker 1: to point out that we do not like my dad's sister.

3552
03:05:45,720 --> 03:05:48,120
Speaker 1: She's an awful person, but my cousins are amazing, so

3553
03:05:48,240 --> 03:05:50,840
Speaker 1: my dad tolerates her. My mom can usually hand her

3554
03:05:50,840 --> 03:05:53,800
Speaker 1: herself around my aunt, but she's in a really vulnerable state,

3555
03:05:54,080 --> 03:05:56,760
Speaker 1: which is how this escalated. I'll probably talk to her

3556
03:05:56,800 --> 03:06:00,240
Speaker 1: about it again, just not anytime soon. Also, thank you

3557
03:06:00,800 --> 03:06:01,800
Speaker 1: for the birthday wishes.

3558
03:06:01,920 --> 03:06:05,800
Speaker 3: Dude, It's crazy because OPI did not seem to care

3559
03:06:05,840 --> 03:06:08,160
Speaker 3: about the birthday thing at all, but just was upset

3560
03:06:08,320 --> 03:06:09,879
Speaker 3: that other people.

3561
03:06:09,680 --> 03:06:13,800
Speaker 2: Were about her. The mom was literally like bullying her

3562
03:06:13,879 --> 03:06:16,720
Speaker 2: online for her boyfriend posting about her.

3563
03:06:17,000 --> 03:06:19,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is an l Yeah.

3564
03:06:19,600 --> 03:06:22,640
Speaker 2: Like she didn't call her parents up and like be like,

3565
03:06:23,280 --> 03:06:25,360
Speaker 2: why are you why didn't you wish me every birthday?

3566
03:06:25,440 --> 03:06:27,320
Speaker 2: She just she was like, it's fine whatever, you know,

3567
03:06:27,320 --> 03:06:30,320
Speaker 2: they're probably going through a lot, and then they attacked her.

3568
03:06:31,000 --> 03:06:32,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's so understanding.

3569
03:06:32,480 --> 03:06:36,080
Speaker 3: Yes, nuts, this is the craziest lap gas lamping. I've

3570
03:06:36,080 --> 03:06:36,400
Speaker 3: ever seen.

3571
03:06:36,760 --> 03:06:41,280
Speaker 1: Craziest gas lap. But some final comments he closes out,

3572
03:06:41,360 --> 03:06:43,640
Speaker 1: so not saying you should cut your parents off by

3573
03:06:43,680 --> 03:06:45,760
Speaker 1: any means, but this is the most half assed apology.

3574
03:06:46,080 --> 03:06:48,440
Speaker 1: Your father called and screamed at you because you forgot

3575
03:06:48,480 --> 03:06:50,840
Speaker 1: your birthday. Your mother made up a fake party and

3576
03:06:50,879 --> 03:06:53,200
Speaker 1: called you an ungrateful brat on the internet, thinking you'd

3577
03:06:53,280 --> 03:06:55,840
Speaker 1: never see so that you'd look like an I a whole.

3578
03:06:56,200 --> 03:06:59,760
Speaker 1: Their insults were incredibly public and nasty. Their apology was secretive.

3579
03:07:00,040 --> 03:07:02,480
Speaker 1: I'd ask for apology as a I would ask for

3580
03:07:02,920 --> 03:07:06,160
Speaker 1: a public apology as the insult. I'm sure they are

3581
03:07:06,200 --> 03:07:12,440
Speaker 1: embarrassed they for I'd ask for an apology as public. Oh,

3582
03:07:12,879 --> 03:07:16,920
Speaker 1: I'd ask for an apology as public as the insults.

3583
03:07:17,360 --> 03:07:20,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure they are embarrassed they forgot. They should be

3584
03:07:21,120 --> 03:07:24,440
Speaker 1: They should be sure. Your mom's father died, but that's

3585
03:07:24,520 --> 03:07:27,920
Speaker 1: no excuse for dad to forget. And if they'd forgotten

3586
03:07:28,160 --> 03:07:30,120
Speaker 1: or been off on the date because the jetlag, that

3587
03:07:30,160 --> 03:07:32,680
Speaker 1: would have been one thing. That's not what happened, though,

3588
03:07:32,920 --> 03:07:36,000
Speaker 1: And it's like forgetting a birthday one thing. One thing.

3589
03:07:36,720 --> 03:07:39,440
Speaker 1: Publicly dragging someone for you forgetting their.

3590
03:07:39,360 --> 03:07:42,039
Speaker 2: Birthday and then screaming at them on the phone.

3591
03:07:41,959 --> 03:07:44,760
Speaker 1: Completely another thing. Yeah, these parents, I don't know, maybe

3592
03:07:44,800 --> 03:07:46,600
Speaker 1: they're under a lot of stress or whatever, But.

3593
03:07:46,920 --> 03:07:49,840
Speaker 3: I really want to see a picture of the whole family,

3594
03:07:51,600 --> 03:07:53,400
Speaker 3: Like I want to see who's who, like, what the

3595
03:07:53,480 --> 03:07:55,880
Speaker 3: dad looks like, what the mom looks like, stuff like that.

3596
03:07:56,080 --> 03:07:57,840
Speaker 3: I don't know why. I just want to like see

3597
03:07:57,840 --> 03:07:59,400
Speaker 3: their friends so you can track them down.

3598
03:08:00,280 --> 03:08:02,080
Speaker 2: Makes the apologist.

3599
03:08:03,240 --> 03:08:09,280
Speaker 3: Justice. That was good because you've been hanging out with

3600
03:08:09,320 --> 03:08:15,200
Speaker 3: your Christian Bell friend the guy that looks like Christian Bell. Uh,

3601
03:08:15,560 --> 03:08:16,440
Speaker 3: you know who I'm talking about.

3602
03:08:16,600 --> 03:08:18,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think who looks like Christian sings?

3603
03:08:19,040 --> 03:08:28,480
Speaker 3: He did a lab with Anthony. He does triathlons, Oh, Marcel, Yeah, yeah, so.

3604
03:08:30,520 --> 03:08:35,120
Speaker 1: They're musicians. They need Also have you listened to Anthony

3605
03:08:35,200 --> 03:08:35,840
Speaker 1: Danita's song?

3606
03:08:36,040 --> 03:08:37,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? Have you listened?

3607
03:08:37,320 --> 03:08:40,560
Speaker 1: Put put Anthony in the chat if you've listened, because

3608
03:08:42,040 --> 03:08:45,240
Speaker 1: help up with some streams, y'all. It's a good song.

3609
03:08:45,320 --> 03:08:45,959
Speaker 1: It's a good song.

3610
03:08:46,000 --> 03:08:46,720
Speaker 3: And he's so cool.

3611
03:08:46,800 --> 03:08:47,600
Speaker 2: He's super cool.

3612
03:08:47,840 --> 03:08:50,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, most handsome man in l A second handsome man.

3613
03:08:50,360 --> 03:08:52,280
Speaker 1: He is hot as frick.

3614
03:08:52,400 --> 03:08:54,000
Speaker 2: It's true and he's cool.

3615
03:08:55,360 --> 03:08:55,760
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

3616
03:08:56,160 --> 03:09:00,240
Speaker 1: So anyway, as for apologies public as the insult, they

3617
03:09:00,240 --> 03:09:02,960
Speaker 1: should be anyway, razzles.

3618
03:09:03,360 --> 03:09:06,959
Speaker 3: Dazzles, razzles and dazzles the old.

3619
03:09:08,360 --> 03:09:11,760
Speaker 1: It sounds like there was some extenuating circumstances, including being

3620
03:09:11,840 --> 03:09:15,720
Speaker 1: a lambastard by someone, as well as recently burying a

3621
03:09:15,840 --> 03:09:18,800
Speaker 1: family member. They have recognized they made an awful mistake

3622
03:09:18,879 --> 03:09:22,119
Speaker 1: and are clearly incredibly remorseful. As Opie said, her mom

3623
03:09:22,200 --> 03:09:24,119
Speaker 1: was in a vulnerable state, so her dad likely forgot.

3624
03:09:24,400 --> 03:09:27,640
Speaker 1: He was focused on his wife's grief. Does this justify

3625
03:09:27,680 --> 03:09:32,120
Speaker 1: their behavior? No? No. Does it make it okay?

3626
03:09:33,440 --> 03:09:33,480
Speaker 3: No?

3627
03:09:33,879 --> 03:09:33,920
Speaker 2: No.

3628
03:09:34,200 --> 03:09:36,120
Speaker 1: But the goal of remorse and apologies is to make

3629
03:09:36,160 --> 03:09:38,680
Speaker 1: sure the behavior doesn't repeat, and since this isn't a

3630
03:09:38,720 --> 03:09:41,680
Speaker 1: pattern for them, they don't usually do this. There were

3631
03:09:41,840 --> 03:09:46,440
Speaker 1: extenuating circumstances, and most importantly, they feel bad about what

3632
03:09:46,520 --> 03:09:49,160
Speaker 1: they did. I doubt this will be a recurring situation,

3633
03:09:49,320 --> 03:09:52,120
Speaker 1: so I see no benefit to continue beating this dead horse.

3634
03:09:52,480 --> 03:09:55,200
Speaker 1: Opie is handling this in a great way, and she

3635
03:09:55,440 --> 03:09:59,320
Speaker 1: really wouldn't accomplish anything by pressing the matter further except

3636
03:09:59,480 --> 03:10:03,200
Speaker 1: making the even more like crap. And it's not like

3637
03:10:03,280 --> 03:10:05,240
Speaker 1: they are treating it like no big deal. If it

3638
03:10:05,320 --> 03:10:07,360
Speaker 1: still bothers her months later, she can bring it up

3639
03:10:07,400 --> 03:10:12,200
Speaker 1: again when the mom isn't as distraught, And that's where

3640
03:10:12,240 --> 03:10:18,400
Speaker 1: the story ends. Fricking sleigh dog freaking slay dog. Fricking

3641
03:10:18,520 --> 03:10:24,080
Speaker 1: freaking sleigh fricking slay you bannoy Dragon says it's really

3642
03:10:24,120 --> 03:10:27,440
Speaker 1: funny how Sophia thinks saying someone's first name is docs.

3643
03:10:27,680 --> 03:10:32,600
Speaker 2: You know what, Sometimes you say like someone's nickname and

3644
03:10:32,720 --> 03:10:33,400
Speaker 2: it's docksing.

3645
03:10:34,520 --> 03:10:36,760
Speaker 1: That was different because it was someone I was dating,

3646
03:10:38,360 --> 03:10:38,760
Speaker 1: that's true.

3647
03:10:39,320 --> 03:10:42,200
Speaker 2: None of us are dating Anthony as much as Riley

3648
03:10:42,280 --> 03:10:42,600
Speaker 2: wants to.

3649
03:10:44,040 --> 03:10:46,600
Speaker 1: Riley was like, I would rather, I would I would

3650
03:10:46,680 --> 03:10:50,039
Speaker 1: either want to look like Matthew McConaughey or Anthony.

3651
03:10:51,280 --> 03:10:52,959
Speaker 3: If I could pick two people. Also, I put another

3652
03:10:53,000 --> 03:10:54,480
Speaker 3: person on that list, and it's Donald Glover.

3653
03:10:55,560 --> 03:10:58,600
Speaker 1: Really, I think Anthony is hotter than Donald Glover.

3654
03:10:58,800 --> 03:11:00,800
Speaker 3: But like person, and like if I had to be

3655
03:11:00,959 --> 03:11:03,400
Speaker 3: someone from Donald Glover's really.

3656
03:11:03,240 --> 03:11:05,840
Speaker 1: Cool, Donald Glover's really cool. He gets extra hot points

3657
03:11:05,840 --> 03:11:06,199
Speaker 1: for being.

3658
03:11:06,560 --> 03:11:08,119
Speaker 2: Yeah he's hot, He's like cool hot.

3659
03:11:08,200 --> 03:11:09,760
Speaker 3: He's a tin on a tin because of how cool

3660
03:11:09,800 --> 03:11:10,000
Speaker 3: he is.

3661
03:11:10,200 --> 03:11:12,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and he has like a peach farm.

3662
03:11:12,800 --> 03:11:15,160
Speaker 3: That's sick what he just does whatever he wants. Also,

3663
03:11:15,240 --> 03:11:17,440
Speaker 3: Anthony can dunk, so I would want Anthony.

3664
03:11:17,640 --> 03:11:18,520
Speaker 1: Anthony could dunk.

3665
03:11:18,600 --> 03:11:22,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, he can not what I heard you, he

3666
03:11:25,360 --> 03:11:25,880
Speaker 3: would you hear?

3667
03:11:26,280 --> 03:11:28,720
Speaker 2: I thought you said Anthony can talk, and I was.

3668
03:11:28,760 --> 03:11:31,920
Speaker 1: Like, Doc, you don't know what doking is.

3669
03:11:33,879 --> 03:11:35,959
Speaker 3: Like soaking kind of.

3670
03:11:37,440 --> 03:11:39,160
Speaker 2: Ish ish.

3671
03:11:39,520 --> 03:11:41,959
Speaker 3: So one of the comments tell me what, donky, don't tell.

3672
03:11:41,840 --> 03:11:48,120
Speaker 1: Him anyway, if you want to go listen to our

3673
03:11:48,280 --> 03:11:49,599
Speaker 1: hottest friends.

3674
03:11:50,400 --> 03:11:53,840
Speaker 2: Our hottest friend, hottest.

3675
03:11:53,520 --> 03:11:56,520
Speaker 3: Friend, Yeah, I agree, I agree not to Sophia. But

3676
03:11:56,959 --> 03:11:57,240
Speaker 3: I don't.

3677
03:11:57,320 --> 03:12:00,480
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's anyone hotter than him to think.

3678
03:12:00,840 --> 03:12:04,160
Speaker 1: I mean, we have some hot friends. I have a name, but.

3679
03:12:09,120 --> 03:12:11,320
Speaker 3: I have two names. What you wear to bed? And

3680
03:12:12,800 --> 03:12:13,800
Speaker 3: I gotta think of the other ones.

3681
03:12:14,080 --> 03:12:16,800
Speaker 1: What you wear to bed? Yep, that's your name? No?

3682
03:12:16,840 --> 03:12:19,400
Speaker 3: No, no, what is it? What do you wear to bed? Okay,

3683
03:12:19,840 --> 03:12:25,960
Speaker 3: don't stop stop. Justice for Sale says does he have that?

3684
03:12:26,480 --> 03:12:27,080
Speaker 1: But dunk?

3685
03:12:27,400 --> 03:12:31,640
Speaker 2: But let's open a package.

3686
03:12:31,920 --> 03:12:34,280
Speaker 3: We don't have anymore. They're all the po barts and

3687
03:12:34,360 --> 03:12:34,959
Speaker 3: they're closing.

3688
03:12:35,360 --> 03:12:38,840
Speaker 1: There's no more. But there's no way we.

3689
03:12:40,640 --> 03:12:41,199
Speaker 2: Go outside.

3690
03:12:41,240 --> 03:12:42,439
Speaker 3: And look they're gone.

3691
03:12:42,440 --> 03:12:46,480
Speaker 1: To go outside, and look, I don't trust him anyway.

3692
03:12:46,640 --> 03:12:49,960
Speaker 1: Foxy Cat TMU is awesome. I buy them buy from

3693
03:12:50,000 --> 03:12:53,680
Speaker 1: there all the time, good stuff, good price. I told you,

3694
03:12:54,000 --> 03:12:56,520
Speaker 1: you tricked me into giving advertisements.

3695
03:12:56,840 --> 03:12:57,720
Speaker 2: You you.

3696
03:12:59,200 --> 03:12:59,920
Speaker 1: You tricks.

3697
03:13:00,080 --> 03:13:01,720
Speaker 2: Their short story that we can read.

3698
03:13:01,680 --> 03:13:05,400
Speaker 1: Kiseikin said, joined same users all have stories to tell

3699
03:13:05,760 --> 03:13:08,840
Speaker 1: all and Curvy Girl all the flame three months of

3700
03:13:09,240 --> 03:13:10,520
Speaker 1: what the he membership?

3701
03:13:13,560 --> 03:13:14,360
Speaker 3: What the heck?

3702
03:13:15,800 --> 03:13:19,000
Speaker 1: Baby guy Zilla. I have to go, all right, I

3703
03:13:19,200 --> 03:13:22,680
Speaker 1: I have to just I literally just have to be

3704
03:13:22,800 --> 03:13:24,959
Speaker 1: gone for fifteen minutes and then I'll be back.

3705
03:13:24,879 --> 03:13:26,240
Speaker 2: And then I have to go. Because I have that,

3706
03:13:26,879 --> 03:13:29,240
Speaker 2: I can hold my tomorrow.

3707
03:13:29,360 --> 03:13:30,360
Speaker 1: I can hold down the stream.

3708
03:13:30,879 --> 03:13:33,800
Speaker 3: Okay, baby godzilla, Oh my gosh.

3709
03:13:35,080 --> 03:13:37,080
Speaker 1: H well, let me let me read. Let me read

3710
03:13:37,200 --> 03:13:41,920
Speaker 1: the Teddy or PJ. How do they know? So you.

3711
03:13:45,080 --> 03:13:46,040
Speaker 2: Can we move on?

3712
03:13:47,200 --> 03:13:49,200
Speaker 3: Well, they're a musician too, so we can say that,

3713
03:13:49,600 --> 03:13:49,880
Speaker 3: move on.

3714
03:13:50,320 --> 03:13:55,280
Speaker 1: Loophole, loophole D E N I T T O and

3715
03:13:55,520 --> 03:13:58,480
Speaker 1: don't go go send him some love. He's also on

3716
03:13:58,560 --> 03:13:59,160
Speaker 1: Instagram too.

3717
03:13:59,200 --> 03:14:01,680
Speaker 2: Okay, let's talk abut Anthony. Let's keep it on Anthony.

3718
03:14:01,920 --> 03:14:06,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, Tyler Ward, thanks for the six sixty nine.

3719
03:14:06,840 --> 03:14:09,560
Speaker 1: June twenty second will be my eleventh anniversary of sobriety.

3720
03:14:10,280 --> 03:14:13,520
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go oh. Today marks my four thousand and

3721
03:14:13,720 --> 03:14:16,360
Speaker 1: second day of sobriety. I wanted to donate forty oh two,

3722
03:14:16,440 --> 03:14:17,920
Speaker 1: but that's a little too much for me right now.

3723
03:14:18,200 --> 03:14:21,520
Speaker 1: Wife and I enjoy the show. Y'all keep doing your thing.

3724
03:14:21,760 --> 03:14:25,360
Speaker 1: Tyler Ward, congratulations, that's awesome.

3725
03:14:25,600 --> 03:14:26,080
Speaker 2: Congratt.

3726
03:14:26,720 --> 03:14:33,200
Speaker 3: People asking for Riley solo stream every day it's like switching, Yeah,

3727
03:14:34,000 --> 03:14:34,640
Speaker 3: what do you think?

3728
03:14:34,840 --> 03:14:34,960
Speaker 1: Uh?

3729
03:14:35,400 --> 03:14:37,800
Speaker 3: It just be a whole lot of this, Like, yeah,

3730
03:14:38,920 --> 03:14:41,920
Speaker 3: I love that boom keeps coming boom, I can do that.

3731
03:14:42,879 --> 03:14:47,480
Speaker 1: Oh, here you go, Sleepless Nights. My sister tip ten dollars,

3732
03:14:47,480 --> 03:14:49,280
Speaker 1: so I'm going to tip ten dollars. Also, if my

3733
03:14:49,440 --> 03:14:54,200
Speaker 1: sister is subscribing to the channel, anyone can subscribe. Love

3734
03:14:54,240 --> 03:14:57,280
Speaker 1: you guys, Sleepless Night shout out to you. Thanks for

3735
03:14:57,480 --> 03:15:02,080
Speaker 1: plugging the stream. That's my alarm to Oh.

3736
03:15:02,000 --> 03:15:02,840
Speaker 3: That sounds so cool.

3737
03:15:03,000 --> 03:15:04,879
Speaker 2: Good at your meeting alarm.

3738
03:15:04,640 --> 03:15:07,360
Speaker 1: Baby Godzella, what's hotter than another story?

3739
03:15:09,120 --> 03:15:10,039
Speaker 3: Nothing's harder than.

3740
03:15:10,040 --> 03:15:13,000
Speaker 1: Nothing's hotter than another story? Thanks for the one hundred

3741
03:15:13,160 --> 03:15:18,760
Speaker 1: and five dollars keeping the stream going going, Baby Godzilla

3742
03:15:18,920 --> 03:15:21,840
Speaker 1: keeping it going, and Baby Godzella, thanks for the five

3743
03:15:21,879 --> 03:15:24,720
Speaker 1: buck tip. Nothing's hotter than Sam canceling his plans for us.

3744
03:15:25,160 --> 03:15:27,360
Speaker 1: I'm literally gonna go on this call. It's a it's

3745
03:15:27,400 --> 03:15:33,960
Speaker 1: a a goal, but I will be literally right back

3746
03:15:34,240 --> 03:15:37,600
Speaker 1: after it. Also, caskin casee Keene, thanks for the five bucks.

3747
03:15:37,720 --> 03:15:40,120
Speaker 1: My brother never goes to my birthday nor wishes me

3748
03:15:40,160 --> 03:15:44,240
Speaker 1: happy birthday. That's a whole story on its own. Well, Caskeene,

3749
03:15:44,720 --> 03:15:48,240
Speaker 1: Happy birthday from Sophia's brother to you. Yeah, at least

3750
03:15:49,600 --> 03:15:52,920
Speaker 1: Bay and Foxy Cat. I got the black boxes and

3751
03:15:53,000 --> 03:15:57,160
Speaker 1: the black letters from tmuse. Those were the letters were great.

3752
03:15:57,240 --> 03:15:59,200
Speaker 1: They had like the shine on it really cool, like

3753
03:15:59,320 --> 03:16:02,720
Speaker 1: the Foxy can Thanks for the two bucks, Sophia. You

3754
03:16:02,800 --> 03:16:07,480
Speaker 1: want to hold all right, hold hold this call down

3755
03:16:07,560 --> 03:16:08,480
Speaker 1: and I'll be back.

3756
03:16:08,560 --> 03:16:10,040
Speaker 3: And your friend to come in here and just like

3757
03:16:10,120 --> 03:16:10,920
Speaker 3: sip sleeping.

3758
03:16:14,080 --> 03:16:19,000
Speaker 1: Okay, good for her, yep.

3759
03:16:19,240 --> 03:16:19,920
Speaker 3: Imagine sleep.

3760
03:16:20,080 --> 03:16:20,800
Speaker 2: What story are we on?

3761
03:16:21,640 --> 03:16:28,240
Speaker 3: One second? It is Oh my gosh, oh my.

3762
03:16:28,320 --> 03:16:32,560
Speaker 2: Gosh, five, S one, Hi, forty We're like so all

3763
03:16:32,720 --> 03:16:33,840
Speaker 2: over the place with these stories.

3764
03:16:34,480 --> 03:16:36,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was my fault. We're going to end it

3765
03:16:36,520 --> 03:16:37,039
Speaker 3: like earlier.

3766
03:16:37,959 --> 03:16:44,200
Speaker 2: You're fine, You're fine. Forty one Okay, okaykey, hold on

3767
03:16:45,320 --> 03:16:50,520
Speaker 2: S one yep, let's get into its. Sam's leaving because

3768
03:16:50,520 --> 03:16:53,760
Speaker 2: he is a work meeting. He'll be back, but you'll

3769
03:16:53,800 --> 03:16:56,160
Speaker 2: be back, Brittany, I see you Lyn.

3770
03:16:56,480 --> 03:16:59,360
Speaker 3: What plans please? I just want to play basketball?

3771
03:16:59,440 --> 03:16:59,600
Speaker 4: Eight?

3772
03:16:59,760 --> 03:17:01,039
Speaker 3: Is that possible? Okay?

3773
03:17:01,440 --> 03:17:05,879
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I requested. It's eight o'clock, I said,

3774
03:17:06,040 --> 03:17:08,880
Speaker 2: I have to yeah, I said, don't want to leave

3775
03:17:09,120 --> 03:17:11,400
Speaker 2: at around six because my friend is here for the week.

3776
03:17:11,520 --> 03:17:14,720
Speaker 2: She's visiting me from Canada. Actually met her. Fun story

3777
03:17:15,080 --> 03:17:17,040
Speaker 2: very quick before I start this. I met her while

3778
03:17:17,120 --> 03:17:20,120
Speaker 2: traveling in Europe. We met in Italy and then we

3779
03:17:20,240 --> 03:17:23,520
Speaker 2: met at a couple other countries. It's pretty fun, but

3780
03:17:23,600 --> 03:17:24,280
Speaker 2: let's get into it.

3781
03:17:24,480 --> 03:17:26,680
Speaker 3: I just want and I will give up my evening

3782
03:17:26,760 --> 03:17:28,880
Speaker 3: for you, but please please me.

3783
03:17:30,000 --> 03:17:33,000
Speaker 2: I know that my actually wait, hold on, what is

3784
03:17:33,080 --> 03:17:34,480
Speaker 2: the question of this one.

3785
03:17:36,840 --> 03:17:37,160
Speaker 1: Old one?

3786
03:17:37,520 --> 03:17:38,640
Speaker 3: Are we be okay?

3787
03:17:39,240 --> 03:17:40,840
Speaker 2: Should you approach divorce?

3788
03:17:41,360 --> 03:17:43,480
Speaker 3: Ooh that's a hard hitter.

3789
03:17:43,760 --> 03:17:47,120
Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh, I know that my husband is cheating on

3790
03:17:47,280 --> 03:17:49,600
Speaker 2: me with my best friend. But if I leave, he'll

3791
03:17:49,720 --> 03:17:53,520
Speaker 2: take half. What do I do? So the story, the

3792
03:17:53,560 --> 03:17:55,720
Speaker 2: theme of these stories are what do you do in divorce?

3793
03:17:55,760 --> 03:17:58,720
Speaker 2: And we're about to find out what Muted N seventy

3794
03:17:58,720 --> 03:18:02,199
Speaker 2: eight ninety five does they say. I am a forty

3795
03:18:02,280 --> 03:18:04,320
Speaker 2: year old mother of a baby girl who is five.

3796
03:18:05,040 --> 03:18:07,800
Speaker 2: I've been married to my husband for twelve years. About

3797
03:18:07,840 --> 03:18:10,480
Speaker 2: ten years ago, I started my business and it is

3798
03:18:10,600 --> 03:18:13,680
Speaker 2: my pride and joy. I love my life and I

3799
03:18:13,840 --> 03:18:16,760
Speaker 2: enjoy my work. Two years ago, I lost my beautiful

3800
03:18:16,800 --> 03:18:17,920
Speaker 2: mother to breast cancer.

3801
03:18:18,720 --> 03:18:19,160
Speaker 1: So sorry.

3802
03:18:19,640 --> 03:18:22,400
Speaker 2: It all happened in five weeks, and she was so young,

3803
03:18:22,959 --> 03:18:28,840
Speaker 2: fifty five years old. It sent me into shock and depression. Laughing.

3804
03:18:29,320 --> 03:18:31,080
Speaker 3: Someone just sent me a link.

3805
03:18:32,720 --> 03:18:36,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, that yeah, that's sorry, Riley, wasn't laughing

3806
03:18:36,440 --> 03:18:39,920
Speaker 2: at what I just read, And you don't have to

3807
03:18:39,959 --> 03:18:42,199
Speaker 2: read it a loud I'm gonna keep going all the story.

3808
03:18:42,280 --> 03:18:43,400
Speaker 2: Oh oh.

3809
03:18:45,760 --> 03:18:48,040
Speaker 3: Okay, I read sad story, Riley.

3810
03:18:49,400 --> 03:18:51,160
Speaker 2: It sent me into shock and depression.

3811
03:18:51,320 --> 03:18:52,000
Speaker 3: Bag same.

3812
03:18:53,440 --> 03:18:56,400
Speaker 2: A short while before that, my best friend out friend

3813
03:18:56,720 --> 03:18:59,360
Speaker 2: found out that her husband cheated and he left her

3814
03:18:59,440 --> 03:19:02,400
Speaker 2: for his man mistress. Oh my god. It was a

3815
03:19:02,520 --> 03:19:04,920
Speaker 2: hard time, and my best friend and I became even

3816
03:19:05,000 --> 03:19:06,200
Speaker 2: closer than ever before.

3817
03:19:06,320 --> 03:19:07,560
Speaker 3: It was a hard time for her too.

3818
03:19:08,000 --> 03:19:10,160
Speaker 2: She moved in with me for a while after my

3819
03:19:10,240 --> 03:19:13,480
Speaker 2: mother passed because I wasn't really functioning and she was helpless.

3820
03:19:14,640 --> 03:19:19,160
Speaker 2: I'm not acknowledging that I started with antidepressants that killed

3821
03:19:19,240 --> 03:19:23,080
Speaker 2: my sexual needs. I felt guilty for my husband, but

3822
03:19:23,200 --> 03:19:25,560
Speaker 2: I really couldn't do anything but try to be healthy

3823
03:19:25,600 --> 03:19:29,480
Speaker 2: again as soon as possible. My best friend lived with

3824
03:19:29,600 --> 03:19:32,400
Speaker 2: us for one year, and they started sleeping together towards

3825
03:19:32,440 --> 03:19:36,160
Speaker 2: the end of that year. Oh whoa, your husband sucks.

3826
03:19:36,920 --> 03:19:38,440
Speaker 3: Ah, your husband sucks.

3827
03:19:39,959 --> 03:19:43,280
Speaker 2: Augh. That's when I got home early and heard them.

3828
03:19:44,600 --> 03:19:48,280
Speaker 2: I ran out in shock. I came back a few

3829
03:19:48,320 --> 03:19:52,560
Speaker 2: hours later, pretending nothing happened. I managed to smoothly find

3830
03:19:52,600 --> 03:19:54,960
Speaker 2: her a place because I couldn't bear it happening in

3831
03:19:55,120 --> 03:20:01,280
Speaker 2: my home, my sanctuary, happy place where I live with

3832
03:20:01,360 --> 03:20:01,800
Speaker 2: my daughter.

3833
03:20:02,000 --> 03:20:04,320
Speaker 3: What he probably needs to get a new.

3834
03:20:07,240 --> 03:20:09,600
Speaker 2: My best friend had already found herself a job, and

3835
03:20:09,680 --> 03:20:12,120
Speaker 2: I took the opportunity to find her the apartment near

3836
03:20:12,200 --> 03:20:15,440
Speaker 2: her job. She was grateful. I was a bit more relieved.

3837
03:20:15,840 --> 03:20:17,680
Speaker 3: Hold On, hold on.

3838
03:20:18,000 --> 03:20:21,840
Speaker 2: So Opie found out that her husband was cheating on

3839
03:20:21,959 --> 03:20:25,880
Speaker 2: her with her best friend, but felt like she couldn't

3840
03:20:26,920 --> 03:20:30,119
Speaker 2: expose him for it, so she just found her friend

3841
03:20:30,240 --> 03:20:37,240
Speaker 2: an apartment. Oh oh, Kansas says, imagine helping your friend

3842
03:20:37,320 --> 03:20:42,959
Speaker 2: and she f's your husband. The affair is still going on. Oh,

3843
03:20:44,160 --> 03:20:47,040
Speaker 2: if I leave, he'll take half. It will ruin me

3844
03:20:47,200 --> 03:20:49,400
Speaker 2: and my business and what I am trying to build

3845
03:20:49,440 --> 03:20:50,200
Speaker 2: for me and my baby.

3846
03:20:50,360 --> 03:20:52,760
Speaker 3: Wait, so do they live in like a state where

3847
03:20:53,040 --> 03:20:57,720
Speaker 3: that infidelity is doesn't matter? I don't know. Wow, I

3848
03:20:57,840 --> 03:20:58,720
Speaker 3: need those answers.

3849
03:20:59,280 --> 03:21:01,920
Speaker 2: Uh No, I don't want to leave. It is so

3850
03:21:02,360 --> 03:21:04,480
Speaker 2: unfair that he is the one cheating and I am

3851
03:21:04,560 --> 03:21:07,880
Speaker 2: the one who will pay if I say anything. I refuse,

3852
03:21:08,480 --> 03:21:11,720
Speaker 2: so I'm letting it happen instead. I wrote him off

3853
03:21:11,760 --> 03:21:15,160
Speaker 2: as my companion and safety blanket. I still have lots

3854
03:21:15,200 --> 03:21:17,920
Speaker 2: to be grateful for my baby, my family, and my

3855
03:21:18,040 --> 03:21:21,560
Speaker 2: beautiful home and my business. Most of the time, I

3856
03:21:21,640 --> 03:21:24,600
Speaker 2: am content and happy, even though I myself don't know

3857
03:21:24,680 --> 03:21:29,080
Speaker 2: how I'm doing. Maybe it's numbness or resignation, or maybe

3858
03:21:29,120 --> 03:21:33,119
Speaker 2: it's true contentment. But sometimes when everything is a hundred

3859
03:21:33,200 --> 03:21:37,640
Speaker 2: times magnified, I can barely contain my panic, especially at

3860
03:21:37,720 --> 03:21:41,039
Speaker 2: night when he wakes me up because I'm crying again?

3861
03:21:41,360 --> 03:21:42,400
Speaker 2: Are you having a nightmare?

3862
03:21:42,840 --> 03:21:42,880
Speaker 6: What?

3863
03:21:43,840 --> 03:21:44,080
Speaker 4: Ah?

3864
03:21:44,959 --> 03:21:48,800
Speaker 2: Frederick Gottis, thank you for the one hundred bucks. Oh

3865
03:21:48,879 --> 03:21:52,160
Speaker 2: my god, Curby girl La Flame, thank you for the

3866
03:21:52,200 --> 03:21:54,160
Speaker 2: five bucks? You ignore me again? What happened to the

3867
03:21:54,200 --> 03:21:57,960
Speaker 2: okay sub reddit? It's god, nuh yeah, but we're not

3868
03:21:58,040 --> 03:22:01,480
Speaker 2: ignoring you. Thank you for the We appreciate you and

3869
03:22:01,600 --> 03:22:01,960
Speaker 2: we love you.

3870
03:22:02,200 --> 03:22:06,160
Speaker 3: Wow oooh all right, what happened?

3871
03:22:06,240 --> 03:22:11,720
Speaker 2: What just happened in this story? Especially maybe I'm crying again?

3872
03:22:11,879 --> 03:22:13,880
Speaker 2: Are you having a nightmare? And he tries to kiss

3873
03:22:13,920 --> 03:22:16,360
Speaker 2: and cuddle me to make me feel safe. I'm here,

3874
03:22:16,600 --> 03:22:18,560
Speaker 2: I'm here. That would make me feel so much worse

3875
03:22:18,879 --> 03:22:20,640
Speaker 2: if my partner was like trying to comfort me. But

3876
03:22:21,440 --> 03:22:25,640
Speaker 2: they were the reason that I was crying you're safe.

3877
03:22:26,000 --> 03:22:27,760
Speaker 2: I wish I could tell him that my nightmares are

3878
03:22:27,840 --> 03:22:30,680
Speaker 2: my escape from reality with him, and that his shoulders

3879
03:22:31,360 --> 03:22:35,560
Speaker 2: aren't safe. He rarely asks why I'm crying. He probably

3880
03:22:35,640 --> 03:22:38,520
Speaker 2: thinks it's his mom because that's what I tell him.

3881
03:22:38,680 --> 03:22:41,080
Speaker 2: But sometimes I feel like he knows, or that he

3882
03:22:41,240 --> 03:22:45,600
Speaker 2: can't help himself, wondering what's going on behind those eyes?

3883
03:22:45,879 --> 03:22:46,480
Speaker 3: What do you mean?

3884
03:22:47,120 --> 03:22:50,240
Speaker 2: I can't read your face anymore? See you're silent again.

3885
03:22:50,959 --> 03:22:53,520
Speaker 2: When I look at him, he immediately looks away like

3886
03:22:53,600 --> 03:22:55,920
Speaker 2: he's scared. He would turn into stone and says, I

3887
03:22:56,000 --> 03:22:59,160
Speaker 2: miss you, that's all. My panic has increased more these

3888
03:22:59,200 --> 03:23:02,040
Speaker 2: past few months since he started paying attention to me again.

3889
03:23:02,760 --> 03:23:05,800
Speaker 2: The first period after a mom's passing. He never bothered

3890
03:23:06,000 --> 03:23:10,480
Speaker 2: me out of curiosity, so courtesy. I suppose never ask

3891
03:23:10,560 --> 03:23:13,800
Speaker 2: for intimacy. Then he had her, so he didn't need me.

3892
03:23:14,640 --> 03:23:17,720
Speaker 2: But now I don't know what changed. They're still together,

3893
03:23:17,879 --> 03:23:20,240
Speaker 2: so what does he want from me? Is he testing me?

3894
03:23:20,640 --> 03:23:21,800
Speaker 2: M Oh?

3895
03:23:22,640 --> 03:23:24,920
Speaker 3: Oh, this is so sad. I honestly don't think he's

3896
03:23:24,959 --> 03:23:25,680
Speaker 3: thinking about.

3897
03:23:27,120 --> 03:23:30,800
Speaker 2: I think he probably just feels guilty. I never understood

3898
03:23:30,840 --> 03:23:33,240
Speaker 2: why they're doing what they're doing either. I've seen their texts.

3899
03:23:33,520 --> 03:23:36,880
Speaker 2: There's no love there, no respect, no warmth. Not what

3900
03:23:37,000 --> 03:23:39,320
Speaker 2: I would expect from two people who are sleeping together,

3901
03:23:39,640 --> 03:23:42,600
Speaker 2: especially not when the stakes are so high. You would

3902
03:23:42,600 --> 03:23:44,800
Speaker 2: think that they love each other so much that they're

3903
03:23:44,840 --> 03:23:47,520
Speaker 2: willing to pay the price in case they're caught. No,

3904
03:23:47,959 --> 03:23:50,680
Speaker 2: there's a lot of anger, fighting and resentment, a lot

3905
03:23:50,720 --> 03:23:54,200
Speaker 2: of guilt and self hatred. He calls himself and her

3906
03:23:54,400 --> 03:23:57,640
Speaker 2: disgusting in shells of human beings. Is that to some

3907
03:23:57,800 --> 03:24:00,280
Speaker 2: sort of love? Okay? So whoa?

3908
03:24:01,400 --> 03:24:01,640
Speaker 3: Whoa?

3909
03:24:02,200 --> 03:24:05,480
Speaker 2: So the husband and the affair partner are just like

3910
03:24:06,000 --> 03:24:11,160
Speaker 2: being horrible to each other. Two yikes. I don't know

3911
03:24:11,200 --> 03:24:14,000
Speaker 2: why I'm writing here. I googled about infidelity and self

3912
03:24:14,040 --> 03:24:16,160
Speaker 2: help and I ended up in this community and I

3913
03:24:16,280 --> 03:24:19,800
Speaker 2: read tens of similar stories. Maybe I would feel better

3914
03:24:19,840 --> 03:24:22,760
Speaker 2: writing my own down. People don't think Please, don't think

3915
03:24:22,800 --> 03:24:24,840
Speaker 2: too ill of me. I know that I'm pathetic, but

3916
03:24:24,920 --> 03:24:25,840
Speaker 2: I used to have more to you.

3917
03:24:26,240 --> 03:24:29,360
Speaker 3: Well, in a way. That's good that he feels guilty

3918
03:24:29,400 --> 03:24:31,960
Speaker 3: about it, But it doesn't seem like he's changed.

3919
03:24:32,240 --> 03:24:36,280
Speaker 2: He's not changing. He feels guilty because he's thinking of himself.

3920
03:24:36,480 --> 03:24:37,160
Speaker 3: He just stuck.

3921
03:24:37,440 --> 03:24:42,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, he sucks. He's so horrible additional information from op

3922
03:24:43,000 --> 03:24:46,040
Speaker 2: on speaking with a lawyer regarding her assets. Please get

3923
03:24:46,080 --> 03:24:48,840
Speaker 2: her out of that, or please I have already talked

3924
03:24:48,879 --> 03:24:51,680
Speaker 2: to a lawyer. I contacted one half out an hour

3925
03:24:51,800 --> 03:24:55,400
Speaker 2: after I heard them in my bed. I have discussed

3926
03:24:55,560 --> 03:24:58,720
Speaker 2: many options during the months, and none give me full

3927
03:24:58,800 --> 03:25:02,040
Speaker 2: control of my life. And come one was a post

3928
03:25:02,120 --> 03:25:04,600
Speaker 2: nuptial agreement, of course, But why would he just sign

3929
03:25:04,680 --> 03:25:07,560
Speaker 2: one we discussed. Maybe I confess to him that I

3930
03:25:07,680 --> 03:25:09,960
Speaker 2: know about them, hoping that he won't want to do

3931
03:25:10,080 --> 03:25:12,920
Speaker 2: anything to save the marriage, including a post nup. But

3932
03:25:13,040 --> 03:25:15,400
Speaker 2: this is leaving too much to chance and to someone

3933
03:25:15,480 --> 03:25:18,280
Speaker 2: who could easily cheat on me. But also it doesn't

3934
03:25:18,280 --> 03:25:20,640
Speaker 2: feel right to lure him into signing then go ahead

3935
03:25:20,680 --> 03:25:24,560
Speaker 2: with divorce anyway. I can't be this malicious. Be malicious.

3936
03:25:24,920 --> 03:25:25,520
Speaker 2: He sucks.

3937
03:25:25,920 --> 03:25:26,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, he sucks.

3938
03:25:27,600 --> 03:25:30,600
Speaker 2: He's the worst. Yeah, God, he's horrible.

3939
03:25:30,920 --> 03:25:33,160
Speaker 3: You need to get out of there. You have the

3940
03:25:33,240 --> 03:25:33,560
Speaker 3: right to be.

3941
03:25:33,760 --> 03:25:37,560
Speaker 2: Because my other option is one of my family members

3942
03:25:37,640 --> 03:25:39,880
Speaker 2: buys in my dad or my brother, for example, like

3943
03:25:39,959 --> 03:25:42,960
Speaker 2: ten percent. It would leave me with majority in case

3944
03:25:43,000 --> 03:25:45,800
Speaker 2: of divorce, and I could buy him out eventually. But again,

3945
03:25:46,080 --> 03:25:50,000
Speaker 2: I leave much to chance and no control over the outcome. Mostly,

3946
03:25:50,120 --> 03:25:52,720
Speaker 2: I'm not looking forward to seeing my husband's real face,

3947
03:25:52,879 --> 03:25:55,280
Speaker 2: which I believe I will when I ask for divorce.

3948
03:25:56,000 --> 03:25:58,440
Speaker 2: If he did this to me when he pretended to

3949
03:25:58,560 --> 03:26:01,480
Speaker 2: love me, then how would he act when he doesn't

3950
03:26:01,520 --> 03:26:04,200
Speaker 2: need to pretend to any Do I want my baby

3951
03:26:04,280 --> 03:26:07,520
Speaker 2: to see your parents at their worst this early? Not sure?

3952
03:26:07,920 --> 03:26:11,640
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm just obsessing as usual, and there are some

3953
03:26:11,840 --> 03:26:13,920
Speaker 2: relevant comments and enough.

3954
03:26:13,840 --> 03:26:14,160
Speaker 1: Date ye.

3955
03:26:16,640 --> 03:26:20,520
Speaker 2: Eb Charming says, I'm so sorry, OPI. My heart breaks

3956
03:26:20,600 --> 03:26:23,280
Speaker 2: for you. Is there any way you can legally make

3957
03:26:23,360 --> 03:26:26,200
Speaker 2: plans to do something with your assets, business, et cetera

3958
03:26:26,760 --> 03:26:29,039
Speaker 2: while things are amicable, I think it's best to take

3959
03:26:29,080 --> 03:26:31,840
Speaker 2: steps to protect your daughter and the business. I hate

3960
03:26:31,879 --> 03:26:33,520
Speaker 2: to make you think about it, but what if he

3961
03:26:33,680 --> 03:26:36,680
Speaker 2: leaves and you have to do this anyways? Wouldn't you

3962
03:26:36,840 --> 03:26:38,840
Speaker 2: rather be prepared and ready to take on the new

3963
03:26:38,879 --> 03:26:42,520
Speaker 2: adventure that life takes you. Best wishes, ending love, and

3964
03:26:42,640 --> 03:26:46,080
Speaker 2: Opie responds, I have talked to an attorney about all

3965
03:26:46,520 --> 03:26:49,119
Speaker 2: my options, and even my best options aren't good enough

3966
03:26:49,200 --> 03:26:51,480
Speaker 2: right now. My only hope is that it comes to

3967
03:26:51,600 --> 03:26:53,640
Speaker 2: a point where I could buy him out when we divorce.

3968
03:26:54,080 --> 03:26:57,360
Speaker 2: It won't happen in a few years. Opie on if

3969
03:26:57,400 --> 03:27:01,240
Speaker 2: her husband is entitled to half her business, Opie says, actually,

3970
03:27:01,320 --> 03:27:03,360
Speaker 2: he didn't believe in my idea, so he didn't want

3971
03:27:03,400 --> 03:27:05,480
Speaker 2: to help because he was scared that I would lose money.

3972
03:27:05,840 --> 03:27:08,480
Speaker 2: I started with loans and with government insistance for young

3973
03:27:08,520 --> 03:27:12,200
Speaker 2: female entrepreneurs with low interest. So no, he didn't help

3974
03:27:12,240 --> 03:27:17,840
Speaker 2: with anything. Still, he is entitled to half after divorceang Nic.

3975
03:27:18,040 --> 03:27:20,320
Speaker 3: You would think the infidelity would help.

3976
03:27:20,440 --> 03:27:22,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I feel like she should look into.

3977
03:27:23,080 --> 03:27:26,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would definitely look into that. It's tough. That's

3978
03:27:26,320 --> 03:27:28,760
Speaker 3: a tough situation. Oh, tough because he's the worst and

3979
03:27:28,920 --> 03:27:31,320
Speaker 3: he's Yeah. Going back to your question, when should you

3980
03:27:33,040 --> 03:27:34,840
Speaker 3: approach divorce? I think how should you approach it?

3981
03:27:34,920 --> 03:27:35,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3982
03:27:35,120 --> 03:27:39,280
Speaker 3: How I think one under like I mean, I've never

3983
03:27:39,360 --> 03:27:42,400
Speaker 3: been through divorce, but it looks like it looks like

3984
03:27:42,440 --> 03:27:45,400
Speaker 3: you need to analyze the situation and then once you

3985
03:27:45,520 --> 03:27:49,800
Speaker 3: have all the information, once you have all the information,

3986
03:27:49,959 --> 03:27:51,039
Speaker 3: you can then go forward.

3987
03:27:51,800 --> 03:27:54,760
Speaker 2: Boy oh boy, wow, Okay, thank you for the fifty

3988
03:27:54,800 --> 03:28:01,280
Speaker 2: gifted memberships. Boyhoy, oh boy, that's another so much, that

3989
03:28:01,480 --> 03:28:02,600
Speaker 2: is another thirty minutes.

3990
03:28:02,800 --> 03:28:07,360
Speaker 3: Yep, cool, wow, thank.

3991
03:28:07,240 --> 03:28:08,960
Speaker 2: You so much, Thank you so much. We appreciate. We

3992
03:28:09,040 --> 03:28:09,600
Speaker 2: appreciate it.

3993
03:28:09,800 --> 03:28:11,720
Speaker 3: I just I was expecting this, Like, yeah.

3994
03:28:11,560 --> 03:28:13,640
Speaker 2: I was expected like Thursday streams usually are like.

3995
03:28:13,720 --> 03:28:15,520
Speaker 3: You know, I'm out by seven?

3996
03:28:15,720 --> 03:28:15,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

3997
03:28:16,200 --> 03:28:16,480
Speaker 3: Five.

3998
03:28:16,760 --> 03:28:21,600
Speaker 2: Sometimes yeah, we're no, serri no sorr rate, not today,

3999
03:28:21,879 --> 03:28:22,360
Speaker 2: not today.

4000
03:28:22,680 --> 03:28:25,440
Speaker 3: One time we got off at five and oh my god,

4001
03:28:25,480 --> 03:28:28,040
Speaker 3: we were like what yeah, and Sophie and I like

4002
03:28:28,320 --> 03:28:29,199
Speaker 3: bought food.

4003
03:28:29,080 --> 03:28:32,600
Speaker 2: And we went to the store. We barbecued. I made

4004
03:28:32,680 --> 03:28:37,040
Speaker 2: like salad and potato like fries, and Riley cooked some burgers.

4005
03:28:37,160 --> 03:28:39,320
Speaker 3: Yeah. I made some burgers for everyone. And oh when

4006
03:28:39,360 --> 03:28:41,600
Speaker 3: I made we had corn, and John and Sam hung

4007
03:28:41,640 --> 03:28:42,720
Speaker 3: out with us, and they were like, whoa, this is

4008
03:28:42,760 --> 03:28:46,280
Speaker 3: so nice. And I was like, this is what would happen,

4009
03:28:46,520 --> 03:28:49,959
Speaker 3: what you would get every day. Yeah, but wow, Frederick,

4010
03:28:50,720 --> 03:28:54,720
Speaker 3: thanks for the extra thirty and gifted memberships. That's crazy.

4011
03:28:55,240 --> 03:28:56,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, we appreciate you.

4012
03:28:56,920 --> 03:28:58,840
Speaker 3: And if you got a membership, put a w or

4013
03:28:58,879 --> 03:29:00,720
Speaker 3: a crown for King Fredericks.

4014
03:29:01,760 --> 03:29:04,600
Speaker 2: The chat in the shot. But let's get into this.

4015
03:29:06,720 --> 03:29:08,840
Speaker 3: I need to Okay, I'm sorry. I need to go

4016
03:29:08,920 --> 03:29:10,640
Speaker 3: to this week because I missed last week and I'm

4017
03:29:10,800 --> 03:29:14,920
Speaker 3: looking for basketball like pretty bad for bass. Hopefully I

4018
03:29:15,000 --> 03:29:15,240
Speaker 3: can go.

4019
03:29:15,400 --> 03:29:17,320
Speaker 2: I really need to text a bunch of my friends

4020
03:29:17,360 --> 03:29:20,440
Speaker 2: who've been texting me like hours ago, but I haven't

4021
03:29:20,480 --> 03:29:22,480
Speaker 2: texted that because I've been in stream.

4022
03:29:22,879 --> 03:29:25,720
Speaker 3: Back to the question, Uh, figure out what you can

4023
03:29:25,840 --> 03:29:28,320
Speaker 3: do and then serve them, serve.

4024
03:29:28,120 --> 03:29:30,520
Speaker 2: Them, yes, yeah, go through all that, like, get a lawyer,

4025
03:29:30,800 --> 03:29:33,080
Speaker 2: be like, is there any way that I can get

4026
03:29:33,160 --> 03:29:36,080
Speaker 2: more of my assets and then go through with it

4027
03:29:36,160 --> 03:29:41,640
Speaker 2: because it's not Honestly, yeah, it's not worth it relationship.

4028
03:29:41,800 --> 03:29:43,720
Speaker 3: You have the right to divorce right there.

4029
03:29:44,360 --> 03:29:47,240
Speaker 2: But let's get into the update. Thank you for the

4030
03:29:47,280 --> 03:29:50,199
Speaker 2: support and the many suggestions. If you want the details,

4031
03:29:50,280 --> 03:29:52,760
Speaker 2: please read the first one. I promise that it will

4032
03:29:52,760 --> 03:29:55,200
Speaker 2: make this very short and simple. I have taken two

4033
03:29:55,360 --> 03:29:58,400
Speaker 2: measures to protect myself and my daughter when my husband

4034
03:29:58,400 --> 03:30:01,200
Speaker 2: and I get a divorce, to protect my assets and

4035
03:30:01,320 --> 03:30:02,240
Speaker 2: my daughter's future.

4036
03:30:03,320 --> 03:30:03,520
Speaker 3: Nice.

4037
03:30:03,879 --> 03:30:06,440
Speaker 2: I am sure many will find my methods to be dubious,

4038
03:30:06,560 --> 03:30:09,520
Speaker 2: and honestly, it's fine with me. All's fair in love

4039
03:30:09,560 --> 03:30:11,760
Speaker 2: and war, and this is a bit of both. I

4040
03:30:11,920 --> 03:30:15,480
Speaker 2: told my father everything. He was horrified, but a bit

4041
03:30:15,560 --> 03:30:17,960
Speaker 2: relieved that he finally found out what's been hurting me.

4042
03:30:18,680 --> 03:30:21,040
Speaker 2: We have discussed the possibility that he could buy into

4043
03:30:21,080 --> 03:30:23,400
Speaker 2: my business in case I need to divide so he

4044
03:30:23,480 --> 03:30:25,760
Speaker 2: and I have the bigger share and still can make

4045
03:30:25,840 --> 03:30:26,439
Speaker 2: the decisions.

4046
03:30:26,640 --> 03:30:31,320
Speaker 3: Ooh, I don't. I don't know if the husband would

4047
03:30:31,720 --> 03:30:33,200
Speaker 3: do that though I don't know, We don't know. It

4048
03:30:33,240 --> 03:30:36,880
Speaker 3: doesn't seem like that kind of person. I don't think

4049
03:30:36,920 --> 03:30:38,880
Speaker 3: he'd do anything to be pretty awful, but it is

4050
03:30:38,959 --> 03:30:39,480
Speaker 3: good to know this.

4051
03:30:39,760 --> 03:30:42,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, then I have to Then I have agreed to

4052
03:30:42,440 --> 03:30:47,520
Speaker 2: my husband's suggestion. Wait oh wait, did she tell the husband?

4053
03:30:48,640 --> 03:30:49,720
Speaker 3: Oh, keep doing it?

4054
03:30:49,760 --> 03:30:52,400
Speaker 2: Okay, Then I have agreed to see to my husband's

4055
03:30:52,400 --> 03:30:55,360
Speaker 2: suggestion of seeing a marriage counselor. He talked about my

4056
03:30:55,440 --> 03:30:58,000
Speaker 2: mom's passing and how it affected me and my mentality.

4057
03:30:58,440 --> 03:31:00,760
Speaker 2: He kept talking about me building a wall and becoming

4058
03:31:00,879 --> 03:31:03,040
Speaker 2: distant and how he was longing for me to come

4059
03:31:03,120 --> 03:31:07,520
Speaker 2: back to him. What a freaking like manipulator. He's like, oh,

4060
03:31:07,720 --> 03:31:12,040
Speaker 2: you're like, well, he's off f then another girl, her

4061
03:31:12,160 --> 03:31:16,720
Speaker 2: best friend, no doubt, no less. Yeah, I just wondered

4062
03:31:16,840 --> 03:31:19,000
Speaker 2: what while he talked, what he would do if I

4063
03:31:19,040 --> 03:31:21,560
Speaker 2: told him that I knew, would he still complain about

4064
03:31:21,600 --> 03:31:23,560
Speaker 2: my walls or finally understand them?

4065
03:31:23,680 --> 03:31:27,960
Speaker 3: Ooh, okay, okay, so he doesn't know that she knows me, Yeah, okay,

4066
03:31:28,000 --> 03:31:28,840
Speaker 3: that that makes sense.

4067
03:31:29,120 --> 03:31:31,320
Speaker 2: I opened up about my mom's illness and how it

4068
03:31:31,360 --> 03:31:34,160
Speaker 2: affected me, not only the losing her part, but the

4069
03:31:34,200 --> 03:31:37,080
Speaker 2: fact that my grandmother and great grandmother passed the same way.

4070
03:31:37,720 --> 03:31:39,840
Speaker 2: It kept me thinking that I have inherited this and

4071
03:31:39,959 --> 03:31:41,720
Speaker 2: passed it down to my daughter, and the guilt and

4072
03:31:41,800 --> 03:31:44,200
Speaker 2: fear that I have been feeling. I chose to my

4073
03:31:44,320 --> 03:31:47,240
Speaker 2: daughter fully aware of the risks. What was I thinking?

4074
03:31:47,959 --> 03:31:50,400
Speaker 2: Since the counseling, we have been talking more in our

4075
03:31:50,480 --> 03:31:52,160
Speaker 2: day to day and I just honestly told him that

4076
03:31:52,240 --> 03:31:54,080
Speaker 2: my business was one of the stressors in my life.

4077
03:31:54,640 --> 03:31:56,480
Speaker 2: That I am always worried that if I don't fix

4078
03:31:56,560 --> 03:31:58,880
Speaker 2: our marital issues, he would want me to leave. He

4079
03:31:58,920 --> 03:32:02,280
Speaker 2: would he wanted me. Oh, he wanted to leave me. Sorry,

4080
03:32:02,360 --> 03:32:07,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna sneeze. No, no, I'm good, Okay, That I

4081
03:32:07,800 --> 03:32:09,959
Speaker 2: am always worried that if I didn't fix her marrild

4082
03:32:10,240 --> 03:32:13,080
Speaker 2: marital issues and he wanted to leave me, it would

4083
03:32:13,160 --> 03:32:17,520
Speaker 2: change my career and future. While it wouldn't is because

4084
03:32:17,560 --> 03:32:20,400
Speaker 2: he is a government employee. Put an ICU in the comments.

4085
03:32:20,440 --> 03:32:23,680
Speaker 2: If you see with this guy, I see what she's doing.

4086
03:32:24,680 --> 03:32:25,720
Speaker 2: I see what she's doing.

4087
03:32:25,879 --> 03:32:27,360
Speaker 3: But I'm not calling on yet.

4088
03:32:28,480 --> 03:32:31,400
Speaker 2: This was two weeks ago, the day after he sat

4089
03:32:31,520 --> 03:32:34,240
Speaker 2: me down and told me that he wanted a post

4090
03:32:34,320 --> 03:32:38,760
Speaker 2: nuptial agreement to make me feel more secure. She's playing

4091
03:32:38,800 --> 03:32:43,720
Speaker 2: forty chess. He's got it all mapped out, so smart,

4092
03:32:44,200 --> 03:32:48,600
Speaker 2: so smart. Yeah, this is yeah, this is exactly what

4093
03:32:48,680 --> 03:32:51,800
Speaker 2: she needed to do. He wanted me to be with

4094
03:32:51,920 --> 03:32:54,560
Speaker 2: him because I wanted to, not because I had to.

4095
03:32:55,560 --> 03:32:58,360
Speaker 2: I talked in my first post about how my house,

4096
03:32:58,440 --> 03:33:00,840
Speaker 2: et cetera, but I really don't care about that anymore.

4097
03:33:01,080 --> 03:33:03,840
Speaker 2: Everything else could be marital property. And honestly, I started

4098
03:33:03,879 --> 03:33:05,199
Speaker 2: to hate this house and I can't.

4099
03:33:05,000 --> 03:33:05,520
Speaker 3: Wait to leave it.

4100
03:33:06,000 --> 03:33:09,760
Speaker 2: So next move is starting the separation. I am aiming

4101
03:33:10,000 --> 03:33:12,440
Speaker 2: for the end of this year, and the only and

4102
03:33:12,560 --> 03:33:15,200
Speaker 2: then only the hardest part is left telling my daughter

4103
03:33:15,280 --> 03:33:17,440
Speaker 2: that mommy and daddy you won't be living together anymore.

4104
03:33:17,760 --> 03:33:19,039
Speaker 2: I'm not looking forward.

4105
03:33:18,959 --> 03:33:20,920
Speaker 3: To that part. That's gonna be the worst part.

4106
03:33:20,959 --> 03:33:22,520
Speaker 2: And there are some relevant comments.

4107
03:33:22,600 --> 03:33:24,480
Speaker 3: Oh wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, what's the ICU?

4108
03:33:24,560 --> 03:33:27,280
Speaker 2: I did not The ICU was that she was like, oh,

4109
03:33:27,959 --> 03:33:30,760
Speaker 2: you know, like we're having like some marital troubles and

4110
03:33:30,840 --> 03:33:35,240
Speaker 2: I'm just stressed about like the my business, and you

4111
03:33:35,600 --> 03:33:37,480
Speaker 2: taking it from me if you decide that you don't

4112
03:33:37,480 --> 03:33:39,000
Speaker 2: want to be in a relationship with me.

4113
03:33:39,400 --> 03:33:39,680
Speaker 3: Okay.

4114
03:33:40,640 --> 03:33:42,240
Speaker 2: And she's trying to get him to sign a post

4115
03:33:42,320 --> 03:33:44,440
Speaker 2: optial agreement so that she can leave him and take

4116
03:33:44,520 --> 03:33:45,279
Speaker 2: and keep her business.

4117
03:33:45,440 --> 03:33:49,520
Speaker 3: Oh I thought that he was trying to save it

4118
03:33:49,560 --> 03:33:50,520
Speaker 3: to save his butt.

4119
03:33:50,879 --> 03:33:52,320
Speaker 1: No, no, so he doesn't.

4120
03:33:52,320 --> 03:33:52,880
Speaker 3: He doesn't know that.

4121
03:33:53,000 --> 03:33:54,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. He doesn't know yet.

4122
03:33:54,360 --> 03:33:58,080
Speaker 3: The intentions of your actions gotcham choice. Yeah, this was

4123
03:33:58,160 --> 03:33:58,840
Speaker 3: just pretty smart.

4124
03:33:58,920 --> 03:34:01,240
Speaker 2: It's pretty smart. Sucks, it sucks.

4125
03:34:02,080 --> 03:34:05,840
Speaker 3: Is it unjustified though, because he's cheating on her? Yeah,

4126
03:34:05,920 --> 03:34:08,240
Speaker 3: that's true, but it is being a little sneaky.

4127
03:34:08,400 --> 03:34:11,320
Speaker 2: It's being sneaky, but she's worried that he won't give

4128
03:34:11,360 --> 03:34:14,080
Speaker 2: it to her. And honestly, she's not taking anything else.

4129
03:34:14,120 --> 03:34:15,960
Speaker 2: She's just taking the house. So she's doing sorry, not

4130
03:34:16,040 --> 03:34:17,199
Speaker 2: not the house, just taking the business.

4131
03:34:17,959 --> 03:34:21,920
Speaker 3: She's doing it out of securing her future and her

4132
03:34:22,280 --> 03:34:22,959
Speaker 3: daughter's future.

4133
03:34:23,040 --> 03:34:25,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, she just wants her business. She doesn't care about

4134
03:34:25,520 --> 03:34:29,080
Speaker 2: thous Okay, it's sneaky, but I think it's justified.

4135
03:34:29,120 --> 03:34:33,240
Speaker 3: Sneaky, justify sneaky. Oh my gosh, yep, yeah, yep.

4136
03:34:33,480 --> 03:34:36,680
Speaker 2: I'm gonna finish this story up and then, oh my gosh,

4137
03:34:37,280 --> 03:34:42,360
Speaker 2: he's choice intention nineteen six. We're at another thirty forty.

4138
03:34:42,879 --> 03:34:43,760
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

4139
03:34:43,840 --> 03:34:46,359
Speaker 3: Frederick Lock Frederick Lockday, Fredrick.

4140
03:34:46,440 --> 03:34:48,680
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you reached out to your father for help.

4141
03:34:49,120 --> 03:34:51,560
Speaker 2: It must have been so isolating that the two people

4142
03:34:51,640 --> 03:34:53,960
Speaker 2: you would have gone to for comfort are the two

4143
03:34:54,000 --> 03:34:57,039
Speaker 2: people who are causing you pain. Get the post nub

4144
03:34:57,120 --> 03:35:00,040
Speaker 2: done asaps so you can move on. What's that? And

4145
03:35:00,040 --> 03:35:02,520
Speaker 2: once that's done, you can file for divorce. This isn't

4146
03:35:02,600 --> 03:35:05,120
Speaker 2: dubious at all, or it's less dubious than the activity

4147
03:35:05,160 --> 03:35:07,879
Speaker 2: he's engaged him. After your ducks are in a row,

4148
03:35:08,000 --> 03:35:10,000
Speaker 2: you should break it to him in couples counseling that

4149
03:35:10,080 --> 03:35:12,440
Speaker 2: you were divorcing him and what you saw When he

4150
03:35:12,480 --> 03:35:14,840
Speaker 2: says sorry, you stand firm that he wasn't so sorry

4151
03:35:14,920 --> 03:35:17,840
Speaker 2: that he stopped. He wasn't so sorry that he never started,

4152
03:35:18,320 --> 03:35:20,480
Speaker 2: not so sorry that at the lowest point in your

4153
03:35:20,520 --> 03:35:25,720
Speaker 2: life he wouldn't portray you. You deserve better, and Opie responds,

4154
03:35:25,800 --> 03:35:27,640
Speaker 2: I will do the best for my mental health and

4155
03:35:27,720 --> 03:35:30,320
Speaker 2: for our daughter. If leaving this behind and not telling

4156
03:35:30,400 --> 03:35:32,959
Speaker 2: him is the best way, then I will just leave

4157
03:35:33,000 --> 03:35:35,840
Speaker 2: it be I will probably know by then what's best

4158
03:35:35,879 --> 03:35:38,600
Speaker 2: for me and ope. On her relationship with her ex

4159
03:35:38,840 --> 03:35:41,880
Speaker 2: best friend, Opie says, my ex best friend and I

4160
03:35:41,959 --> 03:35:43,920
Speaker 2: had a falling out a while back because I don't

4161
03:35:43,959 --> 03:35:47,400
Speaker 2: talk to her anymore and because I've changed so much.

4162
03:35:47,879 --> 03:35:49,600
Speaker 2: She ended up telling me that I'm going to lose

4163
03:35:49,600 --> 03:35:51,760
Speaker 2: everyone that loves me if I stayed that way. What

4164
03:35:52,080 --> 03:35:56,720
Speaker 2: a fricking hypocrite. What a hypocrite? And TLD are for Sam.

4165
03:35:57,680 --> 03:36:00,840
Speaker 2: Opie's husband and Opie's best friend have been cheating together.

4166
03:36:02,800 --> 03:36:03,039
Speaker 1: Wow?

4167
03:36:03,440 --> 03:36:07,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, uh that's not nice, no is she?

4168
03:36:08,560 --> 03:36:08,720
Speaker 4: Yes?

4169
03:36:08,879 --> 03:36:11,119
Speaker 2: But she basically she was worried that she would lose

4170
03:36:11,480 --> 03:36:15,160
Speaker 2: the business that she created in the divorce, and so

4171
03:36:15,400 --> 03:36:20,840
Speaker 2: she kind of played some forty chess and was like, Oh,

4172
03:36:21,040 --> 03:36:23,640
Speaker 2: I'm worried that you're gonna leave me and I'm gonna

4173
03:36:23,680 --> 03:36:25,360
Speaker 2: lose my business because you don't want to be with

4174
03:36:25,480 --> 03:36:28,240
Speaker 2: me to her husband, and so he was like, I'll

4175
03:36:28,280 --> 03:36:31,439
Speaker 2: sign a posting up agreement so if you feel more comfortable,

4176
03:36:32,000 --> 03:36:32,400
Speaker 2: and now.

4177
03:36:32,400 --> 03:36:33,880
Speaker 3: She's like, okay, I've got that.

4178
03:36:34,560 --> 03:36:41,320
Speaker 2: I'm scared whether they know or suspect something I don't know. Well,

4179
03:36:41,360 --> 03:36:43,240
Speaker 2: I think this is one of her excuses to herself

4180
03:36:43,240 --> 03:36:45,440
Speaker 2: about why she betrayed me like this, because I have

4181
03:36:45,640 --> 03:36:47,880
Speaker 2: changed and been pushing away the people that love me

4182
03:36:48,000 --> 03:36:50,840
Speaker 2: towards each other apparently, And honestly, what else can you

4183
03:36:50,959 --> 03:36:53,400
Speaker 2: tell yourself about your crappy behaviors to be able to

4184
03:36:53,440 --> 03:36:56,640
Speaker 2: sleep the night? Only I didn't start changing and pushing

4185
03:36:56,680 --> 03:37:00,160
Speaker 2: away people who loved me before they betrayed me. He

4186
03:37:00,280 --> 03:37:02,600
Speaker 2: was asked if her husband and the friend are still together.

4187
03:37:02,879 --> 03:37:07,040
Speaker 2: Opie says they are still having an affair. I have

4188
03:37:07,160 --> 03:37:09,039
Speaker 2: seen that he still gets text from her at night.

4189
03:37:09,280 --> 03:37:13,520
Speaker 2: Not sure if they still feel like scum. Nothing changed, really, Yeah.

4190
03:37:13,480 --> 03:37:15,279
Speaker 3: Because they were having an affair and they were texting

4191
03:37:15,320 --> 03:37:18,720
Speaker 3: each other, like I feelable, We feel so bad, but.

4192
03:37:18,840 --> 03:37:19,920
Speaker 1: It makes it so much harder.

4193
03:37:20,760 --> 03:37:22,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, good point. Good point.

4194
03:37:23,040 --> 03:37:25,600
Speaker 2: They suck so much and OPI's so justified, makes it

4195
03:37:26,000 --> 03:37:28,080
Speaker 2: Ope so justified. Get out of that relationship.

4196
03:37:28,560 --> 03:37:31,600
Speaker 1: Leave leave, leave good, leave.

4197
03:37:32,280 --> 03:37:33,320
Speaker 3: But that's the end of that story.

4198
03:37:33,600 --> 03:37:38,280
Speaker 1: Very loved coming back in stream and everyone's like, welcome back, Sam.

4199
03:37:39,000 --> 03:37:43,080
Speaker 1: I felt very loved. Thanks y'all, thanks for making me

4200
03:37:43,280 --> 03:37:44,199
Speaker 1: feel better.

4201
03:37:44,320 --> 03:37:44,600
Speaker 3: Fue