WEBVTT - Second Date Update: High School Holiday Hangout

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date, you're going back home for the

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<v Speaker 1>holidays can be really fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I'm so exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>It can be great to reconnect with your siblings again,

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<v Speaker 1>your grandparents, relatives you haven't seen in a while, and

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<v Speaker 1>if you're really lucky, you might even see someone from

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<v Speaker 1>your past and have a little holiday hookups.

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<v Speaker 3>Family not your family, and.

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<v Speaker 2>When everybody goes out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, totally exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't your old pe coach reconnect and get the second

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<v Speaker 1>base or something?

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<v Speaker 2>No, he married.

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<v Speaker 5>I think one of my other friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh too bad for you, Brooke, mister Chance. But one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners, Simone, reconnected with someone recently, not a

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<v Speaker 1>next boyfriend. It was just a guy from her high school.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm curious about how it went down because she's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now, Simone. So what was this

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<v Speaker 1>a fellow student or a faculty member?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, it was not a faculty member. Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, I hooked up with more guys from my high

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<v Speaker 5>school way post high school than I did in high school.

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<v Speaker 2>I was too dorky in high school. Nobody wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>I try. It's not that I didn't try.

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<v Speaker 3>Some are late and some skankers. What we call it bloomers,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, as long as you get it done. So someone,

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<v Speaker 3>who is this guy that you met up with?

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<v Speaker 6>So his name is Jack and we reconnected over Facebook

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<v Speaker 6>because I had posted that I was coming home and

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<v Speaker 6>I was really excited to spend time with my family

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<v Speaker 6>and friends, like for the holidays, and I was trying

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<v Speaker 6>to kind of give everybody a heads up that I

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<v Speaker 6>went to school with so we could try to plan

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<v Speaker 6>something and all catch up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like like a mini informal reunion almost.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And did you know that you wanted to hook

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<v Speaker 1>up with him immediately or did you want to wait

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<v Speaker 1>and see.

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<v Speaker 3>How it went well?

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<v Speaker 6>So that's the thing is that, like this, this is

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<v Speaker 6>a guy that we've never dated. We were always kind

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<v Speaker 6>of floating around in like neighboring circles, but we were

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<v Speaker 6>never super close.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and got it.

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<v Speaker 6>He was one of the first people to comment on

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<v Speaker 6>this post. I was like, Oh, this would be great,

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<v Speaker 6>would love to catch up. And I was like catch up,

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<v Speaker 6>Like what do we have to talk about? Like we

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<v Speaker 6>didn't you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, you know some people who stay in the hometown

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<v Speaker 5>that you're from.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, maybe need some outside influence.

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<v Speaker 5>Everyone to watch this city is what she's saying.

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<v Speaker 6>Let me tell you, I will not miss an opportunity

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<v Speaker 6>to show off my glow up. So okay, that good.

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<v Speaker 3>So what did you and Jack do when you met up?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, this is the thing. So we were texting for

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<v Speaker 6>a while until I got back and trying to make

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<v Speaker 6>plans and I was staying with my family, so I

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<v Speaker 6>was like, why don't we just make it easy. You

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<v Speaker 6>can come pick me up from my family's place and

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<v Speaker 6>we'll go wherever you want to go.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, so this feels more like a date than a

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<v Speaker 5>hangout if it's just you.

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<v Speaker 6>Too, Yeah, I guess so I think maybe. I don't

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<v Speaker 6>know if that was the intention, but things kind of

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<v Speaker 6>ended up taking life turn and it wasn't really anybody's fault.

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<v Speaker 6>But he came to pick me up when I was fit.

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<v Speaker 6>I just finished dinner with my family, and my family

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<v Speaker 6>was like, oh, you know, why don't you come in

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<v Speaker 6>for a second, which I kind of gave him the

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<v Speaker 6>look of like you don't have to do this, But

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<v Speaker 6>he was very cool and came in and be all

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<v Speaker 6>we're just hanging It was really sweet, like we were

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<v Speaker 6>all hanging out for a while and like because like

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<v Speaker 6>It's not like.

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<v Speaker 2>He knew your family in high school. You guys weren't even.

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<v Speaker 4>Really pressure situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I know if that happened to me, I would

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not want to go inside there. I do not

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<v Speaker 1>want to spend my precious free time during the holidays

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<v Speaker 1>meeting some other person's family.

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<v Speaker 4>I love meeting families, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But not people meeting mine.

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<v Speaker 5>And parents always love me so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we get it, Brook, You're amazing everybody person in

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<v Speaker 1>the world, and everyone wants to go.

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<v Speaker 5>Their kids don't like me, but they like Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 5>so what happened with Jack.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, so we're all talking and we ended up like

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<v Speaker 6>playing some games and everybody was played.

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<v Speaker 7>A good time.

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<v Speaker 4>So the full on like time.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't mean for that to happen.

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<v Speaker 6>It just kind of did.

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<v Speaker 4>Playing the piano, singing carols together.

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<v Speaker 2>He was into it though, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>He was.

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<v Speaker 6>And I will say this, my dad was a little tipsy,

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<v Speaker 6>which around the holidays is not a surprise. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 6>he was kind of ribbing them a little bit, like

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<v Speaker 6>what are your intentions with my daughter? I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me go to the laundry room and then I'll

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<v Speaker 1>show you.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that not how your guys' family holidays.

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<v Speaker 5>I never had to take take my dad into the

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<v Speaker 5>laundry room.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just a pe teacher, I know. How did Jack

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<v Speaker 3>handle the ribbing?

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<v Speaker 6>He just kind of laughed it off, and finally I

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<v Speaker 6>kind of pulled him aside and I was like, hey, listen,

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<v Speaker 6>we can get out of here whenever you need to,

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<v Speaker 6>like we already were here a lot longer than I thought.

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<v Speaker 6>And he was like, I just got a text from

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<v Speaker 6>where my friends and they really need me, so I

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<v Speaker 6>actually I have to get going. And he's like, well, well,

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<v Speaker 6>we'll catch up in a few days. And of course,

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<v Speaker 6>in my head, I'm like, did he really get a

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<v Speaker 6>text from his friend or I think that maybe he didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, like maybe he thought you guys were

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<v Speaker 5>just going out as friends, and then your dad is

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<v Speaker 5>assuming that you're a couple. Like it just it feels

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<v Speaker 5>like a lot of weirdness.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I agree. And the way we left it was

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<v Speaker 6>we'll make more plans, we'll text and we'll figure it out.

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<v Speaker 6>And then just never heard back from him.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, all complete ghost.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not like he's stalling, no, no, Like I just

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<v Speaker 6>he just went radio silent and so I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you crushing on him? Still?

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<v Speaker 7>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>You still like him?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I mean especially too, like seeing how cool he

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<v Speaker 6>was with paying out with my family for a little bit,

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<v Speaker 6>that's impressing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I did have a weird thought though, like, while he

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<v Speaker 1>was bonding with your family, do you have any single

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<v Speaker 1>siblings or or single hot aunts don that maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>could have swooped in.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I'm the only girl. I have two brothers.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe that's an option for him though.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean there's a chance that someone could have

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<v Speaker 1>taken him from you, right from under your nose.

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<v Speaker 5>Probably messed up family dynamics. If that's the case, it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Called the holidays broke. Things happen.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's find out what really happened when we play

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<v Speaker 1>a song. Come back, call him and try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update.

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<v Speaker 6>All right, thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>All right, hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the main rules of dating, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>everybody knows this is if you really like someone, you

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<v Speaker 1>do not introduce them to your family for at least

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<v Speaker 1>three to four years until you're one hundred percent sure

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<v Speaker 1>they won't be scared off. Wow, I would say probably

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<v Speaker 1>even pop out a few kids with them before they

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<v Speaker 1>meet the family, just to be safe. Or you could

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<v Speaker 1>end up like Simone who was supposed to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with an old high school friend named Jack till her

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<v Speaker 1>family invited him inside during the holidays, and look what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>He ran away. Hasn't been heard from since that night.

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<v Speaker 4>I should have heard your advice first show.

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<v Speaker 5>Are we blaming the drunk dad? Is that where we're blaming?

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<v Speaker 3>Or no, we don't know who to blame.

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<v Speaker 4>That's where I'm leaning. I think that even though it's

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<v Speaker 4>a joke, it's still very intimidating to know your dad

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<v Speaker 4>is even thinking that.

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<v Speaker 5>It's such an old cliche joke, like realish my gun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Simon, do you wish that you hadn't let him

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<v Speaker 1>come inside that house that night?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, yeah, we know where to send it up.

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<v Speaker 2>It's absolutely true the answer, Oh my god. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>or do you wish that your dad was funnier?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean he thinks he's funny, which is way worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well we're gonna try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>a second chance here. We're gonna call Jack and find

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<v Speaker 1>out which member of your family is the one to blame.

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<v Speaker 3>Or maybe it was something that was totally unrelated.

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<v Speaker 7>Love.

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<v Speaker 4>We think it has to be the fame.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, come on, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like the holiday edition of Clue.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, is it the mom in the kitchen with

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<v Speaker 5>the butcher knife or Colonel Father.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's get to the bottom of this. I'm gonna Dilla's

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<v Speaker 3>number right now. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, my nose brush the microphone.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey is this Jack?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh? Yes, this is he?

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<v Speaker 2>You are aking ready? I like Jack?

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<v Speaker 3>I know you see Jack. You're You're on the radio

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<v Speaker 3>right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I seem alert because I enter business call.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh this is kind of a business call.

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<v Speaker 2>It's about your business.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye, your personal business with an old friend of yours

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<v Speaker 1>name Simone.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait, what is this about? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>This is about a segment we do on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called a second Date Update, and our listeners will reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to us sometimes and ask us to help them

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<v Speaker 1>reconnect with an old fling or an old date that

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<v Speaker 1>they went out with that they haven't heard from in

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<v Speaker 1>a while.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, but I'm not old. I'm not an old person.

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<v Speaker 1>Old people, you answered a phone number that you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>recognize that is old, So.

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<v Speaker 2>That Jack, I bet you're regretting it right now.

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<v Speaker 7>I was just you know, I thought maybe something was

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<v Speaker 7>wrong with my car's extended warranty.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, Yeah, Look, we all make mistakes, and your

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<v Speaker 1>mistake was answering this call. But we do want to

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<v Speaker 1>get some answers because Simone told us that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>hung out the other night, and you.

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<v Speaker 7>Know, I'm sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt you, but I

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<v Speaker 7>just now I don't think I want to do.

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<v Speaker 2>This, okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Is it because it wasn't supposed to be a date

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<v Speaker 5>with Simone? Is I supposed to just be more like

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<v Speaker 5>of a friend hang out.

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<v Speaker 7>Like No, no, no, no, no, no no. I'm definitely

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<v Speaker 7>interested in Simone.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I was interested was I mean, look, I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're hesitant on talking about it, and I understand that,

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<v Speaker 1>but can you put yourself in Simone's shoes here, because

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<v Speaker 1>she was really looking forward to spending time with you

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<v Speaker 1>and reconnecting.

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<v Speaker 3>And I mean she had.

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<v Speaker 1>No intention of the night going the way that it

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<v Speaker 1>did where you were invited into her family's house.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I mean she thought you. I mean maybe she

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<v Speaker 2>read it wrong.

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<v Speaker 5>The only reason you guys stayed there was because she

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<v Speaker 5>thought you were having a good time hanging out with

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<v Speaker 5>her family and playing board games.

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<v Speaker 7>Whoa, you guys know a lot about what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Like date detectives.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked to some run She told us about what

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<v Speaker 1>happened that night, and we were wondering if something happened

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<v Speaker 1>while you were in the house with her family that

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<v Speaker 1>made you No.

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<v Speaker 7>No, it was just well it wasn't. It was just

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<v Speaker 7>an uncomfortable situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she feels bad for that.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, well no, but just no, not not going in

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<v Speaker 7>and talking to her family. Her family was great, nice.

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<v Speaker 3>And so great that maybe you hooked up with one

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<v Speaker 3>of them.

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<v Speaker 6>What.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that was a theory that I had. I'm glad

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<v Speaker 3>that we can squash it right now, but yeah, so

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<v Speaker 3>he can.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely, was the text that you got the emergency text?

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<v Speaker 3>Was that real or was that fake?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 7>No, it was not real. I did not I did

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<v Speaker 7>not see the emergency.

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<v Speaker 2>But she knew that.

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<v Speaker 5>So don't feel bad admitting that. Like, I mean, it

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<v Speaker 5>was pretty obvious what made you run from the house.

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<v Speaker 7>So what made what made me need to leave is

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<v Speaker 7>I was having a nice chat with her mom and

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<v Speaker 7>as as we're talking I look over and I see

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<v Speaker 7>some Christmas cards and I see one from Simone with

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<v Speaker 7>another guy and they're both like nuggle up together, and

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<v Speaker 7>it was like a it looked like a you know,

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<v Speaker 7>a couple had sent a card and it was Simone

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<v Speaker 7>and this dude.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean, she didn't mention anything about an ex boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 5>but obviously the card could have been sent out long before.

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<v Speaker 2>And then they broke up, Like, really do you send

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas card? I know, who brings a.

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<v Speaker 5>Guy over to your house with your family? If you're

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<v Speaker 5>dating someone else to a point where you're sending Christmas

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<v Speaker 5>cards together? Like, why wouldn't you just ask Simone?

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<v Speaker 2>Then? Why wouldn't you ask her?

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<v Speaker 7>Because I just felt like, in order to not just

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<v Speaker 7>escalate things, I wanted to I just you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, I well, you just wanted to jump to conclusions.

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<v Speaker 4>I know you just took pictures recently.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you don't want to have that awkward conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with her, but I kind of do right now because

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<v Speaker 1>she's on the other line listening and wants to be

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<v Speaker 1>asked an awkward, escalating question.

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<v Speaker 7>What I'm HI.

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<v Speaker 6>In this whole time?

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<v Speaker 7>This is like, this is so awkward.

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<v Speaker 6>I know, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it's kind of cool that you went to

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<v Speaker 7>these lengths to try to get a hold of me,

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<v Speaker 7>but I just, you know, I just this is just

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<v Speaker 7>really bizarre. So who is the guy? Come on, tell me?

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<v Speaker 7>Are you seeing nobody? Are you in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>Because like, okay, hold on, Jack, you're asking like five

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<v Speaker 1>different questions.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just let's do one question at a time.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's the guy?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna start what kind of sweater are you

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<v Speaker 3>wearing right now? Because that I might ease his tension

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy.

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<v Speaker 6>First of all, I can't believe you even saw that card.

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<v Speaker 6>I I'm so mad at my mom right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Why are you dating that guy?

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<v Speaker 6>Not technically.

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<v Speaker 2>What your parents are wing? Wing Manny your side piece.

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<v Speaker 6>No, so listen, Okay, I'll be honest. That guy's is

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<v Speaker 6>a guy that I dated for a while. We always

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<v Speaker 6>did these stupid Christmas cards, and we're not exclusive. We

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<v Speaker 6>are not together. We hook up every once in a while,

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<v Speaker 6>but we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Not there's a ginnasy.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but you promise you're not exclusive with him?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you're not exclusive? And you send Christmas cards out together?

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<v Speaker 6>That seems Yeah, yeah, it was more of a joke

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<v Speaker 6>because we would do it every year, so we kind

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<v Speaker 6>of just kept up with the tradition because we both

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<v Speaker 6>didn't want our families hassling us at the holidays for

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<v Speaker 6>being single. So we were like, we should just do

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<v Speaker 6>a Christmas card anyway, and that backfired so funny.

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<v Speaker 7>So I just I'm actually, I mean, Simon, I really

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<v Speaker 7>want to be with somebody that's emotionally available and not

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<v Speaker 7>you know, still, even if it's not like you know,

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<v Speaker 7>you're not exclusive, you're still seeing him. I just I'm

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<v Speaker 7>just not comfortable being with somebody who's seeing other people.

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<v Speaker 6>So I just, uh, well, that's the thing, is like

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<v Speaker 6>I had a great time hanging out with you, and

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<v Speaker 6>I really want to get to know you better. And

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<v Speaker 6>I am not invested in this guy. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 6>it's somebody that I dated, and it was just I

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<v Speaker 6>didn't have anybody else I was interested in, and it

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<v Speaker 6>was just you know, I'll call him later today and

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<v Speaker 6>tell him that we can't see each other anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, Jack, is that something that you'd be into, because

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<v Speaker 1>if you're willing to see her again, then we'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for that date.

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<v Speaker 7>I have one question, did you hook up with him

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<v Speaker 7>over the holidays.

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<v Speaker 3>Would be honest. Here, Simon, did it happen and what

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<v Speaker 3>sweater were you wearing at the time.

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<v Speaker 6>It didn't happen over the holidays, but it has happened recently, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Jack, I need an answer from you. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>think one more date with Simone?

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<v Speaker 3>We'll pay for it?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think so. And here's why.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a healthier why.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like you could have told me that you

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<v Speaker 7>were getting out of a relationship, and I just I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>We get here.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the holidays. Everybody's sad. We understand.

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<v Speaker 1>You.

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<v Speaker 5>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>I was thinking, does that ever work on our show?

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<v Speaker 1>After the person says no, I'm not interested, and they

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<v Speaker 1>throw out one last ditch plea like hey.

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<v Speaker 3>What if I break up with the other guy? Will

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<v Speaker 3>you go out with me?

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<v Speaker 2>Then it's like a hail Mary?

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<v Speaker 3>Or what if I get a butt lift?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Or hey what if I put my dog down because

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<v Speaker 3>you're allergic? My god, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Always n You made the boyfriend sound like the best option.

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't think of a time where that strategy

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<v Speaker 1>has ever worked, and she definitely gave it a try.

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<v Speaker 5>God, I just have this feeling that the guy on

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<v Speaker 5>the cards sweater Boy, doesn't know that they're not exclusive, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>because anyone else.

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<v Speaker 4>Is always like that. The other one is always like what, wait,

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you were my girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? We sent out Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Cards for Yeah, how does it get more intimate than that?

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<v Speaker 1>But clearly we're not going to be doing any update

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<v Speaker 1>with that couple anytime soon. But remember you can always

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<v Speaker 1>listen to any one of our second dates on YouTube,

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<v Speaker 1>because we've got hundreds of them up right now, so

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people are actually choosing to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>our show that way. And remember you can always reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to us if you have a date that you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to get a hold of.