WEBVTT - A Lesson in Weaners 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.920 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rep An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.720 --> 0:00:12.240 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing. 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:15.960 In, scrubbing in, like we're scrubing in. 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:20.239 Oh, Tanya is has just referred to herself as a 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:21.120 sinking ship. 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:23.640 I feel as though I'm a sinking ship over here. 0:00:23.760 --> 0:00:26.520 So we got into this like right before we started 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:29.000 the podcast. But you're you had caffeine. 0:00:29.360 --> 0:00:31.680 Yeah, I'm weaning off of it. So I'm just putting 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:35.839 less and less in my morning espresso. So like I 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:38.040 always make an espresso at home, I put my almond 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:40.520 milk in it, and I come to work. I usually 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:43.320 bring two of them with me. I'll make two because 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:45.440 I have small little cups. Is going on the. 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:47.280 Harkst popular He's gonna spun on. 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:52.640 Well, so I bring two in and now I've gone down. 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:55.120 I went down to one, and then today I put 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:58.040 in half the espresso. So I'm still having the caffeine, 0:00:58.040 --> 0:00:59.920 but I'm having crazy headaches. 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:02.360 Well, how many days did you do just one? 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:03.480 One? 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:04.240 Oh? 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:06.600 Yeah, that's not how you wean off of something. 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.000 I don't know how. I've never weaned before. 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:16.520 Terrible. Yeah, you're supposed to wean like like you could 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:19.640 have done like one for like a few days, right, 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:22.560 and then done half. Yeah, it's not like your body 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:24.039 just adjusts after one day. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:27.959 So my body's not adjusting. I have like gnarly headaches, 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:29.840 and I'm going to switch. What I realized is I'm 0:01:29.840 --> 0:01:33.039 going to become a Macha person. Okay, So yesterday Robin 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:34.640 and I did some research on like, you know, a 0:01:34.640 --> 0:01:38.039 little whisk togett, like whisk it and put hot water 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:40.360 and it. Yeah, but none of the supplies have arrived yet. 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:42.880 We ordered them on Amazon, So I'm gonna wean for 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:43.880 another like day or two. 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:46.520 Okay, great, But isn't this a sign that maybe you 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.840 shouldn't have any caffeine in your life if you're that 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:50.279 addicted to it, having. 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:55.040 The alarming But you know what's interesting, I'm surprised nobody 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:56.240 asked where this came from. 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:58.360 Well, we know where it came from. 0:01:58.520 --> 0:01:59.640 No, I don't think you know. 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:02.520 Where did it come from? 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:07.040 So I met this gal who was like the epitome 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:10.839 of what I look like, what health is like. She 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:13.320 was talking to me like she just had this energy. 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:15.440 You know that energy and you meet somebody you're like, wow, 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:18.720 you have good energy. She had that energy, and I 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:21.280 started asking her. She was teaching this workout class that 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:24.040 I was in, and I started asking her about her life, 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:26.360 and I was just like, where is this energy coming from? 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:28.880 Like how are you so aligned? She was talking about 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:34.400 all the things that she does not consume, which is alcohol, caffeine, 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:36.359 She goes to bed at eight thirty, She drinks a 0:02:36.400 --> 0:02:38.360 lot of water. I mean, she teaches probably like a 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:41.800 lot of hot pilates classes. But it's all all in 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:45.080 her diet. Doesn't smoke, doesn't do drugs, like, none of 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:48.040 that stuff like very very It's all standard things that 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:50.880 you would expect, you know. But then hearing it and 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:53.959 just seeing her glow, I was like, I want that glow. 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:57.680 And I've been doing all this stuff of getting rid 0:02:57.680 --> 0:02:59.840 of all the toxins and trying to really you know, 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:02.320 be anti inflammatory for my health. And I'm like, why 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:04.200 don't I just take the leap and just like really 0:03:04.360 --> 0:03:08.720 go for it this year which includes songs. 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:10.480 Coffee, and alcohol. 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:14.720 Well, so, uh, I think cutting alcohol might make me 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.959 sad a little bit, So I'm trying to slow. 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:21.440 Is interesting, This is an interesting take on this whole thing. 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:22.840 I'm trying to slow off. 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:24.760 You're just going to kick and shoes, Like, if you 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:27.560 want to be this woman, then she's giving you the 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:28.680 exact path. 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:29.840 I think I don't want to. 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:31.120 Be anybody but myself. 0:03:31.320 --> 0:03:34.480 Alcohol is a depressant, and I think caffeine would be 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:37.640 I think alcohol. If you were like wanting to glow, 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:40.400 I think alcohol would be the first thing, and then 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:41.440 maybe the caffeine. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:43.760 But sometimes alcohol makes me glow more. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:45.960 I glow when I am drownk. 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:50.240 Yeah, I am basically illuminating when I'm drying drunk. 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:50.600 Yeah. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:50.920 Same. 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:55.560 But that's interesting. So alcohol will eventually happen. 0:03:55.680 --> 0:03:58.080 It's tapering off, it's slowing down. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:59.520 Like does Robby want to give up any of this? 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.360 It's so interesting you bring that up because I was 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:04.440 scared he was going to be upset about the coffee, 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:05.960 but he was so game, and he was like, I'm 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.400 down to become a Macha man and like down to 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:11.560 do with me. And then this morning, well this morning 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:14.520 he sent me some articles that explain that cutting out 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:18.520 coffee is not really beneficial in the anti inflammatory world. 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.880 But I don't know what that means yet. 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:23.160 Look, I think the key is Gotti pilates, because I 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:24.960 don't do any of the things you listed, and I 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:27.000 never have my whole life and I don't have the glow. 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:29.800 It's interesting, Yeah, you don't have the same glow as 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:30.480 this girl. 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:31.599 I don't. 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:34.720 Yeah, interesting point, Mark. 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:37.040 But also I would also argue that you don't need 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:38.960 any of those things. You don't need alcohol, you don't 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:40.440 need caffeine, you don't need any of them. 0:04:40.520 --> 0:04:42.839 So here's the thing in life you don't really need, 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:47.320 Like you don't need a home, but we have them. 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:47.640 We do. 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:49.680 Hak Food and shelter are needs. In fact, that's the 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:52.200 definition of basic needs. 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:56.279 Up there too. Food. I don't need this sweater, I 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:59.599 don't need this hair tie, but I enjoy them in 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:00.640 my life, right, But if. 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.600 You're addicted to them, maybe that's something you would not want. 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:09.839 It feels like a deeper because therapist, Perhaps I need 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:12.159 to seek the professional help on this one. 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:16.479 Yeah, yeah, Well okay, so we're here, so we're weaning. 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:20.080 We're weeding quick, We're weaning fast, like this is a 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:20.720 fast wean. 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:23.000 You've never weaned like this before. 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:26.320 Let me tell you, you know, speaking of glow, you 0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:28.839 know who has a glow but a different type, like 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:30.800 I don't know, I don't know the girl that you're 0:05:30.800 --> 0:05:32.719 talking about. So I don't know the glow that you 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:33.160 speak of. 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:34.920 I will show you her, but it's got to see 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:36.240 her in person. I'll bring you to a class. 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:40.599 Okay, great, can't wait. Jess Clark has a glow. 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:41.600 She does have a glove. 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:45.000 And she was at Dean and Kaylan's UH Jess Clark Higgins. 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:46.159 Jess Clark Higgins. 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:46.680 Wow. 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:49.400 Yeah, she deserves that respect. 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:53.000 She was at Dean and Kaylan's UH engagement party, which 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.960 was so fun. I loved. I had such a great time. 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:58.160 I did too, and I didn't know Justice is gonna 0:05:58.160 --> 0:05:59.800 be there. And I was talking to her and I 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:03.360 was like, you know, some people just have that that spark, 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:05.440 that glow in their eyes, and she has it. 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:08.640 She has it. Yeah, I agree, she's special. She is special. 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:10.839 Ben wasn't there. She just came by herself, I know, 0:06:10.920 --> 0:06:12.640 which I love. Just like I went for the day. 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:14.680 She came up for the day and it was pouring rain, 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:16.760 and she was like, I would do the same thing 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:23.359 for you guys. I was like, noted, where do I 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:27.920 send it? But yeah, Dean and Kaylen had their engagement 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:30.880 party on Saturday. It was pouring rain, but it was 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:36.880 so the rain made it like romantic and magical and cozy, 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:40.279 and it was just like such a beautiful venue. It 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:41.159 was so nice. 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:44.240 It was really really fun. I feel like a lot 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:46.400 of the time in people that live in La don't 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.719 like to do things when it rains, and so it 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:50.839 was kind of like I felt sad for them because 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:52.560 it's like you think of rain, you just think of 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:55.680 blah blah. Yeah, yeah, but it really wasn't It was 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:57.680 such a fun, beautiful party. 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:01.159 My mother and father came and picked me up Ya Tanya. 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:03.479 And Robbie, thy mother and thy father and. 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.120 Didn't make me drive because Haley has been in her 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:08.200 riding camp so she wasn't there. So I was like, 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.080 they were coming to get me, and she goes, we're 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:12.800 gonna be a little bit later than I thought, so 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:14.320 you can go by yourself if you want, And I 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:16.520 was like, no, I don't want to walk in alone. 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:19.920 I hate go I hate I realized I hate walking 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:20.680 in alone. 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:22.840 The best part is though, I was like, I was 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:24.400 panicking because we were going to be about an hour 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:28.680 late and I don't like being late. Actually, really funny, 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:29.400 you ask, but. 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:32.120 It wasn't just a preface this It wasn't a like 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:34.000 sit down dinner or something. It was like a come 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:34.640 in go. 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:37.840 Party starts at three. We were't gonna get their closer 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:41.240 to four because we had Spectrum Man coming to the 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:45.200 house because we were so we were sa on internet 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.680 for four days. So if you want to ask what 0:07:47.720 --> 0:07:49.640 I did for those days, I cleared out a lot 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:51.760 of photos out of my photo streams. 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:52.680 This is important. 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:53.080 Thank you. 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:54.360 Yeah, I felt like. 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:57.720 I made use of my time, did some br cleaned. 0:07:57.400 --> 0:08:00.440 Out some things virtual reality those. 0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:04.520 Goggles the kids haven't, so you know, it was time 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:08.000 well spent. But anyways, he was there fixing the internet, 0:08:08.040 --> 0:08:10.560 and so we needed to answer some questions a lot. 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:12.040 So we just had a later bit of a start. 0:08:12.040 --> 0:08:14.360 So I text Becca thinking she's going to be like, ill, 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.200 just uber, I'm close, you know. 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:18.119 I don't want to be literally right down the street. 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:21.720 Could not have been chiller. She's like, I have zero 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:24.040 stress about getting there late. You guys come pick me 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:24.920 up at your leisure. 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:27.120 I was like, okay, it's interesting that you won't walk 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:31.560 in loon. Meanwhile, Jess flew across the country to arrivalone and. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:33.440 Even when she saw she was like, oh my gosh, 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:35.160 I'm so happy all are here, because I didn't know 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:37.600 if I was going to know, like, no, no anyone 0:08:37.640 --> 0:08:41.440 here other than obviously it's that glow. And I was 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:44.360 sinking to myself, could I ever do that? 0:08:44.800 --> 0:08:47.440 It's the glow makes you glow, it makes you go 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:51.280 and maybe that's your low going. 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:58.160 Oh because I'm not glowing wow wow. Anyways, I realized, yeah, 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:02.280 I don't so any social event. I'm always like when 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:05.920 I'm when Ali or Tory sends me an invite to 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:07.240 something like do you want to go to this? I 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:09.760 always am like, do I get a plus one? Because 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:13.280 it's going alone. I'd rather just not go. 0:09:13.440 --> 0:09:16.720 You know what's funny is those like industry events or whatever, 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:18.839 I never get a plus one. I always go to 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:20.520 them alone and I never know who's going to be 0:09:20.520 --> 0:09:22.400 at them. I just show up and I'm like. 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:26.240 You go, I go, you go. 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:30.160 But yeah, I did go up to Natasha Berat is 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:30.680 it Beret? 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:31.880 Yeah? 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:33.400 I thought she was Chef Bay and I was like, 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:36.440 are you I follow you on Instagram? She's like no, 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:39.160 but I've heard that and I was like, oh, you 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:40.120 look very familiar. 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:44.880 Though she speaking of I saw her. She was like 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:46.520 doing to get ready with me on TikTok and she 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:48.560 was going to Nick and Natalie's engagement party. 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:49.920 Oh, she's friends with them. 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:51.319 Yeah, she's really good friends with them. 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:53.520 You her face, I knew her face, but then I 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:55.800 remembered it was like the hair. Her hair was your inspo. 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:59.559 Yeah, yes, yeah, yeah, and it's probably so cute. And 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:01.840 you know, I later found out that she has a 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:03.880 very different hair type than me. So if you're gonna 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:06.280 cut your hair like someone, make sure you at least 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:09.400 have a similar texture and hair type because that can 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:10.360 make all the difference. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:12.040 It's a great tip for a listeners. 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:16.440 Just here to give insight where I can't lave y'all 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:17.920 with no regrets like I have. 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:21.280 Was there anybody at the party that you hadn't seen 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:23.599 in a while that you were like really excited about 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:26.840 Dean and Kaln's Yeah, besides Jess. 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:32.920 Well I hadn't seen was like, n No, I hadn't 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:35.640 seen Sarah and Wells since their wedding and stuff, and 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:38.240 I always love seeing them. I love talking to Sarah, like, 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:40.880 I find her so interesting and she's so like kind 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:41.440 and funny. 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:44.320 Yeah, am I missing someone? No? 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:44.600 Oh? 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:48.680 Oh, I thought you just questioned, just curious, George over here. 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:50.679 Was there anyone that you had missed? 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:52.800 Yeah, I hadn't seen Wells in a really long time, 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:54.120 and I enjoy walls a lot. 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:57.520 The same I to enjoy Wells. Remember when you went 0:10:57.520 --> 0:11:01.840 through your Dean phase. Yes, that was an intense wow. 0:11:02.240 --> 0:11:06.440 Yeah, it's so funny because I forgot about the Dean phase. 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:10.320 And I had two of my girlfriends over, Pauline and 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:13.000 Sophia over on Friday night. They're having dinner over at 0:11:13.040 --> 0:11:15.760 the house, and I told him that tomorrow was the 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:18.000 you know, the next day was Dean and Klein's engagement party. 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:20.120 And she was like why, she goes, yeah, I saw 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:22.080 the engagement. She was I don't know why I follow 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:24.319 him on Instagram and I was like and then Paulina 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:26.960 was like, yeah, because T had like a crush on him, 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:29.240 and I think you probably you guys probably met somewhere. 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:30.920 And I was like, oh my gosh, how funny she's 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.959 been following Dean all these years because I like had 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.360 a crush on him for like two weeks. 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:44.440 Yeah, and went, yeah, you saw together right, Yer. 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:46.920 Crushed too, as a whirlwind because then we went to 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:49.600 iHeart Festival and it was Tanya on drug. 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:50.800 It was a full. 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:53.080 Spot so bad. 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.720 Yeah, Tanya was I don't know that I've ever seen 0:11:56.760 --> 0:12:00.679 you like that since before or since correct, It. 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:02.640 Was a because you know what was interesting. It was like, 0:12:02.720 --> 0:12:04.720 I will never date Dean. I don't want to date Dean. 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:06.920 We're so not compatible. And then Deane's like, well, give 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:08.360 me a chance, let's go out. So I went out 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:09.960 with him, and I was like, wait, I could date Dean. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:11.040 I do think he's nice. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:13.719 So I was like this roller coaster of emotions and 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:15.880 then when he didn't want me back, I was like, well, 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:18.840 what the hell? Why did we do this whole song 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:21.480 and dance? Like what is going on? I will say 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:25.200 in hindsight, Dean's rejection was God's protection. 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:30.880 I love Dean, but let me tell you something. 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:31.760 I love Dean. 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:34.839 Kaylan is a special, special human. 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.559 They are so perfect for each other, Like they are 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:41.360 really a good team and a good partnership and partner. 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:44.520 They are partners and he and I would have been 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:46.719 a terrible partnership. 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:50.280 And I am happy that it all worked out the 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:50.920 way that it did. 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:53.360 But yeah, I really went through a I just like 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:57.000 since I've known Dean, like meeting him post Bachelor, where 0:12:57.040 --> 0:13:00.520 he was like the way girls reacted to him when 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:03.280 he we all went to like an Ed Shearon concert together. 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:07.040 It was like justin Bieber. There was a crowd of 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:09.520 girls following trying to get a selfie him, and. 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:13.040 I was like, what the he was the moment, but knowing. 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:15.880 Him from them, and then seeing him and Kaylen jingle 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:19.160 Ball the way he looks at her like without even 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:21.120 I don't even know if he realizes. I was just 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:23.200 like I was watching her talk and I looked at 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:24.520 him in the way he was looking at her. I 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:27.280 was like, who I never would have thought we would 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:31.680 see Dean this way like this, Yeah. 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:33.080 It is really cute. I remember we had some sort 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:36.040 of podcast weekend where we all went up to like 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:40.200 when you got COVID, Yeah, and so it was just 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:42.959 kind of we really bonded. Robbie and I bonded with 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:44.520 the two of them. We played fish Bowl and just 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:46.960 had like a really fun weekend and like Dean and 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:50.120 Robbie really hit it off. And then at your Christmas 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:55.120 party at the was a Gingerbread house making party, it 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:57.520 was it came back like their bromance just is like 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:59.760 so they have this thing. It's I don't know, it's 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:01.080 really I love to see it. 0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:04.440 Probably really connects with other men. I mean he connects 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:07.520 with everybody because he's very thoughtful and listens. But like 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:10.640 the way he's like very thoughtful, especially when it comes 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:13.640 to like finding things in calm with other men. 0:14:14.080 --> 0:14:16.880 I couldn't agree with you more. It's something that detracts 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:19.080 me to him so much. It's such a random thing. 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:23.800 But even like, uh, like the people that work the booth, 0:14:23.880 --> 0:14:26.520 the where you get like if no, the tickets where 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:27.920 you get like the booths when you go to park 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:30.520 your car, oh, you take a booth, the ticket booth, 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:34.200 people parking lot attendant. He will make conversation and be 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:36.160 like hey manah, like make a joke with them, like 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:38.000 because there was a guy like hitting the button and 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.120 he was like, nobody can figure out how to punch 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:41.880 this button. You got to sit out here. He's like yeah, man, 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:44.760 Like they have this full Bromo man while he's driving 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:46.760 the car, And I'm like, I love that about him 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.800 because he just engages with people. He listens. 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:52.760 He's very intentional about like connection with people. 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:55.600 Yeah, even if it loved that about him. Yeah, and 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:57.360 like That's why I love because I could literally bring 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:59.240 him anywhere and he can really hit it off with 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:00.200 like anybody. 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:03.320 Yeah, that's a really good quality to have in somebody. 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:06.920 Yeah, like a butterfly a partner, like a social butterfly partner. 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:12.560 My partner Andy uses soap, so that's another advantage over Dean. 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:16.000 Yes he does use soap. Yes, he is very clean. 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:17.280 That he's a clean man. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:20.200 He's a clean man and a handsome man. 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:26.560 Okay, I got invited to this party. It was for 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:30.280 the OBB media. It was like this, I don't know, 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:32.200 it's like a media company and I didn't know what 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:32.560 it was. 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:33.680 Okay, when's a party? 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.760 It was? It was the night of Dean and Kalen sing, Oh. 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:38.960 You should have gone, but we could have gone with you. 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:42.760 I was, uh no for an Audrey invited me, so 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:47.920 it was like you were invited. Sorry, But I was like, oh, 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:49.960 you know, it was like rainy and so I have 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:52.240 Poe home alone. I was like, I'm just gonna stay in. 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:58.120 But it was like Justin Bieber performed, Hailey Bieber was there, 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:02.480 Alex Earl thel Yes, and I'm just. 0:16:02.360 --> 0:16:03.080 Talking about her. 0:16:03.320 --> 0:16:06.960 I told you everybody's talking about her. Everybody like, I. 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:09.320 Love doing research on her because you mentioned know, you 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:10.920 want to talk about her later this week on the 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:12.960 Seacrest Show. So I was doing my research and yeah, 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:14.720 she's getting two million followers in a month. 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:18.400 It's yeah, insanity. I don't think there's ever been. 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:22.240 What shes doing? What do you mean like she hanging what? 0:16:22.640 --> 0:16:24.760 Yeah? Like as a guest, as a preaty observer. 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:26.400 No, but what was she doing? Was she drinking a 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:27.240 bottle of water? 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:29.640 Rose? I didn't go. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:36.080 Oh, I forgot the couch. I didn't go. All these 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:36.760 people were. 0:16:36.640 --> 0:16:38.720 There, Yeah, so I didn't go. And I'm like seeing 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:41.120 all these videos and posts on TikTok and Instagram, and 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:43.120 I'm like, oh my gosh, why didn't you go? 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:46.040 You gotta go, you gotta go, and I gotta go. 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:46.640 I know. 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:50.160 So now I'm gonna say yes to everything. 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:51.800 Oh this bodes well for me? 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:54.360 What if I said no to you? 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:56.720 For No, You've been really good in twenty twenty three. 0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:59.800 Yeah, seventeen days in Yeah, these have been a strong. 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:03.400 Pretty Yeah, I've been pretty good. Yeah, in seventeen days. 0:17:04.119 --> 0:17:09.760 But yeah, Alex Earl, she is just dominating the social 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:10.440 media world. 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:12.840 You know what's funny. I was watching her review air 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:18.600 one food and I'm like, I love this, yes, why, 0:17:18.640 --> 0:17:20.600 I'm like, I've eaten these foods, I know what they 0:17:20.640 --> 0:17:24.160 taste like, and yet I want yeah, yeah, I don't 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:25.760 need her to tell me that it was kind of 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:27.600 good or like too much greens. I'm like, I like 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:30.520 the greens. I like the colored greens, and yet I'm 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:33.199 want to I want to watch more, Like if I 0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:36.880 do my gluten free reviews, I don't know if they're 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:38.000 going to be that engaging. 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:40.639 But what is it that makes her so engaging? 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:41.400