WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Actual Notebook (#1)

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, what an amazing year it has been. Here, I'm broken,

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been Thank you so much to our listeners, you're

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<v Speaker 2>the reason why it's so amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, series events. To everyone who found us and subscribed

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<v Speaker 1>and forced their significant others to listen against their will,

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<v Speaker 1>insisting like no, no, trust me. It gets funny eventually. Yah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just gotta wait like ten fifty to twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>You're only two or three years in. When you get

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<v Speaker 1>to hear four and five, they get almost good. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we almost hit agree. And that's how we were when

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<v Speaker 1>we got to our number one second date update. This

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the favorites I think of all time.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called the actual notebook.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, I love this one, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nothing like the actual notebook. Oh Shore, he is here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the number one second date Update. Enjoy second Date

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<v Speaker 1>Update date. You know. One of my favorite memories of

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<v Speaker 1>all time is going on a road trip with my

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<v Speaker 1>family once I turned twenty one. In all of us

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<v Speaker 1>simultaneously yelled at our driver to stop when we saw

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<v Speaker 1>the sign Jurassic bar Wait a minute, not VI.

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<v Speaker 3>When you were with your mom, what.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole family?

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<v Speaker 4>Mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Dad and the sister and it was just a regular bar,

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<v Speaker 1>but with a dinosaur themed night. Okay, And so if

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<v Speaker 1>you went in, you got a dollar off your draft

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<v Speaker 1>if you roared like a dinosaur.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know how many drinks my mom had

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<v Speaker 1>that night. And again we had a private chaffeur, so

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you meant like when you said driver like uber.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, our driver.

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<v Speaker 3>So your driver, I see.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sure our listeners have also had a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun memories of certain themed nights at different pubs

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<v Speaker 1>around the country, and today a guy named Reid sent

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<v Speaker 1>us an email saying he believes he met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>of his dreams recently. I love themed bar night.

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<v Speaker 3>I love when you relate to the regular people.

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<v Speaker 5>Just unfortunately, no butlers in my life. Okay, there's a

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<v Speaker 5>sirmen in my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I've been to one of those them bars where

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<v Speaker 4>it's like e r have you have you seen? Honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>and they would give you shots in uh syringes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, when you gave birth to your children, I know

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<v Speaker 1>you had a lot of drugs pumping through.

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry about that. Read let's get to you and and

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<v Speaker 1>your your date. Where did you go? What was a

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<v Speaker 1>themed bar night?

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<v Speaker 6>It was very fun, very cool. It's a note passing night.

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<v Speaker 6>Have you heard of one of these?

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<v Speaker 1>A Lexus has officially checked out already, though.

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<v Speaker 3>You change my mind?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you explain how? How does how does it work?

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<v Speaker 6>So the way it actually works? When you go in

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<v Speaker 6>there's different tables up.

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<v Speaker 5>So what you can do is while you're there, you look.

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<v Speaker 6>Around the tables and if you see.

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<v Speaker 5>Someone that you might be interested, you can anonymously send

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<v Speaker 5>them an out from your table.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's like, is it like a singles event? I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't Valentine say so? Cupid is the one who passed

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<v Speaker 3>your notes between you.

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<v Speaker 6>Some addresses Cupid.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you don't ever know who the note's from,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you meet the person to sign your name

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<v Speaker 3>or not?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so how did it go for you? Read?

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<v Speaker 6>It ended up going really well.

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<v Speaker 5>I'd really kind of been in this just habit of

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<v Speaker 5>really only meeting through the apps, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>actually meet in person and it seemed like a fun

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<v Speaker 5>way to transition into that.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I ask you read during the event, how many

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<v Speaker 2>notes did you pass about other people? Like to how

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<v Speaker 2>many women were you note passing too?

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<v Speaker 6>So what ended up happening?

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<v Speaker 5>Early on? I saw one girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Who was rather attractive, and I was rather interested.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this the girl that we're talking about for your

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<v Speaker 1>second date?

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<v Speaker 6>Updated? Her name It is Tina, Tina.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you write to her?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Actually, you know what I put in the first one?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you say?

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<v Speaker 5>I put down in two minutes, I'll walk past your

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<v Speaker 5>table and I hope to see that beautiful smile again.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I had to lay at thought.

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<v Speaker 5>And I said, I already did that four times?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Joe, Okay, I hope she got it? Because did did?

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<v Speaker 2>She write back and said, Oh, you're the weird guy

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<v Speaker 2>that keeps walking past me.

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<v Speaker 5>She liked it, and she wrote back and then we

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<v Speaker 5>ended up passing the notes all night.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh just you and her?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and then the last one had her phone number

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<v Speaker 5>on it.

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<v Speaker 3>It right down its silent in this bar question like

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<v Speaker 3>just paper?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah you can't actually because it's people come in groups,

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<v Speaker 5>so she was actually was in a group.

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<v Speaker 2>Start chatting with friends, less awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>So at any point do you go over and like

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<v Speaker 1>actually speak to her with your voice or is it

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<v Speaker 1>all no passing?

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<v Speaker 5>Here's the thing you could, but that night we didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we were just kind of enjoying the fun

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<v Speaker 5>of the theme. And when she gave me her number,

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<v Speaker 5>I ended up texting. And we've been texting for a

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<v Speaker 5>couple of weeks at this point, and we still we

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<v Speaker 5>still haven't actually spoke.

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<v Speaker 3>What you have no idea? What her voice sounds like?

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<v Speaker 6>No, I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this is interesting. We don't have a whole lot

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<v Speaker 1>to go off of. Then I guess what we need

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<v Speaker 1>to do is hear some of the texts that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys have sent back and forth.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you need that?

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<v Speaker 1>I think you would give us a good idea of

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<v Speaker 1>what we're working with here with Tina.

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<v Speaker 6>Here, let me find a good one. Okay, I said,

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<v Speaker 6>when can I see you again? Pick a day that ends?

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<v Speaker 6>And why that's cute?

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<v Speaker 1>It's so corn what alexis math?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the math on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe Tina is just like Alexis and couldn't figure out

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<v Speaker 1>a day.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I thought it was only week days, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, that sucks.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Well, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>She just sent the lappy face.

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<v Speaker 3>Was supposed to set a day?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, here's the thing is, like, you're obviously laying it

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<v Speaker 1>on pretty thick with her right away, through all the

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<v Speaker 1>messages and texts, you're saying like, she has a beautiful smile.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't wait to see her againated. But a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of times with girls, if you lay it on that thick,

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<v Speaker 1>if there's no chase, they lose interest. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that is a thing. You can be too available.

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<v Speaker 1>So I get we have enough I think to work

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<v Speaker 1>with here. You are showing a lot of your cards

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<v Speaker 1>early on. But maybe we can figure out more when

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<v Speaker 1>we call her directly and you'll get to hear her

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<v Speaker 1>voice for the very first time. Well, who knows, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that would be a turn on for you. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>find out when we come back. We're gonna call Tina

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<v Speaker 1>and try and get your second date update. Right after

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<v Speaker 1>this second date update on the phone with us today

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<v Speaker 1>is a man who is good with his words, at

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<v Speaker 1>least on paper. Yep, And ironically, his name is read Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just so perfect for this.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's his brother.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm playing the notebook music right now because his first

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<v Speaker 1>meeting with a girl named Tina involved an actual notebook.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually a pretty cute meet cute.

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<v Speaker 1>We're both at a themed bar night where you could

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<v Speaker 1>write letters to people at other tables and pass notes

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth, and that's how we ended up getting

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<v Speaker 1>Tina's number. They have been texting ever since. He just

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't locked down an official date yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like maybe he's too eager as kind of what

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<v Speaker 2>we were that maybe picking up on.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also the tiny problem of the fact that they've

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<v Speaker 1>never actually spoken words with their voices yet to each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Small issues, Jeff, that's what texting's for.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, him going to hear her voice for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>So we've heard some of the texts, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>want to get to the last text that she sent

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<v Speaker 1>because we never were able to get to it. Read

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<v Speaker 1>Can you read us the final text that you sent

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<v Speaker 1>that she never responded to.

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<v Speaker 5>I said, I miss you like stormtroopers missed their targets.

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<v Speaker 1>Because they're not they're like notoriously bad.

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<v Speaker 3>At Yeah, anyone at Star Wars.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I got it, No, I got it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's I would be freaked out a little bit if

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<v Speaker 2>someone said I miss you when I haven't spent any

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<v Speaker 2>time in person with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And just like you know, going over what we

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<v Speaker 1>were saying before, you've already kind of put all of

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<v Speaker 1>your cards down on the table for her.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like you flip them and then you flip them again.

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<v Speaker 3>Are gonna try to hide some Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll try and be a little more coy when we're

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<v Speaker 1>actually speaking.

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<v Speaker 5>With Yeah, okay, okay, maybe it was a little much.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was fun, but maybe you guys can

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<v Speaker 5>help balance me out.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all right.

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<v Speaker 1>It is fun. Two people get there together.

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<v Speaker 3>It's sweet. You seem like a sweet dude like you.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all here for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, I'm going to be making the call, so never mind,

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<v Speaker 1>shut up. I'm gonna dal Tina right now. We get

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<v Speaker 1>to hear her voice for the very first time. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Hi, is this Tina?

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<v Speaker 7>This is Tina.

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<v Speaker 6>Who is this Tina?

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<v Speaker 1>You're You're on the radio right now with a show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not interested. Thanks.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not a spam call, Tina.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a legit huh. We're doing a segment called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and we're trying to help out one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners that you've met before.

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<v Speaker 7>Sort of, Oh my gosh, I've heard this before for real.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, isn't that fun?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I don't know if you remember this, but

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<v Speaker 1>the other night you met a guy at a note

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<v Speaker 1>passing bar thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, yeah, it may have been a while ago.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Reid.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know read.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think He was nice?

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<v Speaker 7>He was cute, texted a little bit nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was like fun and I haven't met him

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<v Speaker 7>or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we heard that. We've heard a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>the Barnight. What was the Barnight like for you?

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<v Speaker 7>I had a done anything like that before, but I

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<v Speaker 7>ended up, i think, exchanging numbers with like three guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you were popular.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it was more successful than I thought it was

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<v Speaker 7>going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you've been you've been texting with a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of guys from the thing.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. I actually ended up going out with one of

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<v Speaker 7>them like last week.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it isn't a cheat.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's totally fine. But has read been in your

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<v Speaker 1>mind at all?

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<v Speaker 3>Radar?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, like I said, were like text on and

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<v Speaker 7>off throughout the week, and he's like cute, he's funny,

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<v Speaker 7>kind of flirty, he's always a really jokey over text.

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<v Speaker 7>But the thing is he just hasn't actually asked me

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<v Speaker 7>out yet, Like, so.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been waiting for me to like make the move

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<v Speaker 1>and he hasn't gone for it.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I just don't have time to like a text

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<v Speaker 7>buddy or pen pel, like do you want to bring

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<v Speaker 7>me out or not?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that's a great question.

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<v Speaker 1>Well before I tell you what I have to say here,

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<v Speaker 1>where's your relationship with the other guy at that you've

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<v Speaker 1>been out with one time?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it's just kind of that, like, it was

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<v Speaker 7>a good date. He it was cut, he was nice,

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<v Speaker 7>we had like a little bit in common.

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<v Speaker 6>But it.

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<v Speaker 7>Im I'm down to go out again a week. But

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<v Speaker 7>it wasn't like, oh my god, it's just like.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're not exclusive with that guy, right?

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<v Speaker 7>No, Oh my god, that would be crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really glad that you said that. And you know

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<v Speaker 1>who's extra happy to hear it is Read because he's

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<v Speaker 1>been on the other line listening this entire.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, I was so worried we were gonna

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<v Speaker 7>say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Reid has been wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you there, I'm here, I'm here, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>What good news?

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<v Speaker 6>Read?

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<v Speaker 1>Say hi to Tina for the very first time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, uh yeah, how about uh Tina, hands up. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>in the fd I and you're on my most wanted list.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just talking. Are you not listening to what she

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<v Speaker 1>was saying before.

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<v Speaker 3>About I think you got nervous.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just having a little fun. I'm just fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe let's turn it off.

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<v Speaker 5>All I'm saying is that when it comes to Christmas

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<v Speaker 5>and Sanna asked me what I want, Tina, I'm sending

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<v Speaker 5>him a link to.

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<v Speaker 1>Your I G.

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<v Speaker 7>It's pretty cringe, man, it's not.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not crainey. It's just because she reminds me of someone.

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<v Speaker 1>It's got something.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know if I like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Does she remind you of my next girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>My man, it kind of implies you a current girlfriend too.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, dissect it. Okay, let's just move on.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you trying to just make these guys laugh? Or

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<v Speaker 3>are you trying to turn a woman on?

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<v Speaker 1>You can't do both.

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<v Speaker 5>You.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just flirting with her. We haven't actually talked yet.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just I'm just getting started. I'm just building up.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have like a normal conversation questions?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how Tina's feeling about this.

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<v Speaker 7>Read honestly, I feel like I just like I dare

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<v Speaker 7>you read to just say something that wasn't scripted?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe just even ask her out, just straight up? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's a crazy idea, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she teed you up better than I've ever

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<v Speaker 3>heard any one.

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<v Speaker 1>She's begging for you to ask her out. Go ahead, read,

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<v Speaker 1>now's your moment.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Well, I'm just wondering if.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe Tina, would you want.

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<v Speaker 6>To be my little spoon. Hey, I'm gonna.

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<v Speaker 5>Take her out for soup?

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<v Speaker 7>Soup?

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<v Speaker 6>Do you love soup?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no.

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<v Speaker 3>Happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that a joke?

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<v Speaker 7>Joke?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. And it's like something my grandfather would

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<v Speaker 1>really love, like o soup And you're like, Grandma, do

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<v Speaker 1>you really want soup?

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<v Speaker 7>Like no one knows, dude, Like there's someone out there

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<v Speaker 7>who's gonna love this, but it's not me.

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<v Speaker 3>Well no, no, no, I think he was trying to

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<v Speaker 3>ask you out right there.

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<v Speaker 1>If he's not gonna do it, I'm just gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>it for him, because you want the two of you

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a date in person, and we

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<v Speaker 1>would pay for the date.

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<v Speaker 6>Tina, Hey man, he kind of That's what I was

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<v Speaker 6>building up to it's just gonna ask her that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we can't wait like forty minutes for you to

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<v Speaker 1>get every line out. We need to get to it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't have a lot of time, so go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>ask her yourself. Okay, no line, you're single.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm single. I feel like this is a problem we

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<v Speaker 6>can solve together.

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<v Speaker 1>I never should trusted this guy.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel like I'm gonna fight fire with fire, and

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<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna say unfortunately at this point, I'm gonna make

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<v Speaker 7>like a tree and leave.

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<v Speaker 4>We should like now she's speaking reads language, I know,

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<v Speaker 4>but we're perfect for each other.

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<v Speaker 5>How she's funny, I'm funny, similar humor.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she was being sarcastic reading that.

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<v Speaker 1>Read you gotta work on being more direct with these

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<v Speaker 1>women that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like and just be yourself for a second. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>need all these lines read you're you're a charming guy.

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<v Speaker 7>Man.

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<v Speaker 6>That is myself. That's what I like.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, maybe leave yourself on the side of the road.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning, You.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what, this is his fault on that one. You

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<v Speaker 1>think we can't take a blame for what because does.

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<v Speaker 7>He memorized them all?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know where he has those from his hand.

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<v Speaker 1>But there is a window after you meet someone when

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<v Speaker 1>you really need to ask them out, like you only

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<v Speaker 1>have a certain amount of time. And not only did

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<v Speaker 1>he miss his window, she opened up another window for

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<v Speaker 1>him and he missed that one.

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<v Speaker 3>Too, and she screamed through the window, this is the window.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say yes to your question. So gentlemen, make

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<v Speaker 1>sure to find your window and jump through it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>twenty stories up. Some women are just worth it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, funny is good, but not funny every single thing,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Solve the mystery. Finally, maybe we could solve your mystery.

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