Speaker 1: Wow, what an amazing year it has been. Here, I'm broken,
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: It's been Thank you so much to our listeners, you're
Speaker 2: the reason why it's so amazing.
Speaker 1: Yes, series events. To everyone who found us and subscribed
Speaker 1: and forced their significant others to listen against their will,
Speaker 1: insisting like no, no, trust me. It gets funny eventually. Yah,
Speaker 1: you just gotta wait like ten fifty to twenty minutes.
Speaker 1: You're only two or three years in. When you get
Speaker 1: to hear four and five, they get almost good. Yes,
Speaker 1: we almost hit agree. And that's how we were when
Speaker 1: we got to our number one second date update. This
Speaker 1: was one of the favorites I think of all time.
Speaker 1: It's called the actual notebook.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love this one, and.
Speaker 1: It's nothing like the actual notebook. Oh Shore, he is here.
Speaker 1: It's the number one second date Update. Enjoy second Date
Speaker 1: Update date. You know. One of my favorite memories of
Speaker 1: all time is going on a road trip with my
Speaker 1: family once I turned twenty one. In all of us
Speaker 1: simultaneously yelled at our driver to stop when we saw
Speaker 1: the sign Jurassic bar Wait a minute, not VI.
Speaker 3: When you were with your mom, what.
Speaker 1: The whole family?
Speaker 4: Mom?
Speaker 1: Dad and the sister and it was just a regular bar,
Speaker 1: but with a dinosaur themed night. Okay, And so if
Speaker 1: you went in, you got a dollar off your draft
Speaker 1: if you roared like a dinosaur.
Speaker 3: Oh that's good.
Speaker 1: And I don't know how many drinks my mom had
Speaker 1: that night. And again we had a private chaffeur, so
Speaker 1: it didn't matter.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 3: I thought you meant like when you said driver like uber.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, our driver.
Speaker 3: So your driver, I see.
Speaker 1: And I'm sure our listeners have also had a lot
Speaker 1: of fun memories of certain themed nights at different pubs
Speaker 1: around the country, and today a guy named Reid sent
Speaker 1: us an email saying he believes he met the girl
Speaker 1: of his dreams recently. I love themed bar night.
Speaker 3: I love when you relate to the regular people.
Speaker 5: Just unfortunately, no butlers in my life. Okay, there's a
Speaker 5: sirmen in my life.
Speaker 4: Oh I've been to one of those them bars where
Speaker 4: it's like e r have you have you seen? Honestly,
Speaker 4: and they would give you shots in uh syringes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, when you gave birth to your children, I know
Speaker 1: you had a lot of drugs pumping through.
Speaker 6: It wasn't a bar.
Speaker 1: Sorry about that. Read let's get to you and and
Speaker 1: your your date. Where did you go? What was a
Speaker 1: themed bar night?
Speaker 6: It was very fun, very cool. It's a note passing night.
Speaker 6: Have you heard of one of these?
Speaker 1: A Lexus has officially checked out already, though.
Speaker 3: You change my mind?
Speaker 1: Can you explain how? How does how does it work?
Speaker 6: So the way it actually works? When you go in
Speaker 6: there's different tables up.
Speaker 5: So what you can do is while you're there, you look.
Speaker 6: Around the tables and if you see.
Speaker 5: Someone that you might be interested, you can anonymously send
Speaker 5: them an out from your table.
Speaker 3: Oh, it's like, is it like a singles event? I
Speaker 3: didn't Valentine say so? Cupid is the one who passed
Speaker 3: your notes between you.
Speaker 6: Some addresses Cupid.
Speaker 3: But if you don't ever know who the note's from,
Speaker 3: how do you meet the person to sign your name
Speaker 3: or not?
Speaker 1: Okay, so how did it go for you? Read?
Speaker 6: It ended up going really well.
Speaker 5: I'd really kind of been in this just habit of
Speaker 5: really only meeting through the apps, and I wanted to
Speaker 5: actually meet in person and it seemed like a fun
Speaker 5: way to transition into that.
Speaker 2: Can I ask you read during the event, how many
Speaker 2: notes did you pass about other people? Like to how
Speaker 2: many women were you note passing too?
Speaker 6: So what ended up happening?
Speaker 5: Early on? I saw one girl.
Speaker 6: Who was rather attractive, and I was rather interested.
Speaker 1: Is this the girl that we're talking about for your
Speaker 1: second date?
Speaker 6: Updated? Her name It is Tina, Tina.
Speaker 1: What did you write to her?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Actually, you know what I put in the first one?
Speaker 1: Did you say?
Speaker 5: I put down in two minutes, I'll walk past your
Speaker 5: table and I hope to see that beautiful smile again.
Speaker 1: And then I had to lay at thought.
Speaker 5: And I said, I already did that four times?
Speaker 1: Oh Joe, Okay, I hope she got it? Because did did?
Speaker 2: She write back and said, Oh, you're the weird guy
Speaker 2: that keeps walking past me.
Speaker 5: She liked it, and she wrote back and then we
Speaker 5: ended up passing the notes all night.
Speaker 3: Oh just you and her?
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then the last one had her phone number
Speaker 5: on it.
Speaker 3: It right down its silent in this bar question like
Speaker 3: just paper?
Speaker 5: Yeah you can't actually because it's people come in groups,
Speaker 5: so she was actually was in a group.
Speaker 2: Start chatting with friends, less awkward.
Speaker 1: So at any point do you go over and like
Speaker 1: actually speak to her with your voice or is it
Speaker 1: all no passing?
Speaker 5: Here's the thing you could, but that night we didn't.
Speaker 5: I think we were just kind of enjoying the fun
Speaker 5: of the theme. And when she gave me her number,
Speaker 5: I ended up texting. And we've been texting for a
Speaker 5: couple of weeks at this point, and we still we
Speaker 5: still haven't actually spoke.
Speaker 3: What you have no idea? What her voice sounds like?
Speaker 6: No, I have no idea.
Speaker 1: Okay, this is interesting. We don't have a whole lot
Speaker 1: to go off of. Then I guess what we need
Speaker 1: to do is hear some of the texts that you
Speaker 1: guys have sent back and forth.
Speaker 6: Are you need that?
Speaker 1: I think you would give us a good idea of
Speaker 1: what we're working with here with Tina.
Speaker 6: Here, let me find a good one. Okay, I said,
Speaker 6: when can I see you again? Pick a day that ends?
Speaker 6: And why that's cute?
Speaker 1: It's so corn what alexis math?
Speaker 3: Yeah, the math on that one.
Speaker 1: Maybe Tina is just like Alexis and couldn't figure out
Speaker 1: a day.
Speaker 2: Well I thought it was only week days, and I
Speaker 2: was like, that sucks.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, okay.
Speaker 6: She just sent the lappy face.
Speaker 3: Was supposed to set a day?
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing is, like, you're obviously laying it
Speaker 1: on pretty thick with her right away, through all the
Speaker 1: messages and texts, you're saying like, she has a beautiful smile.
Speaker 1: You can't wait to see her againated. But a lot
Speaker 1: of times with girls, if you lay it on that thick,
Speaker 1: if there's no chase, they lose interest. Absolutely.
Speaker 3: I mean that is a thing. You can be too available.
Speaker 1: So I get we have enough I think to work
Speaker 1: with here. You are showing a lot of your cards
Speaker 1: early on. But maybe we can figure out more when
Speaker 1: we call her directly and you'll get to hear her
Speaker 1: voice for the very first time. Well, who knows, maybe
Speaker 1: that would be a turn on for you. We're gonna
Speaker 1: find out when we come back. We're gonna call Tina
Speaker 1: and try and get your second date update. Right after
Speaker 1: this second date update on the phone with us today
Speaker 1: is a man who is good with his words, at
Speaker 1: least on paper. Yep, And ironically, his name is read Oh,
Speaker 1: it's just so perfect for this.
Speaker 3: No, that's his brother.
Speaker 1: I'm playing the notebook music right now because his first
Speaker 1: meeting with a girl named Tina involved an actual notebook.
Speaker 2: It's actually a pretty cute meet cute.
Speaker 1: We're both at a themed bar night where you could
Speaker 1: write letters to people at other tables and pass notes
Speaker 1: back and forth, and that's how we ended up getting
Speaker 1: Tina's number. They have been texting ever since. He just
Speaker 1: hasn't locked down an official date yet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like maybe he's too eager as kind of what
Speaker 2: we were that maybe picking up on.
Speaker 1: There's also the tiny problem of the fact that they've
Speaker 1: never actually spoken words with their voices yet to each other.
Speaker 3: Small issues, Jeff, that's what texting's for.
Speaker 1: Yeah, him going to hear her voice for the first time.
Speaker 1: So we've heard some of the texts, but I do
Speaker 1: want to get to the last text that she sent
Speaker 1: because we never were able to get to it. Read
Speaker 1: Can you read us the final text that you sent
Speaker 1: that she never responded to.
Speaker 5: I said, I miss you like stormtroopers missed their targets.
Speaker 1: Because they're not they're like notoriously bad.
Speaker 3: At Yeah, anyone at Star Wars.
Speaker 1: Okay, I got it, No, I got it.
Speaker 2: It's I would be freaked out a little bit if
Speaker 2: someone said I miss you when I haven't spent any
Speaker 2: time in person with that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And just like you know, going over what we
Speaker 1: were saying before, you've already kind of put all of
Speaker 1: your cards down on the table for her.
Speaker 3: It's like you flip them and then you flip them again.
Speaker 3: Are gonna try to hide some Maybe.
Speaker 1: We'll try and be a little more coy when we're
Speaker 1: actually speaking.
Speaker 5: With Yeah, okay, okay, maybe it was a little much.
Speaker 5: I thought it was fun, but maybe you guys can
Speaker 5: help balance me out.
Speaker 3: That's all right.
Speaker 1: It is fun. Two people get there together.
Speaker 3: It's sweet. You seem like a sweet dude like you.
Speaker 1: We're all here for you.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: Actually, I'm going to be making the call, so never mind,
Speaker 1: shut up. I'm gonna dal Tina right now. We get
Speaker 1: to hear her voice for the very first time. Here
Speaker 1: we go. Hello, Hi, is this Tina?
Speaker 7: This is Tina.
Speaker 6: Who is this Tina?
Speaker 1: You're You're on the radio right now with a show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: I'm not interested. Thanks.
Speaker 3: It's not a spam call, Tina.
Speaker 1: It's a legit huh. We're doing a segment called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update, and we're trying to help out one
Speaker 1: of our listeners that you've met before.
Speaker 7: Sort of, Oh my gosh, I've heard this before for real.
Speaker 3: Yeah, isn't that fun?
Speaker 1: Okay, So I don't know if you remember this, but
Speaker 1: the other night you met a guy at a note
Speaker 1: passing bar thing.
Speaker 3: I think it was a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 1: In fact, yeah, it may have been a while ago.
Speaker 1: His name's Reid.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know read.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, cool.
Speaker 3: What do you think He was nice?
Speaker 7: He was cute, texted a little bit nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was like fun and I haven't met him
Speaker 7: or anything.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we heard that. We've heard a little bit about
Speaker 1: the Barnight. What was the Barnight like for you?
Speaker 7: I had a done anything like that before, but I
Speaker 7: ended up, i think, exchanging numbers with like three guys.
Speaker 1: Oh you were popular.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was more successful than I thought it was
Speaker 7: going to be.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you've been you've been texting with a couple
Speaker 2: of guys from the thing.
Speaker 7: Yeah. I actually ended up going out with one of
Speaker 7: them like last week.
Speaker 2: Oh it isn't a cheat.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's totally fine. But has read been in your
Speaker 1: mind at all?
Speaker 3: Radar?
Speaker 7: I mean, like I said, were like text on and
Speaker 7: off throughout the week, and he's like cute, he's funny,
Speaker 7: kind of flirty, he's always a really jokey over text.
Speaker 7: But the thing is he just hasn't actually asked me
Speaker 7: out yet, Like, so.
Speaker 1: You've been waiting for me to like make the move
Speaker 1: and he hasn't gone for it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I just don't have time to like a text
Speaker 7: buddy or pen pel, like do you want to bring
Speaker 7: me out or not?
Speaker 3: Well, that's a great question.
Speaker 1: Well before I tell you what I have to say here,
Speaker 1: where's your relationship with the other guy at that you've
Speaker 1: been out with one time?
Speaker 7: I mean, it's just kind of that, like, it was
Speaker 7: a good date. He it was cut, he was nice,
Speaker 7: we had like a little bit in common.
Speaker 6: But it.
Speaker 7: Im I'm down to go out again a week. But
Speaker 7: it wasn't like, oh my god, it's just like.
Speaker 1: But you're not exclusive with that guy, right?
Speaker 7: No, Oh my god, that would be crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm really glad that you said that. And you know
Speaker 1: who's extra happy to hear it is Read because he's
Speaker 1: been on the other line listening this entire.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, I was so worried we were gonna
Speaker 7: say that.
Speaker 1: Reid has been wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 6: Are you there, I'm here, I'm here, all right?
Speaker 1: What good news?
Speaker 6: Read?
Speaker 1: Say hi to Tina for the very first time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, uh yeah, how about uh Tina, hands up. I'm
Speaker 5: in the fd I and you're on my most wanted list.
Speaker 1: You're just talking. Are you not listening to what she
Speaker 1: was saying before.
Speaker 3: About I think you got nervous.
Speaker 6: I'm just having a little fun. I'm just fun.
Speaker 1: I understand.
Speaker 3: Maybe let's turn it off.
Speaker 5: All I'm saying is that when it comes to Christmas
Speaker 5: and Sanna asked me what I want, Tina, I'm sending
Speaker 5: him a link to.
Speaker 1: Your I G.
Speaker 7: It's pretty cringe, man, it's not.
Speaker 6: It's not crainey. It's just because she reminds me of someone.
Speaker 1: It's got something.
Speaker 7: I don't know if I like that.
Speaker 5: Does she remind you of my next girlfriend?
Speaker 1: My man, it kind of implies you a current girlfriend too.
Speaker 1: I know, dissect it. Okay, let's just move on.
Speaker 3: Are you trying to just make these guys laugh? Or
Speaker 3: are you trying to turn a woman on?
Speaker 1: You can't do both.
Speaker 5: You.
Speaker 6: I'm just flirting with her. We haven't actually talked yet.
Speaker 6: I'm just I'm just getting started. I'm just building up.
Speaker 3: Do you have like a normal conversation questions?
Speaker 1: I don't know how Tina's feeling about this.
Speaker 7: Read honestly, I feel like I just like I dare
Speaker 7: you read to just say something that wasn't scripted?
Speaker 1: Maybe just even ask her out, just straight up? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like that's a crazy idea, I know.
Speaker 3: I mean, she teed you up better than I've ever
Speaker 3: heard any one.
Speaker 1: She's begging for you to ask her out. Go ahead, read,
Speaker 1: now's your moment.
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I'm just wondering if.
Speaker 5: Maybe Tina, would you want.
Speaker 6: To be my little spoon. Hey, I'm gonna.
Speaker 5: Take her out for soup?
Speaker 7: Soup?
Speaker 6: Do you love soup?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 1: No, no.
Speaker 3: Happening.
Speaker 1: Why is that a joke?
Speaker 7: Joke?
Speaker 1: I don't know. And it's like something my grandfather would
Speaker 1: really love, like o soup And you're like, Grandma, do
Speaker 1: you really want soup?
Speaker 7: Like no one knows, dude, Like there's someone out there
Speaker 7: who's gonna love this, but it's not me.
Speaker 3: Well no, no, no, I think he was trying to
Speaker 3: ask you out right there.
Speaker 1: If he's not gonna do it, I'm just gonna do
Speaker 1: it for him, because you want the two of you
Speaker 1: to go out on a date in person, and we
Speaker 1: would pay for the date.
Speaker 6: Tina, Hey man, he kind of That's what I was
Speaker 6: building up to it's just gonna ask her that.
Speaker 1: Well, we can't wait like forty minutes for you to
Speaker 1: get every line out. We need to get to it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we don't have a lot of time, so go ahead
Speaker 1: ask her yourself. Okay, no line, you're single.
Speaker 6: I'm single. I feel like this is a problem we
Speaker 6: can solve together.
Speaker 1: I never should trusted this guy.
Speaker 7: I feel like I'm gonna fight fire with fire, and
Speaker 7: I'm gonna say unfortunately at this point, I'm gonna make
Speaker 7: like a tree and leave.
Speaker 4: We should like now she's speaking reads language, I know,
Speaker 4: but we're perfect for each other.
Speaker 5: How she's funny, I'm funny, similar humor.
Speaker 3: I think she was being sarcastic reading that.
Speaker 1: Read you gotta work on being more direct with these
Speaker 1: women that you.
Speaker 2: Like and just be yourself for a second. You don't
Speaker 2: need all these lines read you're you're a charming guy.
Speaker 7: Man.
Speaker 6: That is myself. That's what I like.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, maybe leave yourself on the side of the road.
Speaker 3: Yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning, You.
Speaker 1: Know what, this is his fault on that one. You
Speaker 1: think we can't take a blame for what because does.
Speaker 7: He memorized them all?
Speaker 1: I don't know where he has those from his hand.
Speaker 1: But there is a window after you meet someone when
Speaker 1: you really need to ask them out, like you only
Speaker 1: have a certain amount of time. And not only did
Speaker 1: he miss his window, she opened up another window for
Speaker 1: him and he missed that one.
Speaker 3: Too, and she screamed through the window, this is the window.
Speaker 1: I will say yes to your question. So gentlemen, make
Speaker 1: sure to find your window and jump through it. It's
Speaker 1: twenty stories up. Some women are just worth it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, funny is good, but not funny every single thing,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Solve the mystery. Finally, maybe we could solve your mystery.
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