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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: It's been Thank you so much to our listeners, you're

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Speaker 2: the reason why it's so amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yes, series events. To everyone who found us and subscribed

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Speaker 1: we almost hit agree. And that's how we were when

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Speaker 1: we got to our number one second date update. This

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Speaker 1: was one of the favorites I think of all time.

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Speaker 1: It's called the actual notebook.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love this one, and.

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Speaker 1: It's nothing like the actual notebook. Oh Shore, he is here.

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Speaker 1: It's the number one second date Update. Enjoy second Date

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Speaker 1: Update date. You know. One of my favorite memories of

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Speaker 1: family once I turned twenty one. In all of us

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Speaker 3: When you were with your mom, what.

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Speaker 1: The whole family?

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Speaker 1: Dad and the sister and it was just a regular bar,

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Speaker 1: but with a dinosaur themed night. Okay, And so if

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Speaker 3: Oh that's good.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know how many drinks my mom had

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I thought you meant like when you said driver like uber.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, our driver.

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Speaker 3: So your driver, I see.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sure our listeners have also had a lot

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Speaker 1: of fun memories of certain themed nights at different pubs

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Speaker 1: of his dreams recently. I love themed bar night.

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Speaker 3: I love when you relate to the regular people.

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Speaker 5: Just unfortunately, no butlers in my life. Okay, there's a

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Speaker 4: Oh I've been to one of those them bars where

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when you gave birth to your children, I know

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Speaker 6: It wasn't a bar.

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Speaker 1: Sorry about that. Read let's get to you and and

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Speaker 1: your your date. Where did you go? What was a

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Speaker 6: It was very fun, very cool. It's a note passing night.

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Speaker 6: Have you heard of one of these?

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Speaker 3: You change my mind?

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Speaker 1: Can you explain how? How does how does it work?

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Speaker 6: So the way it actually works? When you go in

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Speaker 5: So what you can do is while you're there, you look.

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Speaker 5: Someone that you might be interested, you can anonymously send

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's like, is it like a singles event? I

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Speaker 3: But if you don't ever know who the note's from,

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Speaker 1: Okay, so how did it go for you? Read?

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Speaker 6: It ended up going really well.

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Speaker 5: I'd really kind of been in this just habit of

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Speaker 6: Updated? Her name It is Tina, Tina.

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Speaker 1: What did you write to her?

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Speaker 6: Actually, you know what I put in the first one?

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Speaker 5: I put down in two minutes, I'll walk past your

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Speaker 5: And I said, I already did that four times?

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Speaker 2: She write back and said, Oh, you're the weird guy

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Speaker 5: Here's the thing you could, but that night we didn't.

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Speaker 3: What you have no idea? What her voice sounds like?

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Speaker 6: No, I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is interesting. We don't have a whole lot

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Speaker 6: Are you need that?

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Speaker 1: I think you would give us a good idea of

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Speaker 6: Here, let me find a good one. Okay, I said,

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Speaker 6: And why that's cute?

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Speaker 1: It's so corn what alexis math?

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Speaker 1: Maybe Tina is just like Alexis and couldn't figure out

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, okay.

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Speaker 6: She just sent the lappy face.

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Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing is, like, you're obviously laying it

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Speaker 1: You can't wait to see her againated. But a lot

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Speaker 1: if there's no chase, they lose interest. Absolutely.

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Speaker 3: I mean that is a thing. You can be too available.

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Speaker 1: So I get we have enough I think to work

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Speaker 1: is a man who is good with his words, at

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Speaker 1: least on paper. Yep, And ironically, his name is read Oh,

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Speaker 3: No, that's his brother.

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Speaker 1: I'm playing the notebook music right now because his first

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Speaker 2: It's actually a pretty cute meet cute.

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Speaker 1: We're both at a themed bar night where you could

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Speaker 1: Tina's number. They have been texting ever since. He just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like maybe he's too eager as kind of what

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Speaker 1: There's also the tiny problem of the fact that they've

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Speaker 3: Small issues, Jeff, that's what texting's for.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, him going to hear her voice for the first time.

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Speaker 1: So we've heard some of the texts, but I do

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Speaker 5: I said, I miss you like stormtroopers missed their targets.

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Speaker 1: Because they're not they're like notoriously bad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And just like you know, going over what we

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Speaker 3: It's like you flip them and then you flip them again.

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Speaker 5: With Yeah, okay, okay, maybe it was a little much.

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Speaker 5: I thought it was fun, but maybe you guys can

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Speaker 3: That's all right.

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Speaker 1: It is fun. Two people get there together.

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Speaker 3: It's sweet. You seem like a sweet dude like you.

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Speaker 1: We're all here for you.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Actually, I'm going to be making the call, so never mind,

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Speaker 1: shut up. I'm gonna dal Tina right now. We get

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Speaker 1: to hear her voice for the very first time. Here

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Speaker 7: This is Tina.

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Speaker 6: Who is this Tina?

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Speaker 1: You're You're on the radio right now with a show

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Speaker 7: I'm not interested. Thanks.

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Speaker 3: It's not a spam call, Tina.

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Speaker 1: It's a legit huh. We're doing a segment called a

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Speaker 1: second Date Update, and we're trying to help out one

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Speaker 7: Sort of, Oh my gosh, I've heard this before for real.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, isn't that fun?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I don't know if you remember this, but

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Speaker 1: the other night you met a guy at a note

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Speaker 3: I think it was a couple of weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: In fact, yeah, it may have been a while ago.

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Speaker 1: His name's Reid.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know read.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, cool.

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Speaker 3: What do you think He was nice?

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Speaker 7: He was cute, texted a little bit nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was like fun and I haven't met him

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Speaker 7: I had a done anything like that before, but I

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was more successful than I thought it was

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's totally fine. But has read been in your

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Speaker 3: Radar?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I just don't have time to like a text

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's just kind of that, like, it was

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Speaker 7: No, Oh my god, that would be crazy.

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Speaker 6: Are you there, I'm here, I'm here, all right?

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Speaker 1: What good news?

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Speaker 6: Read?

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Speaker 1: Say hi to Tina for the very first time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, uh yeah, how about uh Tina, hands up. I'm

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Speaker 1: You're just talking. Are you not listening to what she

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Speaker 3: About I think you got nervous.

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Speaker 6: I'm just having a little fun. I'm just fun.

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Speaker 1: I understand.

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Speaker 3: Maybe let's turn it off.

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Speaker 5: All I'm saying is that when it comes to Christmas

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Speaker 7: It's pretty cringe, man, it's not.

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Speaker 6: It's not crainey. It's just because she reminds me of someone.

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Speaker 7: I don't know if I like that.

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Speaker 5: Does she remind you of my next girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: My man, it kind of implies you a current girlfriend too.

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Speaker 1: I know, dissect it. Okay, let's just move on.

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Speaker 3: Are you trying to just make these guys laugh? Or

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Speaker 1: You can't do both.

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Speaker 6: I'm just flirting with her. We haven't actually talked yet.

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Speaker 3: Do you have like a normal conversation questions?

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Speaker 1: I don't know how Tina's feeling about this.

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Speaker 7: Read honestly, I feel like I just like I dare

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Speaker 1: Maybe just even ask her out, just straight up? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like that's a crazy idea, I know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, she teed you up better than I've ever

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Speaker 1: She's begging for you to ask her out. Go ahead, read,

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I'm just wondering if.

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Speaker 6: To be my little spoon. Hey, I'm gonna.

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Speaker 7: Soup?

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Speaker 6: Do you love soup?

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Speaker 3: Happening.

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Speaker 1: Why is that a joke?

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Speaker 7: Joke?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. And it's like something my grandfather would

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Speaker 7: Like no one knows, dude, Like there's someone out there

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Speaker 3: Well no, no, no, I think he was trying to

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Speaker 1: If he's not gonna do it, I'm just gonna do

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Speaker 6: Tina, Hey man, he kind of That's what I was

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Speaker 1: Well, we can't wait like forty minutes for you to

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Speaker 1: get every line out. We need to get to it. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I'm single. I feel like this is a problem we

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Speaker 1: I never should trusted this guy.

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Speaker 7: I feel like I'm gonna fight fire with fire, and

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna say unfortunately at this point, I'm gonna make

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Speaker 4: We should like now she's speaking reads language, I know,

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Speaker 5: How she's funny, I'm funny, similar humor.

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Speaker 3: I think she was being sarcastic reading that.

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Speaker 1: Read you gotta work on being more direct with these

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Speaker 2: Like and just be yourself for a second. You don't

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 6: That is myself. That's what I like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, maybe leave yourself on the side of the road.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, brooking Jeffrey in the morning, You.

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Speaker 1: Know what, this is his fault on that one. You

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Speaker 7: He memorized them all?

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Speaker 1: I don't know where he has those from his hand.

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Speaker 1: But there is a window after you meet someone when

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Speaker 1: you really need to ask them out, like you only

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Speaker 3: Too, and she screamed through the window, this is the window.

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Speaker 1: I will say yes to your question. So gentlemen, make

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Speaker 1: sure to find your window and jump through it. It's

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Speaker 1: twenty stories up. Some women are just worth it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, funny is good, but not funny every single thing,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Solve the mystery. Finally, maybe we could solve your mystery.

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Speaker 1: If you need help with your dating life, email the show.

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Speaker 1: We'll call that person who's not calling you back, and

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.