Speaker 1: Talk, talk talk.
Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion
Speaker 2: to talk.
Speaker 1: Well, what's up y'all? Thank you for turning in for
Speaker 1: a new episode and we talked back a show dedicated
Speaker 1: to you dreamers and chasers. This is your co host
Speaker 1: a j Holiday What's Up Team.
Speaker 2: I want to dedicate this last one of the year
Speaker 2: to these niggas and homes one more time for.
Speaker 1: The might as well. Hey y'all, Hey y'all, We love y'all.
Speaker 2: Man, hope y'all had a good Christmas Christmas. I was
Speaker 2: about to ask you the same thing.
Speaker 1: You go first. Uh My Christmas was cool, Okay, So
Speaker 1: remember I told y'all last week we were doing family pictures,
Speaker 1: so we did do that on Christmas Eve. I did
Speaker 1: everybody's makeup except for my oldest niece, Chad, because she's
Speaker 1: extra boozie. She had to go get her shit done
Speaker 1: by someone. But I did everybody else's and we looked
Speaker 1: really nice. Man. My uh look, my daddy and my
Speaker 1: step mom who's the same age as my middle sister.
Speaker 1: They came to take pictures because we all want y'all
Speaker 1: took pictures all together. That was nice. Everybody was twelve
Speaker 1: of us. That was real nicey are y'all gonna print them? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm waiting for the guy I had, Yeah, the guy had.
Speaker 1: I know the guy, the photographer, because my niece was
Speaker 1: this was her idea, but somehow and landed in my
Speaker 1: fucking lap last minute. So I found somebody to come
Speaker 1: take the pictures, and well, my daddy and his wife
Speaker 1: was taking the pictures together. I was like, I told
Speaker 1: a photographer, I say, tell everybody, this is my step
Speaker 1: mama Hedi girl, my daddy is seventy three girl wife.
Speaker 1: Yeah big, that's what come after that? Yeah. But and
Speaker 1: then Christmas Day, oh girl, last night we went to
Speaker 1: a big ass like I wish my family was like
Speaker 1: this lit. I went to a house Christmas party and
Speaker 1: apparently these people do this shit every year. It's the
Speaker 1: preaching his wife, but it's my friends, my friends, my
Speaker 1: nigga homeboy family, his mom and dad. Girl. When I
Speaker 1: tell you, we pulled up, it was so many people there.
Speaker 1: They had a live band inside the house. Wow, it
Speaker 1: was lit. Okay, all you can eat food and drinks.
Speaker 1: It was really really nice. I wish my family was
Speaker 1: that dope, but they not. Everybody doing their own little
Speaker 1: separate shit in the house. Oh wow. Every year. It
Speaker 1: was just me, mam and my sister.
Speaker 2: This year and they came up on Christmas Eve and
Speaker 2: I made this hot chocolate and I put liquor in
Speaker 2: me and Tania's. But I ain't tell my mama cuz
Speaker 2: I was driving us around to go.
Speaker 1: Look at Christmas nights. Not do you, shorty.
Speaker 2: It was just a little little tab. It wasn't a
Speaker 2: whole bunch of the hot chocolate.
Speaker 1: I know she probably saw you changed, though, you know,
Speaker 1: motherfucker's be changing, and they start drinking.
Speaker 2: So we went past this house and there was a
Speaker 2: Santa Claus. Literally, they had the house lit up so big.
Speaker 2: I found all these places to go online, and so
Speaker 2: we rode past this house and it was a Santa
Speaker 2: outside and he was passing out candy canes and you
Speaker 2: could leave donations that they were given to a charity,
Speaker 2: and you had to get in line. So we sat
Speaker 2: in that line and we gave him some money, and
Speaker 2: I asked him could I have some breakpass for Christmas?
Speaker 2: Because I was squeaking all the way down the mother
Speaker 2: fucking line. It's embarrassing you act sad.
Speaker 1: He was like no, no, no no, But that was fun.
Speaker 2: And then we came back here and we made some somores.
Speaker 2: I had got one of those tabletop fire pits and
Speaker 2: that I saw on picturess and we made some moores
Speaker 2: and washed the five heart beats, so that was good.
Speaker 1: We went to bed. Then Christmas we got up.
Speaker 2: Oh no, we made a TikTok that night before bed,
Speaker 2: you know, the one where I got to send it
Speaker 2: to you.
Speaker 1: It's so funny, my mama is a.
Speaker 2: Trip, the one where you like moving slow and then
Speaker 2: when you flash the lights you go crazy. Yeah, we
Speaker 2: made that one. It wasn't good, you know, because it
Speaker 2: wasn't good. I embarrassed, but I sent it to you. Uh.
Speaker 1: Then we went to bed.
Speaker 2: And then on Christmas Day we got up. We had
Speaker 2: metting pajamas, so we took pictures. We even got Bello
Speaker 2: matching pajamas. Took pictures on the couch and then we
Speaker 2: opened up all our gifts and then we chilled for
Speaker 2: the rest of the day, ate some food, and then
Speaker 2: we went to go see the color Purple that night,
Speaker 2: and we wore purple like over request it. But I
Speaker 2: guess everybody didn't hear Opah's request, because I feel like
Speaker 2: it was just us and a couple of people who
Speaker 2: actually came in the color purple to the show, and
Speaker 2: I really enjoyed it. My mom was acting. I was
Speaker 2: slinking the beginning.
Speaker 1: She's like, this is a fucking musical.
Speaker 2: I was like, yes, But once it got she got
Speaker 2: into it. It was really good. We enjoyed it. Now,
Speaker 2: let me just say this. There was a trailer for
Speaker 2: that movie, The American Society of Magical Negroes. Y'all go
Speaker 2: look at that.
Speaker 1: I can't wait for that. I like it.
Speaker 2: I like the title, and I was excited because I
Speaker 2: was expected to some nigga hogwarts shit right. No, this
Speaker 2: movie is about magical negroes who use their powers to
Speaker 2: make sure white people are happy so white people don't
Speaker 2: hurt black people. And the main character and the main
Speaker 2: character he starts liking this white girl, and his job
Speaker 2: is to keep this white man happy. And the white
Speaker 2: man likes the white girl, so he has a conflict
Speaker 2: of like getting with this white girl or making this
Speaker 2: white man happy.
Speaker 1: And there's a white white tears odometer girl. I was all,
Speaker 1: who what fuck is this for? Who that is fun?
Speaker 1: Hold on, what's the title, what's the title?
Speaker 2: Against the American Society of Magical Negroes.
Speaker 1: White people are happy? Yo. I was like, I literally
Speaker 1: in the in the movie, I said, boom, real loud.
Speaker 2: Everybody started laughing at the movie theater because who the fuck.
Speaker 1: They missed the mark for me?
Speaker 2: Maybe, I mean it's a satire, and I get that
Speaker 2: it's a satire, but I feel like, based on the trailer,
Speaker 2: they're missing the mark completely for me.
Speaker 1: So I don't know. Directed by Kobe Libby, Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: not given. Uh, it's not giving. I won't tell you
Speaker 1: what he looks like. He looks like he is mixed
Speaker 1: with black and something else. I won't tell you what
Speaker 1: he looks like. He looks like he's yo. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: ain't y'all.
Speaker 2: Go check out the trailer and y'all come back and
Speaker 2: tell us what y'all think. But it's just not I
Speaker 2: was offended by that ship. But otherwise the movie was good.
Speaker 2: And then we came back here eight leftovers and went
Speaker 2: to bed.
Speaker 1: That was it. So color purple. It was good. I
Speaker 1: enjoyed it.
Speaker 2: There was a few moments where I was like, but
Speaker 2: for the most part, I loved it.
Speaker 1: I'm actually at them even doing a remake. I understand
Speaker 1: it's a musical, but they should have just left it
Speaker 1: as a Broadway play. I don't know that I want
Speaker 1: to see it in theaters paying anyway. I think you're
Speaker 1: going to enjoy it.
Speaker 2: It was good, you know, if you get, If you
Speaker 2: get take the movie out of your head and just
Speaker 2: let it be what it is, I think you'll like it.
Speaker 1: Taraji. You know, the Color Purple just has so many
Speaker 1: stereotypes and shit like that. I just I just want
Speaker 1: black people to be fucking great moving forward. I'm so
Speaker 1: tired of living in the past. Yeah, okay, twenty twenty
Speaker 1: four and beyond. I just want us to start a
Speaker 1: fucking new Leave all that old shit back. The old
Speaker 1: shit be the old shit. Mm hmm. That's how I feel, man,
Speaker 1: because it's like it's programming, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: it's programming. I don't like it. Anyway. I will watch
Speaker 1: Color Purple when it comes out on TV.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't wait to hear what you think in
Speaker 2: twenty twenty seven when it drop on TV.
Speaker 1: Right, she'd be dropping early now, shit, it'd be like, well,
Speaker 1: speaking of a color purple in Taraji, Taraji.
Speaker 2: Uh she did an interview and she was very emotional
Speaker 2: about the disparaging between black female payment as actresses in
Speaker 2: their counterparts, and she wasn't happy with how much you know,
Speaker 2: they get paid and then how much they end up
Speaker 2: paying out and how much they end up they're left
Speaker 2: with in the end of it all.
Speaker 1: And you know, I understand that, right.
Speaker 2: I can't understand that, you know, because based on these
Speaker 2: our heart checks, but I just they are she gets paid.
Speaker 2: I look, I went to google her net worth and
Speaker 2: mat I just felt like, maybe Taraji just speaking to
Speaker 2: a whole different group of people than me. You know,
Speaker 2: I can't in different demographic and yeah, than me, because
Speaker 2: I would be so happy with what she got. I
Speaker 2: was upset that honeybag Ham was charging sixty eight dollars
Speaker 2: for half a ham. It was almost eighty dollars with
Speaker 2: tax and shit for a half a ham, and I
Speaker 2: was upset. So that's a different tax bracket than I am.
Speaker 2: So I can't she's speaking to somebody else. How do
Speaker 2: you feel about that?
Speaker 1: It's for sure, right, So this article, I'm looking at
Speaker 1: it saying that she rests at twelve million dollars, So
Speaker 1: that's her net worth, right, now and this conversations with
Speaker 1: what was with another rich bitch Gail King okay, Oprah
Speaker 1: home girl slash slash, and she was visibly emotional. She
Speaker 1: was crying about it. And the thing is, when you
Speaker 1: become the commodity, right, she's the business, so she is
Speaker 1: responsible for the success of other people as well. Also,
Speaker 1: when I was looking up this article, I also saw
Speaker 1: that she fired her whole team after being on What's
Speaker 1: the TV show Empire Allions Empire. After Empire and the
Speaker 1: success of it, she said she fired her whole team
Speaker 1: because her her She she felt like her career did
Speaker 1: not catapult after that, so she just needed to start
Speaker 1: fresh with a new group of people. Because what the
Speaker 1: fuck y'all do? What is next? She said, what's next
Speaker 1: with me? Like y'all ain't have nothing set up? Right?
Speaker 1: She she probably needs to talk to some of the
Speaker 1: older women that have been acting. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Maybe she should have had a commons by Tyson before
Speaker 1: she left, because I'm pretty sure they wasn't making all
Speaker 1: crazy money in comparison to the white counterpart. And then
Speaker 1: now on top of that, they outsource everything in America,
Speaker 1: every job, every corporation, is outsourcing, and it's no different
Speaker 1: with acting. They go to other countries for actors to
Speaker 1: pay with American people especial everything, right, So, I mean,
Speaker 1: I think it starts with maybe doing your own ship, right,
Speaker 1: you might she might.
Speaker 2: Need to look, does that take a page master, pook.
Speaker 1: Master? Yeah, just start producing, creating and produces. Just start
Speaker 1: producing your own Yeah, doing your own thing, because you
Speaker 1: can't depend on these people because then there's there's gonna
Speaker 1: always be a ceiling for your pay, right, is always
Speaker 1: going to be a ceiling. But I think her doing
Speaker 1: the show, it's just weird to me. This is the
Speaker 1: part that it kind of gets me at, Right, why
Speaker 1: now while doing Color Purple, right, because she even stated
Speaker 1: in that interview with Gail King that she was ready
Speaker 1: to walk away from Color Purple at one point, Right,
Speaker 1: why is this conversation coming up when you're now dealing
Speaker 1: with black folks and their pocketbooks in pain? Because most
Speaker 1: of the movies that you've done, the big ones, right,
Speaker 1: they probably well, I guess with Empire that was a
Speaker 1: Lee Daniels, right, but anything else most of the other
Speaker 1: movies that she's done, like big movies, it was white
Speaker 1: people pocketing. So you allowed them to pay you pennies.
Speaker 1: And now I hear you you coming under these black ladies,
Speaker 1: out of his black lady and this black man Tyler
Speaker 1: Perry and Oprah Enfree. Now you on TV crying with
Speaker 1: her homegirl about how you ain't getting no money? Like,
Speaker 1: what's up? Why? Now? I guess she's just fed up?
Speaker 1: Now maybe she's like and the black I ain't. I
Speaker 1: ain't expect this from us. Look, i'd be feeling like
Speaker 1: I expect honestly, man, it's the game. Man, I don't
Speaker 1: have a game, Yes, exactly. I don't have expectations for
Speaker 1: nobody exactly come to that money.
Speaker 2: That's because counting at that point green Okay, because when
Speaker 2: you get into managerial and director and all that shit,
Speaker 2: your your main goal as a CEO owner of any
Speaker 2: company is income.
Speaker 1: How can I make the most money? And who the
Speaker 1: fuck can I pay a little bit to make me
Speaker 1: the most money? It is what it is. Now, you
Speaker 1: got to become the boss. So what are you gonna
Speaker 1: do it to? ROGI?
Speaker 2: Yeah, start making your own ship. We're gonna support you
Speaker 2: either way. Yeah, we're a fan and we love it.
Speaker 1: And budget bitch, just because you look obviously you need
Speaker 1: a budget, right because we know you start making more money,
Speaker 1: you start spending more moneys, so you get the bigger house,
Speaker 1: bigger vacations, bigger cars, all this.
Speaker 2: But we required, we have so much requirements for our
Speaker 2: stars too. Now you gotta look at certain way, you
Speaker 2: gotta dress away where she got that same weing on
Speaker 2: from color purple. So you know, I feel her and
Speaker 2: I don't feel.
Speaker 1: Her at the same time. You know, right, Fantasia has
Speaker 1: been looking very looking okay everywhere? Yes, I said, she
Speaker 1: looked like she got the fantas. Ain't no way brou
Speaker 1: Fantasia looking so bad? Okay, y'all go see it. What
Speaker 1: else you got on the dock?
Speaker 2: And I'm supporting them black ladies so they can get
Speaker 2: their I know, sister Rogie can get her check up
Speaker 2: and listen to we talked back because little check to
Speaker 2: God damn right, tune in the fuck all right, So
Speaker 2: doctor Jackie Law and she's on the docket for stupid
Speaker 2: internet news this week.
Speaker 1: So recently she had to sit down with VP Kamala
Speaker 1: Harris a virtual conference on Zoom to talk about the
Speaker 1: maternal health crisis. Right, so listen, TikTok is not safe Okay, TikTok,
Speaker 1: it's unruly over there. If you want the real buy anything,
Speaker 1: go to TikTok because they're going to expose your ass.
Speaker 1: And they got all information on TikTok. So TikTok has
Speaker 1: now pulled up a resurface video of her. I think
Speaker 1: it was what's the other crazy ass? One doctor? Heavenly
Speaker 1: offer married to medicine And she was saying, how black
Speaker 1: women because this is she's no bg yan. She was saying,
Speaker 1: how black women cry wolf when it comes to pain
Speaker 1: because they want time off from work. First of all,
Speaker 1: in other countries, women don't work right. And I only
Speaker 1: know a few companies, a few companies in America that
Speaker 1: even give men maternal leave to be with their wife,
Speaker 1: because then that would probably decrease the amount of what
Speaker 1: you say, oh, paternally you know what I mean. Anyway,
Speaker 1: y'all know what I mean. Anyway, you were.
Speaker 2: Saying, only a few companies to even let men have
Speaker 2: paternal lead to be off when they have a kid.
Speaker 1: Yeah, paternity lead to be off when they have children,
Speaker 1: which would probably decrease the amount of what's postpartum. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I believe postpartum comes from a lack of support
Speaker 1: a lot of times for the mothers. Yeah right, so
Speaker 1: now you got to go right back to work after
Speaker 1: six weeks. No, I need my whole pregnancy off plus
Speaker 1: maybe sixty years, six or seven months off being paid absolutely,
Speaker 1: because in other countries this is standard. Right, So she's
Speaker 1: saying black women specifically, cry wolf. And the thing is,
Speaker 1: how are you going to sit down with the vice
Speaker 1: president to talk about the maternity crisis when black women
Speaker 1: were number one? You know what I'm saying, for us
Speaker 1: to pass away and things like that, whend happen to be,
Speaker 1: we don't survive a lot of times. So you're a
Speaker 1: part of the problem. If a mother comes in and say, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm in pain, Oh it's a black woman. So she
Speaker 1: automatically lying, that's a problem. That's a huge problem. But
Speaker 1: she apologized.
Speaker 2: She came back and apologized for saying that because I
Speaker 2: guess she understood that that's not right and that's and
Speaker 2: that's a lot of reason why we have a maternal
Speaker 2: crisis as it is, because people don't respect black women's pain.
Speaker 1: And as a black woman, you should be the first
Speaker 1: one to align with exactly exactly. So, but the thing is,
Speaker 1: we have to take into consideration that though she is
Speaker 1: a black woman, she was also indoctrinated by this white system.
Speaker 1: So that's why she still sees it how they teach it.
Speaker 1: She had a I saw a video where one of
Speaker 1: her old patients went live and said that her son
Speaker 1: has h delayed in learning, and she's she's she's trying
Speaker 1: to stem it back to you know, her pregnancy and
Speaker 1: when she had her son, said she was in labor
Speaker 1: for three days and then uh, she ended up having
Speaker 1: to have an emergency sea section. Her heart rate, the
Speaker 1: baby heart rate was dropping the whole time, and she
Speaker 1: didn't see doctor Jackie in to the very end. And
Speaker 1: now what I did research is that doctors don't get
Speaker 1: paid if they aren't in the room when you have
Speaker 1: the baby. So baby asking women to hold on, hold
Speaker 1: up a sec People scheduling unnecessary sea sections because they
Speaker 1: want to go on vacation and shit. So you want
Speaker 1: all your mothers to do You want to get all
Speaker 1: the women out the way so you can go have
Speaker 1: a life. We got to remember that being a doctor
Speaker 1: is still a fucking job. People get tired of going
Speaker 1: to work, but you have people's lives in your hands.
Speaker 1: You you It's just a difference. It's not the same
Speaker 1: as working at the fucking message. Okay, right in your life.
Speaker 1: But Devin, if you don't get right, you think you
Speaker 1: could come in next Thursday. What you know? And you know,
Speaker 1: I believe that doctors intentionally keep cutting black women. We
Speaker 1: get a lot of unnecessary sea sections. Bitch, I don't
Speaker 1: have a baby, and I got a sea section me too,
Speaker 1: unnecessarily too. You know what I'm saying. I could have
Speaker 1: had microscopic, yeah, surgery, liposcopic, liposcopic is what they call them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I could have gotten that as opposed to you cutting
Speaker 1: me open. But I feel like they like to scar
Speaker 1: black women. So that's a whole other episode. Child anyway,
Speaker 1: And I don't don't have to say after that shit move,
Speaker 1: let's move home.
Speaker 2: Hey, a woman suits and Dennis who allegedly performed eight
Speaker 2: crowns and four root canals and twenty feelings in one visit,
Speaker 2: leaving her disfigured. Now who'ld have that's first of all,
Speaker 2: your first mistake was not brushing your teeth ever in
Speaker 2: life to need all of this shit at one time.
Speaker 2: And then the second mistake was get your dinnis off
Speaker 2: group on because you had to get your Dinnis off
Speaker 2: group on.
Speaker 1: To do this, like see I do I do. I
Speaker 1: definitely get those fifty dollars cleaning. Let's be very clear.
Speaker 1: I do not pay podental because I got their teeth,
Speaker 1: So I just get my fifty dollars cleanings I need.
Speaker 2: You want write, I'll go to no fifty dollars Dennis, girl,
Speaker 2: you're gonna mess around and come out with veneers when
Speaker 2: you had the last what don't go to no fifty
Speaker 2: dollars person clean your tea.
Speaker 1: I just paid four hundred dollars in the office. That's
Speaker 1: just well. If you need a deep cleaning, then they'll,
Speaker 1: you know, they'll let you know, like, hey, we can
Speaker 1: do this today, but you need to come back for
Speaker 1: a deep cleaning. But just like a simple cleaning. Why
Speaker 1: am I spending all that money. I don't like to
Speaker 1: do X rays because I'm not putting that fucking radiation
Speaker 1: in my goddamn body by no X ray. So just
Speaker 1: clean me up and let me go on. By my way.
Speaker 1: The guy had very nice, fine ass black man. Okay,
Speaker 1: off groupon don't be very clear.
Speaker 2: I'm going for your teeth. Your teeth are too pretty
Speaker 2: to play with. Limb like that, you're gonna be writing.
Speaker 1: An article with this lady, and as a former you're
Speaker 1: gonna be in the days article lady going to that
Speaker 1: fifty dollars holla. Okay, when I saw this article, I
Speaker 1: definitely was thinking about me, and that guy that I
Speaker 1: went to was not off of groupon. This is my
Speaker 1: regular dentist when I was living in South Carolina, and
Speaker 1: this is why I have TMAG teeth TMJ today from
Speaker 1: dental work from having my mouth open so fucking long
Speaker 1: doing too many feelings at one time. So I can
Speaker 1: only imagine how fucked up this lady's mouth is because
Speaker 1: my shit has been fucked up since two thousand and eight.
Speaker 1: My job has been clicking, and it's no remedy for it. Well,
Speaker 1: I started going to the chiropractice for it, but now
Speaker 1: I can kind of massage it out if it gets
Speaker 1: inflamed itself. But yeah, like it's the lifelong. Just a
Speaker 1: lot of times you can't even sue doctors. Surreal, man,
Speaker 1: you gotta damn that die and your family got to
Speaker 1: sue for your death when they fuck your shit up.
Speaker 1: But nothing occurred to her that.
Speaker 2: When he was gonna when he told her I'm doing
Speaker 2: all of this at once, Like maybe we should split
Speaker 2: this into three different appointments. This is a lot of shit, yeah,
Speaker 2: like eight crowns, four root canals in twenty feelings.
Speaker 1: Just get it's been some dishes.
Speaker 2: He should just took all her teeth out and just
Speaker 2: gave us a whole new mouth, because hmm, poor baby.
Speaker 1: I hope she feel better. She said every it said,
Speaker 1: every tooth in the in her mouth had decay, and
Speaker 1: she's suing for fifty thousand dollars fifty I mean, he
Speaker 1: probably that, ain't it. It seems like seems like he
Speaker 1: was trying to work a miracle. Yeah, in five hours,
Speaker 1: because that's how long she was in there, So for
Speaker 1: five hours she had all that shit done. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to figure out why he went to school. Did he
Speaker 1: go to school?
Speaker 2: That might be that black boy that had that I
Speaker 2: best it's that young black boy from Florida who opened
Speaker 2: that practice.
Speaker 1: He was a doctor, a doctor Love, Dennis Love, doctor Love.
Speaker 1: The crazy thing about that boy, you know, he in
Speaker 1: prison right now for scamming. But the crazy thing about
Speaker 1: him is he had great reviews on his practice. He
Speaker 1: literally was healing people with love and doing referrals to
Speaker 1: other people in all kinds of shit. He was like,
Speaker 1: remember that movie with.
Speaker 2: Leonardo DiCaprio, Catch me if you can. He was a pilot, Yes,
Speaker 2: he was a doctor. He was an attorney.
Speaker 1: Same shit. But oh okay, now now hold on, now,
Speaker 1: hold on, now what that is based on the true story?
Speaker 2: I know?
Speaker 1: And that white man ended up working for the FBI
Speaker 1: because he was making So why y'all keep putting this
Speaker 1: young black boy in prison? Right? Y'all should let him
Speaker 1: help y'all. He's nineteen years old. Yeah, yeah, y'all should
Speaker 1: let him do something like obviously he's talented. The nigga
Speaker 1: opened a whole practice. Where did he get the money from?
Speaker 1: He had a building, everything lazy good reviews. Look one more,
Speaker 1: one more, one more, this last, the very last, stupid news.
Speaker 1: All right, So influencer blasted for life hack plans to
Speaker 1: return use Christmas tree and people are calling her a
Speaker 1: horrible person.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 1: A life hack activist is being dragged online as a
Speaker 1: horrible person after promoting a controversial method of scoring a
Speaker 1: free Christmas tree in a popular TikTok video, a five
Speaker 1: second clip that has already racked up more than a
Speaker 1: quarter million views. My of the duo Mason and My
Speaker 1: can be seen stranding or excuse me, striding confidently through
Speaker 1: an unnamed store and picking up a box a box
Speaker 1: artificial tree from the shelves, before turning a around and
Speaker 1: walking away. All the shoe is beginning to look like
Speaker 1: a lot like Christmas. Blah blah blah blah. Anyway, this
Speaker 1: bitch returned the goddamn tree after Christmas? Don't a lot
Speaker 1: of people mean? Why I didn't. I didn't use it.
Speaker 1: I didn't use it. I didn't use it again, I don't.
Speaker 2: But she filmed it though, Yeah, I don't know why
Speaker 2: she thought this was a good idea to put on TikTok.
Speaker 2: But a lot of people be returning all kind of
Speaker 2: shit after Christmas?
Speaker 1: Right, that is so ghetto. It is ghetto. But she
Speaker 1: the first person they put. They put so much rasht
Speaker 1: shit on black people. You know, white people be wild.
Speaker 1: And do you see that viral video with the Marshalls
Speaker 1: and Charlotte, These white two white women are just casually
Speaker 1: walking out the front door with baskets of shit stealing.
Speaker 1: Nobody's stopping them, Yes, just casually stealing, Miss d D.
Speaker 1: They're not getting chased by random customers trying to be
Speaker 1: superheroes about another store. Shit. Nothing, They just walked out
Speaker 1: like it wasn't nothing. Meanwhile, when you see a bunch
Speaker 1: of black people bum rushing a Gucci store in the
Speaker 1: comments like, ah, these niggers, these people are so racist online,
Speaker 1: it's ridiculous. Dog, Yeah, it's ridiculous. So that stupid internet
Speaker 1: news for the day. Y'all listen, we hope everybody had
Speaker 1: a great Christmas. Okay, and New Year's is coming up.
Speaker 1: All right, this is our New Year's episode, so we
Speaker 1: want to talk about, you know, how do we plan
Speaker 1: for New Year's? Everybody always has have resolutions. Resolutions are
Speaker 1: not a bad thing. I think you should see them
Speaker 1: every year, even if it doesn't fall through. Just don't
Speaker 1: do it, shit, just do that shit. How you know
Speaker 1: that y'all will be back after this? Oh?
Speaker 2: You know that girl with the mean walking up the
Speaker 2: boxes with the bag and to be like walking into
Speaker 2: the new year, and the steps be like all the
Speaker 2: things she gonna.
Speaker 1: Change, the same fucking steps every year. Steps. She ain't
Speaker 1: been made it up four steps yet since twenty fourteen.
Speaker 1: And then she came out. I hadn't seen a new one.
Speaker 1: Yet I want to see what this one, So put
Speaker 1: my face on that bitch this year and post it
Speaker 1: because I see anything about about lace fronts on there.
Speaker 1: That's coming with us. All right, y'all we back, okay,
Speaker 1: and again we want to talk about new years. How
Speaker 1: do we plan for the new year? Do you have
Speaker 1: any things you do routinely when the new year is
Speaker 1: coming in? Like anything, anything you do really to prepare
Speaker 1: for the new year? Size from douching. I don't douche
Speaker 1: my pussy, first of all. Second of all, where that
Speaker 1: came from. You need a fresh stock. Make sure my
Speaker 1: house is clean and there's no dirty clothes in the house,
Speaker 1: because that's bad. Look.
Speaker 2: I make sure that a man is the first person
Speaker 2: to walk through the or after the new year. I
Speaker 2: make me a pot of greens and black.
Speaker 1: Eyed peas money.
Speaker 2: I used to take my Christmas t treat down. They say,
Speaker 2: don't let the new year come, but my shit stayed
Speaker 2: up to July last year. I might take it down
Speaker 2: this year because she was kind of rough this year,
Speaker 2: and it might have something to do.
Speaker 1: With that, but that's really it.
Speaker 2: I thank the Lord and Midnight for me seeing another year,
Speaker 2: and that's my only you know, real traditions.
Speaker 1: What about you? Same thing. I try to like assess
Speaker 1: my current year, how I want to show up next year.
Speaker 1: I always write down goals. Do I revisit them? Should
Speaker 1: be dusky. But I have a plan for this year
Speaker 1: doing some research in this episode, I think I got
Speaker 1: a plan to make sure I execute on all my
Speaker 1: I don't want to call them resolutions, all my things
Speaker 1: for next year. I got you another book, Chris, Bitch,
Speaker 1: another book for me to write my name. No, I'm
Speaker 1: a least less. One is different. I can't wait. I
Speaker 1: want you to.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell you what it is. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna just show it to you because this one is different.
Speaker 2: It's different than all the ones I've given you before.
Speaker 2: So you might like this one better because you're supposed
Speaker 2: to only use it on drugs. So what you're only
Speaker 2: supposed to write in it and you're high?
Speaker 1: You know what? I missed this on she Ona had
Speaker 1: a singing bowl meditation uh situation on Christmas Eve? No,
Speaker 1: not Christmas Eve, this is Saturday. I wish I could
Speaker 1: have gotten there in Columbia. I like saying I want
Speaker 1: to I want some fucking singing bowls. That would have
Speaker 1: been a good Christmas gift for somebody to get me
Speaker 1: at least one, but I don't really have. Uh oh.
Speaker 1: One thing I do do is go to fucking Michael's
Speaker 1: and buy one of them thirty dollars planners to write
Speaker 1: nothing in for the whole year. A plan A planner, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: by an annual planner, and don't use it. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do better this year, though, I can feel it. I
Speaker 1: can feel it.
Speaker 2: Man, We're gonna pull them out and we're gonna already
Speaker 2: feel it. Maybe you should get like a digital planner.
Speaker 1: For your phone.
Speaker 2: That might be better for you, because you don't like
Speaker 2: physically writing anything, y'all. You always make fun of me
Speaker 2: when I write down. You're like, look at her, prehistoric
Speaker 2: bitch with.
Speaker 1: A pen, Bitch, you literally write everything. No, but I
Speaker 1: do want to write more things down because that's where
Speaker 1: the magic comes from, actually writing shit down right, typing it.
Speaker 1: I don't think it works, that's good, So yeah, I
Speaker 1: want to start writing my shit down as well, bitch.
Speaker 1: But you lord, this bitch was like, let me go
Speaker 1: get my computer out the car and came back with
Speaker 1: a notebook. Bitch came back I loved right, and where's
Speaker 1: the laptop? Like I'm wanted. I had to go out
Speaker 1: and buy one for this shit because I just had
Speaker 1: an iPad. That was it.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so that's it, just writing new shit down,
Speaker 2: getting a planner. Yeah, that's what I've been doing, and
Speaker 2: it hasn't worked.
Speaker 1: Of course, we always have resolutions about losing weighty New
Speaker 1: Year's resolutions, lose weight. I've actually started going to the
Speaker 1: gym and shit more, getting trying to get back on
Speaker 1: a routine the last month or so. So I'm set
Speaker 1: with that shit, bitch, because listen, I'm turning forty this year, y'all.
Speaker 1: Relations girl, now you are so happy for your girl, girl,
Speaker 1: Fuck you, girl, and I want to be in the
Speaker 1: best shape of my life for forty. Okay, that is
Speaker 1: that's what I got planned for twenty twenty four. But
Speaker 1: all right, so this is from Foes dot Com. Y'all.
Speaker 1: It says many people will make New Year's resolutions, However,
Speaker 1: the majority will also fail to achieve them, but making
Speaker 1: resolutions is still a good idea with plenty of positive effects. Okay.
Speaker 1: It says most popular New Year's resolutions are about self improvement,
Speaker 1: living healthier, twenty three percent of people getting happy twenty
Speaker 1: one percent of people. That might be one of my resolutions.
Speaker 1: I'm not not happy, but I want to be happier, Okay,
Speaker 1: losing weight the twenty percent of people exercise and more
Speaker 1: seven percent. Five percent of people want to stop smoking,
Speaker 1: two percent want to reduce drinking. It doesn't say stop drinking,
Speaker 1: reduce drinking, and it as an addition, people resolve to
Speaker 1: meet career or job goals sixteen percent and improve their
Speaker 1: relationships eleven percent. But it says only eight percent of
Speaker 1: people out of that big pie will actually exactly will
Speaker 1: actually meet their resolutions by the end of the year.
Speaker 1: So yeah, still setting a resolution is still a good thing, right,
Speaker 1: So Number one, you have to have intention. Being honest
Speaker 1: with yourself about your current condition and the distance to
Speaker 1: your preferred situation is key to improvement and being intentional
Speaker 1: about how you want to grow and develop what help
Speaker 1: you achieve results. This intentionality will also contribute to your
Speaker 1: happiness and fulfillment. When you're moving forward with clear direction,
Speaker 1: you make a positive contribution to your emotional and mental health.
Speaker 1: So this is one of the reasons why you should,
Speaker 1: you know, still go ahead and set resolution and ways
Speaker 1: to follow through with them. Hope and engagement. Making New
Speaker 1: Year's resolutions is inherently hopeful and optimistic. You expect things
Speaker 1: can get better for you, for your work experience, or
Speaker 1: your community. This positive view of future, in turn, tends
Speaker 1: to evade action. If you don't believe tomorrow can be better,
Speaker 1: you're unlikely to take steps to improve yourself or your community.
Speaker 1: So optimism is doubtly beneficial, contributing to your own mental health,
Speaker 1: but also engaging you towards positive action, which has which
Speaker 1: has an effect on those around you. Okay, responsibility, bitch?
Speaker 1: Why you saying that to me? I'd be responsible. It's
Speaker 1: as most news resolutions have some impact on others, even
Speaker 1: if they are about individual self improvement. But you know,
Speaker 1: when you start doing better, a lot of times, if
Speaker 1: people really fuck with you, it kind of offering everybody else. Right,
Speaker 1: I agree? Improving yourself affects your families, friends and colleagues
Speaker 1: and communities. Your resolution to get healthy will keep you
Speaker 1: around longer for your family and friends. Your resolution to
Speaker 1: start procrastinating, that's one of mine, bitch. Okay, Well, contribute
Speaker 1: to a positive team dynamic with your coworkers and we
Speaker 1: ain't talk about work. I'm not talking about work as
Speaker 1: no goddamn resolution. What is wrong with y'all? Well, some
Speaker 1: people trying to get that money up. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: think a lot of people probably want to start their
Speaker 1: own business so they can get underneath from underneath somebody.
Speaker 1: You're still always gonna have to work, right, but you
Speaker 1: want to get from underneath somebody else.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to get up under somebody in twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2: I want to I want you're trying to be a dependent.
Speaker 2: I want me a husband.
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Okay, you want a husband for
Speaker 1: New Years? What do you do? Not for New Years?
Speaker 2: But in twenty twenty I don't want to twelve o'clock
Speaker 2: like I ain't. No, I don't want that. I just
Speaker 2: I just want everybody be in my comments. Like when
Speaker 2: I post my little whole pictures, they'd be like.
Speaker 1: I can't believe you ain't got no man. Believe it, bitch,
Speaker 1: I ain't got one. I don't have. It's not that
Speaker 1: I couldn't like I couldn't have a nigga.
Speaker 2: Let's let's be clear. It just gotta be the right one,
Speaker 2: you know. I don't want just just a nigga. I
Speaker 2: want my I want what God has for me.
Speaker 1: So so why did you refer to it as a
Speaker 1: whole picture? Because do you think your future husband wants
Speaker 1: to know that you post not a whole picture.
Speaker 2: I just had on some biker shorts and I get
Speaker 2: sexualized by people with because of my body type.
Speaker 1: So that's why I called it that. But it's not
Speaker 1: a whole picture. You know. It ain't even a thirst trap.
Speaker 2: Because I mean, it's not like if I if I
Speaker 2: was really trying a thirst trap, I would post like
Speaker 2: bathing suit and ask out Kim K's type pictures.
Speaker 1: But I don't post that kind of stuff. I could talk,
Speaker 1: I could go there, you know I could, but I don't.
Speaker 2: I can have on the same biker shorts that somebody
Speaker 2: smaller than me has on, but you know, I just
Speaker 2: get sexualized because of it.
Speaker 1: Your husband is watching big well, I hope he liked
Speaker 1: my pole. All right, So now this is this is
Speaker 1: the one I need to help me write. So this
Speaker 1: is four steps to write a New Year's resolution. Okay,
Speaker 1: So if you're wondering, how do you even begin to like,
Speaker 1: how do you even start to you know what you
Speaker 1: want to do? Right? You know how you want to be.
Speaker 1: How do you even get it together to formulated with
Speaker 1: the fucking pen and pad? This is what I'm doing
Speaker 1: this year. So it says four steps to write New Year,
Speaker 1: your New Year's resolution. This is from language tool dt
Speaker 1: dot org. Okay, hold on, okay. So number one says
Speaker 1: focus on your goals. You might be tempted to work
Speaker 1: on two, three, even five resolutions this upcoming year, and
Speaker 1: that's the problem for me. I do be having too
Speaker 1: many resolutions narrow You really just need to pick like one,
Speaker 1: like one real one, right and even even if, like,
Speaker 1: let's say you have financial goals for the next year,
Speaker 1: break it down into three like sub goals, right like,
Speaker 1: so you can achieve each one to make up the
Speaker 1: whole goal. It says, But instead of giving a small
Speaker 1: percentage of your effort to several goals, it's better to
Speaker 1: give one hundred percent to just one. Ask yourself, what
Speaker 1: is my priority? Then make that your resolution for the year.
Speaker 1: And if you have numerous priorities you want to accomplish,
Speaker 1: at least focus on one of them at a time.
Speaker 1: Once you've completed one, move on to the next. Remember,
Speaker 1: our brains aren't great at multitasking. I get overwhelmed if
Speaker 1: I try to do too many things at one fucking time,
Speaker 1: and then I just don't do nothing. Yeah, so I
Speaker 1: can write down five things I need to do for today,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna feel right. It's gonna been bitch and
Speaker 1: bitch and don't let nobody called me to add me
Speaker 1: some ship, ask some ship to my list that they
Speaker 1: need me to do for them. Like I'm really like
Speaker 1: discombobulated at that point, Like, oh, you're not ruin my
Speaker 1: but I tell you it's okay to tell people. Know absolutely, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem telling people. No, girl, I don't.
Speaker 1: My mom says I'm selfish for that, but you know,
Speaker 1: I'd rather say that's just resentment towards people because you
Speaker 1: did some ship you didn't want to.
Speaker 2: They will say selfish, like it's such a bad thing.
Speaker 2: It's okay to be selfish sometimes, you know, sometimes selfishness
Speaker 2: is necessary because you'll be stressed so thick you ain't
Speaker 2: got time for yourself.
Speaker 1: So yep. And then the people who are used to
Speaker 1: you saying yes, they only call you because they know
Speaker 1: you're gonna say yes. People don't call people they know
Speaker 1: don't call me. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 2: Listen if you call me asking for ship, but let
Speaker 2: me be your last resort because I will help you
Speaker 2: come up with all the other options before me on
Speaker 2: the phone.
Speaker 1: Shane, all Right. Number two says split the major goal
Speaker 1: into smaller goals. So I said that, once you've decided
Speaker 1: on a resolution, split it into smaller, easier to achieve goals.
Speaker 1: For example, the thought of writing a book might stop
Speaker 1: you in your tracks, but it'll seem much more attainable
Speaker 1: if you tell yourself to write one chapter a month. Now,
Speaker 1: that is one of my goals, y'all.
Speaker 2: I want to have the two scripts I've been writing
Speaker 2: for the last two years completed by June. And I
Speaker 2: also want to have a book that I've been writing
Speaker 2: since twenty eleven completed by June. Yeah, I have a
Speaker 2: book that I want to finish by my birthday. That's
Speaker 2: going to be my birthday gift to the world.
Speaker 1: This book for kids.
Speaker 2: It's a children's book, so it ain't even a lot,
Speaker 2: but it's so cute. I can't wait to tell the story.
Speaker 1: Yeah, finish it. We're doing big things this year, okay.
Speaker 1: Number three says, decide on which actions you'll have to take.
Speaker 1: Once you decide on a goal, think about the specific
Speaker 1: actions you'll have to take to help you reach it.
Speaker 1: Let's stick to writing example. Let's stick to the writing example.
Speaker 1: There's much more to writing a book than composing it.
Speaker 1: You also have to take time to brainstorm, research, outline,
Speaker 1: write drafts, edit, and proofread. You can think of actionable
Speaker 1: steps required for just about any goal. Do you want
Speaker 1: to run faster, You'll have to also take time to stretch,
Speaker 1: eat an optimal diet, and strength train to support your
Speaker 1: leg muscles. So y'all know, y'all can get people to
Speaker 1: help you write. So I think this year I am
Speaker 1: definitely going to team up with somebody to help me
Speaker 1: finish write in the book at least. And I did
Speaker 1: purchase so this is my already started my little steps
Speaker 1: to do my thing. I purchased final Draft, which is
Speaker 1: an Adobe product for writing scripts and other people can
Speaker 1: log in and write with you. So maybe I'll even
Speaker 1: get a writing partner for that, which I have somebody
Speaker 1: in mind. I need to illustrate as well. That's what
Speaker 1: I need for my book because I don't want to
Speaker 1: just go on fiver. Oh yeah, I could use fiber
Speaker 1: good thinking a j gotta use fiber for every fucking thing. Okay, Uh,
Speaker 1: set a schedule. Now that you have a list of
Speaker 1: actions you can take to help you achieve your resolution,
Speaker 1: it's time to create a detailed schedule. It should look
Speaker 1: something like this. If I want to write a book
Speaker 1: by writing one chapter a month, I'll have to write
Speaker 1: for one hour two times a week. I'll take one
Speaker 1: additional day of the week to brainstorm and research and
Speaker 1: the other day to edit and proofread and other. So
Speaker 1: you're just breaking down each tasks so that you can
Speaker 1: exactly makes sense. Mm hmm. All right, So those are
Speaker 1: the four steps. So the four yeah, the four steps
Speaker 1: that language dot org Language two gives for you to
Speaker 1: set your New Year's resolutions. Like just examples. Also with
Speaker 1: the book writing, if that's an example, if that's a
Speaker 1: goal that you have, break it down in that way.
Speaker 1: So this is how you set your resolutions. How do
Speaker 1: you keep the resolutions? Though? That part?
Speaker 2: Because that bitch be walking up them stills since twenty fourteen,
Speaker 2: and I'm that bitch. I've been trying to lose the
Speaker 2: same twenty pounds since twenty seventeen.
Speaker 1: Me too, girl, Okay, and I feel like I didn't
Speaker 1: really eat that much for Christmas and stuff, even for
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving neither. But it's like the damn weight just won't
Speaker 1: leave me. It won't stay off, up, it won't stay off.
Speaker 1: I think they're trying to force people to get on
Speaker 1: those zimpick dog. I really think that. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you why. I keep seeing these posts. They're on Instagram,
Speaker 1: but they're TikTok posts from people saying like they're showing
Speaker 1: videos of obese people and then the narrator would come
Speaker 1: back on screen and be like, that person's dead, and
Speaker 1: then another fat person to show up on the thing,
Speaker 1: and then they'll come back that person's dead, and it's
Speaker 1: multiple creators doing this. I'm like, yo, are they just
Speaker 1: are they trying to force people to wait loss? Like, damn,
Speaker 1: what kind of algorithm you are? That's pretty dark. One
Speaker 1: of the videos, a couple of the videos people actually
Speaker 1: sent me like what are y'all trying to say? The fuck?
Speaker 1: But it's so fucked up. I'm like, are y'all trying
Speaker 1: to force people on this? I don't know, but and
Speaker 1: I don't want to.
Speaker 2: I've seen people where people have died from Ozmpic and
Speaker 2: I've absolutely O somebody who got really sick and was
Speaker 2: hospitalized from that shit.
Speaker 1: So it's just not They already have all the class
Speaker 1: action lawsuits ads out here because it's given pancreatic cancer.
Speaker 1: Uh some stomach shit, yeah, arable irritable bowel syndrome, and
Speaker 1: all types of others stomach cancer. I got enough shit
Speaker 1: fucked up with me. I don't need to add no
Speaker 1: new shit by trying to get said.
Speaker 2: For forty pounds when I can just stay the fuck
Speaker 2: I am or lose it naturally get somebody else to
Speaker 2: do it like.
Speaker 1: I'm fine either way. But yeah, I want to be
Speaker 1: I look at these fifty sixty year old ladies on
Speaker 1: Instagram who be like real, super fit seventy year olds.
Speaker 1: They look amazing, minimal wrinkles. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Because what you are, what you eat. I want to
Speaker 1: be like that. Yeah. I don't want to do it
Speaker 1: the easy way. I don't. I want it to be
Speaker 1: sustainable likewise. All right, so listen, y'all, this is ten
Speaker 1: steps to help you keep your New Year's resolutions. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, so be realistic. I know y'all like to
Speaker 1: hallucinate a lot. Be realistic. The sortest way to fall
Speaker 1: short of your goal is to make to make your
Speaker 1: goal unattainable. For instance, resolving to never eat your favorite
Speaker 1: food again is setting you up to fail. Instead, strive
Speaker 1: for a goal that is attainable, such as avoiding it
Speaker 1: more often than you do. Of your favorite food is
Speaker 1: so that is not Food's a nose supplement.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, So what's my favorite food? Like football buns
Speaker 2: with the icing down in the middle.
Speaker 1: I have not, girl, I had that shit in like
Speaker 1: since the beginning of it. You love the football, because
Speaker 1: I know I do.
Speaker 2: I do love those pastries, but I haven't had It's like,
Speaker 2: what is a football bun?
Speaker 1: Y'all? Don't listen to I show if you don't know.
Speaker 2: What that is.
Speaker 1: I like these little I like Asian pastries, right, they
Speaker 1: have like the little coconut cream and coconuts sprinkle all
Speaker 1: on it and it's just cream down the middle of
Speaker 1: a football. Big ass, but in football that no one
Speaker 1: person should be eating by themselves. Yeah, I like those.
Speaker 1: She brought me to them. I was like, what kind
Speaker 1: of pastry is this? I ain't never seen. It was
Speaker 1: delicious though she put it in the oven. But maybe
Speaker 1: like for your resolution, split it in half. Split whatever
Speaker 1: you love in half with somebody else.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can still have it, but share next
Speaker 2: time instead of bringing two football bus will have won
Speaker 2: and cut it.
Speaker 1: In half exactly. Okay. Plan Ahead Number two says, don't
Speaker 1: make your resolution on New Year's Eve. If you wait
Speaker 1: until the last minute, it will be based on your
Speaker 1: mindset that particular day. Instead, it should be planned well
Speaker 1: before December thirty first arrives. And that's what I've started doing.
Speaker 1: I already started jotting down all the things I uh
Speaker 1: would like to change for twenty twenty four. Okay, So
Speaker 1: y'all don't wait until December twenty first. What shit by
Speaker 1: the time this episode come out is gonna be well,
Speaker 1: December twenty first has already got on. So December thirty first,
Speaker 1: y'all know. Oh my god, y'all, don't wait until December
Speaker 1: thirty first. Okay, start today, or it might be too
Speaker 1: late by the time this episode comes out. But anyway,
Speaker 1: first year, it'll be like the twenty eighth, so they'll
Speaker 1: still have time. Yeah, So start when you hear this
Speaker 1: bitch outline your plan. Decide how you will deal with
Speaker 1: the temptation to skip that exercise class, or have the
Speaker 1: piece of cake. This could include calling on a friend
Speaker 1: for help. That's accountability partners, practicing positive thinking and self talk,
Speaker 1: or reminding yourself how your bad behavior will affect your goal.
Speaker 1: Talk to yourself, bitch.
Speaker 2: I have a screen saver that says what's more important
Speaker 2: to you? The body you've always wanted or this slice
Speaker 2: of cake right now? But it ain't work, so I
Speaker 2: don't know, y'all might could try stuff like that. I
Speaker 2: was sitting the cake on top of the screeze.
Speaker 1: Not you using a phone as a plate. That's a
Speaker 1: sad ship, bitch. We ain't doing that no more. We
Speaker 1: ain't doing it no more. Man, that shiit over with.
Speaker 1: It's over with, it's overweight. You're about to have the
Speaker 1: best body. That's like. It got me a mini step
Speaker 1: for y'all, should get yall one. I did order one
Speaker 1: coming next week. It looks like it's easy, though. Legs
Speaker 1: burning on that beach when you put the resistance on.
Speaker 1: You know, because I like the AMT machine at the gym,
Speaker 1: which is an adaptive motion trainer, and it's sort of
Speaker 1: just like that. It got like an elliptical glow. I
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about also like a step. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and listen in an hour sixty minutes, not even sixty minutes,
Speaker 1: I'm burning seven hundred calagies on that machine. Mm hmm. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right. So Number four says make a pros and
Speaker 1: cons list. It may help to see a list of
Speaker 1: items on paper, on paper, y'all, to keep your motivation strong,
Speaker 1: develop a list over time and ask others to contribute
Speaker 1: to it. Keep your list with you, and refer to
Speaker 1: it when you need help. Keeping your resolve okay, talk
Speaker 1: about it. I'm good at this. This is one thing
Speaker 1: I want to change, though. I don't want to talk
Speaker 1: about things anymore and not actually execute. So I'm keeping
Speaker 1: all my shit asorry from what I already shared today,
Speaker 1: right to myself until everything is done. But this says
Speaker 1: to talk about it, though, because you know, you kind
Speaker 1: of force other people to hold your accountable. That's why
Speaker 1: we don't like when somebody be like, and you just
Speaker 1: said you was on a dime to get married. Mind
Speaker 1: your business. Don't your screen saber say no, you're not
Speaker 1: eating cake, shut bitch. But it does say talk about it.
Speaker 1: Number fives don't keep your resolution a secret. Tell friends
Speaker 1: and family members who will be there to support your
Speaker 1: resolve to change yourself for the better or improve your health.
Speaker 1: The best case scenario is to find a buddy who
Speaker 1: shares your new year's resolution and motivate each other again
Speaker 1: accountability partners.
Speaker 2: As always, I love to post in close friends. That's
Speaker 2: where I post like my fitness journey. I always posted
Speaker 2: in my close friends because I feel like those are
Speaker 2: the people who are rooting for me. I don't post
Speaker 2: it for everybody, right.
Speaker 1: M yep, Reward yourself. This doesn't mean that you can
Speaker 1: eat an entire box of chocolates. If your resolution is
Speaker 1: to eat better, eat a better diet. Instead, celebrate your
Speaker 1: success by treating yourself to something you enjoy that doesn't
Speaker 1: contradict your resolution. If you have been sticking to your
Speaker 1: promise to eat better, for example, reward yourself with new
Speaker 1: fitness clothing, or by giving excuse me, or by going
Speaker 1: to a movie with a friend. So yeah, don't reward
Speaker 1: yourself with kid. It's like if you're trying to quick coke,
Speaker 1: don't reward yourself with some crack girl. I just feel
Speaker 1: like you're gonna sniff cocing. I don't say that. Don't
Speaker 1: you speak that over me, Ricky Bobby. I just feel
Speaker 1: like that's what we had in that because, bitch, you
Speaker 1: not mentioned coke twice? What's up? That's all in your mind.
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Co co co Cooke, Coke Cooke?
Speaker 1: Remember that on Instagram? It is like, but you got
Speaker 1: co co coke on your brain.
Speaker 2: I've never tried. I don't have any desire to try
Speaker 2: it anymore. So people have ruined that.
Speaker 1: I distinctively remember, y'all. Bitch, it's just a few months
Speaker 1: ago talking about if the world coming to like zombie
Speaker 1: apocalypse or something, y'all would be sniffing coked. Yeah, why not?
Speaker 1: Just like fucking no, bitch, I'm trying to live. I
Speaker 1: can't like run around high and laughing. And you try
Speaker 1: everything I never tried. Yeah, everything, shame mine? Well, all right.
Speaker 1: Number eight says don't beat yourself up. Okay, y'all, Obsessing
Speaker 1: over the occasional slip won't help you achieve your goal.
Speaker 1: Do the best you can each day and take it
Speaker 1: one day at a time. Now it is starting to
Speaker 1: sound like AA for Cokay, shut up, all right, y'all,
Speaker 1: we almost finished. Number nine says stick to it. Experts
Speaker 1: say it takes about twenty one days for a new
Speaker 1: activity to become a habit and six months for it
Speaker 1: to become part of your personality. It won't happen overnight,
Speaker 1: So be persistent and be patient. Be patient with yourself.
Speaker 1: Be easy on yourself with these resolutions.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just give yourself some grace, man, Be kind to yourself,
Speaker 2: especially like especially if you have a diet goal or
Speaker 2: exercise goal. All right here, here's this lady's You're probably
Speaker 2: going to fuck up every now and then, But don't
Speaker 2: beat yourself up about.
Speaker 1: Just get back to it, you know, jump back on
Speaker 1: the wagon. And that's what number ten says. It says,
Speaker 1: keep trying. If you have totally run out of steam
Speaker 1: when it comes to keeping your resolution by mid February,
Speaker 1: don't despair. Start over again. Recommit yourself for twenty four hours.
Speaker 1: You can do anything for twenty four hours. Twenty four
Speaker 1: hour increments will soon build on each other, and before
Speaker 1: you know it, you will be back on track. Keep trying,
Speaker 1: Keep going, bitch, Keep walking up them steps with your
Speaker 1: bag on your shoulder. Oh, instead of taking the elevator,
Speaker 1: walk up the steps. Instead of looking for a parking
Speaker 1: spot in the front of the fucking target. Yes, go
Speaker 1: parking the very back when employees parking and walk, Yeah,
Speaker 1: walk your fat ass. I do that.
Speaker 2: To get them snacks, to get some car book sugar
Speaker 2: cookie that I'm gonna do it with six hundred calories
Speaker 2: in the cook.
Speaker 1: Yo. I mean, look, if you're going to go and
Speaker 1: get the snack just parking the pocket back of the
Speaker 1: parking lot. Shit, I'll cut some of the calories or
Speaker 1: I like to eat my calories. I'm not drinking or
Speaker 1: nothing with six hundred calor, but that should be so good, though,
Speaker 1: calories don't feel like that.
Speaker 2: Stupid Oh goodness, starbus. Don't get me talking about their drinks.
Speaker 2: I don't know if they six hundred calories, but I'm
Speaker 2: sure it's close to that.
Speaker 1: Easy way to say this.
Speaker 2: So I got a email from someone saying that they
Speaker 2: need some advice, and it says that this is from
Speaker 2: a male and he says he's thirty nine with no kids, single, untouched,
Speaker 2: and is willing and ready to cut up lustfulness one time.
Speaker 1: But he's so old and old fashioned and he's lost.
Speaker 1: What can I do? I don't even have me time.
Speaker 1: So what he's trying to get some pussy for the
Speaker 1: first time or son. I don't know. I was just
Speaker 1: about to say, is he asking you? Is he propositioning
Speaker 1: you to get some pussy for the first time? Untouched?
Speaker 1: That sounds like a vision, right, he wants you to
Speaker 1: pop his cherry lord lemon blue. Plenty of fish, You
Speaker 1: don't plenty of fish? Oh yeah, that's what if you're
Speaker 1: looking for the whole.
Speaker 2: I think you'll find that women will like that you're untouched.
Speaker 2: The type of women that go on plenty of fish
Speaker 2: is gonna like that.
Speaker 1: You will some untouched. They'll definitely touch it up really
Speaker 1: nice because the motherfucker's on plenty of fishes in heavy rotation.
Speaker 1: It's the same people chide, Okay, well, I hope you are.
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fun give him some advice.
Speaker 1: So your advice for him is just to get oh
Speaker 1: because he's at and have time. Right. So a lot
Speaker 1: of people who have careers and stuff like that, who
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of time to be social like
Speaker 1: in public, they do be on the dating websites. It's
Speaker 1: real popular. He might he might need to get that
Speaker 1: tender five right, but he's saying that he don't. He
Speaker 1: said he wants lustfulness he's not saying I want a wife.
Speaker 1: I want a relationship. He has, So that's why I said,
Speaker 1: plain of fishes where to go for or This almost
Speaker 1: sounds like how women like to lie in the City
Speaker 1: of virgin or lions they and have sex in a
Speaker 1: long time to make a nigga like like like, no,
Speaker 1: I don't want no dick that ain't had no pussy. Right,
Speaker 1: some people might be in today, no man untouched, untainted.
Speaker 1: He might need to go on Christian Mingo.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's a nice place to go. Go to
Speaker 2: Christian Mingo and meet you a nice young lady who's
Speaker 2: you know, also untouched you know, and y'all can touch
Speaker 2: each other.
Speaker 1: Yeah, get advice. I'd give him. God, bless you, brother, Praise,
Speaker 1: Praise the Lord. All right, y'all hit it aj hold on, Wait,
Speaker 1: you don't got no last words for twenty twenty four
Speaker 1: for them girls coming to an end? This is it
Speaker 1: my last words for twenty twenty four.
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Speaker 2: having a conversation with our sisters that aren't here.
Speaker 1: So thank you for that.
Speaker 2: Do your best to keep your resolutions for twenty twenty four.
Speaker 2: We want to see all of y'all do great things.
Speaker 2: We watching and that's all I got, Bitch, I don't
Speaker 2: know what you got.
Speaker 1: Let me see. I want everybody to reflect on their
Speaker 1: achievements this year, any growth they've had. Don't be so
Speaker 1: hard on yourself because we are all on a fucking
Speaker 1: roller coaster called life trying to drop our motherfucking ice cream. Okay,
Speaker 1: so chairs to the new year, new opportunities and experiences
Speaker 1: for twenty twenty four. I wish everybody the best of luck.
Speaker 1: I don't think this year is going to be any
Speaker 1: easier than twenty twenty. Yes it is. He gonna speak
Speaker 1: easiness over but but uh, I mean it's all relative. Right,
Speaker 1: Do your best, that's all you can do. Do your
Speaker 1: best and call us and book a consultation if you
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Speaker 2: Remember to speak now or hold your resolution no never, never, bitch,
Speaker 2: We're doing all the things in twenty twenty four.
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