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<v Speaker 1>Talk, talk talk.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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<v Speaker 2>to talk.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what's up y'all? Thank you for turning in for

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<v Speaker 1>a new episode and we talked back a show dedicated

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<v Speaker 1>to you dreamers and chasers. This is your co host

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<v Speaker 1>a j Holiday What's Up Team.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to dedicate this last one of the year

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<v Speaker 2>to these niggas and homes one more time for.

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<v Speaker 1>The might as well. Hey y'all, Hey y'all, We love y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, hope y'all had a good Christmas Christmas. I was

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<v Speaker 2>about to ask you the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You go first. Uh My Christmas was cool, Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>remember I told y'all last week we were doing family pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>so we did do that on Christmas Eve. I did

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's makeup except for my oldest niece, Chad, because she's

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<v Speaker 1>extra boozie. She had to go get her shit done

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<v Speaker 1>by someone. But I did everybody else's and we looked

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<v Speaker 1>really nice. Man. My uh look, my daddy and my

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<v Speaker 1>step mom who's the same age as my middle sister.

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<v Speaker 1>They came to take pictures because we all want y'all

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<v Speaker 1>took pictures all together. That was nice. Everybody was twelve

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<v Speaker 1>of us. That was real nicey are y'all gonna print them? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm waiting for the guy I had, Yeah, the guy had.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the guy, the photographer, because my niece was

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<v Speaker 1>this was her idea, but somehow and landed in my

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<v Speaker 1>fucking lap last minute. So I found somebody to come

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<v Speaker 1>take the pictures, and well, my daddy and his wife

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<v Speaker 1>was taking the pictures together. I was like, I told

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<v Speaker 1>a photographer, I say, tell everybody, this is my step

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<v Speaker 1>mama Hedi girl, my daddy is seventy three girl wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah big, that's what come after that? Yeah. But and

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<v Speaker 1>then Christmas Day, oh girl, last night we went to

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<v Speaker 1>a big ass like I wish my family was like

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<v Speaker 1>this lit. I went to a house Christmas party and

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<v Speaker 1>apparently these people do this shit every year. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>preaching his wife, but it's my friends, my friends, my

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<v Speaker 1>nigga homeboy family, his mom and dad. Girl. When I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, we pulled up, it was so many people there.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a live band inside the house. Wow, it

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<v Speaker 1>was lit. Okay, all you can eat food and drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really really nice. I wish my family was

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<v Speaker 1>that dope, but they not. Everybody doing their own little

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<v Speaker 1>separate shit in the house. Oh wow. Every year. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just me, mam and my sister.

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<v Speaker 2>This year and they came up on Christmas Eve and

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<v Speaker 2>I made this hot chocolate and I put liquor in

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<v Speaker 2>me and Tania's. But I ain't tell my mama cuz

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<v Speaker 2>I was driving us around to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at Christmas nights. Not do you, shorty.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just a little little tab. It wasn't a

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<v Speaker 2>whole bunch of the hot chocolate.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she probably saw you changed, though, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucker's be changing, and they start drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>So we went past this house and there was a

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<v Speaker 2>Santa Claus. Literally, they had the house lit up so big.

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<v Speaker 2>I found all these places to go online, and so

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<v Speaker 2>we rode past this house and it was a Santa

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<v Speaker 2>outside and he was passing out candy canes and you

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<v Speaker 2>could leave donations that they were given to a charity,

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<v Speaker 2>and you had to get in line. So we sat

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<v Speaker 2>in that line and we gave him some money, and

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<v Speaker 2>I asked him could I have some breakpass for Christmas?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was squeaking all the way down the mother

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<v Speaker 2>fucking line. It's embarrassing you act sad.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like no, no, no no, But that was fun.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we came back here and we made some somores.

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<v Speaker 2>I had got one of those tabletop fire pits and

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<v Speaker 2>that I saw on picturess and we made some moores

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<v Speaker 2>and washed the five heart beats, so that was good.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to bed. Then Christmas we got up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, we made a TikTok that night before bed,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the one where I got to send it

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<v Speaker 2>to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny, my mama is a.

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<v Speaker 2>Trip, the one where you like moving slow and then

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<v Speaker 2>when you flash the lights you go crazy. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 2>made that one. It wasn't good, you know, because it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't good. I embarrassed, but I sent it to you. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we went to bed.

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<v Speaker 2>And then on Christmas Day we got up. We had

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<v Speaker 2>metting pajamas, so we took pictures. We even got Bello

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<v Speaker 2>matching pajamas. Took pictures on the couch and then we

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<v Speaker 2>opened up all our gifts and then we chilled for

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<v Speaker 2>the rest of the day, ate some food, and then

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<v Speaker 2>we went to go see the color Purple that night,

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<v Speaker 2>and we wore purple like over request it. But I

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<v Speaker 2>guess everybody didn't hear Opah's request, because I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it was just us and a couple of people who

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<v Speaker 2>actually came in the color purple to the show, and

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<v Speaker 2>I really enjoyed it. My mom was acting. I was

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<v Speaker 2>slinking the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, this is a fucking musical.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, yes, But once it got she got

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<v Speaker 2>into it. It was really good. We enjoyed it. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>let me just say this. There was a trailer for

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<v Speaker 2>that movie, The American Society of Magical Negroes. Y'all go

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<v Speaker 2>look at that.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait for that. I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>I like the title, and I was excited because I

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<v Speaker 2>was expected to some nigga hogwarts shit right. No, this

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<v Speaker 2>movie is about magical negroes who use their powers to

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<v Speaker 2>make sure white people are happy so white people don't

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<v Speaker 2>hurt black people. And the main character and the main

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<v Speaker 2>character he starts liking this white girl, and his job

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<v Speaker 2>is to keep this white man happy. And the white

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<v Speaker 2>man likes the white girl, so he has a conflict

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<v Speaker 2>of like getting with this white girl or making this

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<v Speaker 2>white man happy.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's a white white tears odometer girl. I was all,

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<v Speaker 1>who what fuck is this for? Who that is fun?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, what's the title, what's the title?

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<v Speaker 2>Against the American Society of Magical Negroes.

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<v Speaker 1>White people are happy? Yo. I was like, I literally

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<v Speaker 1>in the in the movie, I said, boom, real loud.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody started laughing at the movie theater because who the fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>They missed the mark for me?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe, I mean it's a satire, and I get that

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<v Speaker 2>it's a satire, but I feel like, based on the trailer,

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<v Speaker 2>they're missing the mark completely for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know. Directed by Kobe Libby, Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not given. Uh, it's not giving. I won't tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what he looks like. He looks like he is mixed

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<v Speaker 1>with black and something else. I won't tell you what

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<v Speaker 1>he looks like. He looks like he's yo. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>ain't y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Go check out the trailer and y'all come back and

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<v Speaker 2>tell us what y'all think. But it's just not I

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<v Speaker 2>was offended by that ship. But otherwise the movie was good.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we came back here eight leftovers and went

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<v Speaker 2>to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>That was it. So color purple. It was good. I

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed it.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a few moments where I was like, but

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<v Speaker 2>for the most part, I loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually at them even doing a remake. I understand

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<v Speaker 1>it's a musical, but they should have just left it

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<v Speaker 1>as a Broadway play. I don't know that I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see it in theaters paying anyway. I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 2>It was good, you know, if you get, If you

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<v Speaker 2>get take the movie out of your head and just

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<v Speaker 2>let it be what it is, I think you'll like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Taraji. You know, the Color Purple just has so many

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<v Speaker 1>stereotypes and shit like that. I just I just want

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<v Speaker 1>black people to be fucking great moving forward. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>tired of living in the past. Yeah, okay, twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four and beyond. I just want us to start a

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<v Speaker 1>fucking new Leave all that old shit back. The old

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<v Speaker 1>shit be the old shit. Mm hmm. That's how I feel, man,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's like it's programming, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>it's programming. I don't like it. Anyway. I will watch

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<v Speaker 1>Color Purple when it comes out on TV.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can't wait to hear what you think in

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<v Speaker 2>twenty twenty seven when it drop on TV.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, she'd be dropping early now, shit, it'd be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of a color purple in Taraji, Taraji.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh she did an interview and she was very emotional

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<v Speaker 2>about the disparaging between black female payment as actresses in

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<v Speaker 2>their counterparts, and she wasn't happy with how much you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they get paid and then how much they end up

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<v Speaker 2>paying out and how much they end up they're left

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<v Speaker 2>with in the end of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I understand that, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't understand that, you know, because based on these

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<v Speaker 2>our heart checks, but I just they are she gets paid.

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<v Speaker 2>I look, I went to google her net worth and

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<v Speaker 2>mat I just felt like, maybe Taraji just speaking to

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<v Speaker 2>a whole different group of people than me. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't in different demographic and yeah, than me, because

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<v Speaker 2>I would be so happy with what she got. I

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<v Speaker 2>was upset that honeybag Ham was charging sixty eight dollars

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<v Speaker 2>for half a ham. It was almost eighty dollars with

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<v Speaker 2>tax and shit for a half a ham, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was upset. So that's a different tax bracket than I am.

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<v Speaker 2>So I can't she's speaking to somebody else. How do

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<v Speaker 2>you feel about that?

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<v Speaker 1>It's for sure, right, So this article, I'm looking at

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<v Speaker 1>it saying that she rests at twelve million dollars, So

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<v Speaker 1>that's her net worth, right, now and this conversations with

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<v Speaker 1>what was with another rich bitch Gail King okay, Oprah

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<v Speaker 1>home girl slash slash, and she was visibly emotional. She

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<v Speaker 1>was crying about it. And the thing is, when you

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<v Speaker 1>become the commodity, right, she's the business, so she is

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<v Speaker 1>responsible for the success of other people as well. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was looking up this article, I also saw

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<v Speaker 1>that she fired her whole team after being on What's

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<v Speaker 1>the TV show Empire Allions Empire. After Empire and the

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<v Speaker 1>success of it, she said she fired her whole team

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<v Speaker 1>because her her She she felt like her career did

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<v Speaker 1>not catapult after that, so she just needed to start

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<v Speaker 1>fresh with a new group of people. Because what the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck y'all do? What is next? She said, what's next

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<v Speaker 1>with me? Like y'all ain't have nothing set up? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>She she probably needs to talk to some of the

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<v Speaker 1>older women that have been acting. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she should have had a commons by Tyson before

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<v Speaker 1>she left, because I'm pretty sure they wasn't making all

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<v Speaker 1>crazy money in comparison to the white counterpart. And then

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<v Speaker 1>now on top of that, they outsource everything in America,

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<v Speaker 1>every job, every corporation, is outsourcing, and it's no different

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<v Speaker 1>with acting. They go to other countries for actors to

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<v Speaker 1>pay with American people especial everything, right, So, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it starts with maybe doing your own ship, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you might she might.

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<v Speaker 2>Need to look, does that take a page master, pook.

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<v Speaker 1>Master? Yeah, just start producing, creating and produces. Just start

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<v Speaker 1>producing your own Yeah, doing your own thing, because you

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<v Speaker 1>can't depend on these people because then there's there's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>always be a ceiling for your pay, right, is always

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<v Speaker 1>going to be a ceiling. But I think her doing

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<v Speaker 1>the show, it's just weird to me. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>part that it kind of gets me at, Right, why

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<v Speaker 1>now while doing Color Purple, right, because she even stated

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<v Speaker 1>in that interview with Gail King that she was ready

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<v Speaker 1>to walk away from Color Purple at one point, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>why is this conversation coming up when you're now dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with black folks and their pocketbooks in pain? Because most

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<v Speaker 1>of the movies that you've done, the big ones, right,

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<v Speaker 1>they probably well, I guess with Empire that was a

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<v Speaker 1>Lee Daniels, right, but anything else most of the other

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<v Speaker 1>movies that she's done, like big movies, it was white

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<v Speaker 1>people pocketing. So you allowed them to pay you pennies.

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<v Speaker 1>And now I hear you you coming under these black ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>out of his black lady and this black man Tyler

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<v Speaker 1>Perry and Oprah Enfree. Now you on TV crying with

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<v Speaker 1>her homegirl about how you ain't getting no money? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Why? Now? I guess she's just fed up?

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<v Speaker 1>Now maybe she's like and the black I ain't. I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't expect this from us. Look, i'd be feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>I expect honestly, man, it's the game. Man, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a game, Yes, exactly. I don't have expectations for

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<v Speaker 1>nobody exactly come to that money.

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<v Speaker 2>That's because counting at that point green Okay, because when

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<v Speaker 2>you get into managerial and director and all that shit,

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<v Speaker 2>your your main goal as a CEO owner of any

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<v Speaker 2>company is income.

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<v Speaker 1>How can I make the most money? And who the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck can I pay a little bit to make me

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<v Speaker 1>the most money? It is what it is. Now, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to become the boss. So what are you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do it to? ROGI?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, start making your own ship. We're gonna support you

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<v Speaker 2>either way. Yeah, we're a fan and we love it.

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<v Speaker 1>And budget bitch, just because you look obviously you need

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<v Speaker 1>a budget, right because we know you start making more money,

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<v Speaker 1>you start spending more moneys, so you get the bigger house,

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<v Speaker 1>bigger vacations, bigger cars, all this.

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<v Speaker 2>But we required, we have so much requirements for our

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<v Speaker 2>stars too. Now you gotta look at certain way, you

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<v Speaker 2>gotta dress away where she got that same weing on

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<v Speaker 2>from color purple. So you know, I feel her and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Her at the same time. You know, right, Fantasia has

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<v Speaker 1>been looking very looking okay everywhere? Yes, I said, she

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<v Speaker 1>looked like she got the fantas. Ain't no way brou

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<v Speaker 1>Fantasia looking so bad? Okay, y'all go see it. What

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<v Speaker 1>else you got on the dock?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm supporting them black ladies so they can get

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<v Speaker 2>their I know, sister Rogie can get her check up

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<v Speaker 2>and listen to we talked back because little check to

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<v Speaker 2>God damn right, tune in the fuck all right, So

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<v Speaker 2>doctor Jackie Law and she's on the docket for stupid

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<v Speaker 2>internet news this week.

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<v Speaker 1>So recently she had to sit down with VP Kamala

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<v Speaker 1>Harris a virtual conference on Zoom to talk about the

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<v Speaker 1>maternal health crisis. Right, so listen, TikTok is not safe Okay, TikTok,

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<v Speaker 1>it's unruly over there. If you want the real buy anything,

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<v Speaker 1>go to TikTok because they're going to expose your ass.

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<v Speaker 1>And they got all information on TikTok. So TikTok has

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<v Speaker 1>now pulled up a resurface video of her. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was what's the other crazy ass? One doctor? Heavenly

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<v Speaker 1>offer married to medicine And she was saying, how black

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<v Speaker 1>women because this is she's no bg yan. She was saying,

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<v Speaker 1>how black women cry wolf when it comes to pain

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<v Speaker 1>because they want time off from work. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>in other countries, women don't work right. And I only

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<v Speaker 1>know a few companies, a few companies in America that

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<v Speaker 1>even give men maternal leave to be with their wife,

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<v Speaker 1>because then that would probably decrease the amount of what

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<v Speaker 1>you say, oh, paternally you know what I mean. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know what I mean. Anyway, you were.

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<v Speaker 2>Saying, only a few companies to even let men have

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<v Speaker 2>paternal lead to be off when they have a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, paternity lead to be off when they have children,

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<v Speaker 1>which would probably decrease the amount of what's postpartum. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I believe postpartum comes from a lack of support

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of times for the mothers. Yeah right, so

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<v Speaker 1>now you got to go right back to work after

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<v Speaker 1>six weeks. No, I need my whole pregnancy off plus

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<v Speaker 1>maybe sixty years, six or seven months off being paid absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>because in other countries this is standard. Right, So she's

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<v Speaker 1>saying black women specifically, cry wolf. And the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you going to sit down with the vice

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<v Speaker 1>president to talk about the maternity crisis when black women

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<v Speaker 1>were number one? You know what I'm saying, for us

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<v Speaker 1>to pass away and things like that, whend happen to be,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't survive a lot of times. So you're a

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<v Speaker 1>part of the problem. If a mother comes in and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in pain, Oh it's a black woman. So she

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<v Speaker 1>automatically lying, that's a problem. That's a huge problem. But

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<v Speaker 1>she apologized.

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<v Speaker 2>She came back and apologized for saying that because I

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<v Speaker 2>guess she understood that that's not right and that's and

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<v Speaker 2>that's a lot of reason why we have a maternal

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<v Speaker 2>crisis as it is, because people don't respect black women's pain.

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<v Speaker 1>And as a black woman, you should be the first

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<v Speaker 1>one to align with exactly exactly. So, but the thing is,

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<v Speaker 1>we have to take into consideration that though she is

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<v Speaker 1>a black woman, she was also indoctrinated by this white system.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why she still sees it how they teach it.

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<v Speaker 1>She had a I saw a video where one of

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<v Speaker 1>her old patients went live and said that her son

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<v Speaker 1>has h delayed in learning, and she's she's she's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to stem it back to you know, her pregnancy and

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<v Speaker 1>when she had her son, said she was in labor

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<v Speaker 1>for three days and then uh, she ended up having

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<v Speaker 1>to have an emergency sea section. Her heart rate, the

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<v Speaker 1>baby heart rate was dropping the whole time, and she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't see doctor Jackie in to the very end. And

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<v Speaker 1>now what I did research is that doctors don't get

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<v Speaker 1>paid if they aren't in the room when you have

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<v Speaker 1>the baby. So baby asking women to hold on, hold

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<v Speaker 1>up a sec People scheduling unnecessary sea sections because they

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<v Speaker 1>want to go on vacation and shit. So you want

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<v Speaker 1>all your mothers to do You want to get all

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<v Speaker 1>the women out the way so you can go have

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<v Speaker 1>a life. We got to remember that being a doctor

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<v Speaker 1>is still a fucking job. People get tired of going

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<v Speaker 1>to work, but you have people's lives in your hands.

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<v Speaker 1>You you It's just a difference. It's not the same

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<v Speaker 1>as working at the fucking message. Okay, right in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>But Devin, if you don't get right, you think you

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<v Speaker 1>could come in next Thursday. What you know? And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that doctors intentionally keep cutting black women. We

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<v Speaker 1>get a lot of unnecessary sea sections. Bitch, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a baby, and I got a sea section me too,

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<v Speaker 1>unnecessarily too. You know what I'm saying. I could have

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<v Speaker 1>had microscopic, yeah, surgery, liposcopic, liposcopic is what they call them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I could have gotten that as opposed to you cutting

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<v Speaker 1>me open. But I feel like they like to scar

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<v Speaker 1>black women. So that's a whole other episode. Child anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't don't have to say after that shit move,

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<v Speaker 1>let's move home.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, a woman suits and Dennis who allegedly performed eight

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<v Speaker 2>crowns and four root canals and twenty feelings in one visit,

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<v Speaker 2>leaving her disfigured. Now who'ld have that's first of all,

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<v Speaker 2>your first mistake was not brushing your teeth ever in

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<v Speaker 2>life to need all of this shit at one time.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the second mistake was get your dinnis off

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<v Speaker 2>group on because you had to get your Dinnis off

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<v Speaker 2>group on.

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<v Speaker 1>To do this, like see I do I do. I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely get those fifty dollars cleaning. Let's be very clear.

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<v Speaker 1>I do not pay podental because I got their teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just get my fifty dollars cleanings I need.

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<v Speaker 2>You want write, I'll go to no fifty dollars Dennis, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna mess around and come out with veneers when

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<v Speaker 2>you had the last what don't go to no fifty

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<v Speaker 2>dollars person clean your tea.

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<v Speaker 1>I just paid four hundred dollars in the office. That's

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<v Speaker 1>just well. If you need a deep cleaning, then they'll,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they'll let you know, like, hey, we can

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<v Speaker 1>do this today, but you need to come back for

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<v Speaker 1>a deep cleaning. But just like a simple cleaning. Why

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<v Speaker 1>am I spending all that money. I don't like to

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<v Speaker 1>do X rays because I'm not putting that fucking radiation

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<v Speaker 1>in my goddamn body by no X ray. So just

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<v Speaker 1>clean me up and let me go on. By my way.

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<v Speaker 1>The guy had very nice, fine ass black man. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>off groupon don't be very clear.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going for your teeth. Your teeth are too pretty

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<v Speaker 2>to play with. Limb like that, you're gonna be writing.

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<v Speaker 1>An article with this lady, and as a former you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be in the days article lady going to that

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<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars holla. Okay, when I saw this article, I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely was thinking about me, and that guy that I

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<v Speaker 1>went to was not off of groupon. This is my

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<v Speaker 1>regular dentist when I was living in South Carolina, and

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<v Speaker 1>this is why I have TMAG teeth TMJ today from

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<v Speaker 1>dental work from having my mouth open so fucking long

0:21:41.720 --> 0:21:45.000
<v Speaker 1>doing too many feelings at one time. So I can

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<v Speaker 1>only imagine how fucked up this lady's mouth is because

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<v Speaker 1>my shit has been fucked up since two thousand and eight.

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<v Speaker 1>My job has been clicking, and it's no remedy for it. Well,

0:21:54.960 --> 0:21:56.840
<v Speaker 1>I started going to the chiropractice for it, but now

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<v Speaker 1>I can kind of massage it out if it gets

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<v Speaker 1>inflamed itself. But yeah, like it's the lifelong. Just a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times you can't even sue doctors. Surreal, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta damn that die and your family got to

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<v Speaker 1>sue for your death when they fuck your shit up.

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<v Speaker 1>But nothing occurred to her that.

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<v Speaker 2>When he was gonna when he told her I'm doing

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<v Speaker 2>all of this at once, Like maybe we should split

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<v Speaker 2>this into three different appointments. This is a lot of shit, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like eight crowns, four root canals in twenty feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>Just get it's been some dishes.

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<v Speaker 2>He should just took all her teeth out and just

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<v Speaker 2>gave us a whole new mouth, because hmm, poor baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope she feel better. She said every it said,

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<v Speaker 1>every tooth in the in her mouth had decay, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's suing for fifty thousand dollars fifty I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>probably that, ain't it. It seems like seems like he

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to work a miracle. Yeah, in five hours,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's how long she was in there, So for

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<v Speaker 1>five hours she had all that shit done. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out why he went to school. Did he

0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:03.800
<v Speaker 1>go to school?

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<v Speaker 2>That might be that black boy that had that I

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<v Speaker 2>best it's that young black boy from Florida who opened

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<v Speaker 2>that practice.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a doctor, a doctor Love, Dennis Love, doctor Love.

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<v Speaker 1>The crazy thing about that boy, you know, he in

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<v Speaker 1>prison right now for scamming. But the crazy thing about

0:23:22.960 --> 0:23:26.879
<v Speaker 1>him is he had great reviews on his practice. He

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<v Speaker 1>literally was healing people with love and doing referrals to

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<v Speaker 1>other people in all kinds of shit. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>remember that movie with.

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<v Speaker 2>Leonardo DiCaprio, Catch me if you can. He was a pilot, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>he was a doctor. He was an attorney.

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<v Speaker 1>Same shit. But oh okay, now now hold on, now,

0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:49.720
<v Speaker 1>hold on, now what that is based on the true story?

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<v Speaker 2>I know?

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<v Speaker 1>And that white man ended up working for the FBI

0:23:52.760 --> 0:23:54.920
<v Speaker 1>because he was making So why y'all keep putting this

0:23:55.000 --> 0:23:57.119
<v Speaker 1>young black boy in prison? Right? Y'all should let him

0:23:57.119 --> 0:24:00.720
<v Speaker 1>help y'all. He's nineteen years old. Yeah, yeah, y'all should

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<v Speaker 1>let him do something like obviously he's talented. The nigga

0:24:04.840 --> 0:24:07.080
<v Speaker 1>opened a whole practice. Where did he get the money from?

0:24:07.640 --> 0:24:15.880
<v Speaker 1>He had a building, everything lazy good reviews. Look one more,

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<v Speaker 1>one more, one more, this last, the very last, stupid news.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So influencer blasted for life hack plans to

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<v Speaker 1>return use Christmas tree and people are calling her a

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<v Speaker 1>horrible person.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>A life hack activist is being dragged online as a

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<v Speaker 1>horrible person after promoting a controversial method of scoring a

0:24:38.320 --> 0:24:41.920
<v Speaker 1>free Christmas tree in a popular TikTok video, a five

0:24:42.000 --> 0:24:44.159
<v Speaker 1>second clip that has already racked up more than a

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<v Speaker 1>quarter million views. My of the duo Mason and My

0:24:49.240 --> 0:24:53.840
<v Speaker 1>can be seen stranding or excuse me, striding confidently through

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<v Speaker 1>an unnamed store and picking up a box a box

0:24:57.720 --> 0:25:00.280
<v Speaker 1>artificial tree from the shelves, before turning a around and

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<v Speaker 1>walking away. All the shoe is beginning to look like

0:25:02.400 --> 0:25:04.600
<v Speaker 1>a lot like Christmas. Blah blah blah blah. Anyway, this

0:25:04.720 --> 0:25:08.560
<v Speaker 1>bitch returned the goddamn tree after Christmas? Don't a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people mean? Why I didn't. I didn't use it.

0:25:11.520 --> 0:25:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I didn't use it. I didn't use it again, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>But she filmed it though, Yeah, I don't know why

0:25:16.640 --> 0:25:19.000
<v Speaker 2>she thought this was a good idea to put on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>But a lot of people be returning all kind of

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<v Speaker 2>shit after Christmas?

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<v Speaker 1>Right, that is so ghetto. It is ghetto. But she

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:31.960
<v Speaker 1>the first person they put. They put so much rasht

0:25:31.960 --> 0:25:34.879
<v Speaker 1>shit on black people. You know, white people be wild.

0:25:34.920 --> 0:25:37.600
<v Speaker 1>And do you see that viral video with the Marshalls

0:25:37.680 --> 0:25:40.639
<v Speaker 1>and Charlotte, These white two white women are just casually

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:44.159
<v Speaker 1>walking out the front door with baskets of shit stealing.

0:25:44.720 --> 0:25:49.520
<v Speaker 1>Nobody's stopping them, Yes, just casually stealing, Miss d D.

0:25:50.760 --> 0:25:54.080
<v Speaker 1>They're not getting chased by random customers trying to be

0:25:54.200 --> 0:25:58.320
<v Speaker 1>superheroes about another store. Shit. Nothing, They just walked out

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:03.640
<v Speaker 1>like it wasn't nothing. Meanwhile, when you see a bunch

0:26:03.680 --> 0:26:05.840
<v Speaker 1>of black people bum rushing a Gucci store in the

0:26:05.880 --> 0:26:09.479
<v Speaker 1>comments like, ah, these niggers, these people are so racist online,

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:15.399
<v Speaker 1>it's ridiculous. Dog, Yeah, it's ridiculous. So that stupid internet

0:26:15.480 --> 0:26:18.479
<v Speaker 1>news for the day. Y'all listen, we hope everybody had

0:26:18.520 --> 0:26:22.560
<v Speaker 1>a great Christmas. Okay, and New Year's is coming up.

0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:25.639
<v Speaker 1>All right, this is our New Year's episode, so we

0:26:25.720 --> 0:26:28.400
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about, you know, how do we plan

0:26:28.560 --> 0:26:32.359
<v Speaker 1>for New Year's? Everybody always has have resolutions. Resolutions are

0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:34.440
<v Speaker 1>not a bad thing. I think you should see them

0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:39.000
<v Speaker 1>every year, even if it doesn't fall through. Just don't

0:26:39.040 --> 0:26:42.480
<v Speaker 1>do it, shit, just do that shit. How you know

0:26:42.600 --> 0:26:44.119
<v Speaker 1>that y'all will be back after this? Oh?

0:26:44.280 --> 0:26:45.879
<v Speaker 2>You know that girl with the mean walking up the

0:26:45.960 --> 0:26:48.640
<v Speaker 2>boxes with the bag and to be like walking into

0:26:48.720 --> 0:26:50.399
<v Speaker 2>the new year, and the steps be like all the

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:51.280
<v Speaker 2>things she gonna.

0:26:51.160 --> 0:26:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Change, the same fucking steps every year. Steps. She ain't

0:26:55.119 --> 0:26:57.840
<v Speaker 1>been made it up four steps yet since twenty fourteen.

0:26:57.920 --> 0:27:02.440
<v Speaker 1>And then she came out. I hadn't seen a new one.

0:27:02.520 --> 0:27:04.760
<v Speaker 1>Yet I want to see what this one, So put

0:27:04.800 --> 0:27:06.600
<v Speaker 1>my face on that bitch this year and post it

0:27:07.960 --> 0:27:12.360
<v Speaker 1>because I see anything about about lace fronts on there.

0:27:14.240 --> 0:27:23.600
<v Speaker 1>That's coming with us. All right, y'all we back, okay,

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:25.840
<v Speaker 1>and again we want to talk about new years. How

0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 1>do we plan for the new year? Do you have

0:27:28.160 --> 0:27:32.840
<v Speaker 1>any things you do routinely when the new year is

0:27:32.920 --> 0:27:36.040
<v Speaker 1>coming in? Like anything, anything you do really to prepare

0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:39.920
<v Speaker 1>for the new year? Size from douching. I don't douche

0:27:39.960 --> 0:27:46.920
<v Speaker 1>my pussy, first of all. Second of all, where that

0:27:47.080 --> 0:27:53.280
<v Speaker 1>came from. You need a fresh stock. Make sure my

0:27:53.359 --> 0:27:55.560
<v Speaker 1>house is clean and there's no dirty clothes in the house,

0:27:55.600 --> 0:27:56.600
<v Speaker 1>because that's bad. Look.

0:27:57.359 --> 0:27:59.359
<v Speaker 2>I make sure that a man is the first person

0:27:59.400 --> 0:28:02.920
<v Speaker 2>to walk through the or after the new year. I

0:28:03.040 --> 0:28:04.720
<v Speaker 2>make me a pot of greens and black.

0:28:04.560 --> 0:28:07.399
<v Speaker 1>Eyed peas money.

0:28:07.560 --> 0:28:10.400
<v Speaker 2>I used to take my Christmas t treat down. They say,

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:12.840
<v Speaker 2>don't let the new year come, but my shit stayed

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:15.160
<v Speaker 2>up to July last year. I might take it down

0:28:15.200 --> 0:28:16.840
<v Speaker 2>this year because she was kind of rough this year,

0:28:16.840 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 2>and it might have something to do.

0:28:17.800 --> 0:28:21.399
<v Speaker 1>With that, but that's really it.

0:28:22.720 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 2>I thank the Lord and Midnight for me seeing another year,

0:28:25.920 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 2>and that's my only you know, real traditions.

0:28:28.480 --> 0:28:34.120
<v Speaker 1>What about you? Same thing. I try to like assess

0:28:35.240 --> 0:28:37.880
<v Speaker 1>my current year, how I want to show up next year.

0:28:39.760 --> 0:28:44.400
<v Speaker 1>I always write down goals. Do I revisit them? Should

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:46.800
<v Speaker 1>be dusky. But I have a plan for this year

0:28:47.480 --> 0:28:49.840
<v Speaker 1>doing some research in this episode, I think I got

0:28:49.920 --> 0:28:52.920
<v Speaker 1>a plan to make sure I execute on all my

0:28:53.080 --> 0:28:56.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to call them resolutions, all my things

0:28:57.240 --> 0:29:01.720
<v Speaker 1>for next year. I got you another book, Chris, Bitch,

0:29:04.440 --> 0:29:08.560
<v Speaker 1>another book for me to write my name. No, I'm

0:29:08.640 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 1>a least less. One is different. I can't wait. I

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:11.840
<v Speaker 1>want you to.

0:29:11.920 --> 0:29:13.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to tell you what it is. I'm

0:29:13.080 --> 0:29:15.600
<v Speaker 2>gonna just show it to you because this one is different.

0:29:16.280 --> 0:29:18.280
<v Speaker 2>It's different than all the ones I've given you before.

0:29:18.680 --> 0:29:21.240
<v Speaker 2>So you might like this one better because you're supposed

0:29:21.240 --> 0:29:26.720
<v Speaker 2>to only use it on drugs. So what you're only

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 2>supposed to write in it and you're high?

0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:33.479
<v Speaker 1>You know what? I missed this on she Ona had

0:29:33.520 --> 0:29:41.480
<v Speaker 1>a singing bowl meditation uh situation on Christmas Eve? No,

0:29:41.680 --> 0:29:43.680
<v Speaker 1>not Christmas Eve, this is Saturday. I wish I could

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 1>have gotten there in Columbia. I like saying I want

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:48.960
<v Speaker 1>to I want some fucking singing bowls. That would have

0:29:48.960 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>been a good Christmas gift for somebody to get me

0:29:51.240 --> 0:29:58.960
<v Speaker 1>at least one, but I don't really have. Uh oh.

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:01.600
<v Speaker 1>One thing I do do is go to fucking Michael's

0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:03.880
<v Speaker 1>and buy one of them thirty dollars planners to write

0:30:03.920 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 1>nothing in for the whole year. A plan A planner, Yeah, yeah,

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:13.480
<v Speaker 1>by an annual planner, and don't use it. I'm gonna

0:30:13.480 --> 0:30:15.240
<v Speaker 1>do better this year, though, I can feel it. I

0:30:15.320 --> 0:30:15.880
<v Speaker 1>can feel it.

0:30:16.000 --> 0:30:18.200
<v Speaker 2>Man, We're gonna pull them out and we're gonna already

0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:21.720
<v Speaker 2>feel it. Maybe you should get like a digital planner.

0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:24.120
<v Speaker 1>For your phone.

0:30:25.200 --> 0:30:26.760
<v Speaker 2>That might be better for you, because you don't like

0:30:26.840 --> 0:30:29.560
<v Speaker 2>physically writing anything, y'all. You always make fun of me

0:30:29.600 --> 0:30:32.640
<v Speaker 2>when I write down. You're like, look at her, prehistoric

0:30:32.760 --> 0:30:33.120
<v Speaker 2>bitch with.

0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 1>A pen, Bitch, you literally write everything. No, but I

0:30:39.560 --> 0:30:41.840
<v Speaker 1>do want to write more things down because that's where

0:30:41.840 --> 0:30:46.440
<v Speaker 1>the magic comes from, actually writing shit down right, typing it.

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:49.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it works, that's good, So yeah, I

0:30:49.920 --> 0:30:52.000
<v Speaker 1>want to start writing my shit down as well, bitch.

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:55.160
<v Speaker 1>But you lord, this bitch was like, let me go

0:30:55.240 --> 0:30:57.480
<v Speaker 1>get my computer out the car and came back with

0:30:57.600 --> 0:31:03.680
<v Speaker 1>a notebook. Bitch came back I loved right, and where's

0:31:03.720 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 1>the laptop? Like I'm wanted. I had to go out

0:31:05.560 --> 0:31:07.720
<v Speaker 1>and buy one for this shit because I just had

0:31:08.760 --> 0:31:09.840
<v Speaker 1>an iPad. That was it.

0:31:10.640 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so that's it, just writing new shit down,

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:20.440
<v Speaker 2>getting a planner. Yeah, that's what I've been doing, and

0:31:20.480 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 2>it hasn't worked.

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:25.320
<v Speaker 1>Of course, we always have resolutions about losing weighty New

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:28.760
<v Speaker 1>Year's resolutions, lose weight. I've actually started going to the

0:31:28.800 --> 0:31:32.760
<v Speaker 1>gym and shit more, getting trying to get back on

0:31:32.800 --> 0:31:36.400
<v Speaker 1>a routine the last month or so. So I'm set

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:40.720
<v Speaker 1>with that shit, bitch, because listen, I'm turning forty this year, y'all.

0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:50.400
<v Speaker 1>Relations girl, now you are so happy for your girl, girl,

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 1>Fuck you, girl, and I want to be in the

0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:57.520
<v Speaker 1>best shape of my life for forty. Okay, that is

0:31:58.000 --> 0:32:00.200
<v Speaker 1>that's what I got planned for twenty twenty four. But

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so this is from Foes dot Com. Y'all.

0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:05.480
<v Speaker 1>It says many people will make New Year's resolutions, However,

0:32:05.960 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 1>the majority will also fail to achieve them, but making

0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:15.600
<v Speaker 1>resolutions is still a good idea with plenty of positive effects. Okay.

0:32:15.680 --> 0:32:18.760
<v Speaker 1>It says most popular New Year's resolutions are about self improvement,

0:32:19.240 --> 0:32:23.760
<v Speaker 1>living healthier, twenty three percent of people getting happy twenty

0:32:23.840 --> 0:32:26.120
<v Speaker 1>one percent of people. That might be one of my resolutions.

0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not not happy, but I want to be happier, Okay,

0:32:29.480 --> 0:32:33.960
<v Speaker 1>losing weight the twenty percent of people exercise and more

0:32:34.120 --> 0:32:37.760
<v Speaker 1>seven percent. Five percent of people want to stop smoking,

0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:41.760
<v Speaker 1>two percent want to reduce drinking. It doesn't say stop drinking,

0:32:41.920 --> 0:32:47.640
<v Speaker 1>reduce drinking, and it as an addition, people resolve to

0:32:47.840 --> 0:32:51.440
<v Speaker 1>meet career or job goals sixteen percent and improve their

0:32:51.520 --> 0:32:55.760
<v Speaker 1>relationships eleven percent. But it says only eight percent of

0:32:55.880 --> 0:33:02.360
<v Speaker 1>people out of that big pie will actually exactly will

0:33:02.400 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 1>actually meet their resolutions by the end of the year.

0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:11.200
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, still setting a resolution is still a good thing, right,

0:33:11.240 --> 0:33:14.120
<v Speaker 1>So Number one, you have to have intention. Being honest

0:33:14.200 --> 0:33:17.680
<v Speaker 1>with yourself about your current condition and the distance to

0:33:17.840 --> 0:33:22.600
<v Speaker 1>your preferred situation is key to improvement and being intentional

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:25.080
<v Speaker 1>about how you want to grow and develop what help

0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:29.560
<v Speaker 1>you achieve results. This intentionality will also contribute to your

0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:33.320
<v Speaker 1>happiness and fulfillment. When you're moving forward with clear direction,

0:33:33.600 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 1>you make a positive contribution to your emotional and mental health.

0:33:38.080 --> 0:33:40.160
<v Speaker 1>So this is one of the reasons why you should,

0:33:40.400 --> 0:33:44.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, still go ahead and set resolution and ways

0:33:44.440 --> 0:33:48.880
<v Speaker 1>to follow through with them. Hope and engagement. Making New

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:52.840
<v Speaker 1>Year's resolutions is inherently hopeful and optimistic. You expect things

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:55.840
<v Speaker 1>can get better for you, for your work experience, or

0:33:56.000 --> 0:33:59.600
<v Speaker 1>your community. This positive view of future, in turn, tends

0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:03.920
<v Speaker 1>to evade action. If you don't believe tomorrow can be better,

0:34:04.040 --> 0:34:07.600
<v Speaker 1>you're unlikely to take steps to improve yourself or your community.

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 1>So optimism is doubtly beneficial, contributing to your own mental health,

0:34:15.440 --> 0:34:19.359
<v Speaker 1>but also engaging you towards positive action, which has which

0:34:19.400 --> 0:34:26.000
<v Speaker 1>has an effect on those around you. Okay, responsibility, bitch?

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:35.640
<v Speaker 1>Why you saying that to me? I'd be responsible. It's

0:34:35.719 --> 0:34:39.080
<v Speaker 1>as most news resolutions have some impact on others, even

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:42.719
<v Speaker 1>if they are about individual self improvement. But you know,

0:34:42.760 --> 0:34:45.520
<v Speaker 1>when you start doing better, a lot of times, if

0:34:45.520 --> 0:34:49.120
<v Speaker 1>people really fuck with you, it kind of offering everybody else. Right,

0:34:49.440 --> 0:34:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I agree? Improving yourself affects your families, friends and colleagues

0:34:53.160 --> 0:34:56.440
<v Speaker 1>and communities. Your resolution to get healthy will keep you

0:34:56.880 --> 0:35:00.560
<v Speaker 1>around longer for your family and friends. Your resolution to

0:35:00.640 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 1>start procrastinating, that's one of mine, bitch. Okay, Well, contribute

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:08.440
<v Speaker 1>to a positive team dynamic with your coworkers and we

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:12.200
<v Speaker 1>ain't talk about work. I'm not talking about work as

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:15.239
<v Speaker 1>no goddamn resolution. What is wrong with y'all? Well, some

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:18.239
<v Speaker 1>people trying to get that money up. Yeah, but I

0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:21.319
<v Speaker 1>think a lot of people probably want to start their

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:23.920
<v Speaker 1>own business so they can get underneath from underneath somebody.

0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:26.360
<v Speaker 1>You're still always gonna have to work, right, but you

0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:28.319
<v Speaker 1>want to get from underneath somebody else.

0:35:29.440 --> 0:35:32.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to get up under somebody in twenty twenty four.

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:34.760
<v Speaker 2>I want to I want you're trying to be a dependent.

0:35:34.800 --> 0:35:35.800
<v Speaker 2>I want me a husband.

0:35:36.640 --> 0:35:38.600
<v Speaker 1>What are you doing? Okay, you want a husband for

0:35:38.680 --> 0:35:40.359
<v Speaker 1>New Years? What do you do? Not for New Years?

0:35:40.480 --> 0:35:43.960
<v Speaker 2>But in twenty twenty I don't want to twelve o'clock

0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:46.680
<v Speaker 2>like I ain't. No, I don't want that. I just

0:35:48.000 --> 0:35:51.200
<v Speaker 2>I just want everybody be in my comments. Like when

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 2>I post my little whole pictures, they'd be like.

0:35:54.000 --> 0:35:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you ain't got no man. Believe it, bitch,

0:35:57.120 --> 0:35:59.400
<v Speaker 1>I ain't got one. I don't have. It's not that

0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:01.239
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't like I couldn't have a nigga.

0:36:01.320 --> 0:36:04.439
<v Speaker 2>Let's let's be clear. It just gotta be the right one,

0:36:04.600 --> 0:36:08.440
<v Speaker 2>you know. I don't want just just a nigga. I

0:36:08.560 --> 0:36:10.960
<v Speaker 2>want my I want what God has for me.

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:16.960
<v Speaker 1>So so why did you refer to it as a

0:36:17.000 --> 0:36:20.960
<v Speaker 1>whole picture? Because do you think your future husband wants

0:36:21.000 --> 0:36:22.760
<v Speaker 1>to know that you post not a whole picture.

0:36:23.400 --> 0:36:25.359
<v Speaker 2>I just had on some biker shorts and I get

0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 2>sexualized by people with because of my body type.

0:36:28.719 --> 0:36:30.480
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I called it that. But it's not

0:36:30.600 --> 0:36:36.160
<v Speaker 1>a whole picture. You know. It ain't even a thirst trap.

0:36:36.120 --> 0:36:38.200
<v Speaker 2>Because I mean, it's not like if I if I

0:36:38.320 --> 0:36:40.279
<v Speaker 2>was really trying a thirst trap, I would post like

0:36:40.360 --> 0:36:43.480
<v Speaker 2>bathing suit and ask out Kim K's type pictures.

0:36:43.880 --> 0:36:46.279
<v Speaker 1>But I don't post that kind of stuff. I could talk,

0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:48.400
<v Speaker 1>I could go there, you know I could, but I don't.

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:51.359
<v Speaker 2>I can have on the same biker shorts that somebody

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 2>smaller than me has on, but you know, I just

0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:55.640
<v Speaker 2>get sexualized because of it.

0:36:57.120 --> 0:36:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Your husband is watching big well, I hope he liked

0:36:59.680 --> 0:37:08.120
<v Speaker 1>my pole. All right, So now this is this is

0:37:08.200 --> 0:37:10.120
<v Speaker 1>the one I need to help me write. So this

0:37:10.320 --> 0:37:15.160
<v Speaker 1>is four steps to write a New Year's resolution. Okay,

0:37:15.440 --> 0:37:24.960
<v Speaker 1>So if you're wondering, how do you even begin to like,

0:37:25.040 --> 0:37:27.440
<v Speaker 1>how do you even start to you know what you

0:37:27.520 --> 0:37:28.960
<v Speaker 1>want to do? Right? You know how you want to be.

0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:32.200
<v Speaker 1>How do you even get it together to formulated with

0:37:32.360 --> 0:37:34.200
<v Speaker 1>the fucking pen and pad? This is what I'm doing

0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:36.880
<v Speaker 1>this year. So it says four steps to write New Year,

0:37:36.960 --> 0:37:40.520
<v Speaker 1>your New Year's resolution. This is from language tool dt

0:37:40.800 --> 0:37:46.759
<v Speaker 1>dot org. Okay, hold on, okay. So number one says

0:37:46.800 --> 0:37:49.520
<v Speaker 1>focus on your goals. You might be tempted to work

0:37:49.680 --> 0:37:53.759
<v Speaker 1>on two, three, even five resolutions this upcoming year, and

0:37:53.840 --> 0:37:57.080
<v Speaker 1>that's the problem for me. I do be having too

0:37:57.120 --> 0:38:00.719
<v Speaker 1>many resolutions narrow You really just need to pick like one,

0:38:01.040 --> 0:38:04.239
<v Speaker 1>like one real one, right and even even if, like,

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:07.080
<v Speaker 1>let's say you have financial goals for the next year,

0:38:07.719 --> 0:38:11.759
<v Speaker 1>break it down into three like sub goals, right like,

0:38:11.960 --> 0:38:15.040
<v Speaker 1>so you can achieve each one to make up the

0:38:15.120 --> 0:38:18.080
<v Speaker 1>whole goal. It says, But instead of giving a small

0:38:18.120 --> 0:38:20.960
<v Speaker 1>percentage of your effort to several goals, it's better to

0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:24.880
<v Speaker 1>give one hundred percent to just one. Ask yourself, what

0:38:25.080 --> 0:38:28.319
<v Speaker 1>is my priority? Then make that your resolution for the year.

0:38:28.800 --> 0:38:32.000
<v Speaker 1>And if you have numerous priorities you want to accomplish,

0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:34.560
<v Speaker 1>at least focus on one of them at a time.

0:38:34.760 --> 0:38:37.720
<v Speaker 1>Once you've completed one, move on to the next. Remember,

0:38:37.840 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 1>our brains aren't great at multitasking. I get overwhelmed if

0:38:43.000 --> 0:38:44.879
<v Speaker 1>I try to do too many things at one fucking time,

0:38:44.920 --> 0:38:48.440
<v Speaker 1>and then I just don't do nothing. Yeah, so I

0:38:48.520 --> 0:38:50.760
<v Speaker 1>can write down five things I need to do for today,

0:38:50.840 --> 0:38:59.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna feel right. It's gonna been bitch and

0:38:59.200 --> 0:39:01.200
<v Speaker 1>bitch and don't let nobody called me to add me

0:39:01.280 --> 0:39:02.960
<v Speaker 1>some ship, ask some ship to my list that they

0:39:03.040 --> 0:39:04.800
<v Speaker 1>need me to do for them. Like I'm really like

0:39:04.920 --> 0:39:07.040
<v Speaker 1>discombobulated at that point, Like, oh, you're not ruin my

0:39:07.840 --> 0:39:15.040
<v Speaker 1>but I tell you it's okay to tell people. Know absolutely, Yeah,

0:39:15.600 --> 0:39:18.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a problem telling people. No, girl, I don't.

0:39:18.760 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 1>My mom says I'm selfish for that, but you know,

0:39:21.040 --> 0:39:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I'd rather say that's just resentment towards people because you

0:39:24.600 --> 0:39:25.480
<v Speaker 1>did some ship you didn't want to.

0:39:25.520 --> 0:39:28.160
<v Speaker 2>They will say selfish, like it's such a bad thing.

0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:32.880
<v Speaker 2>It's okay to be selfish sometimes, you know, sometimes selfishness

0:39:32.960 --> 0:39:37.480
<v Speaker 2>is necessary because you'll be stressed so thick you ain't

0:39:37.520 --> 0:39:38.760
<v Speaker 2>got time for yourself.

0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:43.120
<v Speaker 1>So yep. And then the people who are used to

0:39:43.200 --> 0:39:46.279
<v Speaker 1>you saying yes, they only call you because they know

0:39:46.480 --> 0:39:48.600
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna say yes. People don't call people they know

0:39:48.880 --> 0:39:50.799
<v Speaker 1>don't call me. Let me tell you something.

0:39:52.640 --> 0:39:55.359
<v Speaker 2>Listen if you call me asking for ship, but let

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:58.600
<v Speaker 2>me be your last resort because I will help you

0:39:58.960 --> 0:40:00.960
<v Speaker 2>come up with all the other options before me on

0:40:01.080 --> 0:40:01.440
<v Speaker 2>the phone.

0:40:05.520 --> 0:40:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Shane, all Right. Number two says split the major goal

0:40:10.200 --> 0:40:12.800
<v Speaker 1>into smaller goals. So I said that, once you've decided

0:40:12.920 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 1>on a resolution, split it into smaller, easier to achieve goals.

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:19.560
<v Speaker 1>For example, the thought of writing a book might stop

0:40:19.640 --> 0:40:22.200
<v Speaker 1>you in your tracks, but it'll seem much more attainable

0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:25.839
<v Speaker 1>if you tell yourself to write one chapter a month. Now,

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:27.279
<v Speaker 1>that is one of my goals, y'all.

0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:31.320
<v Speaker 2>I want to have the two scripts I've been writing

0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:35.400
<v Speaker 2>for the last two years completed by June. And I

0:40:35.560 --> 0:40:38.440
<v Speaker 2>also want to have a book that I've been writing

0:40:38.480 --> 0:40:43.640
<v Speaker 2>since twenty eleven completed by June. Yeah, I have a

0:40:43.680 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 2>book that I want to finish by my birthday. That's

0:40:45.560 --> 0:40:48.080
<v Speaker 2>going to be my birthday gift to the world.

0:40:49.719 --> 0:40:50.720
<v Speaker 1>This book for kids.

0:40:50.800 --> 0:40:53.480
<v Speaker 2>It's a children's book, so it ain't even a lot,

0:40:53.600 --> 0:40:55.880
<v Speaker 2>but it's so cute. I can't wait to tell the story.

0:40:57.200 --> 0:40:59.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, finish it. We're doing big things this year, okay.

0:41:01.560 --> 0:41:04.719
<v Speaker 1>Number three says, decide on which actions you'll have to take.

0:41:05.320 --> 0:41:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Once you decide on a goal, think about the specific

0:41:08.120 --> 0:41:10.200
<v Speaker 1>actions you'll have to take to help you reach it.

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Let's stick to writing example. Let's stick to the writing example.

0:41:15.600 --> 0:41:18.040
<v Speaker 1>There's much more to writing a book than composing it.

0:41:18.440 --> 0:41:22.360
<v Speaker 1>You also have to take time to brainstorm, research, outline,

0:41:22.800 --> 0:41:26.840
<v Speaker 1>write drafts, edit, and proofread. You can think of actionable

0:41:26.920 --> 0:41:29.480
<v Speaker 1>steps required for just about any goal. Do you want

0:41:30.000 --> 0:41:33.480
<v Speaker 1>to run faster, You'll have to also take time to stretch,

0:41:33.840 --> 0:41:37.319
<v Speaker 1>eat an optimal diet, and strength train to support your

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:41.279
<v Speaker 1>leg muscles. So y'all know, y'all can get people to

0:41:41.320 --> 0:41:43.640
<v Speaker 1>help you write. So I think this year I am

0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:45.920
<v Speaker 1>definitely going to team up with somebody to help me

0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:49.359
<v Speaker 1>finish write in the book at least. And I did

0:41:49.640 --> 0:41:52.000
<v Speaker 1>purchase so this is my already started my little steps

0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:55.680
<v Speaker 1>to do my thing. I purchased final Draft, which is

0:41:55.760 --> 0:42:00.120
<v Speaker 1>an Adobe product for writing scripts and other people can

0:42:00.239 --> 0:42:02.799
<v Speaker 1>log in and write with you. So maybe I'll even

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:04.880
<v Speaker 1>get a writing partner for that, which I have somebody

0:42:04.960 --> 0:42:07.120
<v Speaker 1>in mind. I need to illustrate as well. That's what

0:42:07.200 --> 0:42:10.840
<v Speaker 1>I need for my book because I don't want to

0:42:11.400 --> 0:42:14.120
<v Speaker 1>just go on fiver. Oh yeah, I could use fiber

0:42:14.600 --> 0:42:21.400
<v Speaker 1>good thinking a j gotta use fiber for every fucking thing. Okay, Uh,

0:42:21.640 --> 0:42:24.160
<v Speaker 1>set a schedule. Now that you have a list of

0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:26.800
<v Speaker 1>actions you can take to help you achieve your resolution,

0:42:26.960 --> 0:42:30.839
<v Speaker 1>it's time to create a detailed schedule. It should look

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 1>something like this. If I want to write a book

0:42:33.200 --> 0:42:35.840
<v Speaker 1>by writing one chapter a month, I'll have to write

0:42:35.920 --> 0:42:39.279
<v Speaker 1>for one hour two times a week. I'll take one

0:42:39.360 --> 0:42:42.800
<v Speaker 1>additional day of the week to brainstorm and research and

0:42:42.920 --> 0:42:45.680
<v Speaker 1>the other day to edit and proofread and other. So

0:42:45.800 --> 0:42:49.640
<v Speaker 1>you're just breaking down each tasks so that you can

0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:54.880
<v Speaker 1>exactly makes sense. Mm hmm. All right, So those are

0:42:54.960 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 1>the four steps. So the four yeah, the four steps

0:42:58.080 --> 0:43:02.640
<v Speaker 1>that language dot org Language two gives for you to

0:43:02.800 --> 0:43:06.360
<v Speaker 1>set your New Year's resolutions. Like just examples. Also with

0:43:06.440 --> 0:43:08.600
<v Speaker 1>the book writing, if that's an example, if that's a

0:43:09.000 --> 0:43:12.160
<v Speaker 1>goal that you have, break it down in that way.

0:43:12.640 --> 0:43:14.960
<v Speaker 1>So this is how you set your resolutions. How do

0:43:15.080 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 1>you keep the resolutions? Though? That part?

0:43:17.680 --> 0:43:20.760
<v Speaker 2>Because that bitch be walking up them stills since twenty fourteen,

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:23.800
<v Speaker 2>and I'm that bitch. I've been trying to lose the

0:43:23.920 --> 0:43:27.560
<v Speaker 2>same twenty pounds since twenty seventeen.

0:43:29.239 --> 0:43:32.040
<v Speaker 1>Me too, girl, Okay, and I feel like I didn't

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:34.840
<v Speaker 1>really eat that much for Christmas and stuff, even for

0:43:34.960 --> 0:43:38.720
<v Speaker 1>Thanksgiving neither. But it's like the damn weight just won't

0:43:38.760 --> 0:43:42.879
<v Speaker 1>leave me. It won't stay off, up, it won't stay off.

0:43:43.200 --> 0:43:44.960
<v Speaker 1>I think they're trying to force people to get on

0:43:45.000 --> 0:43:49.080
<v Speaker 1>those zimpick dog. I really think that. Let me tell

0:43:49.080 --> 0:43:52.600
<v Speaker 1>you why. I keep seeing these posts. They're on Instagram,

0:43:52.680 --> 0:43:56.280
<v Speaker 1>but they're TikTok posts from people saying like they're showing

0:43:56.440 --> 0:44:01.239
<v Speaker 1>videos of obese people and then the narrator would come

0:44:01.280 --> 0:44:04.040
<v Speaker 1>back on screen and be like, that person's dead, and

0:44:04.120 --> 0:44:06.200
<v Speaker 1>then another fat person to show up on the thing,

0:44:06.239 --> 0:44:09.359
<v Speaker 1>and then they'll come back that person's dead, and it's

0:44:09.520 --> 0:44:12.360
<v Speaker 1>multiple creators doing this. I'm like, yo, are they just

0:44:12.640 --> 0:44:15.880
<v Speaker 1>are they trying to force people to wait loss? Like, damn,

0:44:16.000 --> 0:44:22.400
<v Speaker 1>what kind of algorithm you are? That's pretty dark. One

0:44:22.480 --> 0:44:24.720
<v Speaker 1>of the videos, a couple of the videos people actually

0:44:24.760 --> 0:44:26.839
<v Speaker 1>sent me like what are y'all trying to say? The fuck?

0:44:29.440 --> 0:44:31.399
<v Speaker 1>But it's so fucked up. I'm like, are y'all trying

0:44:31.400 --> 0:44:33.880
<v Speaker 1>to force people on this? I don't know, but and

0:44:33.960 --> 0:44:34.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to.

0:44:35.360 --> 0:44:39.160
<v Speaker 2>I've seen people where people have died from Ozmpic and

0:44:39.480 --> 0:44:43.120
<v Speaker 2>I've absolutely O somebody who got really sick and was

0:44:43.239 --> 0:44:44.759
<v Speaker 2>hospitalized from that shit.

0:44:45.000 --> 0:44:49.400
<v Speaker 1>So it's just not They already have all the class

0:44:49.480 --> 0:44:53.760
<v Speaker 1>action lawsuits ads out here because it's given pancreatic cancer.

0:44:54.719 --> 0:44:59.160
<v Speaker 1>Uh some stomach shit, yeah, arable irritable bowel syndrome, and

0:44:59.200 --> 0:45:01.680
<v Speaker 1>all types of others stomach cancer. I got enough shit

0:45:01.760 --> 0:45:03.360
<v Speaker 1>fucked up with me. I don't need to add no

0:45:03.520 --> 0:45:05.759
<v Speaker 1>new shit by trying to get said.

0:45:07.960 --> 0:45:11.120
<v Speaker 2>For forty pounds when I can just stay the fuck

0:45:11.320 --> 0:45:15.719
<v Speaker 2>I am or lose it naturally get somebody else to

0:45:15.800 --> 0:45:16.840
<v Speaker 2>do it like.

0:45:17.000 --> 0:45:19.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm fine either way. But yeah, I want to be

0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:22.560
<v Speaker 1>I look at these fifty sixty year old ladies on

0:45:22.680 --> 0:45:26.279
<v Speaker 1>Instagram who be like real, super fit seventy year olds.

0:45:26.320 --> 0:45:29.919
<v Speaker 1>They look amazing, minimal wrinkles. You know what I'm saying,

0:45:29.960 --> 0:45:32.880
<v Speaker 1>Because what you are, what you eat. I want to

0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:35.279
<v Speaker 1>be like that. Yeah. I don't want to do it

0:45:35.400 --> 0:45:37.160
<v Speaker 1>the easy way. I don't. I want it to be

0:45:37.239 --> 0:45:41.319
<v Speaker 1>sustainable likewise. All right, so listen, y'all, this is ten

0:45:41.400 --> 0:45:44.360
<v Speaker 1>steps to help you keep your New Year's resolutions. Okay,

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:48.000
<v Speaker 1>all right, so be realistic. I know y'all like to

0:45:49.120 --> 0:45:54.960
<v Speaker 1>hallucinate a lot. Be realistic. The sortest way to fall

0:45:55.080 --> 0:45:57.640
<v Speaker 1>short of your goal is to make to make your

0:45:57.680 --> 0:46:03.600
<v Speaker 1>goal unattainable. For instance, resolving to never eat your favorite

0:46:03.640 --> 0:46:07.880
<v Speaker 1>food again is setting you up to fail. Instead, strive

0:46:08.000 --> 0:46:10.840
<v Speaker 1>for a goal that is attainable, such as avoiding it

0:46:11.040 --> 0:46:14.040
<v Speaker 1>more often than you do. Of your favorite food is

0:46:14.080 --> 0:46:23.280
<v Speaker 1>so that is not Food's a nose supplement.

0:46:24.400 --> 0:46:29.600
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, So what's my favorite food? Like football buns

0:46:29.640 --> 0:46:30.839
<v Speaker 2>with the icing down in the middle.

0:46:31.120 --> 0:46:33.239
<v Speaker 1>I have not, girl, I had that shit in like

0:46:33.719 --> 0:46:36.080
<v Speaker 1>since the beginning of it. You love the football, because

0:46:36.880 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I know I do.

0:46:38.200 --> 0:46:41.320
<v Speaker 2>I do love those pastries, but I haven't had It's like,

0:46:41.400 --> 0:46:42.600
<v Speaker 2>what is a football bun?

0:46:43.719 --> 0:46:46.040
<v Speaker 1>Y'all? Don't listen to I show if you don't know.

0:46:46.080 --> 0:46:46.520
<v Speaker 2>What that is.

0:46:49.239 --> 0:46:52.200
<v Speaker 1>I like these little I like Asian pastries, right, they

0:46:52.320 --> 0:46:55.600
<v Speaker 1>have like the little coconut cream and coconuts sprinkle all

0:46:55.680 --> 0:46:58.480
<v Speaker 1>on it and it's just cream down the middle of

0:46:58.560 --> 0:47:01.640
<v Speaker 1>a football. Big ass, but in football that no one

0:47:01.760 --> 0:47:04.640
<v Speaker 1>person should be eating by themselves. Yeah, I like those.

0:47:04.800 --> 0:47:06.960
<v Speaker 1>She brought me to them. I was like, what kind

0:47:07.000 --> 0:47:08.960
<v Speaker 1>of pastry is this? I ain't never seen. It was

0:47:09.000 --> 0:47:12.839
<v Speaker 1>delicious though she put it in the oven. But maybe

0:47:12.960 --> 0:47:15.560
<v Speaker 1>like for your resolution, split it in half. Split whatever

0:47:15.640 --> 0:47:17.120
<v Speaker 1>you love in half with somebody else.

0:47:17.920 --> 0:47:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you can still have it, but share next

0:47:20.960 --> 0:47:23.480
<v Speaker 2>time instead of bringing two football bus will have won

0:47:23.719 --> 0:47:24.160
<v Speaker 2>and cut it.

0:47:24.239 --> 0:47:31.359
<v Speaker 1>In half exactly. Okay. Plan Ahead Number two says, don't

0:47:31.400 --> 0:47:34.520
<v Speaker 1>make your resolution on New Year's Eve. If you wait

0:47:34.719 --> 0:47:37.400
<v Speaker 1>until the last minute, it will be based on your

0:47:37.440 --> 0:47:40.759
<v Speaker 1>mindset that particular day. Instead, it should be planned well

0:47:40.840 --> 0:47:43.520
<v Speaker 1>before December thirty first arrives. And that's what I've started doing.

0:47:44.040 --> 0:47:48.319
<v Speaker 1>I already started jotting down all the things I uh

0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:53.440
<v Speaker 1>would like to change for twenty twenty four. Okay, So

0:47:53.600 --> 0:47:56.680
<v Speaker 1>y'all don't wait until December twenty first. What shit by

0:47:56.719 --> 0:47:58.480
<v Speaker 1>the time this episode come out is gonna be well,

0:47:58.600 --> 0:48:02.560
<v Speaker 1>December twenty first has already got on. So December thirty first,

0:48:02.680 --> 0:48:08.000
<v Speaker 1>y'all know. Oh my god, y'all, don't wait until December

0:48:08.120 --> 0:48:11.600
<v Speaker 1>thirty first. Okay, start today, or it might be too

0:48:11.680 --> 0:48:14.000
<v Speaker 1>late by the time this episode comes out. But anyway,

0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:17.479
<v Speaker 1>first year, it'll be like the twenty eighth, so they'll

0:48:17.480 --> 0:48:20.000
<v Speaker 1>still have time. Yeah, So start when you hear this

0:48:20.160 --> 0:48:26.759
<v Speaker 1>bitch outline your plan. Decide how you will deal with

0:48:27.080 --> 0:48:31.120
<v Speaker 1>the temptation to skip that exercise class, or have the

0:48:31.160 --> 0:48:33.959
<v Speaker 1>piece of cake. This could include calling on a friend

0:48:34.040 --> 0:48:40.319
<v Speaker 1>for help. That's accountability partners, practicing positive thinking and self talk,

0:48:40.600 --> 0:48:43.719
<v Speaker 1>or reminding yourself how your bad behavior will affect your goal.

0:48:44.520 --> 0:48:45.800
<v Speaker 1>Talk to yourself, bitch.

0:48:45.680 --> 0:48:48.880
<v Speaker 2>I have a screen saver that says what's more important

0:48:48.920 --> 0:48:51.280
<v Speaker 2>to you? The body you've always wanted or this slice

0:48:51.320 --> 0:48:54.920
<v Speaker 2>of cake right now? But it ain't work, so I

0:48:54.960 --> 0:48:57.480
<v Speaker 2>don't know, y'all might could try stuff like that. I

0:48:58.239 --> 0:48:59.920
<v Speaker 2>was sitting the cake on top of the screeze.

0:49:04.840 --> 0:49:13.600
<v Speaker 1>Not you using a phone as a plate. That's a

0:49:13.800 --> 0:49:18.080
<v Speaker 1>sad ship, bitch. We ain't doing that no more. We

0:49:18.120 --> 0:49:20.160
<v Speaker 1>ain't doing it no more. Man, that shiit over with.

0:49:20.719 --> 0:49:22.880
<v Speaker 1>It's over with, it's overweight. You're about to have the

0:49:22.960 --> 0:49:25.279
<v Speaker 1>best body. That's like. It got me a mini step

0:49:25.280 --> 0:49:29.040
<v Speaker 1>for y'all, should get yall one. I did order one

0:49:30.200 --> 0:49:33.880
<v Speaker 1>coming next week. It looks like it's easy, though. Legs

0:49:33.920 --> 0:49:37.000
<v Speaker 1>burning on that beach when you put the resistance on.

0:49:39.560 --> 0:49:42.359
<v Speaker 1>You know, because I like the AMT machine at the gym,

0:49:42.560 --> 0:49:45.680
<v Speaker 1>which is an adaptive motion trainer, and it's sort of

0:49:45.880 --> 0:49:48.440
<v Speaker 1>just like that. It got like an elliptical glow. I

0:49:48.480 --> 0:49:51.040
<v Speaker 1>know what you're talking about also like a step. Yeah,

0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:56.440
<v Speaker 1>and listen in an hour sixty minutes, not even sixty minutes,

0:49:56.440 --> 0:50:01.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm burning seven hundred calagies on that machine. Mm hmm. Yeah,

0:50:03.280 --> 0:50:06.279
<v Speaker 1>all right. So Number four says make a pros and

0:50:06.440 --> 0:50:09.920
<v Speaker 1>cons list. It may help to see a list of

0:50:10.040 --> 0:50:13.960
<v Speaker 1>items on paper, on paper, y'all, to keep your motivation strong,

0:50:14.120 --> 0:50:17.280
<v Speaker 1>develop a list over time and ask others to contribute

0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:19.680
<v Speaker 1>to it. Keep your list with you, and refer to

0:50:19.800 --> 0:50:25.640
<v Speaker 1>it when you need help. Keeping your resolve okay, talk

0:50:25.680 --> 0:50:28.920
<v Speaker 1>about it. I'm good at this. This is one thing

0:50:29.000 --> 0:50:31.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to change, though. I don't want to talk

0:50:31.040 --> 0:50:35.000
<v Speaker 1>about things anymore and not actually execute. So I'm keeping

0:50:35.080 --> 0:50:37.400
<v Speaker 1>all my shit asorry from what I already shared today,

0:50:37.520 --> 0:50:42.319
<v Speaker 1>right to myself until everything is done. But this says

0:50:42.440 --> 0:50:44.319
<v Speaker 1>to talk about it, though, because you know, you kind

0:50:44.320 --> 0:50:46.160
<v Speaker 1>of force other people to hold your accountable. That's why

0:50:46.239 --> 0:50:47.920
<v Speaker 1>we don't like when somebody be like, and you just

0:50:48.000 --> 0:50:51.239
<v Speaker 1>said you was on a dime to get married. Mind

0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:54.719
<v Speaker 1>your business. Don't your screen saber say no, you're not

0:50:54.840 --> 0:51:00.360
<v Speaker 1>eating cake, shut bitch. But it does say talk about it.

0:51:00.480 --> 0:51:03.800
<v Speaker 1>Number fives don't keep your resolution a secret. Tell friends

0:51:03.840 --> 0:51:07.040
<v Speaker 1>and family members who will be there to support your

0:51:07.080 --> 0:51:10.319
<v Speaker 1>resolve to change yourself for the better or improve your health.

0:51:10.400 --> 0:51:12.440
<v Speaker 1>The best case scenario is to find a buddy who

0:51:12.520 --> 0:51:15.880
<v Speaker 1>shares your new year's resolution and motivate each other again

0:51:16.239 --> 0:51:17.640
<v Speaker 1>accountability partners.

0:51:17.680 --> 0:51:21.480
<v Speaker 2>As always, I love to post in close friends. That's

0:51:21.520 --> 0:51:24.000
<v Speaker 2>where I post like my fitness journey. I always posted

0:51:24.040 --> 0:51:26.520
<v Speaker 2>in my close friends because I feel like those are

0:51:26.560 --> 0:51:28.399
<v Speaker 2>the people who are rooting for me. I don't post

0:51:28.440 --> 0:51:29.720
<v Speaker 2>it for everybody, right.

0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:37.120
<v Speaker 1>M yep, Reward yourself. This doesn't mean that you can

0:51:37.280 --> 0:51:40.840
<v Speaker 1>eat an entire box of chocolates. If your resolution is

0:51:40.920 --> 0:51:44.759
<v Speaker 1>to eat better, eat a better diet. Instead, celebrate your

0:51:44.800 --> 0:51:48.120
<v Speaker 1>success by treating yourself to something you enjoy that doesn't

0:51:48.239 --> 0:51:51.319
<v Speaker 1>contradict your resolution. If you have been sticking to your

0:51:51.360 --> 0:51:54.680
<v Speaker 1>promise to eat better, for example, reward yourself with new

0:51:54.760 --> 0:51:58.560
<v Speaker 1>fitness clothing, or by giving excuse me, or by going

0:51:58.680 --> 0:52:04.080
<v Speaker 1>to a movie with a friend. So yeah, don't reward

0:52:04.160 --> 0:52:06.560
<v Speaker 1>yourself with kid. It's like if you're trying to quick coke,

0:52:07.080 --> 0:52:10.680
<v Speaker 1>don't reward yourself with some crack girl. I just feel

0:52:10.680 --> 0:52:12.960
<v Speaker 1>like you're gonna sniff cocing. I don't say that. Don't

0:52:13.000 --> 0:52:18.319
<v Speaker 1>you speak that over me, Ricky Bobby. I just feel

0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:20.000
<v Speaker 1>like that's what we had in that because, bitch, you

0:52:20.120 --> 0:52:25.919
<v Speaker 1>not mentioned coke twice? What's up? That's all in your mind.

0:52:25.920 --> 0:52:28.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why. Co co co Cooke, Coke Cooke?

0:52:28.640 --> 0:52:32.080
<v Speaker 1>Remember that on Instagram? It is like, but you got

0:52:32.200 --> 0:52:34.319
<v Speaker 1>co co coke on your brain.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never tried. I don't have any desire to try

0:52:36.880 --> 0:52:40.440
<v Speaker 2>it anymore. So people have ruined that.

0:52:41.040 --> 0:52:43.919
<v Speaker 1>I distinctively remember, y'all. Bitch, it's just a few months

0:52:43.960 --> 0:52:46.520
<v Speaker 1>ago talking about if the world coming to like zombie

0:52:46.719 --> 0:52:49.520
<v Speaker 1>apocalypse or something, y'all would be sniffing coked. Yeah, why not?

0:52:49.800 --> 0:52:52.719
<v Speaker 1>Just like fucking no, bitch, I'm trying to live. I

0:52:52.840 --> 0:52:55.759
<v Speaker 1>can't like run around high and laughing. And you try

0:52:55.920 --> 0:53:03.840
<v Speaker 1>everything I never tried. Yeah, everything, shame mine? Well, all right.

0:53:05.080 --> 0:53:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Number eight says don't beat yourself up. Okay, y'all, Obsessing

0:53:08.280 --> 0:53:11.680
<v Speaker 1>over the occasional slip won't help you achieve your goal.

0:53:12.480 --> 0:53:14.960
<v Speaker 1>Do the best you can each day and take it

0:53:15.160 --> 0:53:17.960
<v Speaker 1>one day at a time. Now it is starting to

0:53:18.000 --> 0:53:25.440
<v Speaker 1>sound like AA for Cokay, shut up, all right, y'all,

0:53:25.560 --> 0:53:28.520
<v Speaker 1>we almost finished. Number nine says stick to it. Experts

0:53:28.520 --> 0:53:30.640
<v Speaker 1>say it takes about twenty one days for a new

0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:33.400
<v Speaker 1>activity to become a habit and six months for it

0:53:33.480 --> 0:53:36.840
<v Speaker 1>to become part of your personality. It won't happen overnight,

0:53:37.040 --> 0:53:41.520
<v Speaker 1>So be persistent and be patient. Be patient with yourself.

0:53:41.600 --> 0:53:44.600
<v Speaker 1>Be easy on yourself with these resolutions.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just give yourself some grace, man, Be kind to yourself,

0:53:49.120 --> 0:53:52.080
<v Speaker 2>especially like especially if you have a diet goal or

0:53:52.160 --> 0:53:56.040
<v Speaker 2>exercise goal. All right here, here's this lady's You're probably

0:53:56.080 --> 0:53:59.319
<v Speaker 2>going to fuck up every now and then, But don't

0:53:59.360 --> 0:54:00.439
<v Speaker 2>beat yourself up about.

0:54:00.640 --> 0:54:03.000
<v Speaker 1>Just get back to it, you know, jump back on

0:54:03.080 --> 0:54:06.959
<v Speaker 1>the wagon. And that's what number ten says. It says,

0:54:07.200 --> 0:54:11.280
<v Speaker 1>keep trying. If you have totally run out of steam

0:54:11.360 --> 0:54:14.080
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to keeping your resolution by mid February,

0:54:14.239 --> 0:54:18.920
<v Speaker 1>don't despair. Start over again. Recommit yourself for twenty four hours.

0:54:19.040 --> 0:54:22.080
<v Speaker 1>You can do anything for twenty four hours. Twenty four

0:54:22.120 --> 0:54:25.760
<v Speaker 1>hour increments will soon build on each other, and before

0:54:25.800 --> 0:54:31.080
<v Speaker 1>you know it, you will be back on track. Keep trying,

0:54:31.520 --> 0:54:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Keep going, bitch, Keep walking up them steps with your

0:54:36.120 --> 0:54:39.840
<v Speaker 1>bag on your shoulder. Oh, instead of taking the elevator,

0:54:39.880 --> 0:54:42.760
<v Speaker 1>walk up the steps. Instead of looking for a parking

0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:47.680
<v Speaker 1>spot in the front of the fucking target. Yes, go

0:54:47.920 --> 0:54:50.439
<v Speaker 1>parking the very back when employees parking and walk, Yeah,

0:54:50.480 --> 0:54:52.080
<v Speaker 1>walk your fat ass. I do that.

0:54:55.840 --> 0:54:59.080
<v Speaker 2>To get them snacks, to get some car book sugar

0:54:59.120 --> 0:55:02.560
<v Speaker 2>cookie that I'm gonna do it with six hundred calories

0:55:02.600 --> 0:55:03.400
<v Speaker 2>in the cook.

0:55:06.760 --> 0:55:13.520
<v Speaker 1>Yo. I mean, look, if you're going to go and

0:55:13.600 --> 0:55:15.600
<v Speaker 1>get the snack just parking the pocket back of the

0:55:15.640 --> 0:55:18.600
<v Speaker 1>parking lot. Shit, I'll cut some of the calories or

0:55:19.440 --> 0:55:21.680
<v Speaker 1>I like to eat my calories. I'm not drinking or

0:55:21.760 --> 0:55:24.600
<v Speaker 1>nothing with six hundred calor, but that should be so good, though,

0:55:30.080 --> 0:55:32.239
<v Speaker 1>calories don't feel like that.

0:55:37.160 --> 0:55:41.160
<v Speaker 2>Stupid Oh goodness, starbus. Don't get me talking about their drinks.

0:55:41.239 --> 0:55:43.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if they six hundred calories, but I'm

0:55:43.040 --> 0:55:44.120
<v Speaker 2>sure it's close to that.

0:55:47.000 --> 0:55:47.800
<v Speaker 1>Easy way to say this.

0:55:53.760 --> 0:55:57.160
<v Speaker 2>So I got a email from someone saying that they

0:55:57.239 --> 0:56:00.359
<v Speaker 2>need some advice, and it says that this is from

0:56:00.360 --> 0:56:05.200
<v Speaker 2>a male and he says he's thirty nine with no kids, single, untouched,

0:56:05.400 --> 0:56:10.280
<v Speaker 2>and is willing and ready to cut up lustfulness one time.

0:56:11.000 --> 0:56:15.840
<v Speaker 1>But he's so old and old fashioned and he's lost.

0:56:16.440 --> 0:56:18.600
<v Speaker 1>What can I do? I don't even have me time.

0:56:20.440 --> 0:56:21.920
<v Speaker 1>So what he's trying to get some pussy for the

0:56:21.960 --> 0:56:27.160
<v Speaker 1>first time or son. I don't know. I was just

0:56:27.239 --> 0:56:31.080
<v Speaker 1>about to say, is he asking you? Is he propositioning

0:56:31.160 --> 0:56:34.719
<v Speaker 1>you to get some pussy for the first time? Untouched?

0:56:34.800 --> 0:56:38.040
<v Speaker 1>That sounds like a vision, right, he wants you to

0:56:38.440 --> 0:56:47.000
<v Speaker 1>pop his cherry lord lemon blue. Plenty of fish, You

0:56:47.080 --> 0:56:51.319
<v Speaker 1>don't plenty of fish? Oh yeah, that's what if you're

0:56:51.320 --> 0:56:52.239
<v Speaker 1>looking for the whole.

0:56:52.880 --> 0:56:56.040
<v Speaker 2>I think you'll find that women will like that you're untouched.

0:56:56.239 --> 0:56:58.080
<v Speaker 2>The type of women that go on plenty of fish

0:56:58.200 --> 0:56:58.759
<v Speaker 2>is gonna like that.

0:56:58.840 --> 0:57:02.399
<v Speaker 1>You will some untouched. They'll definitely touch it up really

0:57:02.480 --> 0:57:07.440
<v Speaker 1>nice because the motherfucker's on plenty of fishes in heavy rotation.

0:57:12.680 --> 0:57:16.240
<v Speaker 1>It's the same people chide, Okay, well, I hope you are.

0:57:17.120 --> 0:57:19.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the fun give him some advice.

0:57:19.800 --> 0:57:21.920
<v Speaker 1>So your advice for him is just to get oh

0:57:21.920 --> 0:57:23.720
<v Speaker 1>because he's at and have time. Right. So a lot

0:57:23.760 --> 0:57:26.760
<v Speaker 1>of people who have careers and stuff like that, who

0:57:26.880 --> 0:57:28.920
<v Speaker 1>don't have a lot of time to be social like

0:57:29.040 --> 0:57:31.560
<v Speaker 1>in public, they do be on the dating websites. It's

0:57:32.000 --> 0:57:34.720
<v Speaker 1>real popular. He might he might need to get that

0:57:35.120 --> 0:57:39.280
<v Speaker 1>tender five right, but he's saying that he don't. He

0:57:39.400 --> 0:57:42.560
<v Speaker 1>said he wants lustfulness he's not saying I want a wife.

0:57:43.160 --> 0:57:46.240
<v Speaker 1>I want a relationship. He has, So that's why I said,

0:57:46.280 --> 0:57:51.120
<v Speaker 1>plain of fishes where to go for or This almost

0:57:51.160 --> 0:57:52.920
<v Speaker 1>sounds like how women like to lie in the City

0:57:52.960 --> 0:57:55.240
<v Speaker 1>of virgin or lions they and have sex in a

0:57:55.320 --> 0:57:58.760
<v Speaker 1>long time to make a nigga like like like, no,

0:57:59.640 --> 0:58:04.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't want no dick that ain't had no pussy. Right,

0:58:05.040 --> 0:58:08.880
<v Speaker 1>some people might be in today, no man untouched, untainted.

0:58:10.720 --> 0:58:12.240
<v Speaker 1>He might need to go on Christian Mingo.

0:58:12.480 --> 0:58:14.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that's a nice place to go. Go to

0:58:14.440 --> 0:58:16.960
<v Speaker 2>Christian Mingo and meet you a nice young lady who's

0:58:17.720 --> 0:58:21.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, also untouched you know, and y'all can touch

0:58:21.400 --> 0:58:21.760
<v Speaker 2>each other.

0:58:24.080 --> 0:58:32.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, get advice. I'd give him. God, bless you, brother, Praise,

0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Praise the Lord. All right, y'all hit it aj hold on, Wait,

0:58:39.640 --> 0:58:41.640
<v Speaker 1>you don't got no last words for twenty twenty four

0:58:41.680 --> 0:58:43.560
<v Speaker 1>for them girls coming to an end? This is it

0:58:44.520 --> 0:58:46.400
<v Speaker 1>my last words for twenty twenty four.

0:58:48.280 --> 0:58:50.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh well, I'll just say once again that I love

0:58:50.960 --> 0:58:53.280
<v Speaker 2>y'all and I appreciate y'all for tunity in tell y'all

0:58:53.320 --> 0:58:55.880
<v Speaker 2>friends and cousins and aunties and uncles about our show,

0:58:56.440 --> 0:58:58.840
<v Speaker 2>because we're trying to get more money like Tarachi. So

0:58:58.960 --> 0:59:01.720
<v Speaker 2>we need y'all help, you know, So we need y'all support.

0:59:02.440 --> 0:59:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Y'all are like friends and family to us. It's like

0:59:05.160 --> 0:59:08.400
<v Speaker 2>having a conversation with our sisters that aren't here.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Do your best to keep your resolutions for twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to see all of y'all do great things.

0:59:17.840 --> 0:59:20.760
<v Speaker 2>We watching and that's all I got, Bitch, I don't

0:59:20.760 --> 0:59:21.240
<v Speaker 2>know what you got.

0:59:24.280 --> 0:59:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Let me see. I want everybody to reflect on their

0:59:30.440 --> 0:59:34.360
<v Speaker 1>achievements this year, any growth they've had. Don't be so

0:59:34.560 --> 0:59:37.240
<v Speaker 1>hard on yourself because we are all on a fucking

0:59:37.320 --> 0:59:41.760
<v Speaker 1>roller coaster called life trying to drop our motherfucking ice cream. Okay,

0:59:42.400 --> 0:59:46.720
<v Speaker 1>so chairs to the new year, new opportunities and experiences

0:59:47.240 --> 0:59:52.439
<v Speaker 1>for twenty twenty four. I wish everybody the best of luck.

0:59:53.040 --> 0:59:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't think this year is going to be any

0:59:55.120 --> 0:59:58.919
<v Speaker 1>easier than twenty twenty. Yes it is. He gonna speak

0:59:58.960 --> 1:00:04.000
<v Speaker 1>easiness over but but uh, I mean it's all relative. Right,

1:00:06.880 --> 1:00:09.640
<v Speaker 1>Do your best, that's all you can do. Do your

1:00:09.800 --> 1:00:13.640
<v Speaker 1>best and call us and book a consultation if you

1:00:13.760 --> 1:00:17.200
<v Speaker 1>ever need anybody to talk to me. Okay, we're here,

1:00:17.440 --> 1:00:20.240
<v Speaker 1>not twenty four hours a day, but we are here.

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<v Speaker 1>If you got some shit on your mind that you

1:00:22.240 --> 1:00:25.200
<v Speaker 1>can't talk to your homegirls about, well you could book

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<v Speaker 1>it anytime during the day. We just ain't gonna respond.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's late, you might not hear back.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a real problem called not one one, not us,

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<v Speaker 2>because we ain't gonna get.

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<v Speaker 1>To you to the next day, baby son stupid. All right, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>man for real, Happy new Yeah, okay, And if you

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<v Speaker 1>kick a ting, y'all, I love y'all, I love y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Remember to speak now or hold your resolution no never, never, bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing all the things in twenty twenty four.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be clear, all right, y'all, We love you. Bye.