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Speaker 1: Talk, talk talk.

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Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 1: Well, what's up y'all? Thank you for turning in for

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Speaker 1: a new episode and we talked back a show dedicated

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Speaker 1: to you dreamers and chasers. This is your co host

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Speaker 1: a j Holiday What's Up Team.

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Speaker 2: I want to dedicate this last one of the year

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Speaker 2: to these niggas and homes one more time for.

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Speaker 1: The might as well. Hey y'all, Hey y'all, We love y'all.

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Speaker 2: Man, hope y'all had a good Christmas Christmas. I was

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Speaker 2: about to ask you the same thing.

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Speaker 1: You go first. Uh My Christmas was cool, Okay, So

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Speaker 1: remember I told y'all last week we were doing family pictures,

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Speaker 1: so we did do that on Christmas Eve. I did

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Speaker 1: everybody's makeup except for my oldest niece, Chad, because she's

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Speaker 1: extra boozie. She had to go get her shit done

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Speaker 1: by someone. But I did everybody else's and we looked

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Speaker 1: really nice. Man. My uh look, my daddy and my

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Speaker 1: They came to take pictures because we all want y'all

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Speaker 1: took pictures all together. That was nice. Everybody was twelve

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Speaker 1: of us. That was real nicey are y'all gonna print them? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm waiting for the guy I had, Yeah, the guy had.

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Speaker 1: I know the guy, the photographer, because my niece was

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Speaker 1: was taking the pictures together. I was like, I told

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Speaker 1: Yeah big, that's what come after that? Yeah. But and

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Speaker 1: then Christmas Day, oh girl, last night we went to

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Speaker 1: this lit. I went to a house Christmas party and

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Speaker 1: apparently these people do this shit every year. It's the

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Speaker 1: tell you, we pulled up, it was so many people there.

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Speaker 1: They had a live band inside the house. Wow, it

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Speaker 1: was lit. Okay, all you can eat food and drinks.

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Speaker 1: It was really really nice. I wish my family was

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Speaker 1: was just me, mam and my sister.

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Speaker 2: This year and they came up on Christmas Eve and

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Speaker 2: I made this hot chocolate and I put liquor in

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Speaker 2: I was driving us around to go.

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Speaker 1: Look at Christmas nights. Not do you, shorty.

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Speaker 2: It was just a little little tab. It wasn't a

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Speaker 1: I know she probably saw you changed, though, you know,

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Speaker 2: So we went past this house and there was a

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Speaker 2: I found all these places to go online, and so

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Speaker 2: I asked him could I have some breakpass for Christmas?

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Speaker 1: He was like no, no, no no, But that was fun.

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Speaker 2: And then we came back here and we made some somores.

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Speaker 1: We went to bed. Then Christmas we got up.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, we made a TikTok that night before bed,

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Speaker 2: you know, the one where I got to send it

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Speaker 1: It's so funny, my mama is a.

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Speaker 2: And then on Christmas Day we got up. We had

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Speaker 2: I really enjoyed it. My mom was acting. I was

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Speaker 1: She's like, this is a fucking musical.

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Speaker 2: I was like, yes, But once it got she got

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Speaker 2: into it. It was really good. We enjoyed it. Now,

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Speaker 2: let me just say this. There was a trailer for

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Speaker 1: I can't wait for that. I like it.

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Speaker 2: I like the title, and I was excited because I

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Speaker 2: was expected to some nigga hogwarts shit right. No, this

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Speaker 2: movie is about magical negroes who use their powers to

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Speaker 2: make sure white people are happy so white people don't

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Speaker 2: hurt black people. And the main character and the main

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Speaker 2: of like getting with this white girl or making this

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Speaker 1: And there's a white white tears odometer girl. I was all,

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Speaker 1: who what fuck is this for? Who that is fun?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, what's the title, what's the title?

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Speaker 2: Against the American Society of Magical Negroes.

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Speaker 1: White people are happy? Yo. I was like, I literally

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Speaker 1: in the in the movie, I said, boom, real loud.

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Speaker 2: Everybody started laughing at the movie theater because who the fuck.

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Speaker 1: They missed the mark for me?

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Speaker 2: Maybe, I mean it's a satire, and I get that

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Speaker 2: they're missing the mark completely for me.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know. Directed by Kobe Libby, Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: not given. Uh, it's not giving. I won't tell you

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Speaker 1: what he looks like. He looks like he is mixed

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Speaker 1: he looks like. He looks like he's yo. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: ain't y'all.

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Speaker 2: Go check out the trailer and y'all come back and

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Speaker 2: tell us what y'all think. But it's just not I

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Speaker 2: was offended by that ship. But otherwise the movie was good.

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Speaker 2: And then we came back here eight leftovers and went

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Speaker 1: That was it. So color purple. It was good. I

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Speaker 1: enjoyed it.

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Speaker 2: There was a few moments where I was like, but

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Speaker 1: I'm actually at them even doing a remake. I understand

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Speaker 1: it's a musical, but they should have just left it

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Speaker 1: as a Broadway play. I don't know that I want

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Speaker 2: It was good, you know, if you get, If you

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Speaker 2: get take the movie out of your head and just

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Speaker 2: let it be what it is, I think you'll like it.

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Speaker 1: Taraji. You know, the Color Purple just has so many

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Speaker 1: stereotypes and shit like that. I just I just want

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Speaker 1: black people to be fucking great moving forward. I'm so

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Speaker 1: tired of living in the past. Yeah, okay, twenty twenty

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Speaker 1: four and beyond. I just want us to start a

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Speaker 1: fucking new Leave all that old shit back. The old

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Speaker 1: shit be the old shit. Mm hmm. That's how I feel, man,

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Speaker 1: because it's like it's programming, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: it's programming. I don't like it. Anyway. I will watch

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Speaker 1: Color Purple when it comes out on TV.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't wait to hear what you think in

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty seven when it drop on TV.

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Speaker 1: Right, she'd be dropping early now, shit, it'd be like, well,

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Speaker 1: speaking of a color purple in Taraji, Taraji.

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Speaker 2: Uh she did an interview and she was very emotional

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Speaker 2: about the disparaging between black female payment as actresses in

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Speaker 2: with in the end of it all.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I understand that, right.

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Speaker 2: I can't understand that, you know, because based on these

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Speaker 2: our heart checks, but I just they are she gets paid.

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Speaker 2: I look, I went to google her net worth and

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Speaker 2: mat I just felt like, maybe Taraji just speaking to

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Speaker 2: was upset that honeybag Ham was charging sixty eight dollars

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Speaker 2: So I can't she's speaking to somebody else. How do

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Speaker 1: It's for sure, right, So this article, I'm looking at

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Speaker 1: that's her net worth, right, now and this conversations with

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Speaker 1: what was with another rich bitch Gail King okay, Oprah

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Speaker 1: become the commodity, right, she's the business, so she is

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Speaker 1: responsible for the success of other people as well. Also,

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Speaker 1: that she fired her whole team after being on What's

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Speaker 1: the TV show Empire Allions Empire. After Empire and the

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Speaker 1: success of it, she said she fired her whole team

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Speaker 1: because her her She she felt like her career did

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Speaker 1: not catapult after that, so she just needed to start

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Speaker 1: fuck y'all do? What is next? She said, what's next

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Speaker 1: with me? Like y'all ain't have nothing set up? Right?

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Speaker 1: She she probably needs to talk to some of the

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Speaker 1: older women that have been acting. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she should have had a commons by Tyson before

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Speaker 1: she left, because I'm pretty sure they wasn't making all

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Speaker 1: crazy money in comparison to the white counterpart. And then

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Speaker 1: now on top of that, they outsource everything in America,

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Speaker 1: every job, every corporation, is outsourcing, and it's no different

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Speaker 1: with acting. They go to other countries for actors to

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Speaker 1: pay with American people especial everything, right, So, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think it starts with maybe doing your own ship, right,

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Speaker 1: you might she might.

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Speaker 2: Need to look, does that take a page master, pook.

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Speaker 1: Master? Yeah, just start producing, creating and produces. Just start

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Speaker 1: producing your own Yeah, doing your own thing, because you

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Speaker 1: can't depend on these people because then there's there's gonna

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Speaker 1: always be a ceiling for your pay, right, is always

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Speaker 1: going to be a ceiling. But I think her doing

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Speaker 1: the show, it's just weird to me. This is the

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Speaker 1: part that it kind of gets me at, Right, why

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Speaker 1: now while doing Color Purple, right, because she even stated

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Speaker 1: in that interview with Gail King that she was ready

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Speaker 1: to walk away from Color Purple at one point, Right,

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Speaker 2: And I'm supporting them black ladies so they can get

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Speaker 1: And as a black woman, you should be the first

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Speaker 1: You you It's just a difference. It's not the same

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Speaker 1: But Devin, if you don't get right, you think you

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Speaker 1: I believe that doctors intentionally keep cutting black women. We

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Speaker 1: unnecessarily too. You know what I'm saying. I could have

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Speaker 1: And I don't don't have to say after that shit move,

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Speaker 2: Hey, a woman suits and Dennis who allegedly performed eight

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Speaker 2: leaving her disfigured. Now who'ld have that's first of all,

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Speaker 2: your first mistake was not brushing your teeth ever in

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Speaker 2: And then the second mistake was get your dinnis off

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Speaker 1: To do this, like see I do I do. I

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Speaker 1: definitely get those fifty dollars cleaning. Let's be very clear.

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Speaker 1: I do not pay podental because I got their teeth,

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Speaker 1: So I just get my fifty dollars cleanings I need.

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Speaker 2: You want write, I'll go to no fifty dollars Dennis, girl,

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Speaker 1: The guy had very nice, fine ass black man. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm going for your teeth. Your teeth are too pretty

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Speaker 1: But nothing occurred to her that.

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Speaker 2: When he was gonna when he told her I'm doing

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Speaker 1: I hope she feel better. She said every it said,

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Speaker 2: That might be that black boy that had that I

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Speaker 2: best it's that young black boy from Florida who opened

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Speaker 1: He was a doctor, a doctor Love, Dennis Love, doctor Love.

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Speaker 1: The crazy thing about that boy, you know, he in

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Speaker 1: other people in all kinds of shit. He was like,

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Speaker 2: Leonardo DiCaprio, Catch me if you can. He was a pilot, Yes,

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Speaker 2: he was a doctor. He was an attorney.

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Speaker 1: Same shit. But oh okay, now now hold on, now,

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Speaker 1: hold on, now what that is based on the true story?

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Speaker 2: I know?

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Speaker 1: And that white man ended up working for the FBI

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Speaker 1: because he was making So why y'all keep putting this

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Speaker 1: young black boy in prison? Right? Y'all should let him

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Speaker 1: help y'all. He's nineteen years old. Yeah, yeah, y'all should

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Speaker 1: let him do something like obviously he's talented. The nigga

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Speaker 1: He had a building, everything lazy good reviews. Look one more,

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Speaker 1: one more, one more, this last, the very last, stupid news.

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Speaker 1: All right, So influencer blasted for life hack plans to

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Speaker 1: return use Christmas tree and people are calling her a

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Speaker 1: horrible person.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: A life hack activist is being dragged online as a

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Speaker 1: horrible person after promoting a controversial method of scoring a

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Speaker 1: free Christmas tree in a popular TikTok video, a five

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Speaker 1: second clip that has already racked up more than a

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Speaker 1: quarter million views. My of the duo Mason and My

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00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 1: can be seen stranding or excuse me, striding confidently through

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Speaker 1: an unnamed store and picking up a box a box

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Speaker 1: artificial tree from the shelves, before turning a around and

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Speaker 1: walking away. All the shoe is beginning to look like

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Speaker 1: a lot like Christmas. Blah blah blah blah. Anyway, this

446
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Speaker 1: bitch returned the goddamn tree after Christmas? Don't a lot

447
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Speaker 1: of people mean? Why I didn't. I didn't use it.

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Speaker 1: I didn't use it. I didn't use it again, I don't.

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Speaker 2: But she filmed it though, Yeah, I don't know why

450
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 2: she thought this was a good idea to put on TikTok.

451
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Speaker 2: But a lot of people be returning all kind of

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Speaker 2: shit after Christmas?

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Speaker 1: Right, that is so ghetto. It is ghetto. But she

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Speaker 1: the first person they put. They put so much rasht

455
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Speaker 1: shit on black people. You know, white people be wild.

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Speaker 1: And do you see that viral video with the Marshalls

457
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Speaker 1: and Charlotte, These white two white women are just casually

458
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Speaker 1: walking out the front door with baskets of shit stealing.

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Speaker 1: Nobody's stopping them, Yes, just casually stealing, Miss d D.

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Speaker 1: They're not getting chased by random customers trying to be

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Speaker 1: superheroes about another store. Shit. Nothing, They just walked out

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Speaker 1: like it wasn't nothing. Meanwhile, when you see a bunch

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Speaker 1: of black people bum rushing a Gucci store in the

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Speaker 1: comments like, ah, these niggers, these people are so racist online,

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Speaker 1: it's ridiculous. Dog, Yeah, it's ridiculous. So that stupid internet

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Speaker 1: news for the day. Y'all listen, we hope everybody had

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Speaker 1: a great Christmas. Okay, and New Year's is coming up.

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Speaker 1: All right, this is our New Year's episode, so we

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Speaker 1: want to talk about, you know, how do we plan

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Speaker 1: for New Year's? Everybody always has have resolutions. Resolutions are

471
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Speaker 1: not a bad thing. I think you should see them

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Speaker 1: every year, even if it doesn't fall through. Just don't

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00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 1: do it, shit, just do that shit. How you know

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00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 1: that y'all will be back after this? Oh?

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Speaker 2: You know that girl with the mean walking up the

476
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Speaker 2: boxes with the bag and to be like walking into

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Speaker 2: the new year, and the steps be like all the

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Speaker 2: things she gonna.

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Speaker 1: Change, the same fucking steps every year. Steps. She ain't

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Speaker 1: been made it up four steps yet since twenty fourteen.

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Speaker 1: And then she came out. I hadn't seen a new one.

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00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: Yet I want to see what this one, So put

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00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: my face on that bitch this year and post it

484
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 1: because I see anything about about lace fronts on there.

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Speaker 1: That's coming with us. All right, y'all we back, okay,

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Speaker 1: and again we want to talk about new years. How

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Speaker 1: do we plan for the new year? Do you have

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Speaker 1: any things you do routinely when the new year is

489
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: coming in? Like anything, anything you do really to prepare

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Speaker 1: for the new year? Size from douching. I don't douche

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Speaker 1: my pussy, first of all. Second of all, where that

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00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: came from. You need a fresh stock. Make sure my

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00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: house is clean and there's no dirty clothes in the house,

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Speaker 1: because that's bad. Look.

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Speaker 2: I make sure that a man is the first person

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Speaker 2: to walk through the or after the new year. I

497
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 2: make me a pot of greens and black.

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Speaker 1: Eyed peas money.

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Speaker 2: I used to take my Christmas t treat down. They say,

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Speaker 2: don't let the new year come, but my shit stayed

501
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: up to July last year. I might take it down

502
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 2: this year because she was kind of rough this year,

503
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 2: and it might have something to do.

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Speaker 1: With that, but that's really it.

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Speaker 2: I thank the Lord and Midnight for me seeing another year,

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Speaker 2: and that's my only you know, real traditions.

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Speaker 1: What about you? Same thing. I try to like assess

508
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,880
Speaker 1: my current year, how I want to show up next year.

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00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: I always write down goals. Do I revisit them? Should

510
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: be dusky. But I have a plan for this year

511
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Speaker 1: doing some research in this episode, I think I got

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Speaker 1: a plan to make sure I execute on all my

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Speaker 1: I don't want to call them resolutions, all my things

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Speaker 1: for next year. I got you another book, Chris, Bitch,

515
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 1: another book for me to write my name. No, I'm

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00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: a least less. One is different. I can't wait. I

517
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: want you to.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell you what it is. I'm

519
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 2: gonna just show it to you because this one is different.

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00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 2: It's different than all the ones I've given you before.

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00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 2: So you might like this one better because you're supposed

522
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 2: to only use it on drugs. So what you're only

523
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: supposed to write in it and you're high?

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Speaker 1: You know what? I missed this on she Ona had

525
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: a singing bowl meditation uh situation on Christmas Eve? No,

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00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 1: not Christmas Eve, this is Saturday. I wish I could

527
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 1: have gotten there in Columbia. I like saying I want

528
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: to I want some fucking singing bowls. That would have

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Speaker 1: been a good Christmas gift for somebody to get me

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Speaker 1: at least one, but I don't really have. Uh oh.

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Speaker 1: One thing I do do is go to fucking Michael's

532
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: and buy one of them thirty dollars planners to write

533
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Speaker 1: nothing in for the whole year. A plan A planner, Yeah, yeah,

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00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: by an annual planner, and don't use it. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: do better this year, though, I can feel it. I

536
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: can feel it.

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Speaker 2: Man, We're gonna pull them out and we're gonna already

538
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Speaker 2: feel it. Maybe you should get like a digital planner.

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Speaker 1: For your phone.

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Speaker 2: That might be better for you, because you don't like

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Speaker 2: physically writing anything, y'all. You always make fun of me

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00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 2: when I write down. You're like, look at her, prehistoric

543
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 2: bitch with.

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Speaker 1: A pen, Bitch, you literally write everything. No, but I

545
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,840
Speaker 1: do want to write more things down because that's where

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00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: the magic comes from, actually writing shit down right, typing it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it works, that's good, So yeah, I

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00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 1: want to start writing my shit down as well, bitch.

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00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 1: But you lord, this bitch was like, let me go

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Speaker 1: get my computer out the car and came back with

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Speaker 1: a notebook. Bitch came back I loved right, and where's

552
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: the laptop? Like I'm wanted. I had to go out

553
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 1: and buy one for this shit because I just had

554
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: an iPad. That was it.

555
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, so that's it, just writing new shit down,

556
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 2: getting a planner. Yeah, that's what I've been doing, and

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00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 2: it hasn't worked.

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Speaker 1: Of course, we always have resolutions about losing weighty New

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Speaker 1: Year's resolutions, lose weight. I've actually started going to the

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Speaker 1: gym and shit more, getting trying to get back on

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00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 1: a routine the last month or so. So I'm set

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Speaker 1: with that shit, bitch, because listen, I'm turning forty this year, y'all.

563
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 1: Relations girl, now you are so happy for your girl, girl,

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Speaker 1: Fuck you, girl, and I want to be in the

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00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: best shape of my life for forty. Okay, that is

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Speaker 1: that's what I got planned for twenty twenty four. But

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Speaker 1: all right, so this is from Foes dot Com. Y'all.

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00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: It says many people will make New Year's resolutions, However,

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Speaker 1: the majority will also fail to achieve them, but making

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00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: resolutions is still a good idea with plenty of positive effects. Okay.

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Speaker 1: It says most popular New Year's resolutions are about self improvement,

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Speaker 1: living healthier, twenty three percent of people getting happy twenty

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Speaker 1: one percent of people. That might be one of my resolutions.

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00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm not not happy, but I want to be happier, Okay,

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Speaker 1: losing weight the twenty percent of people exercise and more

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00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: seven percent. Five percent of people want to stop smoking,

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00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: two percent want to reduce drinking. It doesn't say stop drinking,

578
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: reduce drinking, and it as an addition, people resolve to

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Speaker 1: meet career or job goals sixteen percent and improve their

580
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 1: relationships eleven percent. But it says only eight percent of

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00:32:55,880 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: people out of that big pie will actually exactly will

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Speaker 1: actually meet their resolutions by the end of the year.

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00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, still setting a resolution is still a good thing, right,

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Speaker 1: So Number one, you have to have intention. Being honest

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00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 1: with yourself about your current condition and the distance to

586
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: your preferred situation is key to improvement and being intentional

587
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: about how you want to grow and develop what help

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00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:29,560
Speaker 1: you achieve results. This intentionality will also contribute to your

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00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: happiness and fulfillment. When you're moving forward with clear direction,

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00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: you make a positive contribution to your emotional and mental health.

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00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: So this is one of the reasons why you should,

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Speaker 1: you know, still go ahead and set resolution and ways

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Speaker 1: to follow through with them. Hope and engagement. Making New

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Speaker 1: Year's resolutions is inherently hopeful and optimistic. You expect things

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00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: can get better for you, for your work experience, or

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Speaker 1: your community. This positive view of future, in turn, tends

597
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: to evade action. If you don't believe tomorrow can be better,

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00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: you're unlikely to take steps to improve yourself or your community.

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00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: So optimism is doubtly beneficial, contributing to your own mental health,

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00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 1: but also engaging you towards positive action, which has which

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00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:26,000
Speaker 1: has an effect on those around you. Okay, responsibility, bitch?

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00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: Why you saying that to me? I'd be responsible. It's

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Speaker 1: as most news resolutions have some impact on others, even

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Speaker 1: if they are about individual self improvement. But you know,

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00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 1: when you start doing better, a lot of times, if

606
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: people really fuck with you, it kind of offering everybody else. Right,

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00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: I agree? Improving yourself affects your families, friends and colleagues

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00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: and communities. Your resolution to get healthy will keep you

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Speaker 1: around longer for your family and friends. Your resolution to

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00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: start procrastinating, that's one of mine, bitch. Okay, Well, contribute

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00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 1: to a positive team dynamic with your coworkers and we

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00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: ain't talk about work. I'm not talking about work as

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Speaker 1: no goddamn resolution. What is wrong with y'all? Well, some

614
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 1: people trying to get that money up. Yeah, but I

615
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: think a lot of people probably want to start their

616
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: own business so they can get underneath from underneath somebody.

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00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 1: You're still always gonna have to work, right, but you

618
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: want to get from underneath somebody else.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get up under somebody in twenty twenty four.

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00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 2: I want to I want you're trying to be a dependent.

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Speaker 2: I want me a husband.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? Okay, you want a husband for

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Speaker 1: New Years? What do you do? Not for New Years?

624
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:43,960
Speaker 2: But in twenty twenty I don't want to twelve o'clock

625
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 2: like I ain't. No, I don't want that. I just

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00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 2: I just want everybody be in my comments. Like when

627
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Speaker 2: I post my little whole pictures, they'd be like.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you ain't got no man. Believe it, bitch,

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Speaker 1: I ain't got one. I don't have. It's not that

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00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 1: I couldn't like I couldn't have a nigga.

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00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:04,439
Speaker 2: Let's let's be clear. It just gotta be the right one,

632
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: you know. I don't want just just a nigga. I

633
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 2: want my I want what God has for me.

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00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: So so why did you refer to it as a

635
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: whole picture? Because do you think your future husband wants

636
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:22,760
Speaker 1: to know that you post not a whole picture.

637
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 2: I just had on some biker shorts and I get

638
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 2: sexualized by people with because of my body type.

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00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: So that's why I called it that. But it's not

640
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: a whole picture. You know. It ain't even a thirst trap.

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00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 2: Because I mean, it's not like if I if I

642
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 2: was really trying a thirst trap, I would post like

643
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 2: bathing suit and ask out Kim K's type pictures.

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00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: But I don't post that kind of stuff. I could talk,

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00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 1: I could go there, you know I could, but I don't.

646
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,359
Speaker 2: I can have on the same biker shorts that somebody

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Speaker 2: smaller than me has on, but you know, I just

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Speaker 2: get sexualized because of it.

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Speaker 1: Your husband is watching big well, I hope he liked

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Speaker 1: my pole. All right, So now this is this is

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Speaker 1: the one I need to help me write. So this

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Speaker 1: is four steps to write a New Year's resolution. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So if you're wondering, how do you even begin to like,

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Speaker 1: how do you even start to you know what you

655
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Speaker 1: want to do? Right? You know how you want to be.

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Speaker 1: How do you even get it together to formulated with

657
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Speaker 1: the fucking pen and pad? This is what I'm doing

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Speaker 1: this year. So it says four steps to write New Year,

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Speaker 1: your New Year's resolution. This is from language tool dt

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Speaker 1: dot org. Okay, hold on, okay. So number one says

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Speaker 1: focus on your goals. You might be tempted to work

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Speaker 1: on two, three, even five resolutions this upcoming year, and

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Speaker 1: that's the problem for me. I do be having too

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Speaker 1: many resolutions narrow You really just need to pick like one,

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Speaker 1: like one real one, right and even even if, like,

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Speaker 1: let's say you have financial goals for the next year,

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Speaker 1: break it down into three like sub goals, right like,

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Speaker 1: so you can achieve each one to make up the

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Speaker 1: whole goal. It says, But instead of giving a small

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Speaker 1: percentage of your effort to several goals, it's better to

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Speaker 1: give one hundred percent to just one. Ask yourself, what

672
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Speaker 1: is my priority? Then make that your resolution for the year.

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Speaker 1: And if you have numerous priorities you want to accomplish,

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Speaker 1: at least focus on one of them at a time.

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Speaker 1: Once you've completed one, move on to the next. Remember,

676
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Speaker 1: our brains aren't great at multitasking. I get overwhelmed if

677
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Speaker 1: I try to do too many things at one fucking time,

678
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 1: and then I just don't do nothing. Yeah, so I

679
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,760
Speaker 1: can write down five things I need to do for today,

680
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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna feel right. It's gonna been bitch and

681
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: bitch and don't let nobody called me to add me

682
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Speaker 1: some ship, ask some ship to my list that they

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Speaker 1: need me to do for them. Like I'm really like

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00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 1: discombobulated at that point, Like, oh, you're not ruin my

685
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: but I tell you it's okay to tell people. Know absolutely, Yeah,

686
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Speaker 1: I don't have a problem telling people. No, girl, I don't.

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Speaker 1: My mom says I'm selfish for that, but you know,

688
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Speaker 1: I'd rather say that's just resentment towards people because you

689
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Speaker 1: did some ship you didn't want to.

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Speaker 2: They will say selfish, like it's such a bad thing.

691
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 2: It's okay to be selfish sometimes, you know, sometimes selfishness

692
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 2: is necessary because you'll be stressed so thick you ain't

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Speaker 2: got time for yourself.

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Speaker 1: So yep. And then the people who are used to

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Speaker 1: you saying yes, they only call you because they know

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Speaker 1: you're gonna say yes. People don't call people they know

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00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:50,799
Speaker 1: don't call me. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 2: Listen if you call me asking for ship, but let

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Speaker 2: me be your last resort because I will help you

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Speaker 2: come up with all the other options before me on

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Speaker 2: the phone.

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Speaker 1: Shane, all Right. Number two says split the major goal

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Speaker 1: into smaller goals. So I said that, once you've decided

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Speaker 1: on a resolution, split it into smaller, easier to achieve goals.

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Speaker 1: For example, the thought of writing a book might stop

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Speaker 1: you in your tracks, but it'll seem much more attainable

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Speaker 1: if you tell yourself to write one chapter a month. Now,

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Speaker 1: that is one of my goals, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I want to have the two scripts I've been writing

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Speaker 2: for the last two years completed by June. And I

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Speaker 2: also want to have a book that I've been writing

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Speaker 2: since twenty eleven completed by June. Yeah, I have a

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Speaker 2: book that I want to finish by my birthday. That's

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Speaker 2: going to be my birthday gift to the world.

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Speaker 1: This book for kids.

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Speaker 2: It's a children's book, so it ain't even a lot,

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Speaker 2: but it's so cute. I can't wait to tell the story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, finish it. We're doing big things this year, okay.

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Speaker 1: Number three says, decide on which actions you'll have to take.

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Speaker 1: Once you decide on a goal, think about the specific

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Speaker 1: actions you'll have to take to help you reach it.

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Speaker 1: Let's stick to writing example. Let's stick to the writing example.

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Speaker 1: There's much more to writing a book than composing it.

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Speaker 1: You also have to take time to brainstorm, research, outline,

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00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 1: write drafts, edit, and proofread. You can think of actionable

726
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: steps required for just about any goal. Do you want

727
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: to run faster, You'll have to also take time to stretch,

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Speaker 1: eat an optimal diet, and strength train to support your

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Speaker 1: leg muscles. So y'all know, y'all can get people to

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Speaker 1: help you write. So I think this year I am

731
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Speaker 1: definitely going to team up with somebody to help me

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Speaker 1: finish write in the book at least. And I did

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Speaker 1: purchase so this is my already started my little steps

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Speaker 1: to do my thing. I purchased final Draft, which is

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Speaker 1: an Adobe product for writing scripts and other people can

736
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Speaker 1: log in and write with you. So maybe I'll even

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Speaker 1: get a writing partner for that, which I have somebody

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Speaker 1: in mind. I need to illustrate as well. That's what

739
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 1: I need for my book because I don't want to

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Speaker 1: just go on fiver. Oh yeah, I could use fiber

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Speaker 1: good thinking a j gotta use fiber for every fucking thing. Okay, Uh,

742
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Speaker 1: set a schedule. Now that you have a list of

743
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Speaker 1: actions you can take to help you achieve your resolution,

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00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,839
Speaker 1: it's time to create a detailed schedule. It should look

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Speaker 1: something like this. If I want to write a book

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Speaker 1: by writing one chapter a month, I'll have to write

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Speaker 1: for one hour two times a week. I'll take one

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Speaker 1: additional day of the week to brainstorm and research and

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Speaker 1: the other day to edit and proofread and other. So

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Speaker 1: you're just breaking down each tasks so that you can

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Speaker 1: exactly makes sense. Mm hmm. All right, So those are

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Speaker 1: the four steps. So the four yeah, the four steps

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Speaker 1: that language dot org Language two gives for you to

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Speaker 1: set your New Year's resolutions. Like just examples. Also with

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Speaker 1: the book writing, if that's an example, if that's a

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Speaker 1: goal that you have, break it down in that way.

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Speaker 1: So this is how you set your resolutions. How do

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Speaker 1: you keep the resolutions? Though? That part?

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Speaker 2: Because that bitch be walking up them stills since twenty fourteen,

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Speaker 2: and I'm that bitch. I've been trying to lose the

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Speaker 2: same twenty pounds since twenty seventeen.

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Speaker 1: Me too, girl, Okay, and I feel like I didn't

763
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: really eat that much for Christmas and stuff, even for

764
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:38,720
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving neither. But it's like the damn weight just won't

765
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Speaker 1: leave me. It won't stay off, up, it won't stay off.

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Speaker 1: I think they're trying to force people to get on

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Speaker 1: those zimpick dog. I really think that. Let me tell

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Speaker 1: you why. I keep seeing these posts. They're on Instagram,

769
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 1: but they're TikTok posts from people saying like they're showing

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Speaker 1: videos of obese people and then the narrator would come

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00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: back on screen and be like, that person's dead, and

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Speaker 1: then another fat person to show up on the thing,

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Speaker 1: and then they'll come back that person's dead, and it's

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Speaker 1: multiple creators doing this. I'm like, yo, are they just

775
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 1: are they trying to force people to wait loss? Like, damn,

776
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 1: what kind of algorithm you are? That's pretty dark. One

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Speaker 1: of the videos, a couple of the videos people actually

778
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Speaker 1: sent me like what are y'all trying to say? The fuck?

779
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 1: But it's so fucked up. I'm like, are y'all trying

780
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: to force people on this? I don't know, but and

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00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to.

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00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 2: I've seen people where people have died from Ozmpic and

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Speaker 2: I've absolutely O somebody who got really sick and was

784
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Speaker 2: hospitalized from that shit.

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Speaker 1: So it's just not They already have all the class

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Speaker 1: action lawsuits ads out here because it's given pancreatic cancer.

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Speaker 1: Uh some stomach shit, yeah, arable irritable bowel syndrome, and

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Speaker 1: all types of others stomach cancer. I got enough shit

789
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: fucked up with me. I don't need to add no

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00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: new shit by trying to get said.

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00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 2: For forty pounds when I can just stay the fuck

792
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 2: I am or lose it naturally get somebody else to

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00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:16,840
Speaker 2: do it like.

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00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: I'm fine either way. But yeah, I want to be

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00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: I look at these fifty sixty year old ladies on

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00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: Instagram who be like real, super fit seventy year olds.

797
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,919
Speaker 1: They look amazing, minimal wrinkles. You know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Because what you are, what you eat. I want to

799
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Speaker 1: be like that. Yeah. I don't want to do it

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Speaker 1: the easy way. I don't. I want it to be

801
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:41,319
Speaker 1: sustainable likewise. All right, so listen, y'all, this is ten

802
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,360
Speaker 1: steps to help you keep your New Year's resolutions. Okay,

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00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: all right, so be realistic. I know y'all like to

804
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: hallucinate a lot. Be realistic. The sortest way to fall

805
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: short of your goal is to make to make your

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00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: goal unattainable. For instance, resolving to never eat your favorite

807
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:07,880
Speaker 1: food again is setting you up to fail. Instead, strive

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00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 1: for a goal that is attainable, such as avoiding it

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00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 1: more often than you do. Of your favorite food is

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Speaker 1: so that is not Food's a nose supplement.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, So what's my favorite food? Like football buns

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Speaker 2: with the icing down in the middle.

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Speaker 1: I have not, girl, I had that shit in like

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Speaker 1: since the beginning of it. You love the football, because

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Speaker 1: I know I do.

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Speaker 2: I do love those pastries, but I haven't had It's like,

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Speaker 2: what is a football bun?

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00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: Y'all? Don't listen to I show if you don't know.

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Speaker 2: What that is.

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Speaker 1: I like these little I like Asian pastries, right, they

821
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: have like the little coconut cream and coconuts sprinkle all

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Speaker 1: on it and it's just cream down the middle of

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Speaker 1: a football. Big ass, but in football that no one

824
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: person should be eating by themselves. Yeah, I like those.

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00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: She brought me to them. I was like, what kind

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Speaker 1: of pastry is this? I ain't never seen. It was

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Speaker 1: delicious though she put it in the oven. But maybe

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Speaker 1: like for your resolution, split it in half. Split whatever

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Speaker 1: you love in half with somebody else.

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00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can still have it, but share next

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Speaker 2: time instead of bringing two football bus will have won

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Speaker 2: and cut it.

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Speaker 1: In half exactly. Okay. Plan Ahead Number two says, don't

834
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Speaker 1: make your resolution on New Year's Eve. If you wait

835
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Speaker 1: until the last minute, it will be based on your

836
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 1: mindset that particular day. Instead, it should be planned well

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Speaker 1: before December thirty first arrives. And that's what I've started doing.

838
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: I already started jotting down all the things I uh

839
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 1: would like to change for twenty twenty four. Okay, So

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Speaker 1: y'all don't wait until December twenty first. What shit by

841
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: the time this episode come out is gonna be well,

842
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 1: December twenty first has already got on. So December thirty first,

843
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: y'all know. Oh my god, y'all, don't wait until December

844
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Speaker 1: thirty first. Okay, start today, or it might be too

845
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,000
Speaker 1: late by the time this episode comes out. But anyway,

846
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,479
Speaker 1: first year, it'll be like the twenty eighth, so they'll

847
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: still have time. Yeah, So start when you hear this

848
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: bitch outline your plan. Decide how you will deal with

849
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: the temptation to skip that exercise class, or have the

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00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,959
Speaker 1: piece of cake. This could include calling on a friend

851
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 1: for help. That's accountability partners, practicing positive thinking and self talk,

852
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 1: or reminding yourself how your bad behavior will affect your goal.

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00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 1: Talk to yourself, bitch.

854
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 2: I have a screen saver that says what's more important

855
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,280
Speaker 2: to you? The body you've always wanted or this slice

856
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 2: of cake right now? But it ain't work, so I

857
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 2: don't know, y'all might could try stuff like that. I

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00:48:58,239 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 2: was sitting the cake on top of the screeze.

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00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: Not you using a phone as a plate. That's a

860
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:18,080
Speaker 1: sad ship, bitch. We ain't doing that no more. We

861
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 1: ain't doing it no more. Man, that shiit over with.

862
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: It's over with, it's overweight. You're about to have the

863
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: best body. That's like. It got me a mini step

864
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: for y'all, should get yall one. I did order one

865
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 1: coming next week. It looks like it's easy, though. Legs

866
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 1: burning on that beach when you put the resistance on.

867
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 1: You know, because I like the AMT machine at the gym,

868
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: which is an adaptive motion trainer, and it's sort of

869
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: just like that. It got like an elliptical glow. I

870
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about also like a step. Yeah,

871
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: and listen in an hour sixty minutes, not even sixty minutes,

872
00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 1: I'm burning seven hundred calagies on that machine. Mm hmm. Yeah,

873
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: all right. So Number four says make a pros and

874
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 1: cons list. It may help to see a list of

875
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 1: items on paper, on paper, y'all, to keep your motivation strong,

876
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:17,280
Speaker 1: develop a list over time and ask others to contribute

877
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: to it. Keep your list with you, and refer to

878
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 1: it when you need help. Keeping your resolve okay, talk

879
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 1: about it. I'm good at this. This is one thing

880
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 1: I want to change, though. I don't want to talk

881
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: about things anymore and not actually execute. So I'm keeping

882
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: all my shit asorry from what I already shared today,

883
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:42,319
Speaker 1: right to myself until everything is done. But this says

884
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 1: to talk about it, though, because you know, you kind

885
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: of force other people to hold your accountable. That's why

886
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 1: we don't like when somebody be like, and you just

887
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: said you was on a dime to get married. Mind

888
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,719
Speaker 1: your business. Don't your screen saber say no, you're not

889
00:50:54,840 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 1: eating cake, shut bitch. But it does say talk about it.

890
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,800
Speaker 1: Number fives don't keep your resolution a secret. Tell friends

891
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: and family members who will be there to support your

892
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,319
Speaker 1: resolve to change yourself for the better or improve your health.

893
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: The best case scenario is to find a buddy who

894
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 1: shares your new year's resolution and motivate each other again

895
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: accountability partners.

896
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 2: As always, I love to post in close friends. That's

897
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 2: where I post like my fitness journey. I always posted

898
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 2: in my close friends because I feel like those are

899
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:28,399
Speaker 2: the people who are rooting for me. I don't post

900
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:29,720
Speaker 2: it for everybody, right.

901
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 1: M yep, Reward yourself. This doesn't mean that you can

902
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:40,840
Speaker 1: eat an entire box of chocolates. If your resolution is

903
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: to eat better, eat a better diet. Instead, celebrate your

904
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: success by treating yourself to something you enjoy that doesn't

905
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: contradict your resolution. If you have been sticking to your

906
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 1: promise to eat better, for example, reward yourself with new

907
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: fitness clothing, or by giving excuse me, or by going

908
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: to a movie with a friend. So yeah, don't reward

909
00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 1: yourself with kid. It's like if you're trying to quick coke,

910
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: don't reward yourself with some crack girl. I just feel

911
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 1: like you're gonna sniff cocing. I don't say that. Don't

912
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 1: you speak that over me, Ricky Bobby. I just feel

913
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 1: like that's what we had in that because, bitch, you

914
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:25,919
Speaker 1: not mentioned coke twice? What's up? That's all in your mind.

915
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Co co co Cooke, Coke Cooke?

916
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 1: Remember that on Instagram? It is like, but you got

917
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 1: co co coke on your brain.

918
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:36,839
Speaker 2: I've never tried. I don't have any desire to try

919
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 2: it anymore. So people have ruined that.

920
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,919
Speaker 1: I distinctively remember, y'all. Bitch, it's just a few months

921
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: ago talking about if the world coming to like zombie

922
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: apocalypse or something, y'all would be sniffing coked. Yeah, why not?

923
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 1: Just like fucking no, bitch, I'm trying to live. I

924
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: can't like run around high and laughing. And you try

925
00:52:55,920 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 1: everything I never tried. Yeah, everything, shame mine? Well, all right.

926
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: Number eight says don't beat yourself up. Okay, y'all, Obsessing

927
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: over the occasional slip won't help you achieve your goal.

928
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: Do the best you can each day and take it

929
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 1: one day at a time. Now it is starting to

930
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: sound like AA for Cokay, shut up, all right, y'all,

931
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: we almost finished. Number nine says stick to it. Experts

932
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: say it takes about twenty one days for a new

933
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: activity to become a habit and six months for it

934
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 1: to become part of your personality. It won't happen overnight,

935
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: So be persistent and be patient. Be patient with yourself.

936
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: Be easy on yourself with these resolutions.

937
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, just give yourself some grace, man, Be kind to yourself,

938
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 2: especially like especially if you have a diet goal or

939
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:56,040
Speaker 2: exercise goal. All right here, here's this lady's You're probably

940
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:59,319
Speaker 2: going to fuck up every now and then, But don't

941
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:00,439
Speaker 2: beat yourself up about.

942
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 1: Just get back to it, you know, jump back on

943
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:06,959
Speaker 1: the wagon. And that's what number ten says. It says,

944
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,280
Speaker 1: keep trying. If you have totally run out of steam

945
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: when it comes to keeping your resolution by mid February,

946
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:18,920
Speaker 1: don't despair. Start over again. Recommit yourself for twenty four hours.

947
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: You can do anything for twenty four hours. Twenty four

948
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:25,760
Speaker 1: hour increments will soon build on each other, and before

949
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:31,080
Speaker 1: you know it, you will be back on track. Keep trying,

950
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: Keep going, bitch, Keep walking up them steps with your

951
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: bag on your shoulder. Oh, instead of taking the elevator,

952
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,760
Speaker 1: walk up the steps. Instead of looking for a parking

953
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 1: spot in the front of the fucking target. Yes, go

954
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:50,439
Speaker 1: parking the very back when employees parking and walk, Yeah,

955
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: walk your fat ass. I do that.

956
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 2: To get them snacks, to get some car book sugar

957
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:02,560
Speaker 2: cookie that I'm gonna do it with six hundred calories

958
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:03,400
Speaker 2: in the cook.

959
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 1: Yo. I mean, look, if you're going to go and

960
00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: get the snack just parking the pocket back of the

961
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: parking lot. Shit, I'll cut some of the calories or

962
00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: I like to eat my calories. I'm not drinking or

963
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: nothing with six hundred calor, but that should be so good, though,

964
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: calories don't feel like that.

965
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 2: Stupid Oh goodness, starbus. Don't get me talking about their drinks.

966
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 2: I don't know if they six hundred calories, but I'm

967
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 2: sure it's close to that.

968
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:47,800
Speaker 1: Easy way to say this.

969
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 2: So I got a email from someone saying that they

970
00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:00,359
Speaker 2: need some advice, and it says that this is from

971
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 2: a male and he says he's thirty nine with no kids, single, untouched,

972
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:10,280
Speaker 2: and is willing and ready to cut up lustfulness one time.

973
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:15,840
Speaker 1: But he's so old and old fashioned and he's lost.

974
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 1: What can I do? I don't even have me time.

975
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 1: So what he's trying to get some pussy for the

976
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 1: first time or son. I don't know. I was just

977
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: about to say, is he asking you? Is he propositioning

978
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: you to get some pussy for the first time? Untouched?

979
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: That sounds like a vision, right, he wants you to

980
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: pop his cherry lord lemon blue. Plenty of fish, You

981
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 1: don't plenty of fish? Oh yeah, that's what if you're

982
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 1: looking for the whole.

983
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 2: I think you'll find that women will like that you're untouched.

984
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 2: The type of women that go on plenty of fish

985
00:56:58,200 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 2: is gonna like that.

986
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,399
Speaker 1: You will some untouched. They'll definitely touch it up really

987
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: nice because the motherfucker's on plenty of fishes in heavy rotation.

988
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: It's the same people chide, Okay, well, I hope you are.

989
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fun give him some advice.

990
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 1: So your advice for him is just to get oh

991
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: because he's at and have time. Right. So a lot

992
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 1: of people who have careers and stuff like that, who

993
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of time to be social like

994
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: in public, they do be on the dating websites. It's

995
00:57:32,000 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: real popular. He might he might need to get that

996
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 1: tender five right, but he's saying that he don't. He

997
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: said he wants lustfulness he's not saying I want a wife.

998
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 1: I want a relationship. He has, So that's why I said,

999
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 1: plain of fishes where to go for or This almost

1000
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 1: sounds like how women like to lie in the City

1001
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: of virgin or lions they and have sex in a

1002
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: long time to make a nigga like like like, no,

1003
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: I don't want no dick that ain't had no pussy. Right,

1004
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:08,880
Speaker 1: some people might be in today, no man untouched, untainted.

1005
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: He might need to go on Christian Mingo.

1006
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's a nice place to go. Go to

1007
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 2: Christian Mingo and meet you a nice young lady who's

1008
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 2: you know, also untouched you know, and y'all can touch

1009
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 2: each other.

1010
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:32,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, get advice. I'd give him. God, bless you, brother, Praise,

1011
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: Praise the Lord. All right, y'all hit it aj hold on, Wait,

1012
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 1: you don't got no last words for twenty twenty four

1013
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 1: for them girls coming to an end? This is it

1014
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 1: my last words for twenty twenty four.

1015
00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 2: Oh well, I'll just say once again that I love

1016
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 2: y'all and I appreciate y'all for tunity in tell y'all

1017
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 2: friends and cousins and aunties and uncles about our show,

1018
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 2: because we're trying to get more money like Tarachi. So

1019
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 2: we need y'all help, you know, So we need y'all support.

1020
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 2: Y'all are like friends and family to us. It's like

1021
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 2: having a conversation with our sisters that aren't here.

1022
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 1: So thank you for that.

1023
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 2: Do your best to keep your resolutions for twenty twenty four.

1024
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 2: We want to see all of y'all do great things.

1025
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 2: We watching and that's all I got, Bitch, I don't

1026
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 2: know what you got.

1027
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: Let me see. I want everybody to reflect on their

1028
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: achievements this year, any growth they've had. Don't be so

1029
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 1: hard on yourself because we are all on a fucking

1030
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 1: roller coaster called life trying to drop our motherfucking ice cream. Okay,

1031
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 1: so chairs to the new year, new opportunities and experiences

1032
00:59:47,240 --> 00:59:52,439
Speaker 1: for twenty twenty four. I wish everybody the best of luck.

1033
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: I don't think this year is going to be any

1034
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:58,919
Speaker 1: easier than twenty twenty. Yes it is. He gonna speak

1035
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: easiness over but but uh, I mean it's all relative. Right,

1036
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: Do your best, that's all you can do. Do your

1037
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 1: best and call us and book a consultation if you

1038
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: ever need anybody to talk to me. Okay, we're here,

1039
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 1: not twenty four hours a day, but we are here.

1040
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:22,200
Speaker 1: If you got some shit on your mind that you

1041
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: can't talk to your homegirls about, well you could book

1042
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: it anytime during the day. We just ain't gonna respond.

1043
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 1: If it's late, you might not hear back.

1044
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,600
Speaker 2: It's a real problem called not one one, not us,

1045
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 2: because we ain't gonna get.

1046
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 1: To you to the next day, baby son stupid. All right, y'all,

1047
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:49,440
Speaker 1: man for real, Happy new Yeah, okay, And if you

1048
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:53,000
Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode, tune in next year okay, twenty twenty

1049
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 1: four on your iHeartRadio app. Subscribe to We Talk Back

1050
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 1: on iHeartRadio app okay, and Apple podcast. You can listen

1051
01:01:02,880 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 1: now completely add free, So do that in twenty twenty

1052
01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: four of us, Thank you all right, y'all. This is

1053
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:15,040
Speaker 1: your co host AJ Holiday two point zero on Instagrams,

1054
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 1: kick a ting, y'all, I love y'all, I love y'all.

1055
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 1: I love y'all.

1056
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 2: Remember to speak now or hold your resolution no never, never, bitch,

1057
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 2: We're doing all the things in twenty twenty four.

1058
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 1: Let's be clear, all right, y'all, We love you. Bye.