WEBVTT - That Should Be Categorized as Rude!

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that should be categorized as rude. This is

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<v Speaker 1>One More Thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Armstrong and Getty. One More Thing. One of your rare

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<v Speaker 2>Katie-hosted One More Thing podcasts. Before we get to whatever

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<v Speaker 2>that is. So, everybody seems to be uncomfortable with this

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<v Speaker 2>topic of my current physical condition, as I have not.

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<v Speaker 1>Your BMs?

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<v Speaker 2>I have not done that in four days and counting.

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<v Speaker 2>There are ads for it on television all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>It's clearly a common situation, right?

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<v Speaker 3>It is.

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<v Speaker 2>When I was a kid, I was always like... Why

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<v Speaker 2>are there so many ads for this? Or I remember

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<v Speaker 2>watching sitcoms. The old guys would always be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>fist bumping. Hey, I did it today. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, really? Is that what?

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<v Speaker 4>It's not common enough for you to go, oh, this

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<v Speaker 4>is common. I'll just let it happen when it happens. No,

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<v Speaker 4>you need to keep an.

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<v Speaker 1>Eye on it. Well, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's uncomfortable. And I am starting to get concerned.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was. I think it's been since the

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<v Speaker 2>last weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>It was five days last Thursday that you hadn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Had a good weekend, but since then. But so Joe

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<v Speaker 2>said we're getting lots of emails, stuff like that. Is

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<v Speaker 2>there a common theme on the remedies? Probably fiber is

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<v Speaker 2>a common theme.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, hammer down some Miralax and this and that.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, warm prune juice. I swear to all that is holy,

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<v Speaker 4>you will. That was what I did when I was pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>I should try them all because it might be everybody's

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<v Speaker 2>body's a little different and one remedy works really great

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<v Speaker 2>for one person, not another. I'm doing the Miralax, which

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<v Speaker 2>is what ChatGPT suggested. I'm doing the max dosage every

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<v Speaker 2>day all week long.

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<v Speaker 4>So Miralax takes 24 hours to react to your body

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<v Speaker 4>is what it says.

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<v Speaker 2>On the bottle. I've been doing it every day for

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<v Speaker 2>several weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>So go get the, not like the prune juice extract,

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<v Speaker 4>but like the glass bottle.

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<v Speaker 1>100% prune juice extract.

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<v Speaker 4>And warm it up for like 30 seconds in the

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<v Speaker 4>microwave and drink that.

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<v Speaker 2>And be near a bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>I will try that. Joe's disgusted with this conversation. Like

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<v Speaker 2>it's not a part of the human body.

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<v Speaker 1>He's looking at us like peasants right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I just see our demographic going entirely 80 plus.

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<v Speaker 1>Or pregnant women.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's another one. Tell Jack to mix one tablespoon of

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<v Speaker 3>baking soda and eight ounces of water. Drink it. Within

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<v Speaker 3>30 minutes, he will have a cleaned out system. 30 minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm wondering if people aren't confusing hiccup remedies with this.

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<v Speaker 2>Stand on your head and drink water with a spoon

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<v Speaker 2>in your mouth. No, that's the hiccups.

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<v Speaker 3>All right. Here's the colon cleanse given to Vanessa by

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<v Speaker 3>her doctor. Four caps of Miralax and eight ounces of water.

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<v Speaker 3>Repeat four hours later. If no movement, by morning, repeat again.

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<v Speaker 3>You will go. Then at least one cap of Miralax

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<v Speaker 3>every day in something you drink. And stool softener every day.

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<v Speaker 3>It will keep you regular. Ask me how I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Most of those, some people say that you shouldn't use

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<v Speaker 2>that stuff because it throws off your system.

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<v Speaker 1>It does.

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<v Speaker 2>Recent research says that's not true. I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'd hate to do any permanent damage to myself. Hold

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<v Speaker 2>a magnet next to your belly. Now, that's how to

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<v Speaker 2>tell if it's a boy or a girl.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, jeez.

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<v Speaker 4>So I can tell you from recent pregnant issues, Miralax

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<v Speaker 4>does mess with your regular routine.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I don't want that. Of course, my regular routine

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<v Speaker 2>is once every full moon.

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<v Speaker 4>Jack, if you're going to be home all day, warm

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<v Speaker 4>prune juice, just hang out for like 20 minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 3>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, boy.

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<v Speaker 3>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>That's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe, come on. Like you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Joe's... pretending this is an old person thing but i

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<v Speaker 2>guess it's super common with anybody on glps yeah and

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<v Speaker 2>that's everybody i would.

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<v Speaker 3>Prefer to discuss the magic of the free market versus

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<v Speaker 3>collectivism not.

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<v Speaker 1>Pooping excuse me entertaining where is it going four.

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<v Speaker 2>Days saving it like money okay so what is what

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<v Speaker 2>is your thing there i'm collecting it's like it's pokemon cards.

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<v Speaker 4>Or something oh boy all right um here we go

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<v Speaker 4>uh this is i mean i feel like i'm beating

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<v Speaker 4>a dead horse at this point because i've already talked

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<v Speaker 4>about it breastfeeding.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like now that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm four almost four months into this i feel like

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<v Speaker 4>it's a rude question to ask a woman oh are

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<v Speaker 4>you in what setting Well, so like yesterday, I'm at

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<v Speaker 4>the gym, and I brought Van with me, and he's

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<v Speaker 4>just hanging out in his little stroller, and everybody's oohing

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<v Speaker 4>and aahing over him. And this woman leans in, and

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<v Speaker 4>she goes, so you're breastfeeding him, right? And I looked

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<v Speaker 4>at her, and I said— That is so out of line.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's where I'm going with this, is it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>for whatever reason— and this is a woman-to-woman thing, so you

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<v Speaker 4>guys are.

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<v Speaker 2>Whiskey, only whiskey.

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<v Speaker 3>Right yeah by the way that'll take care of your

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<v Speaker 3>other problem too but.

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<v Speaker 1>I dip his bink and jameson and he shuts up.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what i do uh no but this i guess

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<v Speaker 4>this is like a woman to woman thing so i'm

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<v Speaker 4>putting it out there on the podcast right now ladies

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<v Speaker 4>that is that is rude as hell to ask another

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<v Speaker 4>woman she goes so you're breastfeeding right and i said

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<v Speaker 4>no And then, oh, why? And now I have to

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<v Speaker 4>go into like the whole, oh, my supply didn't come in.

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<v Speaker 4>And it's nobody's effing business. But that is like a

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<v Speaker 4>regular question that you ask a new mom, apparently.

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<v Speaker 3>Memorize this. I don't discuss my private life with people

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Or you're an a-hole.

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<v Speaker 1>But, I mean, I know-ish her. Like, she's like an acquaintance. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I work out with her all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't even ask my close friends that question.

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>And that's what I'm saying, is it's like, you don't

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<v Speaker 4>ask about politics, religion, how much they make in life,

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<v Speaker 4>and don't ask a mom if she's breastfeeding.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, that's weird. Because when you do, if she is, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so great. Your body's getting all the nutrients. And

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<v Speaker 4>if she's not, oh, well, why? what ha what happened

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<v Speaker 4>to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you, are you okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Let me send you this study.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. And it just turns into this whole thing. And

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<v Speaker 4>I had to tell her, you know what? I couldn't breastfeed.

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<v Speaker 4>My son has a tongue tie. I pumped for two

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<v Speaker 4>months and then my body decided F you, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>going to do this anymore. And the doctor said, don't

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<v Speaker 4>worry about it. But for her.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, oh, well you should, you should continue.

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<v Speaker 1>You should continue pumping. You should keep trying.

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<v Speaker 4>And I mean, I guess if you're not doing it,

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<v Speaker 4>you don't know. But like, that's the most stressful thing

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<v Speaker 4>on the planet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm all through the early pregnancy, baby. The number

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<v Speaker 2>of things people are willing to say or ask is

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<v Speaker 2>pretty shocking.

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<v Speaker 1>It is unreal.

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<v Speaker 2>Develop a thick skin for it.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to come down. They want to touch the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you breastfeeding the baby?

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<v Speaker 3>It's so unimaginable to me to violate somebody's privacy like that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very difficult for me to get inside the head

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<v Speaker 3>of somebody who would and even talk about how you

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<v Speaker 3>would deal with that other than to say, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>discuss that sort of thing with people I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>very well.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a girl thing. It's a woman thing.

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<v Speaker 3>You're part of a magical, sacred club.

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<v Speaker 2>Men don't ask you.

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<v Speaker 1>No, thank you, actually. Thank God.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank God for the men of the world because they

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<v Speaker 4>don't ask me that. But it's like this weird open

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<v Speaker 4>door that shouldn't be open between women where they're like, oh, so.

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<v Speaker 1>And like, let's dive into all your most personal. Sorry, Hanson.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's dive into all your most personal shit. And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a very bizarre world that I'm living in right now.

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<v Speaker 4>But my son is just so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>You got that going for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I had one more rude comment. I was talking to

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<v Speaker 2>my son about this. So we meet this guy who's

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<v Speaker 2>doing some work for me, and he's an older guy,

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<v Speaker 2>and we got on a conversation about how long he's

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<v Speaker 2>been doing. I said, how old are you? And he said,

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<v Speaker 2>how old do you think I am? Which is a

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<v Speaker 2>chick question. That's a rough question. That's not a dude

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<v Speaker 2>thing to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's not fair.

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<v Speaker 2>Dudes don't say that. They just tell you how old

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<v Speaker 2>they are. Chicks go with the how old do you

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<v Speaker 2>think I am, if you ask, which you shouldn't. Anyway...

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<v Speaker 2>He said, well, we're about the same age. And then

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<v Speaker 2>he said, I think we're the same age.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, boy.

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<v Speaker 2>And then when he announced his age, he told me,

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<v Speaker 2>he said, oh, I thought you were way older than that.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you ever say that to anyone ever? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not offended. But part of being in this job

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<v Speaker 2>is you get people. You just don't care. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>amused by people that say things like that. It's just like,

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<v Speaker 2>what result do you think you get from telling anybody

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<v Speaker 2>at any age? Well, maybe when they're 12, but past

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<v Speaker 2>30 that I thought you were much older than that.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for that, a-hole. It's just cluelessness. Like I'm always asking,

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<v Speaker 2>what else goes with that personality trait?

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>You would say that sort of thing to a random stranger.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>You just made their life less pleasant. What is that?

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<v Speaker 4>My mom taught me the best lesson when I was,

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<v Speaker 4>I think I was in like seventh.

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<v Speaker 2>Grade, I believe.

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<v Speaker 4>And this one chick in my class came up to

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<v Speaker 4>me and told, oh, Gladys is on point today.

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<v Speaker 3>She's on it.

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<v Speaker 4>This one chick came up to me and told me

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<v Speaker 4>that another chick in our grade didn't like me. And

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<v Speaker 4>it hurt the hell out of my feelings. I don't

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<v Speaker 4>handle confrontation well ever.

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<v Speaker 1>And I didn't then. And I was really upset. And

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<v Speaker 1>I went home and I told my mom about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And she goes, what kind of person would tell you that?

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, what kind of person would go up to you

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<v Speaker 1>and say, hey, Katie.

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<v Speaker 4>Becky doesn't like you. Like, what was that doing for her?

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<v Speaker 2>That sort of person who does that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a different kind of person, and I'm glad I

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<v Speaker 1>don't relate.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought you were much older than that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I thought, well, are you breastfeeding? You're not?

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<v Speaker 3>What? This job has been like a multi-decade training course

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<v Speaker 3>in developing a thick skin. But I have this internal

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<v Speaker 3>thing that I remember. I don't really have to try

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<v Speaker 3>to remember anymore. I have in my brain a standard

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<v Speaker 3>for whose opinion I care about even a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Your judges, as they call them in the therapy world.

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<v Speaker 3>How interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>Who are your judges in your life? Like my parents

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<v Speaker 2>are judges? A very small group after that. Very small.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's like judges, you accept that they can play

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<v Speaker 3>that role for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You care. You care what they think.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Intriguing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting. And yeah, there's a really, I have a really

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<v Speaker 3>high standard. Partly because, again, and a lot of you

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<v Speaker 3>can't relate to this, but you encounter so many people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Who want to tell you not only their opinion of

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<v Speaker 3>maybe the world, and that's always welcome, but their opinion

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<v Speaker 3>of you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>How you look.

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<v Speaker 4>Right. How you're wearing.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, by the thousands.

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<v Speaker 1>How you sound, what you say.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But y'all can do that in your life. Think about, now,

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<v Speaker 3>wait a minute. If I were to seriously consider whose

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<v Speaker 3>opinion should affect me, even a little bit, it would

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<v Speaker 3>be a select group. I've got to have known you

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<v Speaker 3>for a significant amount of time, and I have.

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<v Speaker 2>To respect you.

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<v Speaker 3>Because if I don't respect somebody, what the hell do

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<v Speaker 3>I think? But they care what they think. So I

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<v Speaker 3>hope that helps folks.

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<v Speaker 2>If there's one thing I could give... Two teenagers that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm raising is not caring what other people think that

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<v Speaker 2>you get when you're older. It just seems so ridiculous

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<v Speaker 2>to care what they think about this or that.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's part of the life thing, I guess.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm quote-unquote older, and sometimes I just get this wild

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<v Speaker 4>anxiety over nothing about something that I might have said

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<v Speaker 4>three days ago to somebody that really doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 3>It's weird. Well, I hope that fades for you a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Amen.

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<v Speaker 3>And, you know, it's also worth considering, then I'll shut up,

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<v Speaker 3>that the sort of people who would say something hurtful

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<v Speaker 3>like that little girl or the old Farger or whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>they definitely would not make that list of people you'd respect.

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<v Speaker 3>So the very act of them saying something stupid like

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<v Speaker 3>that proves that, oh, they would never be on the list.

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<v Speaker 3>So I move on with my day.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been asking the women in the office how much

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<v Speaker 2>they weigh.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice!

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<v Speaker 1>Good stuff, Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a concern for their health. Should I stop? Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>what's your BMI? Should I stop?

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<v Speaker 1>What is your arm circumference?

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<v Speaker 2>Good stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, no.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no. Well, I guess that's it. Your arm circumference.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good one.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, boy.