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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl next?

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Speaker 2: Here?

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Speaker 3: Any sugarl Dray in the call and.

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Speaker 2: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 3: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: Y'all, look about the fangirl real quick, A girl, mommy,

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Speaker 2: I am so excited. First of all, let me say

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Speaker 2: we never have guys on because we don't.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you're like, only what the third guy? We've had?

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Speaker 2: The third Mill Gates, Yes, no, the fourth it okay, yes,

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Speaker 2: So obviously if you already don't know, we have r

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Speaker 2: L from next stend up bills.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So before we get.

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Speaker 2: Into these topics and sort of just give it because

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Speaker 2: we have some young listeners they don't know.

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Speaker 4: Let me be honest. Your producer was like, what's your

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Speaker 4: name again?

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Speaker 5: But that's why I do this ship because there's somebody

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Speaker 5: that don't know me, and that's what I want to

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Speaker 5: keep No, I want to keep working until they.

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Speaker 4: Do know my name.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 4: No matter how long you've been in the game, you

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Speaker 4: gotta still go hard, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: So you know, I've written for a lot of people,

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Speaker 5: and I've recorded a lot of records in my group.

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Speaker 5: But it's all about y'all. Man, I requested to come

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Speaker 5: on here, so let's not let's not get into it.

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Speaker 3: Tell us he listened to the.

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Speaker 2: It's always crazy to I think with some people tell

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Speaker 2: us that they listen to the show because we grew up.

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Speaker 4: But the truth is you never watching. That's that's the that's.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it truly is. I'm honored because I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: But we're gonna get into that later. So Drayan, what's

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Speaker 2: been up this past week?

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Speaker 1: What you been up to? Girl?

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Speaker 3: You know, just working working out?

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Speaker 1: You know you have been Yes, I'm just so proud

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Speaker 1: of I am everybody at this type of work out

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Speaker 1: for me.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, like she got for her bikini pictures, the

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Speaker 4: third strap.

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Speaker 2: To catch me once you bostraps the body because body

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Speaker 2: his audience.

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Speaker 4: The problem is I post my daughter a lot, so

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Speaker 4: I don't see how you can go from.

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Speaker 5: So sometimes though I do, it'd be something disguised by

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Speaker 5: being a performance big.

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, well this is a good one, this was

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Speaker 1: a show.

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Speaker 2: Well, I just got back from Houston. I went out

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Speaker 2: there for a week. I had so much fun. I

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Speaker 2: got to see my family, my nephews, and honestly, like

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Speaker 2: every time I spend time with my nephews, I realize, like.

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Speaker 1: I don't want kids. I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know how I feel about Peanut. He is crazy,

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Speaker 2: So I love little Pinut.

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Speaker 1: He not is a mess. So but yeah, I got

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Speaker 1: to go home. I went on a little date. Okay,

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Speaker 1: tull us up out the day. The day was cool.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get in too much details because

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Speaker 2: I think he'd be watching it too. And we always

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Speaker 2: and we always feel like whenever we talk about guys

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Speaker 2: on the show.

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Speaker 3: Working Out, I.

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Speaker 5: Think that might be true because it's the same thing

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Speaker 5: like if you write a record about a girl, you put.

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Speaker 4: It in the video or something that's originally.

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Speaker 1: What damn, So we got talking about them on a song.

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Speaker 1: We don't say that's the reason why we ain't got

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Speaker 1: no niggas. We know the reasons and.

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Speaker 2: We know it's for other reasons. Okay, so let's go

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Speaker 2: ahead and get it to these topics. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 2: So everybody on social media has been talking about this.

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Speaker 2: It's just like the topic we all know that people

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Speaker 2: have gender wars all day online right as a man

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Speaker 2: supposed to do, what is a woman's supposed to do?

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Speaker 1: So now we have.

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Speaker 2: A married man on the show, so we can really

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Speaker 2: get a good opinion that like y'all homes don't know nothing.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know she y'all ain't married. So

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Speaker 3: now we got somebody married.

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Speaker 1: On the show period.

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Speaker 2: Is so what we want to talk about for our

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Speaker 2: first topic today is what makes a woman high value?

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Speaker 2: Because I think we've discussed, you know, what makes a

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Speaker 2: man high value to us, you know so, But I

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Speaker 2: feel like whenever we talk about like a high value man,

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Speaker 2: the first thing people always want to bring up is

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Speaker 2: munch money and that's not necessary, like the case, like

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Speaker 2: you can have all the money in the world and

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Speaker 5: Well, I think that's why a lot of niggas that

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Speaker 5: get with somebody after don't respect them like that.

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Speaker 4: I always feel like, you got to get an architect.

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Speaker 5: And what I mean by that you might not be

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Speaker 5: building it with me, but you was there when the

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Speaker 5: blueprints was out, So when you come in the house

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Speaker 5: is already built, my respect level for you ain't the same.

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Speaker 4: You got to prove yourself because think about it.

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Speaker 5: If I'm driving down the street and I see you

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Speaker 5: sold your car, you back in school. I'm gonna get

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Speaker 5: your number, I'm gonna pick you up. But if it

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Speaker 5: was a dude and you driving past, and he took

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Speaker 5: a step back, exactly, you're not some little different.

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Speaker 4: So guys are a little more guarded.

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Speaker 5: For me, well, for me, I feel like women run

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Speaker 5: the household, but men are the foundation. Half the time,

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Speaker 5: I don't know what's spent on one long is when

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Speaker 5: I opened the refrigerator.

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Speaker 4: What I want is.

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Speaker 3: The same thing.

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Speaker 2: You like that when her and my dad first got married,

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Speaker 2: he used to give her and she would just give

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Speaker 4: Because back then they go buy the or yeah it

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Speaker 4: wasn't back then.

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Speaker 5: She would save your money so you wanna go gambler

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Speaker 5: or go spend on a horse. And so she was responsible,

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Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. So it's different.

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Speaker 2: So what do you look like when you met your wife?

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Speaker 2: Like how did you know, like, okay, this is the

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Speaker 4: I have to you know what.

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Speaker 5: Truthfully, whenever there's issues, I think back to the moment.

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Speaker 5: Because my accountant stole my life savings. I lost like

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Speaker 5: was losing my crib and everything, and I felt less

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Speaker 5: than I was literally living like a drug dealer again.

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Speaker 5: Where money in the mattress? Because because because the tax

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Speaker 5: people coming at you, they don't care where your money going, right,

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Speaker 5: I was going through it, and she aim in in

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Speaker 5: my life and she knew about everything. You know, usually

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Speaker 5: you'll keep keep it away from somebody. You can make

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Speaker 5: it look like something else, right exactly when you're at

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Speaker 5: that's really what it's about.

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Speaker 4: Because y'all gonna y'all busy, y'all got careers.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna need a nigga to support that because there's

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Speaker 5: a lot of insecure niggas that's gonna be like, don't

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Speaker 5: be on there cursing, they're talking about sex.

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Speaker 2: And.

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Speaker 5: You gotta have somebody that's gonna push you to be better.

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Speaker 5: So if you ain't got money, but you got an idea,

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Speaker 5: it's gonna get money. I'm gonna put money behind you.

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Speaker 5: So in your money together, it's really about that.

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Speaker 2: So do you feel like though I just feel like,

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Speaker 2: because I'm not gonna lie told, I feel like we

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Speaker 2: have put some like put that out there. I feel

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Speaker 2: like relationships are always about money, Like everything is about money,

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Speaker 2: and I'll take partial blame for that.

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Speaker 3: Because I will take blame for that.

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Speaker 2: I don't feel like in the beginning I feel like

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Speaker 2: in the beginning stages of it's doing this show, like

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Speaker 2: especially back when he was lying down Wednesday, That's what

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Speaker 2: we talked about a lot, Like.

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Speaker 1: Nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 5: My grandmother told my Mom's just as easy to fall

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Speaker 5: in love with a rich nigga as it's a broke one.

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Speaker 4: So I understand it.

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Speaker 5: You want somebody successful, they can to uplift you two

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Speaker 4: If they don't have an idea or a way to

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Speaker 2: It ain't, It ain't, But yeah, I was saying, like

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Speaker 2: I feel like, are the way we view relationships in

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Speaker 2: a way we view dating has changed though, so now

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Speaker 2: it's not no longer all about money for us, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean, It's other stuff that we hear

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Speaker 2: about when it comes to dating, Like I want somebody

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Speaker 3: Especially now that we're making our own money.

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Speaker 1: I just want.

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Speaker 2: Somebody who respects me, and I feel like it's so

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Speaker 2: hard to find it, especially when you dating guys who

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Speaker 5: And then I feel like, yeah, well, someone the truth

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Speaker 5: that some guys use money to hide the other ugly

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Speaker 5: aspects of them. Right, So if it's all okay, If

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Speaker 4: But luckily, perfect example.

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Speaker 5: I listen to y'all, y'all have great minds, you know

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Speaker 5: what I'm saying, Poor minds, but great minds, you know.

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Speaker 5: But you know honestly, so it's a little different. So

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Speaker 5: we this nigga would be threatened by that. He would

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Speaker 5: lot of niggas just show money because that's really all

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Speaker 4: His d game ain't right. He don't know how to dress,

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Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. So it's a lot of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they also put me like the ones

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Speaker 4: There's a level of respect this sting.

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Speaker 2: I think you can tell, like when you actually meant

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Speaker 3: Like you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Definitely somebody did. I dated did a whole bunch of fucks.

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Speaker 1: I'm just laughing. I always think about him paying for

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Speaker 2: I'm but lex is really the person who kind of

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Speaker 4: So did you do her something because oh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, damn, you finished the class.

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Speaker 4: She didn't finish the class. To my guy, you wasted

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Speaker 1: My god, deal lashes off. I literally had to cut

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Speaker 3: She was like, girl at you girls.

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Speaker 2: Like I am about to be a bad bitch. That's

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Speaker 1: Gonna be done.

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Speaker 4: I had to cut them off.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let me ask you this. Now, this is

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Speaker 5: Now, to be honest, I'm gonna say this, I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: I dated a really successful music sequence.

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Speaker 5: And even was I was a little younger than her,

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Speaker 4: You know, ain't had no business. I don't mind handling business,

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Speaker 5: She says, I might not cook it, but I haven't

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Speaker 4: As long as it's made.

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Speaker 2: Would love.

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Speaker 1: How we talking.

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Speaker 4: I can handle that, but I want you to. I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we can grow together. You know, we could take

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Speaker 2: But you know what, it's crazy though, because I see

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Speaker 2: like so many men putting pressure on women to cook

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Speaker 2: and clean, like cooking and cleaning like we do that.

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Speaker 1: We all have to eat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like they put like that's the

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Speaker 2: only thing, that's the main thing that makes somebody a

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Speaker 2: good person. It's like you can come home to somebody

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Speaker 2: with a full soul food on the table, how spotless.

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Speaker 1: But y'all don't have that connection. She can cook women.

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Speaker 5: Women are against being domesticated at some point now like

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Speaker 5: generation of women that I ain't gonna be doing this.

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Speaker 1: Hey ma, youee what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: So that's I think that's the issue.

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Speaker 5: I think a lot of guys want a woman kind

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Speaker 5: of like their mom, and a lot of these girls,

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Speaker 5: not everyone, but a lot of them didn't have that

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Speaker 5: male figure to see how a healthy couple interacts, so

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Speaker 2: I'm all about balance though, like I think it should

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Speaker 4: It should be too groceries you cook them.

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Speaker 2: In my household, like growing up in my household, growing

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Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna lie like, that's what I'll be

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Speaker 1: looking forward with it.

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Speaker 5: Cause that's that's different. That's that's what you're that's the

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Speaker 5: that's the blueprint.

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Speaker 4: I respect that I get.

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Speaker 5: Example, my wife with technology, she done got lazy when

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Speaker 4: I learned to bring them in the house and set

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Speaker 4: them on the counter. I'll bring them in that.

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Speaker 1: Right, that's fair.

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Speaker 2: But like I said, because honestly, in my past relationship

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Speaker 2: barbecue all this. He was like a barbecue person. I

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Speaker 1: I would cook.

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Speaker 2: But that was like bonding stuff for us. Like I

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Speaker 1: Like you know, I used to put.

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Speaker 2: On my little apron to get you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna hook it up. Now, I'm gonna hook it up.

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Speaker 1: Don't really be lying because she can low key cooked.

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Speaker 2: It was funny because we went out to eat the

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Speaker 2: but it wasn't great. He was like, I know, you

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Speaker 3: She had made some possible was that we had a

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Speaker 4: You didn't know.

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Speaker 1: I ain't been for no reason.

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Speaker 2: No, Lynx really can cook starting stuff. Let she like

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Speaker 2: some bomb, a little chili, and no, my chili is

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Speaker 4: You don't cook.

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Speaker 3: The thing is, though, I don't want to lead whenever

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Speaker 2: When I first meet a guy and they're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: not about to lead with that. Like we need to

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Speaker 5: To see how I do this, how you're gonna treat you.

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Speaker 5: A dude wants to see the same thing. He want

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Speaker 5: to be like, okay, she can cook too. Like when

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Speaker 5: watch this when you when y'all need a dude. At

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Speaker 5: the first thing, when your girl be like, well, tell

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Speaker 4: That mean he ain't got nothing else to offer.

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Speaker 5: If it's he is so nice, he was so sweet,

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Speaker 5: guys come to me and I'm like, man, she thinks

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Speaker 4: And that's the first thing I'm talking.

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Speaker 3: About that.

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Speaker 1: I need to change myself because I'm always let paid

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Speaker 1: with the big titties. I need to work on that.

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Speaker 2: Goddamn it, because that just made me think, say, exactly, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, I got some.

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Speaker 1: But no, I do think that's right.

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Speaker 2: But like I said, sometimes I feel like a lot

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Speaker 2: of times guys are looking for expectations. I don't want

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Speaker 2: be in mind I'm not coming to your house right

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Speaker 1: You're not coming to my house right off the gate.

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Speaker 5: So you're talking about a couple of weeks in because truthfully,

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Speaker 4: Sometimes that women will be like, oh, you wanted one thing.

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Speaker 5: No I got that and that wasn't good enough, so

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to see nothing else. Things happened just

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Speaker 5: and you're like two pumps, like it was ketch up

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Speaker 3: Now, he right, because I mean we kind of talked

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Speaker 2: We were saying, like, you know, if you have six

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Speaker 2: what I mean, it needs to be other components of

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Speaker 2: guess it's just like now everything is sped up, and

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Speaker 2: I know I'm that person Like when I date somebody,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, like let's what we're doing, Like let's

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Speaker 3: Now I'm like, what we doing?

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Speaker 1: Like what are we doing? You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes.

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Speaker 2: Things are a little rushed, you know, like people don't

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Speaker 2: So sometimes I'll cut somebody off and it's like I

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Speaker 1: But I just feel like I've been hurt.

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Speaker 4: So much and looking for a reason. You're looking for

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Speaker 4: a reason, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Because I now I see a red flag and I'm gone.

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Speaker 2: I used to like see a red flag like you

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Speaker 2: be that girl that ride it up.

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Speaker 1: You will see a ref.

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Speaker 5: You had it down for the wrong niggas, so then

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Speaker 5: not the right one can come along and then y'all right.

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Speaker 1: I'm fucked up all round. I'm fucked up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hard here. I be feeling the same way

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Speaker 3: like I'm always just looking for a reason.

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Speaker 1: One red flag, I'm gone, like literally literally.

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Speaker 5: You know what, put a little more efford in, just

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Speaker 5: try it one time, like I understand, it might backfire.

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Speaker 5: Y'all might be looking for me like you got to

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Speaker 5: come back on the show, nigga, so you're.

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Speaker 4: Done for it.

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Speaker 5: But honestly, sometime a nigga gonna suck up sometimes at

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Speaker 1: So what does effort from a woman look like?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, patience, understanding, teach me if I if I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know, But that just sounds like I'm doing and you

447
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Speaker 1: need to forgive.

448
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Speaker 4: I just say sheet and I ain't say nothing like that.

449
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Speaker 3: But not necessarily cheating, but just period and think that

450
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Speaker 3: you can't do in front.

451
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Speaker 1: Of me is cheating the way?

452
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Speaker 4: Are y'all together or y'all just feeling each other out.

453
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454
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455
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456
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457
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458
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459
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465
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466
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467
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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

468
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Speaker 4: I'm about to get my little language on.

469
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470
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474
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475
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Speaker 2: price of three.

476
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Speaker 1: So don't ever say I ain't never gave y'all nothing.

477
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Speaker 2: So whenever y'all go to France and y'all speaking the language,

478
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Speaker 2: make sure you say we.

479
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Speaker 1: We lexp okay, no time the appetites come out? Who else?

480
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Speaker 1: Now you mind?

481
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Speaker 5: Wait not wait what happened to? If I have to cook,

482
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Speaker 5: I gotta be in your space in my cc y'all giving.

483
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Speaker 2: For me. Once we're in a relationship, like we solidified, okay,

484
00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 2: we're together, so that when we have a conversation and

485
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Speaker 2: you like, okay, that's what for me, that that's what

486
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Speaker 2: it is.

487
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Speaker 1: I would never I would never.

488
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Speaker 2: Jump to the conclusion that just because me and a

489
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Speaker 2: man are spending a lot of time together and we're

490
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Speaker 2: hanging out all the time and we having a good time.

491
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Speaker 2: I would never jump to the conclusion and assume we're

492
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Speaker 2: together without you telling me like, hey, I want us

493
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Speaker 2: to be in a relationship.

494
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Speaker 3: I want us to be exclusive if.

495
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Speaker 4: You're if you're both single, though, and and he put

496
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Speaker 4: his mouth on it and doing all I'm saying like

497
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Speaker 4: sometimes a guy.

498
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Speaker 2: Right, your generation was a little different. These niggas be

499
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Speaker 2: putting their mouth, phone, everything.

500
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Speaker 4: Hell on each other. That's like the let me some

501
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Speaker 4: women have been with girls, That's why I said that.

502
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Speaker 4: But you never, but you never more than three?

503
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Speaker 1: No, three or four. I just have line. Okay, I'm

504
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Speaker 1: talking this topic.

505
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Speaker 2: What are like the three main things that you feel

506
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Speaker 2: like men look for in a wife Like that makes

507
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Speaker 2: a woman havegh value?

508
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Speaker 5: Aggression because when a woman is aggressive and she knows

509
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 5: what she wants and she's aggressive towards me, that makes

510
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:40,800
Speaker 5: me feel special. Okay, Patience. I want to feel different. Okay,

511
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,080
Speaker 5: perfect example. If I know a dude, maybe we're not guys,

512
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 5: but he has been with you. I needed I need

513
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 5: to get another whole. Something got to be different. I

514
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 5: gotta feel special. So something gonna make me feel special.

515
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Speaker 5: That's the second thing. Number three. I'm gonna try to success.

516
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 5: Not necessarily you gotta be having paper, but you gotta

517
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Speaker 5: be on your way.

518
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Speaker 1: To something all the time, all the time, all the time.

519
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Speaker 1: Like we feel like bad. Be's like men that have

520
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Speaker 1: they shit together. They don't.

521
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Speaker 2: Nobody who don't have they knowing? Well, not necessarily like

522
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 2: you said, they don't. You don't have to be rich,

523
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Speaker 2: but you have to have ambition, you're doing something. You're

524
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 2: not just waiting on him to come home and give

525
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Speaker 2: you money to go do whatever. You know what I'm saying, No, absolutely,

526
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Speaker 2: I agree because we talked about this before too. I

527
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Speaker 2: just said that, like basically, I don't know. I feel

528
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Speaker 2: like men don't care how much money. Like real men

529
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Speaker 2: don't care how much money you're making. They just care

530
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Speaker 2: if you're on the way to doing something, or if

531
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Speaker 2: you have plans and you have ambition. Only type of

532
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Speaker 2: niggas they care about how much money you really bringing

533
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Speaker 2: in this niggas they're trying to get your money, getting

534
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Speaker 2: your pockey.

535
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Speaker 4: That's I mean, sometimes that's true.

536
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Speaker 1: But honestly, do you feel like it's an age woman

537
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Speaker 1: on that?

538
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Speaker 5: I say no, because once you get to a certain

539
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Speaker 5: point in like, you do have to have certain things

540
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Speaker 5: in your own Because I'm in my forty So if

541
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Speaker 5: you just starting on something that's like a nigga come

542
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Speaker 5: to you.

543
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Speaker 4: I'm a rapper, I'm forty. It's not don't work.

544
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Speaker 3: So there's plenty of them in Atlanta.

545
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Speaker 4: You do what in good luck with that.

546
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 5: But if it's a woman and she's more in my

547
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,400
Speaker 5: age breaking and she's just starting something. I mean, I'm

548
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Speaker 5: supportive of it, but I don't know if I can

549
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Speaker 5: invest myself like that in that because what you've been.

550
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Speaker 1: Doing for the past twenty some years, unless you know,

551
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Speaker 1: a lot.

552
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Speaker 4: Of women had kids and they starting over.

553
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Speaker 3: So I respect that.

554
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Speaker 5: But if it's a situation where you've just been bullshiting

555
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Speaker 5: and now you're like, you meet me and you swop

556
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Speaker 5: me down, you motivated me, don't believe it, right, No.

557
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Speaker 1: I definitely agree. That's why I said, Doe.

558
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Speaker 2: I feel like because I'm honestly a person where I

559
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Speaker 2: feel like age is not a factor on a lot

560
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Speaker 2: of things.

561
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Speaker 1: I've always been that person.

562
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Speaker 2: Well, no, I'm an opposite, yeah, because I feel like

563
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Speaker 2: I'm turning thirty two in August, like I really was

564
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Speaker 2: like spending like the first like ten years of me

565
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Speaker 2: being an adult, like trying to figure out what I.

566
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Speaker 4: Wanted to do.

567
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Speaker 2: Like I knew what I was good at, but I

568
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, I'm kind of good at this,

569
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 2: so let me try this deal right now. Then I'm

570
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 2: kind of good at that. And it's like so now

571
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Speaker 2: that I'm thirty, I'm like, Okay, I'm here, this is

572
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 2: what I'm good at this is what I want to do.

573
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Speaker 2: So I do try to give people a little, you know,

574
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Speaker 2: a little bit of leeway and a little bit of space.

575
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Speaker 2: But like he said, it's different because if I meet

576
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Speaker 2: a forty year old nigga, he talking about he rapping

577
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Speaker 2: or he just that's that's a little.

578
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Speaker 1: Will I mean.

579
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Speaker 2: And I think it's a little different too because it's like, yeah,

580
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Speaker 2: you kind of just not getting into their space, even

581
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 2: with you being thirty two, but you always and know

582
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 2: what you wanted to do. And I feel like ever

583
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 2: since you've moved out here, you always were still making

584
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,119
Speaker 2: strides towards them, you know what I mean, Even when

585
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 2: you still had your nine to five job and you

586
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 2: were still working, you still was always doing this on

587
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Speaker 2: the side because this is what you were, you know,

588
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 2: passionate about business.

589
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Speaker 5: And some business some be a product of like investing

590
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Speaker 5: in the wrong dude and you wake up one day

591
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Speaker 5: part of your life is going. So I do want

592
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Speaker 5: to put that out there because sometimes if you have ideas,

593
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 5: like you know what you wanted.

594
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Speaker 4: To do, if you had a real nigga that was

595
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Speaker 4: around you push you towards that.

596
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Speaker 5: Who said you wouldn't have been doing it before because

597
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Speaker 5: if I'm not mistaken, didn't somebody inspire you to go

598
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Speaker 5: ahead and.

599
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Speaker 4: Go after it?

600
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Speaker 2: Right?

601
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

602
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Speaker 2: Like that's what my ex was that street the Street

603
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Speaker 2: Watch my ex was on. We gonna name the episode

604
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Speaker 2: the street Watch because my ex actually gave us the

605
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,119
Speaker 2: idea from Wendy. But my ex that I was with

606
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Speaker 2: right before I was, he told me straight up, he

607
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 2: was like, what there ain't no money in media, ain't

608
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 2: no money in that.

609
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:20,159
Speaker 1: Why do you want to do that?

610
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 2: Even my ex look at her now, and the one

611
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 2: when she first moved here that she met through me,

612
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Speaker 2: Shame on you, Shame on me. On him was even

613
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 2: crazier when I was in a relationship and he's in media,

614
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Speaker 2: in the entertainment.

615
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Speaker 4: Well, that's why he didn't want you.

616
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Speaker 1: Happy about it. He hated this show, He hated everything probable.

617
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Speaker 3: But why do you feel like he wouldn't want her

618
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Speaker 3: to do it?

619
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Speaker 4: Okay?

620
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Speaker 5: When I met my wife, she was an executive at

621
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Speaker 5: the bank, right, Okay, and now she's an executive at

622
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Speaker 5: the airlines. But she has a social media presence. A

623
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Speaker 5: lot of her friends, you know what I'm saying. Even

624
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 5: my daughter has a big social media process.

625
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Speaker 1: That's why and I come from a time where it

626
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Speaker 1: was it.

627
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Speaker 4: Was only like planning and we was putting it in

628
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Speaker 4: like the area code to meet chicks.

629
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 2: That was it.

630
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 4: It wasn't my it was nothing. I don't want to

631
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 4: date myself. But that's really what it is, or what

632
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 4: it was.

633
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 2: Now.

634
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 4: I literally have to remind myself to take pictures.

635
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,119
Speaker 5: You go to a concert, everybody instead of enjoying theirself,

636
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 5: they taping it so it didn't pay. It got So

637
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 5: there's a disconnect, there's a disconnecting. The age different. She's

638
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 5: thirty seven, you know, I'm forty four, and even in

639
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,359
Speaker 5: that small time, she always want to take pictures.

640
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have to get used to that. So that's

641
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 4: part of it. So some dudes would be like and

642
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 4: even me, I had to learn because I wanted the

643
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 4: girl from the bank. I didn't want the one that's.

644
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 1: On these shows.

645
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Speaker 2: And I will say I was his first girlfriend. That

646
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 2: was like I had a social media presence. You know,

647
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 2: people kind of knew, they didn't know who I was.

648
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 2: Like now, but you know what I'm saying, Like he

649
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 2: hated it, but I have a question. It's like you

650
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 2: hated it, but you don't never feel like because of you.

651
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 3: That's why. Partially why like, don't tell her that I'm saying.

652
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 5: To an extent, I think that the people I introduced

653
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Speaker 5: her to or she was privy to be around because

654
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 5: you're in certain circles. I'm the opposite. I don't like clubs,

655
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 5: I don't like crowds. I keep my ass in the house.

656
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 5: But a lot of that is because I've been around

657
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 5: a lot of niggas in a lot of situations where

658
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 5: I'm like, you know what, this ain't for me, So

659
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 5: I'm protective.

660
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 4: My biggest thing is worry because I've seen situations where people.

661
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 5: Might have betrayed her people She thought she was friends

662
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 5: with them, her friends like she thought, and I really

663
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 5: was about protecting her, But you gotta let people live there.

664
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Speaker 3: Do you feel like you had your moment or whatever,

665
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Speaker 3: and it's like you want to let her.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So this next topic I wanted to talk about

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Speaker 2: because this is my problem when I'm.

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Speaker 1: In a relationship.

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Speaker 3: I first of all, this is my problem too.

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Speaker 2: I ain't she Now I take things a little further

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Speaker 2: than you, but I feel like this is my problem

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Speaker 2: in general.

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Speaker 1: Okay, outside of relation.

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Speaker 2: So we want to talk to talk about being attracted

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Speaker 2: to someone outside of your relationship now.

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Speaker 4: Not necessarily, Yeah, I got you.

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Speaker 2: You know, I feel like it's I can't even like

722
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Speaker 2: when I get on Instagram and I'm not even a lesbian.

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Speaker 2: I'm not attracted to women, but it's so fine ass bitches.

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Speaker 2: So I'll be like, how can I expect for a man.

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Speaker 1: To be like I got this?

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Speaker 5: Well, the truth is I met some bad women and

727
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Speaker 5: as dumb as hell, So it's a lot of what

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Speaker 5: I do is my trick is to try to look

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Speaker 5: for the flaw. Because I got like a little guy

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Speaker 5: group where we be sending text and she'd be like,

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Speaker 5: I know you send into some chakes or something, and

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Speaker 5: I do, but I can admire respectfully. I'm not trying

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Speaker 5: to be, you know, on your message box, like trying

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Speaker 5: to holler nothing because truthfully, I feel sorry for y'all

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Speaker 5: because for me, if I got caught, if there were

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Speaker 5: camera phones and social media out back when I started,

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Speaker 5: I'd be dadder in jail.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna keep it one hundred real.

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Speaker 2: So now.

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Speaker 4: Listen, I was missed a butter so now every he

741
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Speaker 4: thinks tape.

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Speaker 5: And it used to be like if you knew a

743
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Speaker 5: dude had somebody, it was like you know this between us.

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Speaker 5: Now she's like yeah, bit ch'all had your man and yeah,

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Speaker 5: yeah tell So it's a whole different games. That's why

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Speaker 5: I don't be in the dms at all.

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Speaker 2: You will get you there, right, sigg And that's what

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Speaker 2: I feel like though, because I feel like you're very

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Speaker 2: different from most men in the industry. Absolute because if

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Speaker 2: we showed you our DMS right now, you'll be like, wait, yeah,

751
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Speaker 2: mar he married, he got a girl.

752
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Speaker 1: He got a girl. Because niggas be caring.

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Speaker 2: Was that you admire with respect from a distance. Niggas

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Speaker 2: is not admiring from a distance. They won't you, they

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Speaker 2: don't care.

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Speaker 5: But a lot of times, be honest, when they do

757
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Speaker 5: DM you they leading with paper. Because I got a

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Speaker 5: guy now school with and I know this photographer. He's

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Speaker 5: really big and he runs a lot of these girls

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Speaker 5: social media, and I was like, yeah, my guy, you know,

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Speaker 5: blah blah. He's like man, he was just in the

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Speaker 5: DM sonch just offering ten bands and I was like,

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Speaker 5: I mean, but you.

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Speaker 3: Gotta lead with paper if you married, because that's all

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Speaker 3: that's all.

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Speaker 1: I don't like.

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Speaker 2: If you're a woman, yeah we're not condoning it, but

768
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Speaker 2: it's like, if you're a smart woman.

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Speaker 3: If that's what you're gonna do, want.

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Speaker 2: To marry a man, the only thing that's beneficial would

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Speaker 2: be money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're not about to be with you.

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Speaker 3: So it's like, it's y'all, it's not about to leave y'all, wife,

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Speaker 3: we know, we already know exactly.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: And if you do and then you end up with me,

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Speaker 3: you're gonna do the same thing to me.

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Speaker 5: I agree somewhat, but that's not always true. Because my

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Speaker 5: grandfather ended up marrying his nephews. His no and not

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Speaker 5: a side peace, but his nephew's was like some crazy

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Speaker 5: Now the age was probably closer, but it's like you

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Speaker 5: never know with these older cats, relationship really happened.

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Speaker 4: Some people was shocking or moving around. And that's why

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Speaker 4: you hear about country folks having kids across the streets,

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Speaker 4: ship like that.

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Speaker 3: This family story my family, big big tea.

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Speaker 2: Yes, But I do feel like because I feel like

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Speaker 2: the main thing that's wrong with relationships is people get

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Speaker 2: in relationships and feel like their partner belongs yeah, and

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Speaker 2: they can't have a life outside of them. Like I

791
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Speaker 2: want you to go out with your boys and have

792
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Speaker 2: a good time. If you find somebody attractive, that's cool.

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Speaker 2: But see, men don't know how to not cross that line.

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Speaker 1: But I do feel that way.

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Speaker 2: I feel like men don't know how to not cross

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Speaker 2: that line, because that's what I was saying. I was

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Speaker 2: saying that I feel like my issue is I'm a flirt.

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Speaker 2: Like I flirt alike. So I feel like once I

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Speaker 2: thought Dred like me for like four months when we

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Speaker 2: first be had friends.

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Speaker 4: I was like, why you thought kiss on the shore?

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Speaker 1: Yesterday we went out, you kissed me before you got

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Speaker 1: out the uber. I'm gonna tell you about that line.

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Speaker 1: You show you a wet one on me. It ain't

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Speaker 1: just Swiss.

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Speaker 2: But no, yes, I'm a flirt and I feel like

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Speaker 2: I do it unintentionally, so I be sometimes still like

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Speaker 2: when I get married, that's.

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Speaker 1: Gonna be an issue. You're married, it will.

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Speaker 5: But it's not like I can wear this, but I'm

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Speaker 5: not gonna if that's what I was trying to do.

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Speaker 5: It's not even about paper. Sometimes a girl is like,

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Speaker 5: I want the D but I don't want the problem, so.

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Speaker 1: And go home.

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Speaker 5: Yeah they like, okay, oh good, he got something to

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Speaker 5: really pay attention to you. I ain't gotta cook and

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Speaker 5: I gotta do this.

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Speaker 4: I just need my back blown. I just need some conversation.

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Speaker 3: Fee boom, now go.

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Speaker 4: So it ain't always about papers.

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Speaker 1: Because I need I can't mess with nobody married because

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Speaker 1: it's like you got too much one on what ship?

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Speaker 1: This ain't about me right now? What's up y'all?

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Speaker 3: Is your girl lex Peed and this is your girls

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Speaker 3: Dred in the Cold, and we got a.

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Speaker 2: Big announcement, y'all. Y'all gonna be so excited. It's going up.

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Speaker 4: Friends.

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Speaker 3: I'm excited they finally get to come turn up with

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Speaker 3: us and our city.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so our friend Orlando from the Harder Soft podcast

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Speaker 2: is teaming up with the guys of Burgers and Bottles

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Speaker 2: to take the biggest barbecue party in New York City

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Speaker 2: on tour. They already came to Atlanta and now they're

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Speaker 2: going to our hometown and so y'all know we have

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Speaker 2: to be a part of this and turn up with y'all.

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Speaker 2: So it's actually a weekend full of events Friday, Saturday,

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Speaker 2: and Sunday.

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Speaker 1: So Friday kicks off with the Bottle Wars. So the

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Speaker 1: bdb's gonna be in the building and it's gonna be lit. Now.

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Speaker 3: Saturday that's the event.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be at Burgers and Bottles. Yes, the Burgers

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Speaker 2: and Bottles event. They're gonna have chefs from all over

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be drinking. It's gonna be lit.

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Speaker 2: So make sure y'all come see us on Saturday and

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Speaker 2: then also on Sunday having an all white bunch events. Right,

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Speaker 2: So if y'all want to go have brunch on Sunday,

848
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Speaker 2: y'all can do that as well. So make sure y'all

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Speaker 2: follow Burgers and Bottles on Twitter and Instagram to get

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Speaker 2: all your updates. Make sure y'all get y'all tickets because

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be lit, and we'll see y'all on Saturday,

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Speaker 2: y'all there, y'all. All I'm saying is, though, No, I

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Speaker 2: do feel like people need to understand that people don't

854
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Speaker 2: belong to you another dilly, And that was the whole

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Speaker 2: point of it, because I feel like that's when relationships

856
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Speaker 2: get boring, when it's just you and that person all

857
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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 1: Y'all don't have no friends outside of.

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Speaker 2: Each other, likenigga feel like if you look at a girl,

860
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Speaker 2: you're gonna slap the ship out of the vice versa.

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Speaker 1: It's like people be.

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Speaker 3: Fine, but it also goes into not being a jelly

863
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Speaker 3: spouse too.

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Speaker 2: I feel like like I'm not really a Jelly's person

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Speaker 2: when he comes to being in relationships.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not.

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Speaker 4: Either, Like it depends on what kind of dude you're dating, though, right, yeah,

868
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Speaker 4: think about.

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Speaker 2: It, Yeah, because I don't like thirsty niggas though, Like

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Speaker 2: if I'm dating somebody and I see you under somebody's picture,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: That turns me off.

873
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Speaker 2: But to me, that goes with boundaries, like you gotta

874
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 2: know when you crossing certain boundary line. But we're in

875
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Speaker 2: a relationship, why would you be coming under look.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she could be but naked, but I might

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Speaker 4: like her here.

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Speaker 2: Because now, well, I'll say this, I don't mind a

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Speaker 2: guy i'm dating liking pictures.

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Speaker 1: But once you start comment, like I told y'all found

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Speaker 1: rapper icicles and ship on the bitches, cau I said,

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Speaker 1: what the ice sickle mean? We all three call what's up?

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up?

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Speaker 2: You know?

885
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 4: What's like that kids not getting out the uber?

886
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: Figure out what the hell going on? Because why you comment?

887
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 2: You can like pictures all that, like either, but once

888
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 2: you start leaving comments that means you had to take.

889
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 4: Your phone out. Well, no, I know, I got you.

890
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 5: I said show off. I said show off under a comment.

891
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 5: I'm like, because it was the homie. I'm like, look

892
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 5: at you're trying to show up. Tell Lena that it's

893
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 5: different ship.

894
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: Last time. That ship. Fuck that ship. Don't do it.

895
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:33,479
Speaker 2: You don't unless it's like a really like platonic relationship. Cool,

896
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,760
Speaker 2: but if I don't know her, don't leave no comments

897
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: under it.

898
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 1: I agree, I don't know the girl at all.

899
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 3: If I know that that show friend, and I know

900
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 3: you'll man around.

901
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 5: What if she's coming under your pictures like, oh, y'all

902
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 5: look so cute together, I want to meet her.

903
00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:47,240
Speaker 2: The main.

904
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't have did that fall like girl, y'all

905
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 3: cute and ended up later we.

906
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 1: D already.

907
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 3: I definitely used to be playing.

908
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 1: Yes you, and my friend was like, well, oh sorry,

909
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:15,919
Speaker 1: look at this is the one girl right? All right,

910
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: all right, we're telling all I did.

911
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 2: I did, but in my defense, I had found out

912
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 2: she was fraud remember, like she was gonna have afterwards?

913
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: No she did.

914
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 3: LE used to be like, I don't know that was

915
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 3: something weird about her all.

916
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: The story because I was showing that's crazy because the

917
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: girl pulled me to the time.

918
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 4: She was like you ready to do this?

919
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 1: I said no, she would never do.

920
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 4: You like that girl old time she was the one

921
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 4: you like that doing him like that.

922
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 3: I was doing all of them like that. It was

923
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 3: a very misty time.

924
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 2: And if it's okay to be in a relationship and

925
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: be attracted to someone else, as long as you don't

926
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 2: cross that line.

927
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, the attraction got to be like surface, like you

928
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 5: could be attracted to their looks, but you don't know them,

929
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 5: so you don't really know what the rest of them offer.

930
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 5: You can be like, oh, she looks not you can

931
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 5: appreciate not necessarily a tract because to be a tract

932
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:21,280
Speaker 5: that you have to pay attention.

933
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 4: So I can admire. Okay, she got some nice cities. Okay, boom,

934
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 4: let me move back up.

935
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 5: That was enough, right, because once you go down the matrix,

936
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 5: it's over because then I remember that was a time

937
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 5: where I see a girl in the magazine or.

938
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 4: In a movie.

939
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:41,760
Speaker 5: Like yo, you're talking about the calendars, like yo, listen

940
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 5: page fifty six, Yeah.

941
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,720
Speaker 1: Deliver them not the male order coaches.

942
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 4: I mean, this is you know, this is you know,

943
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 4: and it was just different times, you know what I'm saying.

944
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 2: I always wonder she worked back in the day, like

945
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 2: before it's you wanted to get in contact with you.

946
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: I am danced, so you had a personal get it Okay.

947
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 4: My video from I got Me out of video, I

948
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,799
Speaker 4: had a girl named Nicna Ring.

949
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: She was like, oh we.

950
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 5: Jermaine tried to steal it from me on the video,

951
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 5: but she was she was. We hung out and I

952
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 5: made the call like YO, put her in the video

953
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 5: with me because I remember she was like one of

954
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 5: the only black PLAYMN beautiful. Yeah yeah, I mean she

955
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,320
Speaker 5: was beautiful on the outside.

956
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 4: Yeah let me it's nice person. Ye know, she cool

957
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 4: you know J. And next I looked up Ja had

958
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 4: her award show.

959
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 2: I was like.

960
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 5: That was sir, Yeah, but I couldn't be mad at

961
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 5: it though, like I understood, like she graduated that roster.

962
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: He Jenny, Yeah a roster okay, he was, But that's

963
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: christ because we were just talking about her because we

964
00:40:59,440 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: love her.

965
00:40:59,760 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 2: She was.

966
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: She was in mine first I had first period and

967
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: got it.

968
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 4: I'm hit you with the ray J.

969
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 2: So the video that's crazy so y'all literally had to

970
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 2: look at magazines.

971
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 4: And be like, usually it would be like, you know,

972
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,760
Speaker 4: casting as usual. But if there was something that I really.

973
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: You would like hall at girls through casting them in

974
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:29,959
Speaker 1: your video.

975
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 5: No, not even not necessarily that, because it's not always

976
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 5: about that. Like I get example, we just shot a video.

977
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 5: I didn't know they already cast it, but I wanted

978
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 5: somebody brown skinned because I think that's eat. I'm just

979
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,319
Speaker 5: getting example now. So I reached out because I really

980
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 5: know I wanted the beauty. I wanted something that wasn't

981
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 5: the usual always in the videos. So I know if

982
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 5: it was going through a casting agency, that's what it

983
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 5: would have been. But it was already cast. There are

984
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 5: situations where it's just like that. You can see somebody

985
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 5: like okay on camera or be I'm trying.

986
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 4: To smash so I'm right, your call her so she

987
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 4: could be in the video. Yeah, shooting two days, that

988
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,799
Speaker 4: means we around each other all the time for two days.

989
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:09,320
Speaker 4: You give me six hours.

990
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: So I am sure I would have been at all

991
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: the videos video. Now, don't get it twisted out. This

992
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: is a video vincing you wasn't a little baby video.

993
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:26,920
Speaker 3: I don't agree.

994
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: You are never gonna say it was video.

995
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,800
Speaker 3: Zero video, but good luck finding the video because it

996
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 3: was the video for he blew.

997
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: I know that's right. I know I'm wanting to google it.

998
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 1: As soon as I got home, I was in a

999
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: little bad I was. I've been in a few videos.

1000
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 3: I'm not talking about it something the same personal.

1001
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:50,640
Speaker 1: Video you was in here that they found video?

1002
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 4: Are you straight straight? Texas? I got you.

1003
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 2: She was coming out there water and were talking about

1004
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 2: this one more time. I told y'all that flooded the listeners.

1005
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 2: When it flooded, the flooded the comments on that video.

1006
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: I was like, I know here, like who the TB?

1007
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: It's p roll anyway, Okay, get into bow wow bow Okay,

1008
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: go ahead, girls, y'all. What's up y'all?

1009
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 2: Is your girl XP and it's Sugarl Dray and the

1010
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,839
Speaker 2: cold and it's some new merch in this thing.

1011
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:31,919
Speaker 1: So y'all, we have dropped the new merch for y'all.

1012
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 2: I know y'all love bd B University, So y'all all

1013
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 2: need to make sure y'all can roll and get y'all

1014
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 2: mark period. So we have the little crop tops BDIB University.

1015
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 2: Poor mindes on the white crop. And then we have

1016
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 2: the Unix shirt over here that looks just like the

1017
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 2: honey BDB University poor mine period.

1018
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 1: Yes, And the thing I love about this crop.

1019
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 2: Is you can wear it with the uh oh yeah

1020
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 2: you could, so you could wear the crop crop the

1021
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 2: yellow mind Yeah, the yellow swizzer pan. And and these

1022
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 2: are super super stretchy, so if you're top heavy like

1023
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 2: I am, you can definitely fit a large yeah, because

1024
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,360
Speaker 2: I know we got a few comments about like people like, oh,

1025
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 2: y'all don't have excel and to excel, but I promise

1026
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 2: like these are super super stretchy, so think I can

1027
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 2: squeeze my I can squeeze my tiny ass in a medium.

1028
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 2: Think definitely fit the medium. So yes, make sure that

1029
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:26,320
Speaker 2: child copies buy poor minds dot com. This b y

1030
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:30,280
Speaker 2: pou are in my nbs and go ahead a copy shirts.

1031
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 2: And if you're a Patreon member if you not want already,

1032
00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 2: if you want to join, you get a little discount

1033
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 2: on the merge.

1034
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,839
Speaker 1: So check it out, y'all.

1035
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 2: SOO, let me tell you so, y'all know we've been

1036
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 2: taking to Maya's sex classes cut off to Samaya really sexual, Yes,

1037
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 2: and it has just I'm actually shocked because I feel

1038
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 2: like sometimes people be like, oh do this, do this,

1039
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 2: and you do don't work.

1040
00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 4: It don't work.

1041
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 1: But like I've literally seen a difference. So I actually

1042
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 1: ordered him egg Okay, is that what it's called?

1043
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 2: Yon egg So actually, like you can use the Yoni

1044
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 2: eggs for exercise because I know we all do our

1045
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 2: kegels right, right, So if you don't know what.

1046
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: Kegles do, it basically tighten that thing up. Now, yeah,

1047
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:18,399
Speaker 1: so y'all know, God feel strong. So I started using

1048
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: the Yoni eggs.

1049
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: Now.

1050
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 3: She said it's better to get one without the string.

1051
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 1: I didn't trust it. I was just skinned.

1052
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 3: So you got one with a string.

1053
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,280
Speaker 2: I got one with the string becausekay, but you're supposed

1054
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 2: to like insert it, do your kegels and then like.

1055
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: Spit it out.

1056
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 3: So I don't have any Yoni eggs.

1057
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: I don't.

1058
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 3: I just have like the being the being wa balls.

1059
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 3: But I talked about those.

1060
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're on the show, so that's something that I've

1061
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 2: already been using for a long time. And she talks

1062
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,359
Speaker 2: about it on you know, in her class, and then

1063
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 2: she put us on the Yonie eggs and I actually

1064
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 2: want to order one out to I'm kind of in

1065
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 2: the crystals and stuff.

1066
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 1: And that's it.

1067
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 2: And that's what I was about to say. So she

1068
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 2: talks about like looking into like what crystals you want?

1069
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 2: You wanted to cleanse you, if you wanted to bring

1070
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 2: you happiness, sir, money or whatever or love or whatever

1071
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 2: you want.

1072
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,280
Speaker 1: So I love a good crystal.

1073
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 3: Hun So which one did you order?

1074
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 2: I ordered the one that's for love the court. Yes, okay,

1075
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 2: because babe, this pussing needs some love now. Yeah, But

1076
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 2: like I said, I was scared to do it without

1077
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,359
Speaker 2: the string. I think i'm eventually because I don't use

1078
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:17,760
Speaker 2: the string.

1079
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 3: Okay, so you know, you just push it out, I know, but.

1080
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: I'll be scared because gond Field be hungry now she

1081
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: don't eat that much. Now, she ain't had a meal

1082
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:28,839
Speaker 1: in the wall sauce.

1083
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 2: Like, let me tell this little strings, So I think

1084
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to like I changed the string every time.

1085
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:34,759
Speaker 1: I just saw like a little string that I just

1086
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: had at my house or whatever. But yeah, I feel

1087
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 1: like it works. I feel like let little pussy got

1088
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: some powe on it. Now.

1089
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, do a little squats. If

1090
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 2: you can do a squat keep you. You know that,

1091
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 2: I'm just saying. She tells you the techniques that you're

1092
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 2: supposed to do.

1093
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:55,240
Speaker 3: Yes, I definitely feel like the class is very useful.

1094
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 3: You know, we love the class.

1095
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 2: I also took the Mouth Master class, but she talks

1096
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 2: about even though I've been in Mouth and mass.

1097
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 3: Okay, it didn't give me.

1098
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 2: It didn't give me some more tips, you know what

1099
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 2: I mean. So I feel like the Mouth Master class

1100
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 2: was great. So was the Dick Riding class. Now that's

1101
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 2: what I needed some lessons in because I be getting

1102
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:16,280
Speaker 2: tied my knee.

1103
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Speaker 1: It's my knees.

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Speaker 2: I told you I got the rice Crispy knees. So

1105
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Speaker 2: that class was very useful for me, and I think y'all.

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Speaker 1: Should go take it.

1107
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm definitely gonna take the Dick Riding class because

1108
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 2: you should. I was actually fornicating recently and he was like,

1109
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 2: don't you fortnicate every time? No, I'm the same, Like

1110
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 2: no recently, Like I was, you know, getting down, She

1111
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 2: was like get on top and I was like, no,

1112
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:44,439
Speaker 2: my meeting about to start.

1113
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: And my meeting was about to start because you was

1114
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Speaker 1: like Lex where you at?

1115
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Speaker 4: Sorry?

1116
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Speaker 2: Ryan?

1117
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 3: You remember call?

1118
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Speaker 2: Now?

1119
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:53,720
Speaker 1: You know the truth.

1120
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, he was like get on top, and I

1121
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 2: was like, oh, my meetings starting, like I got to

1122
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 2: hurry up. Like so I like you using as as

1123
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 2: what you call like at the.

1124
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Speaker 1: Perfect time, But honestly, I don't need to be like

1125
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: that anymore. So I am gonna take her class.

1126
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 2: So we're gonna do an I'm gonna take the dick

1127
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 2: riding class because the the squirting y egg class definitely

1128
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 2: work like the thing Garfield is garfielding, you know what

1129
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,760
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So if y'all want to take the classes,

1130
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Speaker 2: make sure y'all go to these Sexual Essentials dot com

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Speaker 2: and use code poor minds, and you're gonna get a

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Speaker 2: discount on these classes. If you don't know how to

1133
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 2: suck dick, she got a mouth master class. If you

1134
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 2: don't know how to ride dick, she got a riding

1135
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 2: dick class. If you don't know how to make that

1136
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 2: thing squirt, she gotta what's it? Squirting class?

1137
00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 1: What more you need?

1138
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all if you want to advance your sex life,

1139
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 2: I feel like men can take this class too, because

1140
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 2: absolutely you.

1141
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 1: Can learn what a woman likes on what terms of

1142
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Speaker 1: woman to.

1143
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Speaker 3: Learn how to make her squirt. You could tell her

1144
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 3: what you want her to do as far as I mean,

1145
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 3: you can tell her how you want her to ride to.

1146
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 1: D here you take the class. Yeh. Shout out to

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00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 1: the mind centrals dot com.

1148
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Speaker 3: Poor mine, you need.

1149
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: To pour me some more because I say you pour your.

1150
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 4: Okay, you poured me a lot. You poured me a

1151
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 4: lot though I did.

1152
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,720
Speaker 1: I did. I gave you the rest of the bottles.

1153
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 2: So we want to talk about, like how do you

1154
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 2: keep your relationship spicy and keep things sixty in the

1155
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 2: bedroom when you're married.

1156
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 4: I mean, sometimes I just steal on her wake up.

1157
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:27,840
Speaker 4: I'm just playing, not honestly.

1158
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 5: Sometimes if you drama, sometimes there's things you're going through

1159
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 5: that you have to use that energy, like you.

1160
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 1: Mad, So that work, I mean.

1161
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 4: And then but now it's like we have a four.

1162
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 5: Year old, so she just gets up in the middle

1163
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 5: of the night and comes down the stairs and just

1164
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 5: jumps in the bed.

1165
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 2: So it's like, okay, so let me ask this because

1166
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 2: I know me Andrea do like to like wear lingerie

1167
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 2: and use toys in the back.

1168
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: Is that a little like cliche?

1169
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 5: You think I buy toys because because I'm on the road,

1170
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 5: I want you to send me a video or.

1171
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: Something, keep it spicy. Of course, I don't like.

1172
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 4: I don't like lingerie. You don't only because I want

1173
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 4: to see everything.

1174
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean you could do like some boys shorts

1175
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 5: or something that's cool, but I mean that's that's kind

1176
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 5: of like I mean, some dudes like that, but I'm

1177
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:12,960
Speaker 5: just not in the Fredericks from Hollywood shitting and all that. Yeah,

1178
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 5: it's like, I just want to see you in like

1179
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 5: one of my T.

1180
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 4: Shirts and it you was halfway getting out of shots

1181
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 4: and your nipples poker.

1182
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, got it. Well, because I know I'm behind

1183
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: so much lingerie.

1184
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 2: Well, I like lingerie because you know what, I feel like,

1185
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 2: it makes me feel sexy. So when I feel sexy,

1186
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,319
Speaker 2: I can make you feel good, like when I feel good,

1187
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 2: I can make you feel good because like I'm in mysall.

1188
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 5: But if he do, if he does it, if he

1189
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 5: sees you and he's aggressive and he gives you that

1190
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 5: same feeling that you do that you have wearing that lingerie,

1191
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 5: then you ain't gotta wear it.

1192
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I think it's a balance though, because

1193
00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 2: I feel like if I'm just like naked every time

1194
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 2: or wearing this, I just like to switch it up.

1195
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: I don't like lingerie every time, but I feel like

1196
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 1: sometimes you have to kind of just like switch it

1197
00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: up now.

1198
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 4: I want to know you started without me, like whether

1199
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 4: walk in the room.

1200
00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:05,839
Speaker 3: Oh and pictures and lunge a right, but I don't

1201
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 3: really wear lunge right when I'm about to.

1202
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 4: Like Cassie, yes, because you see said.

1203
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 2: Alike.

1204
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 1: So let no, I'm just gonna always with you. Probably

1205
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:18,839
Speaker 1: have some hues.

1206
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 2: Like a little not the turk, a little bit of Okay,

1207
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:28,880
Speaker 2: So your advice is to you toys because men hate

1208
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 2: toys toys.

1209
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 4: I don't know why, Like I don't want nothing to

1210
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 4: penetrate you stimulate you while so I got less work.

1211
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: Okay, So penetration.

1212
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,680
Speaker 5: Toys, I mean unless it's going in another hole, and

1213
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 5: I'm in another hole, I guess.

1214
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: Okay, but not none of your holes.

1215
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 4: Hell no, okay, got some guys be into that pagan

1216
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 4: shit or whatever.

1217
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 5: Listen, whatever flows your boat, because I do feel like

1218
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 5: whatever happens between the women and a man sexual.

1219
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: Men are so sensitive these days.

1220
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 5: I don't see why, because my whole thing is I

1221
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 5: got cast that I've been around that that are gay

1222
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 5: or whatever.

1223
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 4: I don't give it then like, as long as you

1224
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 4: don't try me.

1225
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:11,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, but it is a level of respect

1226
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,719
Speaker 5: because I remember when I first moved to Atlanta. You know,

1227
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 5: I went to Lenox on a Saturday and I was

1228
00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 5: I didn't know, and they dudes would be muse you.

1229
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: But I learned, But I learned.

1230
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 5: What I would do is I would do like this,

1231
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 5: I would shake his hand, but I'm looking at this

1232
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 5: what's up?

1233
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 4: But I want him to look there's no glitter.

1234
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:34,000
Speaker 5: Because a lot of times you like this, like what's up,

1235
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 5: and they thinking he hid and yeah, I want to

1236
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 5: look you in.

1237
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 4: Your eye, like look, I respect you. Whatever you do,

1238
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 4: that's fine, but it ain't me. That's cool. Yeah, I

1239
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 4: just be acting scared of that, Like I don't get that,

1240
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 4: like you whatever, what you like at home, that's.

1241
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: But I'm that you said that because I feel like

1242
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,239
Speaker 1: a lot of men, especially strike me.

1243
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 2: I feel like they have something to prove and they

1244
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 2: don't even want to associate with people like that or

1245
00:52:57,800 --> 00:52:58,439
Speaker 2: they would be scared.

1246
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 4: They dudes be kicking it. In the history most of

1247
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:03,719
Speaker 4: a lot of the executives. You know what I'm saying.

1248
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 5: You got to think Clive Davis who signed us. He

1249
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 5: came out of the book, but we had known, like

1250
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,799
Speaker 5: you know, but it wasn't It was nothing like right,

1251
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:11,760
Speaker 5: I mean right exactly.

1252
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this, like you just saying like you'll

1253
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 1: take pictures and shaped.

1254
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 5: A lot of niggas don't even want to do that

1255
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 5: to me, gay people by records. Let me say this

1256
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,399
Speaker 5: I feel and I'm gonna be honest. I remember Tank

1257
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 5: did this.

1258
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:25,280
Speaker 4: But I look at Little Kim, I look at Kelly Rowland.

1259
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 5: A lot of artists have survived because of their gay

1260
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 5: their they're lesbian, whether you know they're lb G T here,

1261
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 5: there's a lot of a lot of letters, but they survived,

1262
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:38,760
Speaker 5: and I honestly feel like there shouldn't be a stigma

1263
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,320
Speaker 5: on that. I remember Tank performed at a show and

1264
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 5: he had a shirt off and what he said was, hell,

1265
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,440
Speaker 5: I take my shirt off for the regular show. I've

1266
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 5: got paid the show. And I respected that.

1267
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,320
Speaker 1: We're all on him about it, and it was like,

1268
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:50,280
Speaker 1: why I have There's.

1269
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 5: So much money to be made. I wish I could

1270
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:58,359
Speaker 5: perform and pro listen. Yeah, I'm not gonna change the words,

1271
00:53:58,400 --> 00:53:58,919
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.

1272
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, but to me.

1273
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,800
Speaker 3: Those are the men that I feel like you gotta watch,

1274
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:07,800
Speaker 3: like the ones who be like overly.

1275
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 2: Like oh be homo, yeah, like homophobic, like that's because

1276
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 2: why do you hear so much like it's not okay?

1277
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 2: So we got a little for that song, right, so yes,

1278
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 2: to keep it spicying in the relationship. Uh, we'll say

1279
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:24,240
Speaker 2: you toys bounce back and forth from the lingerie.

1280
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 3: And he said he liked videos and stuff too, So

1281
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 3: we love a good video. We love videos.

1282
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 2: We actually did for me, Yes, we actually did a

1283
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:37,719
Speaker 2: Patreon episode on how to send good news and good

1284
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 2: so we might be doing another video on that.

1285
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: All right, So now we're gonna get into the vibe a.

1286
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:50,280
Speaker 2: So y'all know I am working on my sex playlist

1287
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 2: with rap songs, so I'm gonna be dropping that, and

1288
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, I am, I'm gonna be dropping that probably,

1289
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 2: I'll say next week.

1290
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 3: And I'm gonna be dropping a workout playlist.

1291
00:54:59,239 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 1: Come on, Kanye is workout playing plan. I'm the NV

1292
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:04,800
Speaker 1: of all my friends.

1293
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 2: But yes, I'm gonna be dropping the workout play least

1294
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 2: because I made me a little play least for when

1295
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 2: I'll be working out and be keeping me motivated.

1296
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 1: So basically a Little Baby and Drake album.

1297
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 3: Now it's gonna be some more other people on there except.

1298
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: For Drake and.

1299
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 3: The video for Definitely No It's nice, y'all.

1300
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 2: I hang.

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00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: Episode. Okay, So my bop of the week.

1302
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 2: Someone actually sent this to me. I want to say

1303
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 2: her instagram is Kinzy's kitchen.

1304
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 1: I believe it is.

1305
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 2: But she sent me this bop of the week and

1306
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 2: I was actually pleasantly surprised because I'm not gonna lie.

1307
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 2: Y'all send me music a lot and I like it,

1308
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 2: but I can tell like, I'll listen to a song.

1309
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: This is how I don't know why I do this.

1310
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 2: I'll listen to a song all the way through the

1311
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 2: first time, and then I'll go back and I'll listen

1312
00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 2: to the first thirty seconds and I'm like, did that

1313
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 2: first thirty second is really like kind of reeled me in?

1314
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 2: And I'll think about like the first thirty seconds versus

1315
00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 2: like the whole song. So she sent me a song

1316
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 2: by daveyond Ferris called make Love and then I love

1317
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 2: a begging ass niggas.

1318
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Speaker 1: Niggas no.

1319
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 2: No mom, niggasig ma mom. And he was like the day, y'all,

1320
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Speaker 2: used to beg y'all was begging.

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Speaker 1: He was talking about how like that pussy was good

1322
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 1: to him.

1323
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:24,800
Speaker 3: He ain't know what to know.

1324
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 2: Stand outside of my window with a radio, you know, yes,

1325
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 2: Like you know how when you have sex in the

1326
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 2: next day, you're like having flashbacks all day. This is

1327
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 2: what that song reminds me, like after you've had sex.

1328
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 2: He's not talking about the sex during, and he's talking

1329
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 2: about the after effects, like looking at the scratches on.

1330
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: His neck and he's just nig it's giving scratches home.

1331
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,280
Speaker 2: So yes, my mother for the week is Daveyon Ferris

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Speaker 2: make Love. Thank you so much to Kinsey's Kitchen for

1333
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,440
Speaker 2: sending that to me because it's about period.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So my bop of the week this week is

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00:56:58,040 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 3: need to Know by Doja Cat.

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Speaker 1: Taste.

1337
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 3: The taste jumped out need to Know a boy Doja K.

1338
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 3: I love that song, but you know I love Doja k.

1339
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 2: I really fuck with her and I don't think we

1340
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 2: ever said the song with her and Sissy as our

1341
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 2: bob on the show before, and that's about two.

1342
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: Can I take it a little far and say, like

1343
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: Doja Cat is like a black Lady Gaga? I agree?

1344
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 2: And I say that absolutely. Can I say absolutely because

1345
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 2: she's been doing her thing fire. I love the fact

1346
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 2: that she came out on a whim that she went viral.

1347
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 3: With trying to play her with that song, so that

1348
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 3: morning came out.

1349
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 1: She's so versatile. None of her songs sounded like.

1350
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 5: Didn't she say something about being black? Though you known

1351
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 5: just mentioned that.

1352
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:46,160
Speaker 4: I'm just she did.

1353
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 2: But I'll say this what I've been doing since the

1354
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 2: beginning of time. I learned this when I was younger.

1355
00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:53,439
Speaker 1: You have to enjoy an.

1356
00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 2: Artist for their music. I don't go to the artistry

1357
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 2: if I get into your personal life. We're not gonna

1358
00:57:58,120 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 2: like nobody mind.

1359
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:07,480
Speaker 1: He's telling me, no, why you want to do that

1360
00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:12,160
Speaker 1: on our shows. But I'm not gonna lie.

1361
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 3: You gotta separate the artists from their personal.

1362
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,200
Speaker 2: But people take ship too far sometimes, Doja Cats she

1363
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 2: set her feet in the little chat room.

1364
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: Okay, we can let that go. You know what I'm saying.

1365
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 2: It's just like it's the difference between like slapping somebody

1366
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 2: and stabbing somebody.

1367
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It's easy, It's level.

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00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:33,920
Speaker 2: The way.

1369
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 1: So I've just said this.

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00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 2: Doja Cat is talented, like when I every time I

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00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 2: hear a Doja Cat song, I have to listen because

1372
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, I can tell it's her about her voice.

1373
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 1: I can't tell it's her.

1374
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:49,439
Speaker 5: About it's a very distinct sound.

1375
00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:52,919
Speaker 2: And I feel like if people would stop gravitating towards

1376
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 2: these people as people and just gravitate towards them as artists,

1377
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 2: she would be very she would be bigger than what

1378
00:58:59,000 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 2: she is.

1379
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll say that.

1380
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 5: I little, be honest. I've been listening to especially when

1381
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 5: I work out because I ride the peloton. I've been

1382
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 5: listening to Avalanche by the Migos after I saw that.

1383
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 3: I like that song, and he's the first one on

1384
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:16,480
Speaker 3: the album.

1385
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: Is their album is amazing.

1386
00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 5: That sample was, but when they performed it for like

1387
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 5: Jimmy Kimmel and they had on the Little Blues, that

1388
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,760
Speaker 5: was and I didn't. It took me a while to

1389
00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 5: get on them. But they are so creative and super dope.

1390
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 5: I'm a huge fan of the men.

1391
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 1: They are.

1392
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 2: We not we with the Migos, but I feel like

1393
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 2: they have a distinctive sound. But it doesn't sound Every

1394
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 2: song doesn't sound doesn't soun like.

1395
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,800
Speaker 4: I like takeoff though people sleep on Oh my God

1396
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 4: saying he.

1397
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:45,959
Speaker 5: Was like the Cheetos and he was like, y'all didn't

1398
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 5: know the migos. He's like, I was like, oh that sleeping,

1399
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 5: but he'd be super cold.

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01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: We love to take off.

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01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 2: It's like that kind of group that like everybody brings

1402
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 2: something different and it's needed, like you can't have salt

1403
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 2: without the pestle, and you do need a little garlic.

1404
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 1: And they're like, they're all very many.

1405
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 4: But you said you don't like cooking.

1406
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: I don't know a girl. I know you'll find it.

1407
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 2: We watched the episode with O I am jad Okay,

1408
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 2: so shout out to the meat, shout out to Dave Beyond.

1409
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: Those are the box of the week. So now we're

1410
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,959
Speaker 1: gonna get into my favorite. This is our favorite part.

1411
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: So you're gonna have to, you know, give some advice.

1412
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 1: I'm not question yes, So make sure.

1413
01:00:45,600 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 2: If you want your question answered on the Pour your

1414
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 2: Heart Out segment of Poor Minds, you email us at

1415
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 2: ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. If you're a

1416
01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 2: Patreon member, make sure you put in the subject that

1417
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 2: you're a Patreon.

1418
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 1: Remember, and y'all make it interesting because Royan do not

1419
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 1: be playing with y'all he be spepping question. Yeah, you

1420
01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 1: gotta have something juicy, make a juicy hunt. Okay, go ahead,

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01:01:06,120 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 1: what question number one?

1422
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Hedre and Lys. I've been hooked since you guys

1423
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 2: first appeared on the eighty five South Show. I'm twenty

1424
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 2: three years old and have bagged a few bdb's that

1425
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 2: make sure I'm straight financially. I recently started messing around

1426
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 2: with one and we really like each other and have

1427
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 2: gotten intimate a few times.

1428
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: But this last time, I.

1429
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 2: Was sucking his deck and out of nowhere, he lifts

1430
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:26,600
Speaker 2: his legs up for me to go down to his

1431
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 2: booty hole. It was my first time ever eating a

1432
01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 2: nigga ass, and I didn't want to make it awkward,

1433
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 2: so I just did it, and it actually wasn't as

1434
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 2: bad as I thought.

1435
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 3: But he then turned over and arched his back into

1436
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 3: his ass and.

1437
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: Hard.

1438
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:46,640
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'll be trying not to laugh, but be fuddy.

1439
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 2: I know it's not considered gay if a female partakes

1440
01:01:50,040 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 2: in eating ass, but do you think it's gay that

1441
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 2: his arch was almost as good as mine? I forgot

1442
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 2: to mention he's older, like thirty four, and he just

1443
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 2: did six years straight reason. Should I run now or

1444
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 2: just chill and continue getting this nigga money?

1445
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 3: Y'all could go first.

1446
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:11,480
Speaker 2: I'll say this, if he's been in prison for six

1447
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 2: years and you say you felt like his art was

1448
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 2: better than yours, that's because he's gotten some practice. Now.

1449
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: With that being said, when it comes to jail, I

1450
01:02:18,280 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 2: got a five year rule, really allow a three year rule.

1451
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, I feel like, Okay, if he

1452
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 2: is bisexual and he likes men, that's your decision.

1453
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:31,760
Speaker 1: Can you date a bisexual man and do you feel

1454
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 1: like you can continue that?

1455
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:35,080
Speaker 2: For you know, you want to get his money and

1456
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:37,960
Speaker 2: things like that, So you need to really ask yourself, Okay,

1457
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 2: this is a bisexual man.

1458
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 1: Do I want to be messing around with a bisexual

1459
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 1: man or just ask him? Yeah?

1460
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 2: I mean, I agree with you because I feel like

1461
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 2: it's nothing wrong with a man wanting to get his ass,

1462
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,120
Speaker 2: and you can very much be straight and want to

1463
01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 2: get that's advanced.

1464
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: For me, I don't even do that.

1465
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 2: If you to it, well, that's what I was about

1466
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,280
Speaker 2: to say, but but it's okay if you do it,

1467
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 2: you know in a slick way. If you didn't turned

1468
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 2: around and tuned it up and you archie your back.

1469
01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 2: I mean, it's something else going you ain't you ain't

1470
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 2: like And again, like Leck said, I feel like at

1471
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 2: that point you have to decide, okay, am I okay

1472
01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 2: with dating somebody?

1473
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 3: This my sexual because I think that this is what

1474
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 3: he is.

1475
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 4: But I mean, do it matter if you only trying

1476
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:22,160
Speaker 4: to get the paper and it seems like you're talking

1477
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:23,720
Speaker 4: about paper.

1478
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 5: But I will say I've always learned to never put

1479
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 5: a label on a man, because once you do, then

1480
01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 5: that even if it's not true, it sticks with them.

1481
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 5: It's so because think about it, you're you're always described

1482
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 5: by the worst thing you've ever done. Might goel big,

1483
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 5: He's done so many great things in a community, great athlete,

1484
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 5: but they all say convicted dog fighter. So I would

1485
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 5: never put certain things out on a man. I will

1486
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 5: say that you gotta think about his bunk beds in prison,

1487
01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:49,560
Speaker 5: so you ain't to nothing.

1488
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 4: You've just been it over.

1489
01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 5: I would think, I ain't been in prison, but so

1490
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 5: you gotta look at So I'm just saying that that

1491
01:03:57,880 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 5: wouldn't have happened in prison. So just because he did time,

1492
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:01,840
Speaker 5: that don't mean he been penetrating.

1493
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:03,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, I agree, with that.

1494
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:07,440
Speaker 2: But what I will say feel like I feel like

1495
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 2: it's levels though. It's like before you to yo ask,

1496
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 2: you need to make sure that they're okay with that.

1497
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 2: Like there's certain things like when I like to where

1498
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:17,960
Speaker 2: buck was in the vidiom, But I never put my

1499
01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 2: butt plug in without.

1500
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 1: Talking to my eye. I will, but that's because somebody

1501
01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: that you've been fucking you.

1502
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 2: It's like the first time y'all have sex. You're not

1503
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 2: about to just put that. But sometimes people don't like that.

1504
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 4: Why you ain't gonna know until you're doing But.

1505
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna ask first because I'm not gonna eat your

1506
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 2: ask without asking me. Because a butt plug is something

1507
01:04:38,360 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 2: that I'm putting in my head. I'm not violating you violating.

1508
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 2: I just feel like, are you actually getting a little scene?

1509
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:48,880
Speaker 5: Because if he was like time y'all messing around, he

1510
01:04:49,000 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 5: like I like a butt plug, you'd be like, if

1511
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,040
Speaker 5: I'd have known this from the beginning, I would have stoped.

1512
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 2: I would feel if I'm sucking a nigga dig and

1513
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 2: he got a butt plug in and he didn't ask.

1514
01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: Me why you got the butt plug?

1515
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:03,880
Speaker 4: Gonna stop and be and get dressed. You're gonna oh, no,

1516
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:05,320
Speaker 4: you're gonna be done right.

1517
01:05:05,600 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 3: I'm just saying you right exactly.

1518
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: How would you feel people suck nigger bigger heat and

1519
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: it was a little Ryan star.

1520
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 3: You call the light up ones. We got bitch, the

1521
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 3: light up ones.

1522
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 1: Bitch. You wanna feel some type of way? Would you not?

1523
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 1: I would, That's what I'm saying.

1524
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,120
Speaker 4: But you would you rather know before you really caught.

1525
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 3: Feelings, you know what you're into, before I really start

1526
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 3: liking you.

1527
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 4: But it might be, but you're talking about waiting later.

1528
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 4: He might already.

1529
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 2: Being I'm gonna ask first, That's what I said. I'm

1530
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 2: going to ask, like do you mind if I put

1531
01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 2: my bucklug in or do you know?

1532
01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 5: Wouldn't that be part of the conversations when y'all talking

1533
01:05:42,280 --> 01:05:44,360
Speaker 5: late at night, you know, go and sleep on the

1534
01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 5: fun like what you into?

1535
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 2: What you like?

1536
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 1: Conversation one time? I mean now, because I think with

1537
01:05:49,920 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: me and leg School, we already already come on, come on, okay,

1538
01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:04,440
Speaker 1: good luck girl. I don't know.

1539
01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:07,960
Speaker 2: You need to decide if you have feelings for him. Irve,

1540
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:10,920
Speaker 2: it's just about the money. I agree with Rilie.

1541
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 3: You gotta make a decision because if it's about their bread,

1542
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 3: you gotta do something.

1543
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So question two, I need some help. I'm

1544
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 2: thirty one and never had a boyfriend. I've only been

1545
01:06:22,240 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 2: on two days before, one that my sister set up

1546
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 2: and one where I asked the guy out and paid.

1547
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 1: But other than that, I have zero experienced Davy, stop laughing.

1548
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get through this question.

1549
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

1550
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:42,960
Speaker 2: I'm not laughing at you. When I go out and

1551
01:06:43,080 --> 01:06:45,360
Speaker 2: on social media, men do not try to holler at me.

1552
01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:47,840
Speaker 2: It's almost like I'm invisible to them. What advice can

1553
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 2: y'all give me that might help me to get men

1554
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 2: to notice me coming from a woman that wants so

1555
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 2: badly to be married and have kids.

1556
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: But it's looking real die along with the doll for me,

1557
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: damn I.

1558
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,760
Speaker 3: Because as a man, you look like what sticks out

1559
01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:03,240
Speaker 3: for you to.

1560
01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 4: Look I'm gonna be honest.

1561
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 5: It can't be about her looks, because there's been guys

1562
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 5: that have been around a woman long enough that might

1563
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:14,919
Speaker 5: not have been attracted to attractive to them at first,

1564
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 5: but they found something that they liked about them to

1565
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 5: make them attracted. Either she's six feet tall and they

1566
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 5: feel kind of you know, because there's got this guys

1567
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 5: that might fight it.

1568
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:27,040
Speaker 2: It might.

1569
01:07:27,120 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 5: There's certain guys that no no, I said, there's I

1570
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 5: mean tall because a lot of times guys you bring

1571
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,160
Speaker 5: out guys in security, and a lot of times it's

1572
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 5: not about you, sweetie, it might be about them. So

1573
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:40,360
Speaker 5: don't don't think you're gonna die alone. I think it's

1574
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 5: really about confidence. Hearing that shows me your state of mind.

1575
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 5: It kind of sounds like you feel sorry for yourself.

1576
01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 5: A guy likes confidence. I don't care if you are too.

1577
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:51,920
Speaker 5: If you confident, you're gonna get somebody.

1578
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 4: I ain't not wrong with that. Is she didn't say

1579
01:07:59,120 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 4: the first.

1580
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 1: She says she been on only.

1581
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,840
Speaker 2: She said the first She said the first one where

1582
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 2: I asked the guy out and paid, and the other

1583
01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 2: one and the other one she asked him out.

1584
01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:19,280
Speaker 1: If you ask somebody out, that means you paying. I

1585
01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:20,120
Speaker 1: do feel that way.

1586
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:27,240
Speaker 3: Now I'm asked to Corred go to Corell.

1587
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:30,240
Speaker 1: I've asked or when we got there he was like

1588
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:35,960
Speaker 1: pussy Fat asked fat Titty's big on paying. You know,

1589
01:08:36,120 --> 01:08:40,920
Speaker 1: girlfield don't play no games. Now he do be pokey.

1590
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:44,280
Speaker 2: I'll say this, that's besides the point. I feel like

1591
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:48,040
Speaker 2: confidence is I tell girls this all the time. It

1592
01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:49,840
Speaker 2: was crazy because I was talking to my friend Killer

1593
01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:52,400
Speaker 2: the other day and she was saying how her friend

1594
01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:55,840
Speaker 2: just went on and extrivagant vacation, like the nigga literally

1595
01:08:55,960 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 2: was like, pack your bags, check your email, blah blah blah,

1596
01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:00,960
Speaker 2: took her to like some island. I don't even know

1597
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:02,720
Speaker 2: how to pronounce that bitch never even heard of it.

1598
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:04,920
Speaker 2: And she was like, it's just crazy because, like you know,

1599
01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 2: she's a bigger girl, and people just assume that bigger

1600
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:09,680
Speaker 2: girls can't get this and that, or they assume that

1601
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 2: they're lying.

1602
01:09:10,400 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1603
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:13,600
Speaker 2: They always assume she's lying when she talks about her

1604
01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 2: experiences and what she does. But she was like, but

1605
01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 2: every time I be around the bit, she be pulling

1606
01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 2: because she walk in dressed head to the nine, confidence

1607
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 2: through the roof, like go you.

1608
01:09:23,400 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 1: Are bad because is a mentality.

1609
01:09:29,040 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 2: When I tell you, my looks have not changed, but

1610
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 2: my confidence has changed just from being around you and

1611
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:37,640
Speaker 2: being like, bitch, like you know, like the quality of

1612
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 2: niggas has definitely changed.

1613
01:09:39,240 --> 01:09:40,680
Speaker 3: The little done gonna bring it out of you.

1614
01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:44,560
Speaker 2: The don has been getting her things lately, and that

1615
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:47,800
Speaker 2: I'll say it's because of the confidence honestly, because I'll say,

1616
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 2: as bad as I was, like right after I got

1617
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:53,160
Speaker 2: my surgery and I was like flawing this body and stuff,

1618
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 2: I still wasn't getting the things or doing the things

1619
01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:59,200
Speaker 2: I wanted to or you know, getting the type of

1620
01:09:59,280 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 2: man I felt like I deserve because I.

1621
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 3: Had no I've noticed the shifting here because because even.

1622
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,880
Speaker 4: Even though you can have a surgery, that doesn't remove the.

1623
01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:10,840
Speaker 3: Mini because you will still be that person in your mind.

1624
01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:13,200
Speaker 4: So you have to finally, your mind has to catch

1625
01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 4: up with it.

1626
01:10:14,920 --> 01:10:24,240
Speaker 1: I said that, don't know you watching, but yes, I agree.

1627
01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:25,920
Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely feel like you need to just

1628
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 2: have more confidence than yourself, you know what I mean,

1629
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:31,840
Speaker 2: You will attract what you're putting out and from right

1630
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:33,640
Speaker 2: and from what it sounds like, it just sounds like

1631
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:37,639
Speaker 2: you're putting out these doubtful things into the universe about yourself,

1632
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:40,040
Speaker 2: and that's why you're attracting certain type of men.

1633
01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 1: Are you?

1634
01:10:40,520 --> 01:10:44,120
Speaker 3: I mean, no man at all? So it's like you

1635
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 3: just need to have a more positive mindset about dating

1636
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 3: and who you can.

1637
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:50,640
Speaker 5: You know, find all right, And it's hotter than the

1638
01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 5: Devil's Bedroom here if y'all send me sweating this ship,

1639
01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 5: but we.

1640
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 3: Met telling them it be hot.

1641
01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:58,719
Speaker 1: It's fluky here. You know they do what's bad Carlos

1642
01:10:58,800 --> 01:10:59,840
Speaker 1: and that be in the front.

1643
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 4: Get the good, think on some coke or something like.

1644
01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 4: I sweating like.

1645
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:20,160
Speaker 1: Everybody. Everybody swett. That's what I've been over here like this.

1646
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 3: Okay, A question number three Hedrea and Lake Scha. Girl

1647
01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:27,360
Speaker 3: is heart broken.

1648
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 2: My boyfriend of six years broke up with me because

1649
01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:32,720
Speaker 2: apparently I lied to him about my body count. I

1650
01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:34,840
Speaker 2: slept with the living me and my entire life, and

1651
01:11:34,880 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 2: three of them were without a condom. So I told

1652
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:39,439
Speaker 2: him my body count was three. You know, three a

1653
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 2: magic number?

1654
01:11:41,040 --> 01:11:45,200
Speaker 1: You right, if you was a condiment, don't care support.

1655
01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:49,679
Speaker 4: That's funny, that's what That's what Nicole said.

1656
01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 1: Really went up to me.

1657
01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:53,519
Speaker 4: That's let me ship.

1658
01:11:55,240 --> 01:11:59,040
Speaker 2: One of my friends got One of my friends got

1659
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:01,320
Speaker 2: drunk and started to spell all of my business, saying

1660
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:03,560
Speaker 2: that I have slipped with more than ten men. My

1661
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:06,240
Speaker 2: boyfriend got mad because I told him I only slipped

1662
01:12:06,240 --> 01:12:08,320
Speaker 2: with three men. I believe if we use a condom,

1663
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:11,080
Speaker 2: it doesn't count, and if we don't it counts. And

1664
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 2: my tripment, what do y'all think he also moved out

1665
01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:15,840
Speaker 2: and blocked me. How do I get my man's big

1666
01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:16,559
Speaker 2: First of all.

1667
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 1: You don't need that nigga bad because that's the lame Assi,

1668
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 1: because who.

1669
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:24,280
Speaker 5: Cares your nigga or want to? Because why is she

1670
01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 5: even telling your business? It's a setup.

1671
01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 1: It's a set up. I would.

1672
01:12:31,960 --> 01:12:32,640
Speaker 4: She's moved in.

1673
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 2: Exactly because you're talking about I had sex song with

1674
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:38,520
Speaker 2: eleven man, bitch, I did that now before I graduated.

1675
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 3: So far, that's a.

1676
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 5: That's about It's not about how many to me, it's

1677
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 5: about who, because I don't want to. I don't want

1678
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 5: anybody in the circle or the business somewhere while walking

1679
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 5: the room, hold your hand and all of a sudden,

1680
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:51,920
Speaker 5: I'm introducing you to a nigga that you don't.

1681
01:12:51,760 --> 01:12:56,280
Speaker 1: Have and all that. I love that this show girl exactly.

1682
01:12:58,000 --> 01:12:59,600
Speaker 4: You gotta tell me first so I know, so I

1683
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:01,320
Speaker 4: when I to do you, I could be like, oh, yeah,

1684
01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 4: I know you know such and such like.

1685
01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:06,040
Speaker 1: That I know you look because I'm gonna tell Yeah,

1686
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 1: I can't give you. We don't let you know now.

1687
01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like, let that nigga go. He's lame.

1688
01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:13,920
Speaker 1: Your girl is lame.

1689
01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:15,920
Speaker 2: Both of them need to be cut off. I feel

1690
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:19,280
Speaker 2: like it's a setup and people like that. I feel like,

1691
01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 2: why are we asking BodyCount? As long as you're protecting yourself,

1692
01:13:23,160 --> 01:13:26,600
Speaker 2: as long as you didn't test it and you're being small, right,

1693
01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:29,160
Speaker 2: body count really doesn't matter. Like you said, I agree

1694
01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:32,680
Speaker 2: with you. I feel like it's more who if you

1695
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:34,439
Speaker 2: fuck like a bitch that I don't funk with her.

1696
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:36,160
Speaker 2: I know she lame or I know how she can.

1697
01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 5: But if you're on camera and you you're getting a

1698
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 5: train ran on you on camera straight a track, uh,

1699
01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 5: straight up Thomas to train on you, like, then that's

1700
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:46,400
Speaker 5: an issue.

1701
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:50,639
Speaker 4: But there's beautiful bean and there's straight beautiful bean footage

1702
01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:50,960
Speaker 4: out there.

1703
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 1: I need to know.

1704
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:58,640
Speaker 5: I need to know, you know what I'm saying, Like

1705
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:03,280
Speaker 5: that's different, Like there's some circumstances that man if it

1706
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 5: gets into the hundreds, I'm saying right.

1707
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:11,240
Speaker 1: Not the beautiful being I am bad. You know you

1708
01:14:12,160 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 1: cut off like, yeah you know, and shit me next

1709
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:23,560
Speaker 1: time because you don't be about to see that.

1710
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:29,519
Speaker 2: Okay, So last question, it says, Hi, ladies, I've been

1711
01:14:29,520 --> 01:14:31,280
Speaker 2: fucking with this kid from work for a couple of

1712
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:34,160
Speaker 2: months now, hanging every day really enjoying each other's company,

1713
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:37,839
Speaker 2: but no titles yet. Working together hasn't really presented any issues.

1714
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:41,120
Speaker 2: We keep things professional but don't necessarily hide anything.

1715
01:14:41,600 --> 01:14:42,679
Speaker 1: I recently find.

1716
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:45,000
Speaker 2: Out that he has made passes that several girls he

1717
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 2: used to work with, and that I'm really the first

1718
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 2: to give him the time of day to say the least,

1719
01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:52,799
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed. It makes me feel like I have lower standards.

1720
01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:54,800
Speaker 2: I don't want no one to think I'm goofy for

1721
01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:57,200
Speaker 2: letting him hit. Should I cut ties now or say

1722
01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:59,719
Speaker 2: fuck with other people think? Since we clearly have a vibe,

1723
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 2: I feel like this ruins my bad bagche energy energy.

1724
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:04,320
Speaker 1: So I need the real ones to tell me the truth.

1725
01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:07,679
Speaker 2: Just like a nigga, don't want no ran through ass beach,

1726
01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 2: I don't want no run through nigga.

1727
01:15:10,960 --> 01:15:13,360
Speaker 4: When you're talking about body count don't matter, but then come.

1728
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: On, no, no, it don't.

1729
01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:17,720
Speaker 2: But when I say I say ran through, but I

1730
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:20,240
Speaker 2: mean like I don't want somebody who seemed like they

1731
01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:23,360
Speaker 2: for everybody, Like you can't be out here flirting with everybody.

1732
01:15:24,560 --> 01:15:25,880
Speaker 4: What you just said you you flirt?

1733
01:15:26,000 --> 01:15:27,760
Speaker 5: Like what if he just he ain't really trying to

1734
01:15:27,800 --> 01:15:30,640
Speaker 5: holler He just being friendly and women are taking that

1735
01:15:30,720 --> 01:15:32,120
Speaker 5: like he trying, because you know how many women be

1736
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:34,640
Speaker 5: like he trying to holler, I just gave you a

1737
01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:37,880
Speaker 5: hug and it lasts long as I'll say this though,

1738
01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:38,720
Speaker 5: it ain't about that.

1739
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:41,320
Speaker 2: To me. It's like, damn, I don't want the nigga

1740
01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:42,639
Speaker 2: that I'm fucking to beginning curve.

1741
01:15:42,720 --> 01:15:45,839
Speaker 1: You ain't got no salce, nigga, You ain't got no bos.

1742
01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 1: You can't cheat on me if you wanted to.

1743
01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:51,519
Speaker 3: They do be turning him down. That's what I'm saying now.

1744
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 2: My more concern is, but at the end of the day,

1745
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 2: if you out to vob with somebody, that's your nigga now,

1746
01:15:56,320 --> 01:15:57,520
Speaker 2: because a lot of times.

1747
01:15:57,439 --> 01:15:59,439
Speaker 1: Bitches will bitches will curve a nigga.

1748
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:01,920
Speaker 2: Then find out, Oh, Drean the cold, fucking this nigga,

1749
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:04,760
Speaker 2: I want him now just because you fucking with him

1750
01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:07,040
Speaker 2: and you gave him some salt. Because bitches be corny.

1751
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:10,120
Speaker 2: So trying to say, oh, he tried to holler at me, Okay,

1752
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 2: try to get him back.

1753
01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:12,960
Speaker 1: He don't want you, honey an upgrade.

1754
01:16:12,720 --> 01:16:15,880
Speaker 4: Well you should have. You should have hollered. Look, I'm happy.

1755
01:16:18,439 --> 01:16:19,760
Speaker 1: Is good. Day's getting paid for it.

1756
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 2: I'm having a good time, so y'all feel like she

1757
01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 2: should stick with me. Y'all, I feel like she's just

1758
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:24,480
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna stick beside.

1759
01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:26,439
Speaker 5: Because if if this, if you said that he used

1760
01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 5: to work with that, that mean they're not working there

1761
01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:30,080
Speaker 5: no more. So another hating the hold that's still working

1762
01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 5: there is when they told you that you believe her.

1763
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 5: Of course stop it. Listen, baby, Okay, go ahead and

1764
01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:40,520
Speaker 5: mess up that dick if you want to, period.

1765
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:43,080
Speaker 3: Because she said the Bobbs is right and see he's

1766
01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:43,880
Speaker 3: hard to find good.

1767
01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 1: I'm dead now, you Dick and Bobs.

1768
01:16:53,720 --> 01:16:56,920
Speaker 2: Girl. After today, no matter what you do, people gonna

1769
01:16:56,920 --> 01:16:58,639
Speaker 2: talk about it. No matter what you do, people gonna

1770
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:00,559
Speaker 2: hate on it. So do what makes you you happy

1771
01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:01,719
Speaker 2: for other people.

1772
01:17:01,960 --> 01:17:03,519
Speaker 3: I do agree with that. I don't think that you

1773
01:17:03,600 --> 01:17:05,360
Speaker 3: should care so much what other people think.

1774
01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:08,680
Speaker 1: Just do what make you happy. I'm a wait for

1775
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:11,360
Speaker 1: this the whole time. Were so excited. Oh my god.

1776
01:17:11,800 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 3: So you know we sing at the end of every episode,

1777
01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 3: so you don't need the lyrics.

1778
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 1: You don't need the lyrics. Now, I want you to

1779
01:17:19,400 --> 01:17:20,599
Speaker 1: know that this is my ship.

1780
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 3: We were back and forth too, between what song we

1781
01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:24,679
Speaker 3: wanted to sing.

1782
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:27,880
Speaker 4: What was the choices we wanted to I love, but love.

1783
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:31,120
Speaker 2: I wanted to do two clocks. I practiced that first

1784
01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 2: verse for like three weeks. I've been practicing, like please

1785
01:17:36,640 --> 01:17:38,800
Speaker 2: both because and I like it.

1786
01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:48,439
Speaker 4: Well, I'm chilling with my homemass you yeah, go and

1787
01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 4: I want it's that butter love Okay, period a little

1788
01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:54,720
Speaker 4: bit about it.

1789
01:17:54,720 --> 01:17:58,760
Speaker 1: I want to be a little but I said, we're

1790
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 1: gonna sing two clocks. Like I said, I've been practicing.

1791
01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:04,960
Speaker 1: She said she felt like it was better for so

1792
01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:06,320
Speaker 1: you won't sing the chorus.

1793
01:18:06,760 --> 01:18:09,800
Speaker 2: I'm gonna seeing the first baring his verse.

1794
01:18:10,080 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 1: I got the first bar, but are you gonna do that?

1795
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:18,600
Speaker 4: She gonna do this to step back? Let's do it?

1796
01:18:19,040 --> 01:18:27,200
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, so you start, It's okay, damn. At the

1797
01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:30,560
Speaker 5: beginning of the song, I wrote it, uh lost of

1798
01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:33,800
Speaker 5: the records. But what I said, I said, you know what,

1799
01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:36,240
Speaker 5: I wonder if she could tell him Ald right now,

1800
01:18:38,360 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 5: because the funny thing is if radio really would have

1801
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:43,640
Speaker 5: known what I was talking about, they wouldn't have played it.

1802
01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 4: So it took him a long time.

1803
01:18:45,320 --> 01:18:48,040
Speaker 5: Me and my group member wrote the record, and I've

1804
01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:50,080
Speaker 5: written pretty much most of the things I've ever done.

1805
01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 5: But this is a record where we were talking to

1806
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:53,519
Speaker 5: some girls from Jersey and they said they used to

1807
01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:55,559
Speaker 5: dance on dudes to just feel because that's back when

1808
01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:58,519
Speaker 5: dudes dance. Now, you know, niggas be sweating in the club, having.

1809
01:18:58,439 --> 01:18:59,720
Speaker 4: Their little over wall.

1810
01:19:00,320 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 5: They had their little tie like this, and they would

1811
01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:04,080
Speaker 5: go at it freak. They wait for the jogacy to

1812
01:19:04,080 --> 01:19:05,640
Speaker 5: come on at the end of the night. Now you know,

1813
01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:07,799
Speaker 5: niggas want to be too cool, which y'all lost.

1814
01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:11,040
Speaker 4: What they would feel like, Yeah, you get you know

1815
01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. That's all. Really. The funny thing is

1816
01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:15,960
Speaker 4: music that last is music is relative that you can

1817
01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:17,880
Speaker 4: go I did that or I do that.

1818
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:20,000
Speaker 2: That's all I was gonna ask you, like, how what

1819
01:19:20,280 --> 01:19:22,640
Speaker 2: is the difference between like music and the nineties and

1820
01:19:22,680 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 2: then now versus now.

1821
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:26,720
Speaker 4: You know, a lot of cats be be hating on

1822
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:27,320
Speaker 4: a new artist.

1823
01:19:27,400 --> 01:19:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1824
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:30,640
Speaker 5: I feel like it's easier to make music so you

1825
01:19:30,640 --> 01:19:33,280
Speaker 5: don't have to be quote unquote as not say talented,

1826
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:36,479
Speaker 5: but as seasoned. So you might not be ready, but

1827
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:38,080
Speaker 5: you got to hit. So now all of a sudden

1828
01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:39,840
Speaker 5: you come out with it. But then you performing live

1829
01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:42,600
Speaker 5: and it's crickets because they're like that don't sound like

1830
01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 5: that ship there was.

1831
01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 1: But the music is not the same.

1832
01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you'll be saying that you feel like, you know,

1833
01:19:49,280 --> 01:19:52,200
Speaker 2: it is good. I feel like it ain't nothing like

1834
01:19:52,240 --> 01:19:52,759
Speaker 2: the nineties.

1835
01:19:53,880 --> 01:19:56,679
Speaker 1: I guess I'm talking about music as a whole.

1836
01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:58,639
Speaker 5: Yeah it is, but you just don't hear it because

1837
01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:02,320
Speaker 5: right now I had a meeting with a few labels,

1838
01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:04,400
Speaker 5: and it used to be let me hear the record.

1839
01:20:05,240 --> 01:20:08,480
Speaker 5: Now it's what's your following? Like, what's your social about?

1840
01:20:08,760 --> 01:20:11,439
Speaker 5: It ain't nothing about anything other than is.

1841
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:13,400
Speaker 4: You popping in your city? It's not a wow.

1842
01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:17,639
Speaker 2: You know, Lauren, Lauren makes my best, makes the best

1843
01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 2: music I have, R and B fire, But you know

1844
01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:24,240
Speaker 2: she doesn't have a following on social media. So it's

1845
01:20:24,280 --> 01:20:26,280
Speaker 2: and that's always when people ask her about bro when

1846
01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 2: she dropped this ep, that's all we about to be

1847
01:20:27,920 --> 01:20:28,680
Speaker 2: listening that that.

1848
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:29,160
Speaker 4: Happened to me.

1849
01:20:30,240 --> 01:20:34,479
Speaker 5: The record, well, me and my partner did a record

1850
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 5: on g Z album with a little duval and uh,

1851
01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:39,519
Speaker 5: jim I'm saying Jimmy with Jimmy Levado.

1852
01:20:39,960 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 4: But we also did the pull up for a litt

1853
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:45,080
Speaker 4: duvall that was really a next record pull up. We

1854
01:20:45,240 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 4: did that and a label had told me.

1855
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:50,200
Speaker 5: Sad part is this will be bigger on duvall than

1856
01:20:50,240 --> 01:20:52,280
Speaker 5: it will be y'all because people the herd of y'all

1857
01:20:52,360 --> 01:20:54,679
Speaker 5: y'all are dated to the audience.

1858
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:57,759
Speaker 4: So two chains, he has an advantage.

1859
01:20:57,800 --> 01:20:59,640
Speaker 5: Tank has an advantage where they weren't as successful as

1860
01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:01,920
Speaker 5: they should been when they first came out, so when

1861
01:21:01,920 --> 01:21:04,679
Speaker 5: they come out now they're new, which is a blessing

1862
01:21:04,760 --> 01:21:07,320
Speaker 5: because I've always thought Tank was super dope anyway. But

1863
01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:09,360
Speaker 5: right now, if you're talking about real R and B,

1864
01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:11,920
Speaker 5: if it's not Lucky Day or you know, or Tank,

1865
01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:13,160
Speaker 5: you're not really gonna hear.

1866
01:21:13,560 --> 01:21:15,160
Speaker 4: So there's a lot of it out there. You just

1867
01:21:15,240 --> 01:21:16,719
Speaker 4: don't hear me because because.

1868
01:21:16,560 --> 01:21:18,280
Speaker 1: You really gotta find exactly.

1869
01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:21,439
Speaker 2: Say, like, if you think R and B is there,

1870
01:21:21,439 --> 01:21:23,479
Speaker 2: that's because you're just a lazy listener, like you really,

1871
01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 2: but you really got to go in and really like searching.

1872
01:21:26,840 --> 01:21:28,240
Speaker 4: How many people want to do that. They want to

1873
01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:29,040
Speaker 4: just turn on the radio.

1874
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 2: They do, And that's why I think most people just

1875
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:34,680
Speaker 2: revert to listening to the class sees, going to the shows.

1876
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:36,719
Speaker 5: And stuff, because that's the part you're putting on new music.

1877
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 5: But nobody's getting it because they don't know about it.

1878
01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:41,080
Speaker 5: But then you're at a concert and it sold out

1879
01:21:41,120 --> 01:21:42,639
Speaker 5: and they're like, when you dropping new music.

1880
01:21:44,080 --> 01:21:46,840
Speaker 3: Always singing this song show because we coming want to.

1881
01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:48,200
Speaker 5: You know what, As a matter of fact, we got

1882
01:21:48,320 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 5: to show here September thirteenth or eighteenth, and it's next

1883
01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:54,240
Speaker 5: Drew hel and Silk and I got y'all, got y'all.

1884
01:21:54,280 --> 01:22:01,040
Speaker 4: Tell me I got y'all. So I got you. I

1885
01:22:01,120 --> 01:22:02,880
Speaker 4: promise anything, I promise, I got you nothing.

1886
01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:06,240
Speaker 3: We got it on camera, came, don't lie.

1887
01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:07,599
Speaker 1: I can't wait.

1888
01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:11,200
Speaker 3: We're gonna be okay, all right already?

1889
01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:12,240
Speaker 1: Are you ready?

1890
01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:16,800
Speaker 4: The baby? When we're crying. Then I get so excited.

1891
01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:21,400
Speaker 4: Oh how I like it? Try but I can't find it.

1892
01:22:21,920 --> 01:22:26,200
Speaker 4: Oh you're dancing real close and it's really real slow.

1893
01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:29,519
Speaker 4: You're making it hard for me.

1894
01:22:31,120 --> 01:22:34,719
Speaker 1: All the songs that you requested. You look like nicked.

1895
01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:40,439
Speaker 1: Oh it's like or oh yeah, damn.

1896
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:41,560
Speaker 4: Bool like it?

1897
01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:46,200
Speaker 1: No, I can't night, but I know you can. I'm

1898
01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:48,440
Speaker 1: excited over.

1899
01:22:49,560 --> 01:22:51,519
Speaker 3: That You're dancing kind of close.

1900
01:22:52,760 --> 01:22:54,960
Speaker 1: A little pomp coming.

1901
01:22:54,640 --> 01:22:57,960
Speaker 3: Through on you now.

1902
01:22:58,080 --> 01:23:00,880
Speaker 4: Girl, I know you felt it, but Bool, you know

1903
01:23:01,080 --> 01:23:05,720
Speaker 4: I can't help it. You know what I want a

1904
01:23:05,960 --> 01:23:11,480
Speaker 4: dude and grind it. I get so excited.

1905
01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:13,760
Speaker 2: Oh how I like it?

1906
01:23:14,120 --> 01:23:14,680
Speaker 1: I drive it.

1907
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:15,959
Speaker 4: I can't fight.

1908
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:20,679
Speaker 1: Real real slow.

1909
01:23:24,160 --> 01:23:26,760
Speaker 5: You know people always say, baby, no more crying. That's

1910
01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:28,120
Speaker 5: the day they check the worst.

1911
01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:35,599
Speaker 1: I know when I was like six bits like let

1912
01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:37,559
Speaker 1: me tell you that is one of my favorite songs.

1913
01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 1: I love it so on me too. Let me waiting

1914
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:41,400
Speaker 1: for this moment my whole life.

1915
01:23:41,800 --> 01:23:44,519
Speaker 2: But a little thought in a million years, I would

1916
01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:49,360
Speaker 2: be here singing too close, real fun.

1917
01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:53,559
Speaker 1: Because this is an amazing episode.

1918
01:23:54,560 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 2: Let me say, I'm be skeptical about letting people come

1919
01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:57,760
Speaker 2: on because.

1920
01:23:57,479 --> 01:23:59,360
Speaker 3: I feel like it's hard for people to hang with it.

1921
01:23:59,520 --> 01:24:02,560
Speaker 1: Can't so h but you was ready.

1922
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:10,400
Speaker 5: One and they're gonna bring some more for y'all. When

1923
01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:12,160
Speaker 5: they got they got something else coming out. So the

1924
01:24:12,240 --> 01:24:14,799
Speaker 5: truth is, I always feel like we gotta support the sisters.

1925
01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:15,679
Speaker 4: This is amazing.

1926
01:24:15,720 --> 01:24:19,280
Speaker 5: I'm a I've been a fan, and I can't wait

1927
01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:20,479
Speaker 5: to be it. I'm gonna be able to brag and

1928
01:24:20,520 --> 01:24:21,720
Speaker 5: say I was on here with y'all.

1929
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:30,439
Speaker 2: Yes, y'all right whenever Alady, that's my girl, that's my doll,

1930
01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 2: that's my dog, right empaside tell them whe they can

1931
01:24:33,200 --> 01:24:34,320
Speaker 2: find you on social media.

1932
01:24:35,400 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 4: Just so real. That's where I'm at everywhere.

1933
01:24:36,880 --> 01:24:38,040
Speaker 2: J U S t r L. That's it.

1934
01:24:38,880 --> 01:24:41,600
Speaker 5: You want to know what I got, I got a

1935
01:24:42,920 --> 01:24:44,519
Speaker 5: I got a new project dropping by the end of

1936
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:46,880
Speaker 5: the summer. Then we have uh next by Nature, which

1937
01:24:46,920 --> 01:24:49,240
Speaker 5: is next to Naughty by Nature. We got to ep dropping.

1938
01:24:51,120 --> 01:24:52,200
Speaker 4: And then w q r L.

1939
01:24:52,439 --> 01:24:54,559
Speaker 5: W q r l's were finishing that, which is Wingo

1940
01:24:54,640 --> 01:24:57,400
Speaker 5: from jagget Q Parker for one twelve and myself were

1941
01:24:58,000 --> 01:25:00,080
Speaker 5: oh last but not least, we shot the video. I

1942
01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:03,840
Speaker 5: wrote and produced a record for Donelle Jones featuring John Queeze,

1943
01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:06,280
Speaker 5: Dave Hollister, Carl Thomas, and myself.

1944
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:07,559
Speaker 4: We shot the video last week.

1945
01:25:09,920 --> 01:25:13,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we got everybody excited about that. Well, thank

1946
01:25:13,640 --> 01:25:14,600
Speaker 2: you again, Thank you?

1947
01:25:14,640 --> 01:25:17,559
Speaker 1: How much? Are y'all see?

1948
01:25:17,600 --> 01:25:19,439
Speaker 2: We got the merch on So if you have not

1949
01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:22,040
Speaker 2: got your new poor minds March, we got the crop tops.

1950
01:25:22,680 --> 01:25:25,160
Speaker 1: Make sure you go to have these the v d

1951
01:25:25,280 --> 01:25:26,760
Speaker 1: B University.

1952
01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:29,439
Speaker 4: Sharp y'all seen the thirst trap pictures. You see you

1953
01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 4: look past the thirst and just look at the product.

1954
01:25:32,920 --> 01:25:35,080
Speaker 4: It's quality. Make sure y'all get that.

1955
01:25:35,439 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 1: Okay about Times dot Com? Hey get y'all ship. We'll

1956
01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:41,280
Speaker 1: see y'all next week.

1957
01:25:41,439 --> 01:25:41,960
Speaker 3: Bye y'all.

1958
01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:45,160
Speaker 1: Hey, this one put me.

1959
01:25:45,200 --> 01:25:46,040
Speaker 2: On this.

1960
01:25:48,960 --> 01:25:52,280
Speaker 4: Large Okay, that's perfect. Thank you.