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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 2: going to read this one right here, right now, and

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Speaker 2: you never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

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Speaker 3: We got it before you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 2: All right, neph you, thank you. Subject. I'm in love

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Speaker 2: with her fiance. All right, Dear Stephen Shirley, I am

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Speaker 2: in love with my best friends fiance. It's my fault

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Speaker 2: that they're even together. They are both my besties and

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Speaker 2: we're all twenty eight years old. My male best friend

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Speaker 2: and I have known each other since we were six.

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Speaker 2: He lived with my mom and I during high school

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Speaker 2: because his mom is an addict. We had sex at

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Speaker 2: least ten times when we were teenagers. He was my first.

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Speaker 2: He told me that he loves me and he always will.

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Speaker 2: After high school, he went to the army and he

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Speaker 2: called me almost every day and he'd always say he

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Speaker 2: loved me.

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Speaker 1: Before he hung up.

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Speaker 2: He and I dated other people, and he always told

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Speaker 2: me that those other girls didn't measure up to me.

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Speaker 1: He even said I was wifey.

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Speaker 2: Material time went on and I met my female best

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Speaker 2: friend in college.

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Speaker 1: We were roommates.

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Speaker 2: She knew of my male best friend, but I never

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Speaker 2: told her that I had a sexual relationship with him.

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Speaker 2: After graduation, she went back to her hometown of Virginia

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Speaker 2: two years ago. Two years ago, my male best friend

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Speaker 2: was stationed in Virginia, so I arranged for him to

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Speaker 2: meet my female bestie that lives there. They hit it

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Speaker 2: off right away, but I never expected them to fall

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Speaker 2: in love. They moved in together and got engaged all

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Speaker 2: in two short years. I found out about their engagement

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Speaker 2: over the phone. Like I'm an outsider, I was already

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Speaker 2: jealous of their relationship, but that news devastated me. He

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Speaker 2: knew that I'd be hurt when I found out they're engaged,

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Speaker 2: so maybe that's why he couldn't tell me before. He

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Speaker 2: proposed if I tell them how I feel, I could

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Speaker 2: lose both of them. I've thought about telling her that

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Speaker 2: I had sex with him in the past. She might

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Speaker 2: even she might leave him alone after that. I cannot

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Speaker 2: let my best friends get married.

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Speaker 1: What do I do? There is nothing you can do.

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Speaker 1: It's over. And why haven't you said anything before?

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Speaker 2: Now they are engaged to be married, so please stop

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Speaker 2: trying to sabotage their relationship. I don't mean to be harsh,

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Speaker 2: but this man does not want you. Okay, he's known

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Speaker 2: you since you were six. He doesn't want you. You

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Speaker 2: guys have had plenty of time to express how you

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Speaker 2: feel about each other. The best thing you can do

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Speaker 2: now is to wish them well and move on. And

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Speaker 2: how is she your bestie? But she didn't know about

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Speaker 2: what you had with your male bestie before. Now listen,

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Speaker 2: he knows what he did with you and what he's

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Speaker 2: doing with her. You said he knew you would be hurt,

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Speaker 2: and he did it anyway.

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: That should let you know right there how much he

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Speaker 2: does not care for you. He doesn't let this go.

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Speaker 4: Steve, Well, I see it a little bit differently. This

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Speaker 4: is a hard letter, because young lady, what you're asking

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Speaker 4: Shirley and I to do is to advise you as

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Speaker 4: to what you said at the end, is that I

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Speaker 4: cannot let my best friends get married. What do I do?

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Speaker 4: Why can't you let him get married. Why because it's

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Speaker 4: not you. I'm gonna tell you something about men. If

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Speaker 4: it was you, he would ask you to marry him.

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Speaker 4: I listen to me, young lady. I'm going to tell

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Speaker 4: you something that's the real truth about men. And I

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Speaker 4: want every woman out there to listen to me. There

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Speaker 4: is not a man alive who is dating or seeing

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Speaker 4: a woman who is saying to who has ever said, oh,

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Speaker 4: I could have done better than this. Yeah, I could

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Speaker 4: have got one finer than this, because you know why

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Speaker 4: he would have done it. The reason he didn't ask

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Speaker 4: you to marry him is because he don't want to

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Speaker 4: marry you. That's the reason. And he asked your best friend,

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Speaker 4: who you introduced him to see. I don't understand. I

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Speaker 4: don't even understand why you're not seeing this because it's

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Speaker 4: right in front of your face.

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Speaker 3: I don't care.

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Speaker 4: Y'all have known each other, y'all best friends all your

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Speaker 4: three of y'all is twenty eight years old. He used

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Speaker 4: to live with you because if mama was junkie, and

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Speaker 4: then he stayed at your house. But while y'all was

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Speaker 4: at your house, y'all had sex ten times when y'all

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Speaker 4: was teenagers. He was your first you know, which is

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Speaker 4: always kind of I guess special.

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Speaker 3: He told me that he loves me and he always will.

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Speaker 4: Probably true, he loves you and always will. Hear what

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Speaker 4: he didn't say. He didn't say he was in.

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Speaker 3: Love with you.

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Speaker 4: You can love a person and not be in love

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Speaker 4: with them. Okay, I'm just gonna a right Okay.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, after high school he went to the army.

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Speaker 4: He called you almost every day and always before he

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Speaker 4: hung up, he said he loved you, but y'all was

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Speaker 4: dating other people, you and him, so.

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Speaker 3: All is love.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't that serious, and it show wasn't in love,

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Speaker 4: because when you're in love with somebody, you're not gonna

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Speaker 4: want them to date somebody else. But y'all always dating

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Speaker 4: each other because y'all just loved each other. And he

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Speaker 4: told me that the other girls he dated didn't measure

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Speaker 4: up to me. Okay, here a player time went on.

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Speaker 4: I met my best friend in college, this girl, we roommates.

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Speaker 4: She knew you had the male best friend, but I

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Speaker 4: never told her I had a sexual relationship. We know

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Speaker 4: how many times I got to tell y'all that a

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Speaker 4: man don't really want to be your friend. I don't

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Speaker 4: know how many times I got to say this man,

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Speaker 4: but y'all please stop writing me and then clarifying what

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Speaker 4: I said.

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Speaker 3: A man don't want to be your friend? What anyway?

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Speaker 4: So I'm gonna tell you when we come back what

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Speaker 4: happened two years ago to male best friend got stationed

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Speaker 4: in Virginia and you arranged for them to meet your

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Speaker 4: female bestie and it all fell apart.

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Speaker 2: We'll be back, all right. We will have your response

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Speaker 2: coming up Part two. Steve at twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 2: the subject of today's strawberry letter, I'm in love with

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Speaker 2: her fiance.

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Speaker 2: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is I'm in

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Speaker 2: love with her fiance.

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Speaker 4: I'm in love with her fiance because you all lived

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Speaker 4: in the same house when y'all was teenagers, because his

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Speaker 4: mama was on drugs and your mama took you in.

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Speaker 4: But while y'all was in there being teenagers, you had

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Speaker 4: six ten times.

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Speaker 3: He was your first. He told you he loved you.

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Speaker 4: He later on went to join the army, and he'd

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Speaker 4: call you almost every day, and before y'all hung up,

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Speaker 4: he would tell you he loved you. Y'all dated other people. Keyword,

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Speaker 4: he told you he loved you. He did not tell

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Speaker 4: you he was in love with you. That is a difference, ladies.

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Speaker 4: There's two different kinds of love. I love Kill, I'm

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Speaker 4: not in love with kill. Or see junr. Wife is

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Speaker 4: in love with him. He gets sick, she go down

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Speaker 4: there to the hospital. I ain't been down there yet.

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Speaker 4: But you love him because I love him, but I

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Speaker 4: ain't in love, so I ain't got to sit around

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Speaker 4: you when you sick. See that's the difference. And y'all

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Speaker 4: need to understand this. I'm sorry, Junior. I had to

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Speaker 4: use you as an example. But I'm trying to get

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Speaker 4: through the people out here sitting up in here, because

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Speaker 4: yet somebody told you he loved you. He ain't tell

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Speaker 4: you he was in love with you. I ain't mean

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Speaker 4: to hurt you, Junior, but you all right?

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Speaker 3: Be all right? Ain't you nothing.

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Speaker 2: With you? You?

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Speaker 3: I don't want Junior? Stay is now now if you

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Speaker 3: want to hear you in what do you say? What

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Speaker 3: he saying?

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Speaker 1: I'm in love with you?

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Speaker 3: Love, I'm in love with you? For you talking.

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Speaker 1: About hey, stay focused? Stay fun't be.

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Speaker 3: In love with me? Don what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: They focused on?

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Speaker 2: Hell?

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Speaker 3: No, you get on right of here with all that.

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Speaker 4: Man, Now you love me? He ain't no in love

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Speaker 4: with me? Don knock your ants up, your.

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Speaker 1: Games, don't steve back to the letter.

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Speaker 3: Be in love with me? Man, you have it.

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Speaker 4: And I'm telling you right now you don't want this.

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Speaker 4: You don't want this. I'm all smoke when you come

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Speaker 4: to that right there. I'm in what less than a

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Speaker 4: year God would and I'll be seventy years old. I

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Speaker 4: still throw these hands. They slow, but they still got

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Speaker 3: If I'm gonna get folk goodes in. I'ma this letter.

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Speaker 4: Should have never used your little sick in the example

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Speaker 4: do that, I'd have said it to Tommy. We had

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Speaker 4: sex at least ten times, and when we were teenagers,

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Speaker 4: and you know he was your first. Now I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: say this again and shut your mouth. He told me

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Speaker 4: that he loves me and he always will, but he

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Speaker 4: didn't tell you he was in love with you. He

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Speaker 4: you say you loved each other.

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Speaker 3: Then you said he and I dated other.

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Speaker 4: People, and he always told me that the other girls

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Speaker 4: they don't see other people and they are not okay

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Speaker 4: with the other people seeing other people.

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Speaker 3: So now y'all just got a friendship.

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Speaker 4: That's love. He said I was wifey material. He didn't

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Speaker 4: say you was his wifey material. Time went on. I

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Speaker 4: met my other best friend in college. Y'all was college

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Speaker 4: roommates to girls. She knew you had a male best friend.

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Speaker 4: He got stationed in Virginia, and so y'all went over

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Speaker 4: there and you introduced me. So now you arranged for

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Speaker 4: them to meet your female bestie that lives there in Virginia.

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Speaker 4: They hit it off right away, but I never expected

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Speaker 4: them to fall in love. Oh you thought they were

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Speaker 4: just gonna love each other like you and him. No, no, no,

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Speaker 4: they fell in love. They moved in together. They got engaged,

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Speaker 4: was not in love with you. I found out about

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Speaker 4: their engagement over the fun Like I'm in outsider. Why

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Speaker 4: was you supposed to find out? You thought they gonna

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Speaker 4: buy you a ticket? Fly year in fun? He spent

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Speaker 4: all his money on that ring, He soldier his talibraion

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Speaker 4: and all that bids.

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Speaker 3: He ain't got no money fly you in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's feeling some kind of way anyway.

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Speaker 4: I was already jealous of their relationship, but that news

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Speaker 4: devastated me. He knew I'd be hurt when I found

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Speaker 4: out they was engaged. So maybe that's why he couldn't

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Speaker 4: tell me before he proposed. A man listen to me,

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Speaker 4: A man don't need your permission to ask another woman

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Speaker 4: to marry him. Why he ain't tell me before he

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Speaker 4: proposed because it wasn't your business. He didn't need He

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Speaker 4: didn't seek your approval because your approval is not required.

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Speaker 4: If I tell them how I feel, I could lose

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Speaker 4: both of them.

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Speaker 3: Lady, they gone. They gone.

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Speaker 4: If I tell them how I feel, I could lose

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Speaker 4: both of them. I thought about telling her that I

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Speaker 4: had sex with him in the past. She might leave

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Speaker 4: him alone after that, and he gonna be through with

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Speaker 4: cho too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I just want you to be clear now when you

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Speaker 4: do that, he gonna be through with you anyway. I

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Speaker 4: cannot let my best friends get married. What do I do? No,

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Speaker 4: they gonna get married. You're talking about losing both of them.

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Speaker 4: They gone.

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Speaker 3: Now. The best thing you could do is get in

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Speaker 3: the wind.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 4: Now, here's what I propose that it'll make you feel special.

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Speaker 4: Ask call can you be the bridesmaid? And ask him

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Speaker 4: can you be the best man? Have a happy life

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Speaker 4: because they gone?

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Speaker 3: You got something talk about after this? Right here? You

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Speaker 3: just hang on your linen.

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